Karen Brody, The Love And Intimacy Coach

3 Reasons He Won’t Open up to You….

Karen Brody — Tue, 15 May 2012 01:02:54 +0000

Want to know what he feels about the most important things? You need to know this… Men tend not to offer the kind of information you want when you ask them, “How do you feel? Or how do you feel about X?” It’s not because they don’t have feelings or because they’re trying to punish you [...]

Are You Her Dark Knight, or Mr. Yes?

Karen Brody — Tue, 31 Jan 2012 16:08:48 +0000

Your woman isn’t going to tell you this, but if she’s like most women I counsel, she wishes you were a little more aggressive, edgy and even dangerous in bed. I’m aware that many of you have spent 10, 20 or even 30 years trying to refine the animal impulse you in you. Thing is, when [...]

Ladies, not in the mood? Do this…

Karen Brody — Tue, 22 Nov 2011 23:49:15 +0000

It can be just about anything. You’re tired. You’re angry. You’re not turned on. Whatever it is, you say “no” to protect yourself from having to give. The problem is you’re cutting your man off from “emotional intimacy.” That’s right. He needs to be touched to feel loved and he needs to touch to fulfill that [...]

Revive Her Drive…

Karen Brody — Thu, 21 Jul 2011 21:12:22 +0000

Guys, if you’re in a relationship where the passion and connection have fizzled or even dried up, and you’re frustrated and angry, you’re not alone. Without even talking to you, I know what you’re going through and I know what your woman is feeling too. Your sense of security, success and desirability as a man – [...]

Are you Satisfied?

Karen Brody — Mon, 18 Jul 2011 23:06:35 +0000

Most of us believe that it’s our partners’ job to please us in bed. So when the job doesn’t get done so well, and expectations go unmet, clearly you know who to blame. You probably don’t fire your lover, but you might withdraw your interest and withhold expressing exactly why. As you might [...]

When He Says “I’m Not Ready…”

Karen Brody — Mon, 06 Jun 2011 02:45:29 +0000

When a man says “I’m not ready for a relationship,” you can pretty much bet he doesn’t want a relationship with you. I know this is hard to hear, and that there are exceptional cases, but as a rule I suggest you take this in as fact. I don’t believe in right [...]

What You Fear is What a Man Wants…

Karen Brody — Mon, 06 Jun 2011 02:33:25 +0000

The very thing that enchants men is the very thing we most fear giving them – our vulnerability. Rather than let them see where we hurt and how we need, we hit them over the head with our pain and push them away with complaints. Trust me, I know how hard it is to be vulnerable [...]

What happened to Her Desire?

Karen Brody — Fri, 14 Jan 2011 04:42:45 +0000

How often have you gotten into bed with one women – only to discover weeks, months or years down the road she wasn’t the lover you thought she was? This is exactly what happened to John who married Rita. He thought he’d married a very sexy woman who adored sex, only to discover she could take [...]

Why winning with Her is a Losing Game!

Karen Brody — Wed, 05 May 2010 20:25:44 +0000

When a woman is complaining about something in your relationship, you probably do what any red-blooded man would do, you defend yourself. You puff up your chest and become determined to prove her wrong. It feels vital to be right – to not end up in her emotional trash compactor. It might sound a little like [...]

Seduce Her with this Potent Tip…

Karen Brody — Fri, 26 Feb 2010 19:21:57 +0000

Approach her Shamelessly In my research on what drives couples apart sexually, I’ve discovered that women have a highly-attuned sense of when a man feels confident sexually and when he doesn’t, and it greatly affects her desire for him. If you’re approaching a woman feeling bad or wrong about wanting sex, she feels that energetic. It [...]