Kimmy B.

Vizio E Series LED 32" TV Review

2013-09-18T16:33:00.000-07:00

This is my first video review for the Vizio E Series LED 32" tv. Video reviews may be more sporadic for now but will become more consistent in upcoming months. I hope this is helpful for you guys!

Kimmy B.

Book Review: Lord of the Flies

2013-09-04T16:28:00.000-07:00

Here's to the strangest and most shocking book I have ever read in my life. Lord of the Flies is traditionally a middle school read but I never got around to it and wanted to finally check it out. Every suggestion I have ever had of this book has been good. No one has ever said they did not enjoy reading Lord of the Flies. I was wondering what all the hype was about at first. It took me about 80 pages to finally see the light. This book is short at only 182 pages. I was a little nervous and contemplating putting it down because it was so slow for me at first, but I figured so many people couldn't be wrong about this book and kept picking it up.

It may take some time get in to but it's worth it. I don't want to give too much of it away but I will tell you the gist of the story. A group of boys are trapped on an island with no adult supervision. They are left to fend for themselves for a period of time and chaos ensues. This book has a message about human nature that is very interesting to discover as you turn the pages. Somehow it reminds me to be patient with my fellow humans. We all have strengths and weaknesses. We all have some evolving to do. Do I suggest Lord of the Flies by William Golding? Absolutely.

Until Next Time!

Kimmy B.

Smarty Pants Vitamin Review

2013-08-28T11:54:00.000-07:00

Smarty Pants Vitamins

My dear sweet brother gave me two sample packs of Smarty Pants Vitamins. They are a gummy vitamin for grownups. I'd never heard of this brand or tried a gummy vitamin before this. I absolutely love these! They taste so good. Smarty Pants also makes them for kids. Here are the benefits of Smarty Pants:

Only Multivitamin + Omega 3s + Vitamin D gummy on the market!
Excellent Source of Omega 3 DHA+EPA* from eco friendly small fish oil
225% of the US RDI for Vitamin D + includes 9 other nutrients
No High Fructose Corn Syrup, artificial flavors, colors, or preservatives
Gluten & casein free. Made in California in a GMP-certified facility

The one thing that concerns me about them is the sugar. They are like sugar covered gummies. The sugar is all natural but still, if you're going to enjoy these make sure you brush your teeth afterwards. Parents should totally trick their kids and get these for them if they have a child with a sweet tooth. If they're going to eat something sweet then it might as well be good for them! Try Smarty Pants Vitamins here .

-Kimmy B.

I Am Addicted to Baby Pandas!

2013-08-26T14:29:00.000-07:00

Baby pandas are the cutest things in the world to me. Between the twin baby pandas in Atlanta and China I have become obsessed. I wanted to share this video with anyone who cares about the baby pandas. They are so adorable!

Book Review: Dragon's Oath: A House of Night Novella

2013-08-21T11:24:00.000-07:00

Dragon's Oath: A House of Night Novella

Supernatural books are what made me addicted to reading as a child and I have been hooked ever since. I will always be hooked to supernatural books, movies, and television shows. When I saw Dragon's Oath at the library I knew I was going to read it.

Okay, first impressions...I was a little bored at first. I wasn't sure if I was going to enjoy the book. Things picked up during the second chapter. It's a really quick read at only 145 pages. You could read it in a day if you have that kind of time. I enjoyed it but I'd say, save this for teenagers unless you're really into supernatural themes like I am. Dragon's Oath is not for kids, it's definitely a PG-13 book.

What I liked about the story were the gifts and roles that each vampire has in the story. It makes them more three dimensional. Sometimes vampires are portrayed as very independent (I liked that these vampires weren't like that). They often have families or clans they belong to but this story is a little different. People who are bitten in the story also don't know whether or not they will be vampires for a few weeks, during that time they go through training and development. They belong to a school. It's fun to watch the vampires learn more about who they are as they discover their strengths and weaknesses in the story. It's a fun read for a teenage girl. I'll review the other two books in the series next month.

-Kimmy B.

Lessons Learned From: Ship It Holla Ballas!

2013-08-08T06:28:00.001-07:00

Ship It Holla Ballas: How a Bunch of 19-Year Old College Dropouts Used the Internet to Become Poker’s Loudest, Craziest, and Richest Crew.

The subtitle of Ship It Holla Ballas is what drew me in to the book. I was like “what?” when I saw it. I’m a blogger who has also been fortunate enough to make a little money online over the years and I’m looking forward to the day when I can work at home completely online. I’m a firm believer in the power of the internet and its capacity to change people’s financial lives. It takes a lot of hard work and dedication to make it online whether you’re a gambler or a shop owner, you have to put in the work. When I first saw this book I instantly thought about online business success and knew that I would get inspiration from the success stories in this book. Little did I know that I would be affected more so by the real-life lessons that make up the stories of the professional poker players in Ship It Holla Ballas.

I’m still in my twenties and learning a lot of the lessons they learn in this book. You see it with more famous celebrities like Lindsey Lohan, when you’re young and blessed with a lot of money, often times that can spell disaster. I am dealing with the repercussions of being the manager of a lot of money in my early twenties. One of the lessons the characters in the book learn is that they are making a mess while having the time of their lives and even though it’s a high chance the good times won’t last, they’re young and they have time to clean up their messes. I’m not going to tell you how everyone turns out, I will say that most of the people are okay by the end (even it’s by a regular person’s standards). Cleaning up the mess you make as a young twenty-something can be a scary realization. No one wants to admit that perhaps they’ve made a mistake and now have to pick up the pieces; however, this is how you learn some of the greatest lessons of your life.

The other lesson that really stayed with me after reading this book was the sentiment that you should trust your gut no matter what. If you know you’re meant to do something, stick with it even if it looks really bleak at the moment. I overcame homelessness in New York City because I firmly believed this is where I am supposed to be. I’m doing better now but I will never forget the lessons that I’m currently learning and have learned over the past six months. As many of you know the government came in and swooped down on a lot of online gambling sites which ultimately changed the lives of a lot of professional poker players. It’s interesting to see the different paths that everyone decided to take once the online gambling landscape changed. It’s also great to see the people who continued their careers as professional gamblers in spite of the changes because they knew that this was their calling. Most people don’t grow up saying I want to be a professional gambler when I get older. I of all people know what it’s like to firmly believe in or do something that is so outside of the norm or frightening to people who aren’t a part of the community you are a part of. One thing I learned a long time ago is that if you firmly believe you can achieve something, keep going until you do. Most people live their lives afraid and that’s why they don’t succeed. Go against the grain (do it in secret if you must) and see what happens.

Ship It Holla Ballas is a very interesting read. The shenanigans they talk about and all of the adventures they have are very entertaining. I was surprised by the lessons I learned and the introspective nature of the stories. It’s definitely worth picking up.

Movie Review: Drive

2013-07-31T14:39:00.000-07:00

Drive with Ryan Gosling

Drive with Ryan Gosling is a movie I’ve wanted to see since it was in theaters in 2011. I knew the movie was going to be entertaining but it was actually much better than I expected and I plan on watching it again. Ryan Gosling plays the part of a loner who is a driver. He works as a mechanic, a stunt man, and he’s a getaway driver for criminals on occasion as well. The movie is set in present time but it also has this kind of retro vibe to it as well. I felt like I was watching a video game. It was exciting and suspenseful.

Drive has a beginning, middle, and an end. The one thing I found myself wanting to know more about is Ryan Gosling’s character. He’s not exactly a drifter but he’s definitely not a loner. How did get that way? What happened to him as a kid? These would be questions with interesting answers. I watched Drive on Netflix and recommend if for a home movie night. If you like mob movies, I think you’ll like this flick as well.

Kimmy B.

What Does It Take?

2013-07-19T12:59:00.000-07:00

What Does It take to succeed? What does it take to have your dreams come true? About three weeks ago I was homeless and living in a shelter in New York City. I followed my dream and my heart about coming to New York two years ago. To say I’ve had my ups and downs since I’ve been here would be an understatement. I’m no stranger to struggle but my financial hardships have been particularly difficult to overcome. I am now living in my own studio apartment and just started a new job last week. To be honest I am still concerned about how I’m going to pay the rent next month but I’m working on it and I’m here to stay. For me, it has taken vision, faith, and perseverance to succeed. I believe I’ve blogged this video before but I wanted to post it again:

Even though I am at the beginning of a new journey, my story is already being used to inspire people. Now that I am settled, I hope to be more inspirational to people on this blog. This blog is about reviews but it’s also about what’s possible. I’ve been through so much; it would be a shame for me not to help. My next goal is to get a camera by next month so that I can add my own videos to my sites. It’s been such a pleasure to see the growth in this blog since I recommitted myself to it. Although things have been shaky in my personal life during the last 5 months, I’m still happy to have kept up with this blog as best I can in addition to my other blogging project and look forward to doing more now that my life is stabilizing. The most important thing is not stopping. The moment you stop is the moment you stop learning and growing. Life is precious, live it wisely.

Warmth,

Kimmy B.

My Past Life Regressive Hypnotherapy Experience

2013-07-01T08:30:00.000-07:00

Are You Getting Very Very Sleepy?

First of all, if you’re wondering if Past Life Regressive Hypnosis works, I’ll start by saying it definitely worked for me. My experience was very similar to viewing my dreams except I was more conscious and the experience was more interactive. Instinct tells me that how everyone experiences hypnosis might not be the same. For me, it was part dream and part feeling. I was either shown what happened in my past lives or I felt it and knew how to interpret the feelings. This was quite an investment for me but I’m glad I did it and am looking forward to learning more about self-hypnosis in the future. I had a physical chest pain that doctors couldn’t explain. This was cleared up during hypnotherapy. I had two past life incidents where I had some type of heart. hic-cup if you will. They hic-cups weren’t fatal either time, just startling. Each time, I was going through some sort of transition or in route to something very important like I am now (I am moving into my apartment tomorrow J).

After the hypnotherapy session I had a realization that this stuff is never like it is on TV for me. There were no swinging pendulums and “you’re getting very very sleepy.” The hypnotherapist was a nice lady in Brooklyn with a few friendly cats. She also gave me a Bach Flower remedy. I had never heard of this before but it was a part my session which I thought was very nice. Suffice it to say that in two days I went from being homeless to getting a studio apartment in Queens after completing my session. Now I can move on with the rest of my life. I look forward to working with my hypnotherapist again in the near future and doing more healing work to clear up anything else that needs healing. If you’ve been on the fence about getting Past Life Regressive Hypnosis, I say give it a shot. One thing that I’ve learned from years of doing spiritual work is that even if that particular medium isn’t the best one for you, the fact that you’re consciously putting forth the effort will yield results and ultimately get you on your desired path.

Kimmy

Dr Wayne Dyer: How to Get What You Really, Really, Really Want

2013-06-15T08:01:00.001-07:00

As You Think, So Shall You Be- Dr. Wayne Dyer

Until Next Time, Kimmy

Book Review: The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People

2013-05-26T09:33:00.001-07:00

I can't believe that I hadn't already read the 7 Habits of Highly Effective People by Stephen Covey. After being on my reading list for years, I finally got around to it and have to say it is by far the BEST personal growth and development book I have read ever. I plan on re-reading it a few times once I get a kindle and reflect on what Mr. Covey says. Here are some of my highlights from reading for just the first time:

-Mr. Covey says, "you think effectiveness with people and efficiency with people." I try my best to be efficient but have learned to be flexible and patient when dealing with other people. I don't move any faster when I am rushed and don't expect people to speed up because I'm in a rush.

-Sharpen the saw is another concept that's discussed in the 7 Habits of Highly Effective People. This concept is about renewal and continuing to update your skills and knowledge. Although it's important to sharpen the saw, it's just as important to rest when needed. This can be just as important and rejuvenating.

-The Upward Spiral of Growth and Change. I loved this concept and that it was a positive spin on the downward spiral concept that we've all heard so much about. When you are connected to your purpose/goal/mission, you continue to grow and expand, this is an upward spiral.

-The difference between values and principles. Mr. Covey says, "values govern people's behavior but principles govern the consequences of those actions."

This book was so profound to me because it's more than just tips. It's about a lifestyle or a way of living that I think really lends itself to success. This book is about a practice. You have to continually check in and evaluate to make sure you're staying on track but if you are living consciously you should be doing this anyway. I highly highly suggest The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People .

Movie Review: Disconnect

2013-05-08T10:34:00.001-07:00

Disconnect is a story about three families struggling to remain connected (partially due to technology). It has several stars including Paula Patton, Alexander Skarsgard, Jason Bateman, Hope Davis, and Michael Nyqvist. Stories that are truly multiple stories in one such as Disconnect can be a little confusing. Each story was connected rather seamlessly. I felt that the film was really well done. Disconnect is not a feel good movie. It’s dark, it’s sad and it’s real. My only problem with the film was Alexander Skarsgard’s character’s decision to go a little bit further than perhaps most people would have to solve his problems. I don’t want to give the film away but if you are interested in some good drama then I suggest it. There aren’t any pyrotechnics or 3D animation. It’s refreshing to see a film that really focuses on the actors and the characters they portray.

Now, onto a rant about the implied topic of the film which is that technology is having an adverse effect on our lives. I understand where people who argue this point are coming from, however, I don’t fully agree with it. I love technology, blogging, television, music, you name it. I even worked online as a teacher prior to transitioning into the health field. People need to manage their use of technology or else it can and will take over their lives. It’s that simple. Technology is like any other hobby that people indulge in. Even though technology is big part of my life, it’s not all that I do and I don’t let it negatively impact me either. That’s enough about that! I give Disconnect 4.5 out of 5 stars.

Book Review: The Bitch Swith

2013-04-24T15:02:00.000-07:00

The title is what caught my eye. The Bitch Switch is not the world's greatest book but the subject matter is important. I encourage women to take a look at it if they feel weak or as if they are getting passed over for opportunities. Sometimes assertivenss needs to be cultivated. I remember not standing up for myself for years and feeling miserable afterwards.

Don't fear being "rude" or being perceived as "not nice." Even if you do it politely (and you should be able to most of the time), speak up. Life is too short to be pondering about what you should have done or said. The reviews of this book are kind of hasrh but I think it's worth a look. I give it 3 out of 5 stars because I felt Omarosa could have given more in depth advice and suggestions to the letters she responds to in the book.

Kimmy

Book Review- Kindred by Octavia E. Butler

2013-04-13T14:45:00.002-07:00

I literally just finished reading this book a few hours ago and wantet to make sure I got this review out while everything was still fresh. I have never had a book upset me while I was reading more than this one. Octavia E. Butler's Kindred is complicated the way that America is complicated. The title is certainly appropriate. The book was upsetting but also very hard to put down. I'm thinking about doing some sort of Octavia E. Butler readathon in the future because I may have very well found my favorite author.

Kindred is about so many things. It's about American history. It's about love in all its forms (good and bad). It's about family. It's about perseverance. One of the primary questions, Dana, the main chacarcter of the story often finds herself asking is whether or not she is strong enough to endure all she is asked to in the story. I will tell you that Dana is from the 1970s and travels back into time to the antebellum south during the 1800s. It's hard to even imaging the horrors she must endure before she is able to finally return home peacefully as an African-American woman. This book is so upsetting because Buttler does such a great job of showing you the injustice and horrid treatment of people during this time. I feel that many people are becoming more and more removed from this time in our history. Kindred brought up a level of emotion about slavery and American history that I honestly haven't experienced since taking courses in college. Octavia Buttler is primarily known for her science fiction work. This book is definitely not science fiction. It's a drama unlike any piece of fiction I've read in a long time.

Kindred is not the easiest book in the world to read because of the complexities of the plot. The story is captivating which makes the book hard to put down. I would definitely suggest it to anyone who wants an interesting read. This should be required reading for today's teens who are certainly even more far removed from this time than the the generation before them. I hate to say that history repeats itself but it does and Kindred serves as a stark reminder of why we should always remember this time so that this part of history does not have to be repeated in any way, shape, or form. As I write these words I hear myself saying, no way, this would never happen again! I find myself saying that injustice takes many forms and we are still battling injustice today. This just reminds me of why all people should be treated equally and fairly. Kindred gets 5 out of 5 stars. It will be a while before I can read Kindred again but its going back on my re-read list. Kindred is available on Amazon.

Kim

The School of Hard Knocks and Lessons Learned

2013-04-03T12:57:00.000-07:00

I believe my last article was about overcoming obstacles. I’m still overcoming them. I’ve been MIA from the net for the past few weeks because my housing arrangement didn’t work out (again). I’m learning so many lessons that are related to overcoming obstacles. The primary lessons I am currently learning are:

Trust Yourself Above All Else-

Unfortunately the lady I was living with had some substance abuse problems and a tendency to lose things (that I wasn’t aware of before). She lost something and suspected me of stealing. I had to go. With no other options, I am currently in a NYC shelter awaiting the license I need to begin my new career. My original plan was to continue my work online, get my license for the new job, and save up to get my own place. It hasn’t worked out like this.

Trusting others is important but I have quickly learned that I have to trust and depend on myself more than anyone else, especially right now. Living in an NYC shelter isn’t so bad because I’m focused and it’s giving me the fresh start I need. It’s sad for me to admit that I trust people less since my housing fiascos over the past month but it’s true. That being said, I’m more vigilant about making sure my needs are met and never allowing myself to be put into this position again. That’s the blessing and gift from all this right now. I’m a champion and I’m going to live like a champion.

I contemplated whether or not I should write this post and decided to because I figured it would be helpful to someone else. Whatever you’re going through right now, keep going. Slow down if you have to but don’t stop.

Organization and Discipline are Necessary for Success-

I have so many meetings and appointments to manage in addition to what I’ve had to do to ensure I receive my license and get back to work as quickly as possible. I carry a folder with all the documents I need with me during the week. If you’re going through a stressful situation, disorganization can increase your stress. Make a daily to-do list and keep track of what you need to do to make sure you get everything done. Organization can also help you expedite the time it takes you to get to more peaceful times in your life.

FOCUS on Where You’re Going, Not Where You’re At-

In less than 8 weeks I’ll be back in Queens in a beautiful building. This is what I’m focusing on. Don’t let your obstacles make you forget what’s on the other side of your rainbow.

Well I hope this helps someone!

Kim

Movie Review: Tyler Perry's Temptation: Confessions of a Marriage Counselor

2013-03-30T12:38:00.000-07:00

Tyler Perry's "Temptation: Confessions of a Marriage Counselor"

The message behind this movie was great. The timing was great for me because I’m learning so much about trust right now. Yes, I’m a Kardashian fan (say what you want but those ladies know how to hustle and I respect that). If you’re a Tyler Perry Fan You won’t be disappointed.

The film is about an ambitious, young, therapist who is also a young wife. She fell in love young and met her husband when they were six. She found someone else who excited her. Something different. Let’s just say different doesn’t always mean better. I’ll leave the rest for those who are going to see the film.

I was surprised by the message of the film and honestly didn’t expect the film to be so heavy. Tyler Perry has done some heavier work in the past but this is no Madea comedy. Even if you’re not a fan of Tyler Perry, the message in the film is still worth experiencing (even it’s on HBO later). There are worse films in theaters without any lessons to learn at the end of them. I give it 3.5 out of 5 stars because I wanted to know more about some of the characters. I wish the film had a little bit more depth, it would have been interesting to know more about the other characters’ past lives. I enjoyed the film overall and don’t felt like I got ripped off. It’s good entertainment that gives you food for thought.

Kim

What Do You Want me to Blog About?

2013-03-06T07:04:00.003-08:00

Hi there!

I was reviewing my posts and the thought that I should I ask what personal growth related topics you would be interested in hearing more about came to mind. What do you want me to blog about? If you have any questions, comments, or suggestions let me know by commenting or emailing kimmybess@gmail.com

Thanks!
Kimmy

Overcoming Obstacles and Coming Out Ahead

2013-03-05T17:39:00.000-08:00

I moved to New York almost two years ago (the time is moving really quickly). Living here has been more like a walk in the jungle than a walk in the park but it's been worth it. I'm going to use a recent challenge to illustrate how I overcome challenges and usually come out ahead no matter how shitty my circumstances seem to be.

EFT (also known as tapping) is short for Emotional Freedom Technique. I found out about EFT a few years back and use it to relieve any stress related energy I might be feeling in my body. It works. One thing I've learned about dealing with difficult people is that you can't change them but you can change yourself. EFT is great because it really does help me change my perspective on a situation which in turn usually changes/improves the situation itself.

Now that being said, even though I was able to improve my challenging circumstances, it was clear that it was time for me to go. Being a positive person doesn't mean that you tolerate BS. You do what needs to be done to correct anything in your life that is not in perfect alignment as quickly as possible. Meditation helped me come up with ideas and ultimately attract a much better living arrangement in a week's time.

The funny thing is, I came to the neighborhood I am currently living in a month or so ago and said to myself that someday I would love to live in this neighborhood. Someone who I consider to be an aunty has taken me in and I am learning so much from her. I had to move within a week's time because my roommate was suddenly getting married. I had no place to go and an was in the process of transitioning into a better job in preparation for my inevitable move. Well the move came before I completed everything for my new job but no matter. I am here and I'm happy.

When things like this happen, they strengthen my faith in my spiritual practices and beliefs. I am learning so much from my aunty and am growing so much with her. We really needed eachother right now and didn't even know it until this situation occurred. If you are going through some challenges in your life I highly suggest trying EFT to get a new perspective on your situation and shift any energy that might be preventing you from having some sort or resolution.

I have a month to go before starting my new job and ultimately my new life but I'm so excited. Soon you'll hear me talking about the fruits of my labor and see me accomplish more with this blog!

Kimmy

A Place of Yes by Bethenny Frankel-Book Review

2013-02-20T12:22:00.000-08:00

A Place of Yes: 10 Rules for Getting Everything You Want Out of Life

I've been binging on pop fiction for a minute and it's actually been a while since I've read any nonfiction books. In between Fifty Shades of Grey I actually managed to read two non fiction books and was actually pleasantly surprised by Bethenny Frankel's A Place of Yes. Some books just come into my life at the perfect time and this is one of those books. I spent all of last year becoming more conscious of each lesson she shares in this book. I love her stories and she has definitely given me perspective on my life. I am just now getting comfortable with "where I am" at 27 years old and if there is anything I have learned from this book it's that I'm not behind schedule and actually have a lot more life to accomplish everything I want to. For the first 27 years of my life I was figuring it out and now I am at the beginning stages of living my dreams and finally living my life on my terms. This is actually the first time I am experiencing this in my life and I'm very excited. Here's what I loved about this book:

-She talks about not taking no for an answer. She literally talks about this but metaphorically I think the same rule applies. Don't settle for anything that isn't right. Many of the stories she used to highlight this point reminded me of the importance of following and listening to your gut.

-She's candid. So many people gloss over the embarrassing or less than perfect moments in their life. She dives head first into what she's experienced and what she's learned. It's amazing how someone's life can seem like a movie. Her live really does sound like a movie complete with all the ups and downs that many of us experience at some point.

-I don't know if I have have a favorite chapter but chapter 2, finding your truth is very important. I spend a lot of time considering what I want so that the next few years are lived consciously and in perfect alignment with this vision. Because I live my truth I no longer have to wake up in the morning asking why things aren't how I think they should be. Knowing you truth is about being accountable to yourself. If something isn't how you want it to be, you know why that is and how to fix it when you are aware of your truth.

I suggest this book if you need direction in your life and want to read version 1 of an incredible story that's still in the making.

Book Review- It's Complicated (But It Doesn't Have to Be)

2013-02-13T07:23:00.000-08:00

It's complicated (But Doesn't Have to Be). This year I committed to read at least a few dating books and do some spiritual work around dating. I'm not sure if I'll actually be dating this year but we'll see what happens. Anyway, I saw this book at the library and it was on my list so I picked it up. I was happy that I did. Dating is one area of my life that needs to be improved and it was refreshing to read a book that basically told me to treat dating as I would any other goal in my life. I unconsciously put all this expectation and baggage around dating that has blocked me from dating successfully over the years. If I get to dating at all this year it would probably be towards the second half of the year. The lessons I took from It's Complicated are:

- Treat Dating Like any Other Goal. Be Proactive. This makes sense but it never occurred to me. I hadn't really considered online dating sites until reading this book. I am a more introverted person and online communities that meet in person have proven to be very good for someone with my type of personality. I've gone on meetups to meet new people and hangout. Why not do the same thing for dating? I am definitely going to give his advice a try. If online dating does not work for you then try being proactive in other ways that suite you better but get out there. You'll never know until you try.

- Love Yourself before You Love Someone Else. This is actually the rule that I am currently focusing on. I may need the entire year to truly feel more at peace with this aspect. Part of this means completing my makeover and getting more grounded in my career. Providing myself with stability is the ultimate form of self love and it's very important for me to have these things in place. I believe that you attract the person you are. I want someone who is fun but grounded and focused. I am focusing on embodying these things myself before I start dating again.

-No Mean Muggin' (Body Language). I have been accused of "looking mean" and also of always smiling. Someone once told me that I walked with my head down and looked defeated when they knew me to be better than this. My body language is a combination of life and consciousness over the years. I suffered with extremely low self-esteem as a child and am almost certain that even though I am a more confident adult, my body language may sometimes be reminiscent of my childhood perspective. Paul C. Brunson also suggests studying body language in his book which I think is something else I would like to read a book or two on this year now. This is great advice. I try to smile and let people know that I am friendly but I haven't done much else in the body language department.

-There is no Difference Between Your Brain in Love and Your Brain on Drugs. I really don't have to say much about this. If you've been in love or been in a relationship then you understand this. I will say the one time I got grounded was due to some stupidity with an ex-boyfriend. People who are on drugs sometimes do stupid stuff. People who are in love sometimes do even stupider stuff.

-Sex Is Not Super Glue. Sex is super, but glue it is not. Another hard lesson I've had to learn. Sometimes the fireworks only happen in the bedroom and nowhere else. Don't confuse sex with having a relationship. These are two separate things.

Would I suggest, It's Complicated But Doesn't Have to Be by Robert C. Brunson? Yes (if you are serious about becoming proactive with dating). I'm not going to say it will provide you with new information but it might give you a different perspective on the information you already have. Sometimes we need to be reminded of what to do and how to do it. This book has a lot of good reminders. Check out It's Complicated on Amazon.

Kimmy

Positvity- How to Figure Out What You Want by Marie Forleo

2013-02-06T06:49:00.000-08:00

It's been a while since I've been on her site but I found a great video by Marie Forleo about how to get what you want. If you're confused about how to accomplish your goals, then watch this video. I will say that it's easier said than done but it's true none the less:

This video isn't only about how to figure out what you want. It's also about how to get what you want. Take action that is consistent with what you want. If you are taking action that is not consistent with what you want, ask yourself why (it often has to do with some sort of fear).

Kimmy

Lessons Learned & Too Busy Taking Action to Blog

2013-02-01T06:04:00.003-08:00

Winning the Race of Your Life

It has been a LONG time since I've touched this blog. So much has happened. I relocated to New York a year and a half ago (a dream that I had for years), I'm actually transitioning into a new career and am preparing to launch a business later this year. I actually started another blog last summer that I have been consistent with. It's a beauty review blog and I realized that I wanted a place to review other things and just ramble sometimes. I've decided to make this blog my home for those things. I'm not promising to update regularly but I am coming back to updating this blog more consistently. I figured I 'd start with lessons learned since I launched this blog:

Don't Walk, Run Towards Your Dreams-

When I actually moved to New York, so much went right but so much went wrong also. Everything that I quietly feared happened and you know what, I'm still alive and I'm still here. Things still aren't perfect but they're getting better and I have no regrets. I would have regretted NOT coming here. This was the best decision of my life. Don't let fear stop you or slow you down. Had I done this when I was 18 like I'd planned I would be so much further along than I already am.

Persistence is a Necessary Ingredient to Success-

I could have went home so many times this past year and a half but I decided to stick it out. I have clarity about my career that I didn't even know I needed before. Things are possible in my life now that I previously was uncertain about how to make happen. I have peace because I know that every dream I have will become a reality over the next few years. Soon, I will have to start a new list of goals! To be honest I have been a bit impatient with this whole process but even though there have been some delays, I have not stopped. That's the most important thing to remember. Keep going no matter what.

Pick a Goal and Sick to It/Follow Through on Something-

Dreamitis is the condition that blocks completion and following through. I unconsciously suffered from dreamitis for years. Once I moved to New York, a new part of my brain seemed to awaken. This part of my brain has become very dominant and now I am actually considering all of my dreams and selecting which ones I want to implement. I decided to transition into the medical field and became a certified EKG technician a few months ago. I am completing a second medical certificate program and preparing for my first job in the medical field by the end of this month. I started this journey in September/October of last year with no previous experience or inclination to be in the medical field and here I am. Don't spend too much time analyzing, make the best decision you can and go for it. Even if it is not perfect, you can correct course as you go along and make better improvements because of the insight you only get from taking action.

Honor Your Spirit-

As great as thing are, there is still another very important goal that I need to manifest by May at the latest (and possibly even next month at the earliest). I have been wanting to live alone (no roommates or family members for years). I currently have a roommate that I'm not happy with. Honor your spirit. Don't complain about your situation, figure out a solution and do what you need to do to be happy. I have always had somewhat of a loner spirit and am excited because once I've worked at my new job for a month or two, I'll be able to finally get my own place and continue focusing on my other goals. Don't ignore that small voice in your head when it tells you something isn't right or you need to make a change. Life is too short and too precious to be unhappy.

Budgeting Can be Your Friend-

I have truly become a budget queen even more since relocating. My budget has allowed me to remain conscious and grounded. I have made better decisions and have a better understanding about which goals to tackle next because of my budget. Most people look at a budget as something that tells you what you can't do. I look at it as something that tells me what I can do. Anything is possible because I have the financial direction to make things happen. I have a healthy relationship with my money. Like it or not, we need money to live and if you want to have less stress and get more done, consider making a budget that is connected to your goals so that you can figure out what steps you should take next in your life.

Since I last posted, I actually found a teaching job online and have been working online for a little over a year. The time has come for me to transition into a better career but the goal of working online/from home can be checked off my list. I have learned so much and had an amazing year as far as my professional growth and development are concerned. The biggest lesson I've learned is that if your heart is telling you to do something, then do it. It may not end the way you thought it would but you will be wiser and better because of it.

I'll be doing more reviews and positivity/personal growth related posts on this blog in the upcoming months.

Kimmy

The 4-Hour Work Week- Chapter 10

2011-06-25T12:48:00.001-07:00

I finished chapter 10 this week. I sigh as I think about business and how life affects business. The 4-Hour Workweek is all about business so that you can live. I am defnitely doing more living but there is even more to do. This week's chapter is about testing the muse and I have definitely been testing mine.

I have learned a lot these past few months of being in business and have new model that is definitely more scalable and profitable. I am looking forward to the transition over the next few months.

When you are working in your business and getting things set up, ask yourself how you can make work easier. Work and business is important but so is each aspect of your life. I don't expect for things to be perfectly balanced but I do look for ways to make things more manageable across the board.

Unitl Next Time,

Kimmy B.

Where I'm at with The 4-Hour Work Week - Developing a Muse

2011-06-12T10:25:00.001-07:00

I just started a wonderful book today called the Renaissance Mind (I don't advise it but I usually read two books at a time). The Renaissance Mind is for people who have many different interests and passions and need a framework for designing their lives and careers around the varying intrests.

This book is ideal for someone like me. I've stopped denying myself the enjoyment if indulging in my interests. When it comes to muse creation, I've created a muse list if you will and am simply repeating the same steps for each muse. Some muses will remain hobbies while others will become income producers. This is the strategy that I've taken. I no longer have the knwaing "but I want to...) in the back of my mind because I am doing...or have plans to do.... in the futre.

I am at the point now with this process where I am not completely convinced that I'll be doing my standy job anymore. I've been supporting myself and funding my dreams by working as a security officer. While patiently waiting to receive my guard licence for NY, I've been wokring on my muse. I'm starting to generate enough icome that's making me question whether or not will pursue a guard job once the state finally processes my license.

It feels really great to be at this point in the process. I'm executing another income prodcuing project this week and am looking forward to seeing how everything goes. I'll be sure to blog about my results!

Kimmy B.

Outsourcing My Life - T4HWW

2011-05-29T10:01:00.001-07:00

I am so happy. This week has been my most efficient week yet! I was able to get a lot done and received some payments from clients also. I have been transitioning into my new life on the East Cost for about two months. I am headed back to my evening job because I'm still a baby-entrepreneur but I did great this month. My first month out of the gate I profitted about $500 from my interent-based business. I'm happy and excited about the income I'm getting from my night job because I'll be able to put that money back into my business.

This week I read about Outsouring Your Life and hiring a Virtual Assistant or VA in the 4-Hour Workweek. I can say that I am at the point where I need an assistant and will be exploring this over the upcoming months. It's been really great learning how to master my own schedule and hack it to make it effctive and manageable on my own without an assistant. It's important that I know how to be effective so that I can guide my assistant and show him or her how to be effective as well. This has been an interesting chapert in my life.

Having an assistat is going to make my life easier and more profitable. I look forward to using the suggestions Tim Ferriss outlines in The 4-Hour Wokweek. I've also been told that Philipines are great for virtual assistants and am probably going to explore thiis or hiring someone here in the states when I employ an assistant.

If you have had any experiences with Virtual Assistants please share your experiences by commenting below.

Here's To Your Business Success!

Kimmy B.

Facebook & Local Marketing Consultant