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	<title>How to Get a Girlfriend</title>
	
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	<pubDate>Mon, 22 Jun 2009 14:36:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>VIDEO Interview with Christian Hudson (The Social Man)</title>
		<link>http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/2009/06/22/video-interview-with-christian-hudson-the-social-man/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 22 Jun 2009 14:30:16 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Stephen Nash</dc:creator>
		
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		<category><![CDATA[Christian Hudson]]></category>

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		<description>&lt;a rel="attachment wp-att-1766" href="http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/?attachment_id=1766"&gt;&lt;img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-1766" title="nickchristian" src="http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/uploads//2009/06/nickchristian-300x225.jpg" alt="" width="200" height="140" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;I was able to meet with &lt;strong&gt;Christian Hudson&lt;/strong&gt; last week, and record a video interview with him.  It was VERY packed with content - lots of intel &amp;#38; action on a few BIG topics in our little world.  Namely:

Confidence &amp;#038; Developing "Instinctive" Skill (amongst other things)

&lt;a href:="http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/2009/06/22/video-interview-with-christian-hudson-the-social-man/"&gt;Learn how on this video (click here)&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div class="feedflare"&gt;
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		<title>Cameron Teone: Pros &amp; Cons of The Seduction Community Part II, “The Dark Side!”</title>
		<link>http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/2009/06/19/cameron-teone-pros-cons-of-the-seduction-community-part-ii-the-dark-side/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 19 Jun 2009 14:58:19 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Stephen Nash</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Cameron Teone]]></category>

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		<category><![CDATA[Seduction Community]]></category>

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		<description>&lt;a rel="attachment wp-att-1738" href="http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/2009/06/11/cameron-teone-pros-cons-of-the-seduction-community/camteone1/"&gt;&lt;img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-1738" title="camteone1" src="http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/uploads//2009/06/camteone1-181x250.jpg" alt="" width="140" height="185" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/2009/06/11/cameron-teone-pros-cons-of-the-seduction-community/" target="_blank"&gt; I&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/2009/06/11/cameron-teone-pros-cons-of-the-seduction-community/" target="_blank"&gt;n the first part of this article&lt;/a&gt;, we talked about ways the &lt;strong&gt;seduction community&lt;/strong&gt; can be helpful to a person.  It provides a reference point and gives people a road to follow.  It provides a path whereas before the person was driving blind.

Giving men a starting point is great.  It’s helpful!  So then, what’s the problem?  Problems arise when what started as a venture to enable you to become better in attracting women suddenly becomes a religion.&lt;div class="feedflare"&gt;
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		<title>Cameron Teone: Pros &amp; Cons of the Seduction Community - Part I</title>
		<link>http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/2009/06/11/cameron-teone-pros-cons-of-the-seduction-community/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 11 Jun 2009 15:30:31 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Stephen Nash</dc:creator>
		
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		<category><![CDATA[Seduction Community]]></category>

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As you certainly know by now, Cameron Teone is a close friend of mine.  I recently crashed at his home in Hollywood during a seminar, and it was great to hang with him.  I asked him if I could post a few articles of his here, so that more people can be exposed to his experience and wise thinking (or is it wise-ass?).

Also, I enter the picture at the end, and spike the drama a bit.  

Can you handle the truth?&lt;div class="feedflare"&gt;
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		<title>Alpha Males, Validation, 2 Skills &amp; What Is Actually Possible For You</title>
		<link>http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/2009/06/03/alpha-males-validation-2-skills-what-is-actually-possible-for-you/</link>
		<comments>http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/2009/06/03/alpha-males-validation-2-skills-what-is-actually-possible-for-you/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 03 Jun 2009 15:29:02 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Stephen Nash</dc:creator>
		
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		<category><![CDATA[Inner Game]]></category>

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		<category><![CDATA[Alpha Male]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[stephen nash]]></category>

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In my experience, you cannot simply become an alpha male.  But, what you CAN do is learn certain dominant, assertive skills which help you be more successful with dating and women.

Let's face it - passive, insecure men are unattractive. So, learning how to be comfortable with asserting yourself is pretty important.

Me?  I am no alpha male.  But, I have learned how to go for what I want anyway.&lt;div class="feedflare"&gt;
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		<title>Why YOU Should Be Saying “Lets Just Be Friends”</title>
		<link>http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/2009/05/26/why-you-should-be-saying-lets-just-be-friends/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 26 May 2009 14:31:09 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Stephen Nash</dc:creator>
		
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		<category><![CDATA[Female Psychology]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Relationships]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[female friends]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/?p=1709</guid>
		<description>&lt;a rel="attachment wp-att-1710" href="http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/?attachment_id=1710"&gt;&lt;img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-1710" title="Male Female Friends" src="http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/uploads//2009/05/malefemale-friends-300x200.jpg" alt="" width="270" height="180" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;It seems completely, totally, absolutely clear to me now...the single thing most important in finding a lasting, healthy relationship is friendship.

&lt;strong&gt;How to get a girlfriend&lt;/strong&gt; starts with a friendship.  I am single now, and at times I find myself trying on the old PUA thinking.  It usually begins when I see an attractive woman, and I feel that chemical release of physical/sexual interest.  Of course, this is relatively meaningless in the big picture - as I've learned.&lt;div class="feedflare"&gt;
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		<title>Rebound=Repair, or Why You Shouldn’t Jump From One Relationship To Another</title>
		<link>http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/2009/05/22/reboundrepair-or-why-you-shouldnt-jump-from-one-relationship-to-another/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 22 May 2009 15:06:13 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Stephen Nash</dc:creator>
		
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		<category><![CDATA[break ups]]></category>

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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/?p=1699</guid>
		<description>&lt;a rel="attachment wp-att-1702" href="http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/?attachment_id=1702"&gt;&lt;img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-1702" title="breakup1" src="http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/uploads//2009/05/breakup1-300x195.jpg" alt="" width="166" height="98" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;I broke up with my girlfriend.

It's been rough.

Part of the deal in any break-up is the inevitable need to rebound.  Or, to get someone else as soon as possible.  Or, to secure validation (now lost) from a new person so I can stop the pain.

Rebounds happen ALL THE TIME.  In fact, for most people, it's a normal occurrence.  The less secure, the lower the self-esteem, the more likely to jump from a broken, ended relationship to another one...which will inevitably end badly - as it was constructed on broken ground.

It makes sense, doesn't it?  So, I no longer call them "rebounds" I call them "repairs".&lt;div class="feedflare"&gt;
&lt;a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/HowToGetAGirlfriend?a=mJsg1oIbodo:v3nfYfWAz0w:yIl2AUoC8zA"&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/HowToGetAGirlfriend?d=yIl2AUoC8zA" border="0"&gt;&lt;/img&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/HowToGetAGirlfriend?a=mJsg1oIbodo:v3nfYfWAz0w:dnMXMwOfBR0"&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/HowToGetAGirlfriend?d=dnMXMwOfBR0" border="0"&gt;&lt;/img&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/HowToGetAGirlfriend?a=mJsg1oIbodo:v3nfYfWAz0w:F7zBnMyn0Lo"&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/HowToGetAGirlfriend?i=mJsg1oIbodo:v3nfYfWAz0w:F7zBnMyn0Lo" border="0"&gt;&lt;/img&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/HowToGetAGirlfriend?a=mJsg1oIbodo:v3nfYfWAz0w:V_sGLiPBpWU"&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/HowToGetAGirlfriend?i=mJsg1oIbodo:v3nfYfWAz0w:V_sGLiPBpWU" border="0"&gt;&lt;/img&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/HowToGetAGirlfriend?a=mJsg1oIbodo:v3nfYfWAz0w:gIN9vFwOqvQ"&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/HowToGetAGirlfriend?i=mJsg1oIbodo:v3nfYfWAz0w:gIN9vFwOqvQ" border="0"&gt;&lt;/img&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/HowToGetAGirlfriend?a=mJsg1oIbodo:v3nfYfWAz0w:qj6IDK7rITs"&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/HowToGetAGirlfriend?d=qj6IDK7rITs" border="0"&gt;&lt;/img&gt;&lt;/a&gt;
&lt;/div&gt;</description>
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		<title>New 1-on-1 With Stephen Testimonial</title>
		<link>http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/2009/05/04/new-1-on-1-with-stephen-testimonial/</link>
		<comments>http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/2009/05/04/new-1-on-1-with-stephen-testimonial/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 04 May 2009 18:36:41 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Stephen Nash</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Testimonals]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[dating coach nyc]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Dating Coaching]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[stephen nash]]></category>

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		<description>&lt;a rel="attachment wp-att-1689" href="http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/?attachment_id=1689"&gt;&lt;img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-1689" title="4e3b4366" src="http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/uploads//2009/05/4e3b4366-300x200.jpg" alt="" width="216" height="144" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;I've edited a new video testimonial from a great client named Erik.  We worked together a few weeks ago in LA, and I think his words speak loudly about the work I do with guys in helping them build a more successful and happier dating lifestyle.

My work involves 3 primary areas:

Lifestyle, Social Skills &amp;#038; Personal Style&lt;div class="feedflare"&gt;
&lt;a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/HowToGetAGirlfriend?a=XbusnsPUir0:kLhYLLPOlrw:yIl2AUoC8zA"&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/HowToGetAGirlfriend?d=yIl2AUoC8zA" border="0"&gt;&lt;/img&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/HowToGetAGirlfriend?a=XbusnsPUir0:kLhYLLPOlrw:dnMXMwOfBR0"&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/HowToGetAGirlfriend?d=dnMXMwOfBR0" border="0"&gt;&lt;/img&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/HowToGetAGirlfriend?a=XbusnsPUir0:kLhYLLPOlrw:F7zBnMyn0Lo"&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/HowToGetAGirlfriend?i=XbusnsPUir0:kLhYLLPOlrw:F7zBnMyn0Lo" border="0"&gt;&lt;/img&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/HowToGetAGirlfriend?a=XbusnsPUir0:kLhYLLPOlrw:V_sGLiPBpWU"&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/HowToGetAGirlfriend?i=XbusnsPUir0:kLhYLLPOlrw:V_sGLiPBpWU" border="0"&gt;&lt;/img&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/HowToGetAGirlfriend?a=XbusnsPUir0:kLhYLLPOlrw:gIN9vFwOqvQ"&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/HowToGetAGirlfriend?i=XbusnsPUir0:kLhYLLPOlrw:gIN9vFwOqvQ" border="0"&gt;&lt;/img&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/HowToGetAGirlfriend?a=XbusnsPUir0:kLhYLLPOlrw:qj6IDK7rITs"&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/HowToGetAGirlfriend?d=qj6IDK7rITs" border="0"&gt;&lt;/img&gt;&lt;/a&gt;
&lt;/div&gt;</description>
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		<title>Galapagos Art Space…a Great Place To Socialize</title>
		<link>http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/2009/04/27/galapagos-art-spacea-great-place-to-socialize/</link>
		<comments>http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/2009/04/27/galapagos-art-spacea-great-place-to-socialize/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 27 Apr 2009 18:38:22 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Stephen Nash</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Date Ideas]]></category>

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		<category><![CDATA[stephen nash]]></category>

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		<description>&lt;a rel="attachment wp-att-1672" href="http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/2009/04/27/galapagos-art-spacea-great-place-to-socialize/"&gt;&lt;img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-1672" title="galapagos-municipal-art-society-event1-sm" src="http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/uploads//2009/04/galapagos-municipal-art-society-event1-sm.jpg" alt="" width="200" height="150" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;One of the themes of this website is to develop a healthy, involved and engaged social life.  One thing I really enjoy is to explore non-bar/club venues in the city, and get a feel for how "social" the environment is.  Does it facilitate interaction, or make that more difficult - that's the big question.

&lt;a href="http://www.galapagosartspace.com/"&gt;Galapagos Art Space&lt;/a&gt; in DUMBO (Brooklyn) is a GREAT place to mingle and enjoy a classy, financially responsible night out.  They feature a lot of music, theater and film as their attraction - but, the design, layout and flow of the space is very very cool.&lt;div class="feedflare"&gt;
&lt;a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/HowToGetAGirlfriend?a=IJsb40ZAaWA:5JaVgr-pCpY:yIl2AUoC8zA"&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/HowToGetAGirlfriend?d=yIl2AUoC8zA" border="0"&gt;&lt;/img&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/HowToGetAGirlfriend?a=IJsb40ZAaWA:5JaVgr-pCpY:dnMXMwOfBR0"&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/HowToGetAGirlfriend?d=dnMXMwOfBR0" border="0"&gt;&lt;/img&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/HowToGetAGirlfriend?a=IJsb40ZAaWA:5JaVgr-pCpY:F7zBnMyn0Lo"&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/HowToGetAGirlfriend?i=IJsb40ZAaWA:5JaVgr-pCpY:F7zBnMyn0Lo" border="0"&gt;&lt;/img&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/HowToGetAGirlfriend?a=IJsb40ZAaWA:5JaVgr-pCpY:V_sGLiPBpWU"&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/HowToGetAGirlfriend?i=IJsb40ZAaWA:5JaVgr-pCpY:V_sGLiPBpWU" border="0"&gt;&lt;/img&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/HowToGetAGirlfriend?a=IJsb40ZAaWA:5JaVgr-pCpY:gIN9vFwOqvQ"&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/HowToGetAGirlfriend?i=IJsb40ZAaWA:5JaVgr-pCpY:gIN9vFwOqvQ" border="0"&gt;&lt;/img&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/HowToGetAGirlfriend?a=IJsb40ZAaWA:5JaVgr-pCpY:qj6IDK7rITs"&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/HowToGetAGirlfriend?d=qj6IDK7rITs" border="0"&gt;&lt;/img&gt;&lt;/a&gt;
&lt;/div&gt;</description>
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		<title>Barry &amp; Stefan Honor Earth Day!</title>
		<link>http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/2009/04/21/barry-stefan-honor-earth-day/</link>
		<comments>http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/2009/04/21/barry-stefan-honor-earth-day/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 21 Apr 2009 15:54:11 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Stephen Nash</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Barry Kirkey]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Earth Day]]></category>

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		<description>The eco-green movement has hit Canada! Now, having lived with Barry, I can attest to his interest in the environment and the planet. Style (aka, Neil Strauss) put Barry in charge of Project Hollywood recycling. I fondly recall Barry collecting all of Papa's Diet Coke cans, and Mystery's Energy Drink bottles and placing them - 1 by 1 - into his weekly blue bag. Then, Barry would proudly strut to the curb and place our recycling for the garbage man!

Big "props" to Barry for making the ProHo experience so clean and pleasant.

Here's Barry and Stefan's tribute to Earth Day, Wednesday April 22nd.&lt;div class="feedflare"&gt;
&lt;a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/HowToGetAGirlfriend?a=Zyb0ReMboxM:i2tKOznYPrs:yIl2AUoC8zA"&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/HowToGetAGirlfriend?d=yIl2AUoC8zA" border="0"&gt;&lt;/img&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/HowToGetAGirlfriend?a=Zyb0ReMboxM:i2tKOznYPrs:dnMXMwOfBR0"&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/HowToGetAGirlfriend?d=dnMXMwOfBR0" border="0"&gt;&lt;/img&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/HowToGetAGirlfriend?a=Zyb0ReMboxM:i2tKOznYPrs:F7zBnMyn0Lo"&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/HowToGetAGirlfriend?i=Zyb0ReMboxM:i2tKOznYPrs:F7zBnMyn0Lo" border="0"&gt;&lt;/img&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/HowToGetAGirlfriend?a=Zyb0ReMboxM:i2tKOznYPrs:V_sGLiPBpWU"&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/HowToGetAGirlfriend?i=Zyb0ReMboxM:i2tKOznYPrs:V_sGLiPBpWU" border="0"&gt;&lt;/img&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/HowToGetAGirlfriend?a=Zyb0ReMboxM:i2tKOznYPrs:gIN9vFwOqvQ"&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/HowToGetAGirlfriend?i=Zyb0ReMboxM:i2tKOznYPrs:gIN9vFwOqvQ" border="0"&gt;&lt;/img&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/HowToGetAGirlfriend?a=Zyb0ReMboxM:i2tKOznYPrs:qj6IDK7rITs"&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/HowToGetAGirlfriend?d=qj6IDK7rITs" border="0"&gt;&lt;/img&gt;&lt;/a&gt;
&lt;/div&gt;</description>
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		<title>The Choosy Beggar - A Must For NY Men</title>
		<link>http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/2009/04/16/the-choosy-beggar-a-must-for-ny-men/</link>
		<comments>http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/2009/04/16/the-choosy-beggar-a-must-for-ny-men/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 16 Apr 2009 15:02:05 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Stephen Nash</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Men's Style]]></category>

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		<description>&lt;a href="http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/uploads//2009/04/beggar.png"&gt;&lt;img class="alignright size-full wp-image-1655" title="beggar" src="http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/uploads//2009/04/beggar.png" alt="" width="118" height="159" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;I recently discovered a very cool site which features the current deals in New York for men seeking a real edge in cultivating a cool, contemporary style.

&lt;a href="http://www.thechoosybeggar.com/"&gt;The Choosy Beggar&lt;/a&gt;

Very often, various labels and designers will offer their wares for a massive discount, making their clothing extremely affordable.  But, the big question always is...how to know??  Well, The Choosy Beggar is THE place to go to learn about these sales and deals.&lt;div class="feedflare"&gt;
&lt;a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/HowToGetAGirlfriend?a=-0MbqvTA7NU:Bn1X8C5Dwzg:yIl2AUoC8zA"&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/HowToGetAGirlfriend?d=yIl2AUoC8zA" border="0"&gt;&lt;/img&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/HowToGetAGirlfriend?a=-0MbqvTA7NU:Bn1X8C5Dwzg:dnMXMwOfBR0"&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/HowToGetAGirlfriend?d=dnMXMwOfBR0" border="0"&gt;&lt;/img&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/HowToGetAGirlfriend?a=-0MbqvTA7NU:Bn1X8C5Dwzg:F7zBnMyn0Lo"&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/HowToGetAGirlfriend?i=-0MbqvTA7NU:Bn1X8C5Dwzg:F7zBnMyn0Lo" border="0"&gt;&lt;/img&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/HowToGetAGirlfriend?a=-0MbqvTA7NU:Bn1X8C5Dwzg:V_sGLiPBpWU"&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/HowToGetAGirlfriend?i=-0MbqvTA7NU:Bn1X8C5Dwzg:V_sGLiPBpWU" border="0"&gt;&lt;/img&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/HowToGetAGirlfriend?a=-0MbqvTA7NU:Bn1X8C5Dwzg:gIN9vFwOqvQ"&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/HowToGetAGirlfriend?i=-0MbqvTA7NU:Bn1X8C5Dwzg:gIN9vFwOqvQ" border="0"&gt;&lt;/img&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/HowToGetAGirlfriend?a=-0MbqvTA7NU:Bn1X8C5Dwzg:qj6IDK7rITs"&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~ff/HowToGetAGirlfriend?d=qj6IDK7rITs" border="0"&gt;&lt;/img&gt;&lt;/a&gt;
&lt;/div&gt;</description>
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