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How to know if he is possessive or hypocrite

2021-05-07T00:39:00.002+05:30

Nowadays men are becoming more hypocrites. That means they will have rules for you and no rules for themselves. Sometimes you cannot tell the difference where men/boyfriends have rules for your own good or for their own ego satisfaction. We will discuss some of the behavior changes which will tell you if he is a hypocrite or possessive. Before moving further let me know what type of relationship crisis are you facing and I can make some guidelines to get you out of the situation.

Rules about social media.

There are around 98% of a couple who had their fight about the social media platform(Facebook, Insta, Snapchat)you might wonder if he is being possessive or hypocrite. let's find below.

Possessive: if your boyfriend has a suggestion for you about your few male friends. Then he might be right cause boy knows better boys than girls. They will know what intention he has as a friend and he just wants you to be safe. you should appreciate that there is someone in your life who cares for you. Don't think that he is not giving you space/Privacy. Put your ego aside and make sure you appreciate that you have someone in your life to take care of you.

Hypocrite: When you notice that he have a problem every like every post or every pic you post on social media and he is asking you to unfollow/unfriend all male friends of yours then you will know he is a hypocrite and you should end it as soon as possible. One more reason to break up is that you will find him always using social media platform but asks you not use anymore. End it immediately don't wait till Christmas.

Rules about your dressing

there can numerous times where he will tell you that you should only wear full clothes and no more mini skirts spaghetti straps sleeveless etc, now how can you tell whether he is possessive or he is a hypocrite.

Possessive: These types of the boyfriend are the on who will tell you to dress properly instead of commenting how cheap you look. they will always try to give you the legitimate reason why they are acting like that .may be the area or the surrounding is not appropriate to the dress or style. after a while, you will be able to understand that the reason he is giving you that advice about your dressing. keep an open mind before getting into a fight.

Hypocrite: this type of boyfriends will give you 100 reason why you should change your style and wear full sleeves of full length dress. so how to know if he is possessive or hypocrite .there is a simple solution he will ask you to change your dressing sense permanently and won't be able to handle your modern styling of choices of dress. When you know he hates all of your wardrobe that means he is hypocrite.

Rules about every aspect of your life

Now dressing styling and social media is one thing but when you feel that the person is asking you to change everything for him them it’s confirmed that he is being selfish and don’t want you to have your opinion or thinking

Possessive: When you have boyfriend that really cares for you then you will know that he don’t hate you from where you belong or what are your surroundings .all they will care about is what type of person you are and what quality you have. Being possessive means he will respect every aspect of your life may won’t accept. May be he won’t like where you live or relatives or friends circle but he will eventually try to make you understand that you different he will try to make sure that you are safe and secure,

Hypocrite: Every aspect of your life will not be tolerated by him. All he will thinking about how to make you realize that he is doing you favor by accepting you and you should be lucky to have him. If you are in relationship similar to this situation then I would suggest you leave him and never look back even if it means you have to be alone forever.

The reason I am telling you is he will always make you feel the same way and instead of being partner he will be your boss and will make you feel in wanted all the time

If you like my topic please let me know in comment below as on which topic you feel girls like us need help.

5 Tips to overcome from relationship insecurity

2021-05-02T01:48:00.007+05:30

STOP BEING INSURE AND HAVE WHAT LIFE IS GIVING YOU INSTEAD OF HAVING FEELING OF LOSING......... IT TRY TO ENJOY!!!

I have been spending time on quora (where people ask questions )for a while where I got to know more than 60% have some type of insecurity in their relationship. today we will be working on the issue that why you have that insecurity and how you can overcome it. This is not limited to girls but even boys can read it and take advantage of it. If you like the ways I am about to tell you then please let me know in the below comments.

1.Past is Past

What is this insecurity is all about?

There are two types of security here

A.this is a type of security most people have when they are in 2 or 3 or more relationships than 1.the reason you have this insecurity is when you know that you have not ended the past relationship on good terms.

B.there are few incidents that happened in the past which you are afraid might affect your current relationship or future relationship. this incident is not related to your past relationships (love life) it is related to a traumatic incident with you or that happened to close ones. this can be dangerous one can kill your confidence to be in a relationship

How to overcome

In case A: Get closure (end the unresolved issue )that is the most important thing before you can go into any new relationship. The unresolved issue can give back all the bad memories and experiences you went through in the last relationship. If you have not done the full closure you might end up losing confidence to have a perfect long-term relationship.

In case B.I know the fact that giving advice is easy but following is difficult. Try to forget about the traumatizing situation that happened in the past is past." Everything that happens once can never happen twice. But everything that happens twice will surely happen a third time".trauma accident happens once and might happen again to you. Try to forget and move forward with life.ITs are not easy.Try to have baby steps. try to make friends, go outside have a hobby. life will give plenty of chances to have a beautiful and honest relationship/Life in the future. Don't hold yourself. Don't make it hard on your nobody can help you except you

An important point to remember

1.Be Honest

2.Have closure (with your ex or past)

3.Be confident

4.Lose the insecurity it won't help you. it will drag you down

2. Fear of Ex-boyfriend

What is this insecurity is all about:Either it will be point 1 or you have a feeling that your ex is still a better person than your current boyfriend/girlfriend. If you have felt like this you have insecurity to your relationship at the next level. there can be two possibilities one you are still in love with your ex or you have marked your standard too high that your current boy/girlfriend is not able to fulfill your needs.

How to overcome: You must understand past is past and as your ex is no more in your life you should not think or compare your current relationship to the previous one. your insecurity can cause you the current and happy relationship you have. Pst is never going to be your future stop trying to make him/her like your ex and accept the person as it is and have another beautiful experience. stop being insecure and have what life is giving you.

An important point to remember

1. 1,Stop comparing

2. 2. appreciate what you have now

3. 3.be true to him

4. Do not keep secret about a past relationship

3.Family, Class, etc

What is this insecurity is all about:I can tell you about Indian society where two people are more concerned about the family and their class difference before going into the relationship. Especially in India people where people prefer to fall in love with some from their class /cast. when you are in a relationship where the people are from different community cast then you tend to develop insecurity about the relationship and often fail to keep up the relationship

How to overcome:if you are confident enough to be in a relationship be confident to face the ups and down .there is nothing called free lunch. life won't give eveything on silver platter. you have to face those people.beign insrecure wont help you in long run. to overcome your insecurity you have to face the facts that people will and family and fight them. IF you love him/her you will know he/she is worth fighting .stop being insecure and start being confident

An important point to remember

Go with flow

Be confident

money age is just numbers

cast and creed is for uneducated ones

4.Beauty and the beast

What is this insecurity is all about:Most of the couples, these days are just more into the looks than the person underneath it. This is just one of the myths people have to develop insecurity between them.He/she deserves better OR in some cases, I deserve a better-looking person. When you are feeling this then you are partner will increase the insecurity about the relationship. don't let other people feel how beautiful or handsome a person can be and they are not .this type of behavior encourage to lose confidence in your partner

How to overcome:if you feel that person around you is making you feel insecure then you are in the wrong relationship. There can be two reasons the person is behaving one is where he wants you to be more confident and help you to grow your personality or he is more into someone he/she cannot have and you are in the wrong relationship. In either case, if you feel you need to develop you can take advise how one is looking or wearing right types of cloth or their confidence. And if you are interested in changing yourself then get out of the relationship this insecurity will be there if you keep having an insecure feeling.

An important point to remember

1. your decision to change yourself

2. Don't let anyone judge you

3. few changes won't hurt if you care for him/her

5. Education

What is this insecurity is all about: This type of insecurity arises in you when you feel another person is more educated more mature and more sensible than you. if you feel that whatever the person is saying should always be true, just because he more educated then you need to make some changes in your relationship, you have this feeling and as the days pass by these feelings will be getting stronger. Those people who have the insecurity is not limited to education it can be career-related status-related

How to overcome:Now there can be plenty of suggestions but as I have been through I can tell you it's so hard to overcome your insecurity. the important thing to remember is you are no less than any other girl you wish to be. the main key is confidence.If you don't have confidence pretend to have one .girls are very good at acting so it will create the illusion that you are not insecure and slowly and gradually overcome your security

An important point to remember

1. confidence is key

2. Act like your confidence

3. don't show your insecurity to anyone

7 ways to boost your confindence

2021-04-27T16:47:00.004+05:30

7 ways to boost your confidence

There are several ways proven to build your confidence but when we talk about love the rule have altogether a different set that needs to be understood. I can tell because I am in relation of 10 years and happily married to same person. I have few tips for you to be confident that even you can be in love. Let’s get started

1. He /she should be opposite to you:

Now there are two ways to look into this point

A. when you are you and you choose the person with same taste same hobbies same behavior it will drive him/her away .After a while there will be less things to talk about less things to care about and less things to think about each other. If you keep on meeting the same person you will drop your confidence drastically.

B. When person you choose is opposite to your taste style and behavior you tend to have more interesting conversations interesting way to spend time together and you will learn new thing about your partner. Dealing with all new things will boost your confidence and instead of hesitating in a relationship you will live happily

2. Analyze past mistakes

You need to work on the mistakes that you have done in past to make sure you are not repeating the same mistakes again and again. Think what made you end the relationship or what led to big fight all you have to worry about not repeating the same mistake. It will lead to lower your confidence in your future relationships

3. Don’t be too needy

Try to run the things on their own speed. If you think you are needy then take step back and try fix this problem first before going into the relationship. If you are needy your partner will sense it. Don’t ask for too much in little time of span. For example it’s been 2 months of relationship and you want her/his full attention you have to give them some space before asking for their 24*7 attention.

4. Drop your insecurity

If you know you have been insecure from the past relationship then you have to drop your insecurity. Your insecurity may become the reason to end relationship for your partner and more time it happens the more your confidence level go down. If you trust and love the person there is no place for insecurity in your relationship. If you are insecure then you are in wrong relationship

5. Self-respect

One of the main reasons for your low confidence is you lack of respect you have for yourself then don’t expect your partner to respect you .one of the reasons that you have more failed relationship then success one. Respect yourself your decisions and your partner will respect you and it will surely boost your confidence.

6. Give advice

It will helpful for your confidence when start giving suggestion when you will be able to think what is wrong and right you will then know that you are ready to be in relationship. More the advice you give more the situation you will come to know and you will have better handle on situation.

7. Flirt

flirting will be most important part of confidence try to flirt little if you are shy try to flirt online nowadays technology is vast and if you are shy try to flirt with chatting that will boost your confident and then try it on random girls (that means your female friends and does not mean any random girl) before you can flirt with crush. If you don't have female friends then I will give you some tips to make girl to become your friend soon. Keep checking the blog

PLEAE LET US KNOW WHAT TIPS YOU WANT AND IF YOU HAVING ANY LOVE LIFE CRISIS OR ISSUE FEEL FREE TO ASK US IN THE COMMENTS BELOW

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7 important things in relationship

2021-04-26T20:07:00.002+05:30

7 important things in relationship

If you have relationship or about to enter in relationship. These are the few important things you should think about and make sure everything is falling on the place.

1. Don’t tell anyone

Its you and him that matters in a relationship. If you share all the details and communication of your partner to other people they start running their imagination and they will start suggesting you what they feel without know him/her. Don’t tell everyone not even your best friend everything it will kill your relationship. If someone ask how it is going tell them usual relationship crisis or is all good.

2.Self respect

Respecting him/her as person is different than having self-respect of your won Being in a committed relationship will make you realize is not everything is about you or your selfish problems. Relationship will teach you to that other person is as important as you are but that doesn’t mean you lose your self-respect. You can change yourself for him/her but not too much. Anytime in relationship you fell that you are losing your self-respect in battle of winning him/her then it will best time you should end the relationship with him/her

3.Trust

It is the Important for you to trust the other person to be in relationship. If don’t trust other person no point of getting into the relationship

4.Honesty

Honesty is quality which is not for sale. If both of you are honest to each other than your relationship will run along .Honesty is one of the major reasons why relationship lasts longer than the hooks or time pass relationships. Honesty means be true to the person if no intention to cheat you don’t even have to try to be honest it will be there without any efforts

5. Respect

Going in relationship doesn’t mean you owe the other person .Try Respect each other’s decision his/her privacy their parent the things that other person have value. Respecting and valuing thing will make good impression on your loved ones. Try to respectful for the small thing he/she cares about

6. Communication

you might have hears a lot that communication is the key. Yes its true communication is the key to happy relationship. You should tell about if you are sad about his behavior or things he/she said. If you want to avoid constant fighting communicate with each other

7. Loyalty

Loyalty is when you tell him/her about your past and make sure you are not hiding anything which can damage your current relationship. If you take survey or check in google you will find those people who are loyal to each other have happy and long lasting relationship.

IF YOU HAVE ANY RELATIOSHIP CRISIS THAT YOU DON’T KNOW HOW TO DEAL WITH.ASK ME IN THE COMMENTS BELOW.WE WILL SURELY HELP YOU TO SAVE YOUR RELATIOSHIP

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How to steal Boyfriend

2012-09-15T11:16:00.001+05:30

How to Get a Guy to Break Up with His Girlfriend and Hook Up with You

Do you have a guy friend that is slowly but surely becoming attractive to you? Does he already have a girlfriend? Do you wanna go out with him? Then read this article, be patient and the results may end up in your favor.

Communication

1.Keep communication going. Try to talk to him more than he talks to his girlfriend. If he talks to his girlfriend once a week, then text/talk to him every

2 days. Keep the juices flowing and don't bore him. But don't become too obsessive with him or he might feel like he's being suffocated.

3.Don't mention his girlfriend. If he brings her up, Let him know you don't want to talk about her by quickly, yet smoothly changing the subject. Don't say things like that they are cute together or that they make a great couple. You will just make him think you aren't interested and that you are okay with them dating.

TRY THIS ALSO

1.Wear cute clothes. Your attire should be sexy but classy. Keep your hair and make-up natural while still standing out. You want him to see that you are physically appealing as well.

2.Flirt with other boys. A guaranteed way to make a guy attracted to you is by making him jealous and making yourself seem unattainable. Talk with other boys and give them attention when he is in the same area. Observe his reaction. If he is staring at you while you do this, it is probably a good sign.
3.Perfume walk-up. Wear a nice smelling perfume and walk by him. Observe his reaction once you pass.

OTHER METHODS

1.Be there for him. Make yourself the person he comes to when he has problems or needs advice. If he invites you to an event, do your best to be there. You want to present yourself to him as someone who is reliable and trustworthy.

2.Strengthen the friendship. Most good relationships are based off an initial friendship. Spend time with him regularly and just get to know him better as a person, without pressure or expectations.

3.Don't lie. You should never lie about yourself and especially about his girlfriend. If the guy you like found out that you lied to him about something so basic, there is no chance he will ever go out with you.

4.Smile Smile when you see him. This will let him know that you are happy to see him. If you see him somewhere, say hi to let him know that you notice him.

Enjoyy
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9 things you should never say to your boyfriend

2012-09-15T10:53:00.002+05:30

9 things you should never say to your boyfriend

Do you fake an orgasm when you actually didn't? Or find faults with the your husband's way of handling the kids, or pester him to find a new job? If yes, you may be making irreparable damages to your relationship.

Following is a list of nine statements compiled by Judy Ford, psychotherapist and author of 'Every Day Love' that you should never utter to your significant other, reports the Mother Nature Network.

1.First comes: "Yes, I had an orgasm."

2.Another statement that is a strict no-no is "You're just like your father." It's nasty and belittling, says Ford.

3.The third forbidden statement is actually very common: "When are you going to find a new job?"

4.The fourth hurtful statement is: "My mother warned me you'd do this!"

5.The fifth line, which is never a good idea to say, is "Just leave it - I'll do it myself!" Just because he's doing something differently than you would doesn't mean that he's doing it wrong.

6.The sixth statement, which can be heart breaking, is "You always... [fill in the blank]" or "You never... [fill in the blank]"

7.Then seventh statement that can be a serious blow is "Do you really think those pants are flattering?"

Saying so, you're insulting his looks without showing any genuine concern for his health, according to Ford.

8.Then eighth harsh statement is "Ugh, we're hanging out with him again?, which is an insult to your man's choice of friends.

9.The last but not the least is "Please watch the kids. But don't do this, take them here or forget that..." Let Dad-be-dad. (ANI)

10 ways to Say I love u without words

2012-09-15T10:50:00.001+05:30

1. Note among Flowers

When it comes to confessing your love, you should leave no stone unturned. For men who feel awkward expressing their emotions verbally, gifting your ladylove a flurry of bouquets will work wonders. You can also give her a rose everyday for an assigned month to keep her guessing about your intentions. At the end of the assigned time, give her an ‘I love you’ note instead of the usual flower and watch as she blushes with delight.

2. Say it with a Song
If you’re a keen musician, professing your feelings during a public performance will be an excellent way. Compose a unique song for her or create a medley of popular love songs and serenade her in public. Belting out your emotions in a public setting will have her swooning with affection.

3. Cook for Her
Women are rendered helplessly affectionate for men who, if cannot whip up a decent meal, can at least initiate the gesture. If you’re planning to confess your feelings to your sweetheart, put your culinary skills to use. Prepare a romantic candle-lit evening and enjoy gourmet delights in the company of your beloved. Bring out a frosted cake, just in time for dessert with your confession written in icing. Will this surprise not only knock her off her feet, but will be the best memory of her life too.

4. Treasure Hunt
A treasure hunt is the simplest yet most creative way of saying I love you, without sounding it out. Leave clues for her around the house, with each clue inexorably pointing towards the other. Let the final clue point to a piece of paper in your pocket. As she reaches for it, let her read your confession on paper. She will be pleasantly surprised and be swooning at your gesture.

5. Love Letter

Nothing can match up to the age-old yet simple method of confessing your love. A perfumed love letter transcends all gestures to become the ultimate tool for letting your sweetheart know about your feelings. This is an excellent ruse for people who have a way with words. Write about how she makes you feel and be as honest as you can. Seal the letter with love and mail it to her. The day she receives the letter will undoubtedly be the best day of her life.

6. Say it With Jewellery
Nothing says ‘I Love You’ better than a piece of customized jewellery. If you are on a low budget and want to make a creative impression, you can handcraft a bracelet for her. Buy an inexpensive love-related trinket and wind it around a wearable piece of string. Pack it appropriately in a ribbon-tied box and let her revel in the emotions of the moment.

7. Shoot it
If you are feeling creative, shooting a sequence to show how much you care will work wonders. Double it up as a surprise and show up just when the video ends, in time to see the pleasantly surprised look on your partner’s face

8. Where you first met
The place where you first met has a lot of significance for any couple. And saying ‘I love you’ couldn’t be more heartfelt in any other place.

9. Write it in the sand
To make your expression of love memorable, why not pay a visit to the seaside for a date? You can write a love message in the sand when your loved one isn’t looking and when they turn around they’ll be in for a surprise. If it all goes wrong, tell them someone else wrote it and run for the hills. If it goes to plan –please say it goes to plan – take a photograph of it afterwards so you can frame it and remember the moment for years to come.

10. Be tourists in your own city
Plan and hit the zoo or an amusement park. You’ll have a ball while in the ride or watching the animals, and the best thing is that might also burn more fat walking around, than when you cycle in a gym.

ENJOYYYYY
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45 THINGS A GIRL WANT, BUT WON’T ASK FOR

2012-06-27T12:46:00.003+05:30

45 THINGS A GIRL WANTS, BUT WON’T ASK FOR:

1. Touch her waist.
2. Actually talk to her.
3. Share secrets with her.
4. Give her your jacket.
5. Kiss her slowly.

Are you remembering this?

6. Hug her.
7. Hold her.
8. Laugh with her.
9. Invite her somewhere.
10. Hangout with her and your friends together.

KEEP READING ..

11. Smile with her.
12. Take pictures with her.
13. Pull her onto your lap.
14. When she says she loves you more, deny it. Fight back.
15. When her friends say “I love her more than you”, deny it. Fight back and hug her tight so she can’t get to her friends. It makes her feel loved.

Are you thinking of someone?

16. Always hug her and say I love you whenever you see her.
17. Kiss her unexpectedly.
18. Hug her from behind around the waist.
19. Tell her she’s beautiful.
20. Tell her the way you feel about her.

One last thing you need to do to show her you actually do mean it.

21. Open doors for her, walk her to her car - it makes her feel protected, plus it never hurts to act like a gentleman.
22. Tell her she’s your everything - only if you mean it.
23. If it seems like there is something wrong, ask her - if she denies something being wrong, it means SHE DOESN’T WANT TO TALK ABOUT IT - so just hug her.

24. Make her feel loved.
25. Kiss her in front of OTHER girls you know!

WE MIGHT DENY IT BUT WE ACTUALLY LIKE AND KINDA WANT YOU TO TICKLE US ..

26. Don’t lie to her.
27. DON’T cheat on her.
28. Take her ANYWHERE she wants.
29. Text message or call her in the morning and tell her have a good day at school, and how much you miss her.
30. Be there for her whenever she needs you, and even when she doesn’t need you, just be there so she’ll know that she can always count on you.

ARE YOU STILL READING THIS? YOU BETTER, BECAUSE IT’S IMPORTANT

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31. Hold her close when she’s cold so she can hold you too.
32. When you are alone hold her close and kiss her.
33. Kiss her on the cheek; (it will give her the hint that you want to kiss her).
34. While in the movies, put your arm around her and then she will automatically put her head on your shoulder, then lean in and tilt her chin up and kiss her lightly.

35. Don’t ever tell her to leave even jokingly or act like you’re mad. If she’s upset, comfort her.

REMEMBER ALL THESE THINGS WHEN YOU ARE WITH HER NEXT ..

36. When people diss her, stand up for her.
37. Look deep into her eyes and tell her you love her.
38. Lay down under the stars and put her head on your chest so she can listen to the steady beat of your heart, link your fingers together while you whisper to her as she rests her eyes and listens to you.
39. When walking next to each other grab her hand.
40. When you hug her, hold her in your arms as long as possible.

MAKE SURE SHE KNOWS SHES LOVED.

41. Call or text her at night to wish her sweet dreams.
42. Comfort her when she cries and wipe away her tears.
43. Take her for long walks at night.
44. Always remind her how much you love her.
45. Sit on top of her and tell her how much you love her and then bend down to her face and kiss her while you’re sitting on her

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HOW TO KNOW IF A GUY LIKES YOU

2012-06-27T12:08:00.000+05:30

HOW TO KNOW IF A GUY LIKES YOU

Have a crush on a guy but not sure if the feeling is mutual? Or maybe you're curious as to whether that guy checking you out is doing so out of interest in you or he's just staring at the poster behind your head? Whatever the reason for your need to know, there are a few fairly certain ways of working out that a guy's definitely interested in you––or not!

Steps

1. Examine his body language.
Body language can be the "big tell" when it comes to discerning if that guy fancies you enough to date you. Interestingly, body language experts believe that while females have around 52 body language tell All the same, you still need to know what to look for, as well as being sure that you're not mistaking is to show a guy that they're interested, guys show around only 10.  If you subscribe to this theory, this should make your guessing a little easier!nnocent gestures for calls of love––the latter mistake could prove embarrassingSome of the signs of body language to watch for include:

  o He looks at you a lot. His eyebrow may even lift as he watches you ("the eyebrow flash" that lasts a fifth of a second). He might not even be really conscious he is watching you as much as he is.

o He rarely, if at all, turns his back on you.

o He leans towards you a lot. Personal space invasion is a sign of major interest.

o Check the direction of his hands, feet, legs, toes, etc. If they're pointed toward you, it's a subconscious indicator of his interest in you.

o He starts grooming himself. He pulls at his tie to straighten it or he readjusts the fit of his sweater. Perhaps he runs his hands through his hair in attempt to tidy it or he reaches down to tie his shoelaces. Doing this repeatedly is similar to the actions of a male bird preening up his feathers for a display!

o Check out how he's sitting. If you see rather manly gestures, such as sitting with open legs or placing his hands on his hips, he's trying to impress.

o If he likes you, you may see that he rarely turns his back to you, often leans towards you, and also looks at you a lot. If he slouches his shoulders when near you, he's romantic and cares about what you have to say. If he points his shoulders and pelvis towards you while sitting, he is definitely feeling something for you.

2.
  Notice his eye contact. As already noted, a guy who is interested in you will look at you a lot, even if covertly. He may try to catch your eye or, if he's shy, he may suddenly turn his head away if you catch him checking you out. To test his interest, scan his face for four seconds, then look away (don't look any longer or it becomes awkward). Then look back––if he maintains or increases eye contact with you, he's interested. If his eyes wander to your mouth, he's definitely interested. If you feel like you have held eye contact just a fraction of a second longer than you would with anyone else, or if he looks away quickly, then there is something there. On the other hand, if he breaks eye contact with you and starts looking around the room, he's not interested in you.

o A gaze that has him looking left, then sweeping over your face, then looking right is a sign he's very attracted to you.
o Be careful not to confuse a shy guy's darting retreat from eye contact with a guy who is clearly disinterested. A shy guy who is interested will continue to steal glances at you. Be patient!
o If you don't like the guy, it can be uncomfortable to maintain eye contact; break it off quickly and scan the room yourself, as if looking for someone else.
o When he's around you and he says or does something funny and everyone around laughs, his eyes will flicker towards you for a second to see if you laughed too––this means he's keen to make a good impression on you.
o His pupils may dilate if he likes you, but this is quite hard to pick up on, and you might come across as acting strangely by looking that closely into his eyes. If you're around him for a long time, it could be easier to pick up on gradually.

3. Listen to what he's saying

. If he likes you, and he's nervous or anticipating the chance to get closer to you, he'll probably start talking about himself. Many times, guys feel the need to prove themselves, especially if you talk about another guy in his company.

o Gauge his interest in what you have to say. It really doesn't matter what you say, it'show you say it that can tell you a lot about his level of interest. So, try this: Lean in and whisper, with your shoulder barely touching his and say something softly. To heighten the impact, steady yourself gently by brushing your arm across his back. If he moves his head closer toward you and either touches you back or maintains eye contact, he's interested in you. If he isn't interested, he'll probably step back or be very unresponsive. A really disinterested guy might even try to shoo you out of his personal space!

4. Notice his interest in touching and being touched. Touch is an important sign of interest in a developing relationship and you can assess interest both by observing how he touches you and how he reacts to you touching him. If he's keen on you, he might put his hand on yours when he laughs, he might gently brush his leg against yours but won't move it away again, or he may hug you for small things, such as greeting you, expressing emotions when telling a story or just because you "look like you need a hug." On the other hand, consider touching him to see what happens––a gentle brush of your hand against his neck, a hold of his forearm with your hand, or running your fingers across his hand after joking with him about something. He's interested in you if he responds to it and doesn't flinch away or if he moves his hand to stay on yours or on your arm or leg. On the hand, if he tenses up or moves away his hand, he's not interested.

o Obviously, playboy guys (bad boys) might be very keen to spread their touching gestures around; be sure that he has more substance than this by observing how he interacts with other women in your group.
o See if he uses any of the tricks in How to touch a girl, and see if he uses them more with you than with anyone else.

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Watch his actions to see if he treats you differently from the rest of your group. If he's really interested in you, he may start to behave protectively toward you, or in a "gentlemanly" fashion (at least to the extent that he interprets his behavior as such). Look for signs like shifting his chair closer to yours, putting his arm around the back of your chair, leaving his jacket on the back of your chair or even going so far as to place the jacket around you to ward off your complaints of being cold.

  o Be aware that some guys flirt with other girls to get your attention. It gives him a chance to see your reaction, and helps him know if you really do like him or not. (Yes, it's an odd sort of logic, especially since you might end up so offended or confused that you just give up on him!) However, you can usually spot a "get-your-attention" flirt if, in the middle of his flirting scenario, he keeps taking the chance to look at you, seeking out your response. You can also try a quick trip to the bathroom and find yourself a sneaky observation point to check out how the flirting's proceeding. If he stops the moment you've left, it's you he's serious about, not her. Alternatively, ask a friend to do some observing for you while you're away.

6. unexpressed interest   Watch for him showing a sudden, previously unexpressed interest in things that you like and do. For example, if you like a certain genre of music that he doesn't know as well, he may ask you to suggest bands or artists for him to listen to. Or, he may have gone to the trouble of finding out that a favorite band of yours is playing next weekend and mention to this, with or without a request to go and listen together. And, if you introduce him to a TV show that he didn't really know about and that becomes his new favorite thing, that can potentially be a sign that he likes you, especially if he goes out of his way to catch up with you to discuss the show's unfolding plot.

7.Check for signs of nervousness
   Signs of nervous laughter, sweaty palms, deep breaths, fidgeting, or possibly even looking away quickly when you notice he is watching you, can all be signs of an attraction towards you. If he is nervous about making an impression on you, it means he's trying hard and you are probably very close to being able to start making moves.

8.Pay attention to his friends   If they know he's interested in you, they might tease him subtly when you're around, hint to you that he likes you, or even try to find out if you like him. Study their reactions to your presence––do they smile? Do they turn to him? Do they smirk in a way that suggests they know something that you don't?

o Be careful if a friend of his makes suggestions that a guy likes you but all of the other indications tell you otherwise. Sometimes friends have reasons of their own for ensuring that any chances of you getting together are ruined, including catapulting you into making a fool of yourself.
9. if he imitates you
  Look to see if he imitates you. Mirroring each other's actions is a sign of mutual like and generally, it's subconscious. If you notice that he has been copying your gestures frequently, there is a high probability that he fancies you. You can test this by mirroring his actions too, for example, touch your hair when he touches his, brush your face when he brushes his, sit the way he is sitting, etc. The subconscious signals will be screaming "I like you too!"
o Following you can be another sign; for example, if you buy lunch and sit at a table and he edges as near to, or even on the same, table as you, he is probably trying to get closer to you. Just be sure you're not confusing this action with there being a lack of space to sit anywhere else!

10. If he Gentle
  Pay attention to gentle, friendly teasing. If a guy teases you in a friendly and fun manner, it could indicate his interest, especially if he's young. Provided this isn't his modus operandi with every girl he flirts with, it's a sign that he's singled you out for attention and is trying to use his wit to charm you, in that awkward way of using humor to cover up true intentions. Of course, if he says something unkind or unfortunate, don't feel you have to excuse it––point it out if he offends you; it's best he knows now that you won't take nonsense than to discover it later.

11.If he is playful
  If he hits you or playfully punches you on your arm, this may mean he likes you. A guy may gently hit or punch you on the arm as a covert, "manly" way of getting to touch you without making it too obvious what his intention is. If he finds that you don't pull away too much when he does this, he might find the courage to proceed to more gentle ways of touching you. Of course, this doesn't mean you need to sit there in pain if he actually hurts you––be assertive enough to point out that it hurt! You can salve his pride by saying something about not minding him touching you but to please watch out for your sensitive bony bits! And if you're the kind of girl who finds the play punching a bit of fun, give him a playful knock right back.

o Play punching can send mixed signals. It could mean "I treat you like one of the boys" and signal friendzone antics only. Check out whether he does this to other girls in your mutual group. Moreover, if he continues to think that play punching you is a fun way to hang out, you might be dealing with someone who is never going to get past this immature display of affection; don't let it go on indefinitely.
o If you don't like it, say so immediately. You are entitled to ask someone not to harm you, even if the gesture is well intentioned.

12. Acknowledge any compliments
  Acknowledge any compliments hat come your way. If you do your hair or makeup differently one day, and the guy notices, that's a very good sign that he likes you. Most guys won't notice, or if they do, they won't be bothered to say anything unless they're totally into you. Anything like, "You look nice today," "I like that shirt," or even "Did you do your hair differently today?

It looks nice," are all indicators that he could be interested in you.

o Note: If this guy is a good friend of yours, compliments won't necessarily be indicators of romantic interest. It could just be him being a truly good friend.
o Not all guys are this straightforward about compliments, so don't be worried if he doesn't compliment you.

13.Watch for him noticing
    'masculine things' on you. For example, some of your dad's aftershave rubbed off on you when you hugged him. Your crush may say "is that aftershave on you?" Noticing this can indicate that he thinks the scent comes from another guy (and not your dad!), revealing some vulnerability about losing you out to someone else. This could also apply to having, carrying or wearing things that he might think belong to another guy.

14.If he chats to you
  often on a social networking site, it may mean that he likes you. After all, when online there are many things competing for his time, like games, connecting with mates and checking out sites that might not be so interesting to you… Of course, he could also just be talkative, friendly, or even bored, so don't assume he's into you just for chatting–

–this should be treated as one extra indicator along with some of the others outlined above.

o If he puts an 'x' sign on the end of everything he says to you, don't assume it means he likes you. It could just mean that he perceives you both as good friends or that he's just used to ending his chats that way.
o If he says, "I know something you don't know," then this could mean that he likes you and is playing a little guessing game. Or it could just mean he's doing the usual social media thing of spreading information for fun, like the discovery of a new planet or finding the cure to cancer, etc. Use the context to judge the import of any such online personal game playing.
15. Watch up the changes in him:
  To see if he has suddenly developed a habit of turning up where you happen to be. If he suddenly seems to be in certain places at certain times of the day where you wouldn't necessarily expect to see him, it may be that he's taken to deliberately "finding" opportunities to bump into you. If it happens a lot in a short space of time, it's probably no coincidence but a concerted effort to catch up with you as much as possible.

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16. Be receptive to his signals

If he shows genuine interest in you, (for example, he smiles at you a lot whenever the two of you pass each other or he goes out of his way to say hello to you), be friendly and polite back. If you've already decided that he's someone you'd like to date, don't let it go too long before facilitating an opportunity for the two of you to get together to talk in a quiet place. On the other hand, if he's not your type or you've changed your mind about flirting any further, be honest and let him know that you're flattered but you're not available


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HOW KNOW IF A GUY LIKES YOU

2012-06-26T21:19:00.001+05:30

HOW KNOW IF A GUY LIKES YOU

10 Easy Flirt Tips for girls

2012-06-24T21:31:00.001+05:30

10 Easy Flirt Tips

How to Flirt With a Girl or Guy
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Flirting's a language - and just like with any other language, no one's born a fluent flirt. If you want to know how to flirt like a pro, you've got to learn the signs. Follow these flirt tips and practice till you're an expert flirt.


    1. Choose Your Targets

You don't have to have a crush on someone in order to flirt. Practice flirting with random people you see every day - people who might not even be on your dating radar - on order to hone your skills. That way, you'll have some flirting experience under your belt when you approach the people who really matter.

2. Have an Opening Line
  Find a reason to talk to the person. If you're in a class with them, come up with a question about an assignment. If they're standing in line behind you at a concert, ask about the band. Get creative, and be ready to respond to whatever they say.

3. Make Eye Contact

  If you don't make eye contact, you'll look bored or uninterested, and that's not an impression you want to give. Too shy to look them right in the eyes? Here's a trick: look at the spot right between their eyes. It'll look like eye contact to them.

4. Come Up With a Compliment

  Pick one thing you like about the way they look - like their hair, their smile or an article of clothing. Let them know in a friendly way how much you like it. It'll make them feel good and will open them up to you. (If you can't think of an opening line for tip #2, a compliment will do.)

5. Smile

  You don't have to go all Bozo the Clown, but the idea is to look like you enjoy talking to them. So be sure to throw them a smile whenever it makes sense. If they shoot one back, you'll know that they like talking to you, too.

6. Flirt With Your Body
  The body language you use when you flirt is just as important as what you say. Use good posture, point your body towards the person and try to find excuses to touch them. For more on how to do that, check these body language flirting tips.

7. Keep It Light

You'll get a way better response if you chat about fun, happy stuff (like your new puppy) than serious or sad stuff (like when your puppy got hit by a train). The point of flirting isn't to bare your soul or share your honest opinions about everything. It's to open the door to lots more conversations down the road.

8. Beware of Awkward Silences

  Once the convo drags, it's probably gone for good. Fill an awkward silence by asking the other person a question. Can't think of one? Ask them about something they're wearing or something in your environment (like a painting on the wall, or the music that's playing).

9. Wrap It Up

If you're not interested in talking anymore, politely find an excuse to head off into the   sunset. If you are interested, give them a way to get in touch with you - like your phone number or Facebook name. This is (hopefully) just your first convo of many, so save some of that charm for the next time.

10. Practice, Practice, Practice
  No one's perfect at flirting the first time around. If the idea of flirting still gives you butterflies, don't worry - it just means that you need more practice. The more you flirt, the easier it'll get.

songs to get over your ex boyfriend

2012-05-04T20:13:00.001+05:30

Top 10 Break Up songs to get over your ex boyfriend

#10 – My Happy Ending by Avril Lavigne

Favorite Lines:

You’ve got your dumb friends
I know what they say
They tell you I’m difficult
But so are they
But they don’t know me
Do they even know you?
All the things you hide from me
All the shit that you do

#9 – Don’t Bother by Shakira

Favorite Lines:

So don’t bother
I won’t die of deception
I promise you won’t ever see me cry
Don’t feel sorry

#8 – Get Out (Leave) – JoJo

Favorite Lines:

Get Out (leave) right now,
it’s the end of you and me,
It’s too late (now) and I cant wait for you to be gone,
cause I know about her, (who) and I wonder (why),
how I bought all the lies.
You said that you would treat me right
but you was just a waste of time. (waste of time)

#7 – Ain’t It Funny – Jennifer Lopez

Favorite Lines:

It’s been awhile since you came around
Now ya wanna see what’s goin’ down
Tryin’ to tell me why ya want my time
Tryin’ to tell me how I’m on your mind
See it never had to be this way
You should of never played the games you played
Now I’m seein’ that you’re kinda lame
Knowin how the situation change

#6 – Not Goin’ Cry – Mary J. Blige

Favorite Lines:

I was your lover and your secretary
Working every day of the week
Was at the job when no one else was there
Helping you get on your feet
Eleven years of sacrifice
And you can leave at the drop of a dime
Swallowed my fears, stood by your side
I shoulda left your ass a thousand times

#5 – Over It – Katharine McPhee

Favorite Lines:

Movin’ on, itâ€™s my time
You never were a friend of mine
Hurt at first, a little bit
But now Iâ€™m so over
So over it
I’m so over it

#4 – Survivor – Destiny’s Child

Favorite Lines:

Thought I couldn’t breathe without you,
I’m inhalin’
You thought I couldn’t see without you,
Perfect vision,
You thought I couldn’t last without ya,
But I’m lastin’
You thought that I would die without ya,
But I’m livin’
Thought that I would fail without ya,
But I’m on top,
Though it would be over by now,
But it won’t stop,
You thought that I would self-destruct,
But I’m still here,
Even in my years to come,
I’m still gon’ be here.

#3 – Irreplaceable – Beyonce

Favorite Lines:

So since I'm not your everything
How about I’ll be nothing
Nothing at all to you
Baby I wont shead a tear for you
I won’t lose a wink of sleep
Cause the truth of the matter is
Replacing you is so easy

#2 – Since U Been Gone – Kelly Clarkson

Favorite Lines:

You had your chance, you blew it
Out of sight, out of mind
Shut your mouth, I just can’t take it
Again and again and again and again
But since you been gone
I can breathe for the first time
I’m so movin’ on, yeah, yeah
Thanks to you, now I get, I get what I want
Since you been gone

#1 – I Will Survive – Gloria Gaynor

Favorite Lines:

Go on now go walk out the door
just turn around now
’cause you’re not welcome anymore
weren’t you the one who tried to hurt me with goodbye
you think I’d crumble
you think I’d lay down and die
Oh no, not I
I will survive

How to get Your Boyfriend to stop ignoring you

2012-04-27T15:21:00.001+05:30

How to get Your Boyfriend to stop ignoring you

Don't you hate it when your boyfriend ignores you or doesn't answer your calls or texts? I have that kind of boyfriend and I hate it when he does that. I get hyper and flip out. I hate it, but I learned a way to get him to stop.

4 STEPS

1 .Talk to him first. If you want to talk to him, do so. There is nothing stopping you other than your pride. If he continues to ignore you, then you may want to cease further communication with him but you may also want to throw in a parting "Call me if you feel like talking again."

2.Go hang out with your friends and guy friends. Make him think you don't care that he's not talking to you. Some guys like the fact that they know their girlfriend will always be waiting for them. You have your own life too so live it.

3.Don't let it get to your head. Getting sad and emotional about it just lowers your appeal and may be the goal of some chauvinistic men. Be happy and smile more, then your days will not be hindered by the fact that he is ignoring you.

4.You may want to take a break for awhile. Turn your phone off, keep away from the computer, and just leave him alone.

Strange Boyfriend Behaviors

2012-04-22T14:56:00.003+05:30

4 Kinda Strange Boyfriend Behaviors

When you first start dating a guy, it's easy to fall hard and fast. The reason: He's on an all-out mission to charm the pants off you...literally and figuratively. "The wooing stage is about selling himself and putting his best foot forward,"

Once he's succeeded in sweeping you off your feet though, you'll start to notice various changes in him. Some are nice — he seems so much more comfortable with you, for instance. But others may come across as negative or just plain bizarre. Here's a surprise: That kind of behavior can actually confirm that he's stuck on you like glue. Confused? Don't worry, we explain it all here.

1.He shows his vulnerability.

Many guys think women are looking for the kind of dude who exudes strength and confidence minus the macho bit. So that's the kind of persona he likely tried to cultivate when he was pursuing you. Once he's accomplished that, he may let his softer side emerge.

"Most men want to appear strong and in control, but behind that facade, they want to be nurtured,"

If you play your cards right during your guy's time of need, he'll get into the habit of letting down his emotional guard and opening up to you more often. And what girl doesn't want an emotionally available man? So just listen, try to empathize with him and offer your support. "By positively reinforcing his vulnerable behavior, you're encouraging him to be that way with you," says Los Angeles-based psychologist Yvonne Thomas. But beware of the "mommy" trap. "He wants understanding, not babying," says Cloud. And make sure you don't let these heart-to-hearts become a one-way street. It's important for you to turn to him when you need comforting as well.

2. He takes fights to the finish.

Despite their penchant for body-crushing sports and blood-and-guts action flicks, guys tend to shy away from confrontations with chicks. "Many men feel overwhelmed fighting with their partners," , "They are not as comfortable expressing their emotions as they perceive women to be and, therefore, try to avoid contentious situations."

So if your man steps outside his comfort zone to duke it out with you (verbally, of course), it's a pretty sure sign that he's in this twosome for the long term. "A man who is willing to stand up to you and assert himself intends to be around awhile," says Ferguson. "If he wasn't that interested, he'd play the compliant card."

Granted, arguing may not be your idea of fun, but it can actually bring you and your man closer. "Couples build intimacy through conflict," says Ferguson. "It's how they deepen their knowledge of each other." The trick is knowing how to fight fair. It's not about name-calling, blaming or even winning. "When you are fighting for things that are important and to resolve a problem, you'll both end up more satisfied in the relationship,"

3. He guards his guy habits.

Men are fiercely protective of their buddy time. But when a guy is in hot pursuit, and he'll be available for the woman he's with pretty much any time she wants him. That explains why you and your man spent so much together time early on in the relationship. But once that love bond is formed, they feel the need to balance out their social life and reclaim playtime with their buds again.

So it makes sense that once your guy realizes he's hooked on you, he'll try to carve out more male-bonding opportunities. It doesn't mean he's cutting you loose; it's just his way of overcompensating for falling so hard. "His fears about losing his independence may lead to his need to assert his autonomy so he can prove to himself — and to you — that love hasn't taken away his freedom," says Deborah Anapol, PhD, author of The Seven Natural Laws of Love.

The best way to deal with these new interruptions in your 24/7 together time is to give him some slack.some one said "I really love being with my girlfriend, but when it initially dawned on me that I had been spending all of my time with her, I kind of freaked," he recalls. "My previous girlfriends always gave me a hard time when I wanted to be with just my friends. But the first time I decided to go out of town with the guys, she told me she was glad because it gave her a chance to see her own friends. Knowing she had plenty going on in her life without me was a relief."

girlfriend's one smart cookie. By sending the message that she wasn't going to crumble without him, Matt didn't feel trapped and desperate to get in his guy time. "It's important to allow him his space and to take your own and trust that it will even out," says Anapol. "The best thing you can do when your guy pulls back is to take your attention off him and keep it on yourself."

4. He stops talking as much.

You already know that guys aren't big on emoting. So when you start dating a dude who's willing to talk to you for hours on end, sharing all the juicy details of his life, you probably feel like you've snagged a rare gem. That is, until you're an actual couple and he adopts a monosyllabic conversation MO. It's understandable that you'd feel like he's shutting you out, but he's letting you know (not deliberately) that he's content and comfortable with you.

"If your formerly verbal guy becomes close-mouthed, it means that he feels so relaxed with you, he doesn't need to impress you anymore," explains Thomas. "Once there's a real connection, you can be together without talking. It's a deeper form of intimacy because you're being more genuine with each other."

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99 facts about guys...... girls do read this

2012-04-19T18:24:00.002+05:30

** GIRLS PLEASE READ THIS **

HERE'S 99 FACTS ABOUT GUYS

1. Guys don’t actually look after good-looking girls. They prefer neat and
presentable girls.

2. Guys hate flirts.

3. A guy can like you for a minute, and then forget you afterwards.

4. When a guy says he doesn’t understand you, it simply means you’re not thinking the way he is.

5. “Are you doing something?” or “Have you eaten already?” are the first usual questions a guy asks on the phone just to get out from stammering.

6. Guys may be flirting around all day but before they go to sleep, they always think about the girl they truly care about.

7. When a guy really likes you, he’ll disregard all your bad characteristics.

8. Guys go crazy over a girl’s smile.

9. Guys will do anything just to get the girl’s attention.

10. Guys hate it when you talk about your ex-boyfriend.

11. When guys want to meet your parents. Let them.

12. Guys want to tell you many things but they can’t. And they sure have one
habit to gain courage and spirit to tell you many things and it is drinking!

13. Guys cry!!!

14. Don’t provoke the guy to heat up. Believe me. He will.

15. Guys can never dream and hope too much.

16. Guys usually try hard to get the girl who has dumped them, and this makes it harder for them to accept their defeat.

17. When you touch a guy’s heart, there’s no turning back.

18. Giving a guy a hanging message like “You know what? Uh…never mind!” would make him jump to a conclusion that is far from what you are thinking.

19. Guys go crazy when girls touch their hands.

20. Guys are good flatterers when courting but they usually stammer when they talk to a girl they really like.

21. When a guy makes a prolonged “umm” or makes any excuses when you’re asking him to do you a favor, he’s actually saying that he doesn’t like you and he can’t lay down the card for you.

22. When a girl says “no”, a guy hears it as “try again tomorrow.”

23. You have to tell a guy what you really want before he gets the message clearly.

24. Guys hate nice boy!

25. Guys love their moms.

26. A guy would sacrifice his money for lunch just to get you a couple of roses.

27. A guy often thinks about the girl who likes him. But this doesn’t mean that
the guy likes her.

28. You can never understand him unless you listen to him.

29. If a guy tells you he loves you once in a lifetime. He does.

30. Beware. Guys can make gossips scatter through half of the face of the
earth faster than girls can.

31. Like Eve, girls are guys’ weaknesses.

32. Guys are very open about themselves.

33. Its good to test a guy first before you believe him. But don’t let him wait
that long.

34. No guy is bad when he is courting

35. Guys hate it when their clothes get dirty. Even a small dot.

36. Guys really admire girls that they like even if they’re not that much pretty.

37. Your best friend, whom your boyfriend seeks help from about his problems with you may end up being admired by your boyfriend.

38. If a guy tells you about his problems, he just needs someone to listen to him. You don’t need to give advice.

39. A usual act that proves that the guy likes you is when he teases you.

40. A guy finds ways to keep you off from linking with someone else.

41. Guys love girls with brains more than girls in miniskirts.

42. Guys try to find the stuffed toy a girl wants but would unluckily get the wrong one.

43. Guys virtually brag about anything.

44. Guys cannot keep secrets that girls tell them.

45. Guys think too much.

46. Guys’ fantasies are unlimited.

47. Girls’ height doesn’t really matter to a guy but her weight does!

48. Guys tend to get serious with their relationship and become too
possessive. So watch out girls!!!

49. When a girl makes the boy suffer during courtship, it would be hard for him to let go of that girl.

50. It’s not easy for a guy to let go of his girlfriend after they broke up especially when they’ve been together for 3 years or more.

51. You have to tell a guy what you really want before getting involved with
that guy.

52. A guy has to experience rejection, because if he’s too-good-never-been-busted, never been in love and hurt, he won’t be matured and grow up.

53. When an unlikable circumstance comes, guys blame themselves a lot more than girls do. They could even hurt themselves physically.

54. Guys have strong passion to change but have weak will power.

55. Guys are tigers in their peer groups but become tamed pussycats with their girlfriends.

56. When a guy pretends to be calm, check if he’s sweating. You’ll probably see that he is nervous.

57. When a guy says he is going crazy about the girl. He really is.

58. When a guy asks you to leave him alone, he’s just actually saying, “Please come and listen to me”

59. Guys don’t really have final decisions.

60. When a guy loves you, bring out the best in him.

61. If a guy starts to talk seriously, listen to him.

62. If a guy has been kept shut or silent, say something.

63. Guys believe that there’s no such thing as love at first sight, but court the
girls anyway and then realize at the end that he is wrong.

64. Guys like femininity not feebleness.

65. Guys don’t like girls who punch harder than they do.

66. A guy may instantly know if the girl likes him but can never be sure unless
the girl tells him.

67. A guy would waste his time over video games and basketball, the way a
girl would do over her romance novels and make-ups.

68. Guys love girls who can cook or bake.

69. Guys like girls who are like their moms. No kidding!

70. A guy has more problems than you can see with your naked eyes.

71. A guy’s friend knows everything about him. Use this to your advantage.

72. Don’t be a snob. Guys may easily give up on the first sign of rejection.

73. Don’t be biased. Try loving a guy without prejudice and you’ll be
surprised.

74. Girls who bathe in their eau de perfumes do more repelling than
attracting guys.

75. Guys are more talkative than girls are especially when the topic is about girls.

76. Guys don’t comprehend the statement “Get lost” too well.

77. Guys really think that girls are strange and have unpredictable decisions but still love them more.

78. When a guy gives a crooked or pretentious grin at your jokes, he finds them offending and he just tried to be polite.

79. Guys don’t care about how shiny their shoes are unlike girls.

80. Guys tend to generalize about girls but once they get to know them, they’ll realize they’re wrong.

81. Any guy can handle his problems all by his own. He’s just too stubborn to deal with it.

82. Guys find it so objectionable when a girl swears.

83. Guys’ weakest point is at the knee.

84. When a problem arises, a guy usually keeps himself cool but is already thinking of a way out.

85. When a guy is conscious of his looks, it shows he is not good at fixing things.

86. When a guy looks at you, either he’s amazed of you or he’s criticizing you.

87. When you catch him cheating on you and he asks for a second chance, give it to him. But when you catch him again and he asks for another chance,
ignore him.

88. If a guy lets you go, he really loves you.

89. If you have a boyfriend, and your boy best friend always glances at you
and it obviously shows that he is jealous whenever you’re with your boyfriend, all I can say is your boy best friend loves you more than your boyfriend does.

90. Guys learn from experience not from the romance books that girls read and take as their basis of experience.

91. You can tell if a guy is really hurt or in pain when he cries in front of you!

92. If a guy suddenly asks you for a date, ask him first why.

93. When a guy says he can’t sleep if he doesn’t hear your voice even just for one night, hang up. He also tells that to another girl. He only flatters you and sometimes makes fun of you.

94. You can truly say that a guy has good intentions if you see him praying sometimes.

95. Guys seek for advice not from a guy but from a girl.

96. Girls are allowed to touch boys’ things. Not their hair!

97. If a guy says you’re beautiful, that guy likes you.

98. Guys hate girls who overreact.

99. Guys love you more than you love them if they are serious in your relationships.

THANK YOU FOR READING :

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U want Him Back

2012-04-19T14:47:00.001+05:30

OOPS!

So You Want Him Back, eh?

Well, are you really really sure? At this point I should warn you that if HE dumped YOU then most likely he won't want you back and you should head straight for the 'Heal Ur Broken Heart' section of the website at once.

If however you dumped him and then realized you loved him, or whatever, read on. Try whichever of the following you like to get him back:

1) GROVEL

If you dumped him then chances are he'll be feeling pretty heartbroken himself. If you're lucky he'll jump straight back into your arms, if not, you've got some SERIOUS grovelling to do, girlfriend! Apologise from the bottom of your heart. Tell him you now realize what a big mistake you made.

2) REMINISCE

Once you're on speaking terms again, reminisce on all the good times you had together. Talk to him about it. Bring up all your special places in conversation with him. The instant you get him to admit, 'Yeah, we had fun,' come back with 'Wouldn't it be great if we had another chance?'

3) MAKE HIM JEALOUS

Yes, spite breeds spite and I wouldnt recommend it. But this is a good one to used if HE dumped YOU (and if you DIDNT take my advice and go to the Heal Ur Broken Heart section). Don't go out with some poor boy you don't really like just to make your ex-boy jealous---that's horrible. Instead, make him THINK you have a whole crowd of waiting, jostling boys. Flirt with his friends. It might work, it does on a lot of boys, but I really wouldn't recommend it. It's spiteful. However, if it works out the best for you,do email me at the usual address and tell me about it!

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Come over it

2012-04-19T14:36:00.001+05:30

"So you've broken my heart and you've torn it in two...how can I be happy, if I am not with you?"

Yes, it's cloudy cloudy weather . The good news is that although it's painful, I have some tips and tricks that will ease the hurt and get you on the road to sunshine and recovery...let me know if you find a rainbow at the other end!
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adly, this is a very familiar situation and it sucks. You really really really really liked him. You loved him. And...doesn't matter how it happened....suddenly you don't have him anymore.
The first step to getting over him is to look at how it happened:

HE DUMPED ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

So he's turned around and dumped you. Now not only do you have that big, gaping, hollow pain in your stomach but you've also suffered the humiliation of dumpsville. Chances are, if he chucked you, its because he doesn't want to be with you. If he's chucked you for another girl he's a slimeball and not worth thinking about.
I DUMPED HIM!

If you really love this boy then I'm guessing you dumped him because (a) he cheated on you or (b) there was some difference in your two life paths or some disagreement that meant you can't be happy together. Think about it. You dumped him because you knew it was best or because he's done something unforgivable. Now look forward to the good things in your life without him. On the other hand, if you realize you've made a BIG mistake, then it might be worth looking at the I WANT HIM BACK page on this website.

6 STEPS TO HEALING THAT BROKEN HEART:

1) Have a good, long cry.

Crying, although it's upsetting, will actually make you feel better once you've stopped. Find a nice quiet place to cry your eyes out where you wont be disturbed. Although might feel like you need your mates right now, at this point you need to be alone with your thoughts and your tears for an hour or two or even a few days. It varies from girl to girl.

2) Friend's the word

NOW you need your friends. Or, if you feel you're not close enough to any of your friends, you need your family. Tell them exactly what happened and how you're feeling. Have a good bitching sesh with the girls about your ex-boy. You'll be suprised at how easily they manage to list his bad points.

3) Throw Him Away

At this point you don't need any reminders of your boy, even if you parted agreeing to 'be friends'. I should warn you it's very difficult to be 'just friends' with someone who's broken your heart. Delete his number AND his text messages from your mobile phone. Throw away his picture, or, if you can't bring yourself to do that, get one of your friends to keep it at their house so you won't be tempted to go and look at it. If you're REALLY cut up, tear up his picture into tiny bits and throw them in the bin. You'll feel exhilarated, but that's not for the faint hearted.

4) Get Out There

Getting over love takes time, though the length of time varies from girl to girl. If you want to get over him though, you need to stop moping and get out of the house. Don't go looking for anyone new just yet though...even if you want him to eat his heart out. Spite might relieve your anger temporarily but it won't do anything for your healing process in the long run...if he gets jealous you'll think he wants you back and start hankering after him again. Get out with your girlie friends and go shopping/clubbing/partying. Have girlie sleepovers. Remind yourself of the reasons why single life is good. List all the advantages. Concentrate on having a good time. The more you get out, the less you think about him. The less you think about him, the more you start to get over him.

5) Revisit your love

Ok, if you've gone out enough and you're starting to feel normal-ish again, take a deep breath and revisit your love. You have to prove to yourself that you're really over him. If you've been avoiding him, take the time to talk to him and look at him again. Don't avoid going to the places that were special to the two of you. Otherwise, you'll find yourself stumbling across these reminders, months later, and suddenly bursting into tears. This is one of the hardest parts of the healing processes, but it's well worth it in the end. If at this point, you're still feeling really really really wistful and sad for him, repeat step 4 and carry on doing this until you feel relatively normal again.

6) New love?

Ok, this step is optional. You may decide that single life without boys is the bomb and you're having a whale of a time doing just whatever you want. You go girlfriend! Good for you! But there's nothing wrong with flirting or getting a new boyfriend now, if that's what you want. Just remember, you're special no matter if you have a boy in your life or not, and whatever decision you make, its all up to you!

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Flirt Success

2012-04-19T14:32:00.000+05:30

7 Steps To Flirt Success

He'll be like putty in your hands in no time, girls...

1. Dont Be Shy :p

Being shy is BAD when it comes to flirting. If, like me, you're unbelievably shy and blush easily, be coy and cute. Hide behind your hair. Giggle and fidget as if you're unsure. It makes 'em want to protect you. Awwwww. If that's not you...be obvious (though don't embarass yourself)...because boys just don't get subtle hints.

2. SMILE :))
You MUST flash him your most sweet smile. 'Nuff said.

3. Flick and Touch your hair {:-)

Trust me ladies, this one works, but don't do it all the time, he'll either think you a vain loony, or think you have nits. You have to time it well.

4. Touch him.

Not so obviously that he's freaked out, please! Just a light brush on his arm. If you're meant to be sympathising with him pat his hand. Ok?

5. Don't Be Fierce, Be Feisty. >-<

I've seen girls make this mistake over and over again. If you're fierce, as in snappy, with him he'll think you hate him and go running a mile. Feisty, however, will get him swooning. Show him you can stand up for yourself. Show your drama-queen tendencies from time to time, if you like that sort of thing. Boys like feisty ladies...think Charlie's Angels or Lara Croft.

6. Be Stylish :-o

Don't worry if chopping off your own head is preferable to going out in a mini-skirt and crop top. Hardly any of us have the confidence (and the looks) to do that kind of thing, and it can look tarty anyway. Show YOUR personal assets. Don't go out in a low-cut top. You get the general idea. Walk and talk in a confident, smooth way.....

7. Tease Him;-)

Not horribly, obviously, but in a flirty way. The boys love that, take it from me

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Types of boys

2012-04-19T12:58:00.005+05:30

Confused about your Boy...or Boy-to-be...or whatever? Just consult my handy-dandy guide to types of boys and you're smiling! This fortnight...The Computer Geek, The Busy Hands Boy, and The Untouchable Boy --and comment me with suggestions if you know of any other types you want me to research at the usual address:

The Computer Geek

How To Recognise Him: You probably know the type I'm talking about. He's very clever, probably in all the top sets. His main things are his computer, his gameboy, his playstation...you understand. That is his life. I do not wish to stereotype, but he will probably either have really nasty hair or he will put so much gel on it that it will resemble a pan of chip fat. He can be quite good-looking but doesn't really take much time on his appearance. He hangs around with other computer geeks and the chances are you won't be able to stand them. He can be outwardly funny and goofy but inside lurks a shy, sensitive little creature.
Where You'll Find Him: Primarily, anywhere there is a computer. He may be in the library. Or, he will be hanging out with his friends in the usual computer geeks' hideout...your job is to find wherever your school's one is.
He Likes: His computer and playstation/gameboy, obviously. He likes having a laugh, but you may find his sense of humour weird...whatever turns you on! He also likes girls, though it may not seem that obvious.
He Dislikes: Losing a computer game, Other boys who are not on 'his level', and 'normality'.
How To Get Him: If your usual flirting style is very outrageous, please don't try it on him. Chances are he's very shy, or failing that, just not interested. However, you will need to be obvious, because he may be clever but he's very dim when it comes to stuff like that. So Obvious, but NOT outrageous. If you know anything about computers or games or whatever, that'll impress him as a conversation starting point, but if not, please don't embarass yourself.

The Busy Hands Boy

How to recognise him: He's always chasing, following, or touching/hugging/putting his arm around some girl, and it's always a different one. The kind of boy you'd usually take a ten mile hike to avoid (well, that's me, not sure about you). Unfortunately, he's usually drop dead gorgeous and therefore very difficult to resist. He'll have gelled, spiky hair and a cheeky, flirty smile. He'll also have a looooooooooooong history of ex-girlfriends.
Where You'll find him: Either with his mates talking (in a very degrading manner, obviously) ABOUT girls, or with a girl trying to butter her up. He's probably very popular, with a large group of friends, so chances are you'll know his territory anyway.

He Likes: Jordan, Britney, J.Lo, Beyonce.....Girls in general

He Dislikes: Girls kicking him where the sun don't shine. (When you're this kind of boy, it does happen on a regular basis)

How To Get Him: Basically, to get this boy, you have to play hard to get. He loves the challenge of the chase and if you give in to him straight away, the chances are he'll get bored with you. If he hasn't noticed you, flirt very outrageously with him so that he DOES notice you. Once you've got him eating out the palm of your hand, suddenly cool off. It'll leave him determined to get you, and once he does, he'll be much keener to hang on to you for as long as possible. It will also keep his hands away from any OTHER girl who dares to cross his path.

The Untouchable Boy

How To Recognise him: This one's not hard to recognise. He doesn't need to be fantastically good-looking (though this is often the case) but there's always SOME little thing about him that gets the girls flocking to him like sheep.Something you can't quite put your finger on. Loads of girls fancy the pants off him, but he is simply very, very, very picky. He doesn't want any of them. He'll have a haughty air, and probably a dry or cynical sense of humour. He's popular amongst his friends as the joker of the group.

Where You'll Find Him: In the middle of his group of friends, making them all laugh, or blowing off some poor girl.

He likes: Well, not many of the girls that like HIM, that's for sure. He likes his friends, and his playstation.

He Dislikes: See above sentence about girls. He also hates being got the better of.

How To Get Him: Similar strategy to busy-hands boy, but more subtle. First off, you HAVE to start an argument with him. A fun-one, obviously, not a serious one, or he'll never look at you again. That way, you'll always have a conversation-base and something to tease him with. And when this boy starts teasing you, you know you're on to a good thing. When he teases, you flirt and tease him back. Smile at him a lot...he likes that.

The Regular Boy

How To Recognise him: This one you can find it anywhere just look.he will wearing ordinary cloth no sense of styling and will be with his male friends all the time.as he won't be having no or few female friends.t get only one they will be in gang of 2-3 and will try to one girl whom they truly love.

Where You'll Find Him: one who is nice and in gang of 2-3 male friend group

He likes: he will like only one particular girl which they are trying to impress and giving their 100% towards this girl

He Dislikes: flirty girls how roams around him although she know he is already in love with other girl

How To Get Him: As he is already in love with that other girl there are less chances he will notice you. you'll always have a conversation-base and something to tease him with. And when this boy starts teasing you, you know you're on to a good thing. When he teases, you flirt and tease him back. Smile at him a lot...May be he will fall for that but there are less chances of happening them

Where You'll Find Him: one who is nice and in gang of 2-3 male friend group

He likes: he will like only one particular girl which they are trying to impress and giving their 100% towards this girl

He Dislikes: flirty girls how roams around him although she know he is already in love with other girl

How To Get Him: AS he is already in love with that other girl there are less chances he will notice you. you'll always have a conversation-base and something to tease him with. And when this boy starts teasing you, you know you're on to a good thing. When he teases, you flirt and tease him back. Smile at him a lot...May be he will fall for that but there are less chances of happening them

The Desperate Boys

How To Recognise him: This one you can find it anywhere just look.his style will be different cheap and weird and you can find him stalking & staring at you .this type of boys will be generally found in place where attractive girls are working out of spending good time with their other female .they will be the one continuous training at you and wearing weird and unique but cheap style

Where You'll Find Him: He will mostly be single or in group of 5-6 guys who seems to following his style friend group.

He likes: he likes all types of girl .They don't have any preference any girls will do as long as they agreed to go out with him.

He Dislikes: No girl will be there whom they don't like

How To Get Him: just smile at them and they will stalk you until you talk to them.

Where You'll Find Him: where there are attractive girls roaming around

He likes: cheap colour to hair and girls

He Dislikes: There is nothing in girls they don't like

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Home

2012-04-18T22:46:00.001+05:30

Boring but defination of a boyfriend

　

A boyfriend is a regular male companion in a romantic although normally not in long-term committed (e.g. marital) relationships, where other titles (e.g. husband, partner) are more commonly used.

The term "guy friend" can refer to a male non-romantic and non-sexual friend

　

Now Something About me .......
People must be thinking why i created this page

off course i was dumped by guy whom i love alot....

i have done so many crazy things for him but at the end ...

he found another girl on internet and they planned to get married and didn't even told me ..

and finally he got married after being in relationship with me for 5 years

This blog is for the girls to share their story are if possible i will the problems of crazy BOYs you been having.