There are moments in life that divide everything into a before and an after. You can remember exactly who you were before it happened, and you can remember the moment you realized that woman was never coming back.  For me, that moment was November 23, 2022. My father died unexpectedly the day before Thanksgiving. The world I had so carefully built came crashing down. In one devastating moment, I lost my father. My hero, my best friend, the man who believed in me before I even believed in myself. The sparkle that had carried me through every challenge, every triumph, every new beginning, dimmed. 

Before my father died, I understood grief in the way most of us do. I knew it meant missing someone. I knew there would be sadness, tears and difficult days. I knew holidays and birthdays might feel different. What I didn’t understand was that grief could change the way you see yourself, the way you move through the world and even the way you imagine your future. I didn’t understand that you could be surrounded by people who love you and still feel an emptiness that no one else could quite fill. I didn’t understand that you could be functioning, working, traveling, laughing and living your life while simultaneously carrying a loss that had permanently altered something inside of you. Losing my dad completely changed me.

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For a long time, I wasn’t sure what to do with the woman I became afterward. My dad was one of my biggest cheerleaders. He believed in my writing, my ideas and the things I was building long before some of those things made sense to anyone else. His belief in me was one of those things I could count on without thinking about it. When he was here, there was a part of me that always knew there was someone in my corner who would celebrate the big things, encourage me through the hard things and remind me of who I was when I temporarily forgot. Then he was gone, without any notice – it all felt like a nightmare. 

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Nailed it!

Halloween 2026 is already off to a scary good start with super creative, wildly nostalgic, and head-spinningly hilarious costumes from our famous faves and many more who understood this year’s Spooky SZN assignment.

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So far, we’ve seen some eye-catching costumes from celebs and regular-shmegulars across social media currently going viral with their viral looks.

At the very moment, Gabourey Sidibe dressing up as pumpkin spice papi Drake is winning Halloween followed closely by KeKe Palmer and son Leodis as Michael and Janet Jackson from the iconic Scream video, Coco Jones as Mary J. Blige in ultimate “Just Fine” auntie mode, Janelle Monáe as original new creature “PHISH BOY,” and more.

In the latest of countless viral moments, Drake stepped out for his 40th birthday in an easy, breezy, pumpkin spicyyy Fallfit that inspired hilarious tweets, memes and more across the internet.

Naturally, Sidibe popped out and matched Drake’s rich auntie energy with the perfectly timed IYKYK costume that immediately trended across social media.

With Halloween tomorrow, we’re sure to see more mind-blowing costumes from previous MVPs Cardi B, The Weekend, co-Halloween Queen Heidi Klum, Teyana Taylor, and possibly Beyoncé (who usually drops her costume years weeks later).

What’s your fave Halloween costume (so far)? Do you plan on dressing up this year? If so, as what? Tell us down below and peep the absolute BEST costumes (so far) on the flip.

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The Universe Is Calling, Sis. Pick Up the damn phone!

First of all, hey girl.

Last month, we talked about Libra women AKA the Libra Villain, nice things and the freedom let whatever they say ride because we are not clearing sh*t up.

Now Scorpio season is here, and baby, we are going deeper. However, before we get into the mystery, the magnetism, and that infamous sting, I need to talk about my mama. Her birthday is October 25, and she is one of the strongest, most powerful women I know. I have watched her navigate hardships that would require more space than this column can hold. Most recently, I have watched her face cancer. And listen, there is something about watching the strongest person you know meet a challenge so damn big. Watching your mother go through something you cannot fix is hard AF. You know her strength. You have witnessed it repeatedly. But knowing how much she can handle does not make you wish any less that she did not have to handle this.

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Janelle Monáe is the definition of main character energy. When it comes to turning heads, taking risks, making people gag, and serving a look, Janelle is the blueprint. And more importantly, she does it her way.

Much like her music and performances, Janelle’s approach to style has no bounds or rules. And there is no better time to see her unforgettable mix of style, attitude, and whimsy than Halloween.

She is THE HalloQueen, and she knows it.

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We’ve made it to our 50th week of Fine AF and we’ve got some hot people on the list this week.

Ciara brought all that spicy Scorpio energy to her birthday photoshoot this week and we totally see why Russell Wilson can’t keep his hands to himself. Robert Ri’chard put out some photos that has us completely falling in love with him again like we did seeing him in One on One.

Keke Palmer’s showing a lot of body in one of her Halloween outfits and we’re not made at it at all. Lupita Nyong’o took our breath away with her pictures. Like…wow. We’ll leave that for you to go see for yourself!

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1. Ciara, 41

We have to kick the list off with the Scorpio Queen Ciara who looked really hot in her birthday photos. We see why Russell Wilson keeps her pregnant.

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Halloween is coming up, which means celebrators will need some tunes before heading to their trick-or-treating activities. So here are 10 songs that you can add to your Halloween playlist to keep the spooky vibes going. 

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1. I Put A Spell On You – Screamin’ Jay Hawkins

If you’ve been walking the Earth long enough, you’ve probably heard of the song I Put A Spell On You but you’ve more than likely heard a remade version of it rather than the original. So meet Jalacy “Screamin’ Jay” Hawkins, a Cleveland, Ohio native known for his soulful bellowing sound. After serving some years in World War II, began to focus on his passions for music. Hawkins started to work with artists Tiny Grimes and Fats Domino but his career really blossomed when he released the 1956 single I Put A Spell On You. His first recording of the song was not well received. But according to All About Jazz, he and his band had gotten drunk before re-recording it and Hawkins inserts a new howling and eerie sound to it while keeping his heavy blues influence. The song blew up and has continued to have a lasting influence in the music industry. In 2004, the song made Rollingstone’s 500 Greatest Songs of All Time list. Artists like Nina Simone, Marilyn Manson covered it and late 90s babies are probably familiar with Bette Midler’s version of it on Disney’s Hocus Pocus film. 

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Halle Berry appeared in good spirits as she exited court just hours after a judge ruled on her visitation schedule with her 13-year-old son, Maceo, amid her ongoing custody dispute with ex-husband Olivier Martinez. Footage obtained by TMZ and filmed on Oct. 29 showed the Oscar-winning actress smiling as she left the courthouse alongside her fiancé, Van Hunt.

Halle Berry custody battle: the decision?

According to People, the judge modified Berry’s visitation schedule, limiting her time with Maceo to Mondays and Tuesdays from 10 a.m. to 8 p.m., as well as Saturdays and Sundays from 10 a.m. to 8 p.m. Despite the tense legal battle, Berry appeared composed as she made her way out of the building.

Meanwhile, reporters from the outlet also caught up with Martinez and his legal team following the hearing.

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Mary J. Blige wasn’t going to let a rude heckler interrupt her My Life, My Story, Las Vegas residency on Wednesday night (Oct. 28.) The Grammy-award-winning singer put the disrespectful audience member on blast after she heard them booing in the crowd. 

Mary J. Blige Heckler incident: What happened?

“To the b—h that’s booing, you didn’t have to come here,” Blige told the heckler flat out right in the middle of her show which took place at Sin City’s Dolby Live at Park MGM. “I hope someone sees you and politely removes you.”

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Mary J. Blige didn’t let up either. Before launching into her 1996 hit song “Not Gon’ Cry,” the Bronx born, Yonkers raised singer asked the heckler why they even purchased a ticket to the show if they were going to hate her performance. 

“The f—k you spend ya money for, idiot? I’m sorry sometimes I just got to go there, because that’s where I’m from,” she added. 

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Think you have to become famous in your teens or early 20s to make it in Hollywood? Think again! Some of the biggest names in entertainment took the scenic route to superstardom, while others went from rising talent to award-winning icons almost overnight.

From Oscar-winning performances to career-defining roles, these stars prove that success has no expiration date. Whether they broke through at 25, 30, or even 50, one thing is for sure: their talent was worth the wait! Here are 10 Hollywood stars who made it big after the age of 25. 

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1. Jennifer Hudson — The American Idol Contestant Who Became an Oscar Winner. Age at breakthrough: 25

Getting eliminated from American Idol didn’t stop Jennifer Hudson from becoming a superstar. After placing seventh on the show’s third season in 2004, she made an unforgettable leap to the big screen as Effie White in the 2006 musical drama Dreamgirls.

Her powerhouse performance earned her the Academy Award for Best Supporting Actress, making her one of the film’s biggest success stories. Talk about turning a setback into a standing ovation.

Jennifer Hudson continues to break barriers today. She is the second Black woman (and the youngest Black woman) to achieve EGOT status, having won an Emmy, a Grammy, an Oscar, and a Tony Award. Her record-breaking streak began in 2007, when she earned an Oscar for her unforgettable portrayal of Effie White in Dreamgirls. She went on to snag a Grammy Award for Best R&B Album in 2009 for her self-titled debut album and a Daytime Emmy Award as an executive producer of the 2020 virtual reality film Baba Yaga. She later added another major milestone to her résumé, earning her first Tony Award as a co-producer of the Broadway musical A Strange Loop, which won Best Musical in 2022.

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Having sex in the bedroom is great, but what about getting down and dirty outside your sleeping quarters? If you’re thinking about taking the plunge but feel a little nervous to try it with your partner, don’t feel ashamed. In fact, according to a 2018 study from EdenFantasys, obtained by the New York Post, three out of four Americans( 76%) have had sex outside the bedroom. And for the true risk takers? Around 69% have had it in a high risk area outdoors where their chances of getting caught were extremely high. 

Who says romance has to stay between the sheets? For plenty of couples, the bedroom is just the starting point. From kitchen counters to movie theaters, people are finding plenty of unexpected places to turn up the heat. 

Here are five popular places where people love to have sex outside the bedroom.

1. The Kitchen

The kitchen isn’t just for cooking. Counters and islands can offer a change of scenery, a little extra leverage and the thrill of doing something spontaneous. According to an EdenFantasys study, nearly half of respondents, 48%, said they have gotten lucky in the kitchen.

It makes sense: you’re already there, the room is familiar, and suddenly that innocent trip to grab a snack can take a very different turn.

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Now that there is talk that Colman Domingo and American playwright Robert O’Hara are co-writing the script for a live-action version of Disney’s film The Princess and the Frog, according to Deadline, there is only one question that needs to be answered: Who will be playing Princess Tiana and Prince Naveen?

There are key details to remember about each role’s characteristics when picking the Princess and Prince of the highly anticipated film. Firstly, this is set in the 1920s era of New Orleans. This means it’s necessary that Tiana is played by someone who can both speak and sing in a deep southern accent. Additionally, Tiana has darker skin and coily natural hair. The hair can absolutely be created with a good hair and makeup team. However, it would be imperative to choose someone of the right skin tone to play Tiana, as darker-skinned women are so often overlooked and/or replaced for lead roles.

As for Naveen, he’s a cocky Prince whose laziness puts him at risk of losing his family’s fortune. He’s a bit tougher to cast because he’s characterized as a royal from Maldonia—which is not a real place. He also has brown skin that is a few shades lighter than Tiana’s and a Latin-like accent. The kicker is that his name, Naveen, is typically of Indian and Sanskrit origin.

Here’s who we think would be good at playing these characters.

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1. Loren Lott, 33

Loren Lott would be an excellent option because not only does she sing and have the beauty of a Disney princess, but she also wants this role and she wants it BAD! She could be trusted to work hard and deliver the Tiana we all deserve.

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Feeling like the universe is shaking things up lately? You might not be imagining it! Venus retrograde is bringing some serious cosmic plot twists, and your love life, finances and relationships could all be getting a much-needed reality check. On Oct. 25, 2026, Venus retrograde re-entered Libra, the zodiac sign associated with balance, communication, social connections and partnership. And since Venus rules love, beauty, money and personal values, this planetary shift is inviting everyone to take a closer look at what, and who, they’ve been giving their time, energy and affection to.

According to astrologer Valarie Mesa, Venus governs love, money, relationship dynamics and our value systems. With the planet of love moving through Libra, a sign where it feels particularly at home, relationship matters are taking center stage.

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But here’s where things get interesting: When Venus turns retrograde in the very sign that rules partnerships, the cosmic questions become a little more personal. Instead of asking yourself, “What do I want?” you may find yourself wondering, “What have I been agreeing to?”

That’s a BIG difference!

“Venus Retrograde in Libra presents the opportunity for you to audit your commitments, compromises and everything you’ve consciously settled for, despite wanting more,” Mesa wrote in her article for People, published on Oct. 25.

In other words, this is your cosmic invitation to stop settling, rethink those questionable commitments and figure out whether you’re genuinely happy, or simply keeping the peace because rocking the boat feels uncomfortable.

Venus Retrograde 2026: Important Dates to Know

Mark your calendars, because Venus retrograde has several important dates to watch. On Nov. 13, Venus stations direct in Libra at 22 degrees, marking a shift in perspective as the lessons of the retrograde begin to sink in. Finally, on Dec. 4, Venus returns to Scorpio, turning attention back to emotional intensity, intimacy and deeper desires.

After Venus’s deep dive through Scorpio, its journey through Libra raises an important question: Is the peace you’ve been maintaining in your relationships genuine, or have you simply been sweeping unresolved conflict under the rug?

According to Mesa, the answers may arrive in surprisingly familiar ways.

“In our everyday lives, this could look like an ex resurfacing just as you’ve stopped thinking about them or a friendship you’ve outgrown but kept alive out of courtesy.”

Translation? That person you thought you’d moved on from might suddenly slide back into your messages. Or perhaps you’ll finally admit that a friendship has run its course. Either way, Venus retrograde wants you to look at the situation honestly instead of pretending everything is fine.

And don’t think your bank account gets a pass! Venus also governs money and values, which means this period could bring second thoughts about purchases, spending habits and the things you believe are worth your hard-earned cash. That impulse buy might not feel so fabulous anymore.

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Divorce is rarely simple, and if someone close to you is in the middle of one, your words can either support them or unintentionally add to their pain as they grieve the loss of their relationship. Both experts and social media users agree that certain comments can do more harm than good. Below are a few remarks to avoid, and what you can say instead to genuinely help someone navigate this difficult transition.

1. “What happened?”

When someone confides in you about their divorce, it’s worth asking yourself whether your response serves them or simply satisfies your own curiosity. This frequently asked question, for instance, is “more about your curiosity, and not so much about your compassion,” said Andrea Hipps, a divorce coach and author of The Best Worst Time of Your Life, in a Nov. 12 interview with Time. As she notes, it’s complicated because “there’s hardly ever a singular reason for what happened,” adding, “Everything and nothing happened.”

Often, people lean toward this question as a way to reassure themselves about their own marriage. It subtly communicates, as Hipps puts it: “If it can happen to you, it could happen to me… so tell me all the things that happened so I can avoid them.”

A more supportive alternative might be, “Thank you for bringing me in on this hard news. I’ll be careful with it.” Another gentle option, “This is so much—your mind must be spinning.” Both give your friend room to share if they choose, without pressure.

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Nicki Minaj as White House press secretary? It’s certainly not a pairing most people would expect. However, following the reported firing of Katie Zacharia on Friday, Oct. 16, 2026, after just five days in the role, some Republicans appear to be floating the rapper’s name as a potential replacement. Donald Trump has also shown support for the femcee.

Republicans floated the idea of Nicki Minaj becoming the White House press secretary on X.

According to TMZ, the speculation gained momentum after an X video surfaced of Minaj aboard Air Force One on Oct. 25, discussing President Donald Trump and his economic policies. White House Communications Director Steven Cheung shared the clip and suggested that the rapper could be the administration’s next spokesperson, writing, “Ladies and gentlemen, I think we may have found the new White House Press Secretary!”

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“WHAT’S THE PROCEDURE WHEN YOU HAVE A GUN TO YOUR HEAD?” This is a question most Black women can answer because most of us have lived under that sort of pressure our entire lives. It is always a moment of urgency or a state of emergency in our families and in our communities.  It is always the job of Black women to put out a fire.

WE ALL KNOW THE COUNTRY IS ON MOTHER-FING FIRE!

With such an important election, days away, the hotline is blinging. Black women are on speed dial. Our phones are normally desert dry, but now everybody and their racist, sexist uncle is calling. They need our votes, our voices, our strategy, our organizing, our church announcements, our sorority connections, and access to the group chat. They need us to explain the stakes, mobilize the neighborhood, and convince somebody’s cousin that sitting this one out and not voting is in fact voting.

As we prepare for this midterm election, I keep coming back to a question: What would it look and feel like if the democracy Black women have worked so hard to protect actually took care of us? This is a loaded question, and few of us can even begin to answer; however, Nsé Ufot is ready to answer.

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Every October, Domestic Violence Awareness Month shines a light on a crisis that affects millions of people across the United States. It is a time to honor survivors, remember those who lost their lives, educate communities about the warning signs of abuse, and stand together to help end domestic violence.

According to the Domestic Violence Awareness Project, Congress declared the month of October to be Domestic Violence Awareness Month in 1989, beginning a movement that would go on to empower millions of survivors to share their stories and create change. 

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Lately, the debate over whether Black women should get our hair done in a corporate chair at a retail giant like Ulta or retreat to the privacy of an independent solo suite is moving us further away from the community space of Black beauty salons that historically have welcomed, shielded, and anchored us in self-care and community. 

I was a teenage girl, untethered and newly navigating the rough edges of the foster care system, when I somehow found my way into the basement beauty salon across the street from my high school. I didn’t know it then, but descending those steps would introduce me to Toni, who would open a new world and a new lens through which I saw myself. 

Toni was a queer gay man whose vibrancy overflowed the modest salon.  He had survived the rough streets of Chicago and had been raised outside his biological family. Toni eventually found safety and community in San Diego, where he was able to blossom. He would regale me with stories of how free he felt living in his true self after a childhood spent feeling like living in his truth put him in grave danger. 

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It is imperative that we celebrate our queer queens, so here we are on yet another Wednesday, crushing on all this beauty that pops up on our timelines!

From celebrity beauties like Niecy Nash-Betts taking her flawlessness overseas, to the R&B staddies (stud daddies, that is) serenading us with hit after hit, to the trans cuties continuing to take up space across all industries, this is the year of the queers, sorry, we don’t make the rules.

Our WNBA baddies also continue to keep us fed, whether they’re sitting courtside or putting in the work to bring home the championship during this year’s WNBA Finals matchup between the Atlanta Dream (we see you, DeWanna) and the Golden State Valkyries (we see you Gabby).

Again, it is with pride that we curate this weekly list of Woman Crush Wednesday beauties.

Check out 50 of the hottest queer queens who are keeping us on cloud nine this week!

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1. Niecy Nash-Betts

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We heard DSU has the BEST Homecoming on Earth!

We had to pull up at Delaware State University known for its gorgeous campus, dynamically diverse student body, Desean Jackson-lead football program, and infectious school pride that elevates the vibes at the storied institution’s Homecoming in the heart of Dover, Delaware.

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Founded in 1891 as the State College for Colored Students, the 9th ranked HBCU in the nation (U.S. News & World Report) shines as one of the country’s first land-grant educational institutions.

In Fall 2025, the University’s student enrollment surged to a record 6,623 students–the largest number in the school’s 134-year history–who thrive on a beautiful 356-acre main campus with over 50 buildings and four outdoor athletic fields.

“This is the largest student body ever at Delaware State University and the largest class of incoming Delaware Inspire scholars since the creation of the program 15 years ago,” said Dr. Patrice Gilliam, Provost, Delaware State University.

“And most importantly, our students have come ready to do the demanding work needed to make a difference in their chosen field – from public health and commercial aviation to business and finance. Speaking for all the faculty and staff at Delaware State University, we stand ready to help all our students get across the finish line, get their education, and meet their fullest potential.”

According to the school’s official site, DSU’s record enrollment has been driven primarily by increased student demand in Delaware State University’s flagship programs on main campus and DSU Downtown, including health care, education, and business majors.  

Additionally, the state-sponsored Inspire program–a fully funded state scholarship for Delaware students with a 2.75 GPA and commitment to public service–has helped make Delaware State University a top choice for in-state students.

Notable alumni include NFL All-Pro cornerback (and Kerry Washington’s husband) Nnamdi Asomugha, MLB Hall of Famer Willie Stargell, 3x Super Bowl champion John Taylor, The Breakfast Club co-host Loren Lorosa, and more.

Have you experienced Del State’s Homecoming? If so, how was your experience? If not, will you be there next year?? Tell us down below and enjoy our gallery of Del State stunners on the flip.

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Ever had a great time with friends, laughed until your stomach hurt, and still gone home feeling a little empty? You were surrounded by people, having fun, and technically doing everything you’re supposed to do to feel connected. So, why does loneliness still creep in? If you’ve ever wondered, Why do I feel lonely even when surrounded by people?, you’re not alone. And no, it doesn’t mean there’s something wrong with you.

Between the chaos of social media, everyday pressures, and everything happening in the world socially and politically, it’s easy to feel disconnected, even when your calendar is packed with plans.

In fact, loneliness is more common than you might think. According to the World Health Organization, around 1 in 6 people worldwide experience loneliness. Research cited by the American Psychological Association (APA) also found that 54% of U.S. adults felt isolated, 50% felt left out, and 50% lacked companionship some or all of the time. 

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So, if you’ve been asking yourself, why do I feel lonely even when surrounded by people?, let’s get into what’s really going on and how you can fight the funk.

It’s Not About How Many People Are Around You

Here’s the plot twist: being around people doesn’t automatically mean you feel connected to them.

According to experts at MindFrame, our brains don’t just crave interaction. They crave recognition. We want to feel like someone understands the parts of us that we don’t always show the world.

Without that emotional connection, even a room full of friends can feel strangely empty.

Psychologists often refer to this as perceived responsiveness. In simple terms, it’s the feeling that someone genuinely understands you, values your emotions, and responds to the real you, rather than the version you put on for everyone else.

And here’s where things get interesting: it’s not just about whether someone understands you. It’s also about whether you feel understood.

Think about it. Two people can have the exact same friend group, attend the same parties, and participate in the same group chats. One might feel completely loved and supported, while the other feels invisible.

Their friendships might look identical from the outside, but their emotional experiences are completely different.

During conversations, your brain is quietly asking one important question: Can I safely be myself here?

You might be laughing, telling stories, and having a good time, but if you’re constantly editing your personality, hiding your feelings, or worrying about how others perceive you, it’s difficult to feel truly connected.

Sometimes, the issue isn’t a lack of company. It’s a lack of emotional connection.

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Keyshia Cole has fans expressing concern after viral videos showed the R&B songstress seemingly struggling through performances and turning one of her signature hits into an impromptu karaoke session, all while her romance with rapper Skrilla continues to attract attention.

On Monday, The Shade Room reported that the Grammy-nominated singer performed at Majic Under the Stars on Saturday, Oct. 24, at the Cynthia Woods Mitchell Pavilion, where she joined a lineup headlined by Babyface. However, it was her rendition of her 2007 hit “Heaven Sent” that sparked conversation online.

In a clip, Cole can be seen encouraging concertgoers to sing along as her track plays, rather than delivering the vocals herself.

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Kenasia Guilford, 33, a firefighter and EMT with the Toledo Fire and Rescue Department in Ohio, has pleaded no contest to a misdemeanor charge after prosecutors dropped several more serious charges stemming from allegations that she handcuffed her boyfriend to a railing and later refused to release him from her home, according to a report from WTVG 13 Action News.

Kenasia Guilford no-contest plea: What happened?

Guilford entered a no-contest plea Tuesday to aggravated trespassing, according to local news reports. The case stems from a Sept. 22 incident involving a fellow firefighter who serves as a captain in the same department and was reportedly in a relationship with Guilford.

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Let’s be honest: between raising kids, managing a household, keeping up with work, supporting our partners, and trying to maintain some semblance of a social life, there are days when simply getting through the to-do list feels like a full-time job. Somewhere between preparing dinner, cleaning up the latest mess, and figuring out what everyone needs next, self care can easily fall to the bottom of the list. By the time we finally get home and settle in, all we want is a little peace, quiet, and time to breathe, the good old soft life.

That’s why anything that makes everyday life easier deserves our attention. Self-care isn’t always about booking a spa day or escaping on a weekend getaway. Sometimes, it means spending less time cleaning, making meal prep less stressful, or having fresh drinking water ready at the touch of a button. After all, the less time we spend wrestling with household chores, the more time we have for the things that truly matter. Enter SharkNinja, the global product design and technology company known for creating innovative household appliances and lifestyle solutions.

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With four clever innovations designed to simplify everyday routines, the brand is making a strong case for letting technology take a few things off our plates. From smarter water filtration to multitasking kitchen appliances and easier floor cleaning, these products are all about bringing a little more convenience into our busy lives.

1. Ninja HydraSense: Better Water, One Touch Away

Staying hydrated sounds simple enough until you realize how much we think about the water we drink, especially when it comes to taste and quality. The Ninja HydraSense aims to make that daily essential easier with an advanced filtration system designed to reduce more than 80 contaminants, including microplastics, PFAS, certain carcinogens, and pharmaceuticals, while preserving natural minerals for a balanced taste.

No complicated installation or plumbing is required. Simply plug it in, fill the reservoir, and enjoy one-touch dispensing. Its intelligent touchscreen tracks water usage and filter life, helping you know when it’s time for a replacement instead of leaving you guessing. The generous 96-ounce reservoir means fewer trips to the sink, while the long-lasting filter is designed to handle up to 120 gallons before replacement.

But convenience is only part of the appeal. The system is designed to remove taste-impairing contaminants while delivering fresh-tasting water, whether you’re filling a glass, preparing coffee, cooking dinner, or topping off your water bottle before heading out the door. You can even add ice and use the recirculation cycle for chilled, filtered water.

With independent certification to NSF/ANSI standards 42, 53, and 401, the HydraSense brings an extra layer of reassurance to your daily hydration routine. It also comes with a 120-gallon filter and a Ninja travel bottle, making it easier to take your hydration habits beyond the kitchen, because when life is already busy, even the little things should feel effortless.

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Two Cleveland-based faith leaders have the internet buzzing over a relationship arrangement that has some people shouting “Amen!” and others flipping through their Bibles at record speed. On Oct. 25, a video featuring Pastor Israel Ford of LifeWorks Church and his wife, Pastor Lydia Ford, went viral after Lydia announced to their congregation that they are now in a polygynous marriage.

In the viral clip, Lydia introduced the couple’s second wife, Minister Shakayla Ford, who was already a member of the church. Talk about a plot twist nobody saw coming during Sunday service.

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“Y’all know her, y’all love her, y’all benefit from her ministry every week… [It’s] a pleasure of mine to introduce to y’all, prophet’s wife, and my sister in marriage, Minister Shakayla,” Lydia said proudly as the congregation erupted in applause, while some attendees appeared to gasp in shock.

Pastor Israel Ford of LifeWorks Church and his wife Pastor Lydia Ford introduced their second wife. Here’s what happened when she came to the stage.

Minister Shakayla then joined the married couple onstage and addressed the congregation with a lighthearted, “Cat’s out the bag,” before thanking everyone for their support and understanding. 

“I want to speak to the fact that I know people have questions, people have comments and concerns. And one thing that you know I want to address is that it is amazing to know that this is the will of God and to live it,” she continued.

Shakayla went on to explain that although she and the Fords are in a polygynous marriage, respect and faith remain at the center of their union.

“I have not been slighted not one bit and I have gained so much. I mean, I have gained so much and I’ve learned so much from pastor. I mean, he’s poured so much into into me, into our family. And we are a family. We don’t walk around like individuals fighting and beefing, but it is a family dynamic in the image of what God wants to put in the earth.”

After thanking the audience for their support, Minister Shakayla added, “And there are people who have known for some time. And I just want to say thank y’all for supporting us, for loving us, for praying for us, for fighting for us, for warring with us. I mean, it has been a journey. And though it has been a learning experience.”

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Donald Trump continues to talk about admiring butts during his campaign rallies; this time, Nicki Minaj got some love from Orange Mussolini.

At a recent rally on Sunday in Michigan for Republican Senate candidate Mike Rodgers, Trump made cheeky comments about Minaj’s surgically enhanced cheeks while praising Republican Ohio senator Jon Husted’s rear end.

For those who have been under a rock, Trump has repeatedly expressed admiration for Husted’s behind. Early in October, he said of the former football player: “I don’t do this with men very often. I started examining his body, because I didn’t know he was a great athlete. And I looked, and I watched up and down. I looked at his ass, and I looked at the whole – and then I looked at his hands. Look at his hands. He’s got these, like, claws.

“You are a great athlete,” Trump also said to Husted. “Congratulations.”

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Keep in mind he was supposed to be rallying for Rogers, who is currently in a tight race with Democrat Abdul-Sayed, so this whole situation is already baffling, and we have no idea how Trump’s constant admiration for the male physique will help Rogers.

Anyway, Trump then claimed that the media, understandably perplexed by his comments, was nothing but “fake news” and that they were disregarding the athletic context of his weird comments. According to Orange Mussolini, he only learned Husted was a college athlete when he was “looking at him up and down, and I’m studying him.”

According to Trump, his comments are “in fun.” “I said: I looked at his ass, and I’ve never done that with a man before. It’s true. Off the record, women yes, men no, OK.”

Bruh.

Trump then turned his attention to Nicki Minaj, who was at the rally and flew with him on Qatar Force One.

“By the way, I looked at one hell of a beautiful ass before – Nicki Minaj,” Trump said, which got a huge pop from the crowd. “That’s hard to miss. That – stand up! That’s hard to miss.”

Minaj’s ass is indeed hard to miss because she has admittedly had it plumped up thanks to butt injections from who she claimed was a “random person.”

“OK, I’m going to get back to my story, Nicki,” Trump continued. “I hope Nicki wasn’t insulted, but we love Nicki. She’s been with us for a long time.”

After standing up and acknowledging Trump, Minaj took the stage and joined Trump, where she expressed her love for the racist-in-chief, claiming that if he ran for an unconstitutional third term, she would support him again, even though, due to her not being a citizen, she can’t vote.

This bizarre turn of events followed Barack Obama hilariously clowning Trump at his rally for Abdul-Sayed, making light of his tacky White House renovations.

As expected, social media has been clowning Nicki Minaj, reminding her she’s married to a registered sex offender, and her brother is a pedophile after she said she wanted people to leave children alone, ridiculously claiming they are being “bombarded with sex changes.”

You can see more reactions below.

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Bear witness to the baddest!

We had to make our way to Morgan State University–Maryland’s Preeminent Public Urban Research University–which brought out seas of beautiful people to their bustling Homecoming in the heart of Baltimore.

Founded in 1867 as one of the nation’s earliest institutions to offer post-secondary education to Black students, the 8th ranked HBCU in the nation earned the prestigious distinction of ‘National Treasure’ from The National Trust For Historic Preservation.

Together, they developed a preservation plan for the many historic buildings on campus designed by celebrated Black architects Leon Bridges, Albert Cassell, Louis Fry, and Hilyard Robinson.

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“The National Trust believes Historically Black Colleges and Universities tell an important and often overlooked American story,” said Stephanie Meeks, President/CEO of the National Trust for Historic Preservation, during a press conference.

“We are proud to partner with Morgan State University–-a nationally-recognized innovator and education leader–-to demonstrate how the preservation of their remarkable older buildings can be a springboard for growth, rejuvenation, and revitalization.”

As Maryland’s largest HBCU, Morgan State “fulfills its mission to address the needs and challenges of the modern urban environment through intense community-level study and pioneering solutions,” per its official site.

Ranked as the 3rd best public HBCU in the nation (U.S. News & World Report), the Carnegie-classified Doctoral Research Institution continues to attract brilliant minds while generating $1.1 billion in annual economic impact statewide.

Naturally, a university of this stature has an impressive collection of alumni including Mo’Nique, April Ryan, Kevin Liles, Deniece Williams, Robert F. Chew (known for his unforgettable role as Prop Joe on The Wire), and more.

Have you experienced Morgan State’s Homecoming? If so, how was your experience? If not, will you be there next year?? Tell us down below and enjoy our gallery of Morgan State Mesmerizers on the flip.

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Choosing a candidate who truly represents you is an ideal often reserved for white men in American politics. And since politics are often an exercise in practicality over preference, Georgia voters need to be pragmatic on Election Day.

Keisha Lance Bottoms is the best choice for governor.

Liking her isn’t a requirement; preventing her opponent from being elected is.

Former President Barack Obama is set to join Bottoms and U.S. Sen. Jon Ossoff for a rally in Atlanta during the final week of October, as the campaign has called in the big dogs to give her one final boost before the election. Like so many Black women before her who have tried to reach the highest seats in American politics, the conversation is less about Bottoms’ accomplishments and more about picking apart who she is, or isn’t.

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TikTok star, 26-year-old Chanell T. Zand, had the experience of a lifetime after being invited to participate in a special skydive celebrating the 50th anniversary of Suriname’s Independence Day in November 2025, according to Newsweek. What began as a thrilling opportunity, however, quickly turned into a viral moment when Zand experienced a hilarious wardrobe malfunction mid-jump.

A video shared to Zand’s TikTok on April 6, 2026, captured the skydive experience provided by Free 2 Fly. It shows Zand leaping from the plane and enjoying the adrenaline rush of free fall. But as the parachute deployed for landing, her breasts noticeably puffed outward, pressing up through her protective gear in an unexpected and comical moment.

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A Black couple searching for an apartment in Queens has filed a housing discrimination lawsuit against Douglas Elliman Realty, one of its real estate agents, and the property’s owners after allegedly receiving a racist text message from the agent shortly before a scheduled viewing. The message reportedly read, “Ugh. They are black,” according to NBC New York and Eyewitness News ABC7NY.

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Lisa Renee Olaso and her fiancé, Julien Christopher, were preparing to relocate from Delaware to New York after Olaso accepted a new job. The couple arranged to view a rental property in Flushing, Queens, expecting to meet a broker from Douglas Elliman who would show them the apartment.

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MadameNoire was on the scene as Courvoisier brought the house-party vibes to Lower Manhattan for “Pass The Courvoisier,” its first global campaign in nearly 20 years. Held Oct. 21, the intimate gathering transformed Fosun Plaza into an open-air living room, complete with good music, cocktails, candid conversations and a reunion we didn’t know we needed: former 106 & Park hosts Terrence J and Rocsi Diaz back on the couch together.

Grammy-nominated rapper and singer Coi Leray also popped out as a surprise guest, joining Hot 97’s Kazeem “Kaz” Famuyide and local creators Lellies Santiago and Oliver Luke for an unforgettable evening.

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Coi LeRay talks balancing motherhood and how she keeps connected to friends, fans and family.

Amid the festivities, Leray pulled up a seat with MadameNoire Managing Editor Danica Daniel for a candid conversation about connection, motherhood and finding her footing as a first-time mom while balancing the demands of a thriving music career. In 2025, the 29-year-old star welcomed her first child, a beautiful baby girl named Miyoco, marking a new chapter in her life that has shifted her perspective in more ways than one.

For Leray, building genuine connections is more important than ever, and she’s all about taking things offline and getting face-to-face with people.

“I love connecting with other people. I love kind people. I love people that are just so welcoming. It helps me,” the “Players” hitmaker told Daniel. “I don’t know, I feel comfortable in every way. And I just think that I like connecting in person more than social media as well. So I think going out more and connecting with people on a one-on-one level versus like a DM or something, I’m into that.”

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