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7 Deadly Secrets Reveal on How to Win Back Your Ex Fast - The Right Way to Get Your Ex Back

noreply@blogger.com (Angelion) — Tue, 22 Sep 2009 12:38:00 +0000

Are you suffering from a break up recently? Thinking on how to win back your ex? It is OK to think and feel like that... everyone experienced at least once or several times during their life time. And I know that doesn't feel good at all. So I decided to write an articles to help those who are having a though time and suffering in pain. In order to win back your ex, there are several steps to take.

Here are the 7 Deadly Secrets on How to Win Back Your Ex.

How to win back your ex - Step 1
- First of all, you must accept the fact of break up. Show your ex that you are ok with it and you are moving on. Be strong, figure out what when wrong and what causes the break up. You must know the mistakes that you have made so that you won't repeat the same mistakes again.

How to win back your ex - Step 2
- During the moving on period, this is time for you to play hard to get (in moderation). Minimize communication with your ex or stop communication for awhile. This will allow them got some "thinking time" a time to miss you again.
- Don't be needy or appear desperate with your ex - I know this is hard to do, but it is a must. Don't call or text frequently cause this will only chase them away.

How to win back your ex - Step 3
- Now you must calm down. Learn to control your feeling and do nothing stupid. After your mind is clear, it is time to plan what need to do to win your ex back steps by steps.

How to win back you ex - Step 4
- Keep the communication lines open with your ex. Drop him/her an e-mail or text message to keep in touch casually. Staying in touch is extremely very important, but keeps it as casual as you can like "Hey, what's up? Or "How are you doing?" rather than flooding her inbox with love poetry.

How to win back your ex - Step 5
- Go hangout with your friends and make new friends. There are no reasons for you to stay alone in the room. I know this sounds weird, but it is very helpful if you are trying to learn how to win your ex back.
- Try to know and talk with another boy/girl. This will let your ex know that you are moving on, which will make them jealous and cause them to realize how much they really miss you and wants to be with you.

How to win back your ex - Step 6
- Be yourself again. There is always a good reason for both of you get together at the very beginning, so go back to being yourself and let your ex remember why they fall in love with you in the first place.

How to win back your ex - Step 7
- Once you have completed the six steps mentioned above, you can start planning on when you both should meet, where to meet, and also what should be said when you do meet up again. This will show you a better idea of whether or not your ex still loves you, and also if there is any chance that both of you will be able to get back together.

Above are just some of the beginning steps in winning your Ex back.

Now, if you seriously want to get back this relationship and make it works...

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Discover Signs That Your Ex Wants to Get Back With You

noreply@blogger.com (Angelion) — Sat, 12 Sep 2009 13:05:00 +0000

Have you ever wondered what are the important factors that you need to know in order to get back together with your ex? There is an important factor you must know before making any suicide attacks to get your ex back. It can be done by finding out clues and signs whether they are interested on getting back with you.

Now if your ex is paying more attention on what you are saying, showing you more interest, or seems to interested in hanging out with you, and spending more time then before, or if you found out signs that your ex is trying to flirt with you, then you may allow yourself happy for a moment but don't get too excited with it. It is just the beginning, and it's still too early to judge.

The above are some of the common signs that your ex is interested in getting back with you. Now, stay close with me here...even though you notice some of these signs Don't Make Any Move Yet. Instead of not doing anything you do need to act and play hard to get (in moderation). This will create some magic of attraction towards your ex to renewed interest in you.

Now, normally when people break up, there will be a natural level of missing one another, or thinking of getting back together. This is true when you have a relationship more then a year or longer. And your ex will miss you no matter what, because both of you have too many memories shared together during this period of time.

Just want to remind you sometimes when your ex shows interests again with you after a break up, it might be only a game. They hope and love to see you still loving them, and they are trying to get more attention, without actually intending to get you back. This is why I asked you not to make any move or make full force action.

So, beware...they might just want to pass some time with you because they have no other prospects or companion at the moment, unless your ex really seems seriously interested in spending time with you. You don't wish to get deeper wounds right? The only thing you can do is to focus on reading into the situation before you take any action.

It is very common that many people find themselves wondering "Is that the right signal?", but the truth is, its better to get a feel for the situation before you act. This is to play safe and self protection. In reality, if your ex does want to get back with you, playing hard to get (in moderation) is one of the best methods because it will avoid you from getting heart broken again if your ex is not really serious on getting back with you.

These are just the beginning steps on getting your ex back.

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What Women Want

noreply@blogger.com (Angelion) — Tue, 24 Jun 2008 15:16:00 +0000

Dear Friend,

Have you ever struggling and ask yourself what women really want?

After many years of experience, let me tell you a little small secrets of mine that I had discovered. Ok without further delay let me reveal my little secrets.

Dating girls is all about Confidence, Attraction and Seduction. All 3 factors come with one elements. Which is call EMOTION.

Ok! Why I Say That?
-In order to get her fall in love or to make her want you.. You will need to trigger her emotion, emotion = feeling..

- Make her feel Relax with you
- Make her feel Happy with you
- Make her Comfortable with you
- Make her Care about you
- Make her Miss you and etc...

Can you see all the words I bold? There are all related to the emotion.
# In order to date a girl, you'll need to TRIGGER HER EMOTION.

#Nothing is too late, so Start Learning Now.

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P/S: I would appreciate if you can write me a few lines or if you have anything to share please do not hesitate to write your comment down. :)

Best Regards,
Angelion

China Earthquake Victims in Sichuan, Cheng Du and more...

noreply@blogger.com (Angelion) — Mon, 19 May 2008 04:02:00 +0000

Dear Friend,

If you have been watching the news lately... You will noticed there was a disaster happened in China. Let us put down our own perceiption... and have a clear look on this tragedy.

On 12th May 2008, a power earthquake has struck China's south-western Sichuan, Cheng Du and more... Many more have been injured after this 7.8-magnitude earthquake. Tens of thousands of injured and homeless awaiting for helps.

More then 12-Thousand peoples buried alive when the building Collapse.

Many have lost their friends, their love one, family... Just Imagine that love one leaving us... what you will feel?

Little children only be save after 68hours..Thanks God. But many children's died also in the school buildings during the class hour.

Let's us pray for them.

And now, let's us reach out and helps the unfortunate victims.

Join efforts in helping China Earthquake victims to re-build their homes and lives. Google will donate $2 million, including $1.7 million from Google.org.

Tsinghua Challenge Education Foundation is a subsidary foundation of SVTN(EIN/Tax ID: 77-051-4995, 501(c)3 approved public charity). It is a non-profit organization registered in California with IRS 501 (c)(3) status.

Once your donation has been made, you will received a confirmation details via email notification and even print it out as a reference. Your donation will be tax deductible.

Help Them Now!

A cents of Donation could means a lot to them. DONATE NOW!!! and save thousands more of lives and rebuild their homes.

Thank you,

Best Regards,'
Angelion K.

Tea Session " How to attract women "

noreply@blogger.com (Angelion) — Wed, 30 Apr 2008 11:23:00 +0000

Hey Guys,

You all must be wondering what is this tea session about. Ok Just a quick description for all fellow guys here. From now on, whenever you see the title starting with Tea Session, me myself will expose some of my personal life dating or social life issue. Which mean all this is real, what I have heard or experienced... not just only theory from other reference.

Tea Session
Date: 29th April 2008
Time: 1030pm
Area: Coffee Shop

How to attract women
I was having a small drinks with my friends. 2 girls 2 guys. One of the girl name Elaine, she told me that she was putting a fragrance that she used to be using when she waas 17 0r 18. She is 25 now. She take her wrist and put near my noise ask me to smell it.. And she mention that she herself felt like being 17 or 18 again when using back the same fragrance.(Bring back many memory)

(My friends Elaine also told me that she love men putting fragrance.. it was sexy she said and sometimes make her feel arouse too.)

Oh My God Did You Hear That!

Tips 1. Girl is very sensitive with smell. It can make her FEEL young again. In another word YOU CAN ALSO MAKE HER FEEL ATTRACTED ON YOU USING THE SECRET "SMELL". Girls like men who have a good smell.

Girls will straight away notice someone behind her from 5 to 7 feet only by smelling itself.

So, from now on. start getting yourself a fragrance.

P/S: Dont over put the fragrance too. Slighty get 1 or 2 drops on your finger tips and put it beside your neck and your inner wrist will do.

By then You will be the first who get notice. Or perhaps some girls will get attracted on you soon. Trust me. I 've experienced it myself too.

Ok since this post is getting too long. I'll stop here for now.

Should you have any problems, questions or comments.. please do not hesitate.. write to me. I'll be happy to help you.

Warmest Regards,

Angelion K.

Where to bring her on the first date?

noreply@blogger.com (Angelion) — Tue, 25 Mar 2008 14:18:00 +0000

Hey guys,

Ok I assuming you able to setup a date. But before that have you ever thought of.. where should you bring her to? Is it a right place to meet up? Now, you should think properly..

Most of the guys:
- invite her to a movie
- invite her to a concert
- invite her to a classy restourant
- invite her to a club

Well, no worry.. I did the same as you last time. I want to clarify something here,
the above ideas is not a right or wrong facts or an argument. Is just not a good place for the first date. You can still ask girls out for a movie on the first date. No harm.

My advice or suggestion are don't ever bring your women to a movie, clubs or a fancy dinner on the first dates. First things is you don't know her well yet. Unless you 2 have knew each other for a long time. Secondly you don't know what types of movie she likes. She may not like going to club either. So, what's the catch over here? the catch is you may screw things up. I am sure you wan to have a good impression on the first date right?

It is advice that you have your first date on a coffee shop, near around her place, not too crowded so that you both can have some conversation. And use this opportunity to know her more, by then you will find out more what she like and what she want. And also find out that whether this woman is the right woman you really want to get along with.

Women love guys to talk about women themselves. Talks about their hobbies, dreams and fantasy. Be cautious and stay focus on what they said. Women love men who pay attention on them. Trust me there is more you need to know on the first date...

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Ok guys.. is quite late over here. I've been working for whole day.. so i'll stop here.

P/S: To know more about dating women just subscribes to my blog, put in your email on the top right corner of the page.

P/SS: If you guys like to give some comment please do so. Write me a few lines. Or you have something to share.. I'll appreciate it.. I am sure everyone feel the same too...

Thank you,

Warmest regards,
Angelion

Getting prepare for your first date!

noreply@blogger.com (Angelion) — Wed, 05 Mar 2008 15:00:00 +0000

Hey Guys,

Have you think of what you should prepare before going out for the first date?

Before going out:

- Comb your hair
- Cut your fingernails
- Iron your clothes
- Brush your teeth
- Casual wear will do
- Put some cologne
- Shave
- wear a clean shoes

Make sure you get it all done before meeting your date. Why?

Women will not interested with a guy who do not pay attention to himself. I mean the looks of tidyness. If you dont care about yourself. How you going to take care of your women. This is what women have in mind.

Just imagine if you meet a girl with bad breath, dirty fingernails, her hair never comb properly.. How you will feel about her? You have your answer ... :P

So guys bear in mind.

If you guys like to give some comment please do so. Write me a few lines. Or you have something to share.. I'll appreciate it.. I am sure everyone feel the same too...

P/S:These tips not just apply on the first date.. for every dating success this must be done.

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Thank you,

Warmest Regards,
Angelion

Get A Girl Friends Before Valentine

noreply@blogger.com (Angelion) — Tue, 12 Feb 2008 08:31:00 +0000

Hey Guy, Valentine is near around the corner. I would like to take this opportunity to wish all of you a Happy Valentine Day.

For guys who are still single... No worry.. I'd been there myself before. I know how you feel. I just want to give you guys a favor for reading my blogs.

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There is a guru and consider a friends of mine name Derek. He is a specialist in dating women itself. He combined his own research and experienced into an electronic format - Ebook. The ebook name GETTHEGIRLFRIENDS

He is generous enough to offer you his knowledge all in one bucket. So go checkout now.

This offer will be taken down on 14th Feb 2008. And wont be set up again. So grab this opportunity to learn and improve your dating life.

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Thank you,

To you dating success,
Angelion.

What you should prepare before meeting any women!

noreply@blogger.com (Angelion) — Tue, 29 Jan 2008 13:21:00 +0000

Hey Guys, check out the video clips below, I personally found out that it was quite useful. Is talking about "What YOU should prepare before meeting any women".

SO STOP RIGHT THERE!

Give yourself 10min. Have a break and enjoy the video.

If you have any question please write me a comment below. And I'll try to solve your problems.

Thank you,

Best Regards,
Angelion

First Date, First Kiss - Secret Reveal!

noreply@blogger.com (Angelion) — Mon, 03 Dec 2007 14:59:00 +0000

Hey Guys, I am back..Sorry for keeping you all waiting..I have prepared some good stuff for you guys..what I have here, you guys going to love this.

It's all about dating girls - Secret Reveal
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There is a girl I met online in Myspace, I was chatting with her on Myspace, Then out of my curiousity I ask her " How you feel or think about First Date, First Kiss "

And guess what... we just met online and she is feeling comfortable with me and will to share her story for me. First Date, First Kiss Experienced. Ok.. without further delay.. Let's discover the secrets on getting first kiss on the fisrt date...

Below is the private message she sent it to me at my myspace account, telling me how she feel and experienced during on her first date with her guy.

( Click to enlarge the picture)

#Have you read it? Just a simple question to get her kiss? Wow...

-Have you ever think of doing that?
-What are you waiting for? Is time to act my friend...
(Get more detail on The Secrets of Arousing Women)

It's really work. Words from the girl herself.. so, you should start believing there is still hope for you to get your dream girls.

Best Regards,
Angelion

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Secrets Of Arousing A Woman - Part 3

noreply@blogger.com (Angelion) — Tue, 20 Nov 2007 13:25:00 +0000

Why it's good you studied sine and cosine waves in High School And once you've kissed - STOP. That's right. Go back to the fun you were having like nothing happened. She'll wonder what the hell's going on.

Of course, you know you're just TEASING her. By pushing forward and then stepping back, you're increasing the sexual tension. Suddenly SHE'S the one thinking about sex - not in the serious Could-I-Marry-Him way, but in the Does-He-Like-Me? way. When you fill in your next silence with another kiss, you should take it a little further. Then draw back a bit. And then take it a bit further.

See where this is going?

You want to ratchet up the sexual tension until she is WANTING to go further, faster than you're going. Keep playful. Make her beg (not in a mean way - remember, this should be FUN for BOTH of you). Before you know it, you'll both be naked and putting the lambada to shame.

If you go too fast and she is uncomfortable, back off a bit and build her up. The key is making sure she WANTS the next step before you get there. This means taking your time. Go slow. Pay attention to all the parts of her body (the erogenous zone is anywhere on the body, as long as you take your time and stimulate it).

Surprise her now and again - give her a tickle when she expects a caress. Peck her cheek and lean back when she expects a french kiss. Ever-so-slowly undress her, but when her bra is off, say "Oh, you look cold"playfully and put her cardigan over her shoulders and lean back with a mischievous grin.

Get it?
You're only Man.
Now this isn't as easy to practice until you're regularly getting women in your bedroom, so I'm going to give you an odd exercise here to simulate the control you need. Remember when you've been masturbated by an experienced woman, or imagine being masturbated by one. Many of us know this feeling, so we might as well use it.

She moves forward with your arousal - but then stops or slows down. She doesn't just go with the usual linear build to a crescendo. Instead, she takes her time to go in waves, with each crest a bit higher than the last. When she finally gets you to orgasm, chances are it'll be better than the usual. That's how you want to treat her.

The ladies will thank you for taking the time to enjoy the moment, instead of simply aiming for the splat. Enjoy this knowledge, because not only is it the key to properly arousing her, but it's the key to great sex as well. Use it wisely. If you want to learn more about the keys to making yourself into the most incredible lover she's ever had, then you'll want to check out

- End -
Cya Guys Soon, All The Best!

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Secrets Of Arousing A Woman‏ - Part 2

noreply@blogger.com (Angelion) — Tue, 20 Nov 2007 13:08:00 +0000

Listen, OBVIOUSLY you want to score. If you didn't, you wouldn't go to the trouble of wooing this lady, or setting the right mood, or reading this book even.

But you can't let that be your OBVIOUS DIRECT goal when you're in the process. You need to concentrate on the PROCESS, and your GOAL should be as slick as you can.

Do that, and yeah, the sex will come (woohoo!), but if all you worry about is the sex that gets telegraphed to your lady in the worst possible way. So, again, RELAXED playfulness is the key. While you are sexually cuing her you don't want it to be overtly SEXUAL, as we've discussed before. You want it to be FUN.

The mistake most men make when they try to turn up the notch is they suddenly get too SERIOUS. Think about it. Imagine yourself in a first kiss. How often are either of you smiling as you go into it in your head? Admit it. Not much. Most likely your imagination has you both laughing, catching each others' eye, sobering up with a soulful look, and then a lustful lip-lock.

Listen, it can work that way. Just like people can fall in love at first sight. However, when you get SERIOUS at this crucial moment you cause her to think SERIOUSLY about it. Suddenly she's switched into "Is he mate material?" mode and, unless you've got a deep spiritual connection going, she's gonna have some doubts.

You don't want doubts. You don't want all those somber questions floating around. Hell, it's just a kiss! Stop treating it like a life-long pairing. Keep it RELAXED.
Keep it PLAYFUL. Keep it FUN.

So no, don't be brave about the kiss. If it takes that much bravado, you've already built it up too much. Treat it like you've been there before. Like a natural extension of the fun you're having. And not like you're entering some new chapter in a saga, but just part of the path.

Trust me, this works.

To Be Continue - Part 3
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Secrets Of Arousing Women - Part 1

noreply@blogger.com (Angelion) — Tue, 20 Nov 2007 09:29:00 +0000

Going forward, and back, and making her want it. Sometimes the kiss is harder to get to than others - but you can still find it if you know how to act. And once you've started arousing her, finding sexual fulfillment is simple matter of staying PLAYFUL.

Finding the Elusive Kiss

So you've been touching your lady in a non-threatening, playful, and sexually stimulating way. You're ready to go (natch), and she seems into you, but for whatever reason, the CHANCE never seems to come.

The kiss-me look never quite materializes, or it comes at just the wrong time (her cell phone rings, for example). She's shy and never gives you a good head-to-head look from which you can lean into it (and twisting around her craned neck is NOT sexy). Whatever. It happens.

What can you do?
Well, one thing that works all by itself almost ALWAYS is this:

Take Control

Gently but firmly take hold of her chin between your thumb and index finger. Move her head to face you. Think sex scene in a movie. Chances are she'll melt then and there and you won't have to say a thing.

HOWEVER, sometimes you'll have a woman who wants to PROVE just how strong she is, or how cool she is, or she'll just be so nervous that she'll actually pull away slightly even though she WANTS to be kissed.

What do you do? Be straightforward: say "Do you want me to kiss you?" If she says yes or nothing, just do it. If she says maybe, say "Let's find out." and do it. And if she says no - unlikely given the build-up you've gone through to get here - say "I didn't say you could - you just looked like you had something on your mind." in a playful teasing tone. Don't act let down - you were just PLAYING with her. Get it? Wow, that was easy. Be bold by not caring You need to be BOLD here - although bold isn't the right word. Bold suggests you are doing something DESPITE doubting yourself or the result. It suggests a bravery that you want to erase. WHAT?!! I don't want you to be BRAVE? That's right. I want you not to care.

To be continue Part 2...

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First date, First Kiss! - Part 1

noreply@blogger.com (Angelion) — Wed, 14 Nov 2007 07:49:00 +0000

Hey guys, just want to share some of my recent success stories with dating girls...

Recently, I had dated 3 different girls.

So, you guys must be thinking what so proud about that!

Well, Is nothing proud actually... Is just that:

Out of 3 girls.. I manage to kiss 2 of them on the first date. Wow!

How about that?

The first one, Name A, 28 years old from other state in my country. She came to my town for her company annual dinner. Well we hangout at one of the happening pub & bistro near around my area. I knew her from the internet Zorpia network. All the while we just chatting on msn and sms each others.

OK.. straight to the point.. That night..was wonderful.. I am doing some cocky and funny chatting with her.. attaching some nice touch on her body.. stroking her hair, pinching her arms, and the next thing i remember is we are dancing in the dance floor...at first she was abit shy.. but i take care of that.. holding her hands.. dancing, turn her on steps by step.. holding her waist.. playing around on her waist.. hugging her, smile on her.. eye to eye contact.. finally.. cuddling.. and she was turn on and putting her hands over my shoulder.. and i lean on her and give her the magic kiss.. until she asking for more :P

Well guys, lots of my friends besides me asking
"you 2 is couple right? i said.. well.. Nope.."

But How come?

Well You should find it out at:
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Oh Ya.. I'll continue my success story with the 2nd girls later... promise..
(I got to get back to my work.. In the office right now :P)

Cya guys later...

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How to make her CRAZY for you - Part 2

noreply@blogger.com (Angelion) — Sat, 10 Nov 2007 04:58:00 +0000

Angelion: Hey Guys... How was the previous tips? Have you use it?

Here are the second part of "How to make her CRAZY for you!" Enjoy :)

Example #4: Some women like to touch a guy while they talk.
When a woman touches you on the leg, say in a serious tone,
"May you stop touching my leg?" Then when she seems thrown
off, say "Well, if you want to touch me, I would enjoy it
even more if you would touch me a little bit closer..."

Example #5: Let's say you're cuddling or making out with her,
try to smell her neck, kiss her, etc but then SUDDENLY STOP.
She's going to be all hot and bothered and ask you what's
wrong, etc. She may even put her arms around you to
try you to get back to it. After a few seconds, start making
out with her again...but more fiercely this time. This is a
VERY good way to advance through her boundaries.

Example #6: Be unpredictable. While sitting on a bench on a
date, suddenly pull her up and then give her a hug. Then
you say "I just wanted to hug you." If she asks you why,
say "Cause I felt like it." playfully or "I wanted to see
if you'd feel good to hug." If she asks you if you think
she's good, just say "Well, I think I need a second
try first..."

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How to make her Crazy For You! - Part 1

noreply@blogger.com (Angelion) — Wed, 07 Nov 2007 14:01:00 +0000

Hmmm.. How to make a woman get crazy for you? or even more...
* The answers is " Teasing "

What is " Teasing "?
Ok.

1. Making fun of a girl playfully
2. Arousing her and then pulling back

Basically, is to give her a "mixed signal"
Keep her wondering if you like her or not with
your words and body language.

Example 1: Instead of telling her you like her, you say "you
really like me" in a teasing manner. If you say "I really like
you", she may reject you on the spot because if it's direct
and blatant. But if you say "You really like me" PLAYFULLY,
then you can get away with it because you're just joking.

You may also accuse her of hugging you or kissing you a lot.
And then you give her a hug or kiss back. This will leave her
wondering if you're really attracted to her or not. Women
love MINDGAMES. They love to pick petals off a rose and say,
"He loves me, he loves me not"

Example 2: You can make fun of something small about her
(don't overdo it though). For example, say one of her earlobes
is lower than the other PLAYFULLY. (Being PLAYFUL is the key)
She will probably go like "No it's not!" Then you look into her
eyes and say, "It's all right, you're still pretty."

Example #3: Give her a personal nickname or tease her about
something that is special to both of you. Like if something
funny or interesting happens while on a date, use it to your
advantage.

(Angelion says.. I personally use the e.g.3. Is quite powerful..)

To be continue...

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Building "Connection" with a Woman - Part 2

noreply@blogger.com (Angelion) — Sat, 03 Nov 2007 17:00:00 +0000

Step two - Isolate Her from Her Friends

Once she’s giving you signs of interest, you'll want to get her AWAY from her friends.
ISOLATE her.
While you needed to engage her entire group of friends to establish your social value, once you have it, her friends will actually HINDER the coming Bond and Connection phase of the seduction.

To establish that deep rapport of bond and connection, you'll need to get the girl ALONE and talk with her one-on-one.
Separating her from her friends is rather easy to accomplish.
First tell the Object of Your Desire (OYD), “Hey, I have the coolest thing I’ve just got to show you this…”

This is a curiosity hook. She’ll ask you, “What is it?”
Tell her that you can’t show her here… it’s too loud or that you need to show her in private.
Now she’ll go with you, if you simply lead her. But you can’t take her just yet.
You still have to neutralize any potential objections from her peer group that you’ll be stealing her away from them.

Tell her group of friends, “Your friend and I like each other. I’m going to just borrow her for a few minutes. That’s cool with you guys.”
Telling her group, “Your friend and I like each other,” may seem bold, but it's actually based on cold fact at this point. She’s given you repeated signs of interest (I like you) and you’ve screened and accepted her (I like you back).
So when you tell her friends, “Your friend and I like each other,” the Object of Your Desire will give you no resistance.

Telling her group, “I’m going to just borrow her for a few minutes,” simply paces the action so that they won't be surprised when she disappears... and won't go looking for her when she does.
And telling the group, “That’s cool with you guys,” gets her group’s verbal, explicit permission for you to snatch her away and neutralizes any cock-blocking they might otherwise give you. If you’ve already demonstrated social value to the group, it’s highly unlikely that her friends will say no.

Step three - Building Bond and Connection

Now that you have her separated from her group, take her by the hand and lead her to a quieter place in the club.
Now’s the time to build that intimate sense of bond and connection with her. Why will it work now?

1. You already have social value to her.
2. She likes you. She’s been giving you signs of interest.
3. She knows you like her and that she had to work to earn your interest (screening and acceptance).
Now you need to show her that you’re not just an interesting club guy, but that you’re a REAL HUMAN BEING.

First, SIT DOWN with her.
Second, DROP the social value building techniques of social proofing, teasing, ignoring, balls busting, zany stories, psychological games, cocky posturing, and all that.
You ALREADY have HIGH social value to her. Doing more will just slow things down at best, trip things up at worst.

The point of Bond and Connection is to show her that you’re a NORMAL guy, not just a club guy. You’re about to reveal to her a little bit of your true, inner SOUL.
Third, once you have her isolated and sitting down with you, adjust your Nonverbal Sexual Cues.

Project the energy of sharing your soul and deep intimacy with her. Imagine that you’ve known this girl forever and she’s already your girlfriend. Imagine a tangible energy between the two of your bodies, like an electric current.
Your Nonverbal Sexual Cues will automatically adjust to the new frame - bedroom eyes, smiling up close, deep eye contact, your body and face completely turned toward hers, slow breathing, husky voice, and warm body heat.

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Building "Connection" with a Woman - Step 1

noreply@blogger.com (Angelion) — Wed, 31 Oct 2007 13:11:00 +0000

Angelion:" I personally found out that below tips is quite useful.. You can use it " Right Away "

Virtually all women want to feel an intimate sense of bond and connection with their man in a relationship.
So a lot of guys naturally attempt to establish that sense of bond and connection with a girl right away.

They approach a girl at a bookstore or club and attempt to establish deep rapport right away by eliciting her values or doing an incredible connection routine.
Unfortunately, they walk away brushed off by the girl and scratching their heads as to what they did wrong.

What went wrong is that they tried to establish an intimate bond and connection TOO SOON.
Yes, getting deep rapport with a girl is necessary - eventually.
But NOT at the first moment you meet her.
If you try for bond, connection, and deep rapport at the first moment you meet a girl, it will blow up in your face.

Why?
Because you don’t have enough Social Value to the girl yet.
It’s not that women don’t like that building that sense of bond and connection with a man. They LIKE it. They WANT it.
They just want to do it with a man with equal or higher social value than themselves.
If you jump directly into Bond and Connection (B&C) routines and material right away without establishing any social value first, you’ll just come across as another “nice guy”.

Step one - Build Social Value with a Girl
First, you have to build your social value to the girl. As I’ve discussed in detail before, there are many ways of doing this:
1. Social proof - she sees you talking with other hot girls

2. Nonverbal Sexual Cues - good voice, strong body language, eye contact, etc.

3. Ignoring social pressure - you walk right up to her, ignore everybody else extremely confident and brash

4. Your visual style - how you're dressed, groomed, etc

5. Demonstrating value obliquely - winning over her friends, telling cool stories, palm reading, etc

6. Disqualifying yourself - ignoring her in front of her friends

7. Screening her - make her earn your acceptance
Once you’re in her group of friends, have built social value for yourself, and screened her and accepted her, she’ll begin giving you signs of interest – touching you, smiling at you, turning her body to face you, attempt to initiate conversation with you, and so on.
This is the point – once you know she likes you – that you want to establish that deep, intimate, bond and connection with her.

To be continue... Step 2

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How to Flirt on the Net For Men - Part 2

noreply@blogger.com (Angelion) — Mon, 29 Oct 2007 16:20:00 +0000

6. LAY YOUR CARDS ON THE TABLE
Be honest! If you don't look like Mel Gibson, why say you do? You might as well take the risk to find out if she is interested in who you really are. She will be very angry at you if she finds out later you have mislead her ABOUT ANYTHING.
Be truthful about your intentions with her at this stage. If you are not looking for a romance, don't pretend to be. If you have other important relationships on the net or in life, TELL HER NOW before the situation escalates, otherwise there are bound to be hurt feelings. Ask her the same questions about her love life and intentions. Reveal something about yourself FIRST. THEN ask her to do the same.
In the second stage, Be first to tell her how you feel. In the long run she'll respect and trust you more for being open and honest.

7. LET HER TAKE THE LEAD
As you move through the levels of the second stage , if possible, let her take the lead toward becoming more intimate. If she initiates deeper levels, you will know that this is what she truly desires, and it will allow her to feel more in control of the situation. If she feels in charge she's less likely to become afraid of more intensity.
If she is shy, you can still help her feel in control by inviting her rather than taking her down the path of Cyber-Seduction. Ask her: Tell me about what you're wearing? This is better than asking her, What are you wearing? (if you haven't reached this level of intimacy yet.)

8. STAGE THREE: HER SENSES MAY BE DIFFERENT FROM YOURS
If you've gotten to the cyber-seduction stage three, you may be speaking very directly about sex and sensuality. Remember, all of the above rules still apply, and a few more come into play. First, her sense of choice may be different from yours. You may want her to paint pictures for you. You may ask her to describe what she looks like, what she's wearing and other visual descriptions. This may do nothing for her. She may want to hear words that turn her on. Or she may want to feel through descriptions of sensations. She may initially prefer one modality, and then another as things heat up. Get to know yourself and your lady and you'll be able to play her like a fine violin.

Here's an example of how the different senses can be used. One simple act (escalating the action at a dinner table), can be handled in a multitude of ways:
Visual Sensation: ....I push away the dinner plates and lift you onto the table. I can see from the look in your eyes that you are mine. Your red lips part with longing...
Sound Sensation: ....I can almost hear you purr --- I know I can't wait any longer, "You are mine' I whisper. Shoving away the dinner plates, I don't care who hears us now, "You are my most sinful dessert' I sigh....
Touch Sensation: ...I reach under the white linen tablecloth, my hand slides teasingly slowly up your trembling thigh. You let me gently part your legs as your moist heat attracts my fingers like a thousand invisible magnets...

9. A ROSE BY ANY OTHER NAME.....
May not smell as sweet. What kind of words does she use to describe body parts or acts of love? Does she like poetic & colorful innuendo, or graphic dirty words and explicit descriptions? One false step in this department can cause weeks of delicate feelings to unravel in a moment. Find out what she likes before you find yourself typing away like a wild man in the heat of action.
Erotic and (porno) graphic are very opposing styles. The different impact of these two approaches is considerable. She may not respond to one, whereas she may be delighted by the other.

Here is an example of an erotic approach:
...my hands find their way to the source of your desire, awakening an almost forgotten longing....
Graphic approach: (....maybe I'll just let you imagine this one....!)
Don't assume you know her tastes -- ask her. It may sound a little clinical, but that's where the great lovers are separated from the crowd. Get good at eliciting her love-strategy in a way that is fun, provocative and passionate.

10. BRINGING NET-FANTASIES TO LIFE
If you've been having a Cyber Love affair, you may be wondering about taking it to the next level of reality. Assuming that you are both single and available, you may be curious to speak on the phone or even meet in person. WARNING: Are you willing to let go of a fantasy in order to have a real life experience? If the answer is yes, and you are willing to accept any possible outcome, then you know what you need to do next. Call her! If it goes well, get on an airplane!!!
But be honest with yourself. Are you ready to have your life (which you have some control over as long as you are at the keyboard) disrupted? Are you ready, willing and able to face the fact that the goddess you have been imagining and sweet chatting is different from a living, breathing, real woman? Real women have real needs, hopes and dreams. But if you're ready for reality...

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How to Flirt on the Net For Men - Part 1

noreply@blogger.com (Angelion) — Sat, 27 Oct 2007 14:29:00 +0000

1. WOMEN WANT TO BE TREATED WELL
The same rules of gentlemanly conduct that apply in life, apply on the Net. Woman want to be treated well. Respect her and you'll be a winner. Offend her, and you're out of the game.

2. LOVERS COME AND GO -- FRIENDS LAST FOREVER
Although there are some women who are looking for a casual one-net stand, most women want a Cyber-Seduction to grow out of a friendship. If you can create a comfortable & safe place, chances are she'll want to play more. Even the most sensuous encounters are still all about creating relationships. They may not be permanent, they may not have the deepest emotional intimacy, but the guidelines for good relating apply to Cyber- Love as well.

3. RECOGNIZE THE VARIOUS STAGES OF SEDUCTION
Different rules apply for each stage of seduction . Recognize what stage of the seduction you're in: First Stage: Making Contact. Second Stage: Flirting and Courtship. Third Stage: Cyber-Seduction. Success comes to the man who recognizes what stage he is in.

4. GETTING TO YES -- THE FIRST STAGE OF SEDUCTION
The first stage is making contact and determining if the woman is interested in your attention. At this initial stage most woman are still in the no thank you mode. This is not the best time to start sending her direct, sexual private messages, because she is still in the no stage. Establish a friendly connection first. Make sure she really wants to play before you escalate the game.
Assuming you have determined that she is responding to you, the next step is establishing a connection that is personal to the two of you. The art of the first stage is knowing how to make it personal without making it too personal. It requires sensitivity to know where her boundaries are at each stage.

5. LET THE GAMES BEGIN! THE SECOND STAGE OF SEDUCTION
The best flirtation is like a good game of tennis. Both players return volleys. If she is not responding at your pace, SLOW DOWN. There is no point in trying to `ace' her at this stage in the game. Be interested in her, who she is, not what she is! Ask questions, but don't make her feel like she's the subject of a `60 Minutes' interview. Never ask questions about her body parts, or her dimensions unless she's willing to volunteer that level of information. Ask open-ended questions like how do you feel about....? what do you like best about...? -- rather than closed questions like Do you like Classical music? Those kind of questions tend to lead to yes or no answers, perhaps bringing the conversation to a halt. Keep the game going. Always respond to her, never let a comment or question go by unanswered. If you don't have an answer, speak up (softly). Don't just be silent. Remember, she can't read your mind. It's easier to keep the connection going than it is to re-start it.

To be continue...

What to do and not do when flirting with your date

noreply@blogger.com (Angelion) — Thu, 25 Oct 2007 13:36:00 +0000

Use Your Whole BodyTalking
The talk without walking the walk is utterly ineffective. Try telling a woman she's beautiful or a guy he's hunky and then shift your eyes away, and see if you're believed. Flirty body language begins with eyes and works its way all the way down to tips of your footsies. Lean forward, make eye contact, smile, bend your knees a bit and untense your hands and arms. Remember to relax a bit; this should be fun, not defusing a bomb.

Make Eye Contact
Looking someone in the eyes is very compelling. And it makes a person feel like they've got your're undivided attention, which they should.

Smile, don't smirk
There's a reason why synonyms for smirk include sneer, leer and grimace. It's an unattractive and unpleasant expression. Avoid it. Smile openly and sincerely - it's irresistible.

Pay Attention
No looking like you're trying to remember if you fed the cat.

Lighten Up, Don't Bulldoze
Telling your date they're incredibly hot isn't flirting. It's steering your dating experience directly into a mountain.

Don't think you can't do it
Anyone can flirt .... even if only a little. Flirting is a sign of confidence and even if you're feeling a teensy bit shaky, give it a try. Practice makes perfect and flirty. You don't have to be smooth, just sincere.

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3 Powerful Tips To Take Contacts Number Without Rejection

noreply@blogger.com (Angelion) — Wed, 24 Oct 2007 16:50:00 +0000

Hi Friend, It sounds obvious, but if you don't get off your butt and approach women you aren't going to have any numbers to call atthe end of the day. Many men procrastinate approaching women because they are scaredof rejection. There are many things you can do to significantly reduce yourchances of being rejected when asking woman's phone number. Hereare several...

TIP # 1 - Make rejecting you hard
This one secret alone will dramatically boost your chances ofgetting a woman's phone number... make it difficult to say no. Instead of saying, "Hey, can I get your phone number?" say, "Hey,is there a phone number I can reach you at?" Notice why the latter is better than the first? Of course there is a number you can reach her at so she will haveto say, "Umm, yes, there is a phone number you can reach me atbut I don't really want to talk to you again so, no, you can'thave it." in order for her to reject you. She's not likely to want to go through all that explanation...her laziness works to your advantage. :-)

TIP # 2 - Ask with authority
Asking a question leaves you wide open for a rejection. Salesmenhave known this for a long time and that is why they will oftentell a prospect to "order now" rather than say something like "wewould really appreciate it if you would consider ordering ourproduct... please???" By not asking in question form you reduce the likelihood that shewill view it as a yes or no question. A friendly "Hey, let me get your number" demonstrates much moreconfidence and charisma than "Can I get your number???" whichplaces you slightly below her on a psycho-social level (becauseshe has all the power in that situation - you are in a slightlyneedy/begging position).

TIP # 3 - Have a reason to contact her
While you are talking to her pinpoint one of her interests. Then,when it's time to leave say something like, "I had a great timetonight, hey, let me get your number so that we can [her interesthere] sometime." For instance, if you are one of the luckiest men alive and herinterest turns out to be football you would say, "Hey, let me getyour number so that we can go to a football game sometime." Now in order for her to say "no" she will also have to turn downan invitation to an activity that she already said that shereally enjoys. The great part about using this tip is that you also have thefirst date set up... So now you know how to get a woman's phone number but there is alot more to the dating game than that. If a woman isn't attractedto you then having her number won't matter because therelationship isn't going anywhere anyway! Creating attraction is EVERYTHING.

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The Magic Approach

noreply@blogger.com (Angelion) — Tue, 23 Oct 2007 16:00:00 +0000

It’s not about words, it’s not about looks, it’s not even about the first impression. The approach is all about the attitude. Most guys go in with the wrong one – and the fact that “openers” usually put you in the wrong frame doesn’t help. However, once you get over the initial stumbling block of fear, you’ll realize openers are easier than you’d ever imagined.

An Insightful Moment
I was having a conversation with a buddy of mine, one who lived in Japan a number of years.
He’d just broken up with his fiancé and we were talking about getting back in the game, back on the horse, drowning his sorrow in sex.
So naturally we were talking about openers, and I was curious – what did he think the best opener was for Japanese girls.
His answer was extremely revealing – “hi” seemed to work about as well as anything could.

The Japanese Example
Now my buddy was making a joke about how easy it is to get Japanese girls as a Westerner in the country, but I KNOW that’s not necessarily true – plenty of other friends had all sorts of problems getting ANYWHERE with women over there. And these weren’t ugly guys – some of them were quite handsome, and a number of them were even fluent in the language. In fact, a bunch of them didn’t get NEAR the same amount of women they got at home.
So it’s not like every woman has a big “Take Me Western Man” sign over her head.
HOWEVER, a lot of guys have heard this stereotype and buy it. They go to Japan thinking that every woman IS crazy for Americans, and will jump at the chance to be with one.
And you know what? For those guys, that becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy. They DO end up with a large bevy of Asian beauties hanging off their arms.
It’s not because they’re foreign. It’s because they BELIEVE being foreign makes a difference.
They approach women with the perfect attitude – one which assumes the woman wants you, but isn’t very bothered because there are plenty of other women too.
They don’t go out of their way to be clever or open with a bang or anything like that – they don’t believe they need it.
Instead, they just talk to women they find attractive, and see if they can have fun with those women.
And that, my friends, is EXACTLY THE WAY TO APPROACH EVERY WOMAN.

Problems with lines, expectations, and nerves
So many guys try to think of the perfect opener, spend hours working on a few, and then they never seem to work the way they’re supposed to.
That’s because it’s an OPENER – and women can sniff it a mile away.
And it doesn’t smell good.
Plenty of other guys get nervous before approaching – whether it’s been a long time, or they’ve had some bad experiences recently, or they are just plain inexperienced.
They are thinking “Don’t be weird, don’t be weird, don’t be weird” over and over.
Guess what that does? Makes ‘em weird.

E-lim-inate the Negative
Those negative mantras that fill your head always have you RUNNING from certain ways of being, instead of naturally BEING a way – any way, really, is better than AVOIDING a way.
So stop worrying about what you’re going to say – and just SAY something.
Stop wondering if your breath stinks, and LOOK HER IN THE EYES when you talk (you should take care of your breath earlier anyway – and halitosis is easier to overcome than conveying weakness or insecurity).
Don’t be scared of offending her – and instead HAVE FUN. Be playful, be naughty, say what entertains you – chances are she’ll be entertained too. And if she’s not, chances are still good she’ll notice your balls, saying what most people are scared to. And if she actually IS offended, unless you’ve been reciting the KKK Doctrine, you know she’s a humorless person who you wouldn’t want to be with anyway.
There’re better girls right around the corner. Or maybe in the very same group.

Ak-sen-chuate the positive
Roosevelt would say it like this: “There’s nothing to fear but fear itself.” The only thing that can make things go bad is if you’re SCARED they’ll go bad.
You’ll sabotage yourself. Just about every time.
The entire key to approaches – everything, all of it – is to come with RELAXED CONFIDENCE. Have the guts to have fun. Don’t be scared of losing a girl who you never had to begin with.
Just ENJOY yourself. Humans are very reactive creatures, so if you’re enjoying YOURSELF, people around you will feel that and start to enjoy THEMSELVES as well.

From the inside out
Now if you’re all scared and jumpy and nervous, you’ll cause the same reaction in the people around you and they’ll try to get the hell away as fast as they can.
Just RELAX. And say hi. And enjoy the ride – because if you’ve got the confidence to say what you think, the playfulness to enjoy yourself, and the relaxed attitude to erase tension, you’re going to have a VERY fun ride.
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Secrets of Talking With Women - Part 2

noreply@blogger.com (Angelion) — Sun, 21 Oct 2007 12:59:00 +0000

Silence is nice, but… let’s talk

Still, sometimes you will find yourself in need of something to talk about. And your mind will be blank. You know the time for conversation is here – but you’re clueless how to start it.
Well, this is one of the reasons I recommend avoiding dinners and traditional dates, and prefer shared activities. Especially in fun cool areas. Who needs to worry about conversation when there’s a man on a leash walking in front of you on the sidewalk, or a shop window with a dismembered mannequin head smeared with lipstick wearing a Ronald McDonald wig and a sign saying “Love me?”
If you can’t think of anything to say in stimulating areas, then you’re just not trying. Or you’re freaking – in which case you need to use one of your relaxation triggers to get yourself CALM and able to THINK.
Come on, some of our granddaddies kept their heads with the enemy shooting at them. You can do it with an attractive lady.
But you can’t ALWAYS be in a Greenwich Village knockoff. Sometimes you need to come up with topics all by your lonesome, right?
Wrong. See, the definition of conversation is you have to have at least two people. And that dynamic helps a lot.
Having the conversation SHE wants, every time
Lets borrow a trick from sales, where the seller needs to establish a friendly connection quickly. How do they do it?
They listen for key words in statements they hear. And you can do the same. One simple sentence from your favorite lady can lead to a night’s worth of dialogue.

Example:
“Hi.”
“No, I’m not. Or were you offering? I barely know you, and already you bring psychotropic drugs into our relationship? Wow, you are one crazy chick.”
(She should be laughing, if you delivered it right and she isn’t a nun.) “No, I don’t do drugs on a first date!” (key word: take your pick, drugs or date)
“Oh, but on the second you jump right in? You’ve said two things, and they both relate to illicit substances. Get your mind out of the gutter and learn to enjoy life clean too.” (Then order her a beer).
See what’s going on? Just pick a key word from her conversation, and riff off it. The above doesn’t apply because it’s too early in your duologue, but even within a few minutes of talking to ANYONE you’ll hear them use keywords that are important to THEM for whatever reason. Hook onto those and she’ll think you’re the greatest conversationalist ever – because all you talk about is what interests HER.

Example:
“That dog smells like a Thai sewer.” (key word: Thai)
“And how would you know? When were you in Thailand?”
“Last month, actually. It’s insane!” (key word: insane)
“And that’s what attracted you about it? You wanted to find others as crazy as you are?”
“No! I went to get my scuba diving certification.” (key word(s): scuba diving, and you have a topic for the next 15 minutes that you KNOW she wants to talk about).

“Homework”

Pretty easy, eh? In fact, it’s so easy, I’m going to make your homework nice and simple. Go out and have five conversations where you cue the other person off their keywords.
Have five more where you NEVER start a topic, and see how the silence feels, bearing in mind that you are SEEKING it.
Finally, pick five interesting eclectic spots near you, and go for a walk in them. Just comment in your head on what you see.
That’s it. Enjoy your new expression of personal wit and get out there and impress some ladies with it. You’re ready.
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Secrets Of Talking To Women - Part 1

noreply@blogger.com (Angelion) — Sun, 21 Oct 2007 09:42:00 +0000

Most of us have endured some silences in our relations with women we wish hadn’t happened. Well, first, you don’t have to be scared of silences, because they can be helpful. And second, there are ways to get a sparkling conversation going from next to ZERO material.

Let’s Take a Moment to Look Left

Brief related tangent time: one question I get asked a lot is “What should I talk about?”

Sure, now you know HOW you’re supposed to talk, but so many guys get stuck on WHAT to talk about. After all, those dead silences are murder for attraction, right?

First off, not so fast bad-mouthing silence. More on that later.
Second, it REALLY doesn’t matter WHAT you talk about, so long as you make it interesting. I’ve said this again and again, but let me stress it now: you can talk about ANYTHING and it’ll be ok.
You can tell a date her butt looks HUGE in that dress. Say it right and she won’t walk out or slap you, she’ll laugh.
You can wonder aloud whether postal workers get high on stamp glue.
You can go on for half an hour about the off-color corner of that rare Elvis stamp you have framed on your wall… well, ok, maybe not that one. If you talk at length about certified punchline hobbies, you might be in trouble.
Unless you’re making fun of them, of course.

Can stupid stuff work? You betcha.

But seriously, this isn’t rocket science. This isn’t even high school science, despite how often the word “chemistry” gets bandied about.
When I was still studying these skills, some of my “natural” friends would tell me lines they’d used with great success. I didn’t believe it. The things they related to me sounded so… DUMB, I couldn’t fathom an attractive intelligent woman would go for them.
Then I saw these guys in action. Sure, I could HEAR the stupidity of some of the lines – the corniness, the transparency, the if-this-were-in-a-Bond-movie-I’d-groan-now quality to them.
Still, they worked. I had new respect for groaners in Bond movies.
The key was ALL in the nonverbal delivery, as we’ve talked about at length.
Ok, so now that I’ve hopefully reminded you not to worry too much about the actual content, let me add sometimes you don’t need content AT ALL.

The Golden Silence is as good as the Golden Tongue

Strange, eh? I have one friend who isn’t a gabber, who doesn’t like to partake in anything CLOSE to small talk. And when he’s out with women, there are numerous silences.
And it WORKS. Why? Because he’s comfortable with it.
Listen, reality is all about perception. If you’re scared of awkward silences, they become awkward. If you aren’t, the silences become NATURAL. And that kind of thing stinks of relaxed confidence.
When you’re relaxed and comfortable enough to let a silence come and it DOESN’T BUG YOU, it communicates all sorts of positive things. Relaxed Confidence. Real (no games). Uh, we need a new word here, not gravity, but the opposite of frivolity. But while staying playful. We’ll call it gravolity.
To be clear, don’t overdo this. If you never say anything, well, you’re just boring. But don’t be scared of the occasional silence, or letting the lady start a topic and playing with it. (My silent friend does this all the time – and pretty soon, the women are starting all sorts of conversations and he’s viewed as fascinating because they’re talking about things they like to talk about. Who started the conversation never really enters into their head.)
(Hey, by the way, did you know that psychological studies say that the person who is LEAST comfortable with silence in a group – and hence breaks it – is almost always the MOST insecure? Still want to fill every last second of air time?)

To be continue...

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