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Love: When Love Walks of The Door

2010-11-21T08:06:00.000-08:00

Every couple in a relationship, whether they like it or not, is bound to experience these little misunderstandings which often lead to the height of giving up and might push the final decision of breaking-up.

As women, we have a very strong internal instinct when it comes to men in our lives. We know, without question, when he feels close and connected to us. Women can also tell when things start to change and when he begins to pull away. If you`re feeling fearful that this is happening in your relationship, you need to take action before it`s too late.

Fortunately, there are signs that your boyfriend does not love you anymore or is beginning not to, already. If you recognize these signs, it actually means that it`s time to make a decision: is it okay with you that he walks out the door? or can the relationship still work out?

One of the signs is that he`ll start to spend lesser time with you. If he seems to have more work and he`s putting in a lot of overtime, you should question that. Naturally, some men really do get busier and are required to focus more on their career, but it`s a perfect excuse for a man who isn`t into the girlfriend anymore.

Another sign is that he`ll start criticizing you more frequently. Men do this when they are detaching emotionally from their women. They create tensions by picking on her. This typically results to a fight and eventually she`ll get so frustrated that she`ll end things up. Surprisingly, many men don`t even fully realize they`re doing it. However, if he seems hypercritical lately, it could very well be that he`s just not feeling as close to you as he once did.

Also, intimacy will change dramatically when your boyfriend does not love you anymore. Even though we are led to believe that a man does not need to feel emotional connection to be intimate with a woman, many still do. He may not feel like making love because he`s not feeling as in love with you as before.

Once you notice these signs, it would be the time to make a decision– to make changes, to talk before he decided to walk out the door and your life, for good. Of course the question to answer is, would that be okay with you?

Thanks to powerlogic for letting me use his account.

Love: Move on

2010-11-21T08:03:00.000-08:00

It is typical in a relationship to have over-spilling sweetness, romance, and affection in the first few weeks or months, but as time goes by, you`ll start to encounter conflicts, which branch out from some small reasons that you could n `t
take at all.

If your boyfriend does not love you anymore even if you still love him a lot and you want to make him love you again, you can`t really do it! The best thing to do is to move on. If he doesn`t love you anymore, then you shouldn`t waste your time with him. You should let him go. Forcing him will only hurt your feelings. Try to accept the fact that all good things sometimes have to end.

Some women spend so much of their time not wanting to end the relationship because they are afraid that once they do, nobody else will pick them up and love them the way the other person did. What most women should realize is that the more they spend their time on wasted relationship, the more they deprive themselves of finding the right one.

Remember, there is no point in loving someone who wouldn`t love you back. It`s just like catching your own shadow– not only impossible but its also makes you most insane person in the planet.

Fate has its way around people. But despite that, loving someone is synonymous to knowing someone and accepting them of their flaws.

When someone walks out of you, you just need to make the other person realize that your life doesn`t end when the relationship ends. The world is too wide, the potentials are even wider.

A Broken Vow

2010-11-21T08:02:00.000-08:00

Commonly, it is said that promises are made to be broken. Yes, I believe so cause no matter how you plan things in your life, you still can never predict your future. It`s just like when you are in love. There is no such thing as "right" person because every now and then, feelings change.

I am so happy and contented with my three-year relationship. All I know is that I love my significant other so much that I want to love her and live with her for the rest of my life. I`ve made so many promises about us, about our future. I promised that I`ll never fall into temptation and fall in love with any other girls. I consider our relationship perfect even though there is no such thing as a perfect relationship. Despite problems, we remained strong and our love did not fade.

Then, there came a naughty yet sweet girl who squeezed in. We talked about our lives, shared secrets, and then suddenly a magic popped up. It was a mysterious feelings–more of a mutual connection than a friendly treatment between the two of us. She told me that she has a crush on me and she likes me. She knows that I`m in a relationship and she is in a relationship as well. So vague right? But the thing is she`s not serious with her boyfriend; I am serious with my girlfriend. What`s next? She began flirting at me, asking me to court here but I didn`t.

I told my girlfriend about that girl and I told her how I made usual connection with other girl. She got jealous, of course, and afraid of what would happen next. But since she trusted me, she remained confident that I`ll stick with him. I was so confident not to fall into further temptation.

However, the part where I dread and considered myself a liar came. I hate hypocrites, and yet I have turned into one. I then started to hate myself.

It just happened that our relationship is long distance and I miss my girlfriend`s presence everyday. This new girl filled in the space. This new girl chap gave me smiles and comforts every time I missed my dear boyfriend. And yes, after all those stuff, the magic revealed the hidden feelings. To summarize, infidelity ruled over love and loyalty.

As of now, I am fixing myself and my relationship with my real love. I have to change while there is still a chance because I`m afraid that the time for a lot of chances will come but, there will be no more room for chances.

Love: Cheating Kills

2010-11-21T08:00:00.000-08:00

It takes a minute to have a crush on someone, an hour to like someone, a day to fall in love with someone, yet a lifetime to forget someone.

Longevity of a relationship is not an assurance that it is going to last. I had an occasion to talk with a friend who has been in a four-year relationship. Having been on much a relationship, he shared the joy of the moments when the relationship was blossoming, the pain when the feelings started to fizzle out, and the emptiness when he finally realized that he no longer felt anything for his 24-year old girlfriend.

He said that in the beginning, he thought he found her, the right one for him. But “fast forward” to today, he is wondering if he really knew her at all. He said, she was not the kind of woman he expected. The relationship died because the girl constantly cheated on him.

My friend said the he persistently tried to keep the relationship alive. He said he worked hard to make it work, but the girl continued to disappoint him–pushing him to his limits until he reached that point where all he wanted to do is raise his arms and quit. He strives so hard but his girlfriend`s actions, the things she has been doing, had already emptied out his patience and understanding–leading him to believe that there`s no more possibility for their relationship to survive.

He predicament now, however, is that he cannot tell directly that his feelings have already taken an exit and what is left is a stanching decay of what was then called “love”. He wanted to end the relationship as soon as possible but he does not have enough courage to tell her face to face. He always turn against when he begins to open the topic to her.

NEW Google Adsense Interface

2010-11-17T15:33:00.001-08:00

Google AdSense has updated and featured their new AdSense Interface. To help you manage your adsense account, they made some few improvements.

The first thing you see when you sign in your account is the Homepage. They improved things to make it easier and faster to navigate into your account. They also improved the Message alerts so you don`t have to worry about your important updates and messages. You could check the Resources, a one stop shop where you could find adsense news and helpful materials. You could find links to your homepage to your most frequently viewed sections in the interface such as asPayments information or Account Settings.

Efficiency:

The My Ads tab helps your inventory more efficiently. This is where you create Ad Units and Costume Channels which you can now view side by side. You could select an ad unit or multiple units in the Mobile Content to apply the same change to all on them at once. Click on the Costume Channel view the related ad units. There is also a filter to help you search for a specific channels.

Control:

In Allow and Block Ads, you can block ads from surfing on your sites by URL, add category or even an entire ad network. You can have more granular control that are placement targeted to your site by using the tools of your Ad Review Center. Here, you can review ads to ensure their relevant to your users. You could also allow or block or even block all the ads from the advertiser`s site. To help you find out what you are looking for, you could search for that using different criteria using Find Ads

Insights:

Lastly, we will move to the Performance Reports tab where you find valuable insights into your data. Here, you could check on your page impression, clicks and revenue as well as more detailed performance reports that you could customize to diagnose your earnings. This reports also allows you to compare date ranges to see your revenue changes to better understand you seasonal or yearly transactions affect your earning patterns.

Dream Like Me: A Sick`s Dream

2010-11-14T22:15:00.000-08:00

Have you dreamed about a happening that you have already dreamed before and it become a dream every time you got a fever? I was sick that time when I dreamed of something I could not explain.

I was sick again…with Bieber Fever!..just kidding. Seriously, I was accidentally bumped by a vehicle and I had a broken wrist. The traffic slowed down and the people are watching over me thinking how I did survived the accident. It was a long story so I wouldn`t mention the details. I wasn`t brought to the hospital because I refused to so I was stuck in my bed the whole week because I have a high fever.

It was Thursday night when I wasn`t able to take my medicines I fell asleep even if my temperature is high. Then that night, my dream started. I dreamed that I was on a mosquito net. The net was big enough for me and I got extra pillow beside me. I was sitting there when I see everything is so creepy. Everything is dark. Dark-spotted like the tiny spots are moving on your view. Suddenly I saw objects appeared to me from a far. They keep on moving towards me until they reached just a millimeter away from my eyes. I wanted to touch those object but I just couldn`t touch them even if they are too near on me. The next thing I realized is that everything now is moving towards me even the mosquito net. I couldn`t move even if I wanted to. Then my nanny came with a broomstick. The broom was too big as big as my nanny`s body but my nanny is too thin as thin as the broomstick. What scares me most was when she looked really close to me as close as those objects then I`ve seen before. She has no face. But when she smiled at me her mouth opened into a cut, its like a wounded flesh.

I woke up with sweat. I looked at the clock and it is still 2:45am. I immediately took my medicines and get back to sleep. And when I fell asleep I dreamed about that again and again. It always ended on my faceless nanny. Every time I have a high fever I always dream of that. Until now I still dream on that but I am already used to it. It just scares me a bit.
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A New Website for Earning Money

2010-11-14T22:05:00.000-08:00

I found a new site which is easy for me to get money online. I found it at iPal.

Just like what my referrer said, iPal is very interesting. I found this site when I was reading her article. I immediately create an account under my her link because you cannot join without being invited or without any referral. Just kidding.

iPal is an email site that is something like googlemail,yahoomail, hotmail, AOL and etc,. The interface itself is very comfortable to the users. This is it, you will be rewarded you use your mail and receive messages.

There are only two steps how to get lots of money.

1.) Get as many referrals as you want. Ever invited friends who joins = you earn 50points.

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2.) Response. Every reply from a unique addresses on your iPal email = you earn 5points.

They send out payments through Paypal for the beginning months, but only when you have generated over $25 in revenue. If you have generated less than this, the pay will be withheld until the next pay period, when it is added to the new total and send it to you if over $25.

I am sure that I am going to use iPal from now on. And I will guarantee you will make an easy money.

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Why We Filipinos Are Poor?

2010-11-14T21:55:00.000-08:00

Why are Filipinos so poor? What really went wrong? And why it still continues?

I was on inside a bus, observing everything I see when the question suddenly pop up in my mind. When I got home I read on some articles which will give me the answer.

I found out that 34.2 of the population of Filipinos is living below the poverty line(NSO, 2000). And a survey was conducted on September 2007, found a result that almost 52 percent of the Filipinos consider themselves “mahirap” or poor.

Majority of the Pinoys have the habit of thinking poor and it is proven. Poor people spend more time talking, idle, gossip and drink to the neighborhood`s store. Some are striving for money just to spend it with their vices without any care of their family. Even when you go to mountain areas, you could see some filipinos doing nothing instead of doing something profitable. Why Filipinos are so poor? Because of the word “lazy”.

Filipinos don`t know how to handle money. Some spend spend money as if it`s going to be out of fashion. Look are our women how they over-dressed and how over-coiffed they are, and Imelda epitomizes that extravagance. And with our men the way they dress, their personal jewelries and too much care of themselves. “Yabang” or arrogant — that is what we have. That is why we Filipinos are so poor.

And finally, We are so poor because we condone cronyism and corruption and we don`t ostracize or punish the crooks on our society. We know that cronyism and corruption are the waste on our society but we consider them because our loyalty is to family or friends. We don`t consider the larger group.

I found an article wrote by our “kababayan” and I will inspire you to read this and hope of a change. Nothing is truth here unless we realize.

Dream Like Me: Falling On A Never Ending

2010-11-14T06:26:00.000-08:00

I was elementary that time when I dreamed that I fell on a never ending building.
I don`t know but I was so scared.

I still remember every on that day. It was a tiring day back then spending my vacation playing with my friends. It was then 7pm in the afternoon when my mother called me for a dinner. So, I went home and was scolded. I went to my room because I was too exhausted that`s why I suddenly fell asleep that I even forgot I wasn`t able to eat my dinner.

I dreamed that I was on top of the building. I looked around but I didn`t see any other buildings except the only building I am standing in. When I looked below, it was too deep and I feel myself being pulled by a force. I screamed that I thought I am going to die. My body was in total pain because of the force against me when I was falling. I was still falling when I realized that I never fell on the ground.I keep on falling but I didn`t fell. That time, I could not handle the pain the I thought to myself its better for me to fell on the ground and be crushed. I thought I was going to hell and that is the one way through.

I realized that I fell on a never ending building. I woke up with sweat flooding on my body. I thought to myself that was the worst nightmare I ever had.

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2010-11-14T06:00:00.000-08:00

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Lust At First Sight

2010-11-14T05:55:00.000-08:00

Did you lust at first sight? Well, I think there is something going on.

They say “I fall in love with him the first time I saw him”, others say “I feel love”, well thats good and that is normal to the personal you really love. But in some case, it could be opposite.

I heard my grandfather`s “lolo” story of how he courted my grandmother “lola” and things revolves around them. It took a long time for him to win my grandmother`s heart and he spend a lot of time, effort, money for that. After the long-suffering, my grandfather proved how he really love my lola and I know they love each other.

In our time today, technology changes, environment changes, everything changes. Teenagers get easily attracted to the opposite sex. Some says they fell in love with a girl the first time they saw her. My friend Jay confessed me that it was not love at all when he first saw his girlfriend, its lust. Easily because his girlfriend is used with mini-skirt, “apron-like” dress with full cover at the front but exposed at the back. He told me it wasn`t his fault at all because by nature man gets easily attracted to girls.

We both give off pheromones where in places we party or meet. So this is why we lust and this isn`t not real love. The sexy clothes worn can make an evident to lust after somebody. We smell each others body chemicals and we aren`t aware that this goes on as our body stinks with odorless chemicals design to attract. Teenagers today are very familiar with “Try first” activities. There isn`t love for teenagers who started one night stand.
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Bieber, Bieber, Bieber Oh!

2010-11-14T05:13:00.000-08:00

I was really laughing when writing this blog. I enjoyed reading this so I hope you enjoy too.

I was sitting on a bench beside those noisy girls waiting for my girlfriend to arrive and then on a sudden I was shock, the girls beside me were screaming like hell. I was intrigued that I turned my head on the cellphone they are holding and poof! I saw a video of Justin Bieber singing yeah, yeah ,yeah. I asked myself, who is that Justin Bieber? I know him and his fame but I realized he really drive those girls` attention. I mean his not a god to worship.

From that on, I heard Bieber here, Bieber there, Bieber anywhere and all “ER”. I saw my little brother wearing a bieber-like cap with a bieber-like shoes and dancing a bieber dance and all of the “ER”-like and worst, all my siblings were singing the bieber songs that was played on MIX. That really annoys me and will always annoys me.

“B.I.E.B.E.R”, a girl-fans club of Bieber was really on a campaign recruiting for new members for their group showed up on our class. For them it was like party, a party without an end. But for me, it was like hell and I was like hallucinating. I looked around trying to find for people who are on the opposition. It was funny how my classmates(the straight guys) reacted on the scene and its like if I`m gonna see that guy I`m gonna crash his head. In our campus, Justin Bieber is a heart-rob.

It was Friday night, a fly-day night and I had a date with my girlfriend. We were enjoyed eating together, watching movies together, and all of the “ER”. I was really confident with my girl. I mean she really sticks with me and no other than me. It was then 10 o`clock when we heard the bieber song and to my surprise my girlfriend was singing the bieber song and its like Bieber was singing for her with “Baby, baby, baby OH!”. I chilled out when I heard her singing and I wasn`t expecting the worst, she confessed with her own lips that she really like Justin Bieber.Sick!.

After that night, I realize everything and seems like I am having an allergy over Justin Bieber. I realized everything before I got sick. I was sick…..with BIEBER FEVER!….damn..

You know Justin, there is only one thing I have to say to you. “Less than three”.

TEEHEE!

Thanks to Nigahiga for the idea. hehe LOL!

The Culture of Cruelty

2010-11-13T08:00:00.000-08:00

Yes, I believe that finishing college is the closest thing to nirvana for students. I, myself, is also excited about that thought.
However, the trouble with graduating is the process in which all students have to do a merry-go-round in the whole expanse of the university just to get the extremely needed and cannot-graduate-without its signatures from who ever wants his/her name to be sought after.

As for me and for those like me, the irregulars, I went through a great deal more than that since I had to grovel in front of several esteemed individuals just so I could get them to sign my letter for of several registrar asking to permit me to overload my subjects.
Yes! It was my fault I was an irregular but they could have been more helpful. Don’t you know that it took me a week just for them to sign my letter? It was indeed my worst nightmare.
It all started when my classmate had a chat with the university registrar. She also has subjects she needed to overload so she told the registrar about it. The registrar advised her to write a letter to the dean asking her permission to overload the subjects. Of course, as a good friend, she also invited me to overload.

We wrote the letter. We passed it to the dean’s student assistant who returned the letter to us because the name of the dean was not spelled right(the dean was very particular with her name).
The next day, we rewrote the letter. We passed it to the dean’s student assistant who in turn told us that we need to attach our evaluation forms along with the letter.
So the next day, we printed the letter again with a different date and attached our evaluation forms. We passed it to the dean`s student assistant who this time made us cool our heels off for thirty minutes before she said that she needed a copy of our load slip.

The next day, we printed the letter again with a different date and attached our evaluation forms and a photocopy of our load slip.
We passed it to the dean’s student assistant who perused it for a while and said, “You need to place the grades you had last semester and have it evaluated as well”. She went on to say, “However, we cannot evaluate it yet since our schedule here is quite tight.” To which I answered, “Would it be fine if we will just bring our grade forms along with the evaluation form so that you could confirm the grades”. She said it was fine.

So the next day, we printed the letter again with a different date and attached our evaluation forms and photocopy of our load slip plus the grade form. We passed it to the dean’s student assistant and she confirmed our grades, evaluated it and asked for ten pesos, the payment for the basic thing she did. She asked us to write in a certain book the amount we paid and place our signature but it was fascinating to note that she did not issue a receipt. Knowing that this is a government school, she should have.

Then she asked if we could come back the next day since the dean is still busy and it was near five by them.
So the next day, we were quite hopeful that we could already have much needed signatures.
We waited until the dean was ready for us. My friend didn`t have any problem with her requirements since she studied here since the first year. But I was a transferee so I had a hard time convincing the dean that I was a candidate for graduation.
The dean asked me for my accreditation form. I told her I didn`t have it because it has been with the registrar for two years. She asked me about who accredited my grades and I told her but when she learned that it was the chairperson of my department who accredited my English grades, she looked at me as if I was the greatest moron in the world. She told me that the chairperson was not authorized and that I should have gone to the English department. I tried to explain but she wouldn`t listen. She signed my letter and instructed me to return with my accreditation form.

I returned with it a few minutes later and I was confronted bu the assistant dean. She told me that what I did was wrong. I again tried to explain but she wouldn`t listen. She instructed me to return the form to the registrar and have deal with it. So with the last ounce of courage I told her, “If there is something wrong with my grades why do you refuse to help me, I wasn`t aware that I made a mistake.”
But she wouldn`t budge. I realized then that it wasn`t that she couldn`thelp me, she just wouldn`t. So I went out silently thanking God that I only have a few months to withstand such cruelty that has always been exuded by men and women in the higher rank of this school.
I was thankful that at least the people from the registrar are different. I realized that hey are the most helpful people in the whole university.
I guess it really would not matter how well you did your job, what matters most is how well you serve others.