Liturgical Time Veil Shop

Chapel Veils, Christian Headcoverings, Religious Scarves

2015-05-02T15:45:00.001-07:00

Buy Mantilla EVM8 - Eternity Veil Headcovering - The Infinity Scarf Mantilla Veil Original, in Black with Venice Lace Trim

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Warm Weather; New Designs!

2013-06-02T00:53:00.001-07:00

Who says women who cover their heads in church are repressed? :)

We're excited about some new listings! Stop by the shop to see.

Do You Have a Home Altar, Icon Corner, or Prayer Space?

2013-03-31T14:52:00.001-07:00

With a heartfelt desire to provide items to support individual families in building the domestic church, we are introducing home altar cloths.

Our plan is to create a line of cloths in liturgical colors with designs appropriate to the season, some of which will contain embroidery.

Here is the first!

If you have a home altar, icon corner, or prayer space, we would love it if you would share photos with the Liturgical Time Community. You are encouraged to send them to LiturgicalTimeVeilShop (at) gmail (dot) com. We will share them in a future post.

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Lenten Veiling

2013-01-18T21:57:00.004-08:00

Time flies!

Think of veiling for Lent?

Ash Wednesday is February 13 this year.

If you are planning to order a veil for Lenten observance, you'll need to do it very soon!

We Have a Few New Veils to Share...

2012-11-13T19:56:00.002-08:00

Purple Mantilla for Advent / Lent

Black and Silver Trimmed Mantilla

Super Soft Sheer Lace Trimmed Eternity Veil

New Headcoverings!

2012-10-04T17:57:00.001-07:00

We are gearing up for the holidays. If there is anything in particular that you would like to see in the shop, we'd love to hear from you. We are also taking special orders for holiday gifts at this time.

We decided it was high time we added some stretch lace headband-style headcoverings to

the Liturgical Time Veil Shop.

We've also been searching for some extra special laces to use in new Eternity Veils.

So here are a few new additions.We hope you like them!

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Are You a Pinner?

2012-09-17T20:57:00.001-07:00

I always pin my veils. I know that there are ladies who prefer not to, but, I just find it easier. No matter how well the veil drapes, if I don't pin it I find myself worrying more about my veil than about the mass.

I know there are a few of you out there who feel the same way. In honor of "pinners"...here is a new creation. (Smiles)

More colors and designs are on the way. Message us with special requests!

Pax and Blessings!

~Michelle

Visit the shop to see our new Decorative Floral Bobby Pin.

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A Headcovering Sale!

2012-07-28T09:58:00.001-07:00

The Liturgical Time Veil Shop currently features listings limited to veils that we have in stock.

Here's a coupon for 5% off your total purchase:
TakeABreakSale

We request that you kindly agree to use this code for in stock items only.

(If it is listed in the shop, it is in stock.)

Thank you friends!

This Week's Work at Liturgical Time: 7-7-12

2012-07-09T07:45:00.001-07:00

Here at Liturgical Time, we've working on a few new D shaped veils, at the request of a patron.

We have lots of wonderful soft new stretch laces, and we are loving working with them.

We've also been working on some new mesh veils that are bright, light, and great for the warmer months.

I've picked up my crochet hook again, and am loving it. I'm working on a warm cowl at present. I have also been skimming If You Really Loved Me: 100 Questions on Dating, Relationships, and Sexual Purity, and deciding whether to continue my Coutship Series. I noticed after I posted this picture, that my absolute favorite rosary bracelet, from Cam's shop, is on the table!

I'm back to work, next week, which means less sewing, reading, and writing, and more providing of speech therapy. I expect next week's pictures will have a classroom shot or two!

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Does Your Veil Drive You Crazy?

2012-07-05T13:09:00.000-07:00

Veils can slip. Slippage varies someone based on the laces and trims, but many veils have some tendency to slip.

Worries about veil slippage keep me awake at night.

I know,... I need to get a life, and some sleep.

I am thinking of developing a removable comb to be included on all veils in the shop, at no extra charge....to put the slippage issue to rest. No pun intended. (Okay, after I typed it, I decided that I kind of intended it.)

Opinions anyone?

We do offer pinning loops, and the option to purchase a sewn in comb, but I would imagine that some patrons may not realize that a comb might be useful, until they begin wearing their veils. A comb that could be either used, or removed, at any time seems like a solution to me.

Any thoughts?

Headcovering eBook in the Works, and a New Veil!

2012-06-19T16:15:00.001-07:00

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We have news!
It has been said that the best three things about being a teacher are June, July, and August.

Being a speech pathologist, rather than a teacher, means that I only get June off...but I'm not complaining. I'm rather fond of June.

This annual break allows me time to do things I've been wanting to do all school year, like create new veils, sleep in, and give the oven a good, thorough cleaning. (Okay...I don't really want to do the oven.) Anyway, one of the things that I have been wanting to do is to write a eBook on the basics of Christian headcovering. My intent is to produce a book about the "how-to", not the "why" or "whether to" of Christian headcovering.

After all, it is not as if headcovering is common these days, at least not in Western society. Those of us who have decided to embrace it, whether during church, at prayer, or on a daily basis, may not quite know how to begin. Personally, I remember receiving my first mantilla in the mail, and, while I was excited, I was also a little confused. Which side is up? Maybe I'm the only one who had that problem, but I suspect not.

There are also the issues of easing into headcovering when one is nervous about beginning, choosing the type of headcovering that is right for you, the challenges of tying and securing, and responding to curiosity and questions from others.

So, I am on my way to addressing these issues. I hope the book will be finished and available in the Veil Shop, or, perhaps, directly from the blog, by the end of the Summer. We shall see if that is overly optimistic!

In the meantime, I would love to hear from you if you have questions, or content, that you would like to see addressed.

On the subject of being nervous about beginning to cover in church, we have created a lace veil with a traditional Christian feel to it, that is inspired by the infinity scarf. Our intent is to provide veils that can be worn as a scarf when entering church...

...and then discretely slipped up over the head when the wearer wishes to be veiled.

We chose a lace pattern reminiscent of traditional mantilla style chapel veils to maintain a "church feel" for the veil. We are calling it the Eternity veil. We hope that you like it.

I hope that your summer is going beautifully!
God Bless and Pax Christi!
~Michelle

June Veil Special! NO Shipping!

2012-06-17T19:20:00.001-07:00

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Lots of New Items at the Chapel Veil Headcovering Shop!

2012-06-10T20:22:00.002-07:00

We have lots and lots of new items in the Veil Shop, including:

Many beautiful new mantillas:

The first of many matching child and doll headcovering sets:

The beginnings of a doily/ kippot collection (many more to come...):

and, New cool, comfortable summer headband/ headscarves:

We've love for you to stop by!

New Additions to the Mantilla Chapel Veil Headcovering Shop

2012-04-30T21:51:00.003-07:00

Stop by and see the new additions to the Liturgical Time Veil Shop!

Pink Princess Style

Lavender Rose Headcovering-Adjustable

Burgundy Mantilla in Soft Stretch Lace

New First Holy Communion Veil

2012-04-13T19:57:00.001-07:00

A very special veil for this momentous occasion in your young lady's life. Now available at the Veil Shop.

First Holy Communion Veil

New Veil with Swarovski Crystal Bead Ornamentation

2012-04-08T11:11:00.001-07:00

We have added a new veil, embellished with Swarovski crystal beads, to the veil shop. In additional to creating a beautiful veil, the beading adds weight to the front edge, and helps keep the mantilla in place without pins.

The first has been created in black, at customer request. This veil will, however, be available in all of our veil colors including white, ivory, seashell pink, mocha chocolate, powder blue, navy blue, and forest green. Color and shape of crystal beads varies according to veil color and availability at time of purchase. Let us know what you think of this new veil. We would love to hear from you.

New Veil with Ties!

2012-03-29T14:19:00.001-07:00

We have added a new long veil *with ties* to the Veil Shop.

Since it ties underneath your hair, it is more likely to stay in place, even with little ones around.

Also available in ivory.

Order Fulfillment Update, and a Sale at Snood for All Seasons!

2012-03-27T10:20:00.001-07:00

Károly Brocky [Public domain], via Wikimedia Commons

We just wanted to let everyone know that we are running right on time, and will be able to ship everyone's veil(s) in time for Easter! As a reminder, if you have an open order, and are planning to wear the veil for Easter, please do let us know, so that we can monitor its timely arrival.

On that note, we wanted to let everyone know, also, that A Snood for All Seasons is having a sale on their beautiful headcoverings! You can read details, and get the coupon code here.

Headcovering Ladies, We Have a Treat for You

2012-03-23T15:40:00.002-07:00

Tired of enduring sidelong glances and answering silly questions?
Have a hot cup of something wonderful, and smile.

Christian Headcovering Mug, now at the Veil Shop:

http://www.etsy.com/listing/95978789/christian-headcovering-mug

Easter Order Deadline

2012-03-22T23:06:00.000-07:00

Easter (April 8) is around the corner!
Veil shop orders must be received by Sunday, April 1, in order to arrive by Easter.

http://www.etsy.com/shop/LiturgicalTime

Free Shipping at the Catholic Chapel Veil and Christian Headcovering Shop

2012-03-19T12:49:00.000-07:00

We are offering free domestic shipping at the Veil Shop now through April 8, 2012!

Just enter code:

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2012-03-19T12:48:00.000-07:00

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Updates, sales, and giveaways related to the Veil Shop are posted here.

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Christian Headcovering: Catholic Mantilla Chapel Veil Colors: Do They Vary According to Age and Marital State? Does Color Matter?

2012-03-19T12:47:00.001-07:00

A lovely lady visited the Veil Shop this morning, and asked whether there are any hard and fast rules about the color of veils that one might wear, whether one is married or single, younger or older? Or whether, presently, it's more a matter of personal taste?

Of course, traditionally, married women wore black, or darker colors, and single women and girls wore white, or lighter colors. Now, though, it seems to me that those practices have relaxed a bit. I would say that, as women are re-embracing the practice of veiling, we are, to some extent, making it our own.

However, I am sure that local parishes may have different norms and practices. If you veil in church, are there any "color rules" or practices in your local congregation? I would love to here your input on this question.

Have a wonderful weekend!
~Michelle

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Men and Mantilla Chapel Veils at Church: Matthew

2012-03-19T12:43:00.000-07:00

In a prior post, I presented the results of a question presented to a number of male friends regarding how they feel about headcovering. One of the responses merits a reading in its entirety. That response follows:

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Pierre Auguste Renoir, {PD 1923}

The way I feel about veils is very much effected by questions of context. Specifically,

* ”Are veils a cultural norm in the relevant venue?”

* “Is the wearer consistently modest (or obedient to scripture) in their behavior and choice of other apparel?”

* and, if I am on familiar terms with the person, “What are the intentions of the wearer?”

First of all, if the veil is a cultural norm (as it is in many Orthodox churches), then I really think very little about it. I don’t automatically think that everyone wearing the veil does so without conviction, but it simply reduces the matter below the level of controversy requited to trigger my mental energies. In point of fact, it is now the abstainers that automatically draw my curiosity.

Non conformists aside, I can simply bisect the issue into: 1) Why is it a cultural norm among this community? And 2) What draws and holds these individuals to this community? The first question can generally be answered with research, the latter only through relationship.

Photo: Creative Commons, click for license

Second, if a woman veils but otherwise leaves little to the imagination, then at best the veil means nothing; at worst the veil is a mark of hypocrisy or low self awareness. If a woman is inordinately flirtatious, it would be better if she wore no veil, because the outward expression of modesty conveys innocence, thereby compounding the seductive effect on the man. Because immodest dress excludes no viewer, only the most desperate men would fool themselves into taking any ensuing affectations as a unique token of appeal. Like the gleam of gold through a keyhole, the invitations of a modestly arrayed woman are far more provocative. Further, veils can be a sexual fetish simply for being a mark of feminine modesty.

Additionally, if the purpose of the veil is to avoid drawing attention, then wearing one where it is not a norm to do so is counterproductive. I shall not belabor an obvious point.

That being said, the third context is really the most important to me, because it is the heart that matters most to God. If the person intends obedience or modesty or virtue, then those intentions trump any outward effect. Even if it is just a point of fashion, I cannot find fault with it in and of itself – veils can be very feminine and aesthetically pleasing simply as an article of clothing.

Finally, I should say that I appreciate the mindfulness that the veil represents when worn by young women in modern western communities. I like to see women who don’t simply accept the norms they are presented with at face value, but are compelled to compare them to the traditions in which we find our origins. If a woman veils and is virtuous in deed and modest in dress, discriminating in though, discerning in her study and obedient in her convictions, then it is not a veil at all. It is a crown.

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What Do Men Think of Women Who Practice Christian Headcovering and/or Wear a Veil to Catholic Mass

2012-03-19T12:41:00.000-07:00

I sought, this weekend, to get a taste of what men think of women who cover in church. After reading a rather coarse comment on dear Cam’s blog, I was interested in finding out. I asked a somewhat motley, (by age and denominational affiliation), group of Christian men for honest reactions to veiling. All of them are men who are dear to me, which may mean that they were kind, and somewhat guarded, in their responses…but I asked them not to be. Clearly, this is a naturally biased sample, since it only included people that I know, but…it’s a start.

I have learned some things that were unexpected, and some things that were no surprise at all.

Here are some highlights:

One Thing I Had Expected to Find:

These men, even those in their 40s and 50s, do not seem to have the same hang-ups about headcovering that women do. They don’t associate it with subjugation, male dominance, or power issues.

One Thing I Was Pleased to Find:

Not one man was critical of the decision of some women to cover. Now, maybe I just have really awesome friends, but, I think I was getting pretty honest answers. There were varying levels of understanding of why a Christian woman might choose to cover, but no one along that continuum, expressed distaste or negative judgment.

In fact, while none of these men, to my knowledge, has a woman in his life that chooses to cover, each was accepting of the practice, and, in the case of some, even willing to defend it.

Photo: Creative Commons

The Thing That Was Most Disquieting for Me:

A few brought up the one issue, regarding veiling, that causes me to squirm, both intellectually and emotionally: the idea that headcovering, if intended to express modesty and humility, is counterproductive when done in a cultural context where it is not the norm.

This has always been the only personally valid argument against veiling, for me. I certainly cover in a cultural environment where it is not the norm. However, I also live in the midst of a culture where virtue, respect for male headship, the placing of vows over personal gain, pursuit of integrity, and honor for God are not the norm. I’m not about to give up striving for these things, because I find myself in a culture that does not universally embrace them. My fierce internal longing to honor the Presence of our Lord trumps the desire to flee circumstances which may call attention to me. And, in the end, I squirm far more unveiled in church, than I do veiled.

A Question That Was Answered for Me:

Some of these fine Christian men are not immune from sharing the discomfort that some of us headcovering women feel, toward veiling in church, when they are intimately tied to us in some way. However, those who expressed this potential discomfort, also rose to support us, in rather knightly fashion, provided our reasons for veiling were Biblical, sincere, and virtuous.

Artwork: {{PD-1923}}-published before 1923 and therefore public domain in the US

Something I Already Knew:

Men, the good ones at least, are pretty wonderful. They are more thoughtful, reasonable, supportive, and kind, than most women give them credit for.

The Thing that Surprised Me Most:

The first response, that I received, came completely out of left field for me. This portion was not at all what I had expected:

"I don't really care if you do or don't, I see it as a form of fashion. I do not know the reason why veils wouldn't be allowed as per doctrine but so far as I know God doesn't care if you wear them or not." (Italics, mine.)

As I thought about this, I realized that this very thoughtful, contemplative, intelligent man, whom I hold rather dear, was born post-Vatican II. We have adults, now, that were born well past Vatican II. Have you, (assuming that you are old enough to remember sitting through televised Watergate hearings), thought of it?

They have lived entire lives with no exposure to looking out over a congregational sea of hats or lace mantillas on female heads in church, images of a veiled Jackie Kennedy, priests/pastors with backs to the congregation while facing a wall-backed altar to celebrate communion, housewives at the grocery market in the middle of the day with their hair set in rollers under scarves, or significant controversy over the use of birth control.

This very well informed young man probably has no awareness of the National Organization for Women's heavily promoted 1968 suggestion that:

"Because the wearing of a head covering by women at religious services is a symbol of subjection with many churches, NOW recommends that all chapters undertake an effort to have all women participate in a "national unveiling" by sending their head coverings to the task force chairman. At the Spring meeting of the task force of women and religion, these veils will be publicly burned to protest the second class status of women in all churches. (National Organization for Women, Dec., 1968.)

Many of the cultural shifts that have occurred in the short time between his generation, and mine, have been tragic. Others may not be. It hit me rather hard that, to him...and most of his peers...a veil in church is just a piece of lace.

...It's not a sign of subjugation. It's not a sign of honoring the wearer's husband, present or future. It's not a sign of backward thinking by a woman who is not comfortable with her own sexual freedom. It's not necessarily a sign of modesty. It's not a sign of imprisonment by superstitious religious thinking. It's not a gesture of honor toward the Real Presence of our Lord in the Blessed Sacrament.

It's just a piece of lace.

And, maybe, that is a good thing.

I don't know why I didn't realize it before now. I suspect that a lot of things that headcovering women (or those considering it) worry about, regarding the reactions of others, are no longer issues...at least for people under 35, or so.

Perhaps we have finally reached a point where we can get our collective societal head on straight. Maybe, now, lace covered female heads; male headship in the home; and a heading away from limited family size, institutionalized child care, and the embracing of a culture of divorce...can become true matters of choice. We have seen a period where women had no choice but traditional roles. We have seen a period where society militantly opposed women's embracing of traditional roles. Maybe now, as images of sit-ins, and bra burnings, fade in the memories of the relative handful of us that possess them, we can entertain hope for healing.

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One Sunday, my daughter wore a dress to church that, by most people's standards, was perfectly modest. However, it fell lower along the bust line, than she would generally wear without a shell underneath. As the mass progressed, I was aware of her tell-tale judicious fussing with the neckline of that dress. Finally, as we prepared to go up for communion, my rather scrupulously headcovering daughter discreetly slipped her lace mantilla off her head, folded it in half, and tucked it quietly into the bodice of her dress, in preparation for meeting her Lord, bareheaded, at the altar rail.

That episode is the best example I can recall, of healthy, balanced veiling...and I believe that those Chrisitian men, whose opinions matter, would understand her decision perfectly.

My own testimony of veiling is here.

A response best read in its entirety is here.

Pax Christi,

~Michelle

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