little white secrets

juste-love: Most of my readers are girls living in America, but...

Sun, 15 May 2011 16:22:46 -0700

Most of my readers are girls living in America, but even if you’re reading this from another country, this can be for you as well. I used to think my problems were so catastrophic, then I started to read the world news headlines. It really puts things in perspective.

So, the next time you’re having a rough day, download a news app on your phone and read an article. There are protests in Syria, radiation problems in Japan, wars in Iraq, and a hundred other issues that girls in other countries have to face every day.

I’m not saying that you can’t ever feel sad or mad over your problems but I think we all need a little perspective sometimes.

Juste educate yourself.

strength to get through the day, wisdom to know the anxiety will...

Fri, 06 May 2011 09:47:16 -0700

strength to get through the day, wisdom to know the anxiety will pass

Nice to know even the most famous are very, very...

Fri, 29 Apr 2011 12:45:52 -0700

Nice to know even the most famous are very, very real.

kellyoxford:

Thank you Internet

Love Yourself

Thu, 28 Apr 2011 12:28:44 -0700

I cannot stress this enough. This has been something I struggle with on a daily basis. I continue to struggle with it, but just by KNOWING, you are already beating the system. Being consciously aware of your feelings and how you allow others to affect you gets you one step closer to complete inner peace.

I’m not there yet, but I hope to one day achieve that. <3

If you have not heard of Juste Love, please take a gander. These ladies know the importance of working together, promoting the love of one another, to make the world a better place.

Namaste. नमस्ते.

<3 little white

juste-love:

“Others cannot MAKE you happy, sad, angry, or feel anything unless you let them. But why would you want anyone else to be the cause of something that YOU feel.”

—

eject: My GQ article 'Quid Pro Fellatio' is online

Tue, 26 Apr 2011 08:30:04 -0700

eject: My GQ article 'Quid Pro Fellatio' is online:

If you haven’t heard of Kelly Oxford, she is only one of the most inspirational women I have never had the chance to meet (yet). This is only a glimpse at her awesome:

kellyoxford:

CLICK!

In the beginning, every serious romantic entanglement is an electric, superconducting, steamy, fleshy hump festival. New sex partner = new sex, and new sex = lots of sex. That’s sex math. You’re in the kitchen making pasta sauce—bam!—you’re having sex on the floor. You’re…

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Mon, 18 Apr 2011 00:35:38 -0700

please. <3

Sun, 17 Apr 2011 11:28:52 -0700

please. <3

to be young and carefree…

Sun, 17 Apr 2011 11:26:57 -0700

to be young and carefree…

"There’s no such thing as destiny. There are only different choices. Some choices are easy,..."

Sun, 17 Apr 2011 11:16:36 -0700

“There’s no such thing as destiny. There are only different choices. Some choices are easy, some aren’t. Those are the really important ones, the ones that define us as people.”

- #23

What it is to love...

Sun, 17 Apr 2011 10:51:00 -0700

* love yourself

* don’t feel sorry for yourself

* you are beautiful

* you are loved

* you are funny

* don’t try too hard - people love you

* don’t want too much

* don’t complain

* love who you are and what you have accomplished

* love him for who he is - all of it

* don’t ask too much of him

* trust him

* he is beautiful and he loves you

* don’t worry

* don’t cry - the world is not out to get you

* don’t cry - there is nothing to miss because you are experiencing it right now

* don’t cry - there is nothing to be sad about because there is right now to be happy about

* don’t cry - there is so much to love about your life

* don’t cry - there is too much to be done

* don’t cry - you are strong

* don’t do what you are expected to do - do what makes you happy

* do what you want to do

* do what you feel needs to be done, but only because it brings peace to your heart, not to someone else’s

* i know that will be hard, but try

* don’t worry if you fail - try again

* you love you

* do you notice it all revolves around love? love yourself. that is all that truely matters

* be happy

I wrote all of these things to help remind myself how much I need to love myself. I know I have a lot of self esteem issues. I constantly play conversations in my head, over and over. Thinking about how I could have said something better or what I shouldn’t have said. I dwell so much on the past that I forget to look towards the future. I dwell so much on my faults that it is easy for me to “hate” myself, to not forgive myself for my mistakes. But that mentality only digs bigger holes. I need to fill those holes for good. I need to get over whatever I am holding onto. What am I afraid of? I can’t put it into words. I can’t even picture it. When I try to reach there in my mind I see a big blank nothing. Like holes in a canvas. Except the holes lead to nowhere. There is nothing behind the canvas. At least nothing tangible.

I do believe I am strong to overcome these strong feelings of doubt. I know I am not alone, which is why I made this blog to create a community area safe for all of us to reveal our secrets. They may be completely anonymous. I don’t care about who you are but whether or not you are comfortable with who you are. Share your secrets with me. Share your secrets with the world.

<3 - little white

Want.

Sun, 17 Apr 2011 10:01:00 -0700

What is it that I want?

I want to love and be loved. With Him, that is the most difficult thing to ask. Sure, he loves me. Sure, I love Him. But we secretly loathe each other.

What is it that He wants?

This is a harder question. I know He wants peace. I know He wants change. I know He lives in the future. I would love to be there with Him, but I live in the present. As much as I would like to change that, it would not make me happy.

We cannot change each other.

This relationship is the hardest thing I have ever had to face.

I am strong.

WHAT IS YOUR EARLIEST HUMAN MEMORY?

Fri, 08 Apr 2011 16:28:58 -0700

This question requires me to be a human. I decline to assume such things.

"half of the promises people say were never kept, were never made"

Fri, 08 Apr 2011 16:10:26 -0700

“half of the promises people say were never kept, were never made”