Today I will discuss the Bondage Boutique Luxury Leather D-Ring Ankle Cuff Restraints. These are really nice ankle cuffs to have in your toy chest. They are great for both the very curious beginner and those who have been around the restraint block a few times. These premium leather cuffs are quite supple and light. I like the nice width of the cuffs as well. Sometimes cuffs look thin but not with these. Also you can wear these cuffs for hours without any discomfort.

Each restraint has 3 D rings which is great for multiple ties during a restraint session. Sometimes one D ring is not enough so I really like the fact that there are 3. Each D ring is also very securely attached to the cuffs. Although there is no lining covering the inside of the cuff the attachement points are totally smooth so very comfortable to wear.

I just LOVE restriction so anything that has a padlock closure is sure to please me! I adore the fact that my sub is totally at my mercy to remove the toy. These cuffs are secured on the partner padlocks and there are 5 slits to adjust to the right size. Now no product is perfect and here is my one negative point: the padlocks that come with the cuffs are terribly cheap. I strongly suggest any flimsy padlocks included with new toys be tossed in the garbage right away and be replaced with the real deal. I am really not kidding, I have seen people get stuck in restraints because the flimsy padlock would not open. But this in no way should scare you off from these cuffs…the cuffs themselves are great and purchasing a couple of good padlocks is a minor investment that can be used on other toys too.

Finally my favorite thing about the Bondage Boutique Luxury Leather D-Ring Ankle Cuff Restraints is the included the removable chain. You can just snap it on or off and they give you about 8 inches of play. Now what is more fun then watching your sub walking small steps and looking like a penguin. Perfect opportunity for some teasing and humiliation. I just wish they could not be removed so easily by perhaps the sub himself he he.

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I give these ankle cuffs a . Thank you again LoveHoney for the opportunity to review for you.

Mystress Lady Evyl

I have been ANXIOUSLY waiting for a chance to try an aluminum dildo so when I got this in the mail I was beyond excited. Oh My God…the Alumina Motion is beyond a work of art. My heart skipped a beat when I held it the first time. It came in a lovely black box, cushioned securely in foam.The anodized purple color makes it look so ultra modern. I could not help but admire the spade shapes in various sizes as my eyes traveled up and down both ends. one end wide and one end very narrow, almost pen like. It looked heavy. I picked it up and it was not quite as heave as I expected, it is aluminum …a lighter metal after all. But what actually struck me first was its cool sleek touch. And when I say cool I mean temperature wise. But it quickly warms up with handling to your body temp which only makes this toy even more yummy.

Now the Motion is one of 4 models in the Alumina collection. There is also the Pace, Flow and Revolve. This is where you realize how brilliantly designed this series is. Each toy is actually two halves that can be unscrewed and can be screwed into the other Tantus Alumina toys. You can create a many unique combination.

It does not require a lot of lube and both ends can be inserted…the smaller end obviously ideal for anal. Since it is a non-porous toy it is very easy to clean. Just use hot water and soap. You can even put it in the dishwasher or boil it. But if you are to share in the same session condoms are always the safe way to go.

Specification
Diameter: 1 3/8″ – 1″
Length: 8.25″
Weight: 8.77 oz.
Material: Aluminum

Now as amazing as it looked I was afraid I would not like it much because after the ‘head’ part it narrows so much I figured I would not get that feeling of fullnest. I was, gladly, beyond wrong. Its shape make for a divine vaginal entry. Its like fitting a perfect tight glove but your vagina is the glove. It molds and countours itself around the curves of the Alumina Motion unlike anything I quite experienced before. And you can feel its temperature changing, slow warming to your body’s heat. And I also discovered two magical feelings with it. My favorite motion was actually the full head in but having a shallow in and out motion (pun, yep) because it hits the g-spot in a most unique way…wow. Second another wonderful feeling is to insert it about half way in and then let go of it. It won’t slip out because of the design and gravity takes over giving you a weighted feeling that is just delicious.

There is one precaution to advise with this toy…be carefull not to push it in to fast to far or you will hit the cervix in a not so nice but painfull way. You have to experiment a little bit and know how far you can push it in comfortably. Same goes for anal insertion.

Simply put the Alumina Motion is the caviar, the Bentley of dildos I have come across so far, a full

Mystress Lady Evyl

Our winner is c5ive – Congratulations

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Win a Smart Balls Teneo – Uno donated by Babeland.com. I received an extra one of this lovely toy reviewed here. I swear its a second one, not the one tested…all in a nice new box and all !!!

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Now these butt plugs look overall a lot slimmer then most plugs because only the tip is flared. Both sizes have a long narrow neck instead of just tapering like most plugs. I find this gives them a great advantage because even if you can relax and take in a wide plug the actual insertion time with this model is a lot quicker. The narrow long neck makes them very flexible too.

But the main reason why the narrow neck on these butt plugs are so popular is that the chance of the pugs popping out is greatly reduced. They are comfortable and stay in place very effectively. This is actually the case for many of the Tantus butt plugs.

The small Ace butt plug measures 1.3″x3.3″ and the large Ace butt plug measures 1.65″x4.25″. Both models are available in black and purple.

The Ace plugs are made from 100% Ultra-Premium Silicone. This is a top quality material that makes clean up a breeze. 100% Silicone toys can be totally disinfected in bleach or bloiled for a few minutes with fear of damaging your toy. They can even go in the dishwater. BUT (no pun intended) if you plan sharing this toy, since it is an anal toy, I would still recommend using it with a condom.

The verdict? My victim had no problem taking them in (because it is not a new activity…go slow if you are new to anal play) and found them very comfortable. Removal was easy too. We will keep these beauties at the top of the toy chest so I can giving them a full 5 on 5 stars.

Mystress Lady Evyl

I have been very curious about this type of toy, or should I say exerciser, for a while so when I had a chance to try it I jumped at the occasion. Let me introduce to you the Smart Balls Teneo – Uno from Fun Factory. This little ball will strengthen your pelvic muscle and tone it back into shape. It helps you perform what is known as kegel exercices. The benefits of a strong pelvic floor is stronger orgasms, preparation for easier birthing and help for those sufferring from incontinence. But let’s stick with the stronger orgasms reason he he.

This particular model is perfect for the beginner. It is shaped like an oblong ball with a nice textured pattern, in various colors, and a loop at one end. When you move it you will feel a weighted ball rolling inside. This ball is the secret of its mechanics. See the beauty of using a special ball for kegel exercise is that you can be totally lazy. How? Well when you lube it up a little bit and insert it into your vagina you can just go about your daily business as if you had nothing in you. But what actually happens is that the ball inside the Uno vibrates. This vibration automatically signals the pelvic muscle to contract so it does not fall out. Thus you work out without even making a voluntary effort.

You can leave it in for a few minutes or the whole day. From my experience I found it easier to start slow and build up the time I can keep it in. Its not small so you do feel it a bit when you put it in. But soon it just finds a nice spot and most of the time I just forgot about it. When I got a bit sore then I removed it. That is how I increase my time  bit by bit. But besides that you won’t feel it. You may however feel full and a bit aroused…which is nice. To remove pull on the loop and then wash it well with soap and water.

Why is it the beginner’s model? Well its just one ball so its not to much to insert. Once you have mastered it you can move on to the double Smart Balls…same thing but with two balls. Now you won’t find the next level, the advanced one, on Babeland but you can then get the tradionnal BenWa balls next. These are small and heavy metal beads in comparison but they will truly test your pelvic muscle. A friend of mine not in shape enough down there lost one in a public bathroom a few years ago. With these some women have been know to have orgasms just by walking with them inside…not a bad goal.

Verdict: I can’t say I have had enough time to see if they have an effect on my orgasms but I do enjoy having it in me. I do think my pelvic floor is a bit stronger. I do have one negative comment: I am not convince on how long the loop will ast before breaking…but I am really tight. So I am giving the Smart Balls Teneo – Uno a 4 out of 5 stars.

Thank you again to Babeland.com for letting me review this toy.

Mystress Lady Evyl

The Curve Dildo is specifically designed to hit the G-spot or the prostate with ease as the shaft is nicely…well…curved as the name suggests. So its ideal for both men and women. The dildo is nice and pliable too. This dildo also has a very large teardrop shaped base making it perfect for harness play. Unlike some flared based toys I have the Curve will not slip out. Take this baby out and your partner will be salivating for it.

Specs
Color: Black or Purple or Lilac
Material: medical grade  Silicone
Length: 6″
Diameter: 1 3/8″

But there is still more to make this dildo appealing. The up curve part displays a ridge and several rippled bumps. This actually makes it even more appealing for me because I personally prefer dildos and vibrator that are textured rather then smooth. Not having an immediate guinea pig to test it on I have only used it for solo play and I was very impressed. It can be easily handled manually as well and it only takes a touch of lube for it to glide in with ease. Actually on my second use I squirted, not a common thing for me.

Tantus is always top on my list of favorite sex toy manufacturer. The quality of their products is phenomenal and all toys are made of medical grade  Silicone. This means they are easy to safe, non-toxic, clean, non porous…it can eve be boiled for sterilization. The attention to details is always present in all there toys. This is my 3rd Tantus toy, I have the Ryder butt plug and the Buzz 1 vibe, and I still have a wishlist for some of there toys.

I am totally giving the Curve a 5 out of 5 stars!

Mystress Lady Evyl

I just finished reading ”Anal Pleasure and Health” by Jack Morin, Ph.D. It was very enlightening on a subject where, well, the sun don’t shine. Although I have not practiced anal play (in a regular serious manner) in some time it is an activity that I enjoy and fascinates me. So I thought taking on this book as a challenge would be a great way to learn more about how to do it safely and in an enjoyable manner.

Now let me warn you right away there will some “Too Much Information” in this next paragraph so if you are uncomfortable with that I would suggest skipping till you see ***

I am gonna be very honest with you all and share my personal experience and health about by asshole lol. Ok so prior to being a Mistress I have attempted no more then one handfull of times anal penetration with 3 partners. They were all mostly not pleasing and painful. Of course at the time I had no freaking clue about anal play at all. I do recieving anal play, rimming and the occasionl finger but its got to all be gentle. Move forward to being a Mistress: I have deflowered a many subs butts and penetrated accustomed anal players. That I did after some reading on safe and fun ass play so it usually went well. Now for anal health…not good. I have been suffering from fissures for a few years and its always raw and itchy. Also after reading this book I realize I have chronic anal tension, meaning my anal muscle is always tense. Obviously both not good for anal sex. If I had 1 regular partner that was truly patient and gentle I might be open to trying.

***When men ask me…and its the funniest when they are vanilla and clueless to my bdsm side…if I like anal, I alsways say I love giving. The look on their faces is precious. Usually its confusion and if they smart it leads to understanding and avoiding me, or they are into it and have a million questions. But for me I am not a fan of recieving….but a bit curious.

So back to the book. It is written by a therapist who specializes in anal health. He has led researches for decades and knows his, pardon the pun, shit! The book is well written and it is in laymens terms. But it can be a bit dry. It reads like a therapy book which just happens to reffer a lot to anal health and play. At no time will you take this book to bed with you for a masturbation session.

Had I been the editor I would have skipped a few chapters about some research analysis and sociological theories. But the progression of the self-help chapters is excellent. He dicusses the beginings of anal exploration, experimenting with butt toys, and all the way to full anal penetration. All steps are divided into chapters that include exercises to learn to relax and explore you asshole. Every chapter’s exercise pushes the previous one a little bit further…but only if you are ready. There is a lot of emphasis that you should only do the exercises if you want to for you and if you are ready. Also strongly suggested is writting in a journal. I actually thought it was an excellent idea considering his approach.

The author covers almost everything you may ever want to know about the ass. He even claims his exercises can heal medical problems if not interested in the sexual aspect. So try it to cure your hemorrhoids, fissures, constipation, etc. There are however 2 things I beleive he skipped over. He talks a lot about the complexes we have towards the clealiness of the ass but he could have gone more into details. He sort of says “get over it, its not dirty” but lacks in giving proof. Second thing I would have liked to have info on is if there is any harm in overdoing anal penetration. A gay friend of mine is very anxious of loosing control of his anus in later years.  I think its a genuine concern that should have been addressed. Although the book was updated, it could be reviewd a bit more. It was written in 1998 so it talks about AIDS a little too much. Don’t get me wrong, AIDS and HIV are huge problems to this day, but you can tell its outdated as the book was written during the crissis. Other then that he covers safe anal sex perfectly.

For the sake of the review I did read through the whole book in one shot. I do plan on going back to the exercises and exploring my anal pleasure as he describes. Where did I put my personal anal plug again? But as I read it I became very aware of my anus and did some relaxation of it a bit. I am also much more conscious of my stool cycle and my actual defecation process. Yeah I know sounds gross but but your health is directly related to how your stool comes out, both in performance and result.

I recommend this book to anyone who wants to learn more about how to receive and give anal pleasure in the safest and most enjoyable way. You will learn a lot about yur body and your mind when it comes to your and your partner’s anus. The book is aimed at all genders and sexual orientations. I give it a 4 1/2 starts out of 5.

Mystress Lady Evyl

When I first saw it touched it I tought it was really cute to look at but was not convinced in its claim to be a chastity device. I did however imagine it as a really cute, very very skimpy outfit for an outing at a BDSM club. After testing it my mind has not been changed.

The Strict Leather Cock Straight Jacket consists of a steel cockring to with a leather pouch is affixed at 2 places. The top part of the pouch is opened and closed by a snap. there are 2 snaps to adjust the fit…looser or tighter. The ring is 2 inches in width.

So how do you use it? Well the instructions say to place the flaccid penis and scrotum through the steel ring and close it with the snap. After you can amuse yourself teasing the wearer as he feels restrained within the pouch.

Well I had a lot of trouble finding a participant to use it properly. Actually I did not find one. 1 volunteer is a litte, ahum, small in general and no restriction was felt. 2 other volunteers were way to big even in a flacid state to put in on. Forget even trying they would bust right out. So this pouch is only good for someone with a penis which is small when flacid and of a very average size when erect. Also forget it if you have big testicules. Its really made for the average ‘joe’. I think if Strict Leather made various sizes, at least S-M-L-XL, they would profit a lot more out of this toy.

As far as teasing and restriction? Its a toy for the novice or light play, in my opinion. Want my suggestions for a more intense tease and denial/chastity toy? I would recommend the following:

• Gates of Hell can be fun and are medival to look at, try the Strict Leather Gates of Hell
• The ever popular CB series, here is the CB6000
• Or something really different, the Gates of Hell CBT Plug which includes urethral play.

Mystress Lady Evyl

Well…I could not help myself and wanted to send an Ode to her in this special way because not only has she been great to KSL, she is also a far to distant friend. So Kinkerbelle this one is for you!

Mystress Lady Evyl