Juice on Japanese Girls

Where has Juice been???

noreply@blogger.com (Jules) — Mon, 12 May 2008 05:20:00 +0000

I'm still alive bitches! Currently I'm lying low in a remote village somewhere near ancient moving rocks, glaciers and other pioneers like myself. I have left Japan and I travel for greater things than pussy and notoriety. I seek to be bigger and better and hope to find solace in education.

I am going to Europe for 5 weeks beginning next week. Copenhagen will be home base. Wish me luck. You'll be able to recognize me in Europe by the way I'll be picking up your girl. After I'm done with her she will be handing me her money... and yours too.

Peace!
-J

Will HOST for School

noreply@blogger.com (Jules) — Wed, 05 Sep 2007 12:21:00 +0000

Dear readers.

I am going to reality(The U.S.A.) by the end of the year. I have enjoyed filling your minds with illusions of granduer and other such mental masturbation that I also love so dearly. The journey has not stopped, nor will it. At this time very moment, my dick vibrates with excitement. I am returning to something so close to my cold iron heart. Yes, great news bitches... Hosting!

I will be busy, and I'll be sure to keep you updated. Im actually working right now to get together a strong team of ho's to spend bills on yours truly. I will be going to college with the money raised, 95% of it will go to shopping and other forms of gross consumerism. Support the students!

Thailand, trick central...

noreply@blogger.com (Jules) — Sun, 17 Jun 2007 22:16:00 +0000

I'm in Thailand as I write this... For a looooooong vacation. Ive been here about 6 hours and as far as girls go, I am pleasantly surprised to find that they can be absolutely stunning, but my favorite so far has been a Cambodian prostitute. My goal is to get with one Japanese tourist while I'm here. After all it is spring break for them.

If anybody recognizes me give me a shout or drop a comment if you have time to chill. You can recognize me as the guy who is actively seeking Japanese girls. Its amazing to see so many foreigners. I feel like I am almost back home(U...S of A Goddammit) with all these fat blonde chicks and sweaty dudes wearing wifebeaters.

The adventure continues.

Momentum building $$$

noreply@blogger.com (Jules) — Sun, 10 Jun 2007 17:02:00 +0000

Let me tell you one thing right now. You will never get money from a Japanese girl... unless you start small.

Building momentum the second most important factor when it comes to building the basic structure of this kind of relationship. You will never be able to pull Bally leathers from a females pussy(thanks D) without getting something smaller first. Think of it similar to a pyramid. At the bottom you start with many little pieces that create a strong foundation for her to give, and as you rise to he top you reach a bigger and more important goal. If you are constantly receiving and have repeated it over and over, it becomes almost a habit and not something out of the ordinary for her mental process.

If you are out dating females and you are used to paying for the whole dinner, love hotels and the works, do you think she will have any motivation to get you a gift?

She is used to receiving, therefore giving is something that is irregular within your interaction. She does not know what it feels like to wonder if she can keep you if she doesn't give you what you want. The funny thing about this is that before you know it the females will be used to paying for dinner and not even think twice about it within a matter of a month or so.

You have to be assume a "taker" role AS SOON AS POSSIBLE.

For all of you nerds this is what the momentum pyramid should look like.
Level 1
Action based - come here motions, massages
Level 2
Items - Gum, convenience store lunches, beer, paying your train ticket/taxi
Level 3
Items - Movies, dinners, love hotels, single items of clothing ie: t-shirts, ties, cufflinks
Level 4
Items - Designer Coats, shoes, trips abroad, direct payment of larger sums of money
Level 5
Items - Cars, Houses(never been to level 5)

If you look at the pyramid you will notice that level one starts as motions of commitment, these are the base, this is why putting so much value in a girl early in an interaction will not get her walking to you when you motion her to "come here" with your fingers or a nod.

With the levels should also be a corresponding level of the physical actions that she would do for you. Level two/three, would correlate with her initiating all of the phone calls, setting up dates and blowjobs. Depending on your value, and choosing to use this system as a sexual/time reward system(instead of my more simple approach of using it strictly as me recieving), you can drastically change it so that level 5 would be the gift of letting her have sex with you. Right now for me a level 5 would be along the lines of an exclusive relationship/marriage.

Oh, and to all you haters out there on my new pic, go fuck yourselves. Wearing Fubu tracksuits will not get you Japanese girls that have dough. Thats me on the right by the way. Comments are now moderated. So talk all the shit you want, cause its not going to get posted unless you make me laugh.

Mind control reversal ouch

noreply@blogger.com (Jules) — Mon, 07 May 2007 16:31:00 +0000

Excuse me today. I acknowledge that my grammar is pretty shitty, I've been speaking only in Japanese for the last couple days and I'm a little inebriated at the moment.

Today I had the first taste of my own medicine. Aside from just being a plain asshole, I make my time with a female as fun as possible. I was actually delighted to see that one of my team members is as bright as I thought she was. At the time it was a realization that almost put me into place. Lesson of the day: never underestimate a females mental capacity.

Ok, so heres what happened.

We were out shopping for my shoes(as usual, on her payroll). After spending almost three days together, I knew we were headed towards a clash, with her devaluation of my time, and my patience growing shorter. That is exactly the reason why you never give a female too much of your time, because she will always take it for granted. She invited me over to her house and begged me to come. I resisted, but through her persistence and offer of the full treatment(free lunch, paid dinner at a nice restraunt, massages, free alcohol) I decided to cave in.

Against my will, knowing the consequences, I decided to crash at her place with the full treatment. She paid for my ticket and after we got to her station I jumped on the back of her bike as she worked like a horse to get us home while I tickled her and told her about the naughty things I was gonna do to her after we got home. Right as we got home I pinned her down, mind you she was a virgin when I met her, she asked me to cover her eyes with a silk scarf and do dirty shit to her(converted freak:).

Like Jay-Z says "they say you cant turn a bad girl good, but once a good girls gone bad, shes gone for ever..." Too true, too true, thanks for that J...

Exposed to me, and my freakiness, I was more than happy to oblige. I went to work on her body, and was rockin' it. I really recommend all of you out there reading this to be as freaky as you can when you are with females, cause they will never forget you. Anyways, I was workin' it when I put my "heavenly dragon pillar" in her mouth and snuck out my celly and took a pic. With her hearing the pic taken, she ripped off the scarf and demanded that I delete it. Me being me, and once I decide something, its decided, I told her to forget it, and to listen to me and trust me. At that moment she almost shook me out of my player world. She said "were you abused as a child?"

I was speechless. I almost took it to heart, I looked for a correlation between what she said and my past. As my face remained motionless, I'm sure my eyes said more than I could have with mere words.

I struggled to realize there was nothing in my past, but somehow, my mind raced to make sure this bitch didn't see through me. For a moment, I thought it hurt, but as I came to my senses, my pimp brain told me to handle this shit.

"Why do you say that?" I retorted, while soulsearching at the same moment.

"Thats what you said to me once." The converted bitch said. Now mind you, when I want to put a female into place I use something that has weight on her. By listening to a females life story and connecting 1 to 3 this is the shit you get on a girl and can use against her when shes out of line. Something along the lines of "no wonder your father is never home, he must hate you." And let me tell you, this shit hurts like a mutha fucka.

At that very moment I knew the devastation my game could do to a females mind. I was relieved to know it was one of my own tricks, and even happier to find that I couldn't find a correlation to the question and something from　my past.

I studied her eyes, my reality swung back into the now. As I told her to forget it, and let me keep my pic of her succkin my ding-dong, my brain realized how strong the past can leave scars on a person, even if they come from a perfect family, it really makes a person delve into it and question.

I staggered to regain my power, as she looked into my eyes, and I stared into hers as if telling her she would never get 1-up on me. I appreciated her stoutness, and her intelligence, and gave her a hug, and told her that its my picture and to shut up.

I'm happy to know that she learned from the best, and even happier to know that some poor fool is gonna get the blunt edge of the game I taught her. After I return home, I cant wait for her to email me and say "I knew there was nobody but you."

Yet another beef with the seduction community, and a point for the pimp game, this proves that attraction never ends, and a self realization on how deep the game goes. How many times do I have to say that attraction never ends, if you keep your place as a solid man, the sky is the limit, there is only room to acknowledge wrongdoing.

Fun, fun, fun...

I love the game.

Nagoya, A visual standpoint, notes on LMR

noreply@blogger.com (Jules) — Tue, 01 May 2007 19:35:00 +0000

Nagoya... more like South America. Where did all those South Americans come from? I'm not hating on them at all, one of my mothers is Brazilian, but damn, I was blown away. Other than that, I got to eat my Ogura(azuki) toast, which I have been dying to eat since the day I knew of it.

I met the funniest guy I have ever met in my life. After a long night of clubbing, kicking ass at darts and being hit on my transvestites, my friend and I staggered out of the darts bar with enough alcohol and "chocolate milk"(I thought New Zealanders were supposed to be badasses...) in our systems to take down an ogre. We hit the streets in search of coffee, to our surprise there were few vending machines, and even fewer convenience stores located in central Nagoya, probably due to the high property rates of Nagoya's growing economy and remnants of the world expo cleanliness Nazis.

As we approached a signal, on the other side we saw a brother spittin game at some Japanese females trying to find his way to the station while trying to exchange email. Indirect at it finest. When he blew out, he turned around and tried the next Japanese girl. My friend and I decided to chill at the park located next to the street and enjoy or canned coffee. After a short while, the brother spotted us, and came our way. The three of us were hangin out just chillin, getting to know each other when a homeless guy came up and just stood there wobbling on his weak knees, eyes cast downwards as if he was saying "I'm fucked up, I don't know where I am, but you guys look like you can give me something."

My friend said, "whoah man, you got any food for this guy?" obviously no... But we did have cigarettes. Next thing I know this brother is putting a cigarette in the homeless guys mouth. The homeless guy stands there, and somehow the brother takes it as a que to light the homeless fellas cig.

"Oh, you need a light mutha fucka?"

*pulls out lighter, I start giggling

"Shit mutha fucka, let me light that shit for ya"

*homeless guy stands teetering, eyes downward

"let me light that shit you broke ass nigga"

*homeless guy didn't suck on the cig, so it didn't light

As he goes to relight it again, he kinda leans in to the homeless guy, and shouts in his ear. "suck that shit inta you lungs nigga and DIE SOON MUTHA FUCKA, PUT YOU OUTTA YOUR GOD DAMNED MISERY MUTHA FUCKA..."

"Die soon mutha fucka"

*cig lights, homeless guy seems to be pleased, but remains motionless and teeters for another 30 seconds in the same spot, then returns back to wherever he came from

The whole time I was incapacitated from laughter, and the brother didnt even crack a smile the whole time. But his seriousness made it that much funnier. My friend looks at me and says "we are going to hell for this." And I say to the brother "you just made my trip bro."

On my second night, I got in a small battle with last minute resistance. Due to certain circumstances with the Japanese girl I wasn't able to touch her throughout the night with her being comfortable. I knew she was inexperienced, but I had no idea she was a virgin. It's easy to mistake a virgin for having lack of interest. The only difference between a girl that doesn't want to have sex with you and a virgin japanese girl is their passiveness.

I was sitting in her bed with the lights out, debating how I was gonna jump from 0-60, when all of the sudden I switched mindsets on a concious level. I told myself, "I know she wants the dick, but shes a female, I cant expect her to jump me, much less she is a Japanese female, if she wants it she will be somewhat passive." I forgot about the pussy, and went into pleasure mode. I pulled her close to me, so she could feel the heat from my stomach on her back. I made sure she could feel my breath on her ear. I put my hand around her waist, still passive? Yes.. I start breathing harder, smell her hair, lick her ear, give it a nibble. Oh look...shes moaning a bit... and squirming. 0-60 accomplished.

With a virgin japanese girl, you are going to have to caveman it with some classic "ドＳ" style. Japanese girls are naturally passive when it comes to bed anyways, but in these circumstances you might even find yourself pinning her arms down in order to keep her from covering herself. NO, I didnt not rape anybody, but this is usually what its like throughout my experience for their first time.

Do western girls usually have trouble spreading their legs for the first few times like Japanese girls do?

名古屋女

noreply@blogger.com (Jules) — Sat, 28 Apr 2007 09:54:00 +0000

Going to Nagoya for a couple days. I'll be back with some new realizations.

Do not telegraph your desire for $$$

noreply@blogger.com (Jules) — Mon, 16 Apr 2007 12:41:00 +0000

Getting Paid, Continued...

This topic is simple enough, and can help all men in general. After you meet a girl you are going to want to avoid showing any money whatsoever. This means keeping your ego in check and not trying to impress a female with the amount of money you carry. It's fine to wear brand name clothes, designer watches, etc(I actually promote wearing expensive clothes), but whatever happens you do not want her to see any money, keep the intrigue and keep her guessing how much money you have. If she sees your money she will make a mental note of it.

You don't want her to think you are poor by any means, nor do you want her to think you are carrying $1,000. Keep it a mystery.

Also you will want to avoid spending money whenever around her. In the initial stages you don't want her to see your money or see you use your money. If you are a typical guy, you are most likely going to be beginning the relationship sexually before getting paid ever comes into play, that is one way to do it. The other is how some real pimps do it, but we are going to focus on the "Mack" way. Essentially with my way, you are going to build a relationship, minus references to money. You are looking for her to become emotionally attached to you before you start getting paid.

During the initial stages be creative about dates. And for you chumps out there, this means not buying any damn dinners or paying for movies and shit.

For example: Christmas last year was perfect. I came up with a great idea to buy a little Christmas tree from the 100 yen store and buy a bunch of origami paper and we made ornaments for my tree while we sat around and got drunk. Not only was it really special for her to have her ornament(and other girls ornaments*hehehe*) on the tree, but it was a creative way to have a date and build our relationship without spending anything.

If you lack creativity and cant come up with any date alternatives, you will probably default to dinner. After dinner(before you pay) is finished say "lets go" and go to the bathroom, if she pays while you are in the bathroom you are golden. The same maneuver can be used for movies too.

If you didn't go to the bathroom you can feign for her to pay by waiting behind her while at the register in a manner that is "expecting her to pay." If she looks over her shoulder give her a smile, wait for her reaction, and lay your money down if you think it wouldn't blow over. You do not want to verbalize your intentions! This will kill attraction as much as saying "can I have a kiss?" And I cant stress enough how doing things like this is based merely on feeling, and not giving a fuck, and don't for one moment think that she isn't gonna fuck you because you didn't pay.

The next point I must reinstate is the fact that our value is so high that females naturally do anything to please us. From the very beginning you do not want women to know that you are attached to her for anything, not for her money or even sex. A classic motto that pimps use is "keep your dick in your pocket." The motto holds true
throughout my experiences, and the less value I give a female, the more I get in return, because she wants to validate herself by getting my approval.

Its not bad to signal interest by any means or even love a girl. But the last thing you want her to know is that she can have power over you, whether it be through fake break-ups, withholding sex, or even making you emotional.

to be continued...

Screening Japanese girls (keys to the cash)

noreply@blogger.com (Jules) — Mon, 02 Apr 2007 11:16:00 +0000

Getting paid, Continued...

Ok, let me screen you for a moment.

Is a pussy a pussy?

Do you find that Japanese girls test you often?

Do you find that Japanese girls are too submissive for you?

Do you like strong willed girls?

Do you find that girls make you pay often?

Do you use stacks, routines, and or magic?

Do you follow a formula of attraction? ie: A-C-S

If you said yes to more than 3 of these please get off my fuckin' blog and wait till I finish my series. You do not have the right mindset to get paid. Thank you for your time!

Are you willing to lose sweet Japanese pussy in order to get your money? If you want to succeed in getting money, you are going to have to give up a lot in order to get what you want. This inherently means not bothering with some types of females. I do not believe that having slept with a lot of girls means you life is better, or more fulfilling. My goal is quality, let me tell you that not all Japanese girls are fit to join the team. I live this lifestyle to bring good into my life, make my life better and rest my feet on the throne. If a female cannot contribute to the quality of my life, I would be wasting my time trying to make something work that isn't meant to be.

If you cant already tell, my blog is not focused strictly on seduction , nor is it a pimping guide. My beef with the seduction community lies in the fact that a lot of people out there preach that you have to actually say something to make a girl like you, that is complete bullshit. If you actually believe you have to foster attraction you will never get girls to invest in you, but why is that? Its because they will subconsciosly KNOW that you are the one who is making effort to get what you want. With my game you would never invest in a female, simply for the fact that you wouldnt have the unattainable value that comes from this mindset. And never in a million years would a Japanese girl think you are worthy enough to get treated like the king you are.

So I ask my readers to please be open to suggestion, and be open minded to the fact that attraction never ends. I have multiple girlfriends that treat me great for a reason.

Screening is meant to weed out the ones that cant contribute, by contribute I dont mean just money. There are plenty of things a girl can do without money.

common misconception: some people think that a girl with no money cannot pay for you. If a female is sucked into your game she will go out of her way to accommodate you... This goes for college girls, single mothers, girls with no jobs, all of them. If you have your game tight enough she may even work more to get money to be with you. And in fact, you would be raising the quality of both of your lives.

Obviously there are some girls that, although good looking, cannot make the team. Whether it be bad attitude, too much resistance, or too hungry, they have qualities that I wont accept into my life. You want to avoid extremes, if she is too resistant that means she cant take direction, if she is too hungry to get with you that means she will be blinded by her own agenda and attraction will fizzle out soon. You want to find the slightly indifferent girls because it means they are open to direction and looking for leadership in their lives and they aren't blinded by their own agenda.

Being dominant naturally weeds out the ones who do not take direction. If you want to get paid, you will want to find girls who are naturally submissive. Submissive female types will naturally find dominant males attractive. By being dominant I don't mean walking around and commanding any Japanese girl you meet. You have to feel out how she responds before you ask for those $600 Dolce & Gabbana shoes.

The good thing about Japanese girls is that they are more submissive than western girls, and are more open to taking direction.

Japanese hosts get paid for a reason, its not because they are incredibly good looking or because they are funny. It is because they are in a bar that sells time to be with guys. Granted, some are funnier than others and some are better looking and wear good shoes.

The fact is that that is their rule, that is their reality, that is their business. Can you imagine somebody going to McDonald's thinking that they would get a hamburger without paying?

My point is this. You are running a business(you life), and there has to be rules of engagement. Keep your eyes open for the qualities you seek. And stop using magic bitch.

to be continued...

For the love of $$$

noreply@blogger.com (Jules) — Tue, 27 Mar 2007 12:21:00 +0000

I was asked a few days ago how its possible to get women to finance you ventures and hobbies. The topic is so broad and deep that I will start series to cover all the facets that I think applies to it. You know how much I like series.

My Value
I would never bend over backwards for anyone unless it was for a good cause. My value and limits of what I will do and what I wont do are so solid that they are internal. For example I would never hold a womens purse, put up with attitude, buy girls drinks or even treat a woman to dinner. Just last week I was at a club and a friend of mine tried to pass me her purse when she was putting on her jacket. What do you think I did? Do you think I actually held it for her? Hell fucking no! I gave her a stone cold gaze and said "excuse me?"

Having boundaries for yourself and the people around you is important. If you dont have boundaries how will you know where to draw the line, much less notice when someone oversteps them? Unfortunately most guys don't know where their boundaries are, this is why people act up on them and they don't naturally get respect.

I know that women love to spend time with me, I know that they would even pay for me, I mean why wouldn't they? I give them everything they want and need. Physical and mental gratification, and enough unpredictability to keep them interested till their money is gone.

I give them pain and pleasure, I keep them excited, they know I'm not an easy catch, and they know I wont be spending my money on some other bitches. You don't have to be sneaky about getting money. Being sneaky about getting paid will create resentment and they will leave you faster than you can say "oh shit! I forgot my wallet."

Identity
My identity is the defining factor of how my relations with women work. As a child I was raised with a very submissive and subservient old fashioned mother and grandmother. I had no cousins and no siblings that I lived with until my brother was born when I was 13 years old. I was raised as a spoiled single child who got almost everything I wanted at the drop of a hat. The mindset comes to me on a very natural level. I was the rockstar at my house. If you saw the thousands of pictures my Grandma took of me as a child you would shit your pants.... in a big way. I have about 25 kilograms worth of pictures in storage at my house. Anything I did was captured on film.

Do you have to come from a single child household to get your money?
Hell no.

Do you have to know what you want?
Yes, its more important than the above.

Should I let people know that I think so highly of myself?
No, but you should believe this naturally, without it, you have no self value.

to be continued...

Learning Japanese the lifestyle of Seduction

noreply@blogger.com (Jules) — Sat, 10 Mar 2007 23:09:00 +0000

Got any pointers on an 18 yr old wanting to learn JSpeak. Peace S.P

I have always believed that learning should not only be about going to school for 6 hours and laboring over homework.

It is Scientifically proven that the human ear needs X amount of listening experience before it can comprehend sounds of a new language. Whether it be 1,000 or 100,000 hours I have no idea.

What better way to do this than immerse yourself into the lifestyle of seduction.

It's said that the best way to learn is to completely immerse yourself into whatever you are doing, even if it makes no sense. Leave the details to your subconscious mind to figure out later. The beauty of the mind is you don't need to actually comprehend what you are doing to benefit from it. Your understanding will sort itself out as patterns are found by your subconscious mind. You might even have dreams about it.

The key to learning is, exposure, exposure, hard work, exposure.

After I came to Japan I enrolled in a 6 month, 6 hours a day, 5 days a week Japanese language course. Because I didn't have any experience like the other students, they told me that I would probably wouldn't be able to complete the course because I didn't have a strong base to build on, and no formal study experience. By the end of that 6 months I was not only top of my class, but I was the best kansai dialect speaking student.

The key to my success was immersion. After school, I went home to my Japanese speaking friends and girlfriends, watched Japanese TV, Listened to Japanese Music, and completed the required amount of homework and classwork.

I was addicted to the immersion, I made decisions to go and get my haircut and study up a few words beforehand so they didn't completely maul my hair. I made an effort to keep conversations going. I chatted up people everywhere I went.

If I was to make a study program for somebody in their home country it would be something along the lines of this.

1. Make an effort to meet Japanese. Whether it be online, at school, or a friend of a friend. Immerse yourself in the language, don't be afraid to listen to something you don't understand. And definitely don't bother with those learning CD's that have half English/Japanese where they speak English first then say it in Japanese.

Myself and many others included know some words in foreign languages that we cant say in our own languages. People that go to college overseas tell me how they know words like "celestial" in a foreign language but they cant think of the word in their own language.

Why do you think that is? Do you actually believe you have to understand a word in your own language before you can understand it in another? NO!

2. Look at Japanese books, Japanese symbols, don't worry about their meaning too much. The point is just to input them into your subconscious mind. Days, or even years later, understanding will magically show itself.

3. If there is any Japanese music you enjoy, listen to it, download some Japanese podcasts too. Again, do not be concerned with consciously comprehending it, patterns will become clear over time.

4. Japanese TV, Anime, Movies. Watch them in Japanese(no subtitles) the first time you see them, pay close attention to body language/facial expressions/tone of voice. This will also teach you how to understand people on an intuitive level.

5. Spend about 10-20% of the time actually studying, writing, and trying to consciously comprehend Japanese.

6. When you get a new textbook. Speed read it before you do any exercises. This gives your brain room to internalize it and sort it out, you might actually find yourself saying "I know this stuff" before you study it. Speed read it after you finish again to imprint it even stronger.

7. Ask, ask, ask. Ask girlfriends, friends, random Japanese people to help you, teach you a word, do something with you.

8. If you plan on going to college, you have a great chance to do something that other people rarely do. Enter a J-circle, you could have unlimited amounts of friends and chances to make more. The Japanese are good networkers, if you start by making some guy friends, you will be able to get in easy. And, you will have a chance to meet ALL of them, because they are so close-knit. So start by making a few friends, and your Japanese friends will probably love to show you off to the others, you'll probably be shown off like the mantelpiece over my fireplace.

I've met only a few guys that have gotten into a J-circle during college, and it has paid off tremendously.

Lifestyle of Japanese seduction Overseas

What you want to do is create commonalities.
I dont know where you are from, but most likely there are Japanese girls in your city.

1. Get involved with language exchange. In my hometown there was a program provided by the colleges for Japanese people to be set up with an exchange partner. Just call up some colleges and see if they have it. People will be generous with setting you up with some cute girls. They know whats going on!

2. Turn all the Japanese people you meet into friends. If they are not cute, thats fine too. They could eventually introduce you to somebody you may like.

3. Use MySpace, internet dating, penpal services, etc. It's GOLD MINE for meeting people that are there for obvious reasons.

4. Go to Japanese restraunts. I remember when I was a youngster there was a sushi restraunt near my house. It was Japanese owned, little did I know they had a beautiful japanese daughter(that I later got to know), they hired Japanese college students, and extended family from Japan as part time workers.

5. Use sex to learn Japanese.
Japanese in bed

6. Whenever possible make the people around you speak in Japanese.

What you want to do is make interacting with Japanese part of your identity. More than anything, the lifestyle is what attracts people. It's not easy to go around chasing any person on the street that looks Japanese and trying talk to them. By doing so, you don't have any commonalities, and nothing to get her to see you again. If you have the lifestyle, and have met through something else, the connection is stronger, and much easier to move from a platonic relationship.

Japanese ladies of the night Tips

noreply@blogger.com (Jules) — Fri, 02 Mar 2007 14:26:00 +0000

I know, I know... Its been awhile. I'm still kickin' though.

In itself I believe just knowing what a Japanese girl does for a living is an enormous amount of insight as to who they are. Hosting has a few unspoken rules, one of the more important ones is to NOT ASK ABOUT WORK. As a host your job is to sell THE DREAM, SELL YOURSELF, SEX, and FREEDOM. As a host you do not deal with typical everyday girls, their lines of work being "unordinary" to most standards. Roughly 3/4 of the girls that go to host clubs are ladies of the night.

Even to this day I have a hard time asking what certain types of Japanese girls do for work. I can spot people working in mizu shoubai like I can spot fly shit on a blade of grass(really well). Its not imperative for you guys to abide by my conditioning. Many girls have negative feelings attached to their work, so as a rule of thumb its best to avoid it. By speaking of such, it is basically pulling them back to reality and telling them they still have a job to return to and have to pay the bills. Be wary of girls that work in sex parlors/massage/soap, these girls are tricky to spot and like to keep their line of work as discreet as possible.

Oh and just in case any of you have specific questions you want to ask about hosting feel free to drop some comments. I get asked questions daily on the subject and would much rather prefer to have it here on my blog so I can direct people to check out my "interview" on here.

I'm going to play this AS IF you were going to their club to meet them for the first time. I don't frequent "clubs" like I used to, and when I do its usually to keep in touch with girls that used to be my customers. I still frequent a girls bar that is owned by my ACE "エース." (a customer that has a lot of money, is reliable, and you have both invested a lot of time and business on each other.)

Lets jump into the game.

One thing you want to establish is that you are not there to spend money, pick up girls, flaunt how much money you have, or are willing to spend. Be promiscuous! You will be labeled as a fat customer(futokyaku). Dollar... or respectively YEN symbols will be placed on your forehead, and you will have a hell of a time trying to break the label. You are either there on business or to have fun. The girls are not the reason you are there either. Whenever I go, I establish with everybody else in my group that we are "business partners." This is good so you don't look so desperate that you have to go to a club to talk to Japanese girls. Rolling with Japanese guys is definitely a plus, it not only makes you stand out in the group but it also makes you more approachable. A big group of foreigners going to a hostess club is very intimidating for Japanese staff no matter how professional or skilled they are. When I started hosting, the other Japanese guys were happy that I came along so I could chat up the foreign girls that came in, the Japanese definitely have performance anxiety.

One effective way to game these girls is by brewing up a big cauldron of jealousy. As you know from my last post, the clubs are warzones for their battling egos. The tried and tested way to play jealousy is in a club that has account closing(shimei, see last post*). Up until the close you have leverage to get the girls to invest themselves into your interaction.

Get the girl seated with you to tell you about the other girls and introduce you when they walk by or have her call them out. By doing this you are making the social center of the room, you naturally assume high social position by going into discussions about "who's who." Its also a good chance to sense some drama thats going on. You can probably squeeze a girl into spitting some juicy stories about a girl she doesn't like. More often than not it will be about how she went home with one of the customers. With that you can also gauge who puts out;)

Don't seem overly interested in the girl(s)! By doing this, she will feel comfortable to open up at her own pace. Since its her job, you will get some funny insight and reactions, and her acting cute or whatever. Dont reward her too much on it though. Don't expect her to tap dance either, just because you are a paying customer, take the lead of the conversation, you are more attractive that way anyways.

Touching

These kinds of clubs are great at learning how touch properly, its fun to experiment.

When they go to touch you for the first time don't get excited and act like she can have you. While seated you have the opportunity to escalate her in a situation that would be difficult to lock her in anywhere else. Touching is the one thing that can sell you or keep you from reaching your greater potential. In the business, doing it too early signals being to hungry, doing it too late will create an uncomfortable gap later on. The club girls are usually good at timing. I've actually had girls ask me to kiss them before(yes, in the club). *super fucking uncomfortable*

PUSH PULL.

The bottom line is "push pull."
ex: she touches you, *push her away, tell her shes a bad girl, *pull her back even tighter. Tell her you like her, push her away then make her come back.

If you run this a couple times her head will be spinning like she got hit by a mack truck.

Other choices:

1. Be unresponsive, continue talking about whatever you were talking about and act like you didn't notice she touched you. You can flash her a glance with a wry smile after you are done. The more unresponsive you are, the more she will feel comfortable coming in closer, seeking a reaction. This is not as effective as push pull for me, but to each his own.

2. You can call her out for being so greedy and trying to keep you for herself, or taking advantage of you. The problem with this one is that Japanese girls with high self esteem will usually just look at you like you are crazy. Its all about the correct vibe with his one. If you are in a playful mood, this is a fun way to go. I naturally fall into this category and a mix of "push pull".

Meeting and socializing with the girls
You will get seated with a girl after you come in. Take advantage of your chance to meet them all, if possible. Don't settle with one even if you like her. Talk to some of the girls that walk by, call girls out to come and meet you. Use the girls seated with you to meet and find out what you can about everybody else. Girls love gossip, play off it.

Teasing the girls(negging) is not only fun but it will also put everybody in a relaxed mood. They will shit their pants when it does happen, because they RARELY GET THIS KIND OF TREATMENT. You don't have to be above treating her like your little sister. Treating her with respect will only put weight on the interaction and it will feel stuffy. Let loose, have some fun.

If you plan on becoming a regular to a club, do not choose a girl for the shimei. This gives you leverage to get commitment and girls will show their true colors over time. You have freedom to talk with who you want and the girls wont feel any social obligation to treat you like their customer either. Thats the last thing you want. You want to be the socialite of the club.

Japanese ladies of the night FAQ

noreply@blogger.com (Jules) — Fri, 23 Feb 2007 13:26:00 +0000

Tonight is a special special FAQ that I would like to present to you on behalf of all my time spent with Japanese ladies of the night! When I was hosting, I had many great chances to meet the most interesting and entertaining girls ever. They are not only skilled at entertaining guests, but they are pros when it comes to escalation and comfort. I have spent hundreds, possibly even thousands of hours meeting, socializing, and gaming these girls. Up until recently, The Water Trade(水商売) has been frowned upon by most of Japanese. As more TV shows and documentaries on this business continue to air, society is growing to accept it.

Its hard to imagine that some of them are even ostracized by their own families for being ladies of the night. But I have to say, they are some of the most misunderstood and caring people I have met here in Japan. A lot of people say these types of girls are difficult to game, easy to game and most of the time manipulative. As a generalization, I will say their difficulties vary, and they are sometimes materialistic and very good at manipulation. Its comparable to strippers from the west.

The greatest payoff lies on adding these girls to the stable, they are extremely fun, outgoing and generous with what they have. They can bring a lot to your relationship, and will often times bring more than enough. As gifts I have gotten bags, watches, suits, jackets, shoes, etc. The best part is when a Japanese girl comes over to your house after work and brings chocolates, fruit, sandwiches and all the other treats she gets from smelly Japanese salary men.

Hostess(Club)
Hostesses are usually what us foreigners classifies them all as. This is the most lucrative and well respected of them all. These girls make bank! For almost all hostess clubs, there is a dress requirement. Hair dressing salons are paid by by the club. The facilities are extravagant, the girls look beautiful with the help of a lot of makeup or even makeup artists. Customer charges generally range around ￥40,000($400) a set(2hrs). Hostess clubs usually close around 1-3am. Hourly they make about ￥4,000-￥6,000($40-$60). They also get bonuses depending on how many regulars they have, popularity, and going out with customers(同伴、どうはん)

Hostess Japanese girls are my favorite. Usually they are well educated, have high self esteem and generally hot with bundles a' cho. Hostess girls have usually proven themselves in the lower clubs and advanced to this. Some are scouted. The age range varies widely depending on the club, some are full of elegant old ladies and some are full of hot girls done up like Mom was on high school graduation.

There is a lot of competition of egos in these places! These girls are either struggling for top 3 or on the bottom scrounging for scraps. Its a warzone of Madonna ego's. If you're lucky you'll get to witness is sometimes in the clubs. They're usually battling to close the customers into choosing them. Thats called the shimei(しめい). Once a customer chooses a girl, the money he uses is usually logged under her account, therefore making her money, regardless of which girls sit at the customers table. If a customer doesn't pay, the money is taken from a girls salary.

Lounge
Half the price of a set at a Hostess club. Girls make about ￥3,000($30) hourly plus benefits/bonuses. Just like hostess clubs, but the Girl quality is usually less, and there isn't service like exotic foods, etc.

Cabaret(Kyabakura)(キャバクラ)
With Cabaret, you will see a lot of Gal(ｷﾞｬﾙ) looking girls. The system is ￥3,000 to￥9000 ($30-$90) for 60-90 minutes. These girls make about ￥2,000 yen an hour depending on their customers, popularity, and dohan (benefits/bonuses). Typical age is 18(illegally, and very common) to mid 20's. Customers usually don't get to touch unless initiated by the girls. Cabaret Japanese girls have less dough and are just starting to feel the competition between girls.

There are also other types and the Sekukyaba- you can fondle the girls, touching, play allowed. The limit as to what you can do to the girls is usually vague.

Snack
This is the where a lot of older women bottom out in because they couldn't keep their beauty. You can find some pretty good places with cute girls, but there is def a difference in quality. Its not so much a battlefield of hierarchy here, seeing as how there is no such thing as the Shimei(close). I have met a lot of girls that stay here because the higher levels are too stressful and demand too much out of the Japanese girls. The girls make about ￥1,500 an hour. Customers pay about ￥3,000-￥5,000($30-$50) a set(2hrs)

There are some valuable things to notice about my FAQ. One is that the clubs are built on a hierarchy, which is a great tool to use on their battling egos.

Make sure you know which type of club the girls work at, this will give you tons of insight as to whats going on in their work and personal life.

My next blog post will be on gaming these girls.

Happy Valentines day, or should I say White day?

noreply@blogger.com (Jules) — Wed, 14 Feb 2007 15:50:00 +0000

Did you know that in Japan the guys are not the ones to give presents first?

There are two holidays. Valentines day is on the 14th of February, while White day is on the 1４th of March. I always look forward to Valentines Day here in Jland. Its customary for valentines day to be celebrated for men, while women get White day almost a month later. Valentines day s the greatest holiday ever. Not only does White day protect Japanese mens sensitive ego from buying some girl a present that could never be returned, it also gauges how to predict what to do for White day.
I am just starting to recover from my weekend of fully paid partying, dinners, bars and love hotels.

A picture taken from the casino themed love hotel room. This is a picture of the roulette wheel thats over the spinning bed. If you push a button next to the bed a light spins around the wheel and randomly lands on a number. We had some fun playing sexual gambling with that one;)

Being in Jland, and being a firm observer of White day, i strictly refuse to observe the traditional rules of Valentines day from here on out. I will not give candy unless received, I will not return presents unless of good value.

I will enjoy my Valentines day, promise nothing and return gifts for equal value or less.

I definitely hustle my team, but it doesn't hurt to make them feel special sometimes. When a girl gets the special treatment and feels like shes never felt before, its an opportunity to strengthen my grip on her.

Tips for Valentines/White day:
1.Expect presents and candy on Valentines day, talk to your Jgirls about it.
2.Tell them how you only observe the principles of the Japanese Valentines/White day.
3.If you didn't get the red carpet rolled out for you, wait till next year and hang out with your girls around valentines weekend. Tell them how its your day, and they should be treating you like you deserve.
4.Promise nothing for White Day but actually follow through and get the poor girl a present of equal or less value depending on how hard you have her copped. For a girl thats sucked into your game pretty tight, treat her well for a day, she will never forget how you treated her on that one special day. *Only do this if she never/seldom gets "good treatment days"* And she will probably never get another one either.
5.On White Day do not give presents/chocolate to anybody unless they gave you some. If they say anything about it, remind them of what they got you for Valentines day.

And honestly, if I ever go back to dating non-Jgirls, this holiday is going to be observed. Valentines day is the shit!

Happy valentines day!

My Sexual DHV Stories

noreply@blogger.com (Jules) — Tue, 13 Feb 2007 12:57:00 +0000

One thing I love talking about with my girls are the strange and hilarious stories about my perspective on Japanese eroticism. A lot of the time girls don't even realize how strange some Japanese are until they hear it from somebody that isn't used to seeing it. These can usually be run as DHV's(demonstration of higher value).

my experience with Japanese underwear cutting:
After I graduated High School I moved to Hawaii for 9 months. My brother had a big collection of Japanese porn. I used to bust them out every once in a while. After watching em all I figured I would bust out the old "simpsons" labeled VHS I found stashed way in the back of his closet. It turned out to be a video that was about japanese underwear fetish, but the strange part is that I could tell it was targeted for japanese women.

I was really skeptical, it was just shots of guys cutting the panties slowly and erotically. I didn't think it could be true. Then some time later a girlfriend of mine was really into wearing skirts. She would spend the night at my house sometimes, one day there happened to be a pair of scissors next to my bed. She picked them up without a word and handed them to me. I was about to cut her panties when she started screaming "stop stop." I put down the scissors thinking something was wrong, but it turns out that was actually her fantasy!

I was so freaked out. She acted like I was molesting her or something, but anyways, I'm not even an old man like the guys in the video, So I broke up with her a few weeks later. I couldn't stand the thought of her thinking of me like sexual predator school teacher.

Tying my ex-girlfriend up:
My other girlfriend was a freak too, she told me about how she had a fantasy that she was tied up and I would do "bad shit" to her. I was kinda excited to try something new, so we went to a ￥100 store and bought quite a few meters of black satin rope. Right after we got home she drag me to the bedroom and told me to tie her up, I was excited to try it, so I tied her up and started kissing her slowly. It was really weird, I suddenly got this urge to speak really dirty to her and I tied up her left hand to the bed-post. I started to do her right hand, but I noticed that her eyes were half closed and open. I didn't know if she felt good, but she was really loud making all kinds of noises. After I got both hands up, I went down and bit her ear, and she was going fucking crazy and she told me to bite harder, then suddenly she passed out. I untied her as fast as I could, I was thinking to myself "shit, what if she died tied up in my bedroom. I'm going to jail for the rest of my life!" Suddenly she came back after I untied her, on her face she had mixed look of anger and pleasure , as soon as she looked at my face she realized something was wrong and said "whats the matter?" I laid down and told her I needed a nap. The next day her ear was all black, and swollen, she had to go get it drained at the local clinic. Thats the last time I ever play onto some crazy fantasy. I mean what if she died?

Hustling Japanese Girls With Blood-Type

noreply@blogger.com (Jules) — Fri, 02 Feb 2007 13:05:00 +0000

If you have ever been around Japanese people, you will most likely understand what I'm talking about. If you don't know about Jgirls, this might be completely over your head and you might have to hit me up with some more questions.

When socializing and interacting with Japanese girls and women, you may find yourself always hearing shit about blood-types. The fact is that Jgirls are obsessed with this stuff, In fact you might even find a Jgirl will show interest or find a reason to show interest BECAUSE of your blood type.

There are 4 blood types in Jland. -,+, and RH are not relevant systems that the Japanese people are aware of.
A
B
O
AB(me)

Each has its own characteristics and basic category that the person can be placed in. Jpeeps will create all kinds of assumptions about you because of your blood-type, but lets get over that and use it as a tool to game Jgirls. When I was working as a host some of the girls would get so fucking excited if a host they liked had a blood-type that the girls liked.

Type A "Cool" The Farmer
Best Traits: Conservative, calm, responsible introverted, reserved, patient and punctual. Perfectionists.
Worst Traits: Obsessive, overcautious, sensitive, unable to relax, stubborn, self conscious and uptight.
Famous As: George H. W. Bush, Ayumi Hamasaki, O.J. Simpson, Britney Spears, Alan Alda, Adolf Hitler, Lyndon B. Johnson, Richard Nixon, Jet Li, Maki Nomiya, Rick James

Are reserved calm and even tempered. Sensitive to public opinion. May be Introverted, shy and nervous or ill at ease with others. May be Pessimistic. Value relationships and are loyal. Hesitant to change. Nature lovers and dislike crowds - need a private place or secret hideaway. Can be indecisive. Good at team work and obey rules.

Dislike to touch or be touched by others.

Type B "Active" The Hunter
Best Traits: Creative, passionate, wild, animal loving, optimistic, flexible and individualistic. unpredictable
Worst Traits: Forgetful, irresponsible, and self-centered.
Famous Bs: Akira Kurosawa, Jack Nicholson, Luciano Pavarotti, Tom Selleck, Mia Farrow, Paul McCartney, Leonardo DiCaprio, Vince Young

Have the drive to reach towards goals. May be workaholics. Not the best team players and are individualistic. Do things at one's own pace. Strong personality adventurous. Likes to get one's own way. Are Sociable and enjoy entertaining.

Like to touch or be touched by others.

Type AB "Care-Free" The Humanist
Best Traits: Cool, controlled, rational, introverted, sociable, unpredictable, outgoing, popular, and empathic.
Worst Traits: Aloof, critical, indecisive and unforgiving, sometimes standoffish.
Famous ABs: John F. Kennedy, Marilyn Monroe, Mick Jagger, Thomas Edison, Bob Sapp, Miyavi, Jackie Chan, Ken Kitamura

Blend of opposites. Shy with some and bold with some. Introvert and Extrovert. Unpredictable and may seem to have calm exterior. Strong creative strain. Good at spotting problems and skirting them. Like city environment. Get bored easily. Everything they do is compelling. Never take things for granted. Appear mysterious. Contribute harmoniously to society.

Dislike to touch or be touched by others.

Type O "Hot" The Warrior
Best Traits: Ambitious, passionate, loyal, athletic, robust and self-confident. trendsetter, natural leaders.
Worst Traits: Arrogant, vain, insensitive and ruthless, jealous.
Famous Os: Ronald Reagan, Queen Elizabeth, John Lennon, Paul Newman, Elvis Presley, Gerald Ford, Mikhail Gorbachev, Al Capone, Crystal Kay

Make friends easily and go with flow and grasp opportunity. Quick to start a project or chase an idea. Are good at organizing activities. May have short attention span, and expresses strong emotions. May quickly take opposite views that are deep but not always durable. Classic entrepreneurs and movers and shakers.
Express their emotions but can be swayed by other blood types. Have an intrinsic elegance. Sociable and showy. May be good at adapting to circumstances. Words come easily to them. Not self conscious and will frankly reveal inner feelings. Ambitious, but may have issues with detail.

Like to be touch and be touched by others.
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I found this graph and had to steal it. It basically breaks down the type of relationships according to blood-type.

Relationship in arrowed direction.
A takes initiative in acting, while B provides mental support.
A feels relaxed around B.
B understands how A feels.
(Points to keep in mind:)
Never reverse the arrows.
Maintaining your role is the best way.

Relationship between opposites.
The characters are opposites of each other.
The two persons repel each other, but at the same time are attracted, because each has what the other lacks.
A stimulating relationship.
(Points to keep in mind:)
Trying to understand each other is essential, even if it takes a long time.
Your opposite, who has something that you don't, is helpful to your growth.

Relationship between those having the same blood type.
The two people understand each other, sympathetic.
Too much understanding can sometimes be annoying.
(Points to keep in mind:)
It is important not to depend too much upon mutual understanding.
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With all this information, we now have a strong understanding on the traits and principles. There’s about a million other sources that I could get more info from as well, seeing as how more is not always better, I just chose the stuff that I thought was valuable.

When approaching and meeting new people you will often find that a convo dips into this stuff. Knowing the blood type game isn't crucial but it can def help in understanding Japanese society.

I do question the validity of the blood-type theory, but that isn't the point.

I came up with a small list of the things I have done with the blood-type game.

Meeting:
After opening a set and getting into a blood-type convo:

"your blood type always seems to like me"
"my last girlfriend was your type, it was a (adjective) relationship."
"I had a stalker that was your type(go into story)"

Using it as an opener seems fuckin cheesy, so I wouldn't recommend it. Ive never tried it. If you have, Id love to hear your story:)

The real value I find in this is the power of suggestion. Using the graph above to understand the roles is a great way to suggest her role in the relationship.

For Example:(Planting seeds into her mind)
1.Im AB and shes B*
During small talk I can suggest her role of taking care of me while I choose our direction.
2.Im AB and shes A*
I can say how the theory is bullshit and I'm always the one leading while the girl takes care of me.
3.The last one is to disregard the actual theory and make up your own rules and assumptions about the type.
I have often said that "your type is said to be the craziest in bed, I read that your type has a insatiable sexual appetite for my type" or "Your type likes to spoil my type"

Now how do you hustle a Jgirl with this?
The strongest mindset that I use without applying the blood-type game is just assuming that they will give you shit. The power of assumption is that people will usually fill their roles in your mind. My second one is asking, just ask!

My third one is suggestion, this is the lowest and dirtiest, and its not too effective, seeing how people usually catch wind of what you are doing pretty fast.
Applying the theory, you can start early in the relationship by suggesting how their type does "things" for your type. Referring to the chart you can see how it works. I always like talking about how my ex was the same type and she always bought me stuff.

The blood type game can be applied to sex with the same theory.
"I always have a great (sexual)connection with ? blood-type"

Suggestion is best used early in the game and with moderation. I usually bring up her role in relation with mine once or twice early in the interaction. Then Id use it later when she gets shitty I tell her how she has to be according to her blood-type.

Here are some other things you can do:
Use it to boost a dying convo, and plant seeds.
If you just meet a girl, you can say something like “you must be O-type." She might ask why, and you can list all the reasons that she is. "Because you look like a girl that gives a lot and spoils the people around you." "You have an energy that I can connect with."

I do not base my game around blood type, and I def don't suggest you should use all of this. This can only compliment your game. And def don't go out and talk about blood-type everytime you see the same girl, she will get sick of you and your profiling. Use it sparingly, or as a conversation piece. But do not rely on it to handle you girls. This is a crutch!

Whats your blood type?
なにがたですか？

当たり前, Plum Girl

noreply@blogger.com (Jules) — Sun, 21 Jan 2007 15:45:00 +0000

When should and shouldn't you use Jspeak? How much effort should you put into learning Jspeak?

Whats it like being with a Jgirl without using a language you can both understand?

i have two cases, and only one Id like to elaborate on now.

I used to frequent a coffee shop of my friends, one of his staff was one of the cutest girls I have ever seen, not in a cute way, but in an adult mature way. She had big shiny chestnut brown eyes and a femenine walk that I cant forget. Her soft and comforting touch, her voice sweet like the smell of plum blossoms in the spring. Her laugh still rings in my ears like shes sitting next to me in that cozy coffee shop helping me study write kanji again.

I remember walking into the coffee shop for the first time telling myself she would be mine. She was the reason I hung out there every day neglecting my studies.

The more time we spent together the more I longed for her. The sparkle in her eyes grew more each and every day till the deflowering of her innocence. When Id sit down, the way she'd position herself behind the counter and steal glances at me between the plants and the humming espresso machine.

It seems even now, to be a corny textbook case of foreigner meets native, language and filiality seperates them. A secret Love blossoms and the two fight to break the bonds of society.

But what can be learned from it? A whole lot, more than I imagined at the time. Reflecting upon it, all I remember were small things like the way she used to touch my hands when she handed me my change.

But did you notice anything else? Think... Think... Yes, thats right. Theres not anything about language or speaking in the way I remember her. Without language, my other communication senses were magnified many times over. I learned a lot about body language while being with her. I dare you to call this shallow. To me it was the least shallow connection I've ever had.

I remember tears rolling down her eyes when I had to leave. Its special to me because I remember all the scenes like a movie, everything was visual, but even without words so much was spoken.

The way she looked at me when we were in bed together told me more than words ever could have. I challenge you people that dont speak Japanese to seek out somebody who doesnt speak you language. Your eyes will open, and you will see more than surface. It will be a different world filled with thoughts and feeling that will be communicated by intuition. I only wish I could do it again!

Have you ever thought you fell in love with a girl or lusted over a girl then looked back on it and asked yourself "what the fuck was I thinking?" She wasnt all that, she wasnt cute and sexy. The reason is that spending time together with a girl is breeding grounds for lust/love/craving. I amongst my colleages(Gion+Ai, haha) have all had experiences like that. That is your body naturally adapting to what is offered. That is what you call, "love finds a way."

This leads me to my next thought topic. Its called 当たり前 (ATARIMAE) translated as "It goes without saying," "to be expected," or "naturally." Japan is infamous for its unified thinking structure. Customs and tradition comprise much of what Jland still is to this day. Seeing as how Jland thinks much like a unified body its easy to understand why this concept is still so prevalent. The japanese have a proper way to do literally EVERYTHING, and this goes without saying(当たり前) for a japanese person to understand, whether it be the proper angle for bowing or the how to properly give business cards.

To a foreigner, especially PUA 当たり前 is frustrating and often crippling. You might find yourself asking why am I spending all this time with a girl, and she isnt lettin me tap that. Or why is it that I cant get a girl at a club. Find out the positives and the negatives and see how they can be applied to 当たり前.

I see guys asking why they cant get a girl in bed even though they spend so much time togther. But if you look at the situation youll see that because she is hanging out with you, sex is a given, it is unspoken that she will have hax with you, its "当たり前".

Its typical for us foreigners to ask WHY and HOW, and you might feel the urge to ask a girl why she is hanging out with you if she isnt sexually interested, etc. Go ahead and slap yourself on the face and take a dose of ATARIMAE, and shut your mouth. She is hanging out with you, sex isnt far behind. By asking questions like that youll just be seen as an ass who "just doesnt get it." Atarimae is to be embraced without words.

Expressing Yourself in Japanese

noreply@blogger.com (Jules) — Sun, 14 Jan 2007 15:30:00 +0000

Peace and good luck to ma boy Aaron

Heres a forum Id like to introduce- Ill be putting up some threads shortly.

http://www.the-game-online.org/index.php

How can you use Japanese to your advantage without sounding like a total nerd?

When I was first getting a grasp on Jspeak, I was weary about using it and embarrasing myself. I didnt know whether it would help if I spoke Japanese, I was perplexed at between the choice of using ""Ore" "boku" or "watashi," or how about all those words for "you." My jfriends and of course school told me its best to use polite Jpeak AT ALL TIMES. After working as a host and seeing and listening first hand to Jpeeps, I say LISTEN to how people speak in your area and mimic them. When you watch TV make sure you pay attention to the cool guys and learn to speak in a manner likewise.

But whatever happens, do not use Jspeak like you learned in school, do not speak with "masu" form and "desu". Definitely dont speak like you speak to your boss. You can compare it a lot to english. Imagine walking around a club and saying "Hello, my name is J Karasu, how are you today?" "こんにちは, 私はジェイカラスです、今日あなたはお元気ですか？" But in reality, we dont speak like that, we usually walk up and say "hey, hows it goin" or "whats up."

You may think its good to be neutral so a Jgirl thinks you are fresh, but its not! Having colorful language shows that you actually have friends, it shows that you learn and can adapt. It is social proof that you associate with superior Jpeeps that establish power with language. Jgirls will love your dirty mouth and will laugh like mad when you talk like a drunk japanese sailor. You will be the centerpiece of the conversation if you speak with charisma and flair, you can have the whole room hanging on every work you say, waiting to hear the next line of osaka dialect.

Ive had some of the best teachers here in Osaka. I remember going out to a restraunt once a few years ago and listening to a married older couple sitting next to me and my girl. This was a big dirty mother fucker, and I could tell he had that woman serving him hand and foot. I listened a bit to him talk to his wife and heard something like "hurry up and get some beer you" but in japanese it was fucking hilarious. He said it like ""早よビールたのみ～や～お前お前。”He said "Omae"(which means you) twice, and I thought at the time how poor his wife must be, and at the same time laughed and looked at my girl like he was so fuckin rugged with a nod of approval. That was def going to be added to my repetoir of expressions. And to this day, I still use it from time to time to show disproval jokingly, which I always get a "hmp!" from my girl. Not only does using slang season your image, it also shows a great deal of who you hang out with. If you are a ladies man you might speak a lot like a girl, but if you have manly dude friends, you might speak like me.

I had a problem some time ago with people saying I talked like a bitch too much. That was because I learned all my Jspeak from girls, and even all my Japanese teachers a school were women. I made a small goal to speak like a real man, and it all came naturally once I started hosting. I saw how #1 host started by using polite speak maybe for the first meeting, and as rapport was built he established his superiority(alphaness) by making fun of her(negging, disqualifiers) and spoke more like the rugged old man.

It is improtant to establish your superiority by using comfortable japanese, when I meet people for the first time I usually suprise them with my bluntness and impoliteness while at the same time they are digging my dirty mouth, but as a foreigner we get to pull the "Gaijin card" and fuck the rules. I mean seriously, can you imagine the coolest japanese guy you know walk up to a fine girl and spit game to her in polite japanese? Can you imagine your girlfriends dad getting pissed and using "masu" form and "desu?" You need to season your Jspeak and speak like you are natural with emotion.

I see foreigners all the time speak like they are reading from a book. And it works if a girl digs their vibe enough because language isnt everything. But from experience I get girls telling me all the time how their last boyfriend spoke like he was reading from a book without heart, and how lame it is. Even though girls know I've been around the block, they appreciate having a man that take the lead and can give diretion and make fun of them, and most of all speak like a real human...not textbook Jspeak.

I remember a quote by Bruce Lee
"To me, ultimately, martial arts means honestly expressing yourself. Now, it is very difficult to do. It has always been very easy for me to put on a show and be cocky, and be flooded with a cocky feeling and feel pretty cool and all that. I can make all kinds of phoney things. Blinded by it. Or I can show some really fancy movement. But to experience oneself honestly, not lying to oneself, and to express myself honestly, now that is very hard to do."

I may be wrong, but I believe most relationships are usually power struggles, especially if you are dealing with younger girls. Its easy to calculate how much power you have by the way a girl talks to you in Jspeak. If she starts getting shitty on you, there are a few choices, I can list 2 right now.

Tell her not to speak to you in "that manner"
Or take it another step and speak dirtier than her, chew the her out in japanese and put power back in your hands. But the last thing you want is your Jgirls out in public running her mouth and making a fool of you like she has no respect. Call me japanese for being so anal about nuance, but in english, we dont have anything too similar to this. Agreed, if you get in a fight or your girl is pissed, they will use different words. But in japanese there are levels of politeness which are your trusty meter for respect.

By giving her that power passively, it will take 10x more energy to get it back in the long run. We have teams for only one reason, YOU, and if they cant follow the leader they can get the fuck out.

I remember a certain older Jgirl, it started ok, but as time went on she took on a gruffy manner and started speaking to me in dirtier Jspeak than I did. I dont consider that the catalyst for change, but if I had stopped her earlier, it would have at least shifted the power struggle or slowed it down somewhat. By the time it was over she was talking to me in public as if I was her bitch. Last thing I remember is running out of her house with my shoes in my hand and her chasing me with a knife. I can look back on it now and laugh, but I still remember that glare of madness glowing in her eyes.

If you are going to make a team, you will have small battles and have to put them into place quite often. So I hope you make some guy friends and learn to take on the manner of expression and power as the cool ones do.

Obviously its improtant to be suave and have class when speaking, so remember when you speak like a sailor to do it lightheartedly and not walk around blasting people with your rotten mouth. Remember to turn on that charm switch!

How about using slang Japanese?

Of course! We Osakaites are notorious for our dialect, but you Tokyo fellas are sitting in a gold mine for slang words. You should have chances daily to pick up new words, and its fun to be curious and try using new slang. It should give you more to talk about in your already limited conversations. Tokyo trains are packed full of advertisements using all the new slang. Those are great sources to pick up popular words. Keep an eye on those and someday when you get a fine Jgirl sitting next to you on the train, open her by asking about the meaning of some of the words.

Last week I just picked up a new word that I'd like to share. Its called Gamanjiru. "がまんじる." Gaman means to tuff it out, and jiru means soup or sauce. Put them together and you get a new slang word for pre-cum. High school girls are great for learning new words ; )

The 4th dimention of clubbing

noreply@blogger.com (Jules) — Sat, 13 Jan 2007 12:22:00 +0000

A few thoughts on club vibrations--------

Last weekend, I met a good friend of mine right before he was going back to the mother land... Anyways, The club was pretty dead as always till about 2-3 a.m. And I decided on going with just my one friend rather than cruising with my usual crew. I wasnt vibing top level as I usually do because of my lack of good wingwomen. I didnt even see anyting that really caught my eye throughout the night, but I did know that I wouldnt put the night to waste. I knew I was destined to suprise myself. The night went pretty chill, due to me finding a Jdude and talking about Japanese Seduction for almost 3 hours and getting free drinks because he was so interested.

All the clubbing adds up to a lot ef experience and the ability to see more than just drunk people stumbling around and looking for booty, its beyond the skanky bitches showing enough tanned skin to make me wanna bust. Before I could put my feeling into words I knew I saw what others didnt, I felt it. I can feel when the time is right, just the right time when a Jgirl gives me all the signals, and the right time to look at her like shes not on par with me and brush her off like the gnat she is. The moment it all comes together is beyond that. You can see it all come together at the end when you vibe correctly. Its like a master weaver throwing planning to the wind and seeing it come perfectly together at the end without worry or doubt of the outcome.

Top level vibing is beyond planning and setting traps, it is beyond outcome, it is past your fears, it is natural movement, it is the master weaver not realizing what was created untill the last knot tied.

Little did you know that people were subconsciously digesting every movement you made. Every bitch that you had to brush off, every time you made a new friend and proved that you didnt give a shit was all seen, and it created a vibration, it filled the room with energy, it grew and grew. By the end of the night you had made a web, the ones that watched... witnessed, the ones that didnt watch didnt deserve to be in your world. And by the time you step up for that last drink... you notice that Jgirls are dying to prove the ones that got shot down how they are better.

"What's that on your face???!!!! hahaha, is that a star?"
which turns out to be a mole...

It hurt, I know, but it was a mistake... seriously.

Right before the club closed, it was time to put all my hard work into action. I stepped up for a last drink. I got eye contact invitations from two groups, one to my left and one on my right. Next thing I know I have two groups fighting to take a place in line for the next question. "Single File!""いちれつ!" I shout jokingly. I get one Jgirl to do a reggae booty dance on the floor for me to watch, and another from a different group talking about how "You must be so rich" because Im sporting clothes that cost more than her salary.

That is just way too much to comprehend at one moment... "like I said, one at a time!"

Thanks anyways, but I'll pass on these two groups of hungry ho's.

How to steal a Jgirls heart in bed!

noreply@blogger.com (Jules) — Fri, 29 Dec 2006 06:34:00 +0000

Im going to begin a series about using Jspeak, I presume it will be spread out over a few different posts, seeing as how I can rant about one thing for so long.

If you can speak Jap fairly well, I applaud you. You now have access to 90% more girls. I mean, think of that, 90% more Japanese pussy. Fucking amazing! If you dont mind hitting up some booty thats been with another 50 foreigners, and will be with even more, pat yourself on the back and live in your little box full of nasty bitches. If you ever hit up some fresh booty(untouched by foreigner cock) you will understand its worth more than its weight in gold. I have always held the dream that all of my team members were fresh, and I would be the only foreigner they all had slept with, I work toward that dream daily. You should see my face when I find a girl thats fresh, it lights up like a christmas tree and drool starts dripping down my chin.

I know you must have a lot of questions concerning Jspeak, and I'll try to cover all the ones I can think of, but if any others come to mind post em'!

How can you use Japanese to your advantage without sounding like a total nerd?
How about using polite Japanese?
When should and shouldn't you use Jspeak? How much effort should you put into learning Jspeak?
What about speaking in dialects? Should I open with Jspeak?
Whats it like being with a Jgirl without using a language you can both understand?

I'll begin with my favorite.
Should you use Jpeak during sex?
No! Not you! That must mean you have had sex with other Jgirls, thats fucked up! Actually it doesnt matter, I use it to command my girls if they cant take instruction in english. So its up to you, I remember learning some of my first Japanese words during sex. Man that was a trip.

I make all my girls speak to me only in japanese during sex. For one, it makes me wanna bust a nut. 2, its exotic no matter how many times I do it. And 3, its important to get girls to speak with real emotion, and real, strong, natural emotion only comes raw in your native language. During sex, I ALWAYS make girls say they love me in Japanese, if they dont say it, I will stop untill they say it. This is a great way to train girls to give you what you want, and also embedd seeds into their minds. Even if they dont really love you and you have them say it enough times, it will start to grow inside them. Im kinda dirty with this because I never tell them I love them back, it must be just a power trip. During sex we men have all the power, and dont forget that.

I play some crazy mind games during sex. Here are a couple that I reccomend with your Jgirls.

Make them beg for your cock in Japanese.
Make them fiercly apologize for being shitty or doing something to piss you off.
Tell them to say "put it deeper" in Jspeak.
Make them say I love you in japanese without saying it back
Make them blow up your ego by saying how much they love your cock and how big it is while your stickin her
Make them tell you why they love you so much, but this one is difficult because they can hardly get anything but a few words outta their panting mouths, stop if they dont give you anything good and keep asking them till they say something good, but dont settle for any half assed answers.
Make them tell you about how they met you the first time.
Make them talk about their dreams and future(with you, optional*). This one is a little sketchy because it might get her seriously thinking about you.

These should all be told to you in Jspeak. You should feel like a fucking king after each time you have sex. Enjoy that shit!

These are great at solidifying her feelings for you, she will fucking love the way that you command her and facillitate her emotions, you should be taking them to another galaxy, using this advice will take her there. Jgirls like being pinned down as well.

And dont forget, you CAN learn Jspeak during sex!

But for you fellas out there that are already in relationships, dont try working this in on a girl you've been with for awhile, she will probably get freaked out and assume your cheating. Its better to start fresh.

Here are some good english uses.

At a movie theater, in the car or on the train you can use english to whisper sweet nothings in her ear when you are in a place that you cant fuck, she will get wet if you say it in a deep tone and make sure she feels your breath on her ear. Sometimes I say things so she can understand, and sometimes I say things they dont. Usually when they dont understand they will grab you and make you explain on the spot, but its better to tell her you will show her later;)

Teach them to say something in english that makes you hot.
My favorite is "I want to feel you inside me", so whenever you are on the phone or somewhere you cant have sex and you want to have some fun and raise sexual tension, just ask her "what did I teach you?" And remind her to say it, pretty soon you will have your team emailing you saying they want to feel you inside of them. This is fun when you get a girl that cant speak a speck of english and you have them saying this shit.

If you can master all of this, your girls will never forget you, I swear on my heavenly dragon pillar.

#Getting the digits#

noreply@blogger.com (Jules) — Mon, 25 Dec 2006 07:33:00 +0000

Merry Xmas to everyone. Today we're gonna discuss how to get those digits.

I actually wrote this last night but I accidentally closed it and lost the bitch, so I woke up early to give it to you guys because it was fresh on my mind.

So the convo went well, she's feeling you. Now how do you get those digits...

You're gonna need a cell thats been made within the last 5 years. If you dont, go out and fucking get one. If you are just visiting Jland, dont bother reading. If you have an old, big or super small phone go and get a new one. Cellys here are status symbols, and if you bust out a celly that looks like a tamagochi in your supersized foreigner hands, Jgirls will laugh in your face. I'm currently rockin a new pink model, I always get a few giggles, but the girls love it, and its a good convo piece. There are 3 major cell companies in Jland, Docomo, AU, and Softbank/Vodafone. If you wanna get with hostesses I suggest using Docomo, its the staple of people working in "Mizu Shoubai," or the "water business" which means working with alcohol. みずしょうばい　includes hostesses, hosts, bartenders, club/bar staff, lounge ladies, counter ladies snack ladies and sometimes sex joints. 90% of the people who work in mizu shoubai use docomo. Docomo is the ferrari of cellys, I used to sport the newest docomo model and girls would literally get wet when I busted out my 300$ phone. "you must be rich" they would say, Jgirls are so materialistic, me too though. When you wanna get top notch girls you need to exude the image of $$$. Docomo is also the most expensive monthly, but if you can get on a family plan it should keep your bills down.

The real reason for getting a newer cell is for infrared(IR) capabilities. If you don't know if your phone can do IR. Just take a look at your cell and look near the ear speaker. There should be a little black square or circle thats built in to the phone, and its not the one that flashes when you get calls. It should look something like the IR on a TV remote controller. If you got it, now you need to make your profile on your phone, it usually has all of your details. Put in your #, email, a cool quote, and a picture of something that will get you a laugh or comment, I don't reccomend putting in your home email or you'll get googled and you'll have an army of private detectives on your ass. If you don't know how to make a profile go into your phonebook and make a new contact with your info like you would a friend. I always get comments on my shit because I have 5 aliases a japanese name, a picture of a random fish I took at the aquarium and a dope quote. The point is to be interesting, have some stories behind them. If you want to be the first name that comes up in her phone book, put "aa" in the reading box, this is how the phone alphabetically categorizes. Or try it in katakana アア　if you wanna be the only foreigner at the beginning of her japanese contacts, seperating you from everybody else. I have this shit down to a science, it just proves how serious I am. If you are going to send your IR just go to your profile or phonebook contact and open up the menu and choose "send IR." All you have to do is point the IR box at hers. You are also going to need to know how to recieve IR, so figure it out.

I hope you guys figured that out, if you didnt, dont bother reading below.

When the convo is dying down or you feel its a good time to get the #'s bust out your phone and say "you have infrared?" or if she cant speak english that well, say "give me your info." If she doesnt know how, bust her(neg) for being lame and out of date, or uncool and do it the old fashioned way. Almost all Jgirls under 30 know how to use this, you can even use it to send pictures and other peoples contacts too. Now before she has a chance to ask for yours, tell her you'll recieve. Sometimes you'll get a girl that will get your contacts and never hit you up, but if you just remember to get hers first you will be home free. Get hers and make a few comments on it, then send her yours and she'll most likely make some comments on yours too.

When exchanging, it might be a good idea to split first, naturally walk a little ways and act like you forgot something. Turn around with your phone in your hands, say the stuff above and get the contacts, this is good because it shows that the idea just popped up and you might be interested in chillin. I actually do forget and do this quite often, sometimes the girl will be suprised you didn't ask for her digits and she might be uptight about giving them to you if she thinks you are nampa-ing, but if you act like you aren't that interested in just getting her digits she'll wonder whats wrong with her and maybe be happy you came back, so when you come back she might be a little more open to giving it up.

I'm gonna do the above convo in very basic Jspeak for you semi-advanced guys, if you can't read hiragana/katakana don't bother using Jspeak too often. My next blog lesson will be on using Jspeak, speaking in dialects, and timing*. I by no means consider the below to be good japanese, you are going to have to use these words along with grammar that you hopefully already know. Im just throwing out some ideas for you to take to mind.

cell is "けいたい"
give me your number and mail
”メールとばんごちょうだい”
tell me your mail and digits
"ﾒｰﾙとばんごおしえて"
does your phone have infrared? while pointing to her phone*
"せきがいせんできる？"　or "つうしんできる?"

I'll recieve ***comes first***
"こっちはうける"
I'll send
"こっちはおくる"

if she is too slow, おそい
if she cant do it call her lame, ださい
if you wanna make fun of how old she is or so out of date say "are you really that old?"
"そんなにとしとってるの？"
if she doesnt wanna give her info to you, call her scary "こわい"　or strange "おかしい" and forget it, shes just not interested.

Hopefully you guys can speak enough Japanese to make some comments on her info. Then you can cruise after you're done. I usually mail them a little while later with a Jack. I seriously don't believe in waiting long, because you will lose the vibe and she will too. Strike while its still hot and you will have her hooked.

peace
-J

How to initiate a convo

noreply@blogger.com (Jules) — Sun, 24 Dec 2006 15:38:00 +0000

Man, Ill give you some pure gold. Field tested at least a hunded times. This is the single most effective opener I have ever made. And veeeeeeeery simple.Lets say you spot some japanese...Approach as if you arent interested and or have a question.Then proceed to ask them something in chinese, along the lines of (lu how saw shi wu)incomprehensible jibberish.*I cant speak chinese, but I usually say something that sounds like it does, and its always just bullsh*t anyways. Instantly they will put a confused expression of their faces. Then you can ask them in Japanese or english, "oh, you arent chinese?" or in japanese it would be "ee? chugokujin janai no?" Then give it a nail on the coffin by saying "but I thought you were chinese" or "but you look chinese." with a serious face. but I thought you were chinese "demo, chugokujin to omotta" but you look chinese"demo, chugokujin ni mieru"

If the girl is stationary and you are next to them, you can ignore her, and she will be astonished that you just negged(made fun of her) to her in two different languages, she will be curious and want to talk to you more. They will probably really laugh AND be offended *a little* by this one, because china/japan relations are not the best. and the japanese usually believe the chinese are inferior in beauty. Its an effective neg opener because, it shown disinterest for japanese and also gives you ground to neg her throughout the relationship on how she looks chinese.

Ive never had a girl walk away from me on this one, this is 100% fool proof.Im using it here in japan, but I think its applicable anywhere, because you arent showing your interest in japan by speaking japanese at first, and they know there are people out there that obsessed with japanese. Which is lame to show that you have interest in their country.Before I came to japan. about Mao(which ha My favorite is using this opener at mcdonalds. I usually head to the smoking section and sit next to some cute girls, ignore them and act like Im busy, then turn my head to them and do this opener. Its great watching the looks on their faces, I really have to try not to bust out laughing each time I do it. As a matter of fact yesterday I did it in mcdonalds to one girl that was watching me while I was writing a book before I had to go and meet two more girls that I opened with this the week before.It turned into an insta lets-hang-at-mcdonalds-and-just-chill date. I went to the bookstore and saw a bookppened to be this girls name that i just sarged) and on the cover it had a picture of the chinese president with big gold letters "MAO" over it. I took a pic with my phone and emailed her the photo just 10 minutes after she went back to work. saying "Its Mao" with a big pic of the president under the text. I got a nasty reply, but she ended up calling me later that evening, and she wants me to come see her again later this week.

----heres the order----
speak chinese
comment on how they look chinese, or you thought they were chinese
from here there are three good things you can do depending on the reaction you get.1. If she seems interested enough, Ignore her and expect that she will reinitiate the conversation again. Probably asking if you can speak Chinese and Japanese(if u used japanese).2. Attempt to speak more fake chinese, like a joke. Acting like you really think she is chinese, if she doesnt get it, be sure to crack a smile.3.comment on how you love chinese girls/the way their skin is so soft/your ex girlfriend was a chinese model. This is safe commenting on chinese because its basically flying under radar by saying that you are into asian, but not specifically japanese.

Pre-sex Fluffing Jgirls

noreply@blogger.com (Jules) — Sat, 23 Dec 2006 07:33:00 +0000

I'm gonna make a 2 part series on how to get digits(the cool way*) and pre sex fluffing to get you though the door. Ill begin with fluffing because its important to have the correct mindset of "communication" from the beginning The purpose of fluffing is'nt communication so a Jgirl can get comfortable, the real purpose is to learn how to read them and have chances to show interest.

Let's say that you meet a girl somewhere and you got her phone info. But couldnt close her.

What do you do?

Do you try to get her on a second meet, or do you use it to tell her you want to meet her again?

Neither! First comes first kids. You're going to want to use those contacts to comment on something related to the time you met her. If you use email, dont start of the convo with a "hey" or "hi!", just jump right into mid conversation. Its familiar and comfortable.

I like to call the statements below "Jacks", the purpose is to get her to remember being around you, and bring out the state she was in when you met her, its also reframing her mind to see things your way, showing you have a strong mental frame. Its a Jack beause you're hijacking her mind for a bit and will get her comfortable thinking about you. The Jack will usually run through a girls mind several times, planting seeds in her mind. These are super powerful during pre-sex, but after sex they can lose their power. With Jacks you can be creative, and it shows your awareness of the things around you, it shows that you see things differently than other people, its an insight into your view of the world which is good because it shows who you are, and it builds comfort fast. (jack theory copyrighted by juice 12/23/2006)

For example:
She was touching you a lot, use that email to tell her she gave you a funny rash and remind her she owes you $$$. Or lets say shes a student, tell her that she had better spend her money on english lessons than going to clubs because she always used "she" when talkin about dudes and "he" when taking about girls(making fun of her english). Remind her that she spilled a drink on your good shirt and the stain is the color or your moms car.

Use Jacks sparingly, dont overdo it, because they will lose their power over time. They are so powerful that they can get you into the "lets just be friends " zone faaaaaast, because of their ability to ellicit rapport.

If no Jacks about the night before come to mind and you watch the news, you can talk about how korea just dropped another missile off the coast of Jland and theres not much time left for us (this one thanks to hosting).

Eliciting Jacks from her is also a great way to open doors for a statement of interest, but I'll get into that some other day.

Ok so now you get my theory I hope, Now how do you get her to see you again?
Whatever you do, try not to use the 4W's an Y(who, what ,where ,when , why). Why, you ask? People with power dont use them, I dont use them, and they are to bold for a typical Jgirl. I want to steer my girls in my direction, and if they cant be steered, that means they obviously arent feeling you and they dont belong on the team, a girl thats into you will be glad to be steered. I dont want to ask them if they want to do something, that just gives them opportunities to say no, even if they like you. Why not just sit in your throne and enjoy your power, the people who follow your leadership are candidates for your team, thats how you know if they are the right choice.

will continue later...
peace

A look into Holding YOUR Ground

noreply@blogger.com (Jules) — Wed, 20 Dec 2006 14:24:00 +0000

Heres my quote of the day.

"Hit girls right the first time so its Deja Vu." If you post a reply of who it is, and the song title within 24 hours, I'll give 20 mins of free phone consultation(within Japan).

If you're looking on how to get a girlfriend dont read this*
If you're looking on how to solidify a casual relationship or multiple long terms, please continue*

So one of my girls is starting to get a little needy on me. I feel like I hardly know her, and has been giving me mad shit tests. Last week we went out to dinner and she wanted to go back to my place. I agreed and thought it would be nice to chill before she left(had work the next day), but later that night she insisted on staying. I let it slip without a word and let her stay. Then on Monday I had her over again, after she came she insisted again on staying without asking beforehand. I gave her a cold "no" and left it at that and set my alarm so she could catch the last train. Right after I finished bangin the girl, the alarm rang and she was begging me to stay. But as I told her before, she has to ask at least a day before. So I booted her ass outta the house and got her on the train. Tonight she calls up again saying shes drunk and wants to stay at my house. I tell her no and COLD HANG UP. She called me at least 7 times and even messaged me saying she cant get home cause its too late...like its my business... I need to rest my heavenly dragon pillar too. After the calls and messages subsided I hit her up with a message saying "you're fuckin scary, thats your last chance girl! you arent a stocker... are you?" (in Jspeak)

Now this is a the perfect example of what is sexy and intruiging for women. Don't give them what they want or they will think they have you conquered and will lose interest. Playing "hard to get" and not meeting her whenever the feeling comes makes the heart grow fonder, as they say. By the way I treat her, she knows I won't put up with any shit tests and I won't bow down to any whims of hers. Do not let a JGirl take advantage of staying at your place. Next thing you know you'll have them all sharing the same toothbrush that you claim is "new" :P. Most of the Jgirls that you'll meet have no sense of boundaries in a relationship. Most Japanese guys bend over backwards and take it like a bitch just to get some booty. And even moreso the foreigner fellas are just happy to get some ass and let her run a mans life amuck.
Keep them trained, and you'll be happy that you have a healthy agreement. Having a team isn't about providing for them(except the dick), its about a mutual agreement to respect your and her boundaries.

If this girl tries it again I'm gonna have to drop her, or let her know how serious I am. Her b-day is comin up soon, so I might just have to miss it if shes bad.

On another note I'm thinking about getting some interviews for my boys out there. Lets just say its gonna be from some great people from my past... Perfect for people that are looking to get an insight on the japanese mindset...

Check it, ruff shit for ya!

noreply@blogger.com (Jules) — Tue, 19 Dec 2006 15:10:00 +0000

Are you satisfied with your sexual life in Japan? Well... I'm not, and I'm bangin 5 Jgirls at the moment, and for some reason I cant get enough of that tight booty. If you are looking to learn about how to build a dynamic sexual life in Jland, you have come to the right place! I give my services to any and all who are looking for more.

Yo guys, this is my first post on my new blog. I'm looking forward to seeing the community grow here in japan. I've finally got around to starting this shit up, and its taken me a long time. I wanna let you all know, this is going to be the place TO BE for all you fellas. I accept any Q's and will do my best to get us ahead in this shit.

Now, lets get into some background. I have been in Osaka Japan for almost 3 years, I have dedicated every minute of my existence to developing my game here, if you are not serious like me, dont waste your time and get the fuck off my blog! I Have been with some of the most beautiful girls and even some old and dirty ones. I have fucked married Jgirls and I have been with single ones. I have been with experienced, and unexperienced, I have been with girls that can speak english and girls that can't, but I don't want you to think I'm better than you. We are brothers... family... we can all learn and grow together. I have spent my time here becoming accustomed to the ways of Jgirls. Now, I want you all to remember this is a community, I am not your teacher, I am just a guide on your own personal journey to help you find out if you can step that lifestyle of yours up to he next level.

I'm 22, I have half brothers and sisters from Korea, Hawaii, Brazil, and of course America. My father has been married 6 times and is soon to file for his 6th divorce. My game was not handed to me on a silver platter by my father, maybe it was a gift through blood, but most of all, it was a shit load of experience and a whole lot of sweat, possibly a few scratches too. I find humans the most beatiful cratures to ever exist, and I love females. I know, as well as all of you, that women are fantastic creatures that feel and enjoy sex and love as much as we do.

The only thing I digress against is personal insecurities. If you are insecure, take a break and come back when you are ready to read this. In this game you are going to get into a lot of shit that will break your heart unless you understand that women are fickle like us(not just Jgirls), step out of the box of need, enjoy your time with your women, enjoy the games that they *think* they can beat us at, enjoy experience. You need to understand to not take any pain personally and enjoy every moment of this game. We can take this to our home countries and be more confident and better humans than ever before. We can be...

I got into the game well before I came to Jland. I thought I knew it all, but Japan gave me the freedom and room to expand. It gave me the opportunities to become myself, I no longer had my parents looking over my shoulders telling me to do things. I actually learned to do it on my own, even going through experiences like working 60 hour work weeks here in Japan has made me understand more than I could've ever imagined. I have had chances to work with Hosts and even Yakuza(which I'll expand on someday). I am often called a half Jap because I understand Jpeeps so well. The only reason this came about wasn't because of my curiosity for japanese, it was becasue of my love of people. I care, and have genuine interest in all people here, I've lived with J people all but a few months here, and I've found that diving into Japan is the best way to accustom yourself and internalize Japan. I found that those few months alone were the loneliest time of my life here, I urge you all to experience living with Japanese, but not girls unless they are friends. It will take your understanding to a whole different level.

I want all you out there to listen, enjoy, agree, disagree, feel, internalize and most of all bang the most bitches you can, here... in what I like to call "the land I grew up in."