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<?xml-stylesheet type="text/xsl" media="screen" href="/~d/styles/atom10full.xsl"?><?xml-stylesheet type="text/css" media="screen" href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~d/styles/itemcontent.css"?><feed xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" xmlns:geo="http://www.w3.org/2003/01/geo/wgs84_pos#" xmlns:feedburner="http://rssnamespace.org/feedburner/ext/1.0" xml:lang="en"><title type="text">Chicago Divorce and Family Law</title><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://www.justdivorceblog.com/" /><subtitle type="html">Written by Chicago family and divorce lawyer Marie Fahnert. Discussing the law, divorce, family, money, paternity, recent studies, legal cases. In short, how to obtain a better outcome in your divorce.</subtitle><updated>2009-11-10T17:32:19+00:00</updated><generator uri="http://www.typepad.com/">TypePad</generator><id>tag:typepad.com,2003:weblog-1588540</id><geo:lat>41.904667</geo:lat><geo:long>-87.625044</geo:long><link rel="license" type="text/html" href="http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-nc-nd/3.0/" /><logo>http://creativecommons.org/images/public/somerights20.gif</logo><link rel="self" href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/Justdivorceblogcom" type="application/atom+xml" /><feedburner:emailServiceId>Justdivorceblogcom</feedburner:emailServiceId><feedburner:feedburnerHostname>http://feedburner.google.com</feedburner:feedburnerHostname><atom10:link xmlns:atom10="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" rel="hub" href="http://pubsubhubbub.appspot.com" /><entry><title type="text">It's been a while...</title><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/Justdivorceblogcom/~3/6rSKuPD1XPU/its-been-a-while.html" /><category term="Marie's Thoughts" /><author><name>Marie Fahnert</name></author><updated>2009-11-11T09:33:52-08:00</updated><id>tag:typepad.com,2003:post-6a00e5503be10b88340120a66ef3ea970b</id><summary type="text">It has been a while since my last blog post. I was redesigning my website. It took a lot of effort. I think it was worth it. My new law firm website is more in-depth than the old one, it...</summary><content type="html" xml:base="http://www.justdivorceblog.com/" xml:lang="en-US">&lt;div xmlns="http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml"&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;img alt="OrangeGirlCake_opt" border="0" class="asset asset-image at-xid-6a00e5503be10b88340120a66f4e53970b " src="http://lawyerlaw.typepad.com/.a/6a00e5503be10b88340120a66f4e53970b-800wi" style="margin: 0px 0px 5px 5px; float: right;" title="OrangeGirlCake_opt"&gt;&lt;/img&gt;&lt;br&gt; It has been a while since my last blog post. I was redesigning my website. It took a&lt;em&gt; lot&lt;/em&gt; of effort. I think it was worth it.&lt;/p&gt;&#xD;
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&lt;p&gt;My new law firm website is more in-depth than the old one, it contains:&lt;/p&gt;&lt;ul&gt;&#xD;
&lt;li&gt;Highlights some of my recent accomplishments (such as my recent &lt;a href="http://www.fahnertlaw.com/chicago-divorce-attorney.html"&gt;win in the Supreme Court of Illinois&lt;/a&gt;),&lt;/li&gt;&#xD;
&lt;li&gt;sections on my &lt;a href="http://www.fahnertlaw.com/ChicagoLawyersFAQ.html"&gt;background&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;/li&gt;&#xD;
&lt;li&gt;a review of my work from both &lt;a href="http://www.fahnertlaw.com/LegalReputation.html"&gt;lawyers&lt;/a&gt; and &lt;a href="http://www.fahnertlaw.com/ClientReviews.html"&gt;clients&lt;/a&gt;, and &lt;/li&gt;&#xD;
&lt;li&gt;a cool &lt;a href="http://www.fahnertlaw.com/chicago-divorce-map.html"&gt;Chicago divorce map&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;/li&gt;&#xD;
&lt;/ul&gt;&#xD;
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&lt;p&gt;Please take a look at my &lt;a href="http://www.fahnertlaw.com"&gt;Divorce Lawyers in Chicago&lt;/a&gt; website and tell me what you think!&lt;/p&gt;&#xD;
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&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/Justdivorceblogcom/~4/6rSKuPD1XPU" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</content><feedburner:origLink>http://www.justdivorceblog.com/2009/11/its-been-a-while.html</feedburner:origLink></entry><entry><title type="text">Quote: Picking the good...</title><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/Justdivorceblogcom/~3/wweSXDXXdWs/from-the-sky-from-the-earth-from-a-scrap-of--paper-from-a-passing-shape-from-a-spiders-web-we-must-pick-out-what--i.html" /><category term="Divorce Poetry &amp; Quotes" /><author><name>Marie Fahnert</name></author><updated>2009-08-13T21:15:47-07:00</updated><id>tag:typepad.com,2003:post-6a00e5503be10b88340120a4f28813970b</id><summary type="text">From the sky, from the earth, from a scrap of paper, from a passing shape, from a spider’s web… We must pick out what is good for us where we can find it. — Pablo Picasso via Quotewhore</summary><content type="html" xml:base="http://www.justdivorceblog.com/" xml:lang="en-US">&lt;div xmlns="http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml"&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span class="quote"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="quote"&gt; From the sky, from the earth, from a scrap of paper, from a passing shape, from a spider’s web… We must pick out what&#xD;
is good for us where we can find it. &lt;/span&gt;&#xD;
 &lt;span class="source"&gt; &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;— Pablo Picasso via &lt;a href="http://quotewhore.tumblr.com/day/2009/08/03"&gt;Quotewhore&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="feedflare"&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;"Take into account that great love and great achievements involve great risk.&lt;/p&gt;&#xD;
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&lt;p&gt;When you lose, don’t lose the lesson.&lt;/p&gt;&#xD;
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&lt;p&gt;Follow the three R’s:&lt;br&gt;&#xD;
- Respect for self.&lt;br&gt;&#xD;
- Respect for others.&lt;br&gt;&#xD;
- Responsibility for all your actions."&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&#xD;
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&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p style="text-align: right;"&gt;—14th Dalai Lama of Tibet&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;via &lt;a href="http://onherway.tumblr.com"&gt;On Her Way&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;...........................................&lt;/p&gt;&#xD;
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&lt;p&gt;My Note: I can't stress enough how important the "three R's" are reaching a successful outcome in your divorce. However, it is sometimes difficult to follow the rules during times of stress. When you find it difficult to follow the "three R's" you might consider yoga, meditation or, if need be, a counselor. The rewards of following these rules will certainly be worth the effort.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="feedflare"&gt;
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&lt;div xmlns="http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml"&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://lawyerlaw.typepad.com/.a/6a00e5503be10b883401156fa60411970c-pi" style="display: block;"&gt;&lt;img  alt="hidden money" class="at-xid-6a00e5503be10b883401156fa60411970c image-full " src="http://lawyerlaw.typepad.com/.a/6a00e5503be10b883401156fa60411970c-800wi" style="margin: 8px;" title="hidden money" border="0"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.rdklegal.com/"&gt;Chicago lawyer&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://www.rdklegal.com/about"&gt;Russell Knight&lt;/a&gt;, has opened up a solo general practice. He is both a &lt;a href="http://www.rdklegal.com/chicago-lawyer"&gt;divorce lawyer and criminal defense lawyer&lt;/a&gt;. In his blog Russell recommends doing a &lt;a href="http://www.rdklegal.com/blog/12-divorce-law-criminal-law-connection"&gt;criminal background check &lt;/a&gt;on your spouse at the beginning of a divorce:

&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blockquote" style="margin-left: 40px;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Courier;"&gt;By presenting this [evidence of a criminal record] to the judge, an attorney is able to wake the judge out of his or her "he-said-she-said stupor" and begin portraying their client as the good guy and the other party as the bad guy.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;p&gt;

Generally speaking, criminal convictions should not play a big role in a divorce. Divorces are simply about dividing the marital property and establishing how two parties will raise their children. However, depending on the type of crime committed, your spouse's criminal record could be useful in a divorce. For example, a conviction for tax fraud might show that your spouse has a history of hiding money. This information, of course, could help you establish the groundwork necessary for convincing a judge that your spouse is hiding assets.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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