Jerralea's Journey

Five Minute Friday - Tender

2012-01-27T07:43:00.000-06:00

Last Friday was so much fun, I'm doing it again, I'm linking up at Gypsy Mama's blog for 5 Minute Friday, who says:

On Fridays around these parts we stop, drop, and write.

For fun, for love of the sound of words, for play, for delight, for joy and celebration at the art of communication.

For only five short, bold, beautiful minutes. Unscripted and unedited. We just write without worrying if it’s just right or not.

Won’t you join us?

Tender

When I think of the word tender, tenderhearted comes to my mind. I think we all would love a person who is tenderhearted and compassionate. You wouldn't be afraid to tell a tenderhearted person when you messed up, because you know they would be forgiving and not hold your mistakes against you.

The opposite of tenderhearted would be a hard-hearted person, someone who would show no mercy or sympathy. You would approach such a person with fear and anxiety.

A lot of us might look at God in such a way. We don't have to feel that way! The bible tells us "For we have not an high priest which cannot be touched with the feeling of our infirmities; but was in all points tempted like as we are, yet without sin." Hebrews 4:15. He knows how we feel!

I think God is full of tender mercies because His word says "his compassions are new every morning!" (see Lamentations 3:22-23) I believe that means He has a never ending supply of mercy. His heart is ever tender towards us!

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Friday's Fave Five - January 27, 2012

2012-01-27T07:05:00.003-06:00

I'm not one to mess with success. Last week's FFF format went over so well, I thought I would do it again!

1. Fave post to write: My goal as a blogger is to be more prolific this year. I'm off to a good start with 19 posts alone in the month of January (and 4 days left to go!) I'm branching out into some new areas and having a lot of fun. My favorite post to write this week was Top 10 Life Stories. I've gotten some comments that people are surprised I can remember that many stories. I've got plenty more where that came from! I have a great long-term memory bank. (Short-term is another story.) Actually, I was torn between my favorite posts, so I have to give honorable mention to my post, God-Bumps: How God Gave Us What We Wanted.

2. Fave quote: I am actually sharing a quote that I saw a year ago, but I'm still pondering it:

"... what God is calling out to you is to Embrace YOUR Place. Be faithful where He has called you until He moves you on to another stage. Allow Him to do a work in you and stop thinking about what you want Him to do through you.” … Holly Furtick, The Preacher’s Wife blog

3. Fave photo: Actually I have two. A new french door fridge for my kitchen! Excitation!

A sweet friend sent flowers for my birthday. (Actually other friends brought chocolate cake, chocolate peanut butter bars, cards and a Willow Tree Angel, but I only have a picture of the flowers.)

4. Fave meal: This week's favorite meal was Santa Fe soup that I assembled before I left for work and put in the crock pot. I love meals like those! You come home, the house smells delish, and you can have the table set and be ready to eat in minutes. This great recipe comes from no other than our own Lisa Writes! Click here to see the link.

5. Fave new blog to visit: I already gave you a heads up about the preacher's wife blog (just click on her button), but I also want to share a new blog that I've been linking up with - Jennifer's Getting Down With Jesus. Jennifer runs a great blog party called God Bumps and God-Incidences. Check her out here!

But no one can compare to our fabulous Friday's Favorite Five hostess, Susanne. You can visit her at Living to Tell the Story.

Tea Talk - Thursday, January 26, 2012

2012-01-26T06:30:00.000-06:00

1. I'm having...coffee with my newest obsession: Cafe Mocha creamer by CoffeeMate. Oh it's so good! I'm using my old faithful coffee cup, my SEMO mom cup.

2. I'm feeling....in a good mood.
3. On my mind....thoughts of birthdays and aging. I had a birthday this week and I find that, as usual, I do not feel any older. I'm thinking that your spirit (or the you inside) never really ages. I'm also thinking, "what does God have in store for me in this season of my life?" It will be fun to find out!
4. A verse to encourage us in our quest to eat healthy:

“When you go out to dinner with an influential person, mind your manners:
Don't gobble your food,
don't talk with your mouth full.
And don't stuff yourself;
bridle your appetite.”

Proverbs 23:1-3 THE MESSAGE

See, the bible is full of good advice for every situation!

Tea Talk is a meme that focuses on the positive. Ruth at Celebrate Friendship is the hostess. Visit her and link up today!

God Bumps - How God Gave Us What We Wanted

2012-01-25T07:03:00.000-06:00

Last week, I shared how God worked things out for me to have the jobs that I do. My story doesn't end there. God planned for me to work where I do. I know that without a shadow of a doubt. Not only am I where I am supposed to be, but God knew that I would need to be here for a future event that would happen.

You know, God's word says that He will order our steps.

"The LORD directs the steps of the godly. He delights in every detail of their lives." Psalm 37:23

Not only did God lead me to the job He wanted me to have, He also made provision for my needs in the future. He knew what I didn't know. He knew my church would be such a help to me when our house was flooded this past spring.

First of all, when the flood waters were rising, the youth leader brought the youth group THREE times to my house to sandbag.

Later, after the house was flooded, the music director at our church volunteered to help rip out the sheet rock and put it back. (He just happened to be a building contractor.)

When we realized our kitchen cabinets were in rough shape, a man that goes to church where I work volunteered to redo the kitchen. (He happened to be an expert in kitchen renovations, especially in building kitchen countertops.) Another person that attends church where I work volunteered to pay for the materials to do our kitchen!

The youth pastor I work with just happened to flip houses before God called him into the ministry. He was invaluable to us with all the other remodeling that needed to be done. He knew the right people to call for the roof, the windows, the siding. He knew the best place to get the carpet. He walked us through the whole process!

Co-incidence? I think not! This was definitely an example of a God-Incidence. Seven years ago, God led me to JFBC. He took delight in planning every detail of my life, even planning the people that would be working with me when we were in crisis.

For years, we had wanted a new house. However, we never could decide if we should just remodel the one we had, or try to sell it and buy a newer one. Indecision had us a standstill. When our house went through the flood, there was no more indecision. It had to be fixed. No question about it. And so, we ended up with what we wanted - a new house - and God sent friends and money to help.

With a God like that on my side, there is no need to worry. I have learned to trust Him. He has the answer before I even ask!

We're sharing God-Incidences today. If you would like to share how God has worked in your life, link up at Jennifer's blog, Getting Down With Jesus.

Daybook for January 23, 2012

2012-01-23T21:23:00.000-06:00

FOR TODAY, MONDAY, JANUARY 23

Outside my window. ..gray windy day ...

I am thinking...about the story of Abraham and Sarah and Abimelech. Abimelech was a king and saw Sarah, realized her beauty, and had her taken into his harem. Apparently, Abraham had feared this would happen and had advised Sarah to say that she was Abraham's sister instead of his wife. He felt that he would be killed so that Abimelech could have Sarah.

I know it is hard to understand the mindset and the culture of that day, but this just seems so fantastic to me. I mean, really? Sarah must have been one incredibly beautiful woman to have this happen to her.

But what really blows my mind is when I realized this: this event happened AFTER the Lord appeared to Abraham and told him he would have a son in the next year. That's right, after! When Abraham was 100 and Sarah was 90!

A 90 year old woman in a harem? Unbelievable! More about this later ...

I am thankful...for my bible. I would hate to be without it.

In the kitchen...I'm taking the easy way out tonight and serving tacos. I need some new inspiring ways to have quick meals ...

I am wearing...gray slacks and cardi, gray, black and turquoise top. Turquoise necklace and earrings.

I am creating...bloggy ideas.

I am going... to add some new memes to my writing routine. Lately, I have discovered so many interesting blog parties. So many opportunities, so little time to post!

I am wondering... if my candidate will still be on the ticket by the time I get to vote in the primary.

I am reading..."Rebel With a Cause" by Franklin Graham

I am hoping...for God to call someone to lead our women's ministry this year.

I am looking forward to... when the we get some more color in the scenery! Winter's gray tree limbs just depress me.

I am learning that I have to write everything down or I forget ...

Around the house...some cleaning and rearranging because we are having a new refrigerator delivered Thursday.

I am pondering...a situation that I don't know how to answer. I'm glad I know Who does know the answer!

A favorite quote for today...

"You will invest your life in something, or you will throw it away on nothing."
Haddon Robinson

One of my favorite things...milk chocolate

A few plans for the rest of the week: meetings every night the first part of the week - collapsing the second part!

A peek into my day... here is what my typical taco meal looks like:

Daybooking is a concept created by Peggy Hostetler. You can link up at her blog, The Simple Woman's Daybook.

Five Minute Friday - Vivid

2012-01-20T07:35:00.002-06:00

Today, I'm linking up at Gypsy Mama's blog for 5 Minute Friday, who says:

On Fridays around these parts we stop, drop, and write.

For fun, for love of the sound of words, for play, for delight, for joy and celebration at the art of communication.

For only five short, bold, beautiful minutes. Unscripted and unedited. We just write without worrying if it’s just right or not.

Won’t you join us?

Today's word is "vivid."

When I think of the word vivid, I think of colorful and bright.

Maybe even neon.

If I could be a vivid color, I think I would be a neon fuchsia. I would want to be feminine, so definitely something in the pink family. I would also want to be noticeable because who ever heard of a vivid color that did not stand out?

And my hubby's favorite color is fuchsia!

Of course, we can't be colors. I do think, though, a close humanly definition of vivid would be enthusiastic. So, if I can't be vivid, I can definitely be enthusiastic.

I want to find the joy in everything and be excited about it all!

I can't stand dullness or apathy.

So, yes, I will be vividly enthusiastic! (I think I am on my way. After all, look how many exclamation points I use in my writing!)

Wow, this was a much more difficult exercise in writing than I thought it would be. I'm afraid my perfectionist tendencies kept me from really writing without editing. I'm going to have to have a timer handy for next week.

Friday's Fave Five-January 20

2012-01-19T22:31:00.003-06:00

I can't believe that it is already Friday or that January is more than half over! Has your week went just as quickly? You might want to do what I do: share my highlights in a fabulous meme called "Friday's Fave Five." You link up with some great folks at Susanne's blog, Living to Tell the Story and share five (or more) favorites from your week. It helps to keep the week fresh in your memory, and it helps you end up the week on a positive note.

There are always favorites to find!

This week was all about posting for me. Some weeks, I have a lot to talk about, others, not so much. Joy was the topic of a couple different posts. My favorite post to write was "Bloom Where You Are Planted." But my bloggy favoritest (I just made that word up) of the week is that I finally figured out how to get email subscriptions going! Please consider subscribing to my blog. I wouldn't want anyone to miss a daily dose of my faith-filled quirkiness! You can subscribe at the box on the right on my blog, right above the followers box. Say, while you're there, would you consider being a follower? It would give me joy!

Favorite quote of the week: I already shared in Tea Talk this jewel of a quote that I ran across at Shan's blog, Family Brings Joy. It's a quote about marriage from Martin Luther!

"Let the wife make the husband glad to come home, and let him make her sorry to see him leave"

Isn't that wonderful? Click on Shan's blog to see some artwork she found to go with that quote.

Favorite photo of the week - around the house:

I'll leave a light on for you!

Favorite meal this week was Friday night out with our friends, Wayne and Glenda. We went to Marion (or was it Paducah?) and had pizza at our favorite pizzeria and went shopping. I was excited because I found a pair of shoes at a great price. I love me some shoes! The evening was topped off by ... ice cream at Dairy Queen. It doesn't seem to matter what we do or where we go, we always end up with ice cream.

Favorite new blog to visit: I've been encountering some new blogs lately. I thought from time to time I would share with you so that you could enjoy them, too. This week, I visited Layla at The Lettered Cottage and linked up at her "This Little Word of Mine" blog party. It was lots of fun, and I met a lot of great bloggers. (I haven't made it to all the blogs yet, but I'm hoping to check them all out.)

My word was JOY, in case you hadn't guessed!

And so, that wraps up a week in the life of Jerralea. Hope you had a wonderful blessed week as well!

Choose Joy

2012-01-19T07:00:00.003-06:00

It's Writers Workshop day at Mama Kat's. If you'd like to participate, click here. I chose this prompt for my post this week: "What brings you joy in good time (and bad)? Inspired by Oprah."

It's sort of ironic that she would ask this question because I had just decided that "Joy" was my word for 2012. I wrote a post explaining my joy here. Please go read it. I'll wait.

Are you back? Good. You may ask what more can you say about joy?

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I just wanted to add that having joy is a conscious decision. You choose joy when bad times come. You remember the things you've already been through and you know you will end up a better person when all is said and done.

Yes, sometimes it will be hard. Who ever said life would be easy?

I feel that one way to always choose joy is to have visual reminders to help me remember my choice. I'm planning on having the word joy everywhere! Right now, I have a Scrabble letter holder on my desk with tiles spelling joy. This is just the beginning. By the end of the year, I'm going to see "joy" everywhere I look.

Another important thing to help me feel joyful is to be careful what I think. If I dwell on hurtful, depressing and discouraging things, of course, it will suck away all my joy! Instead I will focus on lovely things, happy times, humor, beauty and blessings.

Hmmm... that sounds familiar ...

"And now, dear brothers and sisters, one final thing. Fix your thoughts on what is true, and honorable, and right, and pure, and lovely, and admirable. Think about things that are excellent and worthy of praise." Philippians 4:8

What brings you joy in good times (and bad)? That was the prompt I chose from Mama Kat's Writer's Workshop this week.

For me, it always comes back to the Word of God. I'll always find joy there!

How about it? Will you join me on my journey to joy?

Remember, it's a choice.

Tea Talk for Thursday, January 19

2012-01-19T06:14:00.004-06:00

1. I'm having...I'm having coffee with a new creamer, Cafe Mocha by CoffeeMate, in my teacup from my first set of Corelle. I thought it was named Spice of Life but I found out it is Indian Summer. Oops!

2. I'm feeling....in a positive frame of mind.

3. On my mind.... a post about legacy that I want to do soon. My great grandfather left a spiritual legacy. I'm wondering how our family is carrying it forward.

4. A quotation to encourage:

" Let the wife make the husband glad to come home, and let him make her sorry to see him leave." Martin Luther

I saw this on Shan's blog, Family Brings Joy, and knew I wanted to share it with you. I never knew Martin Luther said anything about marriage before. I think he is certainly right on with his thought. If wives worked at making home an inviting place, and husbands worked on being pleasant to their wives while they were home, I think it would cut down on the divorce rate!

Ruth at Celebrate Friendship is the hostess of Tea Talk. Stop by her blog for some tea and encouragement.

Bloom Where You're Planted

2012-01-17T20:00:00.001-06:00

Last week, I shared how I found my calling in life with the crowd that frequents God-Incidences and God Bumps at Jennifer's blog.

Today, I am going to share how I remained a church secretary.

The first five years of being a church secretary was the greatest! I mean seriously, I had to make myself go home at the end of the day because there was so much to do and I wanted to be a part of all of it. The creativity that flowed in that office was just phenomenal. We had some staff that really thought outside the box and every day was just an adventure.

But since I worked with humans, there finally came a time when some problems surfaced. Deep problems. You see, our church had put our pastor up on a pedestal. There is but one place to go after that ...

Three years later, things were a mess! And the sad fact was this: the church could no longer afford to pay me a full-time wage. Since my husband was on disability, I knew this meant I must look for a different job.

For eight years now, I had make the church my second home. I didn't know how I could function anywhere else!

Because of the hurt I had experienced, I decided that I needed to find a job that had benefits. After all, I had my family to support. I needed insurance, retirement, sick days; why, it would sure be nice to get a bonus every once in awhile! I applied everywhere I could think of to apply, starting with all the area hospitals and schools. I put in application upon application up to a 50 mile radius of where I lived. Believe me, I had never worked so hard to find a job.

All of that activity and no results! I mean, I only got one interview, at a place that was pretty obvious I wouldn't fit in. The boss was looking for someone who would be a real team member (read: lackey who would work as many hours as asked without complaining.) I had three young daughters and a disabled husband. I couldn't work 60 hours a week!

Finally, I asked God what He wanted me to do. Funny, I didn't think of asking that first!

The very evening that I asked God's help, I looked in this little newspaper the county north of us distributed for free. There I saw an ad for a church secretary. Those kind of ads are rare. Usually churches just put the word out, and someone that a church member knows usually gets the job. I didn't think I knew anyone in that county. Since I was desperate, the very next day, I mailed them my resume. Mail delivery is slow in the city that I worked in, so I mailed it from a little town I passed through on my way to work.

The next day, the Pastor called me for an interview. Turns out that someone in that church did know me - their daughter and son-in-law were former members of the church where I was currently employed. They gave a glowing recommendation and I was hired on the spot.

Pastor told me that the day I saw the help wanted ad was the very last day the ad was going to run. They had run the ad for 3 weeks and not one person applied. The pastor had decided he would try something else and pulled the ad, but NOT before I saw it! It was definitely all in God's timing.

Since then, I have learned a lot of things. I have learned that if you have received a clear call to do something, you don't move until God tells you to move. I had felt a definite call to be a church secretary. God had not called me to be anything else, so that is where I needed to stay. I needed to bloom where I was planted; in other words, make the best of my situation stay where I am and be all I can be. Just because it was time to leave my first church didn't mean it was time to leave my ministry altogether.

If you would like to share how God has worked in your life, link up at Jennifer's blog, Getting Down With Jesus.

Joy is the word for 2012

2012-01-16T20:11:00.001-06:00

I heard about Layla from The Lettered Cottage issuing a challenge to choose a word to be the theme for your upcoming year.

I chose the word "Joy." I've always loved the word joy; in fact, I named my first baby girl's middle name as Joy. Joy also means delight, and we were delighted to have her in our lives.

Joy is different than happiness. Happiness depends on the circumstances, joy is assurance that all will work out despite the circumstances.

"Another way we might put it is that we have happiness BECAUSE of our situation, we have joy IN SPITE OF our situation.

Joy comes as a result of a complete trust in the love of God and a deep desire for the will of God to be done in the world, no matter what the cost might be to ourselves." [Anne Robertson]

"Happiness is an emotion and temporary; joy is an attitude of the heart." [Brian Cromer]

Quoted by Sean White: "a good analogy for happiness and joy. It goes like this: Happiness is like a thermometer that changes based the environment around it. Joy is a thermostat that we can learn to set and will effect the enviroment around it."

The reason I picked joy as my word for 2012 was because of lessons learned in 2011. I learned that even though a flood may come, God will work everything out for the better. We were flooded in May 2011. We had to rebuild our home, camping out in my aunt's home in the meantime. In 3 months time, with a lot of help from God and friends, we moved back home to something nicer and newer than what we had. Best of all, we were totally debt-free!

Of course, we didn't know that at the time. On May 1st, 2011, at 2 a.m. in the morning, when we had to wade through the water and climb over a levee of sand bags, each of us holding a laundry basket with what earthly possessions we could scrabble together, it sure didn't feel like it would all turn out for good.

God taught us that we can trust Him. He does care. You can ask and it will be given to you.

However, the lessons didn't stop there. We've also had to deal with other situations, such as car wrecks that seemed total losses but became testimonies of God's goodness, and items that needed costly repairs but instead were fixed for few dollars. It just seemed like we were in a season of blessing. God just took care of our every need.

Of course, not every test and trial in 2011 was about physical needs. Some were spiritual, some struggles involved people. The answers to every problem have not come in yet.

In all these things, I am learning not to worry. God has a plan. Sometimes it involves pain and loss, but in the end, it will be well. Jeremiah 29:11 tells us that God has a plan for us, to give us an expected end.

I really do have a spirit of joy because I firmly believe I know who is in control, and now I know that I know that I know, I am loved and God really really cares about me. No, I might not get my way every time. He's not a genie that you can ask for wishes to be granted. But if you are truly living for Him and obeying His Word, when you are in trouble, you can ask for help.

You can rest easy knowing He has a plan. He's never caught off guard. He's never unsure what to do.

So in 2012, my goal is to always choose JOY!

The LORD has done great things for us,
and we are filled with joy.

Psalm 126:3

Daybook-January 16, 2012

2012-01-16T06:31:00.001-06:00

FOR TODAY, MONDAY, JANUARY 16

Outside my window... another dreary day. It's not cold, just a gray day.

I am thinking...of new ways I could blog this year.

I am thankful...for all the Lord has done to help us in 2011. I should not worry about 2012 because I know how faithful He is to care for me.

In the kitchen...homemade hamburger helper and cornbread. I need comfort food on a gray day.

I am wearing...gray pants and gray cardi with a peach shirt. I'm also wearing my new gray shooties, or are they called booties? Anyway it's a shoe that looks like a boot. I'm also having a good hair day, and just let me say, when your hair looks good, and your feel good in your clothes, it just makes the day go so much better! So, don't wear something that you don't like! It's not worth it.

I am creating...new blog posts.

I am going...crazy .. I just answered the phone by saying, "Praise the Lord!" They hung up on me ...

I am wondering... what 2012 has in store for us. (Hmm... did I say that already? If so, I'm still wondering!)

I am reading... "Freedom Writers" by Erin Gruwell

I am hoping...for the dreams I have for my children to come to fruition.

I am looking forward to...my next day off! I got so spoiled during the holidays that now I dream of time off all the time!

I am learning...to lean on Him.

Around the house...piles of books and magazines for me to read. I love to read!

I am pondering...joy. More about this will be coming ...

A favorite quote for today... Martha Cook said, "In some way or other the Lord will provide; it may not be my way, it may not be thy way, and yet in His own way, the Lord will provide."

One of my favorite things...new shoes. Okay, retail therapy just works for me. Don't judge me!

A few plans for the rest of the week: get ready for a board meeting, blogging, reading and possibly some movie-watching.

A peek into my day...

My new shoes ... My daughter calls them "Pilgrim shoes," I say they're booties. What say you?

Daybooking is a concept created by Peggy Hostetler. It's a fun way to journal! If you'd like to join in, link up at her blog, " The Simple Woman's Daybook."

Friday's Fave Five - January 13, 2011

2012-01-13T06:33:00.006-06:00

Overall it's been a good week in my neck of the woods. Nothing earthshaking has happened, either good or bad. (Except for my email getting hacked, that was upsetting, but I'm over it.)

So, I've got nothing for you guys. No amusing anecdotes, no road trips, no photos, nothing. Thanks for dropping by. See you next week.

But wait! There is always some kind of highlight or favorite to be found, right? I mean that's the premise of this exercise, to find five good things in your week. Does it matter if it has already been said? A good thing is still a good thing, even if you have talked about it for a bajillion times.

1. I love me some casual Fridays. I dress up seven days a week. When you work 6 days a week and then go to church on the 7th day, dressing up can get old. So, I wear dress jeans on both Fridays and Saturdays. I wear dressy tops and shoes with them but still, it feels so good to wear jeans!

2. On that same note, I love my comfy clothes that I change into when I get home. I have a pair of flannel pajama pants that feel sooooooooo good. I also have a comfy top that is just so comforting to put on. Too bad they don't match!

3. Which brings to mind another good thing that I've written about endlessly (no, it's not my bed), I love the ambiance and warmth of home. Sometimes when I'm having a stressful day, I just mentally picture me sitting on my favorite spot on the couch, with my feet up, my favorite throw nearby, some tea ready to drink on the nearby end table. I see the lamps on with their warm glow, a few flickering candles and somehow, peace just comes over me. As Winnie the Pooh said, "Home is the comfiest place to be." I heartily endorse the sentiment.

4. God's word: the most comforting thing of all! I love the word so much. It excites me when I look at scripture and something just jumps out at me! This week, I'm all excited about this scripture in the Message version:

We thank you, God, we thank you— your Name is our favorite word;
your mighty works are all we talk about. – Psalm 75:1 MSG

I know, I talked about that same scripture yesterday, but it's so good I want to talk about it again! The name of Jesus is my favorite word and I do love to talk about Him. He has done so much for me! I also love the fact that I can read His word in more than one version. Comparing versions can bring clarity. I was just asked this week what I would recommend for a second version to own. I was torn between the New Living Translation and the Message. In the end, I chose the New Living Translation. To me, the Message version is more poetic; for every day study, I like the NLT. Of course, I love the Amplified, the Holman Christian Study Bible and also the New Century Version. So many to choose from, what a blessing!

5. Blogging: I just love to blog and I also love to read blogs. I'm always thinking about it! I want to give props to the FFF family of bloggers. You all are such a great group, and I appreciate that you visit each others blogs to comment. You're probably the best group of commenters out in cyberspace.

Okay, I did find five things! If you'd like to share your five (or more!) link up at Susanne's Living to tell the Story.

January 12 Tea Talk

2012-01-12T06:18:00.004-06:00

1. I'm having...Irish Breakfast tea. This teacup was my mother-in-law's.

2. I'm feeling....a little blue ... God knows my heart and the reasons for it. We all have days where we feel a little down, but that doesn't mean we have to stay in that frame of mind!

3. On my mind.... my children and God's will for their lives.

4. A verse to encourage:

We thank you, God, we thank you— your Name is our favorite word;
your mighty works are all we talk about. – Psalm 75:1 MSG

I love His name. This scripture reminds me of a chorus we like to sing at my church:

Praise the name of Jesus!

He's My Rock

He's My Fortress

He's My Deliverer, in Him will I trust!

Praise the name of Jesus!

I do trust Him with my loved ones, and I know His plans and purposes will come to pass! He has never failed me yet, and He never will.

Tea Talk is a meme hosted by Ruth at Celebrate Friendship. Visit her blog and share with the wonderful ladies there!

God-Incidences-How I Ended Up In My Profession

2012-01-10T20:54:00.005-06:00

A good man's steps, the Bible says, are ordered of the Lord. I totally agree. I can look back and see how God orchestrated certain things to happen in my life.

I was young when I got married, only 20, and at that time in my life, I didn't know of anything I wanted to do other than be a homemaker and mother. Why go to college when you don't know what it is that you would like to study? I felt like it would be a waste of money.

Later on, I regretted that sort of thinking. I was a mother with three young daughters and my husband became ill. In fact, his illness had progressed to the point that I knew I needed to go back to work to supplement the family income. Little did I know that in time, I would end up being the breadwinner. If only I had a college degree! Not having a career definitely hampered my job search ...

One day, after a discouraging day of job hunting, my 10 year old asked me, "Mom, if you could have any job you wanted, what would it be." I stopped and thought, and then said with growing excitement, "I would like to be a church secretary." How perfect! After all, I'd already done just about every volunteer job in the church, why not actually work there!

Have you ever heard the saying, "from my lips to God's ears" before? It was like God was waiting for me to SAY what I wanted. The very next day, a girl called me and said, "Jerri, I was wondering if you might like a job being a church secretary. Our church needs one, and today during my prayer time, God told me to call you about it." How amazing! This girl lived in a different city. She hadn't seen me in a long time. She didn't know I was looking for a job. I definitely view this as a "God-incidence."

image from The Newsletter Newsletter

Long story short, I got the job. Fifteen years later, I am still a church secretary. It took another God-incidence to keep me in the profession. I'll save that story for another post.

If you'd like to join in sharing stories of how God has worked in your life, visit Jennifer at Getting Down With Jesus.

Daybook 01.09.2012

2012-01-09T06:48:00.002-06:00

FOR TODAY, MONDAY, JANUARY 9TH

Outside my window... a dreary day ...

I am thinking...about goals for 2012

I am thankful...to have had the Oklahoma kids home for a visit.

In the kitchen...homemade pizza and a salad

I am wearing...black jeans, boots and cardi, and a black, red and beige ruffly shirt. I'm wearing a favorite pair of fleur-de-lis earrings.

I am creating...a bible study lesson

I am going...to enjoy my night at home tonight

I am wondering...what it will take to get certain people to open their eyes!

I am reading...nothing right now but I'm about to start "Freedom Writers" by Erin Gruwell and her students. I'm looking forward to it. My daughter - the - math - teacher is so pumped about it! Erin Gruwell recently came to the high school where my daughter teaches. Her speeches seemed to be life-changing with both the students and faculty. I can't wait to find out more. Erin said something I think bloggers can use: "Write what needs to be written." Am I just writing fluff, or something that needs to be said?

I am hoping...to find some inspiration ....

I am looking forward to...getting my hair done this Thursday. I love getting my style "freshened!"

I am learning to wait for God's answer to a situation I am concerned about.

Around the house... everything is back to normal. The Christmas decor is packed away for another year.

I am pondering...who God's choice for our church Women's Ministry leader for 2012 will be?

A favorite quote for today... "Perhaps too many Christians are overspending on themselves when they should be economizing for the kingdom." from David Jeremiah in today's Turning Point Devotional. Ouch!

One of my favorite things...the end of the day when my husband and I watch our DVR recording of each day's Jeopardy game show program. We are big trivia fans!

A few plans for the rest of the week: preparing bible lesson to present Wednesday, trip to hair salon Thursday.

A peek into my day...

I'm remembering last summer sitting on the banks of the Ohio river about dusk and seeing this beautiful scene created by God.

The daybook is a concept created by Peggy Hostetler. You can link up at her blog, The Simple Woman's Daybook.

First Friday Fave Five in 2012

2012-01-06T06:51:00.004-06:00

2012 seems to be like all the other years - time goes by really quickly. The first week of 2012 is almost over!

As always, I like to reflect on the highlights of the past week on Fridays. I join a great group of bloggers at Susanne's Living to Tell the Story to do just that.

1. Putting up the Christmas decor: I hate to say it, but I'm always ready to put up all the Christmas decorations as soon as the new year is here. After a month, it just feels overwhelming to me. In the past few years, I've had poinsettias as part of the Christmas decor. This year, I just had two small white ones. I decided to give them a new look by putting them together in a cheery yellow bucket:

I decided they would look great in my kitchen, next to my island. Have I said how much I love my island?

2. My last day off for awhile was Monday. I thoroughly enjoyed it as I declared it another work-free, jammie-clad day. While lounging in our living room, my hubby noticed a huge amount of birds were in out yard. I ran for the camera and managed to shoot this photo as they all rose up at once to fly away:

Of course, the movie, "The Birds" came to mind!

3. On Thursday, we met our kids at a small Mexican restaurant. They are in town to attend a wedding on Daniel's side of the family. Seeing my kids and eating out = love!

My favorite young married couple!

4. Quote of the week:

“If it matters, you make the time.

If it doesn’t, you make excuses”

… Ann Voskamp

I saw this in one of Ann's blog posts this week. I really love reading her blog. She definitely always presents a challenge!

5. I've had a good week at work and accomplished some goals. However, there is still plenty to be done, so I'm reveling in the fact that they need me here!

How did your week go? Link up at Susanne's and tell us!

To Punch or Be Punched, That Is The Question

2012-01-05T07:00:00.000-06:00

This week, one of the prompts on Mama Kat's Writer's Workshop is to "Tell us about something you punched." I now notice that I could have written about punching someTHING instead of someONE, but I already had decided to tell you this true story from my childhood. It's a wonderful story of sticking up for your man!

When I was a little tyke, we lived in a suburb of Chicago. Surprisingly, we walked to school. In the early 60's, most kids did walk to school unless you lived in the country. We also walked home for lunch every day.

When I was in kindergarten, my mom walked me back and forth to school. But when I became a first-grader, she walked me to the corner. Then I stopped at a little boy's house and joined up with him to walk the rest of the way to school together.

The little boy's name was Greg. He had a snaggle-toothed grin and a burr haircut. He was quiet and shy. I decided that he was my boy-friend.

I was a skinny little kid that was always jumping around with excitement and talking a mile-a-minute. We were the perfect match!

Our favorite time of the day was recess, of course. I can remember all the kids being in the play-yard at one time, even the huge sixth-graders! There was a lot of running, skipping rope and hopscotch. We also played leap frog; one day, leaping over each others backs in a long line as we moved into the classroom. Leapfrog in the halls was fun!

I really don't know why, but there was a sixth-grade boy who did not like Greg. He called him "Greggy" in an annoying whiny voice. He always tried to take away whichever swing or seesaw that Greg tried to use. If no teacher was looking, he liked to shove Greg. He was just a bully.

During a gray day that looked like it could snow any minute, Greg and I got to school early. Heading over to the playground equipment, I stopped and looked back. Greg was standing still as a statue staring up into the bully's face. I don't know what was said, or why, but the bully pulled back his fist and looked like he was going to punch Greg right in the nose.

Not even thinking for one second, I stepped in front of Greg just as the bully's fist connected with MY nose. I was angry. You don't punch MY boy-friend!

Luckily, my nose was not broken, but I did bleed, which scared all of us! A teacher came up then and sent all of us to the principal's office for fighting.

I don't remember what happened to the other two, but the principal told me it would be wise to stop and think before I stepped into another fight.

She didn't have to tell me twice!

That was the first and only time in my school career that I was called to the principal's office. I don't remember what happened to Greg. In the middle of second grade I moved to another school district and promptly forgot him.

Years later, I was looking through my husband's school pictures. I found a picture that showed him sporting a burr haircut and wearing a shirt much like Greg used to wear. Of course, my hubby was much more adorable than Greg, but it certainly reminded me of my first attempt to stick up for my man!

I guess I've always been a sucker for a burr-head boy!

The above was written in response to a prompt at Mama Kat's Pretty Much World Famous Writer's Workshop. If you would like, link up here and join the fun!

Tea Talk for Thursday, January 5, 2012

2012-01-05T06:45:00.001-06:00

1. I'm having...my favorite Irish Breakfast tea in my new mug, a gift from my youngest daughter. She knows I'm a sucker for anything with scripture on it!

2. I'm feeling....excited. Tonight, I'm seeing my daughter and son-in-law from Oklahoma!

3. On my mind....thoughts of new beginnings. This time of year is so inspiring to me!

4. A verse to encourage:

“O my soul, bless God. From head to toe,
I’ll bless His holy name!
O my soul, bless God,
don’t forget a single blessing!

He forgives your sins- every one.
He heals your diseases- every one.
He redeems you from hell- saves your life!
He crowns you with love and mercy- a paradise crown.
HE WRAPS YOU IN GOODNESS- BEAUTY ETERNAL.
He renews your youth- you’re always young in His presence.”

Psalm 103:1-5, the Message (emphasis added)

I've always loved Psalm 103, but it really speaks to me in the Message version! I love that line, "you're always young in His presence."

Have a wonderful week, my friends, and remember your blessings!

Tea Talk is a meme hosted by Ruth at Celebrate Friendship. Experience a heart-lift and visit her blog!

2012 First Daybook

2012-01-02T10:36:00.002-06:00

FOR TODAY, JANUARY 2ND

Outside my window... a gorgeous sunny breezy day. I love seeing sunshine. It fills me with energy.

I am thinking... about where I want my blogging to go this year. I am considering a posting schedule with a monthly topic. I'm also thinking about hosting a linky party. Anyone want to share some input?

I am thankful...that I live in a country that allows me to express my opinions without fear.

In the kitchen...pork chops and broccoli and cheese, today.

I am wearing...jammies, because this is my last day off before going back to work. I'm declaring it another "Lazy Monday." Alas, this will be my last one for awhile ...

I am creating...goals for the new year.

I am going...no where!

I am wondering...what God has in store for me this year.

I am reading... "A Heart of Ice" by Lis Wiehl. I'm also starting today a reading a bible in a year program. I usually don't do this, but it's been a few years since I have done one, and I feel it's time to get back into a disciplined plan.

I am hoping...to improve each year in all the things that really matter.

I am looking forward to...next weekend when my daughter and son-in-law come home for a visit!

I am listening to...the clock ticking. I feel like it's telling me, "time is passing by ... don't waste it!"

Around the house...Christmas decor to be put up. Today is the day the tree will be put away. Okay, it's not going to be a totally "Lazy Monday."

I am pondering...how I can accomplish my goals.

One of my favorite things...a bright and shiny kitchen, all tidied up!

A few plans for the rest of the week: starting on my bible lesson for this month. I've got 9 days to finish it up. At work, I'll be placing a big order of office supplies and then finishing up setting up the 2012 files. (I didn't get done last week!) Also, I will be getting the year-end giving reports out. Looks like a big week, I'm really going to enjoy today before the madness begins!

Here is peek into my day... after I post this daybook, I'll do my bible reading. I'll follow that up with cleaning off my desk and putting dates in my calendar. We'll tackle the tree (we is me and my hubby) and then the rest of the day will be "lazy."

I wonder if my friend Glenda will be able to do this again this year?

The Daybook concept was created by Peggy Hostetler. I'm linking this up at her blog, The Simple Woman's Daybook.

Friday's Fave Five: The Week After Christmas

2011-12-30T07:25:00.002-06:00

It's that lovely time of year, the last week of the year, the week after Christmas. Everything seems in limbo. We're done with the old, just not quite ready to put on the new.

What a lovely time to pause and reflect on our favorites this week! What better place to do it than Susanne's blog, Living to Tell the Story?

1. Christmas was a lovely day. We celebrated at a shortened service at church. We had a good turn out and the mood was mellow as we all reflected on the blessings of the Christ child coming to live with mankind. Later on, we had a great afternoon as our youngest came home for Christmas dinner. It was wonderful to see her!

2. Boxing Day (or the day after Christmas) turned out to be my favorite for the week. I declared it "Lazy Monday" and did a crazy goofy thing (for me, anyway) and stayed in my pajamas ALL day. It was quite a treat. I lit all the candles and spent the day blogging and surfing the net all tucked up in my couch recliner. Ahhh... so relaxing!

3. All good things must come to an end, however, and on Tuesday I headed back to work. I had a little difficulty, though ... because that morning we received our first snowfall of the season!

This house across the street from where I work is a favorite of mine. I wanted to capture it with snow, so I snapped a photo as soon as I got to work.

A view of snowy trees and snow-capped roofs.

It's a good thing I took these photos when I did. By noon, Mr. Sun had melted all the evidence of our first snow away ....

4. The rest of the week passed by quite uneventfully. However, I did have a close call driving home last night. I had stayed late in town because I was getting my nails done. By the time I started home, it was dark as can be. THREE different times, I saw deer near the road. One time, one buck actually walked in front of me, but thank the Lord, I was able to evade him! Protection from deer is always a favorite in my book!

5. Tonight, I am anticipating a wonderful evening. We've invited two couples over to play Apples to Apples, Bible Edition with us. I can't wait! I know it will be fun!

How was the last week of 2011 for you? If you would like, link up and share at Susanne's Living to Tell the Story.

Blogpost Review: 2011

2011-12-29T03:53:00.001-06:00

If I were to sing a song about my blogposts this past year, sort of like the 12 days of Christmas, would there be one theme brought up repeatedly? Sort of like that pesky partridge in a pear tree?

On the first month after Christmas, I wrote about: Janae finding the right job for her (it took her all year to find it, but she did!); traditions; snow days; having a twinkle in your wrinkle; the perfect toasted cheese sandwich; and one's calling in life. My favorite post of the month was, "Thankful Thursday, What's My Significance."

In the second month after Christmas, I wrote about our youngest leaving home; scriptures that offer support when going through a trial; my fears that no one will remember me when I'm gone; the day I got "heart-attacked" at work; and becoming a two minivan family. February's favorite post to write was "The Opposite Life."

In the third month after Christmas not much writing was going on! I did manage to whine about being sick with an upper respiratory infection and discuss my goal of being perceived as normal. I got a kick out of writing the post, "Sleep, Glorious Sleep," (probably because I had been doing so much of it!)

In the fourth month after Christmas, I discussed Ann Voskamp's book, "One Thousand Gifts;" showed off pictures of my favorite table decorations and a gorgeous shot of my creeping phlox, shared God's providence of keeping a dress I wanted out of my reach until it went on sale; and talked about the work of Christians - believing. I also shared how the helpfulness of our friends during the rising flood waters touched my heart. My favorite post: "When I Am In A Mess of My Own Making."

In the fifth month after Christmas, my inspiration gave to me: FIVE GOLDEN WORDS .... la, la, la, la, la....

Oops, sorry, got carried away there ....

Actually not much golden was written about in May because that is when we became flood ~~victims~~ survivors. My favorite May post was "Thankful Thursday: Memorial Day"

The sixth month after Christmas, we were deep in the throes (definition: hard and painful struggle) of remodeling our flood-soaked home. Not one blog post got written!

The seventh month after Christmas, I shared about the work and relief of moving back into our own home. July's favorite post: "Friday's Fave Five #148."

The eighth month after Christmas, I shared a quote: "You don't get to choose how you're going to die, or when. You can only decide how you're going to live." … from the blog of “bcp … My Life.” I also shared pictures of my remodeled kitchen, pictures of favorite landmarks, talked about unpacking the last box, a game night with friends, and the value of silence. August's favorite post: "The Pause That Refreshes".

The ninth month after Christmas, inspiration gave to me: the value of state parks, and building up people with my words. I shared pictures of the furniture that FINALLY arrived, a tablescape and the Ohio river. I wrote about the importance of praise and the value of self-discipline, the simple pleasure of a well-made bed, and the fact that I am an alien. September's most fun post to write: "10 Things I Would Do If I Didn't Have to Work."

The tenth month after Christmas, I wrote about being a creature of habit, about the value of being an "energetic doer of good deeds," a fallen brother, and spiritual weapons. I shared pictures of my long-awaited burgundy shutters, an abundance of fall decor, both inside and out, and a new animal print rug. October's favorite post: "22 Things."

The eleventh month after Christmas brought discussion about our Women's Retreat, a quote by Edison, a scripture concerning being God's masterpiece, sharing a secret recipe for oatmeal, new crockpots and more gorgeous fall photography. I talked about a golden calf with golden toenails, big words, and the time my husband whacked off my hair with a penknife. My favorite November post, however was a little piece entitled, "My Bed, How I Love Thee."

Finally, the twelfth month after Christmas, inspiration brought to me: a post celebrating having a whole week off from work, a trip to Oklahoma, a girl with pink hair, my un-favorite Sunday dinner, and a whole lot of Christmas decor. December's favorite post to write: "Five Things."

And a p a r t r i d g e in a pear tree!

That wraps up Jerralea's Journey for the year. I see that I wrote most often about my faith, but at least 3 times about sleep and my love for my bed! It's good to know that my priorities are in place!

I'm linking this up to Mama Kat's Writer's Workshop. You can link up, too, here.

After Christmas Reflections

2011-12-26T16:25:00.002-06:00

The day after Christmas I am sitting on my couch relaxing, surfing the net and thinking random thoughts ...

Something I never blogged about this season, and I meant to do so, was the fact that I really appreciate living and working in a small town during the Christmas season. I actually work in a town that has something you don't see so much anymore - a town square. Although, I don't know why they call it a square because you drive around it in a circle! Anyway, our town has a little park with a fountain in the center of the square. It also has an old fashioned red phone booth in the park. No phone ...just the booth!

But I digress, the reason I mentioned our town square is because they also do something that is unique - they play Christmas music every day in the square over loud speakers. When you are waiting in line at the drive-thru at the bank, you can hear it clearly. I often wonder if the merchants in the businesses facing the square go bonkers hearing the music all day long?

I also wonder if some atheist will decide that their rights are being violated by songs in the air and will try to do something about it. It is so sad how a few can make a big deal about something and the majority will go along with it. Anything is accepted in the name of tolerance ...

Another random thought - I noticed in my blog side bar that as the years go by it seems I post less ... In 2009, over 200 posts. 2010 shows over 100 posts, and in 2011 under 100. Am I running out of things to say? (No, that can't be the reason!) More likely, it's just the fact I am getting busier as the years roll by.

In an effort to corral some of these random thoughts, I'm going to do the rest of this post in a daybook theme:

FOR TODAY, DECEMBER 26, 2011

Outside my window...a gray dreary day. We are supposed to get rain tonight that will supposedly change into a wintry mix of snow, freezing rain, sleet, etc. by tomorrow morning. Ugh.

I am thinking...how cozy I am wearing my jammies and sitting in the living room with candlelight gleaming. I have declared it "lazy Monday." I'm going to wear jammies all day and just do what I want to do. Returning to the workaday world starts tomorrow: for today, I am extending Holiday time off!

I am thankful...to have a warm snug home. I'm also thankful for the insulating, new roof and new windows we had done when remodeling. Our utility bills are less this year, yet we are warmer. No more cold drafts in this house!

In the kitchen... not much going on, but I am going to try out a new recipe, "Cheddar Baked Chicken," later today.

I am wearing...my red and black checked pajama pants, red long pajama top and warm gray socks. So comfy!

I am creating...a new menu plan. Our old one needs some tweaking.

I am going...NOWHERE!

I am wondering...what the new year will bring.

I am reading...nothing right now. I just finished reading Jodi Picoult's book about a teenager with Asperger's, "House Rules." It was really riveting and I learned a lot about Asperger's.

I am hoping...for a great year with no problems... what everyone hopes for, right?

I am looking forward to...Friday evening. We are having friends over and are going to play Apples to Apples. I found a bible edition of the game, so I am excited to try it.

I am hearing... my favorite winter time song, "Walking in a Winter Wonderland." I can't help it - I hum this song around the house a lot.

In fact, I am one of those annoying people that hum and sing around the house all the time! Am I the only one that does that? I told my daughter that I think people are happier if they sing all the time. Do you think I'm right?

Around the house...candlelight, Christmas music and some Christmas clutter that has not been put up yet .... (Now the radio is playing "The Hallelujah Chorus." I love it!)

I am pondering... what I want the focus of 2012 to be.

One of my favorite things... no-bake cookies. I'm about to have one.

A few plans for the rest of the week: organizing at the office. Everyone is going to be on vacation this week except me. I'm planning on getting my 2012 files ready to go.

Here are pictures for thought I am sharing... some more Christmas decor pictures ...

You can see the reflection of my bulb tree in the mirror.

Here are 3 bulb trees together. I like the middle one best

The daybook concept was created by Peggy Hostetler at The Simple Woman's Daybook. Visit her blog if you'd like to link up.

Friday's Fave Five for Christmas Week 2011

2011-12-23T10:44:00.000-06:00

Hey! Well, my week was jammed with activities. I bet yours was, too. A great way to remember what happened when to share each week the five highlights of your week at Susanne's Living to Tell the Story!

1. I always love to see one of my cuties dressed up! Here is our daughter, Elissa, all glammed up to go to a party.

2. Crafty goodness: Remember last week I mentioned a craft I was excited to try?

A Christmas tree made out of glass bulbs held together by ... a knitting needle! This did not turn out as easy as it sounds, however. It turns out that you have to be careful with which glass bulbs you buy. Nowadays some of their hangers are not equipped with the large loop of wire that they used have. The newer style hangers are too narrow to go over the knitting needle! Another problem is finding the right sizes. You want large bulbs graduating to the smallest bulbs. Naturally, I waited too late in the year to find all the sizes in the colors I wanted. I did make three trees, but Blogger is too slow today and I only had patience to load one of the pictures. However, next year I intend to have a forest of glass bulb trees!

3. Family get-togethers: We had a party over at Jim's brother's house for his side of the family this week. Lots of good food and visiting. And we got to see the new baby!

Here's Jim with his new great niece: Addi!

4. To make the week even better, the next night we went out to eat with Jim's other brother and his family. Two nights in a row that I didn't have to cook or have kitchen clean-up duty! You have to love that!

5. Today our office is closed for Christmas. We will be off Monday as well, so definitely time off makes my list of faves.

I hope all my readers have a wonderful Christmas holiday as we celebrate the greatest gift ever given: JESUS!