Nicki Minaj as White House press secretary? It’s certainly not a pairing most people would expect. However, following the reported firing of Katie Zacharia on Friday, Oct. 16, 2026, after just five days in the role, some Republicans appear to be floating the rapper’s name as a potential replacement. Donald Trump has also shown support for the femcee.

Republicans floated the idea of Nicki Minaj becoming the White House press secretary on X.

According to TMZ, the speculation gained momentum after an X video surfaced of Minaj aboard Air Force One on Oct. 25, discussing President Donald Trump and his economic policies. White House Communications Director Steven Cheung shared the clip and suggested that the rapper could be the administration’s next spokesperson, writing, “Ladies and gentlemen, I think we may have found the new White House Press Secretary!”

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“WHAT’S THE PROCEDURE WHEN YOU HAVE A GUN TO YOUR HEAD?” This is a question most Black women can answer because most of us have lived under that sort of pressure our entire lives. It is always a moment of urgency or a state of emergency in our families and in our communities.  It is always the job of Black women to put out a fire.

WE ALL KNOW THE COUNTRY IS ON MOTHER-FING FIRE!

With such an important election, days away, the hotline is blinging. Black women are on speed dial. Our phones are normally desert dry, but now everybody and their racist, sexist uncle is calling. They need our votes, our voices, our strategy, our organizing, our church announcements, our sorority connections, and access to the group chat. They need us to explain the stakes, mobilize the neighborhood, and convince somebody’s cousin that sitting this one out and not voting is in fact voting.

As we prepare for this midterm election, I keep coming back to a question: What would it look and feel like if the democracy Black women have worked so hard to protect actually took care of us? This is a loaded question, and few of us can even begin to answer; however, Nsé Ufot is ready to answer.

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Every October, Domestic Violence Awareness Month shines a light on a crisis that affects millions of people across the United States. It is a time to honor survivors, remember those who lost their lives, educate communities about the warning signs of abuse, and stand together to help end domestic violence.

According to the Domestic Violence Awareness Project, Congress declared the month of October to be Domestic Violence Awareness Month in 1989, beginning a movement that would go on to empower millions of survivors to share their stories and create change. 

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Lately, the debate over whether Black women should get our hair done in a corporate chair at a retail giant like Ulta or retreat to the privacy of an independent solo suite is moving us further away from the community space of Black beauty salons that historically have welcomed, shielded, and anchored us in self-care and community. 

I was a teenage girl, untethered and newly navigating the rough edges of the foster care system, when I somehow found my way into the basement beauty salon across the street from my high school. I didn’t know it then, but descending those steps would introduce me to Toni, who would open a new world and a new lens through which I saw myself. 

Toni was a queer gay man whose vibrancy overflowed the modest salon.  He had survived the rough streets of Chicago and had been raised outside his biological family. Toni eventually found safety and community in San Diego, where he was able to blossom. He would regale me with stories of how free he felt living in his true self after a childhood spent feeling like living in his truth put him in grave danger. 

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It is imperative that we celebrate our queer queens, so here we are on yet another Wednesday, crushing on all this beauty that pops up on our timelines!

From celebrity beauties like Niecy Nash-Betts taking her flawlessness overseas, to the R&B staddies (stud daddies, that is) serenading us with hit after hit, to the trans cuties continuing to take up space across all industries, this is the year of the queers, sorry, we don’t make the rules.

Our WNBA baddies also continue to keep us fed, whether they’re sitting courtside or putting in the work to bring home the championship during this year’s WNBA Finals matchup between the Atlanta Dream (we see you, DeWanna) and the Golden State Valkyries (we see you Gabby).

Again, it is with pride that we curate this weekly list of Woman Crush Wednesday beauties.

Check out 50 of the hottest queer queens who are keeping us on cloud nine this week!

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1. Niecy Nash-Betts

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We heard DSU has the BEST Homecoming on Earth!

We had to pull up at Delaware State University known for its gorgeous campus, dynamically diverse student body, Desean Jackson-lead football program, and infectious school pride that elevates the vibes at the storied institution’s Homecoming in the heart of Dover, Delaware.

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Founded in 1891 as the State College for Colored Students, the 9th ranked HBCU in the nation (U.S. News & World Report) shines as one of the country’s first land-grant educational institutions.

In Fall 2025, the University’s student enrollment surged to a record 6,623 students–the largest number in the school’s 134-year history–who thrive on a beautiful 356-acre main campus with over 50 buildings and four outdoor athletic fields.

“This is the largest student body ever at Delaware State University and the largest class of incoming Delaware Inspire scholars since the creation of the program 15 years ago,” said Dr. Patrice Gilliam, Provost, Delaware State University.

“And most importantly, our students have come ready to do the demanding work needed to make a difference in their chosen field – from public health and commercial aviation to business and finance. Speaking for all the faculty and staff at Delaware State University, we stand ready to help all our students get across the finish line, get their education, and meet their fullest potential.”

According to the school’s official site, DSU’s record enrollment has been driven primarily by increased student demand in Delaware State University’s flagship programs on main campus and DSU Downtown, including health care, education, and business majors.  

Additionally, the state-sponsored Inspire program–a fully funded state scholarship for Delaware students with a 2.75 GPA and commitment to public service–has helped make Delaware State University a top choice for in-state students.

Notable alumni include NFL All-Pro cornerback (and Kerry Washington’s husband) Nnamdi Asomugha, MLB Hall of Famer Willie Stargell, 3x Super Bowl champion John Taylor, The Breakfast Club co-host Loren Lorosa, and more.

Have you experienced Del State’s Homecoming? If so, how was your experience? If not, will you be there next year?? Tell us down below and enjoy our gallery of Del State stunners on the flip.

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Ever had a great time with friends, laughed until your stomach hurt, and still gone home feeling a little empty? You were surrounded by people, having fun, and technically doing everything you’re supposed to do to feel connected. So, why does loneliness still creep in? If you’ve ever wondered, Why do I feel lonely even when surrounded by people?, you’re not alone. And no, it doesn’t mean there’s something wrong with you.

Between the chaos of social media, everyday pressures, and everything happening in the world socially and politically, it’s easy to feel disconnected, even when your calendar is packed with plans.

In fact, loneliness is more common than you might think. According to the World Health Organization, around 1 in 6 people worldwide experience loneliness. Research cited by the American Psychological Association (APA) also found that 54% of U.S. adults felt isolated, 50% felt left out, and 50% lacked companionship some or all of the time. 

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So, if you’ve been asking yourself, why do I feel lonely even when surrounded by people?, let’s get into what’s really going on and how you can fight the funk.

It’s Not About How Many People Are Around You

Here’s the plot twist: being around people doesn’t automatically mean you feel connected to them.

According to experts at MindFrame, our brains don’t just crave interaction. They crave recognition. We want to feel like someone understands the parts of us that we don’t always show the world.

Without that emotional connection, even a room full of friends can feel strangely empty.

Psychologists often refer to this as perceived responsiveness. In simple terms, it’s the feeling that someone genuinely understands you, values your emotions, and responds to the real you, rather than the version you put on for everyone else.

And here’s where things get interesting: it’s not just about whether someone understands you. It’s also about whether you feel understood.

Think about it. Two people can have the exact same friend group, attend the same parties, and participate in the same group chats. One might feel completely loved and supported, while the other feels invisible.

Their friendships might look identical from the outside, but their emotional experiences are completely different.

During conversations, your brain is quietly asking one important question: Can I safely be myself here?

You might be laughing, telling stories, and having a good time, but if you’re constantly editing your personality, hiding your feelings, or worrying about how others perceive you, it’s difficult to feel truly connected.

Sometimes, the issue isn’t a lack of company. It’s a lack of emotional connection.

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Keyshia Cole has fans expressing concern after viral videos showed the R&B songstress seemingly struggling through performances and turning one of her signature hits into an impromptu karaoke session, all while her romance with rapper Skrilla continues to attract attention.

On Monday, The Shade Room reported that the Grammy-nominated singer performed at Majic Under the Stars on Saturday, Oct. 24, at the Cynthia Woods Mitchell Pavilion, where she joined a lineup headlined by Babyface. However, it was her rendition of her 2007 hit “Heaven Sent” that sparked conversation online.

In a clip, Cole can be seen encouraging concertgoers to sing along as her track plays, rather than delivering the vocals herself.

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Kenasia Guilford, 33, a firefighter and EMT with the Toledo Fire and Rescue Department in Ohio, has pleaded no contest to a misdemeanor charge after prosecutors dropped several more serious charges stemming from allegations that she handcuffed her boyfriend to a railing and later refused to release him from her home, according to a report from WTVG 13 Action News.

Kenasia Guilford no-contest plea: What happened?

Guilford entered a no-contest plea Tuesday to aggravated trespassing, according to local news reports. The case stems from a Sept. 22 incident involving a fellow firefighter who serves as a captain in the same department and was reportedly in a relationship with Guilford.

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Let’s be honest: between raising kids, managing a household, keeping up with work, supporting our partners, and trying to maintain some semblance of a social life, there are days when simply getting through the to-do list feels like a full-time job. Somewhere between preparing dinner, cleaning up the latest mess, and figuring out what everyone needs next, self care can easily fall to the bottom of the list. By the time we finally get home and settle in, all we want is a little peace, quiet, and time to breathe, the good old soft life.

That’s why anything that makes everyday life easier deserves our attention. Self-care isn’t always about booking a spa day or escaping on a weekend getaway. Sometimes, it means spending less time cleaning, making meal prep less stressful, or having fresh drinking water ready at the touch of a button. After all, the less time we spend wrestling with household chores, the more time we have for the things that truly matter. Enter SharkNinja, the global product design and technology company known for creating innovative household appliances and lifestyle solutions.

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With four clever innovations designed to simplify everyday routines, the brand is making a strong case for letting technology take a few things off our plates. From smarter water filtration to multitasking kitchen appliances and easier floor cleaning, these products are all about bringing a little more convenience into our busy lives.

1. Ninja HydraSense: Better Water, One Touch Away

Staying hydrated sounds simple enough until you realize how much we think about the water we drink, especially when it comes to taste and quality. The Ninja HydraSense aims to make that daily essential easier with an advanced filtration system designed to reduce more than 80 contaminants, including microplastics, PFAS, certain carcinogens, and pharmaceuticals, while preserving natural minerals for a balanced taste.

No complicated installation or plumbing is required. Simply plug it in, fill the reservoir, and enjoy one-touch dispensing. Its intelligent touchscreen tracks water usage and filter life, helping you know when it’s time for a replacement instead of leaving you guessing. The generous 96-ounce reservoir means fewer trips to the sink, while the long-lasting filter is designed to handle up to 120 gallons before replacement.

But convenience is only part of the appeal. The system is designed to remove taste-impairing contaminants while delivering fresh-tasting water, whether you’re filling a glass, preparing coffee, cooking dinner, or topping off your water bottle before heading out the door. You can even add ice and use the recirculation cycle for chilled, filtered water.

With independent certification to NSF/ANSI standards 42, 53, and 401, the HydraSense brings an extra layer of reassurance to your daily hydration routine. It also comes with a 120-gallon filter and a Ninja travel bottle, making it easier to take your hydration habits beyond the kitchen, because when life is already busy, even the little things should feel effortless.

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Two Cleveland-based faith leaders have the internet buzzing over a relationship arrangement that has some people shouting “Amen!” and others flipping through their Bibles at record speed. On Oct. 25, a video featuring Pastor Israel Ford of LifeWorks Church and his wife, Pastor Lydia Ford, went viral after Lydia announced to their congregation that they are now in a polygynous marriage.

In the viral clip, Lydia introduced the couple’s second wife, Minister Shakayla Ford, who was already a member of the church. Talk about a plot twist nobody saw coming during Sunday service.

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“Y’all know her, y’all love her, y’all benefit from her ministry every week… [It’s] a pleasure of mine to introduce to y’all, prophet’s wife, and my sister in marriage, Minister Shakayla,” Lydia said proudly as the congregation erupted in applause, while some attendees appeared to gasp in shock.

Pastor Israel Ford of LifeWorks Church and his wife Pastor Lydia Ford introduced their second wife. Here’s what happened when she came to the stage.

Minister Shakayla then joined the married couple onstage and addressed the congregation with a lighthearted, “Cat’s out the bag,” before thanking everyone for their support and understanding. 

“I want to speak to the fact that I know people have questions, people have comments and concerns. And one thing that you know I want to address is that it is amazing to know that this is the will of God and to live it,” she continued.

Shakayla went on to explain that although she and the Fords are in a polygynous marriage, respect and faith remain at the center of their union.

“I have not been slighted not one bit and I have gained so much. I mean, I have gained so much and I’ve learned so much from pastor. I mean, he’s poured so much into into me, into our family. And we are a family. We don’t walk around like individuals fighting and beefing, but it is a family dynamic in the image of what God wants to put in the earth.”

After thanking the audience for their support, Minister Shakayla added, “And there are people who have known for some time. And I just want to say thank y’all for supporting us, for loving us, for praying for us, for fighting for us, for warring with us. I mean, it has been a journey. And though it has been a learning experience.”

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Donald Trump continues to talk about admiring butts during his campaign rallies; this time, Nicki Minaj got some love from Orange Mussolini.

At a recent rally on Sunday in Michigan for Republican Senate candidate Mike Rodgers, Trump made cheeky comments about Minaj’s surgically enhanced cheeks while praising Republican Ohio senator Jon Husted’s rear end.

For those who have been under a rock, Trump has repeatedly expressed admiration for Husted’s behind. Early in October, he said of the former football player: “I don’t do this with men very often. I started examining his body, because I didn’t know he was a great athlete. And I looked, and I watched up and down. I looked at his ass, and I looked at the whole – and then I looked at his hands. Look at his hands. He’s got these, like, claws.

“You are a great athlete,” Trump also said to Husted. “Congratulations.”

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Keep in mind he was supposed to be rallying for Rogers, who is currently in a tight race with Democrat Abdul-Sayed, so this whole situation is already baffling, and we have no idea how Trump’s constant admiration for the male physique will help Rogers.

Anyway, Trump then claimed that the media, understandably perplexed by his comments, was nothing but “fake news” and that they were disregarding the athletic context of his weird comments. According to Orange Mussolini, he only learned Husted was a college athlete when he was “looking at him up and down, and I’m studying him.”

According to Trump, his comments are “in fun.” “I said: I looked at his ass, and I’ve never done that with a man before. It’s true. Off the record, women yes, men no, OK.”

Bruh.

Trump then turned his attention to Nicki Minaj, who was at the rally and flew with him on Qatar Force One.

“By the way, I looked at one hell of a beautiful ass before – Nicki Minaj,” Trump said, which got a huge pop from the crowd. “That’s hard to miss. That – stand up! That’s hard to miss.”

Minaj’s ass is indeed hard to miss because she has admittedly had it plumped up thanks to butt injections from who she claimed was a “random person.”

“OK, I’m going to get back to my story, Nicki,” Trump continued. “I hope Nicki wasn’t insulted, but we love Nicki. She’s been with us for a long time.”

After standing up and acknowledging Trump, Minaj took the stage and joined Trump, where she expressed her love for the racist-in-chief, claiming that if he ran for an unconstitutional third term, she would support him again, even though, due to her not being a citizen, she can’t vote.

This bizarre turn of events followed Barack Obama hilariously clowning Trump at his rally for Abdul-Sayed, making light of his tacky White House renovations.

As expected, social media has been clowning Nicki Minaj, reminding her she’s married to a registered sex offender, and her brother is a pedophile after she said she wanted people to leave children alone, ridiculously claiming they are being “bombarded with sex changes.”

You can see more reactions below.

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Bear witness to the baddest!

We had to make our way to Morgan State University–Maryland’s Preeminent Public Urban Research University–which brought out seas of beautiful people to their bustling Homecoming in the heart of Baltimore.

Founded in 1867 as one of the nation’s earliest institutions to offer post-secondary education to Black students, the 8th ranked HBCU in the nation earned the prestigious distinction of ‘National Treasure’ from The National Trust For Historic Preservation.

Together, they developed a preservation plan for the many historic buildings on campus designed by celebrated Black architects Leon Bridges, Albert Cassell, Louis Fry, and Hilyard Robinson.

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“The National Trust believes Historically Black Colleges and Universities tell an important and often overlooked American story,” said Stephanie Meeks, President/CEO of the National Trust for Historic Preservation, during a press conference.

“We are proud to partner with Morgan State University–-a nationally-recognized innovator and education leader–-to demonstrate how the preservation of their remarkable older buildings can be a springboard for growth, rejuvenation, and revitalization.”

As Maryland’s largest HBCU, Morgan State “fulfills its mission to address the needs and challenges of the modern urban environment through intense community-level study and pioneering solutions,” per its official site.

Ranked as the 3rd best public HBCU in the nation (U.S. News & World Report), the Carnegie-classified Doctoral Research Institution continues to attract brilliant minds while generating $1.1 billion in annual economic impact statewide.

Naturally, a university of this stature has an impressive collection of alumni including Mo’Nique, April Ryan, Kevin Liles, Deniece Williams, Robert F. Chew (known for his unforgettable role as Prop Joe on The Wire), and more.

Have you experienced Morgan State’s Homecoming? If so, how was your experience? If not, will you be there next year?? Tell us down below and enjoy our gallery of Morgan State Mesmerizers on the flip.

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Choosing a candidate who truly represents you is an ideal often reserved for white men in American politics. And since politics are often an exercise in practicality over preference, Georgia voters need to be pragmatic on Election Day.

Keisha Lance Bottoms is the best choice for governor.

Liking her isn’t a requirement; preventing her opponent from being elected is.

Former President Barack Obama is set to join Bottoms and U.S. Sen. Jon Ossoff for a rally in Atlanta during the final week of October, as the campaign has called in the big dogs to give her one final boost before the election. Like so many Black women before her who have tried to reach the highest seats in American politics, the conversation is less about Bottoms’ accomplishments and more about picking apart who she is, or isn’t.

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TikTok star, 26-year-old Chanell T. Zand, had the experience of a lifetime after being invited to participate in a special skydive celebrating the 50th anniversary of Suriname’s Independence Day in November 2025, according to Newsweek. What began as a thrilling opportunity, however, quickly turned into a viral moment when Zand experienced a hilarious wardrobe malfunction mid-jump.

A video shared to Zand’s TikTok on April 6, 2026, captured the skydive experience provided by Free 2 Fly. It shows Zand leaping from the plane and enjoying the adrenaline rush of free fall. But as the parachute deployed for landing, her breasts noticeably puffed outward, pressing up through her protective gear in an unexpected and comical moment.

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A Black couple searching for an apartment in Queens has filed a housing discrimination lawsuit against Douglas Elliman Realty, one of its real estate agents, and the property’s owners after allegedly receiving a racist text message from the agent shortly before a scheduled viewing. The message reportedly read, “Ugh. They are black,” according to NBC New York and Eyewitness News ABC7NY.

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Lisa Renee Olaso and her fiancé, Julien Christopher, were preparing to relocate from Delaware to New York after Olaso accepted a new job. The couple arranged to view a rental property in Flushing, Queens, expecting to meet a broker from Douglas Elliman who would show them the apartment.

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MadameNoire was on the scene as Courvoisier brought the house-party vibes to Lower Manhattan for “Pass The Courvoisier,” its first global campaign in nearly 20 years. Held Oct. 21, the intimate gathering transformed Fosun Plaza into an open-air living room, complete with good music, cocktails, candid conversations and a reunion we didn’t know we needed: former 106 & Park hosts Terrence J and Rocsi Diaz back on the couch together.

Grammy-nominated rapper and singer Coi Leray also popped out as a surprise guest, joining Hot 97’s Kazeem “Kaz” Famuyide and local creators Lellies Santiago and Oliver Luke for an unforgettable evening.

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Coi LeRay talks balancing motherhood and how she keeps connected to friends, fans and family.

Amid the festivities, Leray pulled up a seat with MadameNoire Managing Editor Danica Daniel for a candid conversation about connection, motherhood and finding her footing as a first-time mom while balancing the demands of a thriving music career. In 2025, the 29-year-old star welcomed her first child, a beautiful baby girl named Miyoco, marking a new chapter in her life that has shifted her perspective in more ways than one.

For Leray, building genuine connections is more important than ever, and she’s all about taking things offline and getting face-to-face with people.

“I love connecting with other people. I love kind people. I love people that are just so welcoming. It helps me,” the “Players” hitmaker told Daniel. “I don’t know, I feel comfortable in every way. And I just think that I like connecting in person more than social media as well. So I think going out more and connecting with people on a one-on-one level versus like a DM or something, I’m into that.”

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The holidays are supposed to be about love, laughter, good food and making memories. But let’s be honest: sometimes, the most stressful part of Thanksgiving and Christmas isn’t figuring out who’s bringing the mac and cheese, it’s the dread of figuring out how to survive being around everybody.

Between family drama, unsolicited opinions about your love life, pressure to host a picture-perfect dinner and the expectation to show up everywhere, the holiday season can quickly turn from festive to exhausting. Add in the pressure to spend money, cook for a crowd and keep everybody happy, and suddenly, your holiday cheer is hanging by a thread.

That’s why learning how to set boundaries during the holidays is so important. Protecting your peace doesn’t mean you don’t love your family. It means understanding that your time, energy and emotional well-being matter, too. And no, you don’t have to sacrifice your sanity just to keep everybody else comfortable.

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What Are Boundaries, Anyway?

Boundaries are limits we establish with ourselves and others to protect our needs, values and well-being. They help us recognize what we’re comfortable with, what we’re willing to do and when it’s time to say, “That’s enough for me!”

According to psychologist Sharon Martin, writing for Psychology Today in 2021, failing to establish boundaries can leave us pouring into everyone else while neglecting ourselves.

“Without boundaries, we run the risk of spending all our time, energy, and money making other people happy without considering our own needs (for things like rest, fun, connection, and quiet); we end up resentful, exhausted, unfulfilled, and overwhelmed,” explained Martin.

And honestly, who wants to spend the holidays feeling like an unpaid event planner, personal therapist and short-order cook all rolled into one?

Learning how to set boundaries during the holidays allows you to enjoy the season without taking on every responsibility, attending every gathering or answering every question your relatives throw your way. You can love your family and still need a break. Both things can be true.

1. Figure Out What Actually Stresses You Out

Before you start setting limits, take a moment to identify what makes the holidays difficult for you. Is it the auntie who always asks when you’re getting married? The cousin who comments on your weight? The pressure to drink alcohol when you’d rather not? Or perhaps it’s the expectation that you’ll host dinner, cook six dishes and clean up while everyone else relaxes on the couch.

Whatever the issue may be, recognizing your triggers can help you decide which boundaries you need, notes Recovery Centers of America.

For example, if conversations about your finances, relationships or plans for children make you uncomfortable, you can decide ahead of time that those topics are off-limits. If hosting leaves you overwhelmed, you can establish a more manageable plan before the invitations go out.

The key to understanding how to set boundaries during the holidays is knowing that your limits don’t have to look like anyone else’s. Your sibling might enjoy spending the entire holiday weekend with relatives, while you might prefer a few hours and a peaceful evening at home. Neither choice is wrong.

Your holiday experience doesn’t have to be a performance for other people. It should leave room for you to feel comfortable, too.

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Can changing your race on dating apps like Hinge help you to find better matches? A TikTok user named @wrekki recently claimed the tactic helped her to upgrade her candidates of eligible suitors after she changed her race from Black to white on the dating app. But she isn’t the only one to try out the glaring method. The hack has since sparked mixed reactions online.

Changing your race to white on Hinge: Here’s what happened when @Wrekki tested out the dating app hack.

@Wrekki said the “sudden” change in dating options after switching her race on Hinge made her angry.

In a video posted to TikTok on Aug. 22, @Wrekki said she decided to test the theory out after hearing another Black woman’s success story with the loophole. She said she initially had her race hidden on Hinge, and was only attracting “scammers” and men that simply weren’t her type. But after changing her race to white, “suddenly” her dating options improved. 

“Suddenly I’m getting Harvard graduates, real estate investors, financial advisors, football players, Black men,” she told fans on TikTok.

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She was particularly struck by the number of attractive Black men suddenly appearing in her feed. “Where were y’all?” she asked, questioning why she had not come across these profiles before. The unexpected change in her dating pool left @wrekki frustrated and angry.

“Shit is that deep and that racist,” she wrote in the video’s caption, calling attention to the stark difference in the profiles she was shown.

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Nadia Baxter, a Black mother from New Jersey, has filed a federal civil-rights lawsuit against Monroe Township police officer Michael J. Marsh Jr., alleging that he placed her in a chokehold and forcefully grabbed her arm and neck after Williamstown school personnel prevented her from delivering “urgently needed menstrual-hygiene” products to her daughter.

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Nadia Baxter vs. Michael J. Marsh Jr. : What happened?

According to the lawsuit — filed Oct. 8, 2026 — the incident occurred on Oct. 11, 2024, in the front lobby of Williamstown High School. What began as a verbal disagreement allegedly escalated into a physical confrontation, resulting in the arrests of both Baxter and her daughter. Her daughter was also suspended from school for approximately seven weeks.

According to NJ.com, the incident began when the principal told Baxter she could not leave the menstrual-hygiene products with her daughter. Baxter then asked to sign her daughter out of school. Shortly afterward, Baxter alleges, Officer Marsh tried to stop her daughter from leaving through the lobby door and nearly slammed it on her hand.

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We’ve finally reached week 49; let’s see who all was looking fine.

Following her performance at the Victoria’s Secret Fashion Show, Megan Thee Stallion has returned after dropping a new freestyle where the lyrics weren’t the only thing that was hot. Lance Gross is also back and let’s just say….there is nothing gross looking about that man. He is forever fine. Lakeyah’s outfit is white as sugar, while she’s bringing all the spice and everything nice.

Aaron Pierre is looking like a perfectly sexy gentleman in his Mercedes-Benz ad. In fact, many people are calling him the next James Bond from the ad alone.

Here is Vol. 49

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1. Rome Flynn, 34

Mhmmm Rome Flynn looks like the perfect thing to wake up next to in the morning!

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Halloween isn’t just about costumes, candy, and creepy decor; it’s also the perfect time to indulge your dark desires. While studies say the spooky season can make some of us feel a little lonely, there’s no reason you can’t turn that eerie energy into something sinfully satisfying. Whether you’ve got a freaky friend coming over or you’re flying solo this Halloween, these toys promise more thrills than any haunted house.

Here are five sex toys to try out this spooky season.

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If you’re a spooky season junkie like me, choosing a Halloween costume is about more than trick-or-treating; it’s a form of expression. A creative outlet as an adult that reminds you to have some childlike fun.

Whether you’re dressing up like your favorite Disney villain, or a sexy vampire centuries old, you look to look good in your costume. You’re looking for a costume that is budget-friendly, elevated and fashionable of course.

Get into 2026’s trendiest and most fashionable Halloween costumes.

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Not your typical Homecoming hotties!

You know we had to salute the mighty Spartans of Norfolk State University, known for its vibrant campus culture, authentic tidewater vibes, and spectacular Spartan Legion band in the heart of Norfolk, Virginia, (across the bridge from rival Hampton University).

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Don’t let the shiny piercings fool you! North West is shutting down claims that she’s “demonic.” During a TiKTok live Q&A this week, the 13-year-old artist and daughter of reality TV mogul Kim Kardashian, told fans flat out to “stop” calling her the word.

“Stop saying I’m demonic. No, I’m not. Just because I like to dress this way, don’t judge a book by its cover,” the teen griped during the livestream, according to a video posted by Nigerian Billboard on Oct. 17.

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Black conservative TikTok influencer Thelma Louise says she was asked to leave a campaign rally for Republican U.S. Senate candidate and Texas Attorney General Ken Paxton on Oct. 18 in San Antonio, Texas, an experience that moved her to tears. Naturally, social media had plenty to say, with critics questioning why the influencer continues to throw her support behind a political movement that, in their view, doesn’t seem too eager to return the favor.

In a video shared on Oct. 18, Louise recounted her experience at Sunday’s rally, where Paxton appeared alongside U.S. House candidate Brandon Herrera as part of his statewide tour. The conservative influencer proudly showed up to support the Republican candidate, even making a “two hour” drive to attend the event. But what began as a show of political loyalty quickly turned into an unexpected exit.

While filming the rally on her phone, Louise said she was approached and told that she needed to leave. Her video captured her apparent disbelief as she was escorted out of the event, allegedly at the request of Paxton’s campaign manager. So much for a friendly political meet-and-greet.

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The experience left Louise questioning why her support for the Republican Party seemingly counted for so little when it mattered. She captioned her video, “I’m a REPUBLICAN that has done nothing but support my party,” making it clear she was not pleased with how the situation unfolded.

The footage does not show Louise causing a disturbance before her removal, and she said she was also told not to return inside. The TikTok influencer was left stunned by the unexpected turn of events.

“I can not believe this. Someone just came up to me and said that Ken Paxton’s campaign manager wanted me to leave. I am just, my mouth is wide open right now…I did nothing wrong,” she said in disbelief in her video shared Sunday.

“I drove two hours to get here and I have done nothing but support everyone on the Republican side and this is how I get treated?”

Social media users reacted to Thelma Louise’s video.

Unfortunately for Louise, her video quickly made the rounds online, where critics wasted little time weighing in. Some argued that her unwavering support for President Donald Trump and the Republican Party does not necessarily guarantee she will be welcomed by the very political movement she champions. In other words, showing up for the team doesn’t always mean the team will save you a seat.

After The Grio reposted Louise’s story, one Instagram user wrote, “Stop begging for your seat at a table when they never had one for you.”

Another commenter was even more blunt, adding, “They just wanted your vote not you.”

A third user chimed in, “This is a clear sign that…….when people show you who they are……..believe them!”

The criticism continued as viewers debated Louise’s experience and what it might say about her place within the political movement she supports.

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Coco Jones wasn’t going to let a racist heckler ruin her New York Fashion Week experience. In a vlog posted to her YouTube channel on Oct. 20, the 28-year-old singer was captured arriving at the Tommy Hilfiger fashion show, where she briefly stopped for photographers to show off her fabulous outfit. However, the fashionable moment took an ugly turn when a heckler shouted that Jones was “so freaking Black.” You can watch the interaction start at the 6:13 minute mark in the video below.

Rather than let the racist remark get to her, Jones maintained her composure and continued posing for photographers, refusing to give the heckler the reaction they appeared to want.

“I’m Black and I’m proud,” the “ICU” singer declared, embracing her identity in the face of the offensive comment while eating up her photography moment with a few poses.

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The racist heckler continued to escalate the situation, taunting Coco Jones by shouting “Ew” and calling her “Blackie.” Despite the woman’s repeated attempts to provoke her, Jones remained poised and continued showing off her fabulous outfit.

After posing for two more pictures, Jones began walking away. The woman shouted something else at the singer, although her words were inaudible in the video. Instead of responding with an insult or allowing the encounter to disrupt her day, Jones blew the stranger a kiss before moving on.

The singer handled the situation with grace, confidence and an unmistakable sense of self-assurance. If anything, Jones appeared unbothered by the exchange, refusing to let someone else’s prejudice dictate her experience. Jones told fans that she totally “ate” her Tommy Hilfiger appearance. She went on to attend a Chanel fashion show, changing into a stylish silver gown for the occasion. 

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Feeling sad, sluggish, or just not like yourself as the days get shorter, temperatures drop, and sunshine becomes harder to come by? Don’t worry, sis — you’re not alone. While the changing seasons can affect your mood and energy levels, those feelings may be more than just the winter blues.

Seasonal affective disorder (SAD) is a type of depression associated with seasonal changes. It most commonly begins in the fall or winter and improves during the spring and summer. According to the Mayo Clinic, reduced sunlight can disrupt the body’s internal clock and affect brain chemicals, including serotonin and melatonin, which help regulate mood and sleep.

It’s estimated to affect 10 million Americans, or about 3% of the population, while another 10% may experience milder symptoms. Here’s the tough part: the condition is four times more common in women than men and typically begins between ages 18 and 30, although children can experience it as well, according to the Columbia University Irving Medical Center website.

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These changes can leave you feeling emotionally drained, unmotivated, and stuck in a funk that seems difficult to shake. Although seasonal mood changes can be challenging, symptoms of SAD often improve as the seasons change. Less commonly, some people experience symptoms that begin in the spring or early summer and subside during the fall or winter.

In most cases, SAD symptoms develop in late fall or early winter, often starting mildly before becoming more severe as the season progresses. Recognizing the signs early can help you take steps to manage your symptoms and get the support you need. 

What are the symptoms of SAD?

Here are some key signs and symptoms of seasonal affective disorder to take note of. It may leave you:

• Feeling sad, down, or emotionally drained for most of the day, nearly every day.
• Losing interest in activities you once enjoyed.
• Experiencing low energy, fatigue, or sluggishness.
• Sleeping more than usual.
• Craving carbohydrates, overeating, or experiencing weight gain.
• Having difficulty concentrating or making decisions.
• Feeling hopeless, worthless, or guilty.
• Experiencing thoughts of death or not wanting to live.

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Temperatures may be dropping, but there is no shortage of beauty to swoon over on this Women Crush Wednesday.

With the fall weather officially arriving, it is important to get into the queer queens whether they slayed their looks on the red carpet at the 6th annual Academy Museum Gala, where they were indeed the fine art, or simply took our breath away by posting on the gram!

Additionally, bisexual baddie Megan Thee Stallion gave us quite the performance at the beloved Victoria’s Secret Fashion Show, and it was heartwarming to see that moment she manifested a few years ago. We can’t get over how stunning she looked on both the carpet for the event and when she served up body galore in the sexy lingerie adorning her curves while spitting the lyrics to songs that can certainly serve as morning mantras for hot girls worldwide.

Let’s get into the 50 beautiful queer queens topping our WCW list this week!

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1. Amandla Stenberg

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Eli Lilly (also known as Lilly) is testing a new approach to weight loss that could take its popular medications one step further. The company is studying an experimental drug called eloralintide in combination with tirzepatide, the active ingredient in Zepbound and Mounjaro. Early results from a 48-week Phase 2 trial are promising, with the combination producing greater average weight loss than tirzepatide alone in people with obesity and Type 2 diabetes, according to CNBC.

So, what makes the combination different?

Tirzepatide already works by targeting two hormones, GLP-1 and GIP, which help regulate appetite, blood sugar and how much food the body takes in. Eloralintide works on a third pathway by mimicking amylin, a hormone produced by the pancreas that helps control appetite and feelings of fullness. Lilly’s idea is that targeting all three pathways at once could potentially lead to greater weight loss. So, they put their theory to the test in a recent clinical trial.

Read more about the results from the study after the flip!

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