Ignite Matchmaking

Single women 45-52

indeliblemind — Wed, 23 Jan 2013 18:59:42 +0000

We are Seeking Single women 45-52 who are attractive, athletic, educated and love to travel

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Single Ladies Between 28-36

indeliblemind — Wed, 23 Jan 2013 18:57:32 +0000

We are Looking for lovely single ladies between 28-36 who are fit, sweet, fun, kind and love the outdoors

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Being Single Around the Holidays Doesn’t Have to Be So Bad

ignite08 — Thu, 27 Dec 2012 20:36:41 +0000

It seems our culture promotes being part of a couple, and especially at this time of year with all those holiday ads showing happy, smiling couples embracing and full of joy and laughter. Being single during the holidays gets a bad rap. It’s easy to feel depressed about not having a special guy/gal in your life, especially with happy couples constantly around you. Sure, having a partner would be nice, but why drag yourself down during a wonderful time of the year over something you can’t change at the moment? Rather than revel in misery, there are plenty of reasons why being single during the winter months can actually be a really great thing. So, it’s okay to be a single adult and really find joy and happiness and especially during the holiday season!

Remember that the holidays are about celebrating peace and love.

The season is best celebrated by giving of yourself – to those you love, as well as to charities or individuals in need. You can celebrate by being truly present while spending time with family or friends. You can also celebrate by volunteering time at a homeless shelter, animal shelter, nursing home, or someplace else that needs assistance. This will help you feel more connected and gain a healthy perspective on the meaning of the holidays.

Make your own joy & happiness.

You don’t have to wait for holiday happiness to envelop you and lift your spirits. Instead, you can make your own happiness:

Treat yourself well.

Indulge in a bubble bath, plan a snowshoeing & champagne afternoon with friends, cook a unique meal for a friend you’ve lost touch with, melt away next to the fireplace and read a good book.

Celebrate the love in your life.

Spend time with family, great friends, co-workers, and your pets. Or take your neighbor’s young kids and go ice skating, bowling or do something extra special, like going to the theater and see a holiday performance. Don’t just wait for others to invite you – reach out to them.

Have a party!

Arrange a dinner party, potluck dinner, or other activity at a great wine bar with those who are also alone on the holidays.

You can attend all the celebrations you wish & flirt with whomever you please!

There are parties, merriment and mistletoe everywhere! So embrace the beauty of who you are, find the joy and laughter in the present and make the best of each event. Have a little naughty & nice and use holiday events as your chance to flirt to your heart’s content with any good-looking “single” guy/gal who catches your eye as the spirit of the holidays moves you and see what might Ignite!

Happy Holidays & Safe Travels to all this Season.

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Fun, Fit & Healthy Green-eyed Gal

ignite08 — Thu, 27 Dec 2012 20:12:47 +0000

Our lovely and fit outdoors gal is 57 year old is 5’4″ with green eyes and dark hair and she has been described as the “life of the party” by friends and maintains her high energy and fit lifestyle by working out daily, eating healthy, hiking, biking, and yoga.

She has two successful older sons living in Colorado whom she raised after a divorce while working and earning her Master’s degree from DU. She grew up in the suburbs of Detroit and went to parochial schools up through high school. When she was 19 she moved to Colorado to attend school at a small college on the Western Slope.

Currently she works for a foundation in the role of development research manager and serves on a small nonprofit board. Previously she had a 13 year career in software development that originated as a small startup and was aligned with the Colorado Alliance of Research Libraries.

An avid fiction reader, schooled in the classics; she loves historical fiction; recently read the Pulitzer Prize winning Cleopatra, Steve Jobs and Life by Keith Richards. Politically she runs independent: socially pretty liberal but fiscally conservative. She is interested in current affairs and reads articles all over the place including the NYT’s, WSL, Economist, DP, DBJ, Drudge Report, and the Huffington Post.

Music is something that resonates with our client and she has an appreciation for many styles of music including Led Zeppelin, the Beatles, jazz, classical, reggae and even a little hip hop. Not to be overshadowed by music, she also likes all kinds of movies from serious cinematic fare to B thrillers.

Somehow, amidst the boys, movies, music, work, hiking, biking, backpacking, yoga, education…she has also found time to live in New Zealand, visit Australia, Spain, the United Kingdom and spend summers with family in Croatia. Along the way she also managed to visit most of the 50 states and several Canadian Provinces.

A good fit for our client is a well-educated and professional man who is emotionally and financially stable. He should have healthy relationships with his children, coworkers and family. He is kind, generous and honest. And integrity is a must.

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A Straight Shooter & 48 yr Dedicated Family Man

ignite08 — Thu, 27 Dec 2012 20:09:46 +0000

Our native born client has a strong believe in taking accountability for your actions and being an upstanding person, his words to live by are “mean what you say and say what you mean”. Growing up in Denver he has a younger brother and loving, supportive parents. His parents have been married for 50 years and still live in the same family house he grew up in. At 6’0″ tall our client is good looking and fit with a great smile. As an African American he is very open to dating women of all ethnicities as long as she has a faith in God and enjoys family.

A CSU graduate, he has a successful career in IT, as well as a healthy work/life balance and is a very active and involved dad, who is able to be there for his two teen age kids while they are growing up. He coaches his son’s football team and also coaches basketball at the high school level. When not with his kids or at the office, our client enjoys hanging out around the house working on projects, getting in some exercise such as weight lifting or using his rowing machine, and practicing his cooking and wine making skills. He also has a dog with a lot of energy that he walks often. He is pretty low key and prefers more casual outings than to large noisy venues.

A bit reserved when you first meet him, our client opens up easily and has a good sense of humor. He is optimistic and a realist as well, with a strong sense of self awareness. He is loyal and tends to see the good in people, sometimes overlooking the negative. He lives by his own words and works hard to say what he means and to be open in his communication. He is intelligent and well informed, reading a wide variety of magazines and newspapers. He has a lot of opinions on a variety of subjects and enjoys hearing others opinions and having lively discussions.

Well balanced politically, he considers himself more of a democrat but thinks both major parties have good points and bad points. He goes to church regularly at a non-denominational church and believes that you should respect other religions as all are going towards the same goal.

Our client is looking for a woman he can build a long term relationship with, someone who is ready for a committed relationship. A great woman for him will have strong family values and truly enjoy being with children, both his and hers if she has them. He loves sports of all types but isn’t a sports-a-holic and hopes that she will enjoy watching some sports with him and will help him cheer on the basketball team he coaches. She is lively and fun, enjoys good conversation and cooking a great meal together. She will be as supportive of him as he will be of her, enjoys walking and exploring the world around her and is excited to start a new relationship journey.

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Handsome Down to Earth and Handy

ignite08 — Thu, 23 Aug 2012 20:49:35 +0000

Our client is looking for a lifetime partner who is open to building a close relationship which could lead to marriage. He has been a commercial and high-end retail millworker for over 33 years and in management for 12 years. His design style and creativity have led to custom residential work in Breckenridge and Aspen as well as getting some of his work published in magazines. He is a 50 year old Aquarius and native of Denver. He is 5’9″ with brown hair and blue eyes. He considers himself to be easy going and down to earth. He owns his own home in Wheat Ridge and has recently remodeled the kitchen. His construction trade background has also enabled him to help out with friends and family projects on their homes; which he enjoys doing and always makes himself available. For fun and excitement He is a tent camper, swimmer and outdoorsman enjoying fishing and hunting. He also enjoys attending live music concerts; rock, blues and eclectic music. He can still pull off a few tricks on a skateboard and enjoys cruising on his mountain bike. He not only likes to play sports but also enjoys seeing them in person especially Broncos and Avs games. He is a light smoker at now and then, but never in the house or a car, is he trying to give it up, and maybe the right gal can help to motivate him. He likes food of all types and especially authentic Mexican cuisine. He is looking for a women in the 40-55 age range, any ethnicity, in good shape and who is spiritually balanced, honest, open minded and who wants to be with him.

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Style Tips for Men & Women Going out on a Date

ignitedev — Fri, 20 Jul 2012 18:42:31 +0000

Tips for Women dressing for a date

Dress in something slimming and event appropriate. The LBD is always a safe choice. It can work for both semi casual and dressier dates. It should always be worn with a great pair of heels. My adage is: the higher the heels….the smaller the waist.
Don’t go for a super sexy look. It can be difficult to pull off. You can pick one item that leans toward sexy, e.g., a low cut top. The low top should be paired with a knee length skirt or classy pants….never with a short skirt.
Keep your makeup natural and at a minimum. You don’t want your date to focus on the fake eyelash that has come unglued (and is flapping around each time you blink) and wonder what you ‘really look like’. Pick a focal point, either lips or eyes…never both.

Tips for Men dressing for a date

Your favorite comfy sweater from college should sit the date out. It is better suited to wear at home. Women are very visual. Outfits are deal makers or breakers.
A pressed white dress shirt paired with khakis or jeans for a casual date is a no brainer. The same white shirt with a pair of dress pants works for a dressier date.
Your shoes MUST be polished, clean and in great shape. This is a must. Women make mental notes on the condition of shoes…if your shoes aren’t in tip top shape, women will wonder whether or not you ‘picked your own outfit’ if your shoes aren’t in keeping with the rest of your ensemble.

This is a guest post from Rachael Goodman, a Denver style expert. You can read more about her at http://rachelgoodmanstyle.com

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Dating with STD

ignitedev — Fri, 20 Jul 2012 17:44:12 +0000

Sexually transmitted diseases (STDs) are not discriminating — anyone can get them. Did you know that Americans have the highest rate of STDs in the industrialized world and according to the National Women’s Health Organization, an estimated 15.3 million new cases of STDs are reported in the United States each year. Recent studies indicate that one in three Americans who have sex contracts an STD by the age of 24, so chances are that one or both of you have been exposed to an STD in your sexual lifetime.
When you have Herpes, HPV, HIV/AIDS, or any other STD, it can feel like you are all alone in the world. Do you wish there was a place where you didn’t have to worry about being rejected or discriminated? http://www.responsible-singles.com/ is a warm-hearted and exclusive community for STD dating and support. Here you can start a whole new life, learn about STD medical information; meet new friends, partners and potential spouses. The most secure and successful singles dating site for those who are responsible about their STD and serious about finding the right partner. They care about your privacy and anonymity.

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Online Dating – Why Isn’t it Working for Me?

ignite08 — Wed, 28 Mar 2012 03:58:43 +0000

In this new era of internet dating, finding a partner should be easy, right? As many of you know it’s not that simple.

What makes it so hard? Well for starters, men spend 65% or more of their time looking at photos; while women spend 50% or more of their online search time reading the profiles. That’s a huge disconnect!!

Ladies, if you aren’t using the best, most attractive picture of yourself then you are losing out on a large portion of potential matches. And guys, if you haven’t given some time and thought to what you’ve written in your profile you are also losing out on a large portion of potential matches.

In addition to the differences in the way men and women search for matches online, there is also the “bargain shopper” mentality. What does that mean? Well, if you paid for an all you can eat buffet don’t you want to get your money’s worth? The same mentality holds true for online dating – if I’ve paid for 3 months worth of Match.com then I want to get my money’s worth!

Now think – What if the first date you go on is fantastic? What if you see that same guy/gal 4 or 5 more times and things are going well? That’s GREAT! Right? You’ve potentially found what you’re looking for!

If you take the bargain shopper approach, you are likely to think “But wait, I still have 2.8 months left to use on my account and I’ve paid for it!” You want to get your money’s worth, right? Sadly, this approach could cost you the person you are looking for.

To be more successful online you need to change how you think about online dating. Stop worrying if you still have time left on your account – if you’ve met someone great isn’t that priceless?

If you are truly looking to meet Mr. or Mrs. Right, if that is really your purpose in using online dating, then it shouldn’t matter if you meet them on date #1 or date #101 as long as you meet them.

Put your best foot forward – use the best profile picture possible, write about yourself in a way to set yourself apart and do your best to let those reading your profile get a glimpse into who you really are.

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Colorado Grown Bachelor

ignite08 — Thu, 17 Mar 2011 02:10:50 +0000

This confident 43 year old man was born and raised in small town Colorado. Now in the Denver area, he is seeking a down to earth and family oriented woman. If you like camping, hiking and spending time in the Colorado outdoors this guy might be for you. He has a great job; an adorable, yet quite large, dog; a close knit family; and a big heart. He’s looking to share his life with a woman who understands the importance of family and is looking forward to having a family of her own. She loves Colorado, has roots here and plans to make it her home until she’s old and gray. A great woman for this bachelor will live a balanced life – loving the mountains and the city, the great outdoors and a night at home, working out but being lazy sometimes too. She’s engaged in life, will love his homemade beer even if it tastes awful and isn’t opposed to his hunting trips – in fact she might even find new recipes!