Love Thoughts Etcetera

How True Is Your Love

2011-10-16T01:20:00.000-07:00

To love, to like, to enjoy being with each other and to make each other happy - these are what dream relationships are made of. The couple loves each other. How to know if it is true love? How to decide if it is not passing infatuation? How does one test true love?

The test of love comes in crisis. If your partner tells you that he/she loves you, then he/she should be there with you even at the cost of all comforts and at times even his/her life. That is how most mothers love their children. But what about romantic love. The test of that love is same. Both of you will be with each other through thick and thin. None of you will walk away leaving one all alone to face a crisis after professing so much about love. You will give each other support and encouragement to face that crisis. It is not a single partner's crisis. It is a crisis for both of you. That is true love.

Why does false love still take many of you in? This love will vanish when you will need it most? Worse, if you have already supported your beloved during his/her crisis. It will hurt more. False sincerity takes one in. Misjudgment takes you in on your part. The signs of love vanishing are all there, but one refuses to believe them in the beginning. You refuse to believe that someone you love so much will turn out to be an individual with no integrity.

If you are looking for test of true love, wait till something very bad happens. If your partner stays with you in that phase, that is love, otherwise it was only talk of love.

What Kind Of Lover Are You?

2011-10-16T01:14:00.000-07:00

All of you are different. You have different emotional make-up. You grew up differently in your childhood and you have different value systems. Some of you have a predominant emotion that may be constructive or destructive. You have your own way to look at relationships. Your motivations are different and you derive satisfaction with different goals.

Lovers are equally different. Take any lover, and you will find a unique specimen. Though lovers can be broadly classified, lets see what can be different amongst them. To begin with how do people look at love? Some of the lovers have a great fear of rejection and therefore they avoid getting involved in an intimate relationship beyond a limit. Some lovers feel good, if someone loves them. That satisfies their urge to know that they are worthy and good. So love reassures them about their worth.

One may find lovers who want to give all they can to their partner without expecting anything in return. They want to please their partner. But such lovers may get frustrated after giving for a long time and begin complaining about not receiving anything in return. Some lovers are weak inside and seek a partner to protect them. They may or may not show this need, but will complain if the need of protection is not satisfied. Some lovers are successful in their life. They are confident and self-dependent. They know how to express healthy love, but may ignore the partner after sometime, if the partner does not match their intellectual skills. Similarly, you may find a lover who will not express love in words but does his/her best to care for the lover. There are many more kinds of lovers.

What does this all mean? This means that human beings are complicated individuals and love, being an extension of the personality, is equally difficult to understand. What kind of lover are you and what kind of lover is your partner? Think about that. If you try, you can find out something that can be changed to make your love life much better and satisfying.

Do You Know Why You Like Someone?

2011-10-16T01:10:00.000-07:00

How do you gauge yourself if you really like someone? Is it just a crush, emptiness of the heart, or is real true love you felt? What signs and symptoms tells you that? 'I saw her, I talked to her, I was mesmerized with her and I wanted her to be mine forever. I saw him. I got smell of his body. I went in a trance. I was looking at his hair. He was looking so masculine. I want him forever to be mine.'

Why do you like some one? That person may not be great looking if you take a poll, but someone falls for him/her immediately. Why does this happen? What is the chemistry? Why do you find someone irresistible? What is the secret of that? Lot many love stories have been written around this love at first sight. The prince saw the princess and the princess saw the prince. Both fell in love with each other forever. This is what romance is made of. What is this and how does this happen?

You manage to lose your senses; your thinking ability and your head. Your heart overrules everything. You want that person. You try every way possible to meet and win over that person. You pass sleepless nights and pass days in a trance thinking of him/her. You are not able to live without that person for a moment. That single thought displaces every other thought. Life becomes oriented to a single goal - 'I want her/him.'

A lot has been written about romantic love. No one has reached any conclusion about how such love develops. There are different theories about it, but can love be ever defined in terms of chemicals? Ultimately what will science achieve by finding out about the how and why of such romantic love that is heavenly? The best thing if you fall in such love is to preserve it carefully. Under no circumstances, let anything happen to destroy it. It is very precious. Take care of it.

Love The Same Person?

2011-10-16T01:07:00.000-07:00

Many of us come across this movie-like situation. You like a girl and your best friend also likes the same girl. Or you like a boy and your best friend likes the same boy. What should be done? On one side, you have a long standing friendship and on the other side you have love that may be passionate. This does create a difficult situation. Let us talk about it.

Finally either both the friends have to give away their love and maintain their friendship, or one friend has to get love and the other has to sacrifice. In the second situation, the friendship may remain intact or may break up. What is the best way out?

One comes across many people discussing this kind of situation and what always surprises is, that they don't first talk to the girl or the boy they have fallen in love with. Why not find out who is preferred by the object of love and decide accordingly? Both the friends should talk about common love with as much clarity as possible with each other and then decide not to sacrifice their friendship for love. After that, they should approach their love and find out what he/she thinks about both of them. It may so happen that the other party is not in love with either of them. Straight talk and making things rational instead of emotional helps in such situations. Remember in this situation, guessing game does not help at all! The only best appropriate way is to talk to the boy or girl you have fallen in love with.

Do You Look Attractive?

2011-10-16T00:59:00.000-07:00

Before finding about you, lets define attraction. What is attraction? Attraction means to draw attention towards you. Others when they notice you, should feel good and try to find out more about you. They should come towards you. It is like a magnet attracting iron particles. What about you?

What do others think about you? Has anyone complimented you about your particular qualities? Have you been complimented about your looks, or attraction? Talk to some of your friends- both men and women. Ask them about what they think about you. What attracts them towards you and what repels? Make a list. Look at the positives and try to improve upon them. Look at the negatives and improve. If needed, take an expert's opinion. Many times, the problem is that we are so narcissistic that we do not look at ourselves in totality.

Unless you look attractive to others, you will not make a social impact. Do not dissolve your individuality but add flavor to it so that others find it more interesting.

Puppy Love

2011-10-16T00:40:00.001-07:00

Puppy Love.. (",)

Sweet

2011-10-16T00:36:00.000-07:00

Sweet! (",)

Whether You Have Hot Abs Or Not

2011-10-16T00:29:00.000-07:00

Being Loved Whether You Have Hot Abs or Not. That's True Love! (",)

That makes me the boss

2011-10-16T00:23:00.000-07:00

Okay, Ralph... Let me explain it to you again. You're Big, I'm little; BUT!!! you're dog. I'm cat... that makes me the boss. Got it???

They Really Exist..friends forever..

2011-10-16T00:17:00.000-07:00

OMG!! They Really Exist..friends forever.. TIMON & PUMBA!! (",)

Do You Love Yourself ?

2011-10-04T06:22:00.000-07:00

Do you love yourself ? Many of us here are guilty of not asking ourselves this. Even if we do ask ourselves this, how do we tell or know if we love ourselves? Most of us are searching for love. We all hear so much about love, watch it in the movies and listen to songs of love. Somehow that kind of love does not happen to us. Whether such passionate romantic love can exist in today's world? That is a big question. Even if you fall in such love, it will phase out after some time leaving a vacuum.

How about loving ourselves? Most of us do a lot of self beating. We regret our decisions, strain our bodies to make achievements, stress ourselves at most of the times about something or else. We give no peace and love to ourselves. Look at a child in the lap of mother. The child is at peace and is totally protected by mother. The kid is totally relaxed. How about mothering yourself?

How about forgetting your worries for a certain period during the day? Just relax and pamper your mind and body? Only relax. Relax and let all the strain go away. Think of nothing. No worries, no tension, no goals, no achievements, no projects, no exams, no promotions. Only yourself. Love yourself for what you are. No criticism. No self beating. No memories of good or bad. Only love for yourself. Let that love Overwhelm you with total peace. Love yourself.

We act brutally with ourselves many times. We don't need others to do that, because we do it wonderfully well ourselves. Are you one of such people? How much do you love yourself?

Is It Fantasy We Seek, Or Is It Love?

2011-10-04T06:09:00.000-07:00

For many of us, love begins with deep passion, romance, and hot steamy sex. This is what I call the first stage of love, the euphoric stage. You are together all the time, love everything about each other, see no faults in one another, and cannot seem to keep your hands off each other. As time goes by, you get to know one another. The party manners disappear, and you begin to see that your loved one is not so perfect, after all. This is the point where, if you are expecting perfection in another person, you will become disenchanted, and the relationship will end. You cannot expect perfection in anyone, including yourself. If you do, you are living your life in fantasy, and always will be disappointed.

Contemplate this for a moment: you have just met the person of your dreams. You are attracted to this person physically; he or she has a great sense of humor, is affectionate, romantic, and a fabulous lover. Your new partner does all the right things, pushes all the right buttons, and you have -- and I hate this phrase -- fallen head over heels in love. One day, your perfect, remarkable partner begins to irritate you. You may discover that this person is a slob. All of a sudden, you cannot stand being in his or her place because it's such a pig pen. One day you notice that your once-flawless love, who has run out of clean underwear, goes to the laundry hamper to retrieve a slightly less soiled pair. You go into the bathroom to find it flooded with water from the shower, his razor stubble, or her make-up and toothpaste, lining the sink. To top it all off, if it is a man in question, he left the lid up or did not flush the toilet. So do you dump this person? Based on my experiences in life, I do not think you should.

This is an extreme example, but it could happen. Love will reach a stage where you will begin to notice your partner's shortcomings -- things that you may have overlooked before. So what do you do? Do you give up? Relationships end for many at this point, because the fantasy has been shattered. He or she is not that perfect, after all. When you come to this point, you have graduated to the next stage of relationship. It's a challenge, an invitation, to achieve a new level of intimacy with your partner. Many of us choose, at this point, not to communicate our needs or feelings, but rather to detour into anger. Out of fear, some of us repress our feelings. In many cases, we just plain run as fast as we can. These are all just normal human reactions, when faced with this awakening. Should you choose to be angry, or if you choose to repress your feelings or to run, you are missing the opportunity to rise to the next level of intimacy.

Euphoric love ends for a reason: it is a time when your brain starts having more input than your hormones. When euphoric love ends, you have come to a stage in the relationship where you are thinking seriously about a future with your partner. Questions come to mind, such as: "Can I live with this person, the way he/she is right now?"; "Would I want to have children with this person?"; "Do I want to share the rest of my life with this person?" These are big questions, and they tend to elicit fear. The fear is totally normal, but it catches many of us off guard. Many of us take this fear as a sign that the relationship is not meant to be. In reality, this fear is a reflection of how important your relationship is becoming. When we start to consider a future that includes our partner, we tend to look at them more critically. While this is natural, it's important not to forget the positives that brought you together in the first place. Celebrate this stage in your relationship: it's a sign of growth, a love relationship on the rise. Remember, the art of loving is a lifelong commitment. It is the further development of learning to love ourselves, our partner, and all those around us.

If you and your partner decide to commit to the further development of your relationship, you need to know that this is when the real work begins. Love cannot sustain itself. As Erich Fromm wrote in The Art of Loving, published in 1956, "The art of loving is like any craft. It requires patience, confidence, discipline, concentration, faith, and practice daily." These are words to remember. Relationships change continually. As relationships grow, the level of commitment increases and the love matures. Mature love does not occur overnight. It develops over time, and requires that you give of yourself. Examine your priorities: it all starts with loving yourself first, then loving your partner, and, finally, loving your family. Mature, committed love is the most powerful experience imaginable. It is the foundation of your relationship; without it, there really is no relationship.

Famous Bob Ong Quotes and Sayings

2011-10-02T07:00:00.001-07:00

Bob Ong Quotes /Quotations for your daily life. Roberto Ong or Bob Ong who created bob ong quotes are just screen names of a Filipino author who uses colloquial tagalog language to create humorous and reflective characterizations of the life of Filipino. There are speculations that the real person behind Bob Ong was Paolo Manalo a Filipino poet who wrote books of poems entitle “Jolography” and a professor at the University of the Philippines College of Arts and Letters but Mr. Manalo has denied it. Another person who was thought as the real Bob Ong was Professor Eros S. Atalia a teacher in the University of Santo Tomas, he also published two books entitled “Peksman, Mamatay ka Man Nagsisinungaling Ako” and “Lapit na me, Ligo na u” with Visual Print Enterprise where books of Bob Ong were produced. Up to now no one know who the real person behind the name Bob Ong.

I like to read his quotes because it deliver messages that are straight to the bones.

Below are the lists of suggested bob ong quotes:

1. “Pag hindi ka mahal ng mahal mo wag ka magreklamo. Kasi may mga tao rin na di mo mahal pero mahal ka.. Kaya quits lang.”

2. “Kung dalawa ang mahal mo, piliin mo yung pangalawa. Kasi hindi ka naman magmamahal ng iba kung mahal mo talaga yung una.”

3. “Huwag na huwag ka hahawak kapag alam mong may hawak ka na.”

4. “Huwag mong hawakan kung alam mong bibitawan mo lang.”

5. “Lahat naman ng tao sumeseryoso pag tinamaan ng pagmamahal. Yun nga lang, hindi lahat matibay para sa temptasyon.”

6. “Hindi porke’t madalas mong ka-chat, kausap sa telepono, kasama sa mga lakad o ka-text ng wantusawa eh may gusto sayo at magkakatuluyan kayo. Meron lang talagang mga taong sadyang friendly, sweet, flirt, malandi, pa-fall o paasa.”

7. Kung sa tingin mo naloko mo ako.. nag kakamali ka.. kc ikaw ang naloko ko..pinaniwala kita na naloko mo ako…

8. “Kung hindi mo mahal ang isang tao, wag ka nang magpakita ng motibo para mahalin ka nya..”

9. “Huwag magmadali sa babae o lalaki. Tatlo, lima, sampung taon, mag-iiba ang pamantayan mo at maiisip mong hindi pala tamang pumili ng kapareha dahil lang maganda o nakakalibog ito. Totong mas mahalaga ang kalooban ng tao higit sa anuman. Sa paglipas ng panahon, maging ang mga crush ng bayan nagmumukha ding pandesal, maniwala ka.”

10. “Minsan kahit ikaw ang nakaschedule, kailangan mo pa rin maghintay, kasi hindi ikaw ang priority.”

11. “Pag may mahal ka at ayaw sayo, hayaan mo. Malay mo sa mga susunod na araw ayaw mo na din sa kanya, naunahan ka lang.”

12. “Mahirap pumapel sa buhay ng tao. Lalo na kung hindi ikaw yung bida sa script na pinili nya.”

13. “Hindi lungkot o takot ang mahirap sa pag-iisa kundi ang pagtanggap na sa bilyon-bilyong tao sa mundo, wala man lang nakipaglaban upang makasama ka.”

14. “Alam mo ba kung gaano kalayo ang pagitan ng dalawang tao pag nagtalikuran na sila? Kailangan mong libutin ang buong mundo para lang makaharap ulit ang taong tinalikuran mo.”

15. “Huwag mong bitawan ang bagay na hindi mo kayang makitang hawak ng iba.”

16. “Parang elevator lang yan eh, bakit mo pagsisiksikan ung sarili mo kung walang pwesto para sayo. Eh meron naman hagdan, ayaw mo lang pansinin.”

17. “Pakawalan mo yung mga bagay na nakakasakit sa iyo kahit na pinasasaya ka nito. Wag mong hintayin ang araw na sakit na lang ang nararamdaman mo at iniwan ka na ng kasiyahan mo.”

18. “Hiwalayan na kung di ka na masaya. Walang gamot sa tanga kundi pagkukusa.”

19. “Ayokong nasasanay sa mga bagay na pwede namang wala sa buhay ko.”

20. “Para san ba ang cellphone na may camera? Kung kailangan sa buhay un, dapat matagal na kong patay.”

21. “Paano mo makikita yung para sayo kung ayaw mong tantanan yang pinipilit mong maging iyo.”

22. “Kung maghihintay ka nang lalandi sayo, walang mangyayari sa buhay mo.. Dapat lumandi ka din.”

23. “Mas mabuting mabigo sa paggawa ng isang bagay kesa magtagumpay sa paggawa ng wala”

24. “Hindi lahat ng kaya mong intindihin ay katotohan, at hindi lahat ng hindi mo kayang intindihin ay kasinungalingan.”

25. “Makakapili ka ng lugar na uupuan mo, pero hindi mo mapipili ang taong uupo satabi mo… ganyan ang senaryo sa bus.. Ganyan din ang pag-ibig .. Lalong di mo kontrolado kung kailan sya bababa.”

26. “Nalaman kong habang lumalaki ka, maraming beses kang madadapa. Bumangon ka man ulit o hindi, magpapatuloy ang buhay, iikot ang mundo, at mauubos ang oras.”

27. “Sabi nila, sa kahit ano raw problema, isang tao lang ang makakatulong sa’yo – ang sarili mo. Tama sila. Isinuplong ako ng sarili ko. Kaya siguro namigay ng konsyensya ang Diyos, alam niyang hindi sa lahat ng oras e gumagana ang utak ng tao.”

Hopefully you learned something from this list of Bob Ong Quotes.

Bob Ong Quotes about Love

2011-10-02T06:59:00.001-07:00

Here are other sets of Bob Ong Quotes but this time more focus on love quotes. Truly these bob ong quotes about love will help you realize something particularly on how to value friendship and your love ones. Some of bob ong love quotes tell something on how to keep oneself away from temptations. Some tackles about being grateful with what you have. Bob ong quotes also tell us not to flirt with others whom we don’t want to have a relationship or get serious with. Other Bob ong quotes will tell you that its time to move on leave the past behind and start a new life. I really like his quotes it may sound a bit awkward on my part but it really helps a lot Filipinos who have problem with love, marriage, friendship and oneself.

Enough of these telling what I have learned with bob ong quotes. It’s time to read it on your own and be the one to judge if my thoughts are true or not.

Here are some bob ong quotes about love:

“Kung nagmahal ka ng taong di dapat at nasaktan ka, wag mong sisihin ang puso mo. Tumitibok lang yan para mag-supply ng dugo sa katawan mo. Ngayon, kung magaling ka sa anatomy at ang sisisihin mo naman ay ang hypothalamus mo na kumokontrol ng emotions mo, mali ka pa rin! Bakit? Utang na loob! Wag mong isisi sa body organs mo ang mga sama ng loob mo sa buhay! Tandaan mo: magiging masaya ka lang kung matututo kang tanggapin na hindi ang puso, utak, atay o bituka mo ang may kasalanan sa lahat ng nangyari sayo, kundi IKAW mismo!”

“hinahanap mo nga ba ako o ang kawalan ko?”

“Kung maghihintay ka nang lalandi sayo, walang mangyayari sa buhay mo..Dapat lumandi ka din.”

“Pag may mahal ka at ayaw sayo, hayaan mo. Malay mo sa mga susunod na araw ayaw mo na din sa kanya, naunahan ka lang.”

“Kung hindi mo mahal and isang tao, wag ka nang magpakita ng motibo para mahalin ka nya..”

“Huwag mong bitawan ang bagay na hindi mo kayang makitang hawak ng iba.”

“Alam mo ba ang pinagkaiba ng mga bulag at ng mga nakakakita? Hindi alam ng mga nakakakita kung kelan sila bulag.”

“Huwag mong hawakan kung alam mong bibitawan mo lang.”

“Pag hindi ka mahal ng mahal mo wag ka magreklamo. Kasi may mga tao rin na di mo mahal pero mahal ka.. Kaya quits lang.”

“Huwag na huwag ka hahawak kapag alam mong may hawak ka na.”

“Lahat naman ng tao sumeseryoso pag tinamaan ng pagmamahal. Yun nga lang, hindi lahat matibay para sa temptasyon.”

“Gamitin ang puso para alagaan ang taong malapit sayo. Gamitin ang utak para alagaan ang sarili mo.”

“Nakakatakot nga na mapagkamalang hindi ka pwedeng mahalin, o mapagkamalian kang mahalin dahil sa itsura mo.”

“Natawa ka man o nandiri sa pagkaing may kakaibang pangalan, isang patunay lang yan na apektado ka ng salita.”

“Minsan, kailangang ituro ng mundo sa’yo ang tama sa paraang masasaktan ka para matandaan mo.”

“Ang tenga kapag pinagdikit korteng puso…

Extension ng puso ang tenga, kaya kapag marunog kang makinig, marunong kang magmahal..”

“Bakit ba ayaw matulog ng mga bata sa tanghali? alam ba nilang pag natuto silang umibig e hindi na sila makakatulog kahit gusto nila?”

“Hindi lungkot o takot ang mahirap sa pag-iisa kundi ang pagtanggap na sa bilyon-bilyong tao sa mundo, wala man lang nakipaglaban upang makasama ka.”

“Mahirap isipin ang mga bagay na kung ikaw mismo e hindi mo maipaliwanag sa sarili mo….”

“Parang elevator lang yan eh, bakit mo pagsisiksikan ung sarili mo kung walang pwesto para sayo. Eh meron naman hagdan, ayaw mo lang pansinin.”

“Hiwalayan na kung di ka na masaya. Walang gamot sa tanga kundi pagkukusa.”

*credits to bob ong for his quotes.

More Bob Ong Love Quotes

2011-10-02T06:58:00.001-07:00

Some collection of bob ong love quotes which you might be interested of. Keep this bob ong quotes who knows you might have use for it one day. Hope you like it.

“Bakit pag may gusto tayo kailangan iwan natin yung iba para lang makuha yun?

Pero pag andyan na, saka mo lang malalaman na yung taong iniwan mo

Minsan na ring iniwan ang lahat lahat sa buhay para lang sayo.”

“Minsan nililinlang ka na lang ng sarili mong damdamin na akala mo nasasaktan ka pa din.

Pero ang totoo, naalala mo lang talga yung pakiramdam nung nasaktan ka.

Pereho lang yun sa pag-aakalang mahal mo pa yung tao pero ang totoo, naiisip mo lang yung pakiramdam mo dati nung mahal mo pa sya.”

“Kung mahalaga ka talaga sa isang tao,

Hahanap sya ng paraan para magka-oras sayo.

Kung wala syang oras sayo, wag kang umasang mahalaga ka sa kanya.”

“ang tao aminado naman yan sa kasalanan nila.

Pero kung lalo mo pang ipapamukha sa kanila na mali sila,

Lalo mo lang silang binibigyan ng dahilan para iwan ka”

“Minsan kailangan mo din makalimot..

para ikaw naman ang maalala.”

“mahirap din pala yung parang kayo pero hindi kayo.

Kasi kahit level 3 na pwede pa ding mag-game over.

Ang MU kasi minsan hindi lang Mutual understanding.

Pwede ding malabong usapan o kaya malibog na ugnayan.”

“hindi porke pinili nyang magkaibigan lang kayo ay di ka na niya mahal.

Di mo lang alam mas higit ka niyang mahal dahil pinili niya kung san kayo mas magtatagal..”

“pakawalan mo yung mga bagay na nakakasakit sa iyo kahit na pinasasaya ka nito.

Wag mong hintayin ang araw na sakit na lang ang nararamdaman mo at iniwan ka na ng kasiyahan mo.”

“ang pag-ibig parang imburnal…nakakatakot mahulog..

At kapag nahulog ka, it’s either by accident or talagang ta-nga ka.”

Totoong mas importante and kalooban ng tao higit anuman.

Sa paglipas ng panahon, maging ang mga crush ng bayan sa eskwelahan e magmumukha ring pandesal. Maniwala ka.

Minsan may mga bagay na hindi nakikita.

Sabi nila, kailangan mo raw Makita ang mga bagay na iyon para patunayan na totoo nga sila.

Pero naniniwala ako na may mga bagay na kahit hindi nakikita eh totoo. At para sa akin, mas higit silang mahalaga kaysa sa mga bagay na nakikita…

*Bob Ong Love Quotes collection are property of their owners. Credits to bob ong.

Bob Ong Love Quotes

2011-10-02T06:57:00.000-07:00

Enough of these telling what I have learned with bob ong quotes. It’s time to read it on your own and be the one to judge if my thoughts are true or not.

Here are some bob ong quotes about love:

“hinahanap mo nga ba ako o ang kawalan ko?”

“Kung maghihintay ka nang lalandi sayo, walang mangyayari sa buhay mo..Dapat lumandi ka din.”

“Pag may mahal ka at ayaw sayo, hayaan mo. Malay mo sa mga susunod na araw ayaw mo na din sa kanya, naunahan ka lang.”

“Kung hindi mo mahal and isang tao, wag ka nang magpakita ng motibo para mahalin ka nya..”

“Huwag mong bitawan ang bagay na hindi mo kayang makitang hawak ng iba.”

“Alam mo ba ang pinagkaiba ng mga bulag at ng mga nakakakita? Hindi alam ng mga nakakakita kung kelan sila bulag.”

“Huwag mong hawakan kung alam mong bibitawan mo lang.”

“Pag hindi ka mahal ng mahal mo wag ka magreklamo. Kasi may mga tao rin na di mo mahal pero mahal ka.. Kaya quits lang.”

“Huwag na huwag ka hahawak kapag alam mong may hawak ka na.”

“Lahat naman ng tao sumeseryoso pag tinamaan ng pagmamahal. Yun nga lang, hindi lahat matibay para sa temptasyon.”

“Gamitin ang puso para alagaan ang taong malapit sayo. Gamitin ang utak para alagaan ang sarili mo.”

“Nakakatakot nga na mapagkamalang hindi ka pwedeng mahalin, o mapagkamalian kang mahalin dahil sa itsura mo.”

“Natawa ka man o nandiri sa pagkaing may kakaibang pangalan, isang patunay lang yan na apektado ka ng salita.”

“Minsan, kailangang ituro ng mundo sa’yo ang tama sa paraang masasaktan ka para matandaan mo.”

“Ang tenga kapag pinagdikit korteng puso…

Extension ng puso ang tenga, kaya kapag marunog kang makinig, marunong kang magmahal..”

“Bakit ba ayaw matulog ng mga bata sa tanghali? alam ba nilang pag natuto silang umibig e hindi na sila makakatulog kahit gusto nila?”

“Hindi lungkot o takot ang mahirap sa pag-iisa kundi ang pagtanggap na sa bilyon-bilyong tao sa mundo, wala man lang nakipaglaban upang makasama ka.”

“Mahirap isipin ang mga bagay na kung ikaw mismo e hindi mo maipaliwanag sa sarili mo….”

“Parang elevator lang yan eh, bakit mo pagsisiksikan ung sarili mo kung walang pwesto para sayo. Eh meron naman hagdan, ayaw mo lang pansinin.”

“Hiwalayan na kung di ka na masaya. Walang gamot sa tanga kundi pagkukusa.”

*credits to bob ong for his quotes.

Papa Jack Quotes

2011-10-02T06:54:00.000-07:00

Papa Jack Quotes authored by John S. Gemperle the name behind Papa Jack of 90.7 Love radio station in the Philippines. Papa jack current timeslot is 9pm to 2am (Monday to Friday) where he hosts the TLC or True Love Conversations and WC or Wild Confessions. He popularized the following expressions – MY GOD! MY GOD NA NAMAN, KULANTRO, TUTOT, ESCABECHE, SHARSHADO, TARUSH. Papa Jack graduated with the degree of Broadcast Communication in Polytechnic University of the Philippines (PUP) where he also works as a professor. You can reach him via his love radio email address papajack(at)loveradio(dot)com.ph.

Below are some of Papa Jack quotes that are circulating over the net for some time now. I was able to watch on youtube yesterday.

Hindi na bale wag syang bumitiw basta alam mong wala kang pag kukulang.

“Hindi mo siya pwedeng turuang mahalin ka, lalo na’t hindi na niya kaya.”

“Minsan, nakikipaghiwalay ka lang para magpalambing. Gusto mo lang makita kung ano ang gagawin ng partner mo para di ka mawala.”

Mahal mo naman pala siya eh, wag mong iwan. Instead, tulungan mo siya na baguhin ang mga bagay na ayaw mo.

“You’re just taken for granted. He doesn’t love you, he just thinks that he is kasi ikaw ang palaging nanjan sa panahong wala yung taong mahal niya.. At ngayon malungkot lang siya. Find somebody else who truly loves you, pero kung gusto mo magpakatanga, edi give him a chance..”

“Kapag may karelasyon, dapat ang taong mahal mo ay gusto mo din.”

Pwede kang magmahal kahit sampu ng sabay-sabay, yun nga lang, hindi pantay-pantay. Siguradong meron lamang. Kaya kung naguguluhan ka kung sino talagang mahal mo, tanungin mo ang sarili mo, sino nga ba talaga ang mas lamang sa puso mo.

Everytime we cry we grow up, everytime we grow up we become better person.

“Mahalin yung taong NAGHAHABOL sayo. Hindi yung taong HINAHABOL mo.”

Kung may mga taong sadyang hindi ka pinapahalagahan, mas mabuting ipamukha mo sa kanila na hindi sila kawalan.

“We define love sa paraan natin.”

Someone has brought you pain, but that will give you a lesson that you will carry for the rest of your life.

KUNG MAHAL KA NYA, DI KA NIYA PAGHIHINTAYIN. it’s not that the guy’s feeling is not LOVE, it’s only infatuation, kase daw, pag love, kahit complicated pa yan, di niya paghihitayin ang taong mahal nya. he just told the girl para may option pa siya in case di siya maka hanap ng iba. “IKAW BA, GUSTO MONG MAGING OPTION? TE, WAG KA MAGPAKA TANGA”. “DIBA MAS MAGANDA YUNG MAY NAGMAMAHAL SAYO AT IKAW YUNG CENTER NG LIFE NILA?”

“Whether we like it or not, ang mga ex may kurot talaga sa mga puso naten. Closure is very important.”

May timing ang lahat ng bagay, Minsan kahit gusto mo siya at gusto ka niya, Kung mali ang timing niyo, Di uubra yan.

“DISADVANTAGE ng MAGAGANDA: Nililigawan ka lang dahil sa Maganda ka.”

“Huwag mong babalak-balakin na balikan siya kung papasakitin mo lang naman ang ulo niya.”

Acceptance is one of the keys to move on. Kapag walang acceptance, walang moving on na magaganap.

Pag nagmahal ka para kang nakasakay sa sasakyan na walang preno. Kahit alam mong masasaktan ka, take the ride, at least sumubok ka.

SACRIFICE is the only language of LOVE. wag kang humingi ng paliwanag kung wala kang balak MANIWALA at lalong wag kang MAGMAHAL kung wala kang balak MAGTIWALA.

“Kayong mga girls, naka-design kayo to weaken us na mga boys.”

“Dahil sa malungkot ka, makikipagrelasyon ka na sa kanya? tapos pag ok na kayo ng dati mo babalik ka? di magandang ugali yan.”

“Ang sikreto parang mabigat na bagahe, Kapag na-i-share mo sa iba gumagaan sa pakiramdam.”

Kung kailan wala na siya. doon mo pa lang marerealize kung gaano kalaki ang kulang kapag wala na sya sa buhay mo.

“Bilang kapartner, dapat tinatandaan na hindi mo pag-aari ang kapartner mo.”

Kapag sinabi nya na hindi nya sinasadyang mahulog sa iba, huwag mong paniwalaan yun, isang malaking kalokohan yun.

“Life is a journey, it’s a constant quest for happiness.”

*Thank you papa Jack for the list papa jack quotes.

Sweetest Pick Up Lines

2011-10-02T06:50:00.001-07:00

Bob Ong Quotes

2011-10-02T06:44:00.001-07:00

Bob On Word Of Wisdom

2011-10-02T06:37:00.001-07:00

Pamatay Na Lines

2011-10-02T06:28:00.001-07:00

What is LOVE?

2011-10-02T06:17:00.000-07:00

Being possibly the most trivial question of all time, this is one hard question to ask.

Love is not a bond, or a relationship, but more of a heart to heart conversation. When the conversation grows, the bond and relationship forms. Therefore, love creates the bond and relationship.

Still, that leaves us with the main question, what is love?

Love is no ordinary thing. It is not voluntary, but when it begins, you will know.

There are three types of love. Infatuation, love of family, and love of your spouse.

Infatuation, most commonly known as "Puppy Love", is basically love at first sight.

Infatuation can be the beginning of a future spouse love. Though most often infatuation doesn't amount to much.

Love of family is loving your mother and father, and any siblings you may have. You want to protect them, watch over them, and fill their lives with an unbounding joy. The parents have an innermost feeling for their children, which in my case, they express everyday.

Love of your spouse means loving someone you are married to. Whether husband or wife, you support your spouse with a deep modesty, and you treat them with great respect.

Okay, so I told you the three types of love. But I still haven't told you what love is. I told you a definition, a heart to heart conversation, but does that tell you much? No. So, I will put it straight.

Love means to care, to protect, to watch over, to pray for, to make sure the loved person is happy. But to tell you the truth, those are all parts of love. Not love itself.

So, I will tell you what I think of love. Love has a meaning, but we will never know. Many philosophers have tried, but all their attempts have failed. Every single one of them!

Love is actually never the same thing.

Your destiny, your future path, what you choose to do, that all determines what love is. Love is never the same, you make up the meaning of love by how you choose to use it.

Purifying Love

2011-10-02T05:21:00.000-07:00

Love is a word used in many contexts. It can mean anything from lust, desire or attachment to romantic love or the highest Spiritual Love.

The purity of our love can be measured by the happiness it brings us. When we suffer because of our so called «Love» this means that it is not yet pure. It is mixed with ignorance, need, attachment, fear, lust, expectation, dependency or other mental states. These are always the real causes of our suffering when we «love».

Love then is like the gold ore, which is dug up from the earth. It is mixed with other minerals. We need to heat it up and melt it so that we can separate it from the other unwanted substances.Our relationships with people close to us are the fires, which help us to purify our love. Every time we feel hurt, anger, fear, resentment, bitterness, hate, jealousy, disillusionment or any other negative feeling, it is because our love is mixed with expectation, dependency, need, attachment or fear. The negative feelings, which are generated, are an excellent incentive for us to analyze ourselves and discover what our attachment is and get free from it.

Then we can love a little more purely. Our gold is now a little purer.

When our love is pure and there is spiritual awareness of our true selves, there can be no suffering.

This is the purpose of life; purifying and perfecting our love.

To Face That Fear

2011-09-11T05:38:00.000-07:00

It’s been a cycle since I was fourteen, maybe younger. I fall madly in love with a boy, almost instantly. It’s wonderful and perfect and everything I’ve ever wanted. After about a year or so, I get bored. As much as I hate to admit that I’m this kind of person, I have cheated on every serious boyfriend I have ever had. I’m only nineteen but that’s been five guys. I’m afraid to be alone, so when things start getting rocky with a guy I find a replacement before I even end things with them. I have not ever trusted a man in my life except for my father and I later learned that he betrayed my trust in a way that was completely unforgivable but I was too young to know. I loved him with all my heart all of his short life and we were so close. It wasn’t until after he died of an overdose that I realized the things that he had done to me as a child and I have never been able to trust a man, or really anyone, since. I have loved a lot of guys for my age. Who knows if it was ever real love, but now I doubt that it ever was because I’ve realized without trust you can never have true love. I don’t want to be the person that I have become. I lie to everyone around me, especially the people I’m closest with just because I assume that’s what everyone does. When I get suspicious that someone isn’t telling the truth I usually bring it up to them and they assure me that they are being honest but I can never believe anyone’s word. If I could trust my father for twelve years before I realized I never should have trusted him at all, how long does it take to find out the truth about everyone else? Is everyone just putting on a fake face and doing what they want while telling their friends, lovers, and family just what they want to hear? Maybe everyone is just as good as covering up their lies as my father was, as I have become. At some point, I’ve seen my father in every boy I’ve dated, even if for just a second. And that changes everything in the relationship for me. It’s taken me a while to realize that.

I don’t know how or where to start but I need to change. I need to get over the things that have happened to me in the past. I need to be alone, without a man in my life to depend on, for once and work on bettering myself. Being alone has been my biggest fear since I was a child, even if for a short time. I need to face that fear. I need to learn to trust myself before I can ever trust anyone else and have a happy relationship.To everyone I’ve ever hurt, I am so sorry. I hope you forgive me one day.This is the first I’ve ever admitted this to anyone, it’s a lot easier to admit things to total strangers than to people you know. Please don’t judge me, I’m not this horrible person that I’ve become.

"I am good, but not an angel. I do sin, but I am not the devil. I am just a small girl in a big world trying to find someone to love." – Marilyn Monroe.

Forbidden Love

2011-09-11T05:33:00.000-07:00

Paano ko ipaglalaban ang isang pag-ibig na sa simula pa lang ay nababatid ko na kung sino ang talo?

Paano ko nga ba maipagpapatuloy ang isang relasyon kung nababatid ko na may mga taong masasaktan, may mga taong masasagasaan?

In life, there is really no such a wrong love

Nagiging mali lang ito depende sa pagkakataon, sitwasyon at taong paguukulan nito

Minsan sadyang mapagbiro ang tadhana...

Di natin maaaring planuhin kung kailan tayo magmamahal, di natin maaaring piliin kung sino ang ating iibigin

Kung sino pa ang hindi dapat mahalin, siya pa ang pilit itinitibok ng puso...

Ano mang gawing pagiwas, lalo lang nag-uumapaw ang pagnanais ng damdamin

Tunay na mahirap ang umibig sa maling pagkakataon, magmahal sa taong pag-aari na ng iba...

It is really hard to take a chance on a relationship if we have nothing to hold on to

We may feel happiness but not for too long...

Bawat sandaling magkasama ay pawang hiram...

Palaging nadarama ang takot, ang pangamba at pag-aalinlangan

Minsan naitatanong sa sarili "Ano ang karapatan ko sa'yo?"

Saan nga ba ako nakalugar sa puso mo?

Hindi ko alam kung sapat ba ang pag-ibig natin sa isa't isa, kung hanggang kailan mo ako kayang mahalin...

Oo nga at masaya ako sa piling mo, pero minsan ang kaligayahan ay hindi usaping pangpuso lamang...

Ang pagkakaroon ng panatag na kalooban at isipan, kasama ang tunay na ngiti sa mga labi... Yan ang tunay na kaligayahan.

Paano nga ba maging masaya kung may mga tao akong nasasaktan?

Sometimes in a battle of love, one must surrender and give way...

No matter how you love each other

Sometimes, one must make a sacrifice and let go...

Even if it really hurts...

How can I hold on to you if I don't own you?

Minsan ang pag-ibig ay katumbas ng pagbibigay at pagpapalaya...

at pagbitaw sa hindi naman talaga natin pagmamay-ari...

But I'm grateful... fate brought you into my life...

Maybe to teach me lessons in life, or maybe to learn how to fight temptations...

At kung sa huli, sakali mang magbiro ulit sa atin ang tadhana, sana umayon na sa atin ang pagkakataon....

Sana... Baka Sakali...