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	<description>Journalist, editor, and author of Leaving Mundania, a forthcoming nonfiction book about larp.</description>
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		<title>Comment on If Famous Writers Had Written Twilight… by Rachel</title>
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		<dc:creator>Rachel</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 04 Feb 2012 22:46:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thoreau:

Because Edward is fed up with the routine of everyday life, he lives in the woods and isolates himself from human society. There, he contemplates the thoughtlessness of romance as a symbol for everyday life through a character by the name of Bella (who may or may not be a myth). In the woods, he meets a wolf whom he personifies as a symbol of thoughtless male sexuality and names him Jacob. He wrestles with his inner Jacob and ultimately rejects it in favor of deliberate romance. When Edward leaves the woods, he decides to never marry.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thoreau:</p>
<p>Because Edward is fed up with the routine of everyday life, he lives in the woods and isolates himself from human society. There, he contemplates the thoughtlessness of romance as a symbol for everyday life through a character by the name of Bella (who may or may not be a myth). In the woods, he meets a wolf whom he personifies as a symbol of thoughtless male sexuality and names him Jacob. He wrestles with his inner Jacob and ultimately rejects it in favor of deliberate romance. When Edward leaves the woods, he decides to never marry.</p>

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		<title>Comment on If Famous Writers Had Written Twilight… by Denise</title>
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		<dc:creator>Denise</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 04 Feb 2012 21:22:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Sylvia Plath: Bella doesn't know what she is doing in Forks. She meets Jacob on the way to a party, but he is more interested in her friend. She continually ruminates on Edward, whom she has known for years and has thought about marrying, but has decided finally that he is a hypocrite.  Bella returns home and spirals into depression, ruminating on her role as an intelligent woman in 1950s New England. She later attempts suicide and enters a mental health facility. Edward visits her there and he proposes. She laughs in his face.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sylvia Plath: Bella doesn&#8217;t know what she is doing in Forks. She meets Jacob on the way to a party, but he is more interested in her friend. She continually ruminates on Edward, whom she has known for years and has thought about marrying, but has decided finally that he is a hypocrite.  Bella returns home and spirals into depression, ruminating on her role as an intelligent woman in 1950s New England. She later attempts suicide and enters a mental health facility. Edward visits her there and he proposes. She laughs in his face.</p>

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		<title>Comment on If Famous Writers Had Written Twilight… by In the eye of the beholder « Jennifer Snoek-Brown</title>
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		<dc:creator>In the eye of the beholder « Jennifer Snoek-Brown</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 04 Feb 2012 18:11:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] first movie), but I get where the criticism comes from. And I also enjoyed this post that muses, if famous writers had written Twilight… My personal fave is the first, Herman Melville. “Call me Bella.” GENIUS! And some of [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] first movie), but I get where the criticism comes from. And I also enjoyed this post that muses, if famous writers had written Twilight… My personal fave is the first, Herman Melville. &#8220;Call me Bella.&#8221; GENIUS! And some of [...]</p>

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		<title>Comment on If Famous Writers Had Written Twilight… by moniza</title>
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		<dc:creator>moniza</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 04 Feb 2012 13:41:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Tolkien: Edward embarks on an epic quest to seize back land from the Werewolves. A huge battle commences. Edward's relationship with Bella is relegated to the appendix.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Tolkien: Edward embarks on an epic quest to seize back land from the Werewolves. A huge battle commences. Edward&#8217;s relationship with Bella is relegated to the appendix.</p>

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		<title>Comment on Larp TV: Treasure Trap by Nathan Hook</title>
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		<dc:creator>Nathan Hook</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Feb 2012 22:13:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The location is Peckforton Castle, which was also used in that era to film the classic tom baker doctor who episode 'the time warrior' (the first ever story with sarah jane smith).

In the modern era it's a hotel and 'listed building' (protected by conservation law).

However it's *not* really a castle - it was actually built in the victorian era, and has never been a noble's home.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The location is Peckforton Castle, which was also used in that era to film the classic tom baker doctor who episode &#8216;the time warrior&#8217; (the first ever story with sarah jane smith).</p>
<p>In the modern era it&#8217;s a hotel and &#8216;listed building&#8217; (protected by conservation law).</p>
<p>However it&#8217;s *not* really a castle &#8211; it was actually built in the victorian era, and has never been a noble&#8217;s home.</p>

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		<title>Comment on Larp TV: Nordic Larp Talks by Nathan Hook</title>
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		<dc:creator>Nathan Hook</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Feb 2012 01:53:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The flaw is this well-written speech is that it still refers to larps are  games. It explained they are historical reasons for the use of that term and also explains why they do not fulfill the criteria of games.  Despite this, it still insists on using that term.  

Personally I'm actively trying to get out of the habit of referring to larps as 'games,' since as it says here they are not.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The flaw is this well-written speech is that it still refers to larps are  games. It explained they are historical reasons for the use of that term and also explains why they do not fulfill the criteria of games.  Despite this, it still insists on using that term.  </p>
<p>Personally I&#8217;m actively trying to get out of the habit of referring to larps as &#8216;games,&#8217; since as it says here they are not.</p>

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		<title>Comment on Long-Form Improv, Meet Larp. by Lizzie Stark</title>
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		<dc:creator>Lizzie Stark</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 31 Jan 2012 17:00:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Readers may want to check out the long comment thread about this post over at +Google. 

https://plus.google.com/u/0/115401887206895165773/posts/cauVHJehhw6</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Readers may want to check out the long comment thread about this post over at +Google. </p>
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		<title>Comment on Link Love: Larp Magazines by Madison Macey donara</title>
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		<dc:creator>Madison Macey donara</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 31 Jan 2012 13:23:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The implication is the men who LARP are in the wrong somehow for the actions of a few butt heads, and ladies who violate the rules are given a pass.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The implication is the men who LARP are in the wrong somehow for the actions of a few butt heads, and ladies who violate the rules are given a pass.</p>

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		<title>Comment on All About Jeep by Long-Form Improv, Meet Larp. » Journalist, Editor, Author of Leaving Mundania</title>
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		<dc:creator>Long-Form Improv, Meet Larp. » Journalist, Editor, Author of Leaving Mundania</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 30 Jan 2012 02:48:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] I’ve had the troupe on my mind because long-form improv bears some striking similarities to jeepform (or more generally freeform?) [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] I&#8217;ve had the troupe on my mind because long-form improv bears some striking similarities to jeepform (or more generally freeform?) [...]</p>

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		<title>Comment on When to Retire Your Character by Nathan Hook</title>
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		<dc:creator>Nathan Hook</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 25 Jan 2012 00:17:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>These many of these comments (apart from the last one) show a strong narrativist leaning.

In a campaign context, it can also be worth considering taking a break; play a different character for an event or two, then decide if you want to go back to your old one. It may be you feel refreshed by doing so or it may be you discover some whole new aspect of the game (e.g. getting involved in meetings your previous character was excluded from due to social class).

Also remember that 'lack of goals / direction' can itself be regarded as an in-game problem.  If you feel like your life is over and you have nothing more to do after marriage, then it sounds like character is having a mid-life crisis.  You can play on that - lack of plot becomes a plot itself.

Another option is to speak to a player making a new character, and write a prior relationship with their character in. For example in Vampire, you bring in someone to play your childe, establish the relationship for a game or two, then still 'retire' the character to the shadows.  This means you can still act as your character in downtime, as a mentor/adviser/demanded elder to the childe, handling down your plot threads, while playing a new character at the events.

Another option is to have something traumatic happen to your character in downtime that significantly changes them. It's not entirely a new character, but it is different.  For example, riest might accidently say something heretical at the wrong time, fall out of poltical favour and get excommunicated, becoming a social outcast.  That might give you enough of a change to your experience that you want to keep playing the character. "Gm, please hit me with the big plot stick"</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>These many of these comments (apart from the last one) show a strong narrativist leaning.</p>
<p>In a campaign context, it can also be worth considering taking a break; play a different character for an event or two, then decide if you want to go back to your old one. It may be you feel refreshed by doing so or it may be you discover some whole new aspect of the game (e.g. getting involved in meetings your previous character was excluded from due to social class).</p>
<p>Also remember that &#8216;lack of goals / direction&#8217; can itself be regarded as an in-game problem.  If you feel like your life is over and you have nothing more to do after marriage, then it sounds like character is having a mid-life crisis.  You can play on that &#8211; lack of plot becomes a plot itself.</p>
<p>Another option is to speak to a player making a new character, and write a prior relationship with their character in. For example in Vampire, you bring in someone to play your childe, establish the relationship for a game or two, then still &#8216;retire&#8217; the character to the shadows.  This means you can still act as your character in downtime, as a mentor/adviser/demanded elder to the childe, handling down your plot threads, while playing a new character at the events.</p>
<p>Another option is to have something traumatic happen to your character in downtime that significantly changes them. It&#8217;s not entirely a new character, but it is different.  For example, riest might accidently say something heretical at the wrong time, fall out of poltical favour and get excommunicated, becoming a social outcast.  That might give you enough of a change to your experience that you want to keep playing the character. &#8220;Gm, please hit me with the big plot stick&#8221;</p>

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