I know if you are a ‘friend’ then I will direct you to the new site…..if you are a silent observer goodbye and good luck.

……see you on the other side….

Let me introduce Guest blogger Sarah Lenssen

I recently came across a blog post by http://www.msafropolitan.com/ regarding the work of Sarah Lenssen.

I have always been divided  on the  adoption debate regarding black and asian children from other cultures,  and my concern regarding the potential cultural and self-identity issues that can arise from some families if they do expose their children to their own culture.   However can I take the moral high ground if children are going to starve to death?  So I choose to support somebody who is trying to raise funds to prevent thousands of people from dying from hunger and also somebody who is trying to make the culture and the future generation of her children survive.    This is a mother who is trying to ensure that a group of people are trying to have the basic human right food, water, and shelter.  So please support this cause and pass this on.

Guest Blogger: Sarah Lenssen from #Ask5for5

Family photos by Mike Fiechtner Photography

Thank you Creative healing goddess and nearly 150 other bloggers from around the world for allowing me to share a story with you today, during Social Media Week.

A hungry child in East Africa can’t wait. Her hunger consumes her while we decide if we’ll respond and save her life. In Somalia, children are stumbling along for days, even weeks, on dangerous roads and with empty stomachs in search of food and water. Their crops failed for the third year in a row. All their animals died. They lost everything. Thousands are dying along the road before they find help in refugee camps.

At my house, when my three children are hungry, they wait minutes for food, maybe an hour if dinner is approaching. Children affected by the food crisis in Ethiopia, Kenya, and Somalia aren’t so lucky. Did you know that the worst drought in 60 years is ravaging whole countries right now, as you read this? Famine, a term not used lightly, has been declared in Somalia. This is the world’s first famine in 20 years.12.4 million people are in need of emergency assistance and over 29,000 children have died in the last three months alone. A child is dying every 5 minutes. It it estimated that 750,000 people could die before this famine is over. Take a moment and let that settle in.

The media plays a major role in disasters. They have the power to draw the attention of society to respond–or not. Unfortunately, this horrific disaster has become merely a footnote in most national media outlets. News of the U.S. national debt squabble and the latest celebrity’s baby bump dominate headlines. That is why I am thrilled that nearly 150 bloggers from all over the world are joining together today to use the power of social media to make their own headlines; to share the urgent need of the almost forgotten with their blog readers. Humans have the capacity to care deeply for those who are suffering, but in a situation like this when the numbers are too huge to grasp and the people so far away, we often feel like the little we can do will be a drop in the ocean, and don’t do anything at all.

When news of the famine first hit the news in late July, I selfishly avoided it. I didn’t want to read about it or hear about it because I knew I would feel overwhelmed and uncomfortable. I wanted to protect myself. I knew I would need to do something if I knew what was really happening. You see, this food crisis is personal. I have a 4-year-old son and a 1 yr-old daughter who were adopted from Ethiopia and born in regions now affected by the drought. If my children still lived in their home villages, they would be two of the 12.4 million. My children: extremely hungry and malnourished? Gulp. I think any one of us would do anything we could for our hungry child. But would you do something for another mother’s hungry child?

My friend and World Vision staffer, Jon Warren, was recently in Dadaab Refugee Camp in Kenya–the largest refugee camp in the world with over 400,000 people. He told me the story of Isnino Siyat, 22, a mother who walked for 10 days and nights with her husband, 1 yr-old-baby, Suleiman, and 4 yr.-old son Adan Hussein, fleeing the drought in Somalia. When she arrived at Dadaab, she built the family a shelter with borrowed materials while carrying her baby on her back. Even her dress is borrowed. As she sat in the shelter on her second night in camp she told Jon, “I left because of hunger. It is a very horrible drought which finished both our livestock and our farm.” The family lost their 5 cows and 10 goats one by one over 3 months, as grazing lands dried up. “We don’t have enough food now…our food is finished. I am really worried about the future of my children and myself if the situation continues.”

Will you help a child like Baby Suleiman? Ask5for5 is a dream built upon the belief that you will.

That something I knew I would need to do became a campaign called #Ask5for5 to raise awareness and funds for famine and drought victims. The concept is simple, give $5 and ask five of your friends to give $5, and then they each ask five of their friends to give $5 and so on–in nine generations of 5x5x5…we could raise $2.4 Million! In one month, over 750 people have donated over $25,000! I set up a fundraiser at See Your Impact and 100% of the funds will go to World Vision, an organization that has been fighting hunger in the Horn of Africa for decades and will continue long after this famine has ended. Donations can multiply up to 5 times in impact by government grants to
help provide emergency food, clean water, agricultural support,
healthcare, and other vital assistance to children and families suffering in the Horn.

I need you to help me save lives. It’s so so simple; here’s what you need to do:

1. Donate $5 or more on this page (http://seeyourimpact.org/members/ask5for5)
2. Send an email to your friends and ask them to join us.
3. Share #Ask5for5 on Facebook and Twitter!

I’m looking for another 100 bloggers to share this post on their blogs throughout Social Media Week. Email me at ask5for5@gmail.com if you’re interested in participating this week.

A hungry child doesn’t wait. She doesn’t wait for us to finish the other things on our to-do list, or get to it next month when we might have a little more money to give. She doesn’t wait for us to decide if she’s important enough to deserve a response. She will only wait as long as her weakened little body will hold on…please respond now and help save her life. Ask 5 for 5.

Thank you on behalf of all of those who will be helped–you are saving lives and changing history.
p.s. Please don’t move on to the next website before you donate and email your friends right now. It only takes 5 minutes and just $5, and if you’re life is busy like mine, you probably won’t get back to it later. Let’s not be a generation that ignores hundreds of thousands of starving people, instead let’s leave a legacy of compassion. You have the opportunity to save a life today!

Right now I am looking at the Soul Mate/Twin flame debate.  I have not met my twin flame but I have met a few soul mates that have been challenging but essential to my growth.  I know Soul Mate relationships are hard but necessary, but I love when John Demartini  says “that one has to be inspired by your own life.”  also the fact that people project unrealistic expectations and imposing values on another person creates problems in relationships and the other person wants out, this is so true.

to be continued.

Your social self really wants to uphold standards and maintain your polished image so you wait until it’s perfect and often too late.
People who are perfectionist wait and wait for that perfect time to launch that perfect product etc. However launching a business or product is like driving you learn on the job, so perfectionism can be costly sometimes you have to be informal to test the market.

Big companies have the finances to pay for professional help for websites, adverts, programmes, brochures and printing etc

However outsourcing contains all the elements of somebody else’s psyche, values, ideas and uniqueness. This isn’t so bad if you have general message or good budget as your paying for the expertise.
If you have a small operation and limited budget you have to work with what you have so you got so be real. You need people to know your available so stop worrying about the perfect site etc when you can’t even be consistent and don’t have the content to put on it.

I have seen so many pages with ‘coming soon’ on them for years (I counted three years on one site) just get a blog until you can run your own self hosted site. If your Market is teenagers do they really care if your site is run by blogger or bigcartel?

Is your logo really going to make people buy your product? Maybe but a logo without a public profile isn’t going to help you get clients.

Its time to make a decision do you want a show case or do you want to put your work out there? Yes your brand represents you and there are considerations but I would rather learn from my mistakes and reinvent myself than never to have tried putting my work out there!

Subject to fashion/musical belief this is not the eighties.