Mystress Lady Evyl http://www.ladyevyl.com Thu, 23 Feb 2012 02:19:56 +0000 en hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v= http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-nd/3.0/http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-nd/3.0/http://creativecommons.org/images/public/somerights20.gifSome Rights ReservedLadyEvylhttp://feedburner.google.com Kama Sutra Ocean Blue Luxury Bathing Gel http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/LadyEvyl/~3/NEZZ60UyrJY/ http://www.ladyevyl.com/2012/02/22/kama-sutra-ocean-blue-luxury-bathing-gel/#comments Thu, 23 Feb 2012 02:19:56 +0000 ladyevyl http://www.ladyevyl.com/?p=4367 [...Read More...]]]> Although Kama Sutra products have been around for quite I have not played around with them a whole lot. And since some say I have such a dirty mind I figured this would be a good time to try out a body wash to clean up my act ha ha. The Kama Sutra Ocean Blue Luxury Bathing Gel sounded perfect for the dirty job at hand.

What I like about the Luxury Bathing Gel is that it’s ideal as a shower gel or a bubble bath foam. I was a little hesitant about the scent before getting it but I figured this particular scent has been available for so long in the Kama Sutra line it would be OK. I am not someone with an ultra sensitive nose so I found the Ocean scent to be just perfect. It was not overpowering yet it lingered just a tiny bit after the shower. It’s like perfume: if you smell it on yourself after a while than you have put too much. I was glad this was not the case, I found the intensity to be just right. Those sensitive to perfume may disagree.

To me the scent of Ocean in a bath & body product reminds me more of a masculine scent…kind of like Old Spice aftershave. But in reality this bathing gel suits women just as well as men. It is a very unisex smell. I feel very clean, invigorated and fresh after using this product. The smell is reminiscent of salt, algae, crisp cool air and the beach.

My skin out of the shower also feels very soft and moisturized, and this throughout the day. If you look at the ingredients (listed just below) you can see there are 10 different oils in the formula. No wonder the skin feels so well conditioned after using the Kama Sutra Ocean Blue Luxury Bathing Gel. Yet even with all these oils I did not feel like I had a residue film on my skin either, you really feel fresh and clean. If your pores clog easily this however may not be the best product for you.

Ingredients: Water, Sodium Lauryl Sulfate, Sodium Laureth Sulfate, Lauramide DEA, Glycerin, Fragrance, Prunus Amygdalus Dulcis Oil, Persea Gratissima Oil, Daucus Carota Sativa Seed Oil, Olea Europaea Fruit Oil, Simmondsia Chinensis Seed Oil, Carthamus Tinctorius Seed Oil, Cocos Nucifera Oil, Sesamus Indicum Seed Oil, Helianthus Annuus Seed Oil, Triticum Vulgare Germ Oil, Methylparaben, Propylparaben, Tocopheryl Acetate, Methylchloroisothiazolinone, Methylisothiazolinone, Eugenol, Blue 1.

The consistency of the body wash is thick  like a gel and can wash my whole body with 4 pumps. If you are used to having a lot of latter you will be disappointed. There are so many oil this is to be expected. But keep in mind lather is an illusion of cleanliness: they add chemicals to stuff to make lather because we like it. When used for a bubble bath you will need a few more pumps of course and you’ll get a decent amount of bubbles but not full mountain of them.

The bottle is quite large and it contains 17.5 fl oz which is sure to last for really long time. I love the fact that the bottle comes with a pump dispenser. This is a great bathing gel for the whole family and even if it is sold by an erotic focused company the packaging and texts are all discreet. Get one for yourself and another to give as a lovely gift. You can purchase a variety of Kama Sutra products at Tabytoys.com

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Photo courtesy of Penny

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Courtesy of Nymphomaniac Ness*
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]]> http://www.ladyevyl.com/2012/02/07/pleasure-me-167-times/feed/ 0 http://www.ladyevyl.com/2012/02/07/pleasure-me-167-times/ Designer Ropes http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/LadyEvyl/~3/-wSvc1tqm8M/ http://www.ladyevyl.com/2012/02/06/designer-ropes/#comments Mon, 06 Feb 2012 19:02:53 +0000 ladyevyl http://www.ladyevyl.com/?p=4348 Well I am sure it is not a first but this one is very obvious…adding a touch of bondage to fashion

From Prabal Gurung’s Spring 2012 Campaign

Prabal Gurung Design, Photographer DANIEL JACKSON

]]> http://www.ladyevyl.com/2012/02/06/designer-ropes/feed/ 0 http://www.ladyevyl.com/2012/02/06/designer-ropes/ Burlesque http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/LadyEvyl/~3/6Zo_hQhDjno/ http://www.ladyevyl.com/2012/02/03/burlesque/#comments Fri, 03 Feb 2012 16:07:14 +0000 ladyevyl http://www.ladyevyl.com/?p=4334 I went to see a burlesque show last night with a friend. it was so much fun…lots of comedy and sexiness, a big lovely tease.

]]> http://www.ladyevyl.com/2012/02/03/burlesque/feed/ 0 http://www.ladyevyl.com/2012/02/03/burlesque/ Leisure by Tantus http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/LadyEvyl/~3/KJb6NNfBgmg/ http://www.ladyevyl.com/2012/01/30/leisure-by-tantus/#comments Tue, 31 Jan 2012 03:55:02 +0000 ladyevyl http://www.ladyevyl.com/?p=4296 [...Read More...]]]> «When I saw the new dildo from Tantus I had one thing in mind: the Leisure was made for anal! Of course one could use it vaginally as well but its slender long size makes it ideal for the anal novice. Designed with a flared base it’s a perfect fit with a strap-on and it has a slight curve at the tip as well. The dildo also keeps the female strap-on wearer in mind with the vibrating bullet inserted on the underside of the base which will be hitting the clitoral area…more or less.

This dildo measures 7 inches long, with 6 ½ of those inches insertable, and has a slim diameter of 1 1/8 inch. It is a long and slender dildo, perfect for a tight hole like an anus. The Leisure is made of 100% food grade, phthalates free, hypo-allergenic silicone. The texture is completely smooth and there are no seems on the shaft. The toy can be easily squeezed or bent, maybe a bit too much for my taste. The color reminds me of an iridescent white pearl which I find stunning. The tip of the Leisure is slightly curved and tapered, meant to stimulate the g-spot or p-spot.

Like most Tantus dildos you will find a hole on the underside of the base where you can insert the included push button bullet. The vibrations definitely travel well throughout the length of the shaft. The bullet runs on 3 watch batteries, a power source I am not fond off as they do not last that long. Another pet-peeve I have with the bullet is that when you are in the ‘in and out’ act your pubic bone just keeps hitting the push button, hence turning the bullet on and off continuously. I prefer not using the bullet, which led me to an interesting discovery: if the dildo  is used manually on someone who is well lubed and open you can stick a finger in the hole and just push and pull with out effort. Love lazy tricks! The flared base makes it compatible with all O-ring compatible harness.

The Leisure arrived in the classic Tantus clear plastic box: nothing fancy and not discreet but effective. Once you open the box the toy is actually enveloped by a form fitting plastic clam shell. For a simple cleaning, use an antibacterial soap and warm water. But since medical grade silicone is a non-porous material it can be sterilized by boiling it in water for 5-10 minutes, putting it in the dishwasher or by soaking it in a 10% bleach/water solution. Just make sure to remove the bullet first: it is water resistant but not waterproof. Only use water base lubricant with this toy and since there is a good chance it may be used by multiple partners, it is a good practice to still use with a condom.

Being of a more Queen size I always feel that I loose the first few inches at the root of a dildo, so I was very happy with the insertable length of this toy. You have no idea how hard it is to find a long and slender high quality dildo that is harness compatible. I was thrilled to find a good candidate. I used it on my sub who is not new to anal although he is a bit out of practice. He very much enjoyed the length of the shaft and did get a bit of pleasure from the curved tip. What he did not enjoy was the smooth surface since he is has some experience, he was not getting a lot of sensation from it and I think this model is just too slender for his pleasure.

I also did try it on myself and I cannot say that was a success vaginally. Because it is so long I found it quite uncomfortable as I kept stabbing my cervix a bit. I did not find the curve did much as far as hitting my G-spot. I am a fan of texture and feeling full when it comes to girth so this one fell flat on both counts. But not being an anal expert I did enjoy while solo slow explorations. So my final verdict is the Leisure is perfect for anal beginners only.

The Leisure dildo by Tantus is available at EdenFantasys.

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]]> http://www.ladyevyl.com/2012/01/30/pleasure-me-166-times/feed/ 0 http://www.ladyevyl.com/2012/01/30/pleasure-me-166-times/ Darque Nurse Costume by Coquette http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/LadyEvyl/~3/eFFSO7_im1E/ http://www.ladyevyl.com/2012/01/29/darque-nurse-costume-by-coquette/#comments Sun, 29 Jan 2012 22:36:05 +0000 ladyevyl http://www.ladyevyl.com/?p=4305 [...Read More...]]]> I have been on the lookout for a medical costume for quite some time but could never find anything that fit my criteria until I came across this Darque Nurse costume. I wanted a dominant looking nurse costume in a plus size that would cover up my private parts effectively while being sexy. It also had to nonrestrictive, leaving me free movement while in a scene. This costume really fit the bill after a few adjustments, plus the extra items included can turn the heat up in the bedroom under a more intimate setting.

Rarely have I seen an outfit with so many items included. This is a 5-piece set; you get the nurse trimmed dress, 2 very burlesque-like pasties, 2 lacy ruffled red cuffs, a stylish crotchless pantie and a nurse headpiece.

I was very pleased with the cut and the quality of the material of the dress. Made mostly of black spandex, there are red accents around the collar, the sleeves, a few lines emphasizing the bust, two semi-decorative corsets ties on the sides, a PVC hospital cross on the left side of the chest and a ruffled red lace trimming around the bottom edge of the dress. I really like the front zip closure; it is easy to get in and out of the dress and helps to make a home strip tease more elegant. The zipper starts at the bottom of the waist line and ends at the very wide plunging neck line. It’s quite the exposing neck line but I did not feel like I would pop out.  Same thing with the length of the dress: short but not too short while standing. If you bend over you will be mooning…you choice is clothed or bare moon ;-)

As in all my past experiences however there is always a problem when it comes to plus sizes. I thought the dress was just a tad tight even if I checked the measurement chart when I picked the size. Also the petticoat was a problem. I thing the intended fullness of the skirt created by the petticoat is lovely on a slim figure but on a larger frame it does not advantage your profile at all. Also the sizing of the petticoat was not big enough and cut into my flesh. Thankfully it was very easy to remove by cutting the 4 points where it was sewn onto the dress. Even if a bit tight I felt much more comfortable with the profile of the dress minus the petticoat. Apparently so did the model as in the pic above, the petticoat was removed too.

On to the multiple accessories. The crotchless panties are  the most beautiful undies I have ever seen in a costume. The bikini cut is in black spandex and there is a little red bow at the top center front. The back is stunning revealing your cheeks behind a corseting of red lace that you can adjust fully.  But, again as a plus size, the basic design and size is a fail. It is like they only made the waist elastic bigger but did not adjust the inseam. Also when you make a bigger size you need to compensate by adding lengthening the material going around the hips. This was not done so basically the panties dig into the hips, no smooth lines at all. A shame because they are so pretty.

The nipple pasties I think are an added bonus to your lingerie as I don’t see the relevance with a nurse costume. But they are fun round circled covered in red sequins. From the center hangs a black cord with a tassel at the end….so burlesque! I tried them on for fun and they certainly make an impression. And yes I did try twirling them! I could get them both going in opposite direction at the same time but could not make them work in the same direction or independently. I guess I will need practice ha ha. I did find they did not stick on super well but you can remedy that quickly with spirit gum that you can buy at a costume shop. They are reusable.

I personally would not wear them at a BDSM event being the domme  but the black and red lace wrist cuffs are a nice touch to the costume and they seem very comfortable and right for all wrist sizes. The nurse “hat” is a must to the traditional nurse outfit but I found it a bit cheesy with so much lace ruffles on it. A square with a seam sewn into it is slipped into a plastic headpiece that rests on your head horizontally, kind of like a tiara. Also it was kind of floppy.

The Darque Nurse costume seems well made and can handle a bit of pulling and tugging but best be a bit delicate as the seams are basic and not reinforced. Try to keep it clean as well but do not fret is you get some massage lotion or lube on it. Although there are no cleaning instructions I think a delicate hand wash in cold water would be just fine. If you want to keep the red lace intact I would suggest removing it before washing.

So the accessories were a bit of a hit or miss but the important thing was the dress fit and I am very happy with it overall. AsI mentioned earlier my goal was a dominant medical look as I like to occasionally perform medical scene. The dark look of it was perfect for a fetish crowd and gave me a look of control. Even if the dress is a bit tight I was still comfy and I had my full range of motion, all while being sexy. The only thing missing is are gorgeous high heels or awesome goth boots (my choice) would be perfect too. Wearing all the bits and pieces privately at home is a big hit in the arousal department. You will be major eye candy to your partner.

This costume is available at EdenFantasys

]]> http://www.ladyevyl.com/2012/01/29/darque-nurse-costume-by-coquette/feed/ 12 http://www.ladyevyl.com/2012/01/29/darque-nurse-costume-by-coquette/ Breaking taboo with the Baltimore Guerrilla Suspension Crew http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/LadyEvyl/~3/pc75pzVVfR0/ http://www.ladyevyl.com/2012/01/26/breaking-taboo-with-the-baltimore-guerrilla-suspension-crew/#comments Thu, 26 Jan 2012 20:53:01 +0000 ladyevyl http://www.ladyevyl.com/?p=4300 [...Read More...]]]> What a refreshing and wonderful article! I came across an awesome article in a vanilla online paper discussing rope suspension and kinks in a very positive and honest way.

The article is focused on the Baltimore Guerrilla Suspension Crew a group created by “John and Lily”, now made up of a small gang of suspension fetishists who enjoy practicing their art in a public setting. Seems that the trade mark of all public suspension photos are the gas masks on all participants. Very cool look.

But this is not a mere article about their group, the author really took the time to write an intelligent and honest piece about the reality scene without the usual prejudice. I loved it. If more journalists wrote such articles the taboos of our community would melt away in no time, well eventually.

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The article discuses how this kinky couple met and the fears they had in the past while dating…hoping to find someone not too vanilla. And now they are in a 24/7 relationship. But it is described in a healthy way:

“It’s a 24/7 power exchange,” Lily says. “Someone is submissive and someone is dominant. There is no gray area, everything is drawn out.” “There are diet restrictions,” she says. “I can’t eat without his permission.” John also tells her what to eat. “I don’t want to be a dick and feed her things she doesn’t want,” he says. “I want her to be happy, and I want to show her I’m paying attention.”

Also well explained is the concept of the consideration collar and then eventual real ownership collar which is the vanilla equivalent to marriage.

Other addressed points I really enjoyed was explaining how a scene does not have to be a sexual experience to be enjoyed (although sexual ones are lots of fun) and they discuss how people stereotypically view their relationship as abusive when it is not the case, explaining the difference.

Finally the couple shares their passion for suspension but make sure the risks involved. Suspension is serious play can can be lethal in the wrong hands.

I developed a passion for floor ties since my beginnings in the scene and I took a couple of suspension seminars but without an anchor point at home to practice I have not delved further which I find is a shame. I had the pleasure of being suspended once and LOVED it. When the 15-20 minutes were up I was very disappointed to be let down. Normally a first timer would find 15 very long, I wanted more.

I highly recommend you head over to at The City Paper and read the article in question. We need more of these positive testimonials.

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Fishing

Skating

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