SKS

2009-11-16T08:14:00.001-08:00

mAY iT WAS RIGHT

How to be the best?

2009-09-10T22:54:00.000-07:00

Being the best is not a hard matter at all.But the most hard matter is that,Do you want to be it,or not? If you want to be so,just don't say to yourself that you need to be the best,You should say to your self that you must be the best,And if you don't want to be so,It is not the matter of pain for anyone at all.Moreover they will be pleased,because of taking your place.Please don't be so,don't think so,don't do so.The world is calling you,Your universe needs your help .......SK Sarkar Suvo

If you want to be the best and want to give something to the world,please read my writings with your best attention.

Some tips to be superior than all.

1. Perfect persons love everything in their life. They love Cities, Villages, plains, deserts, oceans, mountains, animals and every thing in the nature. They generally love life

2. They never complain and don’t waste their time with moaning. They never wish to be other person. . They don’t have barriers in their mind.

3. They are always excited for what they are doing.

4. They don’t get bored. They find something to do even in boring moments. They hate showing off and pretending to enjoy. They enjoy realities.

5. They are independent and dont feel guilty. They don’t punish themselves.

6. They live in the present time and are not worried about the future.

7. They are not afraid of unknowns and always search for new experiences. They love mysterious things.

8. They are not ignorant and stupid.

9. They don’t enforce their love to beloves. Free from expectations, their relationship is based on free choice and mutual respect.

10. Their private corner is very important for them. Sometimes they really love to be alone with the self.

11. They don’t fall in love several times. Usually they fall in love once and forever.

12. They are restrict to choose the beloved. But they love heartily and sincerely. Their love to their beloves will never end.

13. Their way in life is not judgmental. They also don’t care about others’ judgment and don’t need people’s admiration and sympathy. They don’t need to make all people satisfied. They always say what they want and are not scared to proclaim their ideas.

14. They are honest, frank and straightforward. They live based on their wishes and ideas.

15. They are not stubborn. But they choose their way by own.

16. They ignore stupid traditions and irrelevant barriers.

17. There is an account in the bank for them. But they don’t kill themselves to make it full of money. Money is the last thing they care for.

18. Seriously and attentively, they’re wise, open-minded and practical.

19. They know how to laugh and make laugh. They like to tease people. But their way is not bcs of enmity or hatred. They never ridicule others. They don’t laugh at people, but they laugh with them. People enjoy to be with them, bcs they make joyful atmosphere around themselves.

20. Routine life is not their way. They love variety.

21. This life for them is a temporary time. Working hard to be better person, they never take life serious.

22. They dont say sorry for what they really love to have.

23. Facing the problems, They don’t get emotional and confused. They fight and win over problems. But they also don’t fight to take ineffectual and unfruitful goals. They are not essentially hero/heroine. Yet they are active and supportive.

24. Life for them is not living on surface. They usually go for content and know how to live.

25. They are crative and imaginative. For anything, They use their mind and their power of thinking. They are powerful, strong and full of energy.

26. They need less sleep and they are healthy. There is no way for depression.

27. They don’t put people in groups and don’t blame them.

28. Thirsty to know, They love to learn more and more. They are very curious and are not afraid of failure. They are mostly learner instead of teacher.

29. They have strong relationship with God. They love nature and the world.

30. They accept what they are. They love themselves and try to be best. The most natural people, They are themselves and not anybody else.
Don't you think that it is really a matter of joy how many new and nice habits are going to be formed inside you to be best than all.

Therefore you should find the peace of your mind.
Otherwise you will see that nothing is coming to your own way.
Yes,I am helping You in this section also.Because I want to make you active,And for doing so I am trying to do my best.
How many times have you gotten upset because someone wasn’t doing their job, because your child isn’t behaving, because your partner or friend isn’t living up to his or her end of the bargain?

How many times have you been irritated when someone doesn’t do things the way you’re used to? Or when you’ve planned something carefully and things didn’t go as you’d hoped?

This kind of anger and irritation happens to all of us — it’s part of the human experience.

One thing that irritates me is when people talk during a movie. Or cut me off in traffic. Or don’t wash their dishes after eating. Actually, I have a lot of these little annoyances — don’t we all?

And it isn’t always easy to find peace when you’ve become upset or irritated.

See, the cause of our stress, anger and irritation is that things don’t go the way we like, the way we expect them to. Think of how many times this has been true for you.
And so the solution is simple: expect things to go wrong, expect things to be different than we hoped or planned, expect the unexpected to happen. And accept it.

So when the nice glass you bought inevitably falls and breaks, someday, you might get upset. But not if you see the glass as already broken, from the day you get it. You know it’ll break someday, so from the beginning, see it as already broken. Be a time-traveler, or someone with time-traveling vision, and see the future of this glass, from this moment until it inevitably breaks.

And when it breaks, you won’t be upset or sad — because it was already broken, from the day you got it. And you’ll realize that every moment you have with it is precious.

Expect your child to mess up — all children do. And don’t get so upset when they mess up, when they don’t do what they’re “supposed” to do … because they’re supposed to mess up.

Expect your partner to be less than perfect.

Expect your friend to not show up sometimes.

Expect things to go not according to plan.

Expect people to be rude sometimes.

Expect coworkers not to come through sometimes.

Expect roommates not to wash their dishes or pick up their clothes, sometimes.

Expect the glass to break.

And accept it.

You won’t change these inevitable facts — they will happen, eventually. And if you expect it to happen — even see it as already happening, before it happens — you won’t get so upset.

You won’t overreact. You’ll respond appropriately, but not overreact. You can talk to the person about their behavior, and ask them kindly to consider your feelings when they do this … but you won’t get overly emotional and blow things out of proportion.

You’ll smile, and think, “I expected that to happen. The glass was already broken. And I accept that.”

You’ll have peace of mind. And that, my friends, is a welcome surprise.

After all I want to say that as being the best creation of god,We have got a great responsibility to do something for the world.If we do not give our assistance to to all ,who will do so?
Please give the answer...You ahve no answer,because you know too like me,we are they.So just from now try to develop yourself and everybody around you being the best.

My love is with you all, forever.
SK Sarkar Suvo
suvo.sks@gmail.com/
suvo.sks@hotmail.com.