Love and Lust Articles

Tips to Passionate Love Last

2011-04-28T11:22:00.000-07:00

A lot of people find themselves wondering what makes passionate love last. You will find that once you have been with a person for a long time that you may begin to not be as passionate about them or the relationship as you used to be. This is why it is important that you understand how to make your love last and be as passionate about each other as the day that you met.

Good Sex

It is important that you and your partner are able to have good sex. This is something that is going to need to always be interesting and satisfying. If you don’t take the time to put some effort into your sex life you will only end up doing a disservice to yourself and your relationship. Make sure that you always take the time to understand what your partner wants and what pleases them. Switch it up often as getting stuck in a rut can kill any relationship.

Trust with Hints of Jealousy

It is so important that you trust your partner and that they trust you. However, still being able to make them jealous is a great way to keep the spark alive. You may find that harmlessly flirting with other people in front of your partner can really get the blood boiling in a good way. Just be sure that you don’t go overboard as you can end up upsetting them and getting them feeling self-conscious about themselves and the relationship as a whole.

10 things that will improve your game.

2011-04-21T14:23:00.000-07:00

There's an old saying: "Luck is when opportunity meets preparation." If you want to be more successful out on the town, you need to prepare before you go out. Here are 10 things that you can work on RIGHT NOW that will dramatically improve your game TONIGHT.

1. Get Fit

Get into a habit of hitting the gym several times a week, and ALWAYS do it on the days you plan to go out later in the evening. You should consider exercise part of your pre-party ritual. Not only will you get into great physical shape, but exercise itself produces endorphins that will get you pumped up mentally for the evening. You'll also notice a boost to your confidence, which in turn will make women notice you.

2. Get Your House Ready

In preparing for tonight's outing, you need to think ahead and plan for a best case scenario. If you end up having some "company" later, you need to have your place clean and presentable. Always have a bottle of wine handy. Set up a few fun props throughout the house that will make interesting conversation pieces. Think Zen Gardens, a cool coffee table book, or a unique art piece. The more interactive the better! And most importantly, make sure your bedroom is clean, and your bed is made. They say a woman won't get into an unmade bed… I don't know if this is true but I'm not going to be the one to test it out!

3. Read Up On Current Events

Scan the news today and stay informed on the latest celebrity gossip and entertainment news. This is perfect material for conversations. Even if you aren't that interested in this stuff yourself, you need to show that you are "in the loop" and that you get it. Especially pay attention to celebrity affairs and break ups (There's a new one every week!). Women will be almost too willing to discuss these topics. It's like candy to them!

4. Get Positive

Nobody wants to be around a negative person, and if you want to be successful with women, you need to come from a positive place. Before you go out for the evening, relax for a little bit. Put yourself into a comfortable space mentally, and use positive self talk to eliminate insecurities. Try to remember a time in your life when you were particularly confident and successful. Try to recall exactly how that felt, down to the smallest detail. How did you walk? What kind of expression did you have on your face? What was your tone of voice? Bring that moment into the present, and watch how it affects your entire evening!

5. Pre-Party

The Pre-Party should become a ritual you have every time you go out. Think of it like an opening act – it's a warm up for the main event. Meet a few friends, either at your place or theirs. Share a few drinks. Listen to music that pumps you up. Watch some standup comedy, or listen to comedy albums. Share a few jokes. Make yourself and each other laugh. This will put you in the right frame of mind for the rest of the evening.

6. Think Of Funny And Interesting Stories

In order to avoid awkward moments of silence when talking with women, always have a few interesting and unique stories. Now is the time to come up with some – BEFORE you go out. Make the stories as humorous as possible. For example, you could talk about how you saved somebody's life who almost died in a very embarrassing way. Or you can talk about something unusual that happened while you were travelling abroad. Whatever you decide to talk about, make sure that it makes you look good – you want to come across as confident and humorous, not arrogant. These stories will distinguish you from everyone else, and will offer her some insight into your character, enough for her to want to know more.

7. Clothing

When selecting clothing to wear, make sure that is current, and fits your persona. You don't have to spend a fortune on the most expensive brands, but buy at least one really nice outfit. If you don't have any idea of what's "in", look at what men who are successful with women are wearing, and follow their example. And remember… women pay attention to the smallest details, so you must also. It sounds trivial, but if your belt and shoes don't match, she WILL notice it! So make sure your outfit is on point. Ask the sales rep to help you, they will be more than happy.

8. Hygiene

It might go without saying, but you MUST be as clean as possible before you go out. As with clothing, women will notice any detail you missed, and it will reflect poorly upon you. Scrub yourself several times – a once over isn't enough. Eliminate any body odor. Use an antiperspirant instead of deodorant. Brush and floss your teeth, use a tongue scraper and mouthwash to get rid of bad breath, and carry mints on you at all times just in case you slip up and eat some shrimp scampi. Get rid of ear and nose hair, and wax extremely hairy eyebrows. If you have a goatee, beard or mustache, make sure it is trimmed and neat. Check to see if your sideburns are even, and fix them if they aren't. This simple stuff will improve the reactions you get from women IMMENSELY.

9. Go Easy On The Cologne

Many guys use cologne, which is nice. Unfortunately, they almost always use too much. Be careful, too much cologne sends a message to her that you are trying too hard. Think of it like a scratch and sniff sticker – make her work to be able to smell it. You want her to have to lean in to get a whiff. A good technique is to spray the air in front of you and walk into it. If it's not in a spray bottle, dab on just a little tiny bit on your neck. Believe me, less is more here.

10. Bring The Energy

You want to come across as a high energy, positive person that brings the party wherever you go. So start from the minute you arrive at your destination. As you walk through the door, pretend that you own the place, and it is your job to make sure everyone is enjoying themselves. In fact, greet anyone who looks at you, and ask them if they are having a good time. You'll be amazed at the response you get.

Risks Of Non-Romantic Sexual Relationships!

2010-05-09T02:32:00.000-07:00

One-third of sexual relationships in Chicago lack exclusivity, says a new study, conducted to point out risks of non-romantic sexual relationships.

In the survey of 783 heterosexual adults, one in 10 men and women reported that both they and their partner had slept with other people.

Anthony Paik, a sociologist in the UI College of Liberal Arts and Sciences and author of the study, said the study is important as concurrent partnerships speed up the spread of sexually transmitted diseases.

"The United States has seen a major shift toward non-romantic sexual partnerships -- people becoming sexually involved when they are just casually dating or not dating at all. A quarter of the respondents became sexually involved while casually dating and a fifth did so as friends or acquaintances," Paik said.

Respondents, ranging in age from 18 to 60, were asked how many people they had been with during their most recent relationship. They also estimated how many partners their partner had during that time. Sexual involvement was defined as genital contact.

Overall, 17 per cent of men and 5 per cent of women acknowledged that they had been with someone else. Another group -- 17 per cent of women and 8 per cent of men -- said they’d been exclusive but their partner had not. Twelve per cent of women and 10 per cent of men said neither of them had been monogamous.

Being involved with a friend increased the likelihood of non-monogamy by 44 per cent for women and 25 per cent for men. Involvement with an acquaintance or stranger increased the odds by 30 per cent for women and 43 per cent for men.

The study also found that respondents who got along with each other’s parents were less likely to have multiple sex partners. Paik said people are less likely to risk a relationship when they take family stakeholders into consideration.

Paik said the research does not lead to the conclusion that efforts should be made to revive dating. "People can make their own choices, but we hope this information will be useful as they weigh the risks and rewards of non-romantic sexual relationships. We encourage people be aware of the potential for sexual concurrency and take appropriate precautions to avoid sexually transmitted infections," he said.

The study has been published in the latest issue of the journal Perspectives on Sexual and Reproductive Health .

Source: ANI

What is SHE thinking while sex?

2010-05-08T04:07:00.000-07:00

A Hollywood hunk, ex-lovers, blue film scene and items in the grocery store are the things which women think of while having sex.

Even the sexiest women can get thoughtful between the sheets. Some women reveal that every thing which impresses them gush to their mind while lovemaking.

The highest on the list is fantasizing one's favorite actor. Women have confessed that when they are bored with sex with husband they restore to fantasize handsome hunks, to get elated.

Some women also claim to be thinking about accessories during sex, as this enhances their pleasure. Women who are in and out of relationships, while lovemaking often think of their X lover and compare it with their present experience.

“I've been married twice and had many lovers and to be honest, with past lovers I've been so bored in bed, I've taken to compiling mental grocery lists and calculating exactly how many shoes are in the wardrobe. Most wives are taken for granted. But how we'd like to be taken by a muscular-thighed Adonis with pecs appeal,” said author Kathy Lette.

This mental drift occurs only when love is lost in a relationship. All the women who have reported to be thoughtful during lovemaking, have also confirmed that they suffered unsatisfied sexual life.

The most marked thought of fantasizing another man or actor, shows the women aspiration and thus the man needs to understand his girls changing needs.

Source: Agency

Even Sex Lives Hit by Recession!

2010-05-08T04:06:00.001-07:00

NEW YORK: The global economic crisis is taking its toll on older Americans' sex lives, according to an AARP survey.

Between 2004 and 2009, the percentage of people in their 50s who said they had sex at least once a week took about a 10-point plunge for both sexes.

Women dropped to 32% from 43%, and men to 41% from 49%, in the sex survey of 1,670 Americans aged 45 and older.

"Financial worries tend to seep into all parts of a couple's life together," said Dr Pepper Schwartz, a sexologist at the University of Washington in Seattle.

"It's hard for some people to feel warm and sexy when they are afraid of losing their home or they have already lost their job. People complain of feeling distant, disconnected, and emotionally bound up," she said.

Most other age groups saw a drop in their frequency of sex, too, according to AARP, a non-profit membership organisation for people 50 years and older.

Among all the survey respondents, 21% of men and 11% of women admitted that they cheated during a current or recent long-term relationship.

About 12% of both sexes said that their partner had cheated on them.

Surprisingly, however, few people said the cheating did irreparable harm to their relationship. About 40% reported that unfaithfulness had no effect at all, about 30% thought it only caused temporary tension, and 6% or less said it did irreparable harm.

Source: Reuters

Having sex- more Ouch than Ahhh!

2010-05-08T04:04:00.000-07:00

London: Having sex can end up causing more pain than expected - researchers have found about 18 million Britons have injured themselves during or after a romp.

Pulled muscles followed by back injuries, carpet burns and bruised elbows and knees are some of the most common complaints, reports The Daily Express.

Boffins found the bedroom to be only the fifth most dangerous place to have sex. The stairs came second in the danger list, followed by the car and the shower. One in ten people or their partner fell off the bed. One in 50 toppled off the washing machine, according to the poll of 1,000 adults by phonepiggybank.com. Some got hurt making love in the loo, or in a cupboard at work. Two per cent of the total polled were left with broken bones after sex.

Source: ANI

How to tell your lover about your past?

2010-05-06T06:02:00.000-07:00

It’s been long since you’ve moved on your last breakup and you’ve taken the next step by finding your true love. The only glitch that seems to deter you from taking the plunge is the fact that you haven’t really told him about your previous affair. It’s not that you didn’t want to tell him, it’s just that you were not to sure of him and now that you’re completely for him guess it’s time to spill the beans on your past affair.

It can be indeed tricky to divulge your past to your present flame but, it’s indispensable if you want to move on with the person in entirety. To help you out in moving on and letting your heart out to the person you love the most now, here we are offering you a few tips about divulging your past to the man of your present.

Be sure of him

You can’t divulge all of your past to someone you aren’t sure of. First and foremost, try and be sure of the fact that he’s the man you’d like to spend your future with. Only when you’re certain about your compatibility that you should open up to him and dig into the past.

Play your cards tactfully

You have to play your cards real tactfully when it come sot the game of love. First observe how much of the truth is your man putting across. If you believe in what he’s told you, only then should you take the next step and tell him your truth. In some cases, the man is just not ready to reveal anything about his past, also, some men let the past be, if that’s the case with your man too then, it’s okay to not reveal your pasts when you’ve mutually decided for it.

Let the process be gradual

You can’t be jumping the gun when in mood for a revelation. Please take gradual steps towards it. Don’t just tell him everything on a particular day, first prepare him for it, see his mood and ask him if he wants to know about you.

Don’t choose a public place

Try and tell him the entire truth in private rather than choosing a public place for the same coz the last thing you want to happen is the entire world getting to know of your secret.

Be ready for an adverse reaction

Your man might be understanding and loving but, you gotta be prepared for an adverse reaction post your confession to him. A man might just react in an unexpected way and say things which are indicative of a non-acceptance but, be prepared for the worse and try and make him understand why it took you so long to reveal the truth.

4 Compliments to Melt His Heart!

2010-05-05T05:34:00.000-07:00

Have you ever wondered how easy it is to charm a woman, than charm a man? By simply praising her attire, admiring her dressing sense and going gaga about her beauty, you have her drooling over your charisma.

But, how about men? I mean, how do you compliment them, in fact what do you compliment them on to sweep them off their feet?

Girl, here’s your guide on how to compliment your guy. Following are the four things to say and melt his heart…

• It boosts a man’s ego to hear of how well he can entertain his woman. So, if you tell him that he brings a smile on your face, or his jokes make you laugh, it surely is gonna have him smiling away to glory.

• Most men are complete gadget freaks. So, instead of labeling him as a techno geek, admire his passion for his machines. Your man would totally respect you for showing so much appreciation towards his equipments.

• As brave as your man might look on the forefront, he might not be as tough from the inside too. So, when your man is feeling too low about something, cheer him up with your warm words. This would boost his spirits and he’d always value you for standing by him during rough times.

• Now, the icing on the cake. Every man would love to be acknowledged for his sexual prowess. So, the next time you’re done with the hot romp, let him know how truly he satisfies your sex hunger. Boy, he’ll totally be drooling over you!

Source: Ekta Oberoi

Chocolate and Sex.. Ummmmmmm

2010-05-05T05:31:00.000-07:00

Chocolate has always had a strong association with sexual life but now it seems to have taken over the sexual feeling among women. A study reveals that a third of women dream about chocolate during the day in comparison to only 18 per cent who think about sex.

Around 2.3 million women have admitted that they have the sweet treat at least three times a day.

On the other hand, six in 10 men have sex on their minds almost all day and 11 per cent crave for chocolate.

A survey was done on 2,000 women and the result showed that more than one in five women would happily say goodbye to their sex lives before chocolate.

The reason as detected was for women chocolate is not only the form of sweet treat but it is their way of getting rid of stress and tension. Chocolate is their source of comfort and it helps them cheer up.

Chocolate seems to force women deprive their partner of sex. So, the advice for men would be, to keep his women away from chocolate for a committed sexual life.

Source: Agency

Tips To Get Him In The Mood!

2010-05-02T05:48:00.000-07:00

Your man definitely craves for something unusually seductive. So, we bring to you 5 tips to get him in the mood:

• If your guy stop taking interest in the sex you're having it's probably because he's a bit bored. So the hottest thing you could do is to tell him that he can ask for anything he craves for, even if you choose not to give him what he’s asking for. Your guy will be turned on by your efforts of understanding and listening.

• All men love watching porn and if you both watch porn together on a steamy night, then your guy is definitely going to get aroused watching you becoming out-of-control and mimicking the women in the porn flick. So, get into some serious role play and scale new heights of desire.

• Men have a love-hate relationship with your sex toys. Some love them, as they take the pressure off their performance and some feel jealous, as they don’t have long lasting batteries like these machines to keep the rock n roll going but what your guy may not be telling you is that he loves watching you use. So, get down, dirty and start off a steamy sex romp.

• For a hot and steamy sex session in the bedroom, it is very important to stimulate his mind. Don’t jump into the sack right away. Start with a nice shoulder massage or sit on his lap and kiss him all over his body. After all it is very important to charge the machine before using it, right!

• Men get turned on when you put on his shirts, spray his strong manly scent and seduce him because at the end of the day fun lies in experimentation right!

Source: Lovely Malhotra

Tips For SIZZLING XEX Session!

2010-05-01T16:00:00.000-07:00

So, you think you know every trick to satisfy partner? Read on lady, and practice these tips for sizzling sex session:

• Initiate Sex

Men love it and get easily aroused when women initiate sex. It takes off the pressure of rejection from their mind and thus helps in having a thrilling satisfying experience. Take this step and see the change in your partner's behaviour.

• Have A Great Sense Of Humour

A good sense of humour always gives an edge to men when they hit on a woman, so, remember this point as it will help you to deal with any kind of embarrassing sex moment.

• Please Your Man With More Oral Sex

Men love it when you go down there, as this is a sign of complete acceptance for them. It not only makes them feel great but also makes them feel more secure about their relationship and sex life.

Source: Lovely Malhotra

Ultimate Sex Romp with Sensate Focus Sex

2010-05-01T15:56:00.000-07:00

Heard the next big thing in the world of pleasure and sex? It’s SENSATE FOCUS SEX.

What is it?
Rediscover each other and renew your sex life with senate focus sex. The process involves personal awareness through basic touch. Sensate focus involves a series of behavioral practices that involve each partner paying more attention to their own sexual sensations.

How does it work?
The exercise focuses on making sex pleasure-oriented rather than goal-oriented. The couples gain pleasure from these exercises and enjoy the fact that they are touching, caressing and feeling each other’s body, without the pressure of producing a response from either partner.

What are its benefits?
The exercises in sensate focus sex are devised for couples to help them deal with lack of orgasm, performance anxiety and rapid ejaculation. You are better aware of your as well as your lover’s body. There’s better sex communication and in turn your relationship is strengthened. Your sexual excitement is taken to the next level and hence you don’t fear performance pressure and there’s absolutely no fear of failure.
Take you sex sessions to another level by feeling purely the “touch” of your partner. Enjoy a rocking’ session and have the best sex of your life.
But, there are certain rules that one has to follow during the process:
• Genitals and breasts are restricted for the first few sessions.
• Spoken responses are again a no-no, unless you’re in an uncomfortable position.
• Don’t draw sexual response initially.
• Every sexual experience has to be followed with the next step, but slowly and steadily.
Take your time to unwind yourself, before you begin with the ultimate sex of your life. Make your setting a little sensual, play your favourite music and do all it takes to set the mood right.
Once you’ve done that, begin with the following sessions.

Session One: Make sure your partner too is in a comfortable position. Begin by gentle strokes. Keep genitals and breasts out of focus, but notice the warmth of your partner’s body as you continue to touch his/body gently.
Now, allow your partner to do the same. Focus on the sensations that his/her touch is generating.
This will soon turn into a sensual massage. Continue doing the same for some time, focusing purely on the touch.

Session Two: Once you’ve mastered stage one, now is the time to include genitals and breasts. Guide your partner to where you’d like to be touched. Reciprocate the same to your partner. He/she will lead you to work up your way for a more pleasurable experience.

Session Three: Now, repeat the above process, but this time simultaneously. Communicate your sexual desire to your partner, keeping in mind that it is pleasure that matters and not orgasm. Do it without getting trapped with the aim of achieving the big O.

Session Four: Eliciting pleasure from each others “touch” is the basic mantra of sensate focus sex. However, if you’re dealing with sexual incompatibility, it’s time you consult a sex specialist.

All set to have the most ultimate sex session of your life?

Source: Ekta Oberoi

Are You the Tempting Seductress in Bed?

2010-05-01T04:30:00.000-07:00

Love making is a super-sexed up game for you. You cuddle, kiss and satisfy each other to the core. In short, you’re having a rocking time between the sheets! But, is your partner too enjoying the romp as much?

He’s typically the timid types and shies away from discussing the act of love-making. He never discusses his sexual fantasies too. Stuck in a tricky situation, for you’re not sure if your man likes your sexual moves?

Fret not lady. Here’s your guide to know if he likes your sexual prowess. The following signs reveal if your man finds you the tempting seductress…

• He watches you while you make love to him

He watches you while you tease and please him. Men derive pleasure in watching their lady do the erotic activity. He’s already aroused by your moves, just that he wants to see you making love to him.

• He goes slow and steady

He’s not in a hurry to reach the big O. Men love to gratify the woman they are with, and if your man is taking it slow, kissing and caressing every inch of you, that only means he’s trying to make you feel as good.

• He just can’t get enough of you

He’s still holding you in his arms, kissing your forehead and just feeling your touch. Lady! Your guy is totally smitten by you and even after a rocking sex romp; he can’t get enough of you!!!

The Rules of Office Romance!

2010-04-29T15:53:00.000-07:00

Eyeing your colleague but, don’t know how to go about an office romance? Well, we’ve compiled a list of 5 golden rules of office romance and you better give this a read before you indulge in some office action:

No one’s bigger than your job

If you’re fancying someone at work then, you ought to know that something extreme can land you in trouble and if that happens then, the first thing that’ll get hit will be your job. So, better be sure of the fact that you’re risking your job and don’t indulge into something that costs you your job!

Be sure of his marital status

Now, you can’t be falling for someone who is already married or attached lest, you want to experience a complete messed up situation. First things first, inquire about his marital status from him, as well as from your other sources ensuring that the information seeking process is subtle.

An office fling is a bad idea

If you’ve fallen that badly for your colleague that it seems like love then, it’s completely understood but, just in case you’re flowing with the tide coz you wanna have some fun then, believe me it’s a real bad idea! If your relationship is also a fling then remember, you might as well not even know what you’re getting into for, what’s fun initially makes your life funny in the long run.

Be prepared for ego tussles

If you’re working together and also involved at the same time then, you better be prepared for some sort of ego tussles that come with working at the same place. There might be situations that can affect your relationship. Remember to not mix your personal life with your professional life.

Stay away from the so-called confidante’s

If you’re dating your colleague then make it a point not to have a confidante at your place for, you can never trust people enough. God forbid, if things don’t workout between the two of you then, it’s impossible to curb the gossip and the only way to stay away from it is not divulging any of your personal stuff to absolutely anyone.

Source: Ankita Shukla

Benefits of Xex

2010-04-25T09:47:00.000-07:00

Sex is extremely beneficial for our health, while the lack of an active sex life might have negative effects on your body and if you think that masturbation is a solution to it, then your wrong. Sex is a medicine that can heal your body and mind and can prevent lots of diseases. Below mentioned are the benefits of sex:

•Sex is a vigorous form of exercise. It is beneficial for both the heart and blood circulation, especially in the brain. Having sex thrice a week can decreases the risk of heart attack by 50 %, as heart rate goes up from 70 beats to 150 beats per minute.

•Sex is also beneficial for our respiratory system as we have deeper breadths during intercourse which results in better oxygenation.

•As it is a great form of exercise, it can help you burn up to 7,500 calories in an year if you have sex at least three times a week.

•Sex is an amazing antidepressant because while having sex your body produces pleasure-inducing fluids which help to reduce depression.

•Regular love sessions can also postpone the onset of menopause, stimulate fertility, and regulate the menstrual cycle and thus helps in improving reproductive system of women.

•The best medicine against impotence is sex. An erection keeps the blood flowing through your penile arteries, so the tissue stays healthy. Plus, doctors compare an erection to an athletic reflex: the more you train the more capable you are to perform.

Source: Lovely Malhotra

5 Tips To Impress Your Boyfriend!

2010-04-22T04:32:00.000-07:00

True Love is very difficult to find, and when you find it you would never want to let it go. So, here are top five tips to impress your boyfriend:

• Be Confident

Confidence attract guys. They love confident girls. Be confident when you are around your boyfriend. No one appreciates a person who lacks confident and feels insecure all the time. A confident person has bold approach towards his ambitions and aspirations. 'Confidence’ is the quality you should posses as to make your boyfriend feel proud of you.

• Dress Up Nicely

Great dressing style, captivating fragrances and balanced makeup are all essential ingredients for ensuring great ways to communicate with boyfriend.

• Smile To Impress

It is rightly said, "Never frown because you never know who might be falling in love with your smile." In smile lies your real charm, so smile and fascinate him.

• Never Lie In A Relationship

Relationship is all about trust. It is a binding thread between the two, so never lie to your boyfriend or hide important things from him which he should know about you.

• Be Expressive

Do not expect your boyfriend to guess how you are feeling or what you are thinking. Not being clear about something can lead to misunderstandings and can lead to break-ups. Express your feelings so that he is also able to understanding you well girl.

Source: Lovely Mehrotra

Learn the art of a KISS

2010-04-22T02:07:00.000-07:00

When it comes to sexual satisfaction, kissing may be the perfect way to begin with. No wonder, why people spend a great deal of time working on the art. Yes, it's an art, after all, isn't it?.

Do you really care to know what a kiss can actually do? Then this is just the right thing to get things started. Read along as you unfold more about the game of love, and the physical intimacy that can just get you one of the most passionate nights you would have ever thought of.

Sexual Access: If you are planning for some steamy night ahead, then it's just the right thing to get things started. Males in particular use it as a way to seduce romantic partners.

Trigger Sexual Desire: Well, boy, with great passion comes great labor, or at least some. So, peel off the blanket and get down for some work. Remember, at the end of the day, it's your testosterone that speaks. Kissing helps in enhancing this.

Sexual Excitement: Well, you have kicked started the game, now what? The night is still young, you know. Don't get hassled up, for you have been blessed with the gift - Kiss. Use it to enhance the sexual excitement between the two.

Invite reconciliation: A kiss after a fight keeps another fight away. A kiss can just be one of the most beautiful ways to say, that you are sorry for everything that has been done.

Shows your genuine desire: What better a way than a kiss, when it comes to showing your love for her. A deep passionate kiss is all you need. Show her how much she means to you.

Strengthens Bonding: Any doubt? It strengthens the bond between the two of the you.

Source: Agency

A-Z of a KISS

2010-04-21T04:32:00.000-07:00

One of the most zealous moments for any lover is the time when he/she kisses. Trust me, if you want to take your relationship to another level, a kiss is just the thing to go ahead with.

Below are few different types of kisses that can never bring monotony in your relation. Try all the kisses right from A to Z.

A for…..

Angel Kiss

This is a charming, calming kiss. Gently and ever so lightly kiss your partner either on the eye lid or right next to the eyes.

B for…

Buzzing Kiss

Smoothly place your lips against your lover's neck, behind their ear. Now, send a wobble through their skin by gently growling and buzzing, vibrating your lips and cheeks as you do so. Move up and down the neck, over the bones of the face and lips. Stimulating and erotic when done correctly.

C for…
Cheek Kiss

A gracious, "I really like you" kiss. Often the favored kissing method of a first date. With your hands on your partner's shoulders, gently brush your lips across her cheek.

D for…
Duck Kiss

Budge your head back and forth like a duck while your tongue moves in and out of your partner’s mouth like a lizard.

E for…
Eskimo Kiss

With your faces less than a breath apart, softly rub your noses together. This would give you a feeling of her breath as near as yours.

F for…
Fish Kiss

Both you and your spouse should suck in your cheeks until your lips are shaped like a fish. After that, move towards each other with your lips gap and closing until your lips meet. This is a fun and pleasurable kiss.

G for…
Gypsy kiss

Calmly kiss and lick the neck, then slowly move up to the ear. If she is wearing earrings, put it in your mouth as you suck on her earlobe.

H for…
Hickey Kiss

Try this only if you are very close in a relation. The purpose is not to draw blood, but to softly leave a mark that will prove your interlude was not a dream. This is often included in erotic foreplay.

I for…
Ice Kiss

Lay an ice cube in your partner’s belly button, telling them that if they move and it falls out, you will stop kissing them. When the ice cube melts, you can use the cold water all over to make for an overwhelming sensation.

J for…
Jaw line Kiss

Begin by short kisses right under the jaw and work your way down to the collar bone. Next, blow a little air as you make your way back to the jaw.

K for…
Kiss with a curl

Tilt in to kiss your partner and just as they come to meet your lips, pull back. They'll think your playing, but surprise them by leaning in and giving them the kiss of a lifetime!

L for…
Lizard Kiss

When you are leaning in to kiss your partner, glue the tip of your tongue out and touch their lips. Rapidly return your tongue to you mouth. Its particularly funny when both of you do it at the same time.

M for…
Make-out Starter Kiss

While you're kissing, move your tongue back and forth actually fast. If your partner says no matter which about it, act like it didn't happen...It's a great make-out starter.

N for…
Non-stop Kiss

Make out; glide your tongue in and out of your partner’s mouth. Keep going for as long as you can. Make a bet who can kiss for long.

O for…
Open Eye Kiss

Gaze your loved one in the eye. While staring at them, lean in and kiss them slowly, looking into their eyes the intact time. This will show your partner how much you care about them, and give them butterflies at the same time!

P for…
Peck Kiss

Kiss your partner's lips lightly as to say a modest. This isn't very intimate, but it's kind of exciting!

Q for…
Quickie Kiss

This kind of kiss is generally practiced when you're in a rush. But the kind of intimacy both gets digs a path for the later hot session.

R for…
Rain kiss

What could be more romantic than kissing your partner in rain? Go according to the rhythms o rain start when slow and calm kiss followed by a passionate one, just like the rain pace.

S for…
See-Saw Kiss

Clutch your partner. Get closer as you attach tongues. Move your tongues up and down from the roof of your mouths to the bottom of the mouths creating a see-saw motion. If done correctly, it will create a tangy, fun-filled adventure.

T for…
Tickle Kiss

Tickle the top of your partner's mouth with your tongue. It feels great and will give them a wild sensation.

U for…
Upside down Kiss

You stand at the back your partner (who is seated or lying down) and have them slope their head back. Then kiss them so that you bite their lower lip and they nibble yours. This is fun and feels good because you can feel them breathing on your neck as you kiss.

V for…
Vampire Kiss

All is fair in love and war, then why not vampire’s kiss? When kissing, smoothly bite his/her tongue so they can't pull away. While you have it between your teeth, suck on their tongue with your mouth. It will drive them crazy.

W for…
Wet Kiss

Once you have been kissing adequate that both of your lips are wet, with your mouth barely open, gently rub back and forth, up and down, around and around. This will not only give a sensation but also elevate you moves to next actions.

X for…
X-rated kiss…

This kind of kiss is one of its kinds, while kissing open-mouthed; slightly suck in as if you were sucking the air from your partner’s mouth. This is a playful kiss.

Y for…
Yummy kiss

Kiss your partner softly, just slightly below and adjacent to the belly button. This will drive pretty much any woman wild.

Z for…
Zingy Kiss

Softly kiss your partner on the lips then take his or her breath away by opening your mouths together while one exhales and the other inhales his or her breath. It is sexy, opulent and draws you close.

Source: Megha Chaturved

Are you being ignored in love?

2010-04-20T00:59:00.001-07:00

You are being ignored by someone you love the most and it is literally killing you? And, you’re trying hard to find out what’s with him/her, well, there is something really deep brewing inside him if he/she is ignoring you to the hilt.

It’s not healthy to be clingy to your partner but, ignorance is uncalled for too. Ignorance in love crops up for only two reasons:

When love is not reciprocated

A lot of times, we end up giving so much of love that it becomes humanly impossible for the other person to reciprocate it. Every person has a capacity to love or to give out love and the whole law of individual difference comes to play whenever there’s a seed of ignorance sown anywhere. No two individuals are alike and quite similarly no two people can love alike. It is important for a person to understand that his/her love might be reciprocated in a manner that’ll meet his expectations or might not even meet up with them. Though, in certain relations an individual’s love for someone is not reciprocated simply because of latter’s sheer inability to do justice to the affection that he/she is getting from the former. Disappointment in reciprocation leads to accumulation of unpleasant feelings in some individuals and that in turn leads to the person adapting various means of getting back at his/her lover, including ignorance as it seems to be one of the quickest mechanisms to make a person get the taste of his/her medicine. Try ignoring your lover for long, the way he/she does or being a little indifferent towards him/her and you’ll know what I am talking about! Yeah, you’ll have your lover begging you for your attention.

When it’s time to move on

The only other obvious situation that results in ignorance, rather complete ignorance is when the person has had enough of you and has made up his/her mind to move forward without you. If your pacifying efforts as well as justifications and love notes fail together then, you know it’s time to bid goodbye for, the person is all set to free himself/herself from a relationship that only seemed to chain him/her.

So, the next time you’re ignored in a relationship you better know which of the above reasons it is!

Source: Ankita Shukla

"KISSING" is healthier than shaking hands

2010-04-15T01:52:00.000-07:00

The next time you greet a person, make sure you avoid shaking hands. Instead give a peck on his or her cheek -- it's healthier for you.

A team of international researchers has carried out a study and found that people who greet each other with handshakes are much more likely to pass on germs, such as flu and stomach bugs, than those who settle for a kiss.

According to lead researcher Prof Sally Bloomfield of the London School of Hygiene, "The hands are critical in the chain of infection as they transmit infections from surfaces to people and between people.

"Shaking hands is the main form of physical contact with each other but you don't know what the other person has been touching before you greet them. People avoid kissing each other when they have a cold, but in fact they are more likely to pass on an infection by shaking someone's hand."

In fact, the researchers, whose study has been funded by the International Scientific Forum on Home Hygiene, came to the conclusion after analysing the effects of handshakes and kisses on a group of people, according to media reports.

According to co-researcher Carol O'Boyle of the School of Nursing, University of Minnesota, "Hand hygiene is just as important when we are outside the home -- on public transport, in the office, in the supermarket, or in a restaurant.

"Quite often it is not possible to wash our hands in these situations, but carrying an alcohol-based hand sanitizer means we can make our hands hygienic whenever and wherever the need arises."

However, the study has pointed out that good hygiene is about more than just washing our hands.

Although the hands are the main superhighway for the spread of germs -- as they are the "last line of defence", surfaces from which the hands become contaminated, such asfood contact surfaces, door handles, tap handles, toilet seats and cleaning cloths also need regular hygienic cleaning.

Clothing and linens, baths, basin and toilet surfaces can also play a part in spreading germs between family members in the home.

"Because so much attention has been paid to getting people to wash their hands, there is a danger that people can come to believe this is all they need to do to avoid getting sick," another co-researcher Prof Elaine Larson of the Mailman School of Public Health in New York said.

Prof Bloomfield, also the International Scientific Forum on Home Hygiene, has concurred.

"We hear a lot of discussion about whether being too clean is harming our immune systems, but we believe that this targeted approach to home hygiene, which focuses on the key routes for the spread of harmful organisms, is the best way to protect the family from becoming ill whilst leaving the other microbes which make up our environment unharmed."

Source: Agency

You think SEX is the greatest pleasure of life?

2010-04-10T05:17:00.000-07:00

Some of the little pleasures of life have no price tag on them - just like a good night’s sleep. Good night's sleep is life's 'greatest little pleasure'.

Curling up in bed after a long day and waking up feeling completely refreshed the following morning is so good that it has been voted life’s ‘greatest little pleasure’, reports The Telegraph.

In the study of 3,000 Brits, a tenner in your pocket came second, closely followed by cuddling up to a loved-one in bed.

Rob Stacey spokesman for Batchelors Cup-a-Soup, which carried out the poll, said: ‘You can’t beat the feeling of getting into bed after a long, hard day.

‘And that feeling gets even better when you wake up feeling great and back to your normal self the following morning. ‘We don’t always need something major to happen to brighten up our day - sometimes the little things have just as much of an effect.

‘Often the little gestures such as a quick cuddle or a compliment can really help to cheer someone up if they are having a bad day, and can even be more welcome than splashing out on expensive presents.’

Source: ANI

10 Secrets about Men and Sex!

2010-03-22T00:24:00.000-07:00

London: If you thought men`s sexual response is quite simple and their needs can be met easily, then you certainly need to revise your knowledge of the "birds and bees," for men aren`t as simple as they are made out to be.

According to Fox News, here are ten things that you didn`t know about men and sex:

1. Trapped Sperm
Not all sperm go racing for the egg at once. Once sperm has been deposited into the vaginal canal, some of them are temporarily trapped in a semen coagulate or clot. Eventually, they are decoagulated by enzymes, which set them free to swim about a female``s reproductive system. This clotting, according to scientists, is meant to pace the release of sperm into the uterus, increasing the chance that one of these sperms will reach the egg and fertilise it.

2. Oxytocin affects males too
It is believed that oxytocin affects females during sex (and breast-feeding). But this cuddle hormone, released by both sexes during intimacy, is also found to influence males. Research from Switzerland found that oxytocin is associated with increased feelings of trust in males.

3. High testosterone = Less sex
While higher testosterone levels is typically considered a good thing for men when it comes to their sex drive, still researchers continually found that males with higher testosterone levels marry less often, are more abusive in their marriages and divorce more regularly. In fact, married men see more action than single men.

4. Death during sex has a prototype
While examining the incidence of death during sex, a 1975 study discovered a unique pattern in males: the "deceased is usually married; he is not with a spouse and in unfamiliar surroundings," and death usually occurs after "a big meal with alcohol." Another study in 1989 found further evidence supporting the extramarital sex bit. Fourteen of the 20 cases of "la mort d`amour," or coital death, happened during an affair.Orgasm ... or lack of ... may prevent breast cancer in males
A study in Greece found evidence that the frequency of adult orgasms may have an impact on the incidence of breast cancer in men. In fact, it was also revealed that males with breast cancer had experienced fewer orgasms on average than men without the disease.

6. You can tell a guy`s size by his fingers
A University of Liverpool research cited that if a man``s ring fingers are longer than his index fingers, this means there were healthy testosterone levels in the womb. If the ring fingers are the same size or smaller than the index fingers, then the male received lower levels of testosterone, implying that one can estimate the length of his organ by the length of the ring finger.

7. Men fall in love faster than women
It`s not the women, but men, who get out of control after a glimpse of the right attractive face and fall head over heels in love immediately, claimed love researcher Dr. Helen Fisher.

8. Family affects testosterone
As a man becomes increasingly attached to his family, his testosterone level goes down, according to a 2001 Mayo Clinic study. Particularly, fathers experience a significant decline in levels of testosterone with the birth of his child, especially when he holds the baby.

9. Can a bowel movement make for bliss?
In a 2002 study, it was mentioned that a male had a history of orgasmic-like feelings after going to the bathroom. After he answered nature`s call, his body went through the rest of the male sexual response cycle. His pulse rate increased as he reached climactic state, followed by relaxation, then extreme fatigue.

10. Males like `unusual` sex
Men have a 20 to 1 likeliness against women to practice an "unusual" and often socially unacceptable or illegal behaviour, for example exhibitionism.

Source: ANI

Beware of Flirtatious Women!

2010-03-15T05:44:00.000-07:00

Don't take flirtatious women for granted. They may not be be interested in you at all but are just being friendly, says a new study.

People of both sexes looking for romance are quite good at reading the male's interest, but equally bad at misjudging the female's interest.

"The hardest-to-read women were being misperceived at a much higher rate than the hardest-to-read men. Those women were being flirtatious, but it turned out they weren't interested at all," said study co-author Skyler Place.

Place is a doctoral student in psychological sciences at the Indiana University (IU) working with cognitive science professor Peter Todd. "Nobody could really read what these deceptive females were doing, including other women," he added.

"So, if you walk into a room and there's 20 people you've never met before, being able to know which individuals might be available and which are clearly smitten by others can make you more efficient in finding your own romantic interest to pursue," he said.

Place's study focussed on the ability of observers to judge romantic interest between others because this ability has evolutionary benefits when it comes to finding a mate. "Decisions that other people around us make can influence or inform our own choices," said Place.

The speed dating sessions were all conducted in Germany while the observer ratings were all made by students in Indiana. Despite the language difference, observers were still able to judge men's romantic interest accurately using body language, tone of voice, eye contact, how often each dater spoke and other non-verbal cues.

Speed dating is a popular commercial method for singles to meet a large number of individuals in one evening of successive brief one-on-one conversations.

For the study, 28 women and 26 men of college age watched video clips of couples interacting on speed dates. Each participant observed 24 videos, all with different men and women, and after each rated whether the man seemed interested in the woman and the woman in the man.

Observers did not have to see much of this non-verbal behaviour. They were just as good at predicting the speed-dating couple's interest if they saw only 10 seconds of the date as they were if they saw 30 seconds.

There was, however, great variability in how well observers could predict the interest of any particular speed-dater, ranging from 90 percent accuracy down to 10 percent.

In five of the videos, 80 percent of the observers thought the women shown were interested when in fact they were not - they were acting friendly even though they had no interest in the men.

Evolutionary theory, said Place, predicts a certain level of coyness or even deceptiveness in women because if a relationship is abandoned they may face greater costs, including pregnancy and child rearing, said an IU release.

"In a speed dating environment, you would expect to see these effects dramatically, with the women trying to get the men to be more straightforward, while they themselves remain more coy," Place said. "Though the pace is faster than a typical first date, the strategy remains the same."

These findings were published in the January issue of Psychological Science.

Source: IANS

Get back to "XEX" guys

2010-03-09T03:42:00.000-08:00

Disinterest in SEX is the most common problem in the females nowadays. Reasons could be many like long working hours, tiredness, depression etc. There's no one because but it is usually possible to work out the underlying factors and make some changes to help you start enjoying your love life once again.
One obvious query for a woman who's gone off sex to ask herself is: was your sex life ever very good?
There are a numeral of reasons why both men and women experience low sex drive including, hormonal imbalance, nervous disorders, nutritional deficiencies, fatigue, endocrine disorders and numerous other factors.

Below are few home remedies that can be a great help in retaining lost sexual drive:

Ginkgo - augments vigor and is said to raise the blood passage to the genital area, which will make arousal easier and improve the sensation during intercourse.

Sarsaparilla - Significant for glandular equilibrium and contains the hormones testosterone and progesterone. It is an outstanding blood purifier and is often use to treat liver disorders (liver function is important to sex drive).

Passion flower - Facilitates the mind and body to unwind and helps the body to cope with stress - one of the main factors in squat sex drive, particularly in women.

St. Johns Wort - Valuable in boosting the overall well-being and treating gloominess. St. Johns Wort is also efficient in treating insomnia which can be a cause of low sex drive in some cases.

Horny Goat Weed - Supposed to influence cortical levels and boosts sexual desire and recital in both men and women.
Moreover dietary changes that you can make to improve your sex drive, there are a number of herbs which can also be helpful.

Source: Megha Chaturvedi

Top 8 SEX chants in bed tonight!!

2010-03-08T05:10:00.000-08:00

How many times have you heard these lines “I am not in mood”? Don’t worry you are not alone; many men complain that their women just don't want sex as often as they do.
No need to worry just read these situations in which women are the horniest.

1. Sex after spat
The perception of "make-up sex" is not a myth. A fiery argument with your woman tends to get your blood boiling, and your heart pumping. And once you've both gotten whatever's been bothering you off your chests and told each other precisely how you feel, there's nothing quite like turning the tables by taking her in your arms, kissing her passionately and letting your heightened emotions take over. Wipe out the tears aand make love to her.

2. Celebrate the joyful mood in bed
Just like fury and sadness, tremendous happiness can also get a woman in the mood. So, if she just got her degree, got a great new job, just found out she's pregnant, or another similarly joyous event has just taken place, it's time to channel all of that positive energy into some great sex.

3. Burst your stress with sex
Surprising but true, stress can raise a woman's libido. If your woman's been likened to a chicken without a head lately, chances are that she'd be quite appreciative if you offered her a release for her tension. That goes for stress-induced headaches too, by the way. That's right; a roll in the hay often gets rid of her headaches altogether. Be sure to tell her that the next time she gives you that tired line.

4. Ovulation leads to sex
Wow, this is a shocker: A woman gets horny when she's ovulating. So, if it's been about two weeks since her last period, now is probably a good time to initiate some action, if she hasn't beaten you to it already.

5.Drink and dancing
I'm not advocating getting her drunk and taking advantage of her here. But, there's nothing like a little dancing and drinking to get a woman in the mood. So, pour her favorite kind of liquid courage, lead her in a slow dance on your living room floor, and watch as her inhibitions slowly melt away, allowing you to proceed with the matter at hand. Cheers!

6.Sex it up with a movie
Most women aren't that into porn, particularly not the bawdy, hard-core stuff. But a steamy sex scene just be enough to get her revved up and ready for you. So, turn your next humdrum night in watching movies, into a night you won't soon forget.

7.Long-distance love
Long-distance relationships have the potential to be great for your sex life, as you will typically spend several days or weeks apart, pining for one another, with maybe just a couple of phone calls to keep you going, so that by the time you are reunited, all you want to do is devour each other.

8. Imaginative arena
If your woman enjoys using her creativity, whether it be in the kitchen, with a paintbrush or musically, these occasions may be conducive to great sex. So, the next time she's making you a gourmet meal, you may just want to slip into the kitchen for some pre-dinner sex.
Source: Megha Chaturvedi