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		<title>Just a Short Update on the kids!</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 06 Feb 2011 03:19:47 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kayla</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[So lots of knew things have happened since I last blogged.  I lost my job due to having pneumonia back in September. Worst things could of happened so I just figure everything happens for a reason. Although I did enjoy my job but, apparently it just wasn&#8217;t mint to be after a year and a [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>So lots of knew things have happened since I last blogged.  I lost my job due to having pneumonia back in September. Worst things could of happened so I just figure everything happens for a reason. Although I did enjoy my job but, apparently it just wasn&#8217;t mint to be after a year and a half.</p>
<p>All the kids are growing up so fast. Lucian is now in early childhood and is doing so well! He is making all kinds of new sounds and doing new things! He never ceases to amaze me! He is currently 3 and still at 23lbs! Silas is right behind him at 1 year old and weighing a whooping 22lbs! For some reason Lucian has never been much on drinking from a cup unless it is an adult cup then he is all  about it as long as we are holding it! But today he grabbed Silas&#8217;s bottle and started going to town on it! I don&#8217;t care how he is drinking as long as he is drinking by mouth and not by g tube!  Huge progress!</p>
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		<title>Lucian giving his papa kisses</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 27 Sep 2010 02:32:59 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kayla</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Lucian]]></category>

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		<title>Mom charged with teaching 2-year-old to smoke pot</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 27 Sep 2010 02:30:46 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kayla</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[An Ohio mother has been accused of teaching her 2-year-old daughter to smoke marijuana after prosecutors said she e-mailed to friends a video of the child puffing on a joint. Jessica Gamble is charged with child endangerment, evidence tampering and &#8220;corrupting another with drugs,&#8221; according to an indictment returned by a grand jury in Cincinnati. [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>An Ohio mother has been accused of teaching her 2-year-old daughter  to smoke marijuana after prosecutors said she e-mailed to friends a  video of the child puffing on a joint.</p>
<p>Jessica Gamble is charged  with child endangerment, evidence tampering and &#8220;corrupting another with  drugs,&#8221; according to an indictment returned by a grand jury in  Cincinnati. The 21-year-old mother could face up to 11 years in prison  if convicted on all charges.</p>
<p>Hamilton County Prosecutor Joe  Deters told reporters that Gamble was indicted after someone to whom she  sent the video reported it to authorities. The girl has been placed in  the care of relatives &#8220;and is safe today,&#8221; Julie Wilson, the chief  assistant prosecutor for Hamilton County, told HLN&#8217;s &#8220;Prime News&#8221;  Thursday.</p>
<p>&#8220;Obviously, the case is just starting, so we&#8217;re taking  it very, very seriously,&#8221; Wilson said. &#8220;She stands indicted on very  serious felony charges. We&#8217;ll have to see how it all plays out, but  we&#8217;re obviously very concerned about this little girl and we&#8217;ll do  whatever we can to make sure that she&#8217;s safe.&#8221;</p>
<p>Attempts to contact a lawyer for Gamble were unsuccessful.</p>
<p>Prosecutors released the grainy mobile phone video after Gamble&#8217;s  indictment this week. On it, the child appears to take a puff from a  thickly rolled marijuana cigarette as a woman identified as Gamble  laughs and tells her, &#8220;Don&#8217;t blow on it.&#8221;</p>
<p>When  the girl brings the joint to her, the woman asks, &#8220;What is that? What is  that?&#8221; Taking the pot from the child, she chuckles and says, &#8220;Phat&#8221;</p>
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		<title>Lindsey Lohan and Cinderella..</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 25 Sep 2010 14:21:29 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kayla</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Judge Overturns Ruling Denying Former Disney Character Bond Just like in Cinderella, the spell cast on Lindsay Lohan by the evil judge ended at midnight. After all, she got her start in a Disney movie. She was out of the Los County jail late Friday night bail. Eddie Murphy Beverly Hills Cop would have been [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Judge Overturns Ruling Denying Former Disney Character Bond</p>
<p>Just like in Cinderella, the spell cast on Lindsay Lohan by the evil judge ended at midnight. After all, she got her start in a Disney movie.</p>
<p>She was out of the Los County jail late Friday night bail.</p>
<p>Eddie Murphy  Beverly Hills Cop would have been appalled. Judge Elden Fox, tired of  the star of &#8220;Freaky Friday&#8221; and &#8220;Mean Girls&#8221; making judges look silly,  had sent her straight to jail earlier Friday.</p>
<p>She did not pass  go, did not receive $200, but went straight to the lockup. Later in the  day, though, she got a get of jail card, though it wasn&#8217;t free.</p>
<p>Lohan needed no guns, but she had the help of lawyers and plenty of money.</p>
<p>Another  judge, the good one, overruled Fox because California law says anyone  charged with only a misdemeanor must be allowed bail.</p>
<p>In Lohan&#8217;s case, it was set at $300,000.</p>
<p>To quote the Los Angeles Times, &#8220;She was whisked out of a backdoor and driven to an undisclosed location.&#8221;</p>
<p>However,  she certainly didn&#8217;t ride in a chariot. And she did get to keep one  thing, a SCRAM device, which monitors alcohol and drug abusers.</p>
<p>Lohan has been on a sort of merry-go-round, stopping sometimes in court, sometimes in jail and sometimes in rehab. Where will she end up next?</p>
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		<title>Princesses and Cinderella</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 25 Sep 2010 14:19:28 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kayla</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[My daughter has quickly out grown Dora the Explorer and began loving Cinderella and all princess characters. She is growing up so quickly it is scary. She is 7 and acts is if she was 12. Before I know it she will be in Jr. high then in high school then she will be going [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a rel="attachment wp-att-70617" href="http://www.kaylapearson.com/blog/featured/mykids/alexia/princesses-and-cinderella.html/attachment/christmas-disney-princess-cinderella"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-70617" title="Christmas-Disney-Princess-Cinderella" src="http://www.kaylapearson.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/09/Christmas-Disney-Princess-Cinderella-207x300.jpg" alt="" width="207" height="300" /></a>My daughter has quickly out grown Dora the Explorer and began loving Cinderella and all princess characters.</p>
<p>She is growing up so quickly it is scary. She is 7 and acts is if she was 12.</p>
<p>Before I know it she will be in Jr. high then in high school then she will be going to home comings and prom and so on. O and don&#8217;t let me forget she will be getting her drivers license.</p>
<p>I had a friendly reminder from my nine year old son just the other day that he was nine and he was almost a teenager.</p>
<p>Wow can I say a big eye opener. Although I must admit he doesn&#8217;t act nearly as grown up as my daughter does.</p>
<p>It has really made me realize to enjoy the time I have with them while they are young because once they get older that time will disappear. It will go from Cinderella, to all kinds of other things.</p>
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		<title>End of the autism/vaccine debate?</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 21 Sep 2010 19:15:39 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kayla</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[On playgrounds and at playdates, it&#8217;s hard to have a conversation about childhood immunizations without the word autism popping up. In fact, a recent study published in the journal Pediatrics showed that one in four parents is concerned that vaccines can cause autism. It&#8217;s no wonder when the Internet and television airwaves are full of [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>On playgrounds and at playdates, it&#8217;s hard to have a conversation  about childhood immunizations without the word autism popping up. In  fact, a recent study published in the journal Pediatrics showed that one  in four parents is concerned that vaccines can cause autism.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s  no wonder when the Internet and television airwaves are full of  personal stories that raise a question about the link. But the study  that started the autism vaccine scare was recently retracted by the  prestigious journal that published it 12 years ago, and the lead  researcher had his medical license pulled.</p>
<p>Given these developments, some experts hope we have finally reached the end of the debate.</p>
<p>In 1998, a British gastroenterologist, Andrew Wakefield, M.D. and his  colleagues published a paper in the British medical journal The Lancet  suggesting that the measles, mumps, and rubella (MMR) vaccine might  cause symptoms associated with autism.</p>
<p>Wakefield had a case study of eight children who had received the MMR  and then developed symptoms of autism,&#8221; says Paul Offit, M.D., chief of  infectious diseases at the Children&#8217;s Hospital of Philadelphia. &#8220;He  also believed they had abnormal intestinal tracts and proposed a  syndrome &#8212; linking intestinal inflammation from receiving the MMR with  the development of autism.&#8221;</p>
<p>Though Wakefield acknowledged in the  paper that &#8220;he could not say whether the MMR caused autism,&#8221; says Offit,  &#8220;it opened the door for the notion that a vaccine could cause autism.  It was the Royal Free Hospital, an excellent hospital in London, it was  published in the oldest medical journal, and it was off to the races.&#8221;</p>
<p>In  England, thousands of parents refused to vaccinate their children,  resulting in hundreds of hospitalizations and three deaths in Ireland  from measles.</p>
<p>Since that time, 18 controlled epidemiological studies have  investigated the possible connection between autism and vaccines, and  &#8220;they have all come back showing the same thing,&#8221; says Alison Singer,  founder and president of the Autism Science Foundation, and a mother of a  13-year-old with autism. &#8220;There is no link between vaccines and  autism.&#8221;</p>
<p>Those studies took up two primary theories: Wakefield&#8217;s  hypothesis that the MMR vaccine was linked to autism, and another that  thimerosal, a mercury-containing preservative found in some vaccines,  was the culprit.</p>
<p>In a 2004 report analyzing the research into  the possible connections, the Institute of Medicine (the organization  charged with advising the nation on public health concerns) concluded:  &#8220;the body of epidemiological evidence favors rejection of a causal  relationship&#8221; between both the MMR vaccine and thimerosal, and autism.</p>
<p>That same year, 10 of the 13 authors of the Wakefield study retracted it.</p>
<p>In February The Lancet, in an historic moment, retracted Wakefield&#8217;s  entire study after an independent government review concluded that he  had acted &#8220;dishonestly and irresponsibly&#8221; in conducting his research.</p>
<p>This  included doing unnecessary and painful procedures on the children and  not disclosing the fact that he had been paid as a consultant to two  attorneys representing parents who believed their children had been  harmed by the MMR vaccine.</p>
<p>In May 2010, Wakefield was banned from practicing medicine in his native UK.</p>
<p>&#8220;This  retraction represents the death of a hypothesis,&#8221; says Offit. &#8220;Parents  should be reassured that a choice not to get a vaccine will in no sense  lessen the risk of autism, and will only increase the risk of disease.&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8220;The [Wakefield] study did a lot of harm when it was originally  published,&#8221; says Singer. &#8220;As a result of it, I split the vaccine for my  second daughter, but a lot of people went farther, not vaccinating at  all, and that&#8217;s unfortunate, because what we know about vaccines is that  they save lives.&#8221;</p>
<p>Still, it&#8217;s more common today for parents to  know a child with autism and than to know anyone who suffered or even  died from one of the diseases vaccines prevent.</p>
<p>For them,  avoiding anything that they feel might lead to autism can seem safer  than choosing to get a vaccine for diseases that seem unlikely.</p>
<p>Notable  figures like actress Jenny McCarthy, who believes her son&#8217;s autism may  have been caused by vaccines, also help lend credibility to the idea  that there is a link between the two.</p>
<p>&#8220;The reason these diseases  are so rare is because of immunizations,&#8221; says Gary L. Freed, director  of General Pediatrics at the University of Michigan School of Medicine.  &#8220;I took care of a child who died of measles encephalitis because he was  not vaccinated. It was a horrible death that was needless and  preventable, and those parents never forgave themselves for not  vaccinating their child.&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8220;Choosing not to get a vaccine or to delay vaccines is not a risk-free choice,&#8221; agrees Offit .</p>
<p>A  new report from the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC)  concludes that 2008&#8242;s measles outbreak in San Diego &#8212; the largest in  almost a decade, triggered by an unvaccinated child who&#8217;d traveled to  Europe &#8212; struck people who had purposely not been vaccinated against  the disease.</p>
<p>&#8220;You don&#8217;t have to live in the developing world to  get measles,&#8221; says Offit. &#8220;It&#8217;s all boiling just under the surface. Drop  your guard and these diseases come back with a vengeance.&#8221;</p>
<p><strong>Making a Good Choice</strong></p>
<p>Amy  Pisani, the executive director of Every Child By Two, an organization  that advocates for childhood immunization, understands the hesitancy  some parents feel when they enter their pediatrician&#8217;s office.</p>
<p>&#8220;I  was pregnant at the time Wakefield came out, and I was nervous myself. I  would listen to these presentations and worry, because it really  sounded legitimate, and it was confusing. But I was really fortunate,  because I worked at Every Child By Two, and I had access to all these  experts at the CDC and the American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP) to help  me make a good choice.&#8221;</p>
<p>Pisani&#8217;s organization, originally founded to train nurses and help  low-income parents learn about the free vaccination program run by the  government, now spends 70 percent of its time addressing parental safety  concerns about vaccines and the importance of timely vaccinations.</p>
<p>The  organization has launched a website (vaccinateyourbaby.org) dedicated  to getting the research in the hands of parents, so, like Pisani, they  can get the most medically sound information available before making a  decision.</p>
<p>&#8220;It&#8217;s a parent&#8217;s responsibility to be concerned for  their child,&#8221; says Freed, &#8220;and we as a society have a responsibility to  make sure there is factual information available to parents.&#8221;</p>
<p>Nora  Fitzpatrick, mother to two in Gaithersburg, Maryland, whose younger  daughter was diagnosed with autism at the age of two, says the  retraction of the Wakefield study has helped her to better answer her  friends&#8217; questions about whether to vaccinate.</p>
<p>&#8220;I feel a  responsibility to be informed because we get asked so often,&#8221; says  Fitzpatrick. &#8220;When the retraction came out, I was super excited. Now I  explain that the Wakefield study is how it all got started, and how it&#8217;s  been retracted. It&#8217;s a huge relief that it&#8217;s sort of definitive now.&#8221;</p>
<p>Singer agrees.</p>
<p>&#8220;We  were right to do the studies, we were right to look at the link. But  now those studies have been done, and the data is very clear. We looked,  and the answer wasn&#8217;t there.&#8221;</p>
<p>Still, Singer and Offit agree that until there is an answer, people will still ask questions about vaccines.</p>
<p>&#8220;We&#8217;re  never going to be rid of the vaccine hypothesis completely,&#8221; says  Singer, &#8220;until we know what does cause autism, that&#8217;s why it&#8217;s so  important for more research to be done.&#8221;so Stay tuned.</p>
<p>The American Academy of Pediatrics&#8217;s website provides tons of info  vaccines, up-to-date schedules, safety concerns and the latest vaccine  news.</p>
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		<title>My Beautiful Boys!</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 21 Sep 2010 18:15:40 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kayla</dc:creator>
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		<title>If I counted all the Hours.</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 21 Sep 2010 18:13:28 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kayla</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[If i counted up all the hours i&#8217;d studied, read, focused on, cried over, gotten up and been resilient about, not given up on believed in, loved, hated, SOO believed ignored my friends advice about, talked about, did i mention talked about? I&#8217;d have a PhD in him. My beautiful son that was born with [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div id="pBlogBody_513648875"><span><span><span><span style="color: #ff99cc;"><span><span><span style="font-size: small;">If i counted up all the hours<br />
i&#8217;d studied,<br />
read,<br />
focused on,<br />
cried over,<br />
gotten up and been resilient about,<br />
not given up on<br />
believed in,<br />
loved,<br />
hated,<br />
SOO believed<br />
ignored my friends advice about,<br />
talked about,<br />
did i mention talked about?</p>
<p>I&#8217;d have a PhD in him. My beautiful son that was born with esophageal atresia.</p>
<p>By now,<br />
I could have had a PhDin Philosophy, Internal Medicine,and probably several other things.<br />
But no,<br />
I have a PhD in Him.<br />
Funny how he brought me no real income,<br />
no pension,<br />
no future,<br />
no future,<br />
did I mention no future? But the one thing he did bring me is a whole lot of Love and that is what counts the most. He has tought me so much. Much more than I would have ever thought I could learn.</p>
<p>And so,<br />
don&#8217;t ask me what I did before he was born . Because all I remember is day dreaming about holding our beautiful baby in our arms bring him home and doing all the normal things with him that parents do. Instead I learned to grasp the fact that our son was going to have repogle tubes down his throat to suction out his saliva until his esophagus was repaired. I had to get used to ventilators and nurses and doctors telling me when it was ok to hold my baby and what I could do with him.</p>
<p>I didn&#8217;t write any plays or any books<br />
I didn&#8217;t do some responsible stuff like pursue a backup career.</p>
<p>I was fully employed in the fury of him<br />
</span></span></span></span></span></span></span></div>
<div><span><span><span><span style="color: #ff99cc;"><span><span><span style="font-size: small;"><br />
hours upon hours spent figuring out his<br />
equations<br />
riddles<br />
word problems<br />
crossword puzzles<br />
treatment<br />
cracking his codes<br />
philosophising his constitution</p>
<p>So quiz me, I want you to </span></span></span></span></span></span></span></div>
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<div><span><span><span><span style="color: #ff99cc;"><span><span><span style="font-size: small;">I know him better than he knows himself.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m that matriculated doctorate people<br />
paid full tuition at his All-About-Him University<br />
Ladies have you visited?</p>
<p>See, now I&#8217;m licensed to teach and preach sparing my pride<br />
in hopes that other women will read my dissertation<br />
See, I have a PhD in Him and my transcript is rolling off my wicked tongue.</p>
<p>Not sure of how my most difficult degree might serve me but think &#8230;&#8230;</p>
<p>one day</p>
<p>I&#8217;ll thank him for reminding me how fierce a pupil of life I really am and all that he has taught me. How much stronger he has made me than I ever realized I could be. Why because he is my everything.<br />
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		<title>Zayna Varner Fighting as hard as she can fight for her little One.</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 21 Sep 2010 17:59:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Atlanta, Georgia – Her name is Billie. She has two eyes, ten fingers, two ears, ten toes, two legs and one ailing little heart. For six months her mother, Zayna Varner, 30, has been fighting the Georgia Department of Community Health (Division of Medical Assistance: GA Medicaid Program), Children’s Healthcare of Atlanta at Egleston &#38; [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Atlanta, Georgia – Her name is Billie. She has two eyes, ten fingers,  two ears, ten toes, two legs and one ailing little heart. For six months  her mother, Zayna Varner, 30, has been fighting the Georgia Department  of Community Health (Division of Medical Assistance: GA Medicaid  Program), Children’s Healthcare of Atlanta at Egleston &amp; Children’s  Healthcare of Atlanta Sibley Heart Center to save 1-year-old Billie’s  life. Varner has a heart apnea monitor, pulse oxygen machine and oxygen  tanks in her home to stabilize and monitor Billie’s heart rate.   Ultimately, Billie needs heart surgery, recommended by Dr. Cyrus Samai  of the Sibley Heart Center.</p>
<p>Egleston’s pre-surgery policy requires Varner to sign a hospital surgery  consent form (which states that, in the event of an emergency, the  hospital has the authority to administer a blood transfusion).   Previously, while at Cobb Wellstar, Billie contracted a bacterial  infection in her blood from a blood transfusion making surgery very  risky and possibly fatal.</p>
<p>Varner refused to consent to the surgery with any possibility of a  transfusion, and was told by an Egleston Hospital social worker, Jody  Nuyg, that if she found a facility (with a GA Medicaid approved  physician) to conduct the surgery with less probability of transfusion,  it would be covered.  Instead, the Sibley Heart Center social worker  Christine Post and Ms. Nuyg are prepared to advise the Georgia  Department of Family and Children’s Services to “temporarily” take  custody of Billie.  Once the state has custody of Billie, they will have  the surgery done and the hospital will discharge her back to the state  until the necessary paperwork is completed to return her to her mother  (this with the assumption that the surgery is successful considering  complications result in death).</p>
<p>In March, through diligent research, Varner located a GA MEDICAID  APPROVED Physician (Mark E. Galantowicz, M.D.) and hospital (Nationwide  Children’s Hospital) in Columbus, Ohio, with the capabilities to conduct  the surgery without the blood transfusion.  Nationwide has a dedicated  blood conservation program (Information of the Blood Conservation  Program) and specializes in no blood surgeries for infants.   Immediately, Varner requested all records and referral requirements from  Sibley Heart and Egleston to be sent to Nationwide in preparation of  Billie’s surgery.</p>
<p>On July 16, Billie was re-admitted to Egleston by her pediatrician, Dr.  Kevin Mason of Cumberland Pediatrics. Before Billie was discharged the  following day, Varner discovered that Billie’s records were never sent  to Nationwide.  Varner demanded Billie’s records (and refused to leave  without them) and they were surrendered to her at the hospital.  She  immediately had the documents expressed to Nationwide.  In addition, a  new requirement was presented.  According to Medicaid, a referral from a  patient’s cardiologist is required to have the patient travel out of  state for a surgical procedure.  Immediately, Varner obtained the  required letter from Dr. Samai.</p>
<p>Finally, Nationwide had all the materials required for an approval.  The  physical request was sent to the GA Medicaid Program on July 20 by  Nationwide.  On July 27, Melissa Loveless, at Nationwide contacted  Medicaid to obtain a pre-approval but she was told at that time that the  request was denied.  Documentation was not sent to Nationwide or Varner  to inform them of the denial until July 30.</p>
<p>Varner and Nationwide should have been contacted by mail, phone or fax  with the decision.  The stated reason in the document sent to Nationwide  was:  “Medical necessity has not been established.  There is no medical  necessity to transfer the child out of state since these surgical  services are available in Georgia.”   The procedure is available in  Georgia, but under very hazardous circumstances for such a young  patient.  In addition, the GA Medicaid Program has failed to pay  WellStar Home Care for the equipment being used to maintain Billie’s  heart at home. Soon, Varner may be forced to surrender the equipment,  due to nonpayment.</p>
<p>Varner requested an Emergency Hearing (on August 18, through her  attorney, Chuck Sylvester of the Law Offices of Sylvester &amp;  Associates, P.C.) requesting approval for the emergency surgery, but the  requests have gone unanswered. The lack of urgency and empathy is  disheartening to this mother of two, Billie and her twin sister,  Brooklyn. She continues her fight and urges citizens to hold these  government funded entities accountable. There are procedures written in  the guidelines and laws of this program (Georgia Medicaid receives $1.63  in federal funds for every $1 of state funds) that were not followed  despite the critical nature of this case.  However, there is a sudden  sense of urgency in forcing this mother to surrender her child to state  authorities to protect the insurance provider from liabilities incurred  due to their lack of service.<br />
The fact that Varner has been waiting 30 days for a response for an EMERGENCY Hearing is unacceptable.</p>
<p>Right now, Billie’s heart is critically failing, SHE does not have time  for inaction, and neither do you or anyone else with a beating heart.</p>
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		<title>Someone please pray for my family…</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Sep 2010 19:10:48 +0000</pubDate>
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