How to Give Great Oral Sex

How to Make a Man Happy with Oral Sex - And Save Your Relatioship

noreply@blogger.com (Unknown) — Fri, 10 Sep 2010 11:11:00 +0000

Believe it or not - oral sex can save your relationship. Probably 98% of guys out there love getting oral, (if it's good that is), unfortunately - most of them are not getting it, some are getting none at all (probably for all the right reasons) - others are getting it but it's low quality. Women don't have where to go for real advice on oral sex that actually works. But I'll tell you the basics of making your man truly happy by giving him great oral.

First of all, you have to change your attitude when it comes to giving oral. Every potential negative thought you might have - forget it. Stop thinking about the negatives and focus on the positive. There are more than enough benefits your relationship can have from great oral - maybe you just don't know it yet. You should become your mans fantasy, or he might find it somewhere else - and I'm pretty sure you don't want that happening.

Anyway - here are the basics. And you can get advanced tips later.

Oral Sex Basics - 1
Take charge. You are in a leading position here. His potential pleasure or ultimate pain (yep, you could just go crazy and bite it off) depends completely on you. So what you do is what you get - or what you don't get in case you don't give head properly. Anyway, take charge, be proactive. Look for feedback and adjust your technique. That's part of the reason why eye contact is important, so you can see his reactions.

Oral Sex Basics - 2
Give him oral with your whole body - not just your mouth. You have to use everything you've got... combine and mix up stroking, sucking, licking, tickling, dirty talking. You should combine all that. As I've said - Use your entire body.

Oral Sex Basics - 3
Be more seductive and naughty. Don't be afraid to unleash your sexuality, enjoy it as much as he does, act naughty and get him turned on. You are submitting to him when giving him head - and even though you may think that he will look "low" at you after that or disrespect you. I guarantee you that it will be the complete opposite. He'll adore you.

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How to Give Perfect Oral Sex to a Man

noreply@blogger.com (Unknown) — Tue, 07 Sep 2010 16:09:00 +0000

Most of you girls out there have absolutely no idea why it's important to give your man great oral sex, as often as possible. The reason is simple - your man will love you, adore you, and be a billion times more cooperative with you in everything. With the children, with helping out in the house. He'll be calm as a baby, relaxed, satisfied - he won't have the need to look at other women, run around, he'll be happy and satisfied. In love with you, turned on by you - wanting YOU, since he'll know that you are one of the few women that knows how to give proper blow jobs. Most women don't know how to do it properly - so all you really need is to be better than the average girl. Which isn't that hard if you think about it.

What is average? And who the hell am I to determine what "average" is? I'm Jack. The guy that received oral from more women than I can remember. The "average" is taken from those experiences. But enough about me, back to you and your oral sex skills. If you do any of the following things, you can be considered an "average" oral sex practitioner.

Women with average oral sex skills:

• have a strange look on their face while giving head, as if they are confused, deep down in their head they are thinking, and thinking and thinking... "am I doing it right?", "does he like it?", "do I look stupid from up there?", "why didn't he cum yet?", "oh, what if I scratch him", "It tastes strange". And all that sort of crap.

If you are thinking more than you are "feeling" while giving head - you are probably average. Or worse. A lot of you are below average, actually. So the average in general is of low quality. Most of you are miserable. So instead of tackling the problem and trying to solve it - by getting equipped with the right information and practicing - you just EVADE doing it at all. Which is even worse.

• you don't have a "feeling" or love for what you are doing. You are giving him oral just because you think "I should be doing it I guess", or because it's a god damn "anniversary". if that's the reason you are giving him oral, then you are most likely crap at it.

• you view the whole thing as WORK, as a "job", instead of something pleasurable for both of you. You put it as if he was owing you something, or you're acting like a feminist.

• you don't let him cum in your mouth, let alone swallow.

• you have absolutely no idea when to stroke faster, harder, how to stroke, how to suck, where to lick, why to lick it there, what to say, how to say it, how to turn him on, you are just "sucking away" and hoping he'll cum so your neck stops hurting. you're making this face as if someone was forcing you to do it, torturing you, choking you to death basically.

That's basically how average women give oral, or they don't give it at all. The results - Your man will be watching porn all day, fantasizing about REAL blow jobs, amazing one's, full of love and passion, juicy action, that can turn him on both mentally and physically. Unfortunately - you can't do that. So he has to search elsewhere, and sooner or later - you're filing for divorce after you find out he's cheating on you. That's what happens when you are bossing him around, nagging, complaining - and not satisfying him in bed. You never thought about the possibility that if YOU took charge to spice up your sex life - maybe it would motivate HIM to give his best to satisfy YOU.

And if you are STILL thinking about shit like "yeah but why doesn't HE try to do something about it bla bla bla blaaa" - then you are DEFINITELY below average when it comes to giving head.

- written by your resident blow job instructor, Jack

If you want to learn how to give incredible blow jobs - read my book by clicking here.

How to Give Good Oral to a Guy - What Your Guy Wants You to Know

noreply@blogger.com (Unknown) — Sun, 05 Sep 2010 18:24:00 +0000

You need to love giving your man oral. That is step number one my dear ladies – there is nothing more important when giving your man oral than truly being in love with doing it. He has to see that you’re not doing it to give him something – to give him pleasure, but you are doing this because You are getting amazing pleasure from having your lips around his penis. Do it for your pleasure, not his, and as a result he will feel amazing.

What I’m talking about is something that most women seem to completely forget, or even if they hear it – they’re still searching for some special technique. Yes, there are good oral sex techniques that will help you perfect your oral skills – but it’s NOT about your technique.

It’s a mental thing, you need to get your mind straight and you need to get his mindset straight as well. Because if he is inside his thoughts, thinking about other stuff – then he won't be able to relax and truly enjoy the experience of great oral – which will results in a much less satisfying orgasm – and that’s not what you’re looking for, are you?

My suggestion is that you focus on changing the way you think about performing oral - once you improve your mindset, and adapt a proper one, all doors will be open to you. Men from all over the world will love you because they’ll sense the vibe you’ve got from having a different attitude towards sex and oral sex in general. Girls that give good oral are immediately far more attractive than girls that don’t give oral at all and think it’s disgusting or "dirty".

- this article was written by your insane blow job instructor, Jack

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Blow Job Techniques: Start With Good Foreplay and Get him Dizzy

noreply@blogger.com (Unknown) — Thu, 02 Sep 2010 15:51:00 +0000

As far as a blow job goes there are several aspects that can be considered as foreplay, from the way you look to how you prepare your mouth. So let's start with the first step:

Getting your mouth ready: It is very important to have a well lubricated mouth for a good blow job. If your mouth is too dry not only will the man not enjoy it but also your jaw will tire fast and you will be uncomfortable which will directly impact the guys experience. Start by drinking a little water or even some juice so that your mouth can salivate adequately. You need to be well hydrated before you start so this is an absolute must.

Getting your body ready: A lot of girls feel that if they're good with their mouth, they can be dressed in their mom's pajamas and they would still be giving their man a good blow job; this couldn't be further from the truth. Girls, you need to understand that a bj is about a complete experience not just about your mouth on your guys penis while you file away your nails.

Remember, attitude is paramount everything else comes in later, so turn yourself into a visual treat for your man. Dress up sexy, hot and even slutty. Make your assets stand out; for instance, if you feel that your breast are small get a push up bra, couple them with lace thongs even if you wear cotton panties to your day job; remember this is not about comfort, this is about making your guy hot and hard. Get on that bright red lipstick because it is incredibly sexy for a man to see his shaft being engulfed by bright red lips. That said, let's move to the next part of a good blow job.

Getting him hard: This is the second step; not all guys can get it up anywhere and anytime; then there are others who are perpetually aroused, but mostly you will need to give your man a little bit of stimulation to get him where you want. You can start slow with a kiss on the lips and tracing your mouth down his neck to his chest and then to his crotch or you could give him a taste of things to come by suggestively licking and sucking his fingers so he knows that this is how you intend to pamper his penis.

Another approach is to start by rubbing him through his trousers or shorts, choose a position where you want to start and begin kissing his penis hungrily, look into his eyes, smile and show him that you need his shaft in your mouth real bad, while you are kissing his member, massage his testicles gently to get him hard faster. A very sensitive spot is on the underside of the shaft right above his testicles, press this spot with two fingers because it is very sensitive and watch your man moan in delight. Keep on experimenting with various blow job techniques in time you will figure out what gets him hard fast and go nuts.

- written by our guest author, Jenny

If you want to learn how to give incredible blow jobs - read my book by clicking here.

Oral Sex Tips that Will Make him Go Wild and Scream for More

noreply@blogger.com (Unknown) — Tue, 31 Aug 2010 10:38:00 +0000

I got head more times in my life than I can remember, from probably hundreds of different girls. I am not telling you this to brag, I don’t care whether you believe me or not. I’m not here to prove anything to you, all I want is to teach you. I’m fed up with all the girls that have no idea how to give proper blow jobs, but think they are good at it or are just too afraid to ask for advice and feedback. I’m also fed up that no one is out there to teach you girls this essential life skill – at least in my opinion. I love getting head, and so do so many other men out there, but sadly, since the feminist movement, the quality of the blow jobs has been going down.

I know this may sound funny to a lot of you, but good oral sex is crucial for a good marriage or relationship. Most of you girls out there have no idea how much a simple thing as a blow job can improve your relationship. The only important thing is that you get the right advice from someone who actually has some experience under his belt, rather than taking advice from your girlfriends that are lost in translation.

I’ll give you 2 simple tips that will get you on your way to giving really good oral, don’t forget that these are just the basics, but they alone can also help you become much better than the average girl out there.

One. Stop thinking. Yep, that’s my number one advice for most of you girls. The scenario is the same with almost every girl that’s insecure about giving oral. She undresses him, she starts giving him head slowly, and then he can see it in her eyes that she is lost, unsure of her self. He can see her making this “I’m working” look on her face. What’s the point of that? Those are not the emotions you want to convey during a blow job. You want to look happy, not confused.

What you need to do is to get out of your head, stop thinking about stuff like “Why didn’t he came yet?” or “Am I doing it right?” and similar nonsense. When giving him oral sex – you need to be present. You need to be there, in the moment, and you need to be passionate about it. You need to enjoy every moment of sucking his penis and THAT is what he has to see in your eyes. Doing this alone will make him happier than ever, and you’ll see the results once he orgasms. Actually, you’ll see the REAL results later, after the blow job. Later, when he starts loving you, buying you presents, taking you out to classy restaurants and sweeping you off your feet every single day. Why? Because you gave him something 90% of other women can’t give him – you guessed it – you gave him really great oral.

Two. You absolutely need passion. If there’s no passion while you’re giving him oral, then the chance of that blow job being great are close to ZERO. Is that what you want? I guess not. I can already hear some of you asking “but how can I be passionate about it when it’s so icky, yucky, smelly and grouse?”, or “Yeah, but how can I be passionate about something I don’t like at all?”.

The answer is simple. ACT. If there’s anything women are good at (just joking, you girls are good at a lot of stuff) – then it’s acting. Play the role, be naughty, be hot, be seductive – love every single moment of it. And once you see the results this will produce, I 100% GUARANTEE you’ll actually start genuinely loving blow jobs, you’ll start loving the entire process. And then you’ll naturally get even better at giving oral.

Why would you do this? Why would you even think about learning how to give better blow jobs? This is something that can not be explained. Let’s bet. Use the techniques, tactics and tricks I’m talking about on your man 3 times – ONLY 3 times. And see the amazing results for yourself.

- written by your resident blow job instructor, Jack

If you want to learn how to give incredible blow jobs - read my book by clicking here.

How to Give Your Boyfriend Mind-blowing Oral Sex

noreply@blogger.com (Unknown) — Wed, 25 Aug 2010 17:18:00 +0000

Giving their boyfriend oral sex can be a challenge for many women. Will he like it? Maybe I'll hurt him? What if I throw up? Am I doing it right? and similar questions may pop-up in your head while giving your boyfriend oral.

The easiest thing I can tell you is to stop worrying. Being nervous and insecure about it won't help you much. Yes, you may mess up, yes it might be a bad blow job - but it's not the end of the world. As long as you're trying to improve and giving your best to become better, every guy will appreciate the effort.

The problem is that most women are too afraid to try, or in case they're not that good - they just give up practicing and try to "pass" it when it comes to sex. That's all nice, but don't get surprised if he ends up with some other women who's perfect at giving oral. You probably don't see the benefits of being able to give your boyfriend or husband great oral. I assure you, there are more than enough benefits.

The moment you decide that it's okay to fail a few times before you actually become great is the moment you'll see improvements. It's okay to make mistakes, view it as a fun experience and not a chore. Over time you'll figure out that it's not that much about technique as much as it's about having the proper attitude.

A simple thing you can already change is the amount of saliva you are using. It's very important that everything is wet, so it slides easier. That's why you need to use your tongue a lot, and be passionate. Once you yourself get turned on from giving him oral you'll produce more fluids. Also, drink some water before you start, you don't want to stop in the middle of it from being tired or feeling sore. Spit on his shaft, or you can even have a glass of juice next to you and take a sip from time to time - but keep one hand on his shaft and don't let him go, as you're drinking and maybe resting a bit, keep on slowly stroking his shaft, take a few sips and continue.

- written by our guest author, Jenny

If you want to learn how to give incredible blow jobs - read my book by clicking here.

Real Tips for Giving Your Man Fantastic Oral Sex

noreply@blogger.com (Unknown) — Sun, 22 Aug 2010 13:44:00 +0000

Oral sex can be very powerful. You probably already know that most marriages and relationships start going downhill once the sex gets boring or just not that satisfying anymore. So people start trying to save their relationship by “spicing up” their sex life. It doesn’t work like that. You can’t “spice up” your sex life with a few stupid “special techniques”. What you can do, on the other hand, is change the way you view your sex life, change your attitude and get more tuned into your senses. But let’s not go too much off topic here. This article is here to teach you, how to give your man fantastic oral, something every man desires a lot more than you can even imagine.

Tip Number One – Be more aggressive

Yep, you need to be a bit more aggressive when giving him oral. That doesn’t mean you should rip his shaft off with your teeth or dash your nails into his stomach (though that may turn on some guys), it just means you should stop being too gentle and too soft and get a bit more aggressive. Don’t be afraid to suck harder, stroke harder, moan louder, suck on his "friend" with more passion, look deeper into his eyes, talk dirtier, act naughtier and enjoy the whole thing more. Whatever you’re doing now – double it. Double the action, triple the excitement :) You’ll see how it works once you try it out.

Tip Number Two – Swallow or don’t give him oral at all.

Okay, you are giving oral. Then why not go till the end? It’s not cool to spit. It’s just not cool. It can be good without it too, but it’s just not attractive. On the other hand, looking a woman in the eyes while you’re having a big orgasm in her mouth, while she is watching you, moaning and you can see that she wants to smile because her man “came” – is one of the most beautiful things that can happen to a man. Pure ecstasy.

At least 95% of guys out there would agree on that. Look, if you don’t do it for him, sooner or later, some other girl will – and you know how hard it can be to drive a Porsche and then have to sit back into a car that has 10 times less functions and is a lot slower and cheaper. It’s crap, a disaster. He won’t even be able to get an erection with you after that. You probably don’t want that to happen – so swallow up, drink some cold water and you’ll be as good as new.

Tip Number Three – Use the power of Ball Tickling

Hello! - giving good oral is not only about his penis. It’s an art. You have to combine everything that you’ve got, and don’t just give him oral with your mouth – use your entire body. Combine licking, sucking, dirty talking, moaning, stroking all at once to have the best effect on him and give him the most pleasure. Now, there is something very powerful that a lot of women forget – his testicles. If you can combine sucking on his head, stroking his shaft AND holding his balls in your other hand, that will really make him feel incredible. Especially if you can nicely massage and tickle his balls with your nails. This way you would combine several really nice feelings that WILL result in a fantastic orgasm.

Try this stuff out and see how it works for you. You have to learn how to give fantastic oral, so you’ll never have to worry about other girls taking your man away from you just because she gives better oral than you. (yes girls, get real. Men ARE that shallow sometimes, yes, I’m one of them, I admit it – I’m a “good sex” addict).

- written by your resident blow job instructor, Jack

If you want to learn how to give incredible blow jobs - read my book by clicking here.

How to Give Good Oral - Tips

noreply@blogger.com (Unknown) — Thu, 19 Aug 2010 19:13:00 +0000

It may not look like that – but fellatio, or giving your man a blow job, is actually a science. There are many hidden, very powerful things behind blow jobs. A woman that haves the skills to give amazing satisfaction to her man by giving him head has potentially great power, not just over that man, but in life in general. Why? Simply because she's able to do something (give amazing head), that most women out there do not. This gives her an AMAZING edge in bed.

Once you have something out there to offer besides your looks and charm – you naturally become a lot more valuable than other “plain Jane’s”. I have gotten head from more women that I can remember, and I’m not telling you this to brag. I do not care if you believe me or not. The reason I’m writing this is because I got fed up from all those girls out there that don’t know how to give a good blow job. I made it my part time job to teach you girls the skills that have the potential to change your relationships. I’ll give you four simple tips that will improve your skills, use them wisely and you guy will explode from the effects.

Tip #1

Choose a good position. Positioning is everything. My personal favorites are when I’m standing and she is kneeling in front of me between my legs, looking me into the eyes from down there and lovingly giving me head. A bad position can ruin the whole thing not only for him, but you as well.

Tip #2

Change the way you view blow jobs. Stop making a chore out of it. You’re not supposed to do it to please him, but to please yourself. Once YOU start getting satisfaction from giving HIM a blow job – the blow job itself will be at least twice as good.

Tip #3

Follow your emotions. Tap into the flow and just let go, you have to suck with passion and love, as if it was a dance. That’s why it’s even nicer to receive head when there’s some nice, chilling jazz music in the background, helping you to relax and forget about a hard day. Stop searching for the “xzy special technique” – there is no magic pill with blow jobs. You can have the best techniques on the planet – but that ain’t worth anything if you can’t apply the basics – and the basics are not physical but mental. Blow jobs are a skull game, a game of emotion, power and desire.

Tip #4

Your mouth is not just for sucking – so don’t be afraid to do some talking. Play with his emotions, guide them. Once you have his shaft in your mouth, you are in complete control, his manhood depends on you. There is always the possibility that you might just snap and bite his shaft of – that’s where all the excitement comes from. Don’t be afraid to have a tighter grip and a few firm bites here and there can only help you out in the long run.

You can learn how to give good blow jobs by practicing, throwing in some passion and good looks will help a lot. Good luck, and never stop learning. If you have amazing “blowjob skills”, you’ll have a lot more power in your relationships – especially when it comes to keeping a guy. A good blow job is hard to find – so if you give it to him, it will be hard for him to find another.

If you want to learn some ridiculously good blow job tips, read my guide by clicking here.

- written by your resident blow job instructor, Jack

If you want to learn how to give incredible blow jobs - read my book by clicking here.

How Oral Sex Can Improve Your Relationship

noreply@blogger.com (Unknown) — Tue, 17 Aug 2010 13:39:00 +0000

Most marriages and relationship fail because the lack of high quality sex. Even if there was good sex in the beginning, couples kind of get lost in their everyday lives and lose their sex drive - or maybe it's not lost, just hidden under everything.

What better way to spice up your sex life and replenish your relationship than with great oral sex? Men love it - and in case you don't love it (now's a good time to start), you'll love it later once you get good at giving oral.

Some women need to get over their shyness when it comes to giving their man oral. Forget about turning off the lights. Men are visual creatures and we need to see you. If you can't relax with the lights on that's a clear sign you're not that good and you don't understand what turns on guys during oral. Let's fix that and make the world a happier place.

So, what do guys want when you give them oral?

One - They want love and emotion, believe it or not. Not in a way that you're too passionate, kissing their "friend" all slowly and sweetly (that's another story) - but emotion in a way that he can see the fire in your eyes, the incredible desire to get him to orgasm. That's what we want to see - that you REALLY want to be right there where you are and that you are completely comfortable with being there, enjoying it and wanting more and more of it. That's the first thing men want to see. If you can learn how to control his emotions, you'll be able to turn him on and give him earth shattering orgasms whenever you feel like it.

Two - The second thing we want to see is a smile. A nice big smile further convincing us that you are not only enjoying it, but you are also having fun. You are connected with us on a deeper level. It is a source of pleasure for you, not a pain that you "have to" go through.

Three - Of course, we want you to swallow. Try putting up a whole show. You'll see over time that oral sex isn't as much about techniques as much as it's about having the right attitude and personality during oral.

- written by your resident blow job instructor, Jack

If you want to learn how to give incredible blow jobs - read my book by clicking here.

3 Tips for Giving Guys The Best Oral Pleasure

noreply@blogger.com (Unknown) — Sun, 15 Aug 2010 18:52:00 +0000

Oral sex is very important for a relationship or marriage to function properly. It is easy to get into a day to day struggle to maintain attraction in the relationship - but if you are able to spice up your sex life, then there's no easier way to do it than by giving your man great oral pleasure.

Tip Number One

Focus on getting him to relax. You need to get him and yourself into a comfortable position so you can both get more pleasure from the whole experience. Over time you'll see that giving and receiving oral sex are both more of a mental than a physical thing - that's why it's very important that you mentally (physically too of course) prepare your husband or boyfriend for receiving a blow job. Turn off your cell phone, put away all potential distractions and play it cool. Put on some erotic music, get him to relax with words. Once he is not in his head anymore, when he stopped thinking and is in the moment - he will enjoy everything a lot more.

Tip Number Two

Keep eye contact while giving him oral pleasure. It's essential. You don't have to stare at him all the time, but he has to see you (so don't turn off the lights!), he has to see you loving every moment of being right there, between his legs. You really have to WANT to be there. And it's all in your eyes, you can see everything in the eyes. Smile, let him see the joy in your eyes, the love, the passion.

Tip Number Three

Be more seductive and naughty. Don't be afraid of going "wild" when giving your guy oral. Have fun with it. You should go "wild" a bit and be kinky, let the "demons" out and be more open minded during the whole process. No, he's not going to think you are a “slut” if you talk dirty, he will love you for it. Men want a lady in the streets and a “ho” between the sheets. Always keep that in mind.

- written by your resident blow job instructor, Jack

If you want to learn how to give incredible blow jobs - read my book by clicking here.

3 Tips for Giving a Man Great Oral Sex

noreply@blogger.com (Unknown) — Thu, 12 Aug 2010 17:14:00 +0000

From lots of experience I know that many women struggle with giving great oral sex. A lot of you girls live under the impression that you are “great” – while in reality, most of you are almost clueless. The reason you are not completely clueless – is that you “believe” you are good – and that tiny portion of self-confidence can sometimes make a big difference. This article is for the brave women out there that are strong enough to admit that they might need some tips - from a guy’s perspective and the experience of receiving oral thousands of times.

Tip #1 – Change the Way you Think

Countless women are searching the internet for “techniques” and “tricks” – let me just tell you that you don’t really need that. You can learn every single “special technique” out there – and all of it will be worthless if you don’t have the right attitude. Oral sex is about connecting with your man on a deeper level and being in complete control of his potential pleasure or pain (and in these moment – You have the power to deliver either ultimate pain or pleasure). As I’ve said – most advice on oral sex out there is focusing on “techniques” instead of going to the core of the problem and the reason why most women don’t know how to truly pleasure a man.

I advise you to change the way you view giving a man oral sex – stop looking at it as a “chore” or something that you are just doing to make him happy. It should be fun – not work. Once you start enjoying it – or at least faking enjoyement in the beginning (until you get good and naturally start enjoying it more) – he will enjoy it A LOT more himself. Yes, sometimes it’s that simple. Emotions tend to jump from one person to another – so if you have a bored, “why didn’t he orgasm yet?” or “am I doing it right?” look on your face – it probably won’t be that attractive. And men are first and foremost visual – we get turned on when we see that YOU enjoy it – even more than we do. That’s why you should never forget that oral sex is more mental than physical – and that is why “techniques” are far less important than having a great attitude.

Tip #2 – Convey Your New Attitude

Once you’ve decided to try out my advice and focus on changing your attitude – the next thing you may be concerned with is “How can I show him that I enjoy it?”. There are many ways, as long as you are creative and not afraid to experiment a bit – you’ll be great. Different guys might prefer different things – that’s why you need to “crash and burn” with your current guy a few times until you figure out what he enjoy the most.

Anyway – back to conveying the “right” attitude. Start of by smiling – there’s nothing easier than that – and you can convey so much with a nice smile, or a laugh. Give him a naughty, seductive look with a smile – as if you can’t wait to start – because “you love to give him oral”. You need to capture all of his senses – so use the tone of your voice the right way, talk in a seductive, turned-on tone – your vibe will pass on to him and once he sees that you really want to give him oral and that it’s not just a “chore” he’ll already enjoy it more, even if you didn’t start yet! Talk dirty to him, tell him that you love it, keep eye contact from time to time – and never forget that “you love it” and it’s not “work”. Keep these “work” thoughts out of your mind. The moment you start thinking is when everything usually goes downhill – get out of your brain and tune into your senses. You need to be passionate and sensual about it. And the easiest way to control his emotions is by controlling your own feelings first.

Tip #3 – Relax and Have Fun

I’ve received hundreds of emails from women asking me how to solve their “oral sex problems” – most of them have something in common. Even after receiving lots of information and even though they already know what they need to do to give truly amazing oral – they are still worried about completely unimportant things. That’s because they can’t stop thinking and complicating things for no real reason – stick to the basics (a good attitude) and go on from there.

It’s normal that not every time will be perfect – it’s normal that he sometimes just can’t orgasm (but you can work on that). It is not the end of the world if you fail – and you will fail until you get good at it – so be prepared for messing up a few times here and there, but over time and practice – any woman can get great at giving oral to men. I’ve seen it dozens of times. Just don’t view it as work – it should be fun, look for feedback from your guy – as long as you are trying to improve, I’m 100% sure he won’t mind you trying over and over again :)

Some of you may say “but why would I even bother mastering oral sex?” This may seem to be a not that important thing for many people out there – but that’s because they haven’t yet realized the power of great oral – and the way it can literally save relationships. Yes, men are that “simple” sometimes. Most couples break up because their sex life is going downhill (or is already dead) – well, what better way to spice it up than amazing “oral pleasure”? :)

Ciao,
Jack

If you want to learn how to give incredible blow jobs - read my book by clicking here.

3 Oral Sex Tips He'll Love You For

noreply@blogger.com (Unknown) — Sun, 08 Aug 2010 16:18:00 +0000

It’s not a secret that men adore receiving oral sex. They basically think about it every single day. As shallow as this may sound to you, whenever I look at an attractive female – the first thing that pops into my head is “how would she look while giving me oral?” – that usually makes me smile. I know many of you might think I’m the only “jerk” thinking like that, but believe me, every guy does.

Just not everyone has the confidence to admit it. The only time I don’t think about other women, is when I already got some amazing oral sex from my girlfriend (or she wouldn’t be in that position) – so, if you don’t want your man thinking about other women, it’s better if you learn how to give him amazing oral sex – or he'll get it from some other girl, sooner or later.

Here are a few 3 tips to get you started.

One – The first oral sex tip he’ll love you for is a smile. Nothing says “i’m enjoying it” more than a playful, seductive and naughty smile at the same time. Many of you girls just forget to smile and view giving oral as a job. That’s just not attractive, no matter how hot you may be. It’s just not hot. I, and other men, don’t want to look at a boring, dull face that’s screaming “Oh, I hate doing this”. We don’t want you to do it if you don’t feel good about it, it makes guys feel as if they are torturing you.

Two – Be more seductive. Hello – it’s not a job. I’m saying that one more time so it sinks in better. Be naughty and playful, have fun with it, make a nice atmosphere, seduce him. Light some candles. When giving a guy oral, you are the one that’s in control – so, initiate. Do what you can to capture his senses – everything counts.

Three – Fear has no place in your mind when giving a guy oral. Fear is just not allowed. “yeah, but what if I gag” – hey, you won’t die from it. You don’t have to deep throat, it’s not all about that. “what if he doesn’t like it?” so what. I never heard a guy being angry at a girl for trying and practicing. Make it fun – tell him “hey, mind if I practice my blow job skills on you?” :) If he says no, well... he has to be crazy :) (or you seriously need to hit the gym ;) ). Just kidding. The point is that you are relaxed and in a comfortable position. Don’t stress yourself too much about it, as long as you are giving your best and trying to improve - every guy will appreciate you.

Adios,
your blow job instructor,
Jack

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