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    <title>Junk Drawer Spirtuality</title>
    
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    <updated>2009-07-14T23:12:36-07:00</updated>
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        <title>How Well Does Seminary Train a Person For Ministry?</title>
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        <published>2009-07-14T23:12:36-07:00</published>
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        <summary>I just read an article in Christianity Today about the gap that exists between the staff roles available for people seeking ministry and the trained ministers that seminaries are producing. The author (Bobby Ross) suggests that seminaries should do a...</summary>
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            <name>David Herrick</name>
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<content type="xhtml" xml:lang="en-US" xml:base="http://www.davidherrick.net/junk_drawer_spirtuality/"><div xmlns="http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml"><p><a href="http://www.davidherrick.net/.a/6a00e5517bef06883401157112d126970c-popup" onclick="window.open(this.href,'_blank','scrollbars=no,resizable=yes,toolbar=no,directories=no,location=no,menubar=no,status=no,left=0,top=0'); return false" style="float: left;"><img alt="AdultBible" class="at-xid-6a00e5517bef06883401157112d126970c " src="http://www.davidherrick.net/.a/6a00e5517bef06883401157112d126970c-650wi" style="width: 450px; margin-top: 3px; margin-right: 3px; margin-bottom: 3px; margin-left: 3px; border-top-width: 3px; border-right-width: 3px; border-bottom-width: 3px; border-left-width: 3px; border-top-style: solid; border-right-style: solid; border-bottom-style: solid; border-left-style: solid; border-top-color: #ffffff; border-right-color: #ffffff; border-bottom-color: #ffffff; border-left-color: #ffffff; " title="AdultBible" /></a> I just read <a href="http://www.christianitytoday.com/ct/2009/august/28.18.html" target="_blank">an article</a> in Christianity Today about the gap that exists between the staff roles available for people seeking ministry and the trained ministers that seminaries are producing.  The author (Bobby Ross) suggests that seminaries should do a better job training seminary students for senior pastoral roles that require not only a dynamic pulpit ministry, but also the ability to manage personnel.  Right you are, Mr. Ross.  But let me even take that one step further.</p><br /><div>The problem as I see it is that seminaries almost exclusively train pastors for these senior pastoral roles, to be teachers and expositors, but for the vast majority of church positions that are currently on the market, formal pulpit and doctrinal training are only tangentially necessary.  The senior preaching pastor is quite a narrow slice of the church world and not the type of role in which a recent grad can just "dive right in."</div><br /><div>To be sure, there are many senior pastoral positions to be had.  But in my experience, for any publicized, vacant senior pastoral role at a church of over 150 attenders, one is likely to be competing against 50 to 200 other applicants for that position . . . and most churches are looking for a pastor with more experience than a recent seminary grad.  Five years of pastoral ministry experience is a typical minimum requirement  (along with a litany of additional personal, relational, doctrinal, and spiritual expectations that would make Billy Graham question his call).  The point is, senior pastoral positions are abundant, but landing them is a competitive business!</div><br /><div>So what's the seminary grad to do?  Well, if you have dreams of pastoring a church and preaching your heart out on Sunday mornings, the best way to begin is to just get yourself on staff with a larger church in a role where you can excel, and then build up your experience so that other opportunities might come down the road at a later time.  Just get your foot in the door.</div><br /><div>But here's the circular problem.  The trend among larger churches is to rarely hire staff from local Bible colleges and seminaries, but rather to train up staff from within the church who have experience in the business world, or whose specific skill set meets their specific needs.  I learned the hard way that for the majority of church staff positions a background in business actually serves you better than a seminary education.  </div><br /><div>For most staff roles, the measure of success looks something like this: How well you can manage the people you oversee?  How well can you recruit and train new volunteers?  How well can you manage your budget?  Is your ministry experiencing growth over time?  Those are the important questions many churches want to have answered.  If you're a small groups director, having a doctrinal background may come in handy every so often, but if you can't build teams, you're worthless.  If you're a children's ministry director, your most important job is overseeing your volunteers and leaders, not exegeting Scripture.  </div><br /><div>And that's the problem.  The primary focus in seminary education is not on the organizational/ managerial side of ministry but rather the teaching side of ministry that really only pertains to one or two roles.  In your average church of 5,000, with a staff of 30, only a few of those people are actually going to be preaching.  Most everyone else on staff is responsible for overseeing teams, recruiting volunteers, training people, reproducing groups, managing their budget, etc.</div><br /><div>So here's my suggestion for the seminary student:</div><br /><div>1.  Get as much ministry experience as you can while you're in school.  Churches are looking for your experience, not your grades.  If you cruise through seminary and all the ministry experience you've acquired is leading a few small groups, churches will not even consider you for most positions.  Get into some sort of role where you will have the opportunity to build a team, and train leaders.</div><br /><div>2.  Supplement your skill set.  Sometimes you can get your foot in the door at a church by offering them a skill that they need while you get better at doing what you really want to do.  Learn about web design, graphic design, video editing, sound tech, lighting, computer programming, take up the drums (every church needs a drummer) . . . pick one or two supplemental skills that any church could use, get really good at it, and market the heck out of it as you're looking for roles.  Churches LOVE staff that can wear multiple hats. </div><br /><div>And now for the seminaries:</div><br /><div>1.  All seminaries should have an extensive internship program which would allow every M-Div student to leave seminary with at least 3 years of real practical ministry experience.</div><br /><div>2.  As much as it pains me to say there should be less Biblical education, I think that that's the only way to shift the balance of focus in most M-Div programs so that students can be equipped for what churches are really looking for in staff roles.  If I were to do it over again, now that I've been on staff with a smaller church, a  mega-church, and gone through the first year of a church plant, I wish I had received some basic training in financial management systems, marketing, small group theory, networking theory, organizational behavior, event planning, etc.  I think there should probably be more courses that look like MBA courses, and fewer courses that assume an eventual teaching ministry.  I'm not suggesting replacing theological education with business education, but I do know a class on marketing would have been alot more useful for me in the past year than my 4 semesters of Greek and 3 semesters of Hebrew.</div><br /><div>Just sayin . . .</div><xhtml:img xmlns:xhtml="http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml" src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/JunkDrawerSpirtuality/~4/JZ6ITZeY_ww" height="1" width="1" /></div></content>


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        <title>Pin a Tie on a Small Group Leader</title>
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        <published>2009-06-26T20:19:35-07:00</published>
        <updated>2009-06-26T20:19:35-07:00</updated>
        <summary>Last week,we had a small group fair at Waterfront, advertising our new groups starting up in a few weeks. And since it was Father's Day, we had the idea that we would ask everyone to give the leader of the...</summary>
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            <name>David Herrick</name>
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<content type="xhtml" xml:lang="en-US" xml:base="http://www.davidherrick.net/junk_drawer_spirtuality/"><div xmlns="http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml"><p>Last week,we had a small group fair at Waterfront, advertising our new groups starting up in a few weeks.  And since it was Father's Day, we had the idea that we would ask everyone to give the leader of the small group in which they were interested a necktie.</p><br /><div>Actually, they weren't supposed to give them real neckties.  We had cut-out neckties on which they could write down their names and contact info, and then when they left the auditorium, they saw large 24X36 posters of each of our leaders where they could stick their ties.  John McDavitt made the pictures up, and I thought they were brilliant.  Check it out:</div><br /><div><a href="http://www.davidherrick.net/.a/6a00e5517bef0688340115716a9f02970b-popup" onclick="window.open(this.href,'_blank','scrollbars=no,resizable=yes,toolbar=no,directories=no,location=no,menubar=no,status=no,left=0,top=0'); return false" style="float: left;"><img alt="Jpeg Dave Flat" class="at-xid-6a00e5517bef0688340115716a9f02970b " src="http://www.davidherrick.net/.a/6a00e5517bef0688340115716a9f02970b-200wi" style="width: 150px; margin-top: 3px; margin-right: 3px; margin-bottom: 3px; margin-left: 3px; " title="Jpeg Dave Flat" /></a> <a href="http://www.davidherrick.net/.a/6a00e5517bef0688340115716aa026970b-popup" onclick="window.open(this.href,'_blank','scrollbars=no,resizable=yes,toolbar=no,directories=no,location=no,menubar=no,status=no,left=0,top=0'); return false" style="float: left;"><img alt="Jpeg Greg Flat" class="at-xid-6a00e5517bef0688340115716aa026970b " src="http://www.davidherrick.net/.a/6a00e5517bef0688340115716aa026970b-200wi" style="margin-top: 3px; margin-right: 3px; margin-bottom: 3px; margin-left: 3px; width: 150px; " title="Jpeg Greg Flat" /></a> <a href="http://www.davidherrick.net/.a/6a00e5517bef068834011570757415970c-popup" onclick="window.open(this.href,'_blank','scrollbars=no,resizable=yes,toolbar=no,directories=no,location=no,menubar=no,status=no,left=0,top=0'); return false" style="float: left;"><img alt="Jpeg Mike Flat" class="at-xid-6a00e5517bef068834011570757415970c " src="http://www.davidherrick.net/.a/6a00e5517bef068834011570757415970c-200wi" style="margin-top: 3px; margin-right: 3px; margin-bottom: 3px; margin-left: 3px; width: 150px; " title="Jpeg Mike Flat" /></a> <a href="http://www.davidherrick.net/.a/6a00e5517bef0688340115707575c1970c-popup" onclick="window.open(this.href,'_blank','scrollbars=no,resizable=yes,toolbar=no,directories=no,location=no,menubar=no,status=no,left=0,top=0'); return false" style="float: left;"><img alt="Jpeg Muellers Flat" class="at-xid-6a00e5517bef0688340115707575c1970c " src="http://www.davidherrick.net/.a/6a00e5517bef0688340115707575c1970c-200wi" style="width: 175px; margin-top: 3px; margin-right: 3px; margin-bottom: 3px; margin-left: 3px; " title="Jpeg Muellers Flat" /></a> <a href="http://www.davidherrick.net/.a/6a00e5517bef0688340115707577fb970c-popup" onclick="window.open(this.href,'_blank','scrollbars=no,resizable=yes,toolbar=no,directories=no,location=no,menubar=no,status=no,left=0,top=0'); return false" style="float: left;"><img alt="Jpeg Tammi Flat" class="at-xid-6a00e5517bef0688340115707577fb970c " src="http://www.davidherrick.net/.a/6a00e5517bef0688340115707577fb970c-200wi" style="width: 150px; margin-top: 3px; margin-right: 3px; margin-bottom: 3px; margin-left: 3px; " title="Jpeg Tammi Flat" /></a> <br /></div><xhtml:img xmlns:xhtml="http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml" src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/JunkDrawerSpirtuality/~4/v-3fCv5i4lk" height="1" width="1" /></div></content>


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        <title>Funny Blog Post About a Guy Tracking Down a Stolen iPhone</title>
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        <published>2009-06-24T09:35:45-07:00</published>
        <updated>2009-06-24T09:56:03-07:00</updated>
        <summary>Aaron Monts just twittered about this blog post, and since I haven't blogged about anything personally in a while, and since I don't feel like devoting much head space to create my own thoughts on any subject, I decided to...</summary>
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            <name>David Herrick</name>
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<content type="xhtml" xml:lang="en-US" xml:base="http://www.davidherrick.net/junk_drawer_spirtuality/"><div xmlns="http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml"><p><a href="http://www.davidherrick.net/.a/6a00e5517bef06883401157152206f970b-popup" onclick="window.open(this.href,'_blank','scrollbars=no,resizable=yes,toolbar=no,directories=no,location=no,menubar=no,status=no,left=0,top=0'); return false" style="float: left;"><img alt="Apple-iphone-in-hand-thumb" class="at-xid-6a00e5517bef06883401157152206f970b " src="http://www.davidherrick.net/.a/6a00e5517bef06883401157152206f970b-500wi" style="width: 250px; margin-top: 3px; margin-right: 3px; margin-bottom: 3px; margin-left: 3px; border-top-width: 3px; border-right-width: 3px; border-bottom-width: 3px; border-left-width: 3px; border-top-style: solid; border-right-style: solid; border-bottom-style: solid; border-left-style: solid; border-top-color: #ffffff; border-right-color: #ffffff; border-bottom-color: #ffffff; border-left-color: #ffffff; " title="Apple-iphone-in-hand-thumb" /></a> <a href="http://aaronmonts.com/">Aaron Monts </a>just twittered about this blog post, and since I haven't blogged about anything personally in a while, and since I don't feel like devoting much head space to create my own thoughts on any subject, I decided to post a link to someone else who posted a kick-butt and absolutely hilarious story.  This guy had his iPhone stolen one night, so he's telling the story of how he ended up tracking the thief down with a new Apple app "Find My iPhone."  It's really funny.</p><div>Here's <a href="http://happywaffle.livejournal.com/5890.html" target="_blank">THE POST</a></div><xhtml:img xmlns:xhtml="http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml" src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/JunkDrawerSpirtuality/~4/zQ-bkvIa3yI" height="1" width="1" /></div></content>


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        <title>Fiddler on the Roof</title>
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        <published>2009-06-16T18:48:12-07:00</published>
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        <summary>Friday, my mom flew in from Texas to join me for a night of Chicago theater. We went to see "The Fiddler on the Roof." It's her all time favorite musical and one of my favorites too, although I'd only...</summary>
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            <name>David Herrick</name>
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<content type="xhtml" xml:lang="en-US" xml:base="http://www.davidherrick.net/junk_drawer_spirtuality/"><div xmlns="http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml"><p><a href="http://www.davidherrick.net/.a/6a00e5517bef0688340115711c4e99970b-popup" onclick="window.open(this.href,'_blank','scrollbars=no,resizable=yes,toolbar=no,directories=no,location=no,menubar=no,status=no,left=0,top=0'); return false" style="float: left;"><img alt="Topol" class="at-xid-6a00e5517bef0688340115711c4e99970b " src="http://www.davidherrick.net/.a/6a00e5517bef0688340115711c4e99970b-500wi" style="margin-top: 3px; margin-right: 3px; margin-bottom: 3px; margin-left: 3px; border-top-width: 3px; border-right-width: 3px; border-bottom-width: 3px; border-left-width: 3px; border-top-style: solid; border-right-style: solid; border-bottom-style: solid; border-left-style: solid; border-top-color: #ffffff; border-right-color: #ffffff; border-bottom-color: #ffffff; border-left-color: #ffffff; width: 450px; " title="Topol" /></a> Friday, my mom flew in from Texas to join me for a night of Chicago theater.  We went to see "The Fiddler on the Roof."  It's her all time favorite musical and one of my favorites too, although I'd only seen the movie, not the actual play.  And it was really cool.  First of all, it was the farewell performance for Topol.  Who's Topol, you ask?  He's the Israeli actor who played the Oscar nominated lead role of the father, Tevye, in "Fiddler" the movie.  And really ... anyone who's known by a one-word name already scores mega-cool points in my book.</p><br /><div>And he was awesome.  Tevye is such a rich character with so much personality.  And it's hard for me to imagine anybody being able to play his role with the same depth as Topol does.  Amazingly (I didn't realize this), the original movie in which Topol played Tevye was a 1971 production.  That was 38 years ago and he's still playing that same character at age 74.  And the dude was as spry as he ever was in 1971!</div><br /><div>It was a great show.  Watching live theater is, of course, so much more enjoyable than watching a movie, but it had even been awhile since I'd seen the movie, so it was kinda like hearing the story for the first time on Friday night.  It was a great night.  The theater was beautiful (the Oriental), the music was great, the sets were amazing . . .  It was all great.</div><xhtml:img xmlns:xhtml="http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml" src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/JunkDrawerSpirtuality/~4/3Gy9s0Ft0b8" height="1" width="1" /></div></content>


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        <title>Megachurches and Young People</title>
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        <published>2009-06-10T09:30:57-07:00</published>
        <updated>2009-06-10T09:30:57-07:00</updated>
        <summary>I just read an article that talks about some research that was done suggesting that, contrary to popular opinion, the vast majority of younger church attenders attend megachurches (churches with an average of 2000 or more attenders) rather than non-megachurches....</summary>
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            <name>David Herrick</name>
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<content type="xhtml" xml:lang="en-US" xml:base="http://www.davidherrick.net/junk_drawer_spirtuality/"><div xmlns="http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml"><p><a href="http://www.davidherrick.net/.a/6a00e5517bef06883401156ff966b4970c-popup" onclick="window.open(this.href,'_blank','scrollbars=no,resizable=yes,toolbar=no,directories=no,location=no,menubar=no,status=no,left=0,top=0'); return false" style="float: left;"><img alt="IStock_000005772389XSmall" class="at-xid-6a00e5517bef06883401156ff966b4970c " src="http://www.davidherrick.net/.a/6a00e5517bef06883401156ff966b4970c-500wi" style="width: 275px; margin-top: 3px; margin-right: 3px; margin-bottom: 3px; margin-left: 3px; border-top-width: 3px; border-right-width: 3px; border-bottom-width: 3px; border-left-width: 3px; border-top-style: solid; border-right-style: solid; border-bottom-style: solid; border-left-style: solid; border-top-color: #ffffff; border-right-color: #ffffff; border-bottom-color: #ffffff; border-left-color: #ffffff; " title="IStock_000005772389XSmall" /></a> I just read <a href="http://news.yahoo.com/s/ap/20090609/ap_on_re/us_rel_megachurch_survey;_ylt=AqpiFLUZx8xUSbuQpN_sNKM7Xs8F;_ylu=X3oDMTJ1YXU5djA5BGFzc2V0A2FwLzIwMDkwNjA5L3VzX3JlbF9tZWdhY2h1cmNoX3N1cnZleQRwb3MDMQRzZWMDeW5fcGFnaW5hdGVfc3VtbWFyeV9saXN0BHNsawNzdHVkeW1lZ2FjaHU-" target="_blank">an article</a> that talks about some research that was done suggesting that, contrary to popular opinion, the vast majority of younger church attenders attend megachurches (churches with an average of 2000 or more attenders) rather than non-megachurches.  I suppose it shouldn't be that surprising, but in recent years, there has been alot written by folks who've suggested that the new, upcoming, "postmodern" generation is tired of the megachurch model of their baby-boomer parents and they're ready for closer, more intimate, more "authentic" fellowship when they go to church.</p><div><br /><div>According to this research, that thinking is ridiculous.  "Nearly two-thirds of megachurch attenders are under 45, double the numbers in Protestant congregations of all sizes. The vast majority are between 18 and 44."  That's pretty amazing when you consider the fact that the average attender age in a protestant church is 53!  Young people gravitate toward megachurches, not smaller more intimate churches.</div><br /><div>Now, the big question is why . . . Why do younger people like their churches BIG?  Is it a quality issue (bigger means better music, more programs, facilities, speakers, etc.), an anonymity issue (it's easier to slip in and out of a megachurch without being noticed), an enthusiasm issue (bigger means the church leaders must have a compelling vision)?  It's hard to say.  </div></div><xhtml:img xmlns:xhtml="http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml" src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/JunkDrawerSpirtuality/~4/lWFeXJ-UFFs" height="1" width="1" /></div></content>


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        <title>Moving</title>
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        <published>2009-06-09T19:47:02-07:00</published>
        <updated>2009-06-09T19:47:02-07:00</updated>
        <summary>Last week, I moving out of my apartment and moving into my new home in Streamwood, IL. I'm very excited to be in my new place. It's great to have a home. But I was just thinking about how taxing...</summary>
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            <name>David Herrick</name>
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<content type="xhtml" xml:lang="en-US" xml:base="http://www.davidherrick.net/junk_drawer_spirtuality/"><div xmlns="http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml"><p><a href="http://www.davidherrick.net/.a/6a00e5517bef06883401156ff44cf2970c-popup" onclick="window.open(this.href,'_blank','scrollbars=no,resizable=yes,toolbar=no,directories=no,location=no,menubar=no,status=no,left=0,top=0'); return false" style="float: left;"><img alt="Moving2zd3" class="at-xid-6a00e5517bef06883401156ff44cf2970c " src="http://www.davidherrick.net/.a/6a00e5517bef06883401156ff44cf2970c-500wi" style="width: 465px; margin-top: 3px; margin-right: 3px; margin-bottom: 3px; margin-left: 3px; border-top-width: 3px; border-right-width: 3px; border-bottom-width: 3px; border-left-width: 3px; border-top-style: solid; border-right-style: solid; border-bottom-style: solid; border-left-style: solid; border-top-color: #ffffff; border-right-color: #ffffff; border-bottom-color: #ffffff; border-left-color: #ffffff; " title="Moving2zd3" /></a> Last week, I moving out of my apartment and moving into my new home in Streamwood, IL.  I'm very excited to be in my new place.  It's great to have a home.  But I was just thinking about how taxing a move can be on a person.  This is something like my 15th move in 12 years, so I should be much more used to it, but I'm not.  </p><br /><div>For me, I began boxing all of my possessions last Wednesday, boxed all day and continued boxing every free moment I had through Friday evening.  I picked up a 17 foot Uhaul truck early Saturday morning, began loading it around 10:30 (with the help of about 10 good friends), and finished by 1:00.  We arrived in Streamwood by 2:00 and unloaded the whole truck into my new place in alittle over an hour.  I returned the Uhaul, picked up a few odds and ends, and set up my bed in just enough time to crash on it 'til morning.  Sunday morning I picked up the Waterfront trailer to setup for church (and I totally had an awesome servant's attitude about that too :)) at about 6:45, worked and worshipped, and then dropped the trailer off by 1:00.  Then immediately, I drove back down to Aurora to finish cleaning my former apartment and box the last of my stuff.  I started cleaning around 3:30 and left about 7:30.  That's right, 7:30.</div><br /><div>Since that time, I have unboxed, bought furnishings, constructed cheap target furnishings, moved furnishings, hooked up electronics, broken down boxes, etc., etc., etc.  And amazingly, I am still not relaxed.  The funny thing about a move is that I cannot take my mind off the move until the very last picture is hung, and the very last box is unpacked.  I'm compulsive that way.  And it's taxing . . . mentally and physically.  I'm happy to be here.  But I HATE moving.      </div><xhtml:img xmlns:xhtml="http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml" src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/JunkDrawerSpirtuality/~4/vPt-l1DtIIQ" height="1" width="1" /></div></content>


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    <entry>
        <title>Jon and Kate Plus . . .  Awwwwkwaaaard</title>
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        <published>2009-05-25T21:15:09-07:00</published>
        <updated>2009-05-25T21:16:41-07:00</updated>
        <summary>I just watched the season opener of "Jon and Kate Plus 8," the TLC reality show featuring Jon and Kate Gosselin and their 8 children (a set of twins and a set of sextuplets). I don't watch the show often,...</summary>
        <author>
            <name>David Herrick</name>
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<content type="xhtml" xml:lang="en-US" xml:base="http://www.davidherrick.net/junk_drawer_spirtuality/"><div xmlns="http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml"><p><a href="http://www.davidherrick.net/.a/6a00e5517bef06883401156fb0e704970c-popup" onclick="window.open(this.href,'_blank','scrollbars=no,resizable=yes,toolbar=no,directories=no,location=no,menubar=no,status=no,left=0,top=0'); return false" style="float: left;"><img alt="JonKate8-729110" class="at-xid-6a00e5517bef06883401156fb0e704970c " src="http://www.davidherrick.net/.a/6a00e5517bef06883401156fb0e704970c-pi" style="margin-top: 3px; margin-right: 3px; margin-bottom: 3px; margin-left: 3px; border-top-width: 2px; border-right-width: 2px; border-bottom-width: 2px; border-left-width: 2px; border-top-style: solid; border-right-style: solid; border-bottom-style: solid; border-left-style: solid; border-top-color: #a2a2a2; border-right-color: #a2a2a2; border-bottom-color: #a2a2a2; border-left-color: #a2a2a2; width: 460px; " title="JonKate8-729110" /></a> I just watched the season opener of "Jon and Kate Plus 8," the TLC reality show featuring Jon and Kate Gosselin and their 8 children (a set of twins and a set of sextuplets).  I don't watch the show often, but when I do, I enjoy it.  It is just about the only reality show I can stand.  I hate the canned drama, pseudo-game shows, celebrity celebrations, and the obviously scripted realities you get on lots of other "reality" shows.  But you can't script what a 4 year old says, which makes Jon and Kate plus 8 the most refreshingly real reality show I've seen.  It shows good moments with parents and their kids, the challenges of raising multiples, and cute, tender moments between the mom and dad, Jon and Kate.  </p><br /><div>Tonight was the first episode in their 5th season, which was really interesting because it was the first episode since the tabloid reports that Jon's been steppin' out on Kate.  </div><div>I don't know much about the allegations.  Not my business.  But it's obvious that between the allegations, the ensuing media circus, and whatever Jon actually did, their relationship is in trouble.  Both discussed the possibility of divorce, what that would mean for the show and their family . . . which brings me to 3 thoughts on the subject.</div><br /><div>1.  It's probably too obvious to even bring it up, but it CANNOT be healthy to feature your life as a reality TV show for 5 + years.  Of the many reality family shows that have now been broadcast, I have yet to see an example of a family surviving and thriving under those circumstances.  Beyond the potential pitfalls of raising your kids with that kind of attention, an adult who's LIFE is on display for the whole world to see, who has no escape will eventually try to rebel and escape.  Every person needs an occasional respite and he/she will seek it either in healthy ways or unhealthy ways.</div><br /><div>2.  Parents who focus more on their love for their kids than their love for each other are in serious jeopardy.  I can't say for certain if that was a factor in Jon and Kate's trouble, but based on some things that were said in today's episode, I have suspicions that it was.</div><br /><div>3.  Divorce is soooooooooo hard.  And the destruction of a relationship is never because of a single thing, or emotion, or behavior.  It's a spiderweb of stuff that is very, very complicated.  And it's sad.  I was reminded again, while watching this episode, the sadness it brings.  Even when the two were smiling you could see the sadness in their faces.  They looked tired ... drained.  For anyone contemplating divorce as a solution to a problem, I recommend them to stare deeply into the eyes of a couple like the Gosselins first.  It's very tough.  </div><xhtml:img xmlns:xhtml="http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml" src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/JunkDrawerSpirtuality/~4/_7rezi9m8mI" height="1" width="1" /></div></content>


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