Tips and Techniques - How to practice kissing

How to Kiss Without Nervousness, Anxiety, or Tension Using 3 Easy-to-Follow Steps

noreply@blogger.com (Blogger) — Fri, 3 Jun 2011 00:06:00 -0700

Kissing someone can be a downright daunting and scary thought, especially for men because so much is riding on the line. Have one bad first kiss and you can (pardon the pun) kiss your chances with a woman goodbye. Many ladies confess that they judge a lot about a man based on how well (or poorly) he kisses.
Sexual appeal, confidence, compatibility... much of those elements are directly tied into the act of kissing. With that in mind, it's easy to see why a man would be nervous or tense about kissing an attractive woman for the first time. And nothing can ruin a kiss faster than a case of the "first time jitters."
So, the question remains: how does a guy passionately kiss a woman minus the nervous shakes and sweaty palms?
Easy... Just remember these 3 proven steps and follow them when the time comes...
1. Breathe Easy...
The body responds to tense and/or exciting situations by increasing our heart rate, releasing certain chemicals throughout our system, and adjusting our breathing patterns accordingly. Many times, this response comes in handy (such as experiencing an adrenalin rush during the last portion of a sporting event) but for kissing, it's a rather unnecessary and inconvenient reaction.
Reverse this effect by taking deep breaths and concentrating on slowing your heartbeat. However, you should be discreet while doing this. I'm fairly certain a woman wouldn't be turned on by watching you practice your breathing exercises.
2. Relax your mind...
Tip 1 dealt with a lot the physical aspects (such as breathing patterns) of removing nervousness and anxiety... Tip 2 deals with more of the mental side. Get your mind prepared for the upcoming kiss by thinking positively about the situation.
Don't think about what will happen if she turns you down. Instead, think about what will happen after she experiences her first mind-blowing, toe-curling, passion-filled kiss with you. Get in the right mindset and STAY there!
3. Start Slow...
If, after using tip 1 and tip 2, you're ready to make the kiss but still find that you have a little nervousness and/or tension, following tip 3 will certainly give you the push you need to make the kiss happen. To eliminate this last bit of anxiety and uncertainty, kiss her on a nearby body part instead of on the lips.
For instance, you can do this by embracing her, placing your cheek next to hers, and kissing somewhere around that area... It can be the earlobes, neck, jawline, whatever. Next, start kissing closer and closer toward her lips. If you notice her head turning slightly to yours, then there's a VERY good chance she's willing to be kissed.
Learn to look and "test" for these subtle clues and, never again, will you have to wonder if she's ready to be kissed. Source

How to Kiss Without Nervousness, Anxiety, or Tension Using 3 Easy-to-Follow Steps

noreply@blogger.com (Blogger) — Mon, 30 May 2011 00:24:00 -0700

How to Kiss - The First Time

noreply@blogger.com (Blogger) — Wed, 25 May 2011 13:52:00 -0700

Most men want to know how to initiate the first kiss. Before you kiss the girl you need to ensure that the girl wants to get romantic with you.

There are few tests you can use to find out if she wants to establish a romantic and sexual relationship with you. Before you go for the kiss:

Run your fingers through the hair of this girl and establish an eye contact.
Hold one of her hand or both of them and gently squeeze them.
Make an eye contact and slowly brush her arm.
Measure her responses to your moves. If she responds positively to two of those then you know she is ready to be kissed by you. Don't worry if she does not squeeze your hand back or doesn't brush your arm. She is ready to be kissed as long as she does not ask you to stop or walk away from you.

Once you have established that she is ready to be kissed.

Step slowly towards her or gently pull her close to you.
Establish eye contact.
Lean forward.
Kiss her on the lips.
It is better to start with a peck on her lips and follow it up with a long kiss if she does not object.

You do not have to pull back and return for the longer kiss. You can stay in the kiss position after the peck and go back for a longer kiss if she does not pull back. Though you can always pull back and return again for the kiss if that is what you prefer.

Once in a while the girl may be surprised that you kissed her or tried to kiss her. It is also possible that she may pull back when you try to kiss her. Don't assume she does not like you or don't want you to kiss her because she pulled back.

There could be many reasons why she pulled back. She might have pulled back because she was not expecting a kiss at that moment. May be you did not give her enough indicators to expect a kiss at that moment or maybe you tried to kiss in front of her friends and she felt a little uncomfortable.

This is why it is important to run the above three tests which I also call the "kiss test". It will reduce the chances of girl pulling back.

The girl will vocalize her objection or walk away from you if she did not want to be kissed by you. If she does neither of them she probably is looking forward to another kiss.

Test her comfort again by running the above three tests once more.

If the girl is still complying with the "kiss test" than you know she sees you as a romantic interest and you can go for the kiss again. You should have no problem getting a good kiss this time for she will be expecting it.

Here are few extra tips:

Have a good breath before you go for the kiss. Use some mint or breathe freshener few minutes before the kiss.
Don't start professing your love to the girl right after you kiss her. It is too early in the game.
It is always a good idea to shave before the kiss else you will scratch her face
Try to kiss her in private and not in front of 50 people when you kiss her for the first time.
Don't get upset if she rejects you. Don't try to convince her or argue with her.
You could make the kiss more romantic by holding her hands or face when you kiss her. You could also hold her on her waist or whisper in a girl's ears.
It is too obvious and boring to kiss at the end of the night. Be spontaneous by kissing her early in the night.
Act normal after you kiss her. Make sure not to make things awkward or go into silence so continue talking. Source

Kissing Techniques - Learn How to Kiss With These 3 Basic Kissing Techniques

noreply@blogger.com (Blogger) — Mon, 23 May 2011 15:04:00 -0700

Getting the technique right for anything you do is important. When you play tennis it is very important to get the right technique for serving if you want to play well. So it would only make sense that if you intend to make a good kissing partner that you would study some kissing techniques. There are a few main kissing techniques with each of them being just as important as the next. To be a master of anything you must learn the techniques and kissing techniques are just the same.
One of the kissing techniques that some might not think about is making sure that you are an appealing kissing partner. There are a few ways that it can be accomplished. Hygiene is always a good way to make yourself more appealing. Oral hygiene is just as important as any other type of hygiene as that will be the area most affected by kissing. But overall hygiene is great because nobody is going to want to kiss someone that has a problem with body odor. Something to keep in mind. Other ways to make yourself more appealing are to be concerned with how your lips look. Odds are that very few people will think someone with dry lips would seem to be a very kissable person. If you are plagued with dry lips that is a very fixable problem. Apply some lip balm such as Chap Stick or something of that sort and be done with it. Adding a little shimmer gloss is always nice as not only will it moisturize, it will draw attention to your lips.

Now onto kissing techniques that will work to make your date remember you for quite some time. Something that is at times forgotten when you go to kiss someone is to use your hands. I don't mean to use your hands to feel them up; I mean to use your hands to relay your affection. Your hands should be used to caress your date, play with their hair, or simply use it to pull them to you. Many things can be done with those heavy clubs that hang from your sides with several of them being things that will make you more memorable to your date.
Of the last kissing techniques that I can recommend I would suggest to you to always pay attention to your date and their body language. If they are acting as though they are uninterested, do what you can to make them interested. That is a kissing technique that you might not think of as a kissing technique but trust me, it is. If you want to have a date that wants to kiss you then you must pay attention to whether or not they are having a good time.
Things such as them being uninterested in the conversation, watching the clock or just playing with their food are good indicators that they aren't as interested as you would like for them to be. But to get them interested, ask about your date with you saying very little. Get to know them, let them lead the conversation. If you do then odds are that you will get many chances to practice the kissing techniques you have learned. Source

Here's my list of the Top 5 Reasons that some kisses are super, while others end up duds.

noreply@blogger.com (Blogger) — Sun, 22 May 2011 14:55:00 -0700

1. Emotional connection.
If you kiss a guy or girl that you kind of like, then your kiss will be kind of nice. But if you kiss a guy or girl you REALLY like, then your kiss will be REALLY special. An emotional connection is crucial for an amazing kiss. When the physical pleasure of a kiss combines with the emotional pleasure of sharing an intimate moment, fireworks happen.
2. Great comfort level.
One of the great killers of the pleasure of kissing is nerves. The more nervous you are, the tenser you feel. Tension makes you stiff and unyielding - the complete opposite of what a great kisser should be! When you're anxious about the result of a kiss or self-conscious about whether you're doing it right, you won't be able to enjoy the moment like you should. Worse, your tension will get communicated to your partner. Relax and flow in the moment.
3. Ability to forget the world.
The top kisses seem to go on forever. Your mind is clear of everything but your partner's breath, responses, murmurs, and body against yours. But it can be hard to forget the world if you're in a noisy environment, being jostled by other people, or are in an uncomfortable position. For example, despite their popularity as makeout locations, cars are notoriously uncomfortable places to kiss. Too, if you're feeling self-conscious about your kissing technique or wondering if others are watching, you'll bring yourself out of the moment and back to earth. Clear your head the next time you kiss and let nothing else matter.
4. Imagination.
Great kissers don't just do what they do best; they adapt to their partner and experiment with different kinds of kisses. If your kissing repertoire consists of two styles - kiss and French kiss - then it may be time to explore the possibilities. Vary the pace and pressure of your kisses. Expand from the mouth and kiss the eyelids, neck, even nibble the ear. Be inventive.
5. Rhythm.
The best kisses have an ebb and flow. They start gently, become greedy, then allow a pause for breathing and meeting one another's eyes. A kiss is sometimes called a dance of the lips, and it's important to remember that kisses, like dances, must have a rhythm. Nothing is worse than someone who is so intent on kissing you that they don't allow you room to breathe. Let your kiss find its natural rhythm. Allow it to warm up and eventually cool down. Always take time to reconnect with your partner through catching his or her eyes and breathing together.
If you really care about someone, are completely relaxed, there in the moment, and allow your kissing to find its natural rhythm and expression, you'll find that your kisses become much more intense and enjoyable.Source

MADONNA kisses in French

noreply@blogger.com (Blogger) — Sun, 22 May 2011 04:57:00 -0700

MADONNA'S French Kiss with Britney Spears

Madonna kissed a girl! (Sticky & Sweet Tour Mexico)

How To Kiss Good To Get Things Steamed Up

noreply@blogger.com (Blogger) — Sat, 21 May 2011 16:30:00 -0700

Everyone knows how to kiss and you know that, right? So, how hard can it be? Want to know how to kiss good so that you can get things steamed up with your guy? It is easy to learn the basic mechanics of smooching. It is actually well-known. You don't have to read the books to do so. However, making it sensual actually requires more than the basics. You need to do more action. So how do you do that?
1. Think that lip-locking is like dancing.
Think it that way except the only thing that's focused is your lips. Like dancing, there are so many variations to it. It can be done by passionately mashing one's tongue to the other. Others do it with a bit of gentle nibbling. There are also people that don't like tongue action. It actually depends on the couple. What you need to do is to identify your common ground. You need to know which kind of kiss best suits the both of you.
2. Think of nothing else.
Don't get too tense. Don't feel too anxious. Don't worry too much. Do not think about the tongue action. It would be really awkward for you if it's in your head. You must not think about it. You shouldn't be too conscious. What you should do instead is to let your mind set free. If your mind leads you back to thinking that you are not kissing the right way and all that then think of your beau. Think as to why you fell in love with him.
3. There's more to the tongue.
It's not always about your tongue playing with his. You can feel your partner with the use of your lips. That's just one way. There are other things that you can do. You can do some nibbling. You can play with his lips. There are so many things you can do, the sky is the limit.
4. Don't think that it always leads to sex.
Well, most of it leads to sex. You shouldn't expect that it is going there. You know why? Kisses are more passionate if the tongue action is only up to that. It is more pleasurable because you are only doing that. Cherish the moment you have. It's time that you let your sensations get through your thoughts. Be carried away with the sudden gush of emotion. Every once in awhile, it would be nice if your emotions are placed into the movements that you have.
5. Don't let your hands get stiff.
It would be more awkward if you kiss and you just let your hands rest in your lap. Make your hands move. It would be nice if you touch him sensually. You can put it in his head. You can massage his scalp. That's a good thing because there would be a sudden rush of his blood to his brain. It would help him get all steamed up. You could also run your fingertips in his neck. You can stimulate him sensually in that way. If you are in bed with him, you can caress his body slowly and smoothly like as if you are giving him a massage.
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How to Kiss a Girl in 15 Minutes

noreply@blogger.com (Blogger) — Sat, 21 May 2011 02:17:00 -0700

If you are on a date on the town and wish to take things a little further with the girl you are with but are shy and don't want to ruin your chances of seeing her again, what should you do? Would it still be possible to get a kiss out of her? Of course it would be!
However, in order to succeed, you need to know the proper tactics to doing so. First of all, you need to overcome your shyness. You should be over it if you have already managed to get yourself a date, though.
Ensure that you keep a look out for female body language, too, as this happens to be an essential indicator when it comes to relationships. Whenever a girl is around you, does she look relaxed? Does she look happy? Is she having fun? If she isn't, you should probably put off that kiss and wait for the ideal moment instead.
How To Kiss A Girl In 15 Minutes
Step Number One (10 Seconds): Find The Right Position. If a girl is totally comfortable and has her head on your shoulder, try to position your body so that you can go in for a kiss without having to move awkwardly.
Step Number Three (5 Minutes): Build Some Rapport. Share great stories about yourself with a girl to make her want to kiss you for being such an awesome guy.
Step Number Three: Establish A Bond (5 Minutes). Look at the girl and meet her stare. Then, take a look at her lips and look at her eyes again before moving a little closer to her. If she wants the same thing as you, she will get the hint and move closer to you, as well.
Step Number Four: Flirt (1 Minute). Make sure that you flirt as much as possible to help set the proper mood for the night. If the girl flirts back, your chances of getting that kiss will be much higher.
Step Number Five: Use Fractionation (3 Minutes). Lastly, in order to get a girl to kiss you, you should make use of tactics of hypnosis. One tactic called fractionation is known to make girls fall for guys in an instant - in just 15 minutes.
This technique, known as fractionation, is a simple two-step formula which makes a woman feel emotionally "connected" to you quickly. This is done by creating an illusion in her mind that she has known you for some time - even though in reality you have just met her for 15 minutes. It is very effective because it uses some covert "mind hack" tactic, but at the same time can be easily used by anyone - no matter if he is new to the dating game, or have been dating supermodels. Killer stuff!
However, please be careful...as fractionation could be the most explosive piece of seduction technology ever invented. Source

How to Kiss a Woman - A No-Fail Step-By-Step Guide

noreply@blogger.com (Blogger) — Fri, 20 May 2011 03:30:00 -0700

So, you're out on the town with a date and want to move things with her up to the next stage. But you're a little shy and don't want to screw up your shot at going out with her again, so what can you do? Can you get her to want to kiss you? Of course you can.
But, to do this you must learn the right techniques. The first thing is to move past your shyness. The very fact that you're on a date shows you've gotten past that.
But first things first...
Now, make sure to watch for body language. It's a very important indicator in relationships. When she's around you, does she seem relaxed?
Does she seem happy and like she's having fun? If she isn't, then you probably want to hold off on going for the kiss, and wait for a perfect moment.

How To Kiss A Woman - A No-Fail Step-By-Step Guide
Step #1: Position Yourself Well. If a girl looks completely at ease and is resting her head against your shoulder, then try to move your body in a way that you can go for the kiss without awkward movements.
Step #2: Build Rapport. Share with her a wonderful story about yourself that will make her feel compelled to kiss you since you're such a great guy.
Step #3: Establish Connection. Look right at her and meet her gaze, then look down at her lips, then look back to her eyes and move a bit closer to her. If she wants what you want, then she'll be able to read that and she'll move closer to you, too.
Step #4: Flirt...And Go For It! Be sure to flirt with her as much as you can. Doing this will help to set the tone for the night. If she flirts back at you, then there's a good chance you can go for the kiss successfully.
Finally, if you want a girl to want to kiss you, it would be so much easier if you use hypnosis techniques. One such technique, known as fractionation, is reputed to be able to make any woman fall in love super quickly - in the span of 15 minutes or even less. Source

The Top 3 Tips to Learn How to Kiss

noreply@blogger.com (Blogger) — Fri, 20 May 2011 03:29:00 -0700

It's not just about the kiss itself that matters. For women, it's guys scent lingering on their skin. For men, it's that electric surge that would tell them "She is the One."

Before your first moment with the one that makes your heart beat fast, it would be best for you to learn how to kiss on your own hand, pillow or best friend. This scene does not only happen in the movies it does happen in real life. Everyone has to start somewhere right?

1) Back of Hand
There is s a soft spot at the back of your hands that resembles the same texture and feel of your lips. Do this in the privacy of your room. You do not want to look like a lunatic! This is a great way to get a feel for what your lips are doing without practicing on another live person.

2) Pillow
You practice and learn how to kiss and wrap your arms around an imaginary someone using a pillow. It may sound old school since even your parents have done the same thing some 40 years ago, but it works!

3) Best Friend
The best friend can be someone you can share anything with. If he or she is much more experienced in the kissing department over you, you can learn a lot from the tutoring.

Just relax and let the moment come to you. Kissing is not to be scheduled, it should just happen naturally. Keep practicing and you will be soon be a kissing fool! Source

How to Kiss a Woman

noreply@blogger.com (Blogger) — Thu, 19 May 2011 10:57:00 -0700

So you finally got that date - and now you want to kiss her? Are you ready to take things to the next level? Do you want the proven tricks on how to kiss a woman and make her want much more? You were right to recognize how detrimental a kiss is to a relationship. It can really make or break the deal - so if you want to keep her interested (and begging for more), you gotta know how to do it right. Here are some tips.
1. Create a sexy tension. Don't be in such a hurry to plant that kiss. Get close enough to almost brush her lips but wait a few moments to really go there. When there is romantic tension, the kiss has bigger impact.
2. Make your eyes "kiss" her, too. Don't stare down at her face while in lip-lock, though - instead, look into her eyes before you give her a smooch. She will look right back into your eyes, and this creates a certain electric chemistry. Your gazing eyes will also make her feel very beautiful and loved, making her more expressive and passionate when you finally lock lips.
3. Respond to her kissing technique. If she is not slobbery, chances are, she doesn't want you to be slobbery either. Feel her tongue activity and her level of aggressiveness. If she is assertive with her kiss, then she will appreciate some aggression from you, too.
4. Use your hands. Stroke her hair as you kiss. You can also touch her face. Use your arms to hold her, and your body to envelop her and make her feel wanted. However, you should remain respectful - unless she whispers in your ears that she wants your hands elsewhere, or unless she guides your hands to her more intimate regions. Otherwise, keep it loving. Nuzzle with your cheek, nose, or forehead.

How to Kiss a Guy - 11 Ways on How to Be a Great Kisser

noreply@blogger.com (Blogger) — Thu, 19 May 2011 10:55:00 -0700

Do you want to know how to kiss a guy the right way? Kissing a guy is fun and exciting. But sometimes even the experienced ones have insecurities about being a great kisser.
1. When it comes to puckering up, most men want to take the lead. Women can speak their minds and have their own opinions. But when it comes to the first kiss, men would prefer if they initiate.
2. Don't be too nervous or think too much. Just focus your attention on him -how great he looks and how you love that cologne he's wearing. Think about how much fun you had on your date and how happy he makes you feel.
3. When you're both leaning for a kiss, don't hesitate and pull away. You'll ruin the moment. Don't make it look like you don't want him to kiss you. Just try to relax and lean in.
4. Make your lips look appealing but avoid wearing too much lipstick or lip gloss. He might worry that he'll have the sticky stuff on his face.
5. Make sure you have breath mints handy. You don't want to kiss if your breath stinks of garlic or alcohol or cigarettes.
6. Eyes shut for a more romantic feeling. Keeping your eyes closed can set a smoldering mood.
7. Sometimes, you need more than just your mouth to have an unforgettable kiss. Try caressing his back or running your fingers through his hair. Touch his face and pull him closer.
8. Make sure you really have a connection. If you had a great conversation and are really into each other, then chances are the kiss will also be great.
9. To help set a more romantic mood, dim the lights and put on some soft music. If you're outside, go to a darker place for more privacy. Having people ogle at you may ruin the romantic moment.
10. Yes, you're nervous, but it doesn't mean you have to stop breathing! Just breathe lightly so you wouldn't pass out.
11. One of the best tips on how to kiss a guy is to make him feel comfortable. Don't appear intimidating or uninterested. Let him know you want to be kissed.Source

How to Kiss Her - 3 Steps to a Deep, Sensual Kiss

noreply@blogger.com (Blogger) — Wed, 18 May 2011 15:57:00 -0700

What should do if you're out on a date and want to take things to the next level? What if you're a bit shy, though, and you don't want to ruin your chances at bagging another date?
What can you do to get women to kiss you back? To do so, you need to learn the proper tactics. First of all, you have to get rid of that shyness. The mere fact that you are already on a date should show that you aren't as shy as you might think.
What you want to do is look out for female body language. It would be a highly essential indicator in relationships that women are relaxed whenever they are around you. Does she look happy? Is she having fun? If not, then you might want to wait before going in for a kiss and wait for the perfect moment instead.
How to Kiss Women - A Step-by-Step Guide to Success
Step Number One: Build Rapport. Share great personal stories with her that will make her want to kiss you for being such a wonderful individual.
Step Number Two: Build a Connection. Stare at a woman and have her meet your gaze before moving a little closer to her. If she wants exactly what you want, she should inch closer to you, as well.
Step Number Three: Flirt. Ensure that you flirt with her as much as possible. By doing so, you can set the proper mood for the night and, if she flirts back, your chances will be higher in getting that successful kiss.
Lastly, if you truly want a woman to kiss you back, you can simply make use of tactics of hypnosis to make things easier for you. One tactic is called fractionation and has the ability to make women fall for men in an instant - in just less than 15 minutes, in fact.Source

How to Kiss a Girl on the First Date Itself - 3 Techniques For Effortless Success

noreply@blogger.com (Blogger) — Wed, 18 May 2011 15:55:00 -0700

Imagine that you are on your first date with your dream girl and you are hoping to take whatever relationship you may have to the next level. What should you do next? Well, you should go in for that first kiss!
The big problem would be that it is possible to destroy everything to the point that you could even get some kind of drink thrown at you for attempting to go in for the kiss. How can you ensure that your kiss will end up going well? Read on to discover three surefire techniques that can be used to get your first kiss.
How To Kiss A Girl On The First Date Itself - 3 Techniques For Effortless Success
Technique 1: "The Set Up." Instead of attempting to get in there for that kiss on your own, you can simply make her go in for that kiss. To do this, you need to set up a situation in such ways where she totally wants to taste you. Flirt and tease her the whole night. If she ends up reacting well, then the deal is practically sealed.
Technique 2: "The Gaze." This very subtle move can subconsciously send her direct messages. Look her directly in the eye and then look at her lips before looking at her other eye. This might sound strange, but it actually reveals how inclined she is for a kiss. Try it out and see it for yourself.
Technique 3: "Fractionation." This is a hidden skill that is used by top artists in order to get women to completely fall in love with them in an instant. The main idea would be to use stories in order to take women through quick emotional lows and highs that make them connect to you emotionally, practically turning you into an addiction. She will be much more receptive to any moves that way; this includes that first kiss.
Fractionation can get women to fall in love with men in less than fifteen minutes. It is a little controversial and when misused, you could end up with stalkers. Be careful! Source

How to Kiss Him - And Make Him Want More

noreply@blogger.com (Blogger) — Wed, 18 May 2011 00:36:00 -0700

You've finally scored a date with the man of your dreams and you are definitely looking forward to it. But now the question becomes, do you know how to kiss him? It's a question that can drive you crazy if you spend too much time thinking about it.
You finally got him to ask you out - does that mean he expects a kiss on the first date, and should you be the one to initiate it? Keep reading for some ideas on how to be prepared for that intimate but sometimes awkward moment.
Allow the tension to build
You may be aching to feel his lips on yours, but you and he will both find that first kiss more satisfying if you take the time to build up some anticipation. Remember how good that first bite of Thanksgiving turkey tastes after you've smelled it cooking all day? The same can hold true for that first delicious kiss - the longer you wait, the more exciting and satisfying it will be for both of you.
Let him initiate the first kiss
Even in this day and age when it's perfectly ok for a girl to make the first move, it is still best to let him be the one to make it. Guys love a challenge, and if he has to put a little effort into winning you over, the more anxious he will be to conquer whatever barriers you've erected and land that kiss. You'll both enjoy it more, too.
Don't give in too soon
You may be dying to melt into his arms from the moment he picks you up for your date, but resist the urge to rush into that first kiss. If he has to wait a little while the anticipation will build and when the kiss finally happens, it will be a memorable one.
If you use these tips on how to kiss him, you'll soon find that the first kiss is just the beginning. You'll have him coming back for more and more and more! Source

How to Kiss For the First Time - Make it Count

noreply@blogger.com (Blogger) — Tue, 17 May 2011 03:56:00 -0700

Are you in a situation where you are trying to figure out how to kiss for the first time? You are not alone, and you can rest assured that many other people have wondered the same question of how to kiss for the first time.
Really, there isn't any true strategy to this. You need to just be relaxed and let the kiss occur naturally. If you try to force the kiss, it will be an epic fail I can assure you. What you need to do is just relax yourself and let the kiss happen on its own. When you do this, you will not be as tense as you would be if you were to try to force it, or look for an opportune time, or anything of that nature. The best way to know how to kiss for the first time is to stay calm and just let it happen on its own.
There are a lot of people who write crazy long eBooks on how to kiss for the first time, and this is really unneeded, because truly, if you are calm with your partner, they will be ready for the first kiss, and it will be one to remember. I remember my first kiss above any other because I was not trying to force it, and it came at a time that I was not really expecting it, so I wasn't tensed up and worried about it. This is truly the best method for trying to understand how to kiss for the first time.
With all of that said, there are a few tips on how to do your best in this area:
1. Leave your lips soft and relaxed and let them naturally join your partner's lips.
2. Avoid using your tongue as this is advanced stuff ... keep it simple.
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World Record for kissing.

noreply@blogger.com (Blogger) — Mon, 16 May 2011 14:44:00 -0700

Thousands pucker up in Mexico to break the World Record for kissing.

Kiss the Rain -Romantic Montage , A Tribute to Rain in Film

noreply@blogger.com (Blogger) — Mon, 16 May 2011 14:37:00 -0700

Song: Kiss the Rain by Thriving Ivory

List of Movies in order of first appearance (actors and characters listed also):

1) Great Expectations: Finnegan (Ethan Hawke) and Estella (Gwyneth Paltrow)
2) Sliding Doors: Helen (Gwyneth Paltrow) and James (John Hannah)
3) Pride and Prejudice: Mr. Darcy (Mathew Macfadyen) and Elizabeth Bennet (Keira Knightley)
4) Cold Mountain: Ada (Nicole Kidman) and Inman (Jude Law)
5) Spiderman: Peter Parker (Tobey Maguire) and Mary Jane (Kirsten Dunst)
6) Sweet Home Alabama: Melanie (Reese Witherspoon) and Jake (Josh Lucas)
7) Northanger Abbey: Catherine Morland (Felicity Jones) and Henry Tilney (JJ Field)
8) The Incredible Hulk: Bruce (Edward Norton) and Betty (Liv Tyler)
9) Elizabethtown: Drew (Orlando Bloom) and Claire (Kirsten Dunst)
10) Say Anything: Lloyd Dobler (John Cusack)
11) The Quiet Man: Sean (John Wayne) and Mary Kate (Maureen O'Hara)
12) Singin in the Rain: Don (Gene Kelly) and Kathy (Debbie Reynolds)
13) Breakfast at Tiffany's: Holly Golightly (Audrey Hepburn) and Paul 'Fred' (George Peppard)
14) Waterloo Bridge: Myra (Vivien Leigh) and Roy (Robert Taylor)
15) Cinema Paradiso
16) Bride and Prejudice: Lalita (Aishwarya Rai) and William Darcy (Martin Henderson)
17) Daredevil: Matt (Ben Affleck) and Elektra (Jennifer Garner)
18) The Notebook: Noah (Ryan Gosling) and Allie (Rachel McAdams)
19) Four Weddings and Funeral: Charles (Hugh Grant) and Carrie (Andie MacDowell)
20) Dear John: John (Channing Tatum) and Savannah (Amanda Seyfried)
21) Something New: Kenya (Sanaa Lathan) and Brian (Simon Baker)
22) The Sure Thing: John Cusack and Daphne Zuniga
23) Beyond Borders: Sarah (Angeline Jolie) and Nick (Clive Owen)
24) Mary Bryant: Mary (Romola Garai) and Will (Alex O'Loughlin)
25) First Knight: Lancelot (Richard Gere) and Guinevere (Julia Ormond)
26) Wives and Daughters: Molly (Justine Waddell) and Roger (Anthony Howell)
27) Pirates of the Caribbean: At World's End: Will Turner (Orlando Bloom) and Elizabeth (Keira Knightley); Jack Sparrow (Johnny Depp)
28) Ever After: Danielle (Drew Barrymore) and Henry ( Dougray Scott)
29) Sense and Sensibility '95: Marianne Dashwood (Kate Winslet) and John Willoughby (Greg Wise)
30) Sense and Sensibility 08: Marianne (Charity Wakefield) and Willoughby (Dominic Cooper); Colonel Brandon (David Morrissey)
31) Moulin Rouge: Christian (Ewan McGregor) and Satine (Nicole Kidman)
32) Casanova: Casanova (Heath Ledger) and Francesca (Sienna Miller)
33) Mansfield Park: Fanny Price (Frances O'Connor) and Edmund Bertram (Jonny Lee Miller)
34) Cast Away: Chuck (Tom Hanks) and Kelly (Helen Hunt)
35) Mamma Mia: Donna (Meryl Streep) and Sam (Pierce Brosnan); Sophie (Amanda Seyfried) and Sky (Dominic Cooper)
36) Nights in Rodanthe: Adrienne (Diane Lane) and Paul (Richard Gere)
37) Australia: Sarah (Nicole Kidman) and Drover (Hugh Jackman)
38) Enchanted: Giselle (Amy Adams) and Robert (Patrick Dempsey)
39) Love Affair: Mike (Warren Beatty)
40) In the Land of Women: Carter (Adam Brody) and Sarah (Meg Ryan)
41) Garden State: Andrew (Zach Braff) and Sam (Natalie Portman) 42) Jane Eyre: Jane (Ruth Wilson) and Mr. Edward Rochester (Toby Stephens)

Kissing Tips and Advice

noreply@blogger.com (Blogger) — Sun, 15 May 2011 12:41:00 -0700

We've all had those moments where we were with someone we liked and
somewhere on the back of our mind we kept wondering how do we kiss that
person? Do we ask them? Do we just go for the kiss? Do we wait? If so,
how long?
These questions can be quite discouraging due to not knowing exactly
what to do next to bring yourself closer to that special someone.
There are, however, a few key steps and signs that we can watch out for
and do to increase the probability of bringing ourselves closer to that
special someone.
For guys:
When you're out with a girl on a date and you and her walking around or
just talking, you have to understand that you're the one who has to
make a move! Girls are told by society that they have to be passive and
receptive (not as much after shows such as Sex and the City). Thus, she is
expecting you to take charge in escalating the touching that will
eventually lead to a kiss.
When you're out with her, be the first one to take her hand! Taking her
hand is the first step towards bringing yourself closer to her. If
she's comfortable, you can escalate non-intrusive touching a little later,
such as touching her shoulders or hugging her. As you progress doing
this and watch her grow more and more comfortable with your touch, you
have much better chance of kissing her successfully, rather than just
going for the kiss out of the blue. When you built this kind of touching

comfort, get her and yourself into some sort location where two of you
could either sit or stand and talk comfortably. As two of you talk,
start stroking her hair softly and look into her eyes. If you feel that
she's comfortable with that, move in closer and closer. If she doesn't
withdraw, go for the kiss, since if she's comfortable with you touching
her hair and standing so closely, most likely at that point she already
wants to kiss you anyway. If she withdraws or acts weirded out, relax
for a bit and continue building comfort with her. Resume normal conversation
and try again later.
For girls:
Usually girls are viewed as the ones who are kissed, rather than the
ones that kiss. It's really a matter of personal preference and personal
set of beliefs as to how you want to go about this.
Most guys are very shy about kissing a girl for the first time, so you
might try to make him feel comfortable by accepting his touch or even
initiating non-intrusive touching yourself, such as holding his hand or
hugging him and being close to him. If he feels like you're accepting
him and enjoy his company and being close to him, he'll most likely go
for the kiss.
If you want to kiss him, it's going to be rather tricky, since some
guys might feel you're too aggressive to hang out with. If he's super shy,
you can simply tell him you want to kiss him, and let him kiss you.
This way you preserve his male ego and still get kissed :)
For both:
Kissing should be light and bring pleasure to both partners. Don't rush
too fast and start shoving your tongue down his or her throat. Just
relax your tongue and softly touch your partner's lips and tongue. Just
barely touching, almost sliding. The kiss should feel light, yet
passionate. As two of you get comfortable kissing, you can progress to
more aggressive and deep kind of kissing, such as French kissing. French
kissing is essentially the kind of kiss where there is lots of tongue
and sucking action. Josh_Peterson

Kisses under the track - Kiss me

noreply@blogger.com (Blogger) — Sun, 15 May 2011 12:38:00 -0700

Includes all kissing scenes (I think at least) ;)

The kissing Game

noreply@blogger.com (Blogger) — Sun, 15 May 2011 02:52:00 -0700

Funny game in kisses

The Art of Kissing

noreply@blogger.com (Blogger) — Sun, 15 May 2011 02:50:00 -0700

Kissing is an art and one should learn how to kiss that would result in exotic feelings for both the person kissing and recipient of such kisses. There could be nothing worse than dry kissing as it would not only be dull but may create negative feelings. It would be good to make sure that the kissing person lubricates the mouth by licking the lips with his or her tongues.
It however does not mean that one would go on licking the lips for long. That would be moving from one extreme to another. Neither dries as a bronze nor wet as sponge would be detrimental to the personal exotic feelings for the kissing partners.
One of the important aspects of kissing is having one's head at the right angle. It can really make a major difference to the pleasures and experiences for both. For example, if the two kissing partners put their head in direct line with each other they could end up hitting each other's nose instead of finding each other's lips.

When both the partners are ready to move in to kiss each other, it would be good to close their eyes. Eye contact may be pleasurable at times but overdoing it could be really unnerving staring in the eyes of the partners in close proximity. On the other hand opening eyes occasionally could help one savor the moment.
It would be good trading softly with the first kiss. It would not be one of the pleasant experiences to attack the mouth of the partner with a lunge. Notwithstanding all the passion developed in the minds of the couple, such lunging would result in scaring the partner instead of attracting.
Keeping the lips naturally closed and lightly brushing the lips is one of the aspects of fine arts and learning how to kiss. One could take a cue from the French kissing styles to express the best affection and intimacy but the decision about kissing should always be a bilateral and not unilateral decision.
Feelings and will of both the partners matter much in the delicate art of kissing. Opening the mouth slightly with the kiss would be one of the best ways of kissing. If the partner's mouth is firmly shut then it would indicate repulsive response from the partner.Simon_Waker_Haughtone

A Kiss Is Just A Kiss Or Is It?

noreply@blogger.com (Blogger) — Sat, 14 May 2011 13:37:00 -0700

Spring has arrived, and love is in the air! What better way to celebrate the change of seasons than to pay "lip service" to an affectionate ritual everyone loves? Few things are so simple yet oh so magical as kisses. They make our hearts flutter and our knees weak. We smooch to say hello and goodbye, as well as to celebrate the milestones in life. We pucker up to make out and make up. We seal things with kisses and even use them to make boo-boos better. Keep reading for more fun, lipsmacking trivia...and when finished, don't forget to lay a big wet one on your sweetie!
* Kissing takes the temperature of your relationship. How so? Studies have found that kissing is one of the first activities to go when couples aren't getting along. But when the routine kisses are in place-the goodbye kiss in the morning, the welcome home kiss in the evening-all is probably very well with you.
* Why men peek more. Research reveals that 97% of women keep their eyes closed when kissing, compared with only 30% of men. Scientists theorize that closed eyes enable women to fantasize while still enjoying the moment. Men, however, who are more visually stimulated, find that keeping their eyes open heightens their desires.
* Recommended by dentists. According to the Academy of General Dentistry, you can literally kiss cavities good-bye! That's because kissing stimulates the flow of saliva in your mouth, and the minerals in saliva help repair early lesions in tooth enamel. Another reason smooching is good for your dental health: saliva not only washes away cavity-causing food particles, it lowers the level of acid in the mouth, which helps prevent plaque buildup.
* Kissing is addictive. It's a scientific fact that kissing signals our brains to produce oxytocin, a hormone that gives you that good-all-over feeling you experience when kissing. Researchers also say that biology causes one kiss to prompt another. That's because when we kiss, the insides of our mouths and edges of our lips produce a special chemical that shouts for more.
* Kissing is a great stressbuster. A passionate kiss relieves tension. When you neck with your sweetie, your breathing becomes deeper and your eyes close, too-which is also what you do when you relax.
* Kissing slows the aging process. Puckering up helps to tone your cheek and jaw muscles, so they're less likely to sag. An average kiss uses at least 12 muscles, while a passionate French kiss activates all 34 of your facial muscles.

* Making out is a great work out. A passionate kiss burns 6.4 calories per minute. This compares to 11.2 calories per minute you burn jogging on a treadmill. Plus, since kissing is exciting, you release adrenaline into the bloodstream and your heart pumps more blood around your body-making kissing a mini-cardiovascular workout.
* Why your kisses should last at least 6 seconds. Studies show that's how long it takes to establish an emotional link. Lingering in a lip-lock really gives the kiss a chance to sink in, making you feel loved and connected.
* Why you should kiss in front of your kids. Displays of affection in front of your kids are important. In fact, studies show that kids who see their parents hug and kiss often when growing up turn out to be good and loving parents themselves.
* Men get more excited. Studies show that during a passionate kiss, a man's pulse soars to 110, while a woman's increases to only 108, suggesting that men get more excited about kissing than women do. (Normal resting pulse is about 72.)
* Little kisses, big benefits. A small peck in the morning really packs a punch, researchers say. One German study found that those who kiss their spouses each morning miss less work because of illness than those who do not. Those who kiss also have fewer auto accidents on the way to work, earn 20-30% more monthly and live approximately five years longer.
* Kissing trivia. In a recent poll, movie-goers were asked to pick the hottest on-screen kiss ever. Their top choice? Sexy smooches between Clark Gable and Vivian Leigh in "Gone With the Wind." And while most of us would agree that kisses are priceless, a lipstick imprint of a kiss made by Mick Jagger's mouth once sold for $1,600.Todd_R_Reed

All About Kissing Games

noreply@blogger.com (Blogger) — Sat, 14 May 2011 11:51:00 -0700

The mouth is the most sensitive part of the human body because the lips are covered with a lot of sensitive nerve endings. This makes kissing games good sources of constant delight and excitement. They can add flair to kissing, especially if it has turned into a routine for you and your partner. Using a game, you will be able to view kissing in a whole new light. As a matter of fact, the Karma Sutra book states that kissing is the purest of all sexual acts. It is known to be a sure fire way to easily attain sexual bliss.
Kisses usually start of sweet and tender before they make their way to complete arousal. A deep and very sensual kiss will be enough to turn anybody on.
However, if you find that kissing your partner has lost excitement, you can try different kissing games to put both of you in the mood for more. Kissing games are not restricted solely for teenagers. Even adults can use them to spice things up in the bedroom. There are different kissing games that bring out superb results, each with their own mechanics. Below are a few kissing game ideas that you should try out.
Make your Way Down
Start off by kissing your partner where you would not normally kiss him. You may begin by kissing his hand, his neck, his ears, or on another body part that will rouse his attention. Start with tender kisses, using only the lips to give smacks. Slowly make your kisses more passionate as you go along. Be conscious of the subtle hints that your partner might be giving you to point where he wants to be kissed next. If you can, try to kiss your partner all over his body. Stop only when you and your partner can no longer resist it.

Hot and Cold
You can use different temperatures to your advantage because skin reacts differently to heat and coldness. Drink hot coffee and hot chocolate while your partner takes something cold. After your mouths have absorb the respective temperatures, go on and kiss each other. The different temperature of your lips and your tongues will give the kiss a whole new sensation. The glaring contrast between the two textures will add life to an otherwise boring kiss.
Use your Hands
What makes kissing more intimate is where you place your hands during while making out with your partner. Holding and caressing different body parts can lead to very different effects. Try running your hand gently through your partner's hair, slowly and lightly massaging the stump of his nape. Tangling your fingers around his hair will also arouse him.
Running your hand slowly between your partner's thighs will also drive him mad. Come to get as close as possible to the crotch area without touching his privates just yet. Draw spirals on his skin using the tips of your fingers. Do this as lightly as you can. This will tease your partner to no end and increase the level of anticipation. Krissy_Stein

Good Kissing Tips - Make Them Melt With These Amazing Tips!

noreply@blogger.com (Blogger) — Fri, 13 May 2011 15:15:00 -0700

Do women regularly tell you you're a good kisser? Many guys think they are the best kisser in the world if ONE girl says they are. That's not good enough! Every girl should be raving about you to her friends. They should crave your kisses.
If you are a stunning kisser, the possibilities are really limitless as to where they can lead!
Good Kissing Tips
1. Lower Your Voice...
Before the kiss try to lower and soften your voice just a bit. I am not talking about going as low as Barry White (unless you CAN pull it off) here. Just lower it a bit while adding a sensual tone.
What this does is set the mood right before the kiss. Believe it or not, women remember those couple of seconds before kissing. You know what I mean. That silence, the staring into each other's eyes and all that cute stuff.
If you can further set the tone with your voice, she will notice it. Even more, she'll love it!
2. Slow Down...
You would not believe how many guys jump into a kiss at full throttle. Stop doing this! Give us some time to warm up at least!
Start with slow and soft kisses. You can gradually speed it up as well as intensify the situation.
Of course, there are always those moments where the two of you will just jump on each other like animals. That's fine too! Just remember that SHE needs to be in that mood. Because we know YOU are always in that mood!
Make sure to try out these methods next time you kiss that hottie. Just make sure both of you kids have fun!Sarah_Eckart