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        <title>Guiding Assumptions for Creating Impact in 2010</title>
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        <published>2009-12-15T06:20:51-05:00</published>
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        <summary>Last week, I posted here and at Weekly Leader a simple process for reviewing 2009. This week I'm providing a simple method for planning for next year. In my Work Life Lead column this week - Creating Your 2010 Impact...</summary>
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            <name>Ed Brenegar</name>
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<div xmlns="http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml"><p>Last week, I posted <a href="http://edbrenegar.typepad.com/leading_questions/2009/12/conducting-your-own-2009-review.html">here</a> and at <a href="http://weeklyleader.net/2009/work-life-lead-reviewing-your-2009-impact/">Weekly Leader</a> a simple process for reviewing 2009. This week I'm providing a simple method for planning for next year.  In my Work Life Lead column this week - <a href="http://weeklyleader.net/2009/work-life-lead-creating-your-2010-impact/">Creating Your 2010 Impact</a> - I provide a simple outline of questions to answer. </p><blockquote><p><span style="color: #800000;">1. What is the transition that is taking place in your life and work?</span><br /><br /><span style="color: #800000;">2. What is the impact you want to create in 2010?</span><br /><br /><span style="color: #800000;">3. Who do I want to impact in 2010?</span><br /><br /><span style="color: #800000;">4. What opportunities do I have now that I need to act on for 2010?</span><br /><br /><span style="color: #800000;">5. What problems have I created that I need to resolve in order to create the impact I want in 2010?</span></p></blockquote><p>There are some guiding assumptions behind these questions.</p><blockquote><p><span style="color: #800000;">1. That transition and change is given in life and work.</span><span style="color: #800000;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="color: #800000;">2. That life and work are fulfilled in creating impact, not simply doing activities.</span><span style="color: #800000;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="color: #800000;">3. That relationships are the primary context for making a difference in life and work.</span></p><p><span style="color: #800000;">4. That opportunities are always present</span><span style="color: #800000;">. <br /></span></p><p><span style="color: #800000;">5. That we must be responsible for our lives and work, which includes the problems that we create for ourselves and others.</span></p></blockquote><p>If you buy into these assumptions, then this planning process will help you greatly increase your impact in 2010. </p><p>Let me know how things go. If you have questions, just ask. I wish you all the best in the new year.</p></div>
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        <title>"A Period of Truly Staggering Underachievement"</title>
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        <published>2009-12-14T17:47:28-05:00</published>
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        <summary>In two weeks, when Dan Pink's new book, Drive:The Surprising Truth of What Motivates Us is published, you will read the following. Harnessing this second drive has been essential to economic progress around the world, especially during the last two...</summary>
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<div xmlns="http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml"><p>In two weeks, when Dan Pink's new book, <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Drive-Surprising-Truth-About-Motivates/dp/1594488843/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&amp;s=books&amp;qid=1260827481&amp;sr=8-1">Drive:The Surprising Truth of What Motivates Us</a> is published, you will read the following.<a href="http://edbrenegar.typepad.com/.a/6a00d8341c66c653ef0120a7509fa5970b-popup" onclick="window.open( this.href, '_blank', 'width=640,height=480,scrollbars=no,resizable=no,toolbar=no,directories=no,location=no,menubar=no,status=no,left=0,top=0' ); return false" style="float: right;"><img alt="Dan Pink - Drive - cover" class="asset asset-image at-xid-6a00d8341c66c653ef0120a7509fa5970b " src="http://edbrenegar.typepad.com/.a/6a00d8341c66c653ef0120a7509fa5970b-320wi" style="margin: 0px 0px 5px 5px;" /></a> </p>

<p><span style="color: #800000;">Harnessing this second drive has been essential to economic progress around the world, especially during the last two centuries. ... Fredrick Winslow Taylor ... believed businesses were being run in an inefficient, haphazard way, invented what he called "scientific management." </span></p><span style="color: #800000;">Workers, this approach held, were like parts in a complicated machine. If they did the right work in the right way at the right time, the machine would function smoothly. And to ensure that happened, you simply reward the behavior you sought and punished the behavior you discouraged. People would respond rationally to these external forces - these extrinsic motivators - and both they and the system itself would flourish.</span><p><span style="color: #800000;">... And so this general approach remained intact - because it was, after all, easy to understand, simple to monitor, and straightforward to enforce. But <em><strong>in the first ten years of this century - a period of truly staggering underachievement in business, technology, and social progress</strong></em> - we've discovered that this sturdy, old operating system doesn't work nearly as well.  It crashes - often and unpredictably. Most of all, it is proving incompatible with many aspects of contemporary business. And if we examine those incompatibility problems closely, we'll realize that modest updates - a patch here or there - will not solve the problem. What we need is a full scale upgrade.</span> </p>

<p>Read again the sentence in boldface italic.</p><blockquote><p><span style="color: #800000;"><em><strong>... in the first ten years of
this century - a period of truly staggering underachievement in
business, technology, and social progress ...<br /></strong></em></span></p>
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This is not hyperbole. This is reality. </p><p>Recently the financial services firm, <a href="http://www.deloitte.com/view/en_US/us/index.htm">Deloitte</a>, published their <a href="http://www.deloitte.com/view/en_US/us/About/Catalyst-for-Innovation/Center-for-the-Edge/press-release/31a902ff15bd4210VgnVCM100000ba42f00aRCRD.htm">2009 Shift Index</a>. Their announcement of their 2009 report begins with this paragraph.</p><blockquote><p><span style="color: #800000;">Despite major improvement in labor productivity over the last four
decades, many industries in the United States have experienced alarming
decreases in their return-on-assets (ROA). This according to Deloitte’s
Center for the Edge, which today released industry-specific findings
from its 2009 “Shift Index,” a new economic indicator identifying three
waves of disruption that are shaping today’s business landscape. </span></p></blockquote><p>In other words, all this efficiency is not creating a stronger, more vital economy. Why is this?</p><p>Dan Pink isn't just blowing smoke either. He is pointing to a reality that has been obscured by the recession. Unless you are in an industry that is in radical free fall, the temptation is to think that once the recession is over, things will be back to the way they used to be. It is not going to happen this way. </p><p>We'll see a continued long slow decline of those industries that have not embrace the realities that are now present.  Those businesses that embrace the transition to the next era of organizations and business will thrive. Can old, legacy companies change fast enough? They can if they are willing to abandon their assumptions about the way the world works, especially their ideas about people.</p><p>The key is changing the structure of organizations to be more closely aligned with the insights that Dan Pink provides in his book. (I'll post a review of Drive closer to its publishing date.) It isn't just more collaboration or telecommuting. It is at a more fundamental level of policy, compensation and the place of the business in a global social context. This will require a redefining of many industries and the leadership roles within them. It is already happening, but not at a pace that we can afford. It must pick up.</p><p>As <a href="http://www.danpink.com/drive">Dan Pink</a> writes about the importance of <em><span style="color: #800000;">"intrinsic motivation"</span></em> and Deloitte chronicles <a href="http://blogs.harvardbusiness.org/bigshift/">The Big Shift</a>, we each need to become more self-critical about our governing assumptions about life and work. </p></div>
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        <title>From analog to digital, from paper to story</title>
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        <summary>Here are four videos on books, the stories in them, how they are made, that fascinate me. I found them at Alan Jacobs blog which is worth reading. This will take about 18 minutes to watch, and is worth watching....</summary>
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<div xmlns="http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml"><p>Here are four videos on books, the stories in them, how they are made, that fascinate me. I found them at <a href="http://ayjay.tumblr.com/">Alan Jacobs</a> blog which is worth reading. This will take about 18 minutes to watch, and is worth watching. Get a cup of coffee and enjoy. </p><p>The first is on the art of bookmaking.</p><p /><p align="center" class="asset asset-video" style="margin: 0pt auto; display: block;"><object height="306" width="500"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/l9a5hH5idQc&amp;fs=1" /><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true" /><param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always" /><embed allowfullscreen="true" allowscriptaccess="always" height="306" src="http://www.youtube.com/v/l9a5hH5idQc&amp;fs=1" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" width="500" /></object></p><p /><p>Here's a bookmaking project that recreates the pictures from a Webster's Dictionary.</p><p /><p align="center" class="asset asset-video" style="margin: 0pt auto; display: block;"><object height="270" width="400"><param name="allowfullscreen" value="true" /><param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always" /><param name="movie" value="http://vimeo.com/moogaloop.swf?clip_id=5228616&amp;server=vimeo.com&amp;show_title=1&amp;show_byline=1&amp;show_portrait=0&amp;color=&amp;fullscreen=1" /><embed allowfullscreen="true" allowscriptaccess="always" height="270" src="http://vimeo.com/moogaloop.swf?clip_id=5228616&amp;server=vimeo.com&amp;show_title=1&amp;show_byline=1&amp;show_portrait=0&amp;color=&amp;fullscreen=1" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" width="400" /></object></p><p><a href="http://vimeo.com/5228616">Pictorial Webster's: Inspiration to Completion</a> from <a href="http://vimeo.com/user1882107">John Carrera</a> on <a href="http://vimeo.com">Vimeo</a>.</p><br />

<p>This video is about how bookmaking now has moved from the analog world of the above videos to the digital world of on demand production.</p><p /><p align="center" class="asset asset-video" style="margin: 0pt auto; display: block;"><object height="344" width="425"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/Q946sfGLxm4&amp;fs=1" /><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true" /><param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always" /><embed allowfullscreen="true" allowscriptaccess="always" height="344" src="http://www.youtube.com/v/Q946sfGLxm4&amp;fs=1" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" width="425" /></object></p><p /><p>And lastly, a fascinating video about the story that our imaginations find in a book.</p><p /><p align="center" class="asset asset-video" style="margin: 0pt auto; display: block;"><object height="306" width="500"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/F_jyXJTlrH0&amp;fs=1" /><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true" /><param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always" /><embed allowfullscreen="true" allowscriptaccess="always" height="306" src="http://www.youtube.com/v/F_jyXJTlrH0&amp;fs=1" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" width="500" /></object></p></div>
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        <title>Starting with a client's perceived need</title>
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        <published>2009-12-11T16:27:44-05:00</published>
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        <summary>Where do you begin with clients? Are you selling? Do you begin with what they want? Or, do you explore what they perceive their need to be? I start with the transition question. What's the transition question? It is a...</summary>
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<div xmlns="http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml"><p>Where do you begin with clients? <a href="http://edbrenegar.typepad.com/.a/6a00d8341c66c653ef012876478183970c-popup" onclick="window.open( this.href, '_blank', 'width=640,height=480,scrollbars=no,resizable=no,toolbar=no,directories=no,location=no,menubar=no,status=no,left=0,top=0' ); return false" style="float: right;"><img alt="Transition" class="asset asset-image at-xid-6a00d8341c66c653ef012876478183970c " src="http://edbrenegar.typepad.com/.a/6a00d8341c66c653ef012876478183970c-320wi" style="margin: 0px 0px 5px 5px;" /></a> </p><p>Are you selling?</p><p>Do you begin with what they want?</p><p>Or, do you explore what they perceive their need to be?</p><p>I start with the transition question. </p><p><strong><span style="color: #800000;">What's the transition question? </span></strong></p><p>It is a question about what they perceive as having changed. It isn't just that it has changed, but change in some relatively permanent way, as if there is no going back. </p><p><strong><span style="color: #800000;">Most people have a sense that something has changed, is changing or needs to change, but don’t have a way to see it very clearly or completely. </span></strong></p><p>That is where I begin. </p><p>Once they see this transition, they are more motivated to make changes that take advantage of the transition they are in. </p><p><strong><span style="color: #800000;">People see problems. They know when things are not right or in decline. They know it intuitively, even though that can't describe it precisely.</span></strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><a href="http://edbrenegar.typepad.com/.a/6a00d8341c66c653ef012876478cd4970c-popup" onclick="window.open( this.href, '_blank', 'width=640,height=480,scrollbars=no,resizable=no,toolbar=no,directories=no,location=no,menubar=no,status=no,left=0,top=0' ); return false" style="float: right;"><img alt="Circle of Impact - Life-Work image" class="asset asset-image at-xid-6a00d8341c66c653ef012876478cd4970c " src="http://edbrenegar.typepad.com/.a/6a00d8341c66c653ef012876478cd4970c-320wi" style="margin: 0px 0px 5px 5px;" /></a> </span> </p><p>Once they begin to see the transition they are in, I begin to talk with them about the dynamic of the <a href="http://edbrenegar.typepad.com/AllIMPACTDiagrams.pdf">Circle of Impact. </a>This dynamic is an interplay between our ideas, relationships and the contexts where we are involved. They are always touching one another. </p><blockquote><p><em>For example, your client's perception of transition is not just an idea. It is also a product of their interaction with people and their involvement as participants and contributors in the social and work contexts where they are involved. These contexts are impacted by the quality of relationships and by the ideas that govern how the structure and relationships function.</em></p></blockquote><p>If your client's group is in transition, meaning that change is happening to them, and it isn't clear where it is going, then a lack of clarity (Ideas) about policy and procedures may be affecting the comfort and security that people feel in their relationships with each other. If there is a lack of trust then the group has less capacity to manage well the transition they are in.</p><p>See how this dynamic is played out? Try this exercise.</p><blockquote><p><em>Make a list of your clients and ask the following three questions about their situation.</em></p><p><em>1. Is my client clear about who they are and what they stand for?</em></p><p><em>2. Do they trust the people with whom they are involved?</em></p><p><em>3. Do they feel that they have an opportunity to contribute their best?</em></p><p><em>If the answer is no to any of these questions, then there is a breakdown in the dynamic of the Circle of Impact. </em></p></blockquote><p>Helping people move from a vague sense of change and need to a clearer one provides a foundation for addressing the deeper issues of their mission, vision and values. I call them the deeper issues because these are not simply ideas, but the ways we connect the dimensions of the Circle of Impact together.</p><p>Look at the above illustration. </p><p><strong><span style="color: #800000;">A mission is an idea that connects a social or organizational context not only to its purpose, but also how it is organized to achieve its mission. </span></strong></p><p>If your client's stated mission and the organization of their life and work are not in agreement or alignment, then you know there is an issue to address. </p><p>How will they see this disconnect between mission and structure? One way is that no one takes their stated mission seriously. They are simply empty words. </p><p><strong><span style="color: #800000;">A vision is a word-picture of the effect of a group's mission. It captures the impact that people create through the social or organizational context where they participate?</span></strong></p><p>If there is not actual impact, then you know that there is a breakdown in the Circle of Impact. Is the breakdown an Idea, Relationship or Structure problem? Until you look closely at the dynamic you don't know. However, it is less important where the problem is than realizing that the solution comes from all three dimensions.</p><strong><span style="color: #800000;">My experience is that all people have values, but often don't know what they are. They need help in identifying them. And we need a real world impact picture in order to identify them.</span></strong><br /><p>Values function in two ways.</p><strong><span style="color: #800000;">1. Values unify relationships.</span></strong> They are the bond that unites people within a social or organizational context together. <br /><span style="color: #800000;" /><br /><p><strong><span style="color: #800000;">2. Values also create the strength that everything else is dependent upon.</span></strong> A mission is simple a statement of identity and purpose. A vision is a statement of the results of that mission. Underlying both ideas are values, and the values really are used to create the strength that we see in collaboration. </p><p><strong><span style="color: #800000;">Real strength comes from our interaction with people, whether as partners, employer/employees or with clients.  Ideas and the structure of social and organizational contexts are the tools that we use in our relationship to make a difference that matters.</span></strong></p><p>The problem for most of us, including our clients, is that we have not been taught how to see this dynamic between our ideas, structure and relationships.</p><p>Helping your clients clarify the perception of their problems and the transition they are in is the first step toward bringing significant, sustainable solutions to their situations.</p><p>Next week, I post at <a href="http://weeklyleader.net">Weekly Leader</a>, Part 2 of a process that you can use with your clients to help them identify the impact that they want to have next year. When you use this methodology together, you build trust and a vision for how your relationship can make a difference beyond what you have been able to do up to now.</p><p /></div>
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        <title>Imperfections are what actually make someone PERFECT</title>
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        <published>2009-12-09T09:51:42-05:00</published>
        <updated>2009-12-09T09:51:42-05:00</updated>
        <summary>Here's a touching commercial from Singapore that has a message that I find fresh and affirming. We are all imperfect. We can accept our imperfections as distinctive marks of our individuality, or we can use them to divide and destroy...</summary>
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&lt;div xmlns="http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml"&gt;&lt;p&gt;Here's a touching commercial from &lt;a href="http://www.thinkfamily.sg/"&gt;Singapore&lt;/a&gt; that has a message that I find fresh and affirming.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="asset asset-video" style="margin: 0pt auto; display: block;" align="center"&gt;&lt;object width="384" height="313"&gt;&lt;param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/Nw0s4C0g5SM&amp;fs=1"&gt;&lt;param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"&gt;&lt;param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always"&gt;&lt;embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/Nw0s4C0g5SM&amp;fs=1" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowscriptaccess="always" allowfullscreen="true" width="384" height="313"&gt;&lt;/object&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

We are all imperfect. We can accept our imperfections as distinctive marks of our individuality, or we can use them to divide and destroy our relationships. 

Whether in life or work, realize that the best relationships are ones where we can laugh at our imperfections. When we take them too seriously, we begin to lose not just the relationship, but also our perspective for managing our lives. 

Please don't wait until the memorial service of a loved one to tell them how much you appreciate them and their imperfections.

&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.davidpuu.com/blog/?p=2031&amp;cpage=1#comment-4229"&gt;Thanks to David Pu'u for pointing to this video.&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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        <title>Conducting your own 2009 review</title>
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        <published>2009-12-08T07:50:14-05:00</published>
        <updated>2009-12-08T07:50:15-05:00</updated>
        <summary>We are all approaching our end of a year of many transitions. In the past I've written about using my Four Questions that Every Leader Must Ask as a guide for an end-of-the-year review and a way to plan for...</summary>
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<div xmlns="http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml"><p>We are all approaching our end of a year of many transitions.<a href="http://edbrenegar.typepad.com/.a/6a00d8341c66c653ef0128762fff61970c-popup" onclick="window.open( this.href, '_blank', 'width=640,height=480,scrollbars=no,resizable=no,toolbar=no,directories=no,location=no,menubar=no,status=no,left=0,top=0' ); return false" style="float: right;"><img alt="Four Questsions - Life-Work Coaching" class="asset asset-image at-xid-6a00d8341c66c653ef0128762fff61970c " src="http://edbrenegar.typepad.com/.a/6a00d8341c66c653ef0128762fff61970c-320wi" style="margin: 0px 0px 5px 5px; width: 270px; height: 354px;" /></a>   </p><p>In the past I've written about using my <a href="http://edbrenegar.typepad.com/FourQuestionsEveryLeaderMustAsk.pdf">Four Questions that Every Leader Must Ask</a> as a guide for an end-of-the-year review and a way to plan for the next.  </p><p>This year, I have been impacted by people who have helped me see beyond the organizational leadership work that I have been doing for a decade and a half.  The result is a reframing of this material for individuals who living on the thinning line of life and work, and the expansion of my consulting work to include a new coaching program. </p><p>While we do look at the change of the year as a time of reflection and new beginnings, the reality is that we can do this year round. However, if you have not, then there is now time like the present to begin to think differently about yourself as the new year approaches.</p><p>Today, in my <a href="http://weeklyleader.net/">Weekly Leader</a> column - <a href="http://weeklyleader.net/2009/work-life-lead-reviewing-your-2009-impact/">Reviewing Your 2009 Impact</a> - I present the first step in a process of review and planning that will conclude in next week's column. I've prepared an one page listing of the questions that I ask in the column. I suggest that you print the list and the column and spend a few moments over the next week reflecting on the past year to 18 months.</p><p>I've said many times over the past couple years that I believe we are in the midst of one of the most significant transitions in all of human history. This is bigger than President Obama, the IPhone, the recession and the combine effects of 9/11, Katrina and the Iraq/Afghanistan war. The transition is, regardless of what you see happening in Washington, is a shift towards individual responsibility and collaborative relationships that transcend the old bureaucratic structures that are no longer able to manage the complexity of life today.</p><p>In order to be at our best, for ourselves, our families, our co-workers, our communities and for the world at large, we each need to thinking clearly about what we believe and the difference we are committed to making today. A starting place is gaining perspective and understanding about where we are and what we need to focus on next year.</p><p>I invite you to read <a href="http://weeklyleader.net/2009/work-life-lead-reviewing-your-2009-impact/">today's column</a> and begin to answer for yourself the <a href="http://edbrenegar.typepad.com/Life-WorkPlanningGuidePart1-Review.pdf">Life / Work planning questions</a> and if you are so inclined, share them with me. I believe that as you go through this process of reflection, that you'll begin to discuss opportunities that were always there, but that the lack of clarity of insight blocked your vision of them. It is my hope that from this exercise you'll find new opportunities in life and work that will enable you to have an impact that is far beyond what you would have imagine a year ago, or even yesterday.</p><p /></div>
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        <title>Three Kinds of Giving</title>
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        <published>2009-12-07T15:37:14-05:00</published>
        <updated>2009-12-07T21:57:18-05:00</updated>
        <summary>The Joyal Capital Management Foundation is hosting a project in eight cities where 100 children receive a $100 gift card to be used at Dick's Sporting Goods. Mainline Supply Company, a region supplier of water systems, provided the volunteer support...</summary>
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            <name>Ed Brenegar</name>
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<div xmlns="http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml"><p><a href="http://edbrenegar.typepad.com/.a/6a00d8341c66c653ef0120a724e2b9970b-popup" onclick="window.open(this.href,'_blank','scrollbars=no,resizable=yes,toolbar=no,directories=no,location=no,menubar=no,status=no,left=0,top=0'); return false" style="float: left;"><img alt="Joyal Foundation" class="asset asset-image at-xid-6a00d8341c66c653ef0120a724e2b9970b " src="http://edbrenegar.typepad.com/.a/6a00d8341c66c653ef0120a724e2b9970b-320wi" style="margin: 0pt 5px 5px 0pt; width: 230px; height: 121px;" title="Joyal Foundation" /></a><a href="http://edbrenegar.typepad.com/.a/6a00d8341c66c653ef0120a72b1eca970b-popup" onclick="window.open( this.href, '_blank', 'width=640,height=480,scrollbars=no,resizable=no,toolbar=no,directories=no,location=no,menubar=no,status=no,left=0,top=0' ); return false" style="float: right;"><img alt="Mainline supply logo" class="asset asset-image at-xid-6a00d8341c66c653ef0120a72b1eca970b " src="http://edbrenegar.typepad.com/.a/6a00d8341c66c653ef0120a72b1eca970b-320wi" style="margin: 0px 0px 5px 5px;" /></a>The <a href="http://www.1004100.com/">Joyal Capital Management Foundation</a> is hosting a project in eight cities where 100 children receive a $100 gift card to be used at Dick's Sporting Goods.  <a href="http://www.mainlinesupply.net/default/index.cfm">Mainline Supply Company</a>, a region supplier of water systems, provided the volunteer support for the events that took place in Concord and Asheville, N.C.  Great people. Great cause.</p><p>Many of the kids, on their own, were choosing to use their gift to buy for brothers and sisters. One family I met spoke with me about how they look at gift giving at Christmas.Watch this short video of Wesley and his mom Susan talking about giving. I hope it encourages you as much as it did me.</p><p align="center" class="asset asset-video" style="margin: 0pt auto; display: block;"><object height="344" width="425"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/cNAOK0x1oqc&amp;hl=en&amp;fs=1" /><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true" /><param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always" /><embed allowfullscreen="true" allowscriptaccess="always" height="344" src="http://www.youtube.com/v/cNAOK0x1oqc&amp;hl=en&amp;fs=1" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" width="425" /></object></p>

<br /><p>Here are some pictures from the Concord and Asheville events.</p>

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        <title>Strategy + Business' Best Business Books 2009</title>
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        <published>2009-12-03T22:22:10-05:00</published>
        <updated>2009-12-03T22:23:01-05:00</updated>
        <summary>Strategy + Business magazine distributes a monthly email highlighting articles. Today's email had a link to their selection of the best business books of 2009. The selections are divided into categories with a different writer describing the books for this...</summary>
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            <name>Ed Brenegar</name>
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<div xmlns="http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml"><p><a href="http://www.strategy-business.com/">Strategy + Business </a>magazine distributes a monthly email highlighting articles. Today's email had a link to their selection of the <a href="http://www.strategy-business.com/article/09407?gko=e2ae2">best business books of 2009</a>. The selections are divided into categories with a different writer describing the books for this year. Here are the links. It's worth a look. Good stuff here.</p>

<blockquote><p><strong><a href="http://www.strategy-business.com/article/09407a">The Meltdown</a></strong><br />
 <span style="color: #800000;">A Wealth of Explanations</span><br />
 <span style="color: #800000;">by Clive Crook</span></p>

<p><strong><a href="http://www.strategy-business.com/article/09407b">Leadership</a></strong><br />
 <span style="color: #800000;">Means to a Greater End</span><br />
 <span style="color: #800000;">by Charles Handy</span></p>

<p><strong><a href="http://www.strategy-business.com/article/09407c">Strategy</a></strong><br />
 <span style="color: #800000;">The Capable and the Failed</span><br />
 <span style="color: #800000;">by Phil Rosenzweig</span></p>

<p><strong><a href="http://www.strategy-business.com/article/09407d">Globalization</a></strong><br />
 <span style="color: #800000;">Western Dominance in Decline</span><br />
 <span style="color: #800000;">by Ayesha Khanna and Parag Khanna</span></p>

<p><strong><a href="http://www.strategy-business.com/article/09407e">Management</a></strong><br />
 <span style="color: #800000;">In Search of the Silver Lining</span><br />
 <span style="color: #800000;">by Judith F. Samuelson</span></p>

<p><strong><a href="http://www.strategy-business.com/article/09407f">Marketing</a></strong><br />
 <span style="color: #800000;">Branding Goes Viral</span><br />
 <span style="color: #800000;">by Catharine P. Taylor</span></p>

<p><strong><a href="http://www.strategy-business.com/article/09407g">Technology</a></strong><br />
 <span style="color: #800000;">Disruption 2.0</span><br />
 <span style="color: #800000;">by Steven Levy</span></p>

<p><strong><a href="http://www.strategy-business.com/article/09407h">Biography</a></strong><br />
 <span style="color: #800000;">Unconventional Lives</span><br />
 <span style="color: #800000;">by James O’Toole</span></p>

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<p>You can find this month's S+B email <a href="http://www.strategy-business.com/li00028-email">here</a>.</p></div>
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        <title>Do You Really Want to Be a Leader? </title>
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        <published>2009-12-02T20:39:16-05:00</published>
        <updated>2009-12-02T20:39:16-05:00</updated>
        <summary>The Wall Street Journal had an excellent article recently that raised a question that many people would be wise to ask. Do You Really Want to Be a Leader? Too many leadership scholars and executives are obsessed by a pointless...</summary>
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            <name>Ed Brenegar</name>
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<div xmlns="http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml"><p>The Wall Street Journal had an excellent article recently that raised a question that many people would be wise to ask. <a href="http://online.wsj.com/article/SB10001424052970203517304574304151828522662.html">Do You Really Want to Be a Leader?</a></p>
<blockquote><p><span style="color: #800000;">Too many leadership scholars and executives are obsessed by a pointless question: Are leaders born, or are they made?</span> </p>

<p><span style="color: #800000;">The answer is irrelevant.</span>
<span style="color: #800000;"><br /></span></p>

<p><span style="color: #800000;">The truth is, you do not know what you are born with until you try very hard to express it.</span></p>
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<p>
It is impossible to know what you are made of until put your talent and skills to the test. The authors suggests that we ask three questions to test our desire or commitment to lead.</p>

<p><strong><span style="color: #800000;">How Far Do You Want To Go?</span></strong><span style="color: #800000;"><br /></span></p><blockquote><p><span style="color: #800000;">To reach higher office and to fulfill its obligations, you must
continuously make choices that will affect other people's money and
lives. And you will be doing this in a context where other people will
want your position or will be competing with you for the next higher
position.</span></p>

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<p><strong><span style="color: #800000;">What Are You Willing To Invest?</span></strong></p><blockquote><p><strong><span style="color: #800000;" /></strong><span style="color: #800000;">Admitting to yourself what your limitations are can be difficult.
But if you want to lead, you face tough choices about how much effort
you must put in and in which areas you need to grow.</span> </p>

<p><span style="color: #800000;">Leadership certainly requires business smarts, technical
capabilities and cultural sensibilities, but above all, it is about
power. While this point is upsetting to some people, the brutal reality
is that whatever else a leader must do, a leader must gain, exercise
and retain power.<span style="font-weight: bold;"><br /></span></span></p>

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<p><strong><span style="color: #800000;">How Will You Keep It Up?</span></strong><span style="color: #800000;"><br /></span></p><blockquote><p><span style="color: #800000;">Over several decades, you need ways to keep yourself going when you
are not being recognized and rewarded for your performance—and to deal
with criticism, resistance, setbacks and people disliking you or what
you are asking them to do.</span>
<span style="color: #800000;"><br /></span></p>

<p><span style="color: #800000;">If you envision another 10, 20 or even 30 years of leadership work,
then you must find effective methods for maintaining your physical
vitality, your emotional flexibility and your intellectual reach and
freshness.</span></p></blockquote><p>Leading an organization can be a thankless, difficult, lonely job. There must an inner motivation to excel that exceeds the challenges that come with it. As a person who works with leaders as a consultant and coach, the authors describe well the realities that come with executive leadership. </p><p><span style="color: #800000;"><span style="font-weight: bold;" /></span></p></div>
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        <title>Perspective</title>
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        <published>2009-12-02T07:53:33-05:00</published>
        <updated>2009-12-02T08:05:46-05:00</updated>
        <summary>Where you stand determines what you see. Other than looking at the photographer, what do you think these people see? My grandfather is in this picture. I think I know what his perspective was at this moment. The challenge for...</summary>
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            <name>Ed Brenegar</name>
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<div xmlns="http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml"><p>Where you stand determines what you see. <a href="http://edbrenegar.typepad.com/.a/6a00d8341c66c653ef012875ff575c970c-popup" onclick="window.open( this.href, '_blank', 'width=640,height=480,scrollbars=no,resizable=no,toolbar=no,directories=no,location=no,menubar=no,status=no,left=0,top=0' ); return false" style="float: right;"><img alt="Grandfather Morrison -1916" class="asset asset-image at-xid-6a00d8341c66c653ef012875ff575c970c " src="http://edbrenegar.typepad.com/.a/6a00d8341c66c653ef012875ff575c970c-320wi" style="margin: 0px 0px 5px 5px;" /></a></p><p>Other than looking at the photographer, what do you think these people see? </p><p>My grandfather is in this picture. I think I know what his perspective was at this moment.</p><p>The challenge for most of us is how to have a large enough perspective to understand what we are experiencing. </p><p>To see with focus and openness is the challenge of having a balanced perspective. </p>

<p>This is the topic of this week's Weekly Leader column - <a href="http://weeklyleader.net/2009/work-life-lead-perspective/">Perspective</a>.</p><p />

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        <title>The cost of gratitude - a Thanksgiving Day rant</title>
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        <published>2009-11-26T05:25:27-05:00</published>
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        <summary>My post yesterday on the mutuality of gratitude did not fully capture one aspect of what I was trying to express. Shawn Alladio's comment really helped me to see this. I guess I was being too gracious. Thank you, Shawn....</summary>
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<div xmlns="http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml"><p>My post yesterday on the <a href="http://edbrenegar.typepad.com/leading_questions/2009/11/mutual-gratitude.html">mutuality of gratitude</a> did not fully capture one aspect of what I was trying to express. <a href="http://edbrenegar.typepad.com/leading_questions/2009/11/mutual-gratitude.html?cid=6a00d8341c66c653ef012875dde483970c#comment-6a00d8341c66c653ef012875dde483970c">Shawn Alladio's comment</a> really helped me to see this.  I guess I was being too gracious. Thank you, Shawn.</p>

<p>When I say that giving thanks is not about you or me, I mean that it is not intended to make us feel good. It is intended to connect us to another person in a way that transforms the relationship.</p>

<strong><span style="color: #800000;">Our best expression of thanks today may well be a confession of failing to be grateful to others. By expressing gratitude and appreciation to someone by saying I'm sorry, rather than simply "thanks," we open up the possibilities of change in our relationships.</span></strong>



<p>Gratitude is being treated today as an alternative therapeutic device to move unhappy people toward a more positive, hopeful outlook on life. Being grateful can have the effect of making us feel good. I'm happy for those who have found this for their lives. However, this is not why we are to be grateful people. It is a by-product of something else.</p><p>When I say thanks, I want that other person to feel good. I want to connect with that person on a deeper level of human interaction than we had the moment before.  When done with sincerity and humility, it has the power to transform the relationship. To heal, to unite, and to give purpose to the relationship's future.  </p>

<strong><span style="color: #800000;">There is no genuine gratitude in our lives without the recognition that our lives are made by the contributions of other people. When I thank someone for contributing to my life, I'm saying that a hole has been filled by their kindness, their honesty, their sacrifice or their love.</span></strong>

<p>It isn't about me or you and how we feel. It is about recognizing that other people give us the life we live. Without them, we are nothing. There are no self-made men or women. Those who try to be, who think they are are the small people, confined into the narrow world of their own perception.  </p><p>Gratitude opens and expands our perception of the world, because we see the gifts and potential of others. When we do, we can express our appreciation for who they are and what they give, regardless of whether it has directly impacted our lives or not. </p><p><strong><span style="color: #800000;">The power of gratitude is the power be free from our own narcissistic self-importance to a more humble, open relationship to others. </span></strong></p><p>Let me end with one simple story.</p>

<p>Millie Brown was my fourth grade teacher. I was the one student that she had that year that she had to discipline regularly. Once or twice a week, I'd stay after school and write a page out of the dictionary. Then I'd walk the two miles home. </p><p>Ms. Brown changed my life that year. I learned boundaries, and a lot of new words. I'm grateful to her for her commitment to be a teacher who cared enough for me, her student, that she'd not let me get away with being an uncontrollable force in the classroom.  Her impact upon my life remains with me to this day. </p><p>Years later, I was able to express my gratitude to her as we served together in our church's ministry to members in the hospital. We'd visit people together. It was a sweet way for the relationship to find completeness, and mutuality.</p>

<p><strong><span style="color: #800000;">Today, may your expressions of gratitude cost you your pride and self-importance. </span></strong></p><p>May you find healing and openness in your relationships with family and friends. May those you thank find a person transformed by your appreciation for their contribution to your life </p>

<p>Let us return the soul to Thanksgiving Day. Become a person for whom <a href="http://saythankseveryday.ning.com">Saying Thanks Every Day</a> is not a therapeutic approach for feeling better, but rather how we live each day in relationship to one another. </p></div>
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        <title>Mutual Gratitude</title>
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        <published>2009-11-25T18:10:39-05:00</published>
        <updated>2009-11-25T18:18:27-05:00</updated>
        <summary>As US residents prepare for a Thanksgiving gathering of family and friends, I gentle reminder about what giving thanks means. It isn't about you or me. The purpose of giving thanks is not primarily to make us feel better. It...</summary>
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            <name>Ed Brenegar</name>
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<div xmlns="http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml"><p>As US residents prepare for a Thanksgiving gathering of family and friends, I gentle reminder about what giving thanks means. </p>

<p><strong><span style="color: #800000;">It isn't about you or me. </span></strong></p><p>The purpose of giving thanks is not primarily to make us feel better. It may do that, but that isn't the purpose. If we are to feel anything, it is humility for appreciating and recognizing the gifts and impact of other people upon our lives.  </p><p><strong><span style="color: #800000;">A well stated expression of gratitude should honor the person whom you are recognizing. </span></strong></p><p>If you are at you in-laws house, like I will be tomorrow, tossing out a glib thank you only shows your insincerity. It is better to say nothing than be insincere in expressing thanks.</p><strong><span style="color: #800000;">Being sincere in expressing thanks demands that we look deeply into the effort and thought, and the effect of another person's actions.</span></strong><p>Expressing thanks humbly and sincerely has the potential for transforming the relationship. When it does, then the expression of thanks becomes mutual. This is the ultimate goal of thanksgiving. </p><strong><span style="color: #800000;">Mutual gratitude is the shared recognition that our relationship matters to one another and that we are grateful for the other person's impact upon our life.</span></strong><p>The more specific you can be in expressing thanks, the more likely it will be that a mutual return of thanks will be offered.</p><strong><span style="color: #800000;">May our hearts be filled with gratitude for the recognition of the goodness that comes to us through other people.  <br /></span></strong><p /></div>
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        <title>Family and Friends - protecting the business relationship</title>
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        <published>2009-11-24T07:20:48-05:00</published>
        <updated>2009-11-24T07:20:48-05:00</updated>
        <summary>This week's Weekly Leader column - Family and Friends - is about how to protect the relationships in business partnerships. Too often the relationship isn't strong enough to manage the differences of opinion and conflict that inevitably arise in any...</summary>
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            <name>Ed Brenegar</name>
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<div xmlns="http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml"><p>This week's <a href="http://weeklyleader.net/">Weekly Leader</a> column - <a href="http://weeklyleader.net/2009/leadership-qa-family-and-friends/">Family and Friends </a>- is about how to protect the relationships in business partnerships.</p><p>Too often the relationship isn't strong enough to manage the differences of opinion and conflict that inevitably arise in any business situation.</p><p>Enjoy and pass along.</p><p /></div>
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        <title>Thanksgiving is more than ...</title>
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        <published>2009-11-19T05:13:08-05:00</published>
        <updated>2009-11-19T05:13:08-05:00</updated>
        <summary>Yesterday, two friends each sent me emails each focused on different aspects of giving thanks and expressing gratitude. Thanksgiving is more than a feeling. Bill Kinnon sent me a Go-To-Market Strategies piece called - When did you last say "Thank...</summary>
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            <name>Ed Brenegar</name>
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<div xmlns="http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml"><p>Yesterday, two friends each sent me emails each focused on different aspects of giving thanks and expressing gratitude. </p>

<em><strong><span style="color: #800000;">Thanksgiving is more than a feeling.</span></strong></em><p>
</p><p><a href="http://www.kinnon.tv/">Bill Kinnon</a> sent me a <a href="http://www.gtms-inc.com/tip_thankyou.htm">Go-To-Market Strategies piece called - When did you last say "Thank You" to a customer?</a> . They offer this word of advice.</p><blockquote><span style="color: #800000;"><strong class="readableText">Make it personal. </strong>You should hand
write it. We know...UGH. That's a lot of work. You may be tempted to
email your thank you...and maybe you should do that too. BUT, a
handwritten, old fashioned thank you note, will take you farther. Why?
Because NO ONE else is doing it in today's business world. Also, be as
specific about what you are thanking them for, as that makes it much
more relevant and genuine. But do not ask for anything in your "thank
you." Just be thankful!</span></blockquote>

<p>
This is not just a good idea, but a good thing to do. Today, drop into a local bookstore and buy a box of note cards. Back at the office, take a half-an-hour and write the notes and put them in the mail today. Act quickly as you can to tangibly express gratitude. 

</p><p><em><strong><span style="color: #800000;">Thanksgiving is more than social etiquette. </span></strong></em></p>

<a href="http://www.morrisinstitute.com/">Tom Morris</a> sent me a link to this <a href="http://www.nytimes.com/2009/11/18/books/18book.html?_r=2&amp;th&amp;emc=th">NY Times review - Gratitude's Grace Can Be Itself a Gift</a> - of <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Gift-Thanks-Roots-Rituals-Gratitude/dp/0151013314/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&amp;s=books&amp;qid=1258623683&amp;sr=8-1">Margaret Visser's The Gift of Thanks: The Roots and Rituals of Gratitude</a>.<blockquote><p><span style="color: #800000;">“The Gift of Thanks” is a scholarly, many-angled examination of what
gratitude is and how it functions in our lives. Gratitude is a moral
emotion of sorts, Ms. Visser writes, one that is more complicated and
more vital than we think.</span><span style="color: #800000;"> <br /></span></p>

<p><span style="color: #800000;">English speakers are obsessed with the
terms “thanks” or “thank you.” We often say these words more than 100
times a day, she writes, in a flurry that many other cultures find
baffling. </span></p>

</blockquote><blockquote><p><span style="color: #800000;">The notion that we should thank others is not
hard-wired into our brains, but learned from our parents. For a child,
she writes, “the first unprompted ‘thank you’ is momentous enough to
count as a kind of initiation into a new level of human consciousness.”
In people suffering from Alzheimer’s disease, little words like
“thanks,” she notes, “often survive the shipwreck of all other
memories.” </span></p>

</blockquote>

<p>I've not read her book. I look forward to it.</p>

<p>Gratitude needs to be a tangible way to create openness and a mutuality of the affections of gratitude. Read this excerpt from her book. It shows me that gift giving as an expression of thanks is too often a covering up of genuine feelings and tangible actions.</p><blockquote><p><span style="color: #800000;">Today, we use paper to cover our gifts, and it is not primarily
because they are in need of protection that we wrap them. If we mail a
gift, we first carefully wrap it in special "gift" paper — the
prettier, the better — and then enclose it, as a safeguard during the
journey, in something sturdy and commonplace like brown paper or a
plain envelope. Gift wrappings are folded with care. The string that
binds a mere parcel becomes, for a gift, a ribbon, often with bows and
rosettes added — anything to replace with embellishment the toughness
of workaday knots. Extra trouble is taken because of the need to
declare that, whatever it is, the thing thus enclosed is not a
commodity.
</span><a name="secondParagraph" style="font-family: yui-tmp;" /><span style="color: #800000;"><br /></span></p>

<p><span style="color: #800000;">A gift nowadays has almost
invariably been bought. As such, it is certainly a commodity, but one
that is summoned now to become something else. The wrapping is a sign
that the object has changed into a gift. When, on increasingly rare
occasions, we give something we ourselves have made — edible gifts
mostly, such as jams and chutneys and cakes — we often feel little
compulsion to wrap them. We occasionally enfold but fail to hide them,
by covering them in something revealing such as cellophane. Not hiding
by wrapping means that this present was not bought in a shop. It was
made to be given away, not to make money; it does not need, therefore,
to be converted into a gift.
</span></p>

</blockquote> 

 <blockquote><p><span style="color: #800000;">We do work at shopping, however, quite apart from having first
saved the money to buy gifts. As Christmas draws closer, we spend time
fighting our way daily through the shopping crowds, returning from each
expedition exhausted, with arms weighed down and aching feet. And we
complain. Christmas has gotten out of hand, we say. It has become too
commercialized. We are all so greedy, so demanding, and so exigent
nowadays. It really is too much. These objections may be true, but our
struggles and complaints mean in part that the gifts we have bought
have manifestly cost us trouble. We may not actually have made them,
but everyone is aware — our own grumbling making sure it is understood
— that work, freely undertaken, went into their acquisition. </span></p>

</blockquote>

<p><em><strong><span style="color: #800000;">Thanksgiving is more than feelings, more than social etiquette, more than a public display of our own magnanimity. <br /></span></strong></em></p>

<p>It is the appreciation and recognition of the impact of other people upon our lives with the hope that its expression is mutual. When it is, that is when the real transformative power of gratitude has the potential strengthen families, communities and even businesses. It is for this reason that we should <a href="http://saythankseveryday.ning.com">Say Thanks Every Day</a>.</p>

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        <title>Try</title>
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        <published>2009-11-17T18:27:52-05:00</published>
        <updated>2009-11-17T18:27:52-05:00</updated>
        <summary>Here's this week's Work Life Lead column at Weekly Leader - Try. You'll get it.</summary>
        <author>
            <name>Ed Brenegar</name>
        </author>
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        <title>The Communication Bug-A-Boo</title>
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        <published>2009-11-15T23:57:29-05:00</published>
        <updated>2009-11-16T05:32:41-05:00</updated>
        <summary>Communication is a problem... ... for every person and organization. No one is excluded. ... because people assume that it is about distributing information. ... because people assume that it is about what you are going to do for me....</summary>
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            <name>Ed Brenegar</name>
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<div xmlns="http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml"><strong><span style="color: #800000;"><em>Communication is a problem...</em></span></strong><blockquote><p>... for every person and organization. No one is excluded.  </p>

<p>... because people assume that it is about distributing information. </p>

<p>... because people assume that it is about what you are going to do for me. </p>

<p>... because people don't want to fool with it until it is absolutely necessary, and by then, a simple problem has become an issue. </p>

<p>... because we have a very poor conception of what it is suppose to be. </p>

</blockquote><strong><em><span style="color: #800000;">Communication is ...</span></em></strong><blockquote><p>... ideas articulated and presented so that they are understandable.</p>

<p>... interaction between people so that the person who has information to distribute understands the expectations of the persons who are to receive it.</p>

<p>... interaction between people that leads to understanding and action.</p>

<p>... a core activity of human relationships and the function of organizations.</p>

<p>... a means or a vehicle for people to talk and share information that is relevant to their relationship and their individual interests.</p>

<p>... a measure of leadership effectiveness. If you want to know what kind of communicator you are, just ask someone who is a recipient of your communication.</p>

</blockquote><strong><em><span style="color: #800000;">Effective communicators  ...</span></em></strong><blockquote><p>... present a clear, compelling message that is timely and provides for action or implementation.</p>

<p>... understand what their audience wants to know and how to best present it.</p>

<p>... listen, learn and translate their ideas or information into the vernacular of the person or person with whom they are seeking to communicate.</p><p>... are good receivers of other people's communication.</p>

<p>... know how to use various communication methods appropriately to accomplish their goals.</p>

<p>... consistently engage people in conversation to discover how best to communicate with them in order to lead them to action.</p>

</blockquote><p> If you are a leader, communication is a critical task to get right. Most of us have to unlearn much of what we know. </p><p>As I heard often when I was a child, "it isn't what you say that matters, but what is heard."</p><p>Add your additions in the comments. Together we may create something here that is genuine communication, not just me distributing my opinions to you. Okay? Let's try it.</p></div>
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        <title>Rock Slide</title>
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        <published>2009-11-12T18:22:34-05:00</published>
        <updated>2009-11-12T18:24:15-05:00</updated>
        <summary>Lately, we've had some rock slides here in Western North Carolina and East Tennessee. Here's one caught on video. Talking about almost being in the wrong place at the right time. Whew! HT: Jason McDougald</summary>
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            <name>Ed Brenegar</name>
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<div xmlns="http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml"><p>Lately, we've had some rock slides here in Western North Carolina and East Tennessee. Here's one caught on video.</p><p /><p align="center" class="asset asset-video" style="margin: 0pt auto; display: block;"><object height="344" width="425"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/ZVYGJYnJTi0&amp;color1=0xb1b1b1&amp;color2=0xcfcfcf&amp;feature=player_embedded&amp;fs=1" /><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true" /><param name="allowScriptAccess" value="always" /><embed allowfullscreen="true" allowscriptaccess="always" height="344" src="http://www.youtube.com/v/ZVYGJYnJTi0&amp;color1=0xb1b1b1&amp;color2=0xcfcfcf&amp;feature=player_embedded&amp;fs=1" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" width="425" /></object></p><p>Talking about almost being in the wrong place at the right time. Whew!</p><p>HT: <a href="http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=745956949&amp;ref=nf">Jason McDougald</a></p></div>
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        <title>Veterans Day - the importance of telling your stories</title>
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        <summary>On this Veterans Day, let us remember the men and women who served in the Armed Forces of our country. If you can visit a museum or historical site and honor those who sacrificed for the nation. Recently, I went...</summary>
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<div xmlns="http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml"><p>On this Veterans Day, let us remember the men and women who served in the Armed Forces of our country. If you can visit a museum or historical site and honor those who sacrificed for the nation. </p><p>Recently, I went with my father to attend his 19th Bomb Group reunion. It was held at the National Museum of the US Air Force at Wright Patterson Airbase, Dayton, Ohio. During the reunion, a memorial was dedicated. Here is Brig.General USAF (ret.) Charles Metcalf, director of the museum spoke briefly upon receiving the memorial gift.</p><p /><p align="center" class="asset asset-video" style="margin: 0pt auto; display: block;"><object height="306" width="500"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/eA8BwiZi3yE&amp;fs=1" /><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true" /><param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always" /><embed allowfullscreen="true" allowscriptaccess="always" height="306" src="http://www.youtube.com/v/eA8BwiZi3yE&amp;fs=1" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" width="500" /></object></p><p>If only 6% of the US population has any direct experience with the military, all the more reason to tell the stories that help to show who these men and women are. </p><p>Thank you for your service.</p>

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        <title>The Leader's Guide to Social Media</title>
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        <published>2009-11-10T23:36:21-05:00</published>
        <updated>2009-11-10T23:36:21-05:00</updated>
        <summary>This week's Weekly Leader column - The Leader's Guide to Social Media - addresses the value of social media to organizational leaders. I know many people who resist using social media. They are content with a relatively small circle of...</summary>
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            <name>Ed Brenegar</name>
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<div xmlns="http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml"><p>This week's Weekly Leader column - <a href="http://weeklyleader.net/2009/leadership-qa-a-leader%E2%80%99s-guide-to-social-media/">The Leader's Guide to Social Media</a> -  addresses the value of social media to organizational leaders.<a href="http://edbrenegar.typepad.com/.a/6a00d8341c66c653ef0120a676f3e2970b-popup" onclick="window.open( this.href, '_blank', 'width=640,height=480,scrollbars=no,resizable=no,toolbar=no,directories=no,location=no,menubar=no,status=no,left=0,top=0' ); return false" style="float: right;"><img alt="Social Media Icons - 125__608x608_01-iconsetc-black-inlay-on-steel-social-media-icons-webtreats-preview" class="asset asset-image at-xid-6a00d8341c66c653ef0120a676f3e2970b " src="http://edbrenegar.typepad.com/.a/6a00d8341c66c653ef0120a676f3e2970b-500wi" style="margin: 0px 0px 5px 5px;" /></a></p><p>I know many people who resist using social media. They are content with a relatively small circle of relationships. They prefer face-to-face interaction, or at least conversation by telephone.</p><p>This is a luxury that most business can no longer afford. They must adopt a social media strategy in order to have access to the widest possible network of information and influence possible.  Welcome to the age of social media</p><p /></div>
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    <entry>
        <title>The Fall of the Berlin Wall - 20th Anniversary</title>
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        <published>2009-11-09T20:52:12-05:00</published>
        <updated>2009-11-09T20:55:44-05:00</updated>
        <summary>Twenty years ago today, the unthinkable occurred. The Berlin Wall, which had divided the city since the early 1960s, came crumbling down. It was an act of freedom for those who had lived under the Communist rule in eastern Europe....</summary>
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            <name>Ed Brenegar</name>
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<div xmlns="http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml"><p>Twenty years ago today, the unthinkable occurred. <a href="http://edbrenegar.typepad.com/.a/6a00d8341c66c653ef0120a666d9ad970b-popup" onclick="window.open( this.href, '_blank', 'width=640,height=480,scrollbars=no,resizable=no,toolbar=no,directories=no,location=no,menubar=no,status=no,left=0,top=0' ); return false" style="float: right;"><img alt="Thefalloftheberlinwall1989" class="asset asset-image at-xid-6a00d8341c66c653ef0120a666d9ad970b " src="http://edbrenegar.typepad.com/.a/6a00d8341c66c653ef0120a666d9ad970b-500wi" style="margin: 0px 0px 5px 5px;" /></a>The Berlin Wall, which had divided the city since the early 1960s, came crumbling down. It was an act of freedom for those who had lived under the Communist rule in eastern Europe. Two years later the Communist government in the Soviet Union collapsed and new democracy sprang up over night.</p>

<p>My generation remembers this as a watershed moment in our lives. We grew up with a clear distinction between free and oppressed. The West was free and the people's of the East, who were living under the domination of the Communist governments of the Soviet bloc, were not. Today, it is a different story. </p>

<p>That was an ideological age. Today, hardly at all. Twenty years ago, freedom was a real topic of debate. Today, there is no debate, only the exercise of power. </p>

<p>Don't think those issues matter any more. Think we've moved beyond them. Here are some voices that stood for freedom before the Wall came down.</p>



<p><a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lech_Wa%C5%82%C4%99sa">Lech Walesa</a> - Polish Solidarity movement leader and first president of Polish third republic<br />


<span class="body" /></p><blockquote><span style="color: #800000;"><span class="body">"As a nation we have the right to decide our own
affairs, to mould our own future. This does not pose any danger to
anybody. Our nation is fully aware of the responsibility for its own
fate in the complicated situation of the contemporary world."</span>
</span></blockquote><blockquote><span style="color: #800000;"><font class="sqq">“We hold our heads high, despite the price we have paid, because freedom is priceless.”</font></span></blockquote>

<blockquote><span style="color: #800000;"><font class="sqq">“It takes really a long while for people to learn to
take advantage of (democracy). So the legal framework of democracy can
function everywhere. But as we say in Poland, it's hard to make a bull
move unless it really wants to.”</font></span></blockquote><blockquote><span style="color: #800000;"><font class="sqq">"</font><span class="body">I realize that the strivings of the Polish people
gave rise, and still do so, to the feelings of understanding and
solidarity all over the world.</span>"
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<p><font class="sqq"><a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Andrei_Sakharov">Andrei Sakharov</a> - Soviet scientist and dissident</font></p><blockquote><p><span style="color: #800000;"><font class="sqq">“Our country, like every modern state, needs profound
democratic reforms. It needs political and ideological pluralism, a
mixed economy and protection of human rights and the opening up of
society.”</font></span></p>

<p><span style="color: #800000;"><font class="sqq">"Profound
insights arise only in debate, with a possibility of counterargument,
only when there is a possibility of expressing not only correct ideas
but also dubious ideas."</font></span></p>

<span style="color: #800000;">"Freedom
of thought is the only guarantee against an infection of people by mass
myths, which, in the hands of treacherous hypocrites and demagogues,
can be transformed into bloody dictatorships."</span>

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<p><font class="sqq"><a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Solzhenitsyn">Alexandre Solzhenitsyn</a> - Russian author and Noble Prize recipient</font></p><blockquote><span style="color: #800000;"><font class="sqq">“Justice is conscience, not a personal conscience but
the conscience of the whole of humanity. Those who clearly recognize
the voice of their own conscience usually recognize also the voice of
justice."</font></span></blockquote><blockquote><span style="color: #800000;"><font class="sqq">“In our country, the lie has become not just a moral category but a pillar of the State”</font></span></blockquote><blockquote><span style="color: #800000;"><font class="sqq">“For us in Russia communism is a dead dog. For many people in the West, it is still a living lion.”</font></span></blockquote><blockquote><span style="color: #800000;"><font class="sqq">“The revolution is an amalgam of former Party
functionaries, quasi- democrats, KGB officers, and black-market
wheeler-dealers, who are standing in power now and have represented a
dirty hybrid unseen in world history”</font></span></blockquote>

<p><font class="sqq"><a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Vaclav_Havel">Vaclav Havel</a> - Czech poet and first president of the Czech republic <br /></font></p><blockquote><p><span style="color: #800000;">"The exercise of power is determined by thousands of
interactions between the world of the powerful and that of the
powerless, all the more so because these worlds are never divided by a
sharp line: everyone has a small part of himself in both.</span><span style="color: #800000;">" </span></p>

</blockquote><blockquote><p><span style="color: #800000;"><span class="body">"Without free, self-respecting, and autonomous
citizens there can be no free and independent nations. Without internal
peace, that is, peace among citizens and between the citizens and the
state, there can be no guarantee of external peace.</span>" <br /></span></p></blockquote><p>

To those who now know freedom who once did not, please do not let us forget what your brothers and sisters, friends and family died to secure. May your voices reach our ears and may we hear so we too may understand.</p><a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/File:Thefalloftheberlinwall1989.JPG">Image data
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        <title>Life's little pleasures are the best ones</title>
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<div xmlns="http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml"><a href="http://www.davidpuu.com/blog/?p=1854&amp;cpage=1#comment-3600">David Pu'u posts on textures in his Ventura, California world. </a>Here's one of his pictures.<a href="http://edbrenegar.typepad.com/.a/6a00d8341c66c653ef0128755f4d71970c-popup" onclick="window.open( this.href, '_blank', 'width=640,height=480,scrollbars=no,resizable=no,toolbar=no,directories=no,location=no,menubar=no,status=no,left=0,top=0' ); return false" style="display: inline;"><img alt="Two Tree Sentinels - David Pu'u" class="asset asset-image at-xid-6a00d8341c66c653ef0128755f4d71970c " src="http://edbrenegar.typepad.com/.a/6a00d8341c66c653ef0128755f4d71970c-500wi" /></a> <br /> <p>David also points to this video which celebrates the small business person. Listen to what this man says about his purpose in business. </p><p>A comment before viewing. When I started my business in 1995, one of the reasons to do leadership development and planning was to help small businesses and community organizations find strength and sustainability. It wasn't just for the business' sake. Rather it was for the sake of the people who were their employees, their customers, their recipients, for the families and the community. I was convinced then, and remain convinced now that the strength of the nation is not based on what happens on Capital Hill or in the White House, but rather what happens in small businesses on Main Street in cities and towns throughout American, and the world. So, when I watched this video of a guy who sells soda pop, my heart was glad, because he gets it too. Enjoy.</p><p /><p align="center" class="asset asset-video" style="margin: 0pt auto; display: block;"><object height="306" width="500"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/gPbh6Ru7VVM&amp;fs=1" /><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true" /><param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always" /><embed allowfullscreen="true" allowscriptaccess="always" height="306" src="http://www.youtube.com/v/gPbh6Ru7VVM&amp;fs=1" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" width="500" /></object></p><p />Thanks also to <a href="http://sethgodin.typepad.com/seths_blog/2009/11/everyone-is-clueless.html">Seth Godin</a> and <a href="http://videos.komando.com/2009/10/11/amazing-soda-shop/">Kim Komando</a> who contributed to the material that is presented here.

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        <title>Notes in search of a presentation</title>
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        <published>2009-11-05T15:21:41-05:00</published>
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        <summary>Every person I meet ... ... is in transition ... has questions ... needs hope and integrity ... has ideas that illuminate and obscure ... wants meaning and fulfillment in life ... has relationships that either add or detract from...</summary>
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        <title>Values - the surprising key to future growth</title>
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        <summary>This week's Work Life Lead column at Weekly Leader - Values - the surprising key to future growth - is up and running. I'm writing in response to a question that Vickie Gray asked me on Twitter. @edbrenegar making choices...</summary>
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<div xmlns="http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml"><p>This week's <a href="http://weeklyleader.net/category/work-life-lead/">Work Life Lead</a> column at <a href="http://weeklyleader.net">Weekly Leader</a> - <a href="http://weeklyleader.net/2009/values-the-surprising-key/">Values - the surprising key to future growth</a> - is up and running. </p>

<p>I'm writing in response to a question that <a href="http://www.adaptivecoach.com">Vickie Gray</a> asked me on <a href="http://twitter.com/adaptivecoach/statuses/5361235306">Twitter</a>. </p><blockquote><p><span style="color: #800000;">@edbrenegar</span><em><span style="color: #800000;"> making choices abt what to give up in order to make space for growth - how do you choose?</span></em></p>
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        <title>The Recession is a Game Changer</title>
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        <summary>Do you need proof that the world has changed with this recession? Check out Tom Peter's list, Recession46: Forty-six “Secrets” and “Clever Strategies” For Dealing with the Recession of 2008-XXXX. He starts by stating the obvious. You come to work...</summary>
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<div xmlns="http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml"><p>Do you need proof that the world has changed with this recession? </p><p>Check out Tom Peter's list, <a href="http://bit.ly/2bFUNV">Recession46: Forty-six “Secrets” and “Clever Strategies” For Dealing with the Recession of 2008-XXXX</a>.</p><p>He starts by stating the obvious.</p><blockquote><p><span style="color: #800000;">You come to work earlier.</span><br /><span style="color: #800000;">You leave work later.</span><br /><span style="color: #800000;">You work harder.</span><br /><span style="color: #800000;">You may well work for less; and, if so, you adapt to the untoward circumstances</span><span style="color: #800000;"> with a smile—even if it kills you inside.</span><br /><span style="color: #800000;">You volunteer to do more.</span><br /><span style="color: #800000;">You dig deep, deeper, deepest—and always bring a good attitude to work.</span><br /><span style="color: #800000;">You fake it if your good attitude flags.</span><br /><span style="color: #800000;">You literally practice your “game face” in the mirror in the morning, and in the loo</span> <span style="color: #800000;">mid-morning.</span><br /><span style="color: #800000;">You give new meaning to the idea and intensive practice of “visible management.”</span><br /><span style="color: #800000;">You take better than usual care of yourself and encourage others to do the same—</span><span style="color: #800000;"> physical well-being significantly impacts mental well-being and response to stress.</span><br /><span style="color: #800000;">You shrug off shit that flows downhill in your direction—buy a shovel or a</span><span style="color: #800000;"> “pre-worn” raincoat on eBay.</span><br /><span style="color: #800000;">You try to forget about “the good old days”—nostalgia is self-destructive</span><br /><span style="color: #800000;">(And bores others.)</span><br /><span style="color: #800000;">You buck yourself up with the thought that “this too shall pass”—but then remind</span><span style="color: #800000;"> yourself that it might not pass any time soon, and so you re-dedicate yourself to</span> <span style="color: #800000;">making the absolute best of what you have now.</span><br /><span style="color: #800000;">You work the phones and then work the phones some more—and stay in touch with</span> <span style="color: #800000;">and on the mind of positively everyone.</span><br /><span style="color: #800000;">You frequently invent breaks from routine, including “weird” ones — “changeups”</span><span style="color: #800000;"> prevent wallowing and bring a fresh perspective.</span><br /><span style="color: #800000;">You eschew all forms of personal excess.</span><br /><span style="color: #800000;">You simplify.</span><br /><span style="color: #800000;">You sweat the details as never before.</span><br /><span style="color: #800000;">You sweat the details as never before.</span><br /><span style="color: #800000;">You sweat the details as never before.</span><br /><span style="color: #800000;">You raise to the sky and maintain at all costs the Standards of Excellence by which</span> <span style="color: #800000;">you unfailingly and unflinchingly evaluate your own performance.</span></p></blockquote><p>In effect, you need two plans going forward. You need a new business plan. And you need a personal development plan.</p><p>Even as government becomes an increasingly intrusive part of our lives, we are more independent than ever before. The social support structure of family and community are not what they once were. Which means that if you do not have an attitude and the behaviors to be resilient and adaptive, then you are going to have a hard time coping with the changes that are taking place.</p><p>Read <a href="http://bit.ly/2bFUNV">Tom Peters whole list</a>. Copy it. Reflect on it. Factor it into your personal development plan. </p><p>HT: <a href="http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=727953031&amp;v=feed&amp;story_fbid=168647893633&amp;ref=mf">Dan Pink</a></p></div>
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        <title>Taleb on Skepticism</title>
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        <summary>Smart people many times outsmart themselves because they are confident about their intellectual ability. I place all politicians in this classification. The result is not an expansive mind open to truth or reality, but rather a closed mine of opinion...</summary>
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<div xmlns="http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml"><p>Smart people many times outsmart themselves because they are confident about their intellectual ability. I place all politicians in this classification. The result is not an expansive mind open to truth or reality, but rather a closed mine of opinion and suspicion. When our minds become closed, we treat our opinions as personal statements, and we treat those who oppose us as threats or even enemies.</p><p>This is what I thought of when I watched this interview with <a href="http://www.fooledbyrandomness.com/">Nassim Nicholas Taleb</a>, author of <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Black-Swan-Impact-Highly-Improbable/dp/1400063515/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&amp;s=books&amp;qid=1257077516&amp;sr=8-1">The Black Swan</a>. Here they are discussing David Cameron, UK Conservative Party leader who may well be the next Prime Minister. In this instance there is no difference between the politics of Britain and of the US. The difference is between kinds of liberalism and conservatism.</p><p /><p align="center" class="asset asset-video" style="margin: 0pt auto; display: block;"><object height="340" width="560"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/Tiu_4zOkMtQ&amp;hl=en&amp;fs=1&amp;" /><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true" /><param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always" /><embed allowfullscreen="true" allowscriptaccess="always" height="340" src="http://www.youtube.com/v/Tiu_4zOkMtQ&amp;hl=en&amp;fs=1&amp;" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" width="560" /></object></p><p>The key here is skepticism. Taleb is making a differentiation within the traditional economic ideology of both the left and the right. They are talking about conservative economic approaches, but the point applies to liberal/ progressives as well.</p><p>Skepticism isn't a tool applied to other people's ideas. It is applied to one's own decisions. It recognizes that every free decision holds risk. The question is how to mitigate the more disastrous consequences related to risk.</p><p>At the heart of Taleb's point is the need for politicians to be circumspect and humble about their own ideas. Their confidence and the public's declining confidence in them should be a sign that something is amiss.</p><p>I find no evidence of this kind of intellectual integrity by the politicians in Washington. This concerns me as it should every person on the planet. What happened a year ago is possible again. Where's the skepticism by the news media, by academics, by the public? There is evidence of it, but it is written off as disloyalty. In essence, check your brain at the door. Just be a good citizen and think as your are told. </p><p>I think it is time for a great deal more skepticism. Remember that on election day Tuesday.</p><p>If you have not read Taleb's books <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Fooled-Randomness-Hidden-Chance-Markets/dp/1400067936/ref=sr_1_3?ie=UTF8&amp;s=books&amp;qid=1257077516&amp;sr=8-3">Fooled By Randomness </a>and <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Black-Swan-Impact-Highly-Improbable/dp/1400063515/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&amp;s=books&amp;qid=1257077516&amp;sr=8-1">The Black Swan</a>, I suggest you do. He is an excellent tonic to the optimism that passes for reason in Washington.<br /> </p></div>
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        <title>"Homelessness is an attitude, not a lifestyle."</title>
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        <summary>Becky Blanton became my friend through her generosity of spirit. At one time she was homeless and depressed, and now she is a globally recognized writer. Listen to her story and then I'll tell another one. Homelessness is many things...</summary>
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<div xmlns="http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml"><p>Becky Blanton became my friend through her generosity of spirit. At one time she was homeless and depressed, and now she is a globally recognized writer. Listen to her story and then I'll tell another one.</p>

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Homelessness is many things and most of them tragic. Becky learned that it was an attitude and not who she was as a person. She inspired many people at TED this summer and this video will inspire millions more.</p>

<p>Over twenty five years ago, my life was impacted by a man who was homeless. His name is Berkeley Tulloch. </p>

<p>Berkeley came up to me one afternoon as I was approaching my car.  On the rear window of my car was a UNC-Chapel Hill decal. He said, "I went there." I turned and found a dirty, smelly, alcoholic homeless man. My first thought, "Yeah, sure."</p>

<p>As it turned out, he did go to Chapel Hill. He was a Ph.D. student in philosophy when his wife and young son were killed in an auto accident. Berkeley was devastated by the loss.  As he told me, he drank through every thing he owned. </p>

<p>At the time I was a young associate pastor in a large Presbyterian church in Atlanta. My responsibilities were for the church's ministries in the city, which included our ministry to homeless people. Berkeley and I became friends. We talked frequently about his homelessness and the loss of his family. He clearly was searching for a way to change his existence. In the vernacular of Becky, though living without a home, Berkley was clearly trying to rid himself of the attitude of homelessness. </p>

<p>Over the course of a year, he took steps forward and backward. There were times I'd sit in a dirty downtown hotel room until he fell asleep in a drunken stupor. And there was the time he came to faith, was baptized and joined our church during a Wednesday Noon service that we held for business people in our neighborhood. </p>

<p>One day Berkeley told me that he wanted to go home. He was ready to be sober. He want to go to Raleigh to Dorothea Dix Hospital and check himself into an alcohol rehab program. I bought him a bus ticket and put him on the bus wondering if I'd ever hear or see him again.</p>

<p>A year later, I had a call from Berkeley. He spent three months at Dix hospital and was now in Sanford living with his brother Bill. He told me that Bill was moving and the he was going to go to Durham and live on the streets so he could help people like himself. He said that it was hard to live under a roof. The call ended. It was the fall of 1985. That was the last I heard from him.<a href="http://edbrenegar.typepad.com/.a/6a00d8341c66c653ef0120a6327148970b-popup" onclick="window.open( this.href, '_blank', 'width=640,height=480,scrollbars=no,resizable=no,toolbar=no,directories=no,location=no,menubar=no,status=no,left=0,top=0' ); return false" style="float: right;"><img alt="Berkeley Tulloch and Father 1986" class="asset asset-image at-xid-6a00d8341c66c653ef0120a6327148970b " src="http://edbrenegar.typepad.com/.a/6a00d8341c66c653ef0120a6327148970b-500wi" style="margin: 0px 0px 5px 5px;" /></a> </p>

<p>In January of this year, I received an email from John Tulloch, Berkley's youngest brother. Over the next several months, we exchanged phone calls and email. </p>

<p>John described the Berkley he knew growing up.</p><blockquote><span style="color: #800000;">Berk was in the 10Th grade when I was born, so my memories of him are few.  I distinctly remember hearing his voice resonate throughout our home as a mix somewhere between Perry Como and Frankie Valli.  He was the most charismatic and intelligent person I would ever know.  Just a few years ago, I learned about a painting  of Aberdeen High School he did and that it was almost thrown out (the school was demolished in the early 70's and they did not know it was a real place).  Someone recognized and retrieved it, gave it a good cleaning and it is in the museum in Aberdeen.</span><br /></blockquote><blockquote><span style="color: #800000;">Berk was away most of his life, and really out of touch with us for most of the 70's.</span><br /></blockquote><p> Berkeley had not gone to Durham but to Charlotte where he eventually worked for the Salvation Army as a truck driver. John wrote me, </p>

<blockquote><span style="color: #800000;">Berkeley died in Charlotte on March 13, 1988 at Memorial Hospital in Charlotte.  He was watching a football game (he loved football!) and ended up having a heart attack.  He survived the heart attack but succumbed to "internal bleeding" the next day.  </span></blockquote>



<p>Becky's message of hope is echoed in Berkley's story. I find it repeated in people who have experienced trauma and tragedy in their lives. To be homeless in mind is to find yourself alienated and isolated from people and places that matter. There is hope if you want to be different, and want it enough. </p><span style="color: #800000;">Additional thoughts about homelessness.</span><p>This an edit version of comments that I made another site where Becky's video was posted.</p><span style="color: #800000;">Becky's message that homelessness is an attitude is a profound one. It
requires some reflection on our part. It means that for some people
they are homeless inside their homes. It may mean that they are
alienated from their families, from society in general and their
behaviors are socially annoying and personally destructive. We've
probably all known people like this.<br />
<br />
My point is simply that we need to follow Becky's lead and see these
people not from the standpoint of their physical presence, but rather
as human beings in need, just like us. As I've heard many times from
people after an encounter with a homeless person, "Oh, but for the
grace of God, go I."<br />
<br />
To be homeless is a very complex experience. It is the total lost of
personal structure that alienates us from the social structures that
support most people. As a seminarian thirty years ago in Boston, I took
a course on urban ministry. Our first three days were spent on the
streets of Boston with 50 cents in our pockets, learning in a small way
what it meant to be homeless. Quickly, I learned to scavage for food
from discarded meals at an outdoor market. I sold blood. I slept
shoulder to shoulder with other homeless men on the floor of a shelter.
I stood by the magazine rack in an all night grocery store falling
asleep on my feet. I loitered in the Boston Pubic Library. I rode the
"T" to pass the time. And my most physical memory of the experience was
how much my feet hurt.<br />
<br />
The homeless don't need our pity. They need understanding and a
structure that provides safety and security so that relationships can
be formed. Giving money to panhandlers doesn't do it. They actually can
do a pretty good business if they are disciplined about it.
Establishing shelters where their mental and physical health can be
addressed is an important part of creating the structures that make it
possible for homeless people, like my friend Berkeley, to change.<br />
<br />
I'm really grateful to Becky for her willingness to tell her story. You
did a beautiful job. I hope it has a wide impact upon people across the
world. It has certainly touched me by taking me back in time.</span>

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        <summary>of the five people we spend most of our time with." My friend, Meridith Elliot Powell shared this with a group of us yesterday. "I'm thinking with whom do I spend most of my time?" I mentioned this at a...</summary>
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<div xmlns="http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml"><span style="color: #800000;">of the five people we spend most of our time with." </span>

<p>My friend, Meridith Elliot Powell shared this with a group of us yesterday. </p>

<span style="color: #800000;">"I'm thinking with whom do I spend most of my time?"</span>

<p>I mentioned this at a social network site, and another friend, Becky Blanton responded,</p><blockquote><span style="color: #800000;">The five person average is interesting. I'll have to think about
that...and then flip it...and make it the five people I WANT to spend
the most time with to be who I want to be. So often we are who we are
by default, not by design.</span></blockquote><p>
Yeah, that's true too. </p><p>Then I thought, <span style="color: #800000;">"I wonder who would put me on their list?"</span></p><p>After some reflection, I decided if I'm going to be the average of five people I choose to spend time with, then I'm going to at least pick people who enjoy a good meal, like to travel and enjoy good conversation.</p></div>
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        <title>Sustaining engagement</title>
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        <summary>Dan Pink posted this video under the theme of "motivation through engagement." There are many clever people who know how to use technology to engage people with ideas. This is not the challenge. It is a totally different thing to...</summary>
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<div xmlns="http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml"><p><a href="http://www.danpink.com/archives/2009/10/how-do-you-motivate-healthy-green-behavior">Dan Pink</a> posted this video under the theme of <em><span style="color: #800000;">"motivation through engagement."
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<p>There are many clever people who know how to use technology to engage people with ideas. This is not the challenge. It is a totally different thing to sustain that engagement for a real change in behavior. </p>

<p>One of Dan's commenters wrote, </p><div class="comment-text">
				<blockquote><span style="color: #800000;">I love the concept, but I’d like to
see this same study done on those same stairs a year from now. I
suspect that those numbers will drop significantly once the novelty
wears off — and it becomes more annoying than interesting.</span></blockquote>
<blockquote><p><span style="color: #800000;">Still, the concept is powerful and intriguing and I can see a lot of relevance to other industries and problems. (<a href="http://www.thesocialleader.com/">Stephen Palmer</a>)</span></p></blockquote></div><p>

Engagement requires leadership. By this, I mean, that someone needs to constantly be looking for ways to engage people in the idea. It doesn't have to be much, but it has to happen. </p><p><strong><span style="color: #800000;">How can engagement with the stairs be sustained? </span></strong></p><p>Right now, the stairs are a curiosity. They need to become a social gathering point for group creativity. So, engagement could mean a video contest of a group of people who write and perform a song on the stairs and post to YouTube as a contest. I suspect that groups from all over Europe would come to this subway station to perform and video their song. </p><p>Whatever the endeavor, leaders have to keep the idea of the initiative before people all the time. If it is a online discussion at a social networking site, the person who is in the leadership role needs to respond to people. Do so and interaction and conversation is sustained. </p><p><strong><span style="color: #800000;">Engagement with ideas is an social thing that is facilitated by technology, not the other way around.</span></strong> If you want to motivate through engagement, you have to stay involved. It is the way to sustain and grow an idea's spread.</p></div>
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        <title>"If we live in a state of constant fear, can we remain human?"</title>
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        <summary>Alexander Solzhenitsyn's In the First Circle has just been published in English. Solzhenitsyn scholar and biographer Edward Ericson in his review describe the central message of the novel.When faced with the moral dilemma of what to do about the stunning...</summary>
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<div xmlns="http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml"><p><a href="http://www.google.com/url?sa=t&amp;source=web&amp;ct=res&amp;cd=1&amp;ved=0CAkQFjAA&amp;url=http%3A%2F%2Fen.wikipedia.org%2Fwiki%2FAleksandr_Solzhenitsyn&amp;ei=0i3WSoZU3Y62B-WXhZkM&amp;usg=AFQjCNHACF20ZurG7nJGQhFhCfDoT8z5RQ&amp;sig2=RRUrVTpEgOhrjCZtfTOl5A">Alexander Solzhenitsyn</a>'s <a href="http://www.amazon.com/First-Circle-Uncensored/dp/0061479012/ref=sr_1_6?ie=UTF8&amp;s=books&amp;qid=1255550178&amp;sr=8-6">In the First Circle</a> has just been published in English. <a href="http://edbrenegar.typepad.com/.a/6a00d8341c66c653ef0120a5e6488a970b-popup" onclick="window.open( this.href, '_blank', 'width=640,height=480,scrollbars=no,resizable=no,toolbar=no,directories=no,location=no,menubar=no,status=no,left=0,top=0' ); return false" style="float: right;"><img alt="In the First Circle - Solzhenitsyn - WSJ" class="asset asset-image at-xid-6a00d8341c66c653ef0120a5e6488a970b " src="http://edbrenegar.typepad.com/.a/6a00d8341c66c653ef0120a5e6488a970b-500wi" style="margin: 0px 0px 5px 5px;" /></a> <a href="http://online.wsj.com/article/SB10001424052970204488304574431450891084972.html">Solzhenitsyn scholar and biographer Edward Ericson</a> in his review describe the central message of the novel.</p><blockquote><span style="color: #800000;">When faced with the moral dilemma of what to do about the stunning
secret that has fallen into his possession, Volodin asks himself, "If
we live in a state of constant fear, can we remain human?" He exchanges
the potentially self-indulgent principle that "we are given only one
life" for the consequential principle that "we are given only one
conscience." His action establishes the ideal of "humanity," and thus
sets the bar by which all the novel's characters are judged.</span></blockquote>

<p>The United States and the former Soviet Union are worlds apart. Yet the people who inhabit both worlds are human beings who live each day within a similar moral universe. We each live with various levels of fear in conflict with a conscience that begs us to live with honesty and integrity. </p><p>The question of what does it mean to be human is an important one for our time. For many writers like Solzhenitsyn, the answer lies in how we live under fear, tyranny and oppression. It is something that most of us in the West have never experienced.</p><p>Over past few months, the subject of fear in the workplace has come up in conversation has come up often. Workplace fear has more to do with not knowing what the future holds, instead of an oppressive state imposing rule over a person's conscience. </p>

<p>It is the moral dilemma of living as a free being under Soviet oppression that informs Solzhenitsyn's writings. Solzhenitsyn, best known as the author of <a href="http://www.amazon.com/One-Day-Life-Ivan-Denisovich/dp/0451228146/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&amp;s=books&amp;qid=1255550178&amp;sr=8-1">One Day In The Life of Ivan Denisovich</a> and <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Gulag-Archipelago-1918-1956-Abridged-Investigation/dp/0061253804/ref=sr_1_7?ie=UTF8&amp;s=books&amp;qid=1255550178&amp;sr=8-7">The Gulag Archipelago</a>, spent eight years as a political prisoner which transformed his understanding morality and human dignity.  It was this moral perspective that brought him criticism from the Western critics. His <a href="http://nobelprize.org/nobel_prizes/literature/laureates/1970/solzhenitsyn-lecture.html">Nobel Prize lecture</a>, his 1978 Harvard commencement address - <a href="http://www.columbia.edu/cu/augustine/arch/solzhenitsyn/harvard1978.html">A World Split Apart</a>, and <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Warning-West-Aleksandr-Solzhenitsyn/dp/0374513341/ref=sr_1_2?ie=UTF8&amp;s=books&amp;qid=1255552024&amp;sr=8-2">Warning to the West</a> are good sources of Solzhenitsyn's perspective.</p>

<p><a href="http://www.amazon.com/First-Circle-Uncensored/dp/0061479012/ref=sr_1_6?ie=UTF8&amp;s=books&amp;qid=1255550178&amp;sr=8-6">In the First Circle</a> is a restored edition of a self-censored version he changed to get past Soviet censors published as <a href="http://www.amazon.com/First-Circle-Aleksandr-I-Solzhenitsyn/dp/B000ZO2SVA/ref=sr_1_37?ie=UTF8&amp;s=books&amp;qid=1255550323&amp;sr=8-37">The First Circle</a>. If this historical moment intrigues you at all, I highly recommend his memoir of dealing with the Soviet government entitled <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Oak-Calf-Aleksandr-Isaevich-Solzhenitsyn/dp/0061320676/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&amp;s=books&amp;qid=1255550369&amp;sr=8-1">The Oak and The Calf</a>. </p>

<p>Ericson writes of Volodin's character. </p><blockquote><p><span style="color: #800000;">No character is more radically altered from one version of the novel to
the other than Volodin. In the shortened book, he is a jaded young
member of the privileged Soviet elite. In the full version, he is a
young functionary whose moral evolution leads him to commit treason
against the regime of which he is a part. Readers are left to ponder,
along with him, the ethics of betraying the worst sort of regime—a
variation on the age-old theme of the legitimacy of tyrannicide. <br /></span></p>

</blockquote><p>While we don't have political prisons here in the United States, the fear of speaking counter to what is the current political fashion is nonetheless real. The challenge for each of us is to know the values that form our conscience, and live by them. The integrity and confidence that comes from doing so is the right kind of counterweight for our lives.</p><p>
An excerpt from chapter one is available <a href="http://online.wsj.com/article/SB10001424052748703746604574463600526350252.html">here</a>.</p></div>
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        <title>Transition Points and Space</title>
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        <published>2009-10-13T23:20:11-04:00</published>
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        <summary>This week's Weekly Leader column - Living in Transition Space - looks at a different way of understanding change. Instead of thinking of change as simply disruptive, we should look at it as a transition process. Our natural tendency will...</summary>
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<div xmlns="http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml"><p>This week's <a href="http://weeklyleader.net/category/leadership-qa/">Weekly Leader </a>column - <a href="http://weeklyleader.net/living-in-transition-space/">Living in Transition Space </a>- looks at a different way of understanding change. <a href="http://edbrenegar.typepad.com/.a/6a00d8341c66c653ef0120a639ddb9970c-popup" onclick="window.open(this.href,'_blank','scrollbars=no,resizable=yes,toolbar=no,directories=no,location=no,menubar=no,status=no,left=0,top=0'); return false" style="display: inline;"><img alt="Transition Points-Space" class="asset asset-image at-xid-6a00d8341c66c653ef0120a639ddb9970c " src="http://edbrenegar.typepad.com/.a/6a00d8341c66c653ef0120a639ddb9970c-pi" style="width: 650px;" title="Transition Points-Space" /></a> <br /> Instead of thinking of change as simply disruptive, we should look at it as a transition process. Our natural tendency will be to focus on the transition point. However, we typically living in the transition space between those junctures of change. </p><p>I'm convinced that the frequency of these transition points are going to increase. As a result, we need to develop new ways of approach our work as organizational leaders. This is what the column addresses this week.</p></div>
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        <title>The Real Secret to Success</title>
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        <summary>Attitude has a lot to do with whether we succeed or not. Read Twitter posts on a regular basis, and one of the patterns you'll notice is unbridled optimism in a formula for success. Too often this optimism denies reality...</summary>
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<div xmlns="http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml"><p>Attitude has a lot to do with whether we succeed or not. Read <a href="http://twitter.com/">Twitter</a> posts on a regular basis, and one of the patterns you'll notice is unbridled optimism in a formula for success. Too often this optimism denies reality and leads us to a kind of self-deception that is destructive of the very success we desire.</p>

<p><a href="http://www.amazon.com/Bright-sided-Relentless-Promotion-Positive-Undermined/dp/0805087494/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&amp;s=books&amp;qid=1255424006&amp;sr=8-1">Bright-Sided:How the Relentless Promotion of Positive Thinking Has Undermined America by Barbara Ehrenreich</a> and <a href="http://www.amazon.com/s/ref=nb_ss_0_8?url=search-alias%3Dstripbooks&amp;field-keywords=we+are+doomed&amp;x=0&amp;y=0&amp;sprefix=we+are+d">We Are Doomed: Reclaiming Conservative Pessimism by John Derbyshire</a> approached the topic of optimism from opposite sides of the political spectrum. <a href="http://online.wsj.com/article/SB10001424052748703298004574457743674931898.html">Megan Cox Gurdon</a> in her review in the Wall Street Journal quotes them.</p>

<blockquote><p><span style="color: #800000;">"We need to brace ourselves for a struggle against terrifying
obstacles, both of our own making and imposed by the natural world,"
warns Ms. Ehrenreich. "Things are bad and getting worse, any fool can
see that," warns Mr. Derbyshire.</span></p>
</blockquote>

<p>Though naturally an optimistic person, I do find the modern phenomenon of positive thinking highly problematic. Sort of a "mind over matter" for modern people. It is often used as bulwark against the realities of life. For many of us, we are a pain-avoiding, death-denying culture that runs from conflict into the arms of an uncritical belief in positive. While it may appear that the opposite of being positive is being negative or pessimistic, I believe it is a more complicated.</p><blockquote><span style="color: #800000;">Especially provoking to Ms. Ehrenreich is the pervasiveness of the
notion that a woman can improve her chances of survival by maintaining
a perky outlook. The scientific basis for this belief is thin at best,
yet, as she writes, it's a powerful "ideological force" that goes well
beyond medicine and "encourages us to deny reality, submit cheerfully
to misfortune, and blame only ourselves for our fate."</span></blockquote>
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 <div class="insetFullBracket" id="articleImage_1" style="visibility: hidden;"><div class="insetFullBox"><a name="U10187872062XEF" /></div></div></div></div><blockquote><p><span style="color: #800000;">Her
curiosity (and disgust) aroused, Ms. Ehrenreich delves into the long
history of positive thinking in America, which might be summarized
thus: dour 18th-century Calvinism begat floaty 19th-century New
Thought, which begat 20th-century New Ageism, Norman Vincent Peale and
today's mega-church "prosperity gospel."</span> </p>

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<p><a name="U10187872062OXD" style="font-family: yui-tmp;" /><span style="color: #800000;">As Ms. Ehrenreich disapprovingly
explains, positive thinking has saturated not just American religion
but also corporate life and popular culture, and it is rapidly soaking
into modern psychology. The problem for her is that people who are
insistently reciting inspirational phrases won't hear the siren's wail
in time to save themselves. Ms. Ehrenreich cranks her indignation up
highest when aiming at the bankers, economists, bureaucrats and
business honchos whose near-hallucinatory positive thinking, she
believes, has pushed us all to the brink of economic collapse. </span></p>
</blockquote><p>
For me the dividing line is not between optimism and pessimism, but between entitlement and responsibility.  </p><p>I find optimism a shell covering for a belief in our own entitlement to health, wealth, happiness and a life free of hardship. It explains to me the long century long shift from an Emersonian self-reliance to the point that we have become wards of a benign, beneficient state.<span style="text-decoration: underline;"><a href="http://edbrenegar.typepad.com/.a/6a00d8341c66c653ef0120a6361bee970c-popup" onclick="window.open( this.href, '_blank', 'width=640,height=480,scrollbars=no,resizable=no,toolbar=no,directories=no,location=no,menubar=no,status=no,left=0,top=0' ); return false" style="float: right;"><img alt="Four Questions Diagram" class="asset asset-image at-xid-6a00d8341c66c653ef0120a6361bee970c " src="http://edbrenegar.typepad.com/.a/6a00d8341c66c653ef0120a6361bee970c-320wi" style="margin: 0px 0px 5px 5px;" /></a> </span> </p><p>I don't believe optimism in itself is bad. Rather, it is the popular contemporary form that denies reality. My conversation guide the <a href="http://edbrenegar.typepad.com/AllIMPACTDiagrams.pdf">Four Questions That Every Leader Must Ask</a> is built around a more realistic perspective of our life and work situations. The third question focuses optimistically on the opportunities that we have now. These opportunities require us to take action. There is no entitlement here. All there is an opportunity and a choice whether to pursue it or not.</p><p>The fourth question focuses on the problems that we personally have created. Intentionally, I am not looking at the challenges that our various contexts provide us. For example, we can see the recession as a problem that entitles us to feel sorry for ourselves and receive a government bailout. Instead, we need to look at what situations we have control over, and address them effectively. </p><p>The problematic issue of optimism that Ehrenreich and Derbyshire address is really a modern phenomenon. It was social philosopher <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Leviathan_%28book%29">Thomas Hobbes</a>, 350 years ago, who wrote that <em><span style="color: #800000;">"the life of man, solitary, poor, nasty, brutish, and short</span></em>." This is no longer a view widely supported by the average person. Prosperity, even in the midst of a global recession, is rapidly expanding throughout the world. In places where poverty and disease had been the normal experience of people for centuries, middle class wealth is beginning to emerge.</p><p>While I would not suggest we go back to the days of Hobbes, I would suggest that a more realistic approach to life accomplish precisely what the optimists and positivity-gurus promise. And this realism is not quite the pessimism of Ehrenreich and Derbyshire. Instead, it is closer to the thinking of the ancient Stoics. </p><blockquote><p>Greek slave and Stoic teacher Epictetus wrote, <em><span style="color: #800000;">"Difficulties
show men what they are. In case of any difficulty remember that God has
pitted you against a rough antagonist that you may be a conqueror, and
this cannot be without toil."</span></em>  Roman emperor, </p><p>Marcus Aurelius wrote, <em><span style="color: #800000;">"You will find rest from vain fancies if you perform every act in life as though it were your last."</span></em></p></blockquote><p>When the hardships in life are faced with reason and determination, we gain a richer appreciation of success and happiness. It is this perspective that guided Admiral James Stockdale (<a href="http://weeklyleader.net/work-life-lead-you-are-in-charge-of-you/">whom I've written about here</a>) as the highest ranking officer imprisoned at the Hanoi Hilton during the Vietnam War. In his discussion with Jim Collins, when asked who didn't make it out, and his response was the optimists. This was so because they believed that if they just were optimistic that it would counter reality. Optimism only serves us when we use it to generate a determined will and persistence to work through hardships to achieve success. </p><p>A positive outlook serves only when we embrace reality and commit ourselves to overcome the obstacles that stand in our way of success. This is not an entitlement mindset that comes from believing that we deserve success because of our positive attitude.</p><p>There is no replacement for hard work, realistic self-criticism, a passionate vision worked out with commitment and perseverance and a recognition that much of our success is a product of other people's contributions and the good fortune of being in the right place at the right time.<br /> </p><p /></div>
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        <title>Is Small Business at a Crossroads</title>
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        <summary>In my browsing this morning, I came across this article from the Federal Reserve Bank of Atlanta - Prospects for a small business-fueled employment recovery. Here is a quote from a speech given by William Dudley of the Federal Reserve...</summary>
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<div xmlns="http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml"><p>In my browsing this morning, I came across this article from the Federal Reserve Bank of Atlanta - <a href="http://macroblog.typepad.com/macroblog/2009/10/prospects-for-a-small-business-fueled-employment-recovery.html">Prospects for a small business-fueled employment recovery</a>.  Here is a quote from a speech given by William Dudley of the Federal Reserve Bank of New York. </p><blockquote><span style="color: #800000;">"For small business borrowers, there are three problems. First, the
fundamentals of their businesses have often deteriorated because of the
length and severity of the recession—making many less creditworthy.
Second, some sources of funding for small businesses—credit card
borrowing and home equity loans—have dried up as banks have responded
to rising credit losses in these areas by tightening credit standards.
Third, small businesses have few alternative sources of funds. They are
too small to borrow in the capital markets and the Small Business
Administration programs are not large enough to accommodate more than a
small fraction of the demand from this sector."</span></blockquote>

<p>Whether you work in a small business or patronize one, it is an important article to reflect upon. Look at this chart that I've posted from the article and especially the results from 2007-2008.<span style="text-decoration: underline;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><a href="http://edbrenegar.typepad.com/.a/6a00d8341c66c653ef0120a622e613970c-popup" onclick="window.open( this.href, '_blank', 'width=640,height=480,scrollbars=no,resizable=no,toolbar=no,directories=no,location=no,menubar=no,status=no,left=0,top=0' ); return false" style="display: inline;"><img alt="Distribution of net gain-loss in employment" class="asset asset-image at-xid-6a00d8341c66c653ef0120a622e613970c " src="http://edbrenegar.typepad.com/.a/6a00d8341c66c653ef0120a622e613970c-750wi" style="width: 750px;" /></a> <br /> </span> <br /> </p>

<p>Job losses from late 2007 through 2008 were 43% from businesses with less that 50 employees. </p>

<p>Let me pose a question. What if 43% of the stimulus money went to these small businesses. What do you think would have happened? Do you think those dollars would be sitting in a bank? I don't think so either. They would have been spent, and real stimulus and real economic strength would have been built.</p>

<p>Having spent the last fourteen years working with small businesses as an organizational consultant, my perspective is different than Washington's. I take a micro, localized view of the economy. Global businesses are not really global, but a collection of local economic operations. There maybe a global headquarters, but it nothing but a building with offices. The real economic engine of those companies is local. The global nature of them makes them efficient. But they are still localized operations where people go to work, pick up their pay check, deposit it in the bank and pay their mortgage, bills, insurance and buy food and other necessities for their families. </p>

<p>We live in a networked age. A local jewelry maker in Indonesia can sell her product line to customers in the US or Europe. She can because of the internet and the global reach of package companies like UPS and FedEx. Here a smart business person on one side of the world can have a successful company selling to people in a nation where 43% of the job losses in one 15 month period were from businesses virtually the same size as her's. What does this tell you about the business climate in the US today?</p>

<p>Linked is a New York Times article - <a href="http://boss.blogs.nytimes.com/2009/08/05/are-medium-sized-businesses-the-job-creators/">Are Medium-Size Businesses the Job Creators?</a> - that suggests that we should change the way we look at business size. Look at this chart from the Bureau of Labor Statistics that was included in the article.</p>
<p> <a href="http://edbrenegar.typepad.com/.a/6a00d8341c66c653ef0120a5cc2796970b-popup" onclick="window.open( this.href, '_blank', 'width=640,height=480,scrollbars=no,resizable=no,toolbar=no,directories=no,location=no,menubar=no,status=no,left=0,top=0' ); return false" style="display: inline;"><a href="http://edbrenegar.typepad.com/.a/6a00d8341c66c653ef0120a5cc3fe0970b-popup" onclick="window.open( this.href, '_blank', 'width=640,height=480,scrollbars=no,resizable=no,toolbar=no,directories=no,location=no,menubar=no,status=no,left=0,top=0' ); return false" style="display: inline;"><img alt="NYT job creation chart.chart" class="asset asset-image at-xid-6a00d8341c66c653ef0120a5cc3fe0970b " src="http://edbrenegar.typepad.com/.a/6a00d8341c66c653ef0120a5cc3fe0970b-600wi" style="width: 600px;" /></a> </a></p>
<p><span style="font-size: 10px;">Source: Bureau of Labor Statistics (Numbers do not total 100 percent due to rounding.)</span><span style="font-size: 15px;"> </span><span style="font-size: 10px;">Job Creation by Firms of Different Sizes, 1992-2008</span></p><p>What should those of us who are small business owners and serve small businesses take away from these two articles?</p><p><strong><span style="color: #800000;">1. Scale matters.</span></strong> The most productive small companies in regard to job creation are those between 50 and 500 employees. If you are starting a business today. You should consider as a part of your business planning process what it would take to reach that threshold of 50 employees. In a number of client situations, the idea came to me that many of their problems would be solved by being just a little bit larger. Then the scale of costs would be more favorable for them.</p><p><strong><em><span style="color: #800000;">What if you don't want to grow that large? What are you alternatives?</span></em></strong></p><p><strong><span style="color: #800000;"><br /></span></strong></p><p><strong><span style="color: #800000;">2. Collaboration leverages size for small businesses.</span></strong> Becoming a collaborative partner with other business provides a way to be big while remaining small. The skills and perspective required to be a good collaborator are not the same as being good at running a small business. </p><p><strong><em><span style="color: #800000;">What if you feel like you've reached a crossroads, a transition point, in both your business and professional life?</span></em></strong></p><p><strong><span style="color: #800000;"><br /></span></strong></p><p><strong><span style="color: #800000;">3. Impact determines what business you are in rather than the activities that you do.</span></strong>  To be successful today requires a change of mind about what business you are in. If you are in the business of providing the same products and doing the same services over and over again for customers, then you may find yourself irrelevant and out of business. However, if you understand the impact you want to create, then you can change your business and/or employment status to put yourself in the best possible position to achieve that impact. If this means that you close your small business and go to work for a medium size one, then that is what you do. In so doing we become a mission-driven workforce, rather than a job activity driven one.</p><p>My main concern is the lack of recognition by Washington of the situation of small business. This isn't a Democrat/Republican, or Bush/Obama issue. It is a national issue that is impacting people, families and communities across our nation. </p><p><strong><em><span style="color: #800000;">What if these are not my issues? What can I do to make a difference?</span></em></strong></p><p><strong><span style="color: #800000;"><br /></span></strong></p><p><strong><span style="color: #800000;">4. Support local small business groups in your local community.</span></strong> In most communities there is an economic development agency. Check with them and offer support to helping attract and support new business. Check and see if there is a local chapter of <a href="http://www.score.org/">SCORE</a> where you live. Offer to teach a class on some aspect of being a small business. Check and see if there is a micro-enterprise organization in your community. Each of these organizations provide help and support to small business. Get involved and you'll be strengthening your community.</p><p><strong><span style="color: #800000;">Is small business at a crossroads?</span></strong> Based on these job numbers, I'd say yes. Support your local small business while we learn to make the changes that are necessary to survive in a very tough climate for business.<br /> </p>

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        <title>The Israeli Example</title>
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        <summary>In the fall of 1981, I saw George Gilder, author of Wealth and Poverty, debate Lester Thurow, author of the Zero-Sum Society. Their discussion was about whether supply-side economics popularized during the Reagan years or Keynesian economics popularized during the...</summary>
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<div xmlns="http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml"><p>In the fall of 1981, I saw <a href="http://www.gildertech.com/">George Gilder</a>, author of <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Wealth-Poverty-Self-Governance-George-Gilder/dp/1558152407/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&amp;s=books&amp;qid=1254819827&amp;sr=8-1">Wealth and Poverty</a>, debate <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lester_Thurow">Lester Thurow</a>, author of the <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Zero-Sum-Society-Distribution-Possibilities-Economic/dp/0465085881/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&amp;s=books&amp;qid=1254819862&amp;sr=1-1">Zero-Sum Society</a>. Their discussion was about whether <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Supply-side_economics">supply-side economics </a>popularized during the Reagan years or <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Keynesian_economics">Keynesian economics</a> popularized during the Roosevelt years and now again in the Bush/Obama years were the route to economic growth and the alleviation of poverty. I left that evening convinced that Gilder was right and Thurow wrong; convinced that economics is not just about numbers but also about our philosophies about human nature and society. Nothing in the intervening 28 years has changed my mind. </p><p>Reading Gilder's essay - <a href="http://www.city-journal.org/2009/19_3_jewish-capitalism.html">Silicon Israel </a>- on the Israeli capitalist resurgence takes me back three decades. As a young guy in his twenties during the 1970s, I remember race, Vietnam and Watergate being the defining issues of my college years. I remember the lack of opportunity as high inflation made it difficult to find jobs. I remember the Carter years as lacking opportunity, of hope and a reason to believe that better years are ahead. Our time, now, reminds me of those days.</p><p><strong><span style="color: #800000;">Some Context</span></strong></p><p>Recently, I reflected on this with a friend in his mid-twenties. He started a business at the age of 18. He is in the process of selling it to another company, and is preparing the next chapter in his life. I have other friends in their twenties and thirties who have their own businesses. When I was their age I didn't know anyone in my peer group who had their own business. They were either still in school, worked for the family business or gone to work in a corporation. What changed this?</p><p>I attribute it to Ronald Reagan. His optimism and the embracing of supply-side economics raised the small business entrepreneur to a status equal to the large corporations. Then in the mid-80s, <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Peter_Drucker">Peter Drucker</a> published his influential <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Innovation-Entrepreneurship-Peter-F-Drucker/dp/0060851139/ref=ntt_at_ep_dpi_4">Innovation and Entrepreneurship</a>, and the personal computer revolution began to take root, and the world changed. Large corporations like Microsoft, Intel, IBM and General Electric created products and services that elevated the ability of a small business owner to create a successful, sustainable business. Add to this the rise of venture capitalism, and an economic revolution took place that made the Clinton years the mirror opposite of the Nixon/Carter years. </p><p>Was there "irrational exuberance" and the creation economic bubbles that eventually burst? Yes, of course. But just as in the 1950s when the economy grew dramatically in large part because of the impact the G.I. bill that made it possible for World War II veterans to get a college education that previously many could not afford. So, took the 1990s were a time where to be an entrepreneur meant a world of opportunity at your doorstep.</p><p> Today, we have returned to the questions of the late 1970s. The debate between Gilder and Thurow still raises the questions that we must answer. What kind of society do we want. What is the nature of freedom, and the role of government in our lives? </p><p><strong><span style="color: #800000;">Reflections</span></strong></p><p>In reflecting on Gilder's article and the years since I heard him, here are some of my conclusions.</p><span style="color: #800000;">1. Our current financial crisis is not a failure of capitalism, but of the corrupting influence of politics into business. <span style="color: #111111;">Where capitalism has been allowed to be practiced without government intrusion, it has been highly successful in transforming lives and communities for the good. </span><br /></span><p><span style="color: #800000;">2. Government has a role in business, but a minimal one of creating trust, not insuring the financial survival on individual businesses. <span style="color: #111111;">The actions of both the Bush and Obama administrations display a certain lack of faith in the system, a lack of clarity about the boundaries between business and government and is producing a delaying effect on recovery. People don't see economic recovery as represented by government action. What they see as recovery is new shops opening. New buildings going up. There family and friends getting new jobs. These are not developments that can be lead from Washington, but more from the state and the local level.  Specific micro-loans make a difference in creating the conditions for wealth to be created.  It is virtually impossible for this to be done at the macro-level of the nation. </span>  <br /></span></p><p><span style="color: #800000;">3. The lessons from the Reagan years are simple. Low taxes increase tax revenues through a growing economy. <span style="color: #111111;">Higher government costs suppress economic growth because it removes capital from the system.</span> </span>This especially true in the relation between federal and state governments to local governments. </p><p>For example, the federal stimulus package is being used where I live to repair roads. Maybe the roads needed repair, maybe they didn't. The point is that this is a temporary stimulus. Once the roads are paved. It is back to where things were. The stimulus isn't building new roads to create new centers of economic life. </p><p><span style="color: #800000;">4. Small, entrepreneurial businesses are the life-blood of any healthy economy.</span> It isn't because there are more of them. It is because these are the people who are taking risks to meet new market needs.  New ideas get tested in small businesses because the risks are lower. Governments discourage the creation of small businesses through higher taxes and intrusive regulations.  </p><p>The course we are on is a return to the 1970s, and not the future that Gilder outlines in his article on Israel. Real hope and change came to that nation. Read all of Gilder's article. It is an instructive study for how a nation can
change. It should give us all hope that the same can happen here again as it once did.</p></div>
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        <title>Seth Godin's Wizardry Explained ... by Seth</title>
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<div xmlns="http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml"><p>I'm an avid reader of <a href="http://sethgodin.typepad.com/seths_blog/2009/10/building-books-that-sell-in-the-digital-age.html">Seth Godin</a>'s books and blog. He is wise and insightful, and worth your time. Here's a <a href="http://toccon.blip.tv/file/970223/">video</a> of Seth talking about his approach to the publication of his books. It is very much like peaking behind the curtain to see the Wizard of Oz. <br />Watch the video. It is a little over a half hour. Well worth your time. I'll comment afterward.</p>
<p><embed allowfullscreen="true" allowscriptaccess="always" height="214" src="http://blip.tv/play/AbvOWgI" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" width="480" /> 
This really isn't about books. It is about the spread of ideas. This means this talk is for all of us who have never published a book. If you have an idea, share it. If you like someone else's idea, share it. If someone's idea has changed your life, tell that story. </p>

<p>Remember the book is the souvenir, not the product. The idea is the product and conversation the vehicle for sharing it. The book is just a marker to remind you of the idea's importance. </p></div>
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        <title>The Importance of Executive Experience</title>
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<div xmlns="http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml"><p><a href="http://senseofevents.blogspot.com/2009/10/mae-west-presidency.html">Donald Sensing</a> writes an interesting and insightful post on President Obama as Chief Executive. He uses Mae West and the Peter Principle as his reference points for describing the President's performance in office.</p><blockquote><span style="color: #800000;">We have here a Mae West presidency, which I illustrate with two quotes of the platinum blondeshell:</span><br /><span style="color: #800000;" /></blockquote><span style="color: #800000;">
</span><blockquote><span style="color: #800000;">
1. It's better to be looked over than overlooked.</span><br /><span style="color: #800000;">
</span><br /><span style="color: #800000;">
2. There's no such thing as bad publicity.</span></blockquote><p><span style="color: #800000;"><span style="color: #111111;">And,</span><br /></span></p><blockquote><p><span style="color: #800000;">... the trip illustrates perfectly why the president is a premier example of the <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Peter_Principle">Peter Principle</a>. </span></p><p><span style="color: #800000;">"The Peter Principle is the principle that "In a Hierarchy
Every Employee Tends to Rise to His Level of Incompetence." It was
formulated by Dr. Laurence J. Peter and Raymond Hull in their 1969 book
The Peter Principle, a humorous treatise which also introduced the
"salutary science of Hierarchiology", "inadvertently founded" by Peter.
...</span></p><span style="color: #800000;">
</span><span style="color: #800000;">
The Peter Principle is a special case of a ubiquitous observation:
anything that works will be used in progressively more challenging
applications until it fails.</span></blockquote>

<p>I'm not totally convinced about the first assessment. Though after the last two weeks with the UN, the G-20 and the Olympics, I'm more open to the notion.  </p><p>I am very much convinced that the Peter Principle has come home to roost in the President. His lack of executive experience has been telling all along. The true believers won't buy this critique, but anyone who has had to run a business sees the tell-tale signs of inexperience.</p>

<p>Here are three examples of poor executive performance by the President.</p>

<p><strong><span style="color: #800000;">1. Managing the budget.</span></strong> Many executives ascend to the highest office in their companies and take on the attitude that the budget is now their personal slush fund. Not only the rise in indebtedness, but the assumption that all our economic problems are solved by throwing money at them, is evidence of an inexperienced executive. </p>

<p><strong><span style="color: #800000;">2. Growing the ranks of middle management.</span></strong> President Obama's use of executive czars is no different than adding more layers of management to a company's staffing chart. Obviously he doesn't know or understand what lean management means. In effect, the czars serve as unaccountable surrogates for the President. This weakens the chief executive officer's position making him more removed from the day-to-day happenings in the organization. </p>

<p><strong><span style="color: #800000;">3. Leading by making hard decisions.</span></strong> This is one part of Sensing's post that I found most insightful as he writes about the relationship between Presidents Kennedy and Eisenhower.</p>

<p><a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_qsjlYtt8u4E/SQwAozt7e2I/AAAAAAAAC5s/fgPl31dEMOU/s1600/KennedyEisenhowerWalking.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_qsjlYtt8u4E/SQwAozt7e2I/AAAAAAAAC5s/fgPl31dEMOU/s320/KennedyEisenhowerWalking.jpg" /></a><span style="color: #800000;">After
John F. Kennedy was elected, President Dwight D. Eisenhower spent many
hours with him. One of the key lessons was this: "All the decisions you
will make," said Eisenhower, "will be hard decisions." Dwight went on
to explain that the easy things will be tended to by cabinet
secretaries and others of the administration with executive authority.
But the tough ones will always be kicked to higher levels to be
decided. At every level, the decisions become more and more difficult
until, at last, the presidential inbox is filled with nothing but the
most difficult items.  </span></p>

<p>Executive inexperience shows when the executive tries to do too much, tries to be too influential in too many areas, tries to push too many agendas, and consequently fails to maintain command of the big picture. This becomes a picture of a leader without focus or discipline.</p><p>From the Iowa caucuses through to today, my impression of Barack Obama is of a talented rhetorician, but not an executive. Unfortunately, making eloquent speeches is really a secondary task of the presidency. It can enhance or detract from the executive responsibilities, but being president is not the same as being the chief spokesperson for the American people. </p><p>President Obama will succeed or fail based on his executive abilities, not his politics or his rhetorical skills. He has much to learn, and little time to do so.  </p>HT: <a href="http://pajamasmedia.com/instapundit/">Instapundit</a></div>
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        <title>See New Now - by Gerald de Jaager &amp; James Ericson - a Leading Questions review</title>
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        <published>2009-09-29T11:36:09-04:00</published>
        <updated>2009-09-29T16:26:14-04:00</updated>
        <summary>We've all heard that perception is reality. What is perception but a mixture of observation, assumptions, our own history and the real world context we are in. Our perceptions are changed into stories to help us explain why the world...</summary>
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<div xmlns="http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml"><p>We've all heard that perception is reality. What is perception but a mixture of observation, assumptions, our own history and the real world context we are in. Our perceptions are changed into stories to help us explain why the world is the way it, and what we must do with it. When our perceptions become too narrow, too defensive, too calcified, then we stop learning and life's goodness begins to recede.</p>

<p>It from this perspective that I began to read <a href="http://www.mastersforum.com/">Gerald de Jaager and James Ericson</a>'s fine new book - <a href="http://www.seenewnow.com/">See New Now: New Lenses for Leadership and Life</a>. It is a book of brief stories intended to open our perceptions about life and leadership. The authors speak of these stories as lens because the stories enable us to visualize more than the story itself. We can see simple, compelling truths that guide us to perceive how we can be better leaders.</p>

<p>De Jaager and Ericson are connected to the <a href="http://www.mastersforum.com/">Masters Forum</a> in Minnesota, a program that has brought top-level thinkers and business leaders to their community. I've been reading Jim Ericson's blog - <a href="http://www.conversationkindling.blogspot.com/">Conversational Kindling</a> - for some time, and just love his talent for telling a story. </p>

<p>The stories are quite short, but well written, and the purpose of the story is clear. It would be a great tool for any leadership team that wanted to expand their ability to think and communicate together.</p>

<p>I'm going to focus on just one of the 24 stories in this book. It deals with the presence of fear in the workplace. The chapter is The Baboon Reflex. They begin with a description of how baboon's hunt better alone than in groups.</p><blockquote><p><strong><span style="color: #800000;">Anything like that ever happen in your organization, or your life? Forgetting the team's goal and worrying instead about who might be gaining on you? These baboons had a goal and they had motivation to achieve it that's just about as powerful as any motivation could be: food and survival. In today's terms, they were "highly incented." But fear undermined them nonetheless.</span></strong></p></blockquote><p>
This is just part of one of many compelling stories. The authors have not just published a book of stories, but have also created study guides for each of the "lens." This is a valuable resource for leaders who want to deepen the interaction of their team.</p><p>I highly recommend this book. It is a book and resources that will open, simply, clarify your perceptions so that wisdom and insight for leading will result. <br />

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        <title>Making it simple, and then following through</title>
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        <published>2009-09-29T05:59:22-04:00</published>
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        <summary>Life is complex without making it more so. We do it to ourselves everyday. We pile up expectations and qualifications that force us to manage competing demands on our attention. Instead of trying to focus more, instead of trying to...</summary>
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<div xmlns="http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml"><p>Life is complex without making it more so. We do it to ourselves everyday. We pile up expectations and qualifications that force us to manage competing demands on our attention. </p><p>Instead of trying to focus more, instead of trying to concentrate more, just try to make it simpler. </p><p>Ask <em><span style="font-size: 19px; color: #800000;"><span style="font-size: 17px; color: #800000;">one</span></span></em> questions.</p><p><span style="color: #800000;">Ask for the ...</span></p><blockquote><p><span style="color: #800000;" /><span style="color: #800000;">one thing to do</span><span style="color: #800000;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="color: #800000;">one person to talk with</span></p><p><span style="color: #800000;" /><span style="color: #800000;">one thing to do over</span><span style="color: #800000;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="color: #800000;">one thing to get done, today</span></p></blockquote><p>Ask these kind of questions, and follow through on the answer.</p><p>The key is make it simple and follow through.</p><p /></div>
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        <title>Building a "sticky" leadership team</title>
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        <summary>My latest Weekly Leader Leadership Q&amp;A column - Sticky Leadership - is about how leaders function in a more relationship based structure.</summary>
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        <title>Listen to Martha, "Follow the Leaders"</title>
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        <summary>Martha is a high school friend of our family who happens to be on the search committee for the new pastor of our church. Over lunch last week, we were talking about her experience on the committee and her thoughts...</summary>
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<div xmlns="http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml"><p>Martha is a high school friend of our family who happens to be on the search committee for the new pastor of our church. Over lunch last week, we were talking about her experience on the committee and her thoughts about the leadership role this new person will take. </p><p>Martha is a bright young woman, and one particular comment stood out as an insight of extraordinary wisdom.</p><blockquote><strong><span style="color: #800000;">He shouldn't come in with an agenda. Instead, he should follow what we are doing already, and learn how to lead us.</span></strong></blockquote><p>The idea that leaders should follow is not precisely the same thing as followership. That has more to do with how those who follow can lead. This idea of Martha's is instead the idea that leaders should follow at times.</p><p>For this to happen it requires three capacities.</p><p>First, <strong><span style="color: #800000;">the capacity of personal maturity</span></strong> that allows for a new leader not to be intimated by a new setting and new people to lead. </p><p>Second, <strong><span style="color: #800000;">the capacity of humility</span></strong> that enables the leader to recognize that he or she doesn't have all the answer, doesn't know all the information necessary, and does not have a sufficient breadth of relationships to lead without following.</p><p>Third, <strong><span style="color: #800000;">the capacity to listen, observe and learn</span></strong> from others.</p><p>Many leaders are ill-prepared for a position of authority. They may have certain analytical skills that makes for good decision-making. But they lack these personal attributes that are often the difference between effective and ineffective leadership.</p><p>New leaders would be wise to listen to Martha and recognize that learn to follow is an asset that will pay dividends as their tenure as leader is played out.</p></div>
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        <title>Twisdom: Twitter Wisdom - by @TomVMorris - a Leading Questions review</title>
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        <summary>(Welcome to friends and followers of Tom Morris, our Poet Philosopher of Twisdomville) Let the tweeting begin! The morning: Right after the fog, clarity comes. Before engagements, prior to the mix, a brief, full moment of calm. Bird songs begin...</summary>
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<div xmlns="http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml"><p><span style="font-size: 15px; color: #800000;"><span style="color: #111111; font-size: 15px;">(Welcome to friends and followers of Tom Morris, our Poet Philosopher of Twisdomville)</span><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 15px; color: #800000;">Let the tweeting begin!<p class="asset asset-image"><a href="http://edbrenegar.typepad.com/.a/6a00d8341c66c653ef0120a59c502b970b-popup" onclick="window.open( this.href, '_blank', 'width=640,height=480,scrollbars=no,resizable=no,toolbar=no,directories=no,location=no,menubar=no,status=no,left=0,top=0' ); return false" style="float: right;"><img alt="Twisdom" border="0" class="at-xid-6a00d8341c66c653ef0120a59c502b970b " src="http://edbrenegar.typepad.com/.a/6a00d8341c66c653ef0120a59c502b970b-800wi" style="margin: 0px 0px 5px 5px;" title="Twisdom" /></a>
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<p><span style="font-size: 15px; color: #800000;">The morning: Right after the fog, clarity comes.</span></p><p class="asset asset-image"><a href="http://edbrenegar.typepad.com/.a/6a00d8341c66c653ef0120a59be2e3970b-popup" onclick="window.open( this.href, '_blank', 'width=640,height=480,scrollbars=no,resizable=no,toolbar=no,directories=no,location=no,menubar=no,status=no,left=0,top=0' ); return false" style="float: right;"><br /></a>
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<p><span style="font-size: 15px; color: #800000;">Before engagements, prior to the mix, a brief, full moment of calm.</span></p><p class="asset asset-image"><a href="http://edbrenegar.typepad.com/.a/6a00d8341c66c653ef0120a59be2e3970b-popup" onclick="window.open( this.href, '_blank', 'width=640,height=480,scrollbars=no,resizable=no,toolbar=no,directories=no,location=no,menubar=no,status=no,left=0,top=0' ); return false" style="float: right;"><br /></a>
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<p><span style="font-size: 15px; color: #800000;"><p>Bird songs begin the soundtrack for this docu-drama of life. A distant rustle. A buzzing bee.</p></span></p><p class="asset asset-image"><a href="http://edbrenegar.typepad.com/.a/6a00d8341c66c653ef0120a59be2e3970b-popup" onclick="window.open( this.href, '_blank', 'width=640,height=480,scrollbars=no,resizable=no,toolbar=no,directories=no,location=no,menubar=no,status=no,left=0,top=0' ); return false" style="float: right;"><br /></a>
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<p><span style="font-size: 15px; color: #800000;">The morning: This morning, never to be again. Attend to it. Relish it. Use it well.</span></p><p class="asset asset-image"><a href="http://edbrenegar.typepad.com/.a/6a00d8341c66c653ef0120a59be2e3970b-popup" onclick="window.open( this.href, '_blank', 'width=640,height=480,scrollbars=no,resizable=no,toolbar=no,directories=no,location=no,menubar=no,status=no,left=0,top=0' ); return false" style="float: right;"><br /></a>
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<p><span style="font-size: 15px; color: #800000;">A crunch of toast, a spread of jam, a topping of nuts, and I just am.</span></p><p class="asset asset-image"><a href="http://edbrenegar.typepad.com/.a/6a00d8341c66c653ef0120a59be2e3970b-popup" onclick="window.open( this.href, '_blank', 'width=640,height=480,scrollbars=no,resizable=no,toolbar=no,directories=no,location=no,menubar=no,status=no,left=0,top=0' ); return false" style="float: right;"><br /></a>
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<p><span style="font-size: 15px; color: #800000;">“Everything on earth is subject to change.” The I Ching</span></p><p class="asset asset-image"><a href="http://edbrenegar.typepad.com/.a/6a00d8341c66c653ef0120a59be2e3970b-popup" onclick="window.open( this.href, '_blank', 'width=640,height=480,scrollbars=no,resizable=no,toolbar=no,directories=no,location=no,menubar=no,status=no,left=0,top=0' ); return false" style="float: right;"><br /></a>
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<p><span style="font-size: 15px; color: #800000;">Lemons to lemonade: When the place burned down where the band Deep Purple was about to record, they wrote the hit “Smoke on the Water.”</span></p><p class="asset asset-image"><a href="http://edbrenegar.typepad.com/.a/6a00d8341c66c653ef0120a59be2e3970b-popup" onclick="window.open( this.href, '_blank', 'width=640,height=480,scrollbars=no,resizable=no,toolbar=no,directories=no,location=no,menubar=no,status=no,left=0,top=0' ); return false" style="float: right;"><br /></a>
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<p><span style="font-size: 15px; color: #800000;">“The loftiest towers rise from the ground.” - Chinese proverb. We all start from where we are.</span></p><p class="asset asset-image"><a href="http://edbrenegar.typepad.com/.a/6a00d8341c66c653ef0120a59be2e3970b-popup" onclick="window.open( this.href, '_blank', 'width=640,height=480,scrollbars=no,resizable=no,toolbar=no,directories=no,location=no,menubar=no,status=no,left=0,top=0' ); return false" style="float: right;"><br /></a>
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<p><span style="font-size: 15px; color: #800000;">Just wrote on our economic and political crises, “Living in Plato’s Cave.” Plato and Aristotle nailed it for us.</span></p><p class="asset asset-image"><a href="http://edbrenegar.typepad.com/.a/6a00d8341c66c653ef0120a59be2e3970b-popup" onclick="window.open( this.href, '_blank', 'width=640,height=480,scrollbars=no,resizable=no,toolbar=no,directories=no,location=no,menubar=no,status=no,left=0,top=0' ); return false" style="float: right;"><br /></a>
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<p><span style="font-size: 15px; color: #800000;">A thought: One half of human nature got us into our current troubles. It will take the other half to get us out.</span></p><p class="asset asset-image"><a href="http://edbrenegar.typepad.com/.a/6a00d8341c66c653ef0120a59be2e3970b-popup" onclick="window.open( this.href, '_blank', 'width=640,height=480,scrollbars=no,resizable=no,toolbar=no,directories=no,location=no,menubar=no,status=no,left=0,top=0' ); return false" style="float: right;"><br /></a>
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<span style="font-size: 14px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;" /></span><p>These are the first tweets of <a href="http://www.morrisinstitute.com/">Tom</a> <a href="http://twitter.com/tomvmorris">Morris. </a></p>

<p>Last spring, in an off-hand comment, I commented to Tom that he should be <a href="http://twitter.com">Twittering</a>. I thought it was a good outlet for his congenial approach to ancient wisdom that he shares daily with people through his books and presentations.  Little did I know that a Twitter phenomenon of Vesuvian proportions would erupt.  </p>

<p>Partial proof is found in the pages of this marvelous book by Tom called <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Twisdom-Twitter-Wisdom-Philosopher-Characters/dp/1448651506/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&amp;s=books&amp;qid=1252355590&amp;sr=1-1">Twisdom:</a> <a href="https://www.createspace.com/3392423">Twitter Wisdom</a>. The tweets you see above are his first ones. What is missing are his thousands of responses to the ReTweets and messages that came in response to his sharing of himself.  Tom Morris on Twitter is a picture of the joyous philosopher at work in the garden of life. After knowing him for almost forty years, I can say that this is some of the best work he has ever done, because it is built on his own personal interaction with people. The Tom you see in Twisdom, is the Tom that many of us have known over the years. </p>

<p>When I first picked up Twisdom, and begin to read, I thought: <strong><span style="color: #800000;">"Tom's a poet. Who knew?" </span></strong></p><p>This is ancient wisdom as the great philosophers of Greece and Rome would have written. Read <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Marcus_Aurelius">Marcus Aurelius</a> and you find short bursts of insight, written down in the midst of the crush of being Roman emperor. Read <a href="http://">Plato</a> and <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Aristotle">Aristotle</a>, and you'll find philosophy for living, not the dry, boring, over-written tomes written for the academy and not for the common citizen.</p>

<p>What Tom has discovered is a virtual <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lyceum#Ancient_Greek_Lyceum_.28word_origins.29">Lyceum</a>, a place to practice his profession as philosopher where he can reach out through the tools of social media and touch the lives of thousands of followering Twitterers. This isn't just a curious incident, but rather the convergence of the ancient art of the imparting of wisdom and a communication vehicle perfectly suited for one another, and the right teacher to make it work.</p>

<p><strong><span style="color: #800000;">A few questions for Tom:</span><span style="color: #800000;"><br /></span></strong></p><p><strong><span style="color: #800000;">1. Today, what are your Twitter numbers? How many are following you, and how many tweets have you done.</span></strong>
<span style="color: #800000;"><br /></span></p><blockquote><p><span style="color: #800000;">I started on Twitter with two followers. Thanks to you, it wasn't just one!  
Now, having done nothing to gain followers except to try to do interesting 
tweets about life, I have over 5,600, and the number is growing each day. (And 
Tom is approaching 22,000 tweets as I write.)</span> </p></blockquote><p><strong><span style="color: #800000;">2. How have you changed since you started Twittering?</span></strong> </p><blockquote><p><span style="color: #800000;">I think using Twitter has made me a more focused thinker and a succinct 
communicator. I have come to value more than ever the ability to distill wisdom 
into a small nugget that can expand in the reader's mind as they mull it over. I 
can wake up in the morning and within a few minutes bring a little ancient 
wisdom or some modern insights into the lives of thousands of people, an 
opportunity I otherwise have had only by flying around the country and speaking 
in the larger meeting facilities and convention centers.</span>
<span style="color: #800000;"><br /></span></p></blockquote><p><strong><span style="color: #800000;">3. Has this impacted your business ventures? What are you doing now that you 
were not when you started?</span></strong> </p><blockquote><p><span style="color: #800000;">Twitter has broadened my sense of business opportunity. For example, in 
connection with the new book, some accomplished Twitter friends started a 
<a href="http://www.zazzle.com/tom+morris+twisdom+gifts">Twisdom Store</a> on <a href="http://www.zazzle.com/tom+morris+twisdom+gifts">Zazzle</a>, with various of my tweets available on shoes, mugs, T 
Shirts, postage stamps, cards, and other items. This is something that literally 
might never have occurred to me.  </span> </p></blockquote><p><span style="color: #800000;"><strong>4. Where does this Twitter thing go? How can it grow to be more substantial 
in linking people together? </strong><br /></span></p><blockquote><p><span style="color: #800000;" /><span style="color: #800000;">I think we'll be coming up with more and more ways to integrate Twitter and 
the Twitter community into larger communities and enterprises, for social good, 
personal growth, and business opportunities. I don't think anyone anticipated a 
year ago how big Twitter would become and how fast it would grow. Now, almost 
anything seems possible.</span></p></blockquote>






<p>Twisdom is filled with "really good stuff." More importantly, it shows how a simple media tool like Twitter can be a vehicle for influence and impact. If you are not on Twitter, you should be, and even if it doesn't make sense to you, at least join up, and follow <a href="http://twitter.com/TomVMorris">Tom</a>.  It is the <strong><span style="color: #800000;">Twisdom way</span></strong>.</p>

<p>Here are three random samples to give you a further taste of this special book by Tom.  
</p>

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</p>


<p><span style="font-size: 15px; color: #800000;">Just started Twitter. So far, I could share with more people by standing in the back yard and talking loud. Appreciate you who listen!</span></p><p class="asset asset-image"><a href="http://edbrenegar.typepad.com/.a/6a00d8341c66c653ef0120a59be2e3970b-popup" onclick="window.open( this.href, '_blank', 'width=640,height=480,scrollbars=no,resizable=no,toolbar=no,directories=no,location=no,menubar=no,status=no,left=0,top=0' ); return false" style="float: right;"><br /></a>
</p> 

<p><span style="font-size: 15px; color: #800000;">Small seeds can create a forest.</span></p><p class="asset asset-image"><a href="http://edbrenegar.typepad.com/.a/6a00d8341c66c653ef0120a59be2e3970b-popup" onclick="window.open( this.href, '_blank', 'width=640,height=480,scrollbars=no,resizable=no,toolbar=no,directories=no,location=no,menubar=no,status=no,left=0,top=0' ); return false" style="float: right;"><br /></a>
</p> 

<p><span style="font-size: 15px; color: #800000;">From Cicero: If right before death, you were given the chance to start this life all over again, from infancy, would you?</span></p><p class="asset asset-image"><a href="http://edbrenegar.typepad.com/.a/6a00d8341c66c653ef0120a59be2e3970b-popup" onclick="window.open( this.href, '_blank', 'width=640,height=480,scrollbars=no,resizable=no,toolbar=no,directories=no,location=no,menubar=no,status=no,left=0,top=0' ); return false" style="float: right;"><br /></a>
</p> 

<p><span style="font-size: 15px; color: #800000;">Start to a philosopher’s day: First waking thought – I wonder what happens if you microwave dog food?</span></p><p class="asset asset-image"><a href="http://edbrenegar.typepad.com/.a/6a00d8341c66c653ef0120a59be2e3970b-popup" onclick="window.open( this.href, '_blank', 'width=640,height=480,scrollbars=no,resizable=no,toolbar=no,directories=no,location=no,menubar=no,status=no,left=0,top=0' ); return false" style="float: right;"><br /></a>
</p> 

<p><span style="font-size: 15px; color: #800000;">“Philosophy begins in wonder.” - Aristotle</span></p><p class="asset asset-image"><a href="http://edbrenegar.typepad.com/.a/6a00d8341c66c653ef0120a59be2e3970b-popup" onclick="window.open( this.href, '_blank', 'width=640,height=480,scrollbars=no,resizable=no,toolbar=no,directories=no,location=no,menubar=no,status=no,left=0,top=0' ); return false" style="float: right;"><br /></a>
</p> 




<p><span style="font-size: 15px; color: #800000;">“What is philosophy? Doesn’t it just mean preparing to meet whatever will come our way?” - Epictetus</span></p><p class="asset asset-image"><a href="http://edbrenegar.typepad.com/.a/6a00d8341c66c653ef0120a59be2e3970b-popup" onclick="window.open( this.href, '_blank', 'width=640,height=480,scrollbars=no,resizable=no,toolbar=no,directories=no,location=no,menubar=no,status=no,left=0,top=0' ); return false" style="float: right;"><br /></a>
</p> 

<p><span style="font-size: 15px; color: #800000;">***<br /></span></p>

<p><span style="font-size: 15px; color: #800000;">“The foolish man seeks happiness in the distance, the wise grows it under his feet.” - J. Robert Oppenheimer</span></p><p class="asset asset-image"><a href="http://edbrenegar.typepad.com/.a/6a00d8341c66c653ef0120a59be2e3970b-popup" onclick="window.open( this.href, '_blank', 'width=640,height=480,scrollbars=no,resizable=no,toolbar=no,directories=no,location=no,menubar=no,status=no,left=0,top=0' ); return false" style="float: right;"><br /></a>
</p> 

<p><span style="font-size: 15px; color: #800000;">The courageous souls around us are here to remind us what we’re here to be.</span></p><p class="asset asset-image"><a href="http://edbrenegar.typepad.com/.a/6a00d8341c66c653ef0120a59be2e3970b-popup" onclick="window.open( this.href, '_blank', 'width=640,height=480,scrollbars=no,resizable=no,toolbar=no,directories=no,location=no,menubar=no,status=no,left=0,top=0' ); return false" style="float: right;"><br /></a>
</p> 

<p><span style="font-size: 15px; color: #800000;">Only courage will crack the thick shell of possibility and yield us the treasures within.</span></p><p class="asset asset-image"><a href="http://edbrenegar.typepad.com/.a/6a00d8341c66c653ef0120a59be2e3970b-popup" onclick="window.open( this.href, '_blank', 'width=640,height=480,scrollbars=no,resizable=no,toolbar=no,directories=no,location=no,menubar=no,status=no,left=0,top=0' ); return false" style="float: right;"><br /></a>
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<p><span style="font-size: 15px; color: #800000;">Courage is willing to walk in darkness while shining a light for others to follow.</span></p><p class="asset asset-image"><a href="http://edbrenegar.typepad.com/.a/6a00d8341c66c653ef0120a59be2e3970b-popup" onclick="window.open( this.href, '_blank', 'width=640,height=480,scrollbars=no,resizable=no,toolbar=no,directories=no,location=no,menubar=no,status=no,left=0,top=0' ); return false" style="float: right;"><br /></a>
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<p><span style="font-size: 15px; color: #800000;">Courage is something we have deep down in us when we need it – if we’ll just reach for it and act!</span></p><p class="asset asset-image"><a href="http://edbrenegar.typepad.com/.a/6a00d8341c66c653ef0120a59be2e3970b-popup" onclick="window.open( this.href, '_blank', 'width=640,height=480,scrollbars=no,resizable=no,toolbar=no,directories=no,location=no,menubar=no,status=no,left=0,top=0' ); return false" style="float: right;"><br /></a>
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<p><span style="font-size: 15px; color: #800000;">Courage is the power of choice even in the face of fear.</span></p><p class="asset asset-image"><a href="http://edbrenegar.typepad.com/.a/6a00d8341c66c653ef0120a59be2e3970b-popup" onclick="window.open( this.href, '_blank', 'width=640,height=480,scrollbars=no,resizable=no,toolbar=no,directories=no,location=no,menubar=no,status=no,left=0,top=0' ); return false" style="float: right;"><br /></a>
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<p><span style="font-size: 15px; color: #800000;">Ok, I’ll quit riffing on courage now! Thanks, you all, for the fun of doing that together!</span></p><p class="asset asset-image"><a href="http://edbrenegar.typepad.com/.a/6a00d8341c66c653ef0120a59be2e3970b-popup" onclick="window.open( this.href, '_blank', 'width=640,height=480,scrollbars=no,resizable=no,toolbar=no,directories=no,location=no,menubar=no,status=no,left=0,top=0' ); return false" style="float: right;"><br /></a>
</p> 

<p><span style="font-size: 15px; color: #800000;">I wouldn’t give four nickels for anyone else’s paradigms.</span></p><p class="asset asset-image"><a href="http://edbrenegar.typepad.com/.a/6a00d8341c66c653ef0120a59be2e3970b-popup" onclick="window.open( this.href, '_blank', 'width=640,height=480,scrollbars=no,resizable=no,toolbar=no,directories=no,location=no,menubar=no,status=no,left=0,top=0' ); return false" style="float: right;"><br /></a>
</p> 

<p><span style="font-size: 15px; color: #800000;">What I bring to Twitter amidst its growing pains: Philosophy that works in pursuit of technology that works!</span></p><p class="asset asset-image"><a href="http://edbrenegar.typepad.com/.a/6a00d8341c66c653ef0120a59be2e3970b-popup" onclick="window.open( this.href, '_blank', 'width=640,height=480,scrollbars=no,resizable=no,toolbar=no,directories=no,location=no,menubar=no,status=no,left=0,top=0' ); return false" style="float: right;"><br /></a>
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<p><span style="font-size: 15px; color: #800000;">***<br /></span></p>

<p><span style="font-size: 15px; color: #800000;">Dogs and philosophers do the greatest good and get the least reward. - Diogenes (who looked like a stray dog).</span></p><p class="asset asset-image"><a href="http://edbrenegar.typepad.com/.a/6a00d8341c66c653ef0120a59be2e3970b-popup" onclick="window.open( this.href, '_blank', 'width=640,height=480,scrollbars=no,resizable=no,toolbar=no,directories=no,location=no,menubar=no,status=no,left=0,top=0' ); return false" style="float: right;"><br /></a>
</p> 

<p><span style="font-size: 15px; color: #800000;">I just caught a glimpse of myself in the mirror, and I’m worried! Promise you’re not just following me for my beauty, ok?</span></p><p class="asset asset-image"><a href="http://edbrenegar.typepad.com/.a/6a00d8341c66c653ef0120a59be2e3970b-popup" onclick="window.open( this.href, '_blank', 'width=640,height=480,scrollbars=no,resizable=no,toolbar=no,directories=no,location=no,menubar=no,status=no,left=0,top=0' ); return false" style="float: right;"><br /></a>
</p> 

<p><span style="font-size: 15px; color: #800000;">I couldn’t even type that with a straight face. For one thing, it’s a little too round. </span></p><p class="asset asset-image"><a href="http://edbrenegar.typepad.com/.a/6a00d8341c66c653ef0120a59be2e3970b-popup" onclick="window.open( this.href, '_blank', 'width=640,height=480,scrollbars=no,resizable=no,toolbar=no,directories=no,location=no,menubar=no,status=no,left=0,top=0' ); return false" style="float: right;"><br /></a>
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<p><span style="font-size: 15px; color: #800000;">Plato believed that justice starts at home, with proper inner harmony. Let’s all make sure we’re right within today!</span></p><p class="asset asset-image"><a href="http://edbrenegar.typepad.com/.a/6a00d8341c66c653ef0120a59be2e3970b-popup" onclick="window.open( this.href, '_blank', 'width=640,height=480,scrollbars=no,resizable=no,toolbar=no,directories=no,location=no,menubar=no,status=no,left=0,top=0' ); return false" style="float: right;"><br /></a>
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<p><span style="font-size: 15px; color: #800000;">Aristotle: Happiness is a life of excellence. Find out what that means for you, and enjoy living it each day.</span></p><p class="asset asset-image"><a href="http://edbrenegar.typepad.com/.a/6a00d8341c66c653ef0120a59be2e3970b-popup" onclick="window.open( this.href, '_blank', 'width=640,height=480,scrollbars=no,resizable=no,toolbar=no,directories=no,location=no,menubar=no,status=no,left=0,top=0' ); return false" style="float: right;"><br /></a>
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<p><span style="font-size: 15px; color: #800000;">Socrates: Only a life enhanced by self-examination can attain its full potential. Ponder yourself today!</span></p><p class="asset asset-image"><a href="http://edbrenegar.typepad.com/.a/6a00d8341c66c653ef0120a59be2e3970b-popup" onclick="window.open( this.href, '_blank', 'width=640,height=480,scrollbars=no,resizable=no,toolbar=no,directories=no,location=no,menubar=no,status=no,left=0,top=0' ); return false" style="float: right;"><br /></a>
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<p><span style="font-size: 15px; color: #800000;">A life that isn’t dynamically balanced will never be properly full.</span></p><p class="asset asset-image"><a href="http://edbrenegar.typepad.com/.a/6a00d8341c66c653ef0120a59be2e3970b-popup" onclick="window.open( this.href, '_blank', 'width=640,height=480,scrollbars=no,resizable=no,toolbar=no,directories=no,location=no,menubar=no,status=no,left=0,top=0' ); return false" style="float: right;"><br /></a>
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<p><span style="font-size: 15px; color: #800000;">Anything worth doing is worth doing badly – at first, when nothing dramatic is at stake, and when you can still adapt.</span></p><p class="asset asset-image"><a href="http://edbrenegar.typepad.com/.a/6a00d8341c66c653ef0120a59be2e3970b-popup" onclick="window.open( this.href, '_blank', 'width=640,height=480,scrollbars=no,resizable=no,toolbar=no,directories=no,location=no,menubar=no,status=no,left=0,top=0' ); return false" style="float: right;"><br /></a>
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<p><span style="font-size: 15px; color: #800000;">Someone just said that feedback is the breakfast of champions. I like that.</span></p><p class="asset asset-image"><a href="http://edbrenegar.typepad.com/.a/6a00d8341c66c653ef0120a59be2e3970b-popup" onclick="window.open( this.href, '_blank', 'width=640,height=480,scrollbars=no,resizable=no,toolbar=no,directories=no,location=no,menubar=no,status=no,left=0,top=0' ); return false" style="float: right;"><br /></a>
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<p><span style="font-size: 15px; color: #800000;">Adaptation just may be the lunch of champions!</span></p><p class="asset asset-image"><a href="http://edbrenegar.typepad.com/.a/6a00d8341c66c653ef0120a59be2e3970b-popup" onclick="window.open( this.href, '_blank', 'width=640,height=480,scrollbars=no,resizable=no,toolbar=no,directories=no,location=no,menubar=no,status=no,left=0,top=0' ); return false" style="float: right;"><br /></a>
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<p><span style="font-size: 15px; color: #800000;">And what’s the dinner of champions, you ask? The menu says: Big, plump, pan-roasted metaphors for explaining their success.</span></p><p class="asset asset-image"><a href="http://edbrenegar.typepad.com/.a/6a00d8341c66c653ef0120a59be2e3970b-popup" onclick="window.open( this.href, '_blank', 'width=640,height=480,scrollbars=no,resizable=no,toolbar=no,directories=no,location=no,menubar=no,status=no,left=0,top=0' ); return false" style="float: right;"><br /></a>
</p> 

<p><span style="font-size: 15px; color: #800000;">Self-knowledge is important in life. But how can we know ourselves? We’re sometimes so elusive.</span></p><p class="asset asset-image"><a href="http://edbrenegar.typepad.com/.a/6a00d8341c66c653ef0120a59be2e3970b-popup" onclick="window.open( this.href, '_blank', 'width=640,height=480,scrollbars=no,resizable=no,toolbar=no,directories=no,location=no,menubar=no,status=no,left=0,top=0' ); return false" style="float: right;"><br /></a>
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<p><span style="font-size: 15px; color: #800000;">We’re all masters of self-deception, so a measure of courageous inner looking should be augmented by: listening to others.</span></p><p class="asset asset-image"><a href="http://edbrenegar.typepad.com/.a/6a00d8341c66c653ef0120a59be2e3970b-popup" onclick="window.open( this.href, '_blank', 'width=640,height=480,scrollbars=no,resizable=no,toolbar=no,directories=no,location=no,menubar=no,status=no,left=0,top=0' ); return false" style="float: right;"><br /></a>
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<p><span style="font-size: 15px; color: #800000;">Just jogged! Deer flies appeared magically and tragically! Ouch! Ouch! Lots of swats!</span></p><p class="asset asset-image"><a href="http://edbrenegar.typepad.com/.a/6a00d8341c66c653ef0120a59be2e3970b-popup" onclick="window.open( this.href, '_blank', 'width=640,height=480,scrollbars=no,resizable=no,toolbar=no,directories=no,location=no,menubar=no,status=no,left=0,top=0' ); return false" style="float: right;"><br /></a>
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<p><span style="font-size: 15px; color: #800000;">The years I walked, neighbors shouted Hi; now that I jog they slow down their cars to cheer me on, and to see if I need medical help.</span></p><p class="asset asset-image"><a href="http://edbrenegar.typepad.com/.a/6a00d8341c66c653ef0120a59be2e3970b-popup" onclick="window.open( this.href, '_blank', 'width=640,height=480,scrollbars=no,resizable=no,toolbar=no,directories=no,location=no,menubar=no,status=no,left=0,top=0' ); return false" style="float: right;"><br /></a>
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<p><span style="font-size: 15px; color: #800000;">Heraclitus (500 BC): Expect the unexpected!</span></p><p class="asset asset-image"><a href="http://edbrenegar.typepad.com/.a/6a00d8341c66c653ef0120a59be2e3970b-popup" onclick="window.open( this.href, '_blank', 'width=640,height=480,scrollbars=no,resizable=no,toolbar=no,directories=no,location=no,menubar=no,status=no,left=0,top=0' ); return false" style="float: right;"><br /></a>
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<p><span style="font-size: 15px; color: #800000;">Off for a quick early lunch snack! Keep up the love and wisdom, tweet pack!</span></p><p class="asset asset-image"><a href="http://edbrenegar.typepad.com/.a/6a00d8341c66c653ef0120a59be2e3970b-popup" onclick="window.open( this.href, '_blank', 'width=640,height=480,scrollbars=no,resizable=no,toolbar=no,directories=no,location=no,menubar=no,status=no,left=0,top=0' ); return false" style="float: right;"><br /></a>
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        <title>Playing at work</title>
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        <updated>2009-09-23T01:16:26-04:00</updated>
        <summary>Playing is more than having fun, especially when you play at work. See what I mean at my latest Work Life Lead column - Playing at Work - at Weekly Leader.</summary>
        <author>
            <name>Ed Brenegar</name>
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        <title>Bloodline in the rock</title>
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        <published>2009-09-22T00:11:20-04:00</published>
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        <summary>Over the weekend, we attended our church's annual congregation retreat. This year's theme was Play, and we played in many creative ways. Drawing and painting on the form of a small Greek cross was one of activities. The collection of...</summary>
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<div xmlns="http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml"><p>Over the weekend, we attended our church's annual congregation retreat. This year's theme was <strong><span style="color: #800000;">Play</span></strong>, and we played in many creative ways.<span style="text-decoration: none;"><p class="asset asset-image"><a href="http://edbrenegar.typepad.com/.a/6a00d8341c66c653ef0120a5892153970b-popup" onclick="window.open( this.href, '_blank', 'width=640,height=480,scrollbars=no,resizable=no,toolbar=no,directories=no,location=no,menubar=no,status=no,left=0,top=0' ); return false" style="float: right;"><img alt="Bloodline in the Rock - Mt Moran 2" class="at-xid-6a00d8341c66c653ef0120a5892153970b " src="http://edbrenegar.typepad.com/.a/6a00d8341c66c653ef0120a5892153970b-320wi" style="margin: 0px 0px 5px 5px;" /></a>
</p> Drawing and painting on the form of a small Greek cross was one of activities. The collection of pictures will be brought together into a larger painting to be hung in the church in the future.  I painted two of these pictures.<br /></span></p>
<p><em><span style="color: #800000;">Bloodline in the rock</span></em> is of a mountain in Wyoming of which I'm particularly fond. Mt. Moran, in the Grand Teton range of Jackson Hole, is a mountain of massive granite which has a diabase basalt dike of reddish brown lava that cuts vertically through the mountain.  I find its presence endlessly fascinating because it represents to me how good things can rise up from the hardness of life. My picture is more of what the mountain represents to me, than a picture of the mountain itself. </p>

<p>In much of life, when we try something new, we are taking a risk. Risks are inherent in life. Do we accept these risks as a way to expanding the range of our expression, or as an unavoidable facet of life? </p>

<p><a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Andy_Goldsworthy">Andy Goldsworthy</a> is a sculptor who uses natural materials in extraordinary ways. In his video <a href="http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0307385/">Rivers and Tides</a>, a sculpture that he has been working on falls apart in the wind, he says, </p>

<blockquote><strong><span style="color: #800000;">"When I make a work, I often take it to the very edge of its collapse; that's a very beautiful balance."</span></strong></blockquote>

<p> Here is Goldsworthy creating an arch out of stone, and toward the end of the video removing pieces of it to see if it will collapse. </p><p class="asset asset-image"><a href="http://edbrenegar.typepad.com/.a/6a00d8341c66c653ef0120a5e12b40970c-popup" onclick="window.open( this.href, '_blank', 'width=640,height=480,scrollbars=no,resizable=no,toolbar=no,directories=no,location=no,menubar=no,status=no,left=0,top=0' ); return false" style="float: right;"><br /></a>
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<p> As in art, so also in life, translating what we see in the natural world into expressions of our passion and commitments enable us to see more of who we are in the context of the world we live in. </p><p class="asset asset-image"><a href="http://edbrenegar.typepad.com/.a/6a00d8341c66c653ef0120a5e1c3ba970c-popup" onclick="window.open( this.href, '_blank', 'width=640,height=480,scrollbars=no,resizable=no,toolbar=no,directories=no,location=no,menubar=no,status=no,left=0,top=0' ); return false" style="float: right;"><img alt="Cairn of Fire 2" class="at-xid-6a00d8341c66c653ef0120a5e1c3ba970c " src="http://edbrenegar.typepad.com/.a/6a00d8341c66c653ef0120a5e1c3ba970c-320wi" style="margin: 0px 0px 5px 5px;" /></a>
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<p>Having painted <em><span style="color: #800000;">Bloodline in the rock</span></em>, and then introduced to <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Andy_Goldsworthy">Andy Goldsworthy</a> by our artist guide, I decided to paint another of my favorite objects, a simple rock cairn.  I called it <em><span style="color: #800000;">Cairn of Fire</span></em>.</p><p>What did I learn from this little experiment in artistic expression? It really helps to be an observant person. We see things as objects, like a mountain or a pile of rocks. But we don't normally see the interrelation of the parts. For example, in trying to draw a cairn, I knew that the typical cairn is not uniform, but very eclectic. What I did, as a result, is try to draw the stones in the cairn very quickly so they would not be uniform. </p><p class="asset asset-image" /><p /><p class="asset asset-image">
</p> The ability to see what is there in the picture is no different than seeing and hearing what is going on around you. Learning to observe is learning to be a better communicator. To observe is to shift one's attention away from your own thoughts to what is happening in front of you. <p class="asset asset-image">
</p><p>Whatever you think you see or hear is a perception of what actually takes place. </p><p class="asset asset-image"><a href="http://edbrenegar.typepad.com/.a/6a00d8341c66c653ef0120a58b6b3f970b-popup" onclick="window.open( this.href, '_blank', 'width=640,height=480,scrollbars=no,resizable=no,toolbar=no,directories=no,location=no,menubar=no,status=no,left=0,top=0' ); return false" style="float: right;"><img alt="Mt Moran close up" class="at-xid-6a00d8341c66c653ef0120a58b6b3f970b " src="http://edbrenegar.typepad.com/.a/6a00d8341c66c653ef0120a58b6b3f970b-320wi" style="margin: 0px 0px 5px 5px;" /></a>
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</p> <em><span style="color: #800000;">Bloodline in the rock</span></em> is not an exact representation of <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mount_Moran">Mt. Moran</a>. The lava dike on the mountain is visible in the circle.  My painting is my perception of the mountain that you see here. To see it with the human eye, rather than through a photograph is to see it differently. In this shot, it seems insignificant. But to stand here by Jenny Lake in the Grand Teton National Forest and look at it, the dike stands out much more.<p>What I learned from playing with paint, a brush and some crayons is that we can learn to express ourselves in new ways. This is important if we are to communicate what is important to us. </p><p>I encourage you to take a pencil and quickly, in a manner of a few minutes, draw something that matters to you. It won't be perfect because there is no such thing in art. I once heard it say that a work of art is never finished. I think this is also true for our lives. And the more we test the boundaries and horizons of our expression, quite possibly as Andy Goldsworthy has learned, we'll find a very beautiful balance that will enhance the quality of our lives in ways unimaginable right this moment. </p><br /><p /></div>
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        <title>Values 2.0 Revisited</title>
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        <published>2009-09-18T09:12:46-04:00</published>
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        <summary>The 2.0 meme is built around the notion of interactivity. Web 1.0 is a static, brochure like website. Web 2.0 embraces social media as a context for online interactivity. The same distinction applies to how values factor into our lives...</summary>
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            <name>Ed Brenegar</name>
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<div xmlns="http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml"><p>The 2.0 meme is built around the notion of interactivity. Web 1.0 is a static, brochure like website. Web 2.0 embraces social media as a context for online interactivity. The same distinction applies to how values factor into our lives and our organizations. Here's how I distinguish Values 1.0 from 2.0.</p>

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<p><strong><span style="color: #800000;">Values</span></strong> (see <a href="http://edbrenegar.typepad.com/AllIMPACTDiagrams.pdf">Circle of Impact</a>) serve as a connecting idea for our relationships. They are ideas that connect through <em><span style="color: #800000;">interaction</span></em> and <em><span style="color: #800000;">integration</span></em> for the purpose of creating <em><span style="color: #800000;">impact</span></em>. </p><p>In a <strong><span style="color: #800000;">Values 1.0</span></strong>, there is little interactivity and consequently minimal integration of
values into the life of the business. Values serve as icons, as symbols that are more  sentimental than foundational to how the functions.  As a
result, a company's values have a marginal
benefit to the operation. </p><p>For example, when a mission statement is never incorporated into
the decision-making process of the company, yet emblazoned
on plaques to be hung on the wall or the printed on the company's communications, that mission is iconic rather than alive.</p><p>In a <strong><span style="color: #800000;">Values 2.0</span></strong> context, the emphasis is two-fold, interaction and integration.</p><p>A value like respect, for example, requires an understanding of what it means for each level of the company to experience it. It is integrated into the operation of the company when policies and practices are designed and implemented that insure that people have a way to be heard, and their ideas acted upon.</p><p>In this perspective, the values that we share in organizations transcend our mission, and our vision for impact. <a href="http://edbrenegar.typepad.com/.a/6a00d8341c66c653ef0120a573c269970b-popup" onclick="window.open( this.href, '_blank', 'width=640,height=480,scrollbars=no,resizable=no,toolbar=no,directories=no,location=no,menubar=no,status=no,left=0,top=0' ); return false" style="float: right;"><img alt="Circle of Impact PPT Values" class="at-xid-6a00d8341c66c653ef0120a573c269970b " src="http://edbrenegar.typepad.com/.a/6a00d8341c66c653ef0120a573c269970b-320wi" style="margin: 0px 0px 5px 5px; width: 250px; height: 174px;" /></a></p>

<p><span style="color: #800000;"><strong><span style="color: #800000;">OUR</span></strong><span style="color: #800000;" /></span><span style="color: #800000;"> values inform<strong> </strong></span><strong><span style="color: #800000;"><span style="color: #800000;">OUR</span></span></strong><span style="color: #800000;"> mission and define the way<strong> </strong></span><strong><span style="color: #800000;"><span style="color: #800000;">WE</span></span></strong><span style="color: #800000;"> design and operate the organizational structures that serve as the context for </span><strong><span style="color: #800000;"><span style="color: #800000;">OUR </span></span></strong><span style="color: #800000;"><span style="color: #800000;">vision of impact.</span></span></p><p> The assumption behind this notion is that our relationships are the focal point for the work that goes on in an organization. The relationship can be between colleagues or with a client, but it is in that interaction that the work of the business takes place. </p><p>If there is no attention given to the values of the organization, then the emphasis on relationships is diminished as well.  </p><p>I'm revisiting this topic (see posts <a href="http://edbrenegar.typepad.com/leading_questions/values/">here</a> and <a href="http://edbrenegar.typepad.com/leading_questions/values_20/">here</a>)because I'm increasingly convinced that businesses need to see that their values are a key asset for providing a stable, sustainable context for growth. Adopting a Values 2.0 approach provides a basis for understanding how to create a more collaborative, socially healthy organization.</p></div>
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        <title>Thank you, Norman Borlaug</title>
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        <summary>Norman Borlaug has died. Who you may ask? You should ask because this scientist is one of the great men of the 20th century. From a 1997 Atlantic Monthly article by Greg Easterbrook.Borlaug is an eighty-two-year-old plant breeder who for...</summary>
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<div xmlns="http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml"><p>Norman Borlaug has died. Who you may ask? You should ask because this scientist is <a href="http://edbrenegar.typepad.com/.a/6a00d8341c66c653ef0120a5c18300970c-popup" onclick="window.open( this.href, '_blank', 'width=640,height=480,scrollbars=no,resizable=no,toolbar=no,directories=no,location=no,menubar=no,status=no,left=0,top=0' ); return false" style="float: right;"><img alt="Norman Borlaug" class="at-xid-6a00d8341c66c653ef0120a5c18300970c " src="http://edbrenegar.typepad.com/.a/6a00d8341c66c653ef0120a5c18300970c-500wi" style="margin: 0px 0px 5px 5px;" /></a> one of the great men of the 20th century. </p><p>From a <a href="http://www.theatlantic.com/issues/97jan/borlaug/borlaug.htm">1997 Atlantic Monthly article by Greg Easterbrook</a>.</p><strong><span style="color: #800000;">Borlaug is an eighty-two-year-old plant breeder who for most of the past five
decades has lived in developing nations, teaching the techniques of high-yield
agriculture. He received the <a href="http://www.almaz.com/nobel/peace/1970a.html">Nobel in 1970</a>,
primarily
for his work in reversing
the food shortages that haunted India and Pakistan in the 1960s.
Perhaps more
than anyone else, Borlaug is responsible for the fact that throughout
the postwar era, except in sub-Saharan Africa, global food production
has expanded
faster than the human population, averting the mass starvations that
were
widely predicted -- for example, in the 1967 best seller <em>Famine --
1975!</em> The form
of agriculture that Borlaug preaches may have prevented a billion
deaths.
</span></strong><p><a href="http://nobelprize.org/nobel_prizes/peace/laureates/1970/borlaug-bio.html">Borlaug was the 1970 recipient of the Nobel Peace Prize</a>. From the presentation address.</p><strong><span style="color: #800000;">This year the Nobel Committee of the Norwegian Parliament has
 awarded Nobel's Peace Prize to a scientist, Dr. Norman Ernest
 Borlaug, because, more than any other single person of this age,
 he has helped to provide bread for a hungry world. We have made
 this choice in the hope that providing bread will also give the
 world peace.<br />
 <br />
 Who is this scientist who, through his work in the laboratory and
 in the wheat fields, has helped to create a new food situation in
 the world and who has turned pessimism into optimism in the
 dramatic race between population explosion and our production of
 food?<br />
 <br />
 Norman Borlaug, a man of Norwegian descent, was born on March 25,
 1914, on a small farm in Cresco, Iowa, in the United States, and
 originally studied forestry at the University of Minnesota. It was as an
 agriculturalist, however, that he was to make his greatest
 contribution.</span></strong><p>Here are selections from his Nobel lecture - <a href="http://nobelprize.org/nobel_prizes/peace/laureates/1970/borlaug-lecture.html">The Green Revolution, Peace and Humanity</a>.</p><p>
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<p><strong><span style="color: #800000;">Civilization as it is known today could not
 have evolved, nor can it survive, without an adequate food
 supply. Yet food is something that is taken for granted by most
 world leaders despite the fact that more than half of the
 population of the world is hungry. Man seems to insist on
 ignoring the lessons available from history.</span></strong></p><p><strong><span style="color: #800000;">Man's survival, from the time of Adam and
 Eve until the invention of agriculture, must have been precarious
 because of his inability to ensure his food supply. During the
 long, obscure, dimly defined prehistoric period when man lived as
 a wandering hunter and food gatherer, frequent food shortages
 must have prevented the development of village civilizations.
 Under these conditions the growth of human population was also
 automatically limited by the limitations of food supplies.</span></strong> </p><p><strong><span style="color: #800000;">In the misty, hazy past, as the Mesolithic
 Age gave way to the Neolithic, there suddenly appeared in widely
 separated geographic areas the most highly successful group of
 inventors and revolutionaries that the world has ever known. This
 group of Neolithic men and women, and in all probability largely
 the latter, domesticated all the major cereals, legumes, and root
 crops, as well as all of the most important animals that to this
 day remain man's principal source of food. Apparently, nine
 thousand years ago, in the foothills of the Zagros
 Mountains, man had already
 become both agriculturist and animal husbandry-man, which, in
 turn, soon led to the specialization of labor and the development
 of village life. Similar discoveries and developments elsewhere
 soon laid the groundwork from which all modern agriculture and
 animal industry and, indeed, all of the world's subsequent
 civilizations have evolved. Despite the tremendous value of their
 contributions, we know none of these benefactors of mankind by
 name. In fact, it has only been within the past century, and
 especially within the last fifteen years - since the development
 of the effective radio-carbon dating system - that we have begun
 even vaguely to understand the timing of these epochal events
 which have shaped the world's destiny.</span></strong></p><p><strong><span style="color: #800000;">The invention of agriculture, however, did
 not permanently emancipate man from the fear of food shortages,
 hunger, and famine. Even in prehistoric times population growth
 often must have threatened or exceeded man's ability to produce
 enough food. Then, when droughts or outbreaks of diseases and
 insect pests ravaged crops, famine resulted.</span></strong></p><p><strong><span style="color: #800000;">...<br /></span></strong></p><p><strong><span style="color: #800000;">In my dream I see green, vigorous,
 high-yielding fields of wheat, rice, maize, sorghums, and
 millets, which are obtaining, free of expense, 100 kilograms of
 nitrogen per hectare from nodule-forming, nitrogen-fixing
 bacteria. These mutant strains of <em>Rhizobium cerealis</em> were
 developed in 1990 by a massive mutation breeding program with
 strains of <em>Rhizobium</em> sp. obtained from roots of legumes
 and other nodule-bearing plants. This scientific discovery has
 revolutionized agricultural production for the hundreds of
 millions of humble farmers throughout the world; for they now
 receive much of the needed fertilizer for their crops directly
 from these little wondrous microbes that are taking nitrogen from
 the air and fixing it without cost in the roots of cereals, from
 which it is transformed into grain...</span></strong>

 <span style="color: #800000;"><br /></span></p><p><strong><span style="color: #800000;">Then I wake up and become disillusioned to
 find that mutation genetics programs are still engaged mostly in
 such minutiae as putting beards on wheat plants and taking off
 the hairs.</span><br /></strong> </p><p><strong><span style="color: #800000;">If we are to capitalize fully on the past
 biological accomplishments and realize the prospective
 accomplishments, as exemplified in my dream, there must be far
 greater investments in research and education in the future than
 in the past.</span></strong></p><p />

<p>Norman Borlaug was a man who led a revolution that was not destructive, but constructive. Through his efforts millions of men, women and children have food to eat today. He is worthy our respect and honor as one of the great leaders of our time.</p><p>Photo courtesy of the <a href="http://www.normanborlaug.org/">Norman Borlaug Heritage Foundation</a></p></div>
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        <title>The Subverting of Hierarchy</title>
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        <published>2009-09-12T07:52:04-04:00</published>
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        <summary>A decade ago The Cluetrain Manifesto was released as a prescient picture of what we are now coming to understand as the future that is fast becoming the present. The Cluetrain authors, in a revolutionary style reminiscent of Martin Luther's...</summary>
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<div xmlns="http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml"><p>A decade ago <a href="http://www.cluetrain.com/">The Cluetrain Manifesto</a> was released as a prescient picture of what we are now coming to understand as the future that is fast becoming the present. </p>

<p>The Cluetrain authors, in a revolutionary style reminiscent of <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Martin_luther">Martin Luther</a>'s <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_95_Theses">95 theses</a> nailed to the <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wittenberg">Wittenberg</a> church door starting the <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Protestant_Reformation">Protestant Reformation</a> in 16th. century Europe, posted 95 theses on the nature of organizations, markets and life in the age of the Internet. The entire book is available free online <a href="http://www.cluetrain.com/">here</a>.</p>

<p>The seventh Cluetrain thesis - <strong><span style="color: #800000;">Hyperlinks subvert Hierarchy</span></strong> - is a point about information flow and access to that flow. A hyperlink like this <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Main_Page">one</a> takes you to some other place in the online world. In this case, the main page at Wikipedia, but it could be any one of a billion different places. This ability to access information places power in the hands of people that we previously did not have. </p><p>Recently I heard <a href="http://www.visualcomplexity.com/vc/blog/">Manuel Lima</a> speak on the <a href="http://www.slideshare.net/manulima/vc-ixda-interaction09">visualization of networks</a>. You can follow his exploration of this topic at his blog <a href="http://www.visualcomplexity.com/vc/blog/">Visual Complexity</a>. <span style="text-decoration: underline;"><a href="http://edbrenegar.typepad.com/.a/6a00d8341c66c653ef0120a5674c9f970b-popup" onclick="window.open( this.href, '_blank', 'width=640,height=480,scrollbars=no,resizable=no,toolbar=no,directories=no,location=no,menubar=no,status=no,left=0,top=0' ); return false" style="float: right;"><img alt="Manuel Lima - VC - human knowledge" class="at-xid-6a00d8341c66c653ef0120a5674c9f970b " src="http://edbrenegar.typepad.com/.a/6a00d8341c66c653ef0120a5674c9f970b-500wi" style="margin: 0px 0px 5px 5px;" /></a> </span></p><p>In his presentation he compared the French Encyclopedia of the 18th century with Wikipedia. As you can see from this slide from his presentation, the growth of information in our time is staggering. This growth of information and our access to it is forcing organizations to change.  From this one picture you can see how we now truly live in the Information Age.</p><p>Hyperlinks may subvert hierarchy but that is not replacing hierarchy. Reading <a href="http://www.shirky.com/">Clay Shirky</a> (See his recent book, <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Here-Comes-Everybody-Organizing-Organizations/dp/0143114948/ref=ed_oe_p">Here Comes Everybody: The Power of Organizing without Organizations</a>) may lead to the idea that we will see corporations go away, though he doesn't say this. In its place, we will all be self-organized into online social networks linked by our own hyperlinked profiles and communication means. This is already happening, but it is not replacing the traditional hierarchical organization. </p><p>For example, the free e-book, <a href="http://edbrenegar.typepad.com/ManagingMoraleinatimeofchangeATriiibesdiscussionebook.pdf">Managing Morale in a time of change</a> is a product of the very phenomenon that both Cluetrain and Shirky identify. </p><p>The larger picture is something a bit different from simply being the end of formal organizations and the rise of community. Instead, we are seeing a shift of social influence that is more significant than the subverting of hierarchy. </p><p>Since humankind began to create communities and stop wandering as hunter/gatherers, hierarchy has formed as the power base of all organizations. Read Homer and the Old Testament history of the early Hebrews, there were always persons who held power and authority in a hierarchical structure that secured power and created order for their society. The difference between one lord and another lord was often (1.) the strength of their military defensive power and (2.) their moral vision that created either a just, prosperous society or not.  This is what we know of hierarchy up to this very day. It is the nature of hierarchical power that is at the center of the debate about healthcare today.</p><p>What Cluetrain, Shirky and many others point to is the realization that hierarchy's claim upon our lives has been loosened. I characterize this change as the end of institutionalism and the rise of social connection as the organizing principle of organizations. </p><p>In hierarchy,<a href="http://edbrenegar.typepad.com/.a/6a00d8341c66c653ef0120a5672310970b-popup" onclick="window.open( this.href, '_blank', 'width=640,height=480,scrollbars=no,resizable=no,toolbar=no,directories=no,location=no,menubar=no,status=no,left=0,top=0' ); return false" style="float: right;"><img alt="Structure - Hierarchical" class="at-xid-6a00d8341c66c653ef0120a5672310970b " src="http://edbrenegar.typepad.com/.a/6a00d8341c66c653ef0120a5672310970b-320wi" style="margin: 0px 0px 5px 5px;" /></a> there is order from top to bottom. Power resides in a graduated scale with greater power held by the few at the top, down through the organizational structure to lesser power held by the many at the bottom. It is the unequal hold of power that also drives the politics of Washington.  These vertically integrated structures existed for millennia on the control of the lower levels of organization. Control of access to information, resources and opportunity were some of the ways that hierarchy functioned. In a time where most people were undereducated to their potential, and where the skills required to produce things were simple and repetitive, hierarchy worked. It is what made the industrial revolution so productive. In this instance, the worker in a hierarchical structure was only as free as their income allowed them to be. Dreams of wealth and advancement were not most peoples' privilege. Yet, beginning in the 15th and 16th centuries this began to change as exploration of the world, and tools for communicating ideas began to spread to the masses. </p><p>In our day it is hard to imagine a world without easily available reading material. However, prior to <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Johannes_Gutenberg">Gutenberg's moveable type press</a>, the cost and time constraints on the production of printed information was such that the vast majority of people across the globe were functionally illiterate. As literacy and education became more common, so did the range of opportunities available to the average citizen grow.</p><p>Yet still, hierarchy ruled because there was not the means for any other kind of <a href="http://edbrenegar.typepad.com/.a/6a00d8341c66c653ef0120a5bdb222970c-popup" onclick="window.open( this.href, '_blank', 'width=640,height=480,scrollbars=no,resizable=no,toolbar=no,directories=no,location=no,menubar=no,status=no,left=0,top=0' ); return false" style="float: right;"><img alt="Structure - Collaborative" class="at-xid-6a00d8341c66c653ef0120a5bdb222970c " src="http://edbrenegar.typepad.com/.a/6a00d8341c66c653ef0120a5bdb222970c-320wi" style="margin: 0px 0px 5px 5px;" /></a> organization. Over the past generation this has begun to change. Today, collaboration is fast becoming the norm in how business gets done. </p><p>Collaboration is the ability of people to communicate and coordinate complex work processes in an efficient and effective manner. It is dependent on the ability of members of the collaborative group to work together, to communicate effectively and share in the rewards and responsibilities of the project. </p><p>Many collaborative groups function not by hierarchy, with one person in authority who delegates the tasks of the project. Rather these groups are lead by the <strong><span style="color: #800000;">"first among equals"</span></strong>. This view also known by its Latin form, <strong><em><span style="color: #800000;">primus inter pares</span></em></strong>, treats the organization of work from the perspective of whomever has the knowledge, experience, expertise or responsibility is the leader. From this perspective, leadership is not a role, but how we relate in the social context of work.</p><p>In a collaborative project, with one person's client, the lead will be taken by the person who has the information or skills to address the specific need of the client. So, if a planning client of mine needs assistance on employee pension plans, then I bring in the expert on that area, and they take the lead on helping my client establish the best approach for them.</p><p>In hierarchical structures, leadership is a function of position, authority and power. In collaborative structures, leadership is a function of the character and influence of people in a social context. Personal character, communication skills and the ability to share power are keys.  <a href="http://edbrenegar.typepad.com/.a/6a00d8341c66c653ef0120a5673949970b-popup" onclick="window.open( this.href, '_blank', 'width=640,height=480,scrollbars=no,resizable=no,toolbar=no,directories=no,location=no,menubar=no,status=no,left=0,top=0' ); return false" style="float: right;"><img alt="Structure - Collaborative into Hierarchy" class="at-xid-6a00d8341c66c653ef0120a5673949970b " src="http://edbrenegar.typepad.com/.a/6a00d8341c66c653ef0120a5673949970b-320wi" style="margin: 0px 0px 5px 5px;" /></a> </p><p>While this may seem rather mundane and ordinary for many of us, it is revolutionary in the context of hierarchy. It is so because it means that leadership is not held as a private privilege, but rather shared as a common responsibility. It is this way of work that is creeping into the hierarchies of organization as changing them from within. </p><p>It would be nice to think that this is all a very rational, forward thinking process, but typically it is not. Instead, when hierarchy breaks down, and goals and standards must be met, the last resort is to call a meeting to see who has any ideas for getting out of the mess. </p><p>What is pushing the acceleration of the adoption of this approach are many causes. However, at the heart is the access to information and tools for communication that the internet provides. The e-book noted above was the work of 36 people from 11 countries on four continents. The discussion that is captured by the book took place over 12 days, and the production of the e-book a little over a month more. This is the model of the future in miniature. </p><p>What needs to happen is for companies to embrace the subversion of hierarchy in favor of social collaboration and allow for their businesses to grow from within at all levels. I don't think that hierarchy will ever go away. It will lose its hold on people and society as each of us realizes the level of freedom and opportunity that comes from our connections to one another. </p><p><strong><span style="color: #800000;">Yes, subvert and elevate hierarchy to be an incubator of shared collaborative leadership.</span></strong> This is the future that would have scared Agamemnon, Caesar, Henry VIII, Hitler, Stalin and all the little dictators who use hierarchy to subvert the interests of their people to their own private ones. </p><p>It is the future. Embrace it now, and learn to lead to strengthen hierarchy through its subversion to a more socially connection environment for work.</p></div>
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        <title>A simple question about why this path</title>
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        <published>2009-09-11T05:44:26-04:00</published>
        <updated>2009-09-11T05:46:11-04:00</updated>
        <summary>If every corporation is downsizing and flattening out their organizational structures. If Clay Shirky is correct about how people can organize themselves apart from traditional organizational structures. If social media is the context for human interaction and collaboration. Why then...</summary>
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<div xmlns="http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml"><p>If every corporation is downsizing and flattening out their organizational structures. <a href="http://edbrenegar.typepad.com/.a/6a00d8341c66c653ef0120a5b9d0e9970c-popup" onclick="window.open( this.href, '_blank', 'width=640,height=480,scrollbars=no,resizable=no,toolbar=no,directories=no,location=no,menubar=no,status=no,left=0,top=0' ); return false" style="float: right;"><img alt="073" class="at-xid-6a00d8341c66c653ef0120a5b9d0e9970c" src="http://edbrenegar.typepad.com/.a/6a00d8341c66c653ef0120a5b9d0e9970c-320wi" style="margin: 0px 0px 5px 5px;" /></a> </p><p>If <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Here-Comes-Everybody-Organizing-Organizations/dp/0143114948/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&amp;s=books&amp;qid=1252661345&amp;sr=8-1">Clay Shirky is correct</a> about how people can organize themselves apart from traditional organizational structures.</p><p>If social media is the context for human interaction and collaboration.</p><p>Why then are we looking solve the nation's healthcare problem with the exact opposite?</p><p>Where do we get the idea that a federal bureaucracy is the best approach?</p><p>I just don't get how smart people don't understand that the world of centralized control structures are the past not the future. </p><p>The president hasn't convinced me that all of a sudden the past record of federal bureaucracy managing the welfare of people will change for the better. Congress certainly doesn't give me any impression that they understand what really happening outside of Washington. History doesn't give me any comfort the a federal bureaucracy is the best alternative. </p><p>Can someone give me a rational argument for why this is the right path to take?</p><p /><p /><p /></div>
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        <title>You are in control of you - Admiral James Stockdale on surviving in stressful situations</title>
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        <summary>This week's Weekly Leader column - You are in charge of you - looks at the stress that comes from losing one's job in the context of the story of James Stockdale, the highest ranking US POW imprisoned during the...</summary>
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<div xmlns="http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml"><p>This week's Weekly Leader column - <a href="http://weeklyleader.net/2009/work-life-lead-you-are-in-charge-of-you/">You are in charge of you</a> - looks at the stress that <a href="http://edbrenegar.typepad.com/.a/6a00d8341c66c653ef0120a55b843b970b-popup" onclick="window.open( this.href, '_blank', 'width=640,height=480,scrollbars=no,resizable=no,toolbar=no,directories=no,location=no,menubar=no,status=no,left=0,top=0' ); return false" style="float: right;"><img alt="Stockdale reunion - Academy of Achievement" class="at-xid-6a00d8341c66c653ef0120a55b843b970b " src="http://edbrenegar.typepad.com/.a/6a00d8341c66c653ef0120a55b843b970b-320wi" style="margin: 0px 0px 5px 5px;" /></a>comes from losing one's job in the context of the story of James Stockdale, the highest ranking US POW imprisoned during the Vietnam War.</p>

<p>A long section from <a href="http://www.achievement.org/autodoc/page/sto0int-1">an excellent interview posted at the Academy of Achievement</a> where Admiral Stockdale tells about how he managed the psychological stress of imprisonment, and the role that the philosophy of Epictetus had in his survival.</p>

<p><span style="color: #800000;"><strong>Admiral, how did you survive psychologically? The other men you mentioned 
perished under the same circumstances.</strong></span>
<span style="color: #800000;"><br /></span></p>

<p><span style="color: #800000;">James Stockdale: I don't know. I didn't feel like I had more vitality than 
the next one. I had things to do. I was alone a lot, and I found ways to talk to 
myself and to bolster my own morale. I was getting occasional letters from my 
wife Sybil. And she would from me. She probably wrote 50 and I got six, and I 
probably wrote 20 and she got two or something like that. <br /></span></p>

<p><span style="color: #800000;" /><span style="color: #800000;"><em>After I came out of Alcatraz, we all came back to the regular prison. They 
tried to get me to go downtown. They tried everything. They would give me the 
ropes three times a week. One of my original breakthroughs was self 
disfiguration. I was given a lot of times in the ropes in room 18, which is the 
main torture chamber of Hoa Lo prison. It also serves as kind of a ceremonial 
chamber when no prisoners are in there. In that, the only room in the building, 
a great big building with plate glass windows, and they had big heavy quilts 
that they drew across it. I was in there and they were about at their wits end. 
Two officers were working me over. Pi Ga, my torture guard, was always there to 
take me wherever they wanted. It was about mid-afternoon and they said, "Okay, 
you've done okay, today. Now you want to get washed up." I knew what that meant. 
That meant we were going downtown that night. </em></span>
</p>


<p><span style="color: #800000;">On any day you could probably find a couple of international discussion 
groups somewhere in town and on some days probably five of them. And they would 
cajole Americans into going downtown. It's not so much the location, it's some 
place in Hanoi where you're going to talk about politics and nothing else. I 
never went downtown. In Heartbreak Hotel a lot of prisoners only had access to 
this shower head that was in a regular cell with two cement seats or beds. But 
this was dedicated to showers, they didn't have anything else to do. So you 
walked in and you went between these beds and then you saw the spigot and pretty 
soon the water started coming out and you were to take your clothes off and he 
handed you the soap and the razor and slammed the door because he had other 
errands to do. </span><span style="color: #800000;"><em><br /></em></span></p><p><span style="color: #800000;"><em>As soon as I could I got my head wet and lathered up, I started with that 
safety razor, just cutting a track down the top of my head that I judged would 
make it impractical for them to take me downtown. He came back to the peephole 
and I ducked down, just showing him my behind, which is all he could see because 
I was stooped over, and then back up and again. I didn't realize that I was 
bleeding so bad. And then he came in and grabbed me, grabbed my arm and he knew 
he was in trouble, too. There was blood running down my shoulders and there were 
secretaries in the courtyard that we went by and they were looking. That was the 
headquarters prison of the whole country of North Vietnam so they had offices 
and they had everything you can expect. He took me back into this room and boy, 
those two officers, they said, "How dare you? How dare you?" I just got down in 
the position for the ropes and he said, "You have no right to take the ropes." I 
knew I was getting him screwed up. Finally they said, "I got it. We'll get a hat 
and we'll take you down to the press conference with a hat on." So as soon as 
they locked the door, I looked around for something else to do damage to myself 
with, and I saw the old toilet can that had been there for years, and I knew 
every chunk of it, but that was infection and one thing -- and then I said, 
"Well, what's wrong with this mahogany stool?" and bang, bang, bang, bang, and 
the secretaries across the hall wondered what the noise was and they started 
shaking the door. I didn't -- couldn't see them. But by the time they got back 
my eyes were closed and there was no question about it. They couldn't do 
anything and said, "What do you want me to tell the commissar?" I said, "You 
tell the commissar the CAG decided not to go downtown tonight." And they went 
out and then they gave me -- you know, then through that -- other times I'd used 
other devices. <a href="http://edbrenegar.typepad.com/.a/6a00d8341c66c653ef0120a5b21513970c-popup" onclick="window.open( this.href, '_blank', 'width=640,height=480,scrollbars=no,resizable=no,toolbar=no,directories=no,location=no,menubar=no,status=no,left=0,top=0' ); return false" style="float: right;"><img alt="Stockdale MOH Citiation - Ceremony" class="at-xid-6a00d8341c66c653ef0120a5b21513970c " src="http://edbrenegar.typepad.com/.a/6a00d8341c66c653ef0120a5b21513970c-320wi" style="margin: 0px 0px 5px 5px;" /></a> </em></span></p>


<p><span style="color: #800000;">They told me, "We think they're going to put you in the mint pretty soon." 
And that was kind of the end of the line. There was an old privy outside, and we 
had this signal system. You could take a vertical wire -- the outsider wouldn't 
even realize it was up there -- and if you moved it this way, that meant there 
was an old bottle under that sink. If you had a message for Stockdale he would 
know that he had a message in the bottle. If it looked like it was booby trapped 
you'd just push it back. There was even a position for if it was okay. </span><span style="color: #800000;"><em><br /></em></span></p>

<p><span style="color: #800000;"><em>So I was down there and I was exchanging notes and getting things done and 
then I had kind of got a nice note from a guy and I -- but we were -- what we 
were using for paper and pen was tough toweling that was sort -- it was the idea 
of toilet paper and rat manure. You'd lick it and you could print right on it 
and get another piece. And so a voice said -- and I was careless on this. He 
sneaked up under the door, and it was kind of a complicated thing but he said, 
"What are you doing?" I said, "I'm reading these letters my wife sent me," which 
was authorized. They would leave letters. And he said, "No, your hand was 
moving." Uh-oh, I knew it. Well, then he ran and he got the turnkey and they 
came in and they got me out and they told me to put my hands up -- this is the 
typical prison shake down position. <br /></em></span></p><p><span style="color: #800000;" /><span style="color: #800000;">In the meantime I had had sense enough to put it in the crotch of my pants. I 
did that because I concluded -- and I think I'm right -- that there's a great 
connection between farm boys in Illinois and farm boys in rural Vietnam. They 
have a sense of propriety against intruding in other people's private parts. As 
far as I know that's true. I don't know, because I didn't have it up there well 
enough. As I was walking back it rolled out of my pant leg and then they had it. 
</span><span style="color: #800000;"><em><br /></em></span></p><p><span style="color: #800000;"><em>There was something in the air. I don't want to make this too mysterious, 
but it was kind of a dark and dreary night. As they walked me over to the other 
side of the camp and put me in a little privy-like place I'd never seen before 
that's just full of cobwebs -- it would only accommodate one man -- and I think 
they were just doing something to get me out of that camp so that I knew I'd go 
in room 18 the next morning. And the man came in with leg irons and he put them 
on me and they were squeeze irons, built to put pressure points on your legs so 
you couldn't sleep that night. And I looked down there and he was, so help me, 
weeping, and not out of sympathy for me I'm sure, but I marked that down in my 
book. And then the next morning, when I was taken over to the other place to get 
the torture started for that day there was a couple of other people weeping. And 
I said, "Old Ho Chi Minh probably died last night." </em></span><span style="color: #800000;"><br /></span></p>

<p><span style="color: #800000;">I'd been unsuccessfully accosted to give them information. I could hold it 
back from the particular crowd that was working with me that day, they were kind 
of halfway friendly people. Something was wrong. The whole country was going 
bananas. Later that afternoon, I was just lying down on my roll, assuming that 
the day was over, and this guy named Bug, who was a snotty officer, he said, 
"Get on your feet! Tomorrow is the day we bring you down." That meant I would 
succumb. And he said, "This country is in mourning. There will be dirge music in 
the streets tonight. Ho Chi Minh died last night and we're in mourning." Well, 
I'd anticipated that. And then they didn't let me lie down. They put me in a 
chair. They said, "Put him in a chair with ropes on his arms and traveling irons 
for his feet." Traveling irons were what you got so you could go to the bathroom 
in the night. I was depressed. I said to myself, "God, maybe I'm the problem 
here instead of the solution. I had said, "Here's my orders. Remember: 
B-A-C-U-S: BACUS." It could be tapped out. "B" means do not bow in public. "A," 
stay off the air, never talk into a tape recorder or a microphone. "C," don't 
kiss them good-bye when we go home. "U-S" might be seen as United States but 
what it really means is "Unity over Self." That was the first order. I put out 
dozens of them but that was the instruction. I said, "Maybe I'm the problem, 
because there had been people who were killed in the ropes." And then I just 
said, "I do know one thing. I've got to change the status quo because I'm going 
to be dealing with a different country tomorrow than I was yesterday. And who 
knows what's going to happen? They may go bonkers." </span><span style="color: #800000;"><a name="sto0-020" /><em><br /></em></span></p><p><span style="color: #800000;"><em>And so I said, "I've got to change the status quo," 
and with that I got off from my traveling irons and went over and shut off the 
light, pulled back these blankets, and exposing the plate glass window, using 
the palm of my hand, which was relatively free -- I had enough freedom there, to 
get the long shards, pull the curtains back, turn on the light, get back in my 
chair and sit down and just start going like this. And, first of all, I started 
getting blue blood and I said, "Where is the blue blood coming from? We've got 
to get some red blood." And so I said, "I don't..." I said to myself, "Is this 
right? I don't know but I know I've got to..." my hands -- I had run out of 
ideas and I had to explore the future. You wouldn't think I had a future if you 
saw me. I passed out in a pool of blood. <br /></em></span></p>

<p><span style="color: #800000;" /><span style="color: #800000;"><strong>Did you want to die, Admiral?<a href="http://edbrenegar.typepad.com/.a/6a00d8341c66c653ef0120a55ba40c970b-popup" onclick="window.open( this.href, '_blank', 'width=640,height=480,scrollbars=no,resizable=no,toolbar=no,directories=no,location=no,menubar=no,status=no,left=0,top=0' ); return false" style="float: right;"><img alt="Stockdale press conference" class="at-xid-6a00d8341c66c653ef0120a55ba40c970b " src="http://edbrenegar.typepad.com/.a/6a00d8341c66c653ef0120a55ba40c970b-320wi" style="margin: 0px 0px 5px 5px;" /></a> </strong></span></p>

<p><span style="color: #800000;">James Stockdale: No, I don't think so. I just knew I had to do something, and 
I had kind of a hunch that there might be some opening here. I went unconscious. 
I had a feeling that ever since I'd started this self-defacement they had a 
suicide watch on me. About two in the night somebody screamed "Eow," and I think 
that was the suicide watch. I think he looked through a peephole and saw me in 
that pool of blood in front of my chair. <br /></span></p>

<p><span style="color: #800000;" /><span style="color: #800000;"><em>I was groggy and I really had to be slapped awake, but the room filled up 
with soldiers and the doctor and some officers and a lot of guards. They were 
cleaning the room. They were like they were ashamed of it and they were sweeping 
the floor and putting fluid on it that smelled like something in a funeral 
parlor. The guards took my clothes out and washed them. The officers were nasty, 
but they couldn't figure out what to say. Finally -- I don't know the time of 
night, maybe 3 or 4 in the morning -- they brought in a cot and then they 
brought in a chair and they put a soldier in the chair and he put the rifle 
across his knees and they let me lie in the bed with a pillow and I passed out. 
"Boy, this has been a day!" I looked up at those walls and they're all covered 
with geckos. You see them on all of the walls in Southeast Asia and they're 
moving around and they snipe at one another but, God, I looked up there and to 
me all the gekkos were bisecting their friends! I knew I was hallucinating. I 
almost laughed. </em></span><span style="color: #800000;"><em>The next morning the door squeaks open and I look out and it's the 
commissar himself. He sat down and he said, "Stockdale, do you want a cup of 
coffee?" I said, "Yes." I don't think I had leg irons on. I went over and sat 
down across from him and he said, "What happened last night was a catastrophe." 
And he said, "You know I sit with the general's staff. A report will be written. 
It may adversely affect me. It might even adversely affect you. I can't say. 
But..." he said, "You will not stay here. We will put you back in that little 
place where the doctor will attend you until all traces of bandage and scars as 
best we can arrange it are gone." Well I was out there from September to almost 
Christmas and then I went back. Things had happened. I was completely out of 
communication there. I found out two things. One, nobody had ever been in the 
ropes since I cut my wrists, and secondly, the commissar had been discharged. So 
from then on the life was never the same. It wasn't happy, but I shut down that 
torture system and they never wanted it brought up again. </em></span><span style="color: #800000;"><strong><br /></strong></span></p>

<p><span style="color: #800000;">James Stockdale: It's just two paragraphs. They always start out the same. 
"For conspicuous gallantry and intrepidity at the risk of his life above and 
beyond the call of duty." Then it explains what happened, and it says, "The 
highest traditions of the Naval Service were upheld." <a href="http://edbrenegar.typepad.com/.a/6a00d8341c66c653ef0120a55ba4c7970b-popup" onclick="window.open( this.href, '_blank', 'width=640,height=480,scrollbars=no,resizable=no,toolbar=no,directories=no,location=no,menubar=no,status=no,left=0,top=0' ); return false" style="float: right;"><img alt="Stockdale telling a story" class="at-xid-6a00d8341c66c653ef0120a55ba4c7970b " src="http://edbrenegar.typepad.com/.a/6a00d8341c66c653ef0120a55ba4c7970b-320wi" style="margin: 0px 0px 5px 5px;" /></a> <br /></span></p>

<p><span style="color: #800000;" /><span style="color: #800000;"><strong>You truly suffered for your men.</strong></span>
<span style="color: #800000;">James Stockdale: I thought I owed it to them. I was the senior guy there. 
That night was not like any other night except some of the thoughts and some of 
the mental state. I don't think that was an exception. I guess you can say it's 
just dumb luck, but you never know. I gave them a problem like they'd never had 
before and they solved it by backing off. </span><span style="color: #800000;"><strong><br /></strong></span></p>

<p><span style="color: #800000;"><strong>You've spoken a lot about Epictetus and stoicism. What role do you think 
your knowledge of that philosophy had in your survival?</strong></span>
<span style="color: #800000;"><br /></span></p>

<p><span style="color: #800000;">James Stockdale: I think it had a lot, but I never mentioned that name or 
stoicism, it never left my lips. I'd had experience; sometimes there'll be a man 
in good communication with you, and you had some sort of a -- maybe a religious 
experience, maybe an inspirational thought -- and you get on the wall and you 
start giving that stuff to him, tapping him on the wall. After he sees what 
you're up to, his "twos" -- which he does each time you finish a word -- get 
less and less enthusiastic. <br /></span></p>

You don't have to be a military officer to exhibit this sort of resilience under pressure. All you must do is determine within your own mind that <strong><span style="color: #800000;">"you are in control of you."</span></strong> That you well-being begins with your attitude, not with the conditions of your life.</div>
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<p>In preparation for a client's webinar, participants were asked about issues that they wanted addressed. Morale was one of the most repeated ones.</p>

<p>As a result, I posted to one of my online social networks the following question. </p><blockquote><span style="color: #800000;">I'm interested in ... thoughts about the issue of employee
morale in the context of continuous, disruptive change. The situation
I'm addressing is one where cuts in staff and consolidation of
operations have dramatically changed the work context. ...</span><br /><span style="color: #800000;">
</span><br /><span style="color: #800000;">
W<strong>hat is your recommendation to an organizational leader for
maintaining morale of his/her people who find that their "plate" of
responsibilities is growing as the company reduces costs through
layoffs and consolidation?</strong></span></blockquote>
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<p>The response was of such depth and substance that it was suggest that an e-book be prepared to share with people. <a href="http://edbrenegar.typepad.com/ManagingMoraleinatimeofchangeATriiibesdiscussionebook.pdf">Managing Morale in a time of change - a Triiibes discussion e-book</a> is the result.</p>



<p>Morale is a huge issue, but it is also a symptom of larger issues. <strong><span style="color: #800000;">I encourage you to share this free e-book with people at work, with friends and colleagues, with counselors and advisors and with people in your wider network of relations.</span></strong> The e-book is free to distribute. Please keep it intact so that the full range of discussion may be available to other readers. </p>

<p>In no way is this the last word of the issue of morale. It is just one discussion that took place during a two week period of time in July of 2009. I encourage you to create your own discussions and post them online for others to see, participate and contribute.</p>

<p>If you have questions or comments, please leave it here at this post, and I'll share it with my co-contributors.</p>

<p>On behalf all who contributed to this discussion and e-book, thank you for sharing it with others.  May you find ways to bring hope and confidence to the many work and social contexts where morale is an issue</p>

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        <summary>Raise your hand if you would run your household finances or your business like Congress and the White House manage theirs? Of course, all us understand that we live with limited financial resources. We balance our check books and work...</summary>
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<p>Of course, all us understand that we live with limited financial resources. We balance our check books and work hard at keeping positive cash flow from month to month.  Now the numbers coming out of Washington are not just big, but predict a looming disaster ahead. </p>



<p><a href="http://online.wsj.com/article/SB10001424052970203585004574392620693542630.html?mod=rss_opinion_main">John Fund in the Wall Street Journal writes about David Walker</a>, a CPA who served in a variety of government positions since the Reagan administration. </p><blockquote><span style="color: #800000;">"We suffer from a fiscal cancer," he tells a meeting of the National
Taxpayers Union, the nation's oldest anti-tax lobby. "Our off balance
sheet obligations associated with Social Security and Medicare put us
in a $56 trillion financial hole—and that's before the recession was
officially declared last year. America now owes more than Americans are
worth—and the gap is growing!"</span></blockquote>

<p />

<p> If you looked at your bank account and you owed more than your worth, you'd have to declare bankruptcy. Let's assume that we are now at that point at a nation. Just for conversation's sake. We are our of money. So, how do we then address this statement floating through Facebook status updates?</p>
<blockquote><p><span style="color: #800000;">No one
should die because they cannot afford health care, and no one should go
broke because they get sick. If you agree, post this as your status for
the rest of the day.</span></p></blockquote><p>This only makes sense if you are not responsible for paying for the health care of the nation. Just pass it off to someone else, and feel pleased about your compassionate nobility.The thought that came to mind when I read it was to imagine what it would require to put 300 million people on life support because the aim of health care is for no one to die.</p><p>Now here's the real issue that no one in Washington is willing to address. Listen to what Walker has to say.</p><blockquote><p><span style="color: #800000;">"We have four deficits: <strong>a budget deficit, a savings deficit, a
value-of-the-dollar deficit and a leadership deficit,"</strong> he tells one
group. "We are treating the symptoms of those deficits, but not the
disease." 
</span><span style="color: #800000;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="color: #800000;">Mr. Walker identifies the disease as having a basic cause:
"Washington is totally out of touch and out of control," he sighs.
"There is political courage there, but there is far more political
careerism and people dodging real solutions." He identifies entrenched
incumbency as a real obstacle to change. <strong>"Members of Congress ensure
they have gerrymandered seats where they pick the voters rather than
the voters picking them and then they pass out money to special
interests who then make sure they have so much money that no one can
easily challenge them,"</strong> he laments. He believes gerrymandering should
be curbed and term limits imposed if for no other reason than to inject
some new blood into the system. On campaign finance, he supports a
narrow constitutional amendment that would bar congressional candidates
from accepting contributions from people who can't vote for them: "If
people can't vote in a district not their own, should we allow them to
spend unlimited money on behalf of someone across the country?" (emphasis mine.)<br /></span></p></blockquote><p>We can wring our hands about health care and climate change, but if we don't address the crisis of spending in Washington, there will be nothing left to do anything.  </p><p>Walker makes an important point about the sequence of change.</p><blockquote><span style="color: #800000;">"President Obama got the sequence wrong by advocating expanding
coverage before we've proven our ability to control costs," he says.
"If we don't get our fiscal house in order, but create new obligations
we'll have a Thelma and Louise moment where we go over the cliff."</span></blockquote><p>After Katrina, it was clear that the problem with federal government programs was their organizational systems. For example, last year the federal government determined that the FEMA trailer program would end and the people who had been given them would have to move into new housing. This decision seemingly was made without any assessment whether there had been sufficient recovery of the housing based. It was a bureaucratic decision instead of one of based on human need. </p><p>I agree with Walker. We need to change the functioning of the government before we create a crisis that will paralyze the nation.</p><strong><span style="color: #800000;">An Additional Thought</span></strong><p>The impact of these rising deficits has been impacting state and local governments for years. <a href="http://online.wsj.com/article/SB10001424052970204731804574390603114939642.html">Indiana Governor Mitch Daniels writes about what is happening with state tax revenues in a Wall Street Journal opinion piece</a>.</p><blockquote><p><span style="color: #800000;">State government finances are a wreck. The drop in tax receipts is
the worst in a half century. Fewer than 10 states ended the last fiscal
year with significant reserves, and three-fourths have deficits
exceeding 10% of their budgets. Only an emergency infusion of printed
federal funny money is keeping most state boats afloat right now. </span><span style="color: #800000;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="color: #800000;">Most governors I've talked to are so busy bailing that they haven't
checked the long-range forecast. What the radar tells me is that we
ain't seen nothin' yet. What we are being hit by isn't a tropical storm
that will come and go, with sunshine soon to follow. It's much more
likely that we're facing a near permanent reduction in state tax
revenues that will require us to reduce the size and scope of our state
governments. And the time to prepare for this new reality is already at
hand.</span> </p><p><a name="U10149052376YUH" style="font-family: yui-tmp;" /><span style="color: #800000;">The coming state government reset will
be particularly wrenching after the happy binge that preceded this
recession. During the last decade, states increased their spending by
an average of 6% per year, gusting to 8% during 2007-08. Much of the
government institutions built up in those years will now have to be
dismantled.</span></p></blockquote>
<p /><p>If this is happening to state governments, you can be sure that it is happening to your local municipal ones. </p><p>During the early part of the decade, I had several projects working with local governments and organizations supporting them. At that time, a sales tax revenue conflict emerged in several states. In essence, locally generated sales taxes went to the state to be distributed back to local municipalities. In a number of states, the state held onto those revenues, putting a huge burden upon city and county governments. Then good times returned and local and state governments began to expand.</p><p>Governor Daniels is right to be concerned. This is what happens when politics and class warfare, from both sides of the political spectrum replace leadership and wisdom in public office. Nothing that I see in happening in Washington gives me hope that this pattern has changed.  State and local governments are beginning to understand this. They must operate within their financial means. Washington just prints more money. </p><p>I don't know what the answer is from a policy perspective. I do know that at the heart of this deficits crisis is an ethical crisis. And until we address the issues of power, wealth and influence in Washington, the rest of the nation is going to be at risk.</p><p>Be sure to read all of <a href="http://online.wsj.com/article/SB10001424052970203585004574392620693542630.html?mod=rss_opinion_main">Fund's article </a>and share it with family and friends. </p></div>
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        <summary>My friend and colleague Meridith Elliot Powell understands networking and sales better than anyone I know. If you have the opportunity to attend one of her workshops, do it. It will transform how you understand what is required to build...</summary>
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<div xmlns="http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml"><p>My friend and colleague <a href="http://mrpprofitstrategies.blogspot.com/2009/08/building-referral-network.html?showComment=1251658625928#c583154243030309537">Meridith Elliot Powell </a>understands networking and sales better than anyone I know. If you have the opportunity to attend one of her workshops, do it. It will transform how you understand what is required to build your client base.</p>

<p>Meridith responds to a question about cold calls.</p><blockquote><span style="color: #800000;">I had a client ask me just last week, "how can I become more effective
at cold calling?" My answer - "severely limit the amount you have to
do." </span><br /><span style="color: #800000;" /><br /><p><span style="color: #800000;">Calling someone out of the blue that you don't know, who
does not know you is - in my opinion - a tough way to go about building
your business.</span></p>
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I totally agree. </p><a href="http://mrpprofitstrategies.blogspot.com/2009/08/building-referral-network.html?showComment=1251658625928#c583154243030309537">Meridith writes about building a referral network. Read her whole post, print it off and memorize it. It is good stuff.</a><p>Let's assume that your list of people to cold call is really a list of influential people whom you want in your referral network. What do you do in addition to what Meridith suggests?</p><p>Do your homework on the people whom you want to cold call, so you are not cold calling but meeting them by referral. </p><p>It is valuable to know who people are and whom they know. You can start with the internet. Find out what activities they are in, what organization boards they serve on and what social and business connections you two might share. </p><p>Then you get one of those mutual acquaintances to introduce you. </p><p>I've told this story before, but it is worth telling because it still works 14 years later. </p><p>When we moved to Western North Carolina in 1995, I came with three names to connect from three different people that I knew elsewhere. I call each one of those people and told them that this mutual friend had recommended that I meet them. I went to see them, not to sell them on my services, but to establish a relationship with them. I left each encounter with 10-15 names and contact information. Many of those relationships still matter today.</p><p>Building a referral network is essential to growing a business. Many of my clients are introduced to me through other clients and friends. It works. And <a href="http://mrpprofitstrategies.blogspot.com/2009/08/building-referral-network.html?showComment=1251658625928#c583154243030309537">Meridith</a>'s training and coaching building a network is the best around.</p></div>
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