Alright, in this final post of my three part series on the friend zone I’m going to talk about what to do going forward to ensure that you are never again placed into the friend zone by a girl that you would much rather be in the “lovin’ zone” with. (If you missing either of the two previous installments, you can read Part I here and Part II here…)

The key to staying out of the friend zone is to let the women that you are meeting know that you are a confident, masculine guy who is not afraid of expressing his sexual intent which means flirting with women and letting them know that you find them attractive pretty much immediately after you meet them. This may seem intimidating if you are used to being the “nice guy” and not expressing your sexuality. But it is absolutely crucial for getting her to see you as more than just “friend material”.

It is also important that you express this interest in a smooth way so that she will be open to your interest. Depending on the situation you may need to express your interest subtly so that you don’t want to come on too strong and scare her off.

To address these issues, I will give you three tips on how to work up the courage to express your interest and three tips on how to express interest so that it will be well received:

How to work up the courage to express your interest:

1) Remember, it’s better than the friend zone. The main reason guys are afreaid to express interest in a woman is the fear that they will get rejected. But, look at it this way, if she is going to reject you sooner or later anyway why not get it out of the way the first day that you meet her so that you don’t waste a bunch of time pursuing a woman who is never going to be interested in you? This will save you a ton of time and give you the chance to move on to women that you actually have a shot with.

2) Remember, Girls LIKE guys who show interest. What many guys get wrong is thinking that women want a guy who plays “hard to get” or who “treats her with respect”. Okay, most women DO like getting treated with respect, but you don’t need to be treating her like she is this innocent, goddess creature that will be shocked by the fact that you want to bang her. Women know what guys want and they enjoy it when guys are attracted to them and express there interest, so give her what she wants.

3) Make it a habit. No matter what, if you are completely inexperienced expressing your interest in women it is going to take a little while before you start feeling comfortable with it. The easiest way to get comfortable with it is to make it a habit so that expressing interest is just something that you just naturally do without even thinking about it. I recently was reading about how to create new habits for yourself and there has actually been some very interesting research done on this subject. As it turns out if you just do something every day for 21 straight days it will become a habit and you will feel natural doing it. So if this is a sticking point for you, make a pledge to express your interest in every girl you meet that you are attracted to for the next 21 days. By the end of three weeks I guarantee that you will feel quite at ease. Just don’t try to add any other new “habits” during this 21 day stretch as that can be too much for your brain to process.

How to express interest so that it will be well received:

1) Don’t seem TOO eager. Just because you are interested in a woman, doesn’t mean that you should get all up her ass. Women know that the cool guys that they want to date have a lot of other option and are therefore not needy for attention. So when you meet a girl you like, play it cool. Give her a little more eye-contact than you would with somebody you weren’t interested in and then back off a bit… Give her a cocky smirk, and back off… Give her some flirty talk, and back off etc… This way you let her know that it’s on without overdoing it.

2) Use humor to take the edge off. As you get more and more experienced with women you will start to have more of a sense of humor about things, and this is very important. After all, why does the dating/getting physical process have to be so serious anyway? One of the biggest turnoffs for women is when a guy is up tight and serious about dating and relationships, that’s just no fun for anybody. So when you are meeting new women and expressing your interest in them be sure to do so in a light hearted fun way, joke around with her and show her you fun side.

3) Keep things moving forward. Another point to keep in mind is that you always need be moving things in the right direction with a woman you are interested in dating. If you just flirt with her a little and then stop, or if you just keep your flirting very surface level it’s not ever going to go anywhere. Instead, you need to keep ratching thing up. Once you’ve talked for a bit, ask her on a date. Once you are on a date start getting physical and so on so that she knows you are a guy who can make it happen.

I hope you have enjoyed this series on the friend zone and that you take this advice to get out of it and stay out of it permanently. The “FZ” is a plague for millions of men around the globe but by taking initiative you can keep yourself from falling victim.

Again one of the best resources I’ve seen is this Sexualized Flirting system that shows you how to communicate so that women know you are boyfriend or hook up material, not friend zone material. You can watch the video here.

Hey, welcome back to my series on the friends zone. If you missed part 1 of this article you can read it here. Okay, so in the last installment we covered why guys get stuck in the friends zone in the first place. Now, let’s look at how to get yourself out.

This is something that guys make more complicated than it needs to be, because they don’t want to face facts. Instead they would rather stay in their little “safety zones” where they can just hang around the chick that they have a crush on platonically, and dream about their relationship somehow morphing into something more.

I’m not blaming guys for doing this, I’ve done it too. But it’s a problem that needs to be addressed… So what do ya do?

First: DO NOT TELL HER YOU LOVE HER!!!

Hopefully you haven’t already done this and made some grand romantic gesture/announcement of your feelings. This is never a good idea. Even if she did like you back, this would make her feel very uncomfortable. Making a big show of telling her that you like her will just force her to make a decision, and if you are reading this… I hate to break it to you, but she most likely is NOT interested in dating you… yet.

Plus, she already knows that you like her. Yeah, she does. Women can tell. You aren’t fooling anybody.

Here’s what you do instead…

First, you need to see if she is down to be more than friends. Like I said, she already knows that you like her, but there are a couple plausible explanations for why things have not yet gone to the next level yet. Either she is shy herself, or she is just not attracted to you.

There are a couple of ways to determine this… The easiest is just to look back and see if there were any obvious signs that she was giving you that she isn’t attracted. For instance, does she:

• Call you up for long “gab sessions” on the phone, or take you shopping with her?
• Talk about other guys that she is dating?
• Tell you that she is so glad that you are ‘friends” or how you are just like  a ‘brother”?
• Ask you why she can’t meet a cool guy, or tell you that you’ll make some other girl very happy.

If a girl is doing any of these she sees you purely as a friend and is making it clear that she wants things to stay that way. But. if she isn’t doing these things then there is still a chance that she’ll be down with dating/hooking up with you.

If you think that there may be a chance, get her to hang out with you alone just the two of you in a situation where things could potentially get sexual. For instance you might want to invite her to your place or go out to a quiet romantic bar. Then you flirt with her, gaze into her eyes, hold her hand, stroke her hair, etc… This should get you your answer one way or the other.

Obviously if she responds well you are all good. If she responds poorly, of it you realized that she has been sending you signs that she is not interested then do this:

1. Stop hanging around her for a while – hanging around a girl you like who doesn’t like you back is pathetic and masochistic. Don’t do that to yourself! You deserve to hang around with women who do like you, and not to mention the fact that this is ESSENTIAL if you want to get her to see you as more than a friend. The fact is, a woman cannot respect a man who is willing to follow her around like a  sad puppy, and she won’t date a guy she doesn’t respect as a man.
2. Date other women and let her find out – Women are naturally attracted to men who other women are attracted to. Some call it pre-selection, others call it social proof, but it’s a fact of life. When she finds out that her old friend (you) is dating other women, perhaps other women that she knows she will begin to look at you differently. If you are thinking that dating other women is hard, then that is a separate issue that you need to address, but the fact is that it’s not as hard as you think. This video has some good ideas to get you going in the right direction.
3. Give yourself a makeover – It may sound girly, but this can help a lot. The fact is that your “friend” got used to you looking a certain way… A way that didn’t really do it for her. Looks aren’t everything, but if your look had made her hot she probably would’ve hooked up with you, since you were already friendly, right? See the logic here? So since you are already taking a break from hanging around with her you should take the opportunity to improve your look via tanning, gym, new clothes, better haircut etc… I’d say that there is probably a 99.9% chance that you weren’t doing all that you could up until now to look good.
4. Treat her different – when you finally do see your female “friend” again after your break from her, don’t go back to doing what you used to do when you were in the friend zone with her. After all, it didn’t work out too well the first time around now did it? Instead, quit being so “nice”. It’s okay to tease her, flirt with her, and even compliment her, but if you are going to say nice things make sure to do it with a good dose of sexuality mixed into it. Basically let her know that you are not that guy who is going to be her gal-pal. You are not a pathetic chump who will hang around a chick he likes platonically because you have better things to do with your time, like dating other women… You are looking good and you are rolling with other chicks. But – if she wants to smarten up and get with the program then you’ll give her another shot. That’s the mentality that you need to have.

In the end, she may or may not change her mind about you, and it may take a little while. But, this is really all that you can do. There’s no magic bullet, magic pill or anything magic that you can do to get out of the friends zone with a girl. But if you follow these 4 steps then at least you can feel good about the fact that you gave it your best shot and you did all that you could.

Here’s Part III where I discuss the moves that you need to take when you first meet a girl, to ensure that you don’t get stuck in the friends zone with her.

You might also enjoy this post I wrote about flirting with girls.

Hello – and welcome to the first of a multi-part series of posts I’ll be presenting here on the dreaded “Friends Zone”. In today’s post I’ll be discussing the reasons men get stuck in the friend zone in the first place, and how this can be avoided in the future…

There is no disagreement that the friends zone sucks and is not the place that you you want to be. So – you would think that guys would do everything in their power to avoid ever falling into the friends zone again, right?

Well, unfortunately this is not the case. You see, even with all of the articles that have been written out there, a lot of guys still haven’t gotten the word about how much the friend zone stinks or the fact that they need to take proactive measures to steer clear. And, as a result there are still millions of guys out there getting caught up in the friends zone every damn day – Hence the need for this article.

So What Exactly Is the Friend Zone?

I’ll keep this brief, because you probably already know… The “Friends Zone” or “Just Friends Zone” is when you like a girl but rather than dating her and hooking up with her as you would like to, you are simply her friend.

There are two basic types of friend-zone situations. In the first, you have expressed your interest in a woman, but she has said that she thinks that you should “just be friends”… This is sometimes referred to as the LJBFs speech “…let’s just be friends”

The other type of friend zone that you can get into with a woman is when you are friends with a woman, but you are unable to summon the balls required to express your interest in her. This often happens to “nice guys” who really like the girl and are scared of getting rejected by her, so rather than going for what they really want they just hang out with her and pretend that they are cool with being “friends”.

The problem here is obvious… hanging around a chick that you have got the hots for but aren’t getting with, is frustrating as hell.

However, for guys who don’t have many dating options hanging around with a cute girl who is “nice” to them seems like it beats sitting around the house alone, so guys get sucked in.

How Do Guys Allow This to Happen?

Personally, I’ve never gotten into the friends zone even once, because I’m not a masochist!

But I’ve seen it happen to tons of friends of mine, guys I know, and I’ve dated plenty of girls who had “guy friends” that they had been keeping in the friend zone for years… Man, did those dudes ever hate me

That being said though, I have a lot of empathy for guys that have gotten stuck in the friend zone and I have talked a number of my friends through the process of getting out of this situation… (and in some cases even getting to date the girls they were formerly “friends” with) So – I feel that this is a topic that i know pretty damn intimately.

Here’s the big misconception about the friends zone… Guys think that girls “put them in the friends zone” – False!

Guy’s put THEMSELVES in the friends zone by acting passive.

I know that might be a tough pill to swallow, but that’s the way it is and the sooner that you can accept that reality the sooner that you’ll be able to start living in a world where this damn zone doesn’t even exist for you anymore!

HOW – do guys put themselves in the friends zone?

Simple, like I said it’s a result of being passive. If you are talking to a girl, making friends with her etc… You need to be flirting with her and showing interest. If you don’t she won’t think that you are the kind of guy who has any experience with women… She’ll see you as a passive – beta type of guy who she can get attention from but not as the kind of guy that she would ever want to go to bed with.

So, if you don’t flirt or express your interest right away chances are that you are going to wind up in the friend zone, even if you do decide to “make a move” later on.

If you wait too long she’ll classify you as “undatable” and “undoable” and she’ll start sending you some strong signals that she just sees you as a friend… Signals like: saying “you’re just like a big brother to me” or telling you that you are “sweet” or “cute” … These might seem like they would be good things, but trust me they are not.

Once you get to this point you can pretty much guarantee that you’ll get the “let’s just be friends” speech if you decide to start letting her know your true intentions and desires.

To get on the fast track to getting out of the friends zone watch this new video (just be sure not to watch it when any girls are around!)

Here’s the second installment of this series where I talk about what to do if you are already in the friends zone to get out and turn your female friend into something more… The “Friends Zone” Part II

We all know how important it is to be confident with women, right? Most people agree that this is the #1 thing that attracts women… The trouble –  just how does a guy become confident?  Well, that’s the question Adam Gilad is attempting to answer in his new “Instant Confidence with Women” program.

In this Instant Confidence with women review I’m gonna take a look at what you get with Adam’s program, pros and cons, how this program is different, and give you my official verdict on it.

What you get with Instant Confidence with Women:

The basic selling point of this program is that it will help you to become confident, but it is different than a lot of the other “become confident with women” programs because it doesn’t require you to get all “alpha”… The focus on alpha-ness in other programs has always been a turn off for me because not every guy can be the big bad alpha man.

Nor does every guy want to be that guy, I certainly don’t, and I don’t think that it’s necessary.

What the Instant Confidence program teaches you is how to feel sure of yourself with women without needing to make any drastic changes or play any fake roles… that’s refreshing.

The product comes as

• The Instant Confidence Training Manual – Explains in detail the 4 foundations Adam teaches for becoming confident with women… Confident mindset, Confident Conversation Skills, Confident Body Language, Confident Social Authority, and gives you practical applications for all this stuff.
• The Instant Confidence Audio Book – Which is an audio version, which I prefer…
• Interviews With 6 Leading Experts On Confidence – Jon Sinn teaches his 4 step seduction roadmap, David Wygant’s Confident Phone Game Blueprint, Dr. Robert Glover the famous “No More Mr. Nice Guy” guy on how to end shy and hesitant behavior, And Carlos Xuma on how to turn on women by having a bit of an “edge” while maintaining your true identity, John Romaniello teaches body-sculpting (this dude is good for the fitness stuff), David Shade on getting her to release her “naughty girl” side.

Pros and Cons:

Pros:

• I think the thing that I really liked best is the fact that this is a program for men, not highschool boys who want to be big time “playaz”… I review a lot of PUA guides, and I get so sick of all the same old Mystery Method crap over and over again. Dudes need to grow up. Instant Confidence on the other hand teaches you real stuff that you can apply and feel good about… I guess what I’m trying to say here is that what Adam teaches sounds authentic, and you feel authentic applying it.
• The part on getting rid of your “confidence killers” is pure genius.
• I like Adam’s body language and “body confidence” stuff. He has a whole series of body language practices, and I’ve had a lot of success with it myself and I think that this alone can do a lot to help guys feel and apppear more confident.
• The conversation stuff is good. Obviously this is an important part of attracting women, and Adam’s techniques are different than what the “PUA community” teaches.

Cons:

• What’s bad… There’s nothing I really disliked about this program. However, the name may be slightly misleading if you think that if you get the program that you are going to “instantly” become confident… But, commonsense should tell you that anyway. Becoming a man who is confident with women is one of the most important things that you can do in your life, so it makes sense that it should take you a while to fully develop in this area.

My Verdict…

I agree with Adam that confidence is the key thing when it comes to attracting women. If you aren’t confident then it doesn’t matter if you are good looking, rich etc… women STILL won’t want to date you… So I’d advise you to do everything that you can to become more confident.

To that end, I think any guy who is looking to become more confident with women should get Adam’s program. I’d also advise you to go through all the material at least twice, I find that’s the best way to get the most out of these sorts of home study courses…

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A lot of guys like to think that they have their girlfriends on “lock down” because they have been with them for quite a while and the relationship seems to be going okay. But the truth is that even the most devoted girlfriend cannot be neglected for too long before she starts getting fed up and considering her options.

That’s why I decide to write up this blogpost, to share some tips on how to keep your girlfriend attracted to you so you don’t end up as one of those unfortunate dudes who gets blindsided when his girlfriend kicks him to the curb!

If you love your girlfriend then you probably want to keep her around for a long time, right?

Well that’s a great plan, but you need to pay attention to what you are doing in your relationship so that she doesn’t start taking you for granted, resenting you, or anything like that. So, without further ado, here are my 3 top tips for how to keep your girlfriend attracted to you:

1) Keep Your Girlfriend Happy By Showing Her How Much You Like Her…

If you are like most guys you probably got really excited when you first started dating your girlfriend, and you probably used to tell her how much you liked her, and how hot she looked all the time… The mistake guys often have is that they get so used to having their girlfriend around that they start taking her for granted.

She still looks as good as ever, but your been looking at her in lingerie for so long that some of that initial thrill has worn off… That’s life. However, you need to keep sweet talking her so that she feels appreciated.

It is very depressing for a woman to think that her man is losing interest in her and it can serious effect her self esteem and make her very unhappy.

A few easy ways to show your girl how much you like her are to:

• Take her out once a week for a “date night”… a nice dinner, a play, a movie or any place that she will enjoy.

• Pay attention to how she looks. Did she get a haircut? Tell her she looks good as hell, has she been working out? Tell her that her buns and firm and smackable… ect…

• Don’t let your intimate encounters get boring. After months or years with the same partner things often get quite routine, but you don’t need to let that happen grab a guide to bedroom fun and try out some new moves so that you can keep introducing your lady to new and exciting experiences…

 2) Don’t Let Yourself Go…

Both men and women have a tendency to let themselves go a bit when they are in a happy relationship. After all you aren’t so concerned about having that sixpack of abs when you already have yourself a girlfriend. However, if you stop putting effort into your appearance and the way that your present yourself this can have a negative effect on your relationship.

Even though your girlfriend may accept the fact that you have gotten fat and dress like a slob, doesn’t mean that she likes it. Just like you want your girl to keep looking good, she also wishes that you would keep up on yourself so that she feels proud to be seen with you. So get back in the gym, take a shower, and get yourself new clothes every once in a while like you did when you were going out on the prowl.

3) Use Romantic Texting To Keep Her Thinking About You

If you are like most people you probably work in a job that keeps you away from your girlfriend for 8 to 12 hours or more every day. That is long time to go without checking in, and if you go too long without having any face time it’s easy to drift apart.

Heck, she might even get distracted by some handsome new hunk at her office… wouldn’t that be a bummer.

So it’s important to check in with your woman periodically to let her know you care and to remind her of what an awesome dude you are. My favorite way to do this is to send her romantic texts, dirty texts, sweet texts etc… throughout the day like the one’s discussed in This program by Mike Fiore… This is a great and underutilized technique, that can really make a big difference in your relationship.

A lot of people act like once they get a girlfriend they’ve done all of the work that they need to do and that now they can just kick back, and ignore their girlfriends… But this is a dangerous attitude, not to mention that it’s really unfair to your girl…

Look at it this way, if she’s worth keeping as a girlfriend then she is worth keeping happy. So follow these tips and she’ll stay attracted forever!

For more on using romantic texting to keep her hot for you,  watch this FREE VIDEO PRESENTATION

It’s good stuff

Mike will help you text 'em back...

Since writing my original review of Michael Fiore’s program last year it has gone on to become one of the most popular “EX BACK” programs of all time. So I wanted to jump on here today with some updates…

As previously discussed, after reviewing Mike’s program it is my opinion that texting really is your best choice as a way to reconnect with an ex after a break-up. After all, what are your other choices?

• Calling your ex up on the telephone…
• Emailing your ex or contacting them through Facebook…
• Contacting your ex in person ie. showing up at places where you know that they will be…
• Sending flowers, chocolates, telegrams etc…

When you really think about it, texting beats the heck out of these other options.

Emailing your ex might be okay, but the last thing that you want to do is to air your dirty laundry on Facebook, or put yourself in a situation where you could become emotional and ruin any chance for a reconciliation (calling on the phone).

And showing up in person or sending a gift just makes you look really needy and desperate and it is guaranteed to push your ex farther away from you, rather than pulling them back.

Texting is perfect because it is super low pressure and it allows you to just sort of inject yourself right back into your ex’s mind just the way that you want to.

However, the question soon becomes:

How Should You Go About Texting Your Ex?

I always thought that texting an ex was a bad idea if you wanted to get back together with them. The reason being that you might potentially send a text that sends the wrong message to your ex and it ends up making your situation a lot worse rather than making it better.

Unless you are somebody who has already been dumped and successfully texted your ex back already, then chances are that you don’t have a very tight game plan for getting this done. Essentially you are going to be grasping at straws…

This is why Michael Fiore created his Text Your Ex Back system. To give people a step by step map for getting back with their exes no matter how bleak the situation might seem at the moment.

The Truth About Michael’s Text Your Ex Back Program…

Since Mike’s system has become so popular many people who read my review have contacted ME asking if this is some kind of a scam, or whether I think that this system could  help them in their particular situations.

In fact I even get a number of emails from people wanting help with customer service and technical support with Michael’s programs…

(This is pretty funny to me because the program couldn’t be easier to access… But hey, I guess if you never bought anything online before you could get confused. But that being said, ALL support issues can be directed to –> Michael’s Text The Romance Back website)

But, back to the question at hand…  What exactly are my feelings about this program?

Well…

In a lot of cases I think that people are actually better off moving on and not messing around trying to save a relationship that wasn’t even that good in the first place.

But, that said, if you want your ex back then Text Your Ex Back is the ONLY program I recommend for accomplishing this.

Michael is the world’s leading expert on “relationship texting” and he is a perfectionist in that he won’t put his name on a program or make it available unless he stands behind it… He spent years putting this course together and it is by all accounts very effective…

Another cool thing is the fact that Michael updates all his programs regularly like he has done with his Text The Romance Back 2.0 program…

Several other “Ex Back” programs have come out since Michael released this, but don’t waste your time. Start with the best.

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I’ve had a lot of requests to do a review of Mehow’s NSA System, and I’ve finally gotten around to it! So if you are a guy who has been looking for info on dating a whole lot of women at once pay attention to this Mehow NSA System review and learn how to keep a happy harem with no strings attached!

A Little Background on Mehow The PUA…

I’ve got to admit that when I first heard of Mehow I was pretty skeptical about him. I didn’t understand his name and looking at him I really had a hard time believing that he was all that successful with women…

Not to dis him, but he is just kind of an average looking dude, I think he’s balding a little, he dresses kind of unusual, and he doesn’t look like he’s got any muscle on him.

But, as we all hopefully know by now, these things don’t matter all that much when you have game, and Mehow is a guy who has proven his abilities. In fact Mehow was one of the first PUAs to start recording himself live, in the field working his game. Personally, I LOVE seeing this kind of live footage because not only is it a great way to learn, but it also gives you faith that your teacher knows what he’s talking about.

Anyhow, the story is that Mehow was a computer guy before he got into the PUA stuff. He was married, and after his divorce he started rolling with Mystery and Lovedrop before starting his own company a few years back.

My Review Of Mehow’s NSA System

Mehow has done a lot of live coaching and seminars over the years as well as releasing a few products along the way. I guess that I always kind of thought that it was just a variation on Mystery’s stuff, which isn’t my favorite… So I overlooked Mehow until I started hearing about this No-Strings-Attached or NSA System of his.

This caught my attention because it is something that no other PUA or dating coach has really gone in-depth with. Plus, I know first hand that juggling multiple girls can take some doing, so I was interested to hear what Mehow had to say on this subject.

However, as I learned Mehow’s NSA System actually covers a lot more than just how to manage relationships with multiple women.

In fact this program brings you through all the steps, from approaching women, through conversation, to getting the girl you want to be your girlfriend, and then on to having multiple girlfriends and some really advanced stuff.

I’ll get into what I did and didn’t like about the program in the pros and cons below, but just to give you an idea of what you get here… It’s an audio/video program divided up into different modules that take you through these steps.

One thing that makes this pretty unique is the fact that it includes a lot of real examples of Mehow talking to girls so that you can see him putting his teachings into action so that you can really wrap your head around WHY his stuff works.

NSA System Pros & Cons

PROS:

• It’s a very complete program. I was happy to see that the NSA system goes into a lot of detail on how to attract women in the first place. In fact the first few modules are all about this. Also, this is definitely NOT Mystery’s stuff. I like Mehow’s stuff way better.

• Solid relationship management advice. I was also surprised at want sensible relationship advice Mehow gives in this program. It’s info that I think would be really valuable even if you just wanted one girlfriend. He goes really deep into how to get a girl even when their are complex social dynamics at play and it’s not exactly smooth sailing, and then how to keep it all good so that she wants to stay with you. He even has some great info on how to get things back on the right foot when they take a turn for the worse (this combined with the text your ex back program could probably save any relationship)

• Best in show for having multiple no strings attached relationships. Dude has outdone himself with the module on no strings attached relationships. As you know if you’ve tried this, it can be tough, women are emotional creatures, and nobody wants to hurt anybody’s feelings. Mehow get’s props for helping guys navigate these tricky situations

CONS:

• I think that when a lot of guys think about dating several women they imagine that they will be getting it on with like four girls at the same time and doing all kinds of crazy stuff like that. However the truth is that most women are just not down for that type of shenanigans… So while it’s a good program don’t think that it’s gonna bend the laws of the universe and make twins want to sleep with you at the same time or anything like that.

The Verdict On The NSA System:

If you are going to be dating more than one woman at a time or if you aspire to, this NSA system is the go to guide on the subject. Mehow has proven himself as a guy who really understands female psychology and has figured out how to have a lifestyle that is full of women and short on drama.

So if that’s what you want the price is right on this one…

>>> Click Here For Mehow’s Official Website <<<

Happy April Fools Day yo,

Today I wanted talk more about picking up girls during the daytime. After all, spring is here, the winter coats are coming off, and it’s officially daygame season. In my Daygame Blueprint review I talked about Andy Yosha and Yad, a couple of guys who love meeting women during the day that they ceated a whole company based on teaching “daygame”…

Andy Yosha and Yad are pretty much the top daygame PUAs out there teaching this stuff. A lot of PUAs dabble in daytime pick up, but these guys are strictly teaching daygame pick up skills. In fact I heard andy Yosha quoted as saying that he doesn’t even try to pick up women at clubs because he just isn’t as comfortable in that environment…

This first video shows Andy Yosha and Yad chillin’ out in London and approaching women on the streets. I’ve never been to London, but I’ve got to say that DAMN, these chicks look good as hell! (If you are in a hurry check the second video down where Yad is sucking face with this cute European babe!)

I’ve got to admit something here… when I first took a look at these dudes I thought to myself NO WAY! No way that these dudes are pulling fine looking women on the streets… Okay, maybe Andy could, dude looks like a little swash-buckling pirate or something with that blonde ponytail.

But Yad? No offense but the dude reminded me of the guy Germaine from the Flight of The Corchords… But y’know what, the guy has MAD GAME! I know a lot of “slicker” looking guys who could never pull of the stuff that Yad does over and over and over again with sincerely attractive women – on film.

There are actually a lot of English guys like this who have surprising game. These guys have a couple other dudes in their company who also look like they would get passed over by women. They aren’t exactly what you might think of as “alpha” – but when they are in action, they rock it.

Below is an excellent example of Yad in action. Dude voraciously snacks on her face!

So this goes to show, you don’t need to look like a male model to walk up to a girl, start a conversation, get her number and make out with her.

I agree with what Yad says in the first video where he talks about how it’s all about having the right vibe and energy when you are talking to a girl that you approach on the street. If the vibe is right and you can get her to stop what she’s doing and talk to you it is really pretty easy to get the number, the insta-date, or even the kiss.

One of the most important things that I have learned about approaching women is that every woman secretly wants to live out a romantic comedy.

Whether she admits it or not, she’s seen the chick flicks and her ultimate fantasy is to have a man approach her during the day time as she goes about her business, and just sweep her off her feet.

These guys have created a whole system around this called the Daygame Blueprint. I’ve watched the whole program and I’ve got to say it’s the best and most comprehensive daygame pickup training program I’ve seen. You can read my full review here. Or click the link below to see it for yourself:

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Nothing beats a great girlfriend!

Today I wanted to provide you guys with a step by step guide for how to get a girl to be your girlfriend.

So, if there is a young lady that you’ve had your eye on for a while pay attention here…

How frustrating is it to have a crush on a girl but not know what you need to do get her as your girlfriend?

Every time you see her you get a wave of nervous excitement hoping that maybe you’ll be able to pull it off and get somewhere with her…

Unfortunately, this wave of excitement is often followed by a crash of disappointment when you fail to get her number or move things forward with her in any way…

This is a cycle that many men unfortunately go through over and over again. Because they just don’t know what to do…

But at some point you have got to break the cycle.

Step By Step Instructions For Getting A Girl To Be Your Girlfriend

Step #1 Evaluate The Situation

The first and most crucial step to getting a woman to be your girlfriend is figuring out if it is really even worth the effort.

This is is a tough on for a lot of guys to deal with, because when you like a girl a lot it seems like you should obviously try to get her to be your girlfriend… However in many cases it is just a waste of time because your chances of actually converting her into your girlfriend are basically zero.

For instance, I know this one guy named Dan who is completely obsessed with his friend’s daughter. The guy is like 48 years old, out of shape, unattractive, and he has crummy social skills. The girl is 20, fit and attractive with an active social life.

This guy is set on making this girl into his girlfriend and has wasted about a year of his life obsessing over her. He doesn’t stand a chance and she has even gotten a restraining order against him.

No doubt this is an extreme example, but it proves the point. There are some situations where you are just wasting your time trying to get a girl to be your girlfriend.

Yes you can try, but don’t be like Dan, move on to a woman that you actually have a chance with.

Step #2 Initiate Contact

If you haven’t already, the first step to making her your girlfriend is to open up the lines of communication. If the girl you like is already a friend or acquaintance then obviously you are already talking to her, so you can skip ahead. But, if the girl you like is somebody you have been admiring from afar you need to initiate contact smoothly to get things off on the right foot.

In most cases your best bet is to initiate a conversation casually to eliminate any possibility of getting “blown out”… When you are out at a bar you may opt to approach a girl more assertively to let her know that you mean business, and there definitely is a time and place for that approach… But when you are trying to get things going with a girl that you really think is special you are going to want to be more careful.

An easy way to start a casual conversation is to use an observational opener. So if the girl you like is a chick you noticed working at the flower shop you could roll in there and start talking to her about some of the far out plants that they sell.

Step #3 Get Her Attracted To You

Once you have a conversation going with your chosen female the next step is figuring out how to get her attracted to you. After all you can’t just keep having a boring conversation with her about plants or what not.

Small talk is important, but you can’t get stuck there for too long because that will never get you anywhere but the “friends zone”.

This happens to guys all the time… A dude will meet a girl and start a convo, and the girl keeps answering all of their questions and they find out that they have a ton in common. The guy gets all excited because he thinks “oh boy she must like me because she been talking to me for an hour and a half and we like all the same bands!”

But really, just getting a girl to talk to you for a long time and having a lot in common with her does not guarantee that she will feel any attraction whatsoever.

On the contrary, this kind of talk just gets you lumped into the same category as all of the other guys she has had a great time talking to, but who she never considered a potential mate.

So how do you get her attracted to you?

Obviously this is an important and complex topic, but at the end of the day it comes down to being the kind of man that women want. A fun, masculine, secure guy who knows how to show her a good time, and make her feel good.

You might want to check out this post I did on body language to attract women or this one on flirting with girls for more info on this.

Step #4 Get Her Out On A Date

Before a girl can become your girlfriend you need to spend some time with her alone to really get to know each other.

If you are in college you might not need to go on an official date before a girl becomes your girlfriend as you might just end up spending time together at parties and get-togethers… But even so, it is important to get alone time with her so that you can vibe with her without being distracted by others.

So a “date” doesn’t necessarily have to be a traditional dinner date or anything like that. It could be anything from going to get a fast food taco, to meeting up for a drink, to meeting up to walk your dogs together.

Personally though my recommendation is that you meet up for a drink because it is very low-pressure sounding and it won’t cost you an arm and a leg.

Getting a girl on a date isn’t hard either. All you need to do is ask for her number, and then call her up to make plans.

I recommend asking for her number after just 5 or 10 minutes or so of talking to her so that she understands that you want to date her in short order. There is nothing worse than waiting to long and catching a woman off guard when you finally decide to show interest.

If the girl you want as your girlfriend is somebody that you already socialize with, don’t worry that you have waited so long to get her number, just get it as soon as you can and start showing her that you are interested.

Of course there will be situations where you get into a conversation with the girl you like and you both have plenty of time to hang-out. In these situations it obviously makes more sense to just go hang out with her then and there rather than getting her number and putting things off until later.

Step #5 Take Things Slow

Once you have gotten a date lined up with your chosen girl remember not to get overly excited and rush things. As the famous Chinese sage Lao Tzu said “Nature does not hurry, yet everything is accomplished” … 

Often times guys mess things up with women who are totally attracted to them because they try to force the situation and make things happen too fast.

Instead, chill my brother.

There is no rush. and the cool thing is that women will pick up on the fact that you are all cool and calm and discern that you are a desirable guy who has options and who has a lot of experience with women.

And taking things slow applies to many things here… It means not being in a rush to “score”, not being in a rush to start seeing her all the time, and most certainly not being in a rush to get her as your official girlfriend.

Women want to date guys who have got it going on and true macks are never in a rush because they just don’t need to be.

Step #6 Discuss Dating Exclusively

My definition of a “girlfriend” is somebody that you date exclusively, and before that can happen you and your chick have got to discuss dating exclusively and agree that this is something that you both want to do.

So how do you ask a girl to be your girlfriend?

99.9% of the time you are going to want to wait for the girl to bring up this subject. The reason is that you don’t want her to feel like you are pressuring her into something that she isn’t ready for.

I can’t tell you how many times I’ve seen guy get all excited because they asked some girl to be their girlfriend and then the girl ends up dumping them a week later because she feels smothered.

Don’t let this happen to you!

Women know that desirable guys like their freedom, so by bringing this up yourself you are basically telling her that you have no other options and that you are a desperate dude.

What you should do instead is to just focus on being the funnest, coolest guy that you can be. Make her love you and show her a great time, and then before you know it she’ll be asking you if you would consider going exclusive with her…

And then she’s all yours!

… Few things if any in life can compare to a great girlfriend who you love. I’ve had some good ones, some bad ones, and some downright crazy ones LOL!

And the truth is that even after you get a girlfriend there are still a lot of things that you need to do to keep things going well. For instance, girlfriends can get quite needy, and it can be difficult to deal with a girlfriend who gets jealous and doesn’t want you to chill with you boys anymore.

A lot of guys who are inexperienced in the relationship arena can fall victim to controlling women who can really do a number on them. So remember, as great as she may seem and as bad as you may want her as your girlfriend never let her   run your life or you’ll end up miserable.

I hope that you found this overview of how to get a girl to be your girlfriend helpful…

For more information on how to get yourself your dream girlfriend check out this cool new video from top dating expert and master pick up artist Jon Sinn. It’s the best resource I’ve found on the subject.

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What does she see in him...?

Today I wanted to talk about something fundamental to your success with women and discuss how to get a girl to like you… Because let’s be honest here, if girls generally dislike you, or they always say that they “just like you as a friend” your dating life is not going to be much fun at all.

It’s important, and it’s something that you should be focusing on.

So how do you do it?

Step #1 Of How To Get A Girl to Like You – Fix Any Glaring Problems…

One of the most important things when set out to make yourself more attractive to women is that you fix any glaring problems that are turning women off. After all, women aren’t even going to have a chance to like you if you scare them away immediately.

The problem is that most guys are unaware of the things that they are doing that are keeping the women away… and a lot of times other people won’t tell you what these problems are because they don’t want to be rude or hurt your feelings.

So there are a couple things you can do here:

First find somebody who can give you honest feedback. If you have any attractive female friends, or really any females at all ask them what you can improve upon.

A lot of times these girls will say stupid stuff like “you are fine just the way that you are…” But don’t let them pull that junk. Tell them that you are a man and that you can take it!

It can actually be kind of a blessing to have a friend who is willing to tear you apart and tell you everything that is wrong with you, you’ve just got to grow a pair and not get all butt hurt when you get some helpful criticism…

Second, be proactive, for example:

• If you think that there is even a CHANCE that you have bad breath then start chewing gum.
• If you think you might be getting a little fat, hit the gym.
• If you think you wardrobe is dating, buy some new clothes… 

Step #2 Get A Girl To Like You By Being A Social Guy

One of the quickest ways to get women to like you is to be a guy who EVERYBODY LIKES. So it’s important to develop sharp social skills and learn how to interact effectively with everybody you meet.

Think about it from a girl’s point of view, why would she want to date a guy who doesn’t have friends or who is uncomfortable socially? A guy like that would be a nightmare to date because he would just cause one awkward situation after another.

A lot of guys don’t want to hear this one, because it takes work. But that’s just the way it is… If want quality women in your life then you’ve got to develop yourself into the kind of man that women want to be with.

If you are a socially awkward dude then this isn’t going to happen for you overnight, but if you choose to develop this side of yourself their is no reason why you can’t become a real social badass.

Get started by being more open to all the people that you come into contact with, and I mean everybody. Just talk to people. When you go into the coffeeshop in the morning talk to the dude behind the counter. Say, “yo what’s up man, what’s going on? How’s the coffee today? Where are the chicks at? How about those Yankees’s?”

Get it? Small talk… Chat people up.

If you are a shy guy, start slow by talking to people that you don’t find intimidating and then gradually pushing your boundaries.

This way you’ll slowly find yourself more and more comfortable talking to anyone, and people will naturally gravitate towards you because they will see that you are a social guy.

You should also make an effort to spend more time with the friends that you already have. Chances are you have at least one friend that you could call up and hang out with, right?

So instead of just staying in, meet up with a buddy and see if he has any other friends that he can invite to hang out. Then, make friends with those people, and then meet their friends and so on.

before you know it you’ll be walking into the party and like ten dudes will all be giving you pounds – trust me women notice this kind of thing and it is very attractive to them.

Step #3 Stop Using Approval Seeking Behavior To Get Girls To Like You…

It’s ironic, but trying to “get girls to like you” can actually be counter productive.

You see, what most guys do is they engage in these “approval seeking behaviors” that actually make women reject men. These behaviors usually take the form of trying to impress a girl, or agreeing with her about everything and basically just kissing her butt.

These types of behaviors are obvious to women and they make you look like a weak manipulating loser.

You see, women like guys who are already winning at life and have a lot of options of different girls that they can date. And guys like this don’t need to resort to these kinds of punk tactics.

Also, the fact is that a girl doesn’t necessarily need to “like you” on a logical level to feel attraction. So trying to impress her or show her that you are a “nice guy” that she has a lot in common with just flat out won’t work.

Step #4 Get Her to Like You By Acting Confident 

Everybody knows that women like confident men.

The trouble is that guys will often get confused about how to be confident and the get hung up on trying to develop this “rock-solid inner-game” before they go out and talk to women.

Don’t get me wrong, this inner game stuff IS important, but don’t let your lack of “real confidence” stop you from macking on girls.

The truth is that women can’t tell if your confidence is real or fake, so you need to go out there and act confident no matter what.

This means not sitting around not making a move because you don’t know if it’s the right time to kiss a girl or not.

And nothing will build your confidence faster than getting out there and having some real success.

Step #5 Learn To Flirt And Talk To Girls

Flirting and talking to girls are two subjects I emphasize very strongly. At the end of the day if you can’t talk to a chick, you aren’t gonna be dating her and that’s all that there is to it.

Even if you go through all of the other steps, if you can’t flirt and talk you’re done son.

So I’ll highly recommend really studying how to talk to girls so that you can really master this skill. It will be time well spent.

The key is in learning how to have conversations that make a woman feel emotions. Conversation that are way more fun and exciting than the conversations that she has been having with the other twenty guys that she has in “orbit” trying to get her to like them.

If this is a subject you are interested in I recently wrote a review of Bobby Rio’s Conversation Escalation program that goes into a lot of detail on this…

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