<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearch/1.1/' xmlns:georss='http://www.georss.org/georss' xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' gd:etag='W/&quot;CkMHRHo8cSp7ImA9WhVXGE8.&quot;'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3134421006949970953</id><updated>2012-04-19T00:27:15.479-07:00</updated><category term='Culture'/><category term='Healers'/><category term='Research'/><category term='Paranormal'/><category term='Travel'/><title>In and Out of This World</title><subtitle type='html'>from the profound to inane; from believable to unbelievable; cultural beliefs and practices</subtitle><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://inandoutworld-lei.blogspot.com/feeds/posts/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3134421006949970953/posts/default?redirect=false&amp;v=2'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://inandoutworld-lei.blogspot.com/'/><link rel='hub' href='http://pubsubhubbub.appspot.com/'/><author><name>Lei</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05002112183581179721</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='20' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-3tpdmRlAnzI/T402QQWBNgI/AAAAAAAAAA0/H5ZNQC40XxI/s220/images%2B%25281%2529.jpg'/></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>11</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>25</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry gd:etag='W/&quot;A0EFQXc-fCp7ImA9WhVXGEw.&quot;'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3134421006949970953.post-5230126624865544123</id><published>2012-04-18T22:40:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2012-04-19T00:13:30.954-07:00</updated><app:edited xmlns:app='http://www.w3.org/2007/app'>2012-04-19T00:13:30.954-07:00</app:edited><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Culture'/><title>BUMBAY VS. TURKO</title><content type='html'>&lt;br /&gt;&lt;m:smallfrac m:val="off"&gt;
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I moved to &lt;a href="http://www.davaocity.gov.ph/davao/" target="_blank"&gt;Davao City&lt;/a&gt;, Philippines, over a year ago. People generally understand Filipino and
English even if the dialect spoken is Bisaya. Communicating is one less of a
problem. I, however, encountered some problems because there are terms used
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The supply of
Indian incense which I brought with me from Manila ran out, so I asked friends,
neighbors and neighbors' househelp. My question was: "May alam ba kayong
tindahan ng Bumbay dito? (Do you know of any Indian store here?)
"Bumbay" is a generic term used in Metro Manila and I guess other
parts of Luzon to refer to people from India or those who look like Indians. &amp;nbsp;I got&amp;nbsp;
the quizzical look from most, but one told me she &lt;b&gt;thought&lt;/b&gt; she saw one near the &lt;a href="http://wiki-maps.com/davao/lid/st-paul-church" target="_blank"&gt;St. Paul Church&lt;/a&gt; in Matina. &lt;/div&gt;
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With that as my
only and vague clue, I went to Juna Subdivision where the church is located. At
the entrance of the subdivision is the tricycle terminal. I asked the drivers
on the queue, but again I got that "What are you talking about?" look.
Exasperated, but not about to give up, I hired one tricycle to take me to the
St. Paul Church. &amp;nbsp;Luckily, there was a &lt;i&gt;barangay &lt;/i&gt;(village) official standing in
near the church. I described what an Indian looked like and he pointed to a
closed store. According to him, the store had to close down. The tricycle
driver listened to my conversation with the &lt;i&gt;barangay&lt;/i&gt;
official and afterwards told me that there was a store run by a family whose
features are like what I described on the other side of the church and in front
of the Philippine Women's College. He referred to them as "turko"
(Turk). It was my turn to have &lt;b&gt;that&lt;/b&gt;
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It was a variety
store. The owner was there and he was indeed a "Bumbay". It dawned on
me that "Turko" was the local term for "Bumbay". A
long-shot guess is that locals generations or centuries ago had trade with
Turks, a topic that I started to research on.&lt;/div&gt;
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I
was getting sleepy. After all, it was for me a time for siesta. But taking the
1p.m. flight to Seoul was the best option, considering that there was a
scheduled welcome dinner for delegates of the 10 &lt;a href="http://www.aseansec.org/74.htm" target="_blank"&gt;ASEAN &lt;/a&gt;countries plus Three
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I looked forward to the takeoff for it always gave me an exhilarating feeling.
I took the rose quartz rosary-bracelet I wore and started praying while other
passengers were finding their seats.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/div&gt;
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The takeoff was so smooth I wanted to congratulate the pilot. &amp;nbsp;Then, I had
a hard time breathing. It was as if there was weight on my chest. I took deep,
regulated breaths to calm the pounding of my heart. Despite the blanket
provided passengers, I felt cold, and then warmth started to creep from my feet
to the upper part of my body. I felt I was going to pass out. I thought of &amp;nbsp;people I love, a beautiful serene place… but I
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I called a flight attendant, told her about my condition, and asked for a blood
pressure apparatus. Boy, she surely took her time. Just when I was about to
think she didn’t understand me, the chief flight attendant came. I told him my
problem and he said he’ll come back. He did, after about 10-15 minutes, lugging
a black bag. He put it down on the aisle,&amp;nbsp; and started to take out the
contents --- dextrose, needles, cotton --- the whole caboodle. . . I pointed to
the outside pocket of the bag which was the logical place to keep the
sphygmomanometer. He took it out, but told me no one among the crew knew how to
use it!&amp;nbsp; I was getting impatient and told him I could take my own BP.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/div&gt;
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“Is there a doctor on board?” a flight attendant asked, using the microphone.
“A passenger is very ill.”&amp;nbsp; I wanted to laugh as I&amp;nbsp; put the cuff on
my &amp;nbsp;arm. The chief F.A. literally had his
mouth open as I got the stethoscope from him.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/div&gt;
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Mercifully, my BP was normal. The question in my mind was: What was causing my
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I closed my eyes and thought of good things and angels cradling me. &amp;nbsp;My
heart calmed down and by the time the flight attendants served food, I was
feeling normal again.&amp;nbsp; I wasn’t hungry, but thought of the 4- hour flight
and the one-hour ride from the airport to the hotel. I forced myself to eat
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As I exited the plane, I shook the chief purser’s hand and thanked him, but I
promised myself I will never take that plane again! Not one of the crew knew
how to deal with medical situations, not even how to take blood pressure! &lt;/div&gt;
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Going through Immigration was a breeze and when I went out the sliding door of
the airport, I saw a sign with my name on it.&amp;nbsp; I was in Korea again….&lt;/div&gt;
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&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; The very first thing I did when I returned home was to call my friend who does PR for the airline. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/3134421006949970953-7273233459998789800?l=inandoutworld-lei.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://inandoutworld-lei.blogspot.com/feeds/7273233459998789800/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://inandoutworld-lei.blogspot.com/2012/04/is-there-doctor-on-board.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3134421006949970953/posts/default/7273233459998789800?v=2'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3134421006949970953/posts/default/7273233459998789800?v=2'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://inandoutworld-lei.blogspot.com/2012/04/is-there-doctor-on-board.html' title='IS THERE A DOCTOR ON BOARD?'/><author><name>Lei</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05002112183581179721</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='20' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-3tpdmRlAnzI/T402QQWBNgI/AAAAAAAAAA0/H5ZNQC40XxI/s220/images%2B%25281%2529.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry gd:etag='W/&quot;D0UNSH0-fSp7ImA9WhVXGEw.&quot;'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3134421006949970953.post-4777466832964994881</id><published>2012-04-17T04:22:00.005-07:00</published><updated>2012-04-18T23:01:39.355-07:00</updated><app:edited xmlns:app='http://www.w3.org/2007/app'>2012-04-18T23:01:39.355-07:00</app:edited><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Travel'/><title>PACKING LIGHT</title><content type='html'>&lt;m:smallfrac m:val="off"&gt;
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&lt;b&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Arial&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;;"&gt;Packing for a trip,
for just overnight or several days require much planning (at least, for
me).&amp;nbsp; I guess the older you get, the more things you need (and want) to
bring, like a travel sewing kit, medicines and vitamins, sun screen lotion,
creams, and other &lt;i&gt;tocador&lt;/i&gt; things. Oh, not to forget a small clothes
iron. Yes, I bring a small iron to press folds and crumples on my clothes,
especially those I’d wear to meetings or lectures, formal dinners and/or
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&amp;nbsp;It’s not a good idea to bring more than one pair of shoes for meetings.
That’s why wearing pants/slacks is more convenient. You won’t have to wear shoes
that have high heels, or think if your shoes match your dress. Brown, black or
beige go with any color of outfit.&amp;nbsp; My must-wear is a pair of rubber shoes
so that I can withstand hours of making the rounds of flea markets and malls,
not to mention restaurants and sites.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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It’s funny but I’m a bit OC (obsessive-compulsive) when it comes to packing.
Over the years, whether I take only a back-pack for or a &lt;i&gt;suitcase&lt;/i&gt;, I
arrange clothes by each day. The last set I’d wear is always at the bottom.
Whoever designed the travel organizer is an angel. All toiletries could be
placed there and hung in the closet or bathroom. Mine has 4 sections where I
segregate items for bathing, lotions and creams, make-up and oral care.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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Ask any Filipina and one common complaint about hotels without bidets, is that
even classy ones don’t provide any &lt;i&gt;tabo &lt;/i&gt;(dipper) in the bathroom. It’s a cultural thing.&amp;nbsp; So I
travel with one. I haven’t had the opportunity to look at the facial expression
of the person at the airport who mans the x-ray machine. &amp;nbsp;Filipinos won’t wonder, though…&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&amp;nbsp;Every trip, I make it a point to leave space so that when I get back, I’d
still have room for &lt;i&gt;pasalubong&lt;/i&gt;. I remember one of my trips where I had
two friends with me. Because of cheap but beautiful items, we went crazy
shopping for ourselves and &lt;i&gt;pasalubong.&lt;/i&gt; I laughed when I saw them
literally sitting on their &lt;i&gt;maletas &lt;/i&gt;so that the zippers would close!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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Packing light is indeed a challenge. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: black; font-family: &amp;quot;Arial&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/3134421006949970953-4777466832964994881?l=inandoutworld-lei.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://inandoutworld-lei.blogspot.com/feeds/4777466832964994881/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://inandoutworld-lei.blogspot.com/2012/04/packing-light.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3134421006949970953/posts/default/4777466832964994881?v=2'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3134421006949970953/posts/default/4777466832964994881?v=2'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://inandoutworld-lei.blogspot.com/2012/04/packing-light.html' title='PACKING LIGHT'/><author><name>Lei</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05002112183581179721</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='20' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-3tpdmRlAnzI/T402QQWBNgI/AAAAAAAAAA0/H5ZNQC40XxI/s220/images%2B%25281%2529.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry gd:etag='W/&quot;D0QGQXo9fSp7ImA9WhVXGEw.&quot;'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3134421006949970953.post-1902329058458536387</id><published>2012-04-17T04:15:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2012-04-18T23:02:00.465-07:00</updated><app:edited xmlns:app='http://www.w3.org/2007/app'>2012-04-18T23:02:00.465-07:00</app:edited><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Travel'/><title>BOOKING ONLINE: OH, THOSE BUDGET AIRLINES!</title><content type='html'>&lt;m:smallfrac m:val="off"&gt;
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Booking flights and hotels online is a breeze
provided you have a credit card. It’s cheaper too, than getting a travel agent.
Within a few minutes, your transaction is over, and all you have to do is wait
for the e-ticket or hotel confirmation and voucher. In 24 hours, you’ll receive
it via email. That’s the wonder of technology. BUT, amending your reservations
is another matter…&lt;/div&gt;
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Four of us who are ASEAN IUC core group members are scheduled to have a meeting
with the ASEAN Secretariat in Jakarta.&amp;nbsp; From there, we go to KL for
meetings with officers of ASETUC and Uni-Apro for the next AIUC which is supposed
to be in Aceh. The schedule was set, reservations were made… until our Jakarta
connection informed us that the meeting was moved because of the Director who
had to be in Myanmar and who will be back in Jakarta one week after.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/div&gt;
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Guess what? We can’t amend our flights from Manila online because we had paid
for everything including the travel tax which the ticketing office insisted we
pay. Arguing that we are on government official business and are tax-free and
that the travel orders and DOT certificates were being processed fell on deaf
ears. We had to pay the fares PLUS the travel tax, refund of which will take
months. With that first leg of the trip settled, next was the flight from
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The airline for Jakarta-KL doesn’t have office in Manila. I tried to amend the
schedule online but to no avail. I wrote to customer service but for 4 days, I
was literally twiddling my thumbs because there was no reply. I decided to call
the KL office but the call center was busy the whole day.&amp;nbsp; I tried calling
the Jakarta office and on second try, I got through!&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/div&gt;
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Government officials should be taking budget airlines flights when going
abroad, so they know what lowly government employees have to go through!&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Arial&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;;"&gt;Ka
Remy’s small wooden house is off the narrow unpaved road that leads to a
cluster of houses near the rice fields.&amp;nbsp;
One has to pass through a few houses, past an artesian well and
vegetable plants and fruit trees, not to mention the chickens and dogs that are
loose.&amp;nbsp; The house has earthen floor.&amp;nbsp; To the left of the door hangs a small
mirror.&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; A little farther also to the
left are a few wooden steps that lead to a mezzanine, probably the sleeping quarters.&amp;nbsp; Near the steps and front of the door is the
living room.&amp;nbsp; The &lt;i&gt;sala &lt;/i&gt;which had seen better days are upholstered in green
checkers.&amp;nbsp; The center table is covered by
an apple-green lace-like cloth.&amp;nbsp; A wall
which serves as divider between the living room and the kitchen displays a big
calendar, the type given away by hardwares and similar businesses and posters
of actors Robin Padilla and Zoren Legaspi.&amp;nbsp;
The dining table, made of bamboo and lumber, is pushed against the wall,
right under the window that looks out the front yard.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Arial&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; Ka Remy was born in &lt;a href="http://www.wowrizal.com/towns-and-cities/morong-rizal-facts-population-history-barangays/" target="_blank"&gt;Morong, Rizal &lt;/a&gt;to
parents who were known for their special abilitities.&amp;nbsp; They were traditional healers who were given
by their parents certain books of secrets.&amp;nbsp;
When he was a young boy, he liked playing volleyball than his academic
subjects. &amp;nbsp;He recalls, while puffing his
Champion cigarette, that there were times when, during play, he would ‘see” a
classmate who was not feeling well.&amp;nbsp; He
would stop playing and heal the classmate.&amp;nbsp;
But, he said with a slow smile, he was young, and his interest in
healing and the esoteric was overshadowed by his favorite sport.&amp;nbsp; He did not continue his studies after grade
4. He played professionally for Caltex, San Miguel Brewery and the army.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Arial&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; Then Ka Remy relates about a
mysterious old beggar from Pililla (Rizal) whom he got to know.&amp;nbsp; He was fifteen years old at that time.&amp;nbsp; He would assist the old man in walking, the
old man holding on to his shoulders to steady himself.&amp;nbsp; The two of them went around the barrio begging,
and in the afternoon, in Mang Remy’s house, the old man, Julian Tejada, allowed
him to read his books while he rested his head on Mang Julian’s upper arm.&amp;nbsp; First there was the pambating &lt;i&gt;ispiritual&lt;/i&gt;, then &lt;i&gt;misterio &lt;/i&gt;principal, &lt;i&gt;misterio del mundo&lt;/i&gt; and &lt;i&gt;buen viaje de Maria&lt;/i&gt;.&amp;nbsp; After he learned all four, Mang Julian taught
him &lt;i&gt;majica blanca&lt;/i&gt; (white
magic/witchcraft).&amp;nbsp; According to Mang
Remy, the old man told him that the books were handed down to him by a Jesuit
priest.&amp;nbsp; What was mysterious about the man
was that he would disappear after he passed out the gate.&amp;nbsp; In the beginning, Mang Remy would run after
Mang Julian to see where he went.&amp;nbsp; I was
impossible, Mang Remy exclaims, for someone who was about 80 years old or more,
to walk so fast that when he followed seconds later, the man was gone. Every
morning, for five years, Mang Julian went to Mang Remy’s house to take Mang
Remy with him to different places to beg.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Arial&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; Once, Mang Remy says, the old man
wrote three letters on a piece of paper.&amp;nbsp;
Then he placed it on Mang Remy’s forehead.&amp;nbsp; When the old man removed the paper, the
letters were gone, they entered his head.&amp;nbsp;
The oracion apparently guided him to understand things (&lt;i&gt;mga bagay na sikreto&lt;/i&gt;) even if he reached
only grade 4.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Arial&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; Generally, Mang Remy bases his
diagnosis through pulses, just like Boy and Ka Berting.&amp;nbsp; He also has a way of determining whether the
person’s illness is caused by unseen forces.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Arial&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; He prescribes herbs, performs &lt;a href="http://en.wikipilipinas.org/index.php?title=Hilot" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;i&gt;hilot &lt;/i&gt;&lt;/a&gt;and prays to spirit at 12 midnight.&amp;nbsp; He recites different oracion depending on the
case or illness of a person.&amp;nbsp; He not only
performs exorcisms on people, he also does it on houses which are disturbed by
evil spirits.&amp;nbsp; He then tells the story of
a house in Forbes
 Park, which was being
disturbed by spirits.&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; He traced the spirits
as occupants of a nearby &lt;i&gt;balete&lt;/i&gt; tree.&amp;nbsp;
What he did was to get dried leaves of “red” &lt;i&gt;balete&lt;/i&gt;.&amp;nbsp; Red balete is called such because unlike the
‘white” one, its leaves (t&lt;i&gt;albos&lt;/i&gt;) are red and pointed.&amp;nbsp; Engkantos and other spirits inhabit the white
&lt;i&gt;balete&lt;/i&gt;, but they are afraid of the red one.&amp;nbsp;
Ka Remy lit charcoal in a pail and put incense (&lt;i&gt;kamanyang&lt;/i&gt;) and the red leaves on it.&amp;nbsp; The thick smoke is said to drive away the
spirits.&amp;nbsp; The ritual is accompanied by
saying the appropriate oracion.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Arial&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; Ka Remy has a way of praying the
“standard” prayers&amp;nbsp; like Hail Mary,
apostle’s Creed and Lord’s Prayer, depending on the case he is handling.&amp;nbsp; For example, with the Apostle’s Creed he
stops at: "&lt;i&gt;Umakyat sa langit, lumuklok sa
kanang kamay ng Diyos Amang makapangyarihan sa lahat",&lt;/i&gt; when he needs special
powers.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Arial&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; Ka Remy, differentiates between &lt;i&gt;usog&lt;/i&gt;
and &lt;i&gt;bati&lt;/i&gt;.&amp;nbsp; The first is brought about by
a person, the second, by spirits.&amp;nbsp; Both
are cured through&lt;i&gt; oracion&lt;/i&gt; and&lt;i&gt; hilot.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Arial&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; Illnesses may be brought about by
natural causes or by spirits --- dwarfs, especially the black ones, &lt;i&gt;engkanto&lt;/i&gt;,
wondering spirits and other spirit forces.&amp;nbsp;
Ka Remy warns against being exposed to elements, especially the first
drops of rain if one is tired and/or perspiring.&amp;nbsp; One also should not bathe when tired for it
causes &lt;i&gt;pasma &lt;/i&gt;and respiratory
ailments.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Arial&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; Though Ka Remy treats various
ailments, the most common cases brought to him are relationship or love
problems.&amp;nbsp; There are persons who want to
separate their loves ones with another lover, or persons who want the husband
or wife who went away to come back.&amp;nbsp; At
this point Ka Remy signals the researcher to follow him to the kitchen.&amp;nbsp; There, near the stove is a post covered with
rolled pieces of paper and photographs.&amp;nbsp;
“These, I work on,” says Ka Remy, meaning he prays to spirits at night
to help people who consult him. “But is it not intervention on the natural
course of things?” the researcher asks.&amp;nbsp;
He nods his head and explains that no harm is done.&amp;nbsp; He only talks to the spirits in behalf of the
people.&amp;nbsp; Ultimately, the spirits decide,
not him.&amp;nbsp; These are but temporary
measures to give couples a chance to mend their relationship.&amp;nbsp; If they are not really meant for each other,
they will separate again.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Arial&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; Ka Remy&amp;nbsp; became a widower and remarried &amp;nbsp;an attractive woman close to half his
age.&amp;nbsp; He smiles mischievously and says, &lt;i&gt;Marami akong alam na sekreto e&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Arial&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;;"&gt;He
refers to himself as an &lt;i&gt;arbularyo&lt;/i&gt;, but &lt;a href="http://www.medicaltourismmag.com/article/the-age-old-healing-art-of-hilot.html" target="_blank"&gt;Boy Fajardo&lt;/a&gt; does not fit the stereotyped image
of one.&amp;nbsp; He studied in an exclusive
school and went on to U.P. Diliman.&amp;nbsp; “I
majored in BSBB,” he says, but quickly follows it with “major in billiards and
bowling” and a guffaw.&amp;nbsp; Those were the
days when there was still a bowling alley and billiard hall in the campus.&amp;nbsp; He then transferred to another school to take chemical&amp;nbsp; engineering.&amp;nbsp; That’s where he met his wife who was also a
student.&amp;nbsp; She comes from a prominent
family in Lian, Batangas.&amp;nbsp; They live in a
well-appointed two-storey house near the boundary of Cainta and Pasig.&amp;nbsp; The house in &lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mount_Banahaw" target="_blank"&gt;Mt. Banahaw &lt;/a&gt;which Boy designed
and supervised in its construction stage provides the family spiritual and
physical retreat.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Arial&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; Boy was born in Pura, &lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tarlac_City" target="_blank"&gt;Tarlac&lt;/a&gt;, on December 2, 1944, the
youngest of four siblings.&amp;nbsp; His maternal
grandfather was pure Chinese, a psychic and a kung fu expert, from whom he must
have inherited his interest.&amp;nbsp;
Unfortunately, his grandfather had already passed away by the time Boy
was born.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Arial&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; Boy had Catholic education at Holy
Ghost and Don Bosco, in Tarlac, Tarlac.&amp;nbsp;
For high school, he studied at San Beda College in Manila.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Arial&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; In the 1960s, Boy was already deep
into the study of religions, philosophy and the occult.&amp;nbsp; In 1972, he ahd what the doctors diagnosed as
muscular dystrophy.&amp;nbsp; It’s like a
short-circuit, he says.&amp;nbsp; He was studying
several things at the same time – the occult, healing, astral travel, oracion,
among others.&amp;nbsp; It is inevitable not to
encounter witches (&lt;i&gt;mangkukulam&lt;/i&gt;) in the process.&amp;nbsp;
Likewise, there were so many oracion that when one uses them, some may
not be complementary.&amp;nbsp; “So what happens
is that there is short-circuiting in the neurological system.”&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Arial&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; For one whole year, Boy was confined
to his room, unable to walk.&amp;nbsp; An &lt;i&gt;arbularyo &lt;/i&gt;friend treated him through
message (&lt;i&gt;hilot)&lt;/i&gt; and herbs.&amp;nbsp; That was the time when he went intensely into
healing.&amp;nbsp; He cannot remember how many
healers he went to in order to learn different techniques.&amp;nbsp; “&lt;i&gt;Pag
may nabalitaan akong magaling, pipupuntahan ko&lt;/i&gt;,” he says, adding that he
has spent and is still spending time and money in his desire to learn more.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Arial&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; Boy prides himself as being
eclectic.&amp;nbsp; His background in science and
his readings and observations enable him to analyze and explain the phenomenon
of healing.&amp;nbsp; He emphasizes that healing
is only a by-product of spirituality.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Arial&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; “If you’re a healer, you should be
able to align the mind, body and emotions.”&amp;nbsp;
He explains further: if only the physical is healed, but the emotions
are not, the ailment will keep on recurring.&amp;nbsp;
Diseases are but manifestations that the three (body, mind and emotions)
are not in harmony.&amp;nbsp; “&lt;i&gt;kaya nga tinawag na dis-ease.&amp;nbsp; Kasi hindi ka at ease&lt;/i&gt;.”&amp;nbsp; For example, he elaborates, when there is a
problem with a relationship and emotions are suppressed, negative feelings are
nourished, and the inner conflicts result into a biological disorder.&amp;nbsp; He emphasizes the wholistic approach to
healing.&amp;nbsp; “&lt;i&gt;Kaya kami, manggagamot ng tao, hindi ng sakit lang&lt;/i&gt;.&amp;nbsp; This is where philosophy and spiritual
techniques come in.” Thus Boy believes that healing should be approached “three
dimensionally”.&amp;nbsp; Healing should also be
philosophically grounded and should abide with the universal law of nature.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Arial&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; This is one of the reasons why Boy,
aside from practicing his profession as engineer, building, landscape and
interior contractor, is active in giving seminars on values transformation or &lt;i&gt;kabuoan.&lt;/i&gt;&amp;nbsp;
He is a fellow of the Philippine Institute of Alternative Futures which
organize cooperatives based on the modules of kabuoan.&amp;nbsp; He guides people to realize and identify
essential values tht would help them transform into better individuals and
ultimately, better citizens.&amp;nbsp; First, he
says, the person has to know and admit his limitations.&amp;nbsp; “I guide them in processing.&amp;nbsp; Only then can there be a transformation.&amp;nbsp; You cannot build on something shaky”, he
explains.&amp;nbsp; “&lt;i&gt;Kaya kabuoan&lt;/i&gt;.&amp;nbsp; Each person
should be a whole person.&amp;nbsp; If he is sick,
he is not whole.&amp;nbsp; If there are emotional
or psychological blockages, he is not whole.&amp;nbsp;
This is healing in its wholistic sense.”&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Arial&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; Physical healing may be classified
into biological, electrical and electromagnetical.&amp;nbsp; Conventional medicine and herbs are
biological or chemical forms of healing.&amp;nbsp;
But, he clarifies, many of western medicines are “confrontational”.&amp;nbsp; He cites Pasteur’s germ theory and the use of
antibiotics.&amp;nbsp; Herbs are indirect.&amp;nbsp; “Basically,” he says, “these are diuretics
that clean the system to increase your resistance.”&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Arial&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; Boy claims that by tradition or
practice, the arbularyo is (1) chiropractor, (2) reflexologist, (30
ocupressurist, (4) exorcist, (5) counselor, (6) birth assistant, (7) herbalist
and (8) oracion user.&amp;nbsp; The first three,
he classifies under electrical healing; exorcism and use of oracion he
classifies as electromagnetic or metaphysical healing; assisting in birth, as
physical; counseling, as social/psychological and emotional; and herbal
medicine as biochemical.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Arial&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; &lt;i&gt;Hilot&lt;/i&gt;,
acumassage, acupressure and acupuncture are examples of the electrical type of
healing.&amp;nbsp; Pranic healing on the other
hand is an example of electromagnetic healing.&amp;nbsp;
To him, the term pranic healing is misleading because “ it is not the
prana that is being manipulated, it’s the electromagnetic energy.”&amp;nbsp; Prana means universal energy, life force, and
it cannot be manipulated, but electromagnetic energy can be realigned.&amp;nbsp; When this energy is altered, automatically
the electric energy is altered.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Arial&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; Boy draws a parallelism between
pranic healing and the use of oracion.&amp;nbsp;
The reciting of oracion affects the electromagnetic energy in the same
way as in pranic healing.&amp;nbsp; These are but
two different ways of changing or altering that type of energy.&amp;nbsp; The oracion, however, is double-bloded.&amp;nbsp; “&lt;i&gt;Puede
mong ipanggamot, puedeng ipangkulam&lt;/i&gt;.”&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Arial&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; Boys uses combinations of techniques
in his diagnosis.&amp;nbsp; The patient need not
tell him anything.&amp;nbsp; He reads pulses by
placing the pointer, middle finger and ring finger of one hand on the wrist of
the person, the same spot where physicians take the pulse.&amp;nbsp; With his other hand, he places his thumb
between the person’s thumb and pointer, and his pointer on the underside.&amp;nbsp; There are many different kinds of beats, some
blunt, some sharp, some weak.&amp;nbsp; Each type
has implications.&amp;nbsp; He has been studying
pulses for more than ten years but he admits tht he still has a lot to learn.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Arial&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; Another technique boy uses is
pressing nerve points, which is based on the principles of reflexology and
acupressure.&amp;nbsp; “When you press specific
nerve points connected to a weak or sick organ, there is shooting pain.”&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Arial&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; From observing heat change of the
body,&amp;nbsp; Boy is able to determine the parts
which need treatment.&amp;nbsp; He passes his hand
from the head to other parts.&amp;nbsp; Ideally,
the temperature that he feels emanating from the person should be the same.&amp;nbsp; If a part is hotter (&lt;i&gt;mas mainit&lt;/i&gt;), it is indicative that the ailment/disease is active,
like infections.&amp;nbsp; If the part is colder (&lt;i&gt;mas malamig&lt;/i&gt;) than other parts, it
implies slow metabolism, lack of energy.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Arial&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; According to boy, his techniques are
confirmatory.&amp;nbsp; First, he uses one
technique like pulse beats.&amp;nbsp; He then
confirms his diagnosis with scanning for thermal variations and then pressing
nerve points.&amp;nbsp; “Natural forms of
diagnosis are more accurate than machines.&amp;nbsp;
On-coming diseases can be spotted; machines cannot.” Thus, a person can
take precautionary measures to prevent the disease.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Arial&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; Generally, Boy resorts to &lt;i&gt;hilot&lt;/i&gt; and herbs in treating
patients.&amp;nbsp; Most often, he gives advice on
the right foods to take, the right combinations, and traces with the patient
the possible roots of such ailments, whether it’s purely physical, or due to
emotional or spiritual problems.&amp;nbsp; He also
uses oracion for those who are possessed by spirit/s.&amp;nbsp; The oracion also enable him to heal even
without touching the part of the patient’s body.&amp;nbsp; He illustrates:&amp;nbsp; “Suppose you have a sprain, I will recite the
oracion, and it will heal.&amp;nbsp; Or I will
write the oracion on the sprained part.&amp;nbsp;
It has the same effect.”&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Arial&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; Does the patient have to have faith
in order to be healed?&amp;nbsp; Boy prefers the
word &lt;u&gt;trust&lt;/u&gt;.&amp;nbsp; “This is rhetorics,”
he says, “but when you say faith, there is religious overtone.&amp;nbsp; The moment I say trust, it is simply letting
go.&amp;nbsp; You trust the whole.”&amp;nbsp; To him, trust has a deeper meaning. He
bewails the fact that healers are lumped together as faith healers.&amp;nbsp; “&lt;i&gt;Basta
hindi nag-aral sa eskuwela, faith healer ang tawag&lt;/i&gt;.”&amp;nbsp; The perception is that you have to believe
first, to have faith.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Arial&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; Then too, there are persons who give
healers a bad name.&amp;nbsp; “&lt;i&gt;Natuto lang ng ilang oracion,&lt;/i&gt; they claim
to be healers.”&amp;nbsp; Knowing &lt;i&gt;oracion&lt;/i&gt; and being able to heal can be an
ego trip.&amp;nbsp; That is why preparation,
spiritual preparation is important.&amp;nbsp; &lt;i&gt;Oracion&lt;/i&gt; and its uses are not given
unless the teacher-healer thinks that the student is prepared; the folly of the
student becomes the responsibility of the teacher.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Arial&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; Boy emphasizes that once you use the
&lt;i&gt;oracion,&lt;/i&gt; you are in debt to the
spirit/entity you called upon.&amp;nbsp; The
spirit/s have to be “fed” with daily prayers.&amp;nbsp;
“&lt;i&gt;Dapat busugin sa dasal, babatiin&lt;/i&gt;.”&amp;nbsp; If not?&amp;nbsp;
Then there are repercussions.&amp;nbsp; The
&lt;i&gt;oracion &lt;/i&gt;that is directed to the
spirit may not work anymore, or the supplicant might get sick.&amp;nbsp; “so,” Boy explains, “with the oracion you
have power, but in a way, the spirit have power over you.&amp;nbsp; You have &lt;i&gt;utang-na-loob&lt;/i&gt;.”
Boy says he is selective in using &lt;i&gt;oracion&lt;/i&gt;
because there are time when the patient has to go through the process of
natural healing for his/her own spiritual good.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Arial&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Arial&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; Boy is president of the Association
of Health Aid Givers (ATHAG). &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style="color: black;"&gt;As
a requirement for one of our courses, my classmates and I had to do a survey
about family planning. My group was assigned to cover the &lt;a href="http://en.wikipilipinas.org/index.php?title=Sampaloc%2C_Manila" target="_blank"&gt;Sampaloc &lt;/a&gt;district.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="color: black;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&amp;nbsp; Getting interviews every four houses wasn't bad at all. I didn't have to
walk far. I reached my last sample household for the day and knocked on the
door. A dark plump woman with hair in a bun opened it. She reminded me of a
character in the movie 'South Pacific", the one who sang "Happy
Talk".&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="color: black;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&amp;nbsp; "&lt;i&gt;Kayo po ba ang maybahay&lt;/i&gt;?" (Are you the housewife {of
this household}?), I asked.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="color: black;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&amp;nbsp; "&lt;i&gt;Oo. Bakit&lt;/i&gt;?" (Yes. Why?), she replied with an &lt;a href="http://en.wikipilipinas.org/index.php?title=Ilocano_language" target="_blank"&gt;Ilocano&lt;/a&gt;
accent.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="color: black;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&amp;nbsp; After explaining my purpose, she agreed. The living room accommodated
only a small couch and one straight-backed wooden chair. There was a cotton
curtain with psychedelic design separating the room from the other parts of the
house. Hardly had I started to ask questions when a man and a woman who was in &lt;i&gt;kamison&lt;/i&gt;
(chemise) came out to the living room. The middle-aged man looked at me with
appraising eyes and asked: "&lt;i&gt;Ne, tagarito ka?" (Young miss, do you
live here?). As I replied with a "No", another couple came out. The
middle-aged man said goodbye to my respondent and left. The young woman went
back to wherever it was behind the curtain. I felt a little uneasy. I turned to
my respondent and asked her about her children.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="color: black;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; &amp;nbsp;"Wala akong anak. Dalaga ako" (&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;span style="color: black;"&gt;I don't have
children. I'm single). She misunderstood "maybahay" (wife) for
"may bahay" (house owner) when I asked her permission to conduct the
interview. I apologized for taking her time and quickly rose to my feet. As I
was leaving, the man said: "&lt;i&gt;Ne, babalik ka dito, ha&lt;/i&gt;?"
(You'll come back here, won't you?). I didn't bother to answer or look back. I
walked quickly to the variety store on the opposite side of the road. My
classmate was aready there having a chat with the storeowner.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="color: black;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; &amp;nbsp; "&lt;i&gt;Bakit ka pumasok dun&lt;/i&gt;?" (Why did you
enter that place?), the storeowner asked me. "&lt;i&gt;Putahan yon! Buti na
lang walang nangyari sa iyo&lt;/i&gt;." (It's a whorehouse! It's good nothing
happened to you). &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Arial&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;;"&gt;KA REMY&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Arial&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;;"&gt;Ka Remy’s small wooden house is off the narrow
unpaved road that leads to a cluster of houses near the rice fields.&amp;nbsp; One
has to pass through a few houses, past an artesian well, vegetables and fruit
trees, not to mention the loose chickens and dogs.&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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The house has earthen floor.&amp;nbsp; To the left of the door hangs a small
mirror.&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; A little farther also to the left are a few wooden steps
that lead to a mezzanine, probably the sleeping quarters.&amp;nbsp; Near the steps
and front of the door is the living room.&amp;nbsp; The sala which had seen better
days are upholstered in green checkers.&amp;nbsp; The center table is covered by an
apple-green lace-like cloth.&amp;nbsp; A wall which serves as divider between the
living room and the kitchen displays a big calendar, the type given away by
hardwares and similar businesses and posters of actors Robin Padilla and Zoren
Legaspi.&amp;nbsp; The dining table, made of bamboo and lumber, is pushed against
the wall, right under the window that looks out the front yard.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Arial&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;
Ka Remy was born in Morong, Rizal, to parents who were known for their special
abilities.&amp;nbsp; They were traditional healers who were given by their parents
certain books of secrets.&amp;nbsp; When he was a young boy, Ka Remy liked playing
volleyball than studying.&amp;nbsp; He recalls, while puffing his Champion
cigarette, that there were times when, during play, he would see a classmate
who was not feeling well.&amp;nbsp; He would stop playing and heal the classmate.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Arial&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; But, he
says with a slow smile, he was young, and his interest in healing and the
esoteric was overshadowed by his favorite sport.&amp;nbsp; He did not continue his
studies after grade 4. He played professionally for Caltex, San Miguel Brewery
and the army.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Arial&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;
Ka Remy relates about a mysterious old beggar, Julian Tejada, from Pililla,
Rizal,&amp;nbsp; whom he got to know.&amp;nbsp; He was fifteen years old at that
time.&amp;nbsp; He would assist the old man in walking, with the old man holding on
to his shoulders to steady himself.&amp;nbsp; The two of them went around the
barrio begging, and in the afternoon, in Ka Remy’s house, the old man, allowed
him to read his books while he rested his head on Mang Julian’s upper
arm.&amp;nbsp; First there was the pambating &lt;i&gt;ispiritual&lt;/i&gt;, then &lt;i&gt;misterio
principal&lt;/i&gt;, &lt;i&gt;misterio del mundo&lt;/i&gt; and &lt;i&gt;buen viaje de Maria&lt;/i&gt;.&amp;nbsp;
After he learned all four, Mang Julian taught him &lt;i&gt;majica blanca&lt;/i&gt; (white
magic).&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; According to Ka Remy, the old
man told him that the books were handed down to him by a Jesuit priest.&amp;nbsp;
What was mysterious about Mang Julian was that he would disappear after he
passed out the gate.&amp;nbsp; In the beginning, Ka Remy would run after Mang
Julian to see where he went.&amp;nbsp; It was impossible, Ka Remy exclaims, for
someone who was about 80 years old or more, to walk so fast that when he
followed seconds later, the man was gone. Every morning, for five years, Mang
Julian went to Ka Remy’s house to take Ka Remy with him to different places to
beg.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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Once, Ka Remy says, the Mang Julian wrote three letters on a piece of
paper.&amp;nbsp; Then he placed it on Ka Remy’s forehead.&amp;nbsp; When the old man
removed the paper, the letters were gone, they “entered his head” .&amp;nbsp; The &lt;i&gt;oracion&lt;/i&gt;
apparently guided him to understand things (&lt;i&gt;mga bagay na sikreto&lt;/i&gt;) even
if he reached only grade 4.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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Generally, Ka Remy bases his diagnosis through pulses, just like Boy Fajardo
and Ka Berting Gutierrez.&amp;nbsp; He also has a way of determining whether the
person’s illness is caused by unseen forces.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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He prescribes herbs, performs &lt;i&gt;hilot &lt;/i&gt;and prays to spirits at 12 midnight
daily.&amp;nbsp; He recites different &lt;i&gt;oracion&lt;/i&gt; depending on the case or
illness of a person.&amp;nbsp; He not only performs exorcisms on people, he also
does it on houses which are disturbed by evil spirits.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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He then tells the story of a house in Forbes Park, which was being disturbed by
spirits.&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; He traced the spirits as occupants of a nearby balete
tree.&amp;nbsp; What he did was to get dried leaves of “red” balete. &amp;nbsp;Red
balete is called such because unlike the ‘white” one, its leaves (&lt;i&gt;talbos&lt;/i&gt;)
are red and pointed.&amp;nbsp; &lt;i&gt;Engkantos&lt;/i&gt; and other spirits inhabit the white
balete, but they are afraid of the red one.&amp;nbsp; Ka Remy lit charcoal in a
pail and put incense (&lt;i&gt;kamanyang&lt;/i&gt;) and the red leaves on it.&amp;nbsp; The
thick smoke is said to drive away the spirits.&amp;nbsp; The ritual is accompanied
by saying the appropriate oracion.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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Ka Remy has a way of praying the “standard” prayers&amp;nbsp; like Hail Mary,
Apostle’s Creed and Lord’s Prayer, depending on the case he is handling.&amp;nbsp;
For example, with the Apostle’s Creed he stops at &lt;i&gt;Umakyat sa langit, lumuklok
sa kanang kamay ng Diyos Amang makapangyarihan sa lahat,&lt;/i&gt; and adds an &lt;i&gt;oracion&lt;/i&gt;,
when he needs special powers.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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Ka Remy, differentiates between&lt;i&gt; usog&lt;/i&gt; and &lt;i&gt;bati&lt;/i&gt;.&amp;nbsp; The first is
brought about by a person, the second, by spirits.&amp;nbsp; Both are cured through&lt;i&gt;
oracion&lt;/i&gt; and hilot.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; Illnesses may be brought about by natural causes or by spirits ---
dwarfs, especially the black ones, &lt;i&gt;engkanto&lt;/i&gt;, wandering spirits and other
spirit forces.&amp;nbsp; Ka Remy warns against being exposed to elements,
especially the first drops of rain if one is tired and/or perspiring.&amp;nbsp; One
also should not bathe when tired for it causes &lt;i&gt;pasma &lt;/i&gt;and respiratory
ailments.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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Though Ka Remy treats various ailments, the most common cases brought to him
are relationship or love problems.&amp;nbsp; There are persons who want to separate
their loves ones with another lover, or persons who want the husband or wife
who went away to come back.&amp;nbsp; At this point Ka Remy signals me to follow
him to the kitchen.&amp;nbsp; There, near the stove is a post covered with rolled
pieces of paper and photographs.&amp;nbsp; “These, I work on,” says Ka Remy,
meaning he prays to spirits at night to help people who consult him.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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“But is it not intervention on the natural course of things?” I ask.&amp;nbsp; He
nods his head and explains that no harm is done.&amp;nbsp; He only talks to the
spirits on behalf of people.&amp;nbsp; Ultimately, the spirits decide, not
him.&amp;nbsp; These are but temporary measures to give couples a chance to mend
their relationship.&amp;nbsp; If they are not really meant for each other, they
will separate again.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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Ka Remy, a widower, has remarried recently to an attractive woman close to half
his age.&amp;nbsp; He smiles mischievously and says, &lt;i&gt;Marami akong alam na
sekreto e&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&amp;nbsp;It was a marathon presentation of final papers
for graduate students in my research class. They were 8 in the class and we couldn’t
finish critiquing the proposals in one 3-hour class. The class was interested
in going to Mt. Banahaw, so
agreed to hold the presentations in the sacred mountain.&lt;/div&gt;
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As is the practice there, people go to the Sta. Lucia waterfalls to have
physical, emotional and spiritual “cleansing”.&amp;nbsp; The waters are also
invigorating, and I, as well as my students needed it. We’d have fun first and
tackle business later…&lt;/div&gt;
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and finished in the evening. Everyone was drained from the discussions and
after the sumptuous dinner, the students asked me to teach them how to meditate
and relax.&lt;/div&gt;
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We sat at the long dining table and the exercise began.&amp;nbsp; Prayer for
protection and deep rhythmic breathing was the first step. With their eyes
closed, I led them through it. Outside the house, it was dark and so quiet
except for the occasional sound of crickets. It was a private compound and
there were no vehicles passing that way. Then the alarm of one student’s car
went off. Perplexed, he took the car keys from the pocket of his shorts and put
it on the table after turning the alarm off.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/div&gt;
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The same thing happened two times more, just as they were getting relaxed. I
was concerned because a female student refused to open her eyes the third time.
As if in a trance, she said that she didn’t want to and that she was riding a
horse. With a stern voice, I told her to open her eyes several times. When she
did, she saw an apparition. It was a man with long hair sitting behind a
classmate. We all decided to forego the exercise and went to the sleeping area.&lt;/div&gt;
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At 2 o’clock in the morning, the car alarm went off again. In my mind, I saw a
tall lean figure beside the vehicle. It wasn’t human. Somehow I knew that that
entity was giving a warning.&lt;/div&gt;
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In the morning, a healer/psychic friend who lived several houses away came.
When I told him about our experience, he said that I should have “talked” to
the entity because it wanted to communicate with me. It seems that the entity,
by turning the alarm on, was preventing the student who saw a “ghost” sitting
behind her classmate from going into a trance.&lt;/div&gt;
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Whatever, it was, I didn’t have the guts to really find out. I wouldn't’ know
how to handle it and was afraid. In hindsight, I should have tried. It was,
after all, an ET, probably from a different “species”. I did research on it and
saw a sketch in one of the credible sites in the U.S. What was weird was that
the writings shown in the site, taken from an alien aircraft that crashed in
the US were familiar. They were the writings or scripts shown to me in my dream
more than 10 years ago. &lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style="color: black;"&gt;One
of the areas in my research on traditional healers was Leyte. Somehow I managed
to coax my good friend and former classmate, Vic, &amp;nbsp;to serve as my interviewer/translator.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style="color: black;"&gt;I
used the snowball technique in locating healers. All interviews and
observations went well until we went to see Mang Teroy…&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style="color: black;"&gt;Ours
was an unannounced visit, but Mang Teroy agreed to be interviewed after Vic
explained our purpose. He was about 5 ft. tall, about 65 years old, a bit on
the squat side, with dark skin and balding head. His neat bamboo and nipa hut
lay at the center of the yard which was, to my estimate, more than 1,000 square
meters. There were mango trees, papaya, and coconut trees. There were loose but
friendly dogs and some chickens.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style="color: black;"&gt;We
were invited to enter his house and were led past the small living
room-cum-healing area to the veranda.&amp;nbsp; Though I could speak only a few
phrases in Waray, I could understand the dialect.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style="color: black;"&gt;Towards
the middle of Mang Teroy’s story-telling, a woman in her 20s came with her son
who was about 5 years old. What luck! We would also get to observe his healing
technique. He told the boy to sit on a bamboo stool in the living room. Then he
started to light the charcoal which he placed in a coconut shell (&lt;i&gt;bao&lt;/i&gt;),
sprinkled some dried herbs on it and waited until there was smoke. He sat in
front of the boy to start his rituals… and my heart almost stopped! Horror of
horrors! He made an inverted sign of the cross, starting from his solar plexus
to his forehead, to his right shoulder and finally to his left. He was using
“dark forces” for his healing!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style="color: black;"&gt;“&lt;i&gt;Vic,
alis na tayo. Ngayon na!&lt;/i&gt; (Vic, we have to leave fast. Now!), I frantically
whispered to him.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style="color: black;"&gt;“&lt;i&gt;Baliw
ka. Di pa tapos ang interview&lt;/i&gt;” (You’re crazy. The interview isn’t over
yet), Vic answered. His irritation was obvious. “&lt;i&gt;May toilet naman siguro
dito&lt;/i&gt; (There might be a toilet here), he added, thinking that I just needed
to use the bathroom.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style="color: black;"&gt;“&lt;i&gt;Now
na! Bilis! Sabihin mo, babalik na lang tayo&lt;/i&gt;” (Now! Hurry! Just ell him
we’ll come back). My hands were getting clammy from fear.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style="color: black;"&gt;Mercifully,
Vic got up, as if exasperated with a child, approached Mang Teroy and bade for
us a hasty farewell and thanks. It took a lot of effort for me not to break
into a run once we reached the bottom of the bamboo stairs.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style="color: black;"&gt;After
a few meters, I told him what I saw. He said something in Waray which to me
sounded like an expletive. He made the proper Sign of the Cross, reached for my
hand and practically dragged me to the road on a half-run half-walk. We
probably looked like overgrown and over-aged Hansel and Gretel running away
from the wicked witch!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style="color: black;"&gt;&amp;nbsp; &amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; &amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; We hailed a
tricycle and told the driver to bring us to the jeepney terminal. The driver
must have thought us eccentric because once we were seated, Vic and I started
laughing our fears away.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Arial&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;;"&gt;Several years ago, I attended a seminar with some
colleagues.&amp;nbsp; The venue: Villa Estrella (not the real name of the hotel) in
Baguio City.&amp;nbsp;Villa Estrella was quite a place. The restaurant was on the
street level, while the living quarters were separate clusters on different
levels. All rooms are accessed from the garden. There are also open huts where
people could sit and talk.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Arial&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;;"&gt;We reserved 3 rooms: one for me, &amp;nbsp;Helen and Lulu, another, which was on the far
end was for Inday, Letty and Virgie.&amp;nbsp; The middle room was for the driver
and Johnny who will be fetched from Manila by the driver and will travel to
Baguio. There were no telephone in rooms, so we had to go up to the restaurant area
where the admin office was. It was
tiring, since the seminar hall and rooms were so many steps down.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Arial&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;We were preparing for bed that first evening.
I was in the bathroom brushing my teeth when Helen said we should ask for other
blankets because it was very cold. Lulu said that since the middle room was
still unoccupied, we could get the blankets and ask for replacement for Joey
and the driver the next day. Lulu went to the other room and gathered the
blankets, but she could not get out of the room! She could not open the door
which wasn’t difficult to open! I focused and saw an old lanky man. He was angry.
I told Helen to tell Lulu to leave the blankets in the room. When Lulu did, she
was able to open the door easily.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Arial&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;I woke at about 1:30 a.m. because of screams.
It was like a pig being slaughtered. “&lt;i&gt;Baka
may canao&lt;/i&gt;”, I thought. But the screams went on and on. I began to doubt
whether it came from a pig. I focused and “saw” that it was a woman about 5’2,
a bit on the plump side. Her hair was up to her nape had she had bangs. I saw
only up to her upper chest (which was uncovered) and she was being pulled by
two men, one on each arm. I prayed until I fell asleep.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Arial&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;I’ve forgotten about my vision of the woman
until Letty asked during breakfast whether we heard the screams of a woman. She
thought it was a woman being beaten by her husband and even commented why the
neighbors were not doing anything to stop him. The rest didn’t hear anything.
We agreed to monitor news somehow to find out what really happened. What I did
was interview the guard informally. He admitted that sometimes, guests would
hear the screams and it seemed it was coming from Rm 114, but the occupants of
the room never heard anything!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Arial&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;;"&gt;Helen, Lulu and I looked at the topic after lunch
and decided we could sneak out and go to Session Road. We went down to our room
to change into clothing fit for walking and shopping. The afternoon session &amp;nbsp;had started &amp;nbsp;by that time. As we passed the conference
area, we saw agitated participants outside the hall. What on earth was
happening? I was called to listen to a participant’s digital recorder.&amp;nbsp;
She was from Quezon and was checking her recorder to find out if it was
recording the lecture. It did not record speaker's voice. Instead, there was a
male voice that said very slowly:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Arial&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;
&amp;nbsp;“May sasabihin ako… Arrrrgennnttt…”.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Arial&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Arial&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;;"&gt;My hair
stood on end. The voice was like of a male radio announcer.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Arial&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;Huh? Arjay? Argent?&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; Oh! It was
urgent! I said aloud that he must be Ilocano!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Arial&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;I was asked to explain the phenomenon to the
equally scared participants and afterwards I led the prayers for the soul of
that discarnate spirit. Ever curious for explanations, I casually interviewed
the hotel staff later. According to
him, a few years ago, a security guard shot himself in a room below the restaurant.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Arial&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;;"&gt;We were all scared, especially Helen, who when she treated
us for dinner at the Baguio Country Club, did not want to go back to Villa
Estrella, but instead check in at the Club. However, Inday, the most sober
among us, said that we should go back.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Arial&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;We packed our things before we went to bed. I
beat Lulu and Helen in going to sleep out of fear. The last thing I heard
before I fell asleep was Helen telling Lulu to turn off Helen’s laptop where
she was playing some music. &amp;nbsp;Then I suddenly woke up because I heard
music. I thought it was coming from Helen’s laptop. After a few seconds, it
stopped. Then it played again. I didn’t open my eyes. &lt;i&gt;Baka ano pa ang makita
ko!&lt;/i&gt;&amp;nbsp; The third time, Helen said: “&lt;i&gt;Lulu,
yong cell phone mo&lt;/i&gt;”. Lulu woke up and said, “&lt;i&gt;Naka-off. China-charge ko&lt;/i&gt;”. She got up and switched on the lights. &lt;i&gt;Naka-off
nga! &lt;/i&gt;&amp;nbsp;I told her to check incoming calls, alarm and messages. Nothing
was logged. No calls, no alarms, no incoming messages! I checked the time. It
was 1:30 a.m.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Arial&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;The three of us woke early, hurriedly took a
bath and lugged our bags to the restaurant area. &amp;nbsp;When the van arrived to
fetch us, we felt so relieved. &amp;nbsp;Finally, we could leave Villa Estrella. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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