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	<title type="text">It&#039;s OK to be WEIRD!</title>
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		<title type="html"><![CDATA[Reviving the Weirdness]]></title>
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		<updated>2023-03-28T19:59:05Z</updated>
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		<summary type="html"><![CDATA[<p>I'm hoping to revive "It's OK to be WEIRD!" with some new insights and new adventures. I hope you'll come along! The weirdness continues!</p>
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					<content type="html" xml:base="https://itsoktobeweird.com/reviving-the-weirdness/"><![CDATA[<p>Two and a half years is a long time.</p>
<p>Especially these particular 2.5 years.</p>
<p>Oct 20, 2020 was my last blog post. We were well into the global COVID Pandemic and life was kinda upside down. That long with no posts and one might easily assume that this website has been un-alived. But not quite&#8230;</p>
<p>Since then a lot has happened world-wide, and specifically for my family, too. Life, and weirdness, carried on in new and crazy ways.</p>
<p>On October 1, 2021, we loaded everything we owned into a 5-vehicle convoy for an international, cross-country move from Alberta, Canada, to New Mexico, USA.</p>
<p>To say it&#8217;s been an adventure would be an understatement.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m hoping to revive this blog with some new insights and new adventures. I hope you&#8217;ll come along!</p>
<p>The weirdness continues!</p>
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		<title type="html"><![CDATA[Juggling Anxieties]]></title>
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		<updated>2020-10-22T00:21:48Z</updated>
		<published>2020-10-20T07:08:59Z</published>
		<category scheme="https://itsoktobeweird.com/" term="depression" /><category scheme="https://itsoktobeweird.com/" term="mental health" /><category scheme="https://itsoktobeweird.com/" term="anxieties" /><category scheme="https://itsoktobeweird.com/" term="Anxiety" /><category scheme="https://itsoktobeweird.com/" term="SAD" /><category scheme="https://itsoktobeweird.com/" term="seasonal affective disorder" />
		<summary type="html"><![CDATA[<p>Holding a steady dose of "regular anxiety". Add "covid anxiety", "election anxiety",  "seasonal depression", and more. Juggle THAT...</p>
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<p>This comic (art) caught my attention big time today.</p>
<p>This is definitely what it feels like right now, as the snow settles on my patio table and the days get shorter and shorter&#8230;.</p>
<p>Holding a steady dose of &#8220;regular anxiety&#8221;.</p>
<p>Add &#8220;covid anxiety&#8221;.</p>
<p>Then &#8220;election anxiety&#8221;.</p>
<p>Top it off with &#8220;seasonal depression&#8221;, &#8220;worried about global warming&#8221;, and &#8220;existential dread&#8221;&#8230;</p>
<p>Try juggling all those anxieties and depression. Good luck with that.</p>
<p>But that&#8217;s where many of us are right now, me included.</p>
<p>S.A.D. is trying hard to creep in, and I keep pushing it back, but covid and election anxiety keep popping in to the mix.</p>
<p>I find myself saying, to myself, &#8220;BREATHE,&#8221; often throughout the day. &#8220;Just breathe.&#8221;</p>
<p>I can&#8217;t juggle it all. But I can keep breathing, even when I drop a ball, or two&#8230; in the snow&#8230; *sigh*</p>
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<p>art credit: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/adamtots/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">@adamtots</a> &#8211; <a href="https://www.facebook.com/booksofadam" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Adam Ellis</a></p>
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		<title type="html"><![CDATA[All my &#8216;babies&#8217; are adults!]]></title>
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		<updated>2020-02-06T00:37:58Z</updated>
		<published>2020-02-06T00:37:53Z</published>
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		<summary type="html"><![CDATA[<p>My youngest kiddo turns 18 today. All 3 of my children are now “grown up”. My job isn’t over. It  just keeps changing. I still have work to do. </p>
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<p>My youngest offspring is 18 today. He is still finishing high school and will be at home for another year probably. But I’m excited we made it this far. </p>



<p>I am not one of those moms who wants my kids to stay little. I honestly don’t miss newborns or the hellish days of having 3 babies under 3 years old. I don’t think of my kiddos as “always being my babies”. </p>



<p>I&#8217;ve always considered it my job to walk them through this thing called life, to grow them up, and prepare them for the world beyond my home. </p>



<p>I look at pictures of them growing up and I love the hell out of those little people. But I don’t want to go back. </p>



<p>My youngest kiddo, Nat, has made it to official adulthood. All 3 of my children are now “grown up”. My job isn’t over. It  just keeps changing. I still have work to do. </p>



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<p>And yes, I do feel a bit older today. But not hopelessly older. More like finally looking forward to the next chapter. </p>



<p>My kiddos are good people with skills to pay the bills. They will be ok, and hopefully better than ok. But I’ll still be here to walk with them and I get to see what they are going to do on their own. </p>



<p>That’s a good feeling today. Mom Win! </p>
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		<title type="html"><![CDATA[MY Balloons &#8211; The Albuquerque International Balloon Fiesta]]></title>
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		<updated>2020-03-23T13:30:26Z</updated>
		<published>2019-10-10T08:33:47Z</published>
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		<summary type="html"><![CDATA[<p>The Albuquerque International Balloon Fiesta is one of my favourite events in the WHOLE WORLD! The Balloon Fiesta – Favourite Memories You see, I grew up in the Albuquerque area, living there until I was 14. My birthday is October 4, my sister’s birthday is October&#160;5th, and at that time I had 4 cousins who [&#8230;]</p>
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<p>The <a href="https://balloonfiesta.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener" aria-label="Albuquerque International Balloon Fiesta (opens in a new tab)">Albuquerque International Balloon Fiesta</a> is  one of my favourite events in the WHOLE WORLD!</p>



<h2 class="wp-block-heading">The Balloon Fiesta – Favourite Memories</h2>



<figure class="wp-block-image"><img decoding="async" width="1024" height="678" src="http://itsoktobeweird.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/10/B688DB61-28BD-4441-84F7-F8A6A82BC435-1024x678.jpeg" alt="" class="wp-image-4312" srcset="https://itsoktobeweird.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/10/B688DB61-28BD-4441-84F7-F8A6A82BC435-1024x678.jpeg 1024w, https://itsoktobeweird.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/10/B688DB61-28BD-4441-84F7-F8A6A82BC435-300x199.jpeg 300w, https://itsoktobeweird.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/10/B688DB61-28BD-4441-84F7-F8A6A82BC435-1080x715.jpeg 1080w, https://itsoktobeweird.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/10/B688DB61-28BD-4441-84F7-F8A6A82BC435-600x397.jpeg 600w, https://itsoktobeweird.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/10/B688DB61-28BD-4441-84F7-F8A6A82BC435.jpeg 1920w" sizes="(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px" /><figcaption>Albuquerque International Balloon Fiesta Mass Ascension </figcaption></figure>



<p>You see, I grew up in the Albuquerque area, living there until I was 14. My birthday is October 4, my sister’s birthday is October&nbsp;5th, and at that time I had 4 cousins who were also born on October 4. &nbsp;(There are 3 more cousins in my family who also share that birthday with me, now!) &nbsp;Plus, I have no fewer than 20 family birthdays in October, and about 10 friends who are my birthday buddies, all celebrating together on October 4th, and handfuls of friends with birthdays on other days in early October.</p>



<p>In the middle of all those October birthdays, every year, much to my delight, The Balloon Fiesta happened.</p>



<p>It was family tradition to drive into Albuquerque to watch the hot-air balloons fly, and then have breakfast at Village Inn or somewhere close.</p>



<p><em><strong>My tummy would be full of butterflies with the excitement of the&nbsp;birthdays, and the sky would be FULL of stunning hot-air balloons. &nbsp;It was truly magical.</strong></em></p>



<figure class="wp-block-image"><img decoding="async" width="1024" height="768" src="http://itsoktobeweird.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/10/47EF96F1-B73C-49B9-AB1C-3A236895C177-1024x768.jpeg" alt="" class="wp-image-4313"/><figcaption>Sky filled with hot air balloons. <br>Albuquerque International Balloon Fiesta 2015 </figcaption></figure>



<p>Often we’d meet up with birthday cousins and other family members along the way, or at least for breakfast. It was like a HUGE party, and it’s one of my favourite memories from growing up.</p>



<h2 class="wp-block-heading">The Balloon Fiesta is My Birthday Party!</h2>



<p>The balloons made for such a great birthday experience. They were MINE, and I LOVED THEM!</p>



<p><strong>I was 9 years old (yes 9!) before I realized that the Balloon Fiesta was NOT for my birthday.</strong></p>



<p><em>(sad face)</em></p>



<p>Until then, I had honestly and truly believed that the Ballon Fiesta&nbsp;was for me and my birthday buddies and all the other birthdays in early October!! I thought it was OURS, for celebrating all of us!</p>



<div class="wp-block-image"><figure class="alignleft"><img decoding="async" width="400" height="274" src="http://itsoktobeweird.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/03/Albuquerque-Balloon-Fiesta.jpg" alt="Albuquerque Balloon Fiesta" class="wp-image-3971" srcset="https://itsoktobeweird.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/03/Albuquerque-Balloon-Fiesta.jpg 400w, https://itsoktobeweird.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/03/Albuquerque-Balloon-Fiesta-300x206.jpg 300w" sizes="(max-width: 400px) 100vw, 400px" /></figure></div>



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<p>I remember seeing an advertisement for the Balloon Fiesta on TV that year before my birthday. “Balloon pilots and enthusiasts come from all over the world to compete, fly, and enjoy the beautiful hot air balloons. The world’s premiere ballooning event! Balloon Rides, Concession, Pin Swaps, Arts &amp; Crafts. &nbsp;Get your general admission tickets for the daily Mass Ascensions today!”</p>



<p>[me, thinking…]</p>



<blockquote class="wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow"><p>… from all over the world?</p><p>Tickets?</p><p>WAIT…. WHAT?</p><p>This is an event, like the fair – it’s not just our party.</p></blockquote>



<p><em>(sad face)</em></p>



<p>I’d never been to the launch field, to the actual Balloon Park where all the balloons took off from. We just drove around and watched the balloons as they took over the sky above Albuquerque. They are almost literally EVERYWHERE! &nbsp;You can’t miss them. Of course I noticed that other people enjoyed OUR&nbsp;balloons, but I had no idea that the balloons weren’t ours…</p>



<p>I do&nbsp;remember feeling really silly about it all at first. &nbsp;I guess it was like when you find out about the tooth fairy or the Easter bunny. I tried not to cry, and I’m still not sure if my family noticed how sad I was, but I was really pretty bummed about it.</p>



<p>Thankfully, I was seriously hooked on the magic of the balloons. How could I not be? &nbsp;In my 9-year-old mind, I decided that<em>&nbsp;they could really still be MY&nbsp;balloons, even if the world thought that the balloons belonged to everyone</em>.</p>



<div class="wp-block-image"><figure class="aligncenter"><a href="http://www.balloonfiesta.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"><img decoding="async" width="4275" height="1350" src="http://itsoktobeweird.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/03/Where-Dreams-Take-Flight-AIBF.jpg" alt="Where Dreams Take Flight - Albuquerque International Balloon Fiesta - AIBF" class="wp-image-3972" srcset="https://itsoktobeweird.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/03/Where-Dreams-Take-Flight-AIBF.jpg 4275w, https://itsoktobeweird.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/03/Where-Dreams-Take-Flight-AIBF-300x95.jpg 300w, https://itsoktobeweird.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/03/Where-Dreams-Take-Flight-AIBF-1024x323.jpg 1024w, https://itsoktobeweird.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/03/Where-Dreams-Take-Flight-AIBF-900x284.jpg 900w" sizes="(max-width: 4275px) 100vw, 4275px" /></a></figure></div>



<p>I have been down on the launch field now, and celebrated my 40th birthday at the Fiesta, camping out right next to the field.  It’s fantastic to be on the ground with the balloons when they launch in wave after wave during a Mass Ascension, and to walk between the warm tethered balloons in the chill fall night during a Balloon Glow.</p>



<p><strong>The Balloon Fiesta will always hold&nbsp;a very very special place in my heart, and the balloons will always be MY balloons. </strong></p>



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<p><em>A portion of this article was previously published as “</em><a href="http://itsoktobeweird.com/blog/2015/03/26/vote-for-the-albuquerque-international-balloon-fiesta/"><em>Vote for the Albuquerque International Balloon Fiesta</em></a><em>”.  </em></p>
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		<title type="html"><![CDATA[Missing music making]]></title>
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		<id>http://itsoktobeweird.com/?p=4280</id>
		<updated>2018-11-28T20:51:58Z</updated>
		<published>2018-11-28T20:34:26Z</published>
		<category scheme="https://itsoktobeweird.com/" term="Music" /><category scheme="https://itsoktobeweird.com/" term="OUCH" /><category scheme="https://itsoktobeweird.com/" term="creating music" /><category scheme="https://itsoktobeweird.com/" term="making music" /><category scheme="https://itsoktobeweird.com/" term="singing" />
		<summary type="html"><![CDATA[<p>Music really is my heart language. It nourishes and shapes my soul. But I haven't performed in years, and I’m missing the process and beauty of creating music.</p>
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					<content type="html" xml:base="https://itsoktobeweird.com/missing-music-making/"><![CDATA[<p><img decoding="async" class="alignright size-medium wp-image-4281" src="http://itsoktobeweird.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/11/music-is-my-language-300x199.jpg" alt="music is my language" width="300" height="199" />Music really is my heart language. It nourishes and shapes my soul.</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve always been a singer. And starting about age 5 I was playing the guitar. I added the fiddle starting at age 9, and picked up mandolin and dulcimer along the way.</p>
<p>I really began singing, in choir and other performances, in middle school. My life in high school was filled with making music &#8211; choir, swing choir, musical theatre.</p>
<p>University found me busy with engineering study and academics, and I only sang a special song at church once in that time, then finally got back into choir my very last semester.</p>
<p>My husband is / was a pastor, and participating in church worship and on worship teams was very natural for me. Singing always seemed to put me back at rights with the world. I was very active with music in all our churches, but one (where my depression overtook me to the point that I could not even get to the music).</p>
<p>I haven&#8217;t &#8216;performed&#8217; in years. Only one of my family members seems to appreciate my singing around the house very much. I think they&#8217;re used to it, or (for at least one of them) it doesn&#8217;t even register because music isn&#8217;t their thing.</p>
<p>I’m missing the process and beauty of creating music &#8211;</p>
<p>voices blending, instruments layering,<br />
crescendos, decrescendos,<br />
majors, minors, tonics,<br />
micro moments of intensity,<br />
and macro minutes of satisfaction.</p>
<p>Not the response from those listening (though I’m always blessed when my music touches someone else), but the connection between musicians, between singers, and the way the music fills my physical body, but also my spirit.</p>
<p>Music really gives me life, making music fills me in ways I can&#8217;t describe, and I’m missing precious parts of that right now.</p>
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		<title type="html"><![CDATA[Overwhelmed with everyday blocks]]></title>
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		<id>http://itsoktobeweird.com/?p=4271</id>
		<updated>2018-11-22T03:32:48Z</updated>
		<published>2018-11-22T03:30:26Z</published>
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		<summary type="html"><![CDATA[<p>They relentlessly tumble off the pile at me, even as I try to keep them balanced, to keep putting them back in place, ones and twos and threes at a time.</p>
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					<content type="html" xml:base="https://itsoktobeweird.com/overwhelmed-with-everyday-blocks/"><![CDATA[<p>Overwhelmed with everyday blocks.</p>
<p>They relentlessly tumble off the pile at me, even as I try to keep them balanced, to keep putting them back in place, ones and twos and threes at a time.</p>
<p>It all starts when my unsteady hand causes one piece to wobble.</p>
<p><img decoding="async" class="size-medium wp-image-4273 alignright" src="http://itsoktobeweird.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/11/building-blocks-1563961_1920-300x200.jpg" alt="scattered blocks" width="300" height="200" srcset="https://itsoktobeweird.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/11/building-blocks-1563961_1920-300x200.jpg 300w, https://itsoktobeweird.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/11/building-blocks-1563961_1920-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https://itsoktobeweird.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/11/building-blocks-1563961_1920-1080x720.jpg 1080w, https://itsoktobeweird.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/11/building-blocks-1563961_1920.jpg 1920w" sizes="(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px" />It knocks the next one out of its space, which bumps the next one, which nudges the next one, which pushes the next one, which unlodges the next one, which upsets the next one, until<br />
two, three, four, five and more come plummeting down from the stack, and scatter, clatter around me in a mess.</p>
<p>And then, for a moment, at least, nothing is falling.<br />
A hint of control and peace, for a moment.</p>
<p>Do I gather the cubes around me, and try to add them back to the stack? Do I remember where each one goes? Can I get them to fit together like they did before?</p>
<p>Or</p>
<p>Do I somehow work from the teetering tower in front of me? Do I even see a starting place? Can I keep what&#8217;s left in order?</p>
<p>Either way, I know I&#8217;ll misplace a block, and the tumbling will start again.</p>
<p>Once I was an expert stacker, a clever packer, a tower builder and block keeper. Blocks were easy to handle, my hands were steady, my mind was sharp.</p>
<p>Today I am an expert fumbler, a clever crumbler, a tower breaker and scattering-block leaper. *A* block is sometimes too much to handle, my hands are unsure, and my mind&#8230; my mind is overwhelmed, with everyday blocks.</p>
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		<title type="html"><![CDATA[Apple Butter Recipe &#8211; updated]]></title>
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		<id>http://itsoktobeweird.com/?p=4245</id>
		<updated>2018-09-17T12:24:25Z</updated>
		<published>2018-09-17T12:24:25Z</published>
		<category scheme="https://itsoktobeweird.com/" term="Food" /><category scheme="https://itsoktobeweird.com/" term="apple butter" /><category scheme="https://itsoktobeweird.com/" term="Apples" /><category scheme="https://itsoktobeweird.com/" term="canning" /><category scheme="https://itsoktobeweird.com/" term="cooking" /><category scheme="https://itsoktobeweird.com/" term="recipe" />
		<summary type="html"><![CDATA[<p>After many more batches of apple butter, I have an even better recipe, I think. It's even closer to what my Great Grandma used to make!</p>
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<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>Several years ago I posted an apple butter recipe that I had used faithfully for a few seasons. This year, after many more batches of apple butter, I have an even better recipe, I think. It&#8217;s even closer to what my Great Grandma used to make!</p>
<p><img decoding="async" class="alignright wp-image-4246" src="http://itsoktobeweird.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/09/GGs-Apple-Butter-Recipe.jpg" alt="Great Grandma's Apple Butter Recipe" width="350" height="550" srcset="https://itsoktobeweird.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/09/GGs-Apple-Butter-Recipe.jpg 637w, https://itsoktobeweird.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/09/GGs-Apple-Butter-Recipe-191x300.jpg 191w, https://itsoktobeweird.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/09/GGs-Apple-Butter-Recipe-300x471.jpg 300w" sizes="(max-width: 350px) 100vw, 350px" />The changes come mostly from having found a copy of GG&#8217;s recipe, and doing lots of calculations on amounts for the ingredients. GG&#8217;s recipe was pretty basic &#8211; lots of &#8216;by guess and by golly&#8217; that she was famous for!</p>
<p><strong>Here&#8217;s the recipe with rough ingredient amounts for a few different batch sizes.</strong></p>
<h2><strong>Apple Butter</strong></h2>
<p><strong>(makes about 2 quarts)</strong><br />
<strong><a name="more"></a></strong></p>
<p><strong>Ingredients:</strong></p>
<ul>
<li>4 lbs apples (~ 16 cups cut up) – a variety can be used if you like</li>
<li>1 cup demerra sugar (or brown sugar)</li>
<li>1 cup organic raw sugar (or regular refined white sugar)</li>
<li>1 cup pressed unsweetened apple juice (or apple cider or water)</li>
<li>pinch sea salt</li>
<li>1 tsp cinnamon</li>
<li>1/2 tsp ground cloves</li>
<li>1/2 tsp ground allspice</li>
<li>1/4 tsp nutmeg</li>
<li>1 lemon (optional) or 1/4 cup apple cider vinegar</li>
</ul>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p><strong>Directions:</strong><br />
1. If you will be canning the apple butter, you will need to get your jars, lids, and rings ready.  In a large pot or water bath canner, cover empty jars with water and boil 10 minutes. Turn heat off and drop lids in.<span id="more-4245"></span></p>
<p>2. Peel, core, and cut up the apples.  Combine with the cider, juice or water with the apples in a heavy stockpan or canning pot and cook until the apples are soft.<a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_a2TMu4RaQzQ/THh9NyfyPAI/AAAAAAAAAVA/dWhjEypCHt4/s1600/IMG_9780.JPG"><img decoding="async" class="alignright" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_a2TMu4RaQzQ/THh9NyfyPAI/AAAAAAAAAVA/dWhjEypCHt4/s200/IMG_9780.JPG" width="200" height="150" border="0" /></a></p>
<p>3. Add sugars, salt, spices, and (if you’re using it) the juice from the lemon or vinegar.  Continue to cook over low heat, stirring frequently (almost constantly as it thickens) to prevent sticking, until the mixture is very thick. (The desired thickness will allow you to heap it onto a spoon without running off the sides or flattening out on the spoon.)  You’ll need to mash the apples as you stir from time to time to help them cook down properly – I used to use a potato masher.<a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_a2TMu4RaQzQ/THh7oV9WpmI/AAAAAAAAAU4/TRBLWlUn2nQ/s1600/colander.jpg"><img decoding="async" class="alignright" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_a2TMu4RaQzQ/THh7oV9WpmI/AAAAAAAAAU4/TRBLWlUn2nQ/s200/colander.jpg" width="200" height="200" border="0" /></a></p>
<p>4. For a finer (less coarse) butter, you may choose to put the mixture through a food processor, blender, or manual colander (like my GG always did!).  [This step can also be done BEFORE you add the sugars and spices. See ** notes at the end.] Return to the pot to reheat and stir well.</p>
<p>5. Fill your jars/containers to 1/2 inch from the top with apple butter.  Then process for proper jarring/canning/preserving (water bath, freezing, whatever you choose).  We jar ours usually in quart/liter class canning jars.</p>
<p>6. Any apple butter you haven’t canned or frozen needs to be refrigerated and used relatively soon.  The only preservative is the lemon juice (if you use it).</p>
<p>The length of time it takes for this recipe varies depending on how moist your apples are and how thick you want your apple butter to be.  Regardless, it easily takes a few hours to make a batch of apple butter.  The most time intensive part is either the peeling, coring and cutting, or the cooking down of the apples.  Many recipes call for using a slow cooker for the cooking.</p>
<blockquote><p>** For several years now we have been fortunate enough to have a <a href="https://www.amazon.com/gp/search?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=fivewalls-20&amp;linkCode=ur2&amp;linkId=ba1b254ba1eed5f36addaa59b2c7bf29&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=9325&amp;index=kitchen&amp;keywords=steam juicer" target="_blank" rel="noopener">steam juicer</a><img decoding="async" style="border: none !important; margin: 0px !important;" src="//ir-na.amazon-adsystem.com/e/ir?t=fivewalls-20&amp;l=ur2&amp;o=1" alt="" width="1" height="1" border="0" />, as well as a <a href="https://amzn.to/2Oqs8dE" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Fruit &amp; Vegetable Strainer</a> attachment for our Kitchen Aid mixer. Both of these pieces of equipment have made our apple processing a MILLION times faster and easier.</p>
<p><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Giantex-Vegetables-Stainless-Multipurpose-Furniture/dp/B07H7L6WGD/ref=as_li_ss_il?ie=UTF8&amp;qid=1537185279&amp;sr=8-21-spons&amp;keywords=steam+juicer&amp;psc=1&amp;linkCode=li1&amp;tag=fivewalls-20&amp;linkId=d703e22e677693a4517563ef51df39e4&amp;language=en_US" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><img decoding="async" class="alignright" src="//ws-na.amazon-adsystem.com/widgets/q?_encoding=UTF8&amp;ASIN=B07H7L6WGD&amp;Format=_SL110_&amp;ID=AsinImage&amp;MarketPlace=US&amp;ServiceVersion=20070822&amp;WS=1&amp;tag=fivewalls-20&amp;language=en_US" border="0" /></a><img decoding="async" style="border: none !important; margin: 0px !important;" src="https://ir-na.amazon-adsystem.com/e/ir?t=fivewalls-20&amp;language=en_US&amp;l=li1&amp;o=1&amp;a=B07H7L6WGD" alt="" width="1" height="1" border="0" />For instance, instead of coring and peeling the apples, now we only wash the apples, cut off the bruises or bad spots, quarter them, and put them into the steam juicer. The steam juicer extracts so much juice from the apples, leaving the pulp and cores and skins in the colander.</p>
<p><a href="https://amzn.to/2Oqs8dE"><img decoding="async" class="alignright wp-image-4248" src="http://itsoktobeweird.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/09/strainer-attachment-for-kitchen-aid-300x298.png" alt="strainer attachment for Kitchen Aid grinder" width="150" height="149" srcset="https://itsoktobeweird.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/09/strainer-attachment-for-kitchen-aid-300x298.png 300w, https://itsoktobeweird.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/09/strainer-attachment-for-kitchen-aid-150x150.png 150w, https://itsoktobeweird.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/09/strainer-attachment-for-kitchen-aid.png 598w" sizes="(max-width: 150px) 100vw, 150px" /></a>We take the pulp mixture and run it through the Strainer attachment on the Kitchen Aid. The strainer removes all the skins, peels, and cores, leaving us with perfect apple sauce. We can apple sauce, too, so we have jars of apple sauce all winter long!</p>
<p>With that beautiful apple sauce, I make GG&#8217;s apple butter, starting at the point where you put the sugar and spices in. Using apple sauce, instead of just cooking down the apples, makes the process of cooking down go a lot faster, as well.</p>
<p><a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/B003OAJGJO/ref=as_li_ss_il?_encoding=UTF8&amp;th=1&amp;linkCode=li1&amp;tag=fivewalls-20&amp;linkId=139e5564289445de3b62305a16cc5a3d&amp;language=en_US" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><img decoding="async" class="alignright" src="//ws-na.amazon-adsystem.com/widgets/q?_encoding=UTF8&amp;ASIN=B003OAJGJO&amp;Format=_SL110_&amp;ID=AsinImage&amp;MarketPlace=US&amp;ServiceVersion=20070822&amp;WS=1&amp;tag=fivewalls-20&amp;language=en_US" border="0" /></a><img decoding="async" style="border: none !important; margin: 0px !important;" src="https://ir-na.amazon-adsystem.com/e/ir?t=fivewalls-20&amp;language=en_US&amp;l=li1&amp;o=1&amp;a=B003OAJGJO" alt="" width="1" height="1" border="0" />At this point, I&#8217;m also using a 3rd piece of equipment which allows me the freedom to do other things while the apples are cooking down &#8211; a genuine <a href="https://www.amazon.com/gp/search?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=fivewalls-20&amp;linkCode=ur2&amp;linkId=cbeb9ffa6d7295311b0945df4cd602e6&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=9325&amp;index=kitchen&amp;keywords=crock pot" target="_blank" rel="noopener">slow cooker</a><img decoding="async" style="border: none !important; margin: 0px !important;" src="//ir-na.amazon-adsystem.com/e/ir?t=fivewalls-20&amp;l=ur2&amp;o=1" alt="" width="1" height="1" border="0" />! We have a 7-qt <a href="https://www.amazon.com/l/3270395011?&amp;_encoding=UTF8&amp;tag=fivewalls-20&amp;linkCode=ur2&amp;linkId=97a17263a210caca809d7a95a32ac8be&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=9325" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Crock-Pot</a><img decoding="async" style="border: none !important; margin: 0px !important;" src="//ir-na.amazon-adsystem.com/e/ir?t=fivewalls-20&amp;l=ur2&amp;o=1" alt="" width="1" height="1" border="0" /> brand cooker. I can fill that thing full (or 1/2 full) with apple sauce and all the fixings, set it on LOW (1), and then set myself a timer to stir the mix every 30 minutes. I also use a toothpick or bbq skewer to stick in the lid to vent it a bit &#8211; this lets the moisture escape and the sauce will cook down better.  Using my slow cooker, I have no scorching in a couple of years now, after I figured out that you really do have to stir the mixture a lot still.</p></blockquote>
<p>You may choose to fiddle with the amount or kinds of sugar you put in, as well as the mix of spices.  I’ve gotten &#8220;our&#8221; perfect mix of spices now, I think.</p>
<p>I will also double or triple the recipe at a time so I can get more done.  Tripling is just about too much, though, as the mixture gets really heavy and is more likely to scorch or stick to the pan/pot.</p>
<p><img decoding="async" class="alignright size-medium wp-image-4250" src="http://itsoktobeweird.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/09/canned-apple-butter-202x300.jpg" alt="apple butter preserved in glass jars" width="202" height="300" srcset="https://itsoktobeweird.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/09/canned-apple-butter-202x300.jpg 202w, https://itsoktobeweird.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/09/canned-apple-butter-300x446.jpg 300w, https://itsoktobeweird.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/09/canned-apple-butter.jpg 538w" sizes="(max-width: 202px) 100vw, 202px" /></p>
<p><strong>Here are a few of my calculations for the fixings you need for different amounts of apple sauce.</strong></p>
<p>4lbs of apples = about 16 cups cut up = about 10 cups of pulp/sauce</p>
<p><strong>Full Crock Pot (close to 7 quarts of apple sauce)</strong><br />
3 cups white sugar<br />
5 cups brown sugar<br />
4 tsp cinnamon<br />
2 tsp cloves<br />
2 tsp allspice<br />
1 tsp nutmeg (this is the one people usually leave out)<br />
about 2/3 cup apple cider vinegar (or juice from 1 large lemon)<br />
<em>Makes 6 finished quarts, plus a little left over.</em></p>
<p><strong>1/2 of my CrockPot (about 3.5 quarts of apple sauce)</strong><br />
1 1/2 cups white sugar<br />
2 1/2 cups brown sugar<br />
2 tsp cinnamon<br />
1 tsp cloves<br />
1 tsp allspice<br />
1/2 tsp nutmeg<br />
slightly less than 1/2 cup apple cider vinegar (or juice from 1 small lemon)<br />
<em>Makes 3 finished quarts with a little left over. </em></p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>ENJOY! And if you make apple butter, please let me know. I&#8217;d love to know how you like it!</p>
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		<title type="html"><![CDATA[Updating My Website &#8211; Renovations]]></title>
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		<updated>2018-09-04T19:37:30Z</updated>
		<published>2018-09-04T19:37:30Z</published>
		<category scheme="https://itsoktobeweird.com/" term="Technology" /><category scheme="https://itsoktobeweird.com/" term="forgotten website" /><category scheme="https://itsoktobeweird.com/" term="renovating website" /><category scheme="https://itsoktobeweird.com/" term="revamping website" /><category scheme="https://itsoktobeweird.com/" term="updating website" />
		<summary type="html"><![CDATA[<p>Updating a sadly mistreated website takes a little bit of time, but it's definitely worth it!</p>
<p>The post <a href="https://itsoktobeweird.com/updating-my-website-renovations/">Updating My Website &#8211; Renovations</a> appeared first on <a href="https://itsoktobeweird.com">It&#039;s OK to be WEIRD!</a>.</p>
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					<content type="html" xml:base="https://itsoktobeweird.com/updating-my-website-renovations/"><![CDATA[<p>Undergoing a few renovations around the blog right now. I&#8217;ve very sadly mistreated my website for the last while, and I&#8217;m reviving things over here slowly but surely.</p>
<p><img decoding="async" class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-4238" src="http://itsoktobeweird.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/09/miniature-figure-construction-chocolate.jpg" alt="website under renovations - we're eating chocolate" width="640" height="384" srcset="https://itsoktobeweird.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/09/miniature-figure-construction-chocolate.jpg 640w, https://itsoktobeweird.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/09/miniature-figure-construction-chocolate-300x180.jpg 300w" sizes="(max-width: 640px) 100vw, 640px" /></p>
<p>What&#8217;s goes into updating a forgotten website?</p>
<ul>
<li>Updating themes, and plugins.</li>
<li>In my case, changing themes to better suit my interests and blogging style.</li>
<li>Removing outdated information.</li>
<li>Adding relevant information.</li>
<li>Getting back into the groove of posting!</li>
<li>Chocolate, of course, for helping to cope with any update-related stresses! 😉</li>
</ul>
<p>It could have been worse&#8230; at least I had a fully functioning site to come back to. Some people lose everything if they leave it too long, even letting hosting and domain registrations lapse. YIKES!</p>
<p>Anywho, there&#8217;s never a shortage of weirdness in my life, or in the world, so there&#8217;s always some fabulousness to share. Keep an eye out here for the new stuff soon!</p>
<p>The post <a href="https://itsoktobeweird.com/updating-my-website-renovations/">Updating My Website &#8211; Renovations</a> appeared first on <a href="https://itsoktobeweird.com">It&#039;s OK to be WEIRD!</a>.</p>
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