Love Defies All

Extenze? Enzyte?

2010-02-17T01:34:00.003+08:00

Have you heard about male enhancement? Well, of course it is possible and if you are interested, keep reading! :) You can later decide which is better, but I would advice you to check out more information before making any decisions.

I have a friend who is always complaining about how unhappy (unsatisfied) she is with her boyfriend. The thing is, she loves him a lot, but the sexual relationship is not as good as she expected. I know what she needs- it's Extenze vs Enzyte.

Well, I know I shouldn't be blogging about this, but to me, sometimes, other people could benefit from the information I have. I had the same problem too when I first met my husband (who was then my boyfriend). We talked about the problem, and I did the first step to check on popular male enhancement products. These 2 famous products are entenze and enzyte. Although natural male enhancement is always the best solution, Extenze vs Enzyte are also great, and it definitely made my marital life a lot better and satisfying!

When things go wrong

2010-02-17T01:00:00.000+08:00

I used to have this poem on my desk in school. It really motivates me whenever I feel down and miss home (I was in a boarding school). Maybe, I should have taken up Finance Brokers, then, my life might have changed for good. Well, I hope all is well for me!

When things go wrong as they sometimes will;
When the road you’re trudging seems all uphill;
When the funds are low, and the debts are high;
And you want to smile, but you have to sigh;
When care is pressing you down a bit
Rest if you must, but don’t you quit.

Success is failure turned inside out;
The silver tint of the clouds of doubt;
And you can never tell how close you are;
It may be near when it seems afar.
So, stick to the fight when you’re hardest hit -
It’s when things go wrong that you mustn’t quit

Celebrating Valentine's Day- Part 2

2010-02-12T22:26:00.004+08:00

One of their false beliefs connected with this festival was that the names of girls who had reached marriageable age would be written on small rolls of paper and placed in a dish on a table. Then the young men who wanted to get married would be called, and each of them would pick a piece of paper. He would put himself at the service of the girl whose name he had drawn for one year, so that they could find out about one another. Then they would get married, or they would repeat the same process again on the day of the festival in the following year. The very common gifts on this special day are flowers, save the date postcards and of course great dinner!

The Christian clergy reacted against this tradition, which they considered to have a corrupting influence on the morals of young men and women. It was abolished in Italy, where it had been well-known, then it was revived in the eighteenth and nineteenth centuries, when in some western countries there appeared shops which sold small books called “Valentine’s books”, which contained love poems, from which the one who wanted to send a greeting to his sweetheart could choose. They also contained suggestions for writing love letters.

It was also said concerning the origins of this holiday that when the Romans became Christian, after Christianity had become widespread, the Roman emperor Claudius II decreed in the third century CE that soldiers should not get married, because marriage would distract them from the wars they used to fight. This decree was opposed by Saint Valentine, who started to perform marriages for the soldiers in secret. When the emperor found out about that, he threw him in jail and sentenced him to execution. In prison, he (Saint Valentine) fell in love with the jailer’s daughter, but this was a secret because according to Christian laws, priests and monks were forbidden to marry or fall in love. But he is still regarded highly by the Christians because of his steadfastness in adhering to Christianity when the emperor offered to pardon him if he forsook Christianity and worshipped the Roman gods; then he would be one of his closest confidantes and he would make him his son-in-law. But Valentine refused this offer and preferred Christianity, so he was executed on 14 February 270 CE, on the eve of February 15, the festival of Lupercalis. So this day was named for this saint.

In The Story of Civilization, it says that the Church devised a calendar in which every day was designated as the feast day of one of the saints. In England, Saint Valentine’s Day was to come at the end of winter. When that day came, according to them, the birds mated enthusiastically in the forests, and the young men would put flowers on the windowsills of the homes of the girls whom they loved. (The Story of Civilization by Will Durant, 15/23) The Pope designated the day of the death of Saint Valentine, February 14, 270 CE, as a festival of love. Who is the Pope? He is the “the archbishop, the supreme pontiff of the universal church, the successor of Saint Peter.” Look at this “archbishop” and how he prescribed for them the observance of this festival which was an innovation in their religion. This reminds us of what Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):

“They (Jews and Christians) took their rabbis and their monks to be their lords besides Allaah (by obeying them in things which they made lawful or unlawful according to their own desires without being ordered by Allaah)…”[al-Tawbah 9:31]

It was narrated that ‘Adiy ibn Haatim said: “I came to the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) wearing a gold cross around my neck. He said, ‘O ‘Adiy, cast aside this idol.’ And I heard him reciting from Soorat Baraa’ah [al-Tawbah] (interpretation of the meaning): ‘They (Jews and Christians) took their rabbis and their monks to be their lords besides Allaah.’ He said: ‘They do not worship them, but when they permit them something they accept it as permitted, and when they forbid them something they accept it as forbidden.’” (Narrated by al-Tirmidhi and it is a hasan hadeeth).

Among the most important symbols of this holiday:
1 – Expressing joy and happiness on this occasion, as on their other major festivals.

2 – Exchanging red roses, which are an expression of love, the “spiritual love” of the pagans or the “love” of the Christians. Hence it is known to them as the Feast of Lovers.

3 – The sending of greetings cards. On some of these cards are pictures of “Cupid”, who appears as a child with two wings, carrying a bow and arrows. This was the god of love of the pagan Romans – exalted be Allaah far above their fabrications and their association of others with Him.

4 – Exchange of words of love and desire in the greetings cards which they send to one another, in verse, prose and short phrases. Some of the cards contain comical pictures and funny words, and they often contain the phrase “be my Valentine”. This represents the Christian concept of this festival after it was taken from the pagan concept.

5 – In many western countries, parties are held during the day and in the evening, where there is mixing of men and women, and dancing. Many of them send gifts such as roses and boxes of chocolates to their wives, friends and those whom they love.

Celebrating Valentine's Day- Part 1

2010-02-12T22:24:00.000+08:00

Praise be to Allaah, the Lord of the Worlds, and blessings and peace be upon our Prophet Muhammad and upon all his family and companions. Allaah has chosen for us Islam as our religion and He will not accept any other religion from anyone, as He says (interpretation of the meaning):

“And whoever seeks a religion other than Islam, it will never be accepted of him, and in the Hereafter he will be one of the losers [Aal ‘Imraan 3:85]

And the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) told us that groups of his ummah would follow the enemies of Allaah in some of their rituals and customs, as it says in the hadeeth of Abu Sa’eed al-Khudri (may Allaah be pleased with him), who narrated that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “You will certainly follow the ways of those who came before you, span by span, cubit by cubit, until even if they were to enter a lizard’s hole, you would follow them.” We said, “O Messenger of Allaah, (do you mean) the Jews and Christians?” He said, “Who else?!” (Narrated by al-Bukhaari in al-I’tisaam bi’l-Kitaab wa’l-Sunnah, Baab Qawl al-Nabi (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) La tattabi’unna Sanan man kaana qablakum, 8/151; and by Muslim in Kitaab al-‘Ilm, Baab Ittibaa’ Sanan al-Yahood wa’l-Nasaara, 4/2054)

What the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) spoke of has indeed come to pass and has become widespread in recent times, in many of the Muslim countries. Many of the Muslims follow the enemies of Allaah in many of their customs and ways of behaving, and imitate them in some of their rituals and in celebrating their holidays. The matter has been made even worse by the opening up of mass communications between peoples, whereby the rituals and customs of the kuffaar are now transmitted with the glamorous adornment of sound and image from their countries into the Muslim countries, via satellite TV and the World Wide Web (Internet). Many Muslims have been deceived by their glamour. In recent years, a new phenomenon has spread among the Muslim youth – males and females alike – which does not bode well. This is manifested in their imitation of the Christians in their celebration of the Valentine’s Day, which has led the scholars and daa’iyahs to explain the rulings of sharee’ah concerning that, out of sincerity towards Allaah, His Messenger, the leaders of the Muslims and their common folk, so that Muslims may have a clear understanding of this issue and so that they will not fall into that which will undermine the belief (‘aqeedah) with which Allaah has blessed them.

This is a brief discussion of the origins, development and purpose of this holiday, and what the Muslim should do with regard to it. The story of the Festival of Love (Valentine’s Day)
The Festival of Love was one of the festivals of the pagan Romans, when paganism was the prevalent religion of the Romans more than seventeen centuries ago. In the pagan Roman concept, it was an expression of “spiritual love”.

There were myths associated with this pagan festival of the Romans, which persisted with their Christian heirs. Among the most famous of these myths was the Roman belief that Romulus, the founder of Rome, was suckled one day by a she-wolf, which gave him strength and wisdom.
The Romans used to celebrate this event in mid-February each year with a big festival. One of the rituals of this festival was the sacrifice of a dog and a goat. Two strong and muscular youths would daub the blood of the dog and goat onto their bodies, then they would wash the blood away with milk. After that there would be a great parade, with these two youths at its head, which would go about the streets. The two youths would have pieces of leather with which they would hit everyone who crossed their path. The Roman women would welcome these blows, because they believed that they could prevent or cure infertility. The connection between Saint Valentine and this festival Saint Valentine is a name which is given to two of the ancient “martyrs” of the Christian Church. It was said that there were two of them, or that there was only one, who died in Rome as the result of the persecution of the Gothic leader Claudius, c. 296 CE. In 350 CE, a church was built in Rome on the site of the place where he died, to perpetuate his memory.

When the Romans embraced Christianity, they continued to celebrate the Feast of Love mentioned above, but they changed it from the pagan concept of “spiritual love” to another concept known as the “martyrs of love”, represented by Saint Valentine who had advocated love and peace, for which cause he was martyred, according to their claims. It was also called the Feast of Lovers, and Saint Valentine was considered to be the patron saint of lovers.

women's clothing

2010-02-12T22:16:00.001+08:00

I love to shop, especially buying clothes. Lately, I am very much addicted to the womens clothing web site- they have GREAT clothes there with reasonable prices. Divine Trash Online Fashion offers clothings to jewellery for all women- any size at all. Currently, they are having a clearance sale and I bought 1 handbag and 3 cute tops too. Why not check out the site for some cool clothings and save money?

Torrents

2010-02-10T22:29:00.002+08:00

I have been a fan of Desperate Housewives since season 1. Currently, season 6 has started in the USA. I have all the episodes of season 6 in .avi format. If you'd like to download, contact me by leaving a message. I love watching this series, and most of the times, I get the movies downloaded from torrent sites. I also enjoy listening to music, and most of these music files are downloaded from music torrents. The trick to using torrent is that make sure the file you are downloading is having good number of seeders and not just leechers. You will get to know more about this once you are familiar with torrent downloads. :)

Season 6 Episode 1: Nice is different than good September 27, 2009
Season 6 Episode 2: Being Alive October 4, 2009
Season 6 Episode 3: Never judge a lady by her lover October 11, 2009
Season 6 Episode 4: The God-Why-Don't-You-Love-Me Blues October 18, 2009
Season 6 Episode 5: Everybody Ought to have a maid October 25, 2009
Season 6 Episode 6: Don't walk on the grass November 1, 2009
Season 6 Episode 7: Careful the things you say November 8, 2009
Season 6 Episode 8: The Coffee cup November 15, 2009

File search on rapidhare

2010-02-10T22:25:00.001+08:00

I was trying to get some free software downloaded today, but most of the sites I tried were just disappointing. Either the site is harmful for the PC or the files are not complete to download. Anyway, at last, I managed to get what I wanted from Rapidshare Downloads, under the .music, video, software search. It's so easy and fast to download anything from rapidshare. I am even thinking of subscribing to rapidshare so that I could download multiple files at the same time. To me, they are just handy most of the times, especially when you are desparate to download files! Everyone should have a rapidshare account! It's so easy to do any File Search and downloading is fast too. I have been downloading a lot of video files lately. I enjoy watching movies on my new Samsung HD TV, thus, downloading the high quality movies on rapidhare is all well worth it!

rv rentals

2010-02-10T22:21:00.002+08:00

Ideally, we all want positive, tranquil, mature, relatively stress-free relationships but when emotions get the better of us, sometimes we turn into the little two, six or fifteen-year-old child within. You can just imagine what it's like when two six -year-olds have a fight about adult issues.

I have my own story about relationships too. It was nice when things were smooth and we were busy with rv rentals for vacations, but well, it's not always so nice and sweet!

But arguments, conflicts and fights don't necessarily mean that the love between the two of you is lost or that the relationship is ruined. Even when two people genuinely love each other and want to be together for the rest of their lives, conflicts will inevitably arise. And if handled badly, these conflicts can undermine relationship happiness and intimacy, and can result in long-simmering feuds or ended relationships. If handled appropriately, conflicts can actually strengthen relationships and improve your understanding, appreciation and love for each other.

Here are some insights for arguing and fighting in a style that is more constructive than destructive.

1. Bring out everything in the open...

Many of us are frequently led into destructive interactions by the need for denying, or avoiding many kinds of human behavior which society and tradition label as "bad" -- disagreeing, arguing, showing anger etc. But just trying harder to get along ignoring the conflicts and differences in your relationship will not save your relationship let alone make it a happy, satisfying and healthy relationship.

If there are resentments and unsettled issues, or anything that needs attention, be the one to ask for a serious conversation to talk about the relationship and what's going on.

2. Make sure you understand the other person...

Time and again things get blown out of proportion and relationships dashed because one person heard something that the other didn't even say or mean.

Don't assume anything -- always ask the other person for clarification and give feedback to ensure you understand what he or she has said. You might find that he or she has a valid reason for behaving in a way that hurt your feelings. When you understand what the other person is really saying, you'll find it easier to stop yourself from reacting impulsively. You'll also be more open to several ways of seeing the situation which makes it easier for the two of you to can come up with multiple ways of solving the problem.

3. Admit when you are wrong...

Sometimes the hardest part about walking our talk is realizing that we are actually exhibiting the very behaviors we dislike in others. But instead of admitting our own imperfections, we refuse to back down out of pure pride and stubbornness, and as a result find ourselves in a prolonged argument that isn't even worth it.

Say sorry when you're wrong or better yet, go the extra mile and actually utter the word "wrong" by saying something like, "I was wrong about.../it was wrong of me to... etc. Just make sure the apology isn't an insincere, disingenuous, deceptive or manipulative damage-control ploy. Most people can see through insincere apologies.

4. Leave the past in the past...

One small argument can remind us an unresolved past argument or fight, and when that happens, we get even more upset or our hurt increases.

No matter what you are arguing about, do not bring up irrelevant left-overs from the past that should have been forgotten. Respond (appropriately) to what is happening in the moment -- in the now.

5. Don't make every minute detail into a crisis...

Not everything that can be counted counts, and not everything that counts can be counted. Making a big fuss over everything in life is a sign of serious emotional immaturity.

If you find yourself starting to get really "excited" at the prospect of pissing your partner off (for entertainment value or payback) ask yourself if it's really worth it. I know this may be tough one for crisis junkies who like to stir things up just for the adrenaline buzz. It is not healthy for you to always seek conflict just for being in the center of things or just because you want some attention, in the end you end up alone, angry and miserable. Pull-ease, dial down the crazy antics.

6. Fight with the aim to resolve the issue...

Any fool can criticize, complain, condemn -- and most fools do. Smart people on the other hand, carefully look at all the possible approaches, outcomes and even exit strategies before they begin a "discussion" which may or may not end in fight.

If you have to argue or fight, make sure the heated discussion will be worth it and that something will change in the relationship as a result of the discussion. Your goal should not "emotional release" but finding a mutually acceptable resolution. It is easy to tell when resolution has been reached - you'll feel closer and want to give your partner a hug.

7. Choose your battles carefully...

If you always notice the things that annoy you; or if you focus on what you think your partner is not doing right; or meddle in things that are not your business/you cannot do anything about; or if you feel the need to always win an argument, you'll find yourself obsessed (and even drive yourself crazy) with those particular annoyances and behaviours.

You'll be far more effective in "winning" those battles that are truly important by choosing to challenge only those issues that are truly and personally offensive to your values, beliefs and person. Your opinions and disagreement will bear more weight when what you fight over is really important.

8. Agree to disagree...

You and your partner do not always have to agree. On some issues, you will have to give in. On other issues, you will have to ask him or her to do something that will make your own life easier or your responsibilities more manageable.

If you want your man or woman to do something and he or she is somewhat hesitant, ask him or her to try it for a limited time, such as a week, and then evaluate the situation. This wil make him or her feel that he or she is not locked into a decision. When people have some wiggle room, they usually are more willing to try something even if they have not bought in to it 100%.

9. Try not to bring up important discussions or make important decisions while you are upset...

There are times when you must immediately bring up an issue that is likely to lead to a heated discussion, but you often do not have to. If you are feeling very upset or discouraged, talk things over with others -- a friend, family member or professional (counsellor, coach, mentor, spiritual leader etc). Someone not directly involved can bring a calmer perspective to the situation as well as new ideas, and can help you in dealing with the challenges that you face.

Don't bring in others (family, friends, etc.) to gang up on your partner.

10. Let your partner make as many of his or her choices and decisions as possible...

Most decision you make as a couple and some decisions you make as individuals with the other's best interest at heart. If you insist on always making all the decisions, you undermine your partner's feelings of control, which in turn interferes with his or her ability to deal with other aspects of the relationship.

You're both adults, so get off your high horse, shut up and let your partner make his or her own choices and decisions - even if they are not the same choices or decisions you would make. And don't be sitting there waiting to say, "I told you so, stupid!", instead listen, give support and gentle advice.

11. Talk about your feelings, not your partner's behaviours...

Tell your partner how you feel and not what you think they did wrong or should do right. Avoid attacking the other person's character or areas of personal sensitivity or using language that may be perceived as blaming or insulting. If you stick with "I" statements, rather than "you" statements, your partner won't feel criticized and will be far more likely to empathize with you. Doing this creates a safe dialogue.

12. Be the adult...

If your partner says something that hurts you, don't refuse to talk for days. Silent treatment is one of those things we did when we were kids and is so "old" when you are an adult.

Last but most important, there are no "perfect" relationships. They only exist in movies. If you are always fighting, arguing or bickering for your fantasy of a "perfect' relationship, you'll spend most of your life fighting, arguing and bickering -- and will most likely end up alone, bitter and miserable.

If you are in one of those on-and-off-again relationships and want to stop the constant arguing and fighting once and for all, or you recently got back together with your ex but things are just not working out as well as you'd hoped... and some days, you feel like you just "can't continue on like this" you might want to check out my e-Book: Dating Your Ex - What You Can Do Tonight, Tomorrow And The Next Day To Get Your Ex Back.

Slot Machines

2010-02-10T20:52:00.002+08:00

My son's birthday is just 2 days away, and it's snowing already! I am hoping to get a white party for him, and I think, I might be lucky to get one this year. Besides being busy preparing presents and gifts, I still find some few hours to get online to play my online casino games. Do you know how to play casino games ? Well, you can learn these games in a jiffy- just get online and check out the best Slot Machines.Quicksilver Games amusement arcades is my favourite place to go whenevr I have the time. It's not just for adults, even kids can have their own fun there!

I used to be very addicted to gambling when I was working in Las Vegas, however now, I have slowed down. LOL Well, believe it or not, I meant it! I am more inclined to online gambling now because it's more relaxing and satisfying from home. Although the adrenaline rush is more in the real casinos, it's as much fun to gamble from home too. There are a lot of sites which gives information on the best gambling index. If you are a beginner, never be afraid because you can read roulette online guide, best casino games guide or check out the online slot games guide easily! These sites lure thousands of people towards the online casinos! My personal favourite is the roulette. I am normally on the Go Vegas site for roulette games. It really keeps me busy and occupied at times I feel low and bored. You should try these sites too if you love casinos and gambling. Hey, you can even play with real money- just be smart at arranging your strategies. :)

Extenze vs Enzyte

2010-02-07T18:36:00.002+08:00

I have a friend who is always complaining about how unhappy (unsatisfied) she is with her boyfriend. The thing is, she loves him a lot, but the sexual relationship is not as good as she expected. I know what she needs- it's Extenze vs Enzyte!

Well, I know I shouldn't be blogging about this, but to me, sometimes, other people could benefit from the information I have. I had the same problem too when I first met my husband (who was then my boyfriend). We talked about the problem, and I did the first step to check on popular male enhancement products. These 2 famous products are entenze and enzyte. Although natural male enhancement is always the best solution, Extenze vs Enzyte are also great, and it definitely made my marital life a lot better and satisfying!

A little girl named Al'brah

2010-02-05T18:56:00.001+08:00

This story is of a little girl named Bar`ah who is 10 years old, her parents were doctors who moved to Saudi Arabia in search of better life. At this age, Bar`ah memorized the whole Quran with tajweed, she was very intelligent, her teacher use to tell her she should be in middle school not primary school.

Her family was small and committed to Islam and its teachings.... suddenly one day the mother started feeling sever abdominal pain, after tests and checkups she found out that she has cancer, but in its late stages.

The mother thought she should tell her daughter, specially if she wakes up one day and didn't find her mother beside her.... so she told her: "Bar`ah I will go to paradise ahead of you, but I want you to read the Quran you memorized every day since it will protect you in this life..."

The little girl didn't really understand what her mother was trying to tell her... but she started feeling the change in her mother's status, especially when she was transferred to stay in hospital on a permanent bases. The little girl use to come to the hospital after her school and recite the Quran for her mother till the evening when her father used to take her home.

One day the hospital called the husband and informed him that the his wife's condition was very bad and he needed to come as fast as he can, so the father picked Bar`ah from her school and headed to the hospital, when they arrived he asked her to stay in the car... so that she wouldn't get shocked if her mother passed away.

The father got out of his car, with tears filled in his eyes and while crossing the road to enter the hospital, he was hit by a speeding car and died in front of his daughter who came crying to her father...!

The tragedy of Bar`ah is not over yet... the news of her father's death was hidden from the mother, but after 5 days the mother passed away leaving Bar`ah alone in this life. She become alone without her parents, and her parents' friends decided to find her relatives in Egypt so that they can take care of her.

Suddenly, Bar`ah started having sever pain like her mother, after a few tests and checkups it was confirmed it was cancer... at the surprise of every one she said: "Alhamdu Lillah, now I will meet my parents."

All of the family friends were shocked and surprised, this little girl being faced with calamity after calamity and she is patient and satisfied with what Allah ordained for her!

People started hearing about Bar`ah and her story, and a Saudi decided to take care of her... he sent her to the UK for treatment of this disease.

One of the Islamic channels (Al Hafiz - The protector) got in contact with this little girl and asked her to recite the Quran... and this is her beautiful voice with recitation...

CHECK THIS LINK FOR HER RECITATION

They contacted her again before she went into a coma and she made dua for her parents and sang a nasheed...

NASHEED CITATION

The days passed by and the cancer spread all over her body, the doctors decided to amputate her legs, and she is patient and satisfied with Allah's ordains... after a few days the CANCER spread to her brain, upon which doctors decided for another urgent brain surgery... and now her body is in a UK hospital in full COMA...

So pray for her health and speedy recovery...

Another recitation....

yoyoshop

2010-02-02T23:45:00.001+08:00

My nephew's birthday is coming soon and I really wanted a special gift for him. I remember in my childhood years, I used to play playing the yo yos, but I wasn't sure where to get a really cool one here in the UK. Just when I was telling one of my friends about this, she recommended me the yoyos online shop! I was so glad and thrilled when I checked out their online store. I did order a very cool yoyo for my nephew, and in just 2 days I received the yoyo! They surely have a great range of yoyo in the UK- so, if you are looking for one, yoyoshop is THE ONLY place to go. I am happy with the very cool yoyo I purchased, and I am thinking, I might want to get a few more just for personal collection. :)

The Evil

2010-02-01T02:19:00.002+08:00

The Evils Which Will Befall the Muslim Ummah During The Last Days

'Abdullâh ibn 'Umar said, "The Prophet - sallallâhu ’alayhi wa sallam - came to us and said, 'O Muhajirun, (emigrants from Makkah to al-Madînah) you may be afflicted by five things; God forbid that you should live to see them. If fornication should become widespread, you should realise that this has never happened without new diseases befalling the people which their forebears never suffered. If people should begin to cheat in weighing out goods, you should realise that this has never happened without drought and famine befalling the people, and their rulers oppressing them. If people should withhold Zakat, you should realise that this has never happened without the rain being stopped from falling; and were it not for the animals' sake, it would never rain again. If people should break their covenant with Allâh and His Messenger, you should realise that his has never happened without Allâh sending an enemy against them to take some of their possessions by force. If the leaders do not govern according to the Book of Allâh, you should realise that this has never happened without Allâh making them into groups and making them fight one another.' " (Ibn Majah).

'Alî ibn Abi Talib said, "The Prophet said: 'If my Ummah bears fifteen traits, tribulation will befall it.' Someone asked, 'What are they, O Messenger of Allâh?' He said, 'When any gain is shared out only among the rich, with no benefit to the poor; when a trust becomes a means of making a profit; when paying Zakat becomes a burden; when a man obeys his wife and disobeys his mother; and treats his friend kindly whilst shunning his father; when voices are raised in the mosques; when the leader of a people is the worst of them; when people treat a man with respect because they fear some evil he may do; when much wine is drunk; when men wear silk; when female singers and musical instruments become popular; when the last ones of this Ummah curse the first ones - then let them expect a red wind, or the earth to swallow them, or to be transformed into animals.'" (at-Tirmidhî)

'Alî ibn Abi Talib said, "The Prophet led us in praying Salat al-Fajr (the morning prayer). When he had finished, a man called to him: 'When will the Hour be? The Prophet reprimanded him and said 'Be quiet!' After a while he raised his eyes to the sky and said, 'Glorified be the One Who raised it and is taking care of it.' Then he lowered his gaze to the earth and said, 'Glory be to the One Who has outspread it and has created it.' Then the Prophet said, 'Where is the one who asked me about the Hour?' The man knelt down and said, 'I asked you.' The Prophet said, 'The Hour will come when leaders are oppressors, when people believe in the stars and reject al-Qadar (the Divine Decree of destiny) when a trust becomes a way of making a profit, when people give to charity (Sadaqah) reluctantly, when adultery becomes widespread - when this happens, then your people will perish.'"

'Imran ibn Husayn said, "The Prophet said, 'Some people of this Ummah will be swallowed up by the earth, some will be transformed into animals, and some will be bombarded with stones.' One of the Muslims asked, 'When will that be, O Messenger of Allâh?' He said, 'When singers and musical instruments will become popular, and much wine will be drunk.'" (Narrated by at-Tirmidhî)

'Imran ibn Husayn said, "The Prophet said, 'Some people of this Ummah will be swallowed up by the earth, some will be transformed into animals, and some will be bombarded with stones.' One of the Muslims asked, 'When will that be, O Messenger of Allâh?' He said, 'When singers and musical instruments will become popular, and much wine will be drunk.'" (Narrated by at-Tirmidhî)

[Note: "The main body of the Muslims (al-Jama'ah) means the people of the Qur'ân, Hadîth, Fiqh and other sciences, who have agreed to follow the Traditions of the Prophet in all circumstances without introducing any changes or imposing their own confused ideas.]

It was reported from Abû Hurayrah that the Prophet - sallallâhu ’alayhi wa sallam - said, "By Him Who sent me with the Truth, this earth will not pass away until people are afflicted with landslides, are pelted with stones, and are transformed into animals." The people asked, "When will that be, O Messenger of Allâh?" He said, "When you see women riding in the saddle, when singers are common, when bearing false witness becomes widespread, and when men lie with men and women with women".

He narrated from the Prophet - sallallâhu ’alayhi wa sallam -: 'Before the Hour comes, there will be a special greeting for the people of distinction; trade will become so widespread that a woman will help her husband in business; family ties will be cut; the giving of false witness will be common, while truthful witness will be rare; and writing will be widespread.' (Ahmad)

If Allah brings you to it, He will bring you through it.
Happy moments, praise Allah.
Difficult moments, seek Allah.
Quiet moments, worship Allah.
Painful moments, trust Allah.
Every moment, thank Allah.

Power of Papaya

2010-02-01T02:17:00.002+08:00

By Mauris L. Emeka It has been said that cancer is the final stage in years of acting against the laws of nature, and that anyone with an unhealthy lifestyle and who eats improperly spends his whole life preparing for this dreaded disease.

What is the nature of cancer as seen from the cellular level? Dr. John Beard, a leading professor of embryology in Scotland, posed that question sometime in the 1880s. He spent the rest of his life exploring the process of cancer and discovering just what activity within the body produces malignant tumors. Dr. Beard documented his work in a publication called “The Enzyme Treatment of Cancer And Its Scientific Basis”, copyright 1911..

We have in our bodies what scientists call primitive germ cells. In laymen’s terms, these are undeveloped cells that remain after new life is first formed in a mother’s womb. They are called “primitive” because these cells never did develop into mature cells to form various parts of the body. Think of primitive germ cells as extra cells that were not needed in the formation of the fetus. These cells are therefore in each of us, and they seemingly have no function until and unless the body experiences stress or injury of any kind. At that point, the primitive cells become activated in order to help heal whatever stress or injury the body may be experiencing. And once they are activated, these primitive cells start maturing and behaving like trophoblasts cells, which are the cells that house the fetus in an expectant mother. Dr. Beard found that these activated cells continue their growth and development until enough protein digesting enzymes are brought to bear. When there is a sufficient amount of protein digesting enzymes in the body the growth of activated cells ceases. The organ known as the pancreas produces these enzymes, but if it fails to produce enough of them then the activated primitive cells will continue their trophoblasts-like growth eventually producing a cancerous tumor. So whenever healing is initiated by primitive germ cells it is vital that the body have enough protein digesting enzymes to halt the healing process once it has reached a certain point. Dr. Beard’s most important discovery was that if there are not enough of certain enzymes in the body then the growth of activated primitive germ cells will proceed unchecked and lead to the formation of a cancerous tumor. Indeed, the present day enzyme treatment of cancer is based largely on this important discovery

In a real sense, protein digesting enzymes are our first line of defence against cancer. That is why it is so important that we nourish the body in a way that introduces protein digesting enzymes into it everyday. Otherwise, we must depend on the limited capability of our pancreas to produce such enzymes.. All too often our pancreas is not capable of supplying enough digestive enzymes to digest the preponderance of cooked food that we consume daily. [Note: when food is cooked it kills the enzymes and when we eat those foods it becomes the job of our pancreas to supply enzymes to digest them; but the pancreas is limited in this regard].

When someone has cancer, no matter where the malignant tumor shows up, it is vital that they consume foods whose enzymes have not been killed. That means eating an abundance of raw fruits, vegetables and nuts. Dr. Beard and other researchers have discovered that enzymes that digest protein play a key role in halting the growth of cancer cells. It’s no wonder that virtually every alternative cancer treatment program encourages patients to stop eating animal products and to eat more raw enzyme-rich fruits and vegetables. When someone has cancer, if they continue eating a daily diet of animal products (meat, chicken, fish, dairy, etc.), these hard to digest foods greatly challenge an already overworked pancreas. Cancer, no matter where it shows up, is a sure sign that the pancreas is not producing adequate enzymes. In addition, eating animal products makes the body chemistry considerably more acidic, and cancer cells thrive in an acidic environment. And, as mentioned earlier, a lack of protein digesting enzymes allows out of control primitive germ cells to become cancerous. In that sense, we can think of cancer, any cancer, as an enzyme deficiency disease.

The good news is that we can each do something about this situation. We can change what we eat and eat more foods that introduce enzymes into the body, as opposed to mainly cooked foods that require the body to manufacture critically needed enzymes. One such food that is especially helpful in this regard is the papaya and papaya seeds; another is pineapple. Both fruits contain enzymes (papain and bromelain, respectively) that are similar to the protein digesting enzymes made by the pancreas. Another extremely beneficial food is sprouts (bean sprouts, broccoli sprouts). They are a rich source of beneficial enzymes and other nutrients that are known to suppress cancerous activity. Protein digesting enzymes are particularly important in that they can dissolve the protein coating that forms around all cancer cells, and this enables the immune system to finally ‘see’ the cancer cells and target them for destruction. These foods also make the body chemistry less acidic and thus a lot less conducive for cancerous activity. (See Barbara Simonsohn’s book, “Healing Power of Papaya”, copyright 2000).

Grant it, protein digesting enzymes may not be the only answer to cancer, but truly they are the body’s first defense against this most dreaded disease.. If I ever though I had cancer, aside from abstaining from animal protein, sugar, refined grains, and processed foods, I would be sure to eat at least a half of a papaya and a generous portions of its seeds daily in order to strengthen my body’s first line of defence.

Mr. Emeka lives in Port Orchard, Washington. He authored two self-help books about cancer: “Fear Cancer No More” copyright 2002 & “Cancer’s Best Medicine”, copyright 2004. www.cancernomore.com

Guard your tongue

2010-02-01T02:15:00.000+08:00

Al-Imâm ash-Shâfi'î said: "When one desires to talk, then it is upon him to think before he speaks. If there is beneficial good in what he will say, then he should speak. If he has doubt about that, then he must not speak until he clears that doubt."

Qass bin Sâ'adah and Aktham bin Sayfî once met and one of them said to the other: "How many defects were you able to find in the son of Adam?" The other responded: "They are too numerous to count. However, the defects that I was able to account for numbered eight thousand. I also discovered one thing which, if put into practice, would hide all of these defects." He asked: "What is it?" He responded: "Guarding the tongue."

al-Fudayl bin 'Iyâd said: "Whoever limits his speech to be in accordance with his actions will minimize his speech on that which doesn't concern him."

al-Imâm ash-Shâfi'î said to one of his students: "Do not speak about things that do not concern you, for indeed, every time that you speak a word, it takes control of you and you do not have control of it!"

'Abdullâh bin Mas'ûd said: "There is nothing that deserves to be imprisoned more than the tongue."

Others have stated: "The tongue is like a savage beast; if you do not lock it up, it will set out against you."

Abul-Qâsim al-Qushayrî said: "Remaining silent is salvation and that is a fundamental principle. Staying quiet at the proper time is a characteristic of manhood, just as speaking when it is proper to do so is from the most honorable of manners."

He also said: "Whoever remains silent concerning the truth, then he is a silent devil."

web hosting

2010-01-20T23:55:00.002+08:00

Ever since I started blogging, I have really enjoyed myself. It is a way to expressing myself online- and no one can tell you what to write or what not to write either. It's my way to scream, shout, express my anger, fear, triumps and more. I started using the free blogging platform- blogger. However, after sometime, I wanted something more personal to me, so, I was checking out the web hosting sites and my blogger and wordpress blogs. I got a good deal on the wordpress web hosting and I chose a domain which is personal to myself- Love Defies All. This blog started as my very personal blog about my love life. However, some major events have made me stopped writing about it- it's a sad abrupt stop, and I just don't want to write about it more either. It's really depressing to write more. I started another new blog for the same reason, and I went on the drupal web hosting for that reason. WebHostingRating.com, in my opinion is one of the best and biggest independent web hosting directory featuring complete information on all web hosting providers, web hosting offers, promotional and discount coupons, and unedited reviews by real customers. If you too are looking for a good real deal and confused about the best to choose, you should check out this site. I bought my domains here, and it's been 2 years since. I had no problems at all!

I have even recommended a few friends to WebHostingRating.com. It is better to compare and review a few before finalising, and it's rather difficult to do it independently. Here, you get to choose and compare from the list, depending on your requirements. Having said that- now, if you have been on wordpress or blogger for more than a year already, and you love blogging, maybe you should seriously think about moving to your very own domain?!

BarbeSkew

2010-01-16T18:27:00.002+08:00

Talking about barbecues...what comes to your mind? Sunny summertime at the garden? Well, not anymore! Now, you can have barbeques all year round- even when heavy snow is falling outside! LOL Take anything you want- vegetables, sausages, meat, or even summer fruits! It's all great with home made sauce. So, here's why you can have 'BBQ' all year round- for the homemade BBQ sauce, you have have it indoor or even outdoor, no need to worry about washing pots and pans, you only need meat and vegetables- forget chopping onions and getting the spices ready and lastly everyone loves a good BBQ- come rain or shine! :) Now, let's go and have a BBQ outside.

Funny one!

2010-01-14T18:40:00.002+08:00

A man was talking to the Lord about women. "Lord why did you make women so beautiful?"
The answer came, "So you would look at them."
Again the man asked, "Lord why did you make women so lovely?"
The reply came down, "So you would love them."
The man asked one more question. "Lord, why did you make women so dumb?"
The Lord said, "So they would love you."
The man said, "They would love us if they knew the cd rates too"! LOL

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A man is trying to understand the nature of God and asked him: "God, how long is a million years to you?"
God answered: "A million years is like a minute."
Then the man asked: "God, how much is a million dollars to you?" And God replied: "A million dollars is like a penny."
Finally the man asked: "God, could you give me a penny?" And God says: "In a minute."

Sweet story

2010-01-14T18:38:00.001+08:00

He met her on a party. She was so outstanding, many guys chasing after her, while he was so normal, nobody paid attention to him. At the end of the party, he invited her to have coffee with him, she was surprised, but due to being polite, she promised. They sat in a nice coffee shop, he was too nervous to say anything, she felt uncomfortable, she thought, please, let me go home.. suddenly he asked the waiter:

"Would you please give me some salt? I'd like to put it in my coffee."

Everybody stared at him, so strange! His face turned red, but, still, he put the salt in his coffee and drank it.

She asked him curiously: why you have this hobby?

He replied: "when I was a little boy, I was living near the sea, I liked playing in the sea, I could feel the taste of the sea, just like the taste of the salty coffee. Now every time I have the salty coffee, I always think of my childhood, think of my hometown, I miss my hometown so much, I miss my parents who are still living there".

While saying that tears filled his eyes. She was deeply touched.

That's his true feeling, from the bottom of his heart. A man who can tell out his homesickness, he must be a man who loves home, cares about home, has responsibility of home.. Then she also started to speak, spoke about her faraway hometown, her childhood, her family. That was a really nice talk, also a beautiful beginning of their story. They continued to date. She found that actually he was a man who meets all her demands; he had tolerance, was kind hearted, warm, careful. He was such a good person but she almost missed him!

Thanks to his salty coffee! Then the story was just like every beautiful love story, the princess married to the prince, and then they were living the happy life... And, every time she made coffee for him, she put some salt in the coffee, as she knew that's the way he liked it.

After 40 years, he passed away, left her a letter, which said: "My dearest, please forgive me, forgive my whole life lie. This was the only lie I said to you---the salty coffee. Remember the first time we dated? I was so nervous at that time, actually I wanted some sugar, but I said salt It was hard for me to change so I just went ahead. I never thought that could be the start of our communication! I tried to tell you the truth many times in my life, but I was too afraid to do that, as I have promised not to lie to you for anything..

Now I'm dying, I afraid of nothing so I tell you the truth: I don't like the salty coffee, what a strange bad taste.. But I have had the salty coffee for my whole life! Since I knew you, I never feel sorry for anything I do for you. Having you with me is my biggest happiness for my whole life. If I can live for the second time, still want to know you and have you for my whole life, even though I have to drink the salty coffee again".

Her tears made the letter totally wet.

Someday, someone asked her: what's the taste of salty coffee? It's sweet. She replied.

Maybe she needs the create your own business card?? LOL

Anne a lay Apostle

2010-01-14T18:34:00.002+08:00

If you are a mountain lover, you might want to check out the book from Anne a lay Apostle called "Climbing the Mountain". It's available to buy online, so, check it out!

BBC online dating

2010-01-14T18:30:00.002+08:00

Have you ever considered online dating? Well, at first I was skeptical about the idea of 'meeting' someone online and maybe pouring your heart out to a total stranger you have not even met. Then, on the other hand, how is it very much different than the normal dating? In a 'normal date', you meet the person, you judge the person by looks and you get to know about each other. In an online dating, you get to know the person first, then, maybe you might arrange for a meet up or even exchange photos. The later gets you to know the person not on physical appearance alone, but from the heart as well. :)

personalized pens

2010-01-13T22:21:00.001+08:00

I have been trying to get this blog approved for payu2blog, but after a zillion times of trying, I have not received any news from the payu2blog team- so, I guess, this blog doesn't qualify. I wonder why. I used to make a lot of money blogging on payperpost, but now it's just rubbish. Hardly any opportunities, and with the new version, there's NONE! It's so frustrating.

If anyone knows any great money making sites, do leave me a comment here! :) I need money now, and I feel horrible. For once, I need to plan for a birthday party for my boyfriend, and I am thinking of some personalized pens as the door gifts. I have bought some great birthday banners and balloons last year from USA last year when I visited Las Vegas. I still need to arrange for the caterers and birthday cake. I am thinking of a 2kg fresh cream cake, but I am still thinking on the shape of the cake. I don't want anything common or cliche, so, I need to think hard to make this party different and unique! Life is good when you have money :(, or else, it's tough even to make plans!

cheap invitations

2010-01-13T22:20:00.002+08:00

I love cooking, and I have collected a few great recipes which I have tried myself. I guess, next I would need to send out cheap invitations for my special day too. hahahah you know what I mean! :) It's just the day of the year when you get very tired but excited at the same time. Yes, you guessed it right! I am getting married this year and it's going to be a grand wedding in 2 countries. How cool is that? Me and my fiance have been discussing our wedding and I just can't wait for the big day to happen, and I just hope and pray everything will be great as planned. I need to get the best ever wedding dress, and book for the best make up artist in town too. It's going to be my dream come true magical wedding.

Ingredients:
Tamarind- a half lemon size
Tomato-1
Black Pepper-1tsp
Jeeragam-1tsp
Green chiily-1/2
Garlic-4 to 5
Coriander leaves- 1/4 cup
Small piece ginger, Salt..

Method:
Grind all above well and make it as a
paste.. Now add 2 cup water and boil
it well and serve hot...

ITS VERY EASY AND TAKES ONLY 3 MIN TO PREPARE....

source

cheap wedding programs

2010-01-13T22:19:00.003+08:00

If I tell you I have to get busy preparing for cheap wedding programs, what would you suggest? LOL yes - I AM GETTING MARRIED!

I love cooking, and I have collected a few great recipes which I have tried myself. I guess, next I would need to send out cheap invitations for my special day too. hahahah you know what I mean! :) It's just the day of the year when you get very tired but excited at the same time. Yes, you guessed it right! I am getting married this year and it's going to be a grand wedding in 2 countries. How cool is that? Me and my fiance have been discussing our wedding and I just can't wait for the big day to happen, and I just hope and pray everything will be great as planned. I need to get the best ever wedding dress, and book for the best make up artist in town too. It's going to be my dream come true magical wedding.

Ingredients:
Tamarind- a half lemon size
Tomato-1
Black Pepper-1tsp
Jeeragam-1tsp
Green chiily-1/2
Garlic-4 to 5
Coriander leaves- 1/4 cup
Small piece ginger, Salt..

Method:
Grind all above well and make it as a
paste.. Now add 2 cup water and boil
it well and serve hot...

ITS VERY EASY AND TAKES ONLY 3 MIN TO PREPARE....

Source

real online degrees

2010-01-13T22:18:00.002+08:00

Now, I find this funny. SO what is the speech is boring? Then IT IS! Why pinalizing someone for his truth opinion? Don't we all live in a free world? Should we praise something which is not worth the praise? Obviously, from what happened here, we are supposed to fake our opinions, just because the boring speech comes from a ROYAL family. LOL I know I should be stydying for my real online degrees, but sometimes, I kill time reading articles online too.

Tom Binns has lost his job at radio station BRMB after a number of listeners complained over his interruption of the monarch's traditional December 25 broadcast to Britain and the Commonwealth.

"Two words: Bor-ring," he said on air as he stopped the broadcast, before quipping "from one Queen to another..." as he put on "Last Christmas" by pop duo Wham, featuring openly gay singer George Michael.

Binns explained that the incident occurred after the Queen's Speech -- a decades-old tradition still watched by millions of Britons and others every year -- came on at a point when he had expected a regular news bulletin.

"I was working on my own on Christmas Day; I'd even had to let myself into the studio. After the guy before me finished, we should have taken the news from Sky, and then my show would start," he told the Chortle comedy website.

"But instead of the news, we got the Queen's speech. I knew it shouldn't be there, but having never heard it before, I didn't know how long it was going to go on for.

"I'm not trained to make editorial decisions, but I decided to get rid of it and make a joke. I said, 'Two words: bor-ring'.