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		<title>Mindfulness meditation changes brain structure</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 25 Jan 2011 08:19:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[According  to the study’s senior author, Sara Lazar, PhD, of the MGH Psychiatric  Neuroimaging Research Program, “This study demonstrates that changes in  brain structure may underlie some of these reported improvement and that  people are not just feeling better because they are spending time  relaxing.”
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.25in;"><span style="font-size: 10pt;">According  to the study’s senior author, Sara Lazar, PhD, of the MGH Psychiatric  Neuroimaging Research Program, “This study demonstrates that changes in  brain structure may underlie some of these reported improvement and that  people are not just feeling better because they are spending time  relaxing.”</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 10pt;">In previous studies, including those by Lazar’s group, researchers have found <a href="http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC1361002/?tool=pubmed" target="_blank"><span style="text-decoration: none; color: #006699;">structural differences</span></a> and <a href="http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC1361002/?tool=pubmed" target="_blank"><span style="text-decoration: none; color: #006699;">signaling changes</span></a> in the brains of experienced meditation practitioners when compared  with people who do not meditate. These studies, however, could not  document that the changes were the result of meditation. </span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 10pt;">In  a similar vein, a scientific team from the University of California,  Davis, reported that the psychological changes associated with <a href="http://www.emaxhealth.com/1275/meditation-benefits-linked-telomerase-enzyme-activity%20" target="_blank"><span style="text-decoration: none; color: #006699;">meditation </span></a>are  linked to the activity of an enzyme called telomerase. Their study was  the first to show a relationship between positive effects of meditation  and levels of telomerase. </span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 10pt;">In the new MGH <a href="http://www.massgeneral.org/about/pressrelease.aspx?id=1329%20" target="_blank"><span style="text-decoration: none; color: #006699;">study</span></a>,  investigators took magnetic resonance images of the brain structure of  16 study participants two weeks before and then after they participated  in an eight-week Mindfulness-Based Stress Reduction Program at the  University of Massachusetts Center for Mindfulness. Images were taken of  areas known to be involved in memory and learning. A control group of  nonmeditators was also imaged. </span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.25in;"><span style="font-size: 10pt;">The  participants met once a week for sessions that included meditation, and  they also were given audio recordings for guided meditation practice at  home. Meditators were asked to document how much time they practiced  daily.</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.25in;"><span style="font-size: 10pt;">The  meditation participants reported spending an average of 27 minutes  daily in mindfulness practice. An evaluation of their brain images  showed increased gray matter density in the hippocampus (learning and  memory area) and a decrease in gray matter density in the amygdale,  which is involved in stress and anxiety.</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.25in;"><span style="font-size: 10pt;">The  meditators also showed structural changes in areas of the brain  associated with introspection, compassion, and self-awareness. None of  the brain changes observed in the meditation group were seen in the  controls, indicating that the changes were not merely the result of the  passage of time. </span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 10pt;">Mindfulness  meditation has been shown to be helpful in a variety of health  situations, including reducing fatigue and depression in patients who  have <a href="http://www.emaxhealth.com/1506/mindful-meditation-eases-depression-and-fatigue-ms-patients%20" target="_blank"><span style="text-decoration: none; color: #006699;">multiple sclerosis</span></a>, easing <a href="http://www.emaxhealth.com/1020/29/33743/mindful-meditation-could-curb-physician-burnout.html%20" target="_blank"><span style="text-decoration: none; color: #006699;">burnout in physicians</span></a>, and relieving symptoms in <a href="http://www.emaxhealth.com/1275/fibromyalgia-patients-can-benefit-yoga%20" target="_blank"><span style="text-decoration: none; color: #006699;">fibromyalgia</span></a> patients. </span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.25in;"><span style="font-size: 10pt;">This  study was the first to document structural brain changes associated  with mindfulness meditation. Britta Holzel, PhD, first author of the  paper and a research fellow at MGH and Giessen University, noted that  “we are now investigating the underlying mechanisms in the brain that  facilitate this change.” </span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 10pt;">SOURCES:<br />
Holzel BK et al. <em>Social Cognitive &amp; Affective Neuroscience</em> 2010 Mar; 5(1): 11-17<br />
Lazar SW et al. <em>Neuroreport</em> 2005 Nov 28; 16(17): 1893-97<br />
Lazar SW et al. <em>Neuroreport</em> 2000 May 15; 11(7): 1581-85<br />
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		<title>Loosing Control – Meditation practice can help you gain this!</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 24 Jan 2011 07:32:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[It feels wonderful to be back – Yeh back to meditation.  I have sat for only two days running.  Its early to say, though I know myself once I decide the commitment follows.  Ladies and Gentlemen, Boys and Girls it makes me feel a million dollars, just the anticipation of knowing how [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p style="margin-bottom: 0in;"><a href="http://www.ask-your-coach.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/01/meditation1.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-110" title="Sitting in Meditation" src="http://www.ask-your-coach.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/01/meditation1.jpg" alt="" /></a>It feels wonderful to be back – Yeh back to meditation.  I have sat for only two days running.  Its early to say, though I know myself once I decide the commitment follows.  Ladies and Gentlemen, Boys and Girls it makes me feel a million dollars, just the anticipation of knowing how different I can be when I am focused. That&#8217;s what meditation does for me.  Responding calmly to situations instead of automatically reacting, being mindful in many a moment.</p>
<p style="margin-bottom: 0in;">I have a really good excuse for my personal negligence.  I had a baby 18 months ago.  Mika was born three weeks before my 40<sup>th</sup> and I felt like I was on drugs.  Not that I know what that is!  I mean I hit cloud 9.  I was on a high.  I was busy with my baby and adjusting to her and life, I felt so good that I gave up on something that in truth is precious.</p>
<p style="margin-bottom: 0in;">When I reflect back on these 18 months I didn&#8217;t stop practicing, what happened was that I was not serious. I could go days without sitting.  My practice was erratic and I had lost faith. I had my baby girl.  I was busy with her, my family including two teenage kids, my career.   We all know that even a drug wears off.  Truth be known is that I am thankful for this period.  It has been an eye opener.  I have slowly seen my attention deficit issues worsen and I mean drastically.  I have noticed how frustrated and also angry I can be at situations.  Different to how I am when I am committed to meditating daily.  There is much research with findings of the positive influences of mediation on  the brain.   I believe that the last year for me has just verified this.</p>
<p style="margin-bottom: 0in;">I have realized that I have been mostly on automatic pilot and not conscious of the moment.  Since I love control.    This is a sure way of being out of it.  I do realize that control is an illusion.  What we can control is how we choose to respond to any situation.  The feeling is terrible when this goes.  That&#8217;s what happened to me.  I noticed there were times where I didn&#8217;t have patience that I had before.  That I could have behaved differently.  I want that part of me back.  That&#8217;s what meditation gives me.  Its a gift of health, of love, of endless surprises.</p>
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<p style="margin-bottom: 0in;">It has been hard for me to sit.  I mostly would much rather be doing something else.   Crossing another item of my ever increasing task list.  The price has become too high.  I know what its like to be with and without constant commitment to mindfulness practice.  This time in my life and the self discovery is going to be something I will talk about for years.  Its because I know the difference!  Meditation make all the difference - I know!</p>
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		<title>How to advance yourself and your business during this New Year</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[This year I found myself focusing with many of my clients on self management and how to be more efficient. Many people were looking for tools and ways to be more productive and to be more satisfied from the Inside-Out about what they were doing.
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Plan the important things. We are often so busy on the urgent and we [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p align="LEFT"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif;">This year I found myself <strong>focusing</strong> with many of my clients on <strong>self management and how to be more efficient</strong>. Many people were looking for tools and ways to be <strong>more productive</strong> and to be more <strong>satisfied from the Inside-Out </strong>about what they were doing.</span></p>
<p dir="ltr" align="LEFT"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif;"><strong><span>3 tips:</span></strong></span></p>
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<p align="LEFT"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif;"><span><strong>Plan the important things.</strong> We are often so busy on the urgent and we don&#8217;t dedicate enough time to that which fuels and drives us. In your weekly plan (be sure to have one!), be proactive and include the important things in your life.</span></span></p>
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<p align="LEFT"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif;"><span><strong>Increase your learning and incorporate new methods</strong> that can help you advance yourself. I can recommend David Allen, Getting things Done. I especially like his method for handling large volumes of e-mails. Google “GTD” or use YouTube to watch some cool videos.</span></span></p>
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<p align="LEFT"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif;"><span><strong>Ensure your working environment is suitable for your needs</strong>. Make some small changes so that you are more productive, comfortable and motivated in your office. For the Independent Professionals amongst us that are working out of home, have a dedicated space and feel like you are “going to work”.</span></span></p>
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<p dir="ltr" align="LEFT"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif;"><strong><span>Opportunities to grow:</span></strong></span></p>
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</span></span></span></span><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span><span>Wishing you and yours a happy, healthy and successful New Year.</span></span></span></span></p>
<p dir="ltr" align="LEFT"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span><span>I would love to see you or be in contact soon,</span></span></span></span></p>
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		<title>Now is the time for Living</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 08 Jun 2010 09:21:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Sometimes we just need to be reminded that we need to put ourselves out there.  To be prepared to fall down and look stupid.  I had the priviledge of being at the 5th Adlerian Conference last week and participated in some AMAZING workshops.  One of them was with Roi and Raanana (I will get their [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span style="font-family: arial; font-size: 12px;"><span style="font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-size: medium;">Sometimes we just need to be reminded that we need to put ourselves out there.  To be prepared to fall down and look stupid.  I had the priviledge of being at the 5th Adlerian Conference last week and participated in some AMAZING workshops.  One of them was with Roi and Raanana (I will get their full names and edit this blog).  Roi is a paralysed from the waist down.   A  with such courage and uses his disability to show others how you can turn a disadvantage into an advantage. </span></span></span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: arial; font-size: 12px;"><span style="font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-size: medium;"> He showed us a balancing exercise he does in his wheelchair &#8230;.that takes practice.  The practice involves falling over backwards and hitting the floor.  He said that in order to succeed you need to be prepared to fall down.<br />
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<p><span style="font-family: arial; font-size: 12px;"><span style="font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-size: medium;">Just today I received this exerpt from the book </span></span></span><span style="font-family: arial; font-size: 12px;"></span><a style="color: #8d3c1e; font-weight: bold;" href="http://www.hazelden.org/OA_HTML/ibeCZzpEntry.jsp?go=item&amp;item=1792" target="_blank">The  More We Find In Each Other by Merle Fossum and Mavis Fossum</a> in Todays Gift inspiration email.  I wanted to share this with you.  <span style="font-family: arial; font-size: 12px;"><span style="font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-size: medium;">&#8220;Life is  a risk. A committed relationship is a risk. Letting ourselves go,  voicing opinions, telling our deepest feelings, playing frivolously at  the park, setting aside our carefulness with each other and sometimes  falling flat on our faces &#8212; all these things give us the pleasure of  being alive. If we insist on playing it safe, then we never feel the  thrill of the game. Our lives with each other become flat and empty if  we do not take some risks. We have a right to be weak as well as strong;  a right to be respected when we feel silly as much as when we appear  dignified; a right to say what we believe even if it is half-baked. The  greatest mistake is never to engage life.</span></span></span></p>
<p>Have a fantastic day,</p>
<p>with love</p>
<p>Sam</p>
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		<title>How prepared are you to change?</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 26 May 2010 20:13:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Life is a forever changing.  How set are you in your habits and ways?  How prepared are you for stepping out of your shoes?
What made me write this blog post tonight is that I not literally but physically stepped out of my shoes this afternoon when my shoe platform came away from my shoe whilst [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Life is a forever changing.  How set are you in your habits and ways?  How prepared are you for stepping out of your shoes?</p>
<p>What made me write this blog post tonight is that I not literally but physically stepped out of my shoes this afternoon when my shoe platform came away from my shoe whilst walking on the pavement.  So if you can imagine me hobbling along with one high platform and another flat shoe until I made the decision to get a bit dirty.  Now you have to understand that I have a fetish for clean feet!!!  I overcame this and decided to enjoy the freedom of walking barefoot.  I consciously chose to feel the warmth of the road beneath me from the baking sun and it was truly a weird feeling that I actually enjoyed this and my walk even changed into a slight swing.</p>
<p>We can feel liberated by unexpected occurrences that challenge us, when we go with the flow rather than clinging on to the old.  Embrace change!  Renew yourself.  Do something small that is different then what you would usually do.  It may even be driiving a different way to work, or choosing to by a new color shirt that you usually would not wear.  I know that I take calculated chances but do step out of my shoes pretty frequently and especially so out of curiosity to see what will be.    We can do this also when we feel fear gripping us.  We can hold on to that fear or try moving with it and you may be just walk a few more steps and leave that fear behind you.</p>
<p>By Sam Amit</p>
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		<title>Feeling scared at a primary school play</title>
		<link>http://www.ask-your-coach.com/2010/04/12/feeling-scared-at-a-primary-school-play/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 12 Apr 2010 08:37:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[My 11 year old son, Barak,  participated in the holocaust ceremony this morning, which included a play, at his school.    In the play he together with other children hid in the basement of a home of people who risked their own lives to save others.   The children had to [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p style="margin-bottom: 0in;">My 11 year old son, Barak,  participated in the holocaust ceremony this morning, which included a play, at his school.    In the play he together with other children hid in the basement of a home of people who risked their own lives to save others.   The children had to keep silent when the German soldiers came looking for them, the Juden.   I went to watch with Barak&#8217;s 8 month old sister, Mika.  There was almost silence in the hall and while I was watching I was trying to make sure that Mika didn&#8217;t blurt anything out as baby&#8217;s tend to do.  I kept putting her pacifier into her mouth and she kept taking it out.  I can say that I felt a kind of a fear and as I felt this I thought – “Sam can you imagine what the parents must have felt when trying to keep their babies and little children quiet?”</p>
<p style="margin-bottom: 0in;">We live in such easy times.   I cannot imagine the horrors that holocaust survivors went through.   My thoughts are with the survivors and their families.<a href="http://www.ask-your-coach.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/04/holocaust-children2.gif"><img class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-78" title="holocaust-children" src="http://www.ask-your-coach.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/04/holocaust-children2-300x217.gif" alt="" width="300" height="217" /></a></p>
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		<title>When there is not enough time in the day&#8230;.</title>
		<link>http://www.ask-your-coach.com/2010/03/31/dayistooshort/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 31 Mar 2010 14:01:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Have you ever felt that there just isn&#8217;t enough time in a day?  That your task list is 10 miles too long? Then it may be time to start prioritizing.  Focusing or prioritizing on what you want to move forward lowers stress and that helps you be more productive.   If you [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p style="margin-bottom: 0in;"><a href="http://www.ask-your-coach.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/04/focus.jpg"><img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-82" title="focus" src="http://www.ask-your-coach.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/04/focus-300x300.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="300" /></a>Have you ever felt that there just isn&#8217;t enough time in a day?  That your task list is 10 miles too long? Then it may be time to start prioritizing.  Focusing or prioritizing on what you want to move forward lowers stress and that helps you be more productive.   If you had to choose 3-5  key to focus on, what would they be?</p>
<p style="margin-bottom: 0in;">I have so many versatile activities that I am involved in and this together with a family life is quite a challenge.  I can get lost when I don&#8217;t stop to focus and create some order.     This is why I specialize in organization as its something that doesn&#8217;t come naturally to me.</p>
<p style="margin-bottom: 0in;">Plan your week with realistic goals you want to achieve.  When doing this think about the AREAS you want to focus on and give priority to.  Name these areas.  Each morning (or the evening before) plan each day and decide on what areas you will be focussing on that day.  Then for each area define 1-2 activities or tasks from each of these areas that you want to say YES to.  During the day be true to what you have selected and build in some flexibility for the unexpected.  This is always certain to happen.  As you are tempted to jump on to other things that are not on your agenda remember to be true and faithful to your plan.  Saying No to this means keeping your promise of what you laid out to do.  At the end of the day reflect on how things went and make changes for the next days ahead according to your progress and following your review.</p>
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		<title>Entrepreneurial Moms Get Structure</title>
		<link>http://www.ask-your-coach.com/2010/03/23/entrepreneurial-moms-get-structure/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 23 Mar 2010 16:24:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[As an entrepreneurial Mom with three kids, I find that organizing your day goes a long way.
Here is an idea to break down your day and get some kind of structure into your life even if it only feels like it.
You can take this basic structure and play around with it.  It&#8217;s important to [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p style="margin-bottom: 0in;"><a href="http://www.ask-your-coach.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/04/aa041103.jpg"><img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-85" title="Mom working at night" src="http://www.ask-your-coach.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/04/aa041103-300x283.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="283" /></a>As an entrepreneurial Mom with three kids, I find that organizing your day goes a long way.</p>
<p style="margin-bottom: 0in;">Here is an idea to break down your day and get some kind of structure into your life even if it only feels like it.</p>
<p style="margin-bottom: 0in;">You can take this basic structure and play around with it.  It&#8217;s important to find what&#8217;s right for you.</p>
<p style="margin-bottom: 0in;">I suggest breaking your 24 hour day into categories and within these the time you would like to spend on each.  Home Maintenance (3.5 hours) , Personal Care (2 hours)  Work (7 hours) , Sleep (8 hours), Life &amp; Family (3.5 hours) .</p>
<p style="margin-bottom: 0in;"><span lang="en-US">Home Maintenance is cleaning, decluttering, fixing things, running home errands like the shopping,   gardening.  Personal Care is your daily exercise, personal grooming like your hair, going for a mani or pedi.  Life &amp; Family is cooking, time with your partner and the kids, extramural activities, family or school meetings, life appointments like going to the dentist, buying clothes.  Flexibility should be built into all these categories since the unexpected will always come up. </span></p>
<p style="margin-bottom: 0in;">Define and continually review your goals.  Make weekly tasks.  Daily to do lists often lead to stress.  I know with myself that when I have too much to do it can be overwhelming.  I take one step at a time, try and do as much as I can in my weekly list and focus at the end of the day at what I HAVE done instead of what I have not done!</p>
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		<title>Preparing for a family holiday – what&#8217;s important for you?</title>
		<link>http://www.ask-your-coach.com/2010/03/13/preparing-for-a-family-holiday-%e2%80%93-whats-important-for-you/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 13 Mar 2010 13:20:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[In my coaching session with Karen Alon I chose to be coached about my upcoming holiday where I am going to be visiting my parents in  South Africa.  I will be traveling together with my fourteen year old teenage daughter, my eleven year old son and seven month old baby.   What [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p style="margin-bottom: 0in;">In my coaching session with Karen Alon I chose to be coached about my upcoming holiday where I am going to be visiting my parents in  South Africa.  I will be traveling together with my fourteen year old teenage daughter, my eleven year old son and seven month old baby.   What came out of the coaching session is that I want to be conscious of each child&#8217;s needs, really listen to them, a chance to get closer to my children, know them even more and give each child some time with me alone.</p>
<p style="margin-bottom: 0in;">At the start of the coaching session I myself did not know what I wanted exactly.  I expressed the desire to plan more and not to let things be too spontaneous.  Spontaneity comes naturally to me and this is my default way of behaving.  This means planning very little.  As you know everything in life his its benefits and disadvantages.  The disadvantage of waking up each morning on vacation and then going with the flow is that you can land up doing very little and spend a tremendous amount of time in front of the television.  Adults may read, many kids are really good at reading the subtitles on TV shows.  Although I must admit my eleven year old does love reading books.  I realized that I wanted to plan with each child and see what each wanted to do while we were away in addition to the usual going to restaurants, movies, shopping and of course seeing animals.   What also came up was being aware especially of my teenage daughter who will be away from her friends and knowing that this would be a challenge for her.</p>
<p style="margin-bottom: 0in;">I will use this time away to spend time with each child alone and communicate with them.  My son wants to take some swimming lessons which he has not done in a while, my daughter wants to horse ride.  We will do a bit of the usual and maybe some new things.  What&#8217;s important for me is not so much the doing but the BEING.  How will I be with each and everyone?</p>
<p style="margin-bottom: 0in;">I encourage you to think about your Passover or Easter holidays and what&#8217;s important for you during this time.   Do you need to plan ahead for something to happen?  Organize something?  How do you want to BE?</p>
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		<title>Moving Forward in a way that feels right</title>
		<link>http://www.ask-your-coach.com/2010/03/07/moving-forward-in-a-way-that-feels-right/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 07 Mar 2010 04:48:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[What I know to be true is that we can ALL move forward and it doesn&#8217;t matter if the pace is a slow walk or a gallop ahead.  Allowing ourselves space, encouragement and looking for what is right is SO important.
Its six in the morning and I am sitting with my 11 year old [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p style="margin-bottom: 0in; background: none repeat scroll 0% 0% transparent;" align="LEFT"><span style="background: none repeat scroll 0% 0% #ffffff;">What I know to be true is that we can ALL move forward and it doesn&#8217;t matter if the pace is a slow walk or a gallop ahead.  Allowing ourselves space, encouragement and looking for what is right is SO important.</span></p>
<p style="margin-bottom: 0in; background: none repeat scroll 0% 0% transparent;" align="LEFT"><span style="background: none repeat scroll 0% 0% #ffffff;">Its six in the morning and I am sitting with my 11 year old son at our dining room table.  He is doing  his Grammar homework.   This is the boy that last week wouldn&#8217;t do this very same homework.   He received a note from his teacher and still&#8230;.no matter what I tried or said he was adamant that he was not doing it.   This was really hard for me as no matter what I said or tried he was not budging.  This morning he is finishing it after starting last night with his Dad&#8217;s support. </span></p>
<p style="margin-bottom: 0in; background: none repeat scroll 0% 0% transparent;" align="LEFT"><span style="background: none repeat scroll 0% 0% #ffffff;">This makes me realize time and time again that sometimes we cannot push things.   Sometimes we need to take a break or give some space.  We need to see what&#8217;s lying underneath, understand the person in front of us, what drives them, what is meaningful for them?  What is keeping them stuck?  Once that is found, then finding a rhythm and moving ahead can be easy. </span></p>
<p style="margin-bottom: 0in; background: none repeat scroll 0% 0% transparent;" align="LEFT"><span style="background: none repeat scroll 0% 0% #ffffff;">This is what gives me hope.  Knowing and believing that anything is possible, when you believe and you invest in what is important.   And remembering that its not only the results (the homework done) that is important – but also the PATH chosen. </span></p>
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