English – How to attract women

The hotter the babe, the more unusual your approach needs to be

realmanindia — Wed, 14 Jan 2009 18:21:15 +0000

The hotter the babe, the more she has been approached, the more she is tired of lame pickup lines, the stronger the shield against casual approaches, the more the skill you’ll need, the less attached u have to become to the outcome, hence greater the need for unusual approaches.

In other words, if she is really hot, then casually walking up to her and saying “Hi” will not work as effectively as walking upto her and saying “You need to smile more, nobody will talk to you otherwise”.

Hotter the babe, riskier the approach.

Women notice you long before you approach

realmanindia — Tue, 13 Jan 2009 18:06:58 +0000

Women notice you long before you approach

If you wait before you approach, if you fidget and twitch, if you catch
her eye and look away, if you wait for the ‘right’ moment…you blew it!

Women notice you waaaaay before you actually approach.

Every girl wants a guy with the CONFIDENCE to approach her like a man.

If you HESITATE before approaching, she won’t be as attracted to you.

Try this : Practice approaching a girl as SOON as you see her, without hesitation.

Don’t worry about what to say. It can be something as simple as
“Hi, I saw you from over there, and I had to come talk to you. I’m Girish”.

Don’t wait, just approach.

This SIMPLE step will skyrocket your success with women.

The worst thing you can tell a woman

realmanindia — Mon, 12 Jan 2009 18:06:18 +0000

The worst thing you can tell a woman

TELLING a woman “I like you” is one of the WORST things you can
possibly do when you’re trying to attract her.

SHOW her that you like her by physically escalating.

Don’t TELL her that with words.

How to open a girl in a book store (tip # 118)

realmanindia — Fri, 09 Jan 2009 03:39:30 +0000

How to open a girl in a book store

Book stores are one of my favourite places to pickup girls.

Girls here are usually intelligent (they read!) and well-informed, so hanging out with her when she becomes my girlfriend, is not boring.

I walk up to cute girl browsing book and say…

Me (with hint of surprise): “What book are you reading?”

I turn the book a bit to see title/author and say with a shocked look…

Me : “I wrote that book!!!”

She’s usually shocked and speechless.

She : blah, blah…

Me (smiling): “Just kidding…you fell for that didn’t u? It’s so easy to fool you. *rolling my eyes* So tell me, what’s a good book to gift a friend who is learning Yoga?”

And you’re talking…

Replace ‘yoga’ with ‘cooking’ or ‘reiki’ or whatever book category the girl is at.

The paradox of attraction

realmanindia — Thu, 08 Jan 2009 02:40:33 +0000

When you stop kissing up to women, and start teasing them
without worrying about whether they like you, you will OFTEN hear things like “you’re so mean” and “stop it!” etc.

They get upset, and usually don’t know the reason why.

The REAL reason : Women get upset when they find they cannot CONTROL the situation.

This is a paradox…because women are usually feeling ATTRACTION for you while they’re saying things like “you’re so mean”.

How to talk to girls (Tip # 281)

realmanindia — Wed, 07 Jan 2009 04:16:26 +0000

One thing I like to do is interpret anything she says as if I’m
the sexual object that she’s fantasizing about.

She : “I’m feeling hot” (referring to the temperature)
Me: “All girls feel hot when they’re near me…*cool smile* look
I know I’m sexy and all that, but please control yourself.”

She (on sms) : “I luvd it” (referring to some email/joke/sms I sent)
Me (reply sms) : “LOVE?? Hulloooo we hv nt evn kissd, n u LOVE me
alrdy? Easy baby easy…”

She : “I was sleeping…” (or any sentence with the word ‘sleep’)
Me (interrupting) : “Helooooo we have barely met and you’re talking
about sleeping together already? God, why do women like me just for
my body, why cant they like me for my soul?”

When you’re calling her, the first thing you could say is
“Hey, thinking about me?”

The point is to make yourself appear like the PRIZE that all women
are chasing. Even if it sounds ridiculous in your mind, just do it,
feel it, express it…and women will play along.

If you’ve never talked like this to a woman, it might be a challenge
at first, but it gets easy with practice. And the best part of it is
that women LOVE it!

When approaching a woman don’t stare at her.

realmanindia — Tue, 06 Jan 2009 08:52:30 +0000

When approaching a woman to talk to her, don’t stare at her.

Even if she’s not looking at you directly, she can sense your stare.

Women find this creepy.

At the least, you’ll come off looking NEEDY.

Not good.

When I approach, I act as if I’m looking around for something and
am about to ask for directions.

Once you get to her, you definetely want to give her eye contact.
But BEFORE you get to her, look away for a bit.

Fear

realmanindia — Thu, 06 Nov 2008 13:28:31 +0000

Humans are probably the only species of animals who can feel afraid just by imagining things.

Have you ever seen an attractive woman that you wanted to meet, but were simply unable to go up and talk to here?

What stopped you?

Almost always, it’s FEAR.

Fear that it’ll upset her, or fear that she has a boyfriend or a husband, or fear that she will insult you in public, or fear that you won’t know what to say to her and she’ll think you’re an idiot.

Naturally such fear makes you totally ineffective.

So what’s the solution?

There are many ways to eliminate fear.

One way is to repeatedly do the VERY thing that is causing the fear. Once you do it and find that nothing bad happens, eventually you will train yourself not to be afraid of it.

If approaching and talking to women terrifies you, do that very thing. Go out and approach 50 women next week and and you’ll find most of them talk to you nicely.

Here are a few more methods to eliminate the fear of approaching and talking to women :

1. Understand the fundamentals of the male-female interactions BETTER than most women do.
2. Learn how to approach women the same way as guys who are good with this do
3. Imagine the worst possible scenario, and be ready for it

The most important investment a man could make

realmanindia — Wed, 05 Nov 2008 10:13:27 +0000

If a man does not have the ability to attract a woman, it can affect all aspects of his life.

It creates a peculiar kind of insecurity that can create setbacks in every sphere.

The truth is, whatever a man does for ‘financial success’ is related in some way or the other to attracting women.

But you know what?

No matter how much money a man makes, the insecurity does not go away.

Only one thing eliminates it : actually LEARNING how to attract a woman.

I know, because I have suffered through that insecurity.

I distinctly remember my mindset before I learnt how to attract women.

There is a big difference today.

My relationships have improved because I am no longer afraid that she will leave me, or that I will not find anybody else, and so on. Even when I’m single, I am content. No longer is that niggling fear that I will not find anybody.

Personally I believe, learning the ability to attract a woman is one of the most important investments a man could possibly make in his life.

In fact…it could be THE most important investment of his life.