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MFANYE MUMEO AWAHI NYUMBANI

2014-01-15T13:37:00.000+03:00

SIPENDI na wala sitaki kusikia kwani inamkoseshe raha mtoto wa mwenzio, kuku wako mwenyewe kwa nini akushikie manati. Kwa nini uishi na mumeo kama kaka yako? Sipendi na kama unatabia hizi ukome na ukomae.

Ooh! Samahani hata salamu nimesahau kukujilieni hali wote wapenzi wa kona hii najua akina mama pekee hata kina baba kuna mtu mzima mmoja aliniambia akikosa kusoma kona hii hujisikia mgonjwa kwa vile amepata mengi kupitia hapa.

Haya tuendelee na yetu hasa yaliyonifanya nifungue mdomo wangu. Kuna baadhi ya wanawake wenzangu wananiudhi sana kufikia hatua ya kukosa raha, unamuonea haya mumeo au mpenzio mkiwa ndani full khanga sipendi eeeh! Umesikia mwili wako mkiwa faragha si mali yako bali ya mwenzako.

Unauficha una kasoro gani mwenzio anahitaji kuliona umbile lililomvutia likiwa na nguo ameliweka ndani ili alifaidi kwa kuliona live, wewe na mikhanga kutwa kucha hata kujipaka mafuta hujipaki mbele ya mwenzio.

Mumeo amekuwa akihangaika kuutazama mwili wako kama wewe siyo wake, hupendi kufanya mapenzi mchana na usiku unazima taa. Kufanya hivyo ni kumnyima haki ya msingi mpenzi wako. Hauko pale kwa ajili ya kuvua nguo za ndani tu, la hasha mwanamke ni pambo la nyumba unatakiwa ujiachie muda ukifika hasa ukijua mwenzio anarudi toka kazini kujiweka kwako kwa kuvaa upande mwepesi wa khanga tabasamu alitoki mdomoni huwa tiba sahihi kwa mihangaiko na maudhi ya kutwa nzima.

Napenda kukupeni kisa kimoja kuhusiana na tabia ya baadhi ya wanawake kuificha miili yao, kuna jamaa mmoja alioa binti aliyeumbwa akaumbika lakini binti yule alikuwa anamuogopa mumewe kwa kuona kukaa bila nguo mbele ya mumewe kwake ilikuwa aibu kubwa.

Muda wote alikuwa na khanga hakupenda kufanya mapenzi mchana, alipolazimishwa sana alikuwa akifunga madilisha na kuvulia nguo kitandani na mumewe akimaliza alikuwa anawahi khanga.

Mtindo ule ulimsumbua sana bwana huyo ambaye alikuwa na hamu ya kuuona mwili wa mkewe ambao Mungu aliamua kufanya utundu wake ukimuangalia utafikiri wa kauchora na kupendelewa na mchoraji.

Mzee mzima uzalendo ukamshinda na kuamua kutafuta njia ya kuuona mwili wa mkewe bila yeye kujua. Alianzisha mtindo wa kumvizia wakati wa kuoga kumpiga chabo, kutokana na kupata shida ya kuufaidi mwili wa mkewe jamaa aliamua bora awe anapanda juu ya mti ili aweze kumuona vizuri.

Jamaa alifanikiwa kupanda juu ya mtu na kumtazama vyema mkewe aliyekuwa akioga, hakuamini chakula kitamu kama kile hukilia gizani. Kutokana na kiwewe alijisahau kushikilia mti na kuporomoka toka juu ya mti mpaka chini. Watu walimshangaa kumpiga chabo mkewe mtu anayelala naye kitanda kimoja.

Jamaa alijitetea kwa kusema ukweli kuwa amekuwa akipata shida kuuona mwili wa mpenzi wake, kutokana na tabia yake ya kuuficha muda wote. Ilibidi yule mwanamke awekwe chini na kuelezwa ukweli juu ya tabia yake ambayo inaweza kumpeleka kubaya mumewe.

Baada ya yule mwanamke kugundua kosa lake alipojiachia mumewe alichanganyikiwa, kila baada ya kazi aliwahi kurudi nyumbani, mwanakwetu kujiachia kwa sehemu maalum kwa mwandani wako ni tiba ya kumfanya atulie nyumbani.

Hata kama unajisikia basi jipitishe mbele na upande wa khanga halafu jifanye umekudondoka kwa bahati mbaya, kabla ya kuidondosha kohoa kidogo lazima ataangalia hapo idondoshe.

Usimuangalie jifanye humuoni lazima atakuwa anakuangalia akifahamu humuoni, iokote taratibu huku ukimuachia aisome namba. Nakuapia lazima mzuka utampanda na kutamani kitu. Usimnyime ni haki yake pia nawe yako.

Usimtese mwenzio muoneshe kila kilichomfanya akichague na kukuficha ndani. Kwa haya machache tutapunguza kuzurura kwa waume zetu baada ya kazi.

Ni mimi Anti Nasra Shangingi Mstaafu.

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RAIS ATANGAZA JUMATATU JANUARI 13, 2014 SIKU YA MAPUMZIKO.

2014-01-12T17:14:00.002+03:00

TAARIFA KWA VYOMBO VYA HABARI

Rais wa Jamhuri ya Muungano wa Tanzania, Mheshimiwa Jakaya Mrisho Kikwete ametangaza kuwa kesho, Jumatatu, Januari 13, 2014, itakuwa ni Siku ya Mapumziko (Public Holiday) kwa Watanzania wote kusheherekea miaka 50 ya Mapinduzi Matukufu ya Zanzibar.

Rais Kikwete ameutangaza uamuzi huo mjini Zanzibar ambako leo ameungana na Watanzania na Wazanzibari wote kusheherekea miaka 50 ya Mapinduzi Matukufu ya Zanzibar ya Januari 12, mwaka 1964.

Mapinduzi hayo yaliyoongozwa na mwasisi wa Zanzibar na Taifa la Tanzania, Hayati Abeid Amaan Karume yalifanikiwa kuung’oa madarakani utawala dhalimu wa Sultan na kuwawezesha kwa mara ya kwanza katika historia Waafrika walio wengine kujitawala ndani ya nchi yao wenyewe.

Yalikuwa ni Mapinduzi ya Zanzibar yaliyofungua njia ya kuzaliwa kwa Muungano wa Tanganyika na Zanzibar – miezi mitatu baada ya Mapinduzi hayo – Aprili 26, 1964.

Naye Rais wa Zanzibar na Mwenyekiti wa Baraza la Mapinduzi Mheshimiwa Ali Mohamed Shein ametangaza kuwa kesho itakuwa Siku ya Mapumziko Tanzania Visiwani kusheherekea miaka 50 ya Mapinduzi ya Zanzibar.

Rais Shein alitangaza mapumziko hayo wakati alipohutubia wananchi kwenye Uwanja wa Michezo wa Amaan mjini Zanzibar katika kusherehekea miaka 50 ya Mapinduzi.

Rais Kikwete ameutangaza uamuzi huo mjini Zanzibar ambako leo ameungana na Watanzania na Wazanzibari wote kusheherekea miaka 50 ya Mapinduzi Matukufu ya Zanzibar ya Januari 12, mwaka 1964.

Yalikuwa ni Mapinduzi ya Zanzibar yaliyofungua njia ya kuzaliwa kwa Muungano wa Tanganyika na Zanzibar – miezi mitatu baada ya Mapinduzi hayo – Aprili 26, 1964.

Rais Shein alitangaza mapumziko hayo wakati alipohutubia wananchi kwenye Uwanja wa Michezo wa Amaan mjini Zanzibar katika kusherehekea miaka 50 ya Mapinduzi.

Mwisho.

Imetolewa na;

KURUGENZI YA MAWASILIANO YA RAIS

Ikulu,

es Salaam.

12 January, 2014

KITAMBI NDO CHANZO CHA MAGONJWA MENGI....SOMA HAPA JINSI YA KUONDOA KITAMBI

2014-01-12T16:59:00.001+03:00

Usione una tumbo kubwa ukajua ni afya hiyo hapana, hilo ni tatizo tena sio tatizo moja ni mengi yanakuja kukulaza chini na kukufanya uwe mtumwa wa dawa na hospitali huku kitanda na kocho vikikusubiri uvitumie sana tu kwa kuwa ndio utakuwa unashinda hapo, madhara ya unene ni:

1. U.T.I

2. Saratani ya Utumbo

3. Vidonda vya Tumbo

4. Shinikizo la Damu

5. Kisukari

6. Kukosa choo au kufunga choo (constipation)

7. Figo kushindwa kufanya kazi vyema

8. Matatizo ya Moyo

9. Kukua kwa Tezi Prostrate (Prostate Gland)

10. Kiharusi

11. Ngiri

12. Magonjwa ya ngozi

13. Unene uliopindukia

14. Lehemu

15. Harufu mbaya mdomoni na mwilini

16. Kiungulia

17. Acid (nimesahau kwa kiswahili !!)

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Tumbo linaingiza vitu vizuri na huwa tuna viagiza wenyewe kwa furaha tunakula, lakini ukiingia chooni ukamaliza shughuli ile hutaki hata kugeuka kwa jinsi vilivyo na harufu mbaya, rangi mbaya na wata hutaki kuona, sasa nikuulize swali. Hivi kama pipa la taka linatoa wadudu, na ulitupa chakula humo je tumbo linakuwaje?

Tumia:

1. Shake Off Phyto Fiber

2. Splina Liquid Chlorophyll

Haraka sana ndugu yangu uepuke magonjwa ya tabia na mengine mengi kama nilivyokutajia hapo juu.

Kuna wengine wanaumwa kichwa tu bila sababu, tatizo ni tumbo

kuna wamama au wadada homoni zinakuwa hazija balance wanapata hedhi bila mpangilio au kutopata kabisa ni tatizo tumbo pia na mengine mengi.

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Maelezo kwa Hisani ya Buberwa Robert na nyongeza toka kwangu, mtembelee Buberwa kwenye blog yake http://buberwarobert.blogspot.com

PICHA: KANISA LA AJABU .....WAUMINI WALA MAJANI ETI NI CHAKULA TOKA MBINGUNI!!!!

2014-01-12T15:16:00.000+03:00

Mdada akila majani ambayo huduma hiyo wanasema ni chakula kutoka mbinguni mwe!

Kuna mengi ambayo yamekuwa yakizungumzwa kuhusu huduma za watumishi mbalimbali,

moja wapo ni hii huduma iitwayo Rabboni Centre ministries iliyopo Pretoria nchini Afrika ya kusini, huduma hii iliyochini ya mwanzilishi wake mwalimu ,mchungaji na nabii Daniel Lesego ilianza mwaka 2002.
Ni huduma ambayo kwa watu wasioabudu hapo huitilia mashaka kutokana na mwenendo wake.

Kwasasa wapo kwenye mfungo ambao watu hufika kanisani na hatimaye wanaishia kula majani

yaliyopo nje ya kanisa hilo akisema kwamba Roho Mtakatifu huongoza mtu kula chochote huku

ikidaiwa kuwa manyasi hayo ni chakula kutoka mbinguni.

Inaelezwa kwamba mara baada ya maombi waumini wengi huanza kutapika jambo

ambalo kanisani hapo huashiria kwamba mtu amejazwa Roho Mtakatifu.

Lakini kama haitoshi nabii Lesego hufanya maombi huku amewakanyaga watu.

Huduma hii imekuwa gumzo nchini humo na nchi jirani kwa jinsi mambo yao yanavyokwenda.

Mnasemaje watumishi kuhusu jambo hili? mwe kula manyasi kweli? mma!

Hapa nabii huyo akikanyaga watu kama njia ya mafundisho yake.

Haa!! angalia jamani, sasa ng'ombe watakula nini jamani???

Mungu tufunulie macho ya rohoni kuyajua mambo haya kama ni wewe au sisi kha!

Hajamaliza bado.

Baada ya manyasi ni mwendo wa kutapika sasa

Picha ya juu na hii huyu ndio nabii Lesego Daniel mwenye maono na huduma hii.

Watu wanajaa kwenye huduma.

Mwe! kama uti wa mgongo shida hii dawa

Maombi yanaendelea.

Nabii anafundisha huku skuna yake imekanyaga mtu, sijui

Tembelea TOVUTI YAO Picha zote kwa hisani ya ukurasa wao wa Facebook.

Chanzo: Gospel Kitaa

MWIZI MWIZI MWIZI KUWENI MAKINI.....

2014-01-07T15:51:00.002+03:00

Muogopeni huyu binti mnaotafuta wasaidizi wa ndani ni mwizi hatari sana.alikuwa maid wa mdg wangu ametuibia vitu vingi sana mbaya zaidi kaiba mpk kwa majirani.kuweni makini na mabinti wa ndani wengi c waaminifu — feeling annoyed.

Anaitwa Mary anatokea Handeni Tanga.

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HAPPY NEW YEAR 2014 TO ALL

2014-01-01T00:17:00.002+03:00

I wish u Love,Health,Wealth and all the good things that 2014 has to offer.

May God remember your wishes and grant all your heart desire in Jesus name. Amen

MAOMBI YANAHITAJIKA KWA NYOTA HUYU WA MUZIKI WA INJILI DUNIANI

2013-12-31T23:53:00.001+03:00

Wapenzi wa muziki wa injili duniani wameombwa kumuweka katika maombi mwimbaji nyota wa muziki wa injili Darlene Zschech ambaye amegunduliwa kuwa na kansa ya matiti mapema mwaka huu hali iliyomfanya awekwe chini ya uangalizi wa daktari siku chache kabla ya sikukuu ya krismasi.

Katika taarifa aliyotoa katika tovuti yake mwimbaji huyo ambaye alikuwa kiongozi wa sifa na kuabudu wa kanisa la Hillsong akirekodi nao matoleo mbalimbali kabla ya kustaafu na mumewe Mark na kuanzisha huduma yao, aligunduliwa kuwa na kansa ya titi tarehe 11 mwezi huu hali iliyofanya awe chini ya uangalizi wa madaktari akitakiwa kwenda kufanyiwa upasuaji na kuhudhuria kliniki ili kudhibiti kansa hiyo.

Kwa mujibu wa Darlene ambaye yeye na mumewe ni wachungaji viongozi wa kanisa la Hope UC lililopo Australia alirudi kutoka hospitalini usiku wa kuamkia krismasi na kuweza kuangalia ibada ya usiku mtakatifu ya kanisa lake kwa njia ya mtandao na kufurahishwa jinsi watenda kazi pamoja naye walivyofanya kazi njema usiku huo. Mwanamama huyo amesema kuwa licha ya kwamba anapitia kipindi kigumu wakati huu lakini anashukuru Roho mtakatifu na neno la Mungu ambalo linamtia nguvu ya kusonga mbele, huku akimshukuru mumewe na watoto pamoja na waimbaji wenzake ndugu jamaa na marafiki ambao wamekuwa naye bega kwa bega wakimuombea ikiwa pamoja na kupakwa mafuta na viongozi wa kanisa lake analolichungawakimuombea kwa mzigo.

Aidha Darlene amesema habari hii si aina ya habari ambayo watu wangependa kusimulia lakini amesema ameona miujiza miwili ikitendeka katika mwili wake na kuendelea kuamini kwamba kuna mingine zaidi itaendelea kutendeka. Zaidi mwanamama huyo amewashukuru daktari wake wa upasuaji, manesi wa hospitali ya SAN pamoja na Central Coast APAC ambao wameonyesha kumjali sana kwa huduma yao. Darlene amesema pamoja na hayo yote moyo wake umejawa na pendo kuu la Mungu akiachia kitabu cha Zaburi 1, Waefeso 3, Yeremia 30, Zaburi 66;12 pamoja na mistari mingine ya Biblia.

Darlene ameshiriki kikamilifu katika kanisa la Hillsong na kufanyika kama nembo ya band ya kanisa hilo kwa zaidi ya miaka 20 hadi alipoamua kukaa pembeni na mumewe miaka mitatu iliyopita na kuanzisha kanisa lao ambalo limeendelea kukua siku kwa siku. Kati ya nyimbo nyingi alizowahi kutunga ama kuimba wimbo "Shout to the Lord" ndio wimbo uliomtambulisha zaidi. Angalia wimbo huu chini akiwa amemshirikisha Michale W. Smith.

Mkumbuke Darlene Zschech Mungu akatende jambo juu ya mtumishi wake huyu.

Chanzo: Gospel Kitaa na HAPA

Sex Tips For Men: 5 Essentials To NEVER Disappoint A Woman In Bed...(Video)

2013-12-24T17:42:00.001+03:00

Here are the 5 essential things every man must know to never disappoint your woman in the bedroom and make sure she has the most powerful orgasms and surrenders to her deepest desires...

Most women are consistently disappointed with their man in the bedroom.
7 out of 10 women say that they regularly "fake it" with their man to "save his feelings."
The majority of women never have orgasms during intercourse.
1 in 7 women simply never have an orgasm at all.

Yet... Most men say they desperately want to satisfy their woman, they WANT to be good in bed.

You'd almost have to believe based on these facts that it's hard to be good in bed... BUT IT'S NOT.

A few simple (very simple) tips can make any man great in bed and allow him to really sexually connect with women in the way that makes intimacy, deep pleasure, (and great orgasms) really happen.

Follow these 5 little tips to give women orgasms, and more than orgasms... an actual sense of connection, passion, and intimacy.

HEMED AFUNGA NDOA NA BINTI WA ZAMBIA!!!!!

2013-12-21T13:00:00.001+03:00

Ushahidi wa picha za Hemed Phd akiwa ma mkewe binti wa ki-Zambia Cassie siku ya ndoa yao!!! Jamanieee msini-quote vibaya hii ni filamu mpya kutoka Zambia itakayoitwa Tangled Mess aka Guilt,ni filamu nzuri sana sio ya kukosa.Nitawajulisha mara tu itakapokuwa tayari.

HEMED IN LUSAKA.....

2013-12-08T15:51:00.003+03:00

Hemed n the TZ High Commissioner in Zambia

Hemedy landed on friday 6 Dec in Lusaka to shoot a new movie called "Tangled Mess" staring Tanzanian Bongo Movie lover boy Hemedy Suleiman, Zambian Love Games Star Cassie kabwita, big brother africa 8 the chase male representative the ruby master SULU Banda, Zambian music legendary Moureen Lilanda and Zambia's best DJ Yahya Kiba KB.
The movie is a tribute to the late Steven Kanumba.

Angalia picha za filamu mpya ya JB iitwayo Mikono Salama....

2013-10-29T16:05:00.004+03:00

Jokate na Rich

Director Adam K

Kuambiana akiwekwa sawa

Embe na Kuambiana

Uwoya na Kuambiana

Uwoya na Rich

Jokate na Rich on Set

Uwoya,John Kallaghe na Jokate

Kikosi Kazi

Rich Rich ndani ya Filamu mpya ya Mikono Salama

Jokate na Rich on set.....

Action!!!!!

Kazi inaendelea

Adam K, Jokate na John K

Kidoti na John K

Kwa picha zaidi na video zinazohusu kazi za msanii Jacob Stephen JB ingia HAPA

Majoy Blog Imerudi Tena......

2013-10-22T11:54:00.000+03:00

Habari wapenzi wa Majoy blog, Tunaomba radhi kwa kuwa kimya kwa muda mrefu sana kutokana na sababu zilizo nje ya uwezo wetu.

Kuna mabadiliko kidogo utayaona kutokana na maoni ya watu wengi sana kwamba tuwe tunaandika kwa lugha ya Kiswahili. Sawa tumeyapokea mapendekezo hayo na marekebisho yatafanyika.

Asanteni sana kwa kuwa pamoja nasi kipindi chote ambacho hatukuwa hewani.

Kama una ushauri au maoni ya jinsi ya kuboresha tafadhali tuandikie kupitia majoy28@gmail.com

Signs She’s Really In Love With You

2013-09-27T14:39:00.000+03:00

When it comes to love, and particularly women, men can experience difficulties in deciding if a woman loves them or not.
There are ways to tell if a woman loves you by the way she moves, the way she speaks, and other actions she takes even when she is not with you.
If you are in a new relationship, and don’t know how to interpret the signals you’re getting from the woman you are dating, here are ten signs she loves you:

1. You notice a change in her appearance
When it comes to a woman who is in love, you will notice a sudden makeover in the way she looks. Her makeup, hairstyle, clothes and accessories will change as she will do anything to try and impress you.

2. She shows genuine concern for you
When a woman falls in love, she will worry about you and won’t be able to stay away if she notices you’re having troubles. She will let you know that she’s there for you in case you need her, and she will be deeply concerned and interested in any problems you’re having.

3. She shows you off to family and friends
A woman who really loves a man is proud to be with him and can’t wait to show him off to her friends and family. She will constantly talk about you with others and will be deeply interested in wanting to know your parents and your friends.

4. She makes sacrifices for you
Another sign that she really loves you is when she takes the time to be with you and to do the things you love to do. It is easy for her when you do the things she likes to do, but if you’ve noticed that she’s given up these normal activities to be with you, it’s an indication that she cares about you a great deal.

5. She talks about the future with you
A woman in love will talk very excitedly about the future, making plans regarding it and telling you about the things she wants the two of you to do together. She will make subtle hints while imagining building a future with you in it.

6. She does unexpected, yet pleasant things to surprise you
It’s in a woman’s nature to want to give to the people she cares about. If she begins doing things like showing up at your workplace with lunch, buying you meaningful gifts, straightening up around your apartment, cooking you dinner, or helping with your laundry, she is very likely in love with you.

7. She touches you frequently
A woman in love enjoys being physically close to the person she appreciates so much, so you should guess her feelings from reading her body language. She will touch you often, rest her hand on your arm, massage your back when you’re together and she might even have goose bumps when she’s near you.

8. You are the only guy she’s focused on
If she’s in love with you, she won’t be bothered with dealing with other guys, as you’re now the only one she focuses her attention on.

9. She wants to be around you as much as possible
A woman in love won’t think twice about clearing up her busy schedule for you. She will postpone her appointments, be late for meetings, and skip classes at a moments notice to spend as much time with you as possible.

10. She wants to know intimate details about you
A woman in love will show a lot of interest in the life of a particular guy, so if she starts being extremely curious, sincerely and profoundly interested in every aspect of your life.

By Emmanuel Stanley Ofoha(Motivational Speaker)

Follow him on Twitter @pmanuelofoha

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TGIF

2013-09-13T16:08:00.001+03:00

I wish you all the very best weekend.
Enjoy with care.

Xoxo

Majoy!

REASONS LADIES FALL FOR THE WRONG MEN...

2013-09-10T14:50:00.003+03:00

Here are a few reasons why women fall for the wrong man:..........

1. Ladies, you know how people always say, “Actions speak louder than words?” Well, this very saying is getting a lot of you in big trouble. Yes, actions do speak, but please understand actions also lie and in some cases lie more than words. Actions only speak louder when the heart and motives of the person pursing you is pure. If that is not the case, then what you have is manipulation and womanizing. Many men already know they can fool you with actions and words, so stop believing actions mean anything unless it’s done consistently over a long period of time. Don’t forget this consistency also includes you. Your job is not to sit around and watch what he does while you do nothing. That is selfish and speaks of fear, etc.

2. You have sex with a man and become closer to him than you really think you are. sex causes soul ties and makes you emotional, thus you feel closer to a man than you really are. I don’t have to tell you how to avoid this mistake you, because you already know. Good or great sex will always cause a woman to be with a man longer than she should and be with the wrong man.

3. Women are moved by beautiful things like shoes, curtains, homes, candles and a handsome man. There is more to a man than his looks. If you fall easy for nice looking men, find out why and make the correction.

4. You are a 30+ year old woman who is worried about being married, having kids before a certain age, or believing the lie there is something wrong with you being single. Of course there is nothing wrong with you being single. When you do worry, you will settle for the wrong man or make the wrong choice in a man.

5. You allow your self-esteem or insecurities to allow you to settle for anyone who gives you a lot of attention. A man shouldn't have to make you feel secure in yourself or about yourself. You should feel this way because you are a child of God. I know we all have insecurities we need to grow and work on, but don’t allow them to cause you to have bad relationships, push good people away, or cause you to fall for the wrong man.

6. Thinking you can change a man is a very common mistake and it will always cause women to stay with men who have no desire to change. Keep in mind there are men who do want to change and become better men, so I am not talking about those guys. I am talking about those who have no desire for anything more than they are already doing. Nothing.

7. You are afraid of being alone so you are with men for companionship, sex, a warm body, dates, etc… Of course, when you do this, you can’t expect anything good to come from it. Thus, when something bad is the outcome, you will result to playing victim and adding to the hurt or bitterness you already carry in your heart.

By Emmanuel Stanley Ofoha(Motivational Speaker)

Follow him on Twitter @pmanuelofoha

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HAPPY NEW MONTH OF SEPTEMBER TO Y'ALL...

2013-09-01T11:45:00.001+03:00

It's September 1st,better,lovely,joyous,gracious days ahead of it......The best September ever...

Thank you for this message my best friend and the best bro ever....Chuchu Iniobong God bless u always.

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A REAL AFRICAN WOMAN

2013-08-30T04:25:00.002+03:00

A real African woman is a lady who is a backbone of her husband's growth...She is loving, caring, understanding, tolerant, God fearing, Faithful...A real African woman is a role model to the world at large...A real African woman is supportive, hard-working, independent, yet submissive to her husband...A real African woman only needs the husband's truthfulness, faithfulness, understanding, caring and loving heart from her husband...A real African woman might be the bread winner of the family but in the face of the world will refer to all she has as her husband's hard-work...She doesn't care if you are crippled, rich, poor, tall, or Rejected by all...A Real African

Woman, may seem to love money more than everything in the world, but not more than her husband...A real African woman cannot trade her love for any amount or material...She is a world class example to both old n young...A Real African woman, will never bring her domestic problem to the public just because she respects and love her husband...She kneels down in tears and pain praying to God to make a positive change where there is a problem, while the world might be sleeping or going after material things out there...

She is an encouragement, a stepping stone, a beautification without resemblance...A Real African Woman has nothing like "Divorce" in her dictionary or encyclopedia... Finally, A real African will do anything to protect her loved ones, including selling her last wear for her family to eat or be educated...She will never give up...She is an epitome of Faith, Hope, and Love...And surprisengly, both Nature and God rewards her with fruitfulness and abundance in the future...

God bless the African Women, especially my Sweet mother and whoever will be my wife, in Jesus name. Amen!!

Emmanuel Stanley Ofoha(Motivational Speaker)

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MAJOY'S MESSAGE!

2013-08-20T04:02:00.001+03:00

I WISH YOU ALL A VERY PRODUCTIVE WEEK AHEAD.

NB: BEAR WITH ME NOW THAT AM NOT POSTING EVERY DAY,I PROMISE TO RESUME SOON.(NAOMBA MNIVUMILIE KWA KIPINDI HIKI AMBACHO SIWEKI KITU KIPYA KWA BLOG KILA SIKU KWA SABABU ZILIZO JUU YA UWEZO WANGU,NAAHIDI KURUDI KAWAIDA HIVI KARIBUNI)

STAY BLESSED.

Majoy.

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EID MUBARAK TO OUR MUSLIM FRIEND/FANS!

2013-08-09T02:48:00.000+03:00

May you all celebrate this day in peace.

Let Love Lead.

Majoy.

WHAT IS THE DEFINITION OF 'GOOD SEX'?

2013-07-31T11:27:00.000+03:00

“Guess what? My naughty friend whispered to me one evening on our way home from work. “I found an app that contains over four hundred sexual positions”.

“Really” I whispered back as I angled closer to him.

As you can expect, we proceeded to spend our forty minutes journey curiously examining the app, flicking from one position to another (the images so hot they could burn your eyeballs), giggling like school boys all the way. We analysed the merits of each one as we tried to visualize ourselves in the positions with our better half. Of course we had to be mindful of the many eyes and ears around us.

By the end of our ‘look-see’ my eyes were popping out-maybe a little crazily but who cared? I had been thoroughly schooled by this app. Don’t ask for specifics and I won’t tell you but my head was full! Who uses this stuff? I questioned myself silently. Surely not normal people?Well for our own peace of mind, we decided that what we had just seen was of no relevance to us. In fact, it was better suited to gymnasts (correct ones o), weight watchers and other professionals- if you understand what I mean.

Many weeks passed after the phone app incident and I still had questions. I could have looked on the internet but I didn't want to get caught sneaking asking Google about Sex! And I couldn't bring it up with my naughty friend because I knew he would only give me naughty answers accompanied with funny winks. So after further thought, I asked my older friend from church who had been married for a few years what he thought was the right amount of adventure to have with sex. Ladies and gentlemen, his answer was nothing like I expected.

Without much ado, he told-no preached to me about God’s plan for sex-with bible quotes. He told me how enjoying it too much was a sin or led to sin (I didn't quite grasp that bit) and how I should stick to having sex for the main purpose of child bearing. After all, the Bible said nothing about enjoyment when it mentioned people getting married or having children. The one that boggled my mind was when he causally mentioned that only spoil guys and girls enjoy it anyway so I should just have enough of it to keep my wife happy because every strong marriage needs enough sex. At this point I hastily ended the conversation before he damaged me completely. Then I promised myself that I will forget everything he said once I wrote about it.

In retrospect, I understand my friend’s view point. In Africa especially, no one talks openly about sex. It is like the CIA or FBI’s classified secrets. It is something we think or know about but dare not admit to. As we grow older, some of us get married and have children of our own, yet many of our questions are still unanswered but we choose to suffer on instead of braving the bewilderment that will greet you if you risked asking the ‘grown ups’. I can just picture the shock in my mother’s eyes if I asked her the question(s) I would flippantly ask my friends.

I hope that our generation will raise their children differently. A little openness will ensure our children feel safe enough to talk to us plus it will reduce the awkwardness that many adults feel about sex even when they are married but that is a story for another day.For today, let’s simply discuss, as honestly as possible, what it means to have ‘good sex’ as my favorite app promised we would do once we mastered its many styles.

Dear readers, is there good and bad sex? How do you measure whether it is good or bad? To whom or where will you go if you had unanswered questions or you and your partner were not working magic yet?

Also we would love to hear what the different holy books say or don’t say about the act of lovemaking.

By Emmanuel Stanley Ofoha(Motivational Speaker)

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LOVE AND COMMUNICATION

2013-07-20T00:54:00.000+03:00

On the school playground, you probably gave your sweetheart a paper heart with “I like u a LOT” painstakingly scribbled on it in your favorite crayon col-our Since then, you've come a long way in terms of communicating your love to your spouse. But even the best marriage can benefit from a little spark. This month, we chatted with relationship experts and life coaches for easy, practical tips on enhancing communication within a marriage, as well as special ways to express your love. It’s perfect for Valentine’s Day – and the other 364 squares on the calendar.

Enhance your communication:

1. If you and your spouse have a disagreement, explain what’s bothering you in a non-accusatory manner. “Use all the restraint you can muster to not say, ‘You never’ or ‘You always,’ ”

2. But sometimes, discretion is okay. “Everything in your head does not need to be said,” “I know you think you will explode, but . . . ask yourself if what you are about to say is going to help or hurt your relationship.”

3. Have an attitude of gratitude. “Recent studies . . . reveal that gratitude benefits both the giver and the receiver,” “When either of you does something nice for the other – lets you sleep in, washes the dishes when it’s your turn – take a second to show appreciation. Even if you’re just saying thanks for the small stuff, it can go a long way in solidifying your relationship.”

4. Use “hot words” when things get heated . “Never respond when you are angry – leave the room or the house if you need to cool off,” “Establish a ‘hot word’ that each person can use to let the other person know, ‘I am angry and we need to stop talking.’ ” Examples of hot words include “cancel” or “break.” Once you’ve both calmed down, resume the conversation. “The best way to fully understand what your spouse is saying,” she says, “is to ask clarifying questions. A clarifying question always begins with, ‘What I hear you saying is . . . . Is that correct?’” This will give your spouse a chance to either agree or clarify what they meant. “The goal is to always communicate with a calm, level head.”

5. Express your needs or wants clearly. “You did not marry your clone,” “So, be specific when communicating to your spouse. Do not take for granted that he or she has read your mind or intuits what you want.”

Show how much you love your spouse:

1. Write a love note – the classic way to express yourself, and a practice that has slowly been replaced in our modern times. “In an age of virtual communication,” “couples may benefit from giving and/or receiving a handwritten note – not an email, not a text message, but an actual pen and paper.”

2. Take a class together. “Couples who are not engaged in any joint activities,” , “are living ‘parallel lives’ like young children in parallel play; there is no real connection. Without joint time and activities, intimacy suffers.” The benefits are many. “Learning together alleviates boredom, routine and the doldrums,” she says, “and allows us to see our spouse in a different light. This keeps the creative juices flowing, making a person more interesting. It also allows for new and interesting conversations, whether during the activity and/or after it.”l specifically recommends taking a cooking class, because the act of making a meal and enjoying it together creates a sense of security and safety in your marriage.

3. Go beyond simple “I love you” remarks. “Use character-quality language,” . “When couples say specifically, ‘I love how enthusiastic (or courageous, or caring, or thoughtful . . .) you are,’ it goes right to the heart. Add specifics about what actions were taken and it works like giving gold.”

4. Dates – even cheap fast-food ones – are important. “You don't have to break the bank to enjoy time with your spouse,” : . “Plan a regular night each week that you can call a date night. As a spouse Once a month, go to a nicer restaurant. The other three weeks, hit up Subway. Just make a point to have time alone. It is always very refreshing.”

5. But you can even make a date night at home, even with your kids. “Many couples are harried at the end of the day and dinner gets thrown on the table,” . Make a more intimate atmosphere at the dinner table with matching dishware, a sprig of flowers and softer lighting. “These specific things calm the day’s end and invite conversation – even with children, who often learn from what they observe their parents do rather than what their parents say.”

6. Make a souvenir that celebrates a special moment that you and your spouse shared. “Find a favorite photograph of the two of you and have it printed on a mouse pad or a large magnet,”. At the local office supply store, you can find a box of printable magnetic paper, make a large refrigerator magnet with you and your spouse picture on it, from your home computer and printer . . . and place it on your fridge!"

What are your own tips for improving communication in your marriage, or expressing your love in new ways? Friend us on Facebook or follow us on Twitter – we’d love to hear your suggestions.

Special thanks to Emmanuel Stanley Ofoha(Motivational Speaker)

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OBESITY AND IT’S HEALTH IMPLICATIONS....

2013-07-19T11:46:00.000+03:00

What is Obesity?

In a lay-man’s words or simply means the excess accumalation of body fats or excess proportion of body fats.Medically,it’s defined as a condition in which excess body fats has accumulated to an extent that it may have an adverse effect on health,leading to an increase in health problems or reduced life expectancy rate .

Obesity increase s the likelihood of various diseases ,particular ly Heart diseases ,Diabetes mellitus ,Diabetes insipidus and other ailments .

A person is considered obese when his or her weight is 20% or more than the normal body weight for his/her age and height.The most common measure of obesity is the Body Mass Index(BMI).

Some Risk factors of Obesity

A risk factor is something that increase s the likelihood of getting a disease or developing a pathologic condition.These risk factors includes:poor diet ,age,lack of physical exercise ,lack of adequate rest and sleep,poor and reckless eating habits,medical conditions,race(more prominent in the black race than in whites),genetic factors, physiologic condition like during pregnancy.

Causes of Obesity(aetiology)

Obesity occurs when a person consumes more calories than he or she burns,it most times points to eating too much with little or no exercise.There are other factors that also play a role in obesity ,these include :

(i)AGE –as we grow older the body’s ability to metabolize food slows down.

(ii)GENETICS –Obesity tends to run in families

(iii)GENDER-Women tend to be more overweight than Men

(iv)ENVIRONMENTAL FACTORS

(v)PHYSICAL ACTIVITY –absence of this will lead to obesity

HEALTH IMPLICATIONS OF OBESITY

Obesity has been established as major risk factor for Diabetes ,Hypertension ,High blood pressure,Cardiovascular diseases ,idiopathic (unknown cause)intracranial hypertension ,lower extremity venous stasis disease(this due to atherosclerosis-abnormall thickening of the blood vessels by fats),urinary stress incontinence etc

Prevention of Obesity

Let me not bore you anymore with my burgos medical terms,this right here is as simple as saying karibu,eat healthy and balanced diets,exercise regularly and go for routine medical checks.

Treatment of Obesity

Treatment includes a combination of balanced and healthy Dieting ,regular exercising ,behavioural change and sometimes administering under the prescription of a Doctor ,weight loss drugs and in extreme cases of obesity ,gastrointestinal surgeries maybe recommended.

CONCLUSION,Dear rafiki yangu, eat healthy and balanced diets,exercise regularly and go for routine medical checkup.

Source: Iniobong Ugochukwu(Chuchu)

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THE REAL REASONS SHE GETS MAD ABOUT SMALL THINGS....!!

2013-07-09T13:51:00.000+03:00

You've been there; all seems well and suddenly you’re getting the silent treatment, and you don’t know why. One of the most confusing things for men in relationships is that men are people of action. They typically like to think their actions speak for themselves. But women are highly analytical, and rarely do we take what men do at face value. That’s why there are countless seemingly small things—that men think have no significance—that can set a woman off. Like these:

-A Dirty Dish:-

It’s just one dish. It’s a blip in the midst of your otherwise clean kitchen. But, she’s asked you twice now to clean it, and it’s still there. And now doors are slamming and you’re certainly not getting laid tonight.

-You don’t try to make her life easier:-

It’s not about that dish, or the trash that needs to be taken out, or the rug that needs to be vacuumed. It’s about the fact that women constantly go out of their way to think of little things to make their man’s life easier. It’s second nature to us to keep an eye out for things that would take a load off of our men and make them happy. The fact that that one dish has been sitting there for a whole week, says to us that you have to be reminded to do something that would make our lives easier, and that it’s not just second nature for you as it is for us.

-Criticizing where you are:-

You call her from a restaurant and she talks about how gross that restaurant is, you call from a sports game and she complains about all the noise in the background. No matter what you’re doing, she has a criticism about it. And she seems to be judging you for deciding to be at that place.

-It’s just because you’re not with her:-

Typically, when a woman begins criticizing any place you go without her, it’s because she feels you don’t take her out enough. If a woman feels she isn't treated to a good date night often enough, she begins to resent any place you go without her. Just a few thoughtful, planned out evenings a month with your woman could make her perfectly complacent about everywhere else you go.

-You give her advice:-

Your girlfriend comes home unhappy with the way a job interview went, or a presentation at work. You give her solid, thought-out advice that you know would help her next time. She proceeds to either argue with you about why your advice wouldn't work, or even worse point out a way that you failed in a similar manner.

-She wants to prove herself-:

No woman will admit this (and I might get a figurative slap on the wrist for saying it) but, when in a relationship, many women become insecure about their careers, often comparing them to the careers of their boyfriend. Perhaps its decades of fighting for women’s rights in the workplace deeply ingrained in us, but many women feel the need to prove to their partner that they are respectable professionals who know what they are doing, just as much as any man does. And when you advise a woman on something regarding her career, that little insecurity kicks in and she thinks you don’t find her competent.

-You drink too much:-

You’re not doing anything wrong. You haven’t gotten into a bar fight, or been kicked out of the club for being rowdy, or been arrested for indecent exposure. You’re perfectly harmless, but you’re drunk, and she doesn’t like it. She nags at you, disgusted by every word you say and every move you make while drunk. And you haven’t done a thing to offend or upset her.

-She wants to be included in your fun:-

The issue behind this is similar to the one behind a woman criticising every place you go without her; she feels left out. One of the times a person is having the most fun and completely letting loose is while drinking. If you often leave your girlfriend at home so you can have boys nights, or go away on guy’s weekends without inviting her, she’ll start to believe you take her for granted and you only want her there to comfort you throughout the challenging and often monotonous flow of “real life.” She’ll think you don’t find her enough fun to have along for the fun times. And seeing you completely relaxed and having fun—while drunk—will bring up all those insecurities.

-You can’t read her mind:-

This is a constant question on the minds of men: “Why does she think I should be able to read her mind?” Your girlfriend is mad at you for something, and then she is even more upset because you can’t guess what that something is. And you think it’s unreasonable that she expects you to be a mind reader.

Special thanks to Emmanuel Stanley Ofoha(Motivational Speaker)

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EVEN IF YOU’RE THINKING OF IT, DON’T SAY IT!. THOUGHTS THAT SHOULD NEVER BE SHARED WITH YOUR MAN

2013-07-08T01:03:00.003+03:00

There are two kinds of omissions of truth: the kind where you leave information out so that you don’t get in trouble for something you've done wrong, and the kind where you leave information out because it serves no purpose but to hurt your partner—it doesn't bring to light anything that can or needs to be fixed, it doesn't improve your relationship, and it simply doesn't need to be said. Here are of those types of truths.

WHAT REALLY WORKED ABOUT YOU AND YOUR EXOf course there were things that worked about you and your ex. That’s why you were together for as long as you were. And while you can go into a starry-eyed, nostalgic rant to your best friend about the particular dynamic you loved between you and your ex, going into such a rant in front of your current partner will only instill deep jealousy. He isn't sitting there taking notes on what he should do. He’s just fuming inside.

WHAT REALLY DIDN'T WORK ABOUT YOU AND YOUR EXIf you say it briefly and casually, like, “My ex did that and it kinda bugged me”—that’s fine. But, going off for five minutes about some big fight(s) you and your ex had, everything you said, everything he said, where you were coming from, where he was coming from, and what the jury decided, all with a look of fury and passion in your eyes, your partner will wonder if you still love said ex.

“WELL AT LEAST MY EX WOULD…!”And when it comes to the ex, no comparisons, please! If your partner doesn't take you out enough, or cuddle you enough, or talk to your friends enough, do not say, “Well at least my ex would do that!” What purpose does that serve other than to hit your partner where it hurts? Do you need or want your partner to take you out more/cuddle you/talk to your friends because your ex did so? No. That’s just a basic need of yours. That’s all you need to say. You don’t need to tell your partner how he compares to someone else. All he needs to know is how he is falling short of your needs.

SO YOUR PARTNER IS, UM, SMALLNo matter how you spin it, your partner will feel nothing but awful—and possibly forever—if you tell him his private part is small, or even a little below your standards. What is he going to do? Get a private part enlargement? Maybe, but then you’re the superficial and overly-demanding girlfriend who pressured him into spending thousands of his hard earned dollars on something that’s essentially just for your enjoyment. If you love this man, as far as he needs to be concerned his private part is perfect. And you just better work on finding sexual positions that work for you.

"I FORGOT TO TAKE THE PILL”Women do not realize just how much anxiety this little string of words gives a man. It’s all he will think about until you’re confirmed pregnant or not pregnant. He will do terribly at his job until then, be distant around his friends and probably be so distracted he’s at risk of getting in a car accident. Take the morning after pill, or that pregnancy test, and don’t make him nervous unless you have to.

“YOU'VE GAINED WEIGHT”Men are just as sensitive about this as women are. They’re simply told it’s “effeminate” to worry about one’s weight, so they hide their pain when you say, “You've grown a little tummy there.” But, they’re hurting. And they probably don’t want to have sex now either since they’re self-conscious about their body. Buy healthier groceries, distract him when he wants a late night snack, invite him on your runs, but don’t tell him he’s gained weight.

“I'VE BEEN AROUND YOU TOO MUCH”Think of the pain you feel when your guy simply says, “I need some guy time.” You already know that means he wants space from you, and at least he found a nicer way to say it! Imagine how your guy feels if you say, “I've been around you too much.” It doesn't mean there is anything wrong with your guy. What it really means is you want more time with yourself, or with your friends, or to spend on your hobbies/job/whatever. So say it that way instead.

“I THINK YOU COULD BE TRYING HARDER”At his job/career/aspirations. A person’s road to their dreams is a long and windy one, full of turns and bumps that only that person can understand. Be supportive and encouraging, but do not ever question the effort your man is putting into his dreams. He could be experiencing a slight bout of depression, or perhaps he is trying as hard as he possibly can! This is his path. Let him walk it the way he will.

“YOU’RE NOT VERY GOOD AT WHAT YOU DO”So your partner is constantly coming up with business ideas that you think are doomed to fail, or he is an aspiring actor who you think is terrible. But guess what? That’s his passion. That’s what makes him want to get out of bed in the morning. It’s what makes him happy to be alive. And that is all that should matter to you. You should love what he does, because he loves it.

“I DON’T LIKE YOUR PARENTS”Maybe you can’t stand his parents. Maybe they have even been rude to you. Unfortunately, you’re not allowed to tell your partner you do not like the people who raised him, and who he loves unconditionally. Did you catch that last part? Unconditionally. No matter what case you make against them, he will still love them. And then it will be awkward for him knowing you dislike them. It can often be awkward enough that he will break up with you.

“WELL I TALKED ABOUT IT WITH MY FRIENDS AND THEY THINK…”We all gab with our girlfriends about our relationship problems. And, deep down, your partner knows that. But don’t tell him what your friends have to say about the issues you two are having. They don’t have a place on the jury of your fights with your man. If you say, “Well my friends think you should do this” he will feel attacked and betrayed. He doesn't care what your friends think! He cares what you think.

"I'VE BEEN THINKING ABOUT WHETHER OR NOT I WANT TO BE WITH YOU”Perhaps you have been questioning your relationship. But unless you have issues you can point to with tangible solutions, why are you bringing this up? It’s almost like a challenge to see what your partner will do to keep you. Either end it with him, or think of ways to fix what you’re unhappy about. This statement is just the unspoken thing underlying any fight—will the two of you work out? You don’t need to say it. You’re both thinking it! Putting it out there is only cruel and puts even more pressure on whatever argument is going on.

“YOUR ADVICE DOESN'T HELP ME”Your partner always chimes on what he thinks you should do about your career, your arguments with your friends etc. and his advice is never very spot on. Maybe he isn't educated enough about the issue. So what? It gives him joy to feel he might be helping you. It doesn't harm you to listen. And it does harm him to hear he’s not helping you.

Special thanks to Emmanuel Stanley Ofoha(Motivational Speaker)

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