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My Favorite Christmas Wreaths

noreply@blogger.com (Shiloah Baker) — Mon, 09 Nov 2009 18:44:00 +0000

This is a collection of my favorite Christmas wreaths featured on Flickr. Click on the pictures for directions or more information.

Christmas Blog Carnival: Wreaths and Christmas Home Decor

noreply@blogger.com (Shiloah Baker) — Mon, 09 Nov 2009 12:00:00 +0000

To see who made this beautiful wreath, click on the photo.

This week's blog carnival theme is:

Wreaths and Christmas Home Decor

Get ready for the next Christmas carnival Monday! Here is what we have coming up:

How will the Blog Carnival work?

Each week we will share Christmas idea(s) on our blog related to the following Christmas themes:

November 16- Party Foods (with recipes)
November 23- Christmas Cookies
November 30- Christmas Traditions
December 7- Christmas tree Decorating Ideas
December 14- Ornaments (Both homemade and store-bought)
December 21- Homemade gift ideas
December 28- Winter and Christmas Outdoor decorating

Then come back here and sign into Mr. Linky and we'll all visit each link and enjoy all the wonderful ideas!

*Note, you can add your link throughout the week if you don't finish in time.

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Simply enter your blog (blog post related to the theme) and name in the widget above. Add our button with the copy and paste code.

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Review: JumpStart: Escape to Adventure Island Wii Game

noreply@blogger.com (Shiloah Baker) — Mon, 09 Nov 2009 11:00:00 +0000

We thoroughly enjoyed the opportunity to review the brand new Wii game given to us by the JumpStart Company. I am very pleased with the all learning games that JumpStart offers. This review was a collaborative effort with all of my children enjoying it, but especially my eldest two girls who are great observers and helped me tremendously.

While we enjoyed the special effects from the first Wii game called Pet Rescue, I felt the graphics were even better in Escape to Adventure Island. The graphics were a little cleaner and more 3-D. My kids especially enjoyed the visual effects of the storm clouds.

JumpStart Escape to Adventure Island is JumpStart’s second Wii game and is scheduled to be on store shelves November 17. ESRB has rated Escape to Adventure Island “E for Everyone”. As players race to collect the pieces needed to repair their blimp, they’ll need to ward off the pesky fur balls known as Punk Punks and navigate 3D worlds both above and below the water. With 150 math, reading, and critical thinking skills used all while having fun this is a Wii game I’m happy to put on for my children. The adventures are exciting as well as educational.

When we first put the Wii game on, my children were excited about the new places to explore. They felt comfortable knowing exactly where everything was because of their familiarity with the online game and computer CD’s. This game is made to be a little more advanced than the last and may take some time learning your way around it. This is a good thing- they won’t beat the game too soon!

The kids loved swinging the Wii remote to move the characters instead of clicking a mouse. It made it more physically interactive using additional parts of their brain for learning.

They had new characters in this Wii game. John Claude, a new character, is the instructor. He was entertaining and my girls really liked him. They loved customizing their game character called Jumpies and choosing the hair, shoes, clothes and head/face.

Some favorite parts of the game were:

Bubble Trouble- is a maze. The kids loved the ABC’s and 123’s etc. When you get to the end of the maze you get your sand dollar coins as a reward.

The Jumpy Creator was the favorite of my youngest. She loved dressing up as animals and other characters.

The Egg Roll- you are helping the dodos get their egg back into their nest.

The Jet Pack- you are wearing a jetpack and you fly around looking for the answers to the math or English questions/problems.

Manta Ray- While riding a ray you are looking for the correct answers to addition problems, proper nouns, etc. There are three stages for this and the Jet Pack game.

Trendy Tides- under the water, you can be part of a fashion show. The child is to local specific items to dress in and then the “judges” determine if you followed the directions. The kids loved the feedback from the judges and laughed at the one that was supposed to be like “Simon” on American Idol.

Foot Frenzy- a dancing game where you choose a type of music. You can also choose the level you wish. You shake the Wii remote left, right, up or down to dance the jumpy.

Our family loves JumpStart and I highly recommend this Wii game as a terrific option for children ages 5-9 to encourage additional learning and wholesome fun.

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The contest will be live from 11/2/09 to 11/16/09.
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The theme of the contest is “Time to Escape!”

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Before I Lost My Mom at 13, I Learned Many Lessons from Her

noreply@blogger.com (Shiloah Baker) — Mon, 09 Nov 2009 03:10:00 +0000

I often speak of motherhood on this blog and the spiritual and temporal importance of it. It is a subject very near and dear to my heart. I was the eldest of four girls and was the young age of thirteen years old when my mother crossed the line of reality and has never come back. My mind has come back to this recently after sharing a lesson my mom taught me with the sisters in church several weeks ago.

When I was a young girl getting ready to give my first prayer in church, I shared with her my nervousness and was worried that I wouldn't say the right things. She taught me to stop and before I ever began a public prayer to say a quiet prayer asking for the spirit and then begin the prayer. I've always taken her advice and it continues to bless me.

My mom was a convert to the church when she was in her early twenties. She had a strong testimony of the gospel. She raised me well and even homeschooled us for four years. She taught me so much in that short amount of time. It was just enough to help me through life as I essentially lost my mom at the age of thirteen. The things she spend a large amount of time teaching me will be with me forever.

After she started losing her mind I was angry and bitter towards her. She divorced my dad and our family was split. I blamed her solely. At that time I felt that she ruined our family and my life. I became not only the eldest sister, but a mother figure to my three younger sisters. For many years anger was a form of self-preservation for me although ultimately it had it's effects on my health.

Through the years I learned to forgive her and be at peace that ultimately God is still in control. That even though she only would have thirteen years to teach me, she did a wonderful job. I developed my own strong testimony through her example.

I look at my own eldest daughter who is now thirteen. She seems so young to me. Have I taught her as well as my mom taught me in these past thirteen years? They flew by in the blink of an eye. I'm so thankful for good health and that I am still capable of raising my children.

Life is precious and is shorter than it seems sometimes when we are going through the mundane, every day tasks. Something I learned from my mom is to make every minute count to teach and train. Mothers are so special. I love President George Washington's words: "My mother was the most beautiful woman I ever saw. All I am I owe to my mother. I attribute all my success in life to the moral, intellectual and physical education I received from her."

Mothers can change the world with their influence and love. Never underestimate your importance! Take some time to watch this video and be inspired:

How the Environment in the Home Affects Children

noreply@blogger.com (Shiloah Baker) — Sun, 08 Nov 2009 22:58:00 +0000

By Shiloah Baker

“Children are affected from the beginning by what they see and hear within the walls of their home. Their environment creates their taste.” –Arthur Henry King

From the first day I learned that I was going to be a mother, I began collecting books, toys and things that I knew would benefit my child. I read every resource manual I could get my hands on. Like most women, I want the best for my child. I quickly learned that in addition to providing shelter, clothes, food and love, that the environment in the home is an important key to raising a well adjusted child.

Creating an Environment for Learning

Years later when I decided to homeschool my children I was introduced to the Thomas Jefferson Education or a Leadership Education. One of the suggestions was to build a library of classic books. I had maybe a small bookshelf full at that time and not surprisingly my kids weren’t big readers. I took the advice to heart and over the next four years I gathered and built a large “brain” storage of books for our home. We have over eight bookshelves now spilling over with fun, classic and educational books. More importantly, my children have caught on to this passion for reading good, wholesome literature-literature that educates. Not a day goes by that I don’t see the children pouring through books, rifling through the bookshelves or reading in a corner. We have a large bookshelf outside of my bedroom door which is at the end of a long hallway. When a child is waiting to speak with me, she naturally chooses a book, sits by my door and takes a little adventure with words on the pages. What joy it brings me to see the difference having a library of books in your home can make.

“Every single item is of relevance to our education and to the education of our children.”–Arthur Henry King

How many times have you noticed your baby would rather play with empty boxes or magazines than her own baby toys? Children always want to help mommy bake cookies and can’t wait to learn how to make their first peanut butter and jelly sandwiches. Children have a natural curiosity and we should allow them to explore and learn within the safety of our home.

Children learn naturally through their own environment. Why should a small child fill out a worksheet on how to match socks, when they can learn that same skill only using all their senses: the smell of the laundry detergent used, the visual senses of colors and patterns, touching the various textures of socks and occasionally tasting the texture of socks. I have many fond memories of sock folding growing up and trying the over-sized ones on my hands and sliding around the bare floors with them on my feet. The natural learning experiences within the home are powerful.

I’ve made it a mission to keep the majority of commercialized toys out of our home. They do not foster learning like a set of plain building blocks or a life-like baby doll with clothes and cloth diapers. Even though they wanted them and got them for birthdays, my children have never treasured commercialized toys (such as Barbie dolls, Bratz, etc.). After the initial excitement wears off, I find those toys lying around unused with little to no interest. We have never had that happen with puzzles, wooden beads, blocks, or art supplies- the basics for foundational and explorative learning.

Organization and Structure

I used to cringe when I heard those words, but now as a mother of many I feel excited and inspired when I see them. After being a mother for nearly fourteen years I have learned that children, some more so than others, thrive when there is structure and organization in the home. We have seven children, two children with autism and two others with various disabilities. When things become chaotic in our home, not only do our family pets react (i.e. birds chirp frantically) but the children react to it too. Every family has a rhythm whether they realize it or not. The question is- is it conducive to teaching and does it promote family time?

I love reading Steven and Teri Maxwell who have written a couple of books on this subject. They successfully homeschooled and raised eight children and now write about how they did it- it involved scheduling, structure and organization. “God has given us a powerful example and analogy of scheduling in the natural world. Everything that He has created, from atoms to the universe, has a periodic cycle. There is a timetable God has applied to each part of His creation. This is easily seen in the weather. Year by year, each season comes at its ‘scheduled’ time bringing with it predictable changes.” (1) If God uses scheduling, I believe it is an example to us that using a family schedule is something we should do too.
While it is unnecessary and too constricting to schedule all of your time, coming up with a family schedule/rhythm for each day gives the home an organized environment while giving peace to each family member so they each can know what to expect in their daily routine. This is especially important if you have children or adults in the home with disabilities. Eliminate the disordered feeling and house clutter by prayerfully creating your own unique family rhythm complete with chore time.

Keeping a Morally Clean Environment in the Home is Imperative

"Parents now are concerned about the moral and spiritual diseases. These can have terrible complications when standards and values are abandoned. We must all take protective measures.” -Boyd K. Packer

Memories from books and the pictures in the books teach, mold and shape a person. Just as we should fill our homes with uplifting and wholesome books, we should be equally as careful about not bringing anything contrary to that in the home. I heard it once said that if a young boy were to view pornography in his own home he will be a customer for life. Is it worth it to allow anything pornographic in your home? Never. Aside from the fact that it is morally wrong, the risk is too great.

Regarding music-while I am fairly careful about lyrics to the new music, it is easy for things to slip by our notice from time to time. I find that I feel inspiration often to continually sift through the music my family and I listen to. We are all aware of the powerful effects of music on our moods. Music teaches and depending on the words and the beat it can teach negative or positive things. By my vigilantly reviewing music, talking with the kids about their feelings on the songs and reading the lyrics online my family is learning to do the same. Even though you may not always listen to the lyrics, your subconscious mind does and then records it. I think I would rather know what my subconscious mind is recording by paying close attention to what I or my children listen to.

Television needs a filter like the computer. We don’t watch regular TV because the morals portrayed on everyday television, especially the commercials, are not in line with ours. Instead we rent Netflix and buy the movies we enjoy the most. We carefully screen the reviews and ratings before watching and buying movies.

Raising children is anything but easy; but it is so worth it. Each child comes to our home with his/her own unique personalities. I find it fascinating to see how for the most part, children naturally pick up many qualities of their parents, whether it be the habits they pick up, facial expressions or one or a combination of both parent’s temperaments. I have three sisters and while we don’t look exactly alike anyone can tell we are sisters when they listen to us talk or see our mannerisms. It is an art to take into consideration all the differences of personalities in the family and apply the perfect mix of teaching, religion, and love. Children can’t help but to be influenced by the home environment especially when the parents care so much about making it a positive one.

Works Cited
1. Maxwell, Steven and Teri. Managers of Their Homes. s.l. : Communications Concepts, Inc., 1998.

Christmas Themed Homemaking Ideas

noreply@blogger.com (Shiloah Baker) — Sat, 07 Nov 2009 18:20:00 +0000

"As we enumerate the many important responsibilities a woman has in connection with her duties as a wife, a mother, a homemaker, a sister, a sweetheart, or a good neighbor, it should be evident that these challenging responsibilities can satisfy her need to express her talents, her interests, her creativity, dedication, energy, and skill which so many seek to satisfy outside the home. It is impossible to estimate the lasting influence for good a woman can have in any of these roles."

N. Eldon Tanner, “No Greater Honor: The Woman’s Role,” Ensign, Jan 1974

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Venison Garlic Bread Spaghetti
By Angie Hodes

This is a dish we love at our house and it’s a great fall meal. It’s simpler than spaghetti, tastes a lot like pizza and the kids love it. Any ground meat will work; we’ve used pork, beef, turkey and even deer.

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Advent
By Donna Bush

Advent means “waiting in joyful hope” and it begins four Sundays before Christmas. For 2009, Advent begins on November 29. It is looked at as a time of preparation before the birth of Christ and for many families is the official beginning of the Christmas season. All those red and green decorations you see in the stores just before Halloween? Nope, not the real deal. But Advent is.

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12 Days of Christmas Advent Calendar
By Valerie Steadman

Hectic holiday schedules make the Advent Calendar sit untouched in many households. Advent calendars meant so much to me as a child, and I find myself wanting to share this tradition with my own daughters.

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How to Start Saying NO
By Donna Bush

We all do it. Your friend needs a last-minute babysitter so she can get to a doctor’s appointment. Sure, you’ll do it. Your son’s class needs someone to organize their fundraiser. Sure, you’ll do it. Your daughter’s soccer team needs a team mom. Sure, you’ll do it. And your husband has volunteered your home for the site of his boss’ surprise birthday party. Of course, you don’t mind. After all, you’re not doing much, except...

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Spiced Hot Cocoa for a Group
By Shiloah Baker

This delicious spiced hot cocoa serves up to eight people. Perfect for Christmas parties or for a large family.

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Service Ideas for Christmas
By Valerie Steadman

How easy it is to get caught up in the “give-me” thought process. Christmas gift wish-lists, family drawing names for gifts, menus planned for what we’ll eat this holiday...Want, want, want.

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Peachy Christmas French Toast
By Valerie Steadman

Dip bread slices into mixture, then place on a well greased skillet on medium heat. Turn frequently, and remove when golden.

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A few Family Pictures

noreply@blogger.com (Shiloah Baker) — Fri, 06 Nov 2009 12:27:00 +0000

My children had a lovely time for Halloween. Four of the girls were ballerinas, my son was a scarecrow, Phoebe was a witch, and the baby was a piggy-boy (as she calls all pigs.)

Chloris and Calypso -ballerinas

Mercury- the scarecrow

Maia- a ballerina

Athena- a ballerina

Phoebe -the make-up didn't work well with the flash.

Calypso with Bella the Piggy

Ben and I- we're gyspies

*All kids names are pseudo names

Ask and Ye Shall Receive; I Received the Gift of Health

noreply@blogger.com (Shiloah Baker) — Fri, 06 Nov 2009 05:26:00 +0000

Almost three years ago I was very sick just getting ready to give birth to my seventh child. After having her I felt worn out, sick, exhausted and wondered if I would ever feel good again- or at the very least have any energy. I had only one place to turn and that was to a loving Father in Heaven. I was ready to study and learn and do what it took to obey, but first I had to ask for help.

"Yea, I know that God will give liberally to him that asketh. Yea, my God will give me, if I bask not amiss; therefore I will lift up my voice unto thee; yea, I will cry unto thee, my God, the rock of my righteousness..." (2 Nephi 4:35)

Immediately, through research and people put into my life at the right place and time, I found the answers I needed to heal. When I needed to move on to the next step, the next step was provided. I had a lot of work to do. Many of my blog followers have watched me through this journey. Nearly 50 pounds came off as a side-effect of becoming healthy. While it's been a long journey, I learned so much that would never change any step of the journey. Sickness and the journey back to health through prayer and hard work made me strong not only physically, but mentally and will always be with me-a part of me that no one can take from me.

It was not easy. I did it alone without my husband home; he was in Iraq. I had seven children at home that were homeschooling. I knew that through prayer the answers would come. I found a wonderful chiropractor who also sees my children. Through him I found naturopathic doctors who gave me many tests that are different from those that allopathic doctors gave me telling me I was just fine. Through diet, herbs, natural hormones, and later exercise I became well. Today I feel more healthy that I felt as a teenager. I also learned to heal my emotions and rid my life of the terrible anxiety that plagued me due to tragedies during my childhood.

One of the reasons I wanted so much to be well, is to raise the family God gave me. Secondly, I had the strong desire to have more children if I became well. We've been so blessed. My naturopathic doctor will be available to me as long as I need her. She has changed my supplements due to pregnancy. I'm so thankful to have this support during this pregnancy. I also am healthy and strong enough to exercise my entire pregnancy.

One last thought for those who may be ill: don't ever feel that you are stuck in the condition you are in- that you just need to resign yourself to it. Ask for help through prayer and be willing to make the changes needed- you can be healthy too!

Give Away: Temple Ornament Rubber Stamp Set of Two

noreply@blogger.com (Shiloah Baker) — Fri, 06 Nov 2009 03:50:00 +0000

Our first give away for the Christmas Season comes from Sunbeams Stamps! Laura Cooke has a wonderful website and so generously is giving away one of these stamp sets:

Description:

What greater gift is there than being sealed to your family for eternity?

This set of 2 stamps includes a huge temple ornament image size is 2.75" x 3.25" or7cm x 8.5cm. The smaller coordinating stamp says "Jesus is the Reason for the Season" image size is .75" x .75"

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Cures for Nausea and Heartburn While Pregnant

noreply@blogger.com (Shiloah Baker) — Tue, 03 Nov 2009 04:20:00 +0000

I've been suffering from heartburn and nausea per my usual pregnancy symptoms. This time, thanks to some fresh ideas from friends, I found the best cures for them!

Someone suggested Ginger-ale. I went one step further and went to my health food store and bought Reed's Jamaican Style Ginger Beer with the extra ginger. I'm not saying it's delicious, but it worked INSTANTLY and I only drank 1/3 of the bottle.

Sticking with the ginger theme, I bought some Gluten Free ginger snaps. These are delicious and did ease the nausea.

Because I love calorie free and beneficial herbal teas, especially Yogi teas, I was interested in trying this Yogi tea: "Woman's Mother to Be" tea. It contains peppermint, spearmint, and anise for nausea raspberry leave for the uterus. It has a great flavor. I used liquid Stevia for sweetening.

Christmas Blog Carnival: Grand Opening!

noreply@blogger.com (Shiloah Baker) — Mon, 02 Nov 2009 23:23:00 +0000

The Homemaking Cottage's Christmas Extravaganza has begun! We will continue to add articles, recipes, and crafts daily. Don't forget to save 50% off our Deluxe Edition subscriptions through the 3rd of November. It's the last 1/2 off sale of the year!

The Blog Carnival Begins today!

Quick information on how we are running the blog carnival: on Monday of each week everyone will share Christmas idea(s) on her blog related to the following Christmas theme:

November 2- Snowmen Ideas
November 9- Wreaths and Christmas Home Decor

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What Carnival is complete without Caramel Apples? Here is a recipe you can make with your family. We've already made a couple of batches so far this year. These sure are a yummy treat!

Gourmet Caramel Apples

Ingredients

* 5 large Granny Smith apples
* wooden craft sticks
* 1 (14 ounce) package individually wrapped caramels, unwrapped
* 2 tablespoons water
* 7 ounces chocolate candy bar, broken into pieces
* 2 tablespoons shortening, divided
* 1 cup colored candy coating melts
*Chopped nuts, pecans are delicious on these

Directions

1. Bring a large pot of water to a boil. Dip apples into boiling water briefly, using a slotted spoon, to remove any wax that may be present. Wipe dry, and set aside to cool. Insert sticks into the apples through the cores.

2. Line a baking sheet with waxed paper and coat with cooking spray. Place the unwrapped caramels into a microwave-safe medium bowl along with 2 tablespoons of water. Cook on high for 2 minutes, then stir and continue cooking and stirring at 1 minute intervals until caramel is melted and smooth.

3. Hold apples by the stick, and dip into the caramel to coat. Set on waxed paper; refrigerate for about 15 minutes to set.

4. Heat the chocolate with 1 tablespoon of shortening in a microwave-safe bowl until melted and smooth. Dip apples into the chocolate to cover the layer of caramel. Return to the waxed paper to set.

5. Melt the candy melts in the microwave with the remaining shortening, stirring every 30 seconds until smooth. Use a fork or wooden stick to flick colored designs onto your apples for a finishing touch. Sprinkle with nuts. Refrigerate until set, overnight is even better.

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Ice Cube Snowman

noreply@blogger.com (Shiloah Baker) — Mon, 02 Nov 2009 21:01:00 +0000

By Shiloah Baker

He really should be called "Texas Snowman" since he's all ice. :) He was quick and easy to make. You could add a small scarf and really make him look even better.

Materials Needed:

2 medium Acrylic cubes (craft store)
1 small Acrylic cube
e6000 glue
Black and orange fabric paint (with the thin bottle tips)

Directions:

Glue the cubes together, placing the small one on top. Turn them each slightly at an angle. Allow to dry completely.

With the fabric paint, paint the carrot nose, black eyes and buttons.

Can you Guess Our Joy?

noreply@blogger.com (Shiloah Baker) — Mon, 02 Nov 2009 02:02:00 +0000

We are so blessed. The prayer of our hearts has been answered. Can you guess what it is?

Psalm 127:4-5, "As arrows are in the hand of a mighty man; so are children of the youth. Happy is the man that has his quiver full of them: they shall not be ashamed, but they shall speak with the enemies in the gate."

The Christmas Extravaganza Is LIVE

noreply@blogger.com (Shiloah Baker) — Sun, 01 Nov 2009 04:00:00 +0000

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Mothers of Large Families: Kimberly Olive

noreply@blogger.com (Shiloah Baker) — Fri, 30 Oct 2009 10:58:00 +0000

The Homemaking Cottage Series Presents:

Mothers of Large Families

Kimberly Olive, Mother of nine

I was born in Philadelphia while my father was finishing up seminary. Our family moved to Southern California when I was 6 months old. My father planted a church out in California and when I was 11 we moved east to Tennessee for my father to pastor a church. My mother was a stay at home mom who was diagnosed with cancer while she was pregnant with her fifth (and last) child. She was 35. Because of her initial diagnosis (6 months to live), my parents decided to homeschool me so that my mom could teach me what I would need to know. I blogged more about his story, but the short version is that my youngest brother survived and thrived, my mom is in remission to this day and our whole family is grateful that God "forced" us into homeschooling.

Her Husband

Mark is the type of person that everyone would love to have as a best friend. He is much better, more patient, more fun, with the children than I am and I'm very thankful that he picked me. :)

I'm a stay-at-home, homeschooling wife and mom. Mark is in technical sales.

Why The Decision to Have a Large Family?
My mom is the youngest of 10 children and my parents would have loved to have more than 5 if God had that for them, so I've always known that I wanted to have a large family. Mark is the oldest of 2, but his extended family is larger and he wished that he had more siblings, so he also wanted to have a large family from a young age.

The moment that, for both of us, changed the desire for a large family into a conviction that we should allow God to plan our family size happened before we were married. We had a godly pastor and father of 8 children counsel us before we were married. After the last session was over, we were all standing and preparing to leave, the pastor mentioned in a slightly off-hand way that he believed there was Biblical warrant to allowing God to plan family size.

Isn't it amazing how God sometimes uses little things like that? He didn't give us any chapter and verse, didn't make an exhaustive argument, just told us what he believed. I know that God had been preparing our hearts for a long time and He merely used the words of that pastor to drive home what He had already been teaching and preparing us.

It hasn't always been easy and we've had our doubts particularly when our first 3 children came in 2 1/2 years and then the fourth a year later. With 4 children 3 and younger I was busy, but we always knew and saw that God provided for us, money, energy, strength, health, etc. we did not want for anything.

Our oldest daughter Amber (13) is diligent, a great cook and takes initiative to help with just about every chore around the house. She is our current breakfast an lunch menu planner. Each year for her birthday she plans and prepares a big dinner for the whole family. This year she did Italian, including making all of the pasta herself.

Kaitlin (11) is every one’s friend and is one of the most generous and giving people that I know. She always has an encouraging word and is a deep thinker. Playing the piano has become one of her passions and she practices constantly.

Matthew (10) is always smiling and wants to be a missionary to India when he grows up. (Thanks to reading about and praying for the homeless street children in India when he was 4 years old.) He is constantly striving to work hard “just like Daddy.” He has recently begun to enjoy wood carving and is working on creating small carvings for Christmas gifts.

We praise God everyday for His mercy in giving Alyssa to us, in spite of our lack of faith. Our first 3 children were born in 2 1/2 years. I was tired, overwhelmed and scared about having anymore. We decided that we needed a space between our children. After a few weeks neither Mark or I felt comfortable with taking our “family planning” away from our sovereign God who loves us even more than we love ourselves. We trusted Him. This was our shortest space between children (14 months), BUT it was my only pregnancy with no trace of morning sickness and Alyssa was an angel baby. God knows and does what is best for us and sometimes it is different than what we think. Praise God for giving us this child, even when we thought that we didn’t want her.

We call Alyssa (9) our sunshine, she brightens our days and I can’t imagine not having her as part of our family. She is a hugger and loves to sit on my lap and snuggle.

Steady is the word that comes to mind when I think of Carter (7). He loves people, snuggling and is always aware when I need cheering up. God has given Carter a gift of encouraging others. He is best friends with everyone.

Sadie (6) is a bit of a loner but still loves to snuggle occasionally. She does an amazing job at whatever she sets her mind to, probably because she is such a hard, patient worker. Sadie if going to be a tremendous help with the younger children when she gets a little older. She can't wait.

Savannah (4) is our compliant child, a complete people pleaser, loving to snuggle and passing out compliments all ’round. She will most likely grow up to be a princess, probably Belle.

I have never seen or met a child who is more strong willed or active than Colby (3). He is also one of our most charming children and a complete momma's boy.

Nicholas (18 months) is a sweet, fun-loving little fellow, who has an opinion and knows how to get what he wants in our full house. He thinks that he is a big kid and is quite independent.

We would love to have any more children that God will give us.

Some joyful experiences with her large family

We love camping and being outside spending time together. We also love to hike. It is fun now that our big children are older, we all enjoy sitting around watching the younger one's antics.

A Funny Story

One Sunday during the morning worship service, one of our children whispered to me, "Mom, I need to go potty." "Can you wait?", I asked and the child nodded, so I was surprised a moment later when I heard whispering all down our aisle only to realize that they obviously couldn't wait. Mark headed out to get paper towels to clean the floor and I took the child to the back to see what could be done. Just as I was preparing to head home for a change of clothing, I remembered that I had brought some of our out grown clothes to another family at church. I rummaged through the bag of clothing and managed to find a too big t-shirt and a pair of shorts that were passable, so we headed back into the service.

You may think that is the end of the story, but in our church each row gets up to go to communion via the center aisle and then comes to sit back down via the side aisles. When our family was coming to sit back down I happened to glance at the floor of the row behind us. Right where the family would have to walk when they came to sit back down was a puddle, a large puddle. Obviously the church floor slants away from our row. I had to detour all the traffic while Mark ran to get more paper towels. *sigh*

Experiences or knowledge has helped her on her journey
I'm very thankful that I was homeschooled as a child. That has given me a lot of confidence as we homeschool our children. I graduated from homeschool and went on to college, so I know what the transition is like and I worry a lot less about it than if I hadn't had that experience. I also know that one of the best things that our parents did when they were homeschooling us was to spend time talking with us. I learned much more from our conversations than I learned from textbooks.

Another experience that has helped was the fact that my mom was so sick and unable to take care of the house beginning when I was 11 years old. I learned how to run a household and cook and that has helped me as I transitioned to managing my own home.

Her Mentors/Exemplars
I have been blessed with many examples. My own parents. Also, our previous church (we moved out of the area 4 years ago), although fairly small, was full of large families. When I was expecting our seventh child I was one of 4 women in our church who were expecting their seventh child. We still keep in touch with all of our friends from back home. God has blessed us with a great support network of other large families.

Her Housekeeping Tips

Schedule, plan, think it through and delegate. Include and train your children as much as possible. Do a little each day and things will never get away from you.

Favorite Quote and Scripture Verse

Psalm 128, "Blessed are those who fear the Lord and walk in his ways."

Favorite Family Meal

This is actually one of our company meals, but we also enjoy it during the holiday season.

Cranberry Pork Roast

2 1/2 - 5 lb. boneless rolled pork loin roast
16 oz. can jellied cranberry sauce
1/2 cup sugar
1/2 cup cranberry juice
1 tsp. dry mustard
1/4 tsp. ground cloves

2 TBSP cornstarch
2 TBSP cold water

Place roast in a slow cooker. Combine next 5 ingredients and pour over roast. Cover and cook on low 6-8 hours or until meat is tender. Remove roast and keep warm. Skim fat from juices. Measure 2 cups of juices adding water if necessary. Pour into saucepan and bring to a boil over medium heat. Combine cornstarch and cold water to make a paste then stir into gravy. Cook and stir until thickened. Add salt to taste and serve over sliced pork.

Favorite Family Dessert
We have a lot of favorites, but this one is also easy.

Peanut Butter Pie

1 cup peanut butter
2 cups powdered sugar
16 oz. whipped topping
6 oz. cream cheese
1 chocolate crumb pie crust

Blend first 4 ingredients and pour into the pie shell. Freeze for at least one hour. Take pie out of freezer for 15-30 minutes before trying to slice.

Her Website

I created my blog Raising Olives to share my ideas and thoughts about managing and homeschooling a large family. www.raisingolives.com

We're Moving

noreply@blogger.com (Shiloah Baker) — Fri, 30 Oct 2009 02:56:00 +0000

Colorado Springs here we come! Life is going to be very crazy for me around Christmas time. Please bare with me as we are going to be super busy the next few months.

Don't forget to take advantage of our 1/2 off Deluxe Edition sale! (See a few posts below.)

Taking a Quick Break: Pay Attention to Politics!

noreply@blogger.com (Shiloah Baker) — Fri, 30 Oct 2009 02:37:00 +0000

"When the people fear their government, there is tyranny; when the government fears the people, there is liberty." -Thomas Jefferson

While this is not a political blog, it is my privilege to head wherever I wish to when I feel so inspired. If you read this and do not agree with me, I respect that. However, I don't wish to start debates. I wish to inspire those who are not aware of what is going on to learn today! It only takes 6% to make a change!

If you are not paying attention to what is going on the USA right now, you really need to. Our American rights- basic human rights- are being taken away very quickly. Please don't just take your information from the controlled media sources such as CNN, MBC, or CBS. Go to www.afa.net and find a radio station that is near you, or listen to their shows in the evening online, or listen to Rush Limbaugh. Fox news is pretty open and honest as well. HONEST online news sources are: www.wnd.com, http://onemillionmoms.com/, http://onemilliondads.com/, http://action.afa.net/

“You and I have heard all our lives that the time may come when the Constitution may hang by a thread. I do not know whether it is a thread or a small rope by which it now hangs, but I do know that whether it shall live or die is now in the balance."
(Vaughn J. Featherstone, “‘These Are Not Men to Be Conquered’,” New Era, Apr 1980)

This was written in 1980, wow, I would want to know what is said of today. When I listen to the news today I'm shocked. The other day my husband and I were in the truck listening to the news and learned of a new device to stop all energy usage in the non-peak hours. The idea is to pass into law and that each home be forced into using it. The end product would be no use of any electricity during the non-peak hours. This is forcing all of America to save energy-the government's way.

I won't get into the health care bill, but this is trouble. Take note of the following quote from Thomas Jefferson:

"I predict future happiness for Americans if they can prevent the government from wasting the labors of the people under the pretense of taking care of them."

Thank you for respecting my right to blog about politics and now I feel better and we're off to talk more of homemaking topics!

Mothers of Large Families: Charlene Turney

noreply@blogger.com (Shiloah Baker) — Wed, 28 Oct 2009 20:43:00 +0000

The Homemaking Cottage Series Presents:

Mothers of Large Families

Charlene Turney, Mother of five

I grew up in the southern part of Alabama. I have a twin sister and a younger brother. My mom was a stay-at-home-mom and when we started school she got a job that still allowed her to be home when we got home. My dad builds houses, so he was always busy working, though I don't remember him being gone, I just remember the good times.

I loved the area that I lived in. I loved the land, the house, the dead end road to ride our bike on. It was amazing. When I was 15 my dad had an affair with the woman who was the assistant coach for my brother's little league baseball team. It was during that time that my mom started taking us to church, even though it was many years later that I developed a personal relationship with Jesus.

My mom remarried about 2 yrs later and that brought us to a new state to live in and that was the summer before my senior year. We lived in Cleveland, TN and this is where my twin still lives. My mom and dad are very good friends now but not in a ..."I like you and might marry you again" way, but in a ...."You are like my brother and aggravate me to pieces, but you are the parent of my three kids so I love you"...kind of way. Nowadays we take family vacations together.

I have lived in Nashville my whole marriage (but not in the same house) going on 12 years this November.

Her Husband

Jerry is amazing. He has such a gift of encouragement and is one person that can say he is sorry when needed. I seem to have a very hard time doing that myself. The more children we have, the harder time he has going away, he loves his family very much and hates to leave and go to work.

After college he worked here in Nashville as an electrical engineer for Saturn, but knew that in a few years we would like to go into full time ministry. In 2002 he quit Saturn and we have been full time since than. We work with our church on the college campuses. We have weekly bible studies and meetings on the campus.

We are both full time pastors who work on the college campuses. With our church we have groups on many of the campuses in this area called Every Nation Campuses.

Why The Decision to Have a Large Family?

We did not talk about it or even later on decide to have a large family, it just seemed to happen that way. Most of our babies have been in pockets of planned time but not specifically timed pregnancies. After each child people would ask, "Are you having any more?" Each time we felt that we might still have another one. We said we would reevaluate after each one and go from there.

With our first...well she would be the one that was not a planned pregnancies in any form whatsoever. We were dating and made the mistake of not being accountable to anyone or setting boundries and after almost a year of dating became pregnant with our 1st daughter. This experience in our lives is another big reason we love working with college kids. Girls seem to think if I can just find a good Christian boy everything will be so easy, but it is not always so.

Three years later, I wanted another baby and Jerry did not, at least not yet. I thought about it and because I only have one ovary and my cycle is not regular at all I would get off the pill and learn my cycle. Then when we start trying at the end of the year it will not take a long time. We got preg two months later. Did I mention the part about how I did not tell my husband I stopped the pill? He was sooo not happy, but of course once the baby was here he was over it.

When the new baby was nine months old my husband quit his job and we went into ministry. This is how baby number three came to us. We had no money and no money and no job meant no insurance and no birth control pills. We went one month and the second month we decided we just needed to buy the pill ourselves. I said wait until the end of the month and we will start it on the following Sunday when I start my period. It never happened because I was all ready pregnant with baby # 3.

Baby #4 was planned 3 years later and we lost that pregnancy in June at five months. (I wrote a poem about it on my blog called a Moment of Joy.) It was a huge shock to us as the other pregnancies had been so easy and amazing. We still wanted to have a baby, so after waiting the standard three months, we tried again.

In December of that year, I started having some numbness in my legs and in January 2006 we found out that I have Multiple Sclerosis . Many people told us that we should be done having kids saying I might not be able to take care of them in the years to come. We were told that maybe God took the last pregnancy because three babies is enough and we should be done. I told them, "My God does not work like that. He does not give me a baby and then take it because I can't take care of it."

We got pregnant eight months later with twins. We were so stinking happy. My mom is a twin and I am a twin and my whole life I said I wanted twins and here they were. It was a blessing; it was a giving back for the one we lost. At four months into the pregnancy we went in to have a regular ultrasound. Because of the last pregnancy loss I had ultrasounds all the time. We found out last time that the loss had something to do with thick blood, but did not know why. My doctor told me that for the next pregnancy I would start on blood thinners. At three months pregnant with the twins a car hit me and the kids from behind at a red light. It totalled the car, but we were all fine. I went in to make sure that the twins were okay and they were. During the ultrasound we saw that I had a little of the placenta covering the cervix. My doctor waited to start me on the blood thinners. When I went in at four months it was too late. One twin had died. This was even harder in some ways than the first lost because of my desire for so many years to have twins.

The doctors than did extensive testing and found out that I had MTHFR. It is a genetic blood thicken disorder. I am a pretty optimistic person and I always..to a fault..see the good in everything and even with this crappy situation there was a huge good thing coming from this. Because of my MS I already had medical insurance issues, so finding out about this was not a big deal with the insurance company. After finding out about this condition it explained so many medical problems with my family. We have had many deaths related to thick blood, but no cause for it. We now know to take Folic acid every day and this alone will add years to my family member's lives.

Yes, I had twins and it brought an amazing outcome, but not in the way that I thought. The other twin was born and during my pregnancy with him my relationship with God grew in so many ways. Even though the whole thing was painful I would not change any of it because I can't get that kind of growth with God just by sitting on my tail doing nothing.

Our last baby-we knew we wanted more kids, but were not sure of the timing. God handled that for us. We started the blood thinners right off the bat and she was born very healthy. With the MS and the MTHFR my family did not want us to have any more kids past the twins. We were told it is very selfish of us to have more kids, we were asked what if something happened to me -how will Jerry do this? I was not at all worried. I knew that God knew my future and that He will provide for me and my family. I did wonder if I would ever have the feeling that everyone talks about-the feeling of knowing we are done. Well, with this last one I felt it. I felt done. I am happy with my 5 living children. Though there are days where I think one more would be ok...

Gabrielle is 11 and she is the second mother. Having 5 kids is "easy" because she is here and she loves her baby brother.

Caleb is 8 and he is a mamas boy and a bit shy. He loves and hates his sister all in the same moment. He plays very well with babies.

Korianne is almost 7 and she is my artist. She is very creative and she says that her and I are the artist in the family. She is what we call spicy.

Caden is almost 3 and he is all boy. He is so funny and make the best faces.

Ava is 6 months old and her personality is yet to be seen.

Some joyful experiences with her large family

I love having everyone around. My mom is from a family of 6 kids and I loved the holidays when everyone got together. I loved that I had so many cousins and am super excited to have that for my kids. I love the looks people give us when they see us all together.

I don't see myself as having lots of kids. I think it is because I see each child as an individual that they are just one Gabi, one Caleb, one....you get the picture. So it is just one of each that adds up to five. When I see other big families I start counting thinking they have a lot of kids and I think, "Wow, really, just five? It looks like so much more!"

Her Mentors/Exemplars

There are not tons of families in my sphere who have lots of kids, so I just look to women of God that encourage me no matter what size family they have.

Her Housekeeping Tips

We have this system that I think my sister got from flylady.com. We just set the time for 15 minutes instead of 10. we take the timer to each room and we all clean for the 15 minutes. When the timer goes off the kids are done. Each child does not have to help with the other child's room, but they all have to help with bathrooms, kitchen, foyer, etc. I take a moment beforehand to scope it out and see what has to be done before they all come in. It works amazing. The kids love that even if the room is not done that they can stop at the timer. Usually the room is done, though.

Favorite Quote

"Attitude changes everything."

My kids seem to enjoy responding with a bad attitude and have missed out on many blessings because of it. I always have to say that if they respond well they will get rewarded.

Her Websitescharlenesrandomness.blogspot.com
charleneturney.blogspot.com

Christmas Extravaganza Sneak Preview and HALF off Sale!

noreply@blogger.com (Shiloah Baker) — Tue, 27 Oct 2009 16:35:00 +0000

The Homemaking Cottage is hosting our first ever Christmas extravaganza starting November 1st.

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Here are the most recent Deluxe Edition articles followed by a little sampling of what will be featured for our Christmas Extravaganza!

Pizza Burgers
By Shiloah Baker

Oh my, these are delicious! My family was completely in love with this dish and thank goodness we made a double batch. This is a quick and easy dinner! Marries well with peas or salad. Who needs pizza delivery when you can make this for less money and much faster?!

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Preparing the Trail for Future Generations
By Shiloah Baker

The early Founding Fathers of the United States of America and all those who helped form this great Nation did so not for themselves alone, but for their posterity. Throughout all of their writings they tell us that this is a large part of their purpose. Millennia of wars were fought by brave men who were willing to lay their lives on the line for their country, but also for the freedom of the future generations.

Here we are now in the twenty-first century and sadly, I look around at the vast majority of people who have forgotten that there will be generations who come after us. Society today has become a “me” generation. What is to become of those who come after us? How are we remembering our posterity and planting the “seeds” to benefit those who follow when we are gone from this life?

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Homemade Syrup Pudding
By Shiloah Baker

Homemade pudding is comforting. It is also very easy to do. This pudding is made from syrup-store-bought or homemade. It is baked and not done the stovetop.

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Cooking a Delicious Turkey
By Shiloah Baker

If the turkey is not completely thawed, place the bird in a sink full of cold water. Change the water every 30 minutes.

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This Week's Thrifty Living Column: Halloween Savings

noreply@blogger.com (Shiloah Baker) — Tue, 27 Oct 2009 04:50:00 +0000

The Homemaking Cottage's new weekly column "Deals that are Nifty" is on week two! Writer Trina Boice, AKA Sister Thrifty is the feature weekly columnist for the website for regular visitors and Deluxe Subscribers to enjoy.

Halloween Savings
By Trina Boice

I've never liked scary movies and I have never read a single Steven King novel, although I hear he is an excellent writer. I just don't like being scared. I started reading those popular "Goosebumps" books with my kids, but quickly convinced them to switch to Calvin and Hobbs comics. Give me a good ole musical comedy any day!

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Mothers of Large Families: Jen Huffstedtler

noreply@blogger.com (Shiloah Baker) — Wed, 21 Oct 2009 10:43:00 +0000

The Homemaking Cottage Series Presents:

Mothers of Large Families

Jen Huffstedtler, Mother of four

I was born in Kansas City, Missouri, and we moved to Quincy, Illinois when I was five years old. My dad had taken a job in his field of business management, working for Quincy College's cafeteria. He changed jobs a few years after that, and was a bread delivery man for the entirety of my school years. My mom was a teacher, then a principal, and is now a director of religious education at the church I grew up in. I have one sibling, a brother four years younger, named Chris.

I learned early on that I had a bent toward fine arts and an ability to write well. I began taking saxophone lessons and participating in the citywide youth band in the 4th grade, and began playing with the high school band when I was in 7th grade. In high school, I participated in marching band, concert band, and pep band, as well as Chorus where I sang in the alto section. I participated in district and state contests each year, and was accepted to the All State Choir in my junior year. I had started to write poetry in late elementary school, and continued into high school. My speech teacher took an interest in my writing and would read and edit my poetry. I attended both Quincy University and Illinois State University before graduating with a bachelor of science in special education and psychology. Although I enjoyed both writing and music, my calling was clear to me after a life changing incident during the summer after 7th grade.

I live in a suburb of Raleigh, North Carolina now.

Her Husband

My husband is a true renaissance man. His major in college was Religion, with minors in Biblical Languages and Music Business. He can play the acoustic bass guitar, the bagpipes, and some piano and guitar. He writes wonderful poetry. He has a great voice, a strong baritone. He is currently working in the Information Technology field, but is nearly done with his Master of Arts through Reformed Theological Seminary. He hopes to teach at the college level in church history or philosophy of religion. I assume he will write theological books and some sci-fi fantasy novels too. Maybe open a restaurant. He takes such good care of me and of our children. He works hard, he anticipates our emotional needs, smooths over arguments and is a wonderful spiritual leader for us. He is a gentle, even-tempered, generous, sensitive, honest man of great integrity.

Why The Decision to Have a Large Family?

I was raised with only one sibling, and I always felt like someone was missing. I had decided before I met my husband that I wanted a large family of biological and adopted children. On our second date, my husband revealed that his wish was the same, without my sharing first. It was a moment I will never forget.

Ella Grace is almost 10. She is very sensitive, a loyal friend, very logical in her thinking. She is a sweet and thoughtful big sister.

Maddie Caroline is almost 7. She is hilariously funny, a peacemaker, and a fountain of creativity. Very impulsive, and somewhat unpredictable.

Annelise Lenore is 4. She is sweet, helpful, bright, and independent.

Edward Gresham (Teddy) is 2. He is affectionate, energetic, talkative, and easy-going

Some joyful experiences with her large family

The girls love to cook and bake with me, and we all have aprons to wear when we do a project together. I love to watch how Ella has taken on Annelise as a charge and Maddie has taken Teddy on as a charge without me ever saying anything to them. Ella finds clothes and shoes for Annelise, and they will often be building with blocks or drawing pictures together. Maddie carries Teddy around, gets him sippy cups or small snacks, goes to get him from his nap, and plays very energetically with him.

A Funny Story

I only have four, just enough to be considered a mom of many, but it is enough to get comments and questions from strangers. I have loved my children piping up to answer if we want to have more!

Experiences or knowledge has helped her on her journey

I was not well trained to be a stay home mom that homeschools. I am just finding my way in managing and planning and executing the everyday. I look for tips online, write down what sounds like it would help make things flow better, and ask lots of questions of moms of many. God presenting me with friends who are moms of many has been the best gift!

Her Mentors/Exemplars

During my growing up years, I was friends with a girl named Florence. She was child #13 in a family of 17 children. Her mother was probably my first inspiration in having a large family. They did not have much, but they were so happy and loved each other fiercely. The children have given their parents more than 50 grandchildren. So far!

Her Housekeeping Tips

Straight out of the dryer, have baskets for each family member set up, so you sort as you take them out, and can fold or delegate folding of each basket.

Favorite Scripture Verse

Ephesians 2: 8-10 "For it is by grace you have been saved, through faith—and this not from yourselves, it is the gift of God— not by works, so that no one can boast. For we are God's workmanship, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do."

Favorite Family Meal

Pork Tenderloin with Peach Chutney, and Vanilla Sweet Potato Souffle

Pork Loin
I roast a large pork loin and rub it with salt, pepper, and sage.
Cook 30-45 minutes per pound of meat, and flip every 30 minutes.

Peach Chutney (to serve on top of pork loin)

Ingredients:

2 lg Peaches, coarsely chopped (about 2 cups) Canned will do in a pinch
1 c Raisins
1 c Packed brown Sugar
1/3 c Lemon juice
1 Jar (2 to 3 ounces) crystallized ginger, finely chopped/ 1/2 -1 tsp
powdered ginger or to taste
1 Clove garlic, finely chopped
1/2 ts Salt

Directions:

Mix all ingredients in 2-quart microwavable casserole. Cover tightly and microwave on high 10 to 12 minutes stirring after 5 minutes, until peaches are transparent and chutney is syrupy. Refrigerate until chilled. Store in re-refrigerator up to 2 weeks.

Vanilla Sweet Potato Souffle

Ingredients:

4 c boiled mashed sweet potatoes
1 c sugar
3 eggs
1 T vanilla
½ c butter, melted
topping:
1 c brown sugar
½ c flour
1 c chopped pecans
1/3 c butter

Directions:

Mix sweet potatoes, sugar, eggs, vanilla, and butter, Pour into buttered 1 qt. dish. Mix all topping ingredients together with a fork. Sprinkle crumbs on top of souffle. Bake 30 min at 350.

Grilled Asparagus Spears

Slice off last 1/2 inch of each spear. Marinate bunch of spears in a mixture of lemon juice, garlic, salt, and pepper for 20 minutes.

Grill to your own amount of doneness :) We use a George Foreman indoor grill, and I think I grill them for between 7-10 minutes.

Favorite Family Dessert

Filled Coffee Cake

Ingredients:

1 cup sugar
2 cups flour
1 cup salad oil
1 tsp. baking powder
1 tsp. vanilla
1/4 tsp. salt
4 eggs
1 can pie filling ( I usually use blueberry)

Directions:

Beat oil, sugar, and vanilla. Beat in eggs, one at a time. Mix flour, baking powder, and salt together in a measuring cup or bowl, then beat into wet mixture. Pour half of batter into greased 9x13 pan. Spread or drop pie filling over batter. Place remaining batter on top. Mix with a knife, swirling through batter.

Sprinkle mixture of 1/4 cup sugar and 1 tsp. cinnamon on top. Bake at 350 degrees for 30-45 minutes.

Her Websites

http://tiltedpirouette.blogspot.com - Attachment Parenting, Breastfeeding, etc
http://pursuingharmony.blogspot.com - general parenting/life with focus on special needs
http://mimzywood.blogspot.com - homeschool blog

No Greater Joy: Motherhood

noreply@blogger.com (Shiloah Baker) — Wed, 21 Oct 2009 02:34:00 +0000

"The influence of your mother will bless you throughout life. . . .
Long years ago, Elder Frank Croft was serving in the state of Alabama.
While preaching to the people, he was forcefully abducted by a vicious gang, to be whipped and lashed across his bare back. Elder Croft was ordered to remove his coat and shirt before he was tied to a tree. As he did so, a letter he had recently received from his mother fell to the ground. The vile leader of the gang picked up the letter. Elder Croft closed his eyes and uttered a silent prayer. The attacker read the letter from Elder Croft's mother. From a copy of that letter, I quote:

" 'My beloved son, . . . remember the words of the Savior when He said, . . . "Blessed are ye when men shall revile you and persecute you and say all manner of evil against you falsely for my name's sake. Rejoice and be exceedingly glad for you will have your reward in Heaven for so persecuted they the prophets which were before you." Also remember the Savior upon the cross suffering from the sins of the world when He had uttered these immortal words,
"Father forgive them, for they know not what they do." Surely, my boy, they who are mistreating you . . . know not what they do or they would not do it. Sometime, somewhere, they will understand and then they will regret their action, and they will honor you for the glorious work you are doing. So be patient, my son; love those who mistreat you and say all manner of evil against you and the Lord will bless you and magnify you. . . . Remember also, my son, that day and night, your mother is praying for you.'

"Elder Croft watched the hateful man as he studied the letter. He would read a line or two, then sit and ponder. He arose to approach his captive. The man said: 'Feller, you must have a wonderful mother. You see, I once had one, too.' Then, addressing the mob, he said: 'Men, after reading this Mormon's mother's letter, I just can't go ahead with the job. Maybe we had better let him go.' Elder Croft was released without harm (see Arthur M. Richardson, The Life and Ministry of John Morgan [1968], 267-68)."

Never ever forget what a vital role mothers play in the lives of not only our children, but everyone we surround. Psalms 113:9 "He maketh the barren woman to keep house, and to be a joyful mother of children. Praise ye the Lord."

Deals that are Nifty for the Homemaking Cottage

noreply@blogger.com (Shiloah Baker) — Tue, 20 Oct 2009 23:46:00 +0000

Our thrifty living columnist has her latest article out entitled "All About Freebies". Enjoy some time learning of all the free things you can find online. We would love your feedback on this new column. Email us at pinkginghamom@yahoo.com.

All About Freebies

By Trina Boice

I love free stuff! I actually dream about getting free stuff and wake up with a big smile on my face. One thing I hope to share with you each week is where to find lots of great things for free. For starters, here are a few fun web sites where you can find all kinds of useful things at no cost:

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Mothers of Large Families: Melissa Stover

noreply@blogger.com (Shiloah Baker) — Mon, 19 Oct 2009 10:40:00 +0000

The Homemaking Cottage Series Presents:

Mothers of Large Families

Melissa Stover, Mother of four

My husband and I grew up in the same small town. We were both raised with memories of bare feet in garden dirt, bream fishing in a pasture’s pond and hot, humid summers that included mosquitoes, lightening bugs and faithful dogs.

My mom was a school teacher, my dad worked for the railroad and I had grandparents, aunts, uncle and cousins close enough for Sunday lunches after church at my grandmother's house. That tradition solidified the importance of family to me.

My grandparents had five children and those five children stayed nearby, raising their children. We were cousins as close as siblings. I enjoyed the love of a big family within my smaller family of four.

My grandmother had a greater influence on me than I first realized as her focus on keeping family close, frugal living and Christian values all came back to me when I had my own children. But it took me a few more years to get there.

My husband and I got married in 1990. We were in college and lived in a tiny apartment on campus. We lived off bologna sandwiches as I fumbled my way through those first few years trying not to not burn the food and wondering what I’d gotten myself into. We were 19 and 20 years old with a lot of time ahead of us and no thoughts of children on the horizon.

After we graduated from college, we moved back to our hometown. We got a miniature schnauzer and thought of her as our baby. We got those questions, "When are you going to start a family?" but kids were not even part of the plan yet.

My husband got a job first and began putting in long hours. I got hired as an English teacher for a junior high school and started doing the one thing I thought I'd never want to do, spend my day surrounded by children.

We became busy, working people with dogs.

After a year of teaching, I added classes towards my master's degree in writing to my schedule. Teaching during the day, classes at night and working on the school yearbook on the side, kept me very busy. My datebook was essential for keeping up with my busy and sometimes stressful life.

After three years of hectic living, I completed my master's degree and about the same time, we discovered we were going to have a baby. I was 26 years old and most people thought it was high time we got started on our family. But I still wasn’t sure.

A lot changed in my heart as my first baby grew inside me. I thought about what kind of future I wanted for my daughter. I thought about what kind of mother I wanted to be. And somewhere along the way, I decided I wouldn’t be going back to work that fall. There was a good chance those degrees were going to go to waste.

All my life I had been terrified of needles, of pain and particularly of the scary childbirth stories I had heard whenever a group of women were together. I wondered how I would handle it. I was afraid. I spent many hours praying and reading books about childbirth. I wanted to be prepared. I steadied myself for what was go come.

The day our first daughter was born, I went into labor at home and delivered her in the hospital with an epidural and with relative ease as far as births go. No one was more surprised than I was when, while still hooked up to the IV I announced, "That wasn't so bad. I think I could do it again."

And I did, two and a half years later we welcomed another daughter to our family.

Our life was filled with pink tutus and baby dolls. I began homeschooling our daughters sort of the same way I stumbled into having children. It was not something I ever thought I'd want to do or enjoy, but once I started it, I loved it.

We never really sat down and planned to have a big family. And, I'm not sure I even consider four children a big family. However, a couple of years after our second daughter was born, I felt like I wanted another baby. I imagined a boy. But, we were in the middle of starting our house and the construction took a year. A few months after we were settled, we found out I was pregnant.

Our son arrived in September of 2004, welcomed by two mothering older sisters. At that moment our family felt complete, our house full.

But two years later, I was considering another baby. Was I crazy, I thought? Four kids in a three bedroom house? But the feeling didn't go away. I was hoping for another boy. Two boys and two girls. A perfect family.

I got pregnant in 2007 and lost the baby 10 weeks later.

I wanted to try again, but I was 37 and then 38, and felt surely I had run out of time. I thought about those wasted years in the beginning of our marriage. How I put off having children and never knew what I was missing.

In April of 2008, just after my 38th birthday, I was pregnant again. Joy was slow in coming because my fears from the miscarriage gripped me.

Another daughter arrived in December of 2008, totally ruining my plans of two boys and two girls and throwing our home into chaos as I tried to figure out where we would put her. She's brought joy to our whole family and added even more fluff and frill to her big brother’s life.

Our children are now 12, 9, 5 and 10 months. We joke that we'll be homeschooling from the nursing home.

One of the reasons I kept having children after the normal 2, was that I kept remembering my grandmother and all her kids, my mom and her sisters and one brother and all their children on holidays, on Sundays, on those random days when we all just want to hang out together.

I grew up with only one sister and if I hadn't had that big extended family, it would have felt very lonely. I wanted that close family connection, those big get-togethers, that "someone's always there for you" feeling for my kids. I wanted them to have each other.

And, for me, that's been the biggest blessing, seeing them interact, depend on and help each other. No, they do not always get along. Yes, there are fights, disagreements and unloving attitudes, but sometimes I catch them. I hear them telling each other about their day when they're apart, I see them helping one another build a tower of blocks, I watch them love on their baby sister and I know this is why. This is the reason for my big family.

Melissa's website: http://www.afamiliarpath.com

Mothers of Large Families: Kadi Prescott

noreply@blogger.com (Shiloah Baker) — Sat, 17 Oct 2009 03:31:00 +0000

The Homemaking Cottage Series Presents:

Mothers of Large Families

Kadi Prescott, Mother of seven

I was born in Southern California, the oldest of three daughters. My mom stayed at home with us and my dad worked. We lived a modest life and were raised in the Christian faith. My parents were married 16 years and then my dad decided to live his truth which is homosexuality. He left when I was 15. I watched my mom have a breakdown, live numb for a few years and then reinvent herself. She inspires me to be strong.

I still live in Southern California with my husband of 11 years and seven kids. I love the media opportunities but do not want to raise my kids in this state. My dream is to move to a more family friendly part of the country.

Her Husband

I knew my husband in high school, but we did not date until after we both graduated. I was home from college for winter break in 1997 when we started dating. We married in early 1998 and had our first baby that December. We had an accellerated beginning and have not slowed down since!

My husband works with his family at their paving company. He has worked for them since he graduated high school. I stay home with the kids and work online.

Why The Decision to Have a Large Family?
Funny story...I did not want kids in high school. My husband is from a family of 15 and he wanted 8 kids. We never really decided to have a large family. My grandfather was one of 23 kids and my mom was one of eight. I guess it was in my genes to be super fertile. Birth control did not work for us. We tried everything besides permanent solutions to space out our kids. Nothing worked, not even an IUD (which is a long and gruesome story: http://www.wombattheinnsane.com/2007/11/the-truth-about-the-iud/) So in nine years, we had seven kids. Sometimes, our plans are not God's plans. I learned this the hard way!

Marlie~ 10 My daughter who I leaned on for help while I was pregnant and trying to survive those hectic 9 years. She is a doll and I treasure her, even when she drives me nuts. She is just like her mother and we can butt heads pretty good at times!

Daniel Jr.~ 9 My challenge. Daniel has ADHD and is unofficially diagnosed bi-polar (there are no set evaluations as of yet for kids with bi-polar symptoms/behaviors.) We have had a long and hard road with him, but he is so loving when it is under control. He holds a special place in my heart. Someday, I'll share the whole story about his troubled life and the near end of it, with you.

Trenton~ 8 Some say that they can see the devil dancing in Trenton's eyes. LOL! He is so stinking handsome, but is always getting into trouble. He is a ladies man and truth be told, I'm pretty sure he will be giving me my first grandchild.

Phillip~ 7 He is the comedian of the family. Phillip has learned that he can get our attention by being a clown. It doesn't always benefit him at school however.

Aiden~ 5.5 The snuggle bug. Loves to watch movies and has a speech impediment which makes him seem younger than her really is.

Ella~ 4 Queen of the world and she knows it.

Reed~ 3 The classic baby. I am very portective of him due to the fact I almost lost him becuase of the IUD.

Some joyful experiences with her large family

We are very into sports. I coach cheer for my girls and my husband coaches football/track/wrestling for the boys. We get a lot of joy from watching our kids learn the art of teamwork, how to have sportsmanship and build self esteem.

We were on Supernanny last year and it really brought us closer as a family. As parents, it taught us how to discipline without anger and it has made a huge difference.

A Funny Story

Funny stuff happens every single day. Seriously. That is the majority of my blog content.

One instance that I will never forget was the day that all of the little ones has the stomach flu. We were trapped in the van, while waiting for Marlie's field trip bus to come back to school. The bus was late. The kids were puking and having diarrhea all over the van. I was gagging and crying while trying to clean it all up. Finally, I just sat the kids over a new duffle bag that my husband had just gotten for Christmas and used it as a port o potty. When my husband saw the bag in the garbage, he asked why I had thrown out his gift and I suggested that he not open it to find out why. ALWAYS carry a port-o-potty in your van for days like those!

Experiences or knowledge has helped her on her journey

I have had to learn patience and selflessness. I was always very vain and selfish as a teenager. God sure knows how to humble us in very profound ways!

Her Mentors/Exemplars

My mother in law. She is the mom of 13 kids and 36 grandkids. Her offspring are truly her joy in life. When she is not having the gradkids over to bake cookies or hang out, she is teaching other kids in religious education. When she is not doing that, she volunteers her time with a local pro-life organization. She lives for children and loves them all.

Her Housekeeping Tips

Only sweat the small stuff (meaning germs) Clutter and cleanliness are two different things. Sanitation = sanity (Only worry about keeping things sanitary. Don't waste your time trying to keep the house looking perfect. Spend that time playing with your kids and making memories.)

Favorite Quote and Scripture Verse

"Be the change you want to see in the world." I try to teach my kids to be proactive. If they complain about something, we shift focus to trying to find a solution to the issue.

Favorite Family Meal

Shrimp Pasta!

Ingredients:

~1 bag of large frozen cooked shrimp (thawed)
~1 box of any pasta (we like wagon wheels)
~1 15 oz. can of diced tomatoes (italian style)
~Minced garlic
~2 tbsp olive oil
~Fresh spinach (my kids are weird and like spinach)
~Garlic salt to taste
~Parmesan cheese (optional)

Directions:

Thaw shrimp in a bowl of tepid water.
Start cooking pasta.
Sautee chopped spinach leaves in garlic and olive oil just until slightly wilted (in a large skillet.)
Add can of tomatoes and shrimp to the spinach then simmer 5 mins.
Drain pasta and add shrimp mixture to pasta and toss.
Season with garlic salt to taste.
Top with parmesan after serving.
Serve with salad and french bread.
*Serves family with 7 young kids or 2 teenaged boys!

Favorite Family Dessert

Carmel Apple Cups

~1 package philo dough circles
~2 cans of apple pie filling
~Vanilla ice cream
~Carmel ice cream topping sauce

Put philo dough circles into a muffin tin and form cups.
Bake philo dough according to package.
Heat pie filling in microwave for two minutes or until hot.
Pull out baked cups and fill with apple filling.
Cool for 5 mins.
Top with ice cream and carmel sauce.
Serve immediately.

Her Websites

True Femme (www.truefemme.com) is my dream site. It is purposed to help women and girls build self esteem and serve as a place to encourage positive diversity. We are working with E.L.F. cosmetics on this campaign and hope to build a team of women who start projects in their own communities to empower girls/women. We believe that too much of our lives are wasted on pettiness and discrimination. It is time to shift focus to positivity!

Womb At The Innsane is my personal blog. I've had that one since 2004. It is just a place to reflect, be silly, drain my mental toxins etc...