How to Give Good Blow Jobs

How to Give Your First Blow Job

noreply@blogger.com (Unknown) — Fri, 10 Sep 2010 11:42:00 +0000

So, you've never given a blow job before. I can imagine what's going through your head... most of you are worried that the guy will just give you a tap on the shoulder and say "that's enough, maybe next time" - the "next time" which will probably never happen, after he goes around and tells everyone that you are a disaster.

Or maybe you're thinking how you might end up miserably bad, or look dumb from up there - or you're planning on getting wasted on a party and hoping that while being completely drunk you won't accidentally bite off a random dude's penis. You might as well toss it out of a window of a moving car - just to make the whole thing worse than it already would be. Or maybe you just reached a stage in your relationship wondering whether it's "the time" to start experimenting, or maybe "his birthday's coming up" - so why not surprise him with the worst blow job in the universe. Or maybe... Whatever.

Look - NO, you're not going to bite his dick off, NO - it's not gonna be a disaster, but don't expect it to be the blow job of his life either. You can prepare as much as you want - the more you think, stress and sweat about it - the worse the whole thing will be. So turn off your brain, and stop thinking for a second.

Practice will make you perfect, really, if you're armed with the proper knowledge, you can get good, not just good - but amazing at giving head. Any girl that's dedicated can do it.

Second - STOP viewing blow jobs as something you "should" do, or "might" do because "it's your anniversary" - if you're not giving him blow jobs at least 3 times a week then your sex life is incomplete. Good blow jobs are a godsend, and most girls are crap at it. Raise above them, be one of the 5-10% of girls that actually know how give proper blow jobs, and 1% of those that are a-mazing. But before you can get there - you have to start to enjoy giving blow jobs, and doing it out of FUN. And it won't be fun until you relax. So calm, the f#%k down. Breathe.

Now, follow these 3 simple steps, and you'll survive giving your first blow job.

One - look him in the eyes, and moan while you are sucking on his cock, periodically, get it out of your mouth, and give him a naughty smile. Two - have a firm grip around his shaft with your hand, as you are sucking, stroke, after some time, stroke harder, follow his reactions, feel him - and get out of your head.

Last but not least, gently massage his balls as you are stroking his shaft, and giving him head, show him your tongue, moan, stroke him hard while holding his balls - and then, tell him to cum in your mouth. He'll be as fast as a rabbit once you say this. Be on your knees. Swallow. And have fun. It's not a big deal if you mess up. It's normal, making your first blow job "perfect" is an illusion, as long as you are persistent at practicing and armed with the right information, over time you will become amazing. In the meantime, your guy will surely appreciate your efforts.

- written by your resident blow job instructor, Jack

If you want to learn how to give incredible blow jobs - read my book by clicking here.

How to Give Men Killer Blow Jobs

noreply@blogger.com (Unknown) — Tue, 07 Sep 2010 15:33:00 +0000

I don't know if you are aware of the fact that around 8 out of 10 women don't know how to give a proper blow job. It may be "okay" but "okay" won't bring you far in with a guy, or in life.

You need to be better than "okay" - you need to be the best, the 2 out of 10 that can really satisfy a man. And men think about blow jobs every day of the week. Believe it or not, they do - they dream of the "right" blow job - unfortunately, for most guys it just never happens. But if it does - he's ready for marriage! The good thing for you is that it's not just about "talent" when it comes to giving blow jobs. It's something you can learn, with practice, willpower, and the right information.

It's an attitude. It's all about the attitude. But girls are endlessly searching the internet for the next big "secret technique" or some other crap from Cosmo. That's not how you learn to give a great blow job. All these magazines and articles are too polite and don't get down to the core - the point, the thing that really counts. Attitude. They may mention it - but that's not enough. It's a process.

Once you have the right attitude, of course, after that, you can start mastering some details and techniques. For example, I love girls that know how to talk dirty can capture my senses and imagination. These girls understand that sex is a lot more mental than physical, and what they need to do is manipulate a mans mind with the right words, voices, smells and the whole atmosphere itself during the blow job.

I'll lay you out some basics...

One - Love every second of it. Stop viewing blow jobs as work. It's not a job, even though the word "job" is in it. Don't view it like that. This attitude won't get you far.

Two - Smile baby, smile. You need to CONVEY that you enjoy giving him a blow job. And that's a whole other ball game.

Three - Use your ENTIRE body, not just your mouth. You give him a blow job with your whole body, with everything you've got. You need to combine licking, sucking, stroking, tickling and everything else. There's a secret combination. Once you figure it out (after some time and practice), you'll be unstoppable.

Other girls will be asking "how come he's with that girl, what does she have that I don't?" She won't know. But he will, and he won't even look at other girls, especially if he's aware that over 80% of women "suck" at giving blow jobs.

- written by your resident blow job instructor, Jack

If you want to learn how to give incredible blow jobs - read my book by clicking here.

How to Give an Amazing Blow Job: the props

noreply@blogger.com (Unknown) — Sun, 05 Sep 2010 21:09:00 +0000

So, do you really need props to give amazing head? Well, not exactly you could suffice with your mouth, hands, tongue, lips etc. or you could spice things up a bit by using these props. Now remember after a while it is the same bedroom, the same man the same woman, and the same body parts so make things a bit interesting by getting new stuff into the picture. Let's talk about what can be used as a blow job prop? Eatables of course, something that can be licked or sucked off etc.

Chocolate syrup: This is of course the most common prop of a blow job after imagine your mans' shaft tasting like dark chocolate and can you imagine how much fun its going to be to lick the chocolate off of him.

Honey: This is a slight variation to great tasting licky stuff; honey is different from chocolate because the more you lick the thirstier you get and the more you want to lick, so you certainly will get quite a few moans with this one.

Then I have also heard girls trying out strawberry daiquiri and have had lots of fun with it. The ice cube: Giving a blow job with an ice cube in your mouth can create some of the most interesting sensations for your man, the cold of the ice mingling with the heat of your mouth. The strawberry: There are also girls who like to place a strawberry on the head of the penis and suck it with the man's head in their mouth.

Turn the heat up: There is an element of pleasure in yearning for something as sensual as a blow job but you should not when the yearn turns into frustration and avoid this point, start with a little teasing,

Tie your mans hands to the bed and go down on him , making him squirm then stopping just for a bit till he is pleading you to take him in your mouth and suck the day lights out of him. One of my personal favorites in when you play the ‘no touch' game with your man, the best position for this one is with the man lying on his back and you kneel on the bed and take your mouth to his penis. The trick here is that you should be in a position where your man can touch your head and guide you on but the game is that the moment he touches you, you stop your ministration; this can get very interesting if done right.

Try giving head to your man in front of the mirror. Another sexy play is to pleasure yourself while you give your man oral, there are very few things in the world for a man that are half as sexy as watching a woman pleasure herself.

Try doing something incredibly naughty like taking him out for a drive and giving him a blow job on a secluded road, ensure that its a real secluded road, you certainly don't want to cops to play the spoil sports and of course don't try this when he is driving it can get dangerous literally.

- this post has been written by our guest author, Jenny

If you want to learn how to give incredible blow jobs - read my book by clicking here.

How to Give a Great Blow Job: the best positions for the job

noreply@blogger.com (Unknown) — Thu, 02 Sep 2010 15:10:00 +0000

Have you ever wondered about what would be the ideal position for a blow job? Well, actually, depending on where you are when you give your man oral and how pliable and flexible your body is, you can try some regular or some out of this world kamasutra positions. Let's try the regular stuff,

The kneel: This is the most common position as far as blow jobs go and can be seen at least once in every porn flick; as a matter of fact, I often wonder how those porn starlets can stand straight after spending so much time on their knees. Anyway that's for another day. In this position the man stands up and the woman gets down on her knees which puts her head at just the right spot for the blow job.

This is also one of the most popular positions and by far the best because it gives you an amazing view of your mans penis and it gives him a great view of your back, plus he can also see your hair, face, breast and ass not to mention look down into your eyes. Ensure that you have a pillow or a carpet below your knees because if you are in pain you may not be able to focus on giving your man pleasure so the setting has to be just right.

The sleep: In this position, the man lies on his back while the woman goes down on him, this position is great if you are staring out with bj's because you have all the control here and the position can stop your man from ramming his shaft in your mouth ; the only problem here is that the guy can see very little besides the ceiling

The sitting: This is a very good position, comfortable for both partners and creates a psychological edge because the man gets a feel of dominance from the position, this one is very common in porn flick with a BDSM storyline, make your man sit in a comfortable couch or chair and you can kneel in between his legs and go down on him. The best part about this position is that the man can completely relax all his muscles which will make him cum faster and he can get a great view of your legs, back and ass. This is also a good position to massage his balls.

The sleeper again: This is a slight deviation from the regular sleeper in this position instead of you sitting while he is lying down; you also lie on your stomach while you give him head. Prop a pillow behind your guy's back then just lie down in between his legs and get down to business. You can have your mouth right where you want in this position and he can get a great view.

The 69: This one is right out of the porn flicks and great for mutual pleasuring just make sure that you are on top and the man is down; these are just a few positions there are so many more that an entire book could probably be dedicated to the topic.

- this article has been written by our guest author, Jenny

If you want to learn how to give incredible blow jobs - read my book by clicking here.

How to Give a Blow Job: The right attitude

noreply@blogger.com (Unknown) — Tue, 31 Aug 2010 11:16:00 +0000

Well if you haven't wondered about how you can learn to give your man a blow job that will make him shudder with sheer ecstasy; you are probably living with a sexually dissatisfied man. Let's get real, not all men have the balls to say that they would like a little bit of sucking action but they all want it you bet your life on it.

For a man and to a large extent, even for a woman, sexual gratification often forms the basis of a happy relationship. But most men bite their tongue when mentioning a blow job because they do not want their partners to be grossed out. However, if you have enjoyed a little bit of tongue action down there, you know how mind blowing that feels, no pun intended. If you can feel that way, why can't a guy feel great to feel a woman's warm mouth or her hands sucking and stroking the one organ of his body that has the maximum nerve endings?

So let's talk about how to give a blow job or great oral; it all starts with the right attitude; whether you are in the bedroom or the boardroom, the right attitude can take you places. In this case it will take your partner to blowjob heaven. So what attitude do you really need if you want to master the art of blowing? The answer to this question is very simple; the first step of how to give a great blow job lesson is to enjoy it as much as your partner. Sex should be about mutual pleasure. Besides there is something incredibly hot and empowering about hearing your man moan as you give him the best blowjob of his life.

Sex is more than just about arousing the sense of touch, if you want to give your partner a never before sexual experience, you will need to indulge all his senses; there's a reason why men are so crazy about porn flicks, after all they are simply indulging their sense of sight when watching those porn stars do their jobs and the sense of touch can be taken care of with their own hands. So let's talk about what you can do to entice your man's senses.

Dress up slutty, if you haven't got sexy lingerie, its time to pay Victoria' Secret a visit, choose cuts and colors that suit your body type and your skin tone and make all the right parts stand out. Another way to indulge your man's visual sense is to show him that you are enjoying sucking his member, so take his shaft in your mouth just the head while you are on your knees in front of him; look up at him, look him in the eye; show him that you love giving him head.

Moan for him with his shaft still in your mouth, not only will this tingle the nerve endings on the head but it will also arouse his auditory senses, use a distinctive perfume every time you intend to give him a little mouth action, eventually, he will associate the fragrance with the amazing head that you give him and can you imagine the effect that just smelling the fragrance will have on him?

As far as the sense of taste is concerned, we will leave that for later because if you satisfy him, he will be happy to return in kind. Now lets talk about the most important sense; that of touch. Unfortunately many girls assume that a blow job is just about sucking, so simply plop that penis in your mouth and suck away while you ogle at the carpet, if you harbor any such misconceptions you are so wrong. Use all your tools, start by blowing warm air on your man' shaft, take his member in your hands and stroke it as you kiss it from base to head and back. Lubricate the member with your saliva and then roll your tongue on the head before you finally take it in your mouth and start sucking on it.

- this article has been written by our guest author, Jenny

If you want to learn how to give incredible blow jobs - read my book by clicking here.

How to Give a Blow Job - Common Problems and Solutions

noreply@blogger.com (Unknown) — Sun, 29 Aug 2010 20:47:00 +0000

Most women mess up when giving head ‘cause they never put in the effort to actually figure out how to give a proper blow job. Don’t worry, it’s never too late to learn. I know some of you might not like it, or don’t understand why it’s important for a good relationship? But no worries, there’s certainly a reason why you’re not that good at it, and we’ll figure out what’s holding you back.

I’ve received hundreds of emails from women all around the world that want to improve their skills but are having some problems that are holding them back from true blow job stardom.

The most common problem is – “he can’t have an orgasm”

Well you know what, he probably can’t because you’re doing something wrong. Either you’re not putting enough pressure on his shaft, you’re not stroking hard enough, you’re not making eye contact, you’re not being sexy enough, you may be in a bad position – and most importantly, where 99% of you make a mistake is – you have a bad attitude, or not a bad one, but not a particularly good (effective) one either.

If you want to become great at giving him blow jobs then you have to dig deeper into the subject and understand that there is a lot of psychology going on under the surface.

The second most common problem is “my mouth is too small for his penis”

Some things are harder to come over than the other, but there is a solution to every problem. If you can’t open your mouth wider then you just can’t – but that shouldn’t discourage you to use other techniques and methods to give him an even better orgasm. It’s not all about deepthroating, that is just a tiny little part of blow jobs – of course, it’s nice, but I’ve seen over a hundred girls that could deepthroat, but were still not that good at giving head in general, on the other side, I also god head from “small” mouthed women that gave me incredible – IN-CRE-DI-BLE blow jobs. Often, you CAN actually deep throat, it's a matter of practice and willpower.

The third most common problem is that you girls have insecurity issues.

You have to learn to relax when giving him a blow job - if you want it to be any good. Once you can relax, everything will be easier and 10 times more fun for both of you. If you can’t relax, he won’t be able to relax either – and that is not the state of mind you want him to be in. Keep it cool, have fun and most importantly – smile. You’ll be amazed how much difference your smile can make in his orgasm.

I’ve been teaching thousands of women all across the world how to give the best blow jobs – don’t let them get ahead of you, this is a skill every woman should have, and you’ll see the benefits once you get good at it that will be very, very valuable to both you and your boyfriends.

- written by your resident blow job instructor, Jack

If you want to learn how to give incredible blow jobs - read my book by clicking here.

How to Give a Better Blow Job - Oral Sex Tips

noreply@blogger.com (Unknown) — Wed, 25 Aug 2010 21:13:00 +0000

Before you can actually give your man better blow jobs, you need to get over some more important things that might be blocking you from performing better. I've received many emails from women asking me over and over again the same questions - a new "secret technique" is not going to help much if you have simple confidence issues. You need to get your attitude towards the whole thing fixed first.

So - first... motivate yourself. What do you get out of giving better blow jobs? In my opinion, and from experience, I can say the most women, over 80% don't know how to give great blow jobs. Most of these women are not actually lacking "techniques" - they're lacking the right attitude. They are either afraid to practice and fail a few times, or they view the whole thing as a "job". Well yes, it says in the name of it "blow job" - but viewing it as a job will only work against you.

Men are emotional creatures too. Believe it or not, we can see if you are enjoying it or not. A bored, "working" face won't really move me that much, or any other guy. Of course - he might orgasm, but that doesn't mean the whole thing itself was anything special.

It has been proven through extensive research that the orgasm occurs in the BRAIN. Sex is more psychological than physical - don't forget that. The best blow jobs I've received so far were from women that knew how to act right, how to create a show and how to manipulate - okay, not manipulate, but feed my senses. They knew the "hot buttons". These women were rare. So I've spent a lot of time teaching women, but I can imagine how many guys out there don't get blow jobs at all, just because their wife/girlfriend is too shy to try something new.

As I've said - change your attitude. It's not a job, it's not a chore, it's not you giving him something and "he should be thankful". It has to be pleasurable for you - first and foremost, until it can get truly pleasurable for him. And if you listen to my advice, you'll see major improvements in your relationships - and even if you don't like to give blow jobs right now, once you get great at it, and once you see the impacts a powerful blow job can have on your marriage/relationship - you'll be happy you invested some time into learning how to give great blow jobs. If you want to learn some hardcore, step by step, real life tips from someone who'll be brutally direct with you, read my book. If you want to bore your boyfriend to death and make him fall asleep when sucking his cock the don't click here.

One more thing - very important, "fake it till you make it" can help, but in case you're making a transition - don't do it "instantly", it will be awkward and unnatural, do the shift slowly, until he get's used to your new attitude. Remember girls, it's all about controlling the mind.

- written by your resident blow job instructor, Jack

If you want to learn how to give incredible blow jobs - read my book by clicking here.

How to Become a Blow Job Queen

noreply@blogger.com (Unknown) — Sun, 22 Aug 2010 13:03:00 +0000

Becoming the "Queen" of blow jobs is not an easy task. It requires a few important things. First, you need talent. But it's worthless if you don't practice. Second, you need dedication - no one is born with knowledge, you have to create it by practicing, failing and succeeding. Third - you need proper information from someone that actually knows what he's talking about. Yes, that someone is me.
Keep in mind that you don't need to be the "queen of queens" - chances are, that your blow job skills are average. If you can shoot just a bit above that, you'll already be way ahead of thecompetition. And your competition sucks. 93% of girls out there don't give good bj's. I just made up the 93%, but you get the picture. I know that from the hundreds of girls that gave me blow jobs, that most of them are either bad, or average. The one's that can do only a few things better than average, it doesn't matter whether it's talking dirty, moaning, or making eye contact - are already much better than average. That's what you should aim at as a start.

Get good at the basics. Acquire a good attitude, smile, moan, have fun - apply more pressure on his shaft, try to feel his vibe, follow his reactions - over time, you'll get better. Once you're good at the basic stuff, then you can go for learning some cool blow job techniques that will bring in the real results. He'll be begging you to give him blow jobs every day and hour of the week.

It's more important that you learn how to control and guide his emotions during a blow job than using some special technique which you've probably read in another one of Cosmo's & Co's articles. That they don't tell you. Read between the lines. Good blow jobs are hard to find, and guys know that - when we run into an angel that can make us go wild and crazy, we don't even look at other girls, let alone think about cheating, or attempt it.

Most guys don't even know what a great blow job actually looks like. A least make sure you're better than all of his ex's - otherwise he'll always be thinking how the one before you was better at blow jobs, and he'll be imagining her face while you're giving him head. That would be crap, but don't think too much about it, don't stress too much - it will have a negative effect on your performance. Just watch out, your man might have a heart-attack-good-orgasm.

- written by your resident blow job consultant Jack

If you want to learn how to give incredible blow jobs - read my book by clicking here.

Blowjob Tips that Will Blow Him Away

noreply@blogger.com (Unknown) — Thu, 19 Aug 2010 21:14:00 +0000

Hey there miss,

Do you want a guy that will love you more than he could ever love any other women on this planet? Do you want a guy who will be sexually satisfied and who will never even think about cheating on you? Do you want a happy, well balanced relationship with a man that will admire you completely? If the answer to any of these questions is yes – then today is a happy day for you. Because I’ve got exactly what you need to accomplish the things above...

You have to learn how to give him a great blow job. The basis of a great blow job is not a special “secret” or whatever technique – yes, techniques can help, but they’re not what you’re looking for. What you’re looking for is a great attitude – once you have the right attitude about giving your man blow jobs, only then you’ll be able to truly satisfy him.

So what’s “the right attitude”, you might ask?

1 – Start truly enjoying it.

Yep. No one wants to look at a girl that’s bored and looks as if she’s doing this only because it’s a chore. It shouldn’t be a chore. That’s not the point. The guy then feels as if he was forcing you to do it and then Both of you enjoy it far less. Why are you having such a bad attitude? Maybe because you know you’re not that good giving blow jobs, or you have no idea what you’re doing or some other made up reason. Let me tell you something – once you really learn how to give proper bj's you’ll love it more than you could ever imagine. Once you can make him happy any day of the week, once you see a constant smile in his face and when he’s cool and relaxed, helps you out around the house, brings you flowers daily, loves you and cares about you, once you see the impact great blow jobs can have on your relationship/marriage, you’ll be more than amazed. Try it and see it for yourself.

2 – The basics

Maintain eye contact and smile from time to time. Your goal in the beginning, and actually till the end of the blow job is to convey how much you’re enjoying it to him. He has to see the love and passion for giving him a blow job deep in your eyes – believe it or not, a man’s orgasm also comes from his brain. That’s why you need to spike his emotions, spike his head, arouse him completely by letting him know that you love giving him blow jobs. I’m pretty sure it happened to you that a guy can’t orgasm, or that he loses his erection during sex, or he can’t get it up – if it didn’t, I assure you, it will so be prepared for it. This is pure evidence that sex is a lot more mental than physical – not just for women, but for men as well. So stop focusing and searching for “special secret super-duper technique zxy” and look for the real stuff.

3 – Destroy Distractions

You don’t want to leave your cell phone on and you don’t want any stupid distractions around, because these things can only – well, distract both of you. It’s important that both you and him can relax and that you are in a comfortable position – you’ll be unable to enjoy giving him head if you feel uncomfortable in that position.

So make sure you choose the best possible position for giving head. Good luck and have fun – remember, it’s NOT work, so stop making the “I’m-working-on-an-important-project-while-giving-you-head-and-that's-why-look-so-serious” face :)

- written by your resident blow job instructor, Jack

If you want to learn how to give incredible blow jobs - read my book by clicking here.

Blowjob Positions - How to Give a Blow Job

noreply@blogger.com (Unknown) — Tue, 17 Aug 2010 12:01:00 +0000

When making a decision on which position you should give your man a blow job in - I would suggest you to go with the flow. If you've been with him for some time you might already know what he prefers - the problem is that he probably didn't see all the positions you could be in, so he doesn't actually know what he likes best.

A third of your success when giving him a blow job is based on how you position yourself. Comfort is key. The more comfortable it is for both of you the better. If you're not in a comfortable position then you won't be able to relax and focus on enjoying the whole thing.

So remember - on first place - comfort.

Men are visual creatures - we like to see things. We want to see you hot and sexy - so don't even think about turning off the lights. There are probably over 50 positions you can give a blow job in - but there are 2-3 that he'll enjoy the most. That doesn't mean you should do anything besides those 2-3 - you need variety from time to time and to spice things up. Too much of a good thing can result in being a bad thing after some time.

It's important that you're looking for feedback, see how he reacts in different positions and over time you'll see what he likes most. My favorite positions to look at a woman while she's giving me a blow job are:

Top Blow Job Position #1 - I'm up, standing, she's kneeling down between my legs, holding my shaft and looking me straight in the eyes with a smile on her face.

Top Blow Job Position #2 - I'm sitting on a couch while she's kneeling in front of me between my legs. Again, with a sweet and seductive smile on her face.

Top Blow Job Position #3 -Another one which is a bit harder to explain so I'll leave it for later. Let's say I also enjoy 69 - but in the end, position number 68 is better since she and you are more focused. What's position number 68? It's the "You give me head and I own you one" position :)

- written by your insane blow job instructor, Jack

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Blowjob Lessons: Use more than just your mouth

noreply@blogger.com (Unknown) — Sun, 15 Aug 2010 19:43:00 +0000

Unfortunately, most women assume that a blow job is all about sucking a man, well that is only one part of the story; a good blow job is one where you overwhelm your man's senses and put him in a sensory overload., you want him to cum hard don't you? So here are some tips on how to use your hands, mouth and the other organs of your body to give your man a blow job will never forget.

Your hands: Use them for gripping the shaft and stroking up and down to imitate the feeling of intercourse, you need to understand that your mouth is just one part of what goes into the makings of a great blowjob. just using your mouth would be like trying to cook just with vegetables when you have an assortment of spices just waiting to be used; use your hands, fingers, lips, tongue, mouth, and teeth to give your man a blow job that will make him tremble in pleasure.

Hold the shaft in your hand and start with gentle strokes, it is very important to give him head as your hands work their magic on his member; the important thing to remember when stroking your mans' shaft is to increase the tempo and pressure as you get down to business. In the beginning you can start with slow stroked but go faster towards the end; most guys will not be able to come with just sucking so you need to stroke your man.

The mouth: The bigger the mouth the better it is, but not all girls have Angelina Jolie's lips, actually more than the actual aspect of pleasure a big mouth is a visual treat popularized through modern porn.; it is because of this that guys equate a big mouth and a sexy pout to a great blowjob but actually, a girl with thin lips and a small mouth can also give equally amazing blow jobs. The most important thing is to go in confidently. Take your man's shaft in your mouth and roll your tongue on the head; this is the most sensitive part. Then, start sucking on it gently at first , slowly increasing the pace and pressure as you go on.

The tongue: Throw your tongue out like a porn star, this way, you will be making more rook in your mouth to accommodate your man. give particular attention with your tongue to the underside of the member where the head meets the shaft; this should drive your gut crazy with pleasure.

The eyes: look him in the eyes as you suck him and moan softly or look him in the eyes and say ‘ahh' as you get ready to take his member in your mouth.

Where should you touch him?

The head: This is the top of the shaft that is the most sensitive part, so use your tongue in every possible a on it

The shaft: Get a firm grip around the shaft , not only will it be easier to control his member as you give him a blow job but also it feels great for the guy because its like being inside a tight vagina

The balls: these are also very sensitive so massage them gently, you can also lick, kiss and suck them gently; while you are sucking his head and using one hand to stroke him, use the other to massage his balls to make him feel like heaven and cum like crazy.

- written by our guest author, Jenny

If you want to learn how to give incredible blow jobs - read my book by clicking here.

Blow Job Techniques: Start With Good Foreplay

noreply@blogger.com (Unknown) — Wed, 11 Aug 2010 19:38:00 +0000

As far as a blow job goes there are several aspects that can be considered as foreplay, from the way you look to how you prepare your mouth. So let's start with the first step:

Getting your mouth ready: It is very important to have a well lubricated mouth for a good blow job. If your mouth is too dry not only will the man not enjoy it but also your jaw will tire fast and you will be uncomfortable which will directly impact the guys experience. Start by drinking a little water or even some juice so that your mouth can salivate adequately. You need to be well hydrated before you start so this is an absolute must.

Getting your body ready: A lot of girls feel that if they're good with their mouth, they can be dressed in their mom's pajamas and they would still be giving their man a good blow job; this couldn't be further from the truth. Girls, you need to understand that a blow job is about a complete experience not just about your mouth on your guys penis while you file away your nails.

Remember, attitude is paramount - everything else comes in later, so turn yourself into a visual treat for your man. Dress up sexy, hot and even slutty. make your assets stand out; for instance, if you feel that your breast are small get a push up bra, couple them with lace thongs even if you wear cotton panties to your day job; remember this is not about comfort, this is about making your guy hot and hard. Get on that bright red lipstick because it is incredibly sexy for a man to see his shaft being engulfed by bright red lips. That said, lets move to the next part of a good blow job.

Getting him hard: This is the second step; not all guys can get it up anywhere and anytime; then there are others who are perpetually aroused, but mostly you will need to give your man a little bit of stimulation to get him where you want. You can start slow with a kiss on the lips and tracing your mouth down his neck to his chest and then to his crotch. Or you could give him a taste of things to come by suggestively licking and sucking his fingers so he knows that this is how you intend to pamper his penis.

Another approach is to start by rubbing him through his trousers or shorts, choose a position where you want to start and begin kissing his penis hungrily, look into his eyes, smile and show him that you need his shaft in your mouth real bad, while you are kissing his member, massage his testicles gently to get him hard faster. A very sensitive spot is on the underside of the shaft right above his testicles, press this spot with two fingers because it is very sensitive and watch your man moan in delight. Keep on experimenting with various blow job techniques in time you will figure out what gets him hard fast and go nuts.

- written by our guest author, Jenny

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Advice on Giving Good Blow Jobs

noreply@blogger.com (Unknown) — Mon, 09 Aug 2010 21:41:00 +0000

I really appreciate women that are ready to invest a little bit of effort into learning how to give good blow jobs. It is kind of an art. Any woman can do it well with just a little bit of practice and the right advice. Unfortunately, most advice you’ll find on the internet, or from your girlfriends - is false. It kind of misses the essence. I've been asked for advice on "blowjob techniques" countless times - that's all nice. And it can help - but why can't you girls understand that it is NOT about the techniques. It is more a mental than a physical thing - if you really want to blow his mind - then get the essence right first, and learning great blow job techniques will be easier later on.

Most guys like the same stuff, some of them enjoy different techniques more than the other - but all of them enjoy a girl that knows how to act, knows what to say, how to say it and how to create a show for him, a real performance. As long as you are not scratching him and hurting him with your teeth - your technique is okay.

Now, what I suggest is that you try to connect with your guy on a deeper level. Try to feel his body, feel his emotions. When you slowly start giving him a blow job, look passionately deep into his eyes. He can see your naughty smile, your love and passion towards giving him ultimate pleasure. Your uncontrollable desire to get every single drop of “love potion” out of him. He can see it in your eyes, the fire, the love towards him and giving him satisfaction. He can see that THIS is turning YOU on more than anything in the world, and that he is that one that is giving YOU incredible pleasure, just from letting you enjoy his "friend".

You smile at him, in a naughty, naughty way. You lick your lips, you bite your lips a little, you seem a bit shy, but freaky as well. You warm him up by caressing his testicles, playing with them, amused and fascinated by them. Fascinated by what is to come, enjoying every second of it - giving it a few, slow licks, soft and sexy moans. You are completely aroused, you feel like you are about to get the most delicious treat on Earth.

And then you go for it. Like there is no tomorrow. Mind blowing oral sex - or death. Passion girls, it's all about the passion.

- written by your resident blow job instructor, Jack

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