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Christmas Joys

2012-02-25T23:29:00.003-06:00

Here are a few activities we enjoyed this Christmas.

We have this fun tradition of cutting down our own Christmas tree. My manly man and his little side-kick had the most fun with this...

But as fun as this is, and as delightful as a real Christmas tree smells in the home, we're now reconsidering. This very well might be the last year of this tradition. Here it is FEBRUARY 25th, and we're STILL finding these darn needles around the house!! I'm still finding them in the vacuum, in the heater vents, and some have even gotten stuck in the carpet. Let me tell ya, stepping on those things feels like real needles!

But if we ever do this again, we've definitely found the best tree farm around!! This local tree farm offers free hot chocolate and cookies for the kids, visits from Santa, face-painting, and free homemade ornaments for the kids. A sweet family runs this place, and I want to help support them. Message me if you're local and want more deets for next year!

And our thoughtful aunt Pam has this tradition of sending us homemade ornaments every year! We have them going back to 2004. Each one is such a treasure to our family!

Christmas Morning! Kids got beyond spoiled this year. We got a Wii for the family (I had sworn off video games for the kids- but we finally comprimised that active/fitness games, and music games that involve the entire family would be ok). They also each got 3 presents from Santa. Afterall- if Jesus only got 3, who are we to get more?!

But the best present of all...

As if it's not already a circus around here... meet Barnum and Bailey!! Our new pet guinea pigs. We did tons of research before we decided on a great pet for kids, and I'm so glad we went with guniea pigs! They are the most gentle animals, they make amusing noises, low maintenance, they're soft and cuddly- and they aren't too stinky.

It was too funny, when we went to pick them up, we had to bring all the kids with us, so Jon and I were trying to find a way to pull it off without them knowing. Luckily it was dark, and we had just gotten back from seeing the Christmas lights in the city. I went and picked them up in a box, and we acted like we had to pick something up from a friend. But once we got them in, they started sqeaking and squealing like crazy. And we had to drive 30 minutes to get home! My hubby is hilarious- so fun to watch him try to keep the kids from finding out... each time they would squeak, he would pretend to sneeze, or sing, and crank up the Christmas music even louder. And they had no clue. Too fun!!

What a blessed Christmas. Hope yours was just as special!! Nothing like experiencing this beautiful season than through the eyes of a child. Childlike awe and wonder is so inspiring!

Halloween Pics (Yes, I'm that behind!)

2012-02-19T00:13:00.000-06:00

Ok, so I know it's past V-Day, but I'm still trying to play catch up! Had to get a few pics on here from halloween, so the kids will remember the fun we had.

We're all about themes for halloween. Jon and I like to participate- it makes our family feel unified- and it's just so dang fun! Love this tradition! But someday (SOON I think) the kids will probably start being embarrassed by their dorky parents, and won't be too thrilled with this tradition. They'll probably want to do their own thing soon, and that's ok. But they're loving it now! So I'm going to enjoy this as long as possible before that day comes.

We decided to go as Packers fans this year. Kind of lame, I know, haha. It was all I could put together though. I was newly pregnant at the time, sick and exhausted. So I almost bagged it completely this year. But I'm glad we made it happen. And it was pretty cheap, since there were tons of Brett Farve jerseys at Goodwill. ;) So here we are as Packers Fans... and one cute, cuddly, football.

Love this face, haha! He's like "Seriously Mom? Is this hat all you could come up with??"

Intense football fan faces. Grr!!

Traditions

2012-02-12T23:34:00.001-06:00

"Family traditions counter alienation and confusion. They help us define who we are; they provide something steady, reliable and safe in a confusing world." -SUSAN LIEBERMAN

One of our favorite traditions is camping together. We love going during General Conference (a church conference that happens twice a year), so we can cuddle up in the camper, learn, and be together without the usual distractions. And somehow despite the cramped quarters, the kids get along better when camping than they do at home. (Maybe that's why I'm such a fan!)

So here are a couple Hudson camping traditions...

The kids in their camo snuggies, haha!

S'mores of course! But here's another camping treat we love. Feel free to steal and enjoy!

And a newer camping tradition... just for fun!! It's also a great science project.

This was all Daddy's idea of course. Check out the height on this one!

So if you want to try this with your kids, all you'll need is a couple liters of pop (diet is best so you don't get sticky!), a couple packs of mint mentos, and I highly recommend buying a geyser tube for maximum effect. Here's a cheap one on amazon.

And ok, this isn't a tradition, but I just had to share this pic I took of Jarom mid-yawn... it CRACKS me up!!

There's so much personality in that little bod! He's such a jolly kid!

Charity was so cute on the way home, she said, "Mommy, could we just go camping every day?" :)

Love my HAPPY campers!!

Stay at Home Mom?

2012-02-08T20:19:00.011-06:00

I admit, sometimes staying at home feels a bit less than glamorous. Especially those days when I don't make it to the shower after a workout, I have spit up stains on my shirt, no make-up, my hair in a bun, and on my knees scrubbling the spilled oatmeal on the floor. Or when caring for sick kids, leaves me exhausted and somehow a little puke ends up in my hair! It's true- motherhood is no easy task, and can leave us moms feeling a little frumpy at times! But the TRUTH is,

Motherhood is near to divinity. "It is the highest, holiest service to be assumed by mankind. It places her who honors its holy calling and service next to the angels." First Presidency of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.

So I've never liked the term "stay at home mom". That just sounds so... blah, don't you think?! No, we're NOT stay at home moms.

We're "DOMESTIC GODDESSES!"

I'm all for anything that helps us feel like the queens we are. So I have this thing for aprons. They're pretty and feminine, and I love the way they make me feel. They make me feel a little less stay at home mom-ish, and a little more domestic goddess-like. :) I have tons of them, mostly all from the same company. I love these and wanted to share them with you if you ever feel this way too...

You can find more varieties here: http://www.flirtyaprons.com/

Aren't they so pretty?! They're a little expensive (between $25-$38... but I always wait for a sale. A couple times a year they're sold on this site for half off. Or if you don't want to wait, you can often find them on Amazon for about $10 cheaper, with free shipping.

Here are my little domestic goddesses in training. (If that's what they choose to do of course.) ;)

And here's one of my favorite recipes EVER I'd love to share with you. It's called Taco Lasagna. Don't remember where I got this recipe, but our family has enjoyed it for years!! It's easy, nutritious, and kid-friendly.

Taco Lasagna:

Ingredients:

1 pound ground beef
1/2 cup chopped green pepper
1/2 cup chopped onion
2/3 cup water
1 envelope taco seasoning
1 can (15 ounces) black beans, rinsed and drained
1 can (14-1/2 ounces) Mexican diced tomatoes, undrained
6 flour tortillas (8 inches)
1 can (16 ounces) refried beans
3 cups shredded Mexican cheese blend (I always go a little generous on cheese) mmm :)

Directions:

In a large skillet, cook the beef, green pepper and onion over medium heat until meat is no longer pink; drain. Add water and taco seasoning; bring to a boil. Reduce heat; simmer, uncovered, for 2 minutes. Stir in black beans and tomatoes. Simmer, uncovered, for 10 minutes.

Place two tortillas in a greased 13-in. x 9-in. baking dish. Spread with half of the refried beans and beef mixture; sprinkle with 1 cup cheese. Repeat layers. Top with remaining tortillas and cheese.
Cover and bake at 350° for 25-30 minutes or until heated through and cheese is melted.

Yep, I think it's true. The way to a man's heart is definitely through his stomach!

Enjoy!

Well... HELLO there!!!

2012-02-02T23:32:00.004-06:00

Wow, it's been SO long!!! Well, what can I say about this extended absence? Basically, it's been a brutal few months! I don't think I broke the news on this blog yet, but... I'm pregnant with #6! That means 6 KIDS AGES 8 AND UNDER. I know... crazy, huh?! I'm still trying to process that news myself! But we're so grateful and excited!! Couldn't be happier to welcome another little one into our lives.

So yes, to put it bluntly, I got knocked up... but this pregnancy has knocked me DOWN, big time! So much for my goal to be more consistent on this blog, haha! It's been humbling really. During the first trimester, I felt like I had seriously been hit by a truck most days with extreme fatigue, and morning sickness. It was all I could do to drag myself out of bed some days, let alone clothe, feed, teach, read to, play with, make dinner for, clean up after, the kids. So blogging has been put on the back burner for a while, along with cleaning the shower, and dusting the furniture, etc. But I'm feeling SO much better now that we're into the 2nd trimester. I really feel like myself again! So I'm relieved, and grateful for my patient and understanding hubby, who chipped in when he could, and never once told me to get off my plump prego butt and mop the floor.

So now that I'm back to blogging, I have some SERIOUS catching up to do! I can't wait to read all your posts!! Feels so good to be back!!

Spinach Lovers!

2011-09-19T23:12:00.005-05:00

Here's a tip to get kids to eat veggies- even canned spinach, (bleh). At dinnertime from the time they're really young, instead of saying, "If you eat all your spaghetti, you can have some ice cream" (or whatever), you say... "If you eat all your spaghetti, you can have some... spinach!!" :D Works every time! A little reverse psychology there, he he. Hey, at least my degree was good for something!

Watermelon Frenzy!

2011-09-09T23:06:00.000-05:00

Oh man, this little guy sure keeps me on my toes! Went upstairs for a minute, and came down to this. He was having the time of his life with this watermelon! He kept saying, "uh-oh" and just laughed and laughed. I couldn't help but laugh too. And then needless to say- it was bathtime!! He was such a sticky mess!

Here he is- caught red-handed (literally!)

He was sure pleased with himself!! Little stinker!!

Love this sticky little boy!

High on Health!

2011-08-31T00:23:00.004-05:00

"When I learn something, when I know something, when I find something, I always want to share it. Because life is better when you share it." - Oprah

As you know, (and probably sick of hearing about) I have had amazing results with a nutritional cleanse product called Isagenix. Wait- don't stop reading if you're skeptical. I was too! Very skeptical. But I'm grateful I had an open mind and gave it a try. But admittedly- if there wasn't a moneyback guarantee, I probably wouldn't have, lol. But the results blew me away!! And I can't stop talking about it. So that has obviously been a real blessing in my life- but the BEST blessing now is watching my loved ones get healthier too!! My husband has lost 42.5 lbs. now since June 9 when he started Isagenix!! I'm so proud of him and his commitment to his health! He donated a kidney back in 2007, and his doctor advised him to maintain a healthy weight. So it was extra important for him to get the weight off and keep it off. And unlike a diet- he will be able to keep it off for life this way. Like me, he is also experiencing other health benefits- more energy, control over cravings, curbed hunger, and better sleep. It's amazing how the body responds when it's given the nutrients and minerals it needs.
My parents are both on it now, and getting great results as well- Mom is down 21 lbs. now! And my brothers are even on it too. :) This is not just for weight loss- it's for everyone who is concerned about their health. I'm confident they will all experience the benefits of this lifestyle too!

Check out this video. This is one of the videos that helped me understand the need for this product:
http://isagenix.com/us/en/areyoutoxic.dhtml

And read this short article by a nutritionist...

A Declining State of Health

by Jim Rhoades*

Recently, I was invited to speak at a symposium at Harvard University’s Medical School, where I discussed various topics related to the current state of health in the U.S. and the factors behind the recent rise in various lifestyle diseases. Specifically, the purpose of that presentation – and of this information – was to point out several different problems contributing to the poor state of health.

After spending approximately 10 years researching and investigating the questions pertaining to our declining health, I have pinpointed seven problem areas that can be addressed to allow each of us to restore our health and enjoy a revitalized sense of wellness.

The Seven Problems

(1) Poor Immune Function

Today, approximately 50 percent of people will contract some form of cancer in their lives. This number is a significant jump from just 50 years ago, when only 1 in 12 was at risk of developing the disease. Considering all of the money, research and focus we've dedicated to solving the cancer problem, you'd think the numbers should improve, not worsen. So what's the problem? Poor immune function!

Most people overlook the crucial role our immune system plays in warding off disease and maintaining our health. If someone we know is diagnosed with cancer, we often ascribe its onset to "bad luck" or being a product of "bad genes." While genetics certainly do play a part in the formation of disease, the research shows that living a healthy lifestyle drastically reduces one's risk. How? It typically improves the function of the immune system.

Every minute of every day, the body's immune components work non-stop to halt the formation of dysfunctional cells, infections by viruses or bacteria, or the exposure of chemical impurities. There are many things that contribute to a poorly functioning immune system (many of them outlined in the other"problems" listed in this brochure), but the fact remains that if you have an active, optimally-functioning immune system, your risk of becoming a statistic to modern diseases will be slashed considerably.

(2) Nutrient-Depleted Soils

Researchers at UCLA in 2007 began to investigate why certain women were showing high rates of anemia despite their regular consumption of spinach – normally a food high in iron. The researchers had obtained a sample of spinach from this particular area grown in 1953 and they compared it to a current sample. The results were alarming – it would take about 43 bowls of the modern spinach to equal one bowl of the spinach from 1953 to obtain the same iron content.

The fact is that modern farming methods have in many ways led to the depletion of our soils. For instance, the development and widespread use of pesticides and herbicides seems great at first glance – they easily kill unwanted pests and allow for more produce, right? While that is true to some degree, these chemicals also destroy the complex ecosystem of bacteria and other microorganisms that reside in the topsoil. This ecosystem aids in the conversion of inorganic material into organic material (such as minerals) that the plant can then take up and utilize. Of course, these are the nutrients that should normally be stored in the resulting fruits and vegetables. Today, sadly, their levels have dropped dramatically.

(3) Nutrient-Deficient Food

Not surprisingly, nutrient-depleted fruits, vegetables, grains and other foods are the prime reason our food supply is deficient in the nutrients we each need to function properly. Experts estimate that there are about 90 nutrients – including 60 minerals – that our bodies need to perform their various tasks.

On top of the nutrient-depleted soils, other factors have made our foods void of nutrition. One simply has to enter one of the thousands of grocery stores that dot our landscape to see that the majority of available foods are highly processed, are high in simple carbohydrates, sugars, unhealthy fats, synthetic chemicals and flavorings, and are low in natural ingredients (whole grains, nuts, real juice or sugars and so on).

The end result? A poorly functioning immune system, obesity and an increased risk of disease.

(4) Environmental Chemical Impurities

This one is particularly scary. Mounds of data demonstrate that our environment – the air we breathe, the water we drink, our soils, the inside of our homes and offices, and even the foods we eat – are filled with thousands of different chemicals. Hundreds of new ones are introduced every year, and their safety – not to mention the endless potential combination's of chemicals – are rarely tested.

Inside the body, synthetic chemicals can wreak havoc on our immune system (and virtually every other body system), create oxidative damage, encourage an inflammatory state, negatively affect our mental abilities, and much more.

(5) The Obesity Epidemic

This one is huge (no pun intended). Despite repeated warnings by experts and government agencies, our collective waistline continues to expand. Levels of overweight and obese individuals are at an all-time high, and the upward trend is linked directly with other lifestyle diseases. In fact, the surgeon general has declared obesity as the leading cause of preventable death – even ahead of tobacco use.

(6) Most Supplements Are Lacking

After reading the preceding material, you may be asking why nutritional supplements can’t be a part of the solution. They can be. The problem is that most supplement lines – even those that are high-quality and that contain the necessary 90 nutrients our bodies need – often are lacking in a few key areas.

First, they aren’t organic. By that, I mean that the ingredients aren’t extracted from plant sources, which means they probably are not water soluble and therefore much less available to the body. Nutrients that have been transformed from an inorganic to organic state by plants are then water soluble and much more absorb-able through the walls of the body’s cells, where they can be utilized as needed.

Also, most of these supplement lines do not contain enzymes. Simply put, enzymes are critical to the utilization of nutrients in the body. They transport the vitamins and minerals and assist in their transformation to be utilized by the body’s cells.

(7) Our Children’s Health Crisis

Simply stated, the health of our young people is in serious jeopardy. The statistics are extremely telling, as rates of disease (such as obesity and type 2 diabetes) are ballooning among our youth. Perhaps the scariest statistic is that for the first time in our country’s history, our younger generations may have shorter life spans than that of their parents.

There are many causes to this problem. Horrific diets full of processed foods, sugar, fat and synthetic ingredients, little or no exercise, over medication, and poor sleep habits are high on the list.

Accompanying sugar is carbonation – typically in the form of soda or soft drinks. The reason that carbonation is so bad is that is can paralyze the immune system. How? Carbonation ties up calcium in the body, which is also necessary for every chemical reaction within the immune system. The short of it is that soda can adversely affect our children’s immune function every time they drink it.

The Solution: Isagenix

Put together, these problem areas create a dire future for us and our children unless we directly and effectively address them. Fortunately, Isagenix embodies a remarkable solution that may help solve these problems and contribute to a higher level of health and vitality.

Cleanse the Body of Harmful Impurities

First of all, the Isagenix product line emphasizes the need to cleanse the body of harmful impurities and synthetic chemicals, all of which are harmful to the body. As literally hundreds of thousands of Isagenix customers have discovered, the Isagenix line does a magnificent job of helping to clear out impurities from the body’s tissues and cells, thereby allowing them to correctly utilize vital nutrients and function as they were meant to function.

Offer All Building Blocks to Rejuvenate Body

As mentioned earlier, the body needs 90 different nutrients to perform all the tasks necessary for survival. Sadly, the Western diet, which most of us adhere to, is severely lacking in many of these nutrients. This means that while the body is able to get by, it gradually breaks down, its organs and systems can’t function properly, and the end result is more disease and earlier death. Fortunately, the Isagenix product line is comprised of formulations that contain all 90 vital nutrients in various combination's. This means that if you, like so many others, are lacking some of these vital nutrients in your diet, the Isagenix line can help make up the difference.

Provide Enzymes that Transport Nutrients

Finally, I previously discussed the importance of enzymes for the transport and utilization of nutrients in the body. Without enzymes, the vitamins, minerals and other compounds that cells need to operate simply aren’t able to arrive to where they are supposed to arrive, and they won’t be available to the cells for utilization. All Isagenix supplement products are specially formulated to include those enzymes that will facilitate the transport and use of enzymes for the body’s cells, tissues and organs. The result? More energy, rejuvenated cells and an overall enhancement of your health and vitality.

Because you’re reading this, you’re probably somewhat concerned about your health and the health of your family. And though the overall picture may seem quite gloomy, the truth is that there truly is a solution that can transform your state of wellness. The revolutionary products of Isagenix – which provide effective and safe cleansing and an impressive array of nutrient formulations – may be just what you need to discover a new level of health and vitality you never knew existed!

Your health is your greatest wealth!

* Jim Rhoades is the former President and CEO of an international nutritional company. He left that position to work with Isagenix on a full-time basis as an Independent Associate. He is an internationally acclaimed educator, nutritional counselor and motivational trainer. He has written many articles for health publications and is a popular guest on many radio shows. He was invited to speak at a symposium at Harvard Medical School with representatives from over 50 universities on the subject of “The state of nutrition in our foods today and why we need nutritional supplements.” He is a former member of the Isagenix Field Advisory Board and is the recipient of the 2007 Spirit of Isagenix Award. He has a gift for making complicated subjects seem simple. He has helped thousands of people in their quest for freedom and a better life style.

Back to School Deal!

2011-08-22T22:14:00.001-05:00

Ok, so anyone who knows my hubby knows he has a serious gift for frugality and thrift. He's very financially savvy and smart about money. I'm not really that into shopping- I don't get much enjoyment out of it- but I definitely appreciate his deal seeking skills! Who doesn't love a good deal?!

He has spent years perfecting his craft and even ran a home business on Amazon- and now that we're going to move on from that (another post on that later), I'm going to start sharing all his secrets with YOU!! There are many blogs devoted to finding good deals- but I won't waste any time sharing mediocre deals- just the very best here!! And I'll add extra coupons and rebates to make the deal sweeter. :)

So here's one for today from Staples for all the back to school needs:

This runs in store from Aug. 23-27th!

Click here for the weekly ad!

Click here for rebate deals at Staples!

And click here for a $5 off $25 coupon to add to the savings! Just print the coupon and bring it into the store for the additional savings!

Can you believe it's that time again for back to school shopping??! The start of the school year is always bittersweet for me... I'll miss the kids, but I'm also SO looking forward to the routine and structure the school year provides.

Our little Charity- my Curliecue- is starting kindergarten this year! Can't believe it. Here she was at her preschool graduation in June. Isn't she a little cutiepie?!

Mint Brownies

2011-08-17T21:36:00.011-05:00

Made a yummy treat for Book Club tonight and thought I'd share with you:

Mint Brownies!

2/3 cup butter
3 squares unsweetened baking chocolate
2 cups brown sugar
3 eggs
1 tsp. vanilla
1 1/4 cup flour
1 tsp. baking powder
1/4 tsp. salt

Melt butter and chocolate in microwave. Remove from heat and stir in wet ingredients. Mix together dry ingredients and add to mixture. Bake 350 for 25-30 min. in greased 13X9 pan. Cool completely.

Mint Frosting:

2 cups powdered sugar

1/4 cup butter

2 Tbsp milk

1/2 tsp. peppermine extract

green food coloring

Cream together until smooth. Spread evenly over cooled brownies.

Glaze:

2 squares unsweetened baking chocolate

2 tbsp. butter

Melt in microwave. Drizzle over brownies.

Gotta make it fun and pretty!

Add mini chocolate chips- and wallah! Best with vanilla ice cream. Enjoy!!!

The kids were happy to have the leftovers. I don't bake much anymore now that I'm not addicted to this stuff- but I still do this once in a while! No complaints around here. :)

Europe (finally!)

2011-08-13T21:34:00.001-05:00

So I figured I'd better finish this post about my trip to Bulgaria before I forget all about it! But as usual, I'll let the pictures do the talking. So grateful for this opportunity- and all the amazing people I met!! Here are some pics of my unforgettable summer adventure:

Renowned Varna Opera House

After the Broadway Show

Rehearsing!

My favorite girls!

Check out our outrageous costumes!! Lady Gaga-ish, huh?!! Soo weird- but fun!

FLORAL!

Fun pic. with my bros.

I'm usually not one to focus on the negative. I think there is great power in positive thinking and looking for the good. But I just have to point out something-

We all couldn't help but notice how many things went wrong on this trip. It was almost comical- it was seriously one thing after the next!! At the time it wasn't exactly laughable though.

So here are just a FEW of the things that went wrong on this trip:

My passport disaster
Crazy layovers – some 6, 7, 10, 12 hours long
3 girls were lost in Europe after 2nd leg of trip – and no one knew where they were for a few days.
12 people lost luggage – and many didn't get it returned for a few days.
Flu outbreak
No restaurants or places to eat at Sophia hotel
Rehearsal schedule changes without being notified
Separate Cold/cough outbreak
No toilet paper/soap or SEATS
Multiple attempts of theft/pick pockets
Many thefts- including a stolen bag, IPhone, camera, and wallet
Due to time constraints the Maestro cut most of the 2nd Act at the last minute
My friend Chelsea had pinched nerve in her arm- caused her severe pain – she went to 3 different hospitals – no one spoke English
Starting time mix-up for 1st Magic Flute – first scheduled at 7:00 – then 7:30 – but actually 8:00 and only supposed to go until 9:00!!
After everyone spent months memorizing spoken lines, they cut over half of them
Broadway stage unsafe – huge cavern (originally pit) under flimsy wooden floor – we were supposed to have 40 people jumping up and down on it! Had to restage
No A/C for Broadway actors – they were all sweating horribly
Nails/staples on stage – there were at least 100 nails on the stage
No time (or place) for Master Classes
Changed venues/itinerary/times without telling us
Forced to rehearse in courtyard (90 degrees) because rooms inadequate/small with no A/C
Inadequate rehearsal facilities- in a TINY room (dressing/practice room) with piano and 40 people in 90 degrees
The worst thing- Conductor demanded to switch Tamino and Sarastro in intermission at 2nd performance!!
Staff refused to stop smoking in Opera House
No blackouts/curtains for performance as rehearsed
No rehearsal with orchestra/conductor for final cast at Opera House
Papageno swallowed bug during Opera performance – lodged in throat – couldn’t sing for few measures
Mom had to step in and sight read for Chealsea during the 1st performance of Magic Flute

And that wasn't even half of it!

But um, other than that, the trip was awesome! We all survived! And grew closer to each other through it all. We even thought of making t-shirts for everyone that said, "I survived Varna International - and still had a blast!" Seriously- if we could do this and still put on a great show- we can do anything.

I missed my family so much though. The kids were so sweet. They threw a big party for me when I got home! They even decorated the living room...

And there were lots of hugs and loves when I got back and I couldn't get enough. There's no place like home.

Baptism Day!

2011-08-08T22:10:00.008-05:00

Isn't this the sweetest picture? I just love this one so much. This was Celeste on her baby blessing day. She was so innocent then.

Well, our little Celeste was baptized this Saturday, and now she's perfectly innocent once again. If you're wondering- this is what we believe about baptism. What a journey she has ahead of her. My mom gave a talk on the Holy Spirit, our family sang a quartet, and Celeste even she sang a solo called "My Heavenly Father Loves Me." We videotaped it at home- so I'll upload that on here soon. It was sweet. So are some pics of her special day:

Notice Daddy's tie- it has pictures of Celeste as a baby all over it. It was fitting for the occasion. :)

We took about 10 picture attempts of the whole family, but NONE of them worked out. Believe it or not, THIS is the best one we got, haha!

After the baptism, all the people who were in attendance wrote little notes for her to save in her scrapbook as a keepsake. We were grateful to all the people who came to support her.

Celeste, we're so proud of you for making this important step in your life. You've chosen to take upon yourself the name of Christ and try to be like Him. His love truly shines through your bright eyes and sweet smile!

Love you love you!

Today a Reader, Tomorrow a Leader

2011-08-03T22:45:00.009-05:00

This was Jon's favorite book as a child. His mom used to read it to him over and over, and it became really special to him. So just recently, I walked in and he was reading it to our own children! He ordered it so he could share it with them. It was a sweet moment so I had to capture it.

So here are 10 great reasons to read to your child:

1.Holding your children close while you read is an expression of love.

2.You bring the magic of books to your children. You are the storyteller!

3.You show your children how important reading is by modeling. Children learn by watching you.

4.Books are a great way to talk about characters and their problems. You can laugh and cry together.

5.Reading to your children gives them a chance to hear a variety of new words. They are learning new words in a fun way.

6.Books can help you pass on your values in an easy and comfortable way.

7.By reading books to your children, you can increase their listening skills. Their attention span will get longer. This will help them in school.

8.By reading to your children, you help them stretch their imagination and thinking. It gives children a chance to dream.

9.You are giving your children skills that will help them succeed in life.

10.You are starting a wonderful tradition that your children will want to give to their own children.

"Once you learn to read, you will be forever free."

— Frederick Douglass

It's all about moments!!

2011-07-30T17:30:00.001-05:00

"The most wasted of all days is one without laughter." e e cummings

Birthday Girl!

2011-07-27T21:08:00.004-05:00

Can't believe our sweet Celeste turned 8 last week!! She's always had such a great smile and endearing personality...

This contagious smile has brightened our lives from the time she was a baby! Wherever we went, people would say, "That is the HAPPIEST baby I have ever seen!!"

And then she turned 2, and developed a bit of a 'tude... ;)

She definitely has some serious spunk! She's a strong person and she can assert herself with the best of them. And so smart!

And for as young as she is, she has gotten around a lot! She was born in Texas...

Travelled across country in a motorhome- twice! And visited 34 states!

(And thoroughly enjoyed it!)

And she's lived in 3 different states already. We can't wait to see where life will take her next!!

She had a friend pool party last week, and had a blast. Twelve giggly girls makes for one fun (and noisy) birthday bash!

Happy Birthday to our beautiful Celeste! You have such a bright future ahead!

We love you. Always have.

Always will.

Isagenix Results

2011-07-24T01:57:00.004-05:00

Check this out! This video made me cry.

This woman is so inspiring! She achieved these results by adopting the lifestyle of nutritional cleansing I'm so passionate about. And it completely transformed her life. The amazing thing- she she was an audition finalist for the Biggest Loser and ended up losing more weight and inches than any contestant on this season's show. I really believe this is the best way to lose weight- and keep it off for life. Diets don't work! This is a healthy lifestyle change that cleanses the body and then replenishes it with the nutrients and minerals we need for optimal health. I can't stop talking about how great I feel by adopting this lifestyle. My sugar cravings are finally under control, hunger curbed, and I feel vibrant and healthy again. And now my (super sketpical) Mr. Wonderful has tried it and lost 32 lbs. in just over a month! And he loves it!! Totally don't blame him for being skeptical- I was too. When you hear claims like this- it seems like a quick fix- or a fad diet. But it's honestly not. It has been a lifesaver for me and my family- literally. With diabetes, and heart disease in our family- this lifestyle change could literally add years to our lives- not to mention dramatically improve the quality of those years. That's why I feel a moral obligation to share this with people I care about.

So I'm now coaching people through this process- and LOVING it. It's so fulfilling to help people regain their health and encourage them along the way. These are what two of my recent cleansers had to say:

"I'm so grateful that I joined Isagenix! I had been looking for a natural and healthy way to have more energy to keep up with our 5 energetic boys. After 9 days on it, I have found that I no longer need/want an afternoon nap! What?! I'm moremotivated to get things done and as an added bonus, I lost 4.5 lbs and 13 inches in those 9 days! It's an amazing product!" -Shannon P.

"After each pregnancy I went up a size in clothing, which with three kids, means a lot of weight! A wonderful friend convinced me to give Isagenix a try. Results? In my first 7 days I've lost 10 pounds, have a lot more energy, and reduced sugar cravings. I LOVE my results! Can't wait to see more weight fade away :D" -Jessica T.

See why medical doctors and nutritionists are recommending these products:
http://www.isagenix.com/us/en/areyoutoxic.dhtml

And this helps explain the difference between nutritional cleansing and dieting: http://allinonebusiness.net/PDFDocuments/DietVsIsagenix.BriefProductIntro.pdf

This stuff works. The results speak for themselves!

FHE Lesson- Baptism

2011-07-19T22:05:00.003-05:00

We try to hold a family home evening every monday night- it's a night designated in our church for families to draw closer together.  I've decided to start sharing fhe ideas on this blog- feel free to steal any ideas you like! Some are my own, others are borrowed from church magazines and church Family Home Evening manuals.

Family Home Evening usually consists of a prayer, song, lesson, activity, and a treat- (saved for the end- a great way to bribe kids to cooperate!) Unfortunately, many of these nights don't always go as planned- and turn out something like this!

But every once in a while we get it right. And this was one of those special nights. Celeste is turning 8 this week, so she'll be baptized soon!  In our church we believe children are born innocent and have no need for baptism until the age of accountability. So for FHE, we wanted to make sure she felt prepared and ready for this important step in her life. We wanted to make sure she understood the covenants she would be making with the Lord. We started out with a song: "When I am Baptized" and a prayer.  It's so important to emphasize the need to pray for the spirit to be with us. With all these young crazy kids, we need all the help we can get!

Then Celeste read a couple scriptures about baptism. We always try to incorporate scriptures in family home evening.  The word of God will touch the hearts of our children more than anything else. Then we watched this beautiful video on baptism that helped the kids quiet down and bring a spirit of reverence. Music is also a powerful tool to teach and testify spiritual truth.

For the lesson, I held up 2 pennies, one shiny and new, and one dirty and tarnished. Each kid got a tarnished penny and I explained that although we come to this life clean and pure, we make mistakes along the way.  But through the blessing of baptism, we can be washed clean of our sins through the Atonement of Jesus Christ.
Then they each dropped their pennies in this solution- 1/4 cup vinegar, 1 teaspoon salt, and the tarnish disappeared. The pennies were shiny and new again. Love object lessons!  It captures kids' attention and helps them understand and remember important principles.
(Oh- one tip- don't spill vinegar on carpet.)

Then Celeste had a chance to answer some possible interview questions about baptism, and then she got to practice what it will be like to be baptized. Daddy didn't say the actual sacred prayer of course, but they just went through the motions:

And then the mayhem began...

And lastly, for a special baptism tradtion- when the kids turn 8, they get to choose a temple from our temple book- and it gets framed and put up in their rooms. Celeste chose the St. Louis Missouri Temple.

And for refreshments, we had pudding- Celeste's choice in honor of her special day coming up.

But here's a cuter idea I found:

Immersion Cookies!

Just make sure they get fully dunked. ;)

Not So Soccer Mom

2011-07-17T01:26:00.002-05:00

It seems there has been a lot of talk in recent years about how families are overscheduled- constantly on the run and involved in too many activities. We've made this mistake.

Looks a little like this- Jon gets home from work, we give each other a quick peck- or not- sometimes I'm annoyed that he's late and didn't call, lol. So things are slightly contentious anyway, and since we're late- I'm barking at the kids to hurry and get their stuff and we all scramble out the door and head off in different directions. Jon takes a couple kids to one activity, and I take the other kids to another, and we both pick up nutritionally void fast food- a sorry excuse for dinner on the way home. We finally get home past the kids bedtimes and say a quick family prayer and rush to get everyone in bed- and get up to do it all again. So that might be an extreme example, but it has happened.

But now I refuse to live that way! I'm all about giving my kids opportunities to grow and develop, but it will not come at the expense of our family happiness. I understand the pressure parents feel to keep up- to continually keep kids busy with worthy pursuits. But it comes at a cost. The rushed madness can take away from the peace and stability of home and family life. So I guess that means I'm not a cool soccer mom. But that's ok with me. :) The way I see it, I have one shot to be a parent of young kids- to teach them truth, and instill values in them, and I'm not going to let social pressures or too many extracurricular activities take away those special moments.

I heard once that it's easy to say "NO" to unnessesary activities and other people's expectations, when you have a burning "YES" inside for something more important. And to me, that burning YES is for time together. Alvin Rosenfeld, the author of The Over-Scheduled Child: Avoiding the Hyper-Parenting Trap: said ''Parents rush so much to pay attention to activities that they neglect the relationships. And all the data shows the relationships (with parents and friends) make the difference.'' I like how President Hinckley’s put it in his book “Standing for Something.” even more. He said, Our lives have become intensely fast paced filled with business and a frantic flitting about that was uncharacteristic of earlier ages. We pack our lives with so many activities and pursuits that many of us have lost sight of something that is of critical importance to families… time together.

I'm also a huge advocate of letting kids be kids! Allowing them space and freedom to enjoy their childhood- letting them run, play, explore, and imagine. When they're overscheduled, there's little free time for kids to be kids.

I think it's especially important in the formative years to provide that structure kids need. Family dinner, reading together, bedtime routines, and Sunday worship are important family rituals that provide a wonderful sense of security. As our kids get older, we may be a little more flexible- and keep them busier... so they'll stay out of trouble. But for now, we're really kind of possessive of our time together. :)

In an effort to prevent an overscheduled family life, our current policy is to allow each child 1 activity of their choice a year (besides church activities)- starting in kindergarten. So this year it's t-ball for Benji, piano for Celeste, and ballet for Charity. We do our best to have dinner together first, and then go together to practices and games as a family to show our support for one another. As they get older, they might not want all of us on the sidelines cheering them on, lol, but for now it really seems to mean a lot to them.

So here are a few random pics from Benji's t-ball practice-

Of course, the kids are thrilled to go along to show their support. Or maybe it's cause we stop for ice cream on the way home. Yeah, so getting ice cream after each game might not be the healthiest habit- but at least we're together!

The truth about LOVE

2011-07-14T01:52:00.001-05:00

I believe the most important thing parents can do for their children is to love each other and maintain a stable and happy relationship. A strong marriage provides security for children and a model for their own future marriages. To be totally honest, we've had rough times in our marriage- I won't lie. We can both be very ~~stubborn~~ strong-willed. We're continually learning how to better communicate to keep our marriage strong and happy. It takes serious work. But these little ones are worth every effort.

Someone once told Stephen Covey he had fallen out of love with his wife. He said, "The feeling we once had just isn't there anymore- our love is dead. I think our marriage may be over. But you know, we have 3 kids... what do you think we should we do?"

Covey responded, "Love her."

The guy said, "But I just told you, the feeling just isn't there anymore. So now what do you suggest?"

Covey repeated, "LOVE her. Love is a verb. Love the feeling is a fruit of love the verb. Start thinking selflessly- give of yourself, sacrifice for her. Show love."

I think this is such a powerful truth! I know of so many marriages that have been rebuilt by couples choosing to love. Forgiving is a verb. Patience is a verb. We can choose our own response. We can choose to love first- instead of waiting for the other to be loving. We can choose to look for the good in each other. I have not always been good at looking for the good. Jon and I even have a nickname for my feisty side- Nicolette. Lol. But we're both learning that when we wake up each morning and think to ourselves, "What can I do to make my husband's/wife's life easier? What can I do to show him/her love?" It is a much happier way to live than being critical and negative.

Now I should add- I'm not naive enough to think that this is always the solution to every problem or that every marriage can or should survive. I worked as an advocate for domestic violence and sexual assault victims, so I'm well aware that there are situations where marriages have serious problems, and just love and patience will not always solve those problems. There are legitimate reasons for divorce.

But I believe many marriages can be saved if we would choose to be selfless. Love within marriage can be recreated through service, sacrifice, and devotion. We can never go wrong by choosing to love generously, even when we don't feel like it. Charity never faileth. That's the truth.

Our Little Wallflower

2011-07-11T22:49:00.001-05:00

Most people who meet our Sweet Charity Lynn assume she's quiet, reserved, and shy.

And she can be, until you get to know her.

And then you realize, first impressions can be deceiving...

When she warms up, watch out! This little girl has SPUNK! I read a quote once... "It's beauty that captures your attention; personality captures your heart." Well- this little girl has captured our attention AND our heart. She is a beautiful girl, with an endearing personality, and I love every facet of it- including her feistiness and super strong will. She will most definitely be a leader.

She had a nice birthday on July 8th. It was just a family party this year. Every even year starting at age 4, the kids are allowed a friend party. But on the odd years- we have a family party with the usual Hudson birthday traditions, and a family outing. So Charity chose to go swimming this time. It was fun to celebrate together- just our family. Sometimes friend parties can get a little out of hand, so it was nice to just have a simple party together to celebrate the birth of our sweet and spunky girl.

We love you Charity Lynn. Happy 5th Birthday!

Europe Part 1

2011-07-09T23:30:00.004-05:00

I'm back! And my trip was amazing!! A memorable adventure for sure. It's been a bit of a struggle to get back to reality around here and plunge into our summer routines, but it's so good to be home.  So the trip was amazing... but it didn't go quite as I had planned. (Does it ever?)

I spent the last couple days before the trip tying up loose ends- making meals for the kids, arranging a schedule for the babysitters, grocery shopping and last minute packing, and thought I was finally all ready to go. After months of memorizing and preparing for this ONCE in a lifetime experience, it felt so great to finally be ready to fly away. So the night before I left, I went to pack the last and most essential items...

and noticed my PASSPORT was MISSING!!!!!!

I COULD NOT BELIEVE IT. I had it carefully tucked away in a drawer for months. I would even check on it often- just to ensure that wouldn't happen. So when I noticed it was GONE, I just. about. died.

Jon and I stayed up most of the night frantically looking for it. I figured it was somewhere in the office, so I was keeping my cool because I thought we would find it. But after realizing we were running out of time, we got the kids out of bed at 4am, and asked if anyone had seen it. That's when Celeste remembered seeing Jakey with it when the kids were coloring in the office. And I connected the dots and figured out what must have happened.  The passport was on the floor with all the coloring papers while the kids were coloring with papers scattered everywhere. I asked Jakey to help clean up, and he scooped all the papers- and the passport- and threw them all away. And of course, the garbage man had already come that week. So when I realized what had happened, I just lost it. :( Could not stop crying. I was just devastated. It meant all my work memorizing for MONTHS, my excitement, the chance to finally spend some quality time with my family, not to mention the COST was all wasted. And I assumed there was no way to make the trip happen since it usually takes 2 weeks- minumum- to get a new passport.

But Jon was so sweet. He just held me while I cried. And he was determined to find a way to still help make it happen. So he looked into getting an expedited passport. And when he found out about the outrageous cost, plus the cost for the change in airfare he said, "It's ok, Sweetie. I'd gladly pay $1200 to get a couple extra days with you. Actually... it's a good deal."

I mean, seriously!  He earned brownie points for LIFE just for that one single comment. :)

But after a little research, we found a passport agency in Chicago, so I decided to drive there myself, and there happened to be a flight out on Tuesday afternoon- just 3 days after my original flight!! So that was such a relief!!  But it was still risky to assume I'd get the passport in time for the flight. We called the passport agency, and they said we most likely would make it if we got there first thing in the morning. So we decided to go for it.

On Tuesday morning, I got up at 5:30 and said my goodbyes- hoping all would go well, and drove to Chicago to get my replacement passport and hoping to fly out by 1pm. After getting lost in this enormous city and parking, I finally made it up the office to the 8th floor of this huge skyskraper, totally out of breath. But by the time I got there, the line was out the door. :( But I thought- there is NO way I'm missing this flight too! Where there's a will, there's a way. So I just prayed and prayed. When I finally got near the front and it was almost my turn to submit my paperwork, I overheard the woman in front of me say to the clerk, "My flight leaves at 2pm today, I'll be able to have my passport by then, right?" To which the clerk rudely and adamantly responded without looking up, "Not a chance Ma'am. The next batch of passports won't be completed until 2pm. Next!"

Well- I was supposed to fly out at 1pm!! My heart completely sank. But I just kept praying, and asking Heavenly Father to help me make it happen if there was any way.  So I walked up to the counter... and just begged. I told her the situation- calmly, but pleaded with her from my heart. The lady paused and actually looked up.  She gave a little smile and said, "We'll do what we can Ma'am. Just take a number and have a seat." So I did- but I kept praying. About 20 minutes later, the clerk came with my completed passport in hand. I burst into tears, and thanked her profusely. She had personally made my passport. I'll be forever grateful to that woman- whoever she is!!

So anyway- my trip got off to a stressful start to say the least!

But I learned a lot. I know that God works in mysterious ways. On the airplane to Frankfurt (a 7 hour flight), I was reading the Book of Mormon, and the woman next to me asked me about it.  She told me she had been investigating our church. She had so many questions, and we talked for hours- and completely connected. I ended up giving her the Book, and she committed to reading it and praying about it (There's a promise in the book that if you read with real intent, the Lord will manifest the truth of it to you by the power of the Holy Spirit.) So I don't know if that opportunity was why I missed my original flight, or if it was just wonderful coincidence. But I DO know that things happen for a reason. And we are to trust the Lord- and all things will work together for our good. Not always in our timing, or how we expect or prefer things to happen, but in His way, and in His timing- under His divine guidance and wisdom. The whole experience was a powerful reminder to me of that truth.

Oh- and one other special benefit of missing my flight...

I got to spend June 11th with this cute Birthday Boy!

So that was the start of the trip. Unfortunately, that was not the end of the troubles and frustrations though. Let's just say, the drama was not limited to the stage! ;) More on that later.

That's it.

2011-07-09T22:01:00.000-05:00

All right. So I'm a little disappointed in myself for slacking on this blog so much! I just haven't been making time for it lately. But I have really strong feelings that I need to make this more of a priority. So I'm going to do something about it. I know that there is such power in goal-setting- especially when goals are written down. So I'm deciding TODAY that I won't let more than 2 days pass without updating this blog.

So there. Now I'm committed, and I have to follow through. It might not be something really substantial every time, but it will be something! And now that I've written it down- it will happen. I will make it happen. :)

Treasure Box

2011-06-11T00:13:00.001-05:00

So school got out this week. Now that it's summer time, and the kids will be home ALL day, I thought it was time to implement a new positive reinforcement system to help motivate them to get along with each other. (The first day of summer was pretty rough, haha! The kids were pretty wired and unruly.)

So I took them to the store with me today to pick out some special surprises for the treasure box (mostly consumable stuff- like bubbles, chapstick, treats, etc.) They're SO thrilled about it. And it really works! Today was AMAZING. The kids were SO good, haha!!

When I asked them to do their chores, (I often get complaints or sighs) they said, "YES Mommy, I'll do it right away!" Aw, love it. Isn't that music to every mom's ears?! I've learned the first couple days you have to be very serious about it, and only allow a reward if they're on their best behavior. That way they know you mean business, and you won't just dole it out at the end of the day no matter what. And the newness can wear off over time, so you have to make sure the reward is really something that they're excited about!

I think this is so much better than the alternative of constantly criticizing, nagging, and scolding them to behave all summer. Hopefully this system will make the summer more enjoyable for us all.

Cutest Stowaway

2011-06-10T22:30:00.000-05:00

Look what I found in my suitcase tonight! I'm leaving for Europe in the morning, and he was hoping to come along too. Aw, I'll miss my little sweeties!

Amazing Brothers!

2011-06-10T01:09:00.002-05:00

These videos were just posted on Youtube- and I had to share them. These are my extremely talented brothers. God has given them both a gift- and they have worked hard to develop their talent, and it inspires me everytime I hear them sing. They are both voice teachers- helping others develop their talents too. Love them both! I'm actually going to have an opportunity THIS weekend to go to Europe and sing with them!! It's a once in a lifetime opportunity for me- so I'm thrilled! Plus, I've basically been a single mom for the last 5 months- (Jon has been working crazy hours) so I could seriously use a break.

(Just thinking about it though- I miss Mr. Wonderful and the kids already.) :(

Anway, so here they are:

Ben as Tony in West Side Story:

Um yeah- he's pretty much amazing!! His acting is incredible too. I know I'm biased- but I'm not the only one who thinks he's talented. Leonard Bernstein's (the composer of West Side Story) son and daughter were actually in the audience one night! And after the show while we were standing there, his daughter approached him and said that in the last 25 years that she had been touring around the world and watching different West Side Story productions, Ben was the best Tony she had ever seen! Talk about a compliment!

And here's one of Joey and Ben together performing the lead roles in The Secret Garden:

Aren't they great? I also need to get a video on here of Joey singing Stars from Les Mis. It's incredible. I'm so proud of them both!!

(Can you tell?)