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I believe people should be able to do what they will – as long as it does not hurt children. I guess FLDS members are mostly brainwashed and inbred though, so their definition of what it means to hurt a child might be slightly skewed.

Dear God, please wipe this ignorant treachery from the earth.
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I love Daily Word – it’s always spot on in supporting me on my spiritual path… even more accurate than a horoscope!

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I watched “The Last Airbender” in 3D with my son (he’s 8 years old), his dad (34) and his dad’s other son (6 years old) yesterday in a beautifully restored ornate Oakland theater, off the I-580 on the Lake shore drive exit.

I wasn’t expecting much – neither the trailer on TV nor other people I met (the girl at the hair salon), gave me a good impression.  The main complaints were that the story line in the movie differed too much from the Nickelodeon cartoon show “Avatar: the Last Airbender”. [sidenote: I guess they couldn't use "Avatar" in the movie title because of copyrights by the OTHER "Avatar" movie released earlier this year.]

Anyway, I was mostly pleasantly surprised – I loved the effects, and I loved the thought that millions of American children are hearing words like “meditate”, “ying yang”, “evolution”, “nature spirits”, “sacred site” etc.  This was great.  Also, one of the Avatar’s spirit guides informs him that his job is “never to hurt others” but yet still to show them who is boss.  Beautiful, a hero who does not Hurt.  The editing of the movie was good, and the special effects were perfect.

Here are the things that I found horribly wrong with the movie:

1. The Water Tribe people, Katara and Sokka and the rest of their tribe are WHITE skinned.  Um excuse me?  Their skin is beautiful and BROWN in the cartoon show, and I am disappointed that Hollywood yet again went the white-y route.  There are plenty of dark skinned child actors and actresses in Hollywood, WTF?
2. Ang – WHITE skinned… not even Asian?  I mean Puleeze.  This is disgraceful.  Really.
3. The bad guys? Dark skinned… even more f**ked.
4. Oh, and no honor and glory for the divine feminine in the beginning either – it’s Katara that finds Ang, not her brother Sokka as shown in the movie.

Got any other comments? I’d love to hear your take too, so do share!

x Z

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DailyWord.com sends me a “deep thought” of the day, and Wednesday the topic was “Togetherness” (see below).  That concept of “togetherness” in business is one I’ve been mulling over of late. I’ve always been such a perfectionist that my standard modus operandi is to do everything myself – as in the opposite of Togetherness. For my particular personality, Aloneness has seemed simpler and more consistent in terms of returns. The element of drama is removed or at least lessened quite a bit. Yet, something has always been missing from that formula…and the meditation seems to reveal how Togetherness can be a fulfilling, satisfying experience.

Truth be told, being a sole proprietor can get kind of stale and bland after multiple years of doing business this way. Also, for me, because I’m a perfectionist and have insisted on doing much of the minutiae as well as the bigger priorities myself, it’s been exhausting…and perhaps not quite as effective or as fun as I’d imagined. Noticing this, I’ve been led to re-evaluate my way of doing things; I’ve been rethinking that strategy of Aloneness, perhaps it has not gotten me as far as I’d like to go in life…But first, let us ponder the thoughts sent by DailyWord.com…

Wednesday, May 19, 2010

Togetherness

I work with others in harmony and peace. I am a magnificent creation of God, blessed with physical, mental and emotional abilities that enable me to co-create wonderful moments in life. I live in a world filled with other people who are also wondrous creations, and as I connect with them, my power to co-create multiplies.

In my workplace, community or household, the best results often come through shared efforts toward a common goal. I model the ability to listen to others and consider their ideas. When I work with others effectively, the world is a little more harmonious than it would be otherwise. I celebrate the willingness and ability of all people to work together in harmony and oneness.

You are no longer strangers and aliens, but you are citizens with the saints and also members of the household of God.–Ephesians 2:19

Unsure steps into the land of  my previously limited concept of “Togetherness” began  last summer of ‘09.  The story begins when I elected to give the partnership thing a whirl (again). I’m not saying I went in with complete clarity or awareness. More like naiveté. I tend to want to just believe everything will work out, even if there is writing on the wall saying it won’t from the get-go.

Lesson # 1: Read the writing on the wall.

Lesson #2: Make decisions according to the data presented, e.g. take appropriate action.

Yes, at first this partnership seemed like it was going to be a lot of fun, but soon it became apparent that my selection of WHO one chooses to work with is directly equivalent to the rate of fun that is available to be had. Oh yes, and there is “short-term fun” and “long-term fun”.

Well, I wouldn’t be telling this story today if I’d followed Lesson #1 & #2 above.  In fact, I became involved in a partnership that was completely discordant. In order to end this dysfunctional partnership, I first had to get over beating myself up for things going poorly in the first place (after all, I’m the creator of my reality), until I remembered something my mom told me long ago – “it takes two to tango”.  OK, so now I was able to accept it wasn’t ALL on me.  So what was I going to do about it?

I also remembered there is a lot of wisdom to the old adage “cut your losses”. So that’s what I did, and now the contrast in my level of stress before and after is astounding. Life is beautiful again.

I don’t want you to have to go through what I did, or if you have, let’s make better choices in the future so we can celebrate our triumphs instead of cut our losses.

If you are thinking about going into your own new business partnership (i.e. business relationship), my advice to you is to somehow get a good estimate on the fun stats on the front-end.

In order for fun to be had and sustained, there must first be harmony between both parties, meaning both parties are on the same page.

By “being on the same page” I mean:

• Shared values – do you even know what your values are? If not, you’d better find out – otherwise how will you know if they are shared?
• Compatibility – personality, style, taste, lifestyle, preferences…it doesn’t have to be everything compatible, but the important things.
• Communication style – do they speak in tongues, parables or few words? How do you listen, speak and comprehend?
• Conflict resolution style – do they fight it out, yell it out, bully you, withdraw and play weak, play dumb, suppress it or do they know about “non-violent communication” styles? Personally, I’m going with the latter.

In an attempt to help myself do a better job of choosing fun, successful and profitable business partners and ventures in the future, next week I’m going to post a list of the Top 7 “Yay” or “Nay” Flags to A New Business Relationsip. This will serve as a guideline for me, and maybe you’ll find it useful for yourself as well.

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