Life by avi

Old School : The Badge Of Honor

2020-06-15T01:31:00.002+05:30

It has been a while since, I have only been listening to the radio silence which materialized from the consequences of uncertain events lately.

What am I even talking about ?

Look around and see, are we all not wanting to experience something relishing, certain event to unfold and give us the joy that we once had, waiting for this series of bad omens to end.

Which also reminds me, no one in this world has the liberty of going back in time to those days. Although, we can stay fixated on the past, yet we cannot move beyond the dimension of time.

There has been people who gave in to such thoughts, and ultimately isolated themselves or even left this world. Hence, I would share some thoughts of my own, wherein I stand as an "Old School".

What is being an "Old School" ?

Google says that "to refer to someone or something that is old-fashioned or traditional", however in my opinion it has nothing to do with age/old-fashioned/traditional rather, it means to have a strong will to withstand every ounce of extra burden with an added laughter. Do you think I am wrong ?, then keep reading and prove me wrong otherwise.

Recently, I was speaking with a friend who was sharing the pain he had endured thru-out his life, till date.

He told me a lot of things, out of which most were dejected and with the time I even got worried that, he may as well be suffering from acute depression and how do I even console him, anyone would think so if paid attention to his words and experiences. However, the inconceivable part was his laughter after every instance.

In the end, I simply told that him that "You are an old school", and he relatively thought of his age and told me, "I am not old enough to be called that", and I did not say anything but laughed, and he realized what I meant. He stated that he was somehow glad for I called him an old school.

Why do you need to know this ?

I mostly write when I perceive something which difficult to explain yet, important to be understood, to be honest even I have been feeling quite glum due to recent events and wish for circumstances to be more favorable.

Therefore, being an old school means to be strong and also to talk out your feeling, not to box them with a time bomb, and listen to others who needs it as well. It is a badge of honor that we stand for a cause, and never to be related with age.

We all have someone to talk with, family or friends, but somehow if you do not have anyone to share your feelings with, please let me know. Yes, I am a good listener however, if you would ask me for an advise or opinion I can be outspoken, I try and fail miserably to sugarcoat my words more often.

Whenever someone would ask me, I will proudly say that "I am an old school", to tell them that I am there to help, if needed. What about you ?

On the contrary, if you cannot help someone, yet you want to prevent depression, anxiety and suicides. Then simply stop being an idiot on social media and in real life.

Choose Wisely and Live Freely...Cheers !!!

Please share your thoughts as well and do not forget to connect with me. Also, please leave it in the comments below, if you would like me to write about something in particular.. Thank you for reading !

Covid-19 : A Chapter In History

2020-04-20T16:20:00.001+05:30

It has been an absolute grim situation for the entire human race, since the pandemic known as Covid-19 or commonly known as Coronavirus has began. However, there's more to this than meets the eye. Hence, we would discuss a few aspects of Covid-19 to know it better.

(Information source (Covid-19) : World Health Organization/Wikipedia as on 19/04/2020)

What is this virus ?

Coronaviruses are a large family of viruses which may cause illness in animals or humans. In humans, several coronaviruses are known to cause respiratory infections ranging from the common cold to more severe diseases such as Middle East Respiratory Syndrome (MERS) and Severe Acute Respiratory Syndrome (SARS). COVID-19 is the infectious disease caused by the most recently discovered coronavirus.

This new virus and disease was unknown before the outbreak that began in Wuhan, China. Furthermore, this virus is thought to be natural and have an animal origin, through spillover infection, however the actual origin is still unknown. The majority of cases result in mild symptoms of cold and fever, some progress to viral pneumonia and multi-organ failure.

When did it start ?

At the close of December 2019, the WHO China Country Office was informed of a pneumonia of unknown cause, detected in the city of Wuhan in Hubei province, China. According to the authorities, some patients were operating dealers or vendors in the Huanan Seafood market. Therefore, WHO stayed in close contact with national authorities, and began monitoring the situation and requested further information on the laboratory tests and different diagnoses to be considered.

Human-to-human transmission was confirmed by the WHO and Chinese authorities by 20 January 2020. Thereafter, acknowledging that cases have been reported in five WHO regions in one month, the Committee (WHO) noted that early detection, isolating and treating cases, contact tracing and social distancing measures – in line with the level of risk – can work to interrupt virus spread. Hence, it was declared a Public Health Emergency of International Concern on 30 January 2020.

To keep a track of genuinely updated cases reported to World Heath Organization, please click on WHO COVID-19 Dashboard. Also, ensure not to fall victim to the rumors, and always authenticate the information before reacting.

I think we should not stretch this too much and consider few other facts as well.

Therefore, below cases/deaths are as per the information reported to WHO till 19/04/2020 02:00 AM Central European Summer Time.

Total cases overtime in the world : 2246291
Total deaths in the world : 152707

Percentage of the people died from the infected : 06.79

In other words, Covid-19 seems to have a fatal rate of 06.79 percent from the infected, which is quite relieving, however this is the result of an enforced global lock-down and even when it is being handled with utmost priority, whereas consider the situation once the lock-down is removed, and we are on our own.

Now, simply imagine the ratio.!

Precisely, if we do not fight it today and somehow the situation becomes uncontrollable in the aftermath, we would only be lost in the thought, of being able to end it in the past. Needless to say, we will have to bear the consequences of our own actions and pray, that the situation does not gets any worse.

How will it end?

It will not, unless we realize that we need to stop it, moreover there is no vaccination to cure Covid-19 yet. Hence, we need to understand its mechanism first.!

This virus primarily spreads between people during close contact, often via small droplets produced by coughing, sneezing, or talking. While these droplets are produced when breathing out, they usually fall to the ground or onto surfaces rather than being infectious over long distances. People may also become infected by touching a contaminated surface and then touching their eyes, nose, or mouth. The virus can survive on surfaces for up to 72 hours (approx.).

Therefore, recommended measures to prevent infection include frequent hand washing, maintaining physical distance from others (especially from those with symptoms), covering coughs and sneezes with a tissue or inner elbow, and keeping unwashed hands away from the face. In other words, follow social distancing, sanitize hands regularly, wear a face mask when needed and maintain hygiene religiously. Also, if possible then help the people in need as well, since not everyone can afford the luxury of food and hygiene in this time of crisis.

Now, why would we consider Covid-19 to be a chapter in history.?

I would share my opinion wherein I am rather inclined to consider the positive aspects first. Ironically, it taught us to respect the environment, to help the ones in need, to stay home and spend time with family, unimaginable but rehabilitation as well for few of us and so on. Otherwise, tell me last time you had seen such an exquisite weather.

However, it also has diabolic aspects which must not be forgotten. The intensity of grief in the world due to loss of lives, this is something which cannot be compensated by any currency in the world. Furthermore, most of the countries are suffering from economical setbacks. Nonetheless, every individual is fighting a battle, which no other person knows of.!

In the end, we are the only ones who can stop it. No one else would do it for us, it is our battle, we must fight and win this together. Also, I am certain that sometime in near future this would a chapter in history, which will either restore or destroy the faith in humanity for our future generations. Hence, I would request everyone to follow the steps, stay home and stay healthy..!

Choose Wisely and Live Freely...Cheers !!!

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I'm Sorry Mum !

2020-03-22T03:21:00.000+05:30

My apologies, for not writing any blog for last few months. However, a recent incident enforced me to write about this aspect, otherwise I thought I would quit writing.

Here's what happened; Few days ago, I was in a lift and there was another person in the lift talking to her mother, rather having a quarrel due to her repeated calls since she was not able to respond to her calls. Long story short, she told her mother to never call again, which may have been out of sheer anger and she may not have intended to reflect such thoughts. However she did that and, I wanted to tell her to talk to her mother nicely but I did not, I do not know why but I didn’t say anything and exited the lift.

I recently lost my mother to a brain stroke and, I would give up anything and everything only to see her call me again. We take our parents for granted, rather believe that nothing can take them away from us, specifically mother. Hence, I would share my thought on this and a few of you may not agree with all of it, please tell me otherwise.

My mother was the perfect mother similar to every mother, however mine was the most polite, courteous, kind, humble, best cook, strongest yet calm and so on(list never ends)….and she was most fond of talking and travelling. Also, she was the most gorgeous women with the most adorable smile in the world, which can be seen in the pictures above as well.

On 17th, December'2019, I was at work when my sister told me that mum has fainted, we called the ambulance and took her to the hospital and she was admitted in ICU, where doctors told me the situation that, there is a clot on the left side of her brain due to which her speech, understanding and the right limbs were not functional anymore, doctors also clarified that there are minor chances of survival and that she might be able to talk, understand or walk again sometime in future, which could be days, weeks, months or even years.

Furthermore, there is only one way to ensure her survival possibility is a little higher and that would be a brain decompression surgery which means, to surgically remove a small piece of her skull to allow space for the brain swelling to avoid further damage and would keep that piece in her stomach for a few months, until she has recovered enough to attach the piece back on the skull. Needless to say, if she survives the pain of those surgeries !

Me and my family decided not to proceed with the surgery, which is by far the most toughest decision I have ever made in my life till now. We were criticized as well since not everyone could understand the reasons, that we could not imprison her to a life of pain and sympathy, even she would not have wanted such a life and I knew my mum very well.

Otherwise, is there anyone who would want such a life? Hence, we left the verdict on our fate wherein she fought even more fiercely than a knight could have for 09 days, before leaving us on 26th, December'2019.

Ironically, even after being prepared for the most improbable verdict, when I was about to wake up the following day after coming the from the cremation ground, I somehow wished for all of this to be a bad dream, and simply wanted her to wake me up, I just wanted to see her face again or to hear her voice. Nonetheless, after waking up I realized that this is not something fate had given me the liberty of anymore. It has been about 03 months now, but nothing can fill that space or make that wish come true.

Why am I telling you all of this?

Given the opportunity to relive the moments with her, I would do things better and I would not think twice before saying “I’m sorry mum”, or rather I would say it out loud that “I love you mum”.

We do not mind apologizing to a lot of people in life without a reason, then why are we reluctant when our parents say something, this person I met in the lift could have ended the conversation with “I’m sorry mum” which would have changed the entire meaning of it.

Have our parents not tolerated us enough, for our unintentional yet uncivilized behavior since childhood?

Today, I take peace in the fact that my mum died a warrior and she was smiling in her last moments (yes, she was). Fortuitously, a few days later I saw her in my dream wherein she looked young, happy and at peace and honestly I also take tranquility in this. This is one of the reasons which gets me thru every single day since then.

Apparently, she also taught me to always smile and have faith that everything happens for a good reason.

I only want to emphasize on the fact that, the only constant aspect of life is inconsistency. We must not take everyone in our life as an immortal or for granted. Although, we cannot keep everyone happy but given the opportunity, never think twice before saying “I’m sorry” to the ones who are closest to your heart and loves you absolutely, we may never know when would be the last moment.

I said it to her when she was in ICU, “I’m sorry mum” (in my own way) to which I do not know if she could even hear me, however I still said it.

Please tell me if what we did was right or wrong? What you would have done? Then think how would you respond the next time when your mum calls you. Particularly, when we are already dealing with a pandemic.

Choose Wisely and Live Freely...Cheers !!!

Please share your thoughts as well and do not forget to connect with me. Also, please leave it in the comments below, if you would like me to write about something in particular.. Thank you for reading !

Anchors : Heavy, Yet Necessary !

2019-11-24T01:34:00.000+05:30

Everyone begins from somewhere, our existence was discovered on our birth. When we knew nothing about this world and the people in it, however we grow up with an impression that this world is everything but not deceptive.

Everyone is taught to live for being better than everyone else and to always act with kindness, but then we get deceived by someone or may find or create a fortune or may think of ourselves as someone above all or even without any reason we just want to oppose our moral code which has been taught to us, and that changes the meaning of life.

There are times when we are inclined to become someone that we are not, or rather someone sightless enough to ignore the consequences of our own actions.

Today, let us discuss about those times, which creates this persona.

Being deceived by someone is very legit reason for changing ourselves, but the conclusion is, that we are only increasing the number by being one of them. No one else should go thru the similar emotions that we already had suffered.

May find a fortune, If someone has found a fortune then it would absolutely change everything for that person, but have we ever realized how all of those people end up destroying their life themselves. Either its an inheritance or winning a lottery or by committing something unspeakable, all of them pay the price. Please read the history otherwise !

May create a fortune, If someone has created a fortune by own, apparently that person deserves to carry the attitude of being better then the most. Although, people I have seen with such caliber are mostly humble and kind, which is one of the reasons which got them to that point.

May think of ourselves as someone above all, why shouldn't we, if we have enlightened this mere world with our existence, even if it is meaningless then also should we not be proud of it ?. Rather, Pride is the precise word for such people who haven't done anything or can't even do anything themselves apart from whining.

Even without any reason we just want to oppose our moral code, When we are tired of being better all the times, yes I agree we get tired. However, this moral code also strengthens us to be the same as change is good but, not when its worth someone else's happiness.

It is all crap, everything I mentioned above are the most meaningless statements you have read today or you may have already pictured someone with some issues or questioned yourself already.

Have you ever yelled on someone close to you for a small reason, only to show your pride ? I am quite certain everyone has done this only to reflect our demeanor over the other person. However, was it worth doing ?

This is the part which saturates a person from being better to being the same. Otherwise, is there anyone who would appreciate being criticized in above mentioned categories ?

There is always an anchor which hold us to a place and it is timely lifted to move, but it is always carried with us and has to be used whenever needed.

For most of us, this anchor can be a place or a person or an activity or all of it. Think about it, who do we contact or where do we go or what do we do, when we need a sense of belonging or when we seek solitude or just to keep ourselves calm. If, you do not have any, then rethink since every being on this planet has one or multiple anchors to keep themselves connected to the ground.

Personally, even I have many such as my family and my balcony and my plants. They keep me connected to myself so I never forget the reasons why I have to be better than others.

A few may have lost their anchors and finding it difficult to regain the sense of belonging. However, the fact is "It is never lost, rather replaced". Otherwise, find one before you end up going directionless. It is as necessary as breathing !

I have not mentioned friends since they are more likely to be wings which I have discussed previously as "Lifeguard : Friendship !!".

Choose Wisely and Live Freely ...Cheers !!!

Are Traffic Rules Imposed?

2019-09-08T02:26:00.000+05:30

There have been a few amendments into The Motor Vehicle Act, which has been into force from 01^st, September’2019 onward. Hence, let us have some discussion on how are they imposed on citizens.

The major amendments that have been done into The Motor Vehicle Act are:-

On not giving way to vehicles engaged in emergency services: A fine of Rs 10,000 or jail term of up to 6 months or both.

Non-wearing of helmet: License suspended for three months with fine of Rs 1,000.

On not wearing seat belt: Fine of Rs 1,000.

On driving without insurance: First mistake of Rs. 2,000 fine and /or up to 3 months in jail. Rs 4,000 fine and/or imprisoned for 3 months for the second time.

Driving without license: Fine of up to Rs 5,000.

Driving without PUC: Fine of Rs 10,000.

Talk on phone while driving: Fine of Rs 5,000.

Drunk driving: Prison for up to 6 months and/or a fine of Rs 10,000 for the first mistake. Jail up to 2

years and/or a fine of Rs 15,000 for the second time.

Overloading on two-wheeler: Rs 2,000 fine and/or license suspended for 3 months.

Accident related offenses: First time jail for 6 months and / or fine of Rs 5,000. Jail up to 1 year for the second time and / or a fine of up to Rs 10,000.

Dangerous driving: First time 6 months to 1 year in jail and/or fine up to Rs 1,000-5,000. Jail up to 2 years and/or fine of Rs 10,000 for the second time.

Over speed: For the first time, a fine of RS 1,000-2,000 on light vehicles and Rs 2,000-4,000 on medium passenger or commercial vehicles. License forfeited for a second time.

Racing and Speeding: Jail up to 1 month and / or fine of Rs 5,000 for the first time. Second jail for up to 1 month and / or fine of up to Rs 10,000.

Previously, there was no law relating to accidents during minors' driving. Now the parent / vehicle owner of the child will be held guilty. Individual will face a fine of 25 thousand rupees and three years in jail. Also, vehicle registration will be canceled for one year. The minor will not be given a driving license before the age of 25.

General invoice: First Rs 100, now Rs 500.

This list does not ends here, there are a lot more. It is ironic but, I personally find it amusing for how people have been reacting towards this entire situation.

I would share an instance wherein I went for a dinner recently and opted to book a cab and not to drive because of the apprehension of violating a traffic rule. Moreover, even the chauffeur was skeptical of violating any traffic rule; he said “I’m afraid that if I may break a rule”, when I asked him to take a turn to avoid long route.

Apparently, I was surprised when I heard about a fine of Rs 22,000 on a two wheeler of worth Rs 15,000. Catalyst, could be the precise word to define, for how imposed this situation has been defined by media wherein they does not even share the specifics of any fine.

Even rallies are being conducted to have these changes removed, wherein I would only agree to one point among all their agendas that is, if a police officer has to be bribed, the bracket for negotiation is incomprehensible.

Hence, what are the ways to ensure, that we do not get into a situation wherein we have to pay a fine or we can skip it with a minimum payment?

First, the vigilance team should be extremely vigilant on not letting police officers take any bribe by any means and to be certain that fines are charged fairly, if possible there should be a way to dispute them immediately.

Second and most important, we must make sure to have all necessary documents and to follow all the rules.

To be honest, it would make the roads safer than ever before. Read the rules again and imagine how smoothly the traffic would run and how, substantially the road accidents would decrease if everyone would start following them and never to forget, this shall even improve the environment. We all have never cared about any rules, since they were always economically convenient to be bought either by bribe or a fine, than to be followed. However, now it would be rather cheaper to follow them for a change.

I am in favor of these changes; in fact I have started following the rules. It is even better, when I see a lot of people following them religiously now.

Do you still find them being imposed? If, yes then please leave your reason in the comments below. Otherwise, it is better to start following the rules. Choose Wisely and Live Freely…Cheers !!!

The Extraterrestrial Life Of An Employee : Chapter 02 : Pawns, The Immortal Soldiers

2019-08-11T01:23:00.000+05:30

Chapter 01 : The Boss Almighty

Disclaimer : It is entirely a work of fiction and I do not have any intend to hurt the feelings of these Soldiers.

Chapter 02 : Pawns, The Immortal Soldiers

We all have come across a lot of people, who would either never even have the slightest though of their bosses ever being wrong or they may always despise their bosses all the time. Moreover, they are impeccable motivators.

These are few of the qualities which can possibly assist a corporate individual to recognize a pawn, since they motivate us by either discriminating or assuring that the bosses are, as we think of them. Which ultimately help them to gather enough information to determine if we are worthy enough to exist in their environment or not.

The most important question is "Why" they go thru this hassle, instead of doing their own work ? (Please leave it in comments below, if anyone has figured out the precise reason)

Hence, let's discuss what all could a pawn achieve by being an Immortal Soldier !!!

Promotion :-

A promotion could indeed inspire someone to take over this mantle, if obtained from someone who has already been promoted. Everyone wants to get an easy promotion, precisely they already know their capabilities and are aware of the probabilities as well, if ever tried.

Work Less (Worthless) :-

There are people who are more than happy to stay in same role till the end, but ironically they want to work less, since either they are already worthless or only god knows why. This kind is the funniest and most despicable, since they have been a soldier for years and are not willing to give up their mantle at any cost.

Legend :-

Now, the most iconic type. We all have at least one in a team, who is a legend due to the wisdom and knowledge over all aspects of the company and the employees as well. They are the most scared or rather insecure ones as they create a legacy which they cannot possibly pass to anyone else in the organization. Which makes them the most irritating kind.

Drinks/Cigarettes :-

These are those who, when needed indicate their bosses that there is some useful information but the charge is either in the denomination of Drinks or Cigarettes. They are barely bothered about anything else in this god created useless world. Which makes them even more deceitful.

Sin-Eater :-

This is a spiritual kind, when a boss makes a tough decision and even if it was wrong. This kind would convince them for their deeds to be of the righteous. There are a lot of people who fall in this category unwillingly as well, since they need their job secured.

I am certain, now we all can relate someone with few or all of the qualities mentioned above. This is what they could possibly achieve by being a pawn, but the cost ?

They are merely a pawn in this game of chess, rather they are the most vulnerable part of the company. If or when needed, they would be the most expandable part of a company as they have always been statistically underachievers since the beginning. Moreover, this aspect makes their position only as immortal, not an individual as they are more replaceable than anyone else who exist in their environment.

A boss can never be always right or always wrong. Hence, decide wisely and stay away from a pawn and also avoid being one of them. Although, more concerning matter is "why" does bosses even need to get information on what an employee think of them, however this is sometime else to be discussed in a few blogs later, maybe in chapter 04 or 05.

I am certain most of us has a few stories about the pawns and please share them in the comments below (Needless to say, anonymously) and I may update the blog accordingly.

Always remember, Choose Wisely and Live Freely...Cheers !!!

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Chapter 01 : The Boss Almighty

The Extraterrestrial Life Of An Employee : Chapter 01 : The Boss Almighty

2019-06-30T01:28:00.000+05:30

Thank You all, for your enthusiastic response on my blogs. Truthfully, it is nothing less then the fuel to my inspiration for never to cease writing. Hence, this is something new I have experimented and hopefully you would like reading it. If you must, please leave a comment below and only then I shall write the Chapter 2.

Chapter 02 : Pawns, The Immortal Soldiers

Disclaimer : Everything mentioned below is entirely a work of fiction and I do not want to search for a new job, unless I get paid better.

Chapter 01 : The Boss Almighty

My name is Avinash and I am a bonded labour, precisely I work in huge corporate park with an air conditioned environment and I wear torn clothes sometimes for which I paid to have them rigged, when I bought them. Somehow, I am at the bottom (Executive Level) of the corporate chain which means that my energy and brains are consumed by everyone else in this pathetic chain.

The day I saw a movie named "The Wolf Of Wall Street", I wondered if such a boss really exist or not ?, however I am given somewhat close to that environment when I need a leave or leaves or need to leave early or need to reach late and extremely opposite if I am not happy with my raise in salary. Otherwise, I can also unintentionally become the most incompetent, disgraceful and a human without any ethics whatsoever.

The most ironic part is when they share their success stories which no one wants to hear, and somehow we have gather courage to appreciate their struggle, when we really don't give a shit about it.

Which reminds me of an instance of a huge argument.

Once upon a time, there was a human whose internal body parts could speak to each other and they use to fight a lot. Once, they had a huge argument on who is the most important part of the human body. The participants were Brains, Heart, Liver, Lungs, Kidney, Stomach, Asshole etc.

Upon the argument everyone concluded and agreed that it's only the asshole who is not needed, rather it is a disgrace to the human body. When, asshole heard about this conclusion it became angry and took an oath to not work at all and ended up shutting itself.

Initially, none of the others bothered and kept doing their tasks diligently. However, as the time passed Stomach started to ache since the shit could not be disposed and along with it even Liver and Kidney. Gradually, all other organs started to get worried, in the end the lungs took a deep breath and brains painfully asked everyone to apologize to asshole for it is the most important part. Even Heart unwillingly agreed and all apologized to asshole and lived happily ever after.

Moral of the story : "Boss Is Always An Asshole".

Hypothetically, they dispose the shit that we do not have to deal with, otherwise they give us a headaches, which makes them almighty. Whatever they do, we still have to agree to them willingly or unwillingly.

But, only this cannot be a justified reason for their behavior we have to tolerate.

Do we suffer less because of their whining all the time?

Moreover, every boss has their pawns whose job is to distinguish and eliminate the potential threats and a lot of many other tasks instead of their own work. Apparently, this is an aspect to be discussed in Chapter 02 since these pawns comes in multiple breeds.

I am certain most of us has a few stories about our bosses and please share them in the comments below (Needless to say, anonymously) and I may include them in the next chapter.

Always remember "Boss is always right, because they are assholes". Choose Wisely and Live Freely ...Cheers !!!

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Chapter 02 : Pawns, The Immortal Soldiers

Why am I alive ?

2019-05-19T04:18:00.000+05:30

Why am I alive ?

This was the first question I asked myself, since I did not know what I could possibly do and the only fact I knew was, that I had nothing to live for.

I still wonder, what all treachery would life unfold before it bids farewell to its mere existence.

Today, I would like to tell you something about myself. My age is 29 , perhaps soon to be 30 since my birthday is on 27th May. Thank you for wishes in advance!

My first blog was on 14th, March'2018, when I was going thru one of the most unanticipated phase of my life. I am still going thru divorce wherein everything initiated on 07th, January'2018.

Apparently, it made me realize a lot of untold facts about life which I could never comprehend, when everything started I tried everything within my ability to retain the relation which was inevitable to to end.

I still ask the same question mentioned above (Why am I alive ?) to myself multiple times since that day and to be honest, I still haven't found the answer yet.

I still pursue the reason to prove my existence with something better, apart from breathing to prove it!

Now, why am I telling you this ?

Because, I have made quite a lot of mistakes in my life but needless to say some were beautiful, however I would really want someone to learn from it, as people still doesn't realize the consequences of their decisions. I have seen people consumed enough with their own emotions that they do not see the life, for the way it really is !!!

We all do everything that is right according to us and we decide it by our self, which gets questioned later by everyone. This is what makes everyone loose their ideal temperament, doesn't it?

I am sure we does that considering it to be better for everyone but, in real it is better to make the choices collectively since we alone does not have to carry every burden that life offers !!!

I only want to emphasize on the thought of not bearing the burden of everything by ourselves and it is never late to begin...!!!!!!!!

We must have someone to share it with and that could be family at the best or a friend and even a stranger, everyone counts. Otherwise, the burden of the consequences would never reduce irrespective of the efforts.

Moreover, by end of the day either we would be drowned by our own sorrows or we can overcome, simply by the being able to make the decisions collectively since we would have someone to support us thru the phase.

How do I know it ?

I have people who support me, few aggressively, few silently and needless to say few affectionately ...what about you ?

This becomes the foremost important reason to pursue the reason to keep the quest alive to find the reason of my existence !!!!

Choose Wisely and Live Freely ...Cheers !!!

Please share your thoughts as well and do not forget to connect with me. Also, please leave it in the comments below, if you would like me to write about something in particular.. Thank you for reading !

The Picture Perfect Family

2019-05-12T01:36:00.000+05:30

There is a picture perfect family, wherein every member supports each other. Moreover, the opinion of every individual in that family is valued. It is the family everyone envies; hence we would talk about this family today.

I would tell you an instance that happened today, I went on an errand and an old woman of approx. 70 years of age was trying to approach me and I could perceive that she was being hesitant; therefore I stood there for a while and waited for her to initiate the conversation. It took a few minutes but, she approached me and asked for 05 bucks and my question was “why”. She felt embarrassed and said that she is not well and already has 05 bucks but need 05 more to take a ride back home, since she is not able to walk. I gave her the money, rather I called a ride and made sure she gets it. Moreover, even the driver charged less considering the situation, without saying a word. (Charged 10 instead of 20).

When she left, I wondered what kind of family she could be from, however everyone has a situation of their own. I am no one to judge someone and/or their family. What if, this woman may not even have a family?

I am sure this is a situation a lot of us has come across, but how many of us has left all the other thoughts and tried being their family or maybe treat them as a family member till we can, apparently we all have a family to take care of, hence we cannot adopt anyone, but we can at least try for a while and maybe someone else would carry on from there, such as the driver I mentioned above.

Honestly, after she left and most importantly after I left the thought of being a jury, It felt better that I could help her in any possible manner.

Now, what does this instance has to do with The Picture Perfect Family?

Precisely, there is no picture perfect family and we do not even get to choose our own family.

Instead of insisting everyone in our family to be perfect, should we not try to relish their imperfections or even share our own imperfections? I am sure someone else is better than you in few aspects but I am certain that you would also be better in few aspects than someone else.

Family is about getting all the pieces of a puzzle together.

There is no picture perfect family, we have to make one. We do not get to choose our family, but the one which we have is the only family.

We must cherish our own family and when we help someone, never be the jury for them or their family, we must do it considering them as our own; otherwise we must not do it at all. Ironically, we become jury if given the opportunity whereas, Every family is picture perfect. Choose Wisely and Live Freely ...Cheers !!!

The Golden Sand Beach : One Of The Most Unique, Yet Unknown Beach In India

2019-04-28T02:33:00.000+05:30

The Neyyar River is on the one side and the Arabian Sea is on the other side and, in between it is The Golden Sand beach : Poovar, Kerala. This sight was beyond mesmerizing than it appears in the above picture.

It was one of the most beautiful unplanned adventures and the journey begin from Poovar backwaters, I took a boat from there with the destination of The Golden Sand Beach. The journey itself was enough beautiful that it had me captivated with sightings which included an Elephant shaped rock along with the exquisite view of backwaters. Even though there are floating restaurants around the corner of Neyyar River but it was kept impeccably neat, far better then Alleppey backwaters.

I have been to many beaches but I find this beach as most unique and undiscovered or rather unexplored among all. It was unexpectedly serene at this beach which compelled me to write about it.

What else is unique about it ?

Rejoice the solitude in the astonishing view of the nature.

There are moments in our lives which we cherish even though, it could be attached to an emotion of sorrow. However, these places somehow gives us the relief that those memories are not meant to be forgotten, moreover they are to be cherished irrespective of the despair they may have brought. A few of us may have sorrows compared to a sea but, there would still be moments to relish comparable to a river.

These are the emotions which makes us human and we must attain the tenacity to cherish them. Similar to this beach which connects a sea and a river, yet makes it look even more astounding.

How to reach there ?

Airport : Thiruvananthapuram is the nearest airport. (32 Kms Approx.)
Railway : Thiruvananthapuram is the nearest railway station. (30 Kms Approx.)
Road : Indeed, available. (Recommended cab Vendor : Speed Travels)
Boat : Recommended method if you would ask me, you can take it from one of the multiple boat services at the route to Poovar alongside the Neyyar River, which would cost approx. 500 per person (rest are your negotiation skills).

When to go there ?

Whenever you can, planning such trips would destroy the sense of adventure from it !

If you still do not find anything unique about this beach then, visit once to change that thought. Otherwise, please share your thoughts on a place better than this.

"People who cannot find peace in travelling and exploring the unknown, they can never find peace at all". Choose Wisely and Live Freely ...Cheers !!!

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Before We Bid Farewell To Our Pets.

2019-04-07T00:53:00.000+05:30

This is a picture of my beloved pet "Jackie" (May'2014-March'2019)

The above picture is of Jackie compelling me to play with him and I was very fond of teasing him, hence one of the most memorable moments. He fell sick and while I was taking him to the hospital, he took his last breaths when we were not even 05 minutes away from the hospital.

When I buried him with all respects and started to walk away, there was an unshakable feeling within me that I have forgotten something and, honestly it took me a week to realize the fact that he only exist in my memories now.

He was not my first pet, however this sentiment is never distinguishable. This post is a mere tribute to the loving memories of my beloved pet Jackie.

We all love pets, who doesn't? however, do we value them while they flourish our lives with their existence, or we merely recognize their charisma while they love to prove their existence.

Everyone would say, that they indeed value them and their affection for it is never to be diminished, under any circumstances. Which is absolutely undeniable, hence let's talk about the aspects we have or can learn from them.

We bring them home when they are young, energetic and needless to say adorable. The mutual reason is to have a friend who would stand by us for nothing less than an eternity of ones lifetime. They look at us with the hope of being their companion and protector thru all the odds, over and above all, being their only family. Nonetheless, they are already willing to do more then what they expect from us.

Have we ever started any relation with such determination, if yes then how often?

This is how it begins, however gradually we get busy in our lives, however we always care for them. Sometimes we come home from work and they greet us and go crazy only to have us pat on their head and play with them for a while, ironically we may had a bad day and we yell on them, but they pursue us with their charm and win over our bad day and help us to end is in a better way.

Have we ever helped someone to make their bad day to end good, if yes then how often?

They do this for everyday of their life, without any fail. In return they ask for the same and when not given they may tore apart our flip-flops (shoes and so on) or maybe would not come to us or ignore us to reflect their wrath, however they always come back quite sooner (not more than 10 minutes) only to convey that their affection for us is greater than anything else for them.

Have we ever left our pride to covey our love to someone, if yes then how often?

They get old or fall sick and their energy begins to diminish, but their effort to pacify or love us never changes. Irrespective of their situation they always keep us as their only priority and their efforts never ends, till their last breath.

Have we ever loved someone with such passion, if yes then how often?

Honestly, we are barely even close to what they have for us. Otherwise, please share your answers to these questions.

My preposition is to learn from them and make their life worth it "before we bid farewell to them", for they teach us more then we can even comprehend. Choose Wisely and Live Freely ...Cheers !!!

Why To Pursue The Unendurable?

2019-03-17T02:51:00.000+05:30

We all have asked this question from ourselves and the most effortless answer is "because you can".

Apparently, we all possess an emotion to achieve something, which could be a pursuit to gain an impeccable identity or to at least make a difference or even to be rich. However, this pursuit suffocates in the dilemma of "What, How and Why should I do it". Hence, we would discuss about them to attain what we pursue.

What : Have you ever felt passionate towards something? It could be associated to anything, such as reading, writing, acting, singing, travelling and so on. If someone hasn't found their "what" then embrace it by recognizing what gives you peace during the time of chaos.

Everyone has their own mechanism of dealing with chaos, if or when it is manifested by the circumstances. Mostly, this mechanism is our "What" we should do. All we need to do is, to turn that chaos into solitude.

Why or How : This is not easy, never was and never will be. We all have someone who inspires us, it can be an inventor or a philanthropist or someone unrecognized by most of us. Hence, we would discuss about few of them.

Steve Jobs : He was one of the founders of Apple Inc. However, if we have read about him then we know the life he been thru for a better end. A report from FBI indicated that he even used Marijuana and LSD during his college days and this was "one of the two or three most important things" he had done in his life.

Warren Edward Buffett : I am sure most of us knows about him. However, he is a philanthropist who pledged to give away 99 percent of his fortune for better causes whereas he is considered as as one of the most successful investors in the world. This person was inspired by a book when he was seven years old.

Harvey Ross Ball : We all use Smiley figure, and this was the guy who invented it. How many of us knew this ? moreover, he was a retired Brigadier General and served in World War II. Also, he created this smiley figure to to increase morale.

There is only one emotion common among all of them. They found solitude in their chaos and were persistent to pursue what they wanted.

I personally perceive their notion as "they knew that if they won't do it, someone else would". It is less about how we started but more about how we end it.

My preposition is, that we would always question the reasons for why we should do it, but the extensive question is why should we not pursue it. Choose Wisely and Live Freely...Cheers !!!

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Why/How are storms named : Conclusion

2019-03-10T00:34:00.000+05:30

Thank you everyone, for your active participation in concluding my previous blog "Why Storm Names Are Female ?"

I would start by sharing thoughts of a few men and a few women as well.

Men : They started with first gesture as they deserve to be named after such incidents, rather they should even be named on more catastrophic events that takes place in the world/universe.

Women : They were quite calm while stating that this is a myth, they are named after females so that men would understand the true vigor of a women, and reconsider before retaliating against us.

Truthfully, I sometimes relish writing about such concepts which includes opinion from others i.e Men Vs Women being the most astonishing concept. The reaction I get is similar to a world war (Just Kidding).

Needless to say, the responses were amusing and as I stated in my previous blog I shall now elaborate for Why/How are storms named ?

Why : Initially, before 1950 the concept of naming the storm was not into existence, and the storms were designated as per the latitude-longitude. This was easier for the meteorologist to understand, however it was something closest to rocket science for a person like us to understand i.e 27.6648° N, 81.5158° W is the latitude-longitude of Florida, now how many of us can really memorize this. Hence, they started naming them so the communication related to any storm could be shared effectively.

How : Now, when they agreed to name them. First they started naming them after alphabets e.g. Able, Baker, Charlie and so on, however they later realized around 1953 that this would create confusion due to repeated names every year. Hence, they started naming them with different names and by 1979 they already had the concept wherein they have list for upcoming storms as well, which includes names of both, male and female. Although, it started with only female names and it took a lot of efforts to have this list established.

World Meteorological Organization manages the list of names for the storms and there are 06 lists which are used in rotation, with the names to omitted upon devastated damage they may have caused.

My proposition is to never discriminate someone for being similar to something as catastrophic as a storm. Always remember "It is only humans who must stand together, if we must survive any cataclysmic event". Choose wisely and live freely...Cheers !!!

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War : The Religion of Peace

2019-03-03T01:43:00.001+05:30

I have heard a hypothesis that the World War III is about to begin and eventually it would bring prosperity to our world. Moreover, I have seen people being considerate to have war to attain peace.

Somehow, I despise the conviction that there could ever be peace with this belief. Have we not learned anything from the history?

Please find facts from a few wars till now :

World War I : The total number of military and civilian casualties in World War I were about 40 million: estimates range from 15 to 19 million deaths and about 23 million wounded military personnel.

World War II : An estimated total 70-85 million people perished, which was about 3% of the 1940 world population. Civilians deaths totaled 50 to 55 million. Military deaths from all causes totaled 21 to 25 million.

Please look at the numbers closely, more or nearly half of them are civilians. Which is also known as collateral damage of a war, this should be sufficient enough to jog anyone's memories for the so called peace attained from a war. Hence, someone who is not a military personnel, I would request them to keep their expert advises limited to reality shows and sports. Otherwise, please join the military and then go for a war.

I do not have any intent to criticize the patriotism of any individual, I am rather inclined to give a bold reaction to anyone who does or even say anything against my country. However, I do not prefer insisting anyone that there must be a war.

Please ask from someone's family who has lost their loved ones in a war, if they would ever prefer to have a war again. There are instances when a family grieved in the loss and appealed for a war to never happen again, but even they were criticized to have such a thought.

We must protest for our opinion to be heard, but the opinion must be considerate towards a better tomorrow, not for a war. We must always be ready for a war, however we must never propose for a war to start.

Terror is a thought and we all must work together to end this thought, wherein a war would have collateral damage which could create even more people who would retaliate and may as well become a part of a terror group. Hence, the thought of terror would remain intact which would give birth to more terrorist organizations.

Even Hilter would have never thought that he was wrong. It is the history which decides, for who was wrong or right.

Nonetheless, every country has a president or ministers or diplomats or bureaucrats who has wisdom beyond my comprehension. Hence, my only preposition is to be considerate towards eliminating this thought.

A War, indeed can be a religion of peace but only if, we can influence people to not to have a war and to work towards eliminating the thought of terror. Choose wisely and live freely...Cheers !!!

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Why Storm Names Are Female ? (Chapter 01)

2019-02-24T02:19:00.000+05:30

They come during peaceful times and takes away everything associated to peace and leaves an individual with nothing, other than themselves, does it sounds familiar ?

If you do not believe me then let me tell you a few "retired hurricane names" i.e. Agnes, Alicia, Allison, Anita, Audrey and so on. Even the character of Storm X Men is a women. Please do not blame me now.

I was just kidding, it is not the truth but I have heard a lot of people giving me the above mentioned reasons for "Why Storm names are female". Hence, I was inclined to enlighten their thoughts for for the real reason reason why storm happen or why storm occurs or even what causes lightning. It is very simple, its due to unstable air and moisture, this is science and it is not something to joke about, specifically relating it to a gender. I would tell you an instance when a friend asked me "Do you know, who is the storm married to", and the answer was "A Man".

I understand a lot of us even mock it for pretending to be smarter, but if someone thinks like this, then they must they must rethink if Earth is Dominated by Men or Women ?

For those who still have this thought intact, that the storm names are female and they must be like this for the same reasons and it should remain the same, then please share the reasons and let everyone's opinion be shared and this matter be concluded for, if this is right or wrong since a few retired hurricane names are i.e. Andrew and Allen as well.

We must never discriminate someone for being similar to something as disastrous as a storm. I understand there are a few women who are really a living piece of monstrosity in this human creation but even a few men are no different or are we ?

Please leave it in the comments for why and who could it possibly be, men or women ? and I shall conclude this blog after the opinion from everyone, moreover I would tell you guys the real reason for why and how storm are named. Let us conclude, who is the real storm on this earth. Choose wisely and live freely...Cheers !!!

Thank you everyone, for your active participation in concluding this blog with "Why/How are storms named : Conclusion".

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People Can Even Breath Money !!!

2019-02-09T23:19:00.000+05:30

This is True ! If you do not believe me? Then ask someone who has survived being on ventilator. I am sure you are thinking it over again now, hence let us discuss about how important the money is.

What about eating money or hearing money, rather consider it in all of our senses i.e. Sight, Hear, Taste, Smell, Touch. Do we really need money for all of our senses?

Sight : Ask someone who have or had a cataract or any sight disorder , otherwise is everyone certain that they are immune to any sight disorder. There is a price for regular checkups as well. Moreover, we cannot travel to see new places without money.

Hear : Ask someone who have or had hearing disability or any disorder, otherwise I am certain we all have to get our ears cleansed to keep this sense intact which doesn’t happen for free, even if we are doing it at home, we would still require the tools or would you do it with anything?

Taste : We all eat something which has to be bought, moreover even farmers spend money to grow them and for those who are carnivorous, they may also have to buy it or even if it was hunted, then also it had to be cooked using spices which doesn’t come for free. If all of it comes for free to someone then that person may be living in stone age.

Smell : Is there anything which smells good but comes for free or is there someone who likes smelling odor?, otherwise even to smell better our nostrils should be open and we all have to take medicines when suffering from cold and finding impossible to breath properly, forget about even smelling anything good or bad.

Touch : Has it ever happened that someone is financially broke or stressed over some anticipated financial loss and in that dilemma that person touches a hot mug of coffee or tea or even kettle for that matter or what about an instance when we had it whereas our sense of touch should have warned us beforehand. If not this then there would have been something else, when our sense of touch had deceived us over a financial matter, irrespective of how rich or poor a person is.

Ironically, any acquaintance if aware of the wealth that an individual possesses, their all senses changes spontaneously towards that individual, doesn't they ?

I am not emphasizing that money is the most important aspect of live but, it is one of the most important aspect of life. If it controls the 05 senses then either it must be their leader or should be addressed as the 06^thSense. Otherwise, we must take control over our own senses and be the 06^th sense or the leader which we are born to be. Always remember "everybody should get rich and famous and do everything they ever dreamed of, so they can see that it's not the answer".Choose wisely and live freely...Cheers !!!

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Do We Really Love Chocolates ?

2019-01-19T23:27:00.000+05:30

Who doesn't ? but what if I told you that life is not different from a "Box of Chocolates" and not everyone is fond of the chocolates that it offers, would you still love chocolates ? maybe not anymore. Hence, let's have a small discussion on, if we are to hypothetically consider our lives as a "Box of Chocolates".

Life indeed is a box of chocolates, but assorted. As the flavors of chocolate expands, proportionally the emotions in life as well, for we may even have more emotion in life when compared to the flavors of chocolate in a box. Surprisingly, we would never know which flavor we might end up savoring; it could be the sweetest, the most bitter, or even the perfect blend. We all love chocolates for their impeccably proportioned blend of sweetness and bitterness, but what about the ones, which are either too sweet or too bitter? Would we accept or deny a chocolate for its imperfection? Maybe, few of us would deceivingly appreciate any flavor and few of us would even love the profound twist of any chocolate but ironically, most of us would despise the unpredictable tenacity of a chocolate.

Hence, we must learn to assent every flavor the box of chocolates has to offer. In other words, every chocolate has its own story and crafted to the perfection in its own uniqueness. The box of chocolates does not have any limitation for the flavors, for we must always appreciate its uniqueness, as we only have one box and one life. Choose wisely and live freely...Cheers!!!

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Pacifism : Hope In The Face Of Hopelessness !

2019-01-13T01:23:00.000+05:30

Fight without raising a sword, sounds improbable doesn't it ? but what if I told you that it is the most lethal art of a war irrespective of the vigor an opponent could posses. Let's discuss for how such an emotion would even survive in this era.

No aggression is not pacifism, we absurdly misapprehend pacifism for someone who does not retain any aggression whereas, it is when someone knows how to respond thru the aggression of others. We all make our own choices which defines our persona. Hence, before considering pacifism, let's try not to be a pacifist !!!

It is easy, all we have to do now is to respond reflectively, in other words do whatever other person does. Hypothetically, if other person is being an arse, we must try to be a bigger one and eventually this mighty world would be full of arses (Just Kidding). It can also be absolutely antonym of this entire situation but how?

Aggression is not a choice, but indeed it is a component in the composition of our blood. Hence, the preposition is not to suppress the aggression but to channel it thru the senses which could guide us to comprehend the possible aftermath, knowing the conclusion only few of us would counter aggression with aggression. If we can follow this, then it would be absolutely antonym of what I mentioned previously.

What makes it lethal then? If we can comprehend the aftermath then we can also anticipate the next move and by not following the verdict anticipated by the other person, we are sure to win over them or would cause them also to rethink before their next move but, mostly without aggression !

When you eliminate the impossible whatever remains, however improbable must be the truth.

Pacifism, it is about being unpredictable with a calm persona and never loosing hope, which could leave the other person in dilemma of their own chimera. Moreover, retaliation is the first action anticipated by a human. Choose wisely and live freely...Cheers !!!

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Life : A Book Of Ironic Adventures

2018-12-16T04:37:00.000+05:30

Life, which is nonetheless a book of adventures and it is not because of its iconic perfection but for its ironic perfections. WHO,WHAT, WHERE, WHEN, WHY and HOW ?, we all realize it in our daily lives to be precise but we deceive ourselves in accepting it and today, let's explore that specific irony of life which make our lives a book of adventures. Also, one of my friend suggested me to write about this aspect of life.

WHO:

Who does it revolves around, let's make a guess, what about our family or a friend or a neighbor or a foe or an acquaintance. Honestly, it is only about us, who else would our life be about? We see everything, we notice everyone however we barely realize the reality of the way we have constructed our lives.

WHAT:

What am I talking about, we all wake up in morning, afternoon or even at night and what do we do afterwords, we would either go to our workplace or maybe we would be luckily on our off but there is one aspect common among all, that is the monotony.

WHERE:

Now, we are talking about the location. It could be our home, office or maybe outside but aren't we following the same pattern. If we are going to workplace, we would work then go home and sleep. About a day if we are on off, we would prefer to stay home to take rest and sometimes, we would go out since we had enough of work during the working days. This is the location for most of us, isn't it ?

WHEN:

Not a lot to say about it but, It is every moment of our lives which we assume to be under our own obedience whereas it is obedient to the moment we all are obliged with.

WHY:

This is easy, the only reason we are bounded by this is because, most of us are addicted to this life of monotonous events. We do not accept the changes since most of us are not ready to adopt the unpredictable situation that we encounter.

HOW:

How could we do this ? even i fail to comprehend this, hence I would need your suggestion to complete this blog.

How could we be like this?

Let's take an idle working day for an example : We wake up, get ready then have our meal or maybe we would skip it for some reason, afterwards we somehow manage to reach our workplace but we may have already had an argument with someone for no valid reason or maybe not, then we would work and in the meanwhile we might as well take rest or have meal in idle time but by end of the day we would lay down to only recall it as another same day before falling asleep.

Please tell me how could we do this to our lives where we bound ourselves to this monotony of life instead of cherishing the irony of life. We all must adopt to the changes or if there aren't any changes then how could we change our lives from a monotonous to a life of adventures since "We weren't born to just pay bills and die or are we.? " . Choose wisely and live freely...Cheers !!!

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Peace : Priceless, Yet Most Expensive !!!

2018-11-26T01:13:00.000+05:30

Peace, priceless when attained but most expensive when trying to attain. Apparently, something we all seek but we do not comprehend the price we must pay to attain this sense of calmness in our thoughts. Hence, let's negotiate the price we could pay for it.

We must begin with trying to find the reason for not being at peace first, and it is not only associated to one relation rather it goes beyond than what we could even aspire, we could be easily annoyed by anything or even everything, for an instance what if we are asked to put the garbage in a dustbin whereas we always does that but still we were asked and that could annoy us, few of us may not really care for this instance, but the point is, anything could make us feel angry.

Anger is born from despair, we have lost hope, we may as well have an impression that everything is always against us in our lives. The better question is why and the simple answer is, because we let it annoy us or make us feel angry, however what is the price for it. Now, this is getting confusing.

I am quite certain that few of us have started getting angry over this blog but, if I may ask, please forgive me and keep reading and we may have paid the price for peace by end of this blog. Thank you !

This is the price for peace, forgiveness. We barely comprehend that we need to forgive, not because we are told that its morally correct or someone asked to be forgiven, but because we need to keep moving forward and that is what life is all about. Now, it doesn't mean that every time someone says something stupid, we need to show them our palm and say "i forgive you", that would probably get someone in a mental asylum or a hospital if the person is lucky enough, however do not ever let the words said by others to get into our heads for it may manifest thoughts that we do not want, which would cause overthinking and ultimately, loss of peace for now, and we only live in present, not in future.

What I am emphasizing on, is to forgive without being asked by someone and move forward without saying a word and gradually we will make peace with ourselves, and this is the price for peace which, not everyone can afford. "There is no greater wealth than the peace of mind". Choose wisely and live freely...Cheers !!!

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Everybody Should Get Rich and Famous !

2018-11-25T23:26:00.000+05:30

"I think everybody should get rich and famous and do everything they ever dreamed of, so they can see that it's not the answer"-Jim Carry. Is this statement really justified ?

Let's have some discussion about it and find out, for how justified this statement really is !, it was said by Jim Carry, who happens to be Rich & Famous but what about us, most of us are neither rich nor famous. How can someone who posses neither of them could possibly understand this. I personally would love to experience that being rich and famous is not the answer, apparently everyone wants to be rich and famous, but what is holding us back from being rich and famous, or following our dreams?

Too Busy - Bullshit, call yourself lazy if you really want to hear the truth or maybe you never really wanted it like the way you should've been and that is the reason you cannot be persistent.

Impossible - Now, we are being too practical or maybe we do not have what it takes to even dream or rather follow those dreams as it could have multiple consequences which would not be held in our favor but we need to look at the possibility of what could be there at the end of the line instead of being concerned about the situations ahead of us.

Afraid -Failing is something we cannot control but we can minimize the risk, however never giving up is a choice which we can make and include it in our lifestyle at a part of us which would help us with all the ventures in life.

Too Competitive - Seriously, this is something which is there for everyone not just made exclusively for a specific person. Still, there are people who achieve something everyday and if this reason is holding us back then we really need some inspiration.

Don't Know - In this case, lets go for everything we can do and eventually we would know of that something which could make us rich and famous or be the dream we never realized.

Easier Said Than Done -True, but was there anything which could be done easily and as an example it took years for every individual to even learn to speak or read or write or walk, everything that is done in the beginning has to be perfected with time, no one is born perfect !

Tell me if there is anything else that I missed on but now comes the question once again, what if being rich and famous or getting everything that we dreamed of, is not the answer?, then what what is the answer for it ?

If I get it right, then it is the satisfaction from what we posses, we should always pursue our dreams or become rich and famous but the satisfaction is the guardian of the eternal peace, we should not keep running, we must take a halt and appreciate what we have before start running again, what I am emphasizing on is that we should never give up but we should learn to celebrate every achievement and move forward with the same zeal even though we may get stuck at the same place for a while but if we don't get stuck then we would never learn to appreciate. "Sometimes we don't appreciate what we have because we are too focused on what we want". Choose wisely and live freely....cheers !!!

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It takes a lot of guts to reboot..!

2018-07-15T01:28:00.000+05:30

Recently a friend said this during a conversation which had me wonder, perhaps it is one of the most unrecognized fact about life, it requires a lot of guts or I would prefer calling it the will power to reboot and start over our lives.

What takes it away, everyone is equipped with enough will power to incinerate every obstacle along the journey of life however, what incinerate the will power itself. I could only think of two situations which are, either we are still in the past or we are only living in future.

When or if we are in the past and wondering for why something has happened in our lives, it takes a toll on our will and gradually starts suffocating us to be precise. Apparently, it is very well said that "Where there's a will, there's a way", I am not saying that the way we have to walk on would be easy or tough however, there is always an option and that is to keep our will power intact to face the music and make the past fall flat on its face !!!

Being always in future is also something which could incinerate our will power as we are not at the place where we are needed, but we are only living at the place which is inevitable and eventually everything would unfold before us with the time, however we still wish for things to turn out differently and honestly "If wishes were horses, the beggars would ride", it is in best of our interest to go as a guest in the future, not live there as a resident !!!

We all live our lives which is inevitable and one the most lethal weapon we are equipped with is our will power which can and will get us thru our darkest hours however, if it is only loaded with our strength, what I am trying to convey is that if we have enough will power than we can stay strong in the moment we are needed, neither the moment which has passed nor the moment which is yet to come, the will power is needed to only stay in the moment we are in right now and stay strong, giving up is never an option. "People do not lack strength, they lack will". Choose wisely and live freely....Cheers !!!

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The Parasite within us : Ego : Conclusion

2018-07-01T02:00:00.000+05:30

Thank you all for your active participation, let us find the conclusion for The Parasite within us : Ego.

It is not something we get in legacy but something we earn over a period of time, however it is not confined with an age limit or even gender to be honest. We earn it with the experiences which put our principles to judgement which cannot always be right for anyone or everyone, apparently judging how constructive we are to implement a better thought and let go of the bad one.

The part which I wish to emphasize on is that we get confused between self respect and ego to be precise, none of them is harmful for anyone till the time we do not let it feed on our happiness.

When we get into an argument with someone, it can be a family member or a friend or even a stranger, we always want to win it by any means possible and the most wicked part is that we do not even think once, about the consequences it could create in our own lives. It could be catastrophic or maybe minor but our ego or self respect would cloud our judgement of understanding the potential threat it could incur in our lives.

Let us think of a situation we all have been in : In our childhood our parents always criticized on a lot of actions, warning us of the threats our actions could posses for others and most importantly ourselves and sometimes we understood that and sometimes we learned it by going thru the consequences but we were always open to learning something new for a better life, however the beauty of life comes, when we grow old and we think of ourselves as a celestial being with an unwillingness of ever learning something new, whereas life teaches us a new lesson everyday.

There is always a solution to every problem in this world, but only if we are looking for one. The only solution I find to this problem related to ego or self respect is "Listening and Understanding" or "Therapeutic Listening" since sympathy cannot really be beneficial for us but understanding the situation from someone's point of view could improve our own judgement and ultimately giving a solution that could be of "No" or near to "No" harm in anyone's life.

Having Ego or Self respect is good, only if we are willing to gain an experience from both of the sides, being better then others by listening to them and getting a solution which is considerably best for all, this could make us "earn" self respect or ego as we call it. "When you stop learning, you start dying". Choose wisely and live freely....Cheers!!!

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The Parasite within us : Ego (Chapter 01)

2018-06-04T04:27:00.000+05:30

Hey guys !!!!, I hope you all are doing well...I appreciate your enthusiasm in sharing your thoughts, hence I decided to have another blog which requires your opinion.

A parasite, nothing less or nothing more......we feed this parasite for we all are prone to it but what does it feed upon, our soul or our peace or everything that we are made of ?, I personally feel it feeds on future, it makes it shorter,darker, painful than it could ever be.....can we ever overcome this dilemma that we control it not the other way around?

We all have ego...sometimes we call it good and we call it bad or maybe when we have it then, it is good but if someone else has it...it is bad..?

Let me break in into gender, who has it on the brighter or on the darker side...Men or Women ?

Men : They are always known for having this "Male Ego", why does it exist, I guess it is not male ego, it is just ego and women call it male ago to exaggerate their statement and make men feel anxious about it and give it up, otherwise how would they describe a man who is self-made and share his thoughts by the experiences he has encountered or maybe he is faking it all, nonetheless does it exist..the male ego ?

Women : On the other hand women may have the experience and even the expertise but it is always under the question of validation...which makes them angry and lead a discussion to an argument ?, maybe they knows better for what is necessary to get a bright future, we really cannot figure it out when we sit back and have a few thoughts or discussions about it, however are they really an expert ?

Who destroys or makes it all better or darker men or women...given an opportunity whom would you say is on the one or both sides....Leave it in the comments or inbox on my Facebook page....let's have a discussion or even an argument for this matter but we must conclude it at the earliest, we all must know who feeds this parasite or who is prone to this parasite, remember "Ego Trip : A Journey to Nowhere" . Choose wisely and live freely.....Cheers!!!

Thank you for your support and concluding this blog with The Parasite within us : Ego : Conclusion.

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We have to be wrong, to know the difference between wrong and right !!!

2018-05-20T03:08:00.002+05:30

There is always a time in life when we realize that what we did or what happened was wrong and an infinite time loop begins, so that we can keep bashing ourselves for it, and forget one simple thumb-rule about life that, we have to be wrong to distinguish between wrong and right !!!

What is being wrong !!!

Honestly, it is when we have to convince ourselves that what we are going to do is right at the first place and it can also be done by even telling ourselves that we did it to make things right and so on...or maybe sometimes when it has already happened, then it was out of a reaction to an action. Now, the fact is that, it has already happened and drowning ourselves in that situation would never give a different outcome to it, so if we are wrong let's accept the fact that we were wrong, and it would do most of the work !!!

What is being right !!!

When, we encounter a situation where we think or rather put ourselves in the other person's situation to understand the emotions that the other person may be going thru and responding as per the experiences we had in the past, when we were also there dealing with the same emotions or we may not always understand the emotions that the other person may have been going thru, then we must stay calm and ask !!!, the most simple question in this life, that is to ask "What Happened".

If, we have to go thru a situation now, we should understand that how we need to react, either we would have learned of the outcome the hard way by experiencing it or we could have understood by asking it. Nonetheless, we need to know or give a thought to the outcome of a situation before reacting to it, a vantage point to be precise. Always remember "If a person was never wrong, then it is impossible to be always right". Choose wisely and live freely.....Cheers!!!

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