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		<title>Inner Peace through Choice – The Compounding Effect of Choice</title>
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		<dc:creator>Mary Allen</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The Compounding Effect of Choice
Most people are familiar with the compounding effect of money, as it&#8217;s key to the long-term accumulation of wealth.  Saving a few hundred dollars each month grows into tens of thousands over time.  The principles of compounding also apply in every area of our lives, whether we like it or not. [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>The Compounding Effect of Choice</strong></p>
<p>Most people are familiar with the compounding effect of money, as it&#8217;s key to the long-term accumulation of wealth.  Saving a few hundred dollars each month grows into tens of thousands over time.  The principles of compounding also apply in every area of our lives, <em>whether we like it or not. </em> Internalize the simple principles in this article and adopt them for a lifetime.   Doing so will allow you to more easily stay focused on what is most important to you and take the necessary action steps to realize your desires. <strong><em>Willingness is the key</em></strong>.</p>
<p>The compounding effect of choice is made up of two simple principles. The Mastery and Mediocrity diagram below illustrates this concept visually.</p>
<p><strong>Principle #1</strong><strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"> </span></strong></p>
<p>&#8220;It is the <strong>simple disciplines (choices)</strong>, that don&#8217;t seem to make any difference at all in the moment; HOWEVER repeated over time, the compounded effect makes all the difference in the world.&#8221;</p>
<p><strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">Principle #2 </span></strong><strong></strong></p>
<p><strong></strong>&#8220;It is the <strong>simple errors in judgment</strong>, that don&#8217;t seem to make any difference at all in the moment; HOWEVER repeated over time, the compounded effect makes all the difference in the world.&#8221;</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://lifecoachmary.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/graphcompchoice.gif"><img class="size-medium wp-image-924  aligncenter" title="graphcompchoice" src="http://lifecoachmary.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/graphcompchoice-300x273.gif" alt="" width="267" height="243" /></a></p>
<p><strong>Principle #1 in Action &#8211; &#8220;Simple Disciplines&#8221; &#8211; </strong>Focus on the upper side of the graph above.  The x-axis on the diagram depicts the role of <em>time</em>, while the y-axis represents the <em>growth in mastery or success</em> of something important to you.  This could represent progress in your profession, leadership, relationships, health, mothering, creative expression or cultivating a sense of inner peace.</p>
<p>Each tick mark in the diagram represents one action, or &#8220;one simple discipline&#8221; or &#8220;one simple choice.&#8221;  Unfortunately, the choices acted upon in the earlier stages don&#8217;t reflect much growth for quite awhile. Much like saving a few hundred dollars each month, it doesn&#8217;t SEEM to add up to much in the beginning stages. Without referencing this graph, it may feel discouraging and you may choose to quit before reaching your desired outcome.  However, if you were to continue repeating <strong><em>&#8220;it&#8217;s the simple disciplines (choices), that don&#8217;t seem to make any difference at all,&#8221;</em></strong> AND continued to take simple actions, the compounding effect would eventually kick in.  You would ultimately experience the growth and success you desire.  <em>It&#8217;s simply a matter of time &#8211; AND CONSISTENT action. </em> How often do people quit when they are nearing the finish line?</p>
<p>There are three important elements in the compounding effect of choice.</p>
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<p><strong>1. Compounding Effect </strong>- Your actions will ADD upon the others.</p>
<p><strong>2. Choice</strong> &#8211; ACTING or NOT ACTING is always a choice.  Choose consciously.  Frequency and effort make a difference.</p>
<p><strong>3.  Time </strong>- Actions taken over time GROW.</p>
<p>This visual representation has proven useful to me throughout the last decade and continues to keep me on track with important objectives.  Here&#8217;s one of the ways I used this principle to support my goal of fitness.</p>
<p><strong><em>Personal Story</em></strong> &#8211; When I lived in Dallas, I frequented the gym.  There were many days that I did NOT feel like going.  Once there, often times I didn&#8217;t feel like being there.  Can you relate? However, I simply repeated the following words in my head, over and over again. <strong><em>&#8220;It&#8217;s the simple disciplines, that don&#8217;t seem to make any difference at all, in the moment, but the compounded effect makes all the difference in the world.&#8221;</em></strong> Clearly, my one little workout wasn&#8217;t transforming my body into a Cindy Crawford.  I could <em>see</em> that each time I looked in the mirror.   It WAS discouraging in the moment.  However, I had faith in the process, and these simple words of wisdom.  I trusted the compounded effect of <em>many</em> workouts <em>over time</em>, combined with a matching nutrition regime, WOULD give me results. My current level of fitness is a clear reflection that the compounding effect of choice works!</p>
<p>Ultimately, the habit of working out became second nature, and I rarely need to repeat, <strong><em>&#8220;It&#8217;s the simple disciplines, that don&#8217;t seem to make any difference at all, in the moment, but the compounded effect makes all the difference in the world.&#8221;</em></strong> However, in the early days, I used it almost every day!</p>
<p>Brand this principle into your being, and use it anytime you feel discouraged or uninspired to act (I do!).  It&#8217;s a great reminder of the bigger picture.</p>
<p><strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">Simple Disciplines &#8211; Simple Choices </span></strong><strong>- </strong>Reflect upon the compounding effect for each of the simple choices below.  The principle applies well in health, relationships, business success, money, self-care, self-esteem and in evolving one&#8217;s Consciousness.  The principle also applies well in cultivating internal emotions and states of being, such as love, joy and inner peace.  <span style="text-decoration: underline;">Anything repeated over time ultimately creates a compounded result</span>.  <em>What results in your life would you like to compound?</em></p>
<ul>
<li><em>Reading 10 pages of a good book</em></li>
<li><em>Eating healthfully</em></li>
<li><em>Spending quality time with your children</em></li>
<li><em>Working out</em></li>
<li><em>A simple act of kindness</em></li>
<li><em>Saying, &#8220;I love you&#8221; to a loved one</em></li>
<li><em>Yoga or stretching</em></li>
<li><em>Meditating</em></li>
<li><em>Focusing on what you appreciate</em></li>
<li><em>Avoiding sugar or caffeine</em></li>
<li><em>Drinking a gallon of water per day</em></li>
<li><em>Saving money</em></li>
<li><em>Attending seminars</em></li>
<li><em>Listening to educational CD&#8217;s</em></li>
<li><em>Getting up early</em></li>
<li><em>Cleaning off your desk each day</em></li>
<li><em>Volunteering</em></li>
<li><em>Listening closely to others</em></li>
<li><em>One extra hour of work</em></li>
<li><em>Being honest</em></li>
<li><em>Being on time</em></li>
<li><em>Pursuing a dream</em></li>
</ul>
<p>&#8220;It is the <strong>simple disciplines (choices)</strong>, that don&#8217;t seem to make any difference at all in the moment; HOWEVER repeated over time, the compounded effect makes all the difference in the world.&#8221;</p>
<p><strong>Principle #2 in Action &#8211; &#8220;Simple Errors in Judgment&#8221; &#8211; I</strong>f you want to successfully boil a frog, it&#8217;s best to turn the heat up over time or the frog will jump out and escape.  I wish no ill will to frogs, however it makes the point about <strong>&#8220;simple errors in judgment.&#8221;</strong> These little actions or non-actions seem relatively harmless initially and for a period of time.  However, the compounding effect leads us to less pleasant results in our lives.  This is the model of mediocrity.</p>
<p><em>&#8220;It is the <strong>SIMPLE ERRORS in judgment</strong>, that don&#8217;t seem to make any difference at all in the moment, HOWEVER repeated over time, the compounded effect makes all the difference in the world.&#8221; </em></p>
<p>This principle is clearly illustrated in the lower portion of the diagram above.  Again the x-axis depicts the role of <em>time</em>, while the y-axis represents the <strong><em>accumulated negative impact or atrophy</em></strong><em> </em>resulting from specific habits.  The results range from mediocrity to disaster.  This graph may depict the negative compounding effect of actions or non-action in any of the categories named above.  I find it most useful to apply this principle to the habits I would like to change.</p>
<p>Each tick mark in the diagram represents one <strong>&#8220;simple error in judgment.&#8221;</strong> As is the case in accumulating credit card debt, a little each month doesn&#8217;t seem like a big deal.  The negative consequences don&#8217;t reflect much impact for quite awhile. Without referencing this graph, it may seem that watching two hours of mindless television each night isn&#8217;t hurting you in any way.   You may simply continue watching every day, while complaining about needing more time to pursue an important dream.  Two hours of television is relatively harmless.  However, the compounding effect of this <strong>&#8220;simple error in judgment&#8221;</strong> translates to 728 hours of television per year!  That is over 30 full 24-hour days in a year!</p>
<p>Remember these elements in the negative compounding effect of choice.</p>
<p><strong>1. Compounding Effect </strong>- Negative actions and non-actions ADD upon the others and create a cumulative effect.</p>
<p><strong>2. Choice</strong> &#8211; ACTING or NOT ACTING is always a choice.  Choose consciously.  Frequency and lack of effort make a different.</p>
<p><strong>3. Time </strong>- &#8220;Simple errors in judgment&#8221; create ATROPHY over time.</p>
<p><strong>Examples of &#8220;Simple Errors in Judgment.&#8221; &#8211; </strong>Reflect upon the impact of the items I&#8217;ve included on the list below.  Some of these may initially appear harmless.   <strong><em>What consequences could result over time in compounding these &#8220;simple errors in judgment&#8221;?</em></strong> What other &#8220;simple errors of judgment&#8221; would you add to this list?  This list is not intended to elicit feelings of guilt or remorse.  We have all exercised &#8220;simple errors in judgment.&#8221;  <em>Use this list to stimulate awareness.</em> In later chapters, you may or may not consciously decide to address something from this list.</p>
<ul>
<li><em>Watching mindless television</em></li>
<li><em>Not saving money</em></li>
<li><em>Spending more than you earn</em></li>
<li><em>Being late</em></li>
<li><em>Complaining</em></li>
<li><em>Gossiping</em></li>
<li><em>Eating a cheeseburger or fries</em></li>
<li><em>Overeating</em></li>
<li><em>Spending time with negative people</em></li>
<li><em>Dwelling on negative thoughts</em></li>
<li><em>Interrupting people</em></li>
<li><em>Not being fully present when listening</em></li>
<li><em>Speeding</em></li>
<li><em>Smoking or using drugs</em></li>
<li><em>Disorganization</em></li>
<li><em>Listening to loud, abrasive music</em></li>
<li><em>Staying up late or sleeping in</em></li>
<li><em>Excessive time on the internet</em></li>
<li><em>Not working out</em></li>
<li><em>Not being friendly with others</em></li>
<li><em>Criticizing yourself or others</em></li>
<li><em>Procrastination</em></li>
<li><em>Maintaining a stressful lifestyle</em></li>
<li><em>Not taking personal time for yourself</em></li>
<li><em>Laziness &#8211; performing below your capacity</em></li>
<li><em>Not expressing appreciation to your partner</em></li>
<li><em>Time in a dead-end job</em></li>
<li><em>Too many desserts or candy</em></li>
<li><em>Arguing</em></li>
</ul>
<p><strong>Contrast and Compare</strong> &#8211; Another way to use this model is to compare a &#8220;simple discipline&#8221; or &#8220;simple error in judgment&#8221; with another.</p>
<ul>
<li> If you      read 10 pages of a good book today, and I don&#8217;t, the difference between      you and I on that day is pretty negligible.  In fact, after a month,      the difference is still not that great.  However, if you continue to      read 10 pages of a good book each day for the next ten years, the      difference between you and I will be CONSIDERABLE.  If you focused      your attention in a specific area of focus over that ten-year period, it&#8217;s      likely that you would be an expert in your field.</li>
<li>If I eat one ice cream bar today, and you don&#8217;t, the      difference in our level of health is not very significant.  However,      if I eat an ice cream bar every day for a whole year, and you don&#8217;t &#8211; <em>all      things being equal</em> &#8211; there will likely be a CONSIDERABLE      difference in our health.</li>
</ul>
<p><strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">Cumulative Discipline</span></strong><strong> &#8211; </strong>Generally, it&#8217;s not just about the ONE single discipline, or one simple error of judgment.  Some of our choices support our growth, and some don&#8217;t.  Becoming aware of these choices is the first step.  Seeing a visual representation of their respective impact is also useful in fine-tuning our choice points.  There will be numerous simple disciplines you&#8217;ll apply over and over again on your path of growth.  <em>Enjoy the journey. </em></p>
<p><strong>Portions taken from Chapter 3 </strong>- <em>The Power of Inner Choice</em> by Mary Allen.  Explore 12 Fundamental Choices that will forever change the way you make choices and experience life.</p>
<p><strong><em>What are you consciously choosing, right now</em></strong></p>
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		<title>Inner Peace Quote: Thich Nhat Hanh</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 11 Mar 2010 13:00:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[&#8220;Seek peace.
When you have peace within,
real peace with others will be possible.&#8221;
&#8211; Thich Nhat Hanh
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p style="text-align: center;">&#8220;Seek peace.<br />
When you have peace within,<br />
real peace with others will be possible.&#8221;</p>
<p style="text-align: center;">&#8211; <strong><em>Thich Nhat Hanh</em></strong></p>
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		<title>Inner Peace Tip #1</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 10 Mar 2010 23:00:58 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Mary Allen</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[How can a busy person calm themselves quickly?
I learned this tip at the top of a trapeze platform in Baltimore, MD (my friend Kate thinks it&#8217;s FUN to take her visiting friends trapeze flying).  Do as the trapeze instructor directed me as I tried to find &#8220;calm&#8221; on top of a 30 foot platform.
Take a [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong><a href="http://lifecoachmary.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/trapeze.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-909" title="trapeze" src="http://lifecoachmary.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/trapeze.jpg" alt="" width="157" height="149" /></a>How can a busy person calm themselves quickly?</strong></p>
<p>I learned this tip at the top of a trapeze platform in Baltimore, MD (my friend Kate thinks it&#8217;s FUN to take her visiting friends trapeze flying).  Do as the trapeze instructor directed me as I tried to find &#8220;calm&#8221; on top of a 30 foot platform.</p>
<p>Take a DEEP breath in.  Hold it for a count of four.  Practice now.  INHALE&#8230; 1 &#8211; 2 &#8211; 3 &#8211; 4 &#8230;.and as you EXHALE drop your shoulders.  Then repeat this three to five times.</p>
<p>What this simple exercise does is allow you to reconnect with your breath.  The more connected we are to our breath, the calmer we are.</p>
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		<title>Everything you Should Know about Publishing, Publicity, Promotion &amp; Building a Platform</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 08 Mar 2010 13:00:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[During our last Conversations with the Masters call, we discussed Everything You Should Know About Publishing, Publicity, Promotion &#38; Building a Platform with our guest, Arielle Ford.
One of my clients asked about this program after the call, and I realized we hadn&#8217;t included a link for easy access. So continue reading to see if this [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://lifecoachmary.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/arielle_top.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-901" title="arielle_top" src="http://lifecoachmary.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/arielle_top.jpg" alt="" width="155" height="173" /></a>During our last <strong><em>Conversations with the Masters </em></strong>call, we discussed <em>Everything You Should Know About Publishing, Publicity, Promotion &amp; Building a Platform</em> with our guest, <strong><a href="http://www.lifecoachmary.com/arielleford.htm">Arielle Ford</a></strong>.</p>
<p>One of my clients asked about this program after the call, and I realized <strong>we hadn&#8217;t included a link for easy access</strong>. So continue reading to see if this product could be for you&#8230;</p>
<p><em>Do you have a personal story, business idea or experience that someone could benefit from?</em></p>
<p>If you&#8217;re one of the many who don&#8217;t know where to begin or how to start writing your book, or if you&#8217;ve started but can&#8217;t seem to build the momentum and stick to a writing schedule, then check this out…</p>
<p>America&#8217;s #1 book publicist, <strong>Arielle Ford</strong>, has personally written six books and has worked as the publicist for some of the most prolific, successful and famous, authors in the world including Deepak Chopra, Jack Canfield, Mark Victor Hansen, Wayne Dyer, Neale Donald Walsch, Dean Ornish, Jon Gordon, Debbie Ford, Gary Zukav, Louise Hay and many more. Arielle is probably the world&#8217;s leading expert on what it takes to become a successful author in nearly every field including personal development and business.</p>
<p>If you want to find out if you have what it takes to make it as an author, I would suggest you read what she has to say here: <strong><em><a href="http://www.everythingyoushouldknow.com/cmd.php?Clk=3576598" target="_blank">Everything You<br />
Should Know </a>.</em></strong></p>
<p>Have a great day!<br />
Mary</p>
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		<title>Sustainable Energy Solutions</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 05 Mar 2010 13:00:25 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Mary Allen</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The Future of Wind Turbines 
My husband, John and I are both in the sustainable energy business. I&#8217;m helping shape one&#8217;s inner world. He&#8217;s focused on a solution for the outside world.
John was dwelling on how else his Skytran Team could use the core technology in their guideway&#8230; and in the middle of the night [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>The Future of Wind Turbines </strong></p>
<p>My husband, John and I are both in the sustainable energy business. I&#8217;m helping shape one&#8217;s inner world. He&#8217;s focused on a solution for the outside world.</p>
<p>John was dwelling on how else his Skytran Team could use the core technology in their guideway&#8230; and in the middle of the night had a thought. If used in reverse, it could be used to power windmills. As serendipity goes, a customer found them.</p>
<p>After meeting the team, and not having any other viable solution to refurbish their wind turbines &#8211; they enlisted the intellects of the 6 founders of Skytran (plus a few other worker bees and vendors committed to work CRAZY hours).</p>
<p>90 days later, an old rusty wind turbine has twice the power of a modern day unit, with a fraction of the potential maintenance costs.</p>
<p>Here&#8217;s the before and after shots.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><strong>BEFORE</strong><br />
<a href="http://lifecoachmary.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/windturbinesbefore.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-895" title="windturbinesbefore" src="http://lifecoachmary.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/windturbinesbefore-238x300.jpg" alt="" width="238" height="300" /></a></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><strong>AFTER</strong><br />
<a href="http://lifecoachmary.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/windturbinesafter.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-896" title="windturbinesafter" src="http://lifecoachmary.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/windturbinesafter-213x300.jpg" alt="" width="213" height="300" /></a></p>
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		<title>Inner Peace Timeouts</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 03 Mar 2010 13:00:43 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Mary Allen</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[You set big goals for yourself. Yet, you&#8217;re equally committed to a peaceful inner world. Is it possible to have BOTH? And, if it is&#8230;what allows you to keep inspiration and productivity high along the way?
There are several keys&#8230;however,
Simply put&#8230;INNER PEACE TIMEOUTS.

An Inner Peace Timeout is a fancy way of saying &#8212; refueling your soul. [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You set big goals for yourself. Yet, you&#8217;re equally committed to a peaceful inner world. Is it possible to have BOTH? And, if it is&#8230;what allows you to keep inspiration and productivity high along the way?</p>
<p>There are several keys&#8230;however,</p>
<p>Simply put&#8230;<strong>INNER PEACE TIMEOUTS.</strong></p>
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<p>An Inner Peace Timeout is a fancy way of saying &#8212; <em>refueling your soul.</em> It&#8217;s more than a mindless coffee break, zoning out in front of the boob tube or reading a trashy novel (though these activities have their place). It&#8217;s not about <em>disconnecting</em> from your busy world, but rather about CONNECTING to your inner being&#8230;that inner peace reservoir you have access to any time you choose.</p>
<p>There are lots of ways to take an inner peace timeout. Some inner peace timeouts refuel your soul in minutes. Depending on how &#8220;burned-out&#8221; you&#8217;ve let yourself become, you may need a much longer inner peace timeout&#8230;like an entire day or week.</p>
<p><strong>But, more important than taking TIME away from work is the consciousness and presence you bring to this precious time. </strong></p>
<p>For some examples of some of my favorite inner peace timeouts, <strong><br />
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<p><strong><span id="more-884"></span></strong><em> </em></p>
<p>1) <strong>Calm the mind</strong> (not figuring out your next 10 action items when your inner peace timeout is over).</p>
<p>2) <strong>Step into present moment awareness.</strong> I invite you to engage your senses &#8212; seeing, hearing, smelling, tasting, touching and feeling. Deepen into each faculty exploring the edges of this moment.</p>
<p>3) <strong>Reconnect with your body and breath</strong> (if your breathing is NOT deep, smooth and relaxed, you need a longer timeout.)</p>
<p>4) <strong>Recognize the truth of life</strong>&#8230;that right here, right now<strong> &#8220;all is well&#8221;</strong>&#8230;knowing you can access inner peace any moment you choose to give it your attention.</p>
<p>5) <strong>Completely UNPLUG</strong> during your inner peace timeout. No checking email, tweeting on Twitter, updating Facebook, watching TV or chatting on the phone.</p>
<p>Here are some ways I take inner peace timeouts, depending on how much time I have and how much replenishing is needed. As long as you&#8217;re incorporating the tips above, use your own creativity.</p>
<p><strong>5-20 Minutes.</strong> When I allow my coaching schedule to get a little too full, it helps to give myself an inner peace timeout during the day &#8212; between appointments. There typically isn&#8217;t much time, so 5-20 minutes has to do the trick. I simply lay on the floor, bed or couch and close my eyes, immediately letting go of all mental thoughts as I dwell in inner peace. Essentially, this is a form of meditation. When I open my eyes, I&#8217;m a new person.</p>
<p><strong>30 minutes.</strong> Sitting in silent meditation is an even more powerful inner peace timeout. I also recently discovered Steven Halpern&#8217;s Inner Peace CD. Lovely. Reading something inspiring is another great way to help you reconnect. Transference is a term used to describe the affect of the author&#8217;s consciousness on your being. The more conscious the author, the greater impact on you.</p>
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<p><strong>1-2 Hour Breaks.</strong> Going to the gym and getting physical is a great way to reconnect with your body, shift your breathing and release stress. During the day, I like to consciously take an hour for lunch&#8230;really tasting my food, reconnecting with my breath and savoring the quiet.</p>
<p><strong>1/2 Day.</strong> One of my favorite ways to take an inner peace timeout is visiting Salt Creek Beach. Sometimes I use the time to empty my mind by writing down all my to-do&#8217;s. Once my mind is free, taking in the fresh air, feeling my toes in the grass and gazing at the waves crashing &#8212; all fuels my being. It&#8217;s also fun to borrow our friend&#8217;s Golden Retriever Oliver and take him for a walk. Animals are great models for living in the present moment.</p>
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<p><strong>Multiple Days.</strong> To build up your reservoir of inner peace so it CAN be accessed on those shorter inner peace timeouts, it&#8217;s useful (if not essential) to have a strong connection to your own reservoir of inner peace. That comes by spending extended periods of time with this connection fully engaged to effectively build your &#8220;inner peace muscles.&#8221; Several times a year, I carve out time away from my business, email and appointments for 3-7 days at a time. John and I loved <a href="http://www.lifecoachmary.com/adyashanti.htm">Adyashanti&#8217;s</a> 5-day silent meditation retreat together. Next weekend, I&#8217;m off for 5 days with <a href="http://www.lifecoachmary.com/arjunaardagh.htm">Arjuna Ardagh</a>. Then later in March, I&#8217;m going for another 5 days. This is the perfect balance to offset all the 12+ hour days lately.</p>
<p>If you have a difficult time calming the mind and refueling your inner peace quotient in 10 minutes or even an hour, I highly recommend you find a retreat where you can build your foundation.</p>
<p>I remember a day shortly after our 5-Day silent meditation retreat with Adyashanti. I had a FULL day of coaching&#8230; with 9+ appointments (I try to avoid that many in a day!). Needless to say, my energy was a bit depleted. I told John, &#8220;I need an inner peace timeout. Give me 10-minutes.&#8221;</p>
<p>Almost as soon as my bootie relaxed onto my meditation cushion, my inner peace reservoir filled back up. In just 10 minutes, I was ready to enjoy a &#8220;date night&#8221; out with my husband. Alive. Peaceful. Rejuvenated!</p>
<p><a href="http://www.innerpeaceimmersionretreat.com/info.htm">Build your inner peace reservoir</a>, take plenty of inner peace timeouts and you&#8217;ll soon be enjoying sustainable inspiration.</p>
<p>Feel free to share your experience of &#8220;inner peace timeouts&#8221; on my blog.</p>
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		<title>Inner Peace Offer – Gra-MindersTM</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Mar 2010 13:00:34 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Mary Allen</dc:creator>
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The Minders Collection™ 
Gra-Minders™ &#8211; Graphics to Remind
How many times have you read a book, got inspired to incorporate an idea into your life &#8212; then quickly forget? Me too!
In coaching, our job is to help clients keep ideas alive between sessions, so they realize the full benefits of an idea put into action. [...]]]></description>
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<p style="text-align: center;"><strong><a href="http://lifecoachmary.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/gra-minder.jpg"><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-808" title="gra-minder" src="http://lifecoachmary.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/gra-minder.jpg" alt="" width="125" height="153" /></a>The Minders Collection™</strong><strong> </strong></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><strong>Gra-Minders™ &#8211; Graphics to Remind</strong><strong></strong></p>
<p>How many times have you read a book, got inspired to incorporate an idea into your life &#8212; then quickly forget? Me too!</p>
<p>In coaching, our job is to help clients keep ideas alive between sessions, so they realize the full benefits of an idea put into action. One of the most effective ways to do this is having a “structure” or “que” to REMIND one to live a desired intention.</p>
<p>The Minders Collection™ was designed to assist you in keeping the 12 lessons alive in your life. The Gra-Minders™ offer steady reminders in your home or office. A quick glance or a soulful meditation on these thoughtful images, supports you visually and emotionally.</p>
<p>Like the Gem-Minders™, each Gra-Minder™ has a story that ties to the lesson. See if you can find the story, and how it may inspire you to live that lesson more fully.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><strong><a href="http://www.powerofinnerchoice.com/gra-minders.html">Gra-Minders™</a></strong></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://www.powerofinnerchoice.com/gra-minders.html">http://www.powerofinnerchoice.com/gra-minders.html</a></p>
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		<title>Inner Peace Reminiscing About “Big Hair Days”</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 26 Feb 2010 13:00:09 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Mary Allen</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[A few weeks ago, I flew to Dallas to reconnect with my work colleagues from 20+ years ago. My first real job was with &#8220;Technical Recruiting Associates&#8221;. Yes, for the first four years out of college I was a &#8220;headhunter,&#8221; finding top-notch computer programmers for my favorite clients, including Price Waterhouse, IBM and American Express. [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A few weeks ago, I flew to Dallas to reconnect with my work colleagues from 20+ years ago. My first real job was with &#8220;Technical Recruiting Associates&#8221;. Yes, for the first four years out of college I was a &#8220;headhunter,&#8221; finding top-notch computer programmers for my favorite clients, including Price Waterhouse, IBM and American Express. We were a tight-knit group, who celebrated top performance by going on a cruise each year (I was #2 in the company for three of my four years).</p>
<p>Facebook reunited many of us &#8220;old-timers&#8221; this past Fall via internet. Then, the owners thought it would be fun to host a reunion at the end of January. <em>How could I miss seeing all the people who had shaped my early years? </em></p>
<p>Not only did this small company set the stage for business practices that would shape my life forever, this is where my path of &#8220;personal development&#8221; began. Through tears of gratitude, I finally got to express my appreciation to Karen DeGraffenreid &#8212; in person, 22+ years later. I wouldn&#8217;t be who I am today without THIS beginning.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://lifecoachmary.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/Karen-Mary.jpg"><img class="size-full wp-image-872  aligncenter" title="Karen  &amp; Mary" src="http://lifecoachmary.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/Karen-Mary.jpg" alt="" width="315" height="140" /></a><strong> </strong></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><strong>KAREN &amp; MARY</strong></p>
<p><em><!--Continue reading for Mary's Big Hair Photo--></em></p>
<p>It was surreal to step back into a &#8220;happy hour&#8221; setting with all of my old colleagues &#8212; who pretty much looked the same. Maybe a few extra creases around the eyes marking the passage of two decades. And, all the personalities I knew and loved are as vibrant as ever!</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://lifecoachmary.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/TRA-Alums.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-873" title="TRA Alums" src="http://lifecoachmary.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/TRA-Alums.jpg" alt="" width="310" height="140" /></a><strong><br />
TRA ALUMS &#8211; 20+ Years Later</strong></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://lifecoachmary.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/Duwee-etal.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-874" title="Duwee etal" src="http://lifecoachmary.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/Duwee-etal.jpg" alt="" width="310" height="140" /></a><strong><br />
DuWee, Anji, Diana, Mary &amp; Kristin</strong></p>
<p>Of course, a few things have changed and evolved since our journeys began at TRA back in 1988. Why oh why was it cool to have &#8220;big hair&#8221; back in the day?</p>
<p>In a spontaneous email, I promised I&#8217;d share a few old photos of my &#8220;big hair&#8221; days. Here I am at one of my infamous Xmas Parties. You&#8217;ll see I pretty much look &#8220;the same&#8221; &#8212; except for the BIG hair, shoulder pads and a few creases around the eyes. Oh to be young again!</p>
<p style="text-align: center;">Mary in 1989ish</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://lifecoachmary.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/the-belt.jpg"><img class="size-full wp-image-875  aligncenter" title="the belt" src="http://lifecoachmary.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/the-belt.jpg" alt="" width="208" height="327" /></a><br />
Don&#8217;t you just love that belt?</p>
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<p style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://lifecoachmary.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/shoulders.jpg"><img class="size-full wp-image-876  aligncenter" title="shoulders" src="http://lifecoachmary.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/shoulders.jpg" alt="" width="193" height="247" /></a></p>
<p style="text-align: center;">&#8230;and those shoulder pads!</p>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 24 Feb 2010 13:00:24 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Mary Allen</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[If you can start the day without caffeine,
If you can always be cheerful, ignoring aches and pains,
If you can resist complaining and boring people with your troubles,
If you can eat the same food every day and be grateful for it,
If you can understand when your loved ones are too busy to give you any time,
If [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>If you can start the day without caffeine,</p>
<p>If you can always be cheerful, ignoring aches and pains,</p>
<p>If you can resist complaining and boring people with your troubles,</p>
<p>If you can eat the same food every day and be grateful for it,</p>
<p>If you can understand when your loved ones are too busy to give you any time,</p>
<p>If you can take criticism and blame without resentment ,</p>
<p>If you can conquer tension without medical help,</p>
<p>If you can relax without liquor,</p>
<p>If you can sleep without the aid of drugs,</p>
<p>Then You Are Probably “The Family Dog”!</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://lifecoachmary.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/IMG00487.jpg"></a><a href="http://lifecoachmary.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/IMG00108.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-867" title="IMG00108" src="http://lifecoachmary.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/IMG00108.jpg" alt="" width="195" height="156" /></a></p>
<p>And &#8230;  you thought I was going to get all spiritual &#8230;</p>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 22 Feb 2010 13:00:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[&#8220;It seems that most people need
to experience a great deal of suffering
before they will relinquish resistance and accept
&#8211; before they will forgive.&#8221;
- Eckhart Tolle 
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p style="text-align: center;">&#8220;It seems that most people need<br />
to experience a great deal of suffering<br />
before they will relinquish resistance and accept<br />
&#8211; before they will forgive.&#8221;</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><strong><em>- Eckhart Tolle </em></strong></p>
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