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		<title>Comment on Dear Mr. Spammer: I have a comment policy now by alex - unleash reality</title>
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		<dc:creator>alex - unleash reality</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 08 Jul 2009 11:58:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>"Empty comments that pretend to be real comments are spam too, "
- made me smile. for a while :) 

you, your fellow spammers and your whole spamming clan. i know your type. you get together and plot your evil spammage, having meetings in tounges while you negotiate penis pill ads. i know your type you evil spammers you!! :P

"You steal something that’s simply too precious to me. Time and attention. You don’t deserve it, yet you get it. You con me into giving it to you, and in my book that’s stealing."
- like the way you worded "you con me into giving it to you" :)

real value = king. 

glorious :) 

keep well and in touch
alex - unleash reality</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;Empty comments that pretend to be real comments are spam too, &#8221;<br />
- made me smile. for a while <img src='http://blog.lodewijkvdb.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />  </p>
<p>you, your fellow spammers and your whole spamming clan. i know your type. you get together and plot your evil spammage, having meetings in tounges while you negotiate penis pill ads. i know your type you evil spammers you!! <img src='http://blog.lodewijkvdb.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_razz.gif' alt=':P' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>&#8220;You steal something that’s simply too precious to me. Time and attention. You don’t deserve it, yet you get it. You con me into giving it to you, and in my book that’s stealing.&#8221;<br />
- like the way you worded &#8220;you con me into giving it to you&#8221; <img src='http://blog.lodewijkvdb.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>real value = king. </p>
<p>glorious <img src='http://blog.lodewijkvdb.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />  </p>
<p>keep well and in touch<br />
alex &#8211; unleash reality</p>
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		<title>Comment on Dear Mr. Spammer: I have a comment policy now by Herbert</title>
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		<dc:creator>Herbert</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 06 Jul 2009 00:07:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Good on you! I'd had to deal with this before, and although I do feel a bit badly about it, I feel that some comments just aren't worth sharing (hopefully this one is, haha). A comment policy is great, to make sure that comments stay relevant. Furthermore, a policy for many other things -- like reviews -- can be useful to show interested companies what to expect.
.-= Herbert´s last blog ..&lt;a href="http://humanwriter.wordpress.com/2009/07/05/preventative-action-when-carelessness-is-fatal/" rel="nofollow"&gt;Preventative Action: When Carelessness is Fatal&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Good on you! I&#8217;d had to deal with this before, and although I do feel a bit badly about it, I feel that some comments just aren&#8217;t worth sharing (hopefully this one is, haha). A comment policy is great, to make sure that comments stay relevant. Furthermore, a policy for many other things &#8212; like reviews &#8212; can be useful to show interested companies what to expect.<br />
<span class="cluv"> Herbert&#180;s last blog ..<a href="http://humanwriter.wordpress.com/2009/07/05/preventative-action-when-carelessness-is-fatal/" rel="nofollow">Preventative Action: When Carelessness is Fatal</a> <span class="heart_tip_box"><img class="heart_tip" alt="My ComLuv Profile" border="0" width="16" height="14" src="http://blog.lodewijkvdb.com/wp-content/plugins/commentluv/images/littleheart.gif"/></span></span></p>
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		<title>Comment on In other other news: New baby and Dutch blog by Lodewijk</title>
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		<dc:creator>Lodewijk</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Jul 2009 13:53:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@Lisa Marie Mary -  Thanks again! I'm quite familiar with Nutramigen and the follow-up formula Flexical. Jesse, our first, had to have those formulas during the first 2 years or so. Esmee also needs special formula, but luckily she seems to react better to food than Jesse, and we're not using Nutramigen right now. Still breastfeeding and the occasional bottle of formula. &lt;em&gt;It is&lt;/em&gt; hard to see those small babies having so much trouble with something as basic as food.

Did you kids grow over the allergies? So far it looks like our son is, thankfully. He'll probably always needs to maintain a varied diet, but that would be beneficial for most people, right?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@Lisa Marie Mary &#8211;  Thanks again! I&#8217;m quite familiar with Nutramigen and the follow-up formula Flexical. Jesse, our first, had to have those formulas during the first 2 years or so. Esmee also needs special formula, but luckily she seems to react better to food than Jesse, and we&#8217;re not using Nutramigen right now. Still breastfeeding and the occasional bottle of formula. <em>It is</em> hard to see those small babies having so much trouble with something as basic as food.</p>
<p>Did you kids grow over the allergies? So far it looks like our son is, thankfully. He&#8217;ll probably always needs to maintain a varied diet, but that would be beneficial for most people, right?</p>
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		<title>Comment on In other other news: New baby and Dutch blog by Lisa Marie Mary</title>
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		<dc:creator>Lisa Marie Mary</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Jul 2009 13:23:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Oh yeah, even with my 'quickest' delivery (7hrs) - there was downtime when you're just kind of waiting around.  

CONGRATULATIONS to you and your wife! Esmee is just beautiful! (And so is her name!) 

My kids all needed soy milk the first year. One time I was hospitalized, and someone had given my daughter regular milk - and when they brought her to me to visit - I &lt;i&gt;did not&lt;/i&gt; recognize her! She was puffy and red all over - it was awful.  And I had another friend who's baby had to have Nutramigen, the most expensive formula at the time.  It is definitely heartbreaking when they are suffering and it's hard to fix it.

I hope things smooth out for all of you!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oh yeah, even with my &#8216;quickest&#8217; delivery (7hrs) &#8211; there was downtime when you&#8217;re just kind of waiting around.  </p>
<p>CONGRATULATIONS to you and your wife! Esmee is just beautiful! (And so is her name!) </p>
<p>My kids all needed soy milk the first year. One time I was hospitalized, and someone had given my daughter regular milk &#8211; and when they brought her to me to visit &#8211; I <i>did not</i> recognize her! She was puffy and red all over &#8211; it was awful.  And I had another friend who&#8217;s baby had to have Nutramigen, the most expensive formula at the time.  It is definitely heartbreaking when they are suffering and it&#8217;s hard to fix it.</p>
<p>I hope things smooth out for all of you!</p>
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		<title>Comment on My five personal core values and how I use them by Lodewijk</title>
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		<dc:creator>Lodewijk</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 29 Jun 2009 09:08:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@Klaus -  Thanks for your thought provoking comment. I took a couple of days to think about it. 

I think that we have a set of core values that change very little over time, they do change though. Either through experience, or simply through aging, I'm not sure how exactly. I just don't believe they are set in stone, not from birth or any other moment in time. They evolve over time with who we are, who we become and what happens to us. As such it's a good exercise to rediscover your core values every couple of years. You may find that they have changed slightly. Maybe you're ranking them in order of importance, and the order has changed. Or you actually have six of them, and have never verbalized the sixth value. That last one happened to me. When I first discovered them, I only got to choose 4. About 6 years later, I added a fifth value -&gt; Growth. As this was one of my core values too.

As far as De Bono is concerned, he has great techniques for creative thinking and creativity in general. And for changing thinking patterns his techniques are awesome. The way he describes how his techniques work, combined with how the brain works make it valuable. As far as the core values are concerned though, I'm not convinced that they are thinking patterns. I feel the same about emotions. I know that we gain more understanding of &lt;strong&gt;how&lt;/strong&gt; the brain works, but &lt;strong&gt;why&lt;/strong&gt; we experience emotions like love, sadness, excitement or &lt;strong&gt;why&lt;/strong&gt; we feel a deep connection to certain values cannot be explained in this way. I'm not convinced that the brain, and its inner workings, is the only originator of our personality, our being. But that too, is a personal conviction, and impossible to prove.

I hope this clears up some of my thoughts and feelings about this topic for you. How do you think and feel about this?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@Klaus &#8211;  Thanks for your thought provoking comment. I took a couple of days to think about it. </p>
<p>I think that we have a set of core values that change very little over time, they do change though. Either through experience, or simply through aging, I&#8217;m not sure how exactly. I just don&#8217;t believe they are set in stone, not from birth or any other moment in time. They evolve over time with who we are, who we become and what happens to us. As such it&#8217;s a good exercise to rediscover your core values every couple of years. You may find that they have changed slightly. Maybe you&#8217;re ranking them in order of importance, and the order has changed. Or you actually have six of them, and have never verbalized the sixth value. That last one happened to me. When I first discovered them, I only got to choose 4. About 6 years later, I added a fifth value -&gt; Growth. As this was one of my core values too.</p>
<p>As far as De Bono is concerned, he has great techniques for creative thinking and creativity in general. And for changing thinking patterns his techniques are awesome. The way he describes how his techniques work, combined with how the brain works make it valuable. As far as the core values are concerned though, I&#8217;m not convinced that they are thinking patterns. I feel the same about emotions. I know that we gain more understanding of <strong>how</strong> the brain works, but <strong>why</strong> we experience emotions like love, sadness, excitement or <strong>why</strong> we feel a deep connection to certain values cannot be explained in this way. I&#8217;m not convinced that the brain, and its inner workings, is the only originator of our personality, our being. But that too, is a personal conviction, and impossible to prove.</p>
<p>I hope this clears up some of my thoughts and feelings about this topic for you. How do you think and feel about this?</p>
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		<title>Comment on My five personal core values and how I use them by Klaus</title>
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		<dc:creator>Klaus</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 25 Jun 2009 14:08:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Lodwijk,
thank you for you blog. It's quite interesting to follow your way of self development. I still haven't established my personal values, or rather I haven't verbalized it yet but I'm after the reading couple of books by Edward de Bono and his theory that human brain works like a self-organizing pattern system organizing all information into patterns. Hi proves that the hardest task for the brain is to change the patterns to force the brain for the creativity.  I think that establishing the personal values may fossilize some patterns in our brain that will be hard to change in the future. The other question is if we really need to change them as they are named as core values. But anyway it would be good to add some comment to the personal values that they needs to be periodically verified in certain period of time. What do you think?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Lodwijk,<br />
thank you for you blog. It&#8217;s quite interesting to follow your way of self development. I still haven&#8217;t established my personal values, or rather I haven&#8217;t verbalized it yet but I&#8217;m after the reading couple of books by Edward de Bono and his theory that human brain works like a self-organizing pattern system organizing all information into patterns. Hi proves that the hardest task for the brain is to change the patterns to force the brain for the creativity.  I think that establishing the personal values may fossilize some patterns in our brain that will be hard to change in the future. The other question is if we really need to change them as they are named as core values. But anyway it would be good to add some comment to the personal values that they needs to be periodically verified in certain period of time. What do you think?</p>
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		<title>Comment on In other other news: New baby and Dutch blog by Lodewijk</title>
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		<dc:creator>Lodewijk</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 23 Jun 2009 08:16:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@Pratik Saptarshi -  Thanks! Actually she hasn't given me a hard time about it...after all a small message is sent in just a couple of seconds and there are always are some spare moments to find. Even when you're about to give birth to a baby :-)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@Pratik Saptarshi &#8211;  Thanks! Actually she hasn&#8217;t given me a hard time about it&#8230;after all a small message is sent in just a couple of seconds and there are always are some spare moments to find. Even when you&#8217;re about to give birth to a baby <img src='http://blog.lodewijkvdb.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<dc:creator>Pratik Saptarshi</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 23 Jun 2009 08:13:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Congratulations...

And that twitter outburst was a gimmick... Din't ur wife give u a hard time abt it ?

Pass my *wink* to the baby.

Regard.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Congratulations&#8230;</p>
<p>And that twitter outburst was a gimmick&#8230; Din&#8217;t ur wife give u a hard time abt it ?</p>
<p>Pass my *wink* to the baby.</p>
<p>Regard.</p>
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		<dc:creator>Control Mental: 20 Ideas Para Re-Analizar tus Metas « Xperimentop90x's Blog</dc:creator>
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		<dc:creator>inamerrata » Blog Archive » On organising oneself</dc:creator>
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