纪念吾儿黎圣方、圣德 In Ever Loving Memory to My Dear Sons Lai Shen Fang & Shen De

亲娘促“前世亲娘”继续看顾圣田

2016-06-08T17:33:00.000+08:00

随着家婆在2012年10月，癌发短短21天就往生之后，尘归尘、土归土，所有的事情都沉淀了下来，家族里一切的恩怨情仇总算告一段落。。。

以慈悲來消解仇恨，惡性因果循環停止了;　
以宗教情懷來寬容，人生才能真正地圓滿。

圣方获得超渡已往极乐净土了，圣德投胎成圣田也长大上学了。
我们的日子也平静地度过，行善、持素、念经、放生，祈福予身边的每一人.....

事隔三年，2015年11月，小婶Ｊ患上乳癌，而且是最毒的一种，马上进行切除手术及电疗。劫后余生，夫妇俩开始逐步持素，也慢慢接触佛法，性情有了改变。

2016年6月的某一天，就在我参与台湾功德山上宽下台大法师亲自来槟城主持的八关斋戒回来之后的第二天，小婶Ｊ忽然私讯我，询问他们一家三口的命论。

最教我惊讶的是，她主动提到圣田投胎自我的亡儿圣德的事，原来这个我以为会是一辈子的秘密，她早知道而且竟然主动向我提起了。

妯娌俩都是隔代儿子的亲娘，一时之间很投缘，也彼此安慰。

她表示高兴圣田有多一个人疼爱，况且她本身患癌属於高危族，何时离开也不知道，至少还有我这位“前世亲娘”继续看顾圣田。

这是我从来没想过的局面。
从２００７年延仁师父、医生、２０１５年卢台长处先后证实圣德投胎成圣田之后，这些年来，圣田一天天长大，与我们“前世父母”及“前世姐姐”枚姐姐都很投缘，我们也一直都以平常心看待，我不想引起小婶的误会，想不到是她主动提起了投胎及往后看顾圣田的课题。

[11:01, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: Saosao, Can share what Lu Tai Jang said bout pa?
[11:02, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: He didn't share that i have cancer too?
[11:02, 6/7/2016] Wong Ewe Chin: he said this family 业力很重. more particular one i need to check back my book
[11:06, 6/7/2016] Wong Ewe Chin: u remember i told u all my whole body was shivering for nearly one hour, after listening to him, all the way from his private suite room at Equatorial Hotel back to town
[11:06, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: Saosao, u mean i ask for me too? Or just Lai family?
[11:07, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: U ask for me too?
[11:07, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: I remember u told me but didn't share in details after that
[11:07, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: U just said u scared that's all
[11:08, 6/7/2016] Wong Ewe Chin: Lai family generally....u & i both are to pay back the debt 嫁来这个家还债的
[11:08, 6/7/2016] Wong Ewe Chin: yeah...i didnt disclose much because i worried maybe some of u may feel unhappy or uneasy
[11:09, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: That's i understand cos m so call with 心灵法门
[11:09, 6/7/2016] Wong Ewe Chin: Lin is escaped and changed to good fortune after she married to the 有福报的家
[11:09, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: Glad u keep the record...hope u share all with me and khoen...
[11:09, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: We shd b able to handle
[11:10, 6/7/2016] Wong Ewe Chin: are u sure u want to know??????
[11:10, 6/7/2016] Wong Ewe Chin: i believe him so much...so accurate....that;s why i keep shivering
[11:11, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: Anyway, even though is to pay back....m still 知足 what we have now.... will nian jing and little house to pray for better when we leave
[11:11, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: Questions ....
[11:11, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: Hope u dun mind i direct ya
[11:11, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: Can i ask?
[11:12, 6/7/2016] Wong Ewe Chin: ??
[11:13, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: I want to ask...cos u did mentioned couple of time u believed Lu Tai Jang....but how come u didn't follow his teaching?
[11:13, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: The daily homework, little house and fang seng?
[11:13, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: The 3 things
[11:15, 6/7/2016] Wong Ewe Chin: yes, i truly believe him on his super power but not following his method because he is 乘离正道，不是正信佛法. We do chanting nian jing & fang seng regularly
[11:15, 6/7/2016] Wong Ewe Chin: chanting and fang seng is the 佛教正道 but not the little house
[11:16, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: Oh...tx for sharing
[11:17, 6/7/2016] Wong Ewe Chin: what we following is the 正道
[11:17, 6/7/2016] Wong Ewe Chin: actually 很多修行人都有这些超力量，我也认识
[11:26, 6/7/2016] Wong Ewe Chin: to be frank, KT's schoolmates are talking behind abt KT believing......including 泽荣
[11:26, 6/7/2016] Wong Ewe Chin: the fatty guy we met at Hui Yin Seh last trip told me
[11:27, 6/7/2016] Wong Ewe Chin: i replied him i respect other people's choice....there is no bad or wrong....
[11:29, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: Ya...nvm la....so long we nian da bei jo and xin jing....
[11:30, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: That's the usual jing....not the " chair kao" in Cantonese
[11:30, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: 😂😂😂😂
[11:30, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: Can read ah
[11:31, 6/7/2016] Wong Ewe Chin: 🤔 dont know
[11:33, 6/7/2016] Wong Ewe Chin: oh ok got it 邪教
[11:34, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: Hehehhe
[11:34, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: Khoen seems good after tge nian jing so...shd b ok
[11:35, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: But still nian jing
[11:36, 6/7/2016] Wong Ewe Chin: 佛教 do encourage people to nian jing and take vege
[11:38, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: So now at least khoen did both
[11:38, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: Just not 100% 佛教

[11:38, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: U have me khoen and Tian sharing from lu tai jang?
[11:40, 6/7/2016] Wong Ewe Chin: thats good enough on his drastic change. I remember both KT & pa ma always gave strong objections to me when i tried to persuade them to less eat meat
[11:41, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: I will ask Khoen want to hear from u what u heard from lu tai jang about me, him and tian onot...
[11:42, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: U will share with us? Lu tai jang said shd share with us?
[11:43, 6/7/2016] Wong Ewe Chin: why u suddenly ask?? u really want to know? u wont angry or other emotions? sometimes its hard to accept....
[11:44, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: We listen together with khoen la...our next visit
[11:45, 6/7/2016] Wong Ewe Chin: actually KT knew some years ago....that time my sifu also can "see"...i didnt prepare to tell but ma was so big mouth to tell KT....and last year, i was so scared listening to what Lu told me....double confirm

[11:45, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: Is it about tian is yr son?
[11:46, 6/7/2016] Wong Ewe Chin: u know already??????
[11:46, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: Yes i know about tau tai thing
[11:46, 6/7/2016] Wong Ewe Chin: i told myself i wont tell
[11:47, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: I believed the tau tai...will b all family moving around
[11:48, 6/7/2016] Wong Ewe Chin: do u know ma asked u to do something on me....to bring the 胎灵 to u
[11:48, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: Can b gong gong, or whoever Lai family that move around
[11:49, 6/7/2016] Wong Ewe Chin: the most accurate is within 49 days
[11:48, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: Ma do something on u to bring tian to me?
[11:49, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: Then shd b tian also owe me haha and now to me to pay back...or to me to ask something from me
[11:49, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: Haha
[11:49, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: All still yian fen kua
[11:49, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: Yuan fen
[11:49, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: My pinyin is bad ya...
[11:50, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: Not the correct pin yin
[11:50, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: Haha
[11:50, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: Just like what lu tai jang said...all things happen with reason
[11:50, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: Either pay back to ask for things
[11:51, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: If come to me to ask for things... if i know better off....can nian more jing
[11:51, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: If no yuan, whatever ma do...won't work
[11:52, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: Or since it works...accept it lor...
[11:52, 6/7/2016] Wong Ewe Chin: phew...i m relief at least u understand. Over the years, u have asked me several times on this sensitive issue...i dare not tell. Koko also said no need to tell. We dont want u to misunderstand us

[11:52, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: Again...back to tian given to me is to pay back or ask for things...
[11:53, 6/7/2016] Wong Ewe Chin: but do u know how ma replied me when i checked back with her on my sifu findings.....she said, nvm la, either your son or KT' son , also my soon soon !
[11:53, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: Watched the ghost story...story also about family member waiting for next family to pregnant
[11:54, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: In a way, ma is correct
[11:54, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: So long ma didnt 害 yr son, force to give to me
[11:54, 6/7/2016] Wong Ewe Chin: she said pity KT no kid...is NOTHING to take mine to yours
[11:55, 6/7/2016] Wong Ewe Chin: 害 or no 害，都已过去，都已放下
[11:55, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: According to lu tai jang...mayb thats yr son Yuan with u for few months...
[11:55, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: Duno u accept that onot
[11:56, 6/7/2016] Wong Ewe Chin: already found out the reason and prayed. Settled their debt
[11:56, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: Yup...about debt
[11:56, 6/7/2016] Wong Ewe Chin: sifu not interpreted this way ...
[11:57, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: If it is about debts, ma didn't 害你。
[11:57, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: It's her debts too
[11:57, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: And u and me is to pay back as what u said.
[11:58, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: Also her debts to Lai family as second wife
[11:58, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: All individual ada debts
[11:58, 6/7/2016] Wong Ewe Chin: yes, i know i m coming to this famiyl to pay back...that's why i 放下
[11:59, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: All bcos u did something in yr previous life to Lai family
[11:59, 6/7/2016] Wong Ewe Chin: the no son curse already over with the pay back of Sheng De life
[11:59, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: That's y current life u need to pay back...same goes to me
[12:00, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: Same goes to sheng De...what he have done past life....
[12:00, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: What sheng tian past life he have done...
[12:01, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: This current life come to me but not other more richer family
[12:01, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: Etc etc
[12:01, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: 应果

[12:01, 6/7/2016] Wong Ewe Chin: all these family issues has been so long long ago never cross my mind
[12:01, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: M studying that too
[12:02, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: My past life determine my current
[12:02, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: My current will determine my next life
[12:02, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: Same goes to u...accept u have done something on yr past life, thats y u need to pay back
[12:03, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: Lai family didn't owe us....we owe them actually
[12:03, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: We do better for our next life
[12:04, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: Thank god we r human...we can do something to pay back and do something for our next life
[12:04, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: Animal will not have chance to nian jing to have better next life
[12:04, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: Some animal do have to pay back too....
[12:05, 6/7/2016] Wong Ewe Chin: animal do have 轮回 as well
[12:06, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: Yup....but animal how to nian jing? So need to wait next life i guess...
[12:06, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: That's little i read
[12:07, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: Anyway, since oredy 放下..nothing about u owe Lai family or Lai family owe u...or me....Important we understand 应果
[12:07, 6/7/2016] Wong Ewe Chin: that's why i dont feel anymore regret to ma. I did my best to her to make her good. I took care of her full heartedly on her final days with the dirty things and her urine on me.....
[12:08, 6/7/2016] Wong Ewe Chin: i nvr say Lai family owe us... it is we the sim pu who owe the family
[12:08, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: 👍🏻
[12:08, 6/7/2016] Wong Ewe Chin: what we going through is to pay back our debt to this family too
[12:08, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: So what is next haha...
[12:09, 6/7/2016] Wong Ewe Chin: so what about your own family? can help?

[12:09, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: Anything that lu tai jang mentioned about pa?
Or shd just accept as it is....the running toilet?
[12:10, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: Shd do RT onot?
[12:10, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: Shd bring pa to Melaka chinese medication onot?
[12:11, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: Brb
[12:14, 6/7/2016] Wong Ewe Chin: aiyo....Lu didnt go such detail one la. He only said all pa suffering now is because his 业力太重, he cant escape, must go thought by his own
[12:14, 6/7/2016] Wong Ewe Chin: go through*
[12:30, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: That case will go with pa wish...

[17:42, 6/7/2016] Wong Ewe Chin: I m curious. Who told u abt Tian tou tai from De? U know long ago?
[17:43, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: So is sheng de...the second one?
[17:43, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: What about sheng fang btw?
[17:43, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: Disturb sheng mei is sheng fang or de?
[17:44, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: Did yr si fu share where sheng de came from?
[17:44, 6/7/2016] Wong Ewe Chin: Yes. Feb 2007. U conceived within the 49 days
[17:45, 6/7/2016] Wong Ewe Chin: Fang who disturb because he was the eldest but everyone forgot him. Fang missed the chance to tou tai within 49 days
[17:46, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: Then tou tai to where liao?
[17:46, 6/7/2016] Wong Ewe Chin: Who told u long ago ?
[17:46, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: Can't remember when
[17:47, 6/7/2016] Wong Ewe Chin: I though this is a forever secret
[17:47, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: Tou tai nothing what...no?
[17:47, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: So sheng fang tau tai onot then? What lu tai jang said?
[17:48, 6/7/2016] Wong Ewe Chin: That time I double check with dr. And the answer given to me was so scarily accurate
[17:48, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: Tou tai not normal?
[17:50, 6/7/2016] Wong Ewe Chin: Of course tou tai is very normal for every life. But normally ppl don't know where and who
[17:51, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: U didn't ask lu tai jang sheng de tau tai from where/who?
[17:55, 6/7/2016] Wong Ewe Chin: No

[17:56, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: U ask y sheng de no yuan with u? Or is it that the few months is to bau ern to u?
[17:57, 6/7/2016] Wong Ewe Chin: Yes this one I know the answer
[17:57, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: I heard from lu tai jang b4, few months is also yuan fen and bao ern.
[17:57, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: Sheng de is yr previous husband or wife or what?
[17:57, 6/7/2016] Wong Ewe Chin: Huh
[17:57, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: Is past life...normally lu tai jang will share rite?
[17:58, 6/7/2016] Wong Ewe Chin: I didn't ask he didn't tell
[17:58, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: Past life, i could b sheng tian lover or m khoen husband, etc...all related

[18:02, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: Is it bordering u that sheng de tau tai to sheng tian?
[18:02, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: Anything u wish me to do?
[18:06, 6/7/2016] Wong Ewe Chin: I m gan en that u gave birth to him after much sufferings. I m happy still can know and see my son in his new life.
[18:08, 6/7/2016] Wong Ewe Chin: Sifu said this child will be bonding to me besides parents. He will grow 叛逆 but will listen to me
[18:08, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: Sorry of all the things u gone thru....m willing to mi bu 弥补 if i can...

[18:09, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: From sifu or lu tai jang?
[18:10, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: 👍🏻🙏🏻at least u around to help.
[18:11, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: More ppl love tian , he will b very sing fo
[18:11, 6/7/2016] Wong Ewe Chin: Nothing for u to say sorry.
[18:13, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: Good too since m high risk cancer..may leave earlier.... u can help continue take care of him 😍😍😍
[18:14, 6/7/2016] Wong Ewe Chin: Both. That's why I shivered all the way
[18:15, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: Then shd tell me...so i know how long more i can live
[18:15, 6/7/2016] Wong Ewe Chin: Since u are telling this, yeah, sifu did say 这个孩子以后还是会回到你的身边的，but of course I don't want to see anything happ to u
[18:15, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: But is it from lu tai jang?
[18:16, 6/7/2016] Wong Ewe Chin: And I didn't know u have ca at that time
[18:16, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: Did lu tai jang said how long i will live?
[18:18, 6/7/2016] Wong Ewe Chin: Nope. He totally didn't say abt this
[18:18, 6/7/2016] Wong Ewe Chin: He didn't tell our life till when

[18:20, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: Lu tai jang didn't mentioned about sheng de and sheng tian?
[18:21, 6/7/2016] Wong Ewe Chin: Yes. As above told u
[18:28, 6/7/2016] Wong Ewe Chin: I have told u everything now. No more secret on De & Tian. Pls don't keep any in heart. Over the years, i 以平常心看待，most important is everyone 平安无事
[18:30, 6/7/2016] Wong Ewe Chin: I know how suffer u went through to get him, and how much love u grow him. He will be your good boy !
[18:39, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: I want to know more what lu tai jang said bout us....u record down?
[18:39, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: My suffer r nothing compare to yr lost...

[18:47, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: Btw, have u settled sheng fang?
[18:51, 6/7/2016] Wong Ewe Chin: Fang is in better place.now 极乐世界
[18:52, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: That's fantastic 👍🏻👍🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
[18:52, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: No more that u said follow u every where u go?
[18:53, 6/7/2016] Wong Ewe Chin: That was many years ago. Not I said. Ppl saw him following me
[18:53, 6/7/2016] Wong Ewe Chin: He even attended the kindergarten Mei went. The headmistress told me
[18:54, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: Cos u also told me he follow u around...anyway, heaven is the best place ever
[18:54, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: ya u told me that...
[18:54, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: Tau tai is suffering...go to heaven is best
[18:54, 6/7/2016] Wong Ewe Chin: Yes. fang is forever peace there
[18:54, 6/7/2016] Wong Ewe Chin: Correct
[18:55, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: U still have record lu tai jang about khoen me and tian?
[18:55, 6/7/2016] Wong Ewe Chin: Today u seemed realize a lot on Buddhism. Must have been read a lot recently 👍🏻
[18:56, 6/7/2016] Wong Ewe Chin: I need to check back where i put.
But didn't say much on u individual. Only touch a bit regarding Tian
[18:57, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: Not today la....i follow khoen and play alot lu tai jang video
[18:57, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: Also some books khoen read to me.

卢军宏台长说圣德 "投人" 回家来了！

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提到我的两个亡儿时，通神灵的卢台长也说了同样的话。圣方在极乐世界，圣德已投人回家来了。

当卢台长说“投人”，我还捉不到他的口语，经他说了两遍，以及身旁的助理进一步解释是投胎之意，我才完全确定了下来。

从卢台长处出来，我全身发抖一小时，太神灵了。

这几年来，我已完完全全放下，也不再想起有关儿子的事。如今经他确证当年许生延仁师父的话，不寒而栗，久久不能自己。

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2012-01-08T21:04:00.000+08:00

新鲜果汁和发糕

2011-12-09 农历十一月十五：全家水痘，公婆祭圣方

2011-12-09T20:54:00.002+08:00

继香港之行回来，因为全家出水痘，暂时住在阿嬷家，我们的生活规序都大乱了。
公婆和爸爸就在祖屋祭拜圣方。
http://ewechin.blogspot.com/2012/02/adventures-of-pox-family.html

2011-11-13 圣方幼稚園畢業了!

2011-11-13T12:50:00.006+08:00

圣方學成畢業了!
還獲得校方頒發的畢業證書

家長受邀出席參與假佛学院八关斋楼礼堂举行的圣方的佛学院幼稚园第48届畢業典禮
我們都觀禮了


2009-11-18 妈咪遵循圣方的意思，把圣方送到佛学院幼稚园报读一蓝班
http://laishenfangshende.blogspot.com/2009/11/2009-11-18.html

佛学院幼稚园的奇异事件
http://laishenfangshende.blogspot.com/2010/08/2010-08-10.html

2011 圣方就读佛学院幼稚园幼二。
http://laishenfangshende.blogspot.com/2011/01/2011-01-04.html

2011-10-22 佛學院幼稚園兒童節
http://laishenfangshende.blogspot.com/2011/10/2011-10-22.html

2011-11-10 農历十月十五祭圣方

2011-11-10T20:56:00.000+08:00

2011-10-27 農历十月初一祭圣方

2011-10-27T20:42:00.002+08:00

2011-10-22 佛學院幼稚園兒童節

2011-10-25T12:41:00.003+08:00

2009-11-18 妈咪遵循圣方的意思，把圣方送到佛学院幼稚园报读一蓝班
http://laishenfangshende.blogspot.com/2009/11/2009-11-18.html

佛学院幼稚园的奇异事件
http://laishenfangshende.blogspot.com/2010/08/2010-08-10.html

2011 圣方就读佛学院幼稚园幼二。
http://laishenfangshende.blogspot.com/2011/01/2011-01-04.html

圣方順順利利念了兩年
接受佛法薰陶

兒童節這天
園長特別保留兒童恩物通知媽咪拿回家祭拜圣方
枚姐姐也有一包
媽咪也報效全場200 粒的 cream puff 給圣方這兩年的同學們共享

202011-10-11 農历九月十五祭圣方/ Angry Birds goodies

2011-10-11T20:50:00.000+08:00

枚姐姐興奮地拿了許多的憤怒鳥文具與圣方弟弟分享

2011-09-27 农历九月初一祭圣方

2011-09-27T21:12:00.000+08:00

2011-09-12 農历八月十五師父往生成佛了

2011-09-12T22:12:00.001+08:00

這些年來協助我們的延仁師父
在農历八月十五中秋佳節
和友人用完午膳後
無病痛狀态下平靜往生了

這是個突然的消息
大家都很驚訝
也很惋惜

但因為之前師父已知道他本身在西天已備有一個家
等著他往生极樂世界成佛
這是遲早的尘事
因而平靜地接受了

媽咪和二姨到靈堂祭拜延仁師父
感恩他生前對我們家人的照顧
从當年舅舅少年時
到近年的照顧圣方

現在師父在凡間的時候到了
希望祂成佛在天上
依然看顧著我們

阿彌陀佛!

2011-09-12 农历八月十五中秋祭圣方

2011-09-12T20:59:00.001+08:00

阿嬷伤了背，无法行动，妈咪和枚姐姐暂时住在阿嬷家照顾她。
中秋节这一天没忘记赶回家祭拜圣方，中秋月饼和灯笼，共庆中秋团圆。

2011-08-28 农历七月廿八祭圣方

2011-08-28T11:07:00.000+08:00

2011-08-14 农历七月十五祭圣方

2011-08-14T11:21:00.000+08:00

这回是轮到妈咪和枚姐姐亲自下厨

父女在摺金银纸准备烧给圣方

灵异真事：老妇灵魂附身少女　控诉不甘心要办法会

2011-08-09T15:14:00.002+08:00

http://www.kwongwah.com.my/news/2011/08/09/19.html

(威南8日讯)农历七月鬼节灵异传奇又一篇，遭巴士车碾死的71岁老妇灵魂，附身在19岁美少女，声声控诉死的不甘心，要家人连做3晚超度法会。

此鬼月聊斋传说，乍听之下令人毛骨悚然，也令死者家属驱车往访，追查过程中似是又不是，其中可信度只能说，信不信由你。

这个老妇的鬼魂，是于本月4日缠上霹雳牛拉渔村1名19岁华裔少女身上求助，上身后自称是来自威南爪夷，在骑脚车为女儿买便餐时遭车碾毙，死的不甘心，要少女家人帮她找儿女来超度。

少女家人了解后，就托人打听威南爪夷是否有1名车祸身亡的老妇。

辗转下获悉爪夷横街经营盘碗洋杂货的花合号东主张成通之太太陈淑花(71岁)，于7月26日中午骑电动脚车在去距住家约2公里远的威利斯里村买便餐时，在该村之路口被1辆倒退的学生巴士碾毙。

因为少女被老妇上身时所吐露的讯息与陈淑花之遭遇类似，少女的家人就通过友人联系上老妇陈淑花的儿女，安排于本月6日晚8时来牛拉德教会紫民阁开坛扶乩查个明白。

苏琪同意再当“媒介体”　儿女子孙“见”老妇

陈淑花的儿女与子孙们在罗凤光之带领下，于当晚8时来到紫民阁，陈淑花的幼儿张裕永与苏琪的母亲会面后，同意在该阁开坛扶乩，在乩手的安排下，苏琪也同意再成为“媒介体”，来查明事情真相。

在该阁扶乩手开坛作法后，乩手以黑令旗带领苏琪到坛前露台处进行招魂，而老妇的家属则围跪一侧。在一群当地妇女齐诵经文，与法器敲击声下，原本闭目而跪的苏琪，忽然大喊一声后，身躯向后倾倒，而随侍在旁的苏琪母亲，手快扶住。

被上身的苏琪这时不断痛哭，张裕永趋前询问时，她只是不断说：“我很痛苦...死得很冤枉...没有地方可去...我很无助...”

张裕永这时问道：“你叫什么名字？我们是你的子孙吗？”

被上身的苏琪回答：“我不知啦，我的头很痛，你们是我的子孙啊！

张裕永说：“我们有为你作超度啊！你还回不了家吗？”

对方说：“那超度帮助不到我...那个师公没用...我不甘愿。”

在场的家属也问对方：“你本来不是要回家的吗？怎么又会转回去被撞到？”

苏琪一直摇晃着双手，不断的呐喊：“我不知道...不知道啊...我要买东西给女儿吃...”

张裕永也说：“妈妈，你应该放下一切，儿女都已长大成人，你不要对儿女再有任何牵挂了。”

对方则不断说：“不能...不能。。我很想家里每一个人...”

这时，乩手告知在场的陈氏儿女们，不能拖太久了，已经有10分钟了，怕苏琪的身体会承受不了而被伤害。

在场的子女们就连忙告诉对方，他们要再做一次超度法会，不如就交给这里的理事们帮处理好吗？对方就轻轻点头同意后，就突然向后软软的倒下。

乩手们赶忙为少女驱魂，然后把对方收在一面黑旗内，并答应家属会利用3天时间为该魂进行诵经超渡。

老妇是道地潮州人　上身时却说福建话

张裕永的好友罗凤光则表示，鬼魂事件毫无科学根据，不过，由于事关好友至亲缘故，他带领他们前往瓜拉牛拉渔村探个究竟。

他说，以理性观点来探讨，他不明白为何老妇在“上身”后始终没有交代她过身后的切身事务，及有关财务问题和遗嘱等。

他和老妇生前很熟络，老妇是道道地地的潮州人，不谙华语也不说福建话，但苏琪被上身时，所讲的却是福建话，这点令他大感诧异。

不幸于7月26日遭学巴倒退而碾毙的陈淑花，与夫张成通育有4名子女，即张桂芳（51岁）、张美枝（50岁）、张裕南（47岁）及张裕永（46岁）。

苏琪：遭上身时全无知觉

秀媚也告知，苏琪与姐姐平时是跑歌台献唱，而苏琪当晚原本是要到北海登台，因老妇的儿女要来查问，就暂时留在家里。

在与苏琪母亲聊问时，苏琪也来到，当询及被上身之经历时，苏琪表示被上身时完全无知觉，过后才从母亲口里知道经过。

她透露，那天晚上被上身后，这2天来已相安无事，她也如常去跑歌台献唱，并未受到困扰与感到害怕。

“但是，很诡异的，我的房间门这几天来常自动开关，有感觉到有灵异物体在家里出没，但并未骚扰我。”

当记者问她是否有看到陈淑花车祸身亡的新闻时，她表示并未阅及有关新闻报导，只是曾听友人提及，也不知是发生在三粒较。

答应进行超度　灵魂收附黑令旗

本报记者获得爪夷闻人罗凤光之告知，于6日晚驱车到牛拉德教会紫民阁，抵步时，先遇到在阁前等候的苏琪之母亲，因此先一步与她聊起，以了解来龙去脉。

苏琪的母亲秀媚告知，其次女苏琪(19岁)是在本周四上午11时，在家里的厨房内，突被一股莫名其妙的外来力量强推而跌趴在地上，任她如何挣扎都无法起身。其家人见状，都认为她遭邪灵作弄。

于是，在当晚与翌日凌晨时分，她请来师父在家里开坛作法询问，以便查出是何方邪灵缠身与所求何事。

苏琪的母亲是牛拉德教会紫民阁的妇女组主任，该阁有扶乩办理灵异求助事件，所以，今次对次女苏琪碰上灵魂上身之遭遇，她表示见怪不怪。

她说，5日凌晨开坛作法时，她与师父们在诵经念咒后，苏琪就不断发出痛苦的尖叫声，而且当时的苏琪的四肢还缩蜷成一团，令在场者看后，个个都感到毛骨悚然。

“在师父的引导下，苏琪神情痛苦的用双手捧着头，不断喊我很痛苦...我不知身在何处...我的头很痛啊...”

她说，她女儿当时被上身后，痛苦的在地上打滚挣扎，5、6个大人在旁也制服不了。她在现场看到女儿被附身后痛苦的模样，心中很难过。就连忙问对方有何事求助，来自那里。

“对方似乎很艰难的开口说话，说出她是爪夷人...不知为何会被撞死...当时她只想买食物给女儿吃...为什么会回不了家...我很痛苦...”

她也说，老妇的鬼魂透过女儿的口中吐露，说她是在三粒较(威利斯利村)处的一个晚上，遇到其驾车经过的大女儿，于是就随着她来到牛拉。

她说，当时在场者听后都搞不清状况，但是，为了保护女儿，师父在问到了重点后，就赶忙告诉对方，会为她进行一切超度事宜，并会帮她找家人来与她会谈，在获对方同意后，师父就进行收魂，把灵魂收附在一面黑令旗后，带往供奉在紫民阁前空地上，以免其女儿再被上身。

“事后，我们一夥人在讨论这事。刚好身边有一位友人在爪夷有一名好友，就漏夜联络对方。对方就直指，这几天内，当地就有发生一宗老妇被巴士车倒退碾毙事件。也说，与死者的儿子很熟，可以帮问看他们是否要来查证。”

灵异真事：流产胎儿伴妈妈

2011-08-09T12:39:00.003+08:00

http://www.kwongwah.com.my/news/2011/08/02/125.html

据说，图片中的一名女子早前流产，后来就一直感觉不适，常常有意无意听见小朋友的笑声。

她在出席友人聚会时被拍到“小朋友”的影子。

灵异真事：在家的胎灵就在身边

2011-08-09T12:28:00.003+08:00

报导:梁景量
摄影:梁景量

（北海3日讯）

凌晨3时，家里那刚出世的宝宝又哭了，拖着疲惫的身躯，母亲又得再起身，对着爱儿又哄又抱，宝宝眼神里透露的恐惧，才慢慢消失，最后，又再安安静静地睡去了。
打从宝宝出世到现在，凌晨2、3时的啼哭，是一件持续不断的事情，那一对年轻的父母由一开始地惊讶，到后来已慢慢习惯，也不再去多想，为何孩子就是会在同一时间哭泣。
“老婆，孩子又再哭了，你去看看吧...”这一个深夜，孩子再度啼哭，只是，孩子的妈发烧得很严重，实在起不了床，因此，哄宝宝的责任今晚就落在爸爸身上。

一进到宝宝的小睡房，爸爸看到了婴儿床旁竟然有一个小孩子的身影，他正把漆黑瘦弱的小手伸向宝宝的脸...他的双脚是浮空的。
“你是谁？！你要对我的孩子做什么？！”爸爸虽被吓着，但因为爱子心切，他还是一声怒吼后，就跑到婴儿床旁，这时，黑小孩也消失了，宝宝继续啼哭着，眼神，是说不出的畏惧，一个完全没人生历练的宝宝，却会有这样恐惧的眼神，爸爸的心，也很疼。
惊魂未定，哄毕宝宝后，爸爸抱着熟睡的宝宝回到主人房，就让宝宝睡在他和太太之间，他彻夜未眠，心里不断想着那黑小孩，他怀疑自己眼花，可是，那黑小孩却有一种熟悉感。
“他到底是谁？”身边的太太和孩子都睡熟了，他的眼睛却依然是亮着的，心底盘算着如何揪出那黑小孩。接近清晨，他决定了，今晚要在宝宝房间内“埋伏”。

黑夜终于降临，他若无其事地和太太一同上床就寝，凌晨2时，太太睡熟了，他蹑手蹑脚进入宝宝房间，躲进衣柜里，想确认昨晚一切是否是真的。
接近3时，疲惫不堪的他已几乎在衣柜里睡着了，突然，一阵寒风刺骨，他猛然睁开眼，从衣柜的门缝中往外看，那黑小孩就站在婴儿床旁，时而把玩宝宝的玩具，时而在宝宝肉肉的脸上捏来捏去，被捏痛了，宝宝哭了，黑小孩就充满胜利感地笑了。

宝宝的妈被哭声吵醒，发觉丈夫不在身边，就起身来到婴儿房查看，这时，爸爸看到黑小孩飘到窗口旁，在窗帘后后痴痴地看着她哄宝宝，黑小孩眼神哀怨，不一会儿，就消失了。
“砰砰！”脚发软的爸爸撑不住了，从衣柜里跌出来，妈妈被吓了一跳，爸爸说出刚才所见所闻，两夫妻面面相觑，不知如何是好，最后他们决定找最传统的方式来解决这问题：“问神”。

隔天一大早，夫妻俩来到一家名气很响的神坛，渴望获得高人指点迷津。
“你还记得三年前发生的一件事情吗？那时你怀孕了对吧？”高人问道。
年轻妈妈回想一会：“嗯...那时我怀了六个月身孕，那是我第一次怀孕，我和先生都很期待儿子的到来，但最后，因为一场意外，我流产了，那时我们很伤心...”

自从胎死于母亲腹中后，他不曾离开，父母没为他进行法事，他也不懂如何脱离这世界再轮回，他只能继续跟着他的“准父母”，小孩渴望母爱是天性，即使，他只是一个胎灵，却还是眷恋着母亲。
他虽小，但却好像很了解人性，知道母亲会因为他的出现而感到害怕，所以，他从不再母亲面前现身，怕从此再也看不到那他带来到这世界的女人。
三年里，他不曾离开过。

近来，两夫妻再度迎来喜讯，一个白白胖胖的女娃娃出生了，妈妈对刚诞生的宝宝照顾得无微不至，因为之前流产的不愉快经历，因此妈妈对女娃娃的爱是双倍的，也当着是对女娃娃那来不及看这世界的哥哥的一种弥补，虽然女娃娃还很小，但妈妈却还是买了许多玩具给她，当中一些更是男童才爱玩的。

也因此，半夜三更，黑小孩就会出现到婴儿床旁跟女娃娃抢玩具，他也会吃妹妹醋，想起白天妈妈对妹妹的好时，他就会不爽，然后就会捏妹妹脸颊，还有拍打妹妹，就是要把她弄哭。

“原来，我们的儿子一直都在...”夫妻俩这时百感交集，但他始终不该继续留在这世界，高人说，胎灵也像人类一样，人之初性本善，现在乖巧不做坏事，但却也难保以后不会学坏，作恶的胎灵将会让一个家庭吃尽苦头。

听了高人劝解，夫妻俩决定举办一场超度发挥，让黑小孩，也就是他们的“爱儿”，早日登极乐世界，不再徘徊人世受尽苦痛。

自此，凌晨3时，不会再听到女娃娃的啼哭。

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后记：

对灵异事件有研究的人都相信胎灵的存在，只要在母亲腹中超过三个月，身体即使还没成形，灵魂却已存在，即使该胎儿还没出世就已流产，其实他的灵魂还是会来到这个世界。

堕了胎后，发觉诸事不顺？那么，很可能是胎灵在作怪，根据神坛之前的案例显示，有者更因为胎灵报复而导致家庭血光之灾不断，生意也频频失败，在进行多场法事超度胎灵后，一切才好转。

胎儿即使还在肚子里，却也已经有了生命，未婚妈妈或任何想要堕胎者，真需三思而后行。

图说：
by0803a1:胎灵也渴望被膜拜。
by0803a2:超度法会有助让胎灵轮回转世脱离苦海。
by0803a3:水池上有许多玩具供婴灵玩乐。

2011-07-31 农历七月初一祭圣方/ 超渡

2011-07-31T11:07:00.002+08:00

除了例常的祭拜，我们也听从师父及佛学院园长的指导，像往年一样，在两大佛教组织为圣方圣德超渡，希望他俩兄弟福慧双修。

1。柑仔园金和宫慈心道场
2。佛教居士林

阿嬷特下厨煮清淡菜肴祭拜圣方

2011-07-22 圣方不喜猴

2011-07-22T22:56:00.002+08:00

媽咪从MATTA Fair 回来，遇上来槟参展的台湾六福村的经理好友。
闲聊一阵之后，他特地私人赠送一只可爱的六福村象征动物哈比给妈咪。

回家当然是将它送给圣方。
当我们一家祭拜圣方之后，妈咪就进冲凉房洗澡。忽然在外的枚姐姐马上“发作”，在外边狂哭，爸爸也拿她没办法。
妈咪在浴室内马上与圣方沟通，听到圣方表达他不喜欢玩猴子，才如梦初醒，照顾他的是齐天大圣爷孙悟空，哪里可以拿来玩？！

妈咪马上围了条毛巾，冲出来到圣方香炉前，拿走那只猴玩具，枚姐姐的状况马上静止，一切恢复如常。

妈咪语重心长告诉圣方，任何心事都可以向妈咪沟通表达，千万不要让枚姐姐受苦，更何况枚姐姐最疼爱圣方弟弟。