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Readers are leaders and leaders are readers.

Both of these statements are true time and time again. You cannot find one ferocious reader who is not a leader in his respective industry or field. If you want to succeed in life, reading is a MUST. You cannot go on further if you remain stagnant in your self-image. You have got to grow more and more each and everyday.

Every time you read, you slowly begin to develop neuro-patterns in your brain which are responsible for your outer results in life. These neuro-patterns can also be called in other names like thought patterns and emotional patterns or reaction patterns. Reading can REALLY HELP you BIG TIME in changing the way you think and feel and behave. If you want a shortcut to life-long success, reading is the SH*T. So normal and unsurprising, huh? Well, this goes to show how much we have been neglecting and taking for granted the books and technology around which is available to us with just a snap of a finger or with a few clicks on a computer or a few steps to the nearest public library or bookstore. Reading is essentially important… REALLY, REALLY IMPORTANT.

I’ve been into reading SO MUCH lately that I’d like to recommend a book called “The Magic of Thinking Big” by Dr. David J. Schwartz. Look it up on Amazon or Barnes and Noble.. I don’t care, just get it because it will benefit you GREATLY for the REST OF YOUR LIFE. Seriously.

It’s all about how to intensify your depth of vision or how to deepen your perception of how things can be. For example;

If I give you an acorn, what do you see?

For some, they may see a tree. Well, that’s a good start but it’s not deep enough.

If you show me an acorn, I see a large, thick, lush forest in a whole continent.

That’s called depth of vision or the ability to perceive/see things as how they could be, not as how they are currently.

Thinking big is more important now than ever because there are a lot of opportunities in the world today as more and more industries and specialties are popping up because of ever-increasing advancements in technology.

There is literally an abundance of jobs for everybody, a great number of earning opportunities for every Jill or Joe on each block.

But many of us don’t really know how great we are deep inside. We are bigger than we are. We have tremendous capabilities and potential lying inside of us. Eastern philosophies call this the “Tiger” or the “Dragon Within”, I think.

It’s time to awaken your inner monster and achieve massive success.. and reading will take you there sooner than you think. Why I like Dr. Dave’s book, it’s because it has a lot of sensory image-rich examples of how positive attributes related to “Thinking Big” are applied and executed. You can really see the images presented in the examples… it’s like you’re there when it happens so you can observe how these successful people go from broke to successful; from loser to lothario (I mean very successful, not womanizer… can you blame me? It’s a good word.. ); from cooped up to confident.

One BIG tip I can give you is when you’re seeing the images in your mind, carefully and ‘relaxedly’ focus and observe these so you can see how a positive trait is executed in real life. This is why I love books because you can observe successful people from the comfort of your own home. You don’t even have to meet them personally so you can observe them, just read and read over and over and over again. Oh, now that we’re in this topic; let me remind you to repeat reading a book over and over again for the rest of your life. That’s how you create everlasting change. It’s not enough to read it once, twice, or thrice. It’s important to keep reading them until you see small changes then read them again until you see BIG changes. Then read them again and again and again because it will start to become a permanent part of you these changes you gained from reading the book.

The reason why I keep repeating some sentences above is because they are important if you want to become the person you want to be. Trust me, you will see magical things happening to you once the contents of this amazing book become deeply ingrained in your subconscious mind and you will automatically achieve success over and over again. You’ll be able to bounce back from adversities and see every ‘negative’ thing in a positive light because that’s what it really is. No situation is negative, it is what it is.

Changes can happen really fast once you’ve read and applied what you learned from a super-excellent book. Books are your greatest allies in your quest to become a better person in life who attracts success automatically without even thinking about it consciously. If you want to be, do, and have anything you want… read books. Leaders are always FEROCIOUS readers, all the way.

And as you read and read, you’ll become more adept at reading. You’ll soak up information faster and your brain processes information at a scary and frightening speed. You’ll be astonished and surprised at how powerful your brain has become. You’ll sharpen your way of thinking and suddenly you become wittier and wittier. You’re able to enjoy life more and JUST KNOW that there’s still so much out there that’s outside of your current way of thinking.

Don’t become one of those people who just take reading for granted. There is SO MUCH MORE in this life that we don’t know. There’s so much more in-depth knowledge that we can gain and understand a little bit more.

BE HUNGRY FOR MORE KNOWLEDGE AND UNDERSTANDING! Once you do, you become more independent, INSPIRING, UPLIFTING, and POSITIVE.

Another great thing about reading is your empathy or capacity to understand other people tremendously increases because you’re being exposed to a lot of different social settings just from a book. Your EQ or emotional intelligence rises through the roof and you’ll be able to not take life too seriously a little bit more. That’s the BIG difference between a LEADER and a commoner.

The commoner just passes thru life regretting, sour-graping successful people, and feeling sorry for himself. That’s not the way to live man, that’s not the way. Everything in life is attainable. You just have to take that first step.

Once you get a taste of how powerful you are by internalizing the changes an excellent self-help book tells you to make, you’ll never want to look back. You would never want to go back to your previous self. It’s because you’ve expanded and expanding is such a wonderful thing to experience in this life.

Your journey is to grow and go beyond who you are presently. Once you expand, you’ll keep searching and yearn for more expansion because it really feels good. And that’s the purpose of life: feeling good.

Your life is supposed to be alive and joyful.

It’s all in your hands now. Just read… even if it’s just a page per day. That’s all it takes. As long as you’re reading every single day of your life, you cannot help but change. It is inevitable.

Yearning to read at least one page a day,
Fonzy Montenegro

Hi, this is Fonzy once ‘gain (Nope, I’m not the girl… lol).

And today, I’m going to discuss several self-help concepts that when practiced in the attitude of feeling good and fun, can tremendously accelerate your manifestations.

So, let’s begin.

Getting Into The Vortex

This is a powerful concept developed by Jerry and Esther Hicks with the guidance of Abraham, a group of non-physical spiritual teachers channeled by Esther Hicks.

The Vortex is a vibrational place or feeling place of pure positivity. The main idea is, when you feel good or positive, you are in the vortex. If you’re feeling bad, you’re out of the vortex since you’re not a vibrational match to positive emotions.

The thing is you are actually in the vortex many times a day without even knowing it. Each time you remember something good, you are in the vortex. Each time you remember something bad, you are out of the vortex.

You see a happy shiny puppy and it puts you in a good mood, you are in the vortex. You see your neighbor’s noisy children tearing up your garden and it annoys you, you are out of the vortex.

Getting into the vortex is quite easy since you just have to picture in your mind a concept that fascinates you or remember something that pleases you. It can be challenging to maintain your stay in the vortex but it can be done with consistent positive thinking and feeling. Meditation and hypnotherapy are your best bet to train your mind to get into the vortex very easily and with consistency.

But what good does getting into the vortex bring into my life?

Well, when you’re in the vortex… all the things you want (the goals you set) will arrive quicker in your physical reality. In other words, your manifestation abilities are heightened which results in achieving and getting what you want FASTER.

Being In The Now

Being present and in the moment is a popular spiritual concept made famous by Eckhart Tolle, the New York Times Best-Selling Author of The Power of Now.

The concept is one of the essential things you learn in studying spirituality, especially in meditation. The mind is the cause of suffering since most of us are letting it control our lives. When you realize that you are not your mind but rather something higher and more powerful, you can utilize the greater capabilities of your mind better.

Sufferings and negativity are only illusions which we can dispel with training. Being in the present moment is what I’d like to call “automatic positive thinking” since you don’t get bothered by anything negative when you’re in that state and you don’t have to try thinking positive thoughts because you are already in a positive state.

Being present also makes you take inspired action. When Eckhart Tolle was asked how he wrote his New York Times Best-Selling book, he replied that he never forced the book to come out… the book itself wanted to come out.

This is what I call “it’s as if the action occurs through you” which I learned from a master of inspired action, Rishan B.

To experience being present, meditation would be your best bet to get into that state of awareness or hypnosis/hypnotherapy (just had to add this because I’m such a hypnogeek ).

Being The Captain Of Your Ship

This is actually a concept from self-help legend Brian Tracy which I renamed. It’s simply writing or reading your goals every morning when you wake up. This allows you to remember and focus where you are going in life.

Just like what a captain of a ship does every morning or every night after he sleeps, he looks at the map so he can decide whether to make adjustments along the way.

Remember to write your goals by hand (I don’t know why but writing it the old-fashioned way feels more powerful than just typing it on a computer) on a clean, blank sheet of white paper. You need a clean paper so you can start fresh and anew so to speak.

You can also just read your goals every morning, it’s up to you. Just have clear, precise, positive goals written in the present, personal tense (or as if you already have them).

Re-writing or reading your goals everyday will burn these into your subconscious mind and after a year, you will be surprised at how much you have accomplished.

The Wallet Process

This is truly one of my favorites! It’s a concept I learned from Jeff Balagosa, author of the Instant Motivation Supercharger which I later learned came from Abraham-Hicks since Jeff also read Abe’s teachings.

It’s simply putting a hundred dollars in your wallet everyday then when you go out, start to notice how many things you can buy with your hundred dollars.

I would recommend you to never, ever spend that hundred dollars since you’re using it to train your mind (subconscious) that you have money and you can buy a LOT of things.

I even took this step a little bit further by stocking my favorite brand of jumbo hotdogs in the refrigerator. I don’t eat it until I stock it up again. The purpose is to remind myself that there will always be food that I like in my refrigerator and that I’ll never go hungry again.

That really makes me feel so good and it gets me into the vortex.

Mind Movies

A concept created by Ryan Higgins, an Australian businessman, to replace the traditional method of visualization, it proved hugely popular among thousands of people all over the world.

It’s simply a 1-3 minute mini-movie using a sophisticated video editing software that covers your ideal lifestyle.

You can create a mind movie by hunting pictures all over the net of things that you want in your physical reality. It can be about a pile of money, a ripped and healthy body, a marvelous car, a hot spouse, or heightened spirituality.

Just get some pics, then upload it to a video editing software. You can buy a copy of mind movies or you can use a free software. I recommend muvee since you can immediately get their product and try it out for a few weeks.

After uploading your desired pictures or images on the software, type in your positive affirmations then add your favorite music. You can find a lot of mind movies for reference on YouTube and Google. What’s fascinating about using a visualization movie like this is you can see your dreams, goals, and aspiration in FULL HD through moving, animated pictures with your favorite, inspiring music or song.

Ryan recommends you watch your mind movie once in the morning when you wake up and once in the evening before you go to sleep. What this does is program your subconscious mind to take inspired action to achieve your goals.

Some of the miracles Ryan has achieved using mind movies are getting out of a $70,000 debt, succeeding financially in business, meeting Jack Canfield in person to help spread Mind Movies to a larger audience by putting Jack’s picture in his mind movie and a whole lot more.

Some of the benefits I gained using mind movies are being popular with girls during college and YouTube marketing success.

Brainwave Entrainment: Meditation On Steroids

One of the most powerful technologies ever created is brainwave entrainment. It’s an mp3 recording you listen to when you meditate which trains your brain into a specific frequency. Here are the common-known brain wave frequencies:

Beta (13Hz – 30Hz) – Highly alert and focused

Alpha (8Hz – 12Hz) – Relaxed but alert

Theta (4Hz – 7Hz) – Drowsiness (also first stage of sleep)

Delta  (0.5Hz – 3Hz) – Deep sleep

Usually, brainwave recordings train your brain into the alpha state which is a relaxed but alert state where you can gain access to your inner genius. You can get a lot of out-of-this-world, out-of-the-box insights and ideas when you’re in this state of mind.

There are now a lot of brainwave entrainment programs which helps train the brain into the theta state which is believed to be a more powerful state than the alpha state. In the theta frequency, you have more access to your subconscious mind.

The main theory of brainwave entrainment is the brainwaves of successful people in business, spirituality, sports, and in other areas are vibrating at a certain frequency. If you want to achieve the same success as these people have, then you need to train your brain into those similar frequencies through brainwave meditation.

It’s also very helpful if you do your visualization and recite your affirmations when you’re in a higher frequency because your goals and wants will manifest quicker into your physical reality.

Use These Tools For Fun

As with any other process, make sure you are feeling good when you use any of these tools. If you feel negative any time while taking some these for a spin, it’s time to back off a little bit.

Like Abraham says, any process that feels good has value.

However, one thing you can do is learn to embrace what negativity you feel when you use any of these tools and realize that it’s only temporary. The truth is if you just keep using these tools consistently, you will get results and achieve your success.

It doesn’t matter if at the start, you don’t believe any of these tools work… do them anyway.

Take care and have an awesome day,
Fonzy Montenegro

Eckhart Tolle made a big headway with his New York Times # 1 Best-Selling book, The Power of Now. Since then, many people got into the whole idea of ‘being present and in the moment’ and got tremendous results as to how they feel everyday.

Many people reported that they felt at peace, whole, and at one with the universe. Popular world celebrities like Oprah and Jim Carrey also recommended the book and Eckhart’s teachings. And people from the seduction and dating industry adapted the concept of ‘being in the now’ to their inner game/mindset programs as an EFFECTIVE way to attract beautiful women or your ideal partner into your reality.

A lot of these dating gurus quote Eckhart Tolle, the Buddhist teachings, and other spiritual philosophies in their dating materials. It’s simply a fascinating concept to explore and it REALLY fits into any mindset program.

But what does being present mean?

I’d like to remind you of my disclaimer right now. What I’m going to share and explain to you regarding this concept is only my opinion based on my experiences, insights, practices, and applications of different methods that allow you to get into the state of presence. Here it goes…

Being present means experiencing that state where you realize that you are not your thoughts, feelings, and actions… you are that blank canvas underneath the variety of colors (a.k.a. thoughts, feelings, and actions). Let’s restate this in more simpler terms:

Being present is knowing that you’re not your thoughts, feelings, and actions.

You are in that experience of total peace and calmness and you might also experience a variety of positive thoughts and emotions. In this state of being, you are perfect, worthy, and enlightened in its truest sense. Now you might not be all-knowing in this state but you accept all that is. You accept who you really and currently are. You accept your past, your mistakes, and how imperfect and human you are… and you know that’s what makes you perfect. A paradox, right? Don’t worry, you’ll someday understand this on a deeper level so don’t fret if you’re confused right now.

Being present or in layman’s term, being in the moment, can actually be hard to experience at the beginning let alone maintain if you’ve never done any inner work before and it can really be challenging at times. But I promise you this, when you get to experience this… you will feel a sort of inner peace that you’re very familiar with. And you may realize that you’ve noticed this all along but never paid much attention to it. It is your natural state and it’s who you really are.

Presence In The Business Game

One perfect example of a businessman who practices the art of presence is multi-million dollar self-help guru, Mr. Jack Canfield.

Aside from using visualization and affirmations, Mr. Canfield uses meditation, The Sedona Method, EFT, and whole other variety of inner game techniques to bring himself to the powerful NOW. He states that just being in the present every moment and every day brings him inner peace and allows him to reach that feeling place of unconditional love.

Now is he always in the NOW? I doubt it but he’s there long enough to live a happy and fulfilling life right now while reaching for more. That’s right, just because you’re being present doesn’t mean you don’t care about the future.

Sure, you’ll still have goals, desires, and wants. Those make the universe expand but it’s very HELPFUL for you if you just focus on The Here and Now because it’s all there is. Too much emphasis on the future will bring you suffering because you keep noticing that what you want still hasn’t come. It’s a mental trap which can be hard to get out of.

In business, a lot of things can affect our emotional wellness like stress, business relationships, and fear of the unknown or uncertainty. The very best thing we can do to significantly reduce and eventually eliminate these things is to be present and trust that the law of attraction and the universe will take care of everything else. Our role is to just focus on things that feel good and we do this automatically by being present.

Negative thoughts and emotions just seem like butterflies passing through us and we don’t have to focus on them. We’ll just welcome them whole-heartedly and lovingly and let them stay for how long they want to stay.

After a while, you’re going to notice that they just don’t bother coming too often in your mind anymore because you’re in the Now.

As you get good at being present, you’re gradually become mentally, emotionally, physically, and spiritually strong. Things that bothered you in the past are just a piece of cake right now because you know all of this will pass and law of attraction is on your side.

Presence In Dating And Relationships

Well, I’m no relationship expert so I’ll only be sharing my insights, opinions, and experiences with being present when dating.

When you’re present and in the moment on a date, you usually do well; VERY well in fact. Why? Because you put all of your attention on the other person so you’re not just “talking to him/her” but “interacting with him/her”. Many gurus and conversation experts say the best conversationalists in the world are the best listeners and this is SO TRUE and ON KEY.

It’s not about what you say but how you listen to what the other person is saying. When you get better at listening, you’ll never run out of things to say because there’ll be endless topics to talk about. When everything comes to a silence, it will not bother you because you’re present. You’re not attached to anything but just being on a date with the other person.

Everybody wants to talk about themselves. When given the opportunity, they’ll babble right away and you’ll get to know them on a deeper level.

The most important thing that presence gives you when dating is being emotionally detached but open to any outcome. Basically, it means you’re not going to take anything seriously and you’re just going to have fun. I don’t mean being irresponsible but being spontaneous, charming, and smart.

When you’re in the moment, you’re actually more grounded in yourself and more confident in who you are without even thinking about it.

Now, How Does All Of This Relate To The LoA And Getting What I Want Fonzy?

Haha. Well, this is the part where I’ll serve my very special dish. Be prepared, it’s a good one. Hehehe. (Oh wait… I think I already mentioned this above or… you might already know where I’m going with this… oh well, bummer… so much for the surpresa [surprise]).

When you are present and in the moment, you are in auto-positive thinking and feeling mode. That’s it!

This is the secret to making the law of attraction work for you in every area of your life my friend. This is the true art… of.. allowing. Being present in the here and now is the state of allowing all the desires you’ve piled up in the vortex to come to you the most efficient and logical way possible… QUICKLY.

And unlike other methods of staying positive, this one really brings the whole house down. Of course you need other methods too like hypnosis, meditation, brainwave entrainment, The Sedona Method, EFT, etc. to help bring you into this beautiful state of presence.

It can take a little bit of time to be consistently present for a long time but it’s worth the wait. This is the big jackpot, the big goldmine, the place where the diamond rush happens, the pot of gold at the end of the rainbow, and the hidden treasure chest buried on an uncharted and mysterious island. THIS… IS… IT!

Earl Nightingale once said that all the great and worthwhile things in life are always there for free and The Here and Now is always here for you no matter what. It will never leave you and it will always wait for you. It will soothe you when you want it to and the best part is… IT DOESN’T COST YOU ANYTHING. You just have to practice getting and staying there a bit more.

Start small and gradually. Make this a daily habit. As I’ve said before, it only takes ONE SMALL CHANGE to make a big difference in your life in the long run. So decide to make this count. When you start to become more present in your everyday life, the benefits will be HUMUNGOUS!

When you’re present, you’ll realize that everything is alright, that life is good and easy. Getting what you want is easy. It has always been and it will always be.

Basking in his own presence everyday,
Fonzy Montenegro

For me, nothing is more ridiculous than the notion of competition or the idea of outsmarting other people to get what you want. This is very far from the truth.

A lot of companies (the ones I see in TV and movies at least) always advocate the idea of doing more than the competition. Oh, now I remember! I once received an email from a martial arts instructor who’s selling his DVDs online. He talked about how taking one little action a day will help him beat a competitor because of the compounded effect of that one little action.

While there is value in what he said (because I believe that it only takes one small change that’s consistently done to create a big change in the long run), I dislike his idea of beating someone just to get what he wants.

Why do many people believe that they have to compete and defeat someone just to get what they desire? Why can’t they get that there’s abundance for all of us? There’s no need to knock someone out just to get a bigger slice of the pie, the pie is getting bigger all the time and it’s getting bigger because of our desire for more.

Whenever we want more, the universe expands therefore increasing its capacity to accommodate more desires. This planet is freakin’ abundant that when you ask, it is ALWAYS given. What you wish, gets delivered to you on time, every time as long as you allow it (through feeling positive of course).

But why do several people still have this idea of competition?

Well, who knows? I can just speculate that it’s because of old teachings from the older generation and who can blame the older generation? They never had access to a plethora of self-improvement products like we do now. We’re all actually lucky today than ever before because a lot of teachers have surfaced to share what they actually know. There are a lot of perspectives out there that can cater to every taste.

A lot of the self-improvement materials I’ve encountered always said the same thing in one way or another, “If you miss an opportunity, there’s always another one coming so don’t worry about it and don’t EVER beat yourself up.”

There are a lot of marketers out there who think in terms of the scarcity mindset; that when an opportunity presents itself, immediately grab it or you’re going to lose it to someone else and it will take years before an opportunity presents itself again.

Seriously? Where do they get this stuff? Who cares if you miss one opportunity when there are trillions out there? In any one situation, there’s a TON of opportunities that are already just right for the picking… you just have to be in a state of mind where you can receive them.

It’s like how the television receives broadcast signals so it can display what you want to watch. You can never watch Cartoon Network when you’re tuning to CNN, you got to switch the channel. So receiving opportunities is exactly like that, you’ve got to switch your mindset.

Business, Competition, Analysis, And Abundance

Let me give you an example of how this idea of abundance and competition applies in business.

Let’s say Pedro (a Spanish name I think) owns a taco stall where he blows his customers’ mind by serving them a very tasty, filling, and satisfying taco. A lot of people come to eat at his stall every single day.

He decided to turn the stall into a small eatery. He expanded the stall by buying the surrounding area. He placed a lot of tables and chairs so his customers can enjoy his delicious tacos while comfortably sitting. He also recruited 3 helpers to help him serve people more efficiently.

Business expanded once again, this time he added more variety to his tacos so people can choose how they like their tacos to be done. Pedro also decided to hire a band with a beautiful, gorgeous female singer to entertain his customers while they eat.

Everything’s going along just fine until Juanito (Pedro’s long-time customer) decided to put up the same taco place just beside Pedro’s. He constructed a bigger eatery with lots of space and also recruited 10 helpers. Juanito also found 3 beautiful, gorgeous female singers and a band. To completely offer something different than Pedro’s place, he chose male and female helpers who look REALLY attractive and I’m talking GQ and FHM model-types here, my friend.

When Juanito’s eatery opened… BOOM! A lot of people really came and it became so jam-packed that other people had to wait in line outside and these folks were willing to wait because a lot of customers said the food was TERRIBLY delicious (or whatever that means).

Pedro was shocked at the new eatery’s instant success but reasoned out in his mind that it’s only at the start and his customers will come back to him because he gives TREMENDOUS value.

But as the months go by, Juanito’s success is still unwavering while Pedro’s business is gradually steering in the wrong direction. Pedro couldn’t take it anymore so he decided to talk to Juanito personally. Juanito decided to say yes to Pedro’s invitation so they went to a quiet café, began drinking, and talked.

Pedro was angry and demanded Juanito to either shut down his establishment or move to a different location because his business has been slowing down noticeably.

Juanito refused so Pedro angrily declared war.

Pedro used some of his significant savings to hire a marketing expert. Pedro heard from a close colleague and associate that this person has the “Midas Touch” quality or the ability to turn everything into gold (in mere practical terms, he has the ability to turn any venture into a success financially and in terms of reputation).

With the help of this expert, Pedro succeeded and beat Juanito’s eatery. The expert exploited Juanito’s weaknesses to outsell him. Eventually, Juanito had to close down and relocate. Pedro finally experienced a big sigh of relief because there’s no more competition and he can just earn the BIG profits. He paid the marketing expert everything they agreed upon and parted ways.

After a few months of thriving, Pedro saw that another taco eatery is taking over Juanito’s establishment. He was shocked and unpleasantly surprised that the one taking over is the marketing expert. He immediately confronted the expert and asked how he could do this to him. The expert just smiled and replied, “Then just beat me… if you can.” *chuckles*

Pedro went back to his eatery’s private office and was dumb-founded. Somehow, he noticed that there was a pattern here. The same thing happened again but now with a different person.

My Opinion

The idea that your competitor will steal your customers away if you don’t do something is pure B.S. You have to recognize that no one’s stealing away anything. It all depends on where your dominant vibration is.

If your dominant vibration is one of abundance, you will never ever lose any customers and income if another person competes with you with the same food and in the same area. Many of your customers might eat over at your competition’s and some of them may never come back but new people will come to you to take their place as long as you focus on feeling good or on the idea of financial abundance.

All you have to do is maintain your vibration through your focus, that’s all there is and it’s that simple. I’ve talked a lot about how to focus and maintain your positive vibe consistently in all of my previous posts so you might want to take a look at them.

Another thing that can help you eliminate the idea of competition is doing your passion. If you’re doing your passion (mine is cooking), I believe that you will never think of competing because all of you are learning how to do it more effectively and how to perfect your craft. Wait… delete perfect and replace it with improve. You can never perfect one thing because you can always improve it although you and the people around see it as perfect but it’s really not. There’s always more… and that’s what keeps this universe going forever… the expansion because of desiring more.

Remember, you never need to compete with everyone and if you encounter people who are smarter and better skilled than you… that’s okay. Learn from them if you can because successful CEOs always hire and listen to people who are more intelligent, experienced, and better skilled than they are and that’s why they succeed.

Instead of holding the idea of competition or the idea of someone beating you, think of it like this… all of us are unique (even our companies are unique or different from one another). We all have something to offer that’s never found anywhere else because it’s ours, it’s unique to us and only we can offer it to other people. So instead of trying to outsell and outsmart somebody else, let’s think of collaborating or the idea of working with each other to make more money.

As my old French teacher used to say, “Don’t think of beating other people, if you could just work together… you would achieve more success and make more money.”

I do believe in what he said and he was so wildly successful financially and he migrated to Australia with his family. He has a very nice life and I’m happy that I met a person who doesn’t believe in competition.

Just focus on yourself and what you have to offer and keep in mind that how much you earn doesn’t depend on what other people do… it’s all about your vibration or mindset towards money and abundance.

Until then… take care,
Fonzy Montenegro

Hi friend. I wanted to take a break from writing about the law of attraction for a bit and branch out to general success and personal development.

The topic for today is about learning how to save money so you feel more secure. Budgeting is all about feeling smart.

Let’s get down to the basic principles of smart budgeting:

1) Save at least 1 percent of your income.

Yes, you heard that right… just one MEASLY percent a month will save you a lot of troubles and headaches in the long-run. But you might say, “But Fonzy, that’s SO small!” Well, it might seem small but it’s better than nothing. What we are doing here is building up your savings in the easiest and most doable way possible. Who can’t save 1 percent a month? If you’re having trouble with this (I did too so that’s okay), you might want to take a look at your mindset.

Of course in the long-term, we would like to save at least 10% of our monthly income. But that will all start with just saving 1 MEASLY percent a month, then when you feel comfortable saving 1 percent a month, increase it to 2 percent until you reach 10%.

We are building a lifetime habit here so starting with a small amount DOES matter.

2) Think about and love saving.

When we get into the idea of budgeting, we usually think it’s hard work, involves a lot of self-control, sacrifice, and it’s difficult. However, that is far from the truth. It can be easy once you get your focus on the concept of ease (more on this in just a minute). Saving money can cause you to like yourself more and you get to feel more responsible.

Instead of thinking about reducing your expenses… think of saving money. You got to learn how to LOVE saving money because it makes you feel more in control of your finances and your life. Saving money makes you feel boldly confident about what you are capable of as a human being.

When you get into the habit and mindset of saving money, you find less reasons to buy unnecessary things just for the fun of it. You begin thinking… in the long-run.

3) Postpone for 30 days.

When you see or imagine something you would like to buy, don’t act on it. Chances are, these are only short-term impulses which will lead you nowhere and only destroy your chances of saving money. Instead postpone buying it for 30 days. When you postpone making a purchase for 30 days, you won’t feel the need to buy it anyways or if ever you decide to buy it… you’ll make a much better decision than immediately acting on your impulse to buy it ASAP.

Those are the basic principles you have to remember when buying stuff and managing your money.

The Mindset Of Money-Making: Saving Is Key

Every successful person on this planet knows the essence and importance of saving money. It doesn’t mean sacrificing anything but… just saving for the sake of saving. I mean saving money is a joy, never a chore. There’s something about it that FEELS REALLY GOOD! Every successful money-maker in the world realize the importance of managing money to support their personal lifestyle. And once you GET this, you will flow with delight in all matters involving money. Why? Because you know deep inside that you can earn and most importantly, keep money.

Basically, it means no more struggling to get your finances in order. All it requires is a relaxed, consistent willingness to focus on the idea of “I love saving.” Remember, RELAXED FOCUS. No pushing, no forcing.

My Own Story Of Budgeting

When I was in grade school and high school, I was one of the most budget-conscious people you could ever meet. My dad always gave me a daily allowance of 10 Saudi Riyals (around 3 dollars) and it was a big deal for me back then because I could buy a lot of cheap snacks with it but… I chose to save it. Somehow, the habit of saving got through me and I don’t know how or when it happened but I just saved without consciously thinking my way through it.

When I got into college, I didn’t have the urge to keep my allowance any longer. I would spend around 80% of it within the first 2 weeks of receiving it from my parents. I just had an uncontrollable urge to buy a lot of cool things back then and I also had a girlfriend so I thought I needed to spend to enjoy. Boy, that was a bit destructive on my pockets .

Since I graduated college and started this blog, I realized how valuable the skill of saving is. It is imperative that you also realize this because it will help you for the rest of your life. You can quit any job you’re in or confidently close any business you’re doing because you have savings.

Now, my life is better. I feel at ease everyday because I know how to save.

Spend 3% On Yourself

When using your money to spend something, always make sure to spend 3 percent of your income on improving yourself. Buy self-help books, DVDs, audios, or even enroll in a coaching program. Honestly, if you want to really boost your results immediately… get a law of attraction coach. That’s what I did and I realized that a coach really helps you get to a certain level QUICKLY because he or she sees how you are limiting yourself and you may not even be aware of it.

I spend a lot of time listening to audio programs by Brian Tracy and it’s always a joy to do so. I find his insights and wisdom fascinating and very practical. It is easy to achieve your goals once you know what to do and how to do it. Get rid of the idea of struggling or sacrifice when soaking up self-improvement materials, just RELAX. The authors never meant to say that you should kill yourself just to get what you want, all their knowledge should be taken in the context and attitude of ease and extreme relaxation. Just like what Bob Proctor said, “You don’t have to slow down, you have to CALM DOWN.” And getting this is really key. Just feel relaxed when applying any self-help information… remember, EASE AND FLOW is key.

The Magic Of Energy And The Art Of Allowing

Okay, somehow I ended up talking about the law of attraction again… oh well.., good old habits die hard .

So let’s talk about your energy and how it can affect your budgeting process. If you’re in a tight situation because you tend to spend more than save, there’s probably an energy block within you that needs to get cleared.

To clear it, you only need to focus on feeling good. That’s it. When you focus on feeling good or on a particular subject that feels good to you like your slim body… even though it’s unrelated to saving, the energy blocks will clear up because you are focusing on a higher vibration. That’s all it takes, my friend.

Everything in life is a direct reflection of your inner world. Brian Tracy calls this the “Law of Correspondence” which states that your outer world is an accurate, 100 percent reflection of your inner world. So if you don’t like something in your life, focus on your inner world or energy and you will find out that everything around you starts to change because you worked on yourself.

This clearing of energy is an important part in the art of allowing (or the art of focusing on positive feelings) so you make your energy flow through you easily and effortlessly. And what’s excellent about this is there’s no end to improving the smooth flow of universal energy through you.

Let the chi flow through you and accept it with every fiber of your being and with every vein in your body. Let your blood flow with your chi.

Let everything… be… natural.

Explosion Of Tai Chi In China For Businessmen

In China and Hong Kong, many people especially businessmen… practice the art of Tai Chi. Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese form of martial art. It helps the practitioner relax and get into the flow of this thing called life so things just get much smoother for him everyday. Tai Chi practitioners are actually very healthy people and they seem to be much calmer and patient so everything goes their way and they FEEL it in their body.

For bakeshop and noodle shop owners, it helps them in the zone of pure, positive creativity which helps them GIVE GREAT AND TREMENDOUS VALUE to their customers. Just by being able to focus on being ease and calm (raising their energy), they become highly creative and making delicious food to eat just gets easier for them. It’s like they have this inner knowing that they can do good to this world through cooking or baking delicious things.

Ever wonder how a not-so-great-looking eatery last for several years or decades? It’s because in one way or another, the owners of these eateries know that they give GREAT VALUE to their customers so, since they have this deep and firm knowing (an energy thing), they attract the right people to their place and EARN from them. This is how they get lifetime customers.

Okay, Okay… That’s Great, Tai Chi Or Whatever But How Does That Help Me Save Some ‘Dough’, Fonzy?

Well, it’s simply like this. When you get your energy lined up, the universe will present people, places, events, circumstances, and opportunities where you can save money. It’s just like that. It’s almost like magic actually but it’s only magic because we currently can’t explain it in a more scientific and logical way but that’s how it works.

Tai Chi is a great way to get your energy lined up with what you want which in this case is saving some ‘dough’ or cash, the BIG KA-CHING! Practicing this daily can improve your energy circulation and your chi accumulation (yes, we do accumulate chi… this is what many chi users term as ‘Acquired Chi’) so you move more in the direction of TREMENDOUS ease and delight.

Of course, practicing Tai Chi is never enough. You have to consciously (I mean this in a relaxed way… stop trying, there is no try… there is only ease and flow) focus on the feeling of ease and flow or any other positive emotions. Once you master this (which doesn’t take very much time at all… that’s law of attraction for you), you will move through life with ease and delight (did I just repeat this somewhere above?? Anywhoo, it’s SO important) and you’ll realize that you are worthy to be loved.

The ‘Biggie’ In Budgeting

As you might’ve guessed up to this point, the ‘biggie’ or most important thing in budgeting is… your… MINDSET or subconscious energy flow. To start budgeting effectively, you must have the mindset of loving to save money. Without that eagerness, desire, or willingness to save money, budgeting will become a problem for you because you’ll try so hard to reduce expenses and cut costs. If you fail, you’ll beat yourself up which is VERY, VERY destructive and I don’t recommend you do this to yourself. Failing is just a phase and because it’s just a phase, it will pass by quickly and you’ll easily move into success.

Mindset will get you there on time, every time… no exceptions.

Loves saving money,
Fonzy Montenegro

Ramble Alert: Warning! This post has a lot of rambles in it but rest assured… you will find value in my rambles.

Applying the Law of Attraction means mastering ease and flow. It can take a little bit of work, persistence, and discipline to achieve this but when you practice it more, it becomes easier and you won’t need hard work anymore. Hard work is simply a crutch you use in becoming adept in the path of least resistance. There will come a time when you won’t need to push yourself anymore and you’ll just go with the flow.

The major issue many people encounter in applying positive thinking is they are actually not thinking positive. They are just using “positive-sounding” words and they are also feeling some form of resistance when using these kind of words. The best way to know if you have some resistance when you’re positively thinking is noticing how you feel when you use a positive word. Does it feel that you’re resisting even though the word you’re using is positive?

If it does, dig a little deeper on what’s causing that negative emotion or resistance. For example:

When you say you want to earn X number of dollars per month, notice how you feel. Does it feel like you’re pushing against or resisting something? If you do feel a slight negative emotion, ask yourself why you feel this way (and don’t worry because you will be able to answer that question… this is actually an amazing process in learning the art of allowing).

You might say, “It’s because I don’t want to feel like a loser.” Now this will tell that you’re actually not focusing on what you want but on what you don’t want.

See how b**chy positive thinking can be? This was actually an eye-opener for me when I discovered this. So that’s why the things I want never came even though there were already a lot of evidences popping up in my physical reality that what I want is coming. I was UNKNOWINGLY slowing myself down. Seriously, this was such a huge bummer.

So if you ask me what methods I can recommend, I recommend this process along with hypnosis or meditation. Hypnosis really opened up my mind and whole awareness to receive this new process. It’s such a powerful tool and it really cuts through the lies because using it requires honesty… PURE, RAW, NO-B.S. HONESTY WITH YOURSELF!

My Own Natural Element: The Feeling Place Of Ease

Throughout my life, I’ve experienced a lot of hard times. I don’t mean financially because my father is a hard worker and my mother is a master budgeter. I mean a lot of negative feelings about how stupid I was, how unworthy I was, how other kids had fairer skin and were more good-looking than me, etc. The list was endless. I didn’t feel I was enough. Although my parents were really well-meaning people when they scolded me, looking back now… they were also handling their own issues, it took a toll on me back then and I tried so hard to push it down to my subconscious mind in a desperate attempt to forget it.

I unknowingly set myself up for sabotage in the future. I beat myself up for every mistake (even trivial ones) I made. I was frustrated because life seemed so hard even though I was studying at an international school abroad. I guess in hindsight, deep down I wished for ease. I wanted everything to be easy for me. I wanted to just flow and love and play and enjoy and really FEEL GOOD.

From the moment I started personal development (sifting through a lot of data) until now, I realized that my natural state… is EASE. It’s my natural element or attribute. Ever watched animated ninja or shaolin shows where each of the heroes have their own element like fire, water, wind, and lightning? I do believe each of us has their own (and it’s highly subjective or maybe not…dunno) attribute and mine is EASE and DELIGHT.

It’s so amazing when you get to realize who you really are and how you should feel every moment and every minute of everyday. Your duty and never-ending work is to focus on your own positive attribute if you want all the things you want to come into your life much faster.

The Self-Help Industry: I’m Proud To Be In This Community

You know what? It feels good to be in the self-help industry especially in the law of attraction niche. Why? Because the possibilities are endless. Each year there are a lot of new programs coming out; new books with amazing and professional covers with inspiring and motivating information, new CDs, new DVDs, new packages… just everything new. A lot of new people are coming out with unique perspectives and new ways of guiding us into exploring who we really are and what we really want. This is so amazing. It’s just fantastic!

I DEEPLY and INTENSELY and PASSIONATELY and GRATEFULLY believe that entering this industry is the best thing that ever happened in my life. I like to think it was destiny that brought me here and it’s good to know that everything’s just working out fine in my life. I love myself AND… I just love myself.

I could only say praises about the self-help industry because it caused a huge chunk of the world’s population to find answers they were searching for in their entire lives. Through the guidance of a number of magnificent people who became the leaders of this explosive and fascinating movement, many people became more confident, more secure, more assured, more successful and happier.

The Feeling Place Of Abundance: The Law of Attraction And The Universe Is Abundance Itself

Abundance is our natural state, it has always been. We’ve just been trained during our early childhood years that there’s only so much to go around and rich people are only the ones getting richer every year.

It’s time for us to let go of this debilitating and limiting belief. The world right now or rather, the energy of this world right now is rapidly changing. It’s shifting to a more positive, higher vibrational point and you don’t want to get left behind. It’s very easy to change your focus nowadays because there are a lot of new and advanced tools you can use to change how you vibrate (feel) on every area of your life.

We live in an exciting time, my friend. We have more access to technologies, tactics, methods, processes, strategies, techniques, and philosophies than ever before. We are living in a world where there is much political and economic stability. Overall, everything’s going well. It is now up to you (well, it always has been) to change your life and get what you desire. The universe will support you (it always does), you just need to seek its help.

Hard work is only the starting point, it’s just a phase. It will bring you success but eventually you’ll want to get into the ease and flow of this abundant life.

Abundance doesn’t need hard work (struggling and sacrifice), it requires consistent focus until it becomes your dominant (unconscious) vibration.

Everything will go well with you…

Reinstatement Of Ease And Flow: Gradual “Un-Reliance” On Hard Work

Gradually, more and more people are realizing that ease and flow is FAR more effective and easier than hard work. The only hard work required is learning to focus consistently on a positive feeling or emotion. That’s all you need to do.

Is it so simplistic that you want to dismiss it? Well, you can dismiss it and believe that struggling and sacrifice is necessary to get what you want. That’s okay too. It’s all about what you want to do and feel.

But take note, there is a large shift going on in this world. Ease and Flow (our natural process to get what we want) is slowly but surely getting back in the game. Hard work is starting to pack its bags to depart on a permanent vacation. It has done its part. It’s now just adding the finishing touches and setting everything up so the world’s transition to Ease and Flow will be smooth.

Everything will go well… EVERYTHING.

Sailing Smoothly To Ease And Delight… With Abundance

I imagine a world where people are firm believers of the all-powerful, almighty natural universal law, the Law of Attraction. I see a world where every people deeply know their inner greatness and their capacity to create and manifest what they want into their physical reality. Manifestation will just be child’s play.

I want the younger generation to benefit from the Law of Attraction. Imagine a world without fear, without doubt, without frustration, with negativity ONLY serving as a means to stimulate new ideas for further expansion of the universe, and with people coaching and guiding each other to a higher level of vibration.

Seeing a credible, reputable, and great hypnotherapist or attending meditation and spiritual classes will never be too expensive for anyone…. why? Because everyone has the money to pay for those things. I see a world where everyone places great importance in self-growth.

No more jails, no more courts of law, no more breach of contracts, no more war, no more arguments and disagreements y’know… JUST PURE LOVE FOR EACH OTHER.

Everyone will be sailing their own ship smoothly towards the bright horizon of their desires.

Focus And Concentration: The Key Element In Shifting Your Feeling Place To That Of Ease And Abundance

There has never been a period of time in the history of this world where focus and concentration are more important than ever. In this time, in our generation… we have got to improve these two areas so we get what we want. By improving these two areas, you will exponentially improve your manifestation skills to the extreme. That’s the only real work we have to do as spiritual beings in a human body to make this life work for us.

Just like how a concentrated laser can cut thru steel, your ability to focus can get you where you want to be faster. All it takes is consistent effort to shift your emotional energy.

There are 3 things you can do to improve your focus and concentration. I’ve mentioned these tools over and over again in almost all of my lengthy posts and I will mention them again. Why? Because they GREATLY helped me open up to my current level of awareness. If I didn’t consistently use these tools for months, opportunities wouldn’t have opened up for me.

But why should I really mention it again… seriously?

Because I REALLY want you to get this. I WANT to help you get where you want to be FASTER and these tools will help get you there… seriously.

Here are the top 3 things you can do:

1) Focus on a single positive feeling that you want. You can remember something or generate a mental image to generate this positive emotion. Then focus on it every moment and every minute of everyday. It can be hard at first, but with practice… it will get MUCH EASIER.

2) Listen to a hypnosis recording or see a qualified and credible hypnotherapist. If there’s one tool that helped me open up my mind to possibilities, it’s hypnosis. I’m a big believer in its power and ability to change your life.

3) Practice meditation. This is a proven way to expand and open up your mind to find greater joy in everything you do. You can even amp it up by listening to brainwave entrainment CDs.

The Ending

I realize this post might be too long than what I usually do but I’m sure there is value in it. I hope this post helps you out or inspire you to do a lot of good in this world. You never have to struggle or sacrifice anything to get where you want to be. Just improve your focus and feel that feeling place of ease… and abundance.

Staying in the feeling place of ease and delight everyday,
Fonzy Montenegro

We all have heard from the gurus especially Abraham-Hicks that you never have to force your way out to take action. Just feel good… inspired action is the right way. Taking action out of desperation and struggle will only be ineffective at most and depressing at the least.

Well the question is… do we all have the same definition of motivation? For the entity known as Abraham, motivation means struggle. It’s like pushing yourself self REALLY HARD to take action; slapping yourself, torturing yourself, and getting angry at yourself so you can take action. But is this all necessary? Nope. Is this really the standard meaning of motivation?

Fortunately not. As human beings or spiritual individuals, each with a variety and unique way of thinking and perceiving things… nope. Motivation for many of us doesn’t mean struggling. It means being alive, passionate, and blazing with fiery desire to take action or make things happen. Take note of the feeling… it’s POSITIVITY, OPTIMISM, and JOY.

Motivation for me personally is having the ability to set your desire ablaze to take MASSIVE ACTION towards what you want. It is a positive way of aligning your energy with the power that creates worlds and channeling it to physical action. Now the key thing to remember about this is taking action WHEN YOU WANT TO. That’s is the key and essential part of motivation.

When you can’t get motivated, it tears you apart and you don’t feel good which means you’re not allowing the Universe to bring more good into your life. You should be able to take action when you want to because when you’re able to do this… YOU FEEL GOOD. You feel disciplined, focused, worthy, and amazing.

Hard work is still necessary in making the law of attraction and allowing work in your life. Changing how you think still requires work, changing how you feel still requires work, and finally, getting the results you want still requires work. But work IS FUN.

You have to let go of all the old beliefs like you have to struggle to get what you want. No, no, no! Seriously man… that sucks… BIG TIME!

Hard work should be fun and it should also feel GOOD. The sweet taste of accomplishment and discipline will drive you forward. Hard work DOESN’T MEAN KILLING YOURSELF! Hard work is good, it’s what made us progress into the society and technology we have today. We live in a glorious time of abundant opportunities and unlimited peace. Don’t like where you live right now? Study the law of attraction, set goals, and work hard! That’s all there is to it.

The Fallacies Of Hard Work And Discipline: Ding! Ding! Misunderstandings And Misinterpretations

Hard work has been overstated, underrated, and misunderstood in the law of attraction niche. A lot of people entering this industry and philosophy think all they have to do is visualize, affirm, program their subconscious mind, and that’s it! WRONG! WRONG!

Try to follow in their footsteps and you will be setting yourself up for failure. While programming the subconscious mind will DEFINITELY rewire the way you think, feel, and behave… it does take time like months before you see any significant change although there are many people who get the change they want in weeks, they are the exception not the rule.

Generally speaking, you still need hard work and discipline (meaning consistent burning desire, focus, determination, dedication, commitment, and action) but of course… when you master your emotions, that’s where all the good stuff happens like automatic action.

Many masters in the law of attraction niche say that hard work isn’t necessary… in fact they don’t advocate it. But what do they actually mean? They mean DON’T KILL YOURSELF JUST TO GET WHAT YOU WANT. Don’t take any action that stresses you severely and think depressing thoughts like “I have to do this or I’ll die”. Well that may be a little bit too extreme but you get the drift, don’t you?

Now there are a lot of old school personal development teachers that say hard work and discipline will get you to where you want to be. A lot of people who adopt this philosophy also make the mistake of interpreting this as you have to struggle to get what you want. See the big mistake again? No, no, no…. not again.

What these teachers are implicitly saying is always keep your emotion in check when working hard. When you feel stressed out, back off a little bit… relax and go with the flow. That doesn’t mean you’re slowing down, it just means you’re calming down while still taking action. I don’t blame these type of people if they believe struggle is necessary because as beginners to success philosophy, they just take words as they are. They haven’t learned how to read between the lines yet.

You got to feel and sense what the old school philosophy is actually saying. This may take time and a little bit of practice but eventually you’ll get a general sense or idea of how things work when you diligently and consistently apply what you learn.

My Own Story Of Misinterpreting Hard Work: You’re Not Alone, I Also Misunderstood This A While Ago

Now it may seem that I never experienced this confusion and misunderstanding myself however, that’s very far from the truth. The only reason why I could write paragraphs about this issue in learning and mastering the art of allowing is because I also misinterpreted this a while back.

My first experience with this setback was with a dating product I bought in 2008. I bought too much into the sales page about how it could turbo-charge my life when it comes to meeting women. I had the idea of becoming that suave, charismatic, charming, irresistible, and alpha guy just by buying the book. Well to my dismay, it turned out that it was challenging to implement the techniques (although very sound) and I had to put in a lot of effort. Man, that was a bummer… seriously.

So I thought that was such a let down so I got a refund (which I recommend you don’t do unless you truly tried the techniques and find out it doesn’t work) and went on to find another dating product. After having tried a lot of ‘technique-and-tactic-based” products, I’ve come across a product which teaches ‘inner game’ or the mindset-based approach to dating. Then I thought to myself, “So this is why things haven’t worked so far. This is it! This is the magic bullet!”

So I bought and downloaded it… then to my dismay again, it required dedication, hard work, and focus on a consistent and regular basis to implement the ‘mind’ tools I read. Again, it sucked on top of it being a bummer. Why can’t things be so easy?

Then I got trapped into that cycle for many months until I decided that I wasn’t going anywhere with this area of my life and I also realized that I needed to become financially independent. So in this chapter of my life, I learned about hypnosis, subliminals, brainwave entrainment, visualizations, affirmations, mind movies, subliminal software, EFT, The Sedona Method, The Release Technique, Yoga, short but intense physical training exercises, cardio, and a TON of things. Though I got some great results with it, I never stuck with any of it for 6 months. I realized that it still required hard work, discipline, focus, dedication, and consistent practice.

I ‘knew’ that if I just do one method for a long period of time like 6 months, even without believing that it will work, I will get what I want or at the very least a huge chunk of it. But I still didn’t do it. I never believed in working hard deep inside. “Hard work sucks”, I thought to myself when I felt really depressed and powerless.

After experimenting with subliminals for a period of time, I was introduced to the teachings of Abraham-Hicks.

The Glory Days: Excitement, Passion, And Intense Eradication Of The Idea Of Working Hard

This was so fun! I felt really awesome! I don’t have to work hard at all! All I have to do is just feel good and the action will follow. These are some of the emotions and thoughts I experienced when I listened to Abraham-Hicks on YouTube. I even bought Abe’s (short for Abraham) meditation recordings and they were really great. When I really focused on mastering my emotions, everything changed… seriously.

I could attract at least $30 a week which got me $200 in just a month (Clickbank stats!  To all of you CB marketers out there, y’know what I’m talkin’ about.. hehe) without doing any physical action in my business. It was so amazing and cool! I felt my belief in the power of the Abe teachings in my life. I watched a lot of videos of Abraham speaking live and the message was so powerful that it somehow stuck into my subconscious mind and until this day, I have a clearer understanding of the message they’re reminding me of. The message that life is supposed to be fun, exhilarating, and good overall.

One particular video that captured my attention was about a businesswoman who owns a company together with her husband. She said ever since she and her husband applied Abe’s teachings, they have doubled their income. She seemed very ‘passionate’ and ‘hard-working’ to me but I thought, “I don’t have to be as serious as her. Action is not necessary in the art of allowing.”

That video demonstrated to me how powerful and practical the Abe teachings are when… APPLIED CORRECTLY.

My Mistake: Reflection And Redemption

As I was applying Abraham’s teachings and listening to their (that’s right… Abe is a group of pure positive, non-physical teachers) meditation recordings everyday (I never missed a day in 5 months), I became more and more frustrated as it came to the 5-month mark. I was wondering why haven’t things picked up to where I want them to?

Although there were a lot of small evidences showing up that my desires are on their way into physical reality, I was still bummed. I already paid my dues by listening to the meditation mp3 and thinking positive for months. Why haven’t things picked up?

After a while, I decided to listen to a hypnosis mp3 from a brand new company. I slowly ditched the meditation recordings. It was a hypnosis session about getting natural confidence. After I listened to it the first time, IT WAS SO DARN EFFECTIVE!

So I thought, maybe hypnosis is the way for me. Let’s try this one too.

Fast forward to today, in reflection… I think the Abe teachings was the most amazing thing that happened in my life as it allowed me to live life with ease and delight. However, I neglected the subconscious mind. I realized that when working with yourself, you can never forget the subconscious mind or else… you will surely slow your growth down. The conscious mind and subconscious mind must be in complete alignment and harmony so you get what you desire.

The issue with me when applying Abe’s teachings was… I never stuck to one thing at a time. I played with the Find a Better-Feeling Thought process for 3 days then the Getting Into The Vortex for 4 days, etc. Seriously… learn from my mistake, my friend.

Choose one process and play with it for 6 months. If you feel that you’re starting to become tense with the process, back off a little bit from it. Maybe don’t use it for a few days then use again when you feel you’re ready… you’ll just know it when you’re ready, trust me. ;D

The Importance Of Hard Work: It’s All About How You Feel

I recognized that one of my best qualities was being a hard worker. NO MATTER what the circumstances were in school, I always got high grades and got praised for it when I didn’t give up and just did my best. This is a great quality to have and this is a part of me, I’ve got to accept it.

I know you’re probably a hard worker too; a person who just get things done on his own pace like me. When we entered this self-help industry and got introduced to the concept of taking baby steps and letting go of working too hard, we misinterpreted it to mean avoid taking action. Many of us had the ‘black-and-white thinking” syndrome when we started self-help, it’s all good… we learn from our mistakes and we grow out of them. Then when we avoided taking action, we felt like a slacker and it sucked a.k.a. it did not feel good. But we can’t just take action because we may make a mistake or maybe the action we’ll take isn’t what the Universe has in mind for us.

From what I’ve learned, it’s all about how you see it actually. Let me break it down to ya:

If in the past, you felt good when you worked hard… never dismiss it. Apply the LoA but continue working hard. It is one of your best traits and I believe it will pave the way to the path of mastering effortless physical action.

It doesn’t matter if it seems like you’re forcing yourself, who cares!? As long as you feel good while working hard, that’s all that matters… FEELING GOOD.

If however, working hard was never your thing… you’ll be glad to know that you can achieve success while taking it easy. You can just let the action come to you. We all have different paths in life and if one thing isn’t working for you, try another one. That’s all there is to it.

Remember… working hard (not killing yourself to take action) in its truest vibrational sense is one of the greatest inheritance that the old generation from the Industrial Period passed onto us. There is nothing wrong with working hard, let me repeat… there is nothing wrong with working hard as long as you feel good about doing it. I believe that we must cultivate it and tweak it to suit this current age of communication.

So Is Motivation A Form Of Inspired Action?

Well obviously, since we both got to this point, the answer is an overwhelming and resounding YES! In fact, I dare say motivation IS inspired action.

Inspired action can come from a variety of emotions like being passionate, knowledgeable, logical, peaceful, grateful, excited, appreciative, etc.

In my opinion, motivation is not struggling or pushing. It’s allowing the energy that creates worlds to flow in a rushing, rapid manner through you and it manifests in the form of hard work which is triggered by motivation (which is a result of allowing the energy that creates worlds flow through you).

It’s definitely okay to motivate yourself, there’s nothing wrong with that as long as you feel good. That’s all that matters.

Day by day, it’s becoming clearer to me that using the word ‘motivation’ is okay even when I’m talking with hardcore Abe followers. It’s alright… it feels good.

Motivation is scorching hot, passionate, powerful, manly, dark, mystical, fiery, blazing and EXPLOSIVE! Taking massive action is definitely okay as long as you still feel good (and it’s a proven way to achieve what you want when combined with the success mindset).

Everything… is all good.

Working hard while feeling good everyday,
Fonzy Montenegro

We all fall in love with that one person, don’t we?

There’s just something about him or her that makes us feel complete. We love to be with that person forever. It feels like we could just give everything we have to that one person and live happily ever after.

That’s falling in love for you… but is happily ever after real? Does it exist? Can I just love one person passionately forever till death do us part? Does soul mates exist and if they do, how come I can’t find him or her?

Before I answer your questions my friend, let me take you way back in high school when I was just… oh well, not that good with understanding the mechanics and art of dating.

Oh Kristine, My Love

WARNING! WARNING! SUPER MUSHY STORY COMING UP!

There was a girl named Kristine (not her real name of course… well… it is part of her real name… haha) who I really adored in high school. She was a year older than me (I’ve always had the hots for older women ) and she was so fine.

I could think about her all day and about how we could be together after college. I also thought of marrying her.

She would really show interest in me. In our school, there was a large Face To Face Duo Swing Seat. After our classes, we would sit there and talk about stuff.

Just being with her face-to-face was really great! I was a bit nervous but calm when talking to her. It was really awesome. She had this long black hair, pretty face, fair skin, kissable and loveable pink lips, and awesome personality that all go well with her school uniform. It was like magic for me.

To make the long story short, I was into her and she was into me. There were many more things that happened between me and her that was so epic for me and I’ll be telling more of them in future posts but to summarize all of it… did we end up together…?

Nope.

Why?

I had a lot of subconscious and conscious limiting beliefs and I never knew about the success mindset, subconscious mind, and the law of attraction back then.

I was a realist.

I thought my reality was just that and there’s nothing I can do about it.

Now that I know about these laws and concepts of the universe, would I still go for her?

Of course not! You’re askin’ me that seriously???

Now that I know what I know, I’m going to shoot for the stars and pick any lady I want in my reality (with the attitude of loving her deeply, truly, madly, passionately, and the intention of marrying her and staying with her forever).

The Concept of Dating, Relationships, And Happily Ever After

What do we all want?

Well, we all want different things but fundamentally… we want to love and be loved because it feels so freakin’ cool and amazing and exhilarating and breath-taking and… and… and… amazing! ;D

But for many of us, when we bought into the concept of being nice to a woman/man and being there for her/him when she/he needs us… that’s where we got our heart broken.

They either cheated on us, replaced us, or dumped us (basically sh**ty stuff).

“What was wrong?? Why did she/he do that to me?”

Then we experienced some more of that until we ‘subconsciously’ believed that happily ever after doesn’t exist. Even if we think consciously that we believe in it, our heart doesn’t believe it anymore because it got broken so many times and on top of that… we’re not even aware of it.

So we might play the game of promiscuousness. We find someone we like and get into bed with her/him then find another (there’s nothing wrong with this actually because you can have great relationships with many people but you do have to clearly know who you really are and what you really want).

But often… what we really want is someone to hold, to love, to embrace, to experience the joy of life with, to have children with him/her, and to grow old with her/him (in my opinion this can be fun but you don’t have to look and act like very old people… seriously… remove this from your head).

But it doesn’t seem possible to you… you already played this game and you know that you have to hold back, be aloof, be cool, be able to push-and-pull, etc.

But what you really want is to love like in the old days; like how a knight loves a lady, the art of chivalry, Romeo and Juliet style, and the idea of loving forever.

Do you have to play the promiscuous game just to get into a relationship? Can’t you just love without restraints? Be silly as much as you want, be playful as much as you want, be uncool as much as you want… you know… just being yourself??

Authenticity And The Law Of Attraction

This where authenticity comes into play. As long you’re being authentic, you can just be yourself and be so irresistibly attractive. You’re coming from a place of congruency, brutal honesty, and power. Basically, as long as you’re okay being silly and uncool (on a subconscious level)… you will still be attractive and loveable to the opposite sex.

As long as you subconsciously believe that you’re going to find someone special and live happily ever after, you will.

Whatever the subconscious mind believes, the law of attraction creates events, places, brings people, and circumstances to give you evidence that the belief is real.

Soul Mates And The Law Of Attraction

Do you want to find your soul mate? Do you want to believe in the concept or idea of soul mates but you are having an issue believing it?

Never fear, the law of attraction is here!

What does having a soul mate or believing in its concept make you feel? Good, right? Just focus on that feeling and eventually you will find evidences (usually small at first before it grows into a snowball then into an avalanche) that will support your feeling.

It’s always about the feeling and emotions, my friend.

Does Happily Ever After Exist?

Yes, I believe so. Anything the mind can conceive… it can achieve. Believe in what you want so deeply and intensely that it makes a subconscious impression on your mind. And you will know it’s working because you will start to see evidences proving that your vibration is changing.

The thing you see in movies, fairy tales, and old stories can be yours too; it can be real in your reality because you are worthy of it. You are a powerful spiritual being made from pure love. You are beautiful, majestic, enchanting, interesting, charismatic, and creative. You are magical, spiritual, and mesmerizing… you are! You are! You are!

Never believe other people (even your family and closest friends) when they say something you want is impossible because they are only saying what they believe to be true based on their experiences and other people’s opinion. But you are not them, your experiences will be different because you have the innate ability and power to choose and create your own reality.

And seriously… they have never studied spiritual philosophies like the Law of Attraction.

But What If She/He Has A Boyfriend/Girlfriend?

Well, pick another one… seriously (saying this word is slowly becoming a habit of mine… seriously ).

From my perspective, why would I go and break up a relationship?

Even if we reason out that she is not happy with her boyfriend, what’s it to me? Why should I enter another guy’s domain? Why should I covet my neighbor’s wife (in this case, girlfriend)?

There are a lot of beautiful, hot, sexy, and single women out there just waiting for you, my friend; SINGLE women who are craving for love, passion, and an exciting monogamous relationship with a special guy. Be that special guy, my friend. Be her soul mate, be her secret lover, be her man, be her Mr. Right.

Love her dearly with all your heart.

I Do Want To Love Her With All My Heart Forever… But I Doubt That I Can Make It Last… What Should I Do?

Well if you doubt it, congratulations!

What??! Why would you congratulate me, Fonzy? I’m a sitting duck here, confused and all…

Well because you are now aware of a limiting belief you have in your vibration… and awareness is the first step to changing something in yourself; something within you.

Realize that your doubt is just a limiting belief you picked up somewhere. No problemo amigo… just change it.

Choose to believe that you can make it last, that you can love her passionately and deeply forever. Choose to believe every moment, every day. When you doubt, accept or embrace that doubt fully because it is a part of you. Then when you feel okay, choose to believe and feel that you can be with her forever… that both of you are fated lovers and that… together… both of you will always watch the beautiful sunset over the horizon while sitting on a bench if an opportunity presents itself.

Share your dreams, aspirations, and beliefs with her. Both of you are on the same team, play with her and communicate with her. FEEL GOOD with her. Nothing is more important than that you feel good. If you don’t feel good, you have nothing to give her.

The Reality Of Relationships… It’s All About You My Friend

There’s one fundamental thing about making a relationship work. It’s not about the other person, it’s all about you. More specifically, it’s all about how you feel a.k.a. your emotions.

We must never do anything if we feel really bad. By that I mean we must never talk with our partner if we feel negative because we might do something that will trigger an argument.

Tell your partner that you’re not feeling good right now and you’ll talk with her in a moment after you find your emotional balance. That’s it… pure and raw honesty saves the day.

The only relationship you have to focus on is between you and you… NOT you and her/him.

Focusing on his relationship with himself everyday,
Fonzy Montenegro

Note: I am not pitching anything in this article. It’s just that I’m very familiar with a particular product and I’m really excited about the infinite tools the developer is coming up with. For me, he’s a genius… seriously.

There is one powerful and effortless way to train your brain to perform on exceptional levels. A method so easy to do that you can just lie down comfortably and listen to your iPod.

This method is called brainwave entrainment.

It trains your brain to a specific frequency so you organize your thoughts which in turn will get you success.

I have personally tried a lot of brainwave entrainment recordings and they were very effective. I could meditate and concentrate deeply with no effort other than lying down comfortably and listening to the recording.

There are a lot of effective programs in the market today so let me share my experiences with some of them.

The Morry Method

The Morry Method or the Quantum Mind Power brain entrainment system is one of the most powerful and sought-after products in the self-improvement industry.

It’s recommended by Dr. Robert Anthony, one of the inspirations of the hit movie, The Secret. According to him, he was actually the first person Rhonda Byrnes approached for the movie but he declined and until this day, he said he never regretted his decision.

My experience with it was phenomenal. I just listened to it around 6 PM every night and it really boosted my memory and brainpower. I could study and concentrate easily.

I was looking forward to the session everyday because it allowed me to experience a trance state so deep I couldn’t think of anything else but being in the flow of the universe.

It was something wicked!

Quantum Mind Power uses monaural and isochronic tones to train the brain because the creator, Morry Zelcovitch asserts that these two are more powerful than the common binaural tones (more on these in a few minutes).

He said that both of these tones produces stronger CER (cortical evoked response – the brains reaction to the stimulus). A stronger CER means the more effective an entrainment session will be. So let me show you two graphs from Morry’s website:

See the red arrows on the graphs? Those arrows are pointing to the range between the peaks and the valleys. The deeper and longer the range, the more effective a brainwave entrainment recording is.

Now let’s take a look at another graph from Morry’s website:

This graph is from a binaural beat recording. Take a look at at the red arrows again. Look how shallow the range between the peaks and valleys is. Morry says binaural beats are only sugar pills or brainwave placebos.

Well, I don’t entirely agree with what he said because binaural beats do provide benefits like deep focus and relaxation in my experience.

For me I like how Steve G. Jones, a famous hypnotherapist, described choosing the right self-improvement tools. It’s like choosing a flavor of an ice cream… it depends on what you like or what you’re into. One is not necessarily more effective than the other, who knows? Binaural beats might work better for you than isochronic or monaural tones. Results will always vary and success on using any of these is entirely subjective… it’s all up to you.

Binaural Beats

It seemed as though I made binaural beats significantly less effective in the discussion above but that’s not actually the case. Binaural beats were the first (as far as I know) brainwave entrainment technology and it exploded in popularity within the self-help domain. One established company releasing this kind of brainwave entrainment (according to a research I did) is Centerpointe Holosync.

It was developed by Bill Harris, one of the teachers who appeared in The Secret. Just like TMM (or The Morry Method), it can be used to increase focus and attain what they call “whole-brain synchronization”. Whole-brain synchronization is when the left and right hemispheres of the brain become synchronized (their connection becomes stronger) which leads to a higher level of functioning and performance.

Some other results of this phenomenon are increased intelligence, increased motivation, and a happier emotional sense of well-being.

I use binaural beats daily because it comes with the hypnosis recordings I listen to every night. I used to listen to hypnosis recordings without binaural beats and the concentration wasn’t that deep unlike with binaural beat-embedded recordings. The difference is so significant!

Modern Day Application Of The Morry Method

One of the exciting events that have happened in the last few years is that Morry teamed up with the Mind Movies team to create a mind movie (a short FULL HD video of your desires, dreams, and goals geared up with your favorite inspiring music or song) embedded with brainwave entrainment.

This is surely a powerful tool that will manifest your desires faster. Better brain entrainment leads to more phenomenal results.

Morry has also created affirmation recordings which contain brainwave entrainment technology. Many people have reported tremendous results.

Imagine Your Success On Autopilot

You have realized by now that brainwave entrainment is a very powerful and effective tool to create your success automatically.

You don’t have to put too much effort on changing yourself these days because we have the technology. Technology really changes lives especially if you’re in the self-improvement industry.

Though you still have to discipline yourself to make time and listen to a recording every day or night. Hard work is still as important as before but it requires just a minimal amount now.

Just so you know, let me remind you that working for long hours are now a thing of the past. Our generation is not the Industrial Period anymore. We have moved to the Communication Age. See facebook, twitter, pinterest, and Gmail?

We were at the Information Age recently but we zoomed past that into the inception of the Communication Age.

All it takes is just a click of a mouse or a press of a button and you get things done.

The same with using brainwave entrainment to change your vibration to attract the things you want in your life, all it takes is a touch of a screen button on your iPod touch everyday and you can train yourself to be, have, and do anything you want.

The value of hard work is still there but focus and consistency is the name of the game now, my friend. This is the new millennium, we got to deal with it and adapt to the change.

Remember your lesson in school about it’s not the strongest or most intelligent animals who survive but the ones who can adapt to change? This applies to our time.

If you want an edge, use slicing-edge technology (rather than cutting-edge technologies which is so old school) with your self-improvement efforts man. If you still prefer old-fashioned hard work and dedication (I mean the grueling long hours), it’s up to you… do your thing.

But you can drastically save tremendous amounts of time and effort by going with the change and using it to skyrocket your results through the roof. More results in far less time. That’s what I call a productive use of your energy.

This is what brainwave entrainment provides.

Raise Your Vibration Thru Training Your Brain

In studying the law of attraction, we have heard the phrases “raise your energy” and “raise your vibration”. Those are the basic things we learn when we get into this stuff.

Some of us like to view it in an esoteric way where there are energy flowing in our bodies and we need to control our chi and so on. That’s actually a very good and creative way to see self-improvement.

However there are many of us who like to view it in a more concrete, practical, and scientific way. This is where the “training your brain” concept comes in to cater to people who prefer to see it like this.

It’s really reassuring to know that there is a scientific perspective to self-improvement and of course, brainwave entrainment is backed by science.

So to raise your vibration, you just need to train your brain until you get what you want. Once you get what you desire or achieve your goal, you are now in the dominant vibration of optimism which matches your achieved desire.

You will never get or achieve anything unless your dominant vibration matches what you want or desire.

Just download a brainwave entrainment recording (TMM or Holosync) into your mp3 player, lie down comfortably, put in your earphones or stereo headphones, and listen to it for a period of time. That’s it. Then your success will be inevitable.

Daily training his brain,
Fonzy Montenegro

P.S. By the way, there were no affiliate links in this post and although it may seem that I am pitching Morry’s products (or maybe Holosync’s)… well in a way that’s true but it’s mostly because I am very familiar with Morry’s Quantum Mind Power System (especially the isochronic tones which in my opinion are very powerful and wicked!). My real intention is to share my experiences with you about the power of brainwave entrainment. This technology has been here for years, many people have used it and achieved tremendous success including me, and I really think it’s time for you to take advantage of it. Peace!

WARNING: We’re going to talk about a lot of esoteric and woo-woo stuff to the next level so be warned!

Hi dear reader.

Today, I’m going to talk about the Abraham-Hicks teachings, their terminologies, and LoA concepts.

First who is Abraham?

Abraham is a group of non-physical entities channeled by Esther Hicks. They are a group of non-physical spiritual teachers offering advice when they are called upon. They never force themselves to speak through Esther unless she allows them to.

They are the masters of the universals laws and they are also what many people call infinite intelligence.

Abraham’s teachings has been recognized by many successful people like Dr. Wayne Dyer who uses the Abe concepts in his own life.

Let’s now discuss some of the powerful terms and ideas of Abraham-Hicks.

Going With The Stream

Abraham uses the analogy of the stream when they talk about life and success. Life is a stream flowing downward naturally. When you feel negative, your are paddling against the current. You are being upstream.

When you feel positive and let go of negativity, you are naturally allowing yourself to flow down with the stream. You are being downstream.

In order for you to get what you want, you have to go with stream and flow down naturally with ease and delight. Forcing yourself and paddling upstream is not the way to go.

The 30-Day Better-Feeling Thought Process

This process is used in conjunction with the concept above. The idea is when you feel negative about a particular subject, just think a better-feeling thought about it until you feel super positive about that subject.

The main idea here is getting happy about a subject from being negative about it takes a tremendous leap. It’s usually quite hard to make that leap so you think about a better-feeling thought step by step until you feel the emotion you want about that subject.

While finding a better-feeling thought, you might end up with a thought that feels worse. Don’t worry about it and continue finding a better-feeling thought.

Getting Into The Vortex

The vortex is a feeling place of positive emotions. Basically, every time you feel positive… you’re in the vortex. Each time you’re not feeling good, you’re out of the vortex. The rule of thumb is being in the vortex most of the time.

You still need to be out of the vortex minority of the time so you get more ideas and you expand as a spiritual being.

A vortex is a swirling thingie which contains all your desires. You put all of your desires there since you were born. Every time you know what you don’t want, you know what you do want and this process is automatic. What you want is placed in the vortex waiting for you to be allowed in your physical reality.

If you just get into the vortex most of the time, what you want will manifest in your life.

The Art Of Allowing

This is a really relaxing, calming, and effortless concept for me. It means if you can just focus on feeling good, the things you want will come.

You already put your requests in the vortex and it’s now created in there, you just have to allow it to come in your reality. Just feel good and it will arrive.

When you feel good consistently, you will change your subconscious vibration to optimism which in turn will make you take the right actions at the right time so you achieve your desires. So instead of calling yourself a deliberate creator, call yourself a deliberate allower since you already created what you want in the vortex.

Nothing hard, right?

It can be challenging at the beginning but with time and practice, the art of allowing will become easy and natural to you.

Thinking General

Often times, we feel negative about something because we think too much about the specifics of it. “I have to pay the bills, I have to clean the toilet because my kids messed it up, and yada-yada, etc.”

These will drive you crazy!

So just relax for a bit and start thinking in general. Let me chalk up an example for you.

You are in love with a girl and you want her to be your girlfriend. At the same time, you’re thinking about all the things why you couldn’t talk to her and why she couldn’t like you.

First thing you do is stop yourself and try to think more general thoughts.

Negative Specific –> I don’t know what to say to her.

Negative Specific –> If I don’t talk to her, I might not go out with her.

Negative GENERAL –> I haven’t been able to talk to the girls I like.

Negative GENERAL –> Maybe it’s going to be like this forever.

Positive GENERAL –> Well, it’s not like it’s going to be the end of the world if I don’t talk to her.

Positive GENERAL –> Everything’s actually going so well in my life. In fact, life is good to me.

Positive GENERAL—> It’s really amazing how this planet spins on its orbit in perfect timing and in perfect harmony.

So that’s an example of thinking general. Notice how we moved from being negatively specific to being negatively general to finally being positively general.

Now you can actually go on to being positively specific but usually when you get specific, you also notice the specific negative details again then you go back to square one. So my advice is to go general and the positive specifics will show themselves in your life. Happy?

Rampage of Appreciation

This is actually a powerful positive process because it strengthens your creativity and your speaking voice aside from making you feel positive.

I advice you to do this when you feel ready for it. You usually can’t do this when you feel negative.

It’s basically saying an impromptu speech about the things you appreciate and feel good about in your life for at least 10 minutes.

Here’s an example:

I am now aware of my power. Each time I look at the window, I see peace and love and joy and appreciation. There’s too much good stuff in this world and it’s hard not to notice those things. I am aware of my power as a spiritual being. I know I can create my own reality and with the power of the vortex which contains everything I’ve asked for, everything will come my way.

I appreciate my life… I love my life in its purity and wondrousness. I love taking a bath in my toilet. I love taking a walk at the park with my dog. I love seeing children play with their parents. I love seeing people throwing Frisbees for their dogs to catch. I love seeing dogs being fed with ice cream by children. I love how every human being walks. I love how women look in their jeans and shirts. I love dating women. Women are beautiful in my eyes.

I love loving. I love being with a person to be intimate with. I love this life. I love this planet where I was born. I love my parents. I appreciate everything they’ve done for me. I love them so much it makes my heart swell and explode. I love being a spiritual person. I love meditating. I love listening to hypnosis mp3s on my iPod. I love Steve Jobs. I love how he created the Apple products especially the iPod.

I just love living this life. Amen.

Then you just go on with these highly-positive statements until you reach 10 minutes or more, it’s your choice.

Abe And The Law of Attraction

Abraham has taught a lot of people the value of feeling good because it is our essence, our birth-right, and our power.

When we feel good, we have the ability to manifest things we dream of. The only limit is your imagination.

However you do have to feel good for a consistent period of time before you manifest something big. All it takes is focus, my friend. It’s all about the focus.

Abe says that we are actually focusing mechanisms or beings. Our ability to concentrate is one of our most powerful tools to create our own reality so we got to develop it.

It took me a lot of time to listen to Abe’s concepts on YouTube and I even bought their meditation recordings which are an absolute blast!

They provide clear, informal, and to-the-point information about how the game of life works and when you get it… oh boy. The world will become your oyster.

You will realize that you don’t have to compete for resources, there are plenty enough for everyone no matter how extreme each of our desires are.

The biggest thing for me was realizing that I don’t have to work hard or struggle for what I want. I just have to feel good and change my vibration then everything else will follow.

So that’s it for my post and I hope you enjoyed what I shared, my fellow deliberate allower.

Thanks and peace,
Fonzy Montenegro