This is a question I used to ask God (God/Universe is same for me) and the angels when I was being cyberstalked. I could not figure out for the life of me what I did to attract such a creep.  I felt I was a nice, sweet, and funny person and what did I do wrong to deserve such treatment?

I just could not understand “Why me God???”

While I was cyberstalked I felt like a strange man was in my home following me around, watching my every move, trying to control me, and possibly coming to hurt me physically.

He just wouldn’t go away.

Anybody could have been him ONLINE because he lied about his identity, and so for the first year I made it a point to be invisible ON the Internet. I made sure I didn’t post ANYTHING online using my full name. I never put up any photos of myself. I never joined any social networking sites. I never wrote any articles online using my full name. I never joined any message forums (because the last one I joined he hijacked my username, email, and password). I never talked to new people online. I never gave out my email address to ANYONE new I met off-line. I changed my phone number. I thought about purchasing a gun for protection. I learned some self defense moves just in case.

Long Story Short

To make a LONG story short, in the end I got PISSED OFF!

In 2006  I cried my eyes out nearly every day and was living in total darkness. In 2007 was more of the same but I would soon get tired of living in restriction and just wanted my life back and so I GOT PISSED and said “THAT’S IT! SCREW HIM I AM DOING WHAT I WANT YOU DON’T SCARE ME ANYMORE!!! NOBODY CAN HURT ME NOT EVEN IF HE COMES AND PHYSICALLY TRIES TO HURT ME HE CAN’T TAKE MY SPIRIT, SO I AM MOVING ON!”

I was angry and TIRED.

And so I moved on even if he didn’t. That was it. I decided I was going to ignore him. I decided I wasn’t going to be a victim anymore.

Lessons Learned

So if I could go back in time and give myself advice it would be: Don’t give your power away and walk away from the negativity. If you’re not resonating or vibrating on the same level with a certain person, then walk away, period.

The Universe Is On Your Side!

This is the lesson I learned from my nightmare experience. I also learned to listen more to what my intuition and my feelings were saying instead of denying the truth. One day while I was talking with him (the guy that would eventually cyberstalk me) via IM chat,  I heard the words in a faint voice “He is a stalker.” At the time he did not show any signs of being aggressive or possessive or off so I thought it was weird to hear that. Looking back now I feel like it was a warning to walk away from him. But me being me at the time I thought it was nothing and just brushed it off.

I do believe that the Universe is helping us to repel negative energies; however, a part of fulling your request means to listen to your intuition and to not engage/react/surround ourselves with these energies. Meaning, walk away right away from ANY negativity.

For example, one morning I asked God and the angels to repel negative energies, negative people, and negative situations. Later that day I went to the gas station to fill up my car. While I was pumping gas I felt this angry energy approaching nearby. I thought it was strange. When I turned around I noticed a large truck circling the gas station. He wasn’t driving fast or anything out of the ordinary. I just thought he was looking for an opening so he could get gas. Well every spot was taken and he decided to park by the gas pump beside mine. The energy was getting more intense. I noticed the guy sticking his head out the window and saying something to the guy he was parked by. All the sudden my gas stopped pumping even though I did not take my hand off the lever. It just wouldn’t pump gas anymore.

I tried again to pump more gas and it just WOULD NOT.

It was at that very moment I had a major “Aha” moment. God and the angels were telling me to leave (a heads up warning) at that very moment and that is how they were communicating this to me. Right when I figured that out I decide to leave and proceeded to get in my car. Right as I was about to get in my car the guy in the truck starts a yelling fest with the fellow beside me. I knew that things were about to get physically violent so I left ASAP.

After that experience  I *knew* that it is how God/Universe/Angels are helping us to fulfill our requests for help. It is up to us to decide the next best course of action. Do we stay in the negative situation? Do we surround ourselves with negative minded people? Do we give our power away to others? Or do we choose to not resonate with those people and move on in peace and not let it affect us?

~Lis

Side thoughts:

BTW, having extreme sensitive (clairsentient) abilities is something I used to think was a HUGE problem for me, as I used to TRY to find a way not to feel others energies because it was very extreme. Shopping at the store at one point was a huge problem for me as I would feel others emotions as each person passed me (sadness, anger, worries, etc) and I couldn’t find a way at the time to manage these energies and shop in peace lol. I think I will blog about this topic soon because I can go way into left field with talking about being an empath or being empathetic or being sensitive or a sensy or feely or whatever you want to call it ;).

By the way, we all have the ability to use our “clair” abilities if we are willing to be open and can recognize signs and know that nothing is a coincidence.

Anyways, so on Friday I asked God and the angels for an answer to a question I had and immediately I got an answer in the form of a movie playing in my mind. At first I was like “Huh?!  Why am I seeing this?” Then I thought about what I saw and I said “No way that’s the answer!” And it turned out it WAS! By the way it had to do with CSS Cascading Style Sheets.

I know I am funny.

Anyhoo, I am getting thrown off track with the subject of this post. My point is sometimes when you say a prayer and ask for help you can find the answer to your prayer by paying attention to  repetitive signs/signs that come to you days, hours, minutes, seconds apart.

Repetitive signs can be particular songs playing with a distinct message being sung, billboards with particular messages, license plates, names of (specific or just the first name) people, movies with a message that pertains to the question you have, or even a blog post or blog comment!

I think that many times we like to label repetitive signs as mere coincidences, but really they are not. Sometimes repetitive signs can even be messages from our loved ones in Heaven saying a “Hi! I love you and am with you.” I know I have been getting “Hi’s” from my mom in Heaven even more lately. “Hey lady!”Haahaha I mean”Hi back mom!” (She knows I love to call her “lady”).

How You Can Be More Open to Hearing/Clearly Seeing The Answer to Your Prayers

1. Don’t drink too much caffeine as it clouds your mind (which in turn may make it a bit harder to hear the messages).
2. Don’t stress about the problem or question you have or finding the solution = Relax a bit.
3. Go out and get some fresh air. The more further you are away from noise and smog the better. Think: park, forest, or beach.
4. Pay attention to signs, dreams, and synchronistic events.
5. Accept the truth.
6. Believe.
7. Trust.
8. Believe.
9. Trust.
10. Keep praying for more signs until you receive the answer to your prayers.

Last but not least, don’t forget to say thanks for receiving the answer to your prayers and feel the love because you are VERY LOVED!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

((((((((((((((HUGS))))))))))))

Looooooooooooove!

~Lisa

Man, what is it with the moon? ;)

Whoa! I of course being the peacemaker that I am got in between the two of them and said, “Wait a minute! Rachel’s arm is already broken why…  AND… why are you hitting her?!?” She yells, “I know AND I AM THE ONE THAT BROKE IT AND I AM GOING TO BREAK THE OTHER ONE!”  I said “WHY? What did she do that you feel the need to beat her up?”

I then turned to my friend Rachel and asked her “Why is she mad at you… do you know why she’s mad at you?” Rachel shrugged her shoulders and threw her hands up in the air. I knew it! She had no idea why this girl (who I think in the dream was her friend and was mad at her) was mad her.

I then asked the girl “Well did you tell her why you were mad at her?” She said “No, she should know why I am mad!”

Well, this got me thinking when I woke up from the dream (the dream didn’t end like that just cutting the story short hehe) that sometimes it’s hard for other people to express that they are hurt and in turn they just bottle up their feelings and then explode on people.

It also was a great reminder that sometimes no matter what you do try to make things good (or civil) in certain relationships (even family members or maybe your ex-spouse) that you can’t force people to treat you nice, period.

I know because I used to try all the time. I tried to be the peacemaker. The mind reader. The  “I’ll Walk On Egg Shells For You Baby!” And guess what? It never worked!!!

oioi!!

Until one day something happened.  I woke up. It was a message from God: Let go of the unhealthy people in your life.

Sometimes it’s easy to walk away and sever ties with the negative Nelly’s in your life, but sometimes it can be a little bit tricky because you’re stuck with them. For example, if you’re divorced and have small children, you will lol most likely have to interact with one another from time to time. And that can be difficult if your ex-spouse is continually trying to pick a fight for reasons that are beyond you. Or maybe you have a sister in-law, or heck maybe it’s even your real sister that treats you like crap all the time and you have to see them at family functions.

Well, what I like to do if this is the case: don’t make it a point to hang out with them or stick around them for very long. Distance yourself from them. Don’t share your dreams or special news with them. You can also ask God and the angels for help. You can say a prayer: Dear God and archangels please help bring peace to this situation.

Also try not to take things personally. I know it’s tough not to, but there is good in everyone and if you are angry back at the person it’s not good and it’s a waste of energy. Just know you can’t change a person and that everyone is on their own personal growth path.

What I like to do too is ask Archangel Michael to clear and shield my energy so that the other person’s angry energy does not linger with me for long. If you’re an extra sensitive person like me believe me this helps tons!  You can say: Dear Archangel Michael, please protect me and my family. Please surround me with your blue and purple light. Please clear my energy and my shield. Please clear the energy in my home, my car, my business, the roads I drive, and the stores that I visit today. Please help me to attract loving people and repel negative ones.  Thank you for your help. I love you. You can also continue on and ask God to surround you with white light too and say an additional prayer. I always do that too and it helps tons. :)

~Lis

Firstly, I secretly moved (not so secret now. Not on the Sassy Lassy Tour yet.) What happened was right in and slightly after Mercury Retrograde (which was uber intense for me and had me re-viewing everything past, present, and future like mad!) I had this energy about me that can only be summed up from the title of this blog post: ((((((((BLAAAAHHHHH PHOOEY!!!! AND PFFFFFFFF!!!!))))))))

I am not joking.

Then I decided that I needed to, yes,  put the “re” back in review and see what wasn’t working in my life anymore and dump it! Kick it out! Send a goodbye letter. Wish it well. Thank it for the life lessons… and move it forward and change it so that it’s anew.

So I made a big list of the old and yucky and started to set the intention of eliminating them from my life because it was about time for a “letting go” cycle to start again. So I started with the easiest stuff first: hair.

I ended up cutting about 6 inches of length off my hair then coloring RED! I thought it was a great idea since I was moving to a new place and a different area.  I felt great! I totally felt anew instantly. But then a few weeks later I felt this energy about me again: CHANGE! CHANGE! CHANGE!

I got bored of it!

So hahaha I cut it some more and now it’s dark brown! Anyways, this has nothing to do with hair color really, but has everything to do with getting sick of shit that doesn’t work anymore or that just feels so blahh and boring. When you start feeling like stale or blah or annoyed with things, that it is the Universe giving you a kick in the behind to change it or settle for it. And I hate settling.

What can you do right now in this very moment in time that you can let go of  in your life that feels blah? Because when you repeat blah you get more blah and that feels like [insert here]!!!

If you are ever having trouble pin-pointing what needs to be let go of, you can ask God and the angels for signs. I like to do this when I feel like I have exhausted everything on my “Old and Yucky” list. Sometimes it can be something very old from the past that you haven’t fully let go of that you thought you did. If that’s the case no worries. I have been there and still continue to do letting go of stuff from the past. Nothing to feel ashamed about.

What really helps me is if I say a prayer. I like to ask God to help me let go of certain situations and sometimes I’ll talk to the guardian angels of the person that is apart of the situation (if that is the case).

So pretty much I’m in this cycle right now. And I know *I* am not done because I feel this itch coming on…

Yeah, it’s on top of my head and it says to change the color again. Mwa hahaha!

So anyways, to make a long story short, I started to notice funny things happening… new things started to come into my life… BETTER THINGS! I don’t want to say things you let go of get exactly replaced, but I will say that it certainly helps to shift the energy which in turn helps you to attract things you want. So less yucky and more yummy! Ya, it’s kinda like yucky food. You wouldn’t keep piling on gross food on your plate?! No! You’d keep adding the mmmm delicious stuff!

~Lisa

P.S. I for some reason get inspired from Stephen Colbert’s question on: What’s your personality this season?!!! (he was referring to basketball season).