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Teaching: Hyperlink Tutorial

2021-08-21T08:56:00.009+07:00

Sharing to teachers or parents who want to create engaging online resources 🥳 This was how I coped during the first wave of the pandemic. I hope you like it!

DISCLAIMER:
‼️This is not created by an expert. This is just something I learned to do as well.

‼️ The cliparts and fonts I used are downloaded for 'free' which means that I can only use them for personal use. Please read the copyright descriptions of your downloads.

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I said 'no' to my dream job

2021-03-22T17:34:00.002+07:00

How do we know what is truly right for us? Do we go with our gut? Do we flip a coin? Do we do an Instagram poll? Figuring it all out isn't always an easy process.

Last week, I was offered the job I thought I've always wanted. The promotion I have been quietly waiting for. Everyone was telling me how I've always been meant for this job - but why was it so easy to turn it down?

I had less than 24 hours to decide. A decision that will change my life. Hey, no biggie! It's just my dream job after all.

See, you would think the process will all be too easy: in the new world of (pandemic) uncertainty - we all need 'stability', my employer is finally recognizing the work I do, I can finally do the one thing I am confidently good at without others undermining me, and finally getting my dream job! But H to the L - NO! It was one of the worst 20 so hours of my life! I wanted to say yes, but my gut was trying to tell me all the right reasons why I should not take it.

I said 'no' to my dream job, and that's okay.

I thought that my dream job was the ultimate point for my professional-life validation, but it was not. The timing didn't feel right. Everything about it didn't feel right.

I knew that if I take it - I will fail myself. I will resent myself. I knew I would not be choosing myself. As cliché as this may sound - your gut will know, you'll know.

Know? How do we know that we 'know'? Will it send a clear message? Will there be some kind of divine intervention? Mine was clear when I sat in front of my employer, ready to say 'yes'- but instead, I said 'no'. Oh, the feeling I felt after saying 'no', it felt so good. Suddenly, there wasn't any doubt in my heart. There was peace in my mind.

Did I make the right choice? Maybe. But I lift all of my plans to God, and trust that His plans are so much better than mine!

The things that are meant for you, will always find a way back to you. You bring the opportunities wherever you go. They are always closer than you think. When it's right for you, you'll know. They will inspire you and it will inspire others too. The job that is meant for you, will make you stronger and become more of yourself, not less.

Just like the dreams we have when we sleep, they change. I know someday I can make this dream job happen, but right now, I need to heal.

COVID19 X My Mental State

2020-03-24T00:21:00.001+07:00

The world is united for once. United as we all deal with COVID-19. A lot are on lockdowns. Everyone is advised to stay home.

A lot of people I know back home in the Philippines are enjoying this time - staying home while they get to just sleep, eat, watch, repeat. A lot of people I know are currently at home, with their families. I am neither experiencing any of those mentioned. I continue to work. I continue to serve - alone and away from people I love.

I am not coping very well. I am currently under a lot of pressure. I am sleep deprived, my depression decided now is the perfect time to take over, I am exhausted, I am worried, I am breaking down.

If only it's possible - I volunteer to be sick for everyone. Let me have it as long as no one else will get sick anymore. I will do it just for everyone's normal routines to be back again. I'll take it all just to see grandparents kiss and hug their grandkids again. Let me have it all - so doctors and nurses can get the shower and sleep they all deserve. I'd happily volunteer to see everyone less worried again.

This is obviously not bringing out the best in me. Please check in on the people you love. How are they dealing with the current situation? Always remember to be kind. Not everyone is coping very well.

Plant Focus: Monstera Deliciosa

2019-12-08T15:22:00.000+07:00

Sundays are for my plants! It is when I water and wash them thoroughly and re-pot them if need be. I can easily spend half of my day getting dirty!

I have to admit, the only reason why I really wanted to get a Monstera plant is to make my apartment more Instagram-able!!! It can give any corner that tropical vibe! It wasn't an easy journey finding Monstera where I'm at. So imagine my excitement when I found some at the local plant nursery! The guy who owns the shop gave me this pot because of the new growth. It had that lime, light green that was different from the rest that are dark green in color!

Monstera can grow in any conditions - just be careful not to give them direct sunlight as it may cause sunburn! It's only been 2 weeks since I got this beaut and I've only watered it 3x. Check your plants to know if you are over or under watering them.

Monsteras are climbing plants. Get them a good pole to dance on - I mean, climb on!

There's really no right or wrong when it comes to plants - just like people, you have to get to know them to know what it needs. If they're happy, with lush green leaves and healthy roots - let them be, you're doing just fine! I hope they stay that way when I go away for the holidays! This will be the first time that I will be away for a very long time! Wish me luck!

Plant Mom

2019-11-27T14:47:00.000+07:00

I've been wanting to blog about my Plant Love life but I have no idea how to start. Wait, that's it! Maybe how it all started...

Nothing exciting, really. It was in 2017 (my last year in Singapore), it happened to be in one of the many unsung plant nurseries in Singapore. I was on a field trip with my Kinder kids and I got my first potted plant - lemongrass. I expected it to not survive under my care but it thrived for months! Fast-forward to my life in Korat, 2 months after I moved, I bought several potted plants for my first (rental) apartment. Fast-forward again to today, I still have those plants and more, happily growing and thriving! People pointed out i have a green thumb, I don't know about that but I am blown away by how well I can keep plants alive!

Being a plant mom for, I'd say, 2 years now, makes you learn as your plants grow. You learn what works and what doesn't. If you're watering too much, or too little. I didn't just learn those, I also learned life lessons taking care of plants:

Patience - Oh gosh, I am probably one of the impatient ones. Having plants force you to be patient. You have to wait for roots to grow, leaves to uncurl, flowers to bloom or stems to grow.

Routine - Having a routine is one of my weak points. I always work on having one and it goes well in few days or weeks and then I'm back to not having one. Having plants make you want to stick to your schedule. Now, Sundays are my re-potting/propagating day. I look forward to weekends so I can do plant errands.

And the most relatable and important lesson I've learned is

Resilience - Plants never fail to amaze me. I used to think that when plants grow dry and brown - they're good as dead. Wrong! Without really knowing what I was doing, I tried reviving a wilting plant and few days later, it was growing like new. That's when I learned all about propagation. Cut out a few dry ones, work on the nodes, grow and strengthen roots and life goes on. And just like plants, we are stronger than we think. Plants don't die out of insecurity and think "OMG, I have dried leaves I'm not pretty."

Grow without the validation of others. Grow stronger. And with the right care and environment, just like plants, you will thrive and grow with value and purpose.

You're My First 'What If'

2019-11-16T23:09:00.003+07:00

I wanted you to be the one. I wanted to see where this goes. But you gave up on me, you gave up on us. I know, that's too selfish of me to want you even when it's obvious that's not going to be reciprocated.

It's been two weeks and I'm still pretending I'm okay. I think about you a lot even when I try so hard not to. I later found out that the more you consciously fight it, the more you think about it.

I regret a lot of things in my life. With you, I regret not telling you enough how great you are as a person. I regret letting you see the dark days when I could've spent those positively instead. You didn't give me a chance. I had plans.

I can't stop thinking about you and I wish I could literally scoop it out of my mind! I want to stop missing you. I want to stop wondering how you're doing. I want to stop caring too much.

They said time heals all wounds. What if time stops, and it never heals?
They said it gets better. What if it doesn't?
They said some day, one day, I'll move on. What if it takes too long?
They said someone's better out there for me. What if you were my only shot?
What if? What if?

What if I was right about us?

The Twos of Me

2019-10-22T22:03:00.000+07:00

After 14 years of misdiagnosis, broken relationships, estranged siblings, physical, mental and emotional exhaustion, hurtful judgement from people among all other things.. I finally know what is going on. It's not easy living as me. It's so complicated. It's scary. One day I'm okay, the next minute I'm not. I have pushed a lot of people away from getting close to me. I don't think I can ever forgive myself if I push you away from me.

Here's an open letter to anyone who cares about someone with PMDD:

Until I fully get better, I need you to know that one, or worse, two days in a month, someone else will be answering your text messages to me. She might not be as fun, funny and nice as I am. She might say things that I don't normally say on our usual conversations. She will be boring, annoying, exhausting and really heavy to be around with. Please understand... She's not me. She's the PMDD talking. She's taken over me and like you, she's not my favorite. Believe me, I've tried a lot of things to win against her, but all she makes me want to do is think I'm not pretty, think I'm not worth anything, think I don't deserve anything nice. Oh, and not just that, there will be times in those 2 days I mentioned earlier, that she won't even let me do anything, not even to get up to get food, worse, to pee. You see, I don't like her. I don't like her a lot. I don't like what she's making me do to you. Can you please stay with me a little longer until I make her go away? I would really like you to get to know "me", and not "her". I'd need a lot of patience and understanding from you for me in those two days. But if you can't, I'll be very sad but I'll understand.

Love,
Me - who is trying so so hard to be better every single day

I Don't Want My Anxiety To Push You Away

2019-09-27T15:46:00.001+07:00

I want to text and ask about your day, but I just sent a funny meme not long ago.

I want to see you today, but we just met yesterday.

I want to hear your voice, but I'm scared you'll think I'm clingy.

I am in a constant battle with my head. I almost never feel secured with anything. I make scenarios in my head only to make myself feel miserable. It is an eternal plight of discomfort.

I'm always in constant fear. Fear of meeting new people, finding friends and entering a potential stable relationship.

I know my anxiety will ruin everything for me eventually. Everyone I care about. My friends will eventually get tired of texting me as I keep leaving them unanswered. I am tired of being the toxic one because I keep turning down invitations.

It's constant battle but I know I am bigger than all the things I worry about. I will not allow my anxieties ruin a possibility I may have with you. Please be patient with me as I learn how to be with myself.

Dear God - I'm Overthinking, I'm Overwhelmed

2019-09-11T16:27:00.001+07:00

Dear God,

I think too much, God. I'm sure you know this well. My thoughts are running wild and my guess is you're probably laughing at how silly the things I worry about are. I worry a lot. I worry over things that haven't happened yet. I worry about people who are just entering my life. I worry over words I've said or didn't say.

I need your help, God.

Please bless my worried mind and calm it. Touch my pouting lips and replace them with smiles that could brighten up other people's days as well. I pray that you remind me that I am not in control of what happens in my life. That you are bigger than any of my fears.

Philippians 4:6-7

Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.

I know You're there, even if I can't see you. I know You're near me, ready to protect me, to listen to me, to save me and to catch me.

I want my heart and my mind to be at peace, Lord. With you, all things are possible! Amen

This is How She Finally Got Over You

2018-07-19T22:02:00.001+07:00

I recently went through a heartbreak- a week before my summer break! A WEEK BEFORE MY SUMMER BREAK! I was so hurt and sad. I was watching comedy films and crying. I was crying while doing what I was doing: crying while cooking, crying while cleaning the flat, crying while folding clothes, CRYING WHILE WATCHING ADS BETWEEN FOOTBALL GAMES! I was just crying (and it felt okay).

It wasn't even that long, the "relationship", but I guess no number of days, months or years matter if you truly cared for that person. It hurts just the same. It was hard to accept that weekends will never be the same again. That evenings and some mornings would feel incomplete without the texts or memes. That McDonald's takeouts will never be as exciting.

The first 5 days were the hardest to bare. I'd cry in the bathroom, while having lunch, heck I'd even cry every after my "Good Bye" song to each class. Emotions were too heavy; I was angry, confused, happy and sad- really, really sad. It was after I sent the "hate text" when I finally felt better. I deleted all possible connections - social media and phone numbers. I deleted all message histories, pictures, videos anything to remind me of him.

I drank from (late) mornings until I pass out just before dinnertime. Bottles go empty in just a short period of time. I listened to sad songs from the 90s until the present time. I watched heartbreaking films, just so I could have a reason to cry even more.

Then I stopped drinking; because it made me realize, I'm not doing myself any good. I bought a new pair of gym shoes, and worked out every day. I made personal records every 2 days and spent longer hours in the gym as days pass.

I went to the beach, because there was no better medicine for the pain except saltwater and to get away. I used the GoPro I got you for your fishing trip.

I smiled at everyone, even strangers I met along the way. I made small-talks to people which I've always hated to do.

I reached out to people I admire, from strangers on social medias, people I've lost connections with for a long time, friends and families. I was desperate for a person. I was lonely and I was alone. What was surprising about this step is that I heard more from people I didn't expect I would. People who lent listening ears and gave their words to help me see better. I surrounded myself with people who encouraged me to be devastated, to cry and to feel better.

I wrote a lot about it- the whole experience. My journal was filled with rollercoasters of emotions. The good, sweet words that kept haunting me. The hurtful moments that I never really spoke about. The memories, the what-ifs, the maybes, the I-knew-its. Sleeping became difficult because I keep having flashbacks every time I close my eyes.

And then I've been praying; more now than I ever did before. I was talking to Him more. I am grateful because while I was praying for the relationship to work out and for him to be the one, He was actually working on removing him from my life to give way to someone better.

Three weeks after having the "not fun conversation"- I am finally over you. I finally got over being just an option, got over being second to everything else. It was never okay right from the start, but I liked you too much to walk away. You only wanted when things would be easy for you, only at your convenience, your own terms- never making me a priority.

But there are lessons I will always be thankful for from this experience- from you:
1. TRUST YOUR F***ING GUT. My gut was always right ABOUT EVERYTHING, but you made me believe I was crazy for assuming.
2. I DESERVE TO BE A PRIORITY. And never will I ever settle being just an option or a back up plan again.
3. YOU WILL NEVER BE ENOUGH FOR THE WRONG ONE. Even with all the time and effort I invested, no matter how much I cared, no matter what; I can never be as good (or more) as someone else.
4. ACCEPT AND FORGIVE. My last text may not be a good one but I forgive you. This is my only consolation so I can freely move on.

5. DO NOT BE AFRAID TO LEAVE. It's not the end of the world. He is not the last of the good guys. There will be someone out there who will be everything he's not.
6. DO NOT BE TOO HARD ON YOURSELF. Self-care is very important. Knowing your worth is the key and most important part of self-care.

What Goes in a Woman's Head During Your BNO (Boys' Night Out)

2018-05-13T20:44:00.002+07:00

Science reveals that an occasional Boys' Night Out is good for the relationship. It's a perfect time for the ladies to enjoy a night alone- Be guilt-free about being messy. Enjoy a bag of chips and a bottle of wine without sharing or watch cute animal videos over and over again.

You see, most sane women will be A-OK with BNOs because we all know what happens during BNOs- video games, "pissing game" of who travelled more (or who lifts heavier), movie reviews, beers, pizza, farting, loud burps and more video games. However, on (hopefully) occasional circumstances, some women tend to become insecure because of what you are doing (or not doing).

Here, let me tell you what makes a sane woman go "in" (insane, insecure, intrigued):

"The Friends" Ever heard of "Women's Instincts?" Women in general don't hate your friends for no reason. There's always a reason and sometimes it's for your best interest. Therefore, if your woman is giving you a hard time over "this/these friend/s", it's only because she feels that they may have the "influence" on you- whether this friend smokes/drinks a lot (while you're trying to quit), this friend is known to cheat, or constantly being negative and complaining about everything. She only want what's best for you and that includes the people you surround yourself with. You owe it as her boyfriend to listen to her point. If she's being irrational, talk to her. Communicate why she needs to trust you but never try to prove her 'gut feeling' wrong. You'll give her one good reason to not trust you more.

"Jealousy/Insecurities" Okay, I will humble myself down and say that these feelings (jealousy and insecurity) are very common among women. It's just normal. Women get jealous when they see their man getting fulfillment out of any thing, time or body (among others) that is not her. This is especially true if she's seeing another side of you that doesn't come out when you're with her (shocking isn't it? ha).

If this is how your woman is, chances are there's a certain lack of fun and/or attention in the relationship. I know, I'm rolling my eyes with you but that's just how women work. (your) Life will not be this colorful without us! Sorry!

So how do we deal with this? Don't keep her out of the loop. This doesn't mean calling her every minute to report. Include her in your other relationships too. You don't have to physically bring her to your BNOs, but you could let her in as little or as much as possible. Tell her about a funny joke or something significant that happened that night.

Girls are fairly understanding when not triggered to doubt and overthink. You wanted this, make it work for your drama-free BNOs and her sanity's sake.

A Letter to Who I Was Some Twenty Years Ago

2018-04-25T00:30:00.000+07:00

Dear Eight-years-old-Andrea,

Hi. I know right now you're probably busy playing with your Barbie Dolls or your Polly Pockets. Don't worry, this will not take much of your time.

When you get a little older, you'll find out that the world is a scary place. You need to get yourself ready for that. I cannot tell you what, how or why. I guess you will figure that out yourself as and when it happens. What I can tell you though, is what you can be ready for.

Listen to you parents, that's a very important rule! They will tell you off a lot of times and you will hate them for it, but trust them when they say that it's for your own good. When your mom asks you to help out with chores, do it. You'll need that when you start living by yourself. And learn how to cook!!!!!!

Next on the list is EDUCATION. School is very important! I know you’ll meet cool people and would even be friends with them, because duh, you’re a cool girl! But try not to forget about your studies. Trust me, it will all come in handy when you’re older. Oh and one more important thing to remember, do not lose your school notes! I hate myself right now for not having a single note from class.

Ahhhh! Love and friendships! In the coming years, your world will revolve around these two things. You will think that they are more important than anything else in the world. You will skip movie nights with your family because you have an important 3-way call from your bestie and her crush, or you’d keep asking for extra cash to top-up your phone credits to text your crush. You will hear stories about love from your gran and gramp, mom and dad, uncles and aunties and you would think love is such a wonderful thing to have. Oh it sure is! But honey, by the time you really understand what love means, the whole love game manual will completely be revised. It's not going to be the same 20 years from now (even 10 or 15 maybe). You'll think you'll find the "one" for you and you will feel you've given him everything, so when he leaves, your whole world will turn upside down. You will meet guys who will tell you "you're the only one", believe them when they say that but don't be surprised to find out that they're in-love with someone else while seeing you. Ghosting will also be a thing! So will cheating, leading on, casual dating and relationships without labels. Sounds fun right? So kid, live your life as a child. Don't rush to grow up! Play and sleep a lot because life gets tougher as you grow older.

There's no way to know how life will end up for you. You will fall in love a lot of times and you will get hurt as well. Sometimes life is amazing, at times you'll tell yourself you want to give up. DON'T. Life ahead will not be an easy drive. Hang in there. Sometimes you'd feel like you're stuck. A lot can happen in just a couple of days even months. Nothing is ever permanent and you are in charge of your life. Choose what's best for you, not what's best for him or for them because little pea, YOU WILL BE ONE HELL OF A LADY, YOU DESERVE EVERYTHING NICE IN THIS WORLD.

Love,

(soon to be) Twenty-Eight-Years-Old-Andrea ♡

This is How She’ll Finally Leave You

2018-04-21T13:00:00.000+07:00

She’ll text you good morning and you’ll toss it aside to answer later. You’ll ask her to hangout this weekend and she would rearrange her schedule just to meet your free time. Then you cancel on her last minute. 

But she won’t call out on you. She won’t get upset. She will fake a smile and say “It’s fine. There’s always another time.” She won’t walk away or run for the hills, even if you treat her like a backup plan. 

She will ignore all her friends saying “Leave. Leave now! You deserve someone better!” and instead, she will stand up for you and make up all the excuses on your behalf. 

She won’t see them as mixed signals. She will continue to convince herself that it’ll be worth staying even if it hurts in the moment. 

She will keep telling herself that “he said he misses me”, instead of seeing that you’re not putting any efforts for her. She will convince herself that you like her instead of realizing that you don’t like her enough. 

But these won’t stop you from leading her on. 

It will also not stop you from swiping through dating apps and talk to random girls behind her back. You’ll make her believe that she’s the only one, but you're making her feel otherwise. But guess what? None of those matter because she isn’t going anywhere. 

Until she does. She will finally wake up from the dream that she could actually create a real relationship with you. 

She’s everything you are too blind to see. She’s patient,thoughtful and understanding but man, she’s not stupid.

Tech Bites: Instagram on your Desktop?

2017-10-13T10:38:00.000+07:00

INSTAGRAM used to only be accessible from your phone until it was made available for viewing on desktop (hooray!). Unfortunately there's no upload feature.

But ever wished you could upload photos straight from your desktop? Yes, it's possible now all thanks to this new app that lets Instagram think you're using a mobile browser!

WINDOWED is a very simple, clean and straightforward program. Just click on the camera icon and upload your photo!

Windowed is free but there's a donate option to keep the program funded for constant improvements! Download Windowed from the app's website.

UPDATE: 2017!

2017-08-29T23:11:00.000+07:00

Hi!!!!!!!!!

It's been a while since I last posted something here so I thought I should make an update while I'm inspired to blog!

A lot has happened to me in the last couple of months; some are good, some are bad but all of those taught me valuable lessons that I will carry for the rest of my life. Let's start from 2016:

Last October 2016 I got sick, really really sick that I had to fly back home to the Philippines after being rushed to E.R./A&E. I will not go into details about it because I start getting sad when I think about it. That incident also resulted me to quit my job and take a rest. I was unemployed for two months and it really didn't go well. It triggered my depression and I was just not feeling complete even if I was home, with my family. Right after new year's day (January 2017), I flew back to Singapore for a new job experience!

Things were going really well. I made more friends, more memories. I was happier. My new job was great, I was learning new things. I was excited to go to work! Another reason why I was happy is that my new job let us have a month of paid vacation!!!! I went on my first 'backpacking trip' around Vietnam, Cambodia and Thailand for 22 days! That travel was one of the most amazing things that has ever happened to me (yet). I have a draft post about my travels so I will also not go into details about that here.

It's true about the saying "good things come to an end", literally. No, I am not talking about my trip.. Because guess what? I lost my job (again)! Did I do something wrong? No. Did I violate any rules or S.O.P? No. Did I fall sick again? No. So what happened? I got an immediate termination because, HEAR THIS: "IT WASN'T WORKING OUT!" (taking the words out of my ex- principal's mouth) "It's not you, it's us." SERIOUSLY?! And it happened less than 24 hours upon landing back in Singapore! What's more disappointing is that I wasn't given a notice period despite the fact they already have the decision a month ago! I prayed hard to seek for forgiveness and even though I struggled so much mentally, emotionally and financially after being laid off, I looked at the brighter side. It wasn't my calling at all. It could also be a way of telling me to leave Singapore and explore other places.

That's the reason why I am here now, in Thailand. It's only been a month and yes, I have been constantly feeling homesick every weekend but I am happy to have chosen my career development over my comfort zone. There are millions of instances where I wish I'm still in Singapore, like when I need friends to be with, when it's Saturday and I feel like wilding it out on the dance floor, or when I couldn't sleep and walk around the marina area past midnight without getting murdered or attacked by stray dogs BUT I don't think I'll ever let an opportunity for career growth pass.

So is this big move worth it? I hope so.

Until then.. cheers from Thailand!

xX Andrea

Exploring Singapore: Skyline

2017-03-22T18:22:00.000+07:00

I have always been in love with Singapore's skyline. It's not just because of its grandeur but because it's a good view to remind me that this country has been my home for the past 5, going 6 years. I love going to the marina area being surrounded by these superb looking architectures especially at night when they all gleam with bright lights.

My view was even made more special when I went up and took the Singapore Flyer capturing Singapore's beauty using a Time Lapse video from a GoPro Hero 4. Watch in HD below. Enjoy!

SG Skyline from Andrea DG on Vimeo.

Is "Wearing Your Heart on Your Sleeve" a good thing?

2017-03-20T22:43:00.000+07:00

What does "Wearing Your Heart on Your Sleeve" mean anyway? There could be a lot of interpretations to this idiom but to put it simply; it means you're open, forthright and obvious about your emotions. It also means you're vulnerable and a risk taker.

A lot would think that wearing your heart on your sleeve poses more danger than good, well yes, of course! You are putting yourself out there, out in the unknown. This means you are risking yourself to.. ready? GET HURT (ah, i'm getting ahead of myself there) :p

Sure there will be a significant number of things to list why WYHOYS is a bad idea, but some gifted women are willing to try .. Why? Here's my list why:

1. It can always make a boring night out in a pub (er, bar) fun (especially with the cute guy you've been eyeing on all night). This doesn't happen all the time but sometimes, you'll never know who you'll end up connecting with.

2. You're a dauntless SON OF A B**** and you deserve a high-five! Again, not all women are gifted with this,so putting yourself out there is a really big brave step.

3. You see the good in everyone. Fresh start, clean slate for each and every new person you meet. No comparisons, no expectations (because expectations suck)

4. This would sound sad but WYHOYS means you are highly exposing yourself to rejection/s. However, since you are agreeable to the Terms and Conditions of WYHOYS, you would take it as just a little prick on the heart and carry on.

5. You don't miss an opportunity to express how you feel -regardless of what the other person would respond. That means no (or lesser) "What Ifs", "Should'ves" and "Maybes". Yeah!

6. You don't hold grudges to these guys. That's because when you WYHOYS, you believe in EHFAR (that everything happens for a reason).

As a woman who (sometimes.. fine, most times) wear my heart on my sleeve, I have one thing to tell you guys: "If you've ever encountered anyone who's ever willing to jump into the unknown with you or for you.. feel proud. Do not, for once, even think that they are CLINGY AND CRAZY. This is one reason why people are so hesitant to even try. They develop insecurities because they are being judged as someone who catches too many feelings easily. I don't see anything wrong with that, I actually think it's beautiful. I guess that's when you need to up your grit, to fight for the one worthy of the jump and/or to pick yourself back up from those who are not."

Exploring Thailand: Phuket 2016

2016-10-30T23:52:00.000+07:00

February this year when I did a last minute, impulsive trip to Phuket, Thailand. The only bad thing about the trip is getting my card "eaten" by the machine, which is for another post. Have fun watching my travel video :)

Phuket, Thailand from Andrea DG on Vimeo.

Exploring Singapore: Vibrant Little India

2016-10-09T11:45:00.000+07:00

I've been living in Singapore for 5 years and only now that I've been able to visit this (side of the) very fun and colourful neighborhood of Little India!

I only go to Little India for 2 reasons: (1) because I have a friend who recommended a food place to get my Prata and Naan cravings from and (2) because of Mustafa Centre, a 24-hour (whatever you need, you can find here) shop. Now that I've explored the neighbourhood more, I can tell that there's really more to it than just Indian cuisines.

We took the train from Simei (EW3) to (via transfer; Downtown Line) Little India (NE7/DT12). Take Exit E.

So in love with my Instagram feed now!

This wall gives the ultimate #OOTD backdrop!

Even the bananas are all fun and colourful!

Exploring Thailand: Bangkok - Grand Palace, Wat Pho, Phra Sumen Fort and Santichaiprakarn Park

2015-11-22T17:15:00.001+07:00

Upon my arrival at Suvarnabhumi Airport, I am very much reminded of my hometown. From the look and feel of the terminal to the people around me. One thing's definite, it feels like home, somehow.

I didn't waste my first night and walked around the busy, loud and full of life roads of Rambutrri and Khao San. I also had my very first Pad Thai and Chang beer (yes, my first time trying out Pad Thai. ikr?) After two bottles of beer, I retreated back to my room and called it a night.

I started off my first official day in Bangkok flipping my room upside down trying to look for my GoPro and camera charging cables! Apparently, I brought the wrong ones so I had to make my way to Pantip Plaza where most of the IT stuff are. After getting one, I was ready to go.

First on the (official) list, is the Church where my grandparents got married 53 years ago! I went to Saint Louis Church from Pantip Plaza via MRT. After saying my prayers and absorbing the beauty of the Church and letting the thought of my grandparents getting married there sink in, I went back to my hostel to meet Mona, a travel buddy I met from Couchsurfing whom I'll be with to see the Temples.

We walked from my hostel at Rambutrri to the Grand Palace. I kid you not, the sun was very angry that day! I felt my skin steaming! We didn't go in the Grand Palace past the ticketing area. It was packed with tourists so we decided to skip it and go to Wat Pho instead.

Wat Pho was definitely quieter and with lesser crowd. We got our tickets for 100THB (S$4) which includes a free bottle of water (you'd be thankful for it). According to one of the staff there, Wat Pho is one of Bangkok's oldest temples and already existed before Bangkok was established as the capital by King Rama. There are about 91 pagodas of different sizes all over the temple ground. It's an amazing place! It's overwhelming to be surrounded by beautiful structures and learning about different beliefs and cultures.

Wat Pho is where the reclining Buddha is. The Reclining Buddha is 46m long and 15m high, and illustrates the passing of the Buddha into nirvana. The figure is modeled out of plaster, around a brick core and finished with gold leaf. The feet displayed 108 different characteristics of Buddha. It was huge and gold!

After a total of 4 hours under the scorching sun, Mona and I decided to retreat back to my hostel to freshen up before I send her off for her next adventure to explore the rest of Thailand, while I stay behind in Bangkok (sad face).

Flu was definitely creeping in so at 8 in the evening, I popped some (anti) flu pills and slept. My last day was allotted for Chatuchak Weekend Market (because according to travel blogs, half day will never be enough for shopping lol). I was up early feeling much better from the flu. Had my breakfast in my hostel and walked around the area since it was still early to head out. I honestly didn't have any idea where I was going until I saw a park and a white structure that looked familiar (probably from the internet). Walked my way to the park and realised I was at the Phra Sumen Fort and Santichaiprakarn Park.

This Fort is one of only two forts remaining in Bangkok that were constructed to defend the city from invasions. King Rama I had 14 of these forts built. The fort is an octagon shape with three levels. Theses forts were used as an ammunition post and observation point overlooking the Chao Phraya. The bottom two levels had canons deployed which can be seen as you walk around the outside of the fort.

Since it was my first time, I felt like I wasn't prepared enough. It's a learning point though. So next time I get lost in Bangkok again, I will make sure not to miss Grand Palace and Wat Arun. I'll be back for you again, Bangkok! Oh, and my Chatuchak Weekend Market post will be up soon (I hope haha). It needs a separate post. Shopping blog post, can't wait! xx

x Stranger Danger x

2015-11-02T21:34:00.002+07:00

When I was growing up, strangers are a big no no. You can't talk to them. You can't be around them. I was skeptical of anyone who I've not met before or have no common acquaintance with.

But after moving out of my hometown to another country where I know no one except relatives and few friends, it is unavoidable to encounter strangers. I learned to step out of my shell and slowly warm up to people I've never met before.

In this modern time where everyone seems to make social media and pub hopping (and/or the likes) a part of their lives, odds are, you will chance upon a stranger. From online dating sites to Twitter followers to Instagram hashtags or followers, to cafe or pub hopping, there are strangers everywhere.

There are different kinds of strangers we will encounter. Most would probably be a one time encounter and some would stay and become friends with. I've met a lot of both. I've met people I've not personally met yet but keep in contact with through messaging. I've met strangers from travelling and still keep in contact with. Strangers are basically friends we've never met yet. But are all strangers worth being friends with?

For people who have been following my lame blogger life, you would somehow get that I have trust issues (thanks to all the wrong men I've loved before ROFL). Lies are easily used to front a good first impression. I met someone who said he was single. We hung out a couple of times and dearly enjoyed each other's company. To cut the long and boring story short, I found out that he is currently in a long term relationship. I had to (try) stop(pping) whatever was going on between us. Can someone please enlighten me why people do this?

I am not saying that everyone out there are bad and dangerous. In fact, there are still people out there who are genuinely nice and friendly. BUT this does not give you the assurance to let your guard down. Remember, not everyone you meet are as nice as Snow White (Uhm, what? Yeah you get what I mean lol).

Remember these 5 things when being around strangers for the first time (and 5 reason why you should not be afraid to meet one):

When meeting a stranger for the first time...

1. Never disclose personal details on the FIRST encounter (not even the second or third). First name is fine but your whole name including your mother's maiden name? Unless it's a job interview or a police investigation, go ahead. You may even say your dog's middle name.

2. Never trust your valuables around strangers (or trust them at all in general). Going for a bathroom break? Bring your handbag which carries your wallet and phone. You can never be too sure of these people. I have a friend who met someone who looks very decent - wears expensive clothes, speaks well and looks well mannered. She left her bag on the table and asked this guy to look after for her as she would just make a quick order of drinks, few seconds after standing up, the guy was gone and so were her stuff.

3. Do not get too drunk (aka wasted) ALONE with strangers. No this is something I've not done before. But it's basically self explanatory. DON'T EVEN THINK ABOUT IT.

4. (Try hard) not to fall in love on your first encounter. Is that even possible? Yes, it can happen. Although most of the time it is more just an infatuation than love, some people actually do develop certain emotions towards people they've just met. Yes, I very well know how this works. It can be both a good and a bad thing actually. Well, mostly bad haha. Just be careful. It can be a deep dark trap if the other party is not as interested as you are.

5. There can never be enough reminders to tell people how to act around strangers. There could be different situations that would require certain behaviours. Again, not everyone are threat to society but in the end, always think about your safety. There's nothing wrong with being (too) friendly but always keep your guard up.

But on the other hand, there are also 5 (awesome) things why we should let ourselves meet these "stranger dangers" at least once in our lives..

1. Expand your social circle. You don't want to be stuck with the same boring (I am joking friends and family) people for the rest of your life.

2. Connections. With strangers being friends, chances are you will meet someone who you will have (or need) connections with. One time, I headed an event where I needed a sound system, I remember that I had drinks with someone who was a friend of a friend that runs some sound system business. Problem solved and I helped him promote his business, win - win!

3. More stories, different experiences. Chances are, these strangers you meet will not be from the same walk of life as yours and this will bring about different kinds of stories and experiences. You will pick up life lessons and advises from different heads of opinions.

4. Chance on love. Well.. who knows? We all begin as strangers anyway, right? ;)

5. Lesson/s. Strangers, may they be a one time encounter or someone who will become a dear friend, or bring about heartaches or become the love of your life, will become a learning point in your life. Everyone we meet, I believe, did not just cross our paths to walk by. Everyone did or will do something significant. Now, with every encounter you will have, think about what story you will have with this person that is worth writing in your life's storybook (may it be good or bad.. think about it).

Hey there stranger, nice to meet you.

Exploring Singapore : MacRitchie Reservoir / Nature Trail

2015-08-23T22:21:00.000+07:00

I have always wanted to go to MacRitchie Reservoir/Nature Trail. I've been seeing this on my Instagram feed and in different blogs. I knew I had to check it out myself. The only thing is, I always delay it. It's either because I have no one to go with or other plans come up. So I made a (very last minute decision) visit.

Started my day with an amazing brunch! I had some Honey Chicken with Chips (@And Why Cafe) followed by Brownies and Cinnamon Bun for dessert (@Fika Swedish Cafe) which was obviously fast consumed.

I was supposed to go to the Library and spend the whole day there. I did go though but something's telling me to pack up and leave, so I did. I went to Vivo City to run a quick errand and I thought, I am not ready to end my day at 16:45 so I took the Circle Line train and thought of going to MacRitchie Reservoir. I alighted at Caldecott MRT and walked to MediaCorp bus stop. I then took bus 980 and alighted after one stop.

Feeling all cool and spontaneous not knowing what adventure I will be having for the day.

There were a lot of stray monkeys! I was mostly scared I'd get attacked but so far I'm in one piece!

There were a lot of runners on site. I took my time, slow steps, trying to take in the beauty of the place!

I did start running halfway the trail when I have at least an idea what I'll be expecting. Too bad I wasn't able to make it to the Tree Top Walk, I will definitely be back in full gear and earlier too!

It was starting to get dark and an uncle tapped me to say I'd better start running back if I'm alone, there will be no street lamps on the trail back. So I did. And I'm glad I did because I'm pretty sure I came across 3 kinds of creatures on my way down.

MacRitchie Nature Trail & Reservoir Park

MacRitchie Reservoir Park, Singapore 298717

Exploring Singapore: #SG50

2015-08-09T22:30:00.000+07:00

Singapore, the place I've been calling home for the past three and a half years. And as the country marks it's 50th year, I will not miss the chance to celebrate with the great Singaporean nation.

Started off my day having brunch at Little India with my college friends. We always go to this place for a good dose of prata and buttered chicken. I am not a big fan of spicy food but this can pass.

After a heavy (and spicy) brunch, we made our way to Marina Bay as early as 12:00 to get a good spot for the program.

We had, I would say, an amazing spot. The view was just right. We were at the waterfront area.

We obviously had to make do of what we have to entertain ourselves for the 5-hour waiting time.

At around 5 in the afternoon, people from the stage area started cheering loudly. The loud cheers were followed by loud roars of plane engines as The Five Stars, a tribute to the late founding father of Singapore, Mr. Lee Kuan Yew, flew above us.

Isn't the view lovely? There would be nights when I will travel to this area just to have some peace and quiet. I love this place especially when the dark night is filled with city lights! Ahhh, Singapore!

And boooooom! Our 5-hours of waiting under Singapore heat was worth it. It was one of the best displays I've ever seen.

Happy Birthday, Singapore. I will not disappoint you for having me here. I have always been in awe of how united the people are to build a stronger nation. Look at where you are now, Singapore. You've come a long way! Cheers!

View in HD! Enjoy :)

Exploring Singapore: Chinese Garden

2015-08-07T22:30:00.000+07:00

It's Singapore's Day 2 of the (4-day) Jubilee Weekend. Too bad the weather hasn't been great the past few days too. But that didn't stop me from walking around. So as soon as the rain stopped, I went out (with no plans in mind).

While in the train, I searched for the keywords "things to do in Singapore", "nature", "photography", and the likes. I stumbled upon The Smart Local's article on 20 most Instagram worthy places in Singapore.

I thought of going to Chinese Garden first as it's far from my place and I thought it's a great time now before I go lazy and opt for pillow cuddles in bed again.

My 75-minutes in the train wasn't that bad as there were not much crowd around. I was surprised! I was expecting it to be crowded because, well, it's Friday and it's a public holiday!

I made a quick stop to NUS first before making my way to Chinese Garden addidng another 20 minutes or so to my travel time.

After NUS, I made my way to Chinese Garden MRT station where I met up with two of my closest college friends.

Chinese Garden is a great place to run, grab a bite, wander around alone (if you want peace and quiet away from the busy city), and/or just catch up with friends.

Because of the bad weather (and it was quite late when we were there), I wasn't able to walk around the whole park/garden. BUT... I will definitely gather the energy to visit this place again.

Chinese Garden Singapore
Address: 1 Chinese Garden Rd, 619795

MRT Station: Chinese Garden (EW25)
Hours: Open 24 hours
Phone: 6261 3632

#DYD in Thailand!

2015-07-12T11:50:00.000+07:00

Two weeks ago, I made an expensive impulsive decision- to book a flight to Bangkok. Now, my pockets may be empty but my heart and my mind are rich with memories and experiences that no amount of Baht or Dollars could ever compare to.

This experience has opened my eyes to a lot of things. It made me appreciate almost everything now. I left Singapore with a heavy heart thinking I could run away for a while, but as I return, I am now determined to push myself more and gather as much inspiration I could to work harder so I could reward myself (more and) better.

When things get harder, think of the places or things you want to do or go to, and keep that goal 'til you make it!

I am now waiting for my boarding call. This airport is amazing! Can't wait to tell you more about my quick get away once I get settled back in Singapore!

From Bangkok, Thailand with love,
E xx