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        <title>Life Church 2009 - Year in Review Video</title>
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        <published>2009-12-27T19:00:00-05:00</published>
        <updated>2009-12-26T14:06:52-05:00</updated>
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            <name>Scott Himes</name>
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        <title>A Merry Christmas video from Noah, Maya &amp; Keira</title>
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        <published>2009-12-24T08:00:00-05:00</published>
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        <summary>It's Christmas Eve! Our three children want to wish you a Merry Christmas. They made this short video for you. Animoto is a great service to make videos like this. Check it out here .</summary>
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<content type="xhtml" xml:lang="en-US" xml:base="http://lifechange.typepad.com/lifechange/"><div xmlns="http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml"><p>It's Christmas Eve!  Our three children want to wish you a Merry Christmas.  They made this short video for you.</p><script src="http://wanimoto.clearspring.com/o/46928cc51133af17/4b330098a898fe7f/46928cc51133af17/a447fea3/-cpid/c35e173cca5ccd61/-EMH/240/-EMW/432/widget.js" type="text/javascript" /><p><a href="http://animoto.com/?ref=sclzqbkg">Animoto</a> is a great service to make videos like this.  Check it out <a href="http://animoto.com/?ref=sclzqbkg">here</a> .</p><xhtml:img xmlns:xhtml="http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml" src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/Lifechange/~4/OBsjG94GYcg" height="1" width="1" /></div></content>


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        <title>9 Ways To Be Productive</title>
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        <published>2009-12-23T15:37:14-05:00</published>
        <updated>2009-12-23T15:37:14-05:00</updated>
        <summary>A few weeks ago one friend asked me what I would tell him if he wanted to learn how to be productive with his time. He went on to inform me that there's a general perception that I tend to...</summary>
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            <name>Scott Himes</name>
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<content type="xhtml" xml:lang="en-US" xml:base="http://lifechange.typepad.com/lifechange/"><div xmlns="http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml"><p>A few weeks ago one friend asked me what I would tell him if he wanted to learn how to be productive with his time.  He went on to inform me that there's a general perception that I tend to get a lot done in a lot of different areas.  While that is probably the case I feel I have a long ways to go in how I work, not only being more efficient but being more effective.  Here is the list I put together to share with him.  I don't take credit for any of these ideas, they are all ones I've borrowed from others.</p><p /><ol>
<li><strong>Downtime </strong>- learn to utilize downtime.  This means I almost always have a book with me or my iPhone which I can use to respond to emails or interact with people.   Long waits at the doctor's office or waiting for a late meeting has actually become a time I value now.</li>
<li><strong>Learn How To Handle Interruptions</strong> - we live in a society where information flows quickly and people expect prompt responses (no more waiting 24 hrs for you to respond to a phone call or letter someone wrote you.)  <a href="http://books.google.com/books?id=WXcHwzaUd4MC&amp;dq=getting+things+done&amp;printsec=frontcover&amp;source=bn&amp;hl=en&amp;ei=dX4yS7X4MYXcngf7tP3wCA&amp;sa=X&amp;oi=book_result&amp;ct=result&amp;resnum=4&amp;ved=0CCIQ6AEwAw#v=onepage&amp;q=&amp;f=false">Getting Things Done</a> has revolutionized how I manage this.</li>
<li><strong>Schedule Regular Times For The Strategic</strong> - my strength is I'm good at the tactical.  However, I sometimes get caught in the trees and forget to step back and look at the forrest.  I've got to schedule regular times where I look at the big picture.</li>
<li><strong>Create Systems</strong> - a system is a methodology or way of consistently getting something done.  Paying bills, managing finances, following-up on actions, maintaining relationships, communication are all things that you can systematize.  Automate as much as you can.</li>
<li><strong>Say "No" More Often</strong> - most of us say "yes" way too much.  We end up doing a lot of good things and fulfilling other's expectations for our life but end up so full and busy that we miss out on the great, God opportunities.  Learning to say "no" is essential.</li>
<li><strong>You're a Lego</strong> - each of us are a lego with only so many relational 'pegs' that we can use to connect to others.  Recognize that to maintain and invest in relationships it takes effort, time and energy.  Realizing this will allow you to determine and recognize which relationships in your life really matter and allow you to pursue them fully.</li>
<li><strong>Eternal Perspective</strong> - this goes along with #3, but it's easy for all of us to get caught up in the near and now.  We forget about the future and the eternal perspective of what we're doing.  Prayer, worship and God's word helps me stay grounded.  A frequent prayer of mine is "God, let me see this situation as You see it."</li>
<li><strong>Milestones &amp; Checkpoints</strong> - this is just good goal setting, but find ways to measure your progress. We all get discouraged and lost if we don't realize and see progress being made.  Schedule regular times to review these.</li>
<li><strong>Two Questions</strong> - I try and ask these regularly: 1) What am I doing that I should <strong>stop </strong>doing?  2) What am I not doing that I <strong>should</strong>?</li>
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        <title>Seven Transformations of Leadership</title>
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        <published>2009-12-07T17:24:21-05:00</published>
        <updated>2009-12-07T17:24:21-05:00</updated>
        <summary>I just read a paper called Seven Transformations of Leadership from the Harvard Business Review. Two points the paper made are: Leaders are made, not born Those who are willing to work at developing themselves and becoming more self-aware can...</summary>
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            <name>Scott Himes</name>
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<content type="xhtml" xml:lang="en-US" xml:base="http://lifechange.typepad.com/lifechange/"><div xmlns="http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml"><span style="font-family: arial; line-height: normal; "><p>I just read a paper called <a href="http://www.newperspectives.com.au/downloads/seven%20transformations%20of%20leadership.pdf" target="_blank">Seven Transformations of Leadership</a> from the <em><a href="http://hbr.harvardbusiness.org/">Harvard Business Review</a></em>.  Two points the paper made are:</p>

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<li>Leaders are made, not born</li>
<li>Those who are willing to work at developing themselves and becoming more self-aware can almost certaintly evolve over time into truly transformational leaders.</li>
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<p><strong />If they've seen people can become greater leaders and influencers by being intentional, think how much greater this can happen in our own lives if it's <strong>God-directed</strong> and <strong>God-motivated</strong>.  Here are some questions I encouraged our Life Group Leaders to consider as 2009 comes to a close:</p>

<p>1)  How has God used me and worked through me this past year?  </p>

<p>2)  In what new or greater ways do I feel God prompting me as a new year begins?</p>

<p>3)  Who do I feel God calling me to reach out to? (these may be individuals or more general groups of people)</p>

<p>4)  What can I do to learn, grow and increase my effectiveness in what God's called me to?</p></span><xhtml:img xmlns:xhtml="http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml" src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/Lifechange/~4/J4l8W4hFU6E" height="1" width="1" /></div></content>


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        <title>Two Month Update For Our Family</title>
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        <published>2009-11-24T22:41:27-05:00</published>
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        <summary>It's hard to believe the girls have already been home for two months! I wanted to provide a quick update on each of the three kids as to how they've transitioned and major events in their lives. Noah The big...</summary>
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            <name>Scott Himes</name>
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<content type="xhtml" xml:lang="en-US" xml:base="http://lifechange.typepad.com/lifechange/"><div xmlns="http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml"><p>It's hard to believe the girls have already been home for two months!  I wanted to provide a quick update on each of the three kids as to how they've transitioned and major events in their lives.</p>

<p> <span><strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">Noah</span><br /><span style="font-weight: normal;"><a href="http://lifechange.typepad.com/.a/6a00e54ed20ac988330120a6d48a14970b-popup" onclick="window.open( this.href, '_blank', 'width=640,height=480,scrollbars=no,resizable=no,toolbar=no,directories=no,location=no,menubar=no,status=no,left=0,top=0' ); return false" style="float: right;"><img alt="Noah's First Day of Pre-school - 10a" class="asset asset-image at-xid-6a00e54ed20ac988330120a6d48a14970b " src="http://lifechange.typepad.com/.a/6a00e54ed20ac988330120a6d48a14970b-150wi" style="width: 150px; margin: 0px 0px 5px 5px;" /></a>  The big news for Noah is he started development preschool the first week of November.  He goes to school every day in the morning for about 3 hours.  He loves it!  His favorite part of it all is riding the bus.  Every morning he wakes up asking if he gets to go on the bus today... he's disappointed when the weekend is here as it means no bus.  This is a picture from his first day of school.  This has been much more difficult for Courtney and I then it has been for Noah as we've watched our little boy become a big boy.  Noah also has had some potty training successes over the last few weeks so we're looking forward to the end of diapers hopefully soon!</span><span style="text-decoration: underline; " /></strong></span></p>

<p><span><strong><span style="font-weight: normal;"><a href="http://lifechange.typepad.com/.a/6a00e54ed20ac98833012875d66a6c970c-popup" onclick="window.open( this.href, '_blank', 'width=640,height=480,scrollbars=no,resizable=no,toolbar=no,directories=no,location=no,menubar=no,status=no,left=0,top=0' ); return false" style="float: left;"><img alt="Halloween - 30" class="asset asset-image at-xid-6a00e54ed20ac98833012875d66a6c970c " src="http://lifechange.typepad.com/.a/6a00e54ed20ac98833012875d66a6c970c-150wi" style="width: 150px; margin: 0px 5px 5px 0px;" /></a> <span style="font-weight: bold; "><span style="text-decoration: underline; ">Maya<br /></span></span>Maya has definitely become the girly girl of the house.  She is constantly wanting to accessorize with everything from hair barrettes, to socks and shoes, to coats and recently she found some mittens to wear around.  As you can guess Maya loved Halloween, so here is a picture of her all dressed up.  She loves helping around the house and is quick to do anything for Mom and Dad that will receive praise.  Her biggest frustration is her big brother Noah who likes to pick on her sometimes, and who hasn't learned that he should stop playing when she screams.  She is now repeating a lot of words when she hears us say them and is slowly building her vocabulary of words she'll say unprompted.  She just recently learned to put on her socks and shoes all by herself.  We're still battling giardia (a nurse just told me that it's common for it to reoccur with kids who had chronic exposure) but once that's gone we're going to start potty training as she is ready!</span><span style="text-decoration: underline; " /></strong></span></p>

<p><span><strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">Keira</span><br /><span><span style="font-weight: normal; "><a href="http://lifechange.typepad.com/.a/6a00e54ed20ac988330120a6d48715970b-popup" onclick="window.open( this.href, '_blank', 'width=640,height=480,scrollbars=no,resizable=no,toolbar=no,directories=no,location=no,menubar=no,status=no,left=0,top=0' ); return false" style="float: right;"><img alt="Maya &amp; Keira Love Apples - 1" class="asset asset-image at-xid-6a00e54ed20ac988330120a6d48715970b " src="http://lifechange.typepad.com/.a/6a00e54ed20ac988330120a6d48715970b-150wi" style="width: 150px; margin: 0px 0px 5px 5px;" /></a> Keira continues to make everyone laugh.  She is miss personality and is very open about how she feels (both when she's happy and mad!)  We got to make our first Emergency Room trip with Keira last month.  She was playing with Noah and while running fell and hit her head on the corner of a filing cabinet.  She got a good cut on her forehead which ended up only requiring glue, no stitches.  Physically she has made a lot of progress and is exactly where a child her age should be.  She starting to say a few words that are common to a 1 1/2 year old.  She still has her chubby cheeks so she's always getting lots of kisses and attention from everyone.</span></span><span style="text-decoration: underline; " /></strong></span></p><p>If you'd like to see more pictures of the kids or our family, you can find them <a href="http://scotthimes.smugmug.com/2009">here in our 2009 Photo Albums</a>.</p><xhtml:img xmlns:xhtml="http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml" src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/Lifechange/~4/kCIISsV4hIs" height="1" width="1" /></div></content>


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        <title>Adoption &amp; Foster Care in Indiana - Info Session</title>
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        <published>2009-11-03T22:36:19-05:00</published>
        <updated>2009-11-03T22:37:12-05:00</updated>
        <summary>Every child deserves a family, and everyone can make a difference! Information meeting on Adoption and Foster Care in Indiana November 11th 6:30pm -8:00pm at the Life Church Offices 700 N. High School Rd. Indianapolis, IN 46214 November is 'National...</summary>
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            <name>Scott Himes</name>
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<p style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; FONT-FAMILY: 'comic sans ms'; COLOR: #ff0000; font-weight: bold"><font size="7"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt">Every child deserves a family,<span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span><br /></span></font></p>
<p style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; FONT-FAMILY: 'comic sans ms'; COLOR: #ff0000; font-weight: bold"><font size="7"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt">and everyone can make a difference!</span></font></p>
<p style="TEXT-ALIGN: center"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman', serif; FONT-SIZE: 14pt"><font size="4" style="font-weight: bold; text-decoration: underline">Information meeting on Adoption and Foster Care in Indiana</font><br /></span></p>
<p style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; COLOR: #ff0000"><font size="4"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman', serif; FONT-SIZE: 14pt">November 11<sup>th</sup><span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span>6:30pm -8:00pm</span></font></p>
<p style="TEXT-ALIGN: center"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman', serif; FONT-SIZE: 14pt"><font size="4"> at the Life Church Offices<br />700 N. High School Rd.<br />Indianapolis, IN  46214</font></span></p>
<p style="TEXT-ALIGN: left">November is 'National Adoption Awareness Month', especially set aside to raise awareness about the adoption of our children and youth from the foster care system. On <strong>November 11<sup>th</sup></strong>,<span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span><span style="FONT-STYLE: italic">LaDonna Wattley</span>, a <strong>Licensed Clinical Social Worker</strong> and <strong>Adoption Consultant</strong>, will be conducting an informal presentation on Foster Care and Adoption in Indiana from <strong>6:30pm-8:00pm</strong> at the <a href="http://www.lifechurchindy.com" target="_blank">Life Church Offices</a>. If you’ve ever considered adoption, know someone who might be, or are just interested in learning more about the foster care and adoption processes in Indiana, we would like to welcome you to attend this event.  Please RSVP to Tara Prater at<span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span><span><span style="FONT-STYLE: italic; font-weight: bold"><a href="mailto:tlhobson@iupui.edu" style="COLOR: #1c51a8" target="_blank"><font color="#1c51a8">tlhobson@iupui.edu</font></a></span><span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span>or Angie Moncrief at<span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span></span><span style="font-weight: bold; text-decoration: underline"><a href="mailto:ammoncrief@sbcglobal.net" style="COLOR: #1c51a8" target="_blank"><font color="#1c51a8">ammoncrief@sbcglobal.net</font></a></span><span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span>so we are sure to have enough literature for everyone.  Feel free to email with any questions.  Hope to see you there at the Life Church offices next Wednesday.<br /></p></span></span><xhtml:img xmlns:xhtml="http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml" src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/Lifechange/~4/3JLjNIHi2wA" height="1" width="1" /></div></content>


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        <title>Lands End Big Warm Up Video - creative idea</title>
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        <published>2009-11-02T21:58:46-05:00</published>
        <updated>2009-11-02T21:58:46-05:00</updated>
        <summary>I share this not so much to promote the event but to demonstrate the creative way Lands End is getting the word out. You can create a custom video here with someone's name on it and send it via email,...</summary>
        <author>
            <name>Scott Himes</name>
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<content type="xhtml" xml:lang="en-US" xml:base="http://lifechange.typepad.com/lifechange/"><div xmlns="http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml"><p>I share this not so much to promote the event but to demonstrate the creative way <a href="http://www.landsend.com/">Lands End</a> is getting the word out.  You can create a custom <a href="http://" /><a href="http://video.bigwarmup.com">video here</a> with someone's name on it and send it via email, Twitter, Facebook or on a blog.  Great job Lands End and a good cause for the Christmas season!</p>

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    <entry>
        <title>How To Re-Adopt In Indiana</title>
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        <published>2009-10-31T15:29:28-04:00</published>
        <updated>2009-10-31T15:29:28-04:00</updated>
        <summary>We recently just started the re-adoption process for Maya and Keira here in Indiana. This is required in most states for any foreign adoption your child travels back to the US on an IR-4 visa. With our first adoption we...</summary>
        <author>
            <name>Scott Himes</name>
        </author>
        <category scheme="http://www.sixapart.com/ns/types#category" term="Adoption" />
        
        
<content type="xhtml" xml:lang="en-US" xml:base="http://lifechange.typepad.com/lifechange/"><div xmlns="http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml"><p>We recently just started the re-adoption process for Maya and Keira here in Indiana.  This is required in most states for any foreign adoption your child travels back to the US on an IR-4 visa.  With our first adoption we paid a lawyer $500 to do it.  This time after learning about the process we decided to do it ourselves and save the money.  It's actually an easy process that will only take 2-3 hours of your time between filling out the paperwork and going to government center.  Since a lot of people have contacted us about this here are the details on how the process works.</p><p><strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">The Forms</span></strong><br />You will need these forms (note these are all specific to Indiana):</p><p><span class="asset asset-generic at-xid-6a00e54ed20ac988330120a644d481970b"><a href="http://lifechange.typepad.com/files/05438--record-of-adoption-1.doc">Record of Adoption<br /><span><span class="asset asset-generic at-xid-6a00e54ed20ac988330120a69a404d970c" /></span></a><a href="http://lifechange.typepad.com/files/medical-history-form-1.pdf">Medical History Form<br /><span class="asset asset-generic at-xid-6a00e54ed20ac988330120a69a42c1970c" /></a><a href="http://lifechange.typepad.com/files/order-recognizing-foreign-adoption-1.doc">Order Recognizing Foreign Adoption<br /></a></span><span class="asset asset-generic at-xid-6a00e54ed20ac988330120a69a43f6970c"><a href="http://lifechange.typepad.com/files/pet.-recognizing-foreign-adoption.doc">Petition Recognizing Foreign Adoption</a></span></p><p><font color="#0000FF"><span style="color: #111111; "><span style="color: #000000; font-weight: bold; "><span style="text-decoration: underline; ">Contact Person</span></span><br />As of October 2009 this is the current contact for questions or issues related to re-adopting in the state of Indiana:</span></font></p><p><font color="#111111"><span style="color: #000000; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: normal; border-collapse: collapse; " /></font></p><font color="#111111"><blockquote type="cite"><span style="border-collapse: separate; color: #000000; font-family: Helvetica; font-size: medium; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; letter-spacing: normal; line-height: normal; text-indent: 0px; text-transform: none; white-space: normal; word-spacing: 0px; "><p lang="EN-US" link="blue" vlink="purple" /><p /><p style="margin-top: 0in; margin-right: 0in; margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; margin-left: 0in; font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman'; "><span size="2" style="font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: Arial; ">Denise Safford</span></span></p><p style="margin-top: 0in; margin-right: 0in; margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; margin-left: 0in; font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman'; "><span size="2" style="font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: Arial; ">Mental Health &amp; Adoption Coordinator</span></span></p><p style="margin-top: 0in; margin-right: 0in; margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; margin-left: 0in; font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman'; "><span size="2" style="font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: Arial; ">Marion</span></span><span size="2" style="font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: Arial; "><span> </span>County</span></span><span size="2" style="font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: Arial; "><span> </span>Superior Court 8</span></span></p><p style="margin-top: 0in; margin-right: 0in; margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; margin-left: 0in; font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman'; "><span size="2" style="font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: Arial; ">Probate Division</span></span></p><p style="margin-top: 0in; margin-right: 0in; margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; margin-left: 0in; font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman'; "><span size="2" style="font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: Arial; ">317-327-5015; fax 317-327-4512; <span style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: Helvetica; font-size: 12px; "><a href="mailto:DSAFFORD@indy.gov" style="color: #1c51a8; " target="_blank">DSAFFORD@indy.gov</a></span></span></span></p><p /><p /></span></blockquote><p style="margin-top: 0in; margin-right: 0in; margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; margin-left: 0in; font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman'; "><span style="font-size: small; line-height: 15px; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', Verdana, sans-serif; "><span style="color: #000000; font-weight: bold; "><span style="text-decoration: underline; ">What To Do</span></span><br />Directions on filling out the forms and what to do with them are below.  This is text copied directly from an email I received from Denise:</span></p><p style="margin-top: 0in; margin-right: 0in; margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; margin-left: 0in; font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman'; "><span style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', Verdana, sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small; line-height: 15px;"><span style="color: #000000; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: normal; border-collapse: collapse; " /></span></span></p><span style="border-collapse: separate; color: #000000; font-family: Helvetica; font-size: medium; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; letter-spacing: normal; line-height: normal; text-indent: 0px; text-transform: none; white-space: normal; word-spacing: 0px; "><p lang="EN-US" link="blue" vlink="purple" /><p /><p style="margin-top: 0in; margin-right: 0in; margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; margin-left: 0in; font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman'; "><span size="2;" style="font-family: Arial"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: Arial; "><em>Please complete the Petition and bring to court the original (notarized) and 3 copies.  Complete the Order (except for the judge signature!!) and bring the original and 3 copies.  Complete the Record of Adoption (ROA) and just print off one copy – bring with you to court.  There is no filing fee, however you need to bring two (2) separate checks for the Indiana State Department of Health (ISDH).  The first check is for $20.00 and is for the upkeep of the state registry.  The second check is for the actual birth certificate – one copy will cost $10.00, if you want two (2) copies the cost is $14.00 and three (3) copies are $18.00 – this is a </em><strong><span style="font-weight: bold; "><em>per child cost</em></span></strong><em>.  Every time the petition, order or record of adoption asks for the child’s name it means the name of the child PRIOR to the adoption in the foreign country.  You will see where the name changes from “A” to “B” on all three documents.  For the ROA just complete parts I &amp; II – I will complete part III after the paperwork has been completed and filed.  The petition asks for certain documents – you may attach copies (with the English translation).  You want to keep your originals in your own personal file.</em></span></span></p><p /><p /></span><p /><p style="margin-top: 0in; margin-right: 0in; margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; margin-left: 0in; font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman'; "><span size="2" style="font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: Arial; "><em>Please print the medical history PDF file and complete it and then make a copy.  You may not know any of the child’s history so just leave it blank, but please sign the form and date it.  Bring both the original and copy to court.</em></span></span></p><p style="margin-top: 0in; margin-right: 0in; margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; margin-left: 0in; font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman'; "><span size="2" style="font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: Arial; "><em> </em></span></span></p><p style="margin-top: 0in; margin-right: 0in; margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; margin-left: 0in; font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman'; "><span size="2" style="font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: Arial; "><em>When you come to court, please come to room 1721 on the 17</em><sup><em>th</em></sup><span><em> </em></span><em>floor of the</em><span><em> </em></span><em>City-County</em><span><em> </em></span></span></span></p><em>Building.  You will have to go through security so please refrain from bring anything into the building that you would normally not be taking into an airport.  Ask the bailiff to see a commissioner for domesticating a foreign adoption. </em><p /></font><p /><xhtml:img xmlns:xhtml="http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml" src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/Lifechange/~4/utwAhcxT-nM" height="1" width="1" /></div></content>


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    <entry>
        <title>Do you believe it is possible?  (Desperation Band music video)</title>
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        <published>2009-10-15T14:55:25-04:00</published>
        <updated>2009-10-15T14:55:25-04:00</updated>
        <summary>Throughout life we face inflection points where we've got to make a choice about what we will believe. Will we believe God is able? That God will come through? That we will make it? What we believe is a choice....</summary>
        <author>
            <name>Scott Himes</name>
        </author>
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<content type="xhtml" xml:lang="en-US" xml:base="http://lifechange.typepad.com/lifechange/"><div xmlns="http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml"><p>Throughout life we face inflection points where we've got to make a choice about what we will believe.  Will we believe God is able?  That God will come through?  That we will make it?  What we believe is a choice.  Any family going through the process of adoption asks this question frequently as they face challenges and setbacks.  Courtney and I have chosen to live a life believing the best and believing our God is able.  </p><p>This is a powerful music video from <a href="http://www.desperationband.com/">Desperation Band</a> and their new song "Light Up The World" about God intervening here on the earth and specifically in the lives of the millions of orphans around the world!</p>

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    <entry>
        <title>Three Week Family Update</title>
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        <published>2009-10-10T14:11:06-04:00</published>
        <updated>2009-10-10T14:11:06-04:00</updated>
        <summary>It's hard to believe that we've already been home for three weeks! Everyone is doing well and we continue to adjust to our new 'normal.' This week was Courtney's first regular week back at work and her schedule seemed to...</summary>
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            <name>Scott Himes</name>
        </author>
        <category scheme="http://www.sixapart.com/ns/types#category" term="Adoption" />
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<content type="xhtml" xml:lang="en-US" xml:base="http://lifechange.typepad.com/lifechange/"><div xmlns="http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml"><p><a href="http://lifechange.typepad.com/.a/6a00e54ed20ac988330120a62dbded970c-popup" onclick="window.open(this.href,'_blank','scrollbars=no,resizable=yes,toolbar=no,directories=no,location=no,menubar=no,status=no,left=0,top=0'); return false" style="float: right;"><img alt="Family Picture - Sept 2009" class="asset asset-image at-xid-6a00e54ed20ac988330120a62dbded970c " src="http://lifechange.typepad.com/.a/6a00e54ed20ac988330120a62dbded970c-200wi" style="width: 200px;" title="Family Picture - Sept 2009" /></a> It's hard to believe that we've already been home for three weeks!  Everyone is doing well and we continue to adjust to our new 'normal.'  This week was Courtney's first regular week back at work and her schedule seemed to work well.  Our long term goal is to get Courtney to where she can at least cut back (she's currently working 3 days a week) or even stay at home!</p><p>The girls are doing well.  Maya is getting more expressive and making her presence known.  She's still not saying much but seems to have bonded with us really well and her two siblings.  Keira makes us laugh all the time with her crazy facial expressions.  We think Maya will be the motherly, caring one while Keira will be the outgoing, life of the party type.  </p><p>The only lingering issue we have is both girls are fighting an intestinal parasite called Giardia. It doesn't make them feel bad or sick, it just causes them to have lots of dirty diapers.  We have medicine for it but it may last another few weeks.  We're just tired of changing about 4 poopy diapers a day per child.  For our sake I hope it goes away soon!</p><p>Noah continues to learn to be big brother.  He is interacting more with the girls and we know this because many more 'fights' are happening these days in our house.  Everything from toys, to sippy cups, to blankets and attention from Mom and Dad are potential for sad and upset siblings.  I guess it's all normal and part of having brothers and sisters (even thought I <em>never</em> remember fighting with my sister growing up... ok, just kidding!)</p><p>On the adoption front our journey is not yet complete.  We still have the process of re-adoption which is required to make it legal here in the US.  Right now both girls are considered legal residents and should be getting their green cards soon.  Re-adoption will make them officially US Citizens, get a social security number, and US birth certificate.  The last thing we want to do right now is mess with a bunch more paperwork but we don't have an option.  We'll write more about the re-adoption process as we move along.</p><xhtml:img xmlns:xhtml="http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml" src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/Lifechange/~4/-FbwSLjJxTM" height="1" width="1" /></div></content>


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