Jabo's Way

The Yen and Yang or Bipolar Ramblings

Tue, 20 May 2008 16:00:40 GMT

The start of a new blog even when I don't keep up with my old one.

I have often thought about the duality of nature. Positive and negative aspects of the same thing, two sides to every story, the view from here, seeing life through rose colored glasses, optimistic or pessimistic, and no two eye witness describe the same scene. Much of my personal philosophy comes from these contemplations. Often our reality is of our own making and not the same reality shared by others. Over the years in my attempts to define truths that I believe are universal I came up with this statement "Proper focus brings, clarity of mind, strength of spirit, and an able body making all things possible." Often Truths can be difficult to see. In the star wars saga there is an especially revealing line from Qui-Gon "Your focus determines your reality" or in Biblical terms:"For as a man thinks within himself, so he is (Proverbs 23:7) or Reality, in Buddhist thought, would be described as the manifestation of karma, part of the process of impermanence, similar to the Hindu concept of Maya. Given this line of thought I intend to use this blog to post at least two different views or arguments about topics. Each post will have at least two view points sometimes more. We can all try to get to the "truth" of the matter.

New Blog: The Yen and Yang or Bipolar Ramblings

Welcome the Irregulars

Mon, 05 May 2008 13:26:29 GMT

One of the things that really irritates me about politics is how things are painted in a very left or right light. You are either Democrat or Republican, Conservative or Liberal, Right Wing or Left Wing. I happen to think that it takes both wings for the Eagle to soar.

I call myself an irregular. I know many would say you are an independent, but I don't happen to think so. If you must agree with xyz to be on one side and abc on the other and independents are well independent of everyone else. Then I must be irregular. I don't fit into any of these categories. I also do not like to be told I am in the middle of the road. To me this would indicate that I am unable to make up my mind. to the contrary I am very decisive about things. So if I am not like regular people I must be irregular.

Of course I get some pretty strange looks when the conversation turns to politics and everyone is proclaiming their affiliations. "I am a democrat", "I am a Republican", "I have gone Green" and I reply " I'm irregular".

What about you are you regular?

Some further fodder for the furnace: Who should an irregular person vote for?

From my prospective, it seems my choices are a former US military officer and pilot or a former lawyer(Hillary and Barack were both lawyers). Hmmmm

Social What

Thu, 01 May 2008 13:30:13 GMT

I recently ran across a post that stimulated some additional political thinking. In his blog Justin Lately comments on "Social Security" by referencing the Christian Bible and the rewards of being charitable. Many religions establish a moral cause and obligation of their followers to be charitable. I pose the question then what should the role of government be in this endeavor to take care of those needing assistance?
Not wanting to pose questions that I am unwilling to answer, I will respond here and link back.
Here in the USA the founding fathers set forth a direction of government that left many things to the states. During colonial times people were governed more by local governments and it was determined that those local governments could provide better services in some areas while they needed to band together on others like national defense. Two specific things left out of federal government were welfare and education. There are many who believe that this was an over site, and in the 20th century many new programs were brought into the federal level of government. New taxes were created and while the states are said to control these things they must do so at the direction of the federal government if they want to receive the money to support the programs.
It is my considered opinion that we have taken a wrong turn in this matter. Education and welfare belong at a more local level. These governmental services are much better managed when addressed to the localized needs of American citizens. For example the needs of the population in a city like San Francisco, California population ~750,000, are much different than the needs of a citizen in Nichols Hills, Oklahoma population ~4,000. I see no problem with establishing some Federal guidelines about the minimum services that are recommended, but the taxing power and implementation should be as local as possible to prohibit waste and abuse. I also think that medical services should be part of that same system.
Lets take for example utilities. Would we suggest that since we think everyone should be able to heat their home during extreme cold that the federal government should assume responsibility for the utility that provides this service. A new tax to fund the project would be needed and yet more money flows into the federal government and away from city county and state government. Until now it has been determined that this same utility is better provided for by private enterprise. Yet in some communities (usually smaller) the city or a cooperative has taken charge because there is not enough profit in their area to entice private enterprise to provide the service.
Bottom line these are not things that are easily or efficiently managed over the vast differences in our country. The federal government should suggest minimum services that should be provided to American citizens and let the local government handle it from there. Oh, and you might notice I said "Citizens" but we will leave that for another post.

Political Quote 4

Wed, 30 Apr 2008 14:46:00 GMT

"In case you missed it, a few days ago Senator Clinton tried to spend $1 million on the Woodstock Concert Museum. Now, ladies and gentlemen, I wasn't there. I'm sure it was a cultural and pharmaceutical event. I was tied up at the time."

--John McCain

Political Quote 3

Wed, 30 Apr 2008 14:22:21 GMT

"We are going to take things away from you on behalf of the common good."

--Hillary Clinton

Political Quote 2

Wed, 30 Apr 2008 14:13:40 GMT

'No arsenal, no weapon in the arsenals of the world is so formidable as the will and moral courage of free men everywhere.'

-- Ronald Reagan

Political Quote 1

Wed, 30 Apr 2008 14:03:38 GMT

'My friends, we live in the greatest nation in the history of the world.
I hope you'll join with me as we try to change it.'
-- Barack Obama

Life's Milestones

Mon, 28 Apr 2008 18:17:32 GMT

A Hard Woman is Good to Find!

A Good Woman is Hard to Find!

Tomorrow marks a special day in my family. It is the day it all officially began. We will celebrate our 19th wedding anniversary on April 29th 2008. My wife and I became fast friends when we first met and over the next few years and many tribulations our relationship grew. I would have to say that probably the turning point was a time when we thought we would no longer be friends. A few months of missing someone who is that important to you tends to make you realize the true value of those relationships. When we again began to share our lives it only took a month or so for us to become engaged.

There are many people that tell us "You've been married so long and still act like you love one another, how do you do it?" Our response is typically "Not only that but we like each other too!" It is not uncommon for modern marriages to breakup after short periods of time. Many people equate this to the honeymoon wearing off. I'm not sure about all the societal and psychological explanations but I have made some observations.

Everyone needs to retain a portion of their individuality while enjoying the common aspects of the couple personality. There needs to be space to let the girls be girls and the boys be boys. The line gets drawn when the activities are damaging to the trust and security of the other. For example she might use some of our money to go buy the latest fashion and I will use a little to buy the latest gadget, but neither of us would make that purchase if it prevented the other from doing so.(mutual respect) Often on anniversaries we have made the big purchases in cooperation with each other, the new multimedia center or dining room set as examples.(common items of agreement) I use money issues as examples because surveys show this is one of the top reasons people split up. But, the rules also apply to other aspects of the relationship.

I suppose that in most relationships people tend to accidentally break that trust(you bought that without discussing it with me). I think the key to making forgiveness easier is to remember the promises you made when you got married and the reasons you were so willing to make those commitments. I often tell my wife I Love Her.(she usually responds in kind but occasionally at tense moments she may respond who are you trying to remind me or you :-)) When we think of the love that we hold for each other and when things are put into prospective that is something that she and I know will never change. That security makes us both feel that we can speak our minds.(and we do) One more piece of advice, don't take yourself too seriously. If you take care of them they will take care of you.

Recently, we were discussing the future relationships of our children and by the end of the discussion it was commonly agreed that we hope they are lucky and diligent enough to find and work with a person that they can have the same kind of relationship as their parents have with each other. I know your thinking spare me the mushy stuff but it is true. I am very proud of the relationship my wife and I have and of the family we have built together. I wish the same for you. Yes I did say work, it takes two people to make a good relationship. Work is a key component of any relationship. It is in our nature to self preserve. When two become one, it is sometimes hard to remind ourselves that self now includes family.

Hey you gorgeous babe Happy Anniversary!

Wear your seatbelt don’t run with scissors and drink milk

Fri, 25 Apr 2008 17:02:08 GMT

Had to share this one when it was brought to my attention.

Semper Fi Brother, and keep up the good fight!

USA GoJu 10 Virtues

Wed, 23 Apr 2008 13:54:59 GMT

I first enter USA Goju in 1976 under the instruction of Sensei Gene Cross. Master Peter Urban was the head of the organization. As a white belt one of our first lessons was to memorize and live by the 10 Virtues of GoJu Karate. I am unaware of the origin of these virtues, but even as a 10 year old I recognized their value and still try to remain loyal to them.

1. We are proud to be Karateka.

2. We shall always practice and study.

3. We shall be quick to seize opportunity.

4. We shall always practice patience.

5. We shall keep the fighting spirit.

6. We shall block soft and hit hard.

7. We shall believe nothing is impossible.

8. We shall always discard the bad.

9. We shall always keep the good.

10. We shall be loyal to ourselves, karate, and our country.

*Notes to readers:

Karateka is a student of Karate

Being loyal to ourselves - translates to being loyal to your beliefs and your family.

Polical History Lesson

Wed, 23 Apr 2008 13:10:32 GMT

Another email passed along the road that is interesting, but not fact checked to be sure. Please if anyone finds error in this post comment. i don't have the time nor the historic interest to look it up.

Your Social Security

Just in case some of you young whippersnappers (and some older ones) didn't know this. It's easy to check out, if you don't believe it. Be sure and show it to your kids. They need a little history lesson on what's what.

Our Social Security

Franklin Roosevelt, a Democrat, introduced the Social Security (FICA) Program. He promised:

1.) That participation in the Program would be completely voluntary,

2.) That the participants would only have to pay 1% of the first $1,400 of their annual incomes into the Program,

3.) That the money the participants elected to put into the Program would be deductible from their income for tax purposes each year,

4.) That the money the participants put into the independent "Trust Fund" rather than into the General Operating Fund, and therefore, would only be used to fund the Social Security Retirement Program, and no other government program, and,

5.) That the annuity payments to the retirees would never be taxed as income.

Since many of us have paid into FICA for years and are now receiving a Social Security check every month -- and then finding that we are getting taxed on 85% of the money we paid to the Federal Government to "put it away" - you may be interested in the following:

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Q: Which Political Party took Social Security from the independent "Trust Fund" and put it into the General Fund so that Congress could spend it?

A: It was Lyndon Johnson and the Democratically controlled House and Senate.

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Q: Which Political Party eliminated the income tax deduction for Social Security (FICA) withholding?

A: The Democratic Party.

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Q: Which Political Party started taxing Social Security annuities?

A: The Democratic Party, with Al Gore casting the "tie-breaking" deciding vote as President of the Senate, while he was Vice President of the U.S.

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Q: Which Political Party decided to start giving annuity payments to immigrants?

AND MY FAVORITE:

A: That's right, it was Jimmy Carter and the Democratic Party.
Immigrants moved into this country, and at age 65, began to receive Social Security payments! The Democratic Party authorized these payments for them, even though they never paid a dime into the Program!

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Then, after violating the original contract (FICA), the Democrats turn around and tell you that the Republicans want to take your Social Security away! Even more, they blame the Republicans for taking the Program down the road to bankruptcy.

And the worst part about it is, uninformed citizens believe it!

If enough people receive this, maybe a seed of awareness will be planted and maybe changes will evolve. Maybe not, some Democrats are awfully
sure of what isn't so.

Actions speak louder than bumper stickers!!!

Marine Corp Prayer

Sun, 20 Apr 2008 18:19:28 GMT

Almighty Father, whose command is over all and whose love never fails, make me aware of Thy presence and obedient to Thy will. Keep me true to my best self, guarding me against dishonesty in purpose in deed and helping me to live so that I can face my fellow Marines, my loved ones and Thee without shame or fear. Protect my family. Give me the will to do the work of a Marine and to accept my share of responsibilities with vigor and enthusiasm. Grant me the courage to be proficient in my daily performance. Keep me loyal and faithful to my superiors and to the duties my country and the Marine Corps have entrusted to me. Make me considerate of those committed to my leadership. Help me to wear my uniform with dignity, and let it remind me daily of the traditions which I must uphold.
If I am inclined to doubt; steady my faith; if I am tempted, make me strong to resist; if I should miss the mark, give me courage to try again. Guide me with the light of truth and grant me wisdom by which I may understand the answer to my prayer.

Amen.

Desiderata

Fri, 18 Apr 2008 15:02:06 GMT

In my youth I ran across this verse and took it to heart. I like to share it whenever I can, so I hope you enjoy. There ia a tremendous back story that can be found on Wikipedia.

Desiderata
Go placidly amid the noise and haste,
and remember what peace there may be in silence.
As far as possible without surrender
be on good terms with all persons.
Speak your truth quietly and clearly;
and listen to others,
even the dull and the ignorant;
they too have their story.
Avoid loud and aggressive persons,
they are vexations to the spirit.
If you compare yourself with others,
you may become vain and bitter;
for always there will be greater and lesser persons than yourself.
Enjoy your achievements as well as your plans.
Keep interested in your own career, however humble;
it is a real possession in the changing fortunes of time.
Exercise caution in your business affairs;
for the world is full of trickery.
But let this not blind you to what virtue there is;
many persons strive for high ideals;
and everywhere life is full of heroism.
Be yourself.
Especially, do not feign affection.
Neither be cynical about love;
for in the face of all aridity and disenchantment
it is as perennial as the grass.
Take kindly the counsel of the years,
gracefully surrendering the things of youth.
Nurture strength of spirit to shield you in sudden misfortune.
But do not distress yourself with dark imaginings.
Many fears are born of fatigue and loneliness.
Beyond a wholesome discipline,
be gentle with yourself.
You are a child of the universe,
no less than the trees and the stars;
you have a right to be here.
And whether or not it is clear to you,
no doubt the universe is unfolding as it should.
Therefore be at peace with God,
whatever you conceive Him to be,
and whatever your labors and aspirations,
in the noisy confusion of life keep peace with your soul.
With all its sham, drudgery, and broken dreams,
it is still a beautiful world.
Be cheerful.
Strive to be happy.
Max Ehrmann, 1952

Lessons to Learn

Thu, 17 Apr 2008 01:46:19 GMT

We have all received them, you know, those emails that are forwarded around time after time. Well today I read one that had some really good content to think about. In our modern age with so much to learn it is often difficult for some to understand the difference between rights and privileges. One of the main lessons I have tried to instill in my children is that the things that they have, are earned, not owed to them because they exist. These things may not always be earned by them, but by someone somewhere who cares about them. If they can not repay the debt they have created, then they should at least gratefully thank their benefactor and treat the thing with the utmost respect.

This has also been one of our methods of discipline. My children must earn their privileges and pay for their mistakes with by giving up privileges. Now you have to understand that I have two wonderful girls and it is very difficult for me not to spoil them(and they know it :-) ). So there are many occasions when they get things that we have earned for them and they keep those things by showing their appreciation and respect. Many people in our country forget that the freedoms we enjoy have been earned and are protected by those in public service and by those in the Armed Services.

A Lesson That Should Be Taught In All Schools

Back in September of 2005, on the first day of school, Martha Cothren, a social studies school teacher at Robinson High School in Little Rock, did something not to be forgotten.

On the first day of school, with the permission of the school superintendent, the principal and the building supervisor, she removed all of the desks out of her classroom. When the first period kids entered the room they discovered that there were no desks. Looking around, confused, they asked, 'Ms. Cothren, where're our desks?' She replied, 'You can't have a desk until you tell me what you have done to earn the right to sit at a desk.'

They thought, 'Well, maybe it's our grades.' 'No,' she said. 'Maybe it's our behavior.' She told them, 'No, it's not even your behavior.' And so, they came and went, the first period, second period, third period. Still no desks in the classroom.

By early afternoon television news crews had started gathering in Ms. Cothren's classroom to report about this crazy teacher who had taken all the desks out of her room. The final period of the day came and as the puzzled students found seats on the floor of the deskless classroom. Martha Cothren said, 'Throughout the day no one has been able to tell me just what he/she has done to earn the right to sit at the desks that are ordinarily found in this classroom. Now I am going to tell you.'

At this point, Martha Cothren went over to the door of her classroom and opened it. Twenty-seven (27) U.S. Veterans, all in uniforms, walked into that classroom, each one carrying a school desk. The Vets began placing the school desks in rows, and then they would walk over and stand alongside the wall. By the time the last soldier had set the final desk in place those kids started to understand, perhaps for the first time in their lives, just how the right to sit at those desks had been earned.

Martha said, 'You didn't earn the right to sit at these desks. These heroes did it for you. They placed the desks here for you. Now, it's up to you to sit in them. It is your responsibility to learn, to be good students, to be good citizens. They paid the price so that you could have the freedom to get an education. Don't ever forget it.'

This is a true story, you can check it out on snopes. There is more to the story.

I wish everyone in America could be so lucky to have a teacher who cares enough to teach them not only how they get the privileges they enjoy, but also their responsibility as citizens to keep and respect what they have been provided with by others.

Politics in the Olympics what a shame

Sun, 13 Apr 2008 13:25:25 GMT

Every major city in the world would like the opportunity to host the Olympic games. The competition to host the event begins years in advance and is of itself fiercely competitive. The venue select years in advance gives the host city and country the opportunity to show the world their best side. They also must open their doors to the world. No matter how closed the government or society, for a period of time the doors and windows are open to the world. Little can be hidden when the world press is gathered together in one place.

In fact, I will make a prediction right here right and now that there will be as much as if not more coverage on life and times in China as there will be on the games themselves. Every investigative reporter from every country will be in China either on assignment or on vacation trying to right the story of a lifetime or the next ground breaking novel and it will have little to do with the athletes or the games themselves. This is exactly what we as citizens of the free world should be excited about and encouraging. This is, in my mind, the real purpose of the modern games. To bring the world together on common ground and have a great big party around one thing that we can all agree upon, regardless of nationality, religion or government. We can all compete in the games.

Instead, this year as in years past there are protest. We want to condemn the country and city that is going to act as the host. We protest the traditional flame traveling from Greece to China. We protest and try to stop the flame when it is being carried by our own athletes. The athletes who have worked so hard and are going to represent our country on the world stage. There are calls for dignitaries to boycott the opening ceremonies. In my opinion this is not a slight to the host country but a slight to the athletes of all countries. The ceremony will go on. The flame will be in China. Our failure to recognize the efforts of our athletes does little to damage Chinas image.

I am an avid supporter of the Olympics and the US Olympic team. I think the idea of the Olympics is near the top of the list as far as things we can do to bring about world peace.Every city that would host the games has some issue that others throughout the world might object to. The Olympics is a time to set those things aside and focus on coming together.

China will be forced to open their doors, and it will be difficult for them to hide the oppression of their people and human rights violations with the worlds eyes watching, for 2 weeks this year they will be forced to be an open society.

Once again the media has not covered well both sides of the issue. Here is a story about counter protesters. Didn't see that in the mass media reports. There are many who talk about how damaging the protest are becoming in Tibet. Many reports are emerging about rioters damaging businesses and homes. I can't image that these are the nonviolent protest called on by the Dali Lama or being reported by the world press.

I wish that we could just enjoy the peaceful spirit of the Olympic Games and bring the world together for a couple weeks without the intrusiveness of politics, religion, and government. Let China open their doors for a couple weeks and the reporters can then show the world what China has been up to. In the mean time lets support those that represent us and show them that we appreciate their efforts. One of the saddest times of my formative years was the boycotts of the 1980 and 1984 games. For me it took away the achievements of the games and left a distaste for the leaders that decided to take that action.

GO USA Olympic team. I'll be watching!

Even in Iraq they know the truth of the matter

Fri, 11 Apr 2008 18:02:02 GMT

I was fortunate enough today to run across an article by ABIGAIL HAUSLOHNER/BAGHDAD. The article is titled "A Baghdad View of the US Election". I have to say it was an interesting read and I wish there was more of it. Personally, I agree with Osama Hazim al-Shimari, a Baghdad street merchant, when he says "John McCain will be better for Iraq because he's the only one who has a logical view..." and "I support McCain not because he'll bring good things to Iraq, but at least what he says about withdrawing troops is honest."

While there is not a candidate in the running that represents all of my views and there probably never will be (because I'm not dumb enough to run), I would like to have a president that is going to tell me their honest view of situations and intended policies. Whether or not I agree I respect them for their honesty. Both Democratic candidates currently spout off about bringing the troops home as soon as possible. Well duh, but why make it sound like it is going to be sooner than later. It would be unconscionable to abandon Iraq in their time of critical need. I think most intelligent people realize this, including those in Iraq that do not care for America. They are not yet in a position to be able to take care of their own business so why make it sound like it is something that can be resolved quickly.

I am constantly hearing in the media about the violence and deaths occurring and rarely hear about the improvements being made. Yet, when I talk with or hear conversations from troops returning from Iraq, they speak mostly about building schools and establishing community services like electrical power, fire departments, hospitals, and schools. The network media outlets make it sound like we have 100,000 soldiers over there just waiting to be blown up or to blow up something. How about telling us less about the occasional violence taking place and more about the good works our troops are performing.

I know the first person to jump on here is going to scream "OCCASIONAL VIOLENCE" are you nuts. Uh, no, well maybe, 4,000 American soldiers in 5 years. How many Americans were murdered in the US during those 5 years? How many American troops died in the 5 years previous to the start of the Iraq war? How many cops are killed in the US in a 5 year period of time. No, I haven't look it up thats why I'm asking you. The point is that while it is more dangerous than the norm it is not unusual for American soldiers or law enforcement to sacrifice their lives to preserve the freedoms we have and enjoy. I also think it is pretty sad for candidates to use them to sway American public against helping Iraq.

I think the Iraqi opinion was in my mind pretty much summed up in the words of Sana Abdul Rahman, a middle school teacher, "Republican, Democrat, black, female; any person who comes to Iraq and makes it stable, I swear to God, I will die for him, give him a big kiss in front of millions and thank him. To the Americans, I say: Please keep your promises to us. We are very tired."

Lets keep our promises America! However long or hard it might be to do.