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Employer Settles Dues of Battered Filipina Maid

2010-03-07T19:19:00.000-08:00

DUBAI
The Egyptian employer of Baina Mokalam, the Filipina maid who was rescued by Ras Al Khaimah Police on Wednesday, settled her three months salary, provided her a ticket and paid damages for battering and physically hurting her for three long years.

The settlement money, totalling Dh45,000, was reached during an amicable settlement before the Court in Ras Al Khaimah, Dh22,000 of which represented the salary of Baina from January 24, 2007 up to the time she was rescued by the police on January 27, 2010.

Philippine Consul General Benito B. Valeriano told Khaleej Times that the Consulate represented Baina in the final settlement as she wanted to go home as early as possible to her hometown in Maguidanao in Mindanao south of Manila.

He said that she will depart from Dubai to Manila on Sunday aboard the Emirates Airlines with a connecting flight to General Santos City, the nearest airport to her home province.

Consul General Valeriano also said that her employer and all others who maltreated their Filipino house help can no longer hire Filipino maids as they will be blacklisted by the Philippine Overseas Employment Administration (POEA).

“Our Labour Attaché Virginia P. Calvez will always report to Manila employers who, in one way or another maltreated and abused our Filipino helpers requesting the POEA to immediately blacklist them so they can no longer hire a new one,” he said.

Source: http://www.khaleejtimes.com/mobile/displaya.asp?xfile=/data/theuae/2010/February/theuae_February114.xml§ion=theuae

Filipino Customs

2010-03-06T19:00:00.000-08:00

Faithfulness to the family is a tradition that is characteristic of Filipino society. This family loyalty is apparent in the fact that there are no booming businesses for retirement homes or orphanages in the Philippines.

Also important to Filipinos is treating elders (even someone a year older is an "elder") with the respect and deference they deserve and require. There are many ways a person can show respect, whether it is by using hand gestures or speaking in a manner that denotes respect.
As with many Asian countries, removal of shoes is customary when entering someone's home. By doing this the visitors shows his/her respect for the family and their home, as well as having basic courtesy.

To recognize an elder's presence, a younger person may take the elder's hand (usually someone at least 15 years older), bring it to forehead and then release it.

It is also customary for Filipinos to use a lot of hand and facial gestures to communicate. In their communication with each other, speaking politely is important as is speaking with a gentle tone of voice. Arguing is not acceptable, along with public criticism.
Unlike other Asian countries where women tend to be in more subservient positions, women in the Philippines have had high societal positions since precolonial times. Since there is sexual equality, businesses are more accepting of women performing business. This attitude is apparent with the current Philippine preside. President Gloria Macapagal-Arroyo is the second woman to hold this esteemed position. Corazon Aquino was the first female president and held the position from 1986-1992).

Cheaters Always Lose

2010-03-05T12:00:00.000-08:00

Being unfaithful in a relationship is horrible, but there is a bigger picture here. You have to realize that a cheating wife may be the result of a problem in your relationship. If she's deceiving you by getting cuddly with another man, it could mean that she is going elsewhere to find what your relationship lacks --
which doesn't make her actions right, but only less despicable.If you discover that she cheated on you, there are a few questions you must ask yourself:
Can you trust her again?If the answer is no: You can't get back together.If the answer is yes: It may take time, but you can give it another try. You'll have to tell her that it'll be hard to trust her, but with her help and time, it can happen.
Why do you think she did it?If she doesn't tell you why: You'll have to evaluate whether you can still forgive her.If it has to do with your relationship: When you're ready, you can work on the problems in your relationship.
Is your relationship worth another try?If you can move past her deceit and give her another chance, then when you're ready, sit down, talk to her, and try to understand why she did it. There may be no reason at all (it could just be the fault of stupidity with a pinch of vodka), but if there is a reason why she cheated on you, then ignoring why she did it can lead it to happen again -- and then you'll be cheating yourself.
once a cheater...We all make mistakes, which doesn't make cheating acceptable, but if she shows remorse for her actions and if she's worth the effort of giving it another shot, then you can forgive -- although you may need more time to forget.

How to Handle Cheating Wife

2010-03-05T11:59:00.000-08:00

There's no need to get paranoid and suspicious if she's exhibiting any of the signs you have a cheating wife. If you think her recent behavior isn't adding up or you catch her lying, do not accuse her of cheating. Think about whether or not she's given you a reason to suspect her of two-timing you, or whether it's your imagination running wild because you're afraid of losing her. Here's how to handle your suspicions:

You have a feeling. If you think she may be cheating, approach her but don't bring up the cheating. Ask her if everything is OK, and tell her that she's been acting different lately. Give her examples of how her behavior has changed, and tell her that you want to know and understand if there's a reason for it.You want to open the lines of communication and encourage her to open up about what is troubling her in the relationship, and proceed from there. When she's showing the signs you have a cheating wife, approaching her can be a delicate situation.
You have more than a sneaking suspicion. If you have adequate reason to believe that she's cheating on you, do not accuse or threaten her because if you're wrong, she'll feel that you really don't trust her. Rather than exclaiming, "I know what's going on!" or "Who have you been messing around with?" ask, "Is there something I should know?" or "I have reason to believe that you're not being 100% honest with me."This may seem passive, but you want to approach the topic carefully because if you're wrong, you may be messing up big time. If you're right, however, you have permission to raise hell.
You catch her or have concrete evidence. If there is no way that this is a misunderstanding and you are positive that she's been pawing another dog, approach her with more assertion. Tell her what you saw, how it makes you feel, and what you plan to do about it.Can you ever trust your cheating wife again?

Signs You Have a Cheating Wife

2010-03-05T11:55:00.000-08:00

One of the major signs you have a cheating wife is if you spot any changes in her behavior, so if she's always been a guy's girl and has a lot of male friends, don't get paranoid when you hear that she was seen at the movies with her friend Max.The following are five signs you have a cheating wife:

1- She's no longer as needy. If she was never able to go shopping, exercise or cross the street alone, and she suddenly doesn't need your company, it may mean that someone else is filling your shoes. It's possible that she just needs time to herself, but if she's unusually independent when she used to be overly needy, it may signal that she's just no longer as needy... of you.
2- She no longer gets angry. She used to get angry if you didn't want to meet her for lunch or come out with her and her friends, but now everything you do is all right by her. Once upon a time, your every move had to be premeditated, but now all the small things you used to mess up aren't enraging her. This could be a good thing, but it should make you wonder why she no longer cares.
3- She's being secretive. She's no longer sharing her daily events with you, and in order to find out what she's doing, you'd have to hack into her BlackBerry because she's not volunteering any information regarding the goings-on in her life.
4- She places the focus on you. When you do ask her questions, she turns the tables on you. The former chatterbox's batteries have run out, and when you ask her how her night was, mum's the only word. It's now all about you, you, you, rather than "I did this" and "I went here last night."
5- She showers you with pleasure. Now that it's all about you, your girlfriend is always complimenting you, asking you to go out, giving you "I love you" cards for no reason whatsoever, and even offering to wash your car and watch the boxing match with you. While these gestures are more than sweet, it's this kind of overcompensating behavior that can make one suspicious. If she's bombarding you with niceties, it might be nice to know what's really going on.

Looking for Filipina Wife

2007-08-22T22:25:00.000-07:00

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In all over the world, Filipinas are the number preferred wives by other foreign countries. Why is that? First, Filipinas don't believe in divorce. They are very loyal to the one they married. They treasure family and will do everything just to keep the bonding strong.
SO why really Filipina?

Filipinas are patient, they do everything to please their husband. SO sad to say that it's one of the reason why they are very much abused e.g. sexually and other kinds. But then, it is a reason too that they are loved because they still give chance to every mistakes, they don't give up easily.
Filipinas are fighter. When they think they are being abused too much that they need to stand, then it's about time to fight. When one speaks of family and it must be fought for, Filipinas will stand and fight just to raise the family's right. No divorce.

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