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        <title>Sunday Night Mind Dump</title>
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        <updated>2009-07-12T20:27:25-07:00</updated>
        <summary>The music today was absolutely off the chart! Probably the best it has been in months! Mike is finding the Meadow groove! Train wreck with lights. Technical glitch. Totally threw me. Super Dave got it figured out after service so...</summary>
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<li>The music today was absolutely off the chart!  Probably the best it has been in months!  Mike is finding the Meadow groove!</li>
<li><span>Train wreck with lights.  Technical glitch.  Totally threw me.  Super Dave got it figured out after service so next week we'll be back to normal lighting.</span> </li>
<li><span>Today's message was one of the most difficult I have preached in a long time.  Not expecting that.  About 5 minutes into it, I thought, "This is not going as I expected."</span></li>
<li><span>I didn't spend enough prep time for my teaching this week.  Spent too much time doing administration stuff.  My teaching and prep for that comes first.  If the program doesn't get done this week - not gonna worry about it.</span></li>
<li>FPU continues to be totally awesome!  People are getting so focused on getting out of debt and taking control of their money.</li>
<li>Friday night was a night of shining Meadowites ... getting rowdy at extreme bowling and being part of the Relay for Life. </li>
<li>Great time on the lake with Jess.  She pulled in more panfish than you can count.  I pulled in 2 nice northerns and 4 nice bass...one a 4 pounder!</li>
<li>I'm tired.  Last week and today really sucked the energy out of me. </li>
<li><span>Made a major voluntary financial decision this week that will cut our income by about 13%.  I'd be lying if I said "no big deal."</span></li>
<li><span>Already looking forward to next Sunday.</span></li>
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        <title>Sunday Night Mind Dump</title>
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        <published>2009-06-28T20:24:43-07:00</published>
        <updated>2009-06-28T20:24:43-07:00</updated>
        <summary>Day started off with a great morning @ Meadow and is ending with tears and heartbreak because of my dog. We are taking her to the vet tomorrow and she may not be coming home. I have had other dogs...</summary>
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<li>Day started off with a great morning @ Meadow and is ending with tears and heartbreak because of my dog.  We are taking her to the vet tomorrow and she may not be coming home.  I have had other dogs growing up - but Paws has truly been man's best friend.</li>
<li>My family is more important to me than anything else aside from my relationship with Jesus.  And when they hurt, I hurt.</li>
<li>Really was a great morning @ Meadow.  The message is uploaded at "Online Messages" @ <a href="http://www.meadowonline.org">www.meadowonline.org</a></li>
<li>I joked about Las Vegas today and found out afterwards that someone was visting from Vegas!</li>
<li>If someone is looking for a church filled with people who think they have it all together, then they won't be comfortable @ Meadow.  But if someone is looking for a church that is filled with imperfect people who know it and accept others who are imperfect, they they will be right at home.</li>
<li>We have the best volunteers ever.  Every Sunday, they go above and beyond the call of duty.</li>
<li>Weather was awesome today...nice breeze, not too hot, low humidity.</li>
<li>Ramping up for God @ the Movies is heating up.  It might be summer, but I think this is going to be HUGE in seeing people connect with and get right with God.</li>
<li>Still thinking through a series using the music of Queen.  Not sure how much I will sleep tonight - so I might put some brain time into it.</li>
<li>Been spending some time reflecting over the past year and all God has taught me, how He has changed me, and is still changing me due to my depression last summer &amp; fall.</li>
<li>Wonderin' what the next 24 hours will bring.</li>
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        <title>Announcing an Unprecedented Endeavor!</title>
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        <published>2009-06-25T08:51:59-07:00</published>
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        <summary>"God @ the Movies" - an unprecedented endeavor &amp; teaching series NEVER DONE BEFORE at Meadow - taking the summer's biggest movies as they collide with life's biggest issues! To maximize this series, a new website has been created ......</summary>
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<div xmlns="http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml"><p>"God @ the Movies" - an unprecedented endeavor &amp; teaching series NEVER DONE BEFORE at Meadow - taking the summer's biggest movies as they collide with life's biggest issues!  To maximize this series, a new website has been created ... <a href="http://www.GodAtTheMovies.com">www.GodAtTheMovies.com</a>!</p>
<p>From this site, you can...</p>
<ul>
<li>Learn more about this series</li>
<li>Watch the video trailer (and send the trailer to a friend)</li>
<li>Invite a friend</li>
<li>Read about each message</li>
<li>Become a Facebook Fan</li>
<li>Follow the latest news &amp; updates of "God @ the Movies" on Twitter</li>
<li>Take part in a Community Forum to ask questions, discuss, comment, &amp; engage in dialogue with others about the series.</li>
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<p>Check it out!  Send the link to all your friends!  Take part in the Community Forum!  Start building the buzz!</p></div>
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        <title>One year ago today...</title>
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        <published>2009-06-23T20:11:40-07:00</published>
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        <summary>One year ago today, I crashed into the valley of depression. It took me 3 months to admit it. You can listen to my story and how God carried me through this dark valley at www.meadowonline.org. Go to "Online Messages"...</summary>
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<div xmlns="http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml"><p>One year ago today, I crashed into the valley of depression.  It took me 3 months to admit it.  You can listen to my story and how God carried me through this dark valley at <a href="http://www.meadowonline.org">www.meadowonline.org</a>.  Go to "Online Messages" and find "The Pit of Depression".  </p>
<p>By the grace, mercy, and strength of Christ, I have been making changes in my priorities, leadership style, need for control, exercise commitments, and other areas.  Without question and without apology, the most important lesson I learned is that what matters most in life is my relationship with Christ and what He thinks, says, and expects of me - not what others think, say, or expect of me.  I live for Christ and Christ alone.</p>
<p>Today...I am still learning what it means to live the Christ-life.  But I love life, my wife, my kids, Meadow, the people of Meadow, non-Meadow friends, the fire department - more today than at any other time I can remember.  I get up looking forward to the day and when I go to bed, I can't wait to get up in the morning and do it all over again - discovering what new things God has in store for me and how I get to be a small part of His grand plan for this world.</p>
<p>I want everyone I know to know, possess, and experience what I know, possess, and experience.   It is highly likely you have already been invited by me to come to Meadow.  (And until you say yes - I will continue to invite you!!)  Why?  Not because I want you to hear me speak but because I want you to experience church and relationship with Christ in a way you have never experienced or heard before.  I really believe in our message and our style.  More so today than ever before.</p>
<p>Anyway...I'm headin for bed.  Later.</p></div>
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        <title>Sunday Night Mind Dump</title>
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        <published>2009-06-21T17:37:40-07:00</published>
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        <summary>Overall - all-around great weekend thanks to my wife, kids, and awesome peopel at Meadow. Paws is doing a little better. Her heart is strong. It's her back legs. One of these days she is going to lay down and...</summary>
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<li>Overall - all-around great weekend thanks to my wife, kids, and awesome peopel at Meadow. 
<li>Paws is doing a little better.  Her heart is strong.  It's her back legs.  One of these days she is going to lay down and just not be able to get back up. 
<li>Love going fishing with Sandy - even if she catches the biggest fish. 
<li>54 people @ Meadow going thru Financial Peace University!  3x what we were hoping for. 
<li>I LOVE leading Meadow.  THE greatest church in America! 
<li>Totally impressed with Rachel &amp; Sandy speaking today.  They really brought it! 
<li>Thursday was tough to say goodbye to Patti.  7 years as a great Admin. Assist.  Just glad it's only the end of a working relationship, not a friendship. 
<li>Overwhelmed by the giving of Meadowites.  Few people see it like I do or know the situations people are giving out of.  Loads of people are going to be bombarded with blessing from God. 
<li>There is such a fresh wind of energy and optimisim @ Meadow and I'm lovin' it! 
<li>The new stage lights, speaker, and video/image set up is absolutely COOL!  I can't see anyone from stage - but no biggie.  It's what's best to make the message clearer. 
<li>Mike (new worship leader intern) is knocking it out of the park with the music - in spite of it being summer and building a team with people gone. 
<li>I love my wife - hands down.  She is awesome. 
<li>Pumped about Tena starting in as new receptionist.   She's gonna be doing a lot, and will be bringing a new level of energy to the office - even as a volunteer. 
<li>Pulled a bloated, blood-sucking, disease-filled tick from PJ (my other dog) today.  You'll probably hear about it someday as an illustration about selfish Christians who think its all about them (did I actually say that?! :)) 
<li>I've been watching some friends suffer consequences of bad choices and it really hurts - not gonna lie. 
<li>Thinking about doing a teaching series using the music of Queen like we did U2 a couple years ago.  I LOVE Queen.  (Any requests?)</li>
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        <title>Allow me to rant...</title>
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        <summary>I am a bit vulnerable today. My 14 yr old dog (that's 69 yrs old in dog years) is not doing well and I fear the worse. I have never had a more loyal, faithful, gentle, obedient dog. When I...</summary>
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<p>I am a bit vulnerable today. My 14 yr old dog (that's 69 yrs old in dog years) is not doing well and I fear the worse. I have never had a more loyal, faithful, gentle, obedient dog.  </p>
<p>When I get vulnerable like this, my tolerance level goes down - especially with Christians and religious people who just don't get it. And <a href="http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=1%20Timothy%202:4-6;&amp;version=31;" target="_blank"><font color="#810081">1 Timothy 2:4-6</font></a> is one of those passages that I just want to ring some necks and shake some sense into Christians and religious people. It can't get any clearer or any more black and white!</p>
<p>Two things...</p>
<p>First: God wants ALL men to be saved. And guess what "all" means? It means ... "all". That is every single person you see in the store, on the street, driving a car, walking by your house, working out in the gym, sitting across from you in the committee meeting, sitting two rows down from you at the baseball game ... "all"! It is the unwed pregnant teen. It is the buddy who seems to be possessed by drinking beer and naked women. It is the couple who are living together. It is the man or woman who is living the gay lifestyle. It is the next door neighbor who has friends over and parties loud into the night. It is "all". You cannot name one single person - not one - who God does not want to be saved.</p>
<p>And let's stop making a big deal out of the word "saved". Fruitcake extreme Christians have given this word a bad connotation. It simply means that God wants "all" to know, trust, and follow Jesus Christ and to be "saved" from the muck of sin.</p>
<p>C'mon Christian! We have shut the door on "all" men in the name of being a mature Christian and wanting to "grow deeper". Nothing else shows the immaturity of a Christian and being "un-like" Christ more than when they surround themselves with and build their own little Christian world around them! And nothing confirms in the mind of the non-churched or person who does not have a personal relationship with God that Christians are strict, irrelevant, too good for them, disconnected from life ... more than the Christian who does not hang out and build friendships with "all" men!</p>
<p>It's time we say no to 2-3 Bible study groups each week and the church softball league.  It's time to join a gym, volunteer on the school's PTO group, have a backyard bbq and invite everyone on your street. It's time we pray and aggressively seek to fill our churches with people who are missing that personal relationship with God, and other churches and Christians have turned away. It's time we program the single most time when those who do not know God personally are more likely to come to church (Sunday mornings) with them in mind.</p>
<p>I am so thankful for Meadow - a church, although far from perfect, that has the priority of being a place those who have been bored, by-passed, or burned by other churches and Christians - can come and not be turned away and will understand the greatest message and won't feel like an "outsider".</p>
<p>SECOND: It is clear that there is "ONE" mediator between God and us - that is Jesus Christ. It is not Mary, or Saint Barney, or the local pastor or priest. It is Jesus Christ. It can't get any clearer than that! It doesn't matter what you learned or heard in confirmation or parochial school or church last Sunday...if anyone taught you to pray to anyone other than Jesus - they are wrong. If anyone taught you to depend on anyone or anything other than Jesus to get right with God - they are wrong.  And that's not my opinion. That's what the Bible says in clear black and white.</p>
<p>Now...I need to hit "save" and do something else before I get in any more trouble.</p></div>
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        <title>God @ the Movies</title>
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        <summary>Nothing reveals the issues everyone of us deal with, confront, and grab our interest more than current movies and the music we listen to. Jim Johnson wrote, "In the expressions of our culture - music, film, books, TV - we...</summary>
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<div xmlns="http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml"><p><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13px; MARGIN: 0px; FONT-FAMILY: Trebuchet MS">Nothing reveals the issues everyone of us deal with, confront, and grab our interest more than current movies and the music we listen to.  <a href="http://prestontrail.typepad.com/pbj/2009/06/connection-points.html" target="_blank"><font color="#810081">Jim Johnson</font></a> wrote, <em>"In the expressions of our culture - music, film, books, TV - we can hear the heart cry of people asking the deep questions of life."</em></span></p>
<p><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13px; MARGIN: 0px; FONT-FAMILY: Trebuchet MS">This is one of the reasons we are kicking off a summer blockbuster series called "God @ the Movies".  We are going to take current movies and music and use them to jump into some of the hottest, interesting, and most asked about issues of our day.  Here's how the series plays out.  We are still working on the details - but this will wet your appetite.</span></p>
<p><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13px; MARGIN: 0px; FONT-FAMILY: Trebuchet MS"><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 15px; FONT-FAMILY: Trebuchet MS">God @ the Movies</span></strong></span></p>
<ul>
<li>"The Proposal...Finding Mr. or Mrs. Right"  (July 12) 
<li>"The Taking of Pelham 123...Responding Under Pressure"  (July 19) 
<li>"Drag Me to Hell...The Truth About Hell"  (July 26) 
<li>"Public Enemies...Taming My Temptations"  (August 2) 
<li>"Night at the Museum: Battle of Smithsonian...The Power of a Team"  (August 9) 
<li>"The Hangover...What Does the Bible Actually Say About Drinking?"  (August 16) 
<li>"Terminator Salvation...Friend or Foe?"  (August 23) 
<li>"Transformers: Revenge of the Fallen...The Ultimate Life Change"  (August 30) </li>
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<p>Put it on your calendar.  Invite a friend to come with you!</p></div>
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        <title>Leadership Values &amp; Standards - Pt. 2</title>
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        <summary>(If you missed Part 1, you can read it here.) Some will view these as overly strict. However, in my 25 years of ministry, I have found the value and benefits of these and the protection they give to me,...</summary>
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&lt;div xmlns="http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml"&gt;&lt;p&gt;(If you missed Part 1, you can read it &lt;a href="http://www.johnlaeger.typepad.com/johnlaegercom/2009/06/leadership-values-standards-pt-1.html" target="_blank"&gt;here&lt;/a&gt;.)&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Some will view these as overly strict.&amp;#0160; However, in my 25 years of ministry, I have found the value and benefits of these and the protection they give to me, my marriage, my family, and most important - my relationship with Christ.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"&gt;&lt;font face="Arial"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt"&gt;Ethics:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;span style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt"&gt;&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;&amp;#0160; &lt;/span&gt;All staff will pursue high ethical and biblical standards in personal habits, entertainment, and behavior.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;&amp;#0160; &lt;/span&gt;For purposes of clear communication, the following are specifics of staff ethical expectations:&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;li class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list .5in"&gt;&lt;span style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt"&gt;&lt;font face="Arial"&gt;Drinking any alcoholic beverages is prohibited for all staff.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list .5in"&gt;&lt;span style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt"&gt;&lt;font face="Arial"&gt;All staff will be non-smokers.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list .5in"&gt;&lt;span style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt"&gt;&lt;font face="Arial"&gt;Using profanity including using the name of Jesus Christ or God in vain is prohibited.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list .5in"&gt;&lt;span style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt"&gt;&lt;font face="Arial"&gt;Using the internet at the office for excessive&amp;#0160;personal use is prohibited.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list .5in"&gt;&lt;span style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt"&gt;&lt;font face="Arial"&gt;All staff will use caution and exercise spiritual wisdom in their choice of media entertainment.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list .5in"&gt;&lt;font face="Arial"&gt;&lt;span style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt"&gt;A&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold"&gt;lthough much care will be given on a personal level to restore the individual, sexual sins (such as sex outside of marriage, adultery, improper use of MSCC’s computers for pornographic material, etc.) may result in immediate termination of employment.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list .5in"&gt;&lt;span style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold"&gt;&lt;font face="Arial"&gt;Other public sins (stealing, drunkenness, abuse of others, etc.) that reflect poorly on the cause of Christ and reputation of this church will be dealt with severely and may result in immediate termination of employment.&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold"&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt"&gt;&lt;font face="Arial"&gt;Standards of Maintaining Moral Integrity:&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;ol style="MARGIN-TOP: 0in" type="1"&gt;
&lt;li class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt; COLOR: #666666; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list .5in"&gt;&lt;font face="Arial"&gt;&lt;span style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: windowtext; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial"&gt;Thou shalt not go to lunch alone with the opposite sex.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list .5in"&gt;&lt;font face="Arial"&gt;&lt;span style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial"&gt;T&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial"&gt;hou shalt not kiss any attender of the opposite sex or show affection that could be questioned.&lt;span class="small1"&gt;&lt;span style="COLOR: windowtext; FONT-FAMILY: &amp;#39;Arial&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;sans-serif&amp;#39;; mso-ansi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list .5in"&gt;&lt;font face="Arial"&gt;&lt;span style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial"&gt;T&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial"&gt;hou shalt not visit the opposite sex alone at home. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list .5in"&gt;&lt;font face="Arial"&gt;&lt;span style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial"&gt;T&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial"&gt;hou shalt not counsel the opposite sex alone at the office, and thou shalt not counsel the opposite sex more than once without that person’s mate. Refer them. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list .5in"&gt;&lt;font face="Arial"&gt;&lt;span style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial"&gt;T&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial"&gt;hou shalt not discuss detailed sexual problems with the opposite sex in counseling. Refer them. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list .5in"&gt;&lt;font face="Arial"&gt;&lt;span style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial"&gt;T&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial"&gt;hou shalt not discuss your marriage problems with an attender of the opposite sex. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list .5in"&gt;&lt;font face="Arial"&gt;&lt;span style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial"&gt;T&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial"&gt;hou shalt be careful in answering emails, instant messages, chatrooms, cards, or letters from the opposite sex. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list .5in"&gt;&lt;font face="Arial"&gt;&lt;span style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial"&gt;T&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial"&gt;hou shalt make other ministry staff your protective allies.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list .5in"&gt;&lt;font face="Arial"&gt;&lt;span style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial"&gt;T&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial"&gt;hou shalt pray for the integrity of other staff members.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;/ol&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list .5in"&gt;&lt;font face="Arial"&gt;&lt;span style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial"&gt;There is ALWAYS someone who says, &amp;quot;You mean, you can&amp;#39;t go to lunch with your spouse?!&amp;quot;&amp;#0160; My response is usually something like ...&amp;#0160;&amp;quot;This isn&amp;#39;t talking about time with your spouse - you bird-brain.&amp;quot;&amp;#0160; Sheesh!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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    <entry>
        <title>Leadership Values &amp; Standards - Pt 1</title>
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        <published>2009-06-16T06:57:47-07:00</published>
        <updated>2009-06-16T06:57:47-07:00</updated>
        <summary>You need to know what your leaders are doing and placing in their lives to protect their integrity, relationships, marriages, reputations, etc. Every staff member @ Meadow, including me, is required to sign &amp; commit to a set of values...</summary>
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            <name>John Laeger</name>
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<div xmlns="http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml"><p>You need to know what your leaders are doing and placing in their lives to protect their integrity, relationships, marriages, reputations, etc.  Every staff member @ Meadow, including me, is required to sign &amp; commit to a set of values and standards.  If someone is unwilling to sign and commit to these, they are disqualifed from leading in a staff role.</p>
<p>I take my leadership and the leadership of Meadow staff extremely serious.  I simply don't mess around with it.  Have fun with it?  Absolutely.  I am having the time of my life.  But ... protecting it and the high standards it comes with are non-negotiables.</p>
<p>It's been awhile since I have communicated these values &amp; standards.  I will be breaking it down into bite-sized pieces over the next few days.</p>
<p>This is the intro section:</p>
<p><em>Staff positions at Meadow Spring – whether pastoral staff, ministry staff, or support staff – are Christian leadership positions of the highest calling and carry with them a significant level of responsibility, honor, and respect from each other, our church family, and the community we are trying to reach.</em></p>
<p><em>While we each have different areas of focus and responsibility, we are on the same team – and it is a growing team.  Due to this team growth, we need to have clearly communicated and understood values and standards which help identify us, create professionalism in our conduct, community image, and image to our church family.  These values will also protect and help us be men and women of integrity.</em></p>
<p><em>While these values and standards may not necessarily be expected of the Meadow Spring member or attender, they are expected of all who accept the calling of being on paid ministry staff at Meadow Spring.  As we choose a higher sense of leadership and responsibility, we too are accepting a higher standard of values and ethical expectations.</em></p>
<p><em>God takes very seriously those He calls into church leadership positions.  God also assigns a higher level of expectation and accountability to those He calls into church leadership positions.  We will too.</em></p>
<p><em>Having values of excellence are essential because:<br />• Our positions first and foremost represent Jesus Christ.  How we conduct ourselves and present ourselves is a testimony of the God we serve and is a huge factor in how people view our God.  We want people to view our God as a God of excellence, order, strength, love, etc.<br />• Our positions represent Meadow Spring.  Just as how we conduct ourselves and present ourselves determines to a large degree how people view our God, it also greatly affects how people view Meadow Spring.  We want people to view Meadow Spring as a church of professional excellence and high ethical standards.<br />• The values we choose affect the manner in which we do ministry.  High standards and professional standards breed professional work and ministry.<br /></em></p></div>
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    <entry>
        <title>Purpose of My Past</title>
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        <published>2009-06-12T08:21:05-07:00</published>
        <updated>2009-06-12T08:22:12-07:00</updated>
        <summary>I look in the mirror and say, "God, I really screwed-up." God says, "So. Are you going to live today or are you going to live yesterday? What happened yesterday has a purpose. A purpose for today and tomorrow." Paul...</summary>
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            <name>John Laeger</name>
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<div xmlns="http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml"><div class="description">I look in the mirror and say, "God, I really screwed-up."  God says, "So.  Are you going to live today or are you going to live yesterday?  What happened yesterday has a purpose.  A purpose for today and tomorrow."</div>
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<div class="description">Paul was not ashamed of his past. He wasn't proud of it either in the sense of boasting about what he did and who he was. But, he was not ashamed of it in the sense of not wanting to talk about it or admit it. He used it to point to Christ. He used it to point to God's mercy and forgiveness. He used it to put his foot down and say, "Yeah, my past was bad. But God's mercy and forgiveness are bigger than my past and He showed me mercy, forgave me, and now is using me."  (<a href="http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=1%20Timothy%201:15-16;&amp;version=31;" target="_blank">1 Timothy 1:15-16</a>)<br /><br />My past may not be as bad as Paul's from a human perspective. I mean...in the eyes of man, a mass murderer is a worse sinner than someone who steals a pack of bubble gum from the store or blames his little sister for scribbling on the bedroom wall. I am the kid who stole the bubble gum (and the tootsie rolls, and sunflower seeds and the wax finger tips and the candy necklaces and the...). I am the one who blamed his little sister for scribbling on the bedroom wall (and then watched as my mom spanked her and not me which was okay until my mom found out the truth!)<br /><br />BUT...in the eyes of God we are all DEAD and need His LIFE. Sin is sin. All sin breaks God's heart and violates God's perfect standard. Break one sin (even something as small as stealing a .05 tootsie roll) and I have broken them ALL. I am a sinner. I am the one Paul wrote to Timothy about in <a href="http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=1%20Timothy%201:8-11;&amp;version=31;" target="_blank">1 Timothy 1:8-11</a> ... the ungodly, the sinful, the rebels, the unholy, the perverts, the liars, the perjurers... I am the sinner who needs the law. I am the sinner who needs the mercy and forgiveness of Christ - just like Paul did.<br /><br />And then God showed His mercy to me and forgave me and is now allowing me to be part of building His kingdom by serving others, being Jesus with skin on, inviting others to church, talking to others about Him, praying for others.<br /><br />I need to use my past and my sinful state to point to Christ and His forgiveness and mercy. To point to the fact that is it bigger and more powerful than my past, Paul's past, and anyone's past. To point to the fact that when He forgives - He also invites us and wants us to be on His team to serve others, improve the life of others, pray for others, invite others to church. He doesn't use my past to hold me back from serving Him! He uses my past to put the spotlight on Him!</div>
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<div class="description"><a href="http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=1%20Timothy%201:15-16;&amp;version=31;" target="_blank">1 Timothy 1:15-16</a></div>
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<div class="description">One more thing...God forgives and does not hold your past against you.  Unfortunately, people are not God and there will always be those who keep reminding you of yesterday and will hold it against you.  Forget about them.  Live to please God.</div></div>
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