We are currently seeking a great woman for our southern bachelor.  The woman we are looking for is 45 – 55 with a cowgirl style.  She loves southern men and understands them.  She loves to be spoiled but would never take advantage if his southern hospitality.  She enjoys cultural activities such as the theater, but is just as comfortable at the Stock Show.

Her Style.

The woman we are seeking is a cowgirl at heart.  She may have grown up in the south or maybe even in the big city, but she loves the laid back ways of the ranch.  She knows how to ride a horse and she can two step with the best of them.  She is friendly and compassionate, with a huge heart. Best of all she knows how to make gravy!

Some More Details About Her.

Does this sound like you so far? Well read on for some more information and don’t worry if you aren’t a perfect match, get in touch anyway!

• Someday you’d love to go on a real roundup!
• You might root for the Broncos, but deep down you’re a Cowboys fan!
• Country music if your favorite and you might also love old time t.v. like Gunsmoke or Bonanza.
• You’d prefer to eat at a steak place over a sushi bar.
• Your children are grown or you don’t have any.
• You are loyal to a fault and have a great sense of humor.

Are You His Match?

If you are  a cowgirl at heart or know someone who is, get in touch with us! We’d love to meet you!

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We are currently seeking an amazing young woman for one of our bachelors in Denver.  This woman will be 25-32 years old with a passion for living life to it’s fullest.  While she likes to have a fun and be silly at times, she is also well grounded in career and family.  She’s the all American girl next door with some style and zing to go along with her wholesome, unassuming femininity.

The Girl Next Door.

The woman we are seeking is the stereo typical girl next door, but more.  She is the sweet-tempered girl he sees daily, a really great friend, and the “perfect” girl to take home to his parents.  On the flip side, she has a fun, exciting side that his parents will never see.  She can be goofy, sensual, sexy, and serious all wrapped up into one.

More Details About Her.

Do you sound like the woman we are looking for? or do you know the perfect match?  Read more about her below.

• You would like to settle down with a great man and start a family of your own someday.
• At times you like to stay in and be mellow, but you also enjoy getting out and doing things with friends, family and/or your significant other.
• Absolutely love dogs!
• The Bronco’s and the Nuggets are two of your favorite sports teams and you enjoy going to the games when you can nab some tickets.

Are You His Match?

If you think this sounds like you or someone you know, get in touch with us today! We’d love to talk to you and find out more and there is never a cost or obligation to talk with us!

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We are currently seeking a warm, fit, and well traveled woman for one of our clients in Lone Tree.  A great gal for this worldly and mature bachelor will be a very genuine and kind hearted woman.  She’ll be a strong communicator, petite and slender (to better match his thin/athletic build) and would love to live overseas in a lesser developed country someday.  She is probably 34-40 years old with a desire for children in her future.

Her Style.

The woman we are looking for is described by others as sweet, gentle and warm, but at the same time she is intelligent, has a sense of who she is and is comfortable with herself.  She also has a sense of adventure and would love to see more of the world, even the not so cultured parts.  She is a strong communicator and does a good job of working through any issues or disagreements in a kind and open-minded way.  She might be competitive when it comes to athletics, but when it comes to her relationships she knows how to compromise and negotiate.

Activities.

In our search we would like to find a woman who is interested in a healthy lifestyle. She is fit and active, enjoying a variety of outdoor activities such as hiking, backpacking, biking, skiing, tennis or jogging.  In addition to the fitness activities she also likes cultural activities such as visiting a museum, attending the theater or a lecture, going to an outdoor summer concert, and even catching a movie.

More details about her.

Do you sound like the woman we are looking for so far? Read more about her below.

• You are feminine and can go from jeans to a black tie event easily.
• If you speak a foreign language that would be a plus, especially Spanish or French so you can converse with our bachelor.
• As a great cook you would win over his stomach and his heart, our bachelor is happy to hand over the kitchen to you!
• Family is important to you and you have a good relationship with yours.

Are you his match?

If you think this sounds a bit like you get in touch with us today!  We’ll talk to you and find out if you are his perfect match!

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The Argument for the Man Falling Faster.

My husband’s argument is that women do not typically sleep around or take having sex with someone lightly.  Therefore, a guy knows that if he has sex with a woman, she must really like him already and it is now safe for him to fall head over heels for her.  He points out that my argument fails (see below) because there are in fact some women who sleep around and they don’t fall for the men at all.

The Argument for the Woman Falling Faster.

My argument is that women fall faster because after they have sex with a man something “chemically”  happens and they feel very attached to that man.  Having sex changes something for women. There is a whole body of research by Dr. Helen Fisher, a biological anthropologist, showing how the chemicals in a woman’s body actually cause her to be more attracted to a man she sleeps with, especially if she has an orgasm.  These chemicals may even cause her to fall in love with the man.

Who Falls Faster?

It seems we have my biological argument and a more intellectual argument by my husband.  So the question is, who is right?  Are we both right?  What has been your experience?  Do women or men fall faster? Post your thoughts, we’d love to hear them!

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We are currently looking for a young woman south of Denver such as Parker, Castle Rock, or Highlands Ranch for one of our single clients in Castle Rock. The perfect woman for this great guy will be 26-34 years old, who is fun and active, intellectual and enjoys the simple pleasures in life.

Her life so far.

She has never been married but would like to be and she does not have any children but would like them sometime in the future, not right away. She wants to spend some time as a couple before adding children to the mix. She has a college degree and maybe has a master’s degree or more, he does. She has a job she enjoys but it’s ok if her current job isn’t what she expects to do for the rest of her life. She also knows how to have a healthy balance between work, exercise, recreation, and friends.

Things she likes.

Being outdoors makes her smile as she enjoys the mountains and city alike. She is equally open to getting dressed up and going downtown for dinner and the theater as she is hanging out at home with pizza and a movie while snuggling on the couch. She is in good shape and enjoys hiking, biking, might jog, play volleyball or even soccer. She’s up for trying new activities too.

Her Personality.

She is kind and thoughtful, occasionally sassy, and committed to open communication about what she wants and needs. She is well spoken, may be introverted but easily able to communicate one-on-one or in small groups. She has a romantic side to her and doesn’t mind if he is romantic. She makes decisions easily and thinks for herself, but doesn’t push her opinions onto others.

Additional information about her.

• She might enjoy seeing local art or going to a local festival.
• Any ethnic background is fine as long as she doesn’t mind that he is Caucasian.
• Her religion isn’t important to him as he is very freethinking.
• She love dogs and may have some of her own.
• Financial responsibility comes naturally to her.
• Travel is in her future to locations with great art, history and food.

Are you the perfect match for this man?

If you are 26-34, fun, smart, enjoy the occasional adventure and would love to meet a man that will make you feel special then get in touch with us today. Is he your perfect match?

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We are currently seeking a smart, tall and laid back woman for one of our clients in Aurora.  A great gal for this witty and relaxed man will be at least 5’8” tall to go with his 6’4” stature and any where between the ages of 50 and 59.  She’ll be comfortable with herself, slender to match him, and would enjoy taking her cruiser bike out with him for a ride.

Her Style.

Relaxed and comfortable in her own skin she’ll easily pick up on his style of banter and won’t ever take it offensively. As a matter of fact she will be able to dish it out as well as take it and won’t hesitate to tell him when he’s full of crap.  She’s not always politically correct and speaks her mind.  She doesn’t feel the need to talk all the time and enjoys peace and quiet, whether it’s when reading the paper or floating on a lake listening to nature.

Her Activities.

She has a flexible schedule and time to travel, whether it’s a quick trip to Cripple Creek for some low stakes gambling or flying off to a warm beach somewhere, she’s game.   Riding around the local bike trails on her cruiser bike is one of her favorite ways to spend a Sunday afternoon.  She might even have a dog that loves to go to the dog park. If she ski’s that’s fine as long as she understands he’s not that good at it, but he sure enjoys it. He’d love your help getting back into tennis.

More details about her.

Do you sound like the woman we are looking for so far? Read more about her below.

• You’re probably thrifty and know how to save.
• It would be awesome if you played an instrument.
• If you are a private pilot he’d be in heaven and have someone to share the controls with.
• He would learn to ballroom dance with you if you would learn to sail with him.
• Vegging out at home on occasion sounds great to you.

Are you his match?

If you think this sounds a bit like you get in touch and call us today!  We’ll talk to you and find out if you are his perfect match!

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When I meet with a client I typically discuss with them the looks of the person they are seeking.  What are they attracted to?  Do they have a particular type?  I like to get an idea of what they will find attractive.  However, I am constantly amazed by people’s vision of their match in comparison to their vision of themselves.

Take a Look Around.

The next time you go out, look at the couples you see.  I mean really look at them!  How do they compare to each other?  In my experience, most couples are comprised of 2 people with a similar level of looks. Meaning on a scale of 1-10 both people are typically within a couple numbers of each other. He might be a 5 and she’s a 6 or 7 or maybe he’s an 8 and she’s a 6 or 7.  Rarely do you see a guy or a gal who is a 9 or 10 with someone who is a 2 or 3.

What’s Your Number?

This is really a loaded question isn’t it? None of us want to be considered too full of ourselves or conceited, nor do many people want to admit that they are not attractive.  What number do you want to date? Most importantly, are you being realistic?  Sound off, let us know what you think!

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A few weeks ago I was talking with a new client and she was telling me about the last guy she had dated.  She said they got along great, had fun together but she never talked to him between dates because all he would do was text her.

“Really, he never called you?”

“Nope, he did everything by text, even asking me out on dates.  I’d leave him a voicemail, he’d text me in reply.  I’d text him to call me, he’d text me back asking what was up.”

TEXTATIONSHIPS.

On one of their last dates as they were talking he said something to the effect of “I guess were not that far in our Textationship.”  TEXTATIONSHIP?? So now there is a term for couples who do nothing but text each other?  She was stunned!  Urbandictionary.com defines Textationship as - a relationship based solely on texting. No phone conversations ever take place other than brief one sentence statements such as “I’m here, open the gate.”

What’s Next?

It’s such a connected world these days, with email, voice mail, texting, Facebook, LinkedIn, etc. we are becoming more and more disconnected from each other and this doesn’t help in the world of relationships.  You can’t truly get to know someone via text messaging and I certainly don’t believe you can fall in love with someone simply by spending your days texting.  What’s next, Twitterationships, where we communicate impersonally in 140 characters or less?

Sound Off.

What do you think?  Have you been in a textationship?  Do you know of one that has worked?  Do you think you can build a real, heartfelt relationship via texting?  Let us know your thoughts on the matter, we’d love to know!

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We are currently seeking a woman who likes the proverbial “nice guy.” This woman will be kind and sweet and enjoy being with a man who is attentive and caring.  You should be between 38 & 55 years old, our client is 47.  You should also be 5’10” or shorter and of a slimmer build since our client is 5’11” and slender.

Your Character.

You are a strong woman with a soft side and don’t mind being taken care of but are equally able to be caring.  You might be in a high power, high pressure job but know how to walk away at the end of the day. You are laid back with a calmness about you and know when to pick your battles, just like he does.  You are honest, sometimes to a fault, and are able to easily express what you are thinking and feeling.  Your family is important to you and you are close to them.

Are You Truly Ready for a Relationship?

The woman we are seeking knows she’s ready for a relationship.  You have done the work and moved past your issues whether it’s previous heartbreak or family issues, you have left the baggage behind.  You aren’t frightened by a man who knows what he wants and if what he likes is you, you are ok with that. Your heart desires to be with a true romantic and you are able to share what’s in your heart – your goals and dreams – without fear.

More Details About Her.

Do you sound like the woman we are looking for so far? Read more about her below.

• You believe in God or a higher power and have some sort of faith.
• When a conflict arises you are able to resolve it with compromise if necessary.
• You might have kids but you don’t want anymore or you don’t have any children.
• Living on the south side of town would make seeing each other a bit more convenient.
• Please be neat and tidy in your personal habits.
• You enjoy a variety of activities both indoors and out, but aren’t a weekend warrior.

Are you his match?

If you think this sounds a bit like you get in touch with us today!  We’ll talk to you and find out if you are his perfect match!

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We are currently working with a bachelor who lives south of town and is looking to meet a woman who is artistic and creative.  She’s the Juliet to his Romeo, the Chloe to his Daphnis.  She’s probably 38 to 50, maybe a little older, maybe a little younger, it’s the connection that matters the most.  He has a strong love of the arts and is a performer in his spare time.  She might sing, dance, act, play an instrument, mold clay or paint as an outlet for her creativity.  She truly understands the hard work that goes into pursuing something artistic.

Her Personality

Not only is the woman we are seeking artistic and creative, but she is also intelligent, with a love of learning.  She isn’t hesitant to try new things, take a class, learn a new dance, or get a little outside of her comfort zone.  She enjoys deep discussions on a variety of topics and might find history fascinating.  She is self assured, but not overly assertive and is a strong communicator.

More Details About Her.

Do you sound like the woman we are looking for so far? Read more about her below.

• She has a strong love of music, especially classical.
• Fit and active, she might enjoy mountain bike riding and probably goes to the gym.
• If she has kids they are in their late high school years or beyond.
• She is probably spiritual, but is open to alternative ways of seeing the universe.
• Travel is of interest to her and she’d like to see new places and travel internationally.
• Sensual and passionate are words she’d use to describe herself.

Are you his match?

If you think this sounds a bit like you get in touch with us today!  We’ll talk to you and find out if you are his perfect match!

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