Make Any Man Fall In Love With You

Understanding Men’s Fear of Commitment – Why Your Man Won’t Commit to You

noreply@blogger.com (Gillian R) — Tue, 03 Nov 2009 17:33:00 +0000

Emotionally exhausted is how many women feel when they are in love with a man who won’t commit. It almost feels as though you’ve being taken hostage emotionally when you find the man you believe should be your life partner, but he’s too afraid of anything beyond casual dating. When a woman is in this position she often feels torn between staying with the man she adores or ending the relationship so she can search for someone who sees the value in a more serious, tangible connection. If a woman like this can understand the driving force behind men’s fear of commitment, she can than start on a path to gently persuade him to open up and see how wonderful it is to take the relationship to the next level.

One underlying reason for many men’s fear of commitment is the belief that once they agree to a more serious relationship they’ll have to sacrifice too much of their own lives. At first glance this seems selfish to most women but for a man who has lived the majority of his life focused on himself, it’s completely understandable. Much of this fear stems from the fact that many married men like to complain about how much of their time is now devoted to their wife and family. Household duties take precedence and single men see that as a step in the wrong direction. Without being completely obvious you need to send the message to your man that you don’t want to monopolize all his time. The best way to do this is to keep yourself busy. Don’t give up anything in your own life to accommodate him. If he sees that you’re just as interested in your own life as he is, he’ll be much more open to the idea of committing.

Some male commitment fears come from the misunderstanding that their finances will have to change dramatically because their relationship status has. Keep yourself financially independent from your man. Show him that you are more than capable of taking care of your own financial needs and that you don’t have to turn to him for help. If he feels that you two are on equal footing in money matters, he’ll feel less cornered and much more open to committing.

What Makes a Man Fall in Love? Ways to Appeal Directly to His Heart

noreply@blogger.com (Gillian R) — Tue, 03 Nov 2009 17:16:00 +0000

What makes a man fall in love? Isn’t that the one question all women wish they had an answer to? Most of us struggle through life trying to determine how to get our man to love us as much as we love him. Given the fact that there’s no magic spell we can use to open his heart and get him more connected to us, we have to rely on good old fashioned relationship advice. The true key to winning the heart of a man is to know what appeals to him. Granted all men are different, but there are a few qualities in a woman that virtually every man finds completely and utterly irresistible.

One answer to the question of what makes a man fall in love is a woman who loves herself. Men are accustomed to being with women who go the extra mile to please them. If you’re with a man and you constantly agree with him and do everything that he wants to do, he’s going to become bored very quickly. Men want to be with someone who has a mind of her own and isn’t afraid of sharing her own opinions. You should be the one who strikes up a conversation with him and you should initiate plans at times. Show him that you’re confident in who you are as a person and never compromise what you believe in or feel comfortable with just to please him. He’ll find you more appealing if you always stay true to who you are.

Men also need a woman in their life who is a true supporter of them. It’s easy to become infatuated with a man and fall into the mind frame that everything he does is perfect. Obviously, no one is perfect and if you constantly compliment him on every small thing, he’ll find you disingenuous. Make a point of letting him know that you admire certain qualities he has. Don’t go overboard with this. Just tell him from time-to-time how much you appreciate him and what he brings to your life. If he’s facing a challenge, be right there next to him quietly offering your support. If he doesn’t need or want it, be supportive of that decision to. Men want a woman who is understanding and empathetic. Show him you can be that for him and more and you’ll be well on your way to winning his heart.

How Can I Get Him To Love Me? How to Make Your Man Love You as Much as You Love Him

noreply@blogger.com (Gillian R) — Thu, 22 Oct 2009 14:00:00 +0000

How can I get him to love me? Sounds all too familiar, doesn’t it? Many of us reach a point in our relationship when we realize that even though we’ve fallen head over heels for our guy, he may not be feeling exactly the same thing. If you’ve been sitting idly by hoping that fate will step in and make him fall head over heels for you, you’re wasting your time. You can make a man want you more and more if you understand exactly how to appeal to the triggers within his heart.

When I was asking myself the question of how can I get him to love me, I first considered adopting qualities that I knew he found attractive. This is actually a common mistake that women make when they are trying to capture the heart of a man they adore. Men like independent thinkers. They find you much more attractive if you are the person you want to be, as opposed to someone you think your man wants. Don’t change who you are to accommodate him. Instead take on the attitude that you’re perfect exactly as you are. If you believe it, he’ll start believing it too so no making excuses for anything about yourself.

Men love women who have full lives outside of their relationships. Always stay connected to friends and focus on your career too. Never give up a hobby or interest in favor of spending time with your man. Men don’t want to be with women who rearrange their lives to accommodate them. They want to be with women who make them work for their affection. He doesn’t want you to change your schedule around to ensure you have time with him, instead he prefers it if he feels as though he’s stealing you away from your life at times. Never lose sight of your own life when you are trying to build a stronger connection with a man.

Also, try and stay a bit mysterious when you are in a relationship. Men love learning new things about the woman they are with. Don’t tell him everything about yourself and don’t always be available when he’s trying to find you. It’s that old idea of playing hard to get. We hear so much about it, because it works if used properly. He wants to feel as though he’s learning about you little bit by little bit. It makes you irresistible to him. Hold out a little and it will pull him in even more.

What Do Men Want From a Woman - Understand Your Boyfriend

noreply@blogger.com (Gillian R) — Sat, 06 Jun 2009 00:54:00 +0000

We've long been told that men and women just don't think the same way. If you have a boyfriend now, you already know that's the truth. As women we often assume that our boyfriend can read our minds and we wish that he could foresee our every need. That's not possible. It's also not possible for a woman to see inside a man's mind. Although you'll never be able to know everything your boyfriend is thinking it can help if you have a general idea of how his thought process works. In order to answer the age old question of what do men want from a woman, you have to consider how men view relationships.

Men want to find a deep and meaningful love just as much as women do. Men want to experience a relationship with a woman who is fun and adventurous. This doesn't mean you have to be willing to go skydiving or climb a mountain. It does mean that you should be spontaneous and out going. Early in most relationships a man wants to get out and have fun with the woman he's dating. In order to answer the question of what do men want from a woman, a fun attitude is near the top of the list.

In order to understand your boyfriend you have to consider how he views your relationship. If you are constantly talking about the future or how you envision your wedding to him, this may be making him uncomfortable. Men want to be the pursuer. They want to be the one who captures your heart and attention. If you simply hand it over to him, he's going to find you predictable. This isn't something you want. In order to fully understand the subject of what do men want from a woman, you have to realize that less is more. Talking less about the future and putting less pressure on him for a long term commitment is actually the way to get him thinking about it.

As much as women crave honesty in their relationship, men want the very same thing. This doesn't mean sharing each and every small feeling you are having with your boyfriend, but it does mean being honest about major things. If it's what you expect from him, you need to be willing to give it back in return. Show him that you trust him enough to be completely honest with him, and he'll want to do the same.

Understanding Men and Dating - Tips For Women

noreply@blogger.com (Gillian R) — Sat, 06 Dec 2008 17:08:00 +0000

When it comes to dating we hear a lot of talk about how men and women view the single scene so differently. For women it can be hard to decipher what a man's actions mean and exactly what he is thinking at any given time. When it comes to understanding men and dating every woman would do well to keep a few simple things in mind. This helps when it comes to working your way through the maze that is a man's thoughts.

Men love looking at other women. This is a given. It's also a given that it tends to upset many women. If you are with a man and he blatantly stares at a pretty girl that walks by you may take that to mean that he's more interested in her than he is in you. Men just look. It's the way they are. The most unflattering reaction you can have in a situation like this is to express your jealousy or anger. The best thing you can do is point her out first by saying how pretty she is or what a great dress she is wearing. He'll glance and you'll smile as he does. He'll be very impressed that you aren't insecure in the presence of another woman.

Most men want nothing to do with relationship games including women who play too hard to get. We know that men love a woman who is mysterious and a little unreachable. You can accomplish this by simply not always being available when he asks you out. If you do it endlessly though he's going to think you aren't that interested in him. In order to really understand men and dating you have to realize that if a woman seems to always have plans that doesn't include him, he's eventually going to start making plans that don't include her. Play hard to get, but do it in careful moderation. If you want to spend time with him, do it.

Looks aren't always the main attraction for men. The way you look may initially attract a man to you, but it's how you present yourself that really matters. Your personality needs to grab him. If this happens he'll be enchanted and want to get to know you better. When it comes to understanding men and dating be aware that the things you say matter much more than the way you look. If you come across as pretentious or you appear uninterested, a man will move on to someone else. Be friendly, but don't exaggerate anything about yourself. You never know when you are going to meet the man who is right for you and you want to be yourself right from the get go. Not a made up version of who you wish you were.

What Makes Men Fall in Love - Secrets For Women

noreply@blogger.com (Gillian R) — Sat, 06 Dec 2008 16:53:00 +0000

If your childhood was anything like mine, you were often told that being a nice girl would reward you with a nice husband. As we grow up we start to realize that advice like that might not be the best. Finding and keeping a meaningful love is really a dream for many women, but it can seem almost impossible.

Most women don't have any idea what makes men fall in love. It's easy to assume that attraction is based primarily on looks. Granted men do notice a pretty girl, but most men aren't that shallow. Men want a woman who is interesting, intelligent and fun to be with. They also want a woman who isn't afraid to have her own opinions.

Men are much like women in that they love the concept of being in love. They want someone special they can devote their time and affection to. Men are looking for a partner who appreciates and respects them. Many men are just as excited at the prospect of a committed relationship as women are.

So what makes men fall in love and stay in love? It's obviously different for every man but there are some qualities in a woman that many men instantly find attractive. One is a woman who is completely herself.

Many women make the mistake of trying to fit into a particular man's vision of the ideal female, instead of simply being who they are. A perfect example is a woman who suddenly has a strong interest in football and is willing to spend her Sunday afternoons glued to the television set watching one game after another. She's usually only doing this to be close to her new love interest, but that's rarely a good enough reason. The moment he finds out, and he will, that her love of the game is more about her need to be with him, he'll find that unappealing. Men prefer a woman who has her own interests and who can give him room to explore his.

Men also love a self-assured woman. Someone who really likes who she is and isn't willing to change just to please him. This is the type of woman who dresses the way she pleases, wears her hair in a style she chooses and orders her own dinner at a restaurant instead of waiting for him to go first, so she can say, "I'll have what he's having." The self-assured woman also has no problem choosing a movie or a vacation destination. She picks what she likes and he'll almost always gladly go along.

When you're thinking about what makes a man fall in love, consider that it's typically brought on by a confident, genuine, honest woman. Never be afraid to be yourself - it just might land you the man of your dreams.

What Do Men Really Want From Women - Get Inside His Mind

noreply@blogger.com (Gillian R) — Tue, 02 Dec 2008 03:14:00 +0000

Men often comment on the fact that they can't understand the woman in their lives. The same is true of women and if you are already involved with a man or are interested in a particular man, you may often wonder exactly what he is thinking. One area where this would be especially helpful is in understanding what a man finds appealing. When it comes to the all important question of what do men really want from women, most men are actually looking for the same thing.

If you were to ask a group the question of what do men really want from women, the males would likely answer one way, and the women another. This is one of the reasons so many relationships hit rough spots. The woman makes assumptions based on what she believes her mate wants from her. In actuality, in many respects, men and women want the very same things. Many men want to fall in love with an honest, fun and adventurous woman.

One character trait that almost every man finds appealing in a woman is confidence. Yet so many women find themselves self conscious when they are in the presence of a man they are attracted to. It's important for a woman to genuinely like herself, flaws and all. She should never make excuses for anything about herself. She should instead accept who she is and never try and change to suit the taste of another person. Men will tell you that they don't want a woman who sacrifices her own interests, passions or tastes just to suit his. Men love a challenge and a woman who speaks and thinks for herself without excuses, is always intriguing.

When you are asking a group of men the question of what do men really want from women, they will likely also tell you that they want someone they know they can have fun with. Men love a woman who can laugh and who has a sense of adventure. This certainly doesn't mean that she drives race cars or cliff dives, but it does mean that she's not afraid to be spontaneous. Being outgoing and living life to its fullest is incredibly attractive.

Honesty is at the top of the list of what do men really want from women. If you are disingenuous in a relationship with a man, he'll likely be able to tell and this is an automatic turn off. There's a difference between honesty and candor. Never be brutally honest if you know you'll hurt another person. Men are much more attracted to a woman who can temper her honesty with kindness. If there's something he's doing that you don't like, tell him don't berate him.

Tips For Getting a Man to Fall in Love With You

noreply@blogger.com (Gillian R) — Tue, 02 Dec 2008 03:10:00 +0000

As women we're often mystified by the things men say and do. We meet an attractive man, we go out on a few dates with him and we ultimately begin to develop strong feelings for him. As is the case with most men, simply telling him that you adore him is likely going to result in him either expressing that he feels the same, or in some cases, he'll make a run for the nearest exit. Too often, we end up crazy about a guy who just isn't ready to commitment. If you're faced with this situation, there are some things you do that will aid in getting a man to fall in love with you and stay committed to you.

We've all heard about how important it is to tell a man everything you're feeling. The one problem with this is that men don't really know what to do with that information. In many cases, when you tell him every little detail, instead of getting a man to fall in love with you, you're actually scaring him away. Men don't want to be pushed into commitment. They want to make their own decisions. It's up to you, as a woman, not to force him into a commitment.

Another big no-no that many women make when they are either searching for or in a relationship is overwhelming the man. Men want to have their freedom. This is particularly true in the early stages of a relationship. One common thing many men do when they first start dating a woman is to talk about other women. Insecure women tend to take this personally, and will work harder to get the man to focus on them. This might mean, buying new outfits, cooking elaborate dinners or suddenly becoming interested in every one of his interests. The only thing this accomplishes is it makes you boring. The most effective thing you can do if a man starts talking about other women is to encourage him to date them. This will suggest to him that you aren't that invested in him, and it will automatically make him want to pursue you more. This is one of the best tips for getting a man to fall in love with you. It works - just give it a try.

Also, there's a lot of talk about talking to men; on the telephone in particular. If you've read any relationship advice you know that you aren't supposed to pick up the moment he calls, or return all his calls. This seems a bit counter productive if you are actually interested in the man doing the calling. The reason you don't want to always be on the receiving end of his calls is that will eventually find you too available. That availability suggests to him that you are focused on him. Instead let the voicemail pick up, and take some time to return his calls and emails. In other words, live your life. Enjoy the things you like, and he'll automatically become more persistent about seeing you again. When you are working at getting a man to fall in love with you, mystery is vitally important.

Your Man - How to Make Him Love You More

noreply@blogger.com (Gillian R) — Tue, 02 Dec 2008 03:03:00 +0000

One common complaint that we women have is that the man in our lives seems to love us less than we love him. It doesn't matter if it's a boyfriend, or a husband, there are times in almost all relationships where the woman begins to wonder what she can do to make him appreciate her more. If you want to know how to make him love you more, you have to start by looking at yourself not him.

Men love women in a very different way than women love men. Typically men don't express their feelings as openly and directly as women do. A woman will tell a man she loves him and expect to hear the same thing back. If he doesn't respond that way each time she utters those words, she'll begin to wonder what he's thinking and feeling. You may think your man doesn't love you nearly as deeply as you love him, but just bear in mind that even if he's not expressing it verbally as often, that's not a reflection of what he truly feels.

One misconception that some women have is that holding out on intimacy is one approach to take if you are trying to rekindle his passion. Men view intimacy as very connected to love. If they aren't being intimate with the woman in their life, there's a chance they won't feel as close to her. If you want to make him love you more, don't always refuse his advances. He'll feel rejected and that's the last thing either of you want.

Show him some respect. Both sexes, when involved in a relationship, often start to take their partner for granted. If you want to make him love you more, give him small tasks to do for you and then reward him by being very complimentary. Men love accomplishing things for the women in their lives, and if you ask him to do something specific, he'll typically be happy to do it. Also, listen to him when he talks, whether it's about some issue at work, or his favorite sports team. Everyone wants to feel valued and when you are listened to, you know the person finds you interesting.

Don't share all your feelings every moment of the day. As women, most of us are wired to be very open with what we're feeling. We want the man in our lives to be aware of what's going on with us, whether we're feeling angry, sad, disappointed, frustrated or overjoyed. If you tell the man in your life everything, he'll become less engaged. Instead keep some things to yourself. Make yourself a wee bit mysterious. Don't always be willing to talk, instead tell him you're thinking and you'd like to discuss things later. He'll respect you more if you share less all the time. That's not to say you shouldn't bring up an issue if it's tearing you apart emotionally inside, but it does mean, you need to be more mindful of what and when you share.

When it comes right down to it, the best way to make him love you more is by being yourself. If you try and change to please him, he's going to realize and it's going to turn him off. Be your own woman, keep your own interests and find your own passions. He'll love you for being an individual who knows exactly what she wants.