I Know You Don't Give a Damn About My Life

Never Having to Say Sorry

2014-09-20T10:32:00.000+08:00

Funny Feeling Inside

2014-09-08T14:20:00.002+08:00

More than words.

Choose (to) Love

2014-09-03T11:00:00.000+08:00

Well, also because "love is the only rational act". - Morrie, in Tuesdays with Morrie.

So start your week on a love-ly note, aye?

Go, Fly High!

2014-08-29T11:00:00.001+08:00

We have to let go of our fears, doubts, and uncertainties...
To experience hope, to love, and to live our dreams out loud.

:)

Have a glorious Fly-day ahead.

True Love is...

2014-08-27T10:30:00.000+08:00

How are you all doing?

It's been quite a while - but yes, here I am.

Missed you. ;)

She Ain't Heavy... She's My Lover.

2014-05-01T20:35:00.000+08:00

Abra-CAT-abra!

2014-04-24T20:22:00.000+08:00

Cat over boyfriend?

Guilty as charged.

Gifts

2014-04-17T19:17:00.000+08:00

Not all girls like flowers.

Uphill

2014-04-10T18:17:00.000+08:00

Here's to all those who fought for love.

Stay strong.

Beneath the Milky Twilight

2014-04-09T02:37:00.001+08:00

Hey, how's everyone doing?

I missed you all :)

Lotsa Lurve < 3

You're Not Fat

2014-01-20T10:00:00.000+08:00

I Can't Cook

2014-01-16T16:36:00.000+08:00

Well, if it isn't the man who'd rather starve than cook.

Nanny Me?

2014-01-13T15:20:00.000+08:00

Yeah, but first - the ring! With the diamond.

I am (Forever) 21!!!

2014-01-12T00:00:00.000+08:00

BGR in a Nutshell

2014-01-09T01:09:00.003+08:00

Think I Love Him

2014-01-08T16:37:00.000+08:00

What is love?

Perfect and Beautiful

2014-01-04T15:31:00.000+08:00

Yes He did.

Not Angry!

2014-01-01T22:34:00.002+08:00

Asking the obvious?

The Friend

2014-01-01T21:30:00.001+08:00

So be my girlfriend

or unfriend me!

The Ugly Duckling

2013-12-26T15:39:00.000+08:00

The Ugly Duckling

by Raphael Kok

In a pool of excellence, it sticks out like a blot of incompetence.
Maybe it fluked the interview, maybe it's capable but cracks easily like a Kit Kat bar under the slightest pressure, maybe it's meant to fill up the Diversity quota.
Doesn't matter how it got here, the point is that it doesn't belong here.

Seems harsh to pick on it, when it's practically harmless and harbours no ill will to anyone.
But this is an office, not a classroom.
You're paid to perform on your job; you don't get marks for spending hours cajoling your colleague to stop crying and step out of the toilet cubicle.

In a tight circle of newbies, a weak link will pull down the entire chain.
Remember the fat kid in Boy Scouts who's always getting the steps and timing wrong, causing the entire troop to take ten?
Similarly, even if the duckling alone screws up big time, the rest might face repercussions - diminished trust and responsibility (e.g. reduction of important tasks delegated to newbies) and tightening of HR policies (e.g. punctuality checks).

At office, it brings down morale.
At parties, it kills the mood.
The more you indulge in its never-ending 'why-me' sob stories, the more you encourage it to mope around.
For its goal, consciously or subconsciously, is not to rise to the top, but to drag everyone else down to its depths of misery.

Read about the Snake, the Queen Bee, the Sloth and the Cub Lion at: Raphael's site!

In Rain or Shine

2013-06-03T18:52:00.001+08:00

Pushing Myself

2013-01-04T16:39:00.001+08:00

Oh, and as usual- "Like" the Facebook Page, if you haven't!

And...

Get a copy of this year's exclusive limited copies of calendars HERE

HAVE A HAPPY NEW YEAR (a lil late, I know)

and... and...

GOOD LUCK (if you're sittin for papers, like me D:)

2012 IS NOT THE END

2012-12-23T21:48:00.001+08:00

We survived 2012!!!!

and something BIG is on your way this 2013

Stay tuned...

Mirror Mirror on the Ceiling

2012-11-15T22:05:00.004+08:00

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I Mishh You

2012-10-20T20:49:00.002+08:00

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